How to Make a Relationship Powerful - Some Quick Tips

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How to Make a Relationship -- Today, we're going to be talking about how to make a relationship POWERFUL.
I am REALLY excited to share this information with you because these cool quick tips are pretty easy to implement, very easy to understand, and if everybody had these understandings and structures inside their relationships, there would be a whole LOT more love out in the world.
So, I hope that these tips resonate with you. I hope you enjoy them. I hope that you take and implement them into your own relationships.
This is all about how to make your relationship powerful. As in, how to step into a new relationship inside your power, as well as how to set up that relationship for success.
The first thing you have to know, is that when you are first cultivating a new relationship, you need to make sure to maintain your relationship with yourself.
You can't get lost in your new and exciting love, even though it's very easy to do.
This is a common problem. What happens is we give too much of ourselves, lose our identity, and lose the person who our potential love or long-time partner was initially interested in.
A lot of people, when they enter into a new relationship, they are doing all these GREAT things in their lives.
But then, they stop caring so much about all of them so that they can fully commit to the relationship. That's shooting yourself in the foot. It puts an unnecessary amount of pressure on your new relationship and partner. Overall, it's a VERY common toxic behavior.
So, the first tip is to maintain your relationship with yourself.
Keep developing yourself. Keep your interest at heart. Keep moving forward in your life and enjoy sharing that and your mutual growth with your partner.
That brings me to tip number two, which is that you want to co-create your intentions inside of the relationship.
Now, this is how two powerful individuals come together to create something even GREATER than their own individual lives. It's by maintaining their relationship with themselves, but then co-creating something together that is on a whole new level.
The way you do that is simply by having a conversation. What is my intention for entering into this relationship? How do I want to positively impact your life and how would I like to see you positively impact my life?
Relationships are not only about getting the snuggles that we want or, having someone to help us with our chores or, someone to help us through our problems. It's about having a real stand for you in the world outside of yourself.
It's for having another person who stands for your GREATNESS, who aligns with your vision of your potential future and everything that you want to achieve in your own life. You are that for that person as well.
This initial conversation and, quite literally, should be:
"I intend to go into a relationship with you and to co-create an amazing future."
Then, you set up what that looks like. How can we support each other?
Once you do that by maintaining your relationship with yourself, you are clear on what it is that you want, where your path is going, and how this person can support you.
It all comes from your relationship with yourself being developed FIRST. Now, you are co-creating and coming together with these clear personal intentions to say:
"This is how we can support each other for even greater success".
Then that brings tip number three, which is now that you have entered into the relationship, you need to learn how that person receives love.
There is a book called "The Five Love Languages". I'm not sure of the title, but it breaks it down to a very simple way to understand.
There is essentially five different ways that people receive love inside a relationship. Everybody is different and most people have one primary way and a secondary important way as well.
So, the five ways, to make a quick list for you is:
Acts of service -- having things done for you
Physical touch -- the physical intimacy
Quality time -- spending time together
Words of affirmation -- getting affirmed that you are doing good things in the world, or that you are achieving what you want, or that you are a great person (whatever it may be)
Gifts -- receiving and giving gifts
Those are the five ways that people receive love...
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Thanks and talk soon!
Noah Hammond
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[@teresavaldovinos7420]

I really enjoy watching this video, Very good tips for building or making our relationship better. I have been married for 25 years, my husband doesn't really relate with the words "I love you" He never tells me that he loves me. But the fact, that he is always with me, rain, shine or ups and down. Just been with me, and coming home to me, and he is nice, caring and tender, that is love to me. His actions are bigger that words. I had made him to tell me that he loves me sometimes, but not too often. Because deep inside me. I really know, and I am very confident that he really loves me or he would not be with me, 25 years of loving each other. I do love him with all my heart.

[@brigetteg8564]

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years...This video was really helpful to me and my partner....Thank You Noah!

[@mohitshah4159]

This is a really nice tip to strengthen our relationships. Not only with gf/bf but with anyone whom we care for most.☺

[@MsCalypso52]

This is so true especailly the first tip 'You need to make sure you maintain relationship with self, don't get lost in new exciting love'. We lose our identity in a relationship. One of my daughter's friends a guy only 18 I believe has lost himself in one and really needs to develop himself first especially at this age. My daughter thankfully really is focusing on herself and what she wants in life before she seriously commits to a relationship.

[@lovemecom3832]

The 4th tip he gave was literally very important to make a relationship powerful because if you don’t have clear communication with each other especially when you are not in good terms I assure you that you can’t get what you wanted to have in your relationship. Couples should have clear communication.

[@gangloude3357]

My last relationship ended cuz I completely forgot myself in the process. Tip n°1 is so important. Thanks a lot !

[@Synthatic]

Loved these advices. I've never truly been in any kind of relationship, and am about to entering my first real one. It has kept my up many nights with worries of wether I will be good enough or not. These tips has helped me to tackle my insecurities.

[@Masterpop101]

My dad has read the book "The Five Love Languages" and said it was amazing. You should get the book people!!!!

[@lornabegum877]

I'm hoping to have a 'clearing conversation' tomorrow with my husband. And honestly I am so grateful to God for helping me across this video. It has provided me with the building for the talk. I will start by showing this video. Thank you

[@nonoyobeezewax9527]

Hey Noah. I am so very grateful that I found your video. I'm just beginning a new relationship with someone after decades of being single. I gotta admit building a great foundation takes a good deal of effort, patience, understanding, and flexibility. But your video, along with the 5 Love Languages (thank you for mentioning it), has helped me understand the feelings, frustrations, and positive aspects of building something good. In short, it's helped me grow as man. Thank you.

[@jmshadrach9338]

Dude! This is some great advice. Thank you!

[@Nethercore]

I applied this and things did definitely improve for the most part. Things changed for sure, but some personality differences are still making it hard for us to improve. But -- thank-you for posting this particular video, I really needed someone to do that for me. It's one thing knowing this stuff but having someone tell you, totally different.

[@jameshersee169]

I hate it whenever I get back to watching stuff like this. But this video is very good so and is one of the best

[@MarkFranksChristianLifecoach]

The best way to keep a relationship going is to keep throwing logs into the fire. A relationship's passion will diminish over time so you have to keep the fire going. Treat your relationship like a business. If you don't constantly put energy into your business then it will eventually fail, so you have to come up with new ways for your business(relationship) to bring you profit . Go to new places( restaurants, theme parks, concerts, games,co-carts,shooting range,golf, basketball tennis), Try new sex positions/ Go on dates once a week/ Include her on business trips/ Spend time apart every once in a while. Find new friends. Always remember, the number#1 killer in relationships in Boredom so keep your relationship interesting.

[@rosietheriveter223]

What if he cheats

[@johnreed9050]

Throwing logon the fire won't work when the other person is throwing water on your fire

[@marianrautu9452]

Go understand her pshychology this will be more efective than trying to impress with external "intresting stuff"

[@RMfan77]

thx for this, this video actually came at a very good time for me, i've been thinking about this kind of stuff lately, even today and i welcomed this reminder to keep focusing on myself as well because that makes the time we spend together even more amazing, so good video.

[@guns-a-blazin3232]

Amazing! I really think this will help me maintain a new relationship I'm in. Exactly what I needed. :)

[@kirkfonda5520]

I certainly try these. They are simple yet over looked.

[@squalbagandbutch5757]

hey man thanks for the tips I will use your words of wisdom at its highest point

[@thawk121]

I don't know anything about your relationship and what exactly there is to forgive but i'd say communication is key here.see why it's difficult for him to forgive you and what exactly you would need to do for him to earn your trust back. first see if its even possible to earn it back, then see if what he wants is reasonable with you. if it is then start putting it into action! you'll have to HONOR where he's at in the process of forgiveness and be PATIENT because rebuilding trust can take time

[@xVioletx11]

Rekindeling an old relationship. I know it's not the best idea, but I really want this to work out. Wish me luck!

[@grapiken7766]

I wish everyone, male and female could watch this video. The advice is wise, yet it takes emotional maturity to behave this way. 'Clearing conversations'... Great idea... How easy or difficult will they be I wonder.

[@acharich]

They may be hard initially but worthwhile & will reveal whether both parties are truly invested in the success of the relationship..

[@DanaleeB]

I really enjoyed your insight! Thanks for sharing !!! Keep up the great work.

[@braylonplayz4113]

Noah Hammond I really really appreciate everything. You present. You are really helping. Me. Thank you

[@merrilyg]

Thanks! And yes, it is The Five Love Languages. I highly recommend it! I actually got my husband to read most of it and take the assessments.

[@acharich]

💪

[@citizenoftheworldsz9]

Really really good tips! Thank you :) keep it up!!

[@ameetraja222]

it is really very nice video and if someone implements in his/her life then definitely get success.thanks

[@ninanina189]

I really like this. Very sensible advice.

[@JadeRidgley]

This video was really helpful to me. Thank you so much for making this video.

[@AyaAlKazak]

Awesome advice, thanks!

[@11sikstar]

The book is called five love languages by dr gary chapman. I just read it. It also has exercises to do also. Thanks for this video.

[@MsRvaldes]

nice very clear and true and helpful thanks

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Relationship is more powerful when two of you got respect and understanding, support each decision and maintain the true feelings of Love.

[@PlaudeYt]

I love these tips, very simple and effective, and the video is great too,, our channel is dedicated to advice just like this so videos like this always inspire us

[@curlydianajp]

I appreciate the tips, very useful. I guess the biggest problem for some women if not for most is that we get ourselves too involved wit the relationship & the partner and we neglect the relationship wit self! And it's then when our men tell us: u changed, ur not the woman I fell for :( Also we wanna be loved our way so in that sense we don't understand our men's love language , it doesn't resonate wit us. I'm guilty of it!

[@wwecollin]

Thanks, Helped alot.

[@Jumpjump25]

good video bro I'm going to use these tips 👌

[@solovybz2294]

Thx you, it help about all my questions that I actually wonder me.

[@atsul.7943]

Nice tips. Pretty sure it will work for me in my relationship Thanks.

[@NinaApadula]

i was sure to write all of these tips down, thanks!!

[@ruslanavais8154]

Dude i dont like the video,I love it!! You are one of the greatest men i have ever seen :) You helped me with my life alot and made me change for the best! keep up with your great work and useful videos.Peace :)

[@mdparash8565]

Thanks. Its very useful.

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your the man Noah!! thank you really well said!

[@silentlol3]

really helpful, cheers

[@johannareese2318]

Wow, very helpful! I'm relearning this whole relationship thing :)

[@doc1962]

Relationships are difficult and it takes constant work to keep them going

[@MissVelvetElle]

Really great advice :)

[@jenniferokorow6406]

I just got in a new relationship,And thanks for this video I will use the tips

[@ameetraja222]

+jennifer okorow .best of luck dear

[@NelsonCartier]

i will like to have a clearing conversation....man what made you think of that shit lmao

[@dwaynefuller5497]

Well i must say u have great tips however am having trouble with my own and she just never listens to me and each and everyday or time we have an issue it turns out in a big fight I try to be the bigger person by listening and making guidelines and now her mother is all in our relationship

[@JohnnyBravoChallenge]

+Dwayne Fuller Mother has nothing to do there !! Most of the time, they destroy the rests of your relationship. She must accept (your woman) that her mother had her own life and that she's got to do the same : be a grown person that can manage some discordance with her beloved one without needing to call the whole village for the show !

[@dwaynefuller5497]

I agree with u but let me say this her mother told her to end the relationship and she did

[@JohnnyBravoChallenge]

I am sorry to say that it's true mothers and daughters keep the "vip" relationship long after the daughter's 20, even 30... but she must discover that her mother is someone genuinely else than herself, and finally grow up to seek for her happiness, not being all life long stuck with the birth cable towards her mother... Maybe that person simply did not deserve you, and i know how painful it feels to get through such story.

[@freddyram1969]

Thanks. I will improve my relationship with your great help and advice. Greetings from Ecuador..!! ;)

[@Queen1ndonly]

Thank you I will try it out with the man I have a bond with😃

[@Evajeanfreedom]

A really good video! ☺💖

[@SherwoodCouplesC]

Creating a bond with your partner is an essential part of having a relationship. It gives the relationship a foundation and a support the relationship won’t crumble that easily.

[@_lktr_8243]

Thanks man!

[@jasonmckenzie1410]

great tips do you have tips on rekindling or saving a relationship

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[@1700tt]

Thank you for this.

[@billevolution2270]

dude very helpful your words!can y explain me please better 2 and 4?thank y very much!

[@jadeguarin2321]

thank you fir this tips Sir GODBLESS

[@shealenenelson8724]

have you published any books? I love what you're doing with this!

[@ninokhonelidze8508]

Thanks for tips... One question.. What to do if your partner does not want to forgive you and you feel its not moving forward?

[@tinademouey9460]

Thank you for sharing this relationship help. I do have a question..... My boyfriend has seeded anger issues. I don’t know what his triggers are, Just about any serious conversation ends up making him angry. Is there any advice for me ?

[@michaelberding4616]

Noah, you're awesome.

[@ajboyce720]

This is genius bro! Thank you!!

[@olivia0151]

Tysm I just got with my bf a week ago and this helped me

[@michaeldaniels7951]

Yo, that gulp at 1:32... 😂

[@Mirumbacubana]

Thanks. Great advices:-)!

[@MasterAnimatrix]

Thank you I really do appreciate it

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That was awesom.....

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.OK. very good☆

[@daves1159]

Informative for people who use logical thinkin thanks

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Thank u yes all help

[@samirhammoud9824]

awesome man

[@braxtenandersen7778]

So I have a girl that I love and I don't know how to have a good relationship that was before I saw this thanks and I thinks she likes me!

[@anneVashakidze]

very useful video ))

[@Only1718]

Thank you

[@mikaylalynn924]

my friend sent this to me because I get REALLY AWKWARD when I. date anyone😂😂

[@kuan80720]

It's a fucking awesome video! You did a wonderful job! Thanks so much for the tips!

[@liahmo7141]

great thanks

[@manojkumarshrestha1190]

good advice

[@mantriashutosh]

Lovly !!

[@HappyHappy-nh9tg]

seconded! yeah

[@tanks.6352]

It's too ideal, yet you forgot about how much energy and time it takes to maintain it

[@p5rsona]

I feel like he couldve elaborated more on the co-creation part because I need examples, still not clear for me.

[@aneishadookram2064]

am in a relationship with my partner for 3 years we a 5 month old baby and we fight all the time and am will to d what every it takes to make it work but it seem as am alone. what to do

[@ULTRARVL]

Yeah.... I have the same question. What if your ex will not forgive you, no matter what.

[@chrisperez6657]

I now realized how my relationship did not go so well and fell dumb now lol

[@annaknowsu]

Then it's time to move on. Use the lesson of whatever you may have done or not done in your NEXT relationship and make sure not to do it again. Sometimes that's the best you can get out of a relationship that is over.

[@aarondosoutokingham4208]

hey Noah so I have a couple questions to ask but I want to say thank you for kinda putting me in a different direction and perspective with these tips. so lately my girl and I have been fighting. it's gotten pretty sour between us but we've both decided that we want to still he together and have made the decision to give each other a bit of space and basically start from the beginning again. on a level of loyalty we have no issues but because of how we react to certain things that we tell each other or do to each other, we've been hiding things from one another. her more than myself. How can I reassure her that she can trust me and that I won't react the way I used to? her parents also question my masculinity in the relationship. how can I change that? thanks

[@acharich]

How did u use to act..? And are u sure urself that u won't..?

[@c9rp9ral37]

Yer, My Relationship Isn't Going Good Either, Most Of My Friends Are Saying Just Break Up With Him, But I Don't Know If I Should Or Shouldn't :/

[@msknockout1]

good vids I like them all ;) hope they work on me asap

[@kurtisgibson2929]

lol just got in to my first relationship and we did this automatically without knowing this

[@jflahue15]

I am so Learn how to relationship

[@shereenmariedalaogodoy3727]

thank U I will try it with my girlfriend

[@swiss86watches]

Thank u

[@adamlagomarsini2309]

Can u tell me how to keep a relationship going for a long time I really love my girlfriend but I don't want to lose her

[@riyasharma1512]

he is my guy Friend feom long tym i like him a lot but he had break up previous year nd not ready for serious relationship but i dnt know how hw started flirting wid me n stareted talk intimate . evwn asked me if i want to kiss . definitely i want that but not like this he says just for fun i dnt want that i want serious relationship with him he is gonna come in town now what do i do ?

[@elizabethalas5733]

What if my partner isn't 100% open and honest how can I help him to open up ?

[@leniebabe44]

It is difficult for men to be open and honest about their feelings and emotions and to get him to open up is going to take patience and understanding. Sometimes as women we have to model being open and honest and talk to him about what you want him to be open and honest about. I work with a lot of men and they said they have a difficult time opening up and the best way is give them time and don't give up but to respect when they are not in the space to talk and not to argue or nag about them about their lack of communicating.

[@coltenthurston9434]

+leniebabe44. Relationship love is stupid. 73% girls and women mainly care about looks and how much muscle the guy has. A lot of jerks have a girlfriend or wife. A lot of nice guys don't have a girlfriend or wife. A lot of girls and women need to stop saying they care more about the inside than the outside when that's not true. IT NEEDS TO STOP.

[@leniebabe44]

Colten...relationship and love is not stupid..there are some genuine people out the 27% you did not mention...If people continue to get involved with the same type of fake person..change!!! and men as well (not all) NEED TO STOP BEING SUPERFICIAL because they look for the trophy so it goes both ways...and BTW...that does your comment have to do with communication?????

[@coltenthurston9434]

+leniebabe44. I wasted my time trying to be with someone I had feelings for. Since I can't be with her then I'm staying single. You are Wright relationship love is not stupid. I'm honestly just very mad and upset that I'm not with the person I wanted to be with. I don't wanna be with anyone else

[@leniebabe44]

Colten...it really takes time and patience to find the one we click with...I have not been in a relationship for over two years now because I refuse for settle for anything less that I give in return....alone is better than a bad relationship and the one is our there...sometimes it takes few test runs before you find that gem who will love and care for you just as you for them!!! Hang in there and be patient!!!

[@ashcole3342]

me and my boyfriend just started dating about a week ago and we are in middle school but our relationship is very weird because we don't act like we are together. we act as if we just found out we both like each other and we are at that awkward crush phase and I don't know how to tell him I want to be an actual couple. how can I tell him this? plz help me.

[@madalinmiranda3100]

tell him you would like to focus on school before yall become a couple

[@xbambooboyx]

what if you cheated on your girlfrien not physically but tqlkin q bit on face book and my girlfriend dont like to hug he or cuddle with me or nothing its its bin a year and a half since i done it and i dont know what to do i wunna spend the rest of my life with her but i fell lile were gunna brake up please help me im not shur what to do in this posision and im scared

[@diallo5479]

She seems a bit extreme so here's what,speak to her best friend and tell him/her how much the current situation you guys are in is bothering you and you're sorry and wanna make things right but you don't know how to.(THIS NEEDS TO BE GENUINE. IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT DON'T MESS WITH THAT GIRLS HEART. Tell the friend not to say anything make it look like it's just between you and the best friend, I guarantee you the best friend is more than likely gonna tell her all you said. When that happens it will have her thinking and waiting for you to prove yourself deserving of her love. Next, if you haven't apologized yet, you need to do that...like asap....make it sweet too (buy her roses and chocolate, a new dress, heels, something nice) if you've done that already do it again, this time more creative, like in public.....be persistent, make sure she knows exactly how you feel and can see that you're trying. If your efforts bring you no success I suggest you stop wasting your time and move on with your life. If she really loves you she'll come back to you, and if she's lucky, you'll still be single. Good luck Tony!