HOW TO LOOK MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU EVER KNEW

[@ShawnaHill83]

My mom was gorgeous, people would tell her she looked like Sofia Loren. She was so understanding and caring, people would say " there's just something about you" her beauty on the inside shined through to the surface. She taught me to care for my body and how important it is to be kind, generous, understanding, forgiving. She ALWAYS had her nails painted, eyebrows on point and hair curled lol she was fabulous!!! It will be 6 years since she passed this July and watching this brought tears to my eyes because I lost myself in motherhood (like MANY do) all I can say is ok mama I hear you! Time to focus on me again. Thank you so much Wayne.

[@carolinehintze9543]

Shawna Williams so sorry for your loss and glad Wayne Goss could channel your sweet mom for you 🙂

[@ShawnaHill83]

Caroline Hintze awww thanks doll face 😊

[@michelewatson1505]

Shawna Williams beautiful response!! Good for you!

[@rachelsweets]

Shawna Williams sorry for your loss hon

[@ariesadanna9808]

I am so sorry for your lost...you have to be strong and happy.

[@paulahillier1390]

You are a lovely man. I hope you have someone, special in your life, that makes you feel beautiful.

[@freepalestine7687]

I hope that for us all 🙏🏻♥️

[@daliaserhal3359]

Lovely lovely man. I just discovered his channel and i have been watching so many videos each time i get the chance. Such a lovely man ❤️

[@007shadowkat]

What you say applies to you too, Wayne. You are never more handsome when you are talking from the heart and smiling that playfully wicked smile you have. You are loved more than you realize. ❤️😍❤️

[@meghnachoudhury609]

and his killer wink!! (swooning)

[@diamondprincesnr1]

Swooningsss 🤗🤩

[@missbethy321]

As Kevyn Aucoin once said.. *"No amount of make up can mask an ugly heart!"* ♥

[@TheHeartOne]

Great Comment, Miss Bethy!!!!

[@missbethy321]

@@TheHeartOne thank you! Its very true 🥰💕

[@wildhorses6817]

Yes, I loved Kevin Aucoin 💙💙💙💙💙

[@carolestrasburg5876]

I miss Kevin. He was my #1 MUA.

[@dawnjohnson8739]

Wow

[@2shadowcats2]

Wayne... you are the only true "beauty" guru that I have found!! I love playing with hair colour and make-up and clothes. But beauty...true beauty... is inside. The surface is just window dressing. Your video was profound, and made me feel better about myself. Because I always try to be kind...suddenly I feel good about myself!! Thank you!!

[@nelliivii4]

Oh, man. I don't know if you still read the comments on this since it's six years old already, but I just watched this and your words brought tears to my eyes. I also giggled and smiled. So uplifting and encouraging. So genuine. I really needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@esterixis]

I think this is the most heartfelt video you've ever done, and it's most appreciated. My late husband wasn't the best-looking, but he always made me laugh, and never failed to tell me how much he loved me, or how beautiful I was (to him). I found those qualities, rather than looks, to be a very sexy combination. Thanks for posting this. 💜💜💜

[@TheGalaxy1x]

esterixis oh lucky you...it’s so rare to have someone like that this days..

[@jenniferburrows5379]

I don’t normally comment and I’ve no idea if it’s you that actually reads them...but.... I need to say thank you. You have literally stopped me in my tracks. This is a beautiful message to anyone. It’s exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.

[@cherrieberry]

I had the exact same thoughts! It felt like he was speaking right to me. :)

[@WayneGoss]

It is me that reads them and thank you so very very much xxxx

[@christineyoungberg5389]

Ditto! Wayne - you rock! I love your videos & helpful tips but this was so up & beyond... Thank you for such a thoughtful video. ❤️

[@JuniorSodi]

This video made me cry. Thank you! You have no idea how many lives you positively impact when you make videos like this. Be blessed!

[@AB-sr3jd]

Junior Sodi “hugs”

[@sambinkley]

Women (girls) are very hard on themselves. I was looking at some photos a while ago, I was 19 in one picture, and looking at it I thought "I always thought I was plain, bordering on homely. What was I thinking??? "I was pretty damn hot, truth be told, not bragging but saddened at the realization that I wasted a lot of time putting myself down. So here I am at 68, finally liking my body and comfortable with who I am. I AM kind, and finally kind to myself! Thank you, Wayne, you are quite right! XOXO

[@buzzingnoise]

Sherry Binkley you look sexy!

[@hayleypflug7384]

I love this!❤️

[@sambinkley]

I look at family pictures, me as a baby, smiling. I had no idea I would become the"plain sister". Two years later along comes the cute, little dimpled blonde and curly baby sister - and I was doomed! Every childhood pic thereafter I was sad, mad, and upset. Now, years later I realized that we plain chicks have a HUGE advantage: we learn early to "accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative". All of those ladies born beautiful (and applauded for that gift that they did nothing to deserve) have no reason to learn the beauty tricks and how to make a sow's ear look like a silk purse. Now cute baby sister is older and I'm younger. I may be old enough to know better but I'm still way too young to care! Diana Ross (I think) said "If you walk and talk like you've got it, you have!" Come on sisters and brothers, smile and strut, 'cause you've got it!!

[@kimhangnguyenthi2045]

Sherry Binkley b

[@shayrajrani35]

This is a really insightful point you brought up. I’m a teenager and that made me think. I’m gonna be nicer to myself. Thank you:)

[@andreapirrone9761]

I don't know if you'll ever see this, though I really hope you will. I want to thank you so much for this video. I truly mean that. I have to remind myself of these principles all the time. I'm overweight. Like 100 lbs overweight. But when I look in the mirror I see this genuine, funny, kind, generous girl and I smile. Then I go out into the world and the world at large tells me I'm fat, I'm ugly, I have no value. I have to constantly remind myself of the things i like about myself just to get through the day. So to hear someone as attractive and successful as you say those same things gives me hope. You have no idea how powerful your message is for those of us on the verge of giving up. So thank you. Really and truly.

[@OneDifferentBeauty]

Goss! I have been watching you since I was 14 and I’m 19 now, five years and counting. I love your humility, humor and candor. You are such an amazing spirit and your advice has helped me a lot; from building self esteem to learning makeup techniques. I appreciate you more than you know, so thank you for everything.

[@learningnochoice]

The added value of WayneGoss to the beauty community is unmeasurable. :) it is beyond any measure. I love your personality Wayne.

[@c.l.loveless4127]

Amen

[@Bekirrn]

I love you Wayne. You're a good man. Love this video.

[@debid.7072]

Wow Wayne, I loved everything you've said, but when you said that, "someone out there, loves what I hate about myself". I had always been thin, but after my gallbladder surgery 2yrs ago, I now weigh 190lbs and have been in a major depression. So thank you for making me feel better about ME....

[@Amusegirl1980]

Debi D No matter how hard I try, I cannot accept my weight gain through illness. My husband doesn't find fat attractive and he keeps telling me I am beautiful, but I don't believe him because I think it looks gross. X

[@Michelle-pg9yy]

Amusegirl1980 be good to yourself your husband is your husband for more than your looks! I'm sure your being too hard on yourself. Everyone is beautiful. Confidence is beautiful

[@hareemnaveed4773]

Debi D gallbladder removal surgery increases weight?? 😦😦 have a friend whos about to have one

[@limtli]

hey if you are sad about your weight, try to lose it, but if you can't, you can be beautiful using clothes, hairstyles and makeup u like, just a tip :) Beauty isn't only the weight you have.

[@debid.7072]

Amusegirl1980 in addition to my unexpected gallbladder surgery, I have Degenerative Bone Disease so my bones are rotting primarily in my spine, causing excruciating chronic pain 24/7, making exercise difficult and life difficult. Mentally and emotionally it's hard for men and woman to cope with weight gain. For yourself, apparently your husband loves you for You and you are lucky to have a Man like that. My gf walks 45mins 4 days a week and she's lost alot of weight surprisingly. I can't walk that long, but I've been walking for 2wks now and it's a nice way to clear my head, get the heart pumping and know that in time, I'll lose weight eventually. It's baby steps with those of us with medical issues 💋

[@logikamorkovka]

That feeling when you expect to hear something about how to make your eyes bigger or your cheeks smaller, but you get a dose of such a pleasant truth. Thank you 🤗

[@BeeKay4444]

Wayne, I cannot tell you how badly I needed to hear a lot of these things that you mentioned in this video. I have been stuck in a terrible, negative vibe for way too long. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for the reminders here. Huge love to you Mr. Goss!

[@valeryasteel4167]

I had a tough breakup yesterday after a pretty abusive and mentally-draining relationship, and this video is just what I needed to see. Thank you, Wayne.

[@dantheaz]

Valerya Steel I hope you feel better soon. You're in a better place now for a better chapter.

[@c.l.loveless4127]

You are singing my song. I am literally watching my partner move out. When we met I believed I was beautiful. I felt beautiful. And now almost a decade later, I feel... Somehow less than. So I needed this video. And realizing I'm not the only one who has endured such emotional devastation, helps remind that we are never alone. And we are all connected. I'm sorry for your pain. But it is a beautiful thing to survive. And when we endure, we grow because we learn. Now I must learn to feel like me again. I must re learn what it means to feel beautiful and I shall do so my experiencing kindness with all I come in contact with while not allowing myself to be walked on or treated with anything less than kindness. I'm sorry if I'm rambling. This was very cathartic just to put into words. Thank you both. To Mr.wayne Goss defender of beer bellies everywhere and to you yourself. Thank you. I see you.

[@noraramos3798]

This reminds me of when I met my husband..... We were set up by mutual friends on a blind date. When he first pulled up in front of the house to pick me up, and I saw him get out of his car, I thought to myself nope! No. Definitely not my “type”. Sometime during our dinner date, I realized that he was absolutely adorable; his huge personality and wit, his genuine smile and his dimples. We will have been together for 20 years this upcoming July, and I am so glad that I didn’t let my initial reaction to his physical appearance blind me to all of the amazing qualities he possesses! I have the most hard working, most thoughtful, and, yes, sexiest husband ever!!! Thank you so much, Wayne. This video was beautiful and empowering and I appreciate you so much.

[@TheMotormouthmomma]

I really loved this. It reminded me of my mom. Shes been gone 6 years now but she told me a lot of what you're saying. When you feel your worse, put on makeup, do your hair, and you will feel fabulous. Everything you say and do affects someone either positively, or negatively. So I always find something nice to say about someone, even strangers, and I tell them. Why not?! I mean it, I say it. I agree with everything. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you find unattractive about yourself, someone will cut off an arm to have. I love wearing makeup, and looking pretty even for the grocery store. Some may say you focus on vanity to much, no I'm focusing on me and what makes ME feel good. So screw you 😂. Love you wayne, sorry for the book 🤔😋

[@mommypov4958]

TheMotormouthmomma totally agree! I try to make it a point that if I see something I like, I tell the other person. Wether it's a bag or shoes, lipstick or bronzer, a word or phrase...simple comments can make a person's day!!!!!

[@ShawnaHill83]

It will be 6 years for my mama this July and your post gave me goosebumps because I wrote a similar thing about my mom! Lol I know it's hard without her but I bet she is so proud of you for living her advice.

[@monicasendoeu9524]

TheMotormouthmomma is that I do... My makeup routine is my true love for my body and soul. 💜👍

[@TheMotormouthmomma]

Shawna Williams thank you. That's very sweet, I miss her a lot.

[@adrianavecchio1590]

I'm sorry your mom is gone, but she sounds like she was a fabulous lady. You sound awesome, too!

[@michellebelledejour]

This really made me think about how hard we all can be on ourselves. I have been in a relationship with a person who loved me when I was at my fittest, and even when I gained weight. I am always insecure about my weight, but not when I was around this person. To him I was beautiful and he didn't care if was fat or thin. What he loved the most about me was how I cared about my family and my passion for teaching. It wasn't if I wore heels to a date or how clear my skin was. I have met some beautiful people in my life, but not all were beautiful on the inside. I have realized that everyone sees beauty in their own way. We may not look as stunning as a super model. But that doesn't mean we don't have beautiful qualities. It has taken me years to realize that. it really does come with age. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.

[@sharonramsay3197]

michellebelledejour nnnn

[@sparkle_twink]

This is probably the most wholesome video on KZbin. You're beautiful, Wayne!

[@TrueEdistonian]

I would like to clone a miniature Wayne Goss and take him around with me in my purse everywhere. I seriously adore him! How perfect would it be to have Wayne pop and tell you what's up ALL DAY?!?!

[@VV01f13]

Lil Wayne😂

[@Poeticdyme]

😂😂 YESSS!

[@jackiekennedy2837]

He so needs an app:)

[@rhansen1969]

Would you be my neighbor? I love you!❤😉

[@luizalouyoga]

Hahhahah that’s really cute 😂♥️

[@monicalemmer9029]

I love going the full face everyday...and I just turned 82 and I’m a big big fan of you.

[@mdcdrmw]

You are just the most real, gentle souled person. Thank you for being you Wayne Goss!!

[@UnpleasantSim]

Completely agree. Especially on personality. It completely ‘makes’ someone’s appearance for me. I can see a woman, and everyone in the room can think she’s stunning, but if she’s not kind, I simply can’t see her as beautiful. For me, when I see someone that’s cruel, all I can find are faults. I can’t find anything physically beautiful in a mean person. * I’ve also noticed that the kindest people seem to appear the most beautiful to me.

[@rheaanne1858]

Doesn’t Matter Yes, I agree. A few years ago I found a girl really beautiful at my work place. But at a team lunch one day, I found out that she was really mean and really a nasty person. Her beauty didn't matter to me after that, and all i could think of was how horrible she was. After a while, everybody starts looking good and it's their kindness and good nature that matters and not good looks.

[@nickrachjames]

Very well said and I agree totally!!

[@majhansen7534]

I so agree with You. So well Spoken. I'm 51 years old and have been seek for a lot of years. But seens I started to watch You, especially, I waked up. I now 6 months since I started to see U and some few others. So now I buy a lot of nice stuff for my self. For my skin, hair, new makeup, etcetera. And quality stuff. And now I feel and look fucking hot 😉 In My way, you know. Thank you for being YOU. You are my favorit inspering person. Greetings from Copenhagen/Denmark and a lot of kisses and hugs. ..

[@MissKusagi]

Doesn’t Matter Totally agree, I'm also totally into character:)

[@lisamizonick7252]

Very well said! ❤️

[@KarenBritChick]

Bloody briliant and I do not comment here often.

[@howtomakeyourlifeeasier]

Oh hi Karen your videos are bomb too!!

[@daintyDeniss]

Awww, 2 of my favourite youtubers here at the same time ❤

[@George_Tropicana]

KarenBritChick love you! 😘

[@margarethamilton1562]

KarenBritChick Bravo. I e been watching KZbin for two months while I've been home sick. At first you knew your stuff and were personable. Then I began to appreciate your death of knowledge, parceling it out in small pieces that make big differences. You also had a respect for people and an honesty unusual in most people. Thank you for this. Someone said the youngest looking women are the ones who are happy. They meant the ones not consumed by anxiety about t their looks, dress, status but enjoying life. You can't do that if you're making everyone around you bored or unhappy. Wayne Gross, I'm 65 and I've been buying make up all my life. Change it. I let myself be sold a product would change my looks. I lived in Italy where the salons had a MUA that didn't cost the NY prices. Not very much really. It didn't make sense even go an American like me to have professional hair and amateur make up. Or I could pop in if I was going out with someone I fancied, even for a pizza. $150 on hair goes unnoticed. Someone's looking at your face. If it looks good I didn't think about it. Now I'm unhappy because the mouth is turning down. When I was little I thought old ladies were mean. Now I'm old and I don't like looking like I'm cross with people. This is an easy fix with a bigger in one than mine. You said you were a poor kid. You know. All this to say being kind is what makes you beautiful. That's great wisdom at any age. You can laugh and enjoy life. Of course sex feels good. It's supposed to. Enjoy it. But I also enjoy watching my friend's new dog chase his tail in circles when he's excited. He's having such a good time and the innocence is beautiful. Helping may not make me beautiful, but when I'm blue it's the guaranteed activity that makes me feel good. This comes when I've been ill at home for three years in a new village. My close friends have been pushed and I've treated them badly. I've felt awful physically. I felt abandoned. Those were my feelings but a honest person said, "You always talk about you." She cut my hair in a posh salvo and disappeared for almost a year. I found her when I moved into a new apartment. A safe one. I'd been abused by my brothers who, bring lawyers, took all my money legally. I was at my parents taking care of my father who was dying. Without him they got violent. At 50? They had my mother, who had dementia bring complaints. Eventually, because of what they told her to say in court, she believed it and went from confused to scared. I ended up indigent on the streebut found good people. I also finally found the woman who cut my hair. She'd left after years of sexual harassment. So we met, vented and found someone else who understood us, each other. ANC we went forward. Thank you for getting me distracted from pain and this video. I'm sending it to my niece. I'll put some Vit C and SPF in as she's 20 and needs to start taking care of her skin. But she needs to take care of her spirit. You just got a halo with this.

[@thelauralindachannel1149]

KarenBritChick Isn't He FABULOUS! I Just Love That He's A Grown Up! PS. Glad To See You Here! Means He Must Be As Great As I Think!🤗

[@jackieeveratt6282]

What a lovely lovely man...I am feeling down just watched this and you've lifted me up thank you Wayne you are a gorgeous, lovely kind thoughtful BEAUTIFUL person inside & out lotsa love xxx

[@C1nderfire]

Now this is a change. Very nice! Yeah if I’m not wearing makeup then I try to like dress decent, wear perfume, polish my nails n toenails etc. Being positive is rough sometimes. Especially when things are going wrong. Thanks for the video! Wink wonk

[@Indiasplace]

Goss, What a refreshing take on BEAUTY!

[@mdaraque]

Well rule #1, I got my lazy bum up and washed my makeup off and put a mask on. Thank you Wayne, you said some powerful things that really hit home. I should give a shit and wash my makeup off. It might be something small but tomorrow morning I know my skin will look great and I’ll feel more confident :)

[@Mexicobeanpole]

This has to be the best thing I’ve seen on KZbin. Your honesty always makes me catch my breath. I also love men with a little belly, and I’m so happy that my generation of men didn’t remove all their body hair. What a travesty!!! When you spoke about making love when you still have it. It’s true. It’s special. Thank you for telling me I can wear pink blush on the apples of my cheeks. This Florida girl thinks it makes me look more youthful. You are a beautiful man! I tell you this every time I comment. I have a big crush on you!!

[@susanevans2710]

This video helped me MORE than any other beauty video I have EVER seen. Thank you, Wayne for giving your precious time to encourage every part of us! I love you! Blessings always!

[@MyLovelyDeadFriends]

You're living poof that kindness makes people beautiful! ❤️

[@godsgirl0019]

What a nice message! I have a chronic illness and I lost myself the first FOUR years! I even threw away a basket off expensive perfume! I was in such a fog. About five years ago I realized this and taught myself how to do my make up and update my hair. I feel no matter how sick or whatever our plight is, we should continue self care. Also be kind! Compliment people around you. Touch someone’s life God bless 🌸🌸🌸

[@katemakeuplooks]

Deena Jones All the very best to you ❤️I also have a chronic illness (rheumatoid arthritis) and funnily enough it is responsible for getting me back into make-up again and I’ve discovered new skills and things about myself. Now I’m doing other people’s make-up, too. It’s great to hear you’ve discovered this wonderful skill as well. Make-up is such a brilliant thing! Wishing you all the best with managing your illness and developing your make-up skills 😃Much love to you ❤️

[@DaniHMcV]

So many of us with chronic illnesses here. I was tossing the idea of starting a channel just for us but I thought it would be too much of a niche population. Turns out there are lots of us and maybe a dedicated channel for us might actually be needed. I think we could use a channel where we discuss the things we enjoy, like makeup, hair, etc, etc, but we learn how things can be done a little differently to accommodate us or make things a little easier. I’m really interested in beauty stuff but not really a video person but I would do it if I thought it could benefit just one person. We could also highlight various disorders or conditions and learn about them to spread awareness in addition to doin fun things like makeup :)

[@godsgirl0019]

DlchMcV please stay in touch! I would def watch a channel like this. I’m in now way a video person or teacher of anything but would love to help out and participate! Fibromyalgia 10 yrs Chronic Fatigue Syndrome 10 years Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis 10 years Neuropath 10 years

[@cherylemmanuel744]

Very good idea indeed!

[@godsgirl0019]

Kate Makeup Looks well, I’m not exactly “ skilled” with the make up but did learn the basics. Lol. I’m so happy you found a passion in make up that takes your mind off of your pain and do others make up! So cool! Thank you for your support. And praying for your healing!

[@roseyc.5846]

Wayne Goss is such a beautiful soul. LOVE you, Wayne, and you are SO RIGHT!

[@rebeccarichardson6761]

You Sir.... take a fricking bow!!! 👌👏

[@johnrosenbaum8730]

You're a beautiful man 😳. Your videos are the best. Luv your energy. .xx.

[@OLHA767]

You’re the most sincere and kind person on KZbin. Much love ❤️

[@tinalindsey1598]

For a year and a half I haven’t cared. I lost my mom. Funny I see this today. I woke up this morning thinking I need to give a $&@“ again immediately. Going to try and stick with it. My mother was beautiful because she was the kindest human being I’ve ever known. ❤️

[@diamondsgal76]

Tina Lindsey We all go through those times we don’t care, I guess. It will come to you, it did come to me gradually. Losing your mother is one of the biggest heartbreaks in life, and I’m really sorry about your mum. Big hugs 💕

[@hashmo101]

Year and a half for me too :(((. People say it gets better, but it really hasn't. Wishing you all the best.

[@tinalindsey1598]

hashmo101 I’m relieved I’m not the only one who’s “ gotten over it” after a year and a half. I’m sad for us both but it helps knowing I’m not alone. Thank for your kindness. Prayers for us both. May we remember the love more than the pain. 😘

[@tinalindsey1598]

Serra Bird so correct. Thank you so much for your kind words. 😘

[@lsusanna3]

Some of us will never "get over it," but there seems to be a silent (or worse, vocal) pressure to do so from those whose relationships were not as close and deep. My condolences to you Tina and to hashmo101. I'm a year and a month out and still heartbroken.

[@JCC51]

Well said, Wayne! As a mature woman of almost 67, I always learn something valuable by watching your videos. Thank you!

[@loric5216]

JCC wow your picture I would not think your nearly 67 ..you look great!

[@JCC51]

Thank you! You're very kind.

[@missrose5261]

You look great!!!

[@JCC51]

Thank you so much!

[@MsMooney82]

You look amazing go you

[@stacib423]

The laughter thing is a big yes! My husband and I have been married for almost 30 years and laughter has gotten us through the toughest of times in life! And you know, these things you mentioned are why life is so much richer the older we get. We realize the things we used to believe were so important are not the things that actually make us happy and keep us warm at night! ;)

[@kristian2971]

I haven't even watched the video and I already feel more beautiful

[@ambern2842]

Kristian Gonzalez 😄

[@luvbytes]

You're not a beauty guru. You're a professional makeup artist.

[@sarahs5340]

Such an incredible list! I’m impressed already. Wayne, you do such a good job and you are smart.

[@daisywright9191]

Wayne you're the only one I trust to give advice on being beautiful 💛

[@tatianagarcia3903]

This is the best video about beauty I have seen on KZbin for years. It's thoughtful, kind and inspirational af. Thank you.

[@sandramowery5189]

This touched my soul and now I am drowning in tears. THANK YOU for this!!!!

[@georgiaelliott16]

wayne feel like i saw a different side of you in this video. i love it! i’m only 19 but i found this video very powerful - you told me everything i’ve needed to hear for a while and motivated me to better myself! i’m here for the long run, thanks for sharing this with us xxx

[@sallymyers2530]

Wayne I think you’re an old soul and a very special man. You have a very tender heart and I love when you put out this type of content, the thinking type of content ! I look forward to hearing on the day when you have your special someone again, you deserve the best! Thank you for being an example of being the best you can be 😉

[@cherylemmanuel744]

I look forward to him finding Mr Right as well!

[@LB-fh9uo]

You are beautiful. Your passion, your sincerity, you ..... you are beautiful.

[@DaniHMcV]

I have chronic pain and saw a specialist last month for the pain I’ve been experiencing in my lower abdomen/pelvic area. I have a genetic disorder and many off-shoot conditions that make life painful and exhausting. When the doctor asked me if I am still sexually active and I said yes, she looked at me with surprise. She said “I wasn’t expecting to hear you say that because you have so much pain”. I told her “I adore my husband, he’s the cutest thing ever. I can’t keep my hands off of him” lol. Talk about a jaw dropping. She was not expecting that. But it’s like you said Wayne...when you find someone sexy, let them know it and if you have someone you love, show them that love. Yes I could avoid sex and maybe my back wouldn’t act up so badly but the feeling you get when you’re with someone you love so much is so healing to your soul and can help with some aspects of pain too. Being completely in love with someone is a gift. If you have that in your life, let them know it and let yourself feel it too. It makes such a strong marriage (we’ve been married for 13 years and it gets better everyday).

[@BlacKWidoW70s]

DlchMcV.it is truly a gift

[@DaniHMcV]

Denise Vasquez Lemrick I’m so sorry you experience so much pain but I’m so happy that you’ve found love again and despite your pain, you are so in love and so attracted to your husband that you won’t let your illness take away the intimacy that you are so lucky to experience. Being in love so deeply like you and your husband are and they way me and my husband are is a huge gift and I’ll be damned to let my pain take away that blessing. Take care. I hope you have many low pain days ahead of you ((hugs))

[@DaniHMcV]

loveisallthereis 11:11 Thank you so much. So sweet of you to comment. You’re wonderful :)

[@DaniHMcV]

Denise Vasquez Lemrick You sound so similar to me. I also have spinal stenosis. There are a couple places in my neck area where if I look up or down, the disc and the stenosis pinched my spinal cord. The neurosurgeon said that if I couldn’t stop looking up for any period of time on my own, he would have to fuse a few vertebrae in my neck. I told him I will not look up if I don’t absolutely need to. If I hold my arms up to say, make cookies for the kids and have to raise them to the level of even just the counter, the entire center of my face goes numb and no one can tell me why. I just saw a uro-gynecologist and he told me I have pelvic congestion syndrome with possible endometriosis so I could be looming at a hysterectomy soon (I hope so, I can’t take this pain anymore down there....it feels like I have a baby crowning when this congestion gets really bad. All of my issues are from a genetic disorder I inherited from my dad. Have you been checked for any connective tissue disorders or a connective tissue disease like lupus?

[@mcr5084]

Omg Wayne, you truly are amazing. I have been struggling with my confidence lately and this video is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you :)

[@lizhindley]

You walk the talk. Your genuineness shines through. Excellent video 😊💖

[@IamTheFirstBrat]

One of the best videos you have ever done. Thank you for being the amazing human that you are ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@kommunikarin]

I see it the same way. One of the best videos he ever made

[@danielleking3880]

You nailed it on the head. If someone is kind, and confident then their inner beauty shines through. If a person is mean or complains alot, then it shows on their face and on their soul. I love that you added to find your style and stick with it. Many times in my life, people have told me to update my look. But I only change small little things. I don't really deviate too much from the style I have had since high school in the 80s. It's a slow update, but my style remains visible. So thank you for doing this. It's a great reminder to us all that makeup doesn't make us beautiful, although it can enhance our style and features. True beauty is inside a person...

[@suzannawoods1629]

You're one of the most authentic people on youtube and a breath of fresh air within the beauty community. Thank you for sharing this.

[@normalgirltries5082]

Being kind is not for sissy’s. I don’t know how many times I’ve been looked down upon by others for doing the “kind “ thing. In our day and age it’s sometimes seen as a weakness and that’s just sad .☹️

[@tinalindsey1598]

Normal Girl Tries God sees your kindness. In the end that’s all that matters. ❤️

[@Devasena931]

So true.

[@Itslanii]

Very sad😞❤️

[@orls9068]

I am kind but if people say anything to me about being taken for a mug, I tell them where to go, giving homeless ppl money for example, had a friends say don't waste your money so I just laugh and call them tight wads, they hate that, I'm kind but if someone tells me it's wrong I will bite back. Be kind but for those people who judge you for your kindness, turn the tables on them.

[@daliaserhal3359]

Ur right, what i have to say is when u cant be kind to others be kind to urself and just ignore or walk away, that way you preserve your sanity and self-love when others’ are testing your kindness.

[@dana4957]

Is it just me or when I see a beautiful women and then I hear how mean she is, I immediately see her physical flaws? Or when I meet someone that I don't find too attractive, but when I get to know them more, I find them to actually be very good looking. Hmm!

[@leighsayswhat1998]

Dana You are NOT alone!

[@echobean5222]

100% me! I’ve been repulsed by the sight of beautiful people with ugly hearts, and looked at conventionally “ugly” people with adoration in my eyes!

[@MERALACXBACKINGPAN]

I love a dad bod, that man works hard, he takes care of his family, he’s aging gracefully I fed him good and he’s my companion. I’ve never been about perfect symmetry but his eyes, his confidence and his dignity is sexy and he happens to be beautiful.

[@iCanHasCoolUsername]

I try to remember to call my boyfriend handsome and sexy. He’s such a beautiful person inside and out. He doesn’t talk too much about how he feels about his appearance, but I still try to remind him how I feel about it. 😛😉 I know I don’t always feel good about mine, there’s so much I don’t like and wish I could change. But when he calls me beautiful all of the insecurity leaves my mind. I hope that someday I’ll look in the mirror and stop thinking about my flaws, and instead think of how beautiful he makes me feel. 🙂

[@kaitjonyl]

iCanHasCoolUsername you are beautiful, NO matter what! Always remember that! 💜

[@angelapalmer6782]

iCanHasCoolUsername Girl, love the hell out of that man! He is a rarity hold on to him!

[@i.c.3300]

You are the most beautiful person! I was smiling through the whole video. It made my day!

[@sashaj.8465]

How did this get any thumps downs??? Excellent words of wisdom.

[@DocSpice]

Oh the sexy discussion was fabulous. I suffered from horrendous bullying all through my schooling for being a curvy girl - by no means overweight - then I got sick and my thyroid stopped working and the weight came. Add to that a long list of other issues my self image took a beating. I've got a little belly and my first partner loved the way my under boob rib area dipped down to my belly. I couldn't understand it at age 24, but now at age 40 I regret how I looked at myself and what he loved. My body has got me through 48 surgeries, it carries my soul and my sensitive heart. You reopened my eyes to sexiness my dear Wayne, I hope you also know that people find you sexy, me included, and I hope you'll find someone with a belly to adore soon! Thank you for being honest - as always.

[@bettyblu8115]

Claire, You are so brave, strong and SO BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! You are a true inspiration.

[@DocSpice]

BettyBlu oh you're gorgeous! This comment made my week, thank you. Xx

[@tinkergirlable]

I wanted to thank you. I have someone that is much younger than me that tells me how sexy and attractive I am. I don't find myself that way I am cruel to myself and say I'm fat old mom. Who wants this. And he tells me that's for me to decide. It feels nice to have someone tell me how sexy I am. He says how I carry myself with such confidence and how I look put together always is what's most attractive. You just made me feel like he's not bull$hitting me. And he really does find me attractive and sexy. Thank you! Truly Wayne. I appreciate your videos lately. They have touched base with me so many times lately. And I always forget to comment. But tonight I felt the need to thank you. With tears in my eyes and hope in my heart that just maybe I won't be alone forever.

[@amberl3305]

Brandy Scanlan your comment made me tear up. I hope you are well darling! Your pic looks beautiful, but your post was truly the best.

[@lukybell3693]

This almost made me cry....not quite but almost. The reason being; to shed tears for something so beautiful and true would almost be insulting, well...to a point. I won't bore you with my story of what life has handed to me...what I will say though is that, when you xo, Mr Goss speak, you speak with integrity, with honour and LOVE. And you speak to me, in the sense that, I follow what you are saying...beauty is from within, not just from the core, but from the MIND.... the SOUL .... the HEART.... THE ESSENCE. I watch your videos on a regular basis...I take from them...what I need....and between your advice and my old girl lol "wisdom" find quite a lovely balance...I've gone from.... ohhh gosh no can't be that bold..to.... lets be a bit cheeky today... let ME remind ME that the beauty within radiates out.... lol just my blurb ( curtsies....) you my sir are a Knight in shining armour. And I just luv ya to bits for being so xxxxxxxxxx

[@KatieM786]

There is always time to be kind.

[@joryh2550]

I love the man who makes me laugh and smile and Yes Wayne you’re Shexy 😏😂❤️❤️❤️

[@MsRedonyx]

I"ve discovered your tutorials by pure accident and instantly fell in love with you! You are witty, entertaining and down to earth human being! I hope life is treating you well. Cheers! 💝

[@arieslady5096]

This is my second time commenting on one of your videos all this time I've been watching. This is one excellent video that I definitely myself needed today and I'm sure many others needed. It's nice to see some of my favorite KZbinrs doing some very interesting content. I myself haven't been feeling like myself lately I was in a very bad car accident 6 weeks ago broke multiple ribs fractured my nose that left a scar on my face and also shattered my right ankle requiring nasal reconstructive surgery and Ankle surgery with plates and screws . Luckily I was wearing my seatbelt but it left a 3in scar in my hip . The seatbelt is what saved my life and I am grateful to be alive , it's very hard to maintain the usual me which I am one of those that likes to do makeup everyday and do my hair and not being able to do that lately has not made me feel beautiful . After watching this beauty comes from within side This was fantastic thank you! Just a side note : I sure hope this makes the trending list because I think everybody can benefit from this video ❤

[@ericaf2024]

Maryann mmr keep your spirits up!! Wishing you a swift recovery! Much love ❤️✌🏻

[@jlanaro06]

Wayne I was having a really bad day and I came across this video and it really helped me. I watched it multiple times. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@82742518]

I think this is one of the best videos you’ve made. I agree with you 100%.

[@juliestam]

I was beginning to lose hope that the beauty circuit on YT would always remain product focused and shallow until your video Wayne. Thank you for pointing out that beauty comes from within. My mum always told me but I didn't believe her until I had a family of my own. Now I get ready for me and no one else because I finally figured out that to love others you have to love yourself first.

[@blondekiwi1]

You hit the nail on the head in your reply to Wayne's video, you have to love yourself before others can love you is also what my mum always said to me too and that little saying has been my inspiration for many many years, true beauty is what's on the inside ❤ Sadly we live in society now that that it's ALL about how you look on the outside 😟

[@witheyestosee392]

Thank you for being real, humble and a fabulous mentor . You are a real gem, and such a blessing.

[@Tamra_Bambam]

People would benefit more from this 13 min than hours of beauty tutorials. I adore this man ☺️💙💚

[@amayautumn]

You are so right. Especially about being kind. Some of the most beautiful people are mean and it's so hard to see their beauty.

[@Anna-nr5il]

Wayna you're my favorite makeup artist. 💜

[@carolmarr6607]

Thank you you are right be kind and loving is the most beautiful advice for all.

[@rspranchinmontana]

Ah, sweet Wayne.... this is probably, by far, the greatest video ever posted. So much attention is given to the 'perfect' body, face, hair, nails.... and it makes up such a TINY portion of what others perceive on us as 'beautiful.' Thank you for empowering so may people to find beauty in simplicity, KINDNESS, and inner joy. Thank you friend.

[@asparklylife3965]

As the saying goes... Beauty on the outside fades, but beauty on the inside is forever. Great video, Wayne. :)

[@NoName-mm6gh]

Moonlight Serenity 😕😂😂the clichés. No one cares about livers and guts

[@truthfulbeauty6491]

I love Wayne Goss!!! He is totally honest and he definitely knows about makeup. He is the only one I watch.

[@lovingglam4565]

Fantastic messages throughout. Beauty is confidence in whatever way you chose to express it. Confidence NOT egotism, big difference. Kindness is SO attractive too. Thank you for these words of wisdom. Especially great for young people to read.

[@lisa.m.9692]

This video gives me so much confidence, thank you Wayne 😊😋

[@bbmmbbmm7851]

Lisa Lisa I totally agree with you. What an uplifting video. I loved it, from the beginning to the end.

[@bbmmbbmm7851]

Lisa Sorry for the extra lisa.

[@jennycrystls9520]

I want you to know I was feeling so sad about having work tomorrow then I decided to watch this video and you have really cheered me up. You're just so lovely and pleasant and your positive energy just radiates.

[@stellavargas8821]

Thank you for posting this video. I need to hear this message right now. Nasty day @ work, thank god i was able to maintain my composure and be kind and exit gracefully.

[@JDEVINCI]

We are all beautiful. But True Beauty comes from the heart!

[@Koffkathecat]

I LOVE YOU! THANK YOU SO SO SO SO MUCH!!!!

[@lisasawyer1793]

best video I have watched on tube for a long time...... thanks Wayne xx

[@CarlaCashOutLoud]

There is nothing more beautiful than kindness. And you, Wayne, always spread love and kindness in each video. Thank you for reminding me to give a sh*t more - lately I've been slacking due to health issues. You are so right - I feel better when I put myself together. It's time to get my sassy sexy self back - and you always inspire me. Love this and love you, you sexy beast 😄 - xx, Carla from 2 Real Chicks

[@cherylemmanuel744]

Just subscribed to you - I hope your health gets better.

[@amyheath5170]

HumanKind = be both.......... This is why I adore you Mr. Goss.... You are beautiful.

[@pheart2381]

I havnt got a partner,but i chose my new rescue cat because he was so friendly. I didnt notice his crumpled ear until it was pointed out to me,but i was already smitten by then.

[@lorrilewis2178]

Awwww. Sweet.

[@michellemichelle6546]

You are good person so sweet luv the thing u said about ur cat They're amazing!

[@briarrose5208]

"Imperfections" don't negate beauty.

[@dawna4185]

awwwwwwww

[@Katie_Woo]

my rescue cat that passed away was my little buddy, he had a meow that sounded like a smokers cough and used to bunny hop through the snow and he was the size of a scottie dog with big paws to match and i loved him- he was perfect in my eyes (miss you Tink)

[@PuffTheMagicDragon86]

Exactly! Now I bloody love makeup. Been doing it for years I love the artistry how it transforms people. But there used to be a time where makeup didn't exist, and there were plenty of beautiful women back then that were totally sexy inside and out. At the end of the day if you rely upon makeup 100% of the time, there's going to be a time where you won't be able to do the same looks or maybe you won't get to wear it at all and you have to be comfortable with yourself. If you're worried your partner will think you're ugly without it, well get another partner because it all comes off at the end of the day (And it has to!) You're all beautiful.

[@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800]

I think what you’re talking about used to be called dignity.

[@alyssagaul5584]

You’re awesome Wayne! Love you ❤️

[@3grls3typecurls]

This video was more helpful than you will ever know. Thank you so much!

[@Deeceeha]

I have just come across this video, I think it's the best and most touching one that I have ever watched. It struck a cord and spoke to my soul, and by all the previous comments so many other people feel the same way. Respect to you Wayne, you are a legend. xx

[@Becizzle]

Thank you for this video. I'm a mom of a two year old and I really stopped giving a shit after he turned 6 months. But lately I've found joy in make up again. My body does not look the same and I hated it but now I'm learning to love my body. I'm trying to dress up again (although on a budget). My husband loves me and my curves but I've pushed him away because I felt gross. I will hold him closer now and show him affection. You really reminded me of what's important and making myself and my husband feel special. Yeah I'm a mom but I'm a sexy woman too.

[@kaitjonyl]

Becizzle YES YOU ARE! 😊 A sexy mom at that! You are beautiful no matter what changes pregnancy did to your body! Pregnancy is a beautiful thing! We earned those stripes! 😊💜

[@deboraho6779]

Thanks Wayne for this video! It’s important to have such a video! People are so harsh on themselves. Always attempting to look like those stick thin Amazonian models in a glossy magazine. But, true beauty goes far beyond makeup and stick thin figures. Kindness, humor, authenticity and uniqueness. All these great things you touched on are truly what makes a person their best! Thank you again!🤗💗💋👍🏼

[@katherinebadriyeh3966]

Beautiful video. Wayne, you are so unique because you are so up front about love and kindness. I love it. So comforting,

[@moonglitch8498]

You are the most important voice in the beauty community

[@septemberrayne90069]

VERY WELL SAID. 💪👍 I hope more see this video. You are one beautiful person with a gentle and kind soul. 💄💋 Every human is beautiful. Imperfections make us perfect. I love my little tummy pooch. Anyone can have a beautiful body and face but some don't possess a beautiful heart.

[@dzingunyte]

Thank you, Wayne. We need genuine people like you more.

[@ginajohnson8424]

You are an angel sent from above! You are beautiful, inside and out!