How to SPEAK UP with Confidence 7 TIPS

[@alexanderlyon]

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[@Firsteacher1]

Thanks for your amazing tips. I've requested this guide several times and I still don't get it in my email.

[@nikangemmanuel6833]

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[@ambereen777]

English is not my first language, so i am often nervous talking in group settings. This video helped me.

[@alejandromarquez5565]

All the 7 seven tips are important to know and as you say self confidence is highly important , eye contact , don’t look down , do not ask for permission , lean in , thank for sharing !

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm glad they are helpful to you, Alejandro.

[@ZoneTwelveOnline]

In my role I am required to give presentations daily in a high stakes sales environment. I constantly look to improve not just how to communicate more effectively but also efficiently. Everything you have suggested is dead on, my only additional suggestion is to incorporate these tips with a STRONG VOICE.

[@alexanderlyon]

Yes, add it to the list. Thank you.

[@gscardenas6856]

Thank you. This is very helpful

[@Knowledge_Nuggies]

Valuable advice! I think this summary of the "when to speak up and how to deal with hecklers"-part might be helpful for/worth sharing with other viewers: It's all about smart timing: 1. Anticipate current speaker's pause (hint: they wind down) 2. Meanwhile as they wind down: Signal you'll speak next: Lean in, visibly breathe in via mouth, and slightly raise index finger 3. As they hit their pause, you just start speaking 4. If you get interrupted make friendly eye contact with interruptor 5. Unless urgent, let them courteously go first (if they don't offer to let you go first) and keep signaling you go next (see 2)

[@florissesonia9594]

Thanks so much. You are the best communication coach on YT. I have learned a lot from your videos and can concretely see progress in my oral communication and my confidence. You are clear, concrete and to the point. Great work!

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm so encouraged by your comment, Florisse. Thank you!

[@youu2luvv]

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[@eightkindsofblue]

Thank you for this video! I am naturally shy and have always found meetings so difficult. Like SO difficult because of all the things you mentioned. I wait and wait and wait because I never know the right place to speak up, and when I do, I’ve rehearsed the thing so much that I feel like it explodes out of me. Truly appreciate your clear articulation of the problems and the clear solutions. I’m going to implement these immediately. Thank you!

[@deeg9897]

I found all these useful, thank you very much. I am an introvert so when I have to speak up in a meeting, all I can think of at that moment is that everybody's eyes are on me and then I turn red in the face. I need to work on my confidence and tell myself that what I have to say is important and of value.

[@thetreasure888]

As a student whose currently studying communication skills this channel is a big help. I usually use your videos to help me when I'm presenting. Thank you

[@alexanderlyon]

That's great to hear, The Eternal. Thanks for mentioning that. I appreciate it.

[@thetreasure888]

@@alexanderlyon It's a pleasure coach

[@Ramadmurthy]

Sir, I am perplexed with the art public of speaking. It is quite natural as rain comes from heavens. By going through such stuff it makes me worried. What is to be focused and what not to be focused. The human beings are blessed with power of speech. It is the greatest gift and this makes us most intelligent. Why do we make simple things complicated by giving lables such as verbal, nonverbal, kinesthetic, auditory, visual, the more we give priority to these things the core will be missing. How does he speaks whether he is leaning, standing towards 45° or 60°. It is the listener's choice what he wants to listen ,he listens to it. He also understands what is not being spoken. It is the absolute choice of speaker/ listener. Do we learn typewriting by reading the mannual? Do we learn swimming by reading a book? Did we listened to our parents after completing the certificate courses? It is just natural. In this vast world, everything is ready except man. It is not intended to hurt or criticise anyone's sentiments. I just thought of write something. When we understand the history, we can come to know the natural and latent abilities of the greatest speakers the world such as Swami Vivekananda, Martin Luther King, Winston Churchill, Hitler, etc., Did they possess any master degrees from reputed universities? No, the need is the drive. It makes all the difference. I once again thank you very much everyone who pays their valuable time to read. Thank you. D. Rama Murthy Telangana India I thank you very much for your videos.

[@willieward7419]

I love the way you coach. Tip #5 is my favorite.

[@dorothykasonde5053]

Great advice I like the point where you say STAY LOOKING AT THE NEXT SPEAKER ...ie hold your own.I usually squirm and put my head down back to shyness being glad its over but leaving a defeated impression. Thanks 😊

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks for sharing, Dorothy. I hear you. I've seen many communicators look down like that after they speak. It's a challenge and takes practice like anything else.

[@kadiyamkrishna]

As always, Thank you Alex!

[@alexanderlyon]

My pleasure, Krishna K.

[@patiencekyoshabire1038]

Thanks Alex, this is helpful. I always have a lot to say but everything disappears while in the meeting.

[@mace2172]

You know the sad thing... Everyone from ages 13-45 need this channel but everyone from 13-35 are looking up videos of: people slapping each other, stupid relationship pranks, or how to destroy your credit. Keep up the good work sir! I've sent a ton of your videos to friends who having group speaking problems

[@alexanderlyon]

I hear you. But, we're reaching more people every month. Thank you for sharing the videos, by the way. I appreciate it.

[@tpriestess]

WoW just what I need to work on. Many of us are out of social practice! Your work is helping me in my communication. I often wait too long and I burst!

[@mianzamin]

Sir I m following you since half of the year. It has been highly yielding for me. The three posture you elaborate here, in my opinion those will be much helpful before starting conversation. ❤️🙏👌

[@alexanderlyon]

I am glad it has been helpful for you!

[@sanjuktasamom3923]

I came here after watching Lisa's video. These are super useful tips. I have been having all these problems. Will practice them. Thank you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful, Sanjukta. Lisa is awesome.

[@janeobrien4548]

Oh, thank you Alex for the advice. Great points and thoughtfully presented.

[@WeCanHearYouNowwithPeggiMerkey]

Wow! This just came across my radar!! These vids are fantastic! I have a speakers bureau and I can’t wait to share these with my speakers!! Amazing!! These are fantastic for non-speakers also!! Thank you for doing these for the world!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you like them, peggi. Thanks for you encouragement. I appreciate it.

[@dineshsce]

You are an inspiring speaker I’ve come across in long time ❤

[@camhaw]

This was excellent! Thank you! Wonder how to translate some of these when in virtual meetings!

[@amieezhong7890]

Great tips! You are a great example of confidence speaker!

[@SteveSinger-q5r]

I appreciate all of your clips and look forward to seeing you more. Thank you 🙏

[@sangeethanair1374]

What an amazing content! Thankyou Sir.. I do many of the tips u shared naturally.. But learnt many more. Thankyou a tonn🥰

[@babbubhat]

Alex you are just amazing thank you Lisa for recommending me to Alex's channel

[@alexanderlyon]

Hey, thank you. Nice to meet you!

[@sofialeonidouart5301]

Huge thank you! Such a powerful video to watch!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful. Thank you for your encouragement.

[@berylhooper1784]

Thank you for this video, I sometimes get a little unsettled whenever I speak in a new group.

[@cindyhewatt3406]

Came here through Lisa, love your channel, wonderful!

[@alexanderlyon]

Welcome, Cindy. Happy to have you here. Lisa is great.

[@j27340]

It helps to be genuine.

[@clementinopereira4275]

Excellent tips. "Make your point clearly and concisely" is something that I need to practice for better improvement.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful!

[@talentstime9230]

Thank you so much... Very helpful...

[@alexanderlyon]

You are welcome, Talents Time. Glad it was helpful.

[@darth2darth]

Can you do another video on communication tips over Zoom or video conference?

[@alexanderlyon]

It's a good idea and a lot of people have asked but I probably won't do videos about Zoom. There are so many out there on that from other channels right now and I don't have an anything special to say about it at this point. If I come up with something a little unique to say, I might reconsider.

[@SuccessMindset2180]

Learning in practice designs public speaking

[@agora5230]

These are some fantastic tips, thank you SO much!!!

[@abdelkadersahouli11]

Thanks You so much. I have learned about you from Lisa; my best teacher. The seven tips are very useful; I will use them and I don't sit back. Merci beaucoup.

[@janeobrien4548]

Smile at others. It relaxes you and others will enjoy being around you and listening to you.

[@respectabletampodcast]

I really need these tips at work. Thank you so much!

[@LucyGriffithsdotcom]

Thanks for the very valuable video info you shared Alex...!

[@alexanderlyon]

My pleasure, Lucy. I'm encouraged that you found it to be valuable.

[@alix743]

I am here from AccurateEnglish. Hope to learn from your content for my study and career. Bless you, Dr!

[@alexanderlyon]

Welcome, Ali. Nice to meet you. Lisa from Accurate English is fantastic.

[@alix743]

@@alexanderlyon Nice to meet you, too.

[@librarystudyntour]

Thanks for the concrete suggestions!

[@ritaijeomaobi]

The one tip that help me most is don't lean back. I used to do that but I will adjust now. All the tips helped. Thank you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Happy to help, Rita. Thank you for your comment.

[@brownpunk1794]

Im borat and i approve..very nice. Success👍🏽

[@alexanderlyon]

"Very Nice!"

[@hanonmudy4160]

I saw your interview with teacher lisa and liked it . It was amazing, so I come here to learn more about communication and improve my skills about it.i did it , thanks this video was useful.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for coming and watching this one, Hanon.

[@uzumakibeast2245]

Thank you sir! Much love ❤

[@claribelmenasosa1612]

Thank you for sharing this video!

[@samirahassan794]

I watching now communication coach plz positive idea and ginius compassion loyel not for everyone very few people gift thank you very much is very clearly message and understand Thank you

[@chromatica5942]

I just realized that ive been sending these weak nonverbal cues my whole life lol. Thank you so much that was very helpful

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful!

[@ActionwithKanishka]

Very helpful Alex😊✌️

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you think so. Thank you.

[@tttmmm8057]

Fantastic, thank you very much....i subscribed immediately

[@leafunmusic7412]

Thanks for a valuable input. What is your thought on dealing with people that steal ideas in meetings and make it their own, especially those that are senior.

[@darlcreations4940]

I like the way you teach us thank you so much😊

[@gustavosampaio5381]

Thank you for this, it's a big help!

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks, Gustavo. Happy to help.

[@tarunommadan]

Thank you Alex for this wonderful video. 🙏

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@dirkvoltaar]

Super helpful Alex! Thank you!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you liked it, Erik. Thank you.

[@alyssiahstyles]

Those are helpful communication skills 👏🏾

[@BronwynNasi]

Thankyou great tips, most valuable to me was the last one. Recent knowledge also states start with the positive follow with the don't so I wonder if your written tips would have more impact if they were written 1. lean in, don't lean back.

[@pseto3883]

Thanks so much for the tips - all so useful & effective. Now that many of us work from home & meet virtually by webex over the phone, is it possible for you to provide tips specific to such arrangement? Also, very often there are people who talk forever non-stop in the meeting, are there any tips to deal with it? Thanks a million!

[@shafiqulaml3113]

Outstanding. Thank you very much sir.

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you for the positive feedback. I appreciate it.

[@7mzagasr731]

you are great, greetings from EGYPT

[@akhtarshahbaz6951]

If you have good energy in body automaticly confidence is born

[@brightpage1020]

Love the nonverbal tips! Thanks!

[@charleslarson7927]

Very helpful! Thank you!

[@princessnouna2265]

Thanks a lot it’s very helpful! I found out about your channels through accurate English.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad to hear that, Princess!

[@areeshasingh7114]

Thanku, this help me alot.

[@PhetogoNoore]

Thank you Alexander this was helpful.

[@lucianojanducci9907]

Thanks for sharing this useful content!

[@ivanvelkovski3071]

Very useful tips. Thank you

[@aisha3989]

i think the first one is very helpful i always sit back to avoid eye contact with leaders

[@paulinematengu5913]

I loved this, I enjoyed the way you added those actions behind for emphasis. It helps understand when you actually see the gesture of what you are being taught or what not to do or do. Excellent and thank you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you enjoyed it, Pauline.

[@ruthmusukwa1024]

You are a good teacher

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you!

[@princearthur4946]

Excellent presentation!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you liked it, Arthur.

[@fabioquintana7148]

All the tips are great, so far.

[@MindYoBeeswax]

New subscriber here. Your channel is really informative. I'm not necessarily in the public speaking eye but these tips sound useful in everyday conversation and I would love to feel more confident while having small talk with a stranger. Thanks for the content 😊

[@chandnee]

I liked" only wait for a small pause" 😉😚😃

[@hanahnguyen7535]

Best Communicator coach 👍✅✅✅✅✅

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you, Hanah. :-)

[@vkingsak]

Very concise and helpful. Thank you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful!

[@ЗулейхаАзимова-я2т]

Thank you so much for precious advice!

[@alexanderlyon]

You are so welcome!

[@florakioste985]

Thank u so much 😊

[@Adam326]

Not leaning back and keeping eye contact was the best tips for me. It’s still a bit uncofmfortable for me but I did not know I was sending low status signals, I don’t want to do that. I also thought that leaning back made me look more relaxed. Does this apply for more informal gatherings as well? Thank you coach!

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks for sharing, Adam. In an informal environment, the mood is more relaxed and you will likely not have as much trouble speaking up. If it were me, I'd look around and see how others are holding themselves and make a judgement about how to adapt.

[@andybobandy1218]

Just discovered your channel, great video! Thank you!

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks for watching, Andy.

[@moideenbaba7187]

Respected ALEX sir, you sound so perfect. I like the way you present things. you kind of motivate me to learn many things. extremely wonderful. I love to watch your many videos. thank you, Sir.

[@alexanderlyon]

So nice of you, Moideen.

[@moseskim3942]

Wow, this is really refreshing and actually helpful. You don’t waste words or time. I hate to overuse the word “crisp” but your videos capture this perfectly.

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm glad you think so, Moki. My personal rule when speaking is to make sure each sentence adds value. I do my best not to simply repeat what I've already said. I'm glad you noticed!

[@pouncecat3726]

Some great tips you shared here. Valuable suggestion and I just need to implement these tips in my virtual meeting and in person meeting. I am glad I found your channel.

[@Nexxett]

Followed you from AccurateEnglish with Lisa, Thanks for the tips.

[@alexanderlyon]

Welcome! Lisa is great.

[@balbalbalbal6083]

I am thrilled that I discovered your channel💗

[@alexanderlyon]

Welcome!!

[@sirahmad]

bro thanks for bringing the geniune content

[@jonvich3011]

The leaning in tip was my favorite. I’m an extremely relaxed guy, not a lot of bothers me, so my posture resembles that. I’m gonna practice leaning in. Do you think it’s effective if you were talking with friends? Both sitting and standing?

[@alexanderlyon]

Yes, for sitting or standing. If you're standing, then be sure you can make eye contact with every person in the group. Position yourself so you can see everybody and everybody can see you with searching. I'd say the same goes for friends in a group situation. Otherwise, it can seem like a comment is coming out of nowhere. By the way, I'm pretty relaxed too and my tendency is to want to lean back. So, I know how that feels.

[@jonvich3011]

@@alexanderlyon thank you! I practiced this yesterday with some friends. I felt more engaged in the conversation, received more eye contact, and I could sense more people wanted me to speak! Thanks for the vids

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks for the report, Jon. I'm glad it went well.

[@ktlummus7977]

Excellent presentation! Very helpful

[@maryannemumbi7787]

Eye contact is hard...short precise..I will have to work on this...

[@hadiaharoon4529]

Very helpful.

[@fjb0608]

Thank you!

[@LIM_Khuan]

good...thanks

[@hassn7750]

number 7 is the most important in my opinion

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[@sabrinasabi4177]

I'm beyond grateful for making or creating such an amazing video content 😀 I'm really benefiting a lot from them, I must admit though, i was that kind of person who made all the donts before I came across your lovely channel, I learnt a lot from you and still learning actually , thank very much again 🙂

[@alexanderlyon]

Wonderful! Great to have you aboard, Sabrina.

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Nice tips sir! Watching from the Ph.

[@justme-dg4ii]

Great video

[@JaneDoe-ql7sc]

All these tips are helpful! 🙂

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Thanks to Accurate English..I've found this channel.!

[@alexanderlyon]

Welcome aboard, Mr. B's. Lisa is great.

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