How To Make A Lasting Impression | Jeffery Keilholtz | TEDxRockville

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@salsadevrees
@salsadevrees 11 ай бұрын
The beach trip analogy is so relatable! It makes me want to focus on creating positive peaks in my day-to-day life.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
right?? so many of us have that exact beach story! ;)
@logan-steele
@logan-steele Жыл бұрын
It's always heartwarming to hear about teachers who go above and beyond to make a difference in their students lives. 💜💜
@taniagill4673
@taniagill4673 11 ай бұрын
Agreed ❤
@carlasteadman
@carlasteadman 11 ай бұрын
It's lovely and sadly something that's getting rarer and rarer.
@logan-steele
@logan-steele 11 ай бұрын
@@carlasteadman What do you mean?
@rubyguil4622
@rubyguil4622 11 ай бұрын
"Life is short, live the fantasy" - those words hit differently. A powerful reminder to chase our dreams and not get caught up in the daily grind. Thanks for the motivation!
@anonisanonymous
@anonisanonymous 11 ай бұрын
Yup, I'm all for living the fantasy
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
Those words hit me hard too when I heard them. Keep going, my friend.
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 2 ай бұрын
Yes! It's so easy to allow ourselves to get boxed in, we need reminders like this!!
@TheFirstSocialScoop
@TheFirstSocialScoop 9 ай бұрын
"Life is short. Live the fantasy." Thank you for that take home message - it's easy to forget how short life is.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan
@IAmTheRealMagicMan 9 ай бұрын
Haha yup I loved this! I'm all about the fantasy life
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
This was one of the key moments of my life, so far. I'm encouraged to hear that it resonated with you too. Keep going, my friend.
@Flipflopflipflop
@Flipflopflipflop 2 ай бұрын
@@IAmTheRealMagicMan 😂😂😂😂
@orlaithhill
@orlaithhill 10 ай бұрын
This is the kind of knowledge that fuels people to be kinder to one another
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
Great takeaway. Keep going. Thanks!
@nelsonpierse
@nelsonpierse 8 ай бұрын
This talk highlights the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and empathetic listening in making a lasting impression and it's great to see these values being emphasized in both personal and professional contexts.
@sophiachandler4662
@sophiachandler4662 8 ай бұрын
I think so too, if we're always being authentic then our "unseen reputation" builds itself up
@nelsonpierse
@nelsonpierse 7 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 true!!
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 2 ай бұрын
agreed, we can only hope it catches on and more people listen with empathy!
@AlienCruise
@AlienCruise 5 ай бұрын
Miss Connor's story was so inspiring. It's amazing how one small act of kindness can have such a huge ripple effect.
@SingularDesire
@SingularDesire 5 ай бұрын
For sure but I would argue that in her case it's not just one simple act of kindness but a whole bunch of ongoing behavior that made her so memorable in that community
@makeitso1017
@makeitso1017 11 ай бұрын
Jeff's story about his CEO's vulnerability is inspiring. It's a testament to the impact a sincere moment can have on a relationship. Truly touching.
@logan-steele
@logan-steele 11 ай бұрын
Definitely, those kinds of make a huge difference in how you perceive someone
@duncanboone8226
@duncanboone8226 6 ай бұрын
The insights on unseen reputation really hit home. It's not just about what we show to the world, but the small, genuine interactions that define us. Makes you think about your daily actions differently.
@nae3185
@nae3185 5 ай бұрын
Yup this stuck out to me as well, and it's so true whenever I think about other people it's always the little things they've shown me that stick out
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 2 ай бұрын
I think so too.. it's interesting to think of the little ripples we're leaving on other peoples lives
@taniagill4673
@taniagill4673 11 ай бұрын
If only all teachers could show that level of kindness and understanding ❤
@logan-steele
@logan-steele 11 ай бұрын
I like to think that most of them do. This was just an opportunity for someone to go above and beyond
@anonisanonymous
@anonisanonymous 11 ай бұрын
@@logan-steele Maybe you should think again. Were all your teachers this nice during school?
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
Totally agree. Thanks!
@luisasanchez5532
@luisasanchez5532 9 ай бұрын
Empathetic listening should be an essential skill we all try and master, helping us improve our relationships and creating a lasting impression.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan
@IAmTheRealMagicMan 9 ай бұрын
I agree! As someone who really benefited from just a little extra care I know how much it helps and it would be wonderful if we saw that in our peers and community instead of just an extra perceptive teacher or two if you're lucky while growing up
@bobskillings113
@bobskillings113 10 ай бұрын
"Life is short, live the fantasy" - damm straight! Time to chase those dreams, no holding back.
@dannyduncduncan
@dannyduncduncan 10 ай бұрын
NIce!
@toxic-head-shot
@toxic-head-shot 8 ай бұрын
The stuff about unseen reputation really resonates. It's a powerful reminder that our actions, especially when we think no one's watching, define us more than anything we put on social media.
@sophiachandler4662
@sophiachandler4662 8 ай бұрын
Yes!! This is something that really struck me as well
@sophiachandler4662
@sophiachandler4662 8 ай бұрын
So easy to act a certain way when people are watching but who we are during all the other time is just as important
@toxic-head-shot
@toxic-head-shot 8 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 fr... also important for us to know who we are and that we're acting authentically
@colincampbell5068
@colincampbell5068 7 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 Yeah see it's weird for me to think that people could act so differently when people are around than just how they are
@colincampbell5068
@colincampbell5068 7 ай бұрын
@@sophiachandler4662 Like why aren't you just being who you are all the time?
@mindsetmanager
@mindsetmanager 8 ай бұрын
The analogy of the beach trip really resonated with me. It's a great reminder to cherish the positive moments and not let the little hiccups overshadow the experience.
@sophiachandler4662
@sophiachandler4662 8 ай бұрын
Definitely, I think this is a powerful thing to remember in your day-to-day
@Flipflopflipflop
@Flipflopflipflop 2 ай бұрын
that's a valuable lesson for sure
@bencycaitlin
@bencycaitlin 6 ай бұрын
Authenticity and vulnerability are so underrated in terms of building rapport. I think this talk really shows their power quite beautifully, not just for ourselves to live more happily but for how other people perceive and feel about us too.
@rapid-transit
@rapid-transit 6 ай бұрын
I'd honestly not realized that's what it was about
@AngelInfinity
@AngelInfinity 10 ай бұрын
Empathetic listening as a cognitive superpower is such a beautiful idea. It's not just about hearing words but understanding the emotions behind them and making that person feel seen. I think that could do wonders for a lot of fronts on which we are currently struggling
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
I agree with you!
@chasesevern7224
@chasesevern7224 5 ай бұрын
Hearing about Miss Connor and the way she helped that little girl makes me want to strive for greater kindness and understanding in my own life.
@evanesterneg
@evanesterneg 7 ай бұрын
The analogy with the beach trip really resonates with me. It's a beautiful reminder to cherish the moments that matter most and not sweat the small stuff.
@stanforeman3951
@stanforeman3951 3 ай бұрын
The concept of meaningful emotional surprise is something I've never considered before, but it makes so much sense. I'm definitely gonna try to incorporate this into my daily interactions, both at work and in my personal life. Might be a game-changer for building stronger relationships.
@eva-singer
@eva-singer 10 ай бұрын
Meaningful emotional surprise is such a captivating concept. It makes me think about how I can infuse more emotion into my interactions and create some lasting memories.
@ImgurNow
@ImgurNow 10 ай бұрын
It honestly sounds exhausting to me
@dannyduncduncan
@dannyduncduncan 10 ай бұрын
Same yeah this a moment that resonated for me as well
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Thank you, so much!
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 2 ай бұрын
@@ImgurNow what part of it is exhausting?
@IAmTheRealMagicMan
@IAmTheRealMagicMan 9 ай бұрын
The story of Miss Connor got me thinking about the teachers I had who went the extra mile for a shy anxious child and the difference it made to my life. Honestly learnt so much beyond the standard stuff during school because they took the time and thought I was worth it. That's pretty special.
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 2 ай бұрын
That is really special, and lucky. Not the same experience for a lot of people
@MichooseCherisol-tx8ns
@MichooseCherisol-tx8ns 10 ай бұрын
Shia miss Connors sounds like a superhero for tat anxious little girl!super heartwarming stuff
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Yes, a real life Superhero!
@geemaleishere
@geemaleishere 6 ай бұрын
Vulnerability as a strength is a concept worth embracing. It shows that being open and genuine can lead to deeper connections and mutual understanding, lots of good stuff within that.
@rapid-transit
@rapid-transit 6 ай бұрын
I can see how it leads there but actually doing those things is not so easy
@geemaleishere
@geemaleishere 6 ай бұрын
@@rapid-transit this is true
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 2 ай бұрын
@@rapid-transit i think it gets easier the more you do it
@natalyaguilerafigueroa
@natalyaguilerafigueroa 4 ай бұрын
This talk has me thinking about my own "Mrs. Connor" growing up. Shout out to all the unsung heroes out there quietly making a difference in people's lives!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your thoughtful comments!
@rangerstv602
@rangerstv602 5 ай бұрын
This talk made me realize how often I'm only half-present in convos, especially with loved ones. Time to step up my active listening game!
@anonisanonymous
@anonisanonymous 11 ай бұрын
Miss Connor's act of kindness is a prime example of the impact of small, intentional actions. It's a reminder that we all have the power to make a positive difference, even in seemingly ordinary situations.
@margaretstrom
@margaretstrom 10 ай бұрын
Absolutely. It reminds me of all those time travel movies like, make sure you don't do anything that'll affect the sequence of events... why don't we have that level of care towards our lives? It's the same principle.
@Flipflopflipflop
@Flipflopflipflop 2 ай бұрын
yeah I like that part too, the small intentional things that we do that make such an impact on others
@justinesaxenn
@justinesaxenn 8 ай бұрын
Life is short, live the fantasy" - a mantra worth embracing. It encourages us to pursue our dreams and not be held back by perceived limitations.
@thisisjustright
@thisisjustright 8 ай бұрын
definitely a cool way to think of things
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
My god. It's so true. Keep going, my friend!
@vivianacorinacabarcaherrera
@vivianacorinacabarcaherrera Жыл бұрын
Aww, the story about Miss Connor really touched my heart. it's amazing how a small act of kindness can have such a lasting impact.
@logan-steele
@logan-steele 11 ай бұрын
Absolutely, especially coming from a teacher when you're a child
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
@@logan-steele thanks, so much, for watching. ms. connor is incredible, right??
@elviragabriele
@elviragabriele 4 ай бұрын
yeah I feel like that's something that kid will remember forever
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 2 ай бұрын
it's a really beautiful story
@carlasteadman
@carlasteadman 11 ай бұрын
I love the analogy with the beach trip! It's true; we tend to remember the peaks and surprises in life more than the everyday routine. Gotta make those moments count!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
The beach trip. We all know it!
@DeliriousGentleman
@DeliriousGentleman 10 ай бұрын
It's very heartening to know there are still educators like Miss Connor out in the world 💖
@margaretstrom
@margaretstrom 10 ай бұрын
I think so too, hopefully with all the awareness this new generation seems to have there'll be a lot more coming
@ImgurNow
@ImgurNow 10 ай бұрын
@@margaretstrom Well that's a backhanded statement if ever I've heard one
@kcon5307
@kcon5307 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words!
@AngelInfinity
@AngelInfinity 10 ай бұрын
@@ImgurNow how is it a backhanded statement? I read it as being pretty sincere and positive
@SmartThrill
@SmartThrill 7 ай бұрын
It's amazing how much impact one teacher had. Miss Connor is goals.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
"Miss Connor is goals"... I love it!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
"Miss Connor is goals"... I love it!
@stratulatlucian8064
@stratulatlucian8064 11 ай бұрын
Jeff's personal connection to the topic adds a relatable touch. It's nice when speakers share their own experiences - makes the message more authentic.
@shannelnasir2218
@shannelnasir2218 8 ай бұрын
yup that's exactly why they do it
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
@@shannelnasir2218 thanks for the warm words!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
thanks for the warm words!
@iamtherealdeal
@iamtherealdeal 8 ай бұрын
Miss Connor’s story was so inspiring! Makes you think about the small things we do.
@Take-Away-Step
@Take-Away-Step 5 ай бұрын
Making another person feel seen and heard is the greatest thing you can do in life, it's like reassuring someone that they matter. That's huge.
@beckyfrensill
@beckyfrensill 5 ай бұрын
Such a lovely way to think of it! And yes at the end of the day I think that's all any of us want to feel, like we matter
@msamymorin
@msamymorin 8 ай бұрын
This talk is a great reminder to practice empathy in our daily interactions.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Many thanks!
@snakejohnson2740
@snakejohnson2740 10 ай бұрын
The concept of unseen reputation is lowkey mind-bending. It's like our vibes are leaving a trail wherever we go.
@AngelInfinity
@AngelInfinity 10 ай бұрын
Hahaha yeah that's a great way to put it
@dannyduncduncan
@dannyduncduncan 10 ай бұрын
LOL not how I would think of it but definitely true!
@duncanboone8226
@duncanboone8226 6 ай бұрын
Well trust a snake to think of it that way haha!
@elviragabriele
@elviragabriele 4 ай бұрын
hahah aura baby!
@TheRealShinedownShimmy
@TheRealShinedownShimmy 10 ай бұрын
Whoa, Miss Connor sounds like a superhero for that anxious little girl! Super heartwarming stuff
@AngelInfinity
@AngelInfinity 10 ай бұрын
Yeah definitely a lovely part of the story
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
As a dad, my jaw dropped when my wife told me what happened. Meaningful emotional surprise is all around us. It was incredible to hear about this, particular, example. Keep going, my friend!
@JawanJackson
@JawanJackson Жыл бұрын
A fascinating point of view. I know that saying things with meaning is important, but being intentional about the element of surprise is a concept I never considered before. A marvelous talk!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
thanks, so much, for your lovely words!
@morefunallthetime
@morefunallthetime 3 ай бұрын
The talk got me thinking about the ripple effects of our actions. Like how Miss Connor's kindness not only impacted that little girl but also all the parents who heard about it. It's really good motivation for staying kind and compassionate ❤
@thekaylaconner
@thekaylaconner Жыл бұрын
Such a tremendous honor to have been mentioned in something so important to you! I’ll forever be grateful for your family! 🩷
@be-present-now
@be-present-now 9 ай бұрын
Jeff's vulnerability story is a powerful reminder that authenticity can transform relationships. It takes courage to open up, but the results can be life-changing.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan
@IAmTheRealMagicMan 9 ай бұрын
It absolutely does but if we know that we're doing it with empathetic people who will listen gently with compassion then the risk is less than the reward
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Thanks, so much. Keep going!
@forsaken-lover9508
@forsaken-lover9508 10 ай бұрын
This talk made me pause and reflect on how I can leave a lasting impression in my interactions. Thanks for the thought-provoking insights!
@ZeekKingdom
@ZeekKingdom 5 ай бұрын
he is a natural storyteller - I was hanging on every word. Feels like I just took a masterclass in making an impact!
@anndibsdale
@anndibsdale 5 ай бұрын
Yeah he had me pretty captivated too!
@beckyfrensill
@beckyfrensill 5 ай бұрын
Well HE definitely made an impact that's for sure
@FlipTheVirus
@FlipTheVirus 5 ай бұрын
I'm gonna start a "meaningful emotional surprise" jar - every time I create a positive moment for someone, I'll add a little note. Can't wait to watch it fill up!
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 2 ай бұрын
but how will you know you've created that moment for them?
@nae3185
@nae3185 5 ай бұрын
I love that he gave some concrete tips I can actually use - empathetic listening, vulnerability, authenticity. Gonna put those into practice ASAP.
@ZeekKingdom
@ZeekKingdom 5 ай бұрын
Same! Super helpful
@SingularDesire
@SingularDesire 5 ай бұрын
Definitely he backed it up with a lot of solid facts too
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Keep going, my friend!
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 2 ай бұрын
Yeah I hate the talks where people just go on about their experience and it's like how is that relevant to me?
@themessimadetoday
@themessimadetoday 9 ай бұрын
The connection between lasting impressions and the unseen reputation is so intriguing. It's like crafting a personal brand through our daily interactions.
@duncanboone8226
@duncanboone8226 6 ай бұрын
that's an interesting way to put it, about the personal branding, it's very true though especially with the way commerce is going these days
@katyabradova
@katyabradova 10 ай бұрын
Listening to this, I couldn't help but think about the teachers who made a difference in my life. It's just not about the teaching, it's the way they truly saw me hey, took the time to understand. Really does mean the world to a child!
@rapid-transit
@rapid-transit 6 ай бұрын
definitely my mind went there as well
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 2 ай бұрын
That's really incredible that you had that experience with multiple teachers too
@rapid-transit
@rapid-transit 6 ай бұрын
I've always thought networking was about social media connections, but this talk shows it's much deeper... to think it's about emotional and authentic interactions leaving a lasting memory really flips everything on its head
@raylinduke9645
@raylinduke9645 5 ай бұрын
As someone who's been on both sides of the job interview table, I can confirm - emotional surprises definitely make a lasting impression!
@dannyduncduncan
@dannyduncduncan 10 ай бұрын
Jeff's CEO moment illustrates the power of sincere acknowledgment. It's not just about the work; it's about recognizing the human behind the role.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
Thank you, my friend. Keep going!
@micdaskel3313
@micdaskel3313 9 ай бұрын
Man, I wish I had a teacher like Miss Connor when I was in school. Growing up, I struggled a lot with anxiety, and having someone like her who understands and cares makes all the difference.
@IAmTheRealMagicMan
@IAmTheRealMagicMan 9 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear you never got that... but it's not too late to seek out some kind of mentor or friend who can still provide that for you
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
Me too -- on all accounts. Keep going!
@astridableman
@astridableman Жыл бұрын
Vulnerability as a strength - I needed to hear that today. It's refreshing to know that being open and honest can lead to stronger relationships. Thanks for the encouragement!
@taniagill4673
@taniagill4673 11 ай бұрын
I've always thought this way but sometimes you get torn down and pushed around so much you need a little reminder!
@anonisanonymous
@anonisanonymous 11 ай бұрын
It can but it's hard work.
@anonisanonymous
@anonisanonymous 11 ай бұрын
Emotionally, I mean
@valteradnan
@valteradnan 10 ай бұрын
The peak and end rule got me thinking about the memorable moments in my life. It's fascinating how our brains evaluate experiences based on emotional intensity.
@dannyduncduncan
@dannyduncduncan 10 ай бұрын
It is fascinating! Makes a lot of sense though the way he broke it down
@williamsmythe
@williamsmythe 6 ай бұрын
The concept of "emotional surprise" and how it can be used to forge stronger, more memorable connections is pretty cool and it's nice to think that we can leave such a positive impact on people
@ZeekKingdom
@ZeekKingdom 5 ай бұрын
definitely, and it's very true about how much you remember those moments and how people have made you feel
@Flipflopflipflop
@Flipflopflipflop 2 ай бұрын
It is a nice thought but it seems a bit more difficult to actually achieve that
@sophiachandler4662
@sophiachandler4662 8 ай бұрын
The concept of unseen reputation is something everyone should learn about
@colincampbell5068
@colincampbell5068 7 ай бұрын
Yeah I think most people understand this concept though like inherently
@chandrazu1085
@chandrazu1085 Жыл бұрын
I've never thought about the concept of "lasting impressions" in terms of job hunting. The ripple effect of our social network is something to consider. Good insight!
@taniagill4673
@taniagill4673 11 ай бұрын
Really?
@RavishingDamsel
@RavishingDamsel 3 ай бұрын
This talk has inspired me to be more intentional in my everyday interactions. I often go through the motions, especially with people I see regularly, but now I'm thinking about how I can create more meaningful moments and leave positive lasting impressions.
@therealcadenceflow
@therealcadenceflow 10 ай бұрын
Authenticity creating oxytocin is like a social chemistry lesson. Keep it real for those bonding vibes.
@ivanahelenka
@ivanahelenka Жыл бұрын
Lash bulb memory is a new term for me. Yes there are moments etched in all our memories because of the emotions attached to them.
@colincampbell5068
@colincampbell5068 7 ай бұрын
It's fascinating how he bridges the gap between art and business to teach us about lasting impressions. The analogy to performing arts makes it so relatable and impactful.
@leotencall
@leotencall 7 ай бұрын
The moment he had with his CEO as he was leaving was really poignant... I know exactly how much that would have meant to him and the fact that Jeff took that chance to be vulnerable is really commendable! Glad it was met with such a positive response.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Thanks, so much. Keep going, my friend!
@MatterMonkey
@MatterMonkey 10 ай бұрын
When we go the extra mile in our interactions with others because we care about them, it will be remembered.
@katyabradova
@katyabradova 10 ай бұрын
Yes, absolutely, people can feel that
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
​@@katyabradovakeep going, my friend!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Totally agree!
@rooseveltmartens9918
@rooseveltmartens9918 11 ай бұрын
The mention of oxytocin and its role in social bonding adds a scientific touch to the importance of authenticity. Fascinating stuff!
@margaretstrom
@margaretstrom 10 ай бұрын
Yes!! This was super interesting
@belloarturo
@belloarturo 6 ай бұрын
I really love what he says about emotional surprise and meaning. It makes a lot of sense for creating lasting impressions but for me personally it also speaks to how you can create meaningful peaks throughout your life and within that moments to be cherished and remembered.
@bencycaitlin
@bencycaitlin 6 ай бұрын
Mmmm now that is interesting too!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Thanks, so much. Keep going!
@umadelecois
@umadelecois 5 ай бұрын
I never thought a talk about making lasting impressions would resonate with me so much. But here we are! Guess it just proves his point.
@Flipflopflipflop
@Flipflopflipflop 5 ай бұрын
As a fellow parent, I felt the tips on empathetic listening with kids deep in my soul. Definitely gonna work on that.
@iamajuxtaposition
@iamajuxtaposition 10 ай бұрын
Maya Angelou was spot on when she said people will always remember how you make them feel. They will take away the feeling of being seen and heard.
@teddybearlemaire
@teddybearlemaire 10 ай бұрын
Lasting Impressions as snapshots of our sensory DNA? That's some deep poetic wisdom right there.
@anndibsdale
@anndibsdale 5 ай бұрын
I don't know about deep poetic wisdom but it definitely made something click in my brain
@blueangel7998
@blueangel7998 6 ай бұрын
Hearing about Miss Connor warmed my heart ❤
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Me too!
@shanteydevers
@shanteydevers Жыл бұрын
Miss Connor's approach is so rare these days. We're often caught up in our busy lives, but this presentation is a wake-up call. It's the small, intentional actions that make a lasting difference.
@bcacres9837
@bcacres9837 Жыл бұрын
Is it? I'm sorry I don't know what the standard of teachers is like nowadays if just showing empathy and kindness is held in such high esteem.
@shastadeed
@shastadeed Жыл бұрын
@@bcacres9837 I think it's more so that she got on the bus and - apparently - went all the way home with her
@kcon5307
@kcon5307 10 ай бұрын
You’re incredibly lucky to have experienced so many amazing teachers 🩷 I wish every student was able to experience the same!
@shannelnasir2218
@shannelnasir2218 8 ай бұрын
@@bcacres9837 Yeah I had the same thought! Like sure it's been a minute since I was in school lol but I feel like that's just a basic kindness right?
@shannelnasir2218
@shannelnasir2218 8 ай бұрын
@@shastadeed Ahh okay I guess
@waltersiegismund
@waltersiegismund 10 ай бұрын
Miss Connor's selfless act with the anxious little girl is a beautiful example of empathy in action. It's a reminder to approach others with kindness and understanding.
@shannelnasir2218
@shannelnasir2218 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely, it's kind of what you'd expect from any teacher though tbh
@elviragabriele
@elviragabriele 4 ай бұрын
@@shannelnasir2218 really? you've got a pretty idealistic impression of teachers then lol
@waltersiegismund
@waltersiegismund 4 ай бұрын
@@shannelnasir2218 I think it's what you'd _hope_ for from a teacher
@waltersiegismund
@waltersiegismund 4 ай бұрын
@@elviragabriele I mean in a perfect world, sadly teachers are so burnt out and struggling it's easy to understand why most wouldn't have the energy for that situation
@regissanford7104
@regissanford7104 6 ай бұрын
The blend of personal stories with actionable insights in this talk was perfect.
@elviragabriele
@elviragabriele 4 ай бұрын
was definitely a great mix
@DreamFestForMe
@DreamFestForMe 4 ай бұрын
The story about his boss at the end was powerful. It shows how a single vulnerable moment can completely transform a relationship. Makes me wonder how many opportunities I've missed to connect with others on a deeper level.
@marktferris
@marktferris 9 ай бұрын
Miss Connor is an inspiring example for all of us to remember to be humble and empathetic.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
I totally agree. Thanks for listening!
@Therealspence
@Therealspence 5 ай бұрын
I'm feeling inspired to go out and make someone's day. Even small gestures can mean the world to people.
@why-why-why-why1
@why-why-why-why1 11 ай бұрын
The comparison between stage/screen and real-life interactions is spot on. It's a unique opportunity to create lasting impressions daily. Let's make each moment count!
@rubyguil4622
@rubyguil4622 11 ай бұрын
Yeah I found that part really interesting!
@raejenson
@raejenson 6 ай бұрын
Love that all of this is geared towards positive, lasting impressions
@bencycaitlin
@bencycaitlin 6 ай бұрын
same! would be awesome if that's how everyone wanted to impact one another
@blaircailean
@blaircailean 5 ай бұрын
"Our unseen reputation is how we actually make people feel" - let that sink in. Really makes you think about the energy you're putting out there.
@UnforgivingSpleen
@UnforgivingSpleen 8 ай бұрын
Making every interaction count seems like very worthy challenge!
@colincampbell5068
@colincampbell5068 7 ай бұрын
Love that
@PostNowIMeanNow
@PostNowIMeanNow 8 ай бұрын
The Miss Connor story was deeply touching. It shows how genuine kindness can ripple through a community and ultimately change lives.
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for the kind words!
@duncanboone8226
@duncanboone8226 6 ай бұрын
I think that's going a bit far I mean sure she may have impacted that kids life and made things a little more bearable for her but maybe not the community as a whole. Like there is a limit to how much personal affect can change
@lyndsayramster
@lyndsayramster 3 ай бұрын
I liked how he broke down creating lasting impressions into three main points. It makes it feel more doable, ya know? gonna try to focus on one at a time and see if I can improve my interactions.
@hortonm554
@hortonm554 5 ай бұрын
This talk really got me thinking about how I interact with people. I'm gonna start trying to create more meaningful emotional moments in my daily life.
@beckyfrensill
@beckyfrensill 5 ай бұрын
Same that term really made something click in my mind!
@CindySmall-np5tt
@CindySmall-np5tt Жыл бұрын
Fabulous! I love the real like connection to a teacher. It’s a perfect example of what it means to leave a lasting impression!!
@hirominakahara2285
@hirominakahara2285 8 ай бұрын
The comparison between stage/screen and real-life interactions is a perspective shift. It's a privilege to create lasting impressions every day in our personal and professional lives.
@Steven-Francis
@Steven-Francis 6 ай бұрын
Vulnerability as a strength is a concept worth embracing for sure. It is always such a surprising moment when someone takes that chance with you and the examples Jeff gives really show how being open and genuine can lead to deeper connections
@kashaiq
@kashaiq 3 ай бұрын
Loved the story about him saying goodbye to his boss... it's easy to think that we don't matter to people as much as we actually do. I wonder why we do that?
@lucasyjester
@lucasyjester 3 ай бұрын
This talk is a great reminder that our actions can have far-reaching consequences we might never even know about.
@FollowedFriends
@FollowedFriends 3 ай бұрын
the way he described Miss Connor's impact on that anxious little girl reminded me of a teacher I had in middle school who went above and beyond. It's amazing how small acts of kindness can have such a lasting effect.
@thekaylaconner
@thekaylaconner 2 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear you had such an amazing experience in school ❤🎉 I hope you’re doing well today!
@kotakgmasuk
@kotakgmasuk 6 ай бұрын
Authenticity creating oxytocin is such an interesting concept... it makes sense of how powerful those moments are when you finally feel like you've found safe places/people to be yourself around
@nae3185
@nae3185 5 ай бұрын
So true! Yeah I was kind of blown away by that fact
@SingularDesire
@SingularDesire 5 ай бұрын
Definitely that was where my thoughts went as well, like how good it feels when you have a d&m with someone
@anndibsdale
@anndibsdale 5 ай бұрын
Yeah for sure I always thought those moment were just from being a bit heightened but hearing it actually positively affects our brain chemistry was crazy
@ShannonShoemaker-t1y
@ShannonShoemaker-t1y Жыл бұрын
Lasting impressions are so much more important than first impressions...emotional engagement is key. Thank you for these connections!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
I totally agree!
@NickAdams-n7s
@NickAdams-n7s Жыл бұрын
I love the story about the teacher -- inspiring!!
@thekaylaconner
@thekaylaconner Жыл бұрын
My littles are my biggest accomplishment! ❤
@elviragabriele
@elviragabriele Жыл бұрын
The part about vulnerability really resonated with me. It takes courage to open up, but the connections that are formed are so worth it!
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
For sure -- I agree!
@jackrouse1987
@jackrouse1987 Жыл бұрын
The story about the cousin's widow giving advice was powerful. Authenticity really shines through in unexpected moments. A reminder to embrace the fantasy and live life to the fullest
@alicemonay
@alicemonay Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it's the times where you know there's no faking it
@taniagill4673
@taniagill4673 11 ай бұрын
I think so too, this was a really nice moment
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 Жыл бұрын
Empathetical listening is indeed a superpower. In my experience most people want to interrupt you with their story, which is bigger and better than yours thereby make you feel invisible.
@bcacres9837
@bcacres9837 Жыл бұрын
Maybe if you didn't use made up words people would want to listen to you more
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 2 ай бұрын
@@bcacres9837 wow that is rude
@phyllismknapp6038
@phyllismknapp6038 2 ай бұрын
@@bcacres9837 and what words have I used that are "made up" ??
@pascaldegarde6756
@pascaldegarde6756 Жыл бұрын
That story about vulnerability hit home and really rings true for me, being open and genuine can create powerful connections
@shastadeed
@shastadeed Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, it makes you way more relatable and people will feel safer being vulnerable with you... so many benefits.
@carlasteadman
@carlasteadman 11 ай бұрын
Yes! You have to just put yourself out there and be afraid of the outcome
@urdadiam
@urdadiam 10 ай бұрын
I agree, this made a lot of sense to me and had me thinking about how I can be more present
@urdadiam
@urdadiam 10 ай бұрын
Do you mean, NOT be afraid of the outcome?@@carlasteadman
@keilholtzj
@keilholtzj 5 ай бұрын
Thanks, my friend. Keep going!
@annemery885
@annemery885 2 сағат бұрын
That example of how Miss Connor helped that little girl was such a beautiful reminder of the power of empathy and the way people value that
@jenniferkeilholtz1802
@jenniferkeilholtz1802 Жыл бұрын
Meaningful Emotional Surprise....what a wonderful way to give language to lasting impressions we can't always identify. ❤
@itscricketworld1651
@itscricketworld1651 Жыл бұрын
😊 lololol
@kannappank8778
@kannappank8778 Жыл бұрын
​@@itscricketworld1651p😊😊
@kannappank8778
@kannappank8778 Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊
@X-e-n-t-r-i-x
@X-e-n-t-r-i-x 7 ай бұрын
The speaker’s advice on how to be memorable is genuinely useful.
@abradisme
@abradisme 4 ай бұрын
gotta say, the part about our unseen reputation really got me thinking. like, we're always so focused on our online presence and what we show the world, but it's those behind-the-scenes moments that really define us.
@christopherccooper
@christopherccooper 3 ай бұрын
The flashbulb memory concept is spot on. It's crazy how vividly I can recall certain moments, like when I heard about 9/11 or other major events. Never knew there was a term for it, but it totally makes sense how strong emotions can create such lasting memories.
@Flipflopflipflop
@Flipflopflipflop 2 ай бұрын
definitely, you always remember the impact and not what happened before or after
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