How to Overcome Body Shame with Ken and Tabatha

Ever wrestled with your reflection in the mirror, wishing that you could see past your perceived imperfections? Have you allowed others' opinions and societal norms to shape your self-image? Join us as we delve deep into our own personal experiences dealing with body shame, a topic that's often brushed under the rug, but holds a significant influence on our daily lives. From grappling with racism and self-doubt to overcoming adversity, we open up about our journey towards self-acceptance and how we learned to love ourselves, our flaws, and all.
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[@roslyngraham5883]

Tabatha you don’t look 47 for real. Your inner beauty pours out of you. Thank you for your transparency

[@Lp2QuickFire]

I wouldn't have been surprised if these two were in their 30s😵‍💫

[@thembisamakhoba1606]

They look very young

[@New-44]

Thank you for this vulnerability. You dont know how effective this talk is for me . God bless your marriage in Jesus Name

[@EmeraldDove1743]

She's 47? Where ? My goodness she looks good! Praise the Lord for her youthful appearance inside and out! 😊

[@SeeK1289]

04/23/24 I NEEDED this today!!! I've been talking down on myself lately, so this was Right on time!!!

[@maribelcash9836]

I am 36 and Tabatha, I thank God for you. You are so amazing and beautiful. I am half white and half Mexican, so I had the race battle. Now, it’s weight and age, and I just want to say; thank you for being so honest about your story. You are truly inspiring and amazing and such a blessing to other women, including myself.

[@antwanyafriday8026]

Just hearing everything that Mrs. Tabatha been through and to see her handle it with grace is powerful. I love this woman. Mrs. Tabatha you deserve everything you get. Your confidence and inner beauty is just out of this world. Both of you are amazing. I'm so glad this channel showed up on my timeline. You guys have been such a blessing to me in such a little time. And I will be visiting Alive Church one day. God bless you guys and please don't stop putting out content because I'm here for it ❤❤

[@GlitterBrixx]

I love the open dialogue. I am too journeying into wifehood & you all exemplify healthy communication, honesty, and respect. When many of us have never seen or experienced it before! Thank you for you’re vulnerability as Individuals and as a couple! ❤

[@msprettysunshine]

You two are the mentors I’ve been looking for. Thank God for your wisdoms and boldness to share. This was a very helpful video. Thank you so much for sharing your story. As someone who has struggled with this all my life. I’ve learned to trust what the Bible says about who I am and repeat daily. God Bless.

[@Nicole__97_]

I pray I can be with confidence one day especially after my mastectomy scars

[@bri_marie0406]

I would like to say that you do not look 47 🙋‍♀️ You look like maybe 41? You look amazing and what’s more is your inner beauty, strength, and confidence are off the charts. Thank you for who you are and sharing that with us all, especially those of us who are still battling fiercely with our own body shame.

[@taryndodds1390]

I really struggle with body shame for many reasons. Thank you for this.

[@SanctifiedLady]

Wow! Tabatha appreciate the total openness about your journey. ❤

[@genaalder2057]

Hi Ken and Tabitha. I love your messages. Your relationship and marriage gives me hope. Thank you for caring about us. You've helped me tremendously! Keep up the good work!

[@Butterfly0407]

I am 16 years old and just started getting in to watching videos when it comes to growing closer to the lord and I had seen clips of y’all’s videos on tiktok so once I got on KZbin I knew I had to find you guys and I love y’all’s videos. Not just the topic of conversation in your videos is what I love but also the demonstration and example you both set as a such a great married couple. I love you both thank you guys!

[@tsiontilahun3669]

I accidentally found and subscribed to your channel since last September. I have learned so much from each of your posts. I have been married for 15 years and have three daughters. I listen to your advice two or three times a week and share it with my friends because I want to be a good wife and mother. Even though it is midnight in Ethiopia, I am about to go to sleep after listening to your message. I always look forward to your Thursday message. May God's grace and mercy be upon you. Thank you so much, lots of love and respect.

[@vaughnstravel1735]

The letter you read in the beginning was so me I came across your Channel and after one episode I subscribed and I'm hooked. I feel like it was ordained for me to stumble across your content because I'm single and I need to learn how to be a wife before becoming one. And this particular episode hits home. Thank you both for being used of God. This content is needed you both are a blessing 💙

[@pastormairo]

This is so inspiring! Thanks for sharing your story Tabatha. God bless you all and God's ministry in your hands.

[@Maintoopure]

I’m 23 been following u guys channel for past months thanks for the knowledge n wisdom u guys open my eyes too 💯✝️

[@ashleyniquee]

This was amazing. Thank you guys for sharing ❤️

[@Tammy-i8j]

Yes Tab you're very Beautiful ❤️

[@tamiaphillips7910]

I am 23 years old and I just realised that I've been living with shame in this area. The realisation hits hard but I know that I am on my way to healing and being set free from mindsets of imposter syndrome, low self-esteem and the like... This was comforting to me. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and words of wisdom. ❤

[@laquandahill1322]

Tab, YOU. ARE. AMAZING!!! ❤

[@nicoleashcraft2886]

This is SOOOOO ENCOURAGING!! Thank you both for being SO Aunthentic.❤

[@marvah99]

WOOT WOOTT Another Episodee!!🥳

[@elementsofvirtue]

I absolutely love their candor and they communicate with such grace and wisdom, conveying a message that everyone can relate to in some aspect. And I love how they regard one another with love and adoration. The grace of God is immensely immeasurable and evident in them as his chosen vessels! So praise God Most High! Thank you heavenly Father for this timely message. Jesus is Lord❤️

[@moniquefrazier5195]

Just. Beautiful!!!!!!

[@thembisamakhoba1606]

Wow 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@soniaverver5156]

Amen I receive spirit of confidence 🙏🏽

[@brittanycook5961]

Same as the review read!!! Found you on TikTok and started binge watching while working!!!! I cant say thank you enough for sharing with us!

[@nortashajones8481]

This is wonderful!!! I’m appreciate this ❤

[@jocifranco1452]

This was so good 💕

[@samanthablake7292]

Am so glad I found this channel 😊

[@vmartin2409]

Such a beautiful and wonderful couple...

[@christireidgordon]

Thank you for ya'll's wisdom, I am constantly learning each episodes!😄

[@JoelGarcia-to4kh]

You guys are still young , I'm 58 and look just as young as you , AMEN , I THANK THE LORD JESUS 💝💝💝 AMEN , GOD BLESS YOU TWO ALWAYS AND FOREVER 💖💖💖

[@roslyngraham5883]

You go sister. You look fantabulous

[@nicoleashcraft2886]

This is SO REAL AND BEAUTIFUL!!

[@itssilvermadallion]

I love your videos! It’s very comforting! ❤ I love the both you!!!!!!

[@SaucyZo]

I loveeeee Tabatha so much. Wow! Truly, I see the love of Jesus pouring out of her like a huge waterfall

[@freevibe4146]

This was such a good episode . Tabatha thank you for your transparency it blessed me !

[@denisejones2639]

Excellent topic and dialogue! Bravo!!

[@thembisamakhoba1606]

Looking foward for the episode of aging gracefully ❤

[@andreahousen207]

Thank you both I think you are amazing using the words of God to encourage and ignite faith in everyday situations.

[@kimberleyridings7576]

You look amazing. I have gone through some loss that has made me feel less than. Thank you for this episode. It has helped me so much.

[@avisjackson7502]

Awesome video!

[@lawandacole6547]

Enjoy this podcast ❤God bless both of you

[@oyinkansolakukoyi9964]

I enjoyed this tremendously. Thank you sharing your story and being vulnerable just to be a blessing to us. ❤ from Nigeria

[@user-uw9zv3jb7p]

Thank God I discovered these podcasts . They are really relevant and meaningful. You guys do a very good job of keeping it real and interesting. May God continue to bless and direct both of you as you openly share your life to help others . I always walk away feeling blessed and more knowledgeable after listening to the podcasts . Thank you !

[@carlaandrews1110]

God bless u woman of God for your honesty on here❤. U just don’t know how it has touched me and wanting to seek God about embracing me. Thru however I look 👀, menopause is no joke! Past hurt and pain that we suffer as children and now as an adults we now have to deal with. I bless God for how he is allow preachers to come out and help to free his people 🙏

[@nonsikelelo9657]

I love everything about this podcast just found it and the wisdom I’m getting it’s amazing you guys are God sent.. sending lots of love from SOUTH AFRICA God bless🙏❤❤

[@tanulacoleman9466]

I love this Tabitha can you share the scriptures that you quoted regarding reminding ourselves what God says about us that we can quote in the mirror. Thank you both for sharing your God given wisdom and love it radiates to us.

[@lesegomashile9224]

Beautiful Episode thank you so much for sharing and the wisdom , this was definitely a mind shift after having dealt with bodyshame all my life now after watching I am reminded who I am in Christ Jesus so now I declare that I am fearfully and wonderfully made # Godfidence

[@CliffordErich]

Love you two...LOVE ya! Both my wife and I watch every episode (I also really enjoy your (Ken) Alive Church ministries too on here.) What an absolute blessing that you share so willingly and freely of your testimonies and experiences in the hopes of helping others (Full stop!). God bless you and yours... - The Erichs

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We love you!! So happy the content has been helpful ❤️🙏🏾 God bless you

[@Kiai808]

Thank you both ❤❤❤ (Side note: First time I see ken isn’t wearing black.)

[@AllAboutAndrew444]

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@yoursafeplace7131]

❤❤

[@user-fu1zv6pn7v]

I BELIEVE IT IS FOR MEN AND WOMEN- SOME MEN ARE NOT PLEASED WITH THE WAY THEY ARE MADE UP OR SHALL I SAY THE WAY GOD MADE THEM- WELL MY GOD SAYS IM PERFECTLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE- I THINK WE ALL CRITIQUE OUT BODIES IN SOME WAY- IM SAYING MY GOD DOESNT MAKE ANY MISTAKES

[@roslyngraham5883]

What about body shame coming from the man perspective?

[@Meepsavage]

Yes please

[@AllAboutAndrew444]

Can u do a video on abortion

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

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[@denisewinston137]

Tabatha you don't look 47 years old, you don't look like what you been thought

[@KayQhosa]

💯💯