How to quickly get out of a rut

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@Anonymous-hw2cf
@Anonymous-hw2cf 5 жыл бұрын
Damn KZbin algorithm knows I’m in a rut right now.
@catllionare
@catllionare 5 жыл бұрын
Same lol. The algorithm is like Morpheus from the Matrix lol
@truthseeker8273
@truthseeker8273 5 жыл бұрын
Same here as well xD
@hgonzalez522
@hgonzalez522 5 жыл бұрын
Also same Haha
@syableman6294
@syableman6294 5 жыл бұрын
same, but we will get over this shit guys. good luck to everyone.
@johnford902
@johnford902 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I pay for KZbin premium if I get tailored advice.
@courtneykathleen2686
@courtneykathleen2686 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve come to the realization: We don’t get energy, we GENERATE our energy. This helps me take that first action step in the cycle.
@impactbooks5338
@impactbooks5338 4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@Shanel91
@Shanel91 4 жыл бұрын
That’s an amazing way too look at it!
@JP-wk5wt
@JP-wk5wt 4 жыл бұрын
That’s good
@StojanPeshov1337
@StojanPeshov1337 4 жыл бұрын
This is true. Im doing that for a few years now. You decide how you feel. You just need to vibrate to positive energy and you harvest it.
@sviatlanakarpovich4643
@sviatlanakarpovich4643 4 жыл бұрын
Jeeezz I never have energy... probably I gotta generate some myself 😀
@biancalauren4981
@biancalauren4981 5 жыл бұрын
KZbin: I see you’ve been watching for 7+ hours a day KZbin: recommends this video
@Proactivity
@Proactivity 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@waynelast1685
@waynelast1685 4 жыл бұрын
yes same for me
@pelotasdad
@pelotasdad 4 жыл бұрын
we are on a roll..... don't want to change too much midstream.... the thought of being seen as less than fully dedicated to the cause of staying distracted 24/7 makes my socks roll up and down.
@Lure_Music
@Lure_Music 4 жыл бұрын
same...
@smakkdat
@smakkdat 4 жыл бұрын
How to get out of a rut: #1. don’t have an autoimmune disease
@octavianschaefer7294
@octavianschaefer7294 2 жыл бұрын
Been in a 3 month rut, and it got pretty bad. I lost my job, i defaulted on a couple bills, but recently I started to feel the motivation to get up again. So right now I’ve started with simply hitting the gym. After a couple days of doing that, I cleaned my apartment room at a time. it’s been a couple weeks now and I’ve really gotten into a grove with these. Headed to a couple potential employers tomorrow to see about getting another job. Fingers crossed that my gradual introduction this time leads to better results. Thank you for the content, this was exactly the motivation and reassurance I needed!
@will.h215
@will.h215 2 жыл бұрын
Been there brother and it sure is tough, but we're real fucking capable when we get after it, best of luck, you got it in the bag!
@homieJorge
@homieJorge 2 жыл бұрын
Fuck yeah man, crush it
@LegalBoss227
@LegalBoss227 Жыл бұрын
yeah what a dream, being able to take your time because you are unemployed and dont pay bills. some of us dont get that luxury.
@octavianschaefer7294
@octavianschaefer7294 Жыл бұрын
@@LegalBoss227 it’s never that simple my guy. I wasn’t unemployed by choice.
@michaelrandall09
@michaelrandall09 Жыл бұрын
@@LegalBoss227 get out of here wit that negative energy. We all tryna make it work.
@BigSauce_
@BigSauce_ 5 жыл бұрын
"wow this will help me" *Saves to Watch Later*
@VS666
@VS666 5 жыл бұрын
lmao
@AjuAziz
@AjuAziz 5 жыл бұрын
GGCLstudios I am actually watching from watch later. 😐
@yacinecabba363
@yacinecabba363 5 жыл бұрын
lol
@yacinecabba363
@yacinecabba363 5 жыл бұрын
@@AjuAziz at least u watch it .
@genmaichastar
@genmaichastar 5 жыл бұрын
Haha
@salttothesea
@salttothesea 4 жыл бұрын
I always get inspired after I get into bed at night. Make grand plans. Then wake up in the morning and immediately think, “naaah.”
@sumaiyapervez647
@sumaiyapervez647 4 жыл бұрын
me at 3.33 am right now, knowing my future self (in the morning/afternoon lol) will be too lazy to follow through with whatever plans to better myself i come up with ...
@annadarshay4704
@annadarshay4704 4 жыл бұрын
Phew... I’m not the only one 😳
@slashkokane
@slashkokane 4 жыл бұрын
bruhh I know.. lets fukn do it or what
@felicityjim5349
@felicityjim5349 4 жыл бұрын
Relatable AF
@arthurcallahan4735
@arthurcallahan4735 4 жыл бұрын
SAAAAME college made me more social and thinking at night but in the day im groggy lazy and foggy.
@chocoCo0kie
@chocoCo0kie 3 жыл бұрын
My whole life is just a repetitive cycle of trying to come out of a rut for a long time, then finally getting out of it and being productive for a short period, and then get stuck in a rut again
@gonzaotc
@gonzaotc 3 жыл бұрын
Same, is like 3 steps foward and 2 back, and sometimess 3-4 back
@vishnu.prasad.official
@vishnu.prasad.official 3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@agentsquirrel6176
@agentsquirrel6176 3 жыл бұрын
Omg... this is exactly what its been like for the past 6 years 😔
@househusband28
@househusband28 3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I’ve been going through!
@patriot9487
@patriot9487 3 жыл бұрын
Try anti-depressants if nothing else works
@normalotus
@normalotus 2 жыл бұрын
Cleaned my kitchen today felt good. Thanks.
@maxph6123
@maxph6123 5 жыл бұрын
“Save to watch later”
@joshuaobat
@joshuaobat 5 жыл бұрын
Max PH 😂😂😂😂😂
@starfoxboy670
@starfoxboy670 5 жыл бұрын
Ayeooo😂
@MusicizmahQueenSBed4
@MusicizmahQueenSBed4 5 жыл бұрын
I literally almost did that, oh god haha but. I pushed myself not to, and i think that’s a good thing
@johnnycrash4892
@johnnycrash4892 5 жыл бұрын
My watch later has like 1000 videos i never got around to watching
@mogulmade
@mogulmade 5 жыл бұрын
@@johnnycrash4892 1523 😔 lol lol
@FinnJenkins
@FinnJenkins 3 жыл бұрын
I love the "start something" principle. Newton's first law. A body at rest, stays at rest and a body in motion stays in motion. So just a gentle nudge is an absolute winner. Thanks for this
@arelyferrel166
@arelyferrel166 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making it make sense 🙃
@dhruvmalik9651
@dhruvmalik9651 3 жыл бұрын
A really good logic bro👍🏻👍🏻
@sandroadler3607
@sandroadler3607 3 жыл бұрын
Damn that's Interesting
@hhashh2327
@hhashh2327 2 жыл бұрын
lol weird flex but ok
@sunofthelady8924
@sunofthelady8924 2 жыл бұрын
Law of inertia! ✨
@rockstar6goalkeeper
@rockstar6goalkeeper 4 жыл бұрын
My goal for day 1 was to wake up. That's it. Set an alarm, get up when it rings, and not go back to sleep. 7 days later my gym route is back, my house is spotless, I've seen people i haven't seen in months, and I'm struggling to find time for video games. Starting small works
@thecoolest5813
@thecoolest5813 3 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! I hope it works for me too.
@jm.fantin
@jm.fantin 3 жыл бұрын
same here. just woke up at day 1... hated the bright sky, like the previous days. made some tea and now life seems a bit less horrible already. it's 8:26 and I'll just exist while it's morning. it's not even early anymore, but it sure is an advance considering I've been waking up near lunch lately.
@VigneshVignesh-ri6ls
@VigneshVignesh-ri6ls 3 жыл бұрын
U become my inspiration
@Ericarothwellunravel
@Ericarothwellunravel 3 жыл бұрын
Well done 👍🏻
@ThePenguinsfly21
@ThePenguinsfly21 3 жыл бұрын
But what if you love video games?
@starlanzo
@starlanzo Жыл бұрын
1. Do something little to be inspired and have motivation 2. Reward yourself 3. Start small and grow gradually
@idontmakevideossubscribe1503
@idontmakevideossubscribe1503 5 жыл бұрын
“You don’t need some massive motivational boost to take a shower” I feel personally attacked
@chuckmaddison2924
@chuckmaddison2924 5 жыл бұрын
Myself, I work for a company that blames me when the people I go to help make a decision that doesn't put money in companies pocket. The people I help have already paid $300 for the 24hr at call service. I then have to go around with someone less qualified to see what I'm doing wrong. I feel very much attacked. Oh I've also been to the doctor and had a talk about it. He just had a good laff and said I'm not the one with the problem. But shit it makes my life a misery.
@SamSayaz
@SamSayaz 5 жыл бұрын
Stinky
@Miquelalalaa
@Miquelalalaa 5 жыл бұрын
FreeLeGiOn People take a shower far more than necessary anyway.
@idontmakevideossubscribe1503
@idontmakevideossubscribe1503 5 жыл бұрын
Azure Neko bruh I’m finna take notes from you holy shit
@idontmakevideossubscribe1503
@idontmakevideossubscribe1503 5 жыл бұрын
GreyFolk I mean I guess one less for me is more for everybody else?
@gregxcelente4271
@gregxcelente4271 5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need motivation to take a shower?" Depressed me: "yes."
@ThatWeirdFinn
@ThatWeirdFinn 5 жыл бұрын
This!!!
@sarangdave6840
@sarangdave6840 5 жыл бұрын
glad I'm not the only one
@piladopa9025
@piladopa9025 5 жыл бұрын
neckbeards entered the chat
@drakeowen7860
@drakeowen7860 5 жыл бұрын
The shower is what gives me motivation.
@AikanaroSauron
@AikanaroSauron 5 жыл бұрын
@@TonyQuackston This so much.
@adamyohan
@adamyohan 5 жыл бұрын
"And you see a Matt D’Aevlla video" I see you're a man of culture as well.
@mohammedidrees3890
@mohammedidrees3890 5 жыл бұрын
Here here
@el_darkstar
@el_darkstar 5 жыл бұрын
I literally went down to the comments as soon as i heard that 😂😂
@reddot9310
@reddot9310 5 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOOOO
@patchrikd154
@patchrikd154 5 жыл бұрын
Best comment.
@sword_of_damocle5
@sword_of_damocle5 5 жыл бұрын
He is the algorithmic bond we all share.
@palvithakur9649
@palvithakur9649 2 жыл бұрын
Needed this, I have a bad cycle of doing everything perfectly for 3 months then spending the next 3 months doing the bare minimum and sometimes unable to even get out of bed, i didn’t realize it’s possible to find a balance too thank you!
@rockybalbola486
@rockybalbola486 10 ай бұрын
Hehe
@angelrodas2355
@angelrodas2355 5 жыл бұрын
I was so deep in a rut I've been holding back this video in my watch later for 2 weeks
@Levegy
@Levegy 5 жыл бұрын
I can feel you bud
@gregrogers4853
@gregrogers4853 5 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@vanish1402
@vanish1402 5 жыл бұрын
Saaaaaaame. 😣😒😞
@XDTuber
@XDTuber 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so deep in a rut I don't even watch my watch later playlist
@krithiksingh
@krithiksingh 5 жыл бұрын
Bro i just watched it today, been in a rut for 2 weeks as well. I been seeing this in my recommended and kept scrolling past it, finally clicked it lmao
@kaddians6923
@kaddians6923 5 жыл бұрын
“I’m not a doctor, I’m just a dude” I’m gonna live by that
@AlexisCarterNotaryMentor
@AlexisCarterNotaryMentor 5 жыл бұрын
Wens dudes are doctors
@takopulpfiction
@takopulpfiction 5 жыл бұрын
Very lebowskian
@marcosgarcia245
@marcosgarcia245 5 жыл бұрын
This needs to be a shirt
@monikan2309
@monikan2309 5 жыл бұрын
@@marcosgarcia245 I am a doctor but would love to wear that shirt to work 😂.
@lonewolftrading2
@lonewolftrading2 5 жыл бұрын
I am not a doctor either....but I played one on TV
@offgridexploring
@offgridexploring 4 жыл бұрын
I literally thought I was the only person who went through the productive/destructive cycle.
@kar-z2q
@kar-z2q 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Me too! It’s a a sad relief🥲
@Dondingdingding
@Dondingdingding 4 жыл бұрын
Didn't search for this tbh. It just randomly pop up in recommendation and yes I'm too lazy to do the usual stuff that i really do. Not hitting my qouta anymore just playing games more often, no more exercise ,eating while watching tv damn
@gr7788
@gr7788 4 жыл бұрын
This is my life since about the age of 12. A head injury 13 yrs ago didnt help it either, just happened more frequently. It's refreshing to hear someone else saying they go through it too. Becoming self aware takes Courage and time and learning to accountable for your own actions to yourself. Don't ever give up , things can always get better. Thank you for sharing
@the13thTone
@the13thTone 4 жыл бұрын
Look at the hits on this video, this says a lot about us. It also helps to know that we're not going through it alone.
@joeradler
@joeradler 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. Strangely, that takes alot of the pressure off.
@adarshvlog2409
@adarshvlog2409 Жыл бұрын
00:00 Lack of motivation can lead to self-destruction 01:08 Utilize the 'do something' principle for action 02:28 Start with action to gain momentum 03:43 Reward yourself for small wins 04:58 Manage your primal brain with higher judgement and compassion 06:07 Organically grow a productive lifestyle 07:23 Reducing friction is key to sustained productivity 08:37 Learn how to climb out of a rut
@soulvz
@soulvz Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@jesminjahan9846
@jesminjahan9846 Жыл бұрын
Thanks.. this actually helps much.😊😊
@macieclinee
@macieclinee 8 ай бұрын
love ppl like you🤝
@karnazacss
@karnazacss 4 жыл бұрын
The irony of bookmark this as 'Watch Later'
@trashAndNoStar
@trashAndNoStar 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂
@NeedSpeed39
@NeedSpeed39 4 жыл бұрын
or having the tab open for days
@JT-nz1dg
@JT-nz1dg 3 жыл бұрын
I deadass marked this in watch later 2 weeks ago lmao
@liveradclothing8944
@liveradclothing8944 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@vanessacamilleri441
@vanessacamilleri441 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@erykwaligora12
@erykwaligora12 4 жыл бұрын
“Comparing yourself to who you were yesterday, rather than comparing yourself to who someone else is today”. 🙌
@anomalous34
@anomalous34 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be fit, have a girlfriend, best friends, a dream, and motivation. Now I don't have any of that. Hmm.. not sure this idea is working.
@nelsonsjourney9714
@nelsonsjourney9714 4 жыл бұрын
@@anomalous34 Who you were, not what you had. We lose friends. It happens. You just have to move on.
@Brandten05
@Brandten05 4 жыл бұрын
That’s so motivational
@JosephDeLosSantos-t3m
@JosephDeLosSantos-t3m 4 жыл бұрын
Tamers Superfan let’s be better together 💪🏻
@lehonyy2428
@lehonyy2428 4 жыл бұрын
yyeesss ❤❤❤
@amysuarez2456
@amysuarez2456 5 жыл бұрын
When you’re so rock bottom that even KZbin is trying to help you. 😂😂
@heyyou1911
@heyyou1911 5 жыл бұрын
On godd hahaha
@maxjohnson1758
@maxjohnson1758 5 жыл бұрын
Bwaaaaaaa!
@s.velarde1811
@s.velarde1811 5 жыл бұрын
Amy Suarez I am also in that club! 🙋🏻‍♀️ lol aye yie yie, I’m gonna go eat another slice of cheese
@amysuarez2456
@amysuarez2456 5 жыл бұрын
sarah velarde more like another block for me 😂😂😂
@jacenouzen
@jacenouzen 5 жыл бұрын
For me. Its jus i can't tell whether my crush likes me back, or she fallin for someone else...
@35americas2
@35americas2 2 жыл бұрын
These mental health struggles are what keep us from achieving our potential. We need to be more supportive of each other.
@lil_swarlette
@lil_swarlette 5 жыл бұрын
The 3 steps, for reference: 1. Use the 'do something' principle 2. Reward yourself for small accomplishments 3. Progressive overload
@constantinbalan503
@constantinbalan503 5 жыл бұрын
thanks, this is exactly what i was looking for ;)
@digitalsamurai42
@digitalsamurai42 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@beko____
@beko____ 5 жыл бұрын
Steliata nice. I watched it as well. And while I appreciated it, I felt like the main takeaways sometimes faded from my mind
@lonewolftrading2
@lonewolftrading2 5 жыл бұрын
I reward myself by buying hookers and heroine
@burnedvegantoast2431
@burnedvegantoast2431 5 жыл бұрын
A J heroin ;) heroine is a female hero
@Patience2dream
@Patience2dream 5 жыл бұрын
"After days of binging dopamine" That little phrase there really opened my understanding of why I feel like crap after only watching tv for days in a row.
@jsw7883
@jsw7883 5 жыл бұрын
had the exact same thought.
@lassekrisper
@lassekrisper 5 жыл бұрын
Same for me. It's so simple, yet I can't figure that out myself when I'm in the rut. It's strange.
@egeniojaramillo9048
@egeniojaramillo9048 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I mean, the sitting on your ass. Probably eating junk food. Not moving. Ignoring other things that need to be done. None of that is why you feel like crap huh
@egeniojaramillo9048
@egeniojaramillo9048 5 жыл бұрын
Kristoffer Persson oh come on. You can’t figure out that you feel bad because you’re binging tv? Seriously ?
@dylanbaas495
@dylanbaas495 5 жыл бұрын
@@egeniojaramillo9048 No, idiot, you feel bad all of a sudden. Not motivated to do anything, besides eating junkfood, and watching tv shows. Eating junkfood etc, triggers dopamine wich makes you feel good. For example: that bag of cookies you're eating, the reason why you keep eating them while you know you shouldn't isn't only because they are tasty, but also because sugar stimulates the dopamine receptors, releasing dopamine in the brain wich again, makes you feel good.
@Q8IBOYS
@Q8IBOYS 3 жыл бұрын
When I feel down, I allow myself two days of that feeling. I binge Netflix and I munch on junk without feeling bad. I noticed that the more i guilt myself at being unproductive the more difficult it is to get out of the rut because i’ll keep wanting more down time because I never enjoyed it to begin with. I dont know if that makes sense.
@medkha8210
@medkha8210 3 жыл бұрын
it makes sense for me, I should try this out, as I'm in a rut right now, I'm feeling guilty and can't get out of it.
@sofiesummerbradley
@sofiesummerbradley 3 жыл бұрын
I am in this phase right now😂😂
@filhanislamictv8712
@filhanislamictv8712 3 жыл бұрын
Andd We got a party boys
@harrygibbons4933
@harrygibbons4933 3 жыл бұрын
omg yes like im in a constant work mode memtally
@mateogarca6532
@mateogarca6532 3 жыл бұрын
Ong I do this, I guilt myself then I stop and actually enjoy myself for a lil while, no guilt, and it helps me get out of the rut faster
@rubenarmandofigueroafuentes
@rubenarmandofigueroafuentes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I'm constantly in quick ruts and I really need momentum right now. It is a blessing to return to your channel and find the ideas that introduced me to selfdevelopment in the beginning.
@EmilMrSweFish
@EmilMrSweFish 2 жыл бұрын
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, rather than who someone else is today”. That is my biggest takeaway from this video. Thank you for amazing content 🙏
@ToCGambler
@ToCGambler 2 жыл бұрын
If that's one of your biggest takeaways, you might wanna dive into videos of Jordan Peterson talking about motivation, discipline and responsibility. This idea was actually formulated by him in his book "12 Rules for Life".
@EmilMrSweFish
@EmilMrSweFish 2 жыл бұрын
@@ToCGambler Thank you, I’ll check it out! I appreciate you for taking your time to recommend it 😁
@user-rn4tt9gw2p
@user-rn4tt9gw2p 2 жыл бұрын
What movies is that from
@myname-mz3lo
@myname-mz3lo 2 жыл бұрын
@@ToCGambler Jordan Peterson has no qualifications... listen to a psychiatrist instead
@nathanbaker8684
@nathanbaker8684 2 жыл бұрын
👌👌
@ageofdragonz3684
@ageofdragonz3684 4 жыл бұрын
The fact that you decided to watch this video means you have already started taking action. Good job!
@nicolascorre1er
@nicolascorre1er 4 жыл бұрын
The KZbin algorithm just chose it for me.
@ageofdragonz3684
@ageofdragonz3684 4 жыл бұрын
@@nicolascorre1er Haha, that was more of a note to myself than for others XD
@nicolascorre1er
@nicolascorre1er 4 жыл бұрын
Keep up the motivation! ;) Personally I adopted the "split the big stuff in small actions" motif, that kinda work for everyday tasks for now...
@ageofdragonz3684
@ageofdragonz3684 4 жыл бұрын
@@nicolascorre1er Yeah, I have been splitting all the stuff in small tasks too following the principle of "Baby steps to giant strides" :)
@stevee7774
@stevee7774 4 жыл бұрын
Now I need a nap.
@isaacheinze8106
@isaacheinze8106 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm not a doctor, I'm just a dude," Quote of the century.
@faboolean7039
@faboolean7039 3 жыл бұрын
I heard that in a prostate exam
@damnboi3586
@damnboi3586 3 жыл бұрын
@@faboolean7039 hmmm
@IbrahimKhan-gv6cw
@IbrahimKhan-gv6cw 3 жыл бұрын
Not really at all.
@Paarthurnaxdova
@Paarthurnaxdova 3 жыл бұрын
Doctors are dudes too! 😱
@damnboi3586
@damnboi3586 3 жыл бұрын
@@Paarthurnaxdova yeah, we know that, the "dude" he is talking about is just a mainstream human.
@soranriver6923
@soranriver6923 Жыл бұрын
Rewording my goals has helped me stay on track. Instead of something like “get fit” I used “become more in-tune with my body” followed by ways to do so such as bow flex, skate, dance, etc. I also labeled my goals as falling under one of four categories: physical health, intellectual health, social health, and spiritual health. This helps me remember to keep balance in all aspects of my life and also not be so hard on myself if I don’t work on all my goals that day. If I can work on at least one goal in each category, I’m making progress.
@kdm28
@kdm28 Жыл бұрын
I just thought the same things on your health categories but I called them purpose categories. I just figured out last night that I haven't had a purpose for the last 28 years after graduation from college. Best of luck to you!!!
@primedynamic3152
@primedynamic3152 5 ай бұрын
Sharpen the saw
@paigebostock4761
@paigebostock4761 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in such a rut I don’t even have the motivation to finish this video
@kingleonidas9672
@kingleonidas9672 5 жыл бұрын
Paige Bostock truth
@bulletman04
@bulletman04 5 жыл бұрын
I struggled while watching ans wanted to watch it later but fighted to watch it
@medqenmedness229
@medqenmedness229 5 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful BTW
@xensan76
@xensan76 5 жыл бұрын
It's because he takes 3 minutes to get to the point.
@mjm5081
@mjm5081 5 жыл бұрын
You think that's a rut?!...I don't have the motivation to finish this...
@ayabellaoui854
@ayabellaoui854 2 жыл бұрын
Start with a clean environment! What worked best for me (everyone is different) was deep cleaning my room and disinfecting everything so that I felt like I was was in a fresh relaxing environment. Once i did that, it became so much easier to climb out of that rut. The mind is powerful so the more you are aware of how much you have accomplished the more you do accomplish!
@Aatell764
@Aatell764 2 жыл бұрын
"A cluttered home is a cluttered mind"
@quartzfacts5341
@quartzfacts5341 2 жыл бұрын
Agrred
@peachguystone7086
@peachguystone7086 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! The brain craves order. Living in a dirty environment can only make depression worse
@keroflobs
@keroflobs 2 жыл бұрын
I love this because for me when I was depressed it started with making my bed, and then cleaning my room, and taking care of basic fundamental hygiene and everything rolled from that. I always feel decluttering helps get that ball rolling
@padresoscar
@padresoscar 2 жыл бұрын
Nah, you're just a Clean freak 👎
@Matthew-kb9bw
@Matthew-kb9bw 4 жыл бұрын
The “Do Something” approach, is why I make my bed in the morning. It’s easy and it helps get me started.
@tosh8377
@tosh8377 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve read that heaps of successful people do that. Did you ever see that speech where some military guy talks about making your bed? Very powerful.
@d1rtyharry378
@d1rtyharry378 4 жыл бұрын
@@tosh8377 ikr. That guy gave me the motivation to make my bed everyday. I do that but still cant find any motivation to get back to my work lol. But still making bed generates some kind of energy or something like that in my body. All i gotta do is convert the energy to my work
@eeg122
@eeg122 4 жыл бұрын
Yes. I saw that video. Very inspiring. I make my bed daily.
@ElenaSemanova
@ElenaSemanova 4 жыл бұрын
Yep, definetely, and for me it's also kind of a mental barrier telling me I no longer can go back to my bed and that I should start my day
@JT1358
@JT1358 4 жыл бұрын
But PLEASE people - let the darn thing air first!
@alyserdar
@alyserdar 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone is going through these phases. Moving home and going away for a long business trip coming out of summer holidays got the best of me and I've been struggling big time to get out of my rut. No gym, no running, no waking up early. But this video reminded me how actions are controlling our motivation - just "DO SOMETHING" and the rest will follow! Thank you! :)
@RaySiraj
@RaySiraj 5 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna say, this literally got recommended when I really needed it.. I dont even write comments, but you literally described me right now.. Thank you. I got inspired
@NASkeywest
@NASkeywest 5 жыл бұрын
Rakan Al Yami a man in desperate need of a revelation usually revives one.
@mouad4424
@mouad4424 5 жыл бұрын
صح لسانك
@wimzi9887
@wimzi9887 5 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@RandomGuy-kw6xq
@RandomGuy-kw6xq 5 жыл бұрын
did this inspiration motivate you to take an action though?
@TimeHacker001
@TimeHacker001 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@dynamic-eu1794
@dynamic-eu1794 4 жыл бұрын
This video may have been life changing for me. Two months ago when the quarantine started I felt like every living moment was a chore. I saw a few of your videos and this one really struck a chords with me. It gave me the motivation to do something. Two months later, lost 12lbs, wrote 3 chapters in my book, read 5 books, improved my relationships, felt like life was good every living day. There were days that I struggled but I keep on pushing through. Today I ended up in a funk and I knew exactly where to go to find my trueself again. Joey you are a life changer.
@releasetoreceive
@releasetoreceive 4 жыл бұрын
Proud of you!! Keep it up!
@starkheart4441
@starkheart4441 4 жыл бұрын
Dynamic-EU Wow! I’m proud of you!
@Mark_Grand
@Mark_Grand 4 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Were you able to keep moving forward? I can’t seem to get the cycle started, but I’m desperately needing this kind of amazing change in my life.
@AlyssaBotelho
@AlyssaBotelho 4 жыл бұрын
This is amazing and so inspiring! Keep going!
@bjorn6956
@bjorn6956 4 жыл бұрын
Damn... i was so productive and because of sitting at home entire days I became more and more undisciplined each day... RN I'm skipping (home) workouts and the work that I put off is piled up... Let's get out of this rut together you reading this!
@lukedocherty2855
@lukedocherty2855 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely there with you man hope you’ve gotten out of your rut now
@bjorn6956
@bjorn6956 4 жыл бұрын
@@lukedocherty2855 I have actually for me the trick lies in doing my workout as soon as I wake up and not later in the day when I'm already kind of tired from all the other work. And with that if I did my workout in the morning I also feel more productive for the rest of the day
@JayPromotions
@JayPromotions 4 жыл бұрын
bjorn LETS DO THIS 😤😤😤
@cintiabutlers4724
@cintiabutlers4724 4 жыл бұрын
Let's fight back!
@jujas7433
@jujas7433 4 жыл бұрын
On board, let's go! 👍
@corey9313
@corey9313 8 ай бұрын
I know this video was a long time ago but this was needed. I used to freaking kill it with motivation, meditation, eating healthy, getting up early, walking, but over the past 2 years, that was just totally lost and I feel like I can't get it back or why? So I just chalk it up as depression and trauma. Time to take it easy on my primal side and on myself, appreciate you man!
@sonickanica
@sonickanica 3 жыл бұрын
Dude: "Do you need some huge inspirational epiphany to take shower?" Me: "Yes" Dude: "No!" Me: ohh...
@franklin1628
@franklin1628 3 жыл бұрын
I feel this on a spiritual level
@Michael-td7hg
@Michael-td7hg 3 жыл бұрын
He's bald. Its like washing your hands for him
@DaBeastBeats
@DaBeastBeats 3 жыл бұрын
that is an actual problem
@andreacamachovisiedo5801
@andreacamachovisiedo5801 3 жыл бұрын
Haha same
@drewbear2694
@drewbear2694 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@lesitonio6402
@lesitonio6402 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this video made me think that I can literally save my life right now. Thank you!
@nellymalone2802
@nellymalone2802 4 жыл бұрын
❤️💕
@shawarmageddonit
@shawarmageddonit 4 жыл бұрын
Literally? How??
@jerrijobarkerlove3613
@jerrijobarkerlove3613 4 жыл бұрын
Hope you are still inspired. ❤
@wleostark4434
@wleostark4434 4 жыл бұрын
i feel like that is the best thing you could ever tell someone
@jonm610
@jonm610 4 жыл бұрын
Hope you’re well and keep it up
@AT-yg4nk
@AT-yg4nk 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been stuck in this “rut” from the day of my 30th birthday. Something changed.. I use to be highly motivated and was the guy that went to the success seminars, watched all the videos, read all the books. I was big into working out! Being healthy and fitness was higher priority. I was headed somewhere in life, with purpose I felt. Today. I’m 34. I’m depressed, lonely, broke, angry, I have bouts of rage, stressed constantly, annoyed with everyone, don’t care for being polite in public anymore. I’ve become something I hate and despise. Maybe this video came to me for a reason. I don’t know. But this video directly spoke to me. Thank you.
@uradeva3690
@uradeva3690 5 жыл бұрын
How’s it going?
@uradeva3690
@uradeva3690 5 жыл бұрын
Charles Duvall you can make some changes... I’d be happy to give you some advice if you wanted but I don’t know anything about you. I’ve struggled with a lot and have had a lot of hell and pain. I wish you the best
@Starbrou
@Starbrou 4 жыл бұрын
Feel u guys.. Avolition is the most shit feeling ever.. What helped me was changing my general perception, it came when i realised our subconscious mind is controlling what thoughts we have every day. What questions do you ask yourself? There are some tricks to program yourself. Do it! Or others will do, like they always have Developing Gratitude helped me a lot.. Best wishes! Your time will come for sure! If u are looking for the person who will change your life, take a look in the mirror
@realmadamebproductions6202
@realmadamebproductions6202 4 жыл бұрын
That’s what happened. After doing all this stuff you were told to do, not by yourself but society, after completing it, you haven’t found a personal purpose for yourself.
@EvenTheDogAgrees
@EvenTheDogAgrees 4 жыл бұрын
@@realmadamebproductions6202 If you haven't seen it already, search for "Alan Watts on education". He describes exactly what you're talking about, and concludes with (paraphrasing from memory): "But we fooled ourselves the entire way. We thought of life as a pilgrimage, as a quest, with a serious purpose at the end and the thing was to get to that end. But we were wrong all along: it was a musical thing, and you were supposed to sing and dance while the music was being played". And that's a good attitude towards life. Furthermore, you're not responsible for everything in life. Your first responsibility is to yourself. Treat yourself as you would treat others. Lots of people put their own physical and mental health in second place. While it's commendable that you would take excellent care of a child or a pet, remember that you owe yourself that same level of attention and care. Your second responsibility is to your loved ones. Be they family, partner, friends or even pets. Take good care of them, and they will take good care of you when you're in need. Even if it's just offering emotional support. Your last responsibility is to humanity as a whole. Try not to do anything to jeopardise the future of the species or harm society. In concrete terms that would equate to trying not to contribute to the toxic atmosphere in online comments sections, trying to minimise your ecological footprint, that sort of stuff. Now, I'm not the best at all of that either. But it being difficult to follow doesn't invalidate the advice. ;)
@Ash-vt5cp
@Ash-vt5cp 6 ай бұрын
this is exactly me right now - was killing it studying for exam, passed it, happy about it, took a (intentional) 1 week break from life, and now i'm in a rut
@s.o.k.1393
@s.o.k.1393 4 жыл бұрын
"Do you need some sort of huge inspirational epiphany to take a shower?" Me: "yes" "No." Me: "right, of course not"
@speaktruth9989
@speaktruth9989 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@ILooveeuuu
@ILooveeuuu 4 жыл бұрын
honestly, I thought the same. But I also have super long and curly hair, which means taking a full shower with washing my hair takes me around 45 minutes, spending most of that time with my head upside down. So yeah, like, I need a lot of motivation to do that
@jesswest15
@jesswest15 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I just gotta find the thing that's easy for me to do. I think my rut is a lot lower than his example, so my "do somethings" are going to be a LOT smaller than his. Hopefully one day they'll be bigger.
@evaj3461
@evaj3461 4 жыл бұрын
@@jesswest15 you totally got this!! One step at a time. It’s not easy but you CAN require your brain. 🌻🙏
@husain3190
@husain3190 4 жыл бұрын
@@ILooveeuuu shave your head or suffer for eternity
@adamlee2807
@adamlee2807 5 жыл бұрын
"Every day it gets a little easier. But you have to do it every day. That's the hard part. But it does get easier."
@joshuafernandes6592
@joshuafernandes6592 5 жыл бұрын
BoJack
@loges_lol
@loges_lol 5 жыл бұрын
Wow you can quote bojack that is impressive
@gerRule
@gerRule 5 жыл бұрын
Nah Fuck that it’s Sunday
@anthonysantiago6528
@anthonysantiago6528 5 жыл бұрын
It doesn't get easier. You just get better
@rhys2792
@rhys2792 4 жыл бұрын
When he said " I'm not a doctor, I'm just a dude", I felt that
@ThatWhichErodes
@ThatWhichErodes 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm the dude playing the dude disguised as another dude!"
@solarmoon22
@solarmoon22 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@hawkeyepierce8886
@hawkeyepierce8886 4 жыл бұрын
the two genders: doctor or dude
@rafaellopessax
@rafaellopessax 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother, this video really helps, I've been on a rut for a long time and it's motivating to see someone who is also dealing with the same thing
@TimeFliesTimeManagement
@TimeFliesTimeManagement 5 жыл бұрын
*Never skip a good habit 2 days in a row..* Who knows Matt d’Avella rule?
@deanj6722
@deanj6722 5 жыл бұрын
Don't know it..which video?
@fatehimanov7696
@fatehimanov7696 5 жыл бұрын
No this rule is belonged to james clear who wrote atomatic habits book
@fatehimanov7696
@fatehimanov7696 5 жыл бұрын
Dean J it means that if you dont do any kind of good habit within 2 days,you lose this habit
@TimeFliesTimeManagement
@TimeFliesTimeManagement 5 жыл бұрын
Ghostgamer Fatih i didn’t know thanks! I’ll check out the book as I’m really interested in these topics!
@fatehimanov7696
@fatehimanov7696 5 жыл бұрын
TimeFlies - Time Management i recommend to you read atomatic habits book
@bingusbingus7860
@bingusbingus7860 5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need some sort of huge inspirational epiphany to take a shower? No." --- I am being personally attacked.
@alexandrahunt5198
@alexandrahunt5198 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@umeshdesai6009
@umeshdesai6009 5 жыл бұрын
So true.
@oguzhanasdas5411
@oguzhanasdas5411 5 жыл бұрын
literally 10 minutes ago an old friend called and said let's meet in an hour. I am so pissed that I have to take a shower now and go meet with people. and saw this video, clicked it. and the dude says you don't need inspiration to take a shower. guess what? I fucking do. someone kill me please.
@jadevinson2099
@jadevinson2099 5 жыл бұрын
Right?! Why don’t you mind your business😭
@jennakhivkapratt8751
@jennakhivkapratt8751 5 жыл бұрын
@@oguzhanasdas5411 you just made me feel so normal
@JasonB95
@JasonB95 2 жыл бұрын
The "do something" principle is really a great strategy. But the biggest takeaway for me is knowing I'm not alone. Every time I enter a rut I always feel like I'm the only one in the world who can't stay on track. But after watching this and reading the comments it's amazing to realise how similar other persons' experiences are to mine. This helps a lot with moving forward. Sometimes knowing you're not alone can make all the difference.
@Fillup82
@Fillup82 Жыл бұрын
No one is safe from the rut.
@bennytheblanc
@bennytheblanc 9 ай бұрын
It’s more common today than it’s ever been bud
@HiddenGem444
@HiddenGem444 7 ай бұрын
@@Fillup82Yes he mentioned everything I’ve been doing! I follow my schedule then when I hit that rut I’m stuck on tiktok for a week, eating unhealthy, feeding into unhealthy habits & sleeping alll day. I basically allow myself to rot and then slowly ease into my routines. But dammit I just want to be 100% consistent for once. I’ll get there eventually.
@Reivaz88
@Reivaz88 7 ай бұрын
Why is that advice any good, " you are not alone" like who fuckin cares, I have no friends and no family to care about me, I don't think that noone in the wod has the same situation as me, it's just such useless advice and is basically saying " yeah your not the only one going through shit so shut up"
@HiddenGem444
@HiddenGem444 7 ай бұрын
@@Reivaz88 whether you realize it or not you have a whole spiritual team that cares about you that surpasses your friends or family here in the 3d. It’s your job to seek solitude in order to tap in, see, hear & receive the love and guidance that is here for you within you! I don’t think “you’re not alone” is meant the way you’re taking it. It’s just as humans we honestly do go through things that make us feel alone or like it’s only happening to us when in reality there’s nothing under the sun we go through that hasn’t been done before! I pray you are able to release this mentality, seek the God that is within you and know that there is soul community out there for you! Ask your spirit to guide you and you shall find what you seek! Take care babes! You’re Honestly not alone out here! 🤎
@wafffls
@wafffls Жыл бұрын
as someone who regularly struggles with executive dysfunction, this video is very helpful! i do a couple of these already- the “do something principal” is basically how i get anything done lol. giving yourself extremely easy goals that would be nearly impossible NOT to do is a great way to trick your brain into starting on tasks you put off. (and if you really don’t end up doing anything beyond that easy first goal, at least you got a little done instead of nothing!) i especially learned from the 2nd and 3rd strategies. i tend to want to ride the high of motivation and end up tiring myself out, putting myself in a brand new rut. even though i know it isn’t working, it’s hard to convince yourself in the moment that taking a bunch of small breaks and rewarding yourself before you’re even that tired is a good idea. hearing someone talk about the logic behind the method is really good for silencing the part of my mind that insists i’m being lazy for not getting everything done in one sitting. all in all, thanks for the video!
@OpalPixie
@OpalPixie 4 жыл бұрын
I usually stay productive for 6 days while taking breaks. On day 7, when everything is done, I pamper myself with facials, movies, and video games. Seems to be working for me so far lol.
@joem7023
@joem7023 4 жыл бұрын
Not a bad idea.
@dean4545
@dean4545 4 жыл бұрын
six versus one is too little :(
@im432hz9
@im432hz9 4 жыл бұрын
@@dean4545 everybody is different, there is People That dont even take That one Day, or there are productive people That take 4 days, doesnt really matter, Just apply a good routine to reach your goals and show up everytime =) good luck
@thomasdezalak5843
@thomasdezalak5843 5 жыл бұрын
“Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today” love that quote, you’ll only become better the more you see progress in yourself not your progress compared to others
@itsdanos1419
@itsdanos1419 5 жыл бұрын
Thomas Dezalak that’s a Jordan Peterson rule in his book lol
@rachelk7555
@rachelk7555 5 жыл бұрын
What if you were much better off yesterday than today?
@felicity3349
@felicity3349 5 жыл бұрын
Damn this guy is in a rut for a week.... *I‘m in a rut for my whole life*
@lhommedelacroix2330
@lhommedelacroix2330 5 жыл бұрын
Jesus
@taz7193
@taz7193 5 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for you 🙏
@shaquevara
@shaquevara 5 жыл бұрын
then you probably need to seek out the professional help he mentioned in the disclaimer of his video, bruh. good luck!
@kingstonian1345
@kingstonian1345 5 жыл бұрын
Been in a rut for at least 10 years. Not a nice struggle
@montsergirl
@montsergirl 5 жыл бұрын
MV#165 me too 😞 it’s mind blowing people aren’t, i’m happy they aren’t but it’s a weird thought. I hope we can get out of ours one day!
@paulhornsey-pennell1931
@paulhornsey-pennell1931 Жыл бұрын
the way you pace your commentary along with the tonality you use combined with the info ... makes this so easy to digest. my way of getting of a rut it simply to decide to do the first two minutes of anything ... that's it ... from there if flow has been created i go with it for another 15 mins. if not then i return to the task either later in the day or the following day.
@Secretlyanothername
@Secretlyanothername 5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need motivation to take a shower?" Uh yes, otherwise I wouldn't be watching this video.
@Dean0ne
@Dean0ne 5 жыл бұрын
i take it you are actually depressed? i'm in therapy myself and sometimes it can take huge amounts of energy to shower or eat enough. i hope you can work out a way to have things be a little easier
@Secretlyanothername
@Secretlyanothername 5 жыл бұрын
@@Dean0ne Thanks. I'm not depressed (though I have had depression and I know what that kind of deep dark fog is like), but often lack motivation to perform tasks that seem confronting or create anxiety. Sometimes I can get to the pool in the morning and swim 2km, but find it hard to brush my teeth. The "do something" action rule - whatever that action is - is very useful for getting past the ruts that many of us face.
@Secretlyanothername
@Secretlyanothername 5 жыл бұрын
@Neruko G Take a listen to Mel Robbins five second rule. It's probably worth using it to reset tomorrow morning.
@6884
@6884 5 жыл бұрын
my motivation usually is that dear lord I stink like shit
@charmedprince
@charmedprince 5 жыл бұрын
@@Secretlyanothername 54321 actually does work but when you hit the point of, "uggggghhh, who cares what happens!!" it takes more than just 5 seconds to make anything matter. But i admit, Mel Robbins' technique works when you're not feeling the mean reds
@teezabook962
@teezabook962 5 жыл бұрын
“Going back to being productive like earlier in the month” Years... it’s been years buddy
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 5 жыл бұрын
Same lmao
@laurencollins4900
@laurencollins4900 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@mezalong
@mezalong 5 жыл бұрын
I can't go back to something I never was..
@dawidpotega882
@dawidpotega882 5 жыл бұрын
Yep almost 5 years here!
@mcbolina2779
@mcbolina2779 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@ImDezi
@ImDezi 5 жыл бұрын
“It’s the show with hot questions and even hotter wings” Oh wait...
@ijm90
@ijm90 5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@Lucidiumshards
@Lucidiumshards 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@enzerabowenzu5340
@enzerabowenzu5340 5 жыл бұрын
Oh is it the same guy?
@RemingtonMK
@RemingtonMK 5 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@wolfi7084
@wolfi7084 5 жыл бұрын
Enzera Bowenzu is it?
@blu-rae864
@blu-rae864 9 ай бұрын
I've been working on myself this month and I kinda let myself go this weekend, this video after a run really got me out of this rut. You're not weak for taking a few days off; for self improvement is never a straight line.
@randym195
@randym195 5 жыл бұрын
When I'm in a rut or feeling low and depressed I say to myself, doing something is always better than doing nothing. It can be the smallest thing like taking the garbage out or taking 5 mins to clean the sink. Sometimes its the little things that can bring about the biggest change.
@lauriroggenkamp1417
@lauriroggenkamp1417 5 жыл бұрын
“I’m not a Doctor, I’m just a dude.” I want that knitted on a pillow.
@dream4848
@dream4848 5 жыл бұрын
would be even better if you were an actual doctor
@ahmadshokry5945
@ahmadshokry5945 5 жыл бұрын
I AM a doctor and I would like to have that on a T shirt
@dawniebug784
@dawniebug784 5 жыл бұрын
First step, Just sit in front of the knitting needles. Then reward yourself for a small win.
@italpor
@italpor 5 жыл бұрын
Then take action
@andyeccentric
@andyeccentric 5 жыл бұрын
Why knitted and why on a pillow?
@queenofallmonkeys
@queenofallmonkeys 5 жыл бұрын
"Comparing yourself to who you were yesterday rather than who someone else is today." You sir gets a like on that one!
@RaVNeFLoK
@RaVNeFLoK 5 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson much? :)
@deepak5911
@deepak5911 5 жыл бұрын
Japanese technology
@Hammer563
@Hammer563 2 жыл бұрын
Been in a 6 month rut... I was exercising and reading and writing from home very consistently and still keeping up with hobbies and gaming with friends here and there, then my girlfriend came to visit and I decided to relax while she was there and it put me in that rut and I've been struggling to get out ever since. It's getting to the point where I'll sleep past alarms and get late to work, and I'll be a lot less motivated there too. Today though, I'm going to do the dishes and cook myself a meal.
@christhornham
@christhornham 2 жыл бұрын
I've dealt with the same thing. My first job after college was around the 2008 recession. We went from being very busy to having no work. For months, I sat at my desk with nothing to do. Before the recession, I was always motivated. After, I found it very hard to get back to work. At first I had to force myself to work and it felt hard. But, I stayed consistent and it wasn't long before my drive came back. I notice the same thing can happen after taking a vacation.
@palzma
@palzma 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@palzma
@palzma 2 жыл бұрын
no mangina
@kevinislas9212
@kevinislas9212 Жыл бұрын
Same man I work 14 hours shifts and I do the things I do but I just don’t feel like I’m putting all my energy i always get to work late but I sleep my 8 hours yet my girlfriend gets mad I come home just to sleep n I just wanna rest but I can’t bc I have to come back to her and my daughter w no energy but I still put it for them and I treat myself like I’m no one I don’t self love myself I don’t buy myself clothe I don’t care if I don’t eat I have no self love low self esteem but dis year I feel different I feel the lil inspiration and I’m also 19 !! So all the pressure
@cloggerstud
@cloggerstud Жыл бұрын
@@kevinislas9212 You are everything man!! Take care of yourself so you can take care of those you love. It took me way to long to figure that out so if I can help you at 19 be better so you’re not 40 like me with no energy ever given to myself. It’s sad. It feels really sad to me. I’m really going to focus on helping myself out this year so I have the ability to properly show love to the people I love this year as well. Good luck man!! You’re not alone, and you got the good stuff in ya to make this happen and all your dreams come true! 💪🏼😁
@gracegotthis3704
@gracegotthis3704 5 жыл бұрын
My son sent me this to help with my depression and anxiety. God bless all who suffer with these debilitating issues.
@jameso17
@jameso17 5 жыл бұрын
Tanya Goddin Doubt
@gracegotthis3704
@gracegotthis3704 5 жыл бұрын
@@jameso17 could be or being refined in the fire. God does his best work in the valleys.
@wishyouthebest9222
@wishyouthebest9222 5 жыл бұрын
@@gracegotthis3704 I went through heavy medication and stationary therapy because of depression. Nothing really worked, my depression remained. Only crying out and trusting God changed my heart and mind and it was almost instantly gone. That doesn't mean it has to be that way for everybody or that your trust is lacking. Some people just happen to need longer to heal due to their own story. As long as Jesus is your refuge your soul will recover and be finally at peace. God bless you. May Jesus heal you soon.
@Starbrou
@Starbrou 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tanya, I feel you and I’m sure u’ll get out of it! What helped me was changing my general perception, it came when i realised our subconscious mind is controlling what thoughts we have every day. What questions do you ask yourself? There are some tricks to program yourself. Do it! Or others will do, like they always have Developing Gratitude helped me a lot.. Best wishes!
@Shanti_devi19
@Shanti_devi19 4 жыл бұрын
I know it''s terrible, I go through the same thing (burn out) wish you well too!
@nepaniquepas
@nepaniquepas 5 жыл бұрын
Me: trying to listen to this guy tell me how to get out of a rut. Me: Reading the comments and hitting likes while totally ignoring the good advice this guy is probably giving me.
@MikaHakkinen83
@MikaHakkinen83 5 жыл бұрын
You're out of the rut already
@nepaniquepas
@nepaniquepas 5 жыл бұрын
Shadyfox Thanks for the support. :)
@gerardinecizmar
@gerardinecizmar 5 жыл бұрын
Ha. I got to finishing 3/4 ths of the video before I did that. I wish KZbin videos were set up so that I couldn't see the comments until I finished the video.
@masonmaupins1363
@masonmaupins1363 5 жыл бұрын
Super underrated comment
@LiamIsTheBestx
@LiamIsTheBestx 5 жыл бұрын
Fuck u got me!
@faustobrusamolino6345
@faustobrusamolino6345 5 жыл бұрын
"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, rather than who someone else is today"... This sentence has so much propulsion, even just by itself, it helps me to keep moving forward. Thank you so much for sharing this video and your knowledge.
@JazminBautista
@JazminBautista 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you!! Comparing yourself to your past can change your perspective on what you are going through in the present moment.
@AshtonRiddell
@AshtonRiddell 5 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson
@Sgtfuckface
@Sgtfuckface 5 жыл бұрын
It's the name of a chapter from Jordan Peterson's "12 Rules for Life." If the title of the chapter hit you, then the book will slam you.
@faustobrusamolino6345
@faustobrusamolino6345 5 жыл бұрын
@@Sgtfuckface thanks!
@faustobrusamolino6345
@faustobrusamolino6345 5 жыл бұрын
@@AshtonRiddell thanks!
@TheJordanianBedouin
@TheJordanianBedouin 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in a 3 week rut and i absolutely hate how vulnerable i was to fall in it in the first place…
@YGardenRose
@YGardenRose 5 ай бұрын
It happens to the best of us
@avinashkunjamboo8572
@avinashkunjamboo8572 5 жыл бұрын
you, matt d'avella and nathaniel drew are saving my life no joke
@storiesofastranger
@storiesofastranger 5 жыл бұрын
the holy trinity
@its_fergi
@its_fergi 5 жыл бұрын
fr though hahaha
@Spartacus4119
@Spartacus4119 5 жыл бұрын
Don't forget Thomas Frank
@outsider1st
@outsider1st 5 жыл бұрын
And Einzelganger
@outsider1st
@outsider1st 5 жыл бұрын
And Universal Man
@EmmyHucker
@EmmyHucker 5 жыл бұрын
I think you've been reading my mind . . .
@abdoumenouer7762
@abdoumenouer7762 5 жыл бұрын
It's the KZbin Algorithm.
@chipie1002
@chipie1002 5 жыл бұрын
I thought it was just me with this defect as well
@abdoumenouer7762
@abdoumenouer7762 5 жыл бұрын
@@chipie1002 Defect or not, I ain't complaining.
@GrixxlyStrength
@GrixxlyStrength 5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need major motivation to get up and take a shower? no" Depression: Hold my beer
@alysiamerdavid-wasser9165
@alysiamerdavid-wasser9165 5 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU!!!!
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 5 жыл бұрын
Haha don't allow depression to stop you u gotta go get that bread or else u die😅
@juliebahnsen2490
@juliebahnsen2490 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment, haha!
@DiscoFang
@DiscoFang 5 жыл бұрын
Yes. That shower thing shows this guy actually doesn't understand.
@carmendekesel6714
@carmendekesel6714 5 жыл бұрын
Yes... it actually does for me
@EthericImpulse
@EthericImpulse 2 жыл бұрын
Been re watching this video every few months for a while now and got to say, you improved my life man. Thank you 🙏
@vanxin9127
@vanxin9127 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m not a doctor, I’m a dude”
@kman8271
@kman8271 4 жыл бұрын
Van Xin 😆
@TreyDieterich
@TreyDieterich 4 жыл бұрын
My proctologist said the same thing after my last exam. 😬
@sisckogames2305
@sisckogames2305 4 жыл бұрын
@@TreyDieterich Did he say no homo?
@TreyDieterich
@TreyDieterich 4 жыл бұрын
@@sisckogames2305 no 😭
@naturally_roisin
@naturally_roisin 4 жыл бұрын
That's when I subscribed haha
@jaefraz
@jaefraz 5 жыл бұрын
brothers and sisters, we are not alone
@justyn3573
@justyn3573 5 жыл бұрын
jaefraz fuck the eagles go cowboys
@arjunmaarbala891
@arjunmaarbala891 5 жыл бұрын
I guess ur Optimus prime 😁😀
@ImprovementGang
@ImprovementGang 3 жыл бұрын
This "rut" will always happen. One can only do steps to handle these ruts the right way. What I like to go by is: "if you don't take the break, the break will take itself"
@philadelphiachr922
@philadelphiachr922 2 жыл бұрын
this is so good. definitely needed to be reminded of this. thank you.
@PuriPuriPurple
@PuriPuriPurple Жыл бұрын
omg this.
@movementinmind3354
@movementinmind3354 Жыл бұрын
Great video! I'm a licensed counselor and I used this video in one of my group sessions! You did a great job with thoroughly explaining your points and maintaining humility at the same time!
@emily.maddox
@emily.maddox 5 жыл бұрын
*Watches this with a double chin whilst laying on bed*
@powdergangereddie3413
@powdergangereddie3413 5 жыл бұрын
Emily M lol, breathes in deep to hide my couch belly
@dolorismachina2
@dolorismachina2 5 жыл бұрын
@@powdergangereddie3413 Don't hide it. It's yours. You've grown it. BE PROUD!!!
@powdergangereddie3413
@powdergangereddie3413 5 жыл бұрын
dolorismachina2 lol thank, it’s been a struggle of not moving and eating junk but I got there in the end ☺️🙂
@BV-ue9cj
@BV-ue9cj 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@unknownunknown8041
@unknownunknown8041 4 жыл бұрын
@@dolorismachina2 ahahahahhhhaha
@its_katiejones
@its_katiejones 5 жыл бұрын
"do you need motivation to take a shower"? Me: yes "No" Me: oh
@kaitlyne1870
@kaitlyne1870 5 жыл бұрын
That was my exact reaction too! 😂
@StrategicStripping
@StrategicStripping 5 жыл бұрын
I feel like hot showers are one of the best gifts in life...... maybe you should get a shower filter and some candles.... make it a great expereince 😊
@Piasays
@Piasays 5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭this!
@majormoku
@majormoku 5 жыл бұрын
Ha! Exactly 👍
@Chrisratata
@Chrisratata 5 жыл бұрын
Strategic Stripping Podcast Her: “That sounds like a lot of work!”
@gigglecheeks123
@gigglecheeks123 5 жыл бұрын
Every year on my birthday I open the front door and yell out “it’s my birthday” and somebody always yells back “happy birthday” just saying it makes me feel better. Lol.
@voidisvirtue8709
@voidisvirtue8709 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t know if this is true but I think it’s awesome!
@ttiasrollo
@ttiasrollo 5 жыл бұрын
It's more likely that someone shouts "STFU"
@johnhariis250
@johnhariis250 5 жыл бұрын
@@ttiasrollo 🤣😂🤣👌🤔
@jefferywilliams8479
@jefferywilliams8479 5 жыл бұрын
serious?
@Starbrou
@Starbrou 4 жыл бұрын
That’s genius ._.
@genericwatcher2439
@genericwatcher2439 10 ай бұрын
Before Christmas I finished a huge house project that made the whole first floor so much nicer, this was right on the heels of gutting and redoing the kitchen, then the holidays were great, then I went on a cruise and I was even better. I'm always doing or planning something, but I decided to take a pause until March, now it is late January and after nearly a month of doing nothing, I am unmotivated and sad. Knowing I am not supposed to do anything for another month has me watching TV for hours a day, my joints are hurting, I'm getting sick and feel life sucks. Working and doing projects makes me tired, but it makes me happy too. Thanks for telling me that I need to get moving again!
@mr.krepshus1467
@mr.krepshus1467 4 жыл бұрын
This might be the most helpfull channel on KZbin
@NONAMENONONAME
@NONAMENONONAME 4 жыл бұрын
When I'm in a rut it's because I have some underlying problem giving me anxiety.
@andreas3850
@andreas3850 4 жыл бұрын
Nah you're lazy.
@meineroteBlume
@meineroteBlume 4 жыл бұрын
For me its the same
@alupha_216
@alupha_216 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@yiut123
@yiut123 4 жыл бұрын
Same here.
@nicholasmtss217
@nicholasmtss217 4 жыл бұрын
I even struggle with showers... Shit.
@matthewmolinar
@matthewmolinar 5 жыл бұрын
Strategy 1: Utilize the do something principle 1:54 Strategy 2: Reward yourself for small wins. 3:50 Strategy 3: Progressive Overload 5:54
@axlegallardo
@axlegallardo 5 жыл бұрын
Matthew Molinar Why... thank you Matt.
@samahita-vca
@samahita-vca 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I'll definitely need this when I rewatch this motivational video, like, some day.
@barisoz2598
@barisoz2598 2 жыл бұрын
Thx
@betterthanyesterday3912
@betterthanyesterday3912 4 жыл бұрын
Something I do to help myself get into the swing of things at work: I write down a very short "To Do" list. I will put THREE items on it that I KNOW I can do without difficulty. This can be emails, reading a chapter in a book on leadership, or sending a text to my active clients to let them know I'm thinking about them. Then I cross each item off the list as I complete these menial tasks. Once the three items are completed, I write down three more. Because I have ADD, sometimes I need to write down the entire day's list on a separate sheet of paper, before I forget anything. Then I will take out a separate sheet of paper (of my daily planner) and transfer three items at a time from the master sheet. This has been very helpful to me since I have a tendency to become overwhelmed when there are many things to do. And when I feel overwhelmed, my mind becomes cluttered and I can't be as productive as I should be, and it also seems to take more mental energy which leads to premature fatigue. I hope this helps someone out. For the record, today is February 5th. For those of you who feel as though the ship has already sailed to have a productive year, stop the negative thought process. Before the end of this week, you can write down your yearly goals, and break them down into monthly, weekly, and daily goals. Set yourself up to hit the ground running HARD next Monday. Remember that the goal is never to be as good as somebody else you're envious of. The goal is to be better than you were yesterday. Even if only slightly. You CAN be more patient. You CAN take a 5 minute walk. You CAN call up your parents to thank them for everything, and see if there's anything they need a hand with. You CAN greet your pet with silly talk and a walk when you walk through the door after work. You CAN pick up a book and read 5 pages. You can do this. I know you can because I have gone through this process myself. It isn't easy and it takes WORK. But remember: Everything is difficult before it becomes easy. God's blessings on your marriage, relationships, health and business in 2020.
@nelsonsjourney9714
@nelsonsjourney9714 4 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!
@betterthanyesterday3912
@betterthanyesterday3912 4 жыл бұрын
@@nelsonsjourney9714 You're welcome! 😊
@amaanhussain3094
@amaanhussain3094 4 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Appreciate it man!
@caseyhall2320
@caseyhall2320 4 жыл бұрын
Damn dude, those chapters on leadership are definitely working, you TALK like a leader!
@bardock7894
@bardock7894 5 жыл бұрын
Damn this happens to me every week it sucks. All it takes is a bad sleep night the cycle begins
@prinspray
@prinspray 5 жыл бұрын
So true!
@kalin6602
@kalin6602 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@c82001XD
@c82001XD 5 жыл бұрын
muggshot Exactly me. I barely sleep one night, I’m dead tired all day for my classes. Come home and nap, get nothing done, stay up all night doing nothing because I napped all day.
@machoman7765
@machoman7765 5 жыл бұрын
Joe Nobos same #feelsbadman
@mirny1509
@mirny1509 5 жыл бұрын
Joe Nobos same. I stayed home from classes today to catch up on sleep, and tomorrow my morning lab is cancelled so I get two days of a little break. It’s much needed.
@1kiwibird23
@1kiwibird23 5 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna reward myself with pizza for brushing my teeth.
@ToastyWaffle456
@ToastyWaffle456 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@sirturtle2839
@sirturtle2839 5 жыл бұрын
what about Orange Juice?
@samuelaurora3632
@samuelaurora3632 5 жыл бұрын
David Florist orange juice is one of the best things in the world
@ToastyWaffle456
@ToastyWaffle456 5 жыл бұрын
@@samuelaurora3632 Not for health it isn't. When I learned how bad fruit juice was I stopped completely. Only had probably 1-3 small glasses ever since. Used to be obsessed with OJ lol
@samuelaurora3632
@samuelaurora3632 5 жыл бұрын
Telos oj is unhealthy? Nani?
@zeronautin
@zeronautin Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Those cycles of extreme good and bad feelings for months is basically my life. Though I have a safety setup I still manage to fall into those dark ruts. At this point I feel like I'm a failure because I didn't stick to my strategies. Helps to see that so many others struggle with that, too.
@lifeofpriya976
@lifeofpriya976 5 жыл бұрын
I actually needed this in my recommended
@emmettfountain8658
@emmettfountain8658 5 жыл бұрын
LifeOfPriya These videos always seem to show up when I need them
@Milark
@Milark 5 жыл бұрын
Turns out my life has been one giant “pseudo depressive rut”
@lyalya6860
@lyalya6860 5 жыл бұрын
Meeeeee
@cindynoelle3086
@cindynoelle3086 5 жыл бұрын
Me too.. but let's get ourselves out of there and be more alive and happy
@Stew_Pid
@Stew_Pid 5 жыл бұрын
That's called a canyon. Not a rut. And I'm right there with you. Only problem is you dont have a pack mule to help carry you and all your shit out of it.
@22Tech
@22Tech 5 жыл бұрын
read that as "pseudo depressive nut" and still agreed
@octopus8420
@octopus8420 5 жыл бұрын
Mirano, that's what an actual depression sounds like. See a therapist, for real. Good luck :)
@Pink15181
@Pink15181 4 жыл бұрын
Something that always helps me get out of a rut is treat yourself like a little 5 year old. Let’s brush your teeth ! Let’s do that homework !
@adinashaina9977
@adinashaina9977 4 жыл бұрын
...visualizes a star chart...
@caseyhall2320
@caseyhall2320 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly I agree with this. When you try and make things seem more fun, rewarding, and happy; your brain goes "hey, this makes wanting to do things so much easier because I don't feel like I'm in a stone cold world where doing things feels like a chore every time." I noticed this issue when I graduated HS and got my first job. In HS, you've got teachers telling you they believe in you, students helping each other out and giving each other words of encouragement, this general sense that you recognize some students struggle more than others so you help them out a little or give extra encouragement. In my first job, almost no one gave a singular shit about you or your life. There was no congratulations for anything. Any congratulations that did come about were from corporate themselves giving you an empty hearted "good job" for preventing something bad from happening. There was a lot less advice going around between co-workers to help make our job life easier. When given a task for the first time and you were successful, there was not even a small half assed "oh, nice man" or "eyyyy good job bro." There was less of comraderie and more of "you're holding the rest of us back" if you happened to be having a bad day and couldn't do your job as well. And there was always a lot more pressure than I was ever used to when going to work, and being at work. A service job should not make you feel like you've got the weight of an entire store on you. It's important you do your job, yes, but too much pressure can be detrimental to workers being able to actually work efficiently. Plus, it was like almost no one wanted to even try keeping the place upbeat because everyone was too sad, which just made everyone progressively more sad. That transition was a legitimate mental shock to me as suddenly it felt like I was worth dog shit due to the change of environment being very gloomy. So yes, treating your brain like a 5 y/o definitely has its benefits when in comparison 😂.
@lizettecorona6116
@lizettecorona6116 4 жыл бұрын
@@caseyhall2320 exactly how things are going for me
@thegrinderman1090
@thegrinderman1090 4 жыл бұрын
I do something similar where I imagine I'm a character on The Sims.
@elijahj-l825
@elijahj-l825 4 жыл бұрын
Nice!!
@iPixyPlays
@iPixyPlays 2 ай бұрын
Bro was 5 years ahead of his time! Thanks bro still helpful even today. Love from a 16y/o
@dimitrarena5643
@dimitrarena5643 4 жыл бұрын
A mentor once told me that procrastination is not because of laziness but rather a fear of failure.
@applecinnamon
@applecinnamon 3 жыл бұрын
Ooof so true
@ericfriendzoned1303
@ericfriendzoned1303 3 жыл бұрын
Damn that hit hard
@dimitrarena5643
@dimitrarena5643 3 жыл бұрын
Also, discipline is a stronger factor than motivational quotes. Program is key. Even a small one.
@someome1789
@someome1789 3 жыл бұрын
Not really. Sometimes yeah but usually its not fearing anything its just being lazy lol
@dimitrarena5643
@dimitrarena5643 3 жыл бұрын
@@someome1789 yes I agree but there is things that are important for which you procrastinate. Now, I am lazy to even get up and turn off the light, sure.
@comical4609
@comical4609 3 жыл бұрын
I like how he assumes I ever had a productive and energetic period to begin with.
@HonchoMotors
@HonchoMotors 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@MiketheNerdRanger
@MiketheNerdRanger 5 жыл бұрын
"Do you need motivation to take a shower?" Yes.
@zeratulrus142
@zeratulrus142 5 жыл бұрын
YES. Just in case people think it's ironic or something. It's not.
@richard.featherstone
@richard.featherstone 5 жыл бұрын
Can you make excuses to not have a shower? Yes
@chineduachimalo391
@chineduachimalo391 5 жыл бұрын
Was looking for this comment, at times i dont shower in a day
@lifewhatsoever
@lifewhatsoever 5 жыл бұрын
I really do
@pookiehoney
@pookiehoney 5 жыл бұрын
If you're not severely disabled talking about how physically hard it is to accomplish basic tasks then I have zero sympathy for able bodied people acting like they're so unable to do anything just because of pure laziness and lack of will to get up and live. Meanwhile there are so many people wishing they had a working body so they could do everything while you throw away your life because you need motivation to do anything. Be ashamed and get up and do something.
@JohnSmith-gt3be
@JohnSmith-gt3be 6 ай бұрын
I watched this 4 years ago and my life has completely changed.
@WilfredZweverink
@WilfredZweverink 3 жыл бұрын
"You should be productive" Primal brain: "Why?"
@Johnman1324
@Johnman1324 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@geegoflex6762
@geegoflex6762 3 жыл бұрын
Because...
@TrusttheY
@TrusttheY 3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@travisn346
@travisn346 3 жыл бұрын
"Address your relationships, finances, health, purpose and creativity" Also primal brain: eat and reproduce you neurotic bastard
@jackcarpenters3759
@jackcarpenters3759 3 жыл бұрын
very nice! i always hate that talk about hard work and dedication. Fuck off i just need to eat.
@nicolestewart
@nicolestewart 4 жыл бұрын
I’m jumping in the shower right now. I needed this kick up the ass. Depression sucks. 😭 sending out many hugs to any one in a rut on these last 2 days of 2020. 🙏🤗❤️
@salemdoali6608
@salemdoali6608 4 жыл бұрын
In Sha Allah you will have no depression and you will feel content in life and be happy Ameen May Allah Bless us Alll with barakah and provisions ameen.
@doritos6548
@doritos6548 3 жыл бұрын
@@salemdoali6608 Ameen
@lalijaimes7259
@lalijaimes7259 3 жыл бұрын
💪🏽💪🏽 you got it!!
@noble4543
@noble4543 3 жыл бұрын
@@salemdoali6608 Fuck Allah.
@thepink3798
@thepink3798 3 жыл бұрын
I suppose to take a shower rn
@liz_2878
@liz_2878 5 жыл бұрын
THIS is soo important also for people like me who go into a depressed spiral and aren't able to go out of bed
@louis84100
@louis84100 5 жыл бұрын
Liz maybe we can help each other
@PixelBraint
@PixelBraint 5 жыл бұрын
Ever since I had a panic attack, I have been suffering from depressive spirals, anxiety, depersonalization and derealization. Back then, I used to be unmotivated too but I was somewhat still happy. I need to get my life back.
@louis84100
@louis84100 5 жыл бұрын
@@PixelBraint here if needed
@NikolaiWowe
@NikolaiWowe 5 жыл бұрын
I’m in the same boat!
@louis84100
@louis84100 5 жыл бұрын
@@j.4354 the fact that u went to college and have something to offer is an achievement within itself. U will fail at times but that's not u failing as a person but a more not what u know but who u know situation. I know u will land that dream job. I am british living in the usa with no diploma and can only hope to get a dream job. Cheers
@robsumone2040
@robsumone2040 Жыл бұрын
The smoothness of the video was very satisfying. Loved the language and video. Liked this. Thank you for sharing information with us.
@baker9038
@baker9038 4 жыл бұрын
i been in a runt for nearly 4 years and its the worst feeling ever, and just when i start to get my life back on track. something comes in a flips everything on its head. people underestimate how much will power a person needs to even get out of bed.
@rishabhvanwani
@rishabhvanwani 4 жыл бұрын
Life is tough my friend. But we are fighters. You will overcome this.
@n7kev
@n7kev 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck my friend, take it one day at a time.
@TropicalTats1204
@TropicalTats1204 4 жыл бұрын
We believe in you
@queenquarantine9218
@queenquarantine9218 4 жыл бұрын
Did it work
@husain3190
@husain3190 4 жыл бұрын
what's the point of anything 🤔
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