How To Pursue A Woman (apply pressure to make her fall fast)

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[@sergio_ra]

If she doesn’t reciprocate your thoughtfulness, she isn’t the one. And you shouldn’t have to tell her

[@isaacyang15]

Good thing I came across this comment.

[@PerryNight-gc3fp]

@@sergio_ra right.

[@bc9477]

Do they ever tho? After 8 years of dating it has never happened that she would be thoughtful back

[@AlphaJ369]

@@bc9477 It's never too early or too late to leave a bad relationship.

[@bc9477]

@@AlphaJ369 I meant 8 years of dating different people 😅.. never being in relationship

[@rickyking1790]

The movie was "A Bronx Tale" Mob boss Sonny educating the young "C" with the door test

[@VonnegutJohnson]

I started binging your back-catalog about a month ago after a breakup. This is my first time catching a video fresh off the vine. Love your content. Very insightful and applicable. Thanks!

[@jamesdoss1211]

Excellent perspective. I've been struggling with how to not come off as needy, but be loving, and Im also looking for a relationship and commitment. I don't see how other guys are ok with sharing their women, honestly is my big reason for wanting commitment. But, this helps, this is a loving way to get to a girl without seeming needy. And just good to hear a successful guy that doesn't use the negative tactics.

[@claytonelofgren]

They have to be interested in a serious relationship in general. If they aren’t it will be a big obstical but not impossible

[@TheOlzee]

If you’re a naturally loving guy I wouldn’t focus on that at all! It will just steer you too far in that direction. Instead focus on more general things like flirting, having good time etc. Your natural side will take care of itself

[@ShyMplsMale]

I'm 41 years old and have been in multiple relationships since I was 15 and I have never attracted a woman who used me for money. Maybe because I never had a ton of money and never lead with that. Like energy attracts like energy. If you are all about money and looking good, you will attract someone who is all about money and looking good.

[@nickenglezos687]

A bronx tale...that's the movie

[@jakovfisel8833]

I like this guy more and more!

[@NateTheNoble]

Being sincere, smooth and unapologetic is the best way to go If she backs away, let her…if she becomes intrigued and wants to get closer even better “Sexual sincerity” is key to turning a woman on if she has interest and it opens the door for many things

[@Englands_Son]

Preciate your work brother 👊🏻

[@ElFknKronos10]

@LFA I don’t if you’re seeing this, but your advice has actually helped me a lot. I started watching all the red pill videos like 4 years ago but I got bored from all that shit. I feel like you’re one of the few I’ve seen that don’t make cringy videos, you keep it real and mature. Cheers my man.

[@BigG6179]

This is what I did when I was in college and then I got too much information in my head from many different sources. I ended up not being authentic anymore and it screwed up my natural charm. It is probably best when I am texting a woman adding some sexual tension to sneak in there "I want to take you to your favorite place to eat or drink and then were going to have all types of fun after." I have been cutting down a bit lately, dressing well..this is who I am. I probably won't get a bad result out of it.

[@-glitch-8195]

Problem is guys apply pressure to females who are not interested in them, which is why they "wait" for the woman to push for a relationship. If you ask them what exactly did she do that made them think she was genuinely interested, they can't even name even one thing. It might be like eye contact. That's how low the bar is. They think pursuing means forgoing. Relationships are built on mutual interest. So it's not that women don't know how to have a relationship, I mean they push HARD for "emotional intelligence." But that some women just don't like you or care. Hell, as a woman, I've had that same issue with them. Then there are others who are attentive with me & chill. You gotta gravitate towards people who like you. Then thoughtfulness happens easily. No need to even ask. Some females are highly obsessed with one way thoughtfulness. Take note & keep pushing. Learned that the hard way doing coverage for female coworkers. They'd never do the same back the one time out of the entire year that I'd ask. Meanwhile, they're calling out every week. It's ok to avoid females like that because it's clear what they're trying to do. Antique store is a good place to start if she's a good person though.

[@thelastbanana0678]

Thanks for your lovely video,,I really enjoy watching your videos from time to time . For me I don't think about women's and there are not something interesting to waste your time on them... I'm 28 years old and I don't have any plans to get attached to any women anymore,, I prefer to have my own time doing the thing I love to do ,, work on my own dream build my body and have health life is much important thing to do more then just chase women's to get there attention for love .

[@brianbachmeier34]

Brothers we meet again. 😎

[@nei1995]

Just mention a trip to... LOS CABOS

[@TopDoggyRobby]

Just ended things with a latina chick few weeks ago. We went out one night as usual, I covered the bill this time and she asked me in the car for a massage when we got home, I said something along the lines in a playful manner that she owes me a massage first. She asked why and I told her cause I paid for our night out. She said something along the lines as “Thats fucked up that you’re only doing something nice for me to get something in return.” After arguing in the car I realized there was a big disconnect between us. Of course I don’t do nice things for you only for something in return, but you should want to reciprocate that without it being a big deal. It was a weird argument and we had progressively more weird arguments where I felt disconnected with her. She was a sweet girl, had her fair share of problems from childhood and she was very sweet at times and did a lot of good things for me but there was just this disconnect, I don’t know what reality she was living in* but I wasn’t living in that one. Ended things shortly after.

[@GOD-FearingAlpha]

Dude you’re a knucklehead , he is not saying literally , as context matters. It’s not like you go around with your girl and say you do this I do that, it’s in flow and part of where you’re at. You make it fun like hey had a great time on the date , I got you tickets to this movie or pool or what the hell ever and then when she responds with id love to then you can say we’ll only if you’ll cook me your favorite dinner in a flirting teasing way.

[@Kingg4453]

bro you are too much invested, caring too much.never go in discussion with a women thats a lost battle, you should have just said NO i dont do massages bc i said so, if you have a problem with that the door is there.

[@TopDoggyRobby]

@@Kingg4453 ofc i was invested it was a good relationship for the most part. I’m not gonna date people i aint invested in. I movef on when i wanted and did things exactly how i wanted to. So no, I’ll keep investing

[@vitorpereira5461]

you went into womens domain, your error

[@jasonc1996]

@@Kingg4453Savage

[@gregrrrichardson8587]

Whats up brother! Over here in Siloam Springs AR bout an hour from you! Thanks for the encouragement!

[@Andrew_406]

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[@TruthBomber-jy4kd]

Good to see a new upload LFA I just started retention and decided I’m going to start hitting the gym rather than following bullcrap advice From certain red pillars. The goal Is much more than simply being more attractive to women it’s so I can be a stronger better more resilient version of myself A much better man that can help others! I want to make my mark on this earth while I’m still here and I just recently turn 34 so the clock is certainly ticking your videos are very much a Compass for so many of us men who were lost God bless you brother and I look forward to more content in one day kicking back and having a beer with you Cheers 🍻 -Zac

[@tajvida8710]

Such 💯 accurate advice…seriously, this should be required viewing for all men of dating age. I especially agree with the part on buying a low value but thoughtful gift. I dated a gal once that had two beloved Italian Greyhound dogs. I found a cool, but cheap watch that had Italian Grayhounds on the face. Suffice to say, that night she lit me up like a Christmas tree and almost took my ears off. True story…Listen to this man’s vids people!

[@harrybrown7680]

Can you show us your house & garden!?

[@marylogan6711]

Friend of mine broke off a 5 yr relationship.. saying it was a gradual build up of disrespect one example was.. while deciding to share a muffin with icing for desert..the female sliced off the top with all the icing horizontally for herself instead of slicing vertically in half so they both equally got a piece with icing on top…that was the icing that broke the camel’s back 😂

[@KayaAyperi]

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[@Joseph-ly1qv]

I love his videos . Helps me thru out my day

[@doubleoseven273]

Back on the driveway!

[@TeamKumlaHockey]

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[@ndndndnnduwjqams]

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[@chrisalex1440]

Finally bro whatever this genre is

[@Davidmsimuko790]

Video on point

[@miami_vibes6955]

Yeah i asked her about being exclusive. And that turned her off. Glad i found this video for future use.

[@jordanprice9285]

Thank you LFA but I think I'm ok brother. Solitude is pretty good. Women can do their thing with the guys they REALLY want. Appreciate it though.

[@toni1724]

LFA - I like the way you think!!! I'm 73, female, never married no children. Men are clueless what they have in females. Your age group must always judge the book by the cover, just like boomers did/do. Have mercy please!!! A few females actually work hard, sweat, get dirty & have life skills & communication skills by the bucketload. I show up at a hardware store hot, tired & on task, know exactly what I need & guys just give me dirty looks - for real. I'm born & raised in MN. MN kids go to wilderness camps - boys & GIRLS, we go hunting with our Dad, & help him gut & pluck feathers off of ducks & pheasants, we backup boats on trailers into the lake, we fish on big lakes in bad weather, we go camping in tents, I went on a 21 day canoe trip into Canada. We icefish in winter.... I, can "out sail" all the guys on this channel - on Lake Superior!!! My Dad hand built a DN iceboat in our basement & we kids raced that 1 man sailboat at 70mph on clear ice on huge lakes. Sooooo fun!!!My mother taught me to be an ace seamstress like her & her mother - no shortcuts. Cook, clean, organize. Do it right! Do you know that camping, sailing, sewing, cooking, cleaning, iceboating, fishing, hunting, etc, etc IS ALL HARD WORK? Lazy unimaginative dudes & females don't have great idea's, a love for life, or many skills. My Dad didn't learn to sail until he bought a small old wood sailboat for his kids & family, same with the iceboat - he did that for his kids. Hunting & guns he learned from my mother's father! My Dad was from NYC & learned outdoor adventure in MINNESOTA! I drove semi trucks around a huge yard & hitched them up & dropped the tankers as needed for a job. I bucked thousands of hay bales, and rounded up 75 head of horses (with other kids) in the hills on horseback & ran em back miles to the ranch house corral. I drove tractor alone for days, baling hay as a teenager, fixing things as I went. I got so much more experience on ranches in Montana & in my lifetime of jobs & working. In a 1000 females - you will not find one female skilled, experienced & as knowledgeable as me. Boomer men didn't like high energy girls with muscles & brains I guess. It's a good thing I learned all this, because I'm the total HQ & CEO of me!!! As far as looks, maybe I was a 5 or 6 or 7 during my 30's, 40's, & 50's, 60's??? Whatever - I loved my life full of adventures, new people & new places... And I ain't done yet🤣!!! YeeeHaaaa!!! ...just sayin'

[@randyrodriguez916]

you did everything but what you were designed to do. an thats have at least one kid. its sort of a meaningless existence to never feel the love of having a baby but at least youre having fun.

[@te7406]

Sounds like a fun life!

[@te7406]

​@@oonojoe Not always. Sometimes, we don't meet the right one and get married. So, we just live our lives.

[@lucky-yx8xy]

I'm almost 32 years old and a good looking guy( many people told me that) virgin and never been in a relationship I have a normal life I'm a social person and have a small business but this thing is killing me inside, I like a girl of 28, but i fear that when she find about my total inexperience she will run away.I feel bad and ashamed I don't know what to do, time flies I think that it's late for me , the reason why it happen is that Years ago After a rejection by a girl that i liked for so long I don't pursued any girl due to this delusion, and my insecurities has grown too much.one month ago I've known a girl that work in a shop in my town and i like her so much after years of not liking so much anybody I even dreamed of her one night. I don't speak english very well sorry for any grammar mistake. any advice is welcomed

[@TheOlzee]

Stop feeling sorry for yourself no gives a shit about your insecurities. Keep talking like the victim and you’ll keep getting nothing. Or grow some balls, raise your testosterone and get what you want with effort.

[@jasonstorjack9521]

You give the impression of a dreamer. That's no male option. All male dreamers and non actors are loosers as far as iI have com to know. Stop dreaming, start thinking clearly about your objective, don't put any girl, regardless of beauty, on a pedestal and start acting.

[@alchemicalsoul]

As a woman I wouldn't care about the sexual inexperience. I would offer that you spend time learning yourself though. Do shadow work to figure out your fears, failure, rejection, abandonment before you start trying to connect with women. You'll have a nice fresh start. Remember though that the greatest lessons come from making mistakes..

[@lucky-yx8xy]

@@alchemicalsoul I read that many women do not want to deal with inexperienced people at my age, I thought if he asks me about past experiences I would answer that I have not had serious relationships

[@jasonstorjack9521]

To lock up. That was in a ninties movie from Robert de Nero playing in his hometown.

[@operasinger2126]

Great video!

[@TrickNTricky]

When god showed me LFA, i became a real man🏜️😎

[@blkgarments]

What’s LFA?

[@ch-ir8ld]

Before I watched LFA I was a woman

[@thefunson8087]

Bible

[@bellavita3097]

Spot on again:)

[@bellavita3097]

I always unlock the door always.Never knew that was in a movie. I am an American girl with Irish French Hungarian roots, and if a man walks in front of me, he’s in a hurry to get where ever we’re going… I’ll count down the minutes until I bow out. Just like when you’re out to dinner if someone scarf their food you’re just on your first bite I’m out. Take your time engage in the person across from you.

[@TheOlzee]

I lock them in

[@nikhil8892]

Thank you man

[@lamaralvarez7385]

The Bronx Tale is the movie with the selfish broad test.

[@martinbouchard7032]

Comon sense...damn i love it thanks buddy👊

[@LightFoam]

Thanks brother

[@4thlinegooner582]

I'm sure some of this works great, but let's be honest here. A guy working 40-50 hours a week ain't got no time for this bullshit mental olympics.

[@TheOlzee]

It wasn’t that complicated lol

[@mariovaldez3147]

Game 💯

[@joegugg4129]

What is thoughtful and relative inexpensive?

[@PerryNight-gc3fp]

I'm 60 years old my days of having a relationship with women are running out very fast.

[@Timbzz-dq8vn]

Why

[@PerryNight-gc3fp]

@@Timbzz-dq8vn because once you hit a certain age your phone stops ringing and you're not 60 yet

[@Timbzz-dq8vn]

@@PerryNight-gc3fp my phone never rings now and I'm only 32.

[@TheOlzee]

@@PerryNight-gc3fpdate women near to you age? 50 ish

[@PerryNight-gc3fp]

@@TheOlzee I'm here in NYC 50 year old woman are not just walking around waiting to get picked up it's very hard I've been meeting women but none of the woman that I'm meeting are turning into dates they all have a different excuse.

[@Spacepotato9000]

Nice jeep man 👍

[@dw7611-s7v]

The name of the movie was A Bronx Tale

[@TheJereld]

When women find a guy they want, it's because they want to prove they can tame him. Especially if he is successful. And it stems from self gratification for her.

[@LFA]

Rarely

[@mediumchungus9662]

Only a beta male can be tamed by a self-centered, broken women. You have a spineless beta mindset.

[@EvolveKnowledge-i2i]

The movie is called “A Bronx Tale”

[@JohnHenkamGangte]

What stage of the relationship are we talking about here?

[@cammantialive]

I have no idea what I’m doing

[@claytonelofgren]

Number 3 happened to me end of last year. Girl I was seeing very frequently end of last year she got sick around Thanksgiving. So I brought her some Essentia waters and some expensive green juices and vitamin liquids. She did say thanks in a genuine way. But it was after that she got really repulsive and mean for no reason.

[@marylogan6711]

He shouldn’t have to state that she reciprocates the kindness.. just wait and watch

[@stratz8089]

What do you mean by women who don’t deserve it ?

[@Scorned405]

A Bronx tale!!!! The door test!!! The film is called A Bronx tale.

[@vahalla5190]

Bronx Tale

[@TheReal_TOP-G]

Finally we have our own shit test Good brother

[@NeanderthalNatty]

I think it was bronx tale

[@ronaldgiles3537]

The movie is bronxtale

[@witchreturns2263]

Most men are made to be in relationship

[@swalesdevices8876]

This is all right, but I'd advise against straight off presenting this to the woman in a transactional way, literally connecting the thing you did to what you want done. Some women dislike openly keeping score like that. Unlike the movie dad I'd be fine with asking for something rather than dumping when she doesn't predict what you want, but you should at least give her the chance to show she understands that she should be helping you when asked.

[@bellavita3097]

When a man gives you a massage he shouldn’t want one right away. That’s your time that’s your relaxation, but you should reciprocate for what he likes without him having to ask. Or tell you his it’s his turn. 🙉

[@bigdogdad99delrio21]

Beat me to pumch

[@Ring0--]

Should have read the earlier comments...😅

[@blockaderunner]

But I married mine within 2 weeks of online videochat. Now, we forever do the thoughtful things for each other. Look East my friends, you can’t find American or western women to interact like the women of the 1950s anymore. The evildoers have done their damage for decades in the works.

[@Ring0--]

A Bronx Tale is the movie.

[@dat868]

Not sure if getting an inexpensive gift then asking her to reciprocate is such a good idea at least early in the dating relationship. Early on women get freaked out by gifts even if it's cheap.

[@te7406]

I believe that you cannot "ask" her to reciprocate. You can wait and see if she does.

[@donramon2501]

I bought my ex a 14 dollars gift after that day she acted weird then the succer that I am I got her a ring after that my days were number so I don't giving anything is better if she's not your wife

[@will.davlin]

Idk how everyone in the world isnt just thinking about the economic collapse and possible famine soon

[@mikeyakb]

I'm thinking about it..... Everything will fail. Nothing will work. Everyone will be polarized, and they will go one way or the other with or without you.

[@austingray6885]

Lmfao what? How?

[@mikeyakb]

​@@austingray6885 grown man typing "lmao". What you mean how...turd

[@austingray6885]

@@mikeyakb lmfao

[@freeman37]

If you can work and you have a piece of land, you won't starve. If not, you can still offer your labour for a piece of bread.

[@Rhianos]

Applying pressure is just showing interest by flirting and being bold enough to do and say the things that you wanted to say type shi

[@mediumchungus9662]

The average woman can outsmart and will outmasculine the avergae man (beta). He resigns to his fate and she accepts her dog on a leash, both to avoid being alone, afraid to let go of what clearly doesn't work. Thus the cycle continues on and on.