Damn KZbin algorithm knows I’m in a rut right now.
@catllionare5 жыл бұрын
Same lol. The algorithm is like Morpheus from the Matrix lol
@truthseeker82735 жыл бұрын
Same here as well xD
@hgonzalez5225 жыл бұрын
Also same Haha
@syableman62945 жыл бұрын
same, but we will get over this shit guys. good luck to everyone.
@johnford9025 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I pay for KZbin premium if I get tailored advice.
@courtneykathleen26864 жыл бұрын
I’ve come to the realization: We don’t get energy, we GENERATE our energy. This helps me take that first action step in the cycle.
@impactbooks53384 жыл бұрын
Yep
@Shanel914 жыл бұрын
That’s an amazing way too look at it!
@JP-wk5wt4 жыл бұрын
That’s good
@StojanPeshov13374 жыл бұрын
This is true. Im doing that for a few years now. You decide how you feel. You just need to vibrate to positive energy and you harvest it.
@sviatlanakarpovich46434 жыл бұрын
Jeeezz I never have energy... probably I gotta generate some myself 😀
@biancalauren49815 жыл бұрын
KZbin: I see you’ve been watching for 7+ hours a day KZbin: recommends this video
@Proactivity4 жыл бұрын
Same
@waynelast16854 жыл бұрын
yes same for me
@pelotasdad4 жыл бұрын
we are on a roll..... don't want to change too much midstream.... the thought of being seen as less than fully dedicated to the cause of staying distracted 24/7 makes my socks roll up and down.
@Lure_Music4 жыл бұрын
same...
@smakkdat4 жыл бұрын
How to get out of a rut: #1. don’t have an autoimmune disease
@octavianschaefer72942 жыл бұрын
Been in a 3 month rut, and it got pretty bad. I lost my job, i defaulted on a couple bills, but recently I started to feel the motivation to get up again. So right now I’ve started with simply hitting the gym. After a couple days of doing that, I cleaned my apartment room at a time. it’s been a couple weeks now and I’ve really gotten into a grove with these. Headed to a couple potential employers tomorrow to see about getting another job. Fingers crossed that my gradual introduction this time leads to better results. Thank you for the content, this was exactly the motivation and reassurance I needed!
@will.h2152 жыл бұрын
Been there brother and it sure is tough, but we're real fucking capable when we get after it, best of luck, you got it in the bag!
@homieJorge2 жыл бұрын
Fuck yeah man, crush it
@LegalBoss227 Жыл бұрын
yeah what a dream, being able to take your time because you are unemployed and dont pay bills. some of us dont get that luxury.
@octavianschaefer7294 Жыл бұрын
@@LegalBoss227 it’s never that simple my guy. I wasn’t unemployed by choice.
@michaelrandall09 Жыл бұрын
@@LegalBoss227 get out of here wit that negative energy. We all tryna make it work.
@BigSauce_5 жыл бұрын
"wow this will help me" *Saves to Watch Later*
@VS6665 жыл бұрын
lmao
@AjuAziz5 жыл бұрын
GGCLstudios I am actually watching from watch later. 😐
@yacinecabba3635 жыл бұрын
lol
@yacinecabba3635 жыл бұрын
@@AjuAziz at least u watch it .
@genmaichastar5 жыл бұрын
Haha
@salttothesea4 жыл бұрын
I always get inspired after I get into bed at night. Make grand plans. Then wake up in the morning and immediately think, “naaah.”
@sumaiyapervez6474 жыл бұрын
me at 3.33 am right now, knowing my future self (in the morning/afternoon lol) will be too lazy to follow through with whatever plans to better myself i come up with ...
@annadarshay47044 жыл бұрын
Phew... I’m not the only one 😳
@slashkokane4 жыл бұрын
bruhh I know.. lets fukn do it or what
@felicityjim53494 жыл бұрын
Relatable AF
@arthurcallahan47354 жыл бұрын
SAAAAME college made me more social and thinking at night but in the day im groggy lazy and foggy.
@chocoCo0kie3 жыл бұрын
My whole life is just a repetitive cycle of trying to come out of a rut for a long time, then finally getting out of it and being productive for a short period, and then get stuck in a rut again
@gonzaotc3 жыл бұрын
Same, is like 3 steps foward and 2 back, and sometimess 3-4 back
@vishnu.prasad.official3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@agentsquirrel61763 жыл бұрын
Omg... this is exactly what its been like for the past 6 years 😔
@househusband283 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’ve been going through!
@patriot94873 жыл бұрын
Try anti-depressants if nothing else works
@normalotus2 жыл бұрын
Cleaned my kitchen today felt good. Thanks.
@maxph61235 жыл бұрын
“Save to watch later”
@joshuaobat5 жыл бұрын
Max PH 😂😂😂😂😂
@starfoxboy6705 жыл бұрын
Ayeooo😂
@MusicizmahQueenSBed45 жыл бұрын
I literally almost did that, oh god haha but. I pushed myself not to, and i think that’s a good thing
@johnnycrash48925 жыл бұрын
My watch later has like 1000 videos i never got around to watching
@mogulmade5 жыл бұрын
@@johnnycrash4892 1523 😔 lol lol
@FinnJenkins3 жыл бұрын
I love the "start something" principle. Newton's first law. A body at rest, stays at rest and a body in motion stays in motion. So just a gentle nudge is an absolute winner. Thanks for this
@arelyferrel1663 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making it make sense 🙃
@dhruvmalik96513 жыл бұрын
A really good logic bro👍🏻👍🏻
@sandroadler36073 жыл бұрын
Damn that's Interesting
@hhashh23272 жыл бұрын
lol weird flex but ok
@sunofthelady89242 жыл бұрын
Law of inertia! ✨
@rockstar6goalkeeper4 жыл бұрын
My goal for day 1 was to wake up. That's it. Set an alarm, get up when it rings, and not go back to sleep. 7 days later my gym route is back, my house is spotless, I've seen people i haven't seen in months, and I'm struggling to find time for video games. Starting small works
@thecoolest58133 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! I hope it works for me too.
@jm.fantin3 жыл бұрын
same here. just woke up at day 1... hated the bright sky, like the previous days. made some tea and now life seems a bit less horrible already. it's 8:26 and I'll just exist while it's morning. it's not even early anymore, but it sure is an advance considering I've been waking up near lunch lately.
@VigneshVignesh-ri6ls3 жыл бұрын
U become my inspiration
@Ericarothwellunravel3 жыл бұрын
Well done 👍🏻
@ThePenguinsfly213 жыл бұрын
But what if you love video games?
@starlanzo Жыл бұрын
1. Do something little to be inspired and have motivation 2. Reward yourself 3. Start small and grow gradually
@idontmakevideossubscribe15035 жыл бұрын
“You don’t need some massive motivational boost to take a shower” I feel personally attacked
@chuckmaddison29245 жыл бұрын
Myself, I work for a company that blames me when the people I go to help make a decision that doesn't put money in companies pocket. The people I help have already paid $300 for the 24hr at call service. I then have to go around with someone less qualified to see what I'm doing wrong. I feel very much attacked. Oh I've also been to the doctor and had a talk about it. He just had a good laff and said I'm not the one with the problem. But shit it makes my life a misery.
@SamSayaz5 жыл бұрын
Stinky
@Miquelalalaa5 жыл бұрын
FreeLeGiOn People take a shower far more than necessary anyway.
@idontmakevideossubscribe15035 жыл бұрын
Azure Neko bruh I’m finna take notes from you holy shit
@idontmakevideossubscribe15035 жыл бұрын
GreyFolk I mean I guess one less for me is more for everybody else?
@gregxcelente42715 жыл бұрын
"Do you need motivation to take a shower?" Depressed me: "yes."
@ThatWeirdFinn5 жыл бұрын
This!!!
@sarangdave68405 жыл бұрын
glad I'm not the only one
@piladopa90255 жыл бұрын
neckbeards entered the chat
@drakeowen78605 жыл бұрын
The shower is what gives me motivation.
@AikanaroSauron5 жыл бұрын
@@TonyQuackston This so much.
@adamyohan5 жыл бұрын
"And you see a Matt D’Aevlla video" I see you're a man of culture as well.
@mohammedidrees38905 жыл бұрын
Here here
@el_darkstar5 жыл бұрын
I literally went down to the comments as soon as i heard that 😂😂
@reddot93105 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOOOO
@patchrikd1545 жыл бұрын
Best comment.
@sword_of_damocle55 жыл бұрын
He is the algorithmic bond we all share.
@palvithakur96492 жыл бұрын
Needed this, I have a bad cycle of doing everything perfectly for 3 months then spending the next 3 months doing the bare minimum and sometimes unable to even get out of bed, i didn’t realize it’s possible to find a balance too thank you!
@rockybalbola48610 ай бұрын
Hehe
@angelrodas23555 жыл бұрын
I was so deep in a rut I've been holding back this video in my watch later for 2 weeks
@Levegy5 жыл бұрын
I can feel you bud
@gregrogers48535 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@vanish14025 жыл бұрын
Saaaaaaame. 😣😒😞
@XDTuber5 жыл бұрын
I'm so deep in a rut I don't even watch my watch later playlist
@krithiksingh5 жыл бұрын
Bro i just watched it today, been in a rut for 2 weeks as well. I been seeing this in my recommended and kept scrolling past it, finally clicked it lmao
@kaddians69235 жыл бұрын
“I’m not a doctor, I’m just a dude” I’m gonna live by that
@AlexisCarterNotaryMentor5 жыл бұрын
Wens dudes are doctors
@takopulpfiction5 жыл бұрын
Very lebowskian
@marcosgarcia2455 жыл бұрын
This needs to be a shirt
@monikan23095 жыл бұрын
@@marcosgarcia245 I am a doctor but would love to wear that shirt to work 😂.
@lonewolftrading25 жыл бұрын
I am not a doctor either....but I played one on TV
@offgridexploring4 жыл бұрын
I literally thought I was the only person who went through the productive/destructive cycle.
@kar-z2q4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Me too! It’s a a sad relief🥲
@Dondingdingding4 жыл бұрын
Didn't search for this tbh. It just randomly pop up in recommendation and yes I'm too lazy to do the usual stuff that i really do. Not hitting my qouta anymore just playing games more often, no more exercise ,eating while watching tv damn
@gr77884 жыл бұрын
This is my life since about the age of 12. A head injury 13 yrs ago didnt help it either, just happened more frequently. It's refreshing to hear someone else saying they go through it too. Becoming self aware takes Courage and time and learning to accountable for your own actions to yourself. Don't ever give up , things can always get better. Thank you for sharing
@the13thTone4 жыл бұрын
Look at the hits on this video, this says a lot about us. It also helps to know that we're not going through it alone.
@joeradler4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Strangely, that takes alot of the pressure off.
@adarshvlog2409 Жыл бұрын
00:00 Lack of motivation can lead to self-destruction 01:08 Utilize the 'do something' principle for action 02:28 Start with action to gain momentum 03:43 Reward yourself for small wins 04:58 Manage your primal brain with higher judgement and compassion 06:07 Organically grow a productive lifestyle 07:23 Reducing friction is key to sustained productivity 08:37 Learn how to climb out of a rut
@soulvz Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jesminjahan9846 Жыл бұрын
Thanks.. this actually helps much.😊😊
@macieclinee8 ай бұрын
love ppl like you🤝
@karnazacss4 жыл бұрын
The irony of bookmark this as 'Watch Later'
@trashAndNoStar4 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂
@NeedSpeed394 жыл бұрын
or having the tab open for days
@JT-nz1dg3 жыл бұрын
I deadass marked this in watch later 2 weeks ago lmao
@liveradclothing89443 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@vanessacamilleri4413 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@erykwaligora124 жыл бұрын
“Comparing yourself to who you were yesterday, rather than comparing yourself to who someone else is today”. 🙌
@anomalous344 жыл бұрын
I used to be fit, have a girlfriend, best friends, a dream, and motivation. Now I don't have any of that. Hmm.. not sure this idea is working.
@nelsonsjourney97144 жыл бұрын
@@anomalous34 Who you were, not what you had. We lose friends. It happens. You just have to move on.
@Brandten054 жыл бұрын
That’s so motivational
@JosephDeLosSantos-t3m4 жыл бұрын
Tamers Superfan let’s be better together 💪🏻
@lehonyy24284 жыл бұрын
yyeesss ❤❤❤
@amysuarez24565 жыл бұрын
When you’re so rock bottom that even KZbin is trying to help you. 😂😂
@heyyou19115 жыл бұрын
On godd hahaha
@maxjohnson17585 жыл бұрын
Bwaaaaaaa!
@s.velarde18115 жыл бұрын
Amy Suarez I am also in that club! 🙋🏻♀️ lol aye yie yie, I’m gonna go eat another slice of cheese
@amysuarez24565 жыл бұрын
sarah velarde more like another block for me 😂😂😂
@jacenouzen5 жыл бұрын
For me. Its jus i can't tell whether my crush likes me back, or she fallin for someone else...
@35americas22 жыл бұрын
These mental health struggles are what keep us from achieving our potential. We need to be more supportive of each other.
@lil_swarlette5 жыл бұрын
The 3 steps, for reference: 1. Use the 'do something' principle 2. Reward yourself for small accomplishments 3. Progressive overload
@constantinbalan5035 жыл бұрын
thanks, this is exactly what i was looking for ;)
@digitalsamurai425 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@beko____5 жыл бұрын
Steliata nice. I watched it as well. And while I appreciated it, I felt like the main takeaways sometimes faded from my mind
@lonewolftrading25 жыл бұрын
I reward myself by buying hookers and heroine
@burnedvegantoast24315 жыл бұрын
A J heroin ;) heroine is a female hero
@Patience2dream5 жыл бұрын
"After days of binging dopamine" That little phrase there really opened my understanding of why I feel like crap after only watching tv for days in a row.
@jsw78835 жыл бұрын
had the exact same thought.
@lassekrisper5 жыл бұрын
Same for me. It's so simple, yet I can't figure that out myself when I'm in the rut. It's strange.
@egeniojaramillo90485 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I mean, the sitting on your ass. Probably eating junk food. Not moving. Ignoring other things that need to be done. None of that is why you feel like crap huh
@egeniojaramillo90485 жыл бұрын
Kristoffer Persson oh come on. You can’t figure out that you feel bad because you’re binging tv? Seriously ?
@dylanbaas4955 жыл бұрын
@@egeniojaramillo9048 No, idiot, you feel bad all of a sudden. Not motivated to do anything, besides eating junkfood, and watching tv shows. Eating junkfood etc, triggers dopamine wich makes you feel good. For example: that bag of cookies you're eating, the reason why you keep eating them while you know you shouldn't isn't only because they are tasty, but also because sugar stimulates the dopamine receptors, releasing dopamine in the brain wich again, makes you feel good.
@Q8IBOYS3 жыл бұрын
When I feel down, I allow myself two days of that feeling. I binge Netflix and I munch on junk without feeling bad. I noticed that the more i guilt myself at being unproductive the more difficult it is to get out of the rut because i’ll keep wanting more down time because I never enjoyed it to begin with. I dont know if that makes sense.
@medkha82103 жыл бұрын
it makes sense for me, I should try this out, as I'm in a rut right now, I'm feeling guilty and can't get out of it.
@sofiesummerbradley3 жыл бұрын
I am in this phase right now😂😂
@filhanislamictv87123 жыл бұрын
Andd We got a party boys
@harrygibbons49333 жыл бұрын
omg yes like im in a constant work mode memtally
@mateogarca65323 жыл бұрын
Ong I do this, I guilt myself then I stop and actually enjoy myself for a lil while, no guilt, and it helps me get out of the rut faster
@rubenarmandofigueroafuentes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I'm constantly in quick ruts and I really need momentum right now. It is a blessing to return to your channel and find the ideas that introduced me to selfdevelopment in the beginning.
@EmilMrSweFish2 жыл бұрын
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, rather than who someone else is today”. That is my biggest takeaway from this video. Thank you for amazing content 🙏
@ToCGambler2 жыл бұрын
If that's one of your biggest takeaways, you might wanna dive into videos of Jordan Peterson talking about motivation, discipline and responsibility. This idea was actually formulated by him in his book "12 Rules for Life".
@EmilMrSweFish2 жыл бұрын
@@ToCGambler Thank you, I’ll check it out! I appreciate you for taking your time to recommend it 😁
@user-rn4tt9gw2p2 жыл бұрын
What movies is that from
@myname-mz3lo2 жыл бұрын
@@ToCGambler Jordan Peterson has no qualifications... listen to a psychiatrist instead
@nathanbaker86842 жыл бұрын
👌👌
@ageofdragonz36844 жыл бұрын
The fact that you decided to watch this video means you have already started taking action. Good job!
@nicolascorre1er4 жыл бұрын
The KZbin algorithm just chose it for me.
@ageofdragonz36844 жыл бұрын
@@nicolascorre1er Haha, that was more of a note to myself than for others XD
@nicolascorre1er4 жыл бұрын
Keep up the motivation! ;) Personally I adopted the "split the big stuff in small actions" motif, that kinda work for everyday tasks for now...
@ageofdragonz36844 жыл бұрын
@@nicolascorre1er Yeah, I have been splitting all the stuff in small tasks too following the principle of "Baby steps to giant strides" :)
@stevee77744 жыл бұрын
Now I need a nap.
@isaacheinze81064 жыл бұрын
"I'm not a doctor, I'm just a dude," Quote of the century.
@faboolean70393 жыл бұрын
I heard that in a prostate exam
@damnboi35863 жыл бұрын
@@faboolean7039 hmmm
@IbrahimKhan-gv6cw3 жыл бұрын
Not really at all.
@Paarthurnaxdova3 жыл бұрын
Doctors are dudes too! 😱
@damnboi35863 жыл бұрын
@@Paarthurnaxdova yeah, we know that, the "dude" he is talking about is just a mainstream human.
@soranriver6923 Жыл бұрын
Rewording my goals has helped me stay on track. Instead of something like “get fit” I used “become more in-tune with my body” followed by ways to do so such as bow flex, skate, dance, etc. I also labeled my goals as falling under one of four categories: physical health, intellectual health, social health, and spiritual health. This helps me remember to keep balance in all aspects of my life and also not be so hard on myself if I don’t work on all my goals that day. If I can work on at least one goal in each category, I’m making progress.
@kdm28 Жыл бұрын
I just thought the same things on your health categories but I called them purpose categories. I just figured out last night that I haven't had a purpose for the last 28 years after graduation from college. Best of luck to you!!!
@primedynamic31525 ай бұрын
Sharpen the saw
@paigebostock47615 жыл бұрын
I’m in such a rut I don’t even have the motivation to finish this video
@kingleonidas96725 жыл бұрын
Paige Bostock truth
@bulletman045 жыл бұрын
I struggled while watching ans wanted to watch it later but fighted to watch it
@medqenmedness2295 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful BTW
@xensan765 жыл бұрын
It's because he takes 3 minutes to get to the point.
@mjm50815 жыл бұрын
You think that's a rut?!...I don't have the motivation to finish this...
@ayabellaoui8542 жыл бұрын
Start with a clean environment! What worked best for me (everyone is different) was deep cleaning my room and disinfecting everything so that I felt like I was was in a fresh relaxing environment. Once i did that, it became so much easier to climb out of that rut. The mind is powerful so the more you are aware of how much you have accomplished the more you do accomplish!
@Aatell7642 жыл бұрын
"A cluttered home is a cluttered mind"
@quartzfacts53412 жыл бұрын
Agrred
@peachguystone70862 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! The brain craves order. Living in a dirty environment can only make depression worse
@keroflobs2 жыл бұрын
I love this because for me when I was depressed it started with making my bed, and then cleaning my room, and taking care of basic fundamental hygiene and everything rolled from that. I always feel decluttering helps get that ball rolling
@padresoscar2 жыл бұрын
Nah, you're just a Clean freak 👎
@Matthew-kb9bw4 жыл бұрын
The “Do Something” approach, is why I make my bed in the morning. It’s easy and it helps get me started.
@tosh83774 жыл бұрын
I’ve read that heaps of successful people do that. Did you ever see that speech where some military guy talks about making your bed? Very powerful.
@d1rtyharry3784 жыл бұрын
@@tosh8377 ikr. That guy gave me the motivation to make my bed everyday. I do that but still cant find any motivation to get back to my work lol. But still making bed generates some kind of energy or something like that in my body. All i gotta do is convert the energy to my work
@eeg1224 жыл бұрын
Yes. I saw that video. Very inspiring. I make my bed daily.
@ElenaSemanova4 жыл бұрын
Yep, definetely, and for me it's also kind of a mental barrier telling me I no longer can go back to my bed and that I should start my day
@JT13584 жыл бұрын
But PLEASE people - let the darn thing air first!
@alyserdar2 жыл бұрын
Everyone is going through these phases. Moving home and going away for a long business trip coming out of summer holidays got the best of me and I've been struggling big time to get out of my rut. No gym, no running, no waking up early. But this video reminded me how actions are controlling our motivation - just "DO SOMETHING" and the rest will follow! Thank you! :)
@RaySiraj5 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna say, this literally got recommended when I really needed it.. I dont even write comments, but you literally described me right now.. Thank you. I got inspired
@NASkeywest5 жыл бұрын
Rakan Al Yami a man in desperate need of a revelation usually revives one.
@mouad44245 жыл бұрын
صح لسانك
@wimzi98875 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@RandomGuy-kw6xq5 жыл бұрын
did this inspiration motivate you to take an action though?
@TimeHacker0015 жыл бұрын
Same
@dynamic-eu17944 жыл бұрын
This video may have been life changing for me. Two months ago when the quarantine started I felt like every living moment was a chore. I saw a few of your videos and this one really struck a chords with me. It gave me the motivation to do something. Two months later, lost 12lbs, wrote 3 chapters in my book, read 5 books, improved my relationships, felt like life was good every living day. There were days that I struggled but I keep on pushing through. Today I ended up in a funk and I knew exactly where to go to find my trueself again. Joey you are a life changer.
@releasetoreceive4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you!! Keep it up!
@starkheart44414 жыл бұрын
Dynamic-EU Wow! I’m proud of you!
@Mark_Grand4 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Were you able to keep moving forward? I can’t seem to get the cycle started, but I’m desperately needing this kind of amazing change in my life.
@AlyssaBotelho4 жыл бұрын
This is amazing and so inspiring! Keep going!
@bjorn69564 жыл бұрын
Damn... i was so productive and because of sitting at home entire days I became more and more undisciplined each day... RN I'm skipping (home) workouts and the work that I put off is piled up... Let's get out of this rut together you reading this!
@lukedocherty28554 жыл бұрын
Definitely there with you man hope you’ve gotten out of your rut now
@bjorn69564 жыл бұрын
@@lukedocherty2855 I have actually for me the trick lies in doing my workout as soon as I wake up and not later in the day when I'm already kind of tired from all the other work. And with that if I did my workout in the morning I also feel more productive for the rest of the day
@JayPromotions4 жыл бұрын
bjorn LETS DO THIS 😤😤😤
@cintiabutlers47244 жыл бұрын
Let's fight back!
@jujas74334 жыл бұрын
On board, let's go! 👍
@corey93138 ай бұрын
I know this video was a long time ago but this was needed. I used to freaking kill it with motivation, meditation, eating healthy, getting up early, walking, but over the past 2 years, that was just totally lost and I feel like I can't get it back or why? So I just chalk it up as depression and trauma. Time to take it easy on my primal side and on myself, appreciate you man!
@sonickanica3 жыл бұрын
Dude: "Do you need some huge inspirational epiphany to take shower?" Me: "Yes" Dude: "No!" Me: ohh...
@franklin16283 жыл бұрын
I feel this on a spiritual level
@Michael-td7hg3 жыл бұрын
He's bald. Its like washing your hands for him
@DaBeastBeats3 жыл бұрын
that is an actual problem
@andreacamachovisiedo58013 жыл бұрын
Haha same
@drewbear26943 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@lesitonio64024 жыл бұрын
Watching this video made me think that I can literally save my life right now. Thank you!
@nellymalone28024 жыл бұрын
❤️💕
@shawarmageddonit4 жыл бұрын
Literally? How??
@jerrijobarkerlove36134 жыл бұрын
Hope you are still inspired. ❤
@wleostark44344 жыл бұрын
i feel like that is the best thing you could ever tell someone
@jonm6104 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re well and keep it up
@AT-yg4nk5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been stuck in this “rut” from the day of my 30th birthday. Something changed.. I use to be highly motivated and was the guy that went to the success seminars, watched all the videos, read all the books. I was big into working out! Being healthy and fitness was higher priority. I was headed somewhere in life, with purpose I felt. Today. I’m 34. I’m depressed, lonely, broke, angry, I have bouts of rage, stressed constantly, annoyed with everyone, don’t care for being polite in public anymore. I’ve become something I hate and despise. Maybe this video came to me for a reason. I don’t know. But this video directly spoke to me. Thank you.
@uradeva36905 жыл бұрын
How’s it going?
@uradeva36905 жыл бұрын
Charles Duvall you can make some changes... I’d be happy to give you some advice if you wanted but I don’t know anything about you. I’ve struggled with a lot and have had a lot of hell and pain. I wish you the best
@Starbrou4 жыл бұрын
Feel u guys.. Avolition is the most shit feeling ever.. What helped me was changing my general perception, it came when i realised our subconscious mind is controlling what thoughts we have every day. What questions do you ask yourself? There are some tricks to program yourself. Do it! Or others will do, like they always have Developing Gratitude helped me a lot.. Best wishes! Your time will come for sure! If u are looking for the person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror
@realmadamebproductions62024 жыл бұрын
That’s what happened. After doing all this stuff you were told to do, not by yourself but society, after completing it, you haven’t found a personal purpose for yourself.
@EvenTheDogAgrees4 жыл бұрын
@@realmadamebproductions6202 If you haven't seen it already, search for "Alan Watts on education". He describes exactly what you're talking about, and concludes with (paraphrasing from memory): "But we fooled ourselves the entire way. We thought of life as a pilgrimage, as a quest, with a serious purpose at the end and the thing was to get to that end. But we were wrong all along: it was a musical thing, and you were supposed to sing and dance while the music was being played". And that's a good attitude towards life. Furthermore, you're not responsible for everything in life. Your first responsibility is to yourself. Treat yourself as you would treat others. Lots of people put their own physical and mental health in second place. While it's commendable that you would take excellent care of a child or a pet, remember that you owe yourself that same level of attention and care. Your second responsibility is to your loved ones. Be they family, partner, friends or even pets. Take good care of them, and they will take good care of you when you're in need. Even if it's just offering emotional support. Your last responsibility is to humanity as a whole. Try not to do anything to jeopardise the future of the species or harm society. In concrete terms that would equate to trying not to contribute to the toxic atmosphere in online comments sections, trying to minimise your ecological footprint, that sort of stuff. Now, I'm not the best at all of that either. But it being difficult to follow doesn't invalidate the advice. ;)
@Ash-vt5cp6 ай бұрын
this is exactly me right now - was killing it studying for exam, passed it, happy about it, took a (intentional) 1 week break from life, and now i'm in a rut
@s.o.k.13934 жыл бұрын
"Do you need some sort of huge inspirational epiphany to take a shower?" Me: "yes" "No." Me: "right, of course not"
@speaktruth99894 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@ILooveeuuu4 жыл бұрын
honestly, I thought the same. But I also have super long and curly hair, which means taking a full shower with washing my hair takes me around 45 minutes, spending most of that time with my head upside down. So yeah, like, I need a lot of motivation to do that
@jesswest154 жыл бұрын
Same. I just gotta find the thing that's easy for me to do. I think my rut is a lot lower than his example, so my "do somethings" are going to be a LOT smaller than his. Hopefully one day they'll be bigger.
@evaj34614 жыл бұрын
@@jesswest15 you totally got this!! One step at a time. It’s not easy but you CAN require your brain. 🌻🙏
@husain31904 жыл бұрын
@@ILooveeuuu shave your head or suffer for eternity
@adamlee28075 жыл бұрын
"Every day it gets a little easier. But you have to do it every day. That's the hard part. But it does get easier."
@joshuafernandes65925 жыл бұрын
BoJack
@loges_lol5 жыл бұрын
Wow you can quote bojack that is impressive
@gerRule5 жыл бұрын
Nah Fuck that it’s Sunday
@anthonysantiago65285 жыл бұрын
It doesn't get easier. You just get better
@rhys27924 жыл бұрын
When he said " I'm not a doctor, I'm just a dude", I felt that
@ThatWhichErodes4 жыл бұрын
"I'm the dude playing the dude disguised as another dude!"
@solarmoon224 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@hawkeyepierce88864 жыл бұрын
the two genders: doctor or dude
@rafaellopessax2 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother, this video really helps, I've been on a rut for a long time and it's motivating to see someone who is also dealing with the same thing
@TimeFliesTimeManagement5 жыл бұрын
*Never skip a good habit 2 days in a row..* Who knows Matt d’Avella rule?
@deanj67225 жыл бұрын
Don't know it..which video?
@fatehimanov76965 жыл бұрын
No this rule is belonged to james clear who wrote atomatic habits book
@fatehimanov76965 жыл бұрын
Dean J it means that if you dont do any kind of good habit within 2 days,you lose this habit
@TimeFliesTimeManagement5 жыл бұрын
Ghostgamer Fatih i didn’t know thanks! I’ll check out the book as I’m really interested in these topics!
@fatehimanov76965 жыл бұрын
TimeFlies - Time Management i recommend to you read atomatic habits book
@bingusbingus78605 жыл бұрын
"Do you need some sort of huge inspirational epiphany to take a shower? No." --- I am being personally attacked.
@alexandrahunt51985 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@umeshdesai60095 жыл бұрын
So true.
@oguzhanasdas54115 жыл бұрын
literally 10 minutes ago an old friend called and said let's meet in an hour. I am so pissed that I have to take a shower now and go meet with people. and saw this video, clicked it. and the dude says you don't need inspiration to take a shower. guess what? I fucking do. someone kill me please.
@jadevinson20995 жыл бұрын
Right?! Why don’t you mind your business😭
@jennakhivkapratt87515 жыл бұрын
@@oguzhanasdas5411 you just made me feel so normal
@JasonB952 жыл бұрын
The "do something" principle is really a great strategy. But the biggest takeaway for me is knowing I'm not alone. Every time I enter a rut I always feel like I'm the only one in the world who can't stay on track. But after watching this and reading the comments it's amazing to realise how similar other persons' experiences are to mine. This helps a lot with moving forward. Sometimes knowing you're not alone can make all the difference.
@Fillup82 Жыл бұрын
No one is safe from the rut.
@bennytheblanc9 ай бұрын
It’s more common today than it’s ever been bud
@HiddenGem4447 ай бұрын
@@Fillup82Yes he mentioned everything I’ve been doing! I follow my schedule then when I hit that rut I’m stuck on tiktok for a week, eating unhealthy, feeding into unhealthy habits & sleeping alll day. I basically allow myself to rot and then slowly ease into my routines. But dammit I just want to be 100% consistent for once. I’ll get there eventually.
@Reivaz887 ай бұрын
Why is that advice any good, " you are not alone" like who fuckin cares, I have no friends and no family to care about me, I don't think that noone in the wod has the same situation as me, it's just such useless advice and is basically saying " yeah your not the only one going through shit so shut up"
@HiddenGem4447 ай бұрын
@@Reivaz88 whether you realize it or not you have a whole spiritual team that cares about you that surpasses your friends or family here in the 3d. It’s your job to seek solitude in order to tap in, see, hear & receive the love and guidance that is here for you within you! I don’t think “you’re not alone” is meant the way you’re taking it. It’s just as humans we honestly do go through things that make us feel alone or like it’s only happening to us when in reality there’s nothing under the sun we go through that hasn’t been done before! I pray you are able to release this mentality, seek the God that is within you and know that there is soul community out there for you! Ask your spirit to guide you and you shall find what you seek! Take care babes! You’re Honestly not alone out here! 🤎
@wafffls Жыл бұрын
as someone who regularly struggles with executive dysfunction, this video is very helpful! i do a couple of these already- the “do something principal” is basically how i get anything done lol. giving yourself extremely easy goals that would be nearly impossible NOT to do is a great way to trick your brain into starting on tasks you put off. (and if you really don’t end up doing anything beyond that easy first goal, at least you got a little done instead of nothing!) i especially learned from the 2nd and 3rd strategies. i tend to want to ride the high of motivation and end up tiring myself out, putting myself in a brand new rut. even though i know it isn’t working, it’s hard to convince yourself in the moment that taking a bunch of small breaks and rewarding yourself before you’re even that tired is a good idea. hearing someone talk about the logic behind the method is really good for silencing the part of my mind that insists i’m being lazy for not getting everything done in one sitting. all in all, thanks for the video!
@OpalPixie4 жыл бұрын
I usually stay productive for 6 days while taking breaks. On day 7, when everything is done, I pamper myself with facials, movies, and video games. Seems to be working for me so far lol.
@joem70234 жыл бұрын
Not a bad idea.
@dean45454 жыл бұрын
six versus one is too little :(
@im432hz94 жыл бұрын
@@dean4545 everybody is different, there is People That dont even take That one Day, or there are productive people That take 4 days, doesnt really matter, Just apply a good routine to reach your goals and show up everytime =) good luck
@thomasdezalak58435 жыл бұрын
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today” love that quote, you’ll only become better the more you see progress in yourself not your progress compared to others
@itsdanos14195 жыл бұрын
Thomas Dezalak that’s a Jordan Peterson rule in his book lol
@rachelk75555 жыл бұрын
What if you were much better off yesterday than today?
@felicity33495 жыл бұрын
Damn this guy is in a rut for a week.... *I‘m in a rut for my whole life*
@lhommedelacroix23305 жыл бұрын
Jesus
@taz71935 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for you 🙏
@shaquevara5 жыл бұрын
then you probably need to seek out the professional help he mentioned in the disclaimer of his video, bruh. good luck!
@kingstonian13455 жыл бұрын
Been in a rut for at least 10 years. Not a nice struggle
@montsergirl5 жыл бұрын
MV#165 me too 😞 it’s mind blowing people aren’t, i’m happy they aren’t but it’s a weird thought. I hope we can get out of ours one day!
@paulhornsey-pennell1931 Жыл бұрын
the way you pace your commentary along with the tonality you use combined with the info ... makes this so easy to digest. my way of getting of a rut it simply to decide to do the first two minutes of anything ... that's it ... from there if flow has been created i go with it for another 15 mins. if not then i return to the task either later in the day or the following day.
@Secretlyanothername5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need motivation to take a shower?" Uh yes, otherwise I wouldn't be watching this video.
@Dean0ne5 жыл бұрын
i take it you are actually depressed? i'm in therapy myself and sometimes it can take huge amounts of energy to shower or eat enough. i hope you can work out a way to have things be a little easier
@Secretlyanothername5 жыл бұрын
@@Dean0ne Thanks. I'm not depressed (though I have had depression and I know what that kind of deep dark fog is like), but often lack motivation to perform tasks that seem confronting or create anxiety. Sometimes I can get to the pool in the morning and swim 2km, but find it hard to brush my teeth. The "do something" action rule - whatever that action is - is very useful for getting past the ruts that many of us face.
@Secretlyanothername5 жыл бұрын
@Neruko G Take a listen to Mel Robbins five second rule. It's probably worth using it to reset tomorrow morning.
@68845 жыл бұрын
my motivation usually is that dear lord I stink like shit
@charmedprince5 жыл бұрын
@@Secretlyanothername 54321 actually does work but when you hit the point of, "uggggghhh, who cares what happens!!" it takes more than just 5 seconds to make anything matter. But i admit, Mel Robbins' technique works when you're not feeling the mean reds
@teezabook9625 жыл бұрын
“Going back to being productive like earlier in the month” Years... it’s been years buddy
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
Same lmao
@laurencollins49005 жыл бұрын
😂
@mezalong5 жыл бұрын
I can't go back to something I never was..
@dawidpotega8825 жыл бұрын
Yep almost 5 years here!
@mcbolina27795 жыл бұрын
Same
@ImDezi5 жыл бұрын
“It’s the show with hot questions and even hotter wings” Oh wait...
@ijm905 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@Lucidiumshards5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@enzerabowenzu53405 жыл бұрын
Oh is it the same guy?
@RemingtonMK5 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@wolfi70845 жыл бұрын
Enzera Bowenzu is it?
@blu-rae8649 ай бұрын
I've been working on myself this month and I kinda let myself go this weekend, this video after a run really got me out of this rut. You're not weak for taking a few days off; for self improvement is never a straight line.
@randym1955 жыл бұрын
When I'm in a rut or feeling low and depressed I say to myself, doing something is always better than doing nothing. It can be the smallest thing like taking the garbage out or taking 5 mins to clean the sink. Sometimes its the little things that can bring about the biggest change.
@lauriroggenkamp14175 жыл бұрын
“I’m not a Doctor, I’m just a dude.” I want that knitted on a pillow.
@dream48485 жыл бұрын
would be even better if you were an actual doctor
@ahmadshokry59455 жыл бұрын
I AM a doctor and I would like to have that on a T shirt
@dawniebug7845 жыл бұрын
First step, Just sit in front of the knitting needles. Then reward yourself for a small win.
@italpor5 жыл бұрын
Then take action
@andyeccentric5 жыл бұрын
Why knitted and why on a pillow?
@queenofallmonkeys5 жыл бұрын
"Comparing yourself to who you were yesterday rather than who someone else is today." You sir gets a like on that one!
@RaVNeFLoK5 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson much? :)
@deepak59115 жыл бұрын
Japanese technology
@Hammer5632 жыл бұрын
Been in a 6 month rut... I was exercising and reading and writing from home very consistently and still keeping up with hobbies and gaming with friends here and there, then my girlfriend came to visit and I decided to relax while she was there and it put me in that rut and I've been struggling to get out ever since. It's getting to the point where I'll sleep past alarms and get late to work, and I'll be a lot less motivated there too. Today though, I'm going to do the dishes and cook myself a meal.
@christhornham2 жыл бұрын
I've dealt with the same thing. My first job after college was around the 2008 recession. We went from being very busy to having no work. For months, I sat at my desk with nothing to do. Before the recession, I was always motivated. After, I found it very hard to get back to work. At first I had to force myself to work and it felt hard. But, I stayed consistent and it wasn't long before my drive came back. I notice the same thing can happen after taking a vacation.
@palzma2 жыл бұрын
😂
@palzma2 жыл бұрын
no mangina
@kevinislas9212 Жыл бұрын
Same man I work 14 hours shifts and I do the things I do but I just don’t feel like I’m putting all my energy i always get to work late but I sleep my 8 hours yet my girlfriend gets mad I come home just to sleep n I just wanna rest but I can’t bc I have to come back to her and my daughter w no energy but I still put it for them and I treat myself like I’m no one I don’t self love myself I don’t buy myself clothe I don’t care if I don’t eat I have no self love low self esteem but dis year I feel different I feel the lil inspiration and I’m also 19 !! So all the pressure
@cloggerstud Жыл бұрын
@@kevinislas9212 You are everything man!! Take care of yourself so you can take care of those you love. It took me way to long to figure that out so if I can help you at 19 be better so you’re not 40 like me with no energy ever given to myself. It’s sad. It feels really sad to me. I’m really going to focus on helping myself out this year so I have the ability to properly show love to the people I love this year as well. Good luck man!! You’re not alone, and you got the good stuff in ya to make this happen and all your dreams come true! 💪🏼😁
@gracegotthis37045 жыл бұрын
My son sent me this to help with my depression and anxiety. God bless all who suffer with these debilitating issues.
@jameso175 жыл бұрын
Tanya Goddin Doubt
@gracegotthis37045 жыл бұрын
@@jameso17 could be or being refined in the fire. God does his best work in the valleys.
@wishyouthebest92225 жыл бұрын
@@gracegotthis3704 I went through heavy medication and stationary therapy because of depression. Nothing really worked, my depression remained. Only crying out and trusting God changed my heart and mind and it was almost instantly gone. That doesn't mean it has to be that way for everybody or that your trust is lacking. Some people just happen to need longer to heal due to their own story. As long as Jesus is your refuge your soul will recover and be finally at peace. God bless you. May Jesus heal you soon.
@Starbrou4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tanya, I feel you and I’m sure u’ll get out of it! What helped me was changing my general perception, it came when i realised our subconscious mind is controlling what thoughts we have every day. What questions do you ask yourself? There are some tricks to program yourself. Do it! Or others will do, like they always have Developing Gratitude helped me a lot.. Best wishes!
@Shanti_devi194 жыл бұрын
I know it''s terrible, I go through the same thing (burn out) wish you well too!
@nepaniquepas5 жыл бұрын
Me: trying to listen to this guy tell me how to get out of a rut. Me: Reading the comments and hitting likes while totally ignoring the good advice this guy is probably giving me.
@MikaHakkinen835 жыл бұрын
You're out of the rut already
@nepaniquepas5 жыл бұрын
Shadyfox Thanks for the support. :)
@gerardinecizmar5 жыл бұрын
Ha. I got to finishing 3/4 ths of the video before I did that. I wish KZbin videos were set up so that I couldn't see the comments until I finished the video.
@masonmaupins13635 жыл бұрын
Super underrated comment
@LiamIsTheBestx5 жыл бұрын
Fuck u got me!
@faustobrusamolino63455 жыл бұрын
"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, rather than who someone else is today"... This sentence has so much propulsion, even just by itself, it helps me to keep moving forward. Thank you so much for sharing this video and your knowledge.
@JazminBautista5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you!! Comparing yourself to your past can change your perspective on what you are going through in the present moment.
@AshtonRiddell5 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson
@Sgtfuckface5 жыл бұрын
It's the name of a chapter from Jordan Peterson's "12 Rules for Life." If the title of the chapter hit you, then the book will slam you.
@faustobrusamolino63455 жыл бұрын
@@Sgtfuckface thanks!
@faustobrusamolino63455 жыл бұрын
@@AshtonRiddell thanks!
@TheJordanianBedouin2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in a 3 week rut and i absolutely hate how vulnerable i was to fall in it in the first place…
@YGardenRose5 ай бұрын
It happens to the best of us
@avinashkunjamboo85725 жыл бұрын
you, matt d'avella and nathaniel drew are saving my life no joke
@storiesofastranger5 жыл бұрын
the holy trinity
@its_fergi5 жыл бұрын
fr though hahaha
@Spartacus41195 жыл бұрын
Don't forget Thomas Frank
@outsider1st5 жыл бұрын
And Einzelganger
@outsider1st5 жыл бұрын
And Universal Man
@EmmyHucker5 жыл бұрын
I think you've been reading my mind . . .
@abdoumenouer77625 жыл бұрын
It's the KZbin Algorithm.
@chipie10025 жыл бұрын
I thought it was just me with this defect as well
@abdoumenouer77625 жыл бұрын
@@chipie1002 Defect or not, I ain't complaining.
@GrixxlyStrength5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need major motivation to get up and take a shower? no" Depression: Hold my beer
@alysiamerdavid-wasser91655 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU!!!!
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
Haha don't allow depression to stop you u gotta go get that bread or else u die😅
@juliebahnsen24905 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment, haha!
@DiscoFang5 жыл бұрын
Yes. That shower thing shows this guy actually doesn't understand.
@carmendekesel67145 жыл бұрын
Yes... it actually does for me
@EthericImpulse2 жыл бұрын
Been re watching this video every few months for a while now and got to say, you improved my life man. Thank you 🙏
@vanxin91274 жыл бұрын
“I’m not a doctor, I’m a dude”
@kman82714 жыл бұрын
Van Xin 😆
@TreyDieterich4 жыл бұрын
My proctologist said the same thing after my last exam. 😬
@sisckogames23054 жыл бұрын
@@TreyDieterich Did he say no homo?
@TreyDieterich4 жыл бұрын
@@sisckogames2305 no 😭
@naturally_roisin4 жыл бұрын
That's when I subscribed haha
@jaefraz5 жыл бұрын
brothers and sisters, we are not alone
@justyn35735 жыл бұрын
jaefraz fuck the eagles go cowboys
@arjunmaarbala8915 жыл бұрын
I guess ur Optimus prime 😁😀
@ImprovementGang3 жыл бұрын
This "rut" will always happen. One can only do steps to handle these ruts the right way. What I like to go by is: "if you don't take the break, the break will take itself"
@philadelphiachr9222 жыл бұрын
this is so good. definitely needed to be reminded of this. thank you.
@PuriPuriPurple Жыл бұрын
omg this.
@movementinmind3354 Жыл бұрын
Great video! I'm a licensed counselor and I used this video in one of my group sessions! You did a great job with thoroughly explaining your points and maintaining humility at the same time!
@emily.maddox5 жыл бұрын
*Watches this with a double chin whilst laying on bed*
@powdergangereddie34135 жыл бұрын
Emily M lol, breathes in deep to hide my couch belly
@dolorismachina25 жыл бұрын
@@powdergangereddie3413 Don't hide it. It's yours. You've grown it. BE PROUD!!!
@powdergangereddie34135 жыл бұрын
dolorismachina2 lol thank, it’s been a struggle of not moving and eating junk but I got there in the end ☺️🙂
@BV-ue9cj5 жыл бұрын
Same
@unknownunknown80414 жыл бұрын
@@dolorismachina2 ahahahahhhhaha
@its_katiejones5 жыл бұрын
"do you need motivation to take a shower"? Me: yes "No" Me: oh
@kaitlyne18705 жыл бұрын
That was my exact reaction too! 😂
@StrategicStripping5 жыл бұрын
I feel like hot showers are one of the best gifts in life...... maybe you should get a shower filter and some candles.... make it a great expereince 😊
@Piasays5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭this!
@majormoku5 жыл бұрын
Ha! Exactly 👍
@Chrisratata5 жыл бұрын
Strategic Stripping Podcast Her: “That sounds like a lot of work!”
@gigglecheeks1235 жыл бұрын
Every year on my birthday I open the front door and yell out “it’s my birthday” and somebody always yells back “happy birthday” just saying it makes me feel better. Lol.
@voidisvirtue87095 жыл бұрын
Don’t know if this is true but I think it’s awesome!
@ttiasrollo5 жыл бұрын
It's more likely that someone shouts "STFU"
@johnhariis2505 жыл бұрын
@@ttiasrollo 🤣😂🤣👌🤔
@jefferywilliams84795 жыл бұрын
serious?
@Starbrou4 жыл бұрын
That’s genius ._.
@genericwatcher243910 ай бұрын
Before Christmas I finished a huge house project that made the whole first floor so much nicer, this was right on the heels of gutting and redoing the kitchen, then the holidays were great, then I went on a cruise and I was even better. I'm always doing or planning something, but I decided to take a pause until March, now it is late January and after nearly a month of doing nothing, I am unmotivated and sad. Knowing I am not supposed to do anything for another month has me watching TV for hours a day, my joints are hurting, I'm getting sick and feel life sucks. Working and doing projects makes me tired, but it makes me happy too. Thanks for telling me that I need to get moving again!
@mr.krepshus14674 жыл бұрын
This might be the most helpfull channel on KZbin
@NONAMENONONAME4 жыл бұрын
When I'm in a rut it's because I have some underlying problem giving me anxiety.
@andreas38504 жыл бұрын
Nah you're lazy.
@meineroteBlume4 жыл бұрын
For me its the same
@alupha_2164 жыл бұрын
Same
@yiut1234 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@nicholasmtss2174 жыл бұрын
I even struggle with showers... Shit.
@matthewmolinar5 жыл бұрын
Strategy 1: Utilize the do something principle 1:54 Strategy 2: Reward yourself for small wins. 3:50 Strategy 3: Progressive Overload 5:54
@axlegallardo5 жыл бұрын
Matthew Molinar Why... thank you Matt.
@samahita-vca5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'll definitely need this when I rewatch this motivational video, like, some day.
@barisoz25982 жыл бұрын
Thx
@betterthanyesterday39124 жыл бұрын
Something I do to help myself get into the swing of things at work: I write down a very short "To Do" list. I will put THREE items on it that I KNOW I can do without difficulty. This can be emails, reading a chapter in a book on leadership, or sending a text to my active clients to let them know I'm thinking about them. Then I cross each item off the list as I complete these menial tasks. Once the three items are completed, I write down three more. Because I have ADD, sometimes I need to write down the entire day's list on a separate sheet of paper, before I forget anything. Then I will take out a separate sheet of paper (of my daily planner) and transfer three items at a time from the master sheet. This has been very helpful to me since I have a tendency to become overwhelmed when there are many things to do. And when I feel overwhelmed, my mind becomes cluttered and I can't be as productive as I should be, and it also seems to take more mental energy which leads to premature fatigue. I hope this helps someone out. For the record, today is February 5th. For those of you who feel as though the ship has already sailed to have a productive year, stop the negative thought process. Before the end of this week, you can write down your yearly goals, and break them down into monthly, weekly, and daily goals. Set yourself up to hit the ground running HARD next Monday. Remember that the goal is never to be as good as somebody else you're envious of. The goal is to be better than you were yesterday. Even if only slightly. You CAN be more patient. You CAN take a 5 minute walk. You CAN call up your parents to thank them for everything, and see if there's anything they need a hand with. You CAN greet your pet with silly talk and a walk when you walk through the door after work. You CAN pick up a book and read 5 pages. You can do this. I know you can because I have gone through this process myself. It isn't easy and it takes WORK. But remember: Everything is difficult before it becomes easy. God's blessings on your marriage, relationships, health and business in 2020.
@nelsonsjourney97144 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!
@betterthanyesterday39124 жыл бұрын
@@nelsonsjourney9714 You're welcome! 😊
@amaanhussain30944 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Appreciate it man!
@caseyhall23204 жыл бұрын
Damn dude, those chapters on leadership are definitely working, you TALK like a leader!
@bardock78945 жыл бұрын
Damn this happens to me every week it sucks. All it takes is a bad sleep night the cycle begins
@prinspray5 жыл бұрын
So true!
@kalin66025 жыл бұрын
Same
@c82001XD5 жыл бұрын
muggshot Exactly me. I barely sleep one night, I’m dead tired all day for my classes. Come home and nap, get nothing done, stay up all night doing nothing because I napped all day.
@machoman77655 жыл бұрын
Joe Nobos same #feelsbadman
@mirny15095 жыл бұрын
Joe Nobos same. I stayed home from classes today to catch up on sleep, and tomorrow my morning lab is cancelled so I get two days of a little break. It’s much needed.
@1kiwibird235 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna reward myself with pizza for brushing my teeth.
@ToastyWaffle4565 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@sirturtle28395 жыл бұрын
what about Orange Juice?
@samuelaurora36325 жыл бұрын
David Florist orange juice is one of the best things in the world
@ToastyWaffle4565 жыл бұрын
@@samuelaurora3632 Not for health it isn't. When I learned how bad fruit juice was I stopped completely. Only had probably 1-3 small glasses ever since. Used to be obsessed with OJ lol
@samuelaurora36325 жыл бұрын
Telos oj is unhealthy? Nani?
@zeronautin Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Those cycles of extreme good and bad feelings for months is basically my life. Though I have a safety setup I still manage to fall into those dark ruts. At this point I feel like I'm a failure because I didn't stick to my strategies. Helps to see that so many others struggle with that, too.
@lifeofpriya9765 жыл бұрын
I actually needed this in my recommended
@emmettfountain86585 жыл бұрын
LifeOfPriya These videos always seem to show up when I need them
@Milark5 жыл бұрын
Turns out my life has been one giant “pseudo depressive rut”
@lyalya68605 жыл бұрын
Meeeeee
@cindynoelle30865 жыл бұрын
Me too.. but let's get ourselves out of there and be more alive and happy
@Stew_Pid5 жыл бұрын
That's called a canyon. Not a rut. And I'm right there with you. Only problem is you dont have a pack mule to help carry you and all your shit out of it.
@22Tech5 жыл бұрын
read that as "pseudo depressive nut" and still agreed
@octopus84205 жыл бұрын
Mirano, that's what an actual depression sounds like. See a therapist, for real. Good luck :)
@Pink151814 жыл бұрын
Something that always helps me get out of a rut is treat yourself like a little 5 year old. Let’s brush your teeth ! Let’s do that homework !
@adinashaina99774 жыл бұрын
...visualizes a star chart...
@caseyhall23204 жыл бұрын
Honestly I agree with this. When you try and make things seem more fun, rewarding, and happy; your brain goes "hey, this makes wanting to do things so much easier because I don't feel like I'm in a stone cold world where doing things feels like a chore every time." I noticed this issue when I graduated HS and got my first job. In HS, you've got teachers telling you they believe in you, students helping each other out and giving each other words of encouragement, this general sense that you recognize some students struggle more than others so you help them out a little or give extra encouragement. In my first job, almost no one gave a singular shit about you or your life. There was no congratulations for anything. Any congratulations that did come about were from corporate themselves giving you an empty hearted "good job" for preventing something bad from happening. There was a lot less advice going around between co-workers to help make our job life easier. When given a task for the first time and you were successful, there was not even a small half assed "oh, nice man" or "eyyyy good job bro." There was less of comraderie and more of "you're holding the rest of us back" if you happened to be having a bad day and couldn't do your job as well. And there was always a lot more pressure than I was ever used to when going to work, and being at work. A service job should not make you feel like you've got the weight of an entire store on you. It's important you do your job, yes, but too much pressure can be detrimental to workers being able to actually work efficiently. Plus, it was like almost no one wanted to even try keeping the place upbeat because everyone was too sad, which just made everyone progressively more sad. That transition was a legitimate mental shock to me as suddenly it felt like I was worth dog shit due to the change of environment being very gloomy. So yes, treating your brain like a 5 y/o definitely has its benefits when in comparison 😂.
@lizettecorona61164 жыл бұрын
@@caseyhall2320 exactly how things are going for me
@thegrinderman10904 жыл бұрын
I do something similar where I imagine I'm a character on The Sims.
@elijahj-l8254 жыл бұрын
Nice!!
@iPixyPlays2 ай бұрын
Bro was 5 years ahead of his time! Thanks bro still helpful even today. Love from a 16y/o
@dimitrarena56434 жыл бұрын
A mentor once told me that procrastination is not because of laziness but rather a fear of failure.
@applecinnamon3 жыл бұрын
Ooof so true
@ericfriendzoned13033 жыл бұрын
Damn that hit hard
@dimitrarena56433 жыл бұрын
Also, discipline is a stronger factor than motivational quotes. Program is key. Even a small one.
@someome17893 жыл бұрын
Not really. Sometimes yeah but usually its not fearing anything its just being lazy lol
@dimitrarena56433 жыл бұрын
@@someome1789 yes I agree but there is things that are important for which you procrastinate. Now, I am lazy to even get up and turn off the light, sure.
@comical46093 жыл бұрын
I like how he assumes I ever had a productive and energetic period to begin with.
@HonchoMotors3 жыл бұрын
Same
@MiketheNerdRanger5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need motivation to take a shower?" Yes.
@zeratulrus1425 жыл бұрын
YES. Just in case people think it's ironic or something. It's not.
@richard.featherstone5 жыл бұрын
Can you make excuses to not have a shower? Yes
@chineduachimalo3915 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this comment, at times i dont shower in a day
@lifewhatsoever5 жыл бұрын
I really do
@pookiehoney5 жыл бұрын
If you're not severely disabled talking about how physically hard it is to accomplish basic tasks then I have zero sympathy for able bodied people acting like they're so unable to do anything just because of pure laziness and lack of will to get up and live. Meanwhile there are so many people wishing they had a working body so they could do everything while you throw away your life because you need motivation to do anything. Be ashamed and get up and do something.
@JohnSmith-gt3be6 ай бұрын
I watched this 4 years ago and my life has completely changed.
@WilfredZweverink3 жыл бұрын
"You should be productive" Primal brain: "Why?"
@Johnman13243 жыл бұрын
😂
@geegoflex67623 жыл бұрын
Because...
@TrusttheY3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@travisn3463 жыл бұрын
"Address your relationships, finances, health, purpose and creativity" Also primal brain: eat and reproduce you neurotic bastard
@jackcarpenters37593 жыл бұрын
very nice! i always hate that talk about hard work and dedication. Fuck off i just need to eat.
@nicolestewart4 жыл бұрын
I’m jumping in the shower right now. I needed this kick up the ass. Depression sucks. 😭 sending out many hugs to any one in a rut on these last 2 days of 2020. 🙏🤗❤️
@salemdoali66084 жыл бұрын
In Sha Allah you will have no depression and you will feel content in life and be happy Ameen May Allah Bless us Alll with barakah and provisions ameen.
@doritos65483 жыл бұрын
@@salemdoali6608 Ameen
@lalijaimes72593 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽 you got it!!
@noble45433 жыл бұрын
@@salemdoali6608 Fuck Allah.
@thepink37983 жыл бұрын
I suppose to take a shower rn
@liz_28785 жыл бұрын
THIS is soo important also for people like me who go into a depressed spiral and aren't able to go out of bed
@louis841005 жыл бұрын
Liz maybe we can help each other
@PixelBraint5 жыл бұрын
Ever since I had a panic attack, I have been suffering from depressive spirals, anxiety, depersonalization and derealization. Back then, I used to be unmotivated too but I was somewhat still happy. I need to get my life back.
@louis841005 жыл бұрын
@@PixelBraint here if needed
@NikolaiWowe5 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat!
@louis841005 жыл бұрын
@@j.4354 the fact that u went to college and have something to offer is an achievement within itself. U will fail at times but that's not u failing as a person but a more not what u know but who u know situation. I know u will land that dream job. I am british living in the usa with no diploma and can only hope to get a dream job. Cheers
@robsumone2040 Жыл бұрын
The smoothness of the video was very satisfying. Loved the language and video. Liked this. Thank you for sharing information with us.
@baker90384 жыл бұрын
i been in a runt for nearly 4 years and its the worst feeling ever, and just when i start to get my life back on track. something comes in a flips everything on its head. people underestimate how much will power a person needs to even get out of bed.
@rishabhvanwani4 жыл бұрын
Life is tough my friend. But we are fighters. You will overcome this.