How To Keep Your Foreigner | | | DISCUSSED

In these video, I'm discussing about how girls should keep their foreign BF. What she needs to do so her bf will stay with her and not being tempted with the myriad of snakes.

[@marksjourneytothephilippin9574]

Men aren’t complicated, you feed him, you feed his sex drive (at least after marriage if waiting) and be respectful

[@dmitriyzhukov9193]

Of course ONLY after marriage 🤣

[@phillipharding6610]

1000% That’s it ! Opposite to Western Women.

[@michaelsawyer158]

You don't have a single sister do you darling?

[@buyerofsorts]

And you don't bitch and moan at every little thing. You don't always try to blame him for all of your screw ups. You don't become fat and or lazy. Don't forget those....

[@roonbare2769]

Be kind and cooperative , everything else will take care of itself.

[@pinoymusicenglishsubsSpiritual]

Please consider doing more videos helping Filipinas to understand western men better and videos helping them challenge and overcome toxic Filipino cultural issues. I am not asking you to turn them into westerners.. We need to meet in the middle. There are so many vloggers that help foreigners understand the Philippines. Filipinas are left in the cold with little advice like this video helping them achieve true love. Salamat kaayo

[@user-zb2ux2gc2l]

You got the right idea, but the easiest way to enact those kinds of changes is through trust and teaching at the couples level. It hits harder and deeper when you can be the change you want to see in others.

[@GK-wx6xo]

“Once you’ve had Asian you’ll never go Caucasian”......my favourite saying.

[@garlandvincent3742]

Yep I concur

[@zeckul]

Tru dat

[@am-fil]

Rofl.

[@kuyalorne9894]

Truest words ever spoken!

[@xpusostomos]

Fair enough, but what's your reason?

[@DrJamesBWood]

Great video. I have not seen much advice for Filipinas. I would add these two: 1) Don't be on your phone when with him, like being late, that will be viewed as rude and that you are not interested. 2) don't treat him as an ATM.

[@SoloPilot6]

The most important thing to keep your foreign guy is to realize that he's probably with you because women from his own Western country were unfaithful, money-hungry, needy shrews. This means that you need to not make him see you as like them. Don't play games to make him jealous. Don't seem to only care about his money (or what he can buy you), or about getting a green card. Don't make him feel that you're only with him so that he can solve your problems. Take him into your life, don't keep secrets -- let him know your heart. While there are some guys who are scumbags, most only want to know that they are the man being looked up to by the girl who he puts on a pedestal in his own eyes.

[@phillipharding6610]

Great 👍 comment.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I totally agree

[@boomAJ6104]

Well said 🙏 I've experienced this selfishness & greed first hand with 4 Pinays. One was my wife that I'm separated from. I just don't get it, in the long run they only hurt themselves

[@Kristoferwitha_k]

Exactly!

[@timhnc75]

@@boomAJ6104 same im also separated all wife cares about is her phone has no time for her husband and has no intentions of changing that! So I'm out!

[@marshallsislandadventures798]

I know the video was for the girls but you are spot on with your topics. I was raised by a military father and I was military too. I was taught that early was on time, on time was late, and late was just unacceptable. I have eased a little over the years with that but if you tell me we are meeting at a restobar at 8PM, I am going to be there at 7:45. So when you are 30 minutes late I have been waiting almost an hour. Lastly, a smile and laughter are two of the most valuable things a woman has. Almost everything a man does for a woman is to please her and when you pout or Tampo we feel we are failing. Men will not stay in a relationship like that for long no matter how young and good-looking you are. Even if you are the greatest lover he has ever know he won't stay if you are not happy. I guess I mean real men like me.

[@jesssummers9405]

I offered when cheating got more than I could stand pay to get her a apartment and buy all new bamboo furniture and pay first few months to move out stay friends but shecsaid I'll kill u and he brother said same she wants my house my furniture and money and her guys and me not say a word even ask me at the end if she stays can she keep her guys I said it's best you leave so she her brothers 2 of God a lot 12 or 15 2 helped her take everything including my bank trusted phone dogs wedding rings even we never got married because she was all ready Married ,if I date ever again first words be cinabon

[@floydventures]

If I meet a good Filipina lady, the first dating requirement will be... that she watch this Video. Great Video Mia!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks! 😃

[@Wulfgang_Gardens]

Lol that's the exact same thought I had watching this video. Well said Mia

[@Nordic_Sky]

I'm 61 and have a gorgeous Thai girlfriend, 30, who is wonderful. My advice: don't look to him for anything more than you would look to a Filipino for. The minute he senses you are into him for his money, he'll be gone. Or if not gone right away, he will have decided you are not a long-term partner. Also, whatever he finds particularly attractive about you, be sure you don't change that attribute. Be the same person he fell in love with. So don't put on weight, be less into physical intimacy, become more bossy, etc. After all, you should have been your most natural self from day one, shouldn't you? So, this shouldn't be a challenge if you've been honest all along.

[@kjensen7819]

Dear Mia. Many good points in your vlog. They are all important, but for me "Give him space" is probably the one that will make or break it. After almost 20 years of marriage in the west, the last 10 not very happy, with a lot of alone time, and followed by 5 years of single, I have as an almost 50 year old man, become very used to spending time by myself. I have since dated a Thai and Filipina women in their 30ties, and the they were great and sweet, but both did not understand that I needed to go on business trips often with my job (I never played around), but mostly they did not understand that I would often like to watch a football game or working in my office at home, rather than talking all evening. I was very careful not to fall in love with a 20 year old girl, because she should/would never understand this. But since these women were "only" 10-15 years younger than me, I had hoped we could become real soulmates for life. We would always spend time together in the morning for breakfast and for dinner (I like to cook), and in the weekend go out, and in vacation go on trips. But it was the daily life where they did not understand that I needed alone time. Maybe it is me, and maybe I should just live alone and forget the dream of a soulmate for life. For all the men out there - treat your Filipina right. They are so loving and caring and it is really admirable, but if they sometimes can scale their affection down I think it would help - a horrible thing to say, and it surely does not resonate to all men - maybe just for the cold Scandinavian ones like me :-))

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for sharing your experiences. I'm sure a Filipina will understand you if you'll explain to them that you want an alone time, cause you need it and that will also help build the trust in the relationship

[@mikemcquinn6738]

Well Paul, you are a lucky man, she is a keeper...congratulations to the both of you for setting an example. Wishing you both the very best. Mia you just keep improving on your presentation skills. You seem to put in the time to make it work. Thank you both for the time and effort put in to set a good example!!!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks 👍

[@dennissouthern9429]

A bucket of Mia wisdom nuggets. Also, in this video your face is closer to the camera and we can see your expressions along with comments. Your facial expressions really help add another layer of conveying your message and connecting with audience. Great work.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@lutzbassin9321]

"Time is limited, don´t wast your time and don´t wast his.." seems the hardest lesson some pinay had to learn :-). But its so true!!

[@jesssummers9405]

Mine stayed 3 and a half years to try take everything during covid she finally leave but only because find younger rich Filipino local guy

[@usaman7358]

The quickest ways to lose a foreigner are: 1. Always being late, ESPECIALLY the very first meeting 2. Tampo 3. Drama Do these things ladies and watch your foreigner move on to someone else! In other words, many Filipinas have ALOT to learn still.

[@dmitriyzhukov9193]

Yeah I agree but beeing late isnt that big issue as tampo or drama. In any case women are similar are over the world. Ive got expirience with German, Eastern European and Asian. The advantage for us with Asian is that they have to behave better as there is a huge competition. 😀

[@martin36959]

Being a little late one has to adapt and accept it to be normal. But being very late always definitely is a no no as we westerners will think the girl we date does not care about us and is unreliable. Reasons for tampo and how to avoid are a different issue and should be discussed right from the beginning of the realtionship. If drama is an excessive issue it's time to leave.

[@getlitlightingpyrotechnics7181]

How can you be on time in Manila? Lol. It takes 2 hours just to 10 miles. Hahaha

[@maksymfrantsuzov1338]

@@dmitriyzhukov9193 tampo looks cute, enjoy it

[@daniels5780]

I never met a man that likes drama. I am personally repulsed by it greatly. Tampo is just one form of it.

[@kevinmag7986]

And to all the foreign guys, you can't expect her to have to do ALL the adapting. You are, in fact, in her/their country, and I believe we should be doing most of the adapting.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Good point

[@martin36959]

For us foreigners adaption is so important and i agree with your point but without mutual adaption each and every relationship between a foreigner and a Filipina will fail.

[@bexpaints2988]

By the way adaption from both sides is crucial in ANY relationship, intercultural or not.

[@mattbrassfield2291]

finally someone agrees w/ me

[@Jesse-B]

Love is not just bumping uglies, appreciating and liking the person first makes the fun part later even better.

[@meimei3468]

I can’t wait to see my foreigner boyfriend 🥰

[@glennlewman1377]

I had a good friend who was a fishing guide. I asked him where I should go fishing. He said "fish were the fish are". You cannot catch Salmon in a septic tank. I left the USA and moved to the Philippines in 2002. Never been happier!

[@bodobohn2658]

Clear mind, sensitivity, perfectly articulated insights, you have a gift for putting foreigners like Filipinos in the right perspective. An asset to KZbin. If everyone had such common sense and listened to you, we would live in paradise. respect !

[@madselnegaard3072]

You are getting better and better - More and more confident in front of the mic..👍🏻 And always great content. Very well done 🙏🏻😃

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@MG77740]

What she says is accurate. Guys like Filipina women for so many reasons but most of it is personality, values, commons sense and simply that want a good companion, wife, and mother. They check all of the boxes. So, if it's a good guy, he won't be hard to keep. If he's not a good guy, well, there's plenty of fish in the ocean. Keep in mind, that a truly good guy also wants to make a difference in your life. He wants to make an impact with his life that counts. Ultimately, he's selfless. If you encounter this. This is your knight. Don't let go of him and be that woman that deserves this guy.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I completely agree with you. Thank you for pointing it out.

[@robkal56]

Perhaps inadvertently, you consistently provide men an insight into Filipina thinking and culture. Your recommendations are also a good advice for the man.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you sir

[@malapascuamorena]

Sweetness, honesty, communication, understanding, and showing lots of love worked for me. 😊. You give plenty of good information here.😊

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You are so welcome

[@jesssummers9405]

Honestly and communication and being faithful mine not had a single once or respect

[@claudiuvladcoschi8698]

I've seen alot of videos about LDR with a Filipina and after all this time talking with my sweet filipina I realize that we need to love and trust each other and wait happy for our day to come to be together

[@malapascuamorena]

Have patients. It will pay off if its meant to be.😊

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Take your time

[@locofab8876]

Me and my baby are doing the same thing

[@am-fil]

Since my wife can't get to the states just yet, we video at least 3 hours a day. She never stops making me laugh. And she is constantly laughing at me. We have the greatest time because we are always laughing.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, best wishes to the both of you

[@SoloPilot6]

Fly her to Mexico, meet her at the airport, and bring her to a Border Patrol checkpoint demanding asylum. Let's see if the new reality works for the people we WANT here.

[@Wolff13]

@@SoloPilot6 awesome idea

[@roonbare2769]

Bringing her to the States is the biggest mistake you'll ever make . She will be spoiled by western attitudes . Don't do it.

[@RonKris]

@@roonbare2769 Not always true, Roon.

[@NickinthePhilippines]

Excellent video Mia! It will be great if any philipina willing to be with a foreigner on a long term relationship, will see, understand and apply this in their relationships with foreigners. Congratulations!!!

[@johncarlson6472]

Looks like Paul was guarded with his heart when you first met, but, between your sweet personality, intelligence and affections, the poor guy never stood a chance and fell helplessly in love with you...smiles!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Yeah, I captured his heart. lol

[@johnrobertmartyn5040]

Yessssssssss i truly believe so Marrying them soon

[@antoniohardaway6913]

Wow you described this Blackman. My girl is what you said. I love her. Three years now. ❤️❤️❤️

[@jayo7596]

Intelligent, articulate, and wise beyond your years. Well done, Mia. Best wishes for a long future with Paul.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks

[@robertreynolds580]

Nice video Mia. The one thing extra I would point out is a good relationship needs both people to work at it. Don't expect to just sit there and be entertained. Being aware of each other's needs is half the success.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Very true!

[@LB-ty6ks]

Good advise. Also if he's 30 or 40 years older than you and you stay together learn what you'll need to know to be a caregiver.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Yes, so instead of a caregiver taking care of you, you have your own girl taking care of you, making you food and everything

[@dmitriyzhukov9193]

Age is just a number, 40 years older doesnt matter. Ive seen a 19yo with her bf of 70yo. 🤣😁

[@evelinholmes6401]

@@dmitriyzhukov9193 but long will it lost.

[@wanderer299a]

Most filipinos make excellent caregivers, the large families they grow up in means they have had plenty of practise

[@larrywade9041]

@@dmitriyzhukov9193 Can't agree with you on this one, but you're entitled to your opinion! I'm married & soon to be 70y.o. If I were to loose my wife & search for a companion, I would NEVER choose a lady that was even more than 20yrs. younger than myself. Those kind of guy's are lying to their selves & trying to re-capture their youth through the youth of another person. And she's looking for a sugar-daddy for herself & her family. Plain & simple. But if the game work's; knock your sock's off!! It's your life to do as you wish. Just don't B.S. yourself!!! Illinois, USA

[@knockknock1246]

I've never seen this channel before. Smart girl.

[@JH-wg2lo]

Very insightful, hope most or many of those watching save this one to watch again.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I hope so too

[@scottbrinks9248]

Well done! The quality of your preparation, your organization and your topic are spot on! No question this channel will be successful (depending on your definition of success). That fact that you are smart, active, have an excellent vocabulary and have landed a "red-pilled" man and you both are happy, speaks volumes as to YOUR value. Keep it up, the best to you and Paul.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, thank you!

[@homebasebelgium359]

Mia, this is your best video sofar! You are a very level headed girl!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, thank you!

[@brianp6097]

Well done Mia good advice, you’re smart and have a good teacher. I know that you two will be together for a long time. Your love for Paul is obvious, and the kind that every guy hopes to find. Congratulations on your subs numbers growing.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you! 😃

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

I was surprised at some of the things you said Mia. The only Filipinas I’ve heard speak that way have a high body count and/or attract the wrong kind of guy, not real men. If I ask a woman what her favourite food is and she says sausage wink wink I’m going to immediately know she’s been over eating, if you know what I mean 😂. A real man with good intentions isn’t looking for a woman who has had a big helping of everything on the menu. You should be telling your fellow Filipinas that talking like that is not the best way to attract a real man who is looking for a long term relationship. It will however set them up for being used in the short term or as they say in the west, pumped and dumped. Also, if he is in the Philippines for less than a month then going back home he’s not coming back just because you gave him a good time. That’s probably all he wanted in the first place.

[@stefanpersson3865]

Good advises Mia! you know how we foranger are like and what we love a smart, kind and Nice girl/ Woman not a drama queen.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@jasonb9652]

Great advice. Especially the tampo information. I chatted to several girls in the past who pulled that rubbish due to their own misunderstanding of chats then assumed I would just tolerate it and wait for them to finish their tantrum. When a girl thinks she is doing you a favour by continuing to chat with you that's the time to run. I blocked a few girls after days of silence only for them to email me or contact me on a new number saying how shocked they were that I dared block them. I told them sorry too late already chatting to the next person. I've finally found a wonderful girl that I'm looking forward to meeting once allowed.

[@kennethrobinson278]

I rather have tampo than arguments. After Tampo then good calm communication. Be open-minded and a lot of understanding.

[@metropcs8046]

Most Filipino women i know are go people. They don't have to be thin all the time because our bodies change as we age. Even the cubby Filipino women are cute. I live in the United States and most men here just want a woman who is loyal and committed to them and the family they have together and grow old together and that is what I want.

[@thomasmanning829]

Being late can be understood that the appointment is not important. Filippinas will be more respected, and loved, if they understand and share the idea that sex is a high expression of mutual appreciation. Be genuine and know that compatibility is so crucial. If you dont share the values of each other then expect the relationship to fail. Be happy and have fun!

[@PhilippinesSunsetTravel]

Big respect to Paul for doing the right thing and getting to know you first hope you guys stay happy forever 👍 dont be late lol dont be easy lol dont be demanding lol laughter is very attractive don’t be afraid to be yourself -amazing advice you earned a sub:)

[@tonyste12]

Very well said, now I see why Paul could not stay 'away' from you for to long :) He is lucky to have you.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

HEHE so am I

[@EdensTokyoLife2014]

Mia , I Totally agree on all what you mentioned here. Watching you reminds me of my teenage years of age. When I was in the province. From my own experience all I could say is be loyal to your foreigner partner and just stay as sweet as you are. If both of you are really meant to be together forever the hands of destiny will do all the works . You know why ? I met my Japanese husband when I was 17 years old. We have 24 years age gap. I never been in love and to be honest I just curious about the new life he offered me . He really wanted to marry me and asked my parents about it . To make the story short . My husband married me on month of Aug. year 1985 and by the month of September I started my new life in Tokyo Japan as a Japanese wife. On how to keep your foreigner BF / Husband is just needed lot’s of sacrifices . That’s what I learned from my 30 years of marriage to my late husband. He passed away from cancer 7 years ago . I am a widow and starting a new life on my own way and really loving the freedom. If you’re curious if I’m going to marry again? BIG NO ! Good luck and wishing you all the best.

[@Gptgklrmszcv]

Wise words for the Ladies! But looks like most of your listeners are men haha cute. Btw, Mia, you did an awesome job for paying attention to your pronunciation and enunciation! Love the way you present. Impressive!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!!

[@tman5634]

From the kind of foreigner you're describing & someone like your Paul, you are bang on in all you say. A decent, good hearted, established & genuine foreigner knows his worth & won't be taken for granted, won't be taken for a mug, won't accept mood swings etc... for any woman. GREAT VIDEO Mia, Thanks for sharing.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you T Man

[@roccohagedorn3110]

Professor Mia is right on the button. There are a few things, however, that are missing when it comes to keep holding on to a guy. But in general she’s got it right. The one important thing missing is the reason why we westerners are attracted to Filipinas in the first place. Sure - the looks most definitely, but that’s not what I’m talking about. What makes a Filipina so irresistible to us westerners is the way a feminine Filipina treats her man. And if she can keep it up, and love her man in a way only a Filipina can, I’m sure the guy won’t be going anywhere near another woman. Just find ways to improve upon pampering your big baby boy and stop him from crying into somebody else’s arms.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You got a point there sir.

[@miken.2847]

A lot of good advice here. Throw out that tampo BS. It's destructive to a relationship. We're too old to deal with it. That's a childish act and it will drive him away. Don't be jealous or insecure. It's a real turn off. Ladies, my best piece of advice, is learn your place. You are not going to keep a man if you want to be the boss. You are not the boss. If you want a man to be Ander de saya, you need to find a younger man that doesn't mind simping for you. Learn your place. You're not his mother. Learn to listen more and talk less.

[@prepperjonpnw6482]

Men who can’t stand their woman being jealous shouldn’t be in the Philippines. First, those men are usually doing something they shouldn’t such as cheating or will cheat. Next, they don’t understand that being jealous is part of a Filipinas culture and DNA lol. It’s how they are, so if you don’t like it go somewhere else instead of trying to change her. Then there are the men who actually enjoy having a woman value them so much that they get jealous and possessive over them something that only happens to the .1% in the west. That last one is perfect for the Philippines and will do well here.

[@garrylafferty100]

@@prepperjonpnw6482 I ask my filipina why she was not jealous like most filipina are said she i am i dont show it much because her Filipino baby daddy was a jealous man i don't like that so i don't show it often it show you don't trust that person so i don't believe it culture it immature women. They don't show jealous as much in west cause in general there not insecure

[@MyBeachLife]

Western women are not insecure? Dude rethink that one. I understand where the logic comes from, but most women have considerable insecurities. They often hide them by trying to be the boss b.tch. Or hidden by narcissism.

[@mattbrassfield2291]

@@prepperjonpnw6482 I would say Jealous is not a turn off... i understand they want to protect their man, and possibly that a foreign boyfriend doesn't know of certain dangers around the city (i view it as they want to protect us.) Is it okay for men to be Jealous as well or does this boil down to trust between a couple. Personally, When I am w/ someone I never want to let her go, I will go nuts if I don't get a text from her before lunch time. Being Sweet and Thoughtful is not Simp, personally i value the ideas and the opinions... Yea i am in a foreign country I need date ideas from her.

[@nowimps06]

I can't wait to finally meet my philipina girlfriends she is so awesome kind and sweet to me on zoom, we are both excited for our day to meet. Keep up the good work.

[@geoffb5813]

Hello Mia. You make me laugh 😂 in a good way. Paul is lucky and blessed to have you. What you say is correct and very insightful and honest. Keep it up 👍 Geoff

[@brianbaxter3913]

Well Mia I have to say you are right on with all your points. I hope it helps the filipina's there to understand foreign guys better. I think Paul had no choice but to fall for you. You are very smart, well spoken, very pretty and have a million dollar smile. How could he not fall for you. Keep smiling and stay safe.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I hope so too! Thank you

[@rrrrrrny]

Thanks you for the Video i have been to Cebu and hopefully i will visit again, i hope alot of girls watch this God bless you.

[@MinorityTravels]

😂😂😂 I literally stopped the video to comment when she said “not SIMPS” 😂😂 thats hilarious

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks

[@CircuitDomain]

Very well put together video. I am looking at moving to Philippines and it was very informative for guys like me as well. Keep up the good work :)

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Best of luck!

[@kevcox5585]

Great video once again Mia. You've come so far since you began. So insightful and confident now too

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Glad you think so!

[@IDi-Matokoseke]

Hello from Belgium ! Very informative video !

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for watching sir!

[@fruitloops3718]

Wow I'm pleasantly surprised by the quality of this video. The content you discussed in this video are very important to western men. I think I'm going to have to watch this one again. Gret job.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@stan121midling5]

well, Mia you do pretty good on this video, but let me add something, i am 60 years old and yes you are right to a point about we are set in our ways and no one should try or force us to change ok, but let us change as we will and when we want too, ok but also keep in mind we will not change 100%, as for me i never trust anyone 100%, this is something i had to learn how to be and found out,, it was the right way to be for me, some people are more trusting then others and some less trusting then others, ok and then you have people like my self, where i never trust anyone 100% and in certain ways i will; never change, also keep in mind as i am pretty sure Paul has told you why he is the way he is and it makes perfect sense, as a lot of us have either been thru what he has too, or some what different things then him, not all men are the same way ok, but we will be pretty much knowing a lot of the same stuff and just have maybe a few different ways of dealing with stuff, when it comes to women or other people, thank you and take care and be safe.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Good for you sir. Always leave room for doubt.

[@paulwilczynski6974]

Thanks mia you always give good advice ☺️. I look forward to your next video. Paul is a very lucky man to have you.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you! 😃

[@andrehenriques2]

Really well thought out . plus excellent advise

[@JordanBarak]

Very informative, interesting and intelligent video Mia, your wisdom is far beyond your years👍👍👍 I wish you and Paul a long and beautiful love story

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I hope so too!

[@5591408]

You continue to grow in confidence, you are wise beyond your years, what a pleasant change. Not only are you cute but with an insight into understanding the differences between cultures, it made me smile when you said about being on time, Asian time seems to be very different to western time, and westerners are pre-programmed from an early age to be punctual. The other big point you hit on was 'Tampo' be a deal breaker for me, life is too short for childish silence’s, have a problem, talk about it Keep up the good work

[@danielgutierrez4832]

Very good video, I should share it with my Phillapina long distance women hope in God she'll learn alot from it and changes the right good way...Amen!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for sharing!

[@jmullay]

Very great video with understanding in both cultures. Very informative for both sides of the coin. Thank you! Great job!

[@marcom2248]

Just make his life better, day and night. Make him laugh, and don't give him any kind of drama. Our time is running out, so we want to have a great time as long as possible.

[@bekind9668]

You’re getting better Mia. It’s obvious that Paul is helping you a lot to put your videos together from the things that you say. Can’t wait until the views are mostly from your own perspective. Keep up the great work👍

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much!

[@robertszakal5869]

You are both lucky to have found each other. I love your videos. I hope to visit the Philippines in the near future.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You should!

[@rizaisidro5644]

Hi, philippines lot of fun and beautiful... ☺️

[@Montgomery25]

I don’t know why google put video in my feed but I enjoyed listening to your thoughts. You gave good advice to any woman who wants to keep a good man. Best of luck to you !

[@tinotino9952]

Great video Mia.. Indeed many intelligent tips. You are learning read pill and manosphere topics..impressive..Cheers!!!!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much!

[@davidssunstar]

Its pretty simple don't hold back on sex and be sincere. If you can't do that leave him because he will know you're just faking and it's ok if you don't feel each other like that but don't cheat yourself or that guy from finding the right person

[@robertwestling2467]

You are one smart woman and 100% correct in this video Lady Mia.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@realatlgamer7689]

Loyalty and Trust two biggest ones

[@LogicalSigma]

Well said. I lived in the Philippines and love the people there. I think you said most of the things I would have. Since many guys from the west are now red pill (like myself) we are looking for girls that won’t give us a problem or drama. Or just care about money. For me I like a girl who respects herself and makes her own money. Has plans in life. Rather than looking for a guy to fix her problems. Nothing more unattractive. I currently live in Thailand but definitely prefer the Philippines for dating. Can’t wait to move back to the Philippines as soon as covid is over.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I think lots and lots of men from the west are becoming red pilled now, so it's gonna be interesting how the women will act. Thank you and best of luck with the move

[@jamesmcnab9006]

Great advice for any relationship, I'm impressed with your knowledge and insight

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I appreciate that!

[@ivoted7199]

Can’t wait to see you next video and hear your views of the break up. Very sad.

[@markus6635]

Two people under the same roof, with different opinions. Can be a challenge. As you mention, communication it's so important, doesnt matter where we live. Everyone need some space, take a walk, go to the store what ever. Just have some fresh air, to clear up the mind. Your story shows, you never know when love strikes you. 👍👍

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for pointing that out.

[@mikemikie8312]

Hello Mia , so good to hear that your taking on board things Paul has stated that he does not want in a relationship , so often many Filipinas are never willing to understand the foreigners culture and ways and simply feel they should except them fully as they are ,this being the biggest mistake as no relationship can be one sided if has to be both willing to keep out from the relationship things that cause upset that are not good weather they be cultural or behavioural ,I'm sure you have informed things you want or don;t want as well to Paul . I hope those Filipinas who watch your video take note and understand that they can't have everything their own way and that both have to make sacrifices to have a successful relationship,lack of understanding and an unwillingness to make changes in one's self is the biggest cause of future breakdown and complete end to the relationship .

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your comment Mike. Yes, some Filipinas doesn't seem to understand the culture of the foreigners. They want it their way, and that makes their relationship go south. I really hope so too, so that they'll get a better understanding and view towards their foreign bf.

[@DigitalSwagg]

Hello Mia what a wonderful channel you have and quite informative, I had to subscribe. I'll be visiting Cebu for 2 weeks in December with plans of retiring either in the Philippines or in Thailand. Keep up the great content, you and Paul look awesome together! Stay blessed.

[@justkelly14]

I never had a foreign bf until I Met my love. D❤K. We were friends at first too yet the difference is, ever since he is always the one who's very willing to commit. Took me time to open up to him. Time goes by we build a good relationship.. he is my strength.,lover slash bestfriend.. There may be ups and downs yet we always find ways to fix. Filipinas do always have tampos and moodswing yet thats not good. Me personally im also in a process to improve myself nd get out if it. Not worth it to have tampo. If your man is always there, making you feel loved, appreciate it and do the best thing to make him feel loved as well. Respect his own time if he needs it. Support him with the things he wants, learn new things together, do fun activities together that will help you improve your relationship, make him feel you are always there for him no matter what. Im blessed to have my D❤K

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your insights. Best wishes to the both of you

[@mv4463]

Thank you for being real.. for some of us real me... your man must be proud and happy to have a wonderful lady such as yourself...hope I could meet someone that has the same knowledge..

[@ericbown1551]

@@mv4463 They are out there, Filipina’s love commitment, loving and romanticism. It’s not rocket science with women, especially Filipina’s as they love core family values…ps they love dressing up …so dress up too …don’t think cargo pants and T is a dinner date apparel. High value women/ Filipina have same desires as all women ..good luck. 🙏

[@1inamillions]

I must thank you for this video . It's fun to watch as I feel connected to some aspects of it. Not all foreigners are westerners , some are asians like me. Started in FB, I have known my would-be-wife for 2 years 4 months. My previous 2 relationships with 2 filipinas consecutively failed. One of them was with Rowena Urnos Quiray . She was imprisoned in Philippines . Her news splashed on Abs-Cbn in Philippines. I don't want to elaborate. You may Google her name and what her crime was. NBI even contacted me and they are satisfied I were not involved with her activities. She was famous for a wrong reason. I can even write a book or ask a Filipino movie maker to make a movie about it ! I humbly say I went through a lot of experience, the worst is finally over. Long story short, I came to know Sherly Marie Dizon, sweet sexy good hearted 30 yo single mom with a 7 yo son, my present would-be-wife and everything went smoothly ever since. I am Malaysian yet pinoy at heart. I am still learning Tagalog as I found it has similarities with Malay and my ethnic Javanese root , words like tulong, payong, pintu, sayang, sakit, sinta, mahal and many more are similar. I am an avid fan of Robin Padilla, Rudy Daboy Fernandez, Eddie Garcia's and many more Filipino movies. Also singers like Ariel Rivera, Ray Valera, Renz Verano. Hence I am good in singing Tagalog songs and some Ilocano songs too. Watching Filipino movies and singing Filipino songs help me learn Filipino. My would be mother in law is pleased I can at least speak a simple Tagalog . My would be wife and I video call everyday. Like today , my mom in law and her relatives together with my would be wife. So happy

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, thank you for sharing your wonderful experience. Congrats

[@georgephillips3625]

Good morning Mia. How are you this morning? This was a very good video. I agree with you wholeheartedly. 💯% Yes tampo really is annoying and I'm not a mind reader. My daughter inlaw is a filipina and she went tampo on me before. We didn't talk for a month. It was so annoying. Take care,have an amazing day,and God bless you Mia.

[@winduncan9818]

Great video, with regard to being late. I don't really think it's Westerners valuing time as much as us thinking she doesn't care or respect me enough to be on time.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I totally agree!

[@franek1643]

You have so many valuable points. If only some girls will follow your advice.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks

[@charlesweatherly3586]

Mia, you have very good insights on how to keep a Foreign Boyfriend. I would like to offer some tips on how to keep your Chanell growing. Keep the topics interesting, and very relevant to what is happening in the Philippines, keep it light and vary your topics so that you can keep your audience on the edge of their seat.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Great suggestion!

[@StanHasselback]

Excellent discussion Mia. Most older men are looking for a relationship. Many younger Filipina women have either never been in a long term relationship, or only dated young men who's interest is mostly in one thing, this is the heart of the problem. Young women learn how to attract a man but not how to be in a long-term relationship. Learning how to do it takes work and communication is a key. Most older men know this too and that is one of the reasons we don't go after snakes. We may like to flirt with theses women, almost all older western men like attention but we know how difficult it is to be with an immature women regardless of how beautiful she is. The expression "the juice isn't worth the squeeze." seems to apply here, you can google it.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Great point sir

[@justinhawking2647]

Lovely video again. All relationships are different. I lived in Africa for 11 years before I came back to uk. Respect cultures and learn from each other. Most of all .enjoy the time together 🥰

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

True. Thanks

[@robkelly8398]

Good video. I might suggest for us boring Americans: Along with getting familiar with our sports I would add watching American movies and television as that is often something couples and families do together, discuss and becomes part of our pop culture.

[@Kayfabe-226]

I think I said before that you are so Western in your speech,and attitude that if every filipina was like you they would never loose their foreign BF...Honestly I think that #1 thing to be is honest and if the guy likes you as you are then it's a match..If you need to work so hard to entertain him and please him then it's not a match...when it's right both ppl are totally comfortable with each other and relationship fits like a glove🙂

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for that

[@basedbear1605]

One of the first things I told my fiance` when we started was "No Tampo!"... she's been good about it so far.

[@buyerofsorts]

And she'll continue to be good about it as long as you live in the Philippines. Move to to the west and you're fucked. Trust me....

[@mattbrassfield2291]

drama happens w/ anyone and time of the month happens.. its how us men deal w/ it at that time is how they will act upon it... I personally won't say that to mine bc i treat her like a princess and she treats me as a king. In the Western World when a woman has tampo usually goes along w/ her men screwing up, something happen to her at work, traffic, or her time of the month. Since we are on Pilipino time over here, if she express tampo its because something her partner did, just read the signs.

[@35Colorado]

That was actually good advice for filipinas to listen to. Only thing I would add is be more open minded in the bedroom

[@marksjourneytothephilippin9574]

Main thing is find a good man. A player or cheater won’t change. You can’t fix him. Not just young gwapo men with abs either old fat men too who are divorced once or more and have no intention of truly settling down. Also pay attention to actions not just words. Men will sometimes lie and tell you what you want to hear to either sleep with you or have a short to middle term relationship (1 year or less) Finally a good man will either marry you or date you long term like 5-10 years or more.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Good point

[@stephengoodchild6157]

Very good and well presented video you touched on all the main points and you speak slowly and clearly on the subject matter. So I think very good advice for your fellow females, let’s hope they listen and can also adapt as you seem to have been able to do.

[@journeylife7491]

She is on point. Her words are very clear. Nice video.

[@peterjeffery9513]

Hello Mia. I’ve been busy working lately. This is the first video of yours I’ve watched for a while. You have such a great sense of humour and wit.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Welcome back!

[@butchharris7832]

Mia another great video about expat, Philippino relationships. I like all you points to having a better relationship. I hope I can experience soon.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Best of luck!

[@buddylewis2743]

You're a good woman Mia. It's easy to see why Paul is in love with you.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@rickyfuller6057]

Miss Mia you a vary wise young lady.Vary good video.God bless you and MrPaul

So simple, but yet so brilliant 😊 ! Great video, Mia, with pleasant rythm and great English. Thank you for the great work 👏 !

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you! 😃

[@evelinholmes6401]

The Filipino man must be perfect. Why would you chase after a foreigner?

[@alexjohnson4332]

You are a well spoken lady. Good content.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@mikeburgan7675]

This is very good advise Mia! Your understanding of people is awesome.. How is it you stay so happy? We all have so many things going on in our lives ,Yet you stay so positive

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

So true! Well, I look at everything in a positive way, even though the situation is not good

[@mikeburgan7675]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Great advice