How to Move on from YOUR EX after a Breakup

[@husniyeyldz7228]

“Focus on the lesson, not on the pain “. 👏🧿🙏

[@mramerican9627]

Focus is the key word. Uhhhhhhhh

[@fuzzypanda1684]

What if the lesson is the only outcome you can expect in life is loss and pain? That's the lesson the universe has been trying to teach me forever. I've resisted for so long, but my resolve is breaking quite substantially.

[@Nairda14-l5t]

It’s been 13 months of trying to move on but I was not ready and I think I’m finally ready.

[@muzwakhilemlambo6898]

I hav since accepted the reality of my situation. She's gone nd I'm slowly accepting that,it's painful but I've learned to Not take people for Granted and to Listen wen they voice concerns....I let my problems consume me and forgot to properly Love my woman...I'm working on myself and my finances...I really pray God blesses her,She's a good woman nd she loved me proper ..my fault I list her..I'm learning to move on nd be Better for myself. If ever she returns to me..I'll love her truly nd proper.until then I pray God helps us all broken people to become better human beings

[@TheBigboi234]

H pipe your feeling better I know your pain

[@shannonperry7971]

How to change negative behaviors in relationships, how to respect each other more when its hard, how to meet each other's needs when they conflict with each other..etc. this is what I would love to have advice on.

[@thomasbelmont810]

These are great lessons about moving through life. I lost ‘my’ job and a 14 year relationship at the same time last year, and I am finally at the stage where I can apply what you are saying. I love your channel, and wish you success in all things. Thank you.

[@semmywap2916]

That’s hard, I’m sorry brother. Focus on the good

[@MistyMoonie]

This is a perfect video! I lost and broke up with my ex and while i was sad, i decided to move on. Because i know there are many other people out there in the entire world

[@Butterfly7550]

I just want to move on with my life

[@lupost8433]

This has been the best video about break up that I heard. Thank you coach 🙏. It was very helpful!

[@Abo18LouLoua]

Go in details of relationship attachment styles, and don't waver to other fields than relationships, you are one of the most best 5 coaches of relationships as I checked tens of coaches, if you left this field you will make a big hole, when I was in a great grief, your videos were always healing me .. and I get refreshed because of it.. keep on, May Allah always guide you.

[@chrixtophrwallen4227]

Thank you, my friend, for reminding me that I am. Not my body, not my intellect, logic, or my attachments. I am me. I'd like to correspond about this in my search for a higher consciousness. I see you. ✌️

[@elodinesoukou9184]

I'm so grateful for my break up because its a has been a blessing for me and I know greater things are coming for both of us. I can not be more that grateful then that. Thank you coach blac, ur video's has help!

[@akrico1]

Such tremendous insight you have found amidst your pain. I too understand my breakup/divorce had a purpose. It has been an awakening and I soooo identify with your testimony. God will bless you and your ex! Trust Him. ✝️

[@chrisphillips9800]

That's beautiful to hear, especially if you were the one "who was left". I hope to be at this place and fully see it from the perspective of gratitude. I'm in progress... but on the way.

[@Luvagirl1971]

I love listen to your videos you always give great advice please keep them I appreciate all you do for us 💞💞☺️

[@chrisba2360]

Thank you for these wonderful inspiring words. Greetings from Austria (Europe.)

[@besttutorials4534]

Cool im also from Austria

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Greetings from the state of Kentucky.

[@akrico1]

Thank you brother. You are among a few of the YTers that actually bring value to this platform. Best wishes for your continued success in giving comfort and peace to others in need. God bless!

[@CatwalkPurz]

Ok. This is how I will apply these words of wisdom: he was not “my husband”. He was a person I signed a document with 😂😅 LOVE THIS! 💥

[@archersniper-hg4px]

I hope you can release content about your thoughts with "no label" relationships or friends with benefits and about getting attached with someone whom one is casually hooking up with and what to do and what not to do about it. Thanks! Your videos are awesome.

[@blabla89520]

More videos on how to move on please especially when you miss the chemistry with him

[@daintytrudy9]

Thank you for your inspiring words of encouragement. l so needed to hear this. I did learn something from your message. Blessings and prayers to you🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️❤️

[@folengndieshe2398]

Thanks for this inspirational write-up

[@ahmedrashid4524]

Blac… your the best ….!! I love my Ex but I’m in NC for two week mows …. her cousin and friend do check up on me.. I think it’s really gonna work for me .. I want her back as well but she much value me ❤🙏🏼🙏🏼 Thank you for your Teach and advice ❤️🙏🏼

[@ugwuamaka4293]

This is really really helpful, as if u knew what I'm going through, the attachment I had with my ex was way too much and it's affecting me, been four months now and since like yesterday, but I will try harder to let go. I think he has moved on, no call or text from him since after the break up. Four months today

[@benithacalloway8286]

He’ll come back in some ways

[@ugwuamaka4293]

@@benithacalloway8286 , are u sure? He is in a relationship before ending things with me though, so I'm not sure of his coming back

[@benithacalloway8286]

@@ugwuamaka4293 that relationship still considered as a rebound

[@benithacalloway8286]

@@ugwuamaka4293 stay praying and keep. I contact.

[@tierrashavonn]

I like the new intro. Thanks for the info ❤

[@winsomfrancis532]

Greeting's Coach Blac,thank u so much for helping me👍😊

[@bsimmons1863]

Thank you my brother this was right on time appreciate you keep up the good work 🤝🏾

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Your channel is cool ty!

[@peloi111]

This is great, more like this please

[@gregmoverley7525]

Fantastic Thought Solutions You are Giving Sir

[@jinxme]

My heart still hurting after vedio

[@kateroth7154]

Great advice!

[@rickyellis8505]

Me and my ex have been split up for since end of January, i just found out she is seeing someone else yesterday by looking at her phone as i was sick of her keep lying to me and leading me along. They was meeting in hotels and all sorts. It really as hurt me. But im glad i know now. I just want to move on i really do

[@lillianjohnson7719]

I love your channel. I would also like to see how to cultivate healthy partnerships and relationships

[@happygocrafty]

Really helpful. Thank you for the reminders. ❤

[@ariellethomas-be1qz]

Thank you for all your advice!! Question. I know for a fact my ex associate sex with love and being the foundation in a relationship. After 3yd together we hit a dry spell for about a month now she’s in a rebound relationship and I’m fearful she will stay with them as long as the physical aspects is there. Not sure how to handle this? if she does come back, I don’t want to be compared in the bed room to this other person. ?

[@jameswright9014]

Great video. Please talk about some of the best books you recommend to be a good man in a relationship. Thanks.

[@jennifernixon563]

Damn ❤ the suit

[@fuzzypanda1684]

The only lesson the universe has tried to teach me is that the only outcome in any situation is loss. Now obviously, for some people that will sound ridiculous as for them, they gain things all the time. After moving to a cool new town with lots of exciting things to do, they left their old partner for someone new, and are enjoying a great new life! Well good for them, must be nice living life on Easy mode. But for those of use who aren't so lucky, we always lose. If you're living life on a hard enough difficulty setting, the only possible outcomes in any situation is things stay the same or get worse. That's it. There is no gaining anything, it's only trying to mitigate the severity of the loss.

[@shawny979]

We appreciate you Coach. I would like a video on Why they Breakup over text and phone? What makes a person do that?

[@shirleynorman4492]

Thanks very well said 👏 👍

[@shaniahcard7179]

How long does the grieve stage last????

[@Eric-em7zq]

She told me she moved on in I need to as well

[@ameliquemarryshow4187]

ill like to see more of how to get back my ex.

[@Clockthat_tea4]

Omg stand up

[@TreLoc3233]

We tried to get back on track. We forgave each other. Then she starts with the silent treatment followed by the stand up. I'm done. I move 1200 milles away from her

[@kingjaved1967]

Everything happens for a reason just keep that in mind live & let life be

[@TreLoc3233]

@@kingjaved1967 I know. Thank you

[@kingjaved1967]

@@TreLoc3233 your welcome when you truly forgive let them go you will find true love again just stay strong in faith you'll see in due time & season

[@patrinaowens2935]

You can talk about people that have been in long lasting relationships for 30 , 40 and 50 years plus

[@jennahm207]

Thank you for this video! Excellent points and perspectives:)

[@supreme_rya.]

Hey, Blacademic, does NO CONTACT works if you were the rebound?

[@benithacalloway8286]

Yes

[@leanmachine3251]

I can use some advice, so me and ex broke up a few weeks ago. I went no contact. I caved and texted her on a different app since she blocked me on everything. She said I never loved her because it took me this long to try to contact her even tho she blocked me on everything, so how was I supposed to contact her if she blocked me ? After that she told me to leave her alone so i did. I noticed now that she deactivated all her social media. What does that mean?

[@leanmachine3251]

@@Omnitrix8 think so? I haven’t contacted her since she told me to leave her alone, not gonna lie I was worried she may be depressed hence why she deactivated her Instagram. I can’t break no contact

[@leanmachine3251]

@@Omnitrix8 ah I understand bro! I let my emotions get the best of me not gonna lie. I gotta focus on me and become a better version of myself

[@shawny979]

​​@@leanmachine3251 Yes, leave her alone. If you keep contacting she'll accuse you of stalking and harassment. They're not even worth it. I can relate to how you're feeling. Stay strong.

[@lawrencepuyu3852]

I just wanna move on

[@robertahosey9765]

Right

[@akeenzykitchen]

How should i deal with an ex that broke up with me 8 months ago but suddenly last week my kid sis sent me a whatsapp chat of my ex asking her to be his woman. How should i deal with this situation?

[@princessm6355]

Just listen to that song “your ex lover is dead” by stars

[@TheJavierTrejo]

More content about Avoidants

[@SAITEJA-vj6sg]

Make a video about cheating my ex cheated on me and she ghosted me 😑😑

[@basicinfo2022]

If youre not married with kids, I would go no contact forever.

[@helenscott591]

Did I miss the answer🙄?

[@davem3708]

Mediations by Marcus areliuis

[@blessedblessed5018]

I 4got to ask...how do I allow space for reconciliation? Do I wear a dress? How long do I "wait" b4 sex agian?

[@benithacalloway8286]

No calls no texts not chasing

[@clarencebowman2184]

Should established men Date women with kids?

[@unpredictable244]

Yes. I really don't understand this logic as an established woman with ONE child. Having a child doesn't make us less of a decent person just like a childless person makes them better. I really wish we as a society and a black society we get rid of that stigma. Yes, there are certain factors but over all, not all women that have children are bad just like all men who don't have children make for suitable partners. If she's a good person/ woman worth a child(ren) give her a chance. You might love it there 🥰

[@jblasutavario9549]

No.

[@basicinfo2022]

If you truly love the woman and she is dating to marry, you'll love everything that is apart of her.

[@sunnycookie1584]

💙💙💙💙💙😅