Fears when dating a foreigner | | | My POV

In this episode I am going to talk about the things that a Filipina fears when dating a foreigner. I hope you guys like it. This video is not a free talking, that's because I want to put all the important ideas that I think is helpful. Thank you for watching.

[@Teacher784]

Western women have made it hard for many men to trust any women. It needs time

[@leosanchesbr]

Absolutely true

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Okay. Thanks for sharing

[@brettogata4410]

Yes American women feel entitled even 2nd generation Filipinas’

[@jolyonrussell7021]

This is so very true

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

@@brettogata4410 it's what western society teaches them. They're being sold a half truth. We're already seeing a generation of women in their 40s who are unhappy. Or some pretend to be happy, but deep down they know they've made a serious mistake. They can't complain about it for fear of being ostracized. Their favorite thing to complain about is their are no good men. Well, that has consequences. Western men are going to other countries and are finding what they want. That's the one thing nobody could predict. Everyone thought men would bow down, and many do. But many others have realized the BS and got out.

[@misterrandy4091]

My Filipina turned 41 in September and I don't regard her as "left over." She is beautiful and vibrant and the sweetest woman I have ever known. I'm 61 now and in a wheelchair, and she takes wonderful care of me. So, I guess it's a matter of perspective.

[@4sure331]

Hi Randy, I'm 53 and use a walker due to MS, I also use a wheelchair when I go out. My 47-year-old Filipina who I haven't met in person, but chat for a year; said she doesn't care about that, only cares about the love. Hope I can travel there soon to meet face to face.

[@lizalim3840]

@@4sure331 Bring her to the US and hopefully she won’t change her mind. They have the mentality that marrying a foreigner would give them a better life. They don’t know what is reality vs. the dream of living in another country.

[@johncarlson6472]

Hi Randy. Are you able to get out and about now that your utilizing a wheelchair for mobility, or, are you pretty much stuck at home?

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

That's wonderful sir randy

[@misterrandy4091]

@@4sure331 I do know what you mean. I haven't met my girl in person yet, either, but as soon as the borders open again, I'm there.

[@obsidianstang6296]

"More and more guys are getting red-pilled and want nothing to do with marriage. I hate you, feminists in the west. I really hate you." That was poignant and heartfelt. It seems to me that women in the Philippines really are sincere about long term relationships. It's refreshing to see. Great video, Mia.

[@mikedoyle7300]

Preventing families from forming is part of the Marist agenda that the feminists adhere to.

[@oittisallen4057]

Yeah.

[@royeriksen103]

Love your comment, Obsidian

[@variouscrazypeople254]

It's so true, I am not sure if I am red pill or black pill at this point.

[@johncee8084]

@@mikedoyle7300 I thought the Marist agenda was a Catholic agenda? en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marist_Brothers

[@SoloPilot6]

Most American men expect the women they meet to have already known other guys. I care less about who she was with a year ago than I do about whether she will be with me a year from now. And the year after that. I understand the fears of Pinay that they will be used and dumped -- because that is what so many American women do . . .that's one of the reasons that we are interested in Pinay in the first place. OUR fear is that if we bring a Filipina to the US, she will "Americanize" and abandon us for someone younger, more handsome, with more money.

[@lizalim3840]

@SoloPilot6. Definitely, think million times before you make the move to bring her to the West especially if she is way younger than you. She may use you as a passport to her dreamland.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I heard a lot of horror stories like that. Men bringing their gf to the west and leaving their bf for some younger man. Which is sad and I feel so mad about that.

[@morrishooks7536]

I did not have this problem thank God. I took my wife to states when she was 30. She is province girl. She did not change. We moved back here after 26 years in USA and retired. Get to know her for long time before you take her back. You might run into problems taken young ones there.

[@ericlee2931]

@None None Or keep them in PI

[@mykiyahyah-el4746]

Well I'm not worried about the more money part I'm good there. Younger may be an issue though.

[@neilforeman3892]

I met my Filipina wife when she was 36 and I was 46. We now have a child and are settled in the Philippines, financially secure and very satisfied with our life together.

[@surfguy777]

Good subject, Mia. Filipinas need to tell the truth 100% because a confident guy will leave the moment he learns you lied.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Yes, true

[@davidtucker7219]

I would always want to have the truth up front myself..We all have a past. Myself included... Best wishes to you and your fellow Mia. Good luck with school.

[@joewho6832]

Who wants to spend the rest of their lives woth someone who is going to lie cheat amd steal? Zero tolerance for lies. Even a small one

[@mixermanone]

No need to worry ! You are a wonderful person! With or without Paul ! Thank you

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I appreciate that!

[@kevcox5585]

The 30 thing is crazy, I've heard that before, including a filipina I was dating online who was 31 and telling me the same thing! Here in the UK couples are not settling down to marriage and kids until they are in their 30's now, they want to enjoy their 20's free and single. Great vid Mia, thank you 👍

[@patrickmunneke8348]

@@jbil76 It definitely is. It's unnatural to be having children so late. Studies have shown genetic defect percentages for babies by women after 28 years skyrocket.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks kev

[@TomandAmyinthePI]

My Girlfriend calls the female competition "Crocodiles" She always tells Me "Don't talk to Crocodiles" lol

[@garycampbell9079]

They must use SNAPchat.

[@chlamydiayourdaddyishere]

LOL! Hilarious! Is it because they could bite and are always on the hunt?

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

We all have different names we call to girls that try to snatch away our man

[@browncountyindianaasmr9751]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 you should do a video on this subject

[@Manny-xo1em]

lol ... The Crab mentality.

[@garyb8645]

Mia if you can’t or don’t trust the one you are with “ and I am speaking in general not just you “ then that person isn’t the one for you, I don’t want to be with someone that doesn’t trust me and I am speaking from someone that was cheated on by his wife many years ago...you are a wonderful young woman and I think you and Paul have a lasting, loving relationship bravo for the two of you

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for pointing that out.

[@donniestricklin3915]

Hi, enjoying your video, I'm an American retired here in the Philippines and married to a Filipino for 20yrs now, we live in the bicol area Tigaon Cam Sur it's near Naga City. I love it here, the people here are very nice. Good luck with Paul, he seems like a great guy. Have a great day.

[@liquidlightsurfer]

I’m 53 and appreciate a mature woman. My last partner was half my age when we met, and she left me to chase her dreams. Her lack of life experience got in the way of our love. If she could have slowed down and accepted that things come in time, we would still be together. What I love about younger women is that they still hold their feminine innocence. This is what is most beautiful to me. As women age, their experiences turn them hard. They lose touch with their innocence. So an older woman who still knows her innocence, is perfect. I hope to find someone a lot like you Mia. When I’m with the right woman, I have no eyes, or thoughts, for another woman. Nothing can sway me. But then I’m a mature man who knows how to treat a woman too. I give no cause for a woman to fear losing me, so they can relax and trust my love.

[@mv4463]

No true words are put in place kind sir...and should be understood by filipina women of all ages to understand.we value a filipina..some men are true to their honor no matter what land their feet are on...insecurity on a woman's part is her failure to happiness... dont ask for honesty if your not ready to be honest...

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I'm pretty sure you'll find one sir.

[@floydiandreamscapes5145]

Try looking for a woman your age dude! They will stick around. If you were 30 and anchored to a 55 y.o woman you'd bolt at the first woman your age that gave you a second look.

[@DarrenDobson]

Mia, I think older women 30+ are a better fit for older foreigners. Who wouldn't like a loving Filipina?

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

True. Plus they're more mature

[@garlandvincent3742]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 yep mature beautiful and kind that’s why they are the fit

[@whynot2734]

you have a gift you speak from your heart and you have a sincerity in your voice and your much more than some of the other vloggers that run around in there bikinis and showing there friends not that I don t watch them LOL but lets say we see what Paul sees in you and Paul your a lucky man best wishes

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, thank you!

[@BeingBackAgain]

I think ya hit the nail on the head Barry!

[@robertjeffrey702]

In the west, life after 30 is just beginning. Remember that religious beliefs also means being responsible to ensure you can afford raising the families. The past is the past and it’s now and the future that matters. Communication is the key and tell the truth.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Communication is very important

[@joewilliams7783]

Truth is over rated, select the truth you tell carefully.

[@robertszakal5869]

I really enjoyed this video. Especially the comment about the feminist in the west. I think it is all true. Some men hope to meet a woman who will love them and appreciate them and not use them for a atm machine. Keep the videos coming. Very enjoyable and informative.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for watching.

[@davejackson4010]

First of all, I don’t look at a woman over 30 as a leftover. I’ve always preferred a woman who was 30 and older because they are more mature minded and I feel that women 30 and older are more stable. I actually am not comfortable dating someone in their 20s. Also about the women here in the west as I am from and live in California, I have NOT allowed them to mess me up.

[@patrickmunneke8348]

Women are wild here in California. 🤣

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Good for you Mr. Dave

[@davejackson4010]

@@patrickmunneke8348 I think most of the women in the US are wild. I’ve seriously given up on western women.

[@davejackson4010]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 yes thank you very much.

[@richardsteinbergmakingknives]

You are actually getting really good at this. And nearly 7,000 Subscribers after only 17 videos!!! That is amazing. Well done!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much!

[@fanaticforager6610]

My Filipino Filly is 30, we’ve known each other for almost 5yrs, I L❤️VË her Môre each day, Sat tud Nbünmån, Öpo 🌷✨

[@philippinesendlesssummer6573]

Oo. Same here.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Congrats

[@fanaticforager6610]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 . ..though I was Compelled to warn Åking Binatbåla Payåba..that our tangible Kasayihan, won’t possibly, be straight away, due to Family asset dramas, compiled by navigating through immigration lawyer$ ( Generally, Opportunisti©️Muppets )✔️ Åking Binatbåla Ntåmïn, has the Patience of a Definitive SåinT ✨🌸 I Still Feel, ‘each & Every day’, more & more ., buoan NararapaT..in not being organised enough to of yet, extracted Åking Napili Ågom Kö, away from unfortunately familiaré provincial antagonists. ..🛡 🌺☂️

[@barrysrcdump3557]

I'm 62 and my Filipina is 40. I'm so glad I went for a "leftover". She is so chilled, so easy going and easy to talk with. She's able to make up her own mind and I very seldom hear Whatever You Want.

[@timothycook2917]

As that lyric from the great Eagle's song goes: "I've been searching for the daughter of the devil himself, I've been searching for an angel in white. I've been waiting for a woman who's a little of both. And I can feel her but she's nowhere in sight"

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Okay. Thanks

[@actsofkindnessinspiredhelpingo]

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[@marvailjennette6350]

Thanks for the information. That just help me understand my Filipina a little better now when she ask me questions about leaving her. 😊

[@lifsabeech]

It’s my belief that if it’s true love no one will be able to take either away. I know for myself my pinay wife is perfect for me. And no one can never take my eyes off of her. She is absolutely my Gift from God. A gift that will never be taken for granted.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, congrats sir

[@lb9007]

Giving content with flavor and emotion isn't easy in a second language and you do an awesome job. So fresh. Best of luck to both of you! 🇨🇦

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

That's nice of you. Thank you

[@johnminichielli8957]

It takes courage to share your fears, but when you expose them to the light of day they don't seem so scary. Thank you for sharing your fears, as it helps us to understand the mindset of the women of the Philippines.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You are so welcome

[@troymoses8405]

Well spoken Mia, thank you for sharing your heart. I meant my young lady last year, she was 46 then. I must say she’s the most elegant, sweetest loving spirited woman I’ve ever met. Such a lovely caring and giving soul, she is truly heaven sent. I strongly believe women have so much to offer after their 30’s.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@brianreid8751]

This is a great video. Well spoken and to the point.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Glad you liked it!

[@VistaLatin]

My Filipina just turned 21, she's absolutely gorgeous, sweet, kind, and loving. I'm 64, and I know I don't deserve her, she's my princess and though we're not married yet, I will never leave her. Met her on FB, just arrived in the Philippines almost 2 weeks ago...she's every man's dream..everyone who sees us together tell me how lucky I am and I agree. This is my first time in the Philippines and I don't care about the rest of the candy, we're loyal and we trust each other 100%....why such confidence? We are both Christians, we both promised each other and God we would be loyal. God is watching. Though your advice is good for most people, what I see folks lack is Christian values. Without them the devil will tempt you with all the snakes out there...my girl trusts me alone at the mall no problem as I trust her...to the guys out there, if you love your girl have her kneel down with you and promised God in front of her that you will be faithful and ask her to do the same...but promise on the Bible of this commitment and you both will be good to go...my suggestion, food for thought

[@miosylvester225]

You speak eloquently and from the heart, Mia, on behalf of all good Filipina women. I really hope life goes well for you and Paul who I’m sure is a good man.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@davidjames3126]

Your golden nugget makes a great deal of sense..a new begining deserves a fresh start.

[@bobdobbs7828]

I love the "deeply religious country" assertion everyone makes. Then there are kids having kids at 12 with regularity and so so many women unmarried with children or "married" but separated for years or are MASSIVELY promiscuous. I think maybe the Philippines would get further ahead if they just drop the whole "religious" charade.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

HAHAHAHHAHAHHAHA yeah. I don't understand but I watched this video a week ago about teens getting pregnant because the church wouldn't allow them to have a birth control. Which is also sad, because instead of taking precautions, it ended being in a worst situation.

[@Liteyrs1963]

I really love the way you express yourself about the situation with foreigner, abandonment, candy 🍬

[@radicalveg00]

What a sweet girl you are! So much sincerity, it brings tears to my eyes. Everything you said strikes me as completely true, even though I've pretty much taken the red pill :)

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You are so welcome!

[@jmseipp]

Thanks for another very good educational video Mia. You are very honest and sincere. That’s so nice to see! I do wish you all the very best!

[@mithringil]

Thank you Mia! Your information really helps us to understand the Filipina’s point of view. I’m also glad that you understand why western men are shying away from marriage. Marriage laws in the west do not serve or protect men at all, and when wives divorce their husbands over 80 percent of the time, you can see why men choose to opt out. Love and financial benefits should come from being in the relationship not from the separation🙏 Cheers!

[@leosanchesbr]

Money should never mix with affections of any kind, period.

[@chlamydiayourdaddyishere]

Well, here is a secret for ya that most Xpats don't know. Laws are WORSE in the Philippines and you don't even have to be married... just living together... and if you have a child, it is worse.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Cheers mithringil

[@zenawesome7641]

Mia, while watching your video I felt moved by the emotions you experience talking about a topic that is obviously very sensitive and personal to you. Talking about things we are emotional about takes courage, and I respect that courage. Great video, please keep the videos coming and keep doin' what you're doin'!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for watching sir

[@kuyamarco80]

Wow,mia! you did a amazing job,Salamat for you open words! i understand your thinkings good. i hope for you that paul knows what he have with you and agree somedays your wishes!(Sry paul,heheh) some points i understand now better as before. hope to see you(both) soon again! take care,bye bye

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you! 😃

[@robsole9587]

A great heartfelt video. Don't compare yourself to the Filipina Pea ... you have your own style. One style is not better than the other. Good Luck.

[@mikecarmichael5743]

Hi miss Mia I am an old werster person. I and my dear wife of 56 years have been going to Thailand every year since 1972, when I worked we went to Thailand for 6 week every year and after I retired we went to Thailand every year for 3 months. Thai culture is diffrent however in many thing they are very similar, when to marry , family, old after 30, snakes/women etc etc. yes I speak fluent Thai. So I do understand very well. I always speak with mydear wife about everything, past, now, and future. I keep from her no secrets. I understand that the girls are afraid of losing her rice bowl . I wish you good luck, miss Mia may all living creatures be happy and free from suffering regards Mr Michael Carmichael, I am 76 years old now

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, what a wonderful experience you have. Thank you for sharing. Stay safe and best of luck

[@denisriel5015]

you are doing a incredible job of honesty ,by sharing your value and fear ,thank you so much for your open heart

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I appreciate that!

[@philippinesendlesssummer6573]

My Filipina turns 38 tomorrow. I’m 38, so it’s perfect. Plus she still looks like she is in her mid twenties. We have both made mistakes in our past before we met. We focus on our future, not our past. 😉

[@ukadventures5660]

She won’t look like mid 20’s, except to you 😂 Most of them stay slim-ish, but age badly. It’s the climate

[@ukadventures5660]

She’ll be 38 and look 38 👍

[@jtb1245]

@@ukadventures5660 and you are the local model then 🤓

[@johnwales4214]

@@ukadventures5660 A lot of that depends on the life that they lead also. The harder the life, the more a Pinay ages.

[@philipcooper3330]

@@ukadventures5660 it’s the poor diet and lack of exercise/training.

[@puncherdavis9727]

I am currently trying to develop a relationship with a Filipino that had a foreigner convince her he loved her.. Ask her to be married and engaged and told her she would be taken care of. Then he took her virginity and then dumped her and quit support her. You have no idea what kind of SHIT I have to fight through to get trust with her after this happened and she is a wonderful person. Girl I am LDR with is 35 so No not leftovers that is a Filipino culture thing and child thing. Interestingly enough we had this conversation. Keep up the great videos Mia.

[@marcjanssen216]

Wow Mia; great content. I wonder if we would have seen such a strong PH female blogger if Paul hadn't forced you to step out of his shadow and do your own thing. So in that way, beiing apart and alone has strengthened you and your channel. Keep up the good work. Cheers

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Yeah, I'm still not good enough like Filipina Pea, but I'm sure that I'll improve

[@stylembonkers1094]

What a beautiful speech. God bless.

[@Murph_.]

One of the reasons I dated my wife was because she had experience with dating foreigners before me. While this is a little scary as far as 'maybe she is a scammer', it's easier to have a relationship with a woman that has experience with Western culture. I don't know about most men, but I certainly don't want a virgin, and I don't want a woman that has no experience with my culture. I lived in the Philippines for a little while before I met my wife, so I had experience with her culture... so it was easier to date, to understand each other, and to know that we each have some experience or knowledge of each other's culture. As far as abandonment... I tell every man that wants to go to the Philippines and meet a Filipina that he first has to be honest with what he wants, and then he has to be honest with the Filipinas about what he wants and what he is looking for. Then she knows what to expect from you. The worst foreigner is the one who lies, and that's the one that abandons a woman. I think it's also the same in reverse, the worst Filipina is the one that lies. You're almost all Catholic, so you KNOW lying is wrong. Don't let your culture tell you it's OK to lie FOR ANY REASON... it's not right, and it won't HELP a relationship.

[@guambroker]

Good for you...but Virgins will always remember their first.. better to be her ONE and Only.. just treat her right and respectfully.

[@leosanchesbr]

@@guambroker Absolutely

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, congrats Mr. Murph

[@Murph_.]

@@guambroker I don't need to be remembered. I also don't need to be a trainer. I want a WOMAN and a partner, not a naive little girl. Just my opinion, but I feel men looking specifically for a naive, virginal type are, unfortunately, inadequate in one way or another and are looking for inexperienced women so these women don't know about the man's ineptitude or inadequacy.

[@c.money276]

Your husband is very smart to update you on American culture and feminist i do the same with my Filipina thx for the video keep up the good work to both of you!!

[@themacker894]

Just found your channel while watching Paul's channel. I loved your first interview about testing your girlfriend. It's very hard for Western guys to understanding how a woman could be chatting with several other guys while dating you. That would be a huge turn off for me, and not something I would tolerate, though I understand it's the culture.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks and welcome

[@shannoncarney560]

Great video!! I met a Filipina at Cebu airport. You are right! I had no idea the options to me. Here in the west i am the leftovers. You are right there a foreigner holds are the cards and is valued as a man. Working hard so I can move there sooner then later and begin my life.

[@desmondwilfred6944]

Thirty is the the real age to get married,u would have enjoyed your life to the utmost.

[@patrickmunneke8348]

Well at thirty most modern women have enjoyed their lives a little too much which makes them less attractive.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Oh yah?

[@patrickmunneke8348]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Sometimes😅😊

[@kjensen7819]

@@patrickmunneke8348 You mean they look less attractive ? If that is the case because they have been smoking and drinking and weigh 200 lbs - I agree. But if a beautiful Filipina (which they often are in their 30'ties) does it really make a difference if she had 5 boyfriends or 2 ? Does it really make a difference if she had sex 100 times or 200 times before you meet ? How can they have enjoyed life a little too much ? I ask as a guy in my 40'ties.

[@xx1352]

Wow...Mia you really are wise beyond your years. Such mature thoughts voiced so eloquently from such a young, beautiful soul.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Salamat 🙂

[@paultheotherone1]

Yes it's true Filipino woman seem very insecure. But I can understand that when Western men just want to try all the candy in the store, but have no intentions of just picking one piece of candy. Hahaha I was going to say buying, but that just sounded so wrong lol.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Oh, LOL

[@mag4657]

Hi Mia, the best video I ever saw from Filipina's point of view. You are not only beautiful but very intelligent and talented to communicate with your subscribers. I have booked my ticket to fly to Manila in July with no connection with any girl. I hope I get to meet some girl just like you who is honest, upfront and genuine. Thank you for sharing your experience and I for one am indebted to you. Simply awesome video

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@collinbeveridge317]

I know someone who met his Filipina online in 2008, met her in person in 2010, and married her in 2012. He was 59 when he married her and she was 8 years younger than him. He has never been happier. Your comments are both accurate and helpful to those who may entertain the idea of forming a connection with a Filipina for a long term relationship/marriage.

[@jackeisman8029]

You are an amazing young woman with great insights. Paul is lucky to be able to call you “his.”

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you. We're both lucky to have each other

[@casperdutoit2760]

Nice video, you come across as very sweet and sincere. Keep up the good work 👏

[@royeriksen103]

Thank you, Mia, for sharing wisdom and knowledge.

[@ricksmith729]

Thank you for sharing all of this wonderful information it was a great learning lesson

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Sarge57]

Excellent presentation. So true is the story you tell. I talked with many before I met my soulmate. She is everything ad more than I ever dreamed of. I was there

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wonderful!

[@geoffb5813]

Hi Mia. My Filipina gf is 50. I am 66. We are both healthy and fit. She look 35 and she is sooo sincere and amazing. I am so grateful. Generally, Filipina woman have grounded values and they know how to look after their man. Question? City versus province woman. Which are more likely to be the best catch? And why. Thanks. God bless. Geoff. Australia 🇦🇺

[@harrisonjones5962]

Thanks for the words of wisdom , I really appreciate your blog, you have open my eyes because I plan to move there when the travel Ban is lifted

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you. Best of luck with your move

[@llefurge1]

Well done, very insightful.....quiet waters run deep.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks

[@erikvandeven8344]

I think you make a very sweet video with this one. Really spoken from the good filipina heart.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, thank you

[@daledemary7654]

I'm dating a beautiful ,47 yr. Old fillipina who is working in Lebanon at the moment. If the pandemic allows I will visit Fillipines late summer to meet her. We are in love I'm 64, divorced, lonely, romantic and loyal. I live in NY. Your segment was very helpful, honest and sweet Thank you so much. I subscribed.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Congrats. Thank you

[@singb5857]

Your really good. Very natural, enjoyable to watch and a good message.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I appreciate that!

[@kevinwilliams6927]

everyone should always tell the truth I married a Filipina 30 years ago I was 42 she was 40 she told me she had 4 kids we got married 18 months later and moved back to Australia with the kids. about 10 years later she told me she had another 2 kids who are still back in the Philippines we are still happy (most of the time) we had a son together and have 13 grandkids

[@johngatliff7648]

GOD bless the Philippines. Great videos Mia.

[@anthonymcroberts2950]

Hitting your 30's is prime time, you're more mature and more knowledgeable about life and relationships, you're able to hold a mature conversation. Your body is more developed, far from being over the hill.

[@waynedarvell9455]

Thank you for your comments

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you too

[@wesleybarney8755]

Hello Mia you get it .👍🏿..absolutely right on your assessment of Filipina women the especially the sneaks.. I been to Phillippans going back to 2014 to 2019 I was always curious way at that time my Filipina Gf would follow me everywhere,... at that time did not truly understand your culture I was like a kid in candy store😂😂😂 thank for sharing.. looking forward to more informative video from you ... Gd day mom ..

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@Steroid_Frog]

I am red pill but thank you for helping me to understand another side of the culture that you have. I am planning to come to Philippines and i will consider everything you just said by being more aware of the pain that i can cause.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you, sir. I appreciate that :-)

[@ultramarinus2478]

Not necessarily "leftover", but truth is, woman has a close deadline regarding her fertility. Man does not. Ussefullness and "appeal" of man ends, when he can not either support his family, or when he is age/physique-prohibited from intimacy.

[@shawnbarnett1457]

Great job Mia, much love to you and Paul. Keep up the good work. ✌❤

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you! Will do!

[@StanHasselback]

Very good job Mia. You are a special young lady. Your honesty come through in your video's. Paul is a lucky man and if he doesn't realize it (I think he does) there are thousands of subscribers who would relish the chance to know you better. Never sell yourself short and if you are unhappy about something let your partner know. If someone cares about you they will listen and maybe even change.

[@davemanningreviews]

I like your channel. You're very thoughtful and deep. I like that quality in anyone.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I appreciate that!

[@ljw3491]

What a great video. You presented all the points very well and I felt moved by your heartfelt concern for other filipinas. I got betrayed by a filipina some years back and my ability to trust them remains. But you have restored my faith that makes me hope that there are alot more like you out there. You are a very special young lady!!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@jayd2769]

Ok I definitely enjoyed that I don’t care who wrote it . You are mesmerizing !!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for listening

[@paulfreespirit]

30 years old is not old and certainly not left over's, honesty is always important and we all have past, including us men.

[@thebg8774]

Great Job on this topic Mia!... You go, girl...

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@ericander2108]

Mia you are a ray of sunshine. Love your videos and your content..

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Oh thank you!

[@mikemcquinn6738]

Young Lady, I applaud you!!! Your direct and honest approach to a difficult subject is to be commended. Keep up the good work, plus always striving to improve. Thanks for your honesty. Wishing you all the best!!! BTW Paul is a very lucky man!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much! We're both lucky to have each other

[@Manny-xo1em]

Remember experience gives the test first and the lesson later... most of us know what we want, is easy to see when we find it, respect punctuality is huge, speak directly to avoid cultural misunderstandings, if there's love, there's no saving face... saving face can destroy love..!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for that Manny

[@duanet.7463]

Thanks for another valuable insight into the minds of many Filipinas. I also personally prefer the format of having (mostly) one subject to discuss rather than discussing many different things. Although, admittedly I've learned some good things that way too. Good luck with your channel.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@anyt1me178]

Wow. That was so powerful. I am learning a lot from you.😀 Thankyou so much.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Glad it was helpful!

[@pandapack6960]

Hi Mia, I just subscribed to your channel. As a Westerner in a LDR with a Philippina, I wanted to share something with you. There are many types of men who visit the Philippines but we are not all Sexpats. Of course, when we first visit we see the candy, we may taste a little, but if you find someone who is loyal, caring and honest it can work. Age is just a number and I chose 30 plus girlfriend with a past and children. It’s the same in the West, most women have a past, but we do not judge a women on her life before as the future is far more important. Keep up the hard work on your channel. ✌🏼

[@rawsomeone1]

Hi! First time watching your vlog. Very good first experience and I must say very heart ❤ felt message. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks and welcome

[@rossgridley5626]

I think your vlogs a great . Your comment about values in the west vs Philippines . The saddest part of that, is the family valuse you treasure there are lost here . That was my reason for searching for a filipina . I have been lucky . After reading 15,000 . Yes . Reading 15,000 bios . I've found my future wife . Salamat kaayo. God bless you and your family

[@martingray6383]

I wish I had seen this video earlier, I would have taken your advise!!

[@pauldrew1130]

Thanks for sharing! Good advice…

[@andrewwoods7488]

As for deeply religious, it's pretty skin deep and not as it should be, discovering your true humanity and growing and learning as a person should be your goal as with us all regardless of your religious belief or not. You did great presentation and spoke so well , and your material was great. 30 is where life should be getting into gear. Men who care about the world around them , love social justice and are not judgemental (same for women ) are living real life. My lady is 34 , 3 kids and I am 63 , we are good together and have achieved much and it will take a few years before we can be together, achieving her goals are paramount, and encouraging her along the way is my joy in life. Blessings to you and best wishes

[@gmallfaris7027]

I really like ur videos..ur informations r very helpful..thank u my friend..u r so pretty

[@robertshaw2602]

jUST SUBSCRIBED and really loved all that you explained Mia. Paul is one lucky guy and wish you all the best with your channel. Best wishes from Melbourne tonight

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Welcome aboard! Thank you, we're both lucky to have each other.

[@corkytoney6030]

I think you're super super gorgeous girl and I respect you for talkin straight and from your heart so anything you ever need I will always support you and your Channel and I want to say thank you

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you too

[@Gurkha9]

Well written and delivered miss. Great job 👏👍

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you kindly!

[@stanleybriones518]

Thank you Mia. You are very down-to-earth and wisdom that belies your age. You’re an “old soul.” You speak eloquently with truth, knowledge, and from the heart. I wish I can find one like you and not the scammers I have “picked” I the past. 🇵🇭🇺🇸😎✌🏽

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You are so welcome. I am pretty sure that you will find one

[@williewelch122]

You r a great woman in thought in beauty perfect in my eye

[@kevinhunter2785]

Great Advice & Delivery ! Impressed enough to Subscribe ! Salamat po !!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for the sub!

[@brianbaxter3913]

Being over 30 is not a bad thing. Honesty is the best policy. If I am with someone and they ask about my past I tell them as I have nothing to hide. There is also the matter of trust and respect. That is what I am doing chatting to a few girls there so I make sure I get the right one for me as I don't want to be starting over again looking for a partner. Good video. Keep smiling and stay safe

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Trust is everything as well as being honest. Thank you btw for sharing and watching my video. Best of luck and stay safe

[@dennissouthern9429]

I have worked in Japan, South Korea, and leftover term is used in those countries also, but starts at about 25 or 26. Many young beautiful office girls working with intent of only finding best husband at company. Great video.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for the info

[@ziezcogslaw8643]

very candid and honest, good on you Mia!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you

[@mikemarriedtoafilipina1385]

I like your perspective. I am married to a Filipina for 4 years now she is awesome my beautiful asawa