The beach trip analogy is so relatable! It makes me want to focus on creating positive peaks in my day-to-day life.
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
right?? so many of us have that exact beach story! ;)
@logan-steele Жыл бұрын
It's always heartwarming to hear about teachers who go above and beyond to make a difference in their students lives. 💜💜
@taniagill467311 ай бұрын
Agreed ❤
@carlasteadman11 ай бұрын
It's lovely and sadly something that's getting rarer and rarer.
@logan-steele11 ай бұрын
@@carlasteadman What do you mean?
@rubyguil462211 ай бұрын
"Life is short, live the fantasy" - those words hit differently. A powerful reminder to chase our dreams and not get caught up in the daily grind. Thanks for the motivation!
@anonisanonymous11 ай бұрын
Yup, I'm all for living the fantasy
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
Those words hit me hard too when I heard them. Keep going, my friend.
@phyllismknapp60382 ай бұрын
Yes! It's so easy to allow ourselves to get boxed in, we need reminders like this!!
@TheFirstSocialScoop9 ай бұрын
"Life is short. Live the fantasy." Thank you for that take home message - it's easy to forget how short life is.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan9 ай бұрын
Haha yup I loved this! I'm all about the fantasy life
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
This was one of the key moments of my life, so far. I'm encouraged to hear that it resonated with you too. Keep going, my friend.
@Flipflopflipflop2 ай бұрын
@@IAmTheRealMagicMan 😂😂😂😂
@orlaithhill10 ай бұрын
This is the kind of knowledge that fuels people to be kinder to one another
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
Great takeaway. Keep going. Thanks!
@nelsonpierse8 ай бұрын
This talk highlights the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and empathetic listening in making a lasting impression and it's great to see these values being emphasized in both personal and professional contexts.
@sophiachandler46628 ай бұрын
I think so too, if we're always being authentic then our "unseen reputation" builds itself up
@nelsonpierse7 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 true!!
@phyllismknapp60382 ай бұрын
agreed, we can only hope it catches on and more people listen with empathy!
@AlienCruise5 ай бұрын
Miss Connor's story was so inspiring. It's amazing how one small act of kindness can have such a huge ripple effect.
@SingularDesire5 ай бұрын
For sure but I would argue that in her case it's not just one simple act of kindness but a whole bunch of ongoing behavior that made her so memorable in that community
@makeitso101711 ай бұрын
Jeff's story about his CEO's vulnerability is inspiring. It's a testament to the impact a sincere moment can have on a relationship. Truly touching.
@logan-steele11 ай бұрын
Definitely, those kinds of make a huge difference in how you perceive someone
@duncanboone82266 ай бұрын
The insights on unseen reputation really hit home. It's not just about what we show to the world, but the small, genuine interactions that define us. Makes you think about your daily actions differently.
@nae31855 ай бұрын
Yup this stuck out to me as well, and it's so true whenever I think about other people it's always the little things they've shown me that stick out
@lucasyjester2 ай бұрын
I think so too.. it's interesting to think of the little ripples we're leaving on other peoples lives
@taniagill467311 ай бұрын
If only all teachers could show that level of kindness and understanding ❤
@logan-steele11 ай бұрын
I like to think that most of them do. This was just an opportunity for someone to go above and beyond
@anonisanonymous11 ай бұрын
@@logan-steele Maybe you should think again. Were all your teachers this nice during school?
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
Totally agree. Thanks!
@luisasanchez55329 ай бұрын
Empathetic listening should be an essential skill we all try and master, helping us improve our relationships and creating a lasting impression.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan9 ай бұрын
I agree! As someone who really benefited from just a little extra care I know how much it helps and it would be wonderful if we saw that in our peers and community instead of just an extra perceptive teacher or two if you're lucky while growing up
@bobskillings11310 ай бұрын
"Life is short, live the fantasy" - damm straight! Time to chase those dreams, no holding back.
@dannyduncduncan10 ай бұрын
NIce!
@toxic-head-shot8 ай бұрын
The stuff about unseen reputation really resonates. It's a powerful reminder that our actions, especially when we think no one's watching, define us more than anything we put on social media.
@sophiachandler46628 ай бұрын
Yes!! This is something that really struck me as well
@sophiachandler46628 ай бұрын
So easy to act a certain way when people are watching but who we are during all the other time is just as important
@toxic-head-shot8 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 fr... also important for us to know who we are and that we're acting authentically
@colincampbell50687 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 Yeah see it's weird for me to think that people could act so differently when people are around than just how they are
@colincampbell50687 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 Like why aren't you just being who you are all the time?
@mindsetmanager8 ай бұрын
The analogy of the beach trip really resonated with me. It's a great reminder to cherish the positive moments and not let the little hiccups overshadow the experience.
@sophiachandler46628 ай бұрын
Definitely, I think this is a powerful thing to remember in your day-to-day
@Flipflopflipflop2 ай бұрын
that's a valuable lesson for sure
@bencycaitlin6 ай бұрын
Authenticity and vulnerability are so underrated in terms of building rapport. I think this talk really shows their power quite beautifully, not just for ourselves to live more happily but for how other people perceive and feel about us too.
@rapid-transit6 ай бұрын
I'd honestly not realized that's what it was about
@AngelInfinity10 ай бұрын
Empathetic listening as a cognitive superpower is such a beautiful idea. It's not just about hearing words but understanding the emotions behind them and making that person feel seen. I think that could do wonders for a lot of fronts on which we are currently struggling
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
I agree with you!
@chasesevern72245 ай бұрын
Hearing about Miss Connor and the way she helped that little girl makes me want to strive for greater kindness and understanding in my own life.
@evanesterneg7 ай бұрын
The analogy with the beach trip really resonates with me. It's a beautiful reminder to cherish the moments that matter most and not sweat the small stuff.
@stanforeman39513 ай бұрын
The concept of meaningful emotional surprise is something I've never considered before, but it makes so much sense. I'm definitely gonna try to incorporate this into my daily interactions, both at work and in my personal life. Might be a game-changer for building stronger relationships.
@eva-singer10 ай бұрын
Meaningful emotional surprise is such a captivating concept. It makes me think about how I can infuse more emotion into my interactions and create some lasting memories.
@ImgurNow10 ай бұрын
It honestly sounds exhausting to me
@dannyduncduncan10 ай бұрын
Same yeah this a moment that resonated for me as well
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Thank you, so much!
@phyllismknapp60382 ай бұрын
@@ImgurNow what part of it is exhausting?
@IAmTheRealMagicMan9 ай бұрын
The story of Miss Connor got me thinking about the teachers I had who went the extra mile for a shy anxious child and the difference it made to my life. Honestly learnt so much beyond the standard stuff during school because they took the time and thought I was worth it. That's pretty special.
@lucasyjester2 ай бұрын
That is really special, and lucky. Not the same experience for a lot of people
@MichooseCherisol-tx8ns10 ай бұрын
Shia miss Connors sounds like a superhero for tat anxious little girl!super heartwarming stuff
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Yes, a real life Superhero!
@geemaleishere6 ай бұрын
Vulnerability as a strength is a concept worth embracing. It shows that being open and genuine can lead to deeper connections and mutual understanding, lots of good stuff within that.
@rapid-transit6 ай бұрын
I can see how it leads there but actually doing those things is not so easy
@geemaleishere6 ай бұрын
@@rapid-transit this is true
@lucasyjester2 ай бұрын
@@rapid-transit i think it gets easier the more you do it
@natalyaguilerafigueroa4 ай бұрын
This talk has me thinking about my own "Mrs. Connor" growing up. Shout out to all the unsung heroes out there quietly making a difference in people's lives!
@keilholtzj4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your thoughtful comments!
@rangerstv6025 ай бұрын
This talk made me realize how often I'm only half-present in convos, especially with loved ones. Time to step up my active listening game!
@anonisanonymous11 ай бұрын
Miss Connor's act of kindness is a prime example of the impact of small, intentional actions. It's a reminder that we all have the power to make a positive difference, even in seemingly ordinary situations.
@margaretstrom10 ай бұрын
Absolutely. It reminds me of all those time travel movies like, make sure you don't do anything that'll affect the sequence of events... why don't we have that level of care towards our lives? It's the same principle.
@Flipflopflipflop2 ай бұрын
yeah I like that part too, the small intentional things that we do that make such an impact on others
@justinesaxenn8 ай бұрын
Life is short, live the fantasy" - a mantra worth embracing. It encourages us to pursue our dreams and not be held back by perceived limitations.
@thisisjustright8 ай бұрын
definitely a cool way to think of things
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
My god. It's so true. Keep going, my friend!
@vivianacorinacabarcaherrera Жыл бұрын
Aww, the story about Miss Connor really touched my heart. it's amazing how a small act of kindness can have such a lasting impact.
@logan-steele11 ай бұрын
Absolutely, especially coming from a teacher when you're a child
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
@@logan-steele thanks, so much, for watching. ms. connor is incredible, right??
@elviragabriele4 ай бұрын
yeah I feel like that's something that kid will remember forever
@lucasyjester2 ай бұрын
it's a really beautiful story
@carlasteadman11 ай бұрын
I love the analogy with the beach trip! It's true; we tend to remember the peaks and surprises in life more than the everyday routine. Gotta make those moments count!
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
The beach trip. We all know it!
@DeliriousGentleman10 ай бұрын
It's very heartening to know there are still educators like Miss Connor out in the world 💖
@margaretstrom10 ай бұрын
I think so too, hopefully with all the awareness this new generation seems to have there'll be a lot more coming
@ImgurNow10 ай бұрын
@@margaretstrom Well that's a backhanded statement if ever I've heard one
@kcon530710 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words!
@AngelInfinity10 ай бұрын
@@ImgurNow how is it a backhanded statement? I read it as being pretty sincere and positive
@SmartThrill7 ай бұрын
It's amazing how much impact one teacher had. Miss Connor is goals.
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
"Miss Connor is goals"... I love it!
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
"Miss Connor is goals"... I love it!
@stratulatlucian806411 ай бұрын
Jeff's personal connection to the topic adds a relatable touch. It's nice when speakers share their own experiences - makes the message more authentic.
@shannelnasir22188 ай бұрын
yup that's exactly why they do it
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
@@shannelnasir2218 thanks for the warm words!
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
thanks for the warm words!
@iamtherealdeal8 ай бұрын
Miss Connor’s story was so inspiring! Makes you think about the small things we do.
@Take-Away-Step5 ай бұрын
Making another person feel seen and heard is the greatest thing you can do in life, it's like reassuring someone that they matter. That's huge.
@beckyfrensill5 ай бұрын
Such a lovely way to think of it! And yes at the end of the day I think that's all any of us want to feel, like we matter
@msamymorin8 ай бұрын
This talk is a great reminder to practice empathy in our daily interactions.
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Many thanks!
@snakejohnson274010 ай бұрын
The concept of unseen reputation is lowkey mind-bending. It's like our vibes are leaving a trail wherever we go.
@AngelInfinity10 ай бұрын
Hahaha yeah that's a great way to put it
@dannyduncduncan10 ай бұрын
LOL not how I would think of it but definitely true!
@duncanboone82266 ай бұрын
Well trust a snake to think of it that way haha!
@elviragabriele4 ай бұрын
hahah aura baby!
@TheRealShinedownShimmy10 ай бұрын
Whoa, Miss Connor sounds like a superhero for that anxious little girl! Super heartwarming stuff
@AngelInfinity10 ай бұрын
Yeah definitely a lovely part of the story
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
As a dad, my jaw dropped when my wife told me what happened. Meaningful emotional surprise is all around us. It was incredible to hear about this, particular, example. Keep going, my friend!
@JawanJackson Жыл бұрын
A fascinating point of view. I know that saying things with meaning is important, but being intentional about the element of surprise is a concept I never considered before. A marvelous talk!
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
thanks, so much, for your lovely words!
@morefunallthetime3 ай бұрын
The talk got me thinking about the ripple effects of our actions. Like how Miss Connor's kindness not only impacted that little girl but also all the parents who heard about it. It's really good motivation for staying kind and compassionate ❤
@thekaylaconner Жыл бұрын
Such a tremendous honor to have been mentioned in something so important to you! I’ll forever be grateful for your family! 🩷
@be-present-now9 ай бұрын
Jeff's vulnerability story is a powerful reminder that authenticity can transform relationships. It takes courage to open up, but the results can be life-changing.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan9 ай бұрын
It absolutely does but if we know that we're doing it with empathetic people who will listen gently with compassion then the risk is less than the reward
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Thanks, so much. Keep going!
@forsaken-lover950810 ай бұрын
This talk made me pause and reflect on how I can leave a lasting impression in my interactions. Thanks for the thought-provoking insights!
@ZeekKingdom5 ай бұрын
he is a natural storyteller - I was hanging on every word. Feels like I just took a masterclass in making an impact!
@anndibsdale5 ай бұрын
Yeah he had me pretty captivated too!
@beckyfrensill5 ай бұрын
Well HE definitely made an impact that's for sure
@FlipTheVirus5 ай бұрын
I'm gonna start a "meaningful emotional surprise" jar - every time I create a positive moment for someone, I'll add a little note. Can't wait to watch it fill up!
@phyllismknapp60382 ай бұрын
but how will you know you've created that moment for them?
@nae31855 ай бұрын
I love that he gave some concrete tips I can actually use - empathetic listening, vulnerability, authenticity. Gonna put those into practice ASAP.
@ZeekKingdom5 ай бұрын
Same! Super helpful
@SingularDesire5 ай бұрын
Definitely he backed it up with a lot of solid facts too
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Keep going, my friend!
@lucasyjester2 ай бұрын
Yeah I hate the talks where people just go on about their experience and it's like how is that relevant to me?
@themessimadetoday9 ай бұрын
The connection between lasting impressions and the unseen reputation is so intriguing. It's like crafting a personal brand through our daily interactions.
@duncanboone82266 ай бұрын
that's an interesting way to put it, about the personal branding, it's very true though especially with the way commerce is going these days
@katyabradova10 ай бұрын
Listening to this, I couldn't help but think about the teachers who made a difference in my life. It's just not about the teaching, it's the way they truly saw me hey, took the time to understand. Really does mean the world to a child!
@rapid-transit6 ай бұрын
definitely my mind went there as well
@lucasyjester2 ай бұрын
That's really incredible that you had that experience with multiple teachers too
@rapid-transit6 ай бұрын
I've always thought networking was about social media connections, but this talk shows it's much deeper... to think it's about emotional and authentic interactions leaving a lasting memory really flips everything on its head
@raylinduke96455 ай бұрын
As someone who's been on both sides of the job interview table, I can confirm - emotional surprises definitely make a lasting impression!
@dannyduncduncan10 ай бұрын
Jeff's CEO moment illustrates the power of sincere acknowledgment. It's not just about the work; it's about recognizing the human behind the role.
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
Thank you, my friend. Keep going!
@micdaskel33139 ай бұрын
Man, I wish I had a teacher like Miss Connor when I was in school. Growing up, I struggled a lot with anxiety, and having someone like her who understands and cares makes all the difference.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan9 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear you never got that... but it's not too late to seek out some kind of mentor or friend who can still provide that for you
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
Me too -- on all accounts. Keep going!
@astridableman Жыл бұрын
Vulnerability as a strength - I needed to hear that today. It's refreshing to know that being open and honest can lead to stronger relationships. Thanks for the encouragement!
@taniagill467311 ай бұрын
I've always thought this way but sometimes you get torn down and pushed around so much you need a little reminder!
@anonisanonymous11 ай бұрын
It can but it's hard work.
@anonisanonymous11 ай бұрын
Emotionally, I mean
@valteradnan10 ай бұрын
The peak and end rule got me thinking about the memorable moments in my life. It's fascinating how our brains evaluate experiences based on emotional intensity.
@dannyduncduncan10 ай бұрын
It is fascinating! Makes a lot of sense though the way he broke it down
@williamsmythe6 ай бұрын
The concept of "emotional surprise" and how it can be used to forge stronger, more memorable connections is pretty cool and it's nice to think that we can leave such a positive impact on people
@ZeekKingdom5 ай бұрын
definitely, and it's very true about how much you remember those moments and how people have made you feel
@Flipflopflipflop2 ай бұрын
It is a nice thought but it seems a bit more difficult to actually achieve that
@sophiachandler46628 ай бұрын
The concept of unseen reputation is something everyone should learn about
@colincampbell50687 ай бұрын
Yeah I think most people understand this concept though like inherently
@chandrazu1085 Жыл бұрын
I've never thought about the concept of "lasting impressions" in terms of job hunting. The ripple effect of our social network is something to consider. Good insight!
@taniagill467311 ай бұрын
Really?
@RavishingDamsel3 ай бұрын
This talk has inspired me to be more intentional in my everyday interactions. I often go through the motions, especially with people I see regularly, but now I'm thinking about how I can create more meaningful moments and leave positive lasting impressions.
@therealcadenceflow10 ай бұрын
Authenticity creating oxytocin is like a social chemistry lesson. Keep it real for those bonding vibes.
@ivanahelenka Жыл бұрын
Lash bulb memory is a new term for me. Yes there are moments etched in all our memories because of the emotions attached to them.
@colincampbell50687 ай бұрын
It's fascinating how he bridges the gap between art and business to teach us about lasting impressions. The analogy to performing arts makes it so relatable and impactful.
@leotencall7 ай бұрын
The moment he had with his CEO as he was leaving was really poignant... I know exactly how much that would have meant to him and the fact that Jeff took that chance to be vulnerable is really commendable! Glad it was met with such a positive response.
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Thanks, so much. Keep going, my friend!
@MatterMonkey10 ай бұрын
When we go the extra mile in our interactions with others because we care about them, it will be remembered.
@katyabradova10 ай бұрын
Yes, absolutely, people can feel that
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
@@katyabradovakeep going, my friend!
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Totally agree!
@rooseveltmartens991811 ай бұрын
The mention of oxytocin and its role in social bonding adds a scientific touch to the importance of authenticity. Fascinating stuff!
@margaretstrom10 ай бұрын
Yes!! This was super interesting
@belloarturo6 ай бұрын
I really love what he says about emotional surprise and meaning. It makes a lot of sense for creating lasting impressions but for me personally it also speaks to how you can create meaningful peaks throughout your life and within that moments to be cherished and remembered.
@bencycaitlin6 ай бұрын
Mmmm now that is interesting too!
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Thanks, so much. Keep going!
@umadelecois5 ай бұрын
I never thought a talk about making lasting impressions would resonate with me so much. But here we are! Guess it just proves his point.
@Flipflopflipflop5 ай бұрын
As a fellow parent, I felt the tips on empathetic listening with kids deep in my soul. Definitely gonna work on that.
@iamajuxtaposition10 ай бұрын
Maya Angelou was spot on when she said people will always remember how you make them feel. They will take away the feeling of being seen and heard.
@teddybearlemaire10 ай бұрын
Lasting Impressions as snapshots of our sensory DNA? That's some deep poetic wisdom right there.
@anndibsdale5 ай бұрын
I don't know about deep poetic wisdom but it definitely made something click in my brain
@blueangel79986 ай бұрын
Hearing about Miss Connor warmed my heart ❤
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Me too!
@shanteydevers Жыл бұрын
Miss Connor's approach is so rare these days. We're often caught up in our busy lives, but this presentation is a wake-up call. It's the small, intentional actions that make a lasting difference.
@bcacres9837 Жыл бұрын
Is it? I'm sorry I don't know what the standard of teachers is like nowadays if just showing empathy and kindness is held in such high esteem.
@shastadeed Жыл бұрын
@@bcacres9837 I think it's more so that she got on the bus and - apparently - went all the way home with her
@kcon530710 ай бұрын
You’re incredibly lucky to have experienced so many amazing teachers 🩷 I wish every student was able to experience the same!
@shannelnasir22188 ай бұрын
@@bcacres9837 Yeah I had the same thought! Like sure it's been a minute since I was in school lol but I feel like that's just a basic kindness right?
@shannelnasir22188 ай бұрын
@@shastadeed Ahh okay I guess
@waltersiegismund10 ай бұрын
Miss Connor's selfless act with the anxious little girl is a beautiful example of empathy in action. It's a reminder to approach others with kindness and understanding.
@shannelnasir22188 ай бұрын
Absolutely, it's kind of what you'd expect from any teacher though tbh
@elviragabriele4 ай бұрын
@@shannelnasir2218 really? you've got a pretty idealistic impression of teachers then lol
@waltersiegismund4 ай бұрын
@@shannelnasir2218 I think it's what you'd _hope_ for from a teacher
@waltersiegismund4 ай бұрын
@@elviragabriele I mean in a perfect world, sadly teachers are so burnt out and struggling it's easy to understand why most wouldn't have the energy for that situation
@regissanford71046 ай бұрын
The blend of personal stories with actionable insights in this talk was perfect.
@elviragabriele4 ай бұрын
was definitely a great mix
@DreamFestForMe4 ай бұрын
The story about his boss at the end was powerful. It shows how a single vulnerable moment can completely transform a relationship. Makes me wonder how many opportunities I've missed to connect with others on a deeper level.
@marktferris9 ай бұрын
Miss Connor is an inspiring example for all of us to remember to be humble and empathetic.
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
I totally agree. Thanks for listening!
@Therealspence5 ай бұрын
I'm feeling inspired to go out and make someone's day. Even small gestures can mean the world to people.
@why-why-why-why111 ай бұрын
The comparison between stage/screen and real-life interactions is spot on. It's a unique opportunity to create lasting impressions daily. Let's make each moment count!
@rubyguil462211 ай бұрын
Yeah I found that part really interesting!
@raejenson6 ай бұрын
Love that all of this is geared towards positive, lasting impressions
@bencycaitlin6 ай бұрын
same! would be awesome if that's how everyone wanted to impact one another
@blaircailean5 ай бұрын
"Our unseen reputation is how we actually make people feel" - let that sink in. Really makes you think about the energy you're putting out there.
@UnforgivingSpleen8 ай бұрын
Making every interaction count seems like very worthy challenge!
@colincampbell50687 ай бұрын
Love that
@PostNowIMeanNow8 ай бұрын
The Miss Connor story was deeply touching. It shows how genuine kindness can ripple through a community and ultimately change lives.
@keilholtzj6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words!
@duncanboone82266 ай бұрын
I think that's going a bit far I mean sure she may have impacted that kids life and made things a little more bearable for her but maybe not the community as a whole. Like there is a limit to how much personal affect can change
@lyndsayramster3 ай бұрын
I liked how he broke down creating lasting impressions into three main points. It makes it feel more doable, ya know? gonna try to focus on one at a time and see if I can improve my interactions.
@hortonm5545 ай бұрын
This talk really got me thinking about how I interact with people. I'm gonna start trying to create more meaningful emotional moments in my daily life.
@beckyfrensill5 ай бұрын
Same that term really made something click in my mind!
@CindySmall-np5tt Жыл бұрын
Fabulous! I love the real like connection to a teacher. It’s a perfect example of what it means to leave a lasting impression!!
@hirominakahara22858 ай бұрын
The comparison between stage/screen and real-life interactions is a perspective shift. It's a privilege to create lasting impressions every day in our personal and professional lives.
@Steven-Francis6 ай бұрын
Vulnerability as a strength is a concept worth embracing for sure. It is always such a surprising moment when someone takes that chance with you and the examples Jeff gives really show how being open and genuine can lead to deeper connections
@kashaiq3 ай бұрын
Loved the story about him saying goodbye to his boss... it's easy to think that we don't matter to people as much as we actually do. I wonder why we do that?
@lucasyjester3 ай бұрын
This talk is a great reminder that our actions can have far-reaching consequences we might never even know about.
@FollowedFriends3 ай бұрын
the way he described Miss Connor's impact on that anxious little girl reminded me of a teacher I had in middle school who went above and beyond. It's amazing how small acts of kindness can have such a lasting effect.
@thekaylaconner2 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear you had such an amazing experience in school ❤🎉 I hope you’re doing well today!
@kotakgmasuk6 ай бұрын
Authenticity creating oxytocin is such an interesting concept... it makes sense of how powerful those moments are when you finally feel like you've found safe places/people to be yourself around
@nae31855 ай бұрын
So true! Yeah I was kind of blown away by that fact
@SingularDesire5 ай бұрын
Definitely that was where my thoughts went as well, like how good it feels when you have a d&m with someone
@anndibsdale5 ай бұрын
Yeah for sure I always thought those moment were just from being a bit heightened but hearing it actually positively affects our brain chemistry was crazy
@ShannonShoemaker-t1y Жыл бұрын
Lasting impressions are so much more important than first impressions...emotional engagement is key. Thank you for these connections!
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
I totally agree!
@NickAdams-n7s Жыл бұрын
I love the story about the teacher -- inspiring!!
@thekaylaconner Жыл бұрын
My littles are my biggest accomplishment! ❤
@elviragabriele Жыл бұрын
The part about vulnerability really resonated with me. It takes courage to open up, but the connections that are formed are so worth it!
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
For sure -- I agree!
@jackrouse1987 Жыл бұрын
The story about the cousin's widow giving advice was powerful. Authenticity really shines through in unexpected moments. A reminder to embrace the fantasy and live life to the fullest
@alicemonay Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it's the times where you know there's no faking it
@taniagill467311 ай бұрын
I think so too, this was a really nice moment
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@phyllismknapp6038 Жыл бұрын
Empathetical listening is indeed a superpower. In my experience most people want to interrupt you with their story, which is bigger and better than yours thereby make you feel invisible.
@bcacres9837 Жыл бұрын
Maybe if you didn't use made up words people would want to listen to you more
@phyllismknapp60382 ай бұрын
@@bcacres9837 wow that is rude
@phyllismknapp60382 ай бұрын
@@bcacres9837 and what words have I used that are "made up" ??
@pascaldegarde6756 Жыл бұрын
That story about vulnerability hit home and really rings true for me, being open and genuine can create powerful connections
@shastadeed Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it makes you way more relatable and people will feel safer being vulnerable with you... so many benefits.
@carlasteadman11 ай бұрын
Yes! You have to just put yourself out there and be afraid of the outcome
@urdadiam10 ай бұрын
I agree, this made a lot of sense to me and had me thinking about how I can be more present
@urdadiam10 ай бұрын
Do you mean, NOT be afraid of the outcome?@@carlasteadman
@keilholtzj5 ай бұрын
Thanks, my friend. Keep going!
@annemery8852 сағат бұрын
That example of how Miss Connor helped that little girl was such a beautiful reminder of the power of empathy and the way people value that
@jenniferkeilholtz1802 Жыл бұрын
Meaningful Emotional Surprise....what a wonderful way to give language to lasting impressions we can't always identify. ❤
@itscricketworld1651 Жыл бұрын
😊 lololol
@kannappank8778 Жыл бұрын
@@itscricketworld1651p😊😊
@kannappank8778 Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊
@X-e-n-t-r-i-x7 ай бұрын
The speaker’s advice on how to be memorable is genuinely useful.
@abradisme4 ай бұрын
gotta say, the part about our unseen reputation really got me thinking. like, we're always so focused on our online presence and what we show the world, but it's those behind-the-scenes moments that really define us.
@christopherccooper3 ай бұрын
The flashbulb memory concept is spot on. It's crazy how vividly I can recall certain moments, like when I heard about 9/11 or other major events. Never knew there was a term for it, but it totally makes sense how strong emotions can create such lasting memories.
@Flipflopflipflop2 ай бұрын
definitely, you always remember the impact and not what happened before or after