How To Stop Being Awkward Around Women

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[@ishaan_jana05]

This is the same level of quality of the videos you had after you “quit” your channel, love this new direction

[@thelarry383]

@@Toast2005 why not?

[@flewberi]

yo ishaan whats good bro

[@newmannewworld]

Nah they're even better.

[@zeivenoberle-ln1yi]

Hey bro, seen you in Adonis School

[@ishaan_jana05]

@@flewberi yo

[@realsamg]

A mindset shift that has really helped me while talking to women has been trying to see if I like her rather than trying to get her to like me.

[@raxn2673]

Absolutely. That’s so important. Because then, if you actually like the person inside after you get to know her, it gives you a reason to put in the effort. It feels like you found somebody compatible with you (to a certain degree, since you just recently met her), thus making it more likely that you’ll actually attract her (since it is more likely that she likes you too). Also it comes across not as needy.

[@realsamg]

@@raxn2673 exactly! It’s an act of self respect, and other people will only respect you if you respect yourself

[@panther3618]

Exactly! And I have found myself asking more important questions about her to see if I will like her.

[@siyabongamnyamane19]

real advice man

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17 Indian Guys WAS PERSONAL 😭

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most the time its like 200

[@daksh_sheoran]

Haaha 😂

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“I love you bby girl” that shi killed me😂

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Well that's what typical pakistani guys do 😂

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We’ve got to do better, we must stay focused

[@POVMilk]

Dude I actually was just awkward and thinking about how to do correct things great timing

[@DryEther]

I'm always awkward

[@vichael]

same bro

[@Victor_386]

Women aren't important you can always jerk off

[@a_um]

or we are just trapped in the algorithm

[@IsaacHornerBeats]

Getting mad at yourself for losing focus in meditation is like getting angry when your muscles start burning in the middle of a set

[@user-nw2fv5uk4u]

That's a good one

[@johnwellss]

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@RoyJ.Tillison-tq5ed]

I am sorry about what you have been through. I have been through something similar and was almost depressed, till I contacted a spiritual counsellor who helped me get my ex back and hence my life back

[@johnwellss]

Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?

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[@johnwellss]

Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.

[@TrendingAF]

Same here after 7+ years. I am happy already but the memories are still there...

[@OfficiallyAlone]

We want a full guide on speaking and charisma Anyone who agree hit a like

[@daksh_sheoran]

👍

[@Daniel_Cavazos]

+storytelling

[@Jake--be2jv]

can i be perfectly honest, thinking you need a guide on this is the problem, if you think that you are bad at "speaking and charisma" well then thats just your mental health thats bad beceause you probably arent, go see a therapist instead

[@Vikto7.]

@@Jake--be2jv But some easy skills, tips, and tricks don't hurt either

[@Jake--be2jv]

@@Vikto7. to an extent yea, but a full long guide? im telling you right now, its just your brain telling you you're bad at speaking to women, you arent actually

[@adfaadfdfaf]

In order to be less awkward around women, first become less awkward around men. Sun Jin Woo, the art of Propaganda

[@ValourFlame]

Solo leveling?

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Solo leveling?🧐🤔

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I didn't expect to see such references here haha

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[@thedutchgames1686]

solo leveling?!

[@jjtpo69]

Thank you for updating the old videos.

[@connorappleton1945]

Wouldn't it be so funny if Hamza's next relationship is with a girl called Jessica

[@ful7481]

* finds 10/10 women * "whats your name ?" "Jessica , i kinda like you tho" "sorry we cant be together" "why" *give her his yt channel link*

[@hiannahgus574]

I totally agree with modeling someone you admire’s behavior. I did that when I first got out of college. I put on a suit and “became” the successful business person I wanted to be by modeling the top performers. At the end of that year, I was in the top 10% of sales people in the Fortune #1 company. Eventually, that behavior became who I was, and I no longer had to “model it “, as I had become that successful person. You are spot on about talking to others to get comfortable. I learned that in my teens and stopped being shy. Hamza, this is a great video, keep up the good work.

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Yup ☦️

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He is

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Yes, he is!

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Yes he is

[@Silly_LoomisYT]

My goal in life is to become a father, so this is the first step.

[@cyrool9447]

Respect to you

[@AngelGarcia-oy3yj]

But that can't be a goal tho, your purpose refers to your contribution to the world, what will you do that will help your fellow humans have a better life, what legacy will you leave? And if you set a goal like that you're kinda putting the woman on the pedestal which turns her off because she doesn't want to be #1 in your life. She wants to help you fulfill your mission. And after you have a child and you become a father, you won't have any other goals in your life? Will it be fulfilled already? I don't think so. I think you can do much more than just having kids and raising them (even complete failures do that)

[@AngelGarcia-oy3yj]

If you're a Christian, your goal should be to serve the world and try to get as many people as you can to come to the truth of Jesus Christ, at least that's the goal that God has showed me. Start to accumulate riches in heaven where you'll live forever.

[@user-jm2ey4pc3k]

@@AngelGarcia-oy3yj I am not reading all that.

[@SoyDawgyDawg]

⁠@@AngelGarcia-oy3yjthat can totally be a goal. his goal is to love and raise children to be good people. how can you say “that can’t be a goal”. his goal can be anything. quite literally ANYTHING. so can yours, and so can mine. just because you don’t have the same goal as him doesn’t mean it’s not a goal he “can” or should have. he’s his own man. “even complete failures do that” is wrong. failures raise children poorly. it takes an incredible man and woman to raise children properly. there is a large difference in the way a healthy and stable couple raises their kids vs parents who live in poverty or are participating in a cycle of abuse. when he says his goal is to raise children, that is his goal NOW. once they’re all grown up, he’ll find another goal. this is how goals work. hope this helped you understand.

[@shivdeep2983]

Hamza's videos these days are killer! Keep this shit up

[@seerSR]

Been loving these longer, off the cuff (but still focused) videos. Feels very down to earth.

[@katanahead]

Man those raw videos with no edit and just power point style of teaching are so damn good. Keep it that way 🫡

[@aleixriberaa_]

"Send me a DM if you're an attractive woman" what a g!💪🔥

[@r.a.j.a.y]

probably the realest video on this topic!!!

[@ArmaanSocial]

Just needed this so much lmao

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Love watching these vids while working out, doing neck rn.

[@BuddySween]

hamza your videos have changed my life so much, I have a new video explaining how you have changed me, and all i want to do is say thankful, you have single dramatically change the trajectory of my life, im so grateful for you ability to speak into my soul and say things in a way that completely resonates with me, i literally watched every single new video from your, you are the best thank you

[@mhmtakeyatime9000]

Getting through social awkwardness really is so important!

[@ShahanSellsStore]

I feel like a SPARTA after getting respect from HAMZA

[@initiatorhater0688]

you gotta break some eggs to make an omellete. im sure i creeped out tons of girls over the years". That was a powerful quote or statement I heard from another guy, a dating coach, who gives advice to men, it's in regards to men getting better at just approaching or interacting with women. I just want to be sure I interpret it or have the right mindset and that is, men even have to risk getting labeled creepy or just even screw up and mess up interactions, that results in getting negative reactions from women as in the woman is uncomfortable from the man's presence, makes her feel uncomfortable As in its part of the journey of getting better, do I have the right mindset or not? "It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc. The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward. This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS." so is making mistakes socially with women, as in, getting labeled or perceived as creepy or weird when approaching, messing up interactions in which the woman was uncomfortable, is that part of the process of getting better? was the ever the case for you or guys you helped, knew? Do i have the right mindset, right perspective or not?

[@dani7el11]

You are on right track, don't worry! In order to get better in speaking with girls, you need to practice on, you can already guess, girls. So yes, you gonna screw it multiple times, I did too, I came out as social retard multiple times but everytime you screw up, see what you screwed up, think about it and try not to make same mistake again.

[@HomeworkFM]

I like rhe humor in your vids man keep it up

[@Gabriel-sh1nn]

I don‘t know if it‘s just my personal development but I feel like Hamza‘s videos are getting a lot better recently than a few months ago.

[@selfimprovement1011]

Your video about embracing change resonated with me.

[@ElwoodIve]

Hamza. You have helped me and so many of my friends on self-improvement. I still have people who doubt what you teach after I have tried to introduce them to your channel, but that is ok. Thank you, for everything you have done. You are legendary and a gift to all who listen.

[@Lanmi742]

Timing is 10/10

[@pranjalwankhede5379]

Bro always comes with the best🔥

[@andermendz]

THIS IS THE PATH HAMZA, DON'T FUCKING FAIL AGAIN.

[@1by110]

Dear Hamza; This was so good ,it felt illegal to watch it free. W my G.

[@hit3894]

Another lecture by professor Hamza, gotta watch.

[@404eesa]

it’s crazy how you upload such valuable information on the internet for completely free

[@Crusty-Elligator]

The fact that it was completely uncut, sets status

[@hiperfly]

Hamza, to be honest, these long unedited videos are much more valuable than your older videos. Everytime there is this type of videos made by you I make seeing it my priority.

[@juliuschen5652]

Don't objectify or alienize women, we're all human beings, that should be the basis

[@yash_vardhan34]

Amazing Man! 👍🏻 How about Full Guide On Stoicism!! Being Emotionally strong 24 x 7

[@niasanft6639]

Great guide hamza, very proud

[@_Valentine_]

I believe raising or training animals that are otherwise difficult to discipline or train may bring insight on how to raise a child. Especially raising a child to be on Self-Improvement. I’m an animal lover, but I know they stink and trash houses and your life may not be suitable for having an animal. But living with a farmer for a few months may bring insight how to raise your children in the future. Cats and horses are a perfect example, cats don’t understand discipline. Meaning the best way to train them or raise them to do a desired behavior is through positive reinforcement. Dry Creek Wrangler trains horses that are difficult and stubborn, by always providing two options to give the horse a choice

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Hamza you’re the best

[@ShokkoM]

With all the shit going on with hamza on KZbin, this vid shows he still has the best intentions for us.

[@marcelchess-.-]

Love the new style of content, so much value!!!

[@erikgustin]

The last tip about nervousness/excitement works because your adrenaline and noradrenaline circuits give the exact same response for both. The difference between the two is just the framing that your mind gives to the "release" of that circuit, but there's biologically no difference between the two. The more you know 👍🏼

[@JamesL42]

"Within ten days you will appear a god even to those to whom today you seem a beast or a baboon, if you return to your principles and your reverence of reason." - Marcus Aurelius Thought this quote was very fitting for Hamza's current arc.

[@madness5693]

Hamza your videos geniunely help men like us who are going through issues no one talks about

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[@cbrandom967]

This video is going to save my life. Going out and taking action TODAY

[@noiamnotemo]

Thanks man I will definitely use this to my advantage

[@devilboy1093]

I love these guides❤ please help us all improve upon the different aspects of masculinity

[@WhiteB4l4cl4v4]

Hamza, you're probably not gonna see this comment but I would like to thank you because, firstly you helped me, but my bestfriend was going through a breakup and (call me an asshole if you want ) I purposefully used that to get him in the gym and I am actively introducing self improvement tactics (cold approach, making money with me, ect.). Thank you and may God bless you soul.

[@shadowmatrix5339]

GOATZA>>>>

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The problem is clicking a video and start scrolling in 30 seconds , not that they won't click on a long video so Idk what you are paying respect for. But anyway it will encourage a lot of people to stop scrolling that's good.

[@jasminealexia]

To any awkward young man finding himself, get you a Levi! Get you a black friend to party with. You will learn his confidence and his style of dress fast and that is what the ladies love! 💯

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Love from Kerala India

[@apakhilesan]

Uff

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Kattinaadhyanam cheyu, prethyejichu ath cheyyan thonnathirikumbol

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Njanum

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polayadi mwone

[@ShahanSellsStore]

Hey Hamza, We need a guide on TESTOSTERONE as well big bro.

[@Joshualemay1]

He already made a 2h guide on testosterone if you scroll down on his channel you will find it he's shirtless on the thumbnail

[@theonetheycallfear8237]

Thank you Hamza. Your process for breaking a fap addiction is so helpful.

[@forevermilano]

thanks hamza

[@Hstenics]

I'm grateful for u for giving me the knowledge needed to change my life.. thank you Hamza Ahmed

[@alanramnarain2112]

Thanks bro.

[@venjaminschuster2797]

Thanks a lot bro !

[@tomflynn8651]

I still have a long way to go, but guys, if you can, get a job as a waiter in college/uni. It will 10x your skills cold approaching and speaking to women like it did for me. However, this video is straight facts and the last point is key

[@MalteGru]

To everyone reading this, what helped me is just treat everyone like your guy friends, just dont be as racist as you are with them. (Dont lie we all are racist with our friends no matter your ethnicity.)Treat them like your guy friends, and if you know that you want something with one special person just show it to them partial dont show too much attention but also treat them different then anyone else.

[@jaheermk]

good video mate ! nice to see Chris made a change in you

[@jjtpo69]

I've got a similar Chad friend. I will copy him, I already did in a few ways, and it works really good.

[@cawaalecaydaruus3455]

Thumbs up if you're love language is physical touch. 🙏 #Masculine

[@KAEH-gd3nl]

Hey Hamza, been watching you for a long time. Make a video on how to fight and how to stop bullies that can’t be stopped through yelling or telling the teacher or any other way.

[@jozuryu]

1 like = 1 push-up, and I’ll post a video ⚡️ (24hr limit)

[@Erick-rg7uk]

Nice powerpoint presentation

[@mohammedalismail4003]

Keep up the good work I wish if I watched your channel before

[@JTYTSI37]

MORE FULL GUIDES!!!!!!

[@komauu]

Hamza everytime you say it’s in the description or it’s gonna pop up as a window it’s not there thought you should know to include it but loving the videos keep it up

[@SamuelFrancessco]

Great video as always , well dome hamza ✅

[@king_dmj5280]

Absolutely valuable guide bro, you help us all, God bless you Hamza bro.

[@matekotyinszki8653]

These slides are 🔥🔥

[@wisdler9550]

gonna talk to a girl tommorow at school who has a crush on me, thanks hamza. I aint gay but i still love you

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Bro give me the update on what happened.

[@devaanshdawar7990]

Good luck G. I'm rooting for you.

[@dani7el11]

Bro your profile picture made me rember good old Minecraft KZbin era when everybody had this pfp and we all were like 12-13 years old... So lovely

[@raxn2673]

I think an important point to understand is: Choose a woman who chooses you. I recently forced myself into liking a girl in my school, so that I could ”train the skill of asking girls out on dates.” I essentially wanted to get close with her and then ask her out. After a little bit of exchanged texts and conversations, it became clear she doesn’t like me. Her personality in general seemed very incompatible to mine from the get go. Even like the most intricate details like mannerisms, humor style and all that stuff (that’s already not considering values, long term goals, morals) of hers was drastically different to mine (not that that’s bad). But I kept trudging through the snow, thinking “I gotta at least ask out one girl this year.” Don’t do that. I think that’s stupid.

[@evenbeardrm]

make a video about cold approach ?

[@sakshamnofilter]

Hamza just fell back into the pit again he used to hookup with low quality girls now he goes on dates its just a fancy term for hooking up and bro cant stay with one women

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Hi broo I'm from INDIA ❤❤

[@den17025]

Much better than the soyjaks and the Jeffries, just high-quality information.

[@maxszafran]

Hamza could you try using black background with white text? when i watch it during night it's so bright hahaha

[@katwrites2536]

I second this

[@Unkniwn1]

sleep at night

[@royboudoumit4709]

I’d really like to see a full guide on how to stand up for yourself

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Watched it all felt fast

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Go on the George Janko show, Hamza!

[@zeppal6243]

Thank you in advance❤

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DO THE HARDWORK ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DONT FEEL LIKE IT

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From Bangladesh

[@MrMonny]

3rd one is gold

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This Video is at the Perfect timing, I had a First meet up some days ago, i thought it was good and shii, i texted her again and been left on delivered for 8 Hours Now, so thank You like always hamza

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I'm getting addicted to these full guides

[@edmondtamang2948]

thank you hamza

[@sanduku4508]

Bro i'm so grateful for your videos and advices , I was on self improvement like last year and lost track, stopped some good habits, and you are putting me back on my feet right now. Thank you so much hamza

[@charles.2001]

I discovered your channel in May 2022. I am less awkward around men but I struggle with girls. I still have thoughts in my mind that I don't need to talk to girls because I'd rather focus on my hobbies like drawing and also God. I am also 22 and in college. I see girls I am attracted to in campus but too afraid to talk to them. I think it is because I lack confidence since I am skinny-fat 120 pounds and 5'6" I am also short and brown so I think that I am unattractive. I also feel like I have to self improve first and then talk to girls when I gain the confidence to do so. I still have a lot of work to do because I have no income and I am too anxious to deal with people and I need to overcome pmo. I did make a lot of progress compared to previous years when coming to my pmo 'addiction'.

[@rutine4553]

I would probably be volunteering and writing (poems and maybe even books)

[@hungryavacadoo]

How is no one talking about how he had surgery for asymmetric ears even tho he said hes proud of his insecuritys

[@liconnue2986]

The full guide of cold approach dont exist anymore ?

[@nanojoel]

A very inspiring video for young men

[@Nishan_117]

Can you do one for last minute resistance and how to sleep with a girl..... like all those PUA strategies and stuff?

[@forevermilano]

dude just come a teacher at this point