how to spend the summer alone ♡ focusing on yourself, self love/self care, enjoying your own company

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Rebecca Jay

Rebecca Jay

Жыл бұрын

in this video, I take you guys on a date... with myself.
#focusonyourself #selflove #selfcare
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@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
hey besties, it would mean the WORLD to me if you considered subscribing and liking this video 🫶😭 (and watching until the end!!) I appreciate all of you so much you have no ideaaaa
@pearcheese455
@pearcheese455 Жыл бұрын
You are super cute and special,you are very pretty,love you
@adejokebalogun9098
@adejokebalogun9098 Жыл бұрын
Your so smart!!!
@kristyguru751
@kristyguru751 4 күн бұрын
hello ! i just found ur account and i really like ur video it helped me a lot thank u (i also like and subscribed😭💗) !!
@bhenderson4927
@bhenderson4927 Жыл бұрын
I really needed this video. I'm struggling with being alone since I ended up messing up a relationship that I really valued. Just so worried about the future and being without this person. Learning that all I really need is myself and God and I'll be ok. Some days I feel better than others, but really appreciate this video.
@yoonmin.aesthetic
@yoonmin.aesthetic Жыл бұрын
Bruhh same- but i need a advice for it like i really love that person ( not one sided) but i can imagine and its impossible of them being in my future life wtf- should i do leave it here or lets see whsts gonns happen???
@hello-jz5vb
@hello-jz5vb Жыл бұрын
@@yoonmin.aesthetic i feel like you should try it. Even if you think it's not possible. You don't want to reget it and think in a few years 'damn. I should have asked this person to go on a date' have a good one, bye
@yoonmin.aesthetic
@yoonmin.aesthetic Жыл бұрын
@@hello-jz5vb thank you for your advice i love you you have a good day 💗✨
@hello-jz5vb
@hello-jz5vb Жыл бұрын
@@yoonmin.aesthetic 😘
@jana-wp5yr
@jana-wp5yr Жыл бұрын
@Brianna I was in the same situation one year ago. My boyfriend ended our long relationship and I couldn't imagine being alone or without him. But oh I can't tell you how much changed in this one year. I promise you it will get better and you will start feeling comfortable with being alone. If you work on it and start seeing it as a quality time to improve yourself, reflect or rest, you will start to value your alone time. One year from now you will be in total different position and a different state of mind. Never give up on yourself xx
@zainabfayyaz4532
@zainabfayyaz4532 Жыл бұрын
I had constantly been getting jealous of everyone around me and I was unconsciously avoiding spending time alone, but today now that I finally did I understand that I was skipping on needed self-care time and your video made me realise these things
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
take care of yourself ❤️
@crazynerdygirl
@crazynerdygirl Жыл бұрын
"People can change, people can leave without any reasons, people can pass away in 1,000 different ways. The only person you have in the end is yourself." Wow, I loved it when you said that. Thank you for sharing all your wonderful videos and content - I've found your videos so helpful.
@mirzasha5375
@mirzasha5375 Жыл бұрын
Studying abroad in Japan made me realized that I only have myself at the end of the day. It was lonely at first but I’m used to it now :) Going out alone is my favorite thing to do now!
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
Japan is so nice ❤️ hopefully I can go there in the future ☺️
@victoriah.3857
@victoriah.3857 Жыл бұрын
Aww that's so cool though, how long are you staying there?
@mirzasha5375
@mirzasha5375 Жыл бұрын
@@victoriah.3857 About 5 years :)
@mewxriachan9930
@mewxriachan9930 Жыл бұрын
Hey I wanna know about how do you feel living in Japan because I wanna go there one day too
@mewxriachan9930
@mewxriachan9930 Жыл бұрын
@@mirzasha5375 do u have any social
@violasimeone8398
@violasimeone8398 Жыл бұрын
as an introverted myself, I've always appreciated my alone time, and I think this video explains one of the best thing we can do for our mental health! Now you reminded me that i have a beautiful garden so i'll go there to read :) thank u
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
aw that sounds so peaceful ❤️❤️ thank YOU for your support always 🥺
@Mymakermovie77
@Mymakermovie77 Жыл бұрын
I love this! I’m comfy spending time alone at home but not always outside of that so I could challenge myself more
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
you got this ❤️❤️
@mariancounsellor
@mariancounsellor Жыл бұрын
I’m the same. I do go on short breaks alone but I’ve never eaten out by myself or attend most events but it’s worth taking yourself out of your comfort zone sometimes.
@Mymakermovie77
@Mymakermovie77 Жыл бұрын
@@mariancounsellor I bet it just is uncomfortable for a little bit! We will get used to it soon enough
@daniklore
@daniklore Жыл бұрын
i have social anxiety so one of my biggest struggles is being by myself in public places. i turned seventeen couple of days ago and when i say i have social anxiety people literally laugh in my face and they're like oh so you can't go to the grocery store alone grow up finally. i can go to grocery store alone, i can pay for myself and everything but with huge amount of anxiety on my back. i'm growing up in toxic and at some point abusive household so when my parents comment on my body or anything else, i think that others think the same as them. i like to be alone, you know just reading my books, listening to music, playing games and more. i don't feel lonely when i'm alone. but these days when you're focusing on yourself and you don't really hang out with people, or you don't go to parties to drink etc you're considered to be a "boring" person with no life. when i think of it all, people my age literally f*ck around and i'm stuck in my house trying to figure out myself because now i have no idea who i am or who i am supposed to be. anyways, i loved the video so much. your channel is one of my comfort things for quite a while. i love you and hope you're having a great day/night. much love. 🤍🧚‍♂
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing, it must be really hard living with social anxiety :( but just bc you like to be alone doesn’t mean you’re boring!! I appreciate u and thank u for watching ❤️ I wish u the best ☺️
@nadiasglitzyworld636
@nadiasglitzyworld636 Жыл бұрын
Always love yourself & enjoy every moment because you deserve beautiful♥️
@justinavanekova8493
@justinavanekova8493 Жыл бұрын
omg i related to this so much, my entire schoolyear i barely looked into eyes of anyone in school - but now im excited for it. We are gonna be so, so brave, i wish you luck!
@StefanijaStojanovska-qh9ji
@StefanijaStojanovska-qh9ji Ай бұрын
Jesus loves you❤
@anushaprakash2488
@anushaprakash2488 10 ай бұрын
It's not just a content, it makes a real difference in someone's way of thinking and feeling. I'm really grateful to be here and knowing that the feeling that have been bothering me so much is actually something I should be cherishing.
@im_elli
@im_elli Жыл бұрын
I have no friends or partner, and two years ago, by the end of the summer, my mental health was at zero. I even spent a couple of weeks in the hospital. the doctor said that everything was fine with my physical health. now, looking back at it, I understand that it was from the fact that I could not spend time alone. but now I'm working on myself, and it's much easier for me to survive the summer. thank you, Rebecca, I always enjoy watching your vids. you are awesome!!!!!
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
i wish you the best on your healing ❤️❤️ thank you for watching ☺️
@EmphaticTrain
@EmphaticTrain Жыл бұрын
Definitely feeling lonely. My birthday is in a week and I will literally have nobody around me. BUT i will treat myself to a nice gym session followed by some skateboarding afterwards. I'll go get a nice haircut and I will give myself the day off from doing work. Ending the day with some fresh pizza and a nice movie I can watch ,':D
@veemeg2172
@veemeg2172 Жыл бұрын
happy birthday for next week ! :)
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ❤️❤️ treat yourself ☺️
@frandszk
@frandszk Жыл бұрын
the fact that going to a restaurant by yourself was on level 3 is surprising to me lol, as someone who has super bad social anxiety and hates being perceived in public, going to restaurants is one of the few things i can convince myself to do (probably because my constant desire for food is stronger than my aversion to people but idk)
@Louise-rf9dc
@Louise-rf9dc Жыл бұрын
it felt so great being understood ! my mom always feel worries when i do stuff alone, when i go to museums alone, restaurants alone, i just need some honest time with myself to feel better with others
@VTrigger
@VTrigger Жыл бұрын
I just saw your "WHY YOU SHOULD FOCUS ON YOURSELF ♡ (how to date yourself & my self love journey)" and It inspired me, *might try something like you did as well* I felt lonely in this world, like I didn't fit with anyone when I was in grade 4-9...but in the 10th grade I started to love myself more and learn new things (music, dancing, art...) , gave me popularity and confidence in myself for the last 3 years of HS Struggled and went through a dark past Spending time alone to myself again for the last 5 months..losing my Mom to Cancer, I felt empty during the 2 months she passed away and currently on a Journey to Self-Love again. Trying to go on dates with myself and enjoying nature. God bless to everyone on their journey to love yourself, it's a important thing to keep in mind.
@Abbylj1122
@Abbylj1122 Жыл бұрын
I found out my bf of 5 years cheated on me last year, leading to the past events we shared out together turning into one huge lie. Like you said, I kept him around despite issues we’ve had cause I didn’t want to be alone until this moment. This video really helped me realize I can be single and free again, thinking of going to a restaurant by myself now
@svphe
@svphe 10 ай бұрын
i know that i’m a year late but this really helped me. after being in a 4 year relationship that ended in a traumatic way, i realised i never did things for myself. During the sudden breakup and extreme exam stress, i had also pretty much lost all my friends. at first i was afraid of being alone but it has allowed me to have time to heal and better myself. sometimes its hard to feel good about it but seeing how much i’ve grown and how much happier i’ve been really makes it feel worth it. i’m 18 in less than 2 months, have no friends and don’t go out every weekend partying but i’m ok with that! as long as i’m happy, why does it matter to other people?
@gunloverful
@gunloverful Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being real, Rebecca. It's easy to assume that a college age and attractive looking girl like yourself would be "living it up", having parties and being surrounded by people 24/7. But as you've mentioned, it isn't the case for many people, yourself included. And we should all learn to detox from social media and be comfortable with ourselves every once in awhile! Sending you hugs from Singapore :) - Just another recent college grad who chanced upon and fell in love with your style of vlogs!
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
thank you so much for watching ❤️❤️ I appreciate you!
@Otaku12969
@Otaku12969 2 ай бұрын
Actually I'm a year late but that fact couldn't keep me from commenting and showing my respect towards you. As an introvert myself I LOVE to spend time alone and even if I spend time with some rare people, that are my family and my classmates at school I still like to spend my time alone and even if I don't get judged and others understand I feel kind off bad for saying no to others when they ask me to go somewhere like parties and stuff but I just don't like loud stuff and things, I just like some piece, calm and nature while I'm alone while doing my favourite things. Thanks for the words of not being afraid of these things since I really needed someone to explain it calmly and without a rush to me this. Thank you very much for your time in making these videos and even reading comments even if they might be early or late. Again thanks for these videos it can help others much more than you expect
@akilahthompson3451
@akilahthompson3451 Жыл бұрын
This has to be my favorite video from you yet!!😀. There’s a toxic family member I need to break away from, but I’m scared to do it because we’ve always been so close. But I can’t deal with the pain anymore. This video helped me to know that I’m going to be okay🥰. Thanks Becca. Love you and your videos😊💕💕
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
love u and thank u for watching ❤️ stay strong
@myname3305
@myname3305 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this video! I feel like I need time alone, because I sometimes still feel insecure about my height because my friends are like way taller than me, even I think you're taller than me and I'm a boy lol. Your channel helped me accept who I am, and thank you for that.
@ynghr03
@ynghr03 Жыл бұрын
I definitely get the struggle to be a small guy when it is kind of the standard to be tall. Just know that some people like small guys (at least I do) and that your physical appearance do not define who you are. Be comfortable and happy with who you are. You height does not define your worth💕
@elpida_2
@elpida_2 Жыл бұрын
I was just searching how to "take yourself on a date and this video appeared. Tomorrow I'm gonna go to library then have a picnic outside, thanks for the video :))
@frsjoan
@frsjoan Жыл бұрын
I used to wait for my friends to be available so that I could go out with them. but many times, I ended up being pissed at myself that I wasted my off days waiting for someone to be available. that's when I started going out on my own. to the mall, to the movies (multiple times), to a restaurant. I would advise listening to music/podcast, watching KZbin, anything that can sorta distract you a little bit during your first few times going out alone so that you don't get so overwhelmed with the thought whether everyone's staring at you or judging you, especially for those with social anxiety/awkwardness. I wanna try the beach/picnic/cycling idea soon. all the best! we can do it!! ❤
@d4rliNgD4isy
@d4rliNgD4isy Жыл бұрын
its good to learn how to like being alone. obviously, its also good to have social reactions every once and a while, but its good to learn to be independent and spend time with yourself :)
@reginahuba2623
@reginahuba2623 Жыл бұрын
I don't have too many friends so it's time to be with myself finally. You're inspire me, thank you
@surajroxcomedy-by8tn
@surajroxcomedy-by8tn Ай бұрын
Hey sister!! This video is so amazing, it made me realise that I have been wasting my life by seeking external validation and totally forgot to enjoy my own company. Now that I have realised it I will only focus on myself and do what is important for me.
@marccolomayt82094
@marccolomayt82094 Жыл бұрын
I love Rebecca’s self-care vlog so much!!!
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️☺️
@Jasmine12348
@Jasmine12348 7 күн бұрын
Rebecca you don't even know... How much I needed this video... It's calm my mind.. I was overthinking for 1 week... Kw I have only 20 days left before school starts... So I want to thank you...
@ohdamnthatssexy
@ohdamnthatssexy Жыл бұрын
There's nothing wrong with doing things alone by yourself. I do everything alone because I don't have anyone who I can do things with, as I'm not close with anyone. I live with my family but I'm not close with my family and I don't have friends. Since I do things alone often, I do feel lonely at times and do want to have company too. When I do things alone, what's important is to enjoy my own company. It's okay to be alone as this is a way of connecting with yourself. Don't worry about what others may think, just do you. Who cares about other people? Always make sure that when you go to places alone, listen to your intuition and look at your surroundings. Be safe. Wishing you all well on this journey
@khaelicharles
@khaelicharles Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. In high school I had held onto a friend who was really hurting me because I was afraid to be alone. When I finally let her go, it was so hard to be alone. I’m learning now that it’s okay! I took myself out one day. I was scared but I did it and it was so relaxing. And you are so right. I wanted to grow but felt like I was going in circles. I asked my cousin for some advice and she said that you need that time by yourself to really grow just as much as you need to be surrounded by good people! Your videos are so amazing! Keep up the good work! 💖
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
I’m proud that you got through that ❤️ thank you for your support too 🥺❤️
@elizabetneznama9828
@elizabetneznama9828 Жыл бұрын
Can we mention how absolutely adorable is that she's trying to respond to every single one comment? It means a lot
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
I appreciate every comment ❤️
@samanthaproske9601
@samanthaproske9601 Жыл бұрын
Your content is everything I needed in my life right now! Thank you for supporting me through my own journey to loving being alone!
@abiemmelhainz7783
@abiemmelhainz7783 Жыл бұрын
i really love your videos because they make me feel validated and accepted in how i feel, but they also help me understand those feelings better with science which is so cool. i love learning new things, so every time you mention a quote, person, book or a study i literally screenshot it for later so i can learn more. love you
@mimino_codingbee4313
@mimino_codingbee4313 Жыл бұрын
as always the perfect timing of your video uploads is what really makes me feel really connected to you I guess. I was struggling with the fact of being alone for last 2-3 months a lot. The fear of being lonely at life became so crrippling in my life all of a sudden! Your video just led me to be at ease with the fact. Thank you Rebecca!🤍
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
i wish you all the best ❤️ thank YOU for watching!!
@definitlynotaditi
@definitlynotaditi Жыл бұрын
rebecca posting two videos in a week feels illegal but way to exicted to watch it
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
just spent all day/night editing I was too excited about this one hahah
@user-yz2tz4pu9j
@user-yz2tz4pu9j Жыл бұрын
All your videos are so well made, they make me think about things in a different (and more positive) way and they’re sooo relaxing
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
i appreciate u so much for watching 🫶☺️
@staysunny1136
@staysunny1136 Жыл бұрын
Hi Rebecca! This video was so beautiful and well done! It brought a smile to my face. This is definitely something that does not get talked about enough, and becoming my own best friend has changed my life. Even though I’m only 15 and I can’t really take myself anywhere, just being ok with being alone is the perfect start.
@ashleyniquee
@ashleyniquee Жыл бұрын
Love this ❤️this is exactly what my summer has been like and it’s definitely healing ,difficult but really good for myself. I like how you did research about certain facts too .
@turtlegod2110
@turtlegod2110 Жыл бұрын
i’m alone this summer and this video helps a lot!!! love you rebecca 💗💗💗
@mariancounsellor
@mariancounsellor Жыл бұрын
Loved this! Alone time is so important. There’s 💯a difference between being alone and being lonely!
@jonathanbruijnen788
@jonathanbruijnen788 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I love these kinds of video’s. They always motivate me to be better. You’re an idol❤️
@coki7097
@coki7097 Жыл бұрын
Thanks I really needed this ♡︎ I’m always alone in high school, and I have social anxiety, thank you for comforting me, hope one day I can overcome myself and step out of comfort zone to stop worried too much and being sacred, thank you 💕
@thelment204
@thelment204 Жыл бұрын
I love you 'Becca thank you for making us feel a lot better with just literally your voice! ❤🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
@fatima-eo4xx
@fatima-eo4xx 11 күн бұрын
Im a shy person but always had friends never had in my life got out alone for lunch or for the movies or anything I always thought that I needed someone to go with and have fun... cut the story short I have no friends anymore I spend all my time at home and after a lot of thinking I realized that okay I have no friends but I have myself and that's enough not gonna lie I'm so hesitant about going out alone it feels so weird but it's a must I need to learn how to enjoy my time alone I will try to get there and explore my city to anyone out there who feels the same you are not a loser you are enough for yourself and that's what matters
@mikapika7879
@mikapika7879 Жыл бұрын
This video helped me a lot as I struggle to focus on myself and constantly want to be around others. I always feel like I need to have someone with me to keep myself entertained and it leads to an unrealistic mindset. I've been told that I need to care and love myself more and this video definitely made me think about what I can do to change my unhealthy lifestyle.
@NoemiBrk
@NoemiBrk Жыл бұрын
I love this video it gives me so much comfort and I am so excited for summer myself! I am from Germany and in 6 days my summer break begins, after my vacation in Croatia I am finally starting my bulk and I am just so excited for the time I get to spent with myself going book shopping, to the gym and some meet up with friends! Thank you for this video it just made me more excited 🤍🤍
@Bella-jd5wx
@Bella-jd5wx Жыл бұрын
I love this video sm, thank you for posting it! Often times I used to find myself feeling alone bc I the majority of the time I wasn’t accompanied by people where I’d go but lately I’ve adapted to the feeling of being alone with myself and no longer feel bad about it. This video truly shows that you don’t need the company of other to have a good time and being alone isn’t a bad thing
@prajakta_1
@prajakta_1 Жыл бұрын
You always make the most relatable vids! Love your every video!🥺❤️
@ariob1346
@ariob1346 Жыл бұрын
This is the first video of yours I watched and then watched your more recent ones and you are absolutely becoming one of my favorite youtubers. I enjoyed your videos so much and they are truly inspiring and helpful to me, I am going to try to create a routine for myself and maybe even go out by myself this week. I want to watch all of your other videos bc most of them have something I have needed help with or needed to hear or needed the motivation or reassurance for. Can't wait to see what other videos you make in the future!!! 😊🥰❤
@isydoyle
@isydoyle 10 ай бұрын
So much wisdom packed in 10 minutes! Thank u
@dariaglazunova3188
@dariaglazunova3188 Жыл бұрын
Dear Rebecca, thank u so much for this video!! Every summer since middle school I spend mostly alone. That's why I always feel uncomfortable and stay at home nearly all day long. But this vid trully motivated me to do something New alone💗
@liviadorotheu5923
@liviadorotheu5923 Жыл бұрын
Well I tried this experience, of having a picnic by myself and I must say… It was completely awesome ❤️ Thank you so much for the inspiration Rebecca ❤️
@yeyintaung2208
@yeyintaung2208 Ай бұрын
Thank you very much. I've been in need for this kind of content in this phase of my life. 🥰
@loving_chimmy5997
@loving_chimmy5997 Жыл бұрын
You're right thanks for giving me more ideas about loving myself and trying to create a better version of me. You're video is so inspirational indeed it gave me more strength to face a better me 💗😊
@rawan3762
@rawan3762 Жыл бұрын
Me watching this video.. in the mind of it I’m literally saying “ omg I love this girl, I love her “ cuz she’s really amazing! and I love watching her💗
@nina-el7wn
@nina-el7wn Жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this! I really needed this video with that message. I always forget that I should not hold people in my life even though I do not feel good with them or was hurt by them. Just so I am not alone. But also what's my reminder to everyone else here: Even if you feel alone, like nobody is there for you, I believe (and maybe you can too) that there is someone out there (doesn't matter, if it's god, a loved person that isn't near you right now or someone who has passed away) who really cares for you and will always be with you and watch over you. I really like to picture myself being watched and cared by my grandma, who passed away over 10 years ago. I like to believe that she is so proud of me for getting through this and that she will always be there to guide me. I really wish you all the best!
@fwj9264
@fwj9264 Жыл бұрын
Your words made me feel deeply happy
@xbaeksky
@xbaeksky Жыл бұрын
watching this when in my country is friendship day and it's my 3rs year spending it alone
@herorafat5144
@herorafat5144 3 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this video alot and I literally searched for it ! It was a time when i needed it the most ❤
@klararadic99
@klararadic99 Жыл бұрын
Your videos and your voice bring me so much peace and I just start feeling better immediately 🥰 A great source of useful information and motivation, thank you so much for making these videos
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
thank YOU so much for watching ❤️❤️
@Istoleyobible
@Istoleyobible Жыл бұрын
Your videos help me so much !! Keep up the great work ❤️
@nemo-uy5fg
@nemo-uy5fg Жыл бұрын
second summer in a foreign country. first summer i spent in someone else’s house babysitting my little brother by myself. now the second summer i’ve spent most of it in my bedroom alone because i don’t have any friends to hang out with. i have people here that i sit with at school but no actual friends. so i’m trying to spend the rest of my summer actually doing something and enjoying it instead of staying in bed and rewatching the same two tv shows :)
@kanekiiwakura7126
@kanekiiwakura7126 Жыл бұрын
You’re so cuteee 🥺 btw thanks for this video I really needed it . you’re an angel !
@pieceofpeace1111
@pieceofpeace1111 Жыл бұрын
You are an angel for me rn !!! Badly needed this video !!! Thank you so much dear !!! 🥺❤️ God bless you 🥺✨
@abbz23
@abbz23 11 ай бұрын
I watch this video everytime I need a pick me up and it really helps everything you say is helping me mentally even told my therapist about you 💜💜
@rachelretherford8971
@rachelretherford8971 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! This summer has been hard because it’s the first time I’ve really ever been alone
@Nora-qf3jz
@Nora-qf3jz Жыл бұрын
Thank youu ilyysmmm your videos make me feel so much better!!💗💗💗
@daisygrange6877
@daisygrange6877 Жыл бұрын
I normally watch your videos at like 5pm because I’m bored of sitting around and watching tv and they give me motivation so I’m going to try and watch some in the morning so I a can be motivated to do stuff. You are my favourite youtuber btw x
@alouachechaima2118
@alouachechaima2118 Жыл бұрын
thank you soooo much ! Your vids are so helpfull for me, especially this one that really reflects how i tried to spend my time these last months and it help me figure out what i haven't done well and how i can process better from now on. Thank you again ;))
@shademurrayyy
@shademurrayyy Жыл бұрын
wow ur videos are so helpful and they make me feel more comfortable around myslef
@serinab
@serinab Жыл бұрын
thank you for this video. recently I've been feeling lonely and your video helped me find a different perspective. I'm gonna work on myself for a bit and see where I'll end up on the other side :)
@stone_freed3762
@stone_freed3762 10 ай бұрын
Dealing with a long distance relationship where my bf is in the military has really forced me to spend time with myself and I’ve come to enjoy my time alone. I don’t have a ton of friends, either. This last year has been a growing and learning experience for me, and this video made me feel validated ❤
@dripxenseixensei3822
@dripxenseixensei3822 Жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and honestly, you're an interesting individual. I find it fascinating that we are very alike so I can relate on many levels. I love the positive messages you deliver - you're the type of people I would consider role models so I'm subscribing 😇 Don't ever change, people like you are rare. Btw you're super pretty! I'm looking forward to your next video. Stay safe ☺️
@sashgouza
@sashgouza Жыл бұрын
watching your videos bring me sm joy, i love them sm !!! 💗💗
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
love and appreciate u ❤️❤️☺️
@shanajahwallace3448
@shanajahwallace3448 Жыл бұрын
i love your videos, they make me feel whole! They make me want to strive for a better life & i will. I want to be happy alone without needing others. Thank you!!
@chenieabuan4048
@chenieabuan4048 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Rebecca this is the video that I needed the most 🥰🥰
@missmessy..7132
@missmessy..7132 Жыл бұрын
Wow! your life is sooooo aesthetic!! I love to watch your videos.
@walker47740
@walker47740 2 ай бұрын
This video is so much beatiful , i apreciate the amount of research and information you put in , you letearly described what iam being throguh , and yeah i used to be upset and sad when iam by my self , but whith time i start to enjoy my company and to stay out of negativity and toxic people or people who doesn't preciate you, it very beatiful especialy in your 20's you can do what you love and focus on your self and solve your problems and heal from your truamas and better undertand who you are and plan for your future , peacful meaningful life .
@peanut1238
@peanut1238 11 ай бұрын
thank you so much for this. this video helped me so much and taught me so much💕
@LoveLara
@LoveLara Жыл бұрын
Gorgeous shots! Also, the message is so true. I never thought to just have a picnic by myself. Makes sense to enjoy yourself in your own company than try and demand attention from those who might be toxic. And it's healthy to have boundaries put into place for yourself
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
thank you for watching ❤️❤️❤️
@tinbernas5947
@tinbernas5947 Жыл бұрын
This could not have been a better time for this video. Thank you so much!
@inkihere
@inkihere Жыл бұрын
Much needed video. 🥺❤ so healing 🧡
@desiremubile
@desiremubile Жыл бұрын
Thank you Rebecca, going through a break up and your content is just all I need
@Nastya-zc8lg
@Nastya-zc8lg Жыл бұрын
really needed this right now, thank u
@thiva9356
@thiva9356 Жыл бұрын
heyyyyy Rebecca bestie 💌 you're really giving me vibe of " myself " thank you sooo muchhh for realizing me that myself is precious, GORGEUS ASF 😭🤙🏻and just me will be at the end 👄
@buttterflyy_s8244
@buttterflyy_s8244 Жыл бұрын
TYSM FOR THISS. This video made me realise so many things ilyyy Rebeccaa~~
@jbaustin4116
@jbaustin4116 Жыл бұрын
That Pascal quote is one of my favorites. Rings so true.
@mariancounsellor
@mariancounsellor Жыл бұрын
The floral dress looked great on you but you also looked good in the jeans and white top too! You seem like a really fun person with a positive energy and spirit 💕
@tt_xuh6782
@tt_xuh6782 Жыл бұрын
thank you for this.. i have lived my life hating myself, afraid to be judged. And I also thought being with people would make me feel better and that being alone is something worthless. But now I know, so thank you for this. Thank you for curing my sadness. Appreciate it if you notice my comment, thank you! My goal next year is to live life happy, to be successful in enjoying my own company, overcoming and breaking away from my comfort zone.. bless you..
@cm.llauderes
@cm.llauderes 11 ай бұрын
hi rebecca! jus wanna say u deserve everything and that thank u for being an online big sis/best friend to me! love u
@gonqpnon1292
@gonqpnon1292 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for subtitles!
@DianeBridgetBPerez
@DianeBridgetBPerez 11 ай бұрын
First time watching your video and I immediately subscribed! I love how you provided evidence for your statements. This is real content! I can't wait to binge watch all your vids and wait for the next. You're an inspiration to all. :)
@sydneiherndon4941
@sydneiherndon4941 Жыл бұрын
You literally motivated me to come out of a really bad depression episode, thank you so much for all of your hard work into your videos!! it really really does mean a lot to all of us 🥰🥹
@kool_katha557
@kool_katha557 Жыл бұрын
You are the only youtuber I can watch and feel so motivated every single time. I watch your videos and over and they make me feel so much better all the time. Thank you so much for what you do
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
thank u so much for watching ☺️❤️
@yarele136
@yarele136 Жыл бұрын
Definitely love being alone at home and excited to go out alone when I learn to drive 😊
@moshumiahmed8480
@moshumiahmed8480 9 ай бұрын
I really needed this video thank you 😊
@victoriah.3857
@victoriah.3857 Жыл бұрын
your videos make me feel calm :)
@luvrosmery
@luvrosmery Жыл бұрын
te amo, gracias por esto! 😭💕
@chayyy
@chayyy Жыл бұрын
thank you for posting this!!! I’m so happyyyy 🥰♥️
@RebeccaJayy
@RebeccaJayy Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you’re here!!
@Louise-ee1qr
@Louise-ee1qr Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the vid! Really insightful and well researched, just what I needed!
@estelaprocopio8759
@estelaprocopio8759 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this video! Love spending some time alone 💕 really appreciate the tips and ideas ☺️
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