How to stop feeling sorry for yourself

[@Thewizardliz]

My mom asked me to add: If you are in an abusive relationship whether it’s emotional or physical make sure you find a way to leave. Ask for help, tell someone you trust, save money to get out… it does not get better if they abused you once they will do it again and worse the second time. It takes lots of courage to leave and start over but you have to be strong and have faith. It’s better to have some uncomfortable months or years than have the risk of someone taking your life. They do not change, they only get worse because they see that they can get away with it. If I could get anything back in my life, I would have left when I saw the early signs of abuse. You will get trough this, situations like these create warriors. When you are brave enough to choose yourself, everything in life starts to open up for you. Lots of love and blessings 🙏🏻♥️♥️♥️

[@katebabenco5361]

Thank you Liz!!! Truly appreciate you and your work!

[@leilacateee]

Thankyou Liz ❤️❤️❤️

[@Purzify]

Thankyou for this video, although I haven't watched all of it yet, from a week ago I couldn't stop thinking about this embarrassing moment, thinking about my friends and others laughing at me, but then I realise they don't actually care and would have forget about it.

[@flowegirl4512]

I love you Liz💕

[@va1shnavii]

Well, I'm in the same situation like this. And idk its tough to get out. I'm at a point where I want to get out no matter what, cause it sucks, but part of me still loves him. And he claims that he won't do it again, but my heart refuses to take that validation. I somehow know that this time he is actually changing, but idk what is in me I just can't trust him anymore. So what should I do abt thatm

[@gregorymasters5805]

I am a man and i find men’s self help videos sometimes very toxic. So i watch your videos and its amazing how good you are with this. Your advice always helps. Its like listening to elder very wise sister for me. Very therapeutic. Thank you for this.

[@prnnp]

👏🏼👏🏼yeah some spit bs and call it wisdom

[@pbj4142]

Awww I’m glad you guys can find a safe space here, we welcome you 💗💗💗

[@nadineelseudy5835]

I love this

[@insufferably_sexy_cunt_autist]

this makes me happy, good for u 💕

[@skaio.5279]

@@pbj4142 "we welcome you" LMFAO as if it's not just Liz making the videos bahahaha

[@jadasugar22]

“Life is not for the weak” wow, that really hit me.

[@anamikapa5534]

Me too

[@judigemini178]

also, "either you get tough or let life make you tough" ...she's so on point

[@unknowkdyh]

OMGGG

[@BadActingWYIM]

My mom had a beautiful life in Peru but for the next half of her life she was a struggling single mom with a husband of addiction. she had to be so strong and when i asked her why she isnt angry. why is she always so happy. she said life is not for the weak. I told her, what if im not strong enough for this world. she said then surround yourself with strong people.

[@SoVidushi]

I wanted to give liz a hug when she said she would trade her looks for a happy childhood. Liz you're a force to be reckoned with.

[@joyc9323]

Imagine having a bad childhood and facing rejection as an adult because you're not pretty.

[@Am-mm6iz]

She deserves her beauty ❤

[@Letthesoulshine717]

@@joyc9323 change your mindset and your face will change .. its about perception

[@luvlyjen8]

@@joyc9323 it's abt appearance at first because that's literally the 1st thing we notice, when we see sm1 but after we get to know them that's when we choose if we really want to be around them

[@cherully.-ti5xp]

Did you watch the video…

[@gloriakim2616]

"I would trade my beauty to not have mental scars" This hit me to my core. I hear this and I feel this so deeply.

[@TheBlackSuperSaiyan2100]

You would think it's such a crazy thing for her to say because she's pretty as hell but in reality, women literally go through so much in this world it's not even funny. Allot of the prettiest girls I knew in school were raped as a youth but they all trot around like everything is alright, when in reality they're suffering. Ps. Stay strong

[@KillerQueen-gx4vb]

@@TheBlackSuperSaiyan2100 women who are not pretty can be raped too yknow. It’s not a pretty girl issue.

[@TheBlackSuperSaiyan2100]

@@KillerQueen-gx4vb I know that. I was not trying to leave anyone out. I was merely responding to her point is all. I also was eluding to the fact that the people that smile the most be having some of the worst experiences in life but hide it so well that you would never think that.

[@starrynight5163]

Same 🥺😭

[@freaykbaron8580]

she probably would never lol. If she didnt look the way she does, she wouldnt be having such a great life

[@legendarycubing599]

It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

[@anjumishra9748]

this is a bot therfore its a scam so everyone dont buy you or listen to this person

[@skylxght]

I can't stop crying. I am dealing with so much high school drama that I don't even wanna deal with but listening to her say,"It happened, it happened, honey it's fine" was such a comfort. Thank you Liz. You mean a lot to me. I love you with all my heart. You're such an elder sister to me. Thank you.

[@skylxght]

@@snehasharma2096 hey hi! High school for sure is hard. Sure :) are u on IG?

[@xoxoanshi]

@@skylxght omg you guys we can create our own community here and grow together.yay

[@mathildawilliams5419]

That's a good idea 💡let's do that

[@mathildawilliams5419]

@@skylxghtyeah

[@snehasharma2096]

@@xoxoanshi yes that will be soo amazing ...!

[@pennysmith00131]

“Life is not for the weak” 🥵 that floored me. Such an empowering msg. I will never ever forget this.

[@anskubansku5614]

Yeah we didn't came to this earth to become weak...

[@ladyslick121]

Lol - is that basic sentence what you’re floored by? Worried for you…yikes

[@pennysmith00131]

@@ladyslick121 I’m trying to understand what could be the underlying drive to make a comment like this. What is it inside of you that would need say this? I was floored by that sentence. Sometimes it’s the most basic & simple sentences that can be the most profound & just click for the reader. My life has been extremely hard on & off and sometimes I’ve become really weak physically & mentally. Getting stuck in a victim mindset & negative thought loops. I’m now 5 yes into a spiritual awakening & working on myself and I’m much stronger and able to let go of victim thinking patterns. I loved how empowering “life is not for the weak” was because it made me feel grateful for all my challenges because I’m strong enough to move through them & learn & improve. Your comment made me feel defensive and like I need to explain myself… so thanks it’s good for me to feel realise that I still have a need to explain myself to others… everything’s a sign post & a mirror right!? My comment obviously triggered you to feel something, I hope you can identify what it was & then bring awareness to it. 💫 xx

[@pamelaf2519]

@@ladyslick121 it’s funny because people like you who easily trivialize things are some of the most dissatisfied and unhappy people because they can’t appreciate anything. So ironically, probably anyone who sees your comment is more worried about you. Things don’t need to be over complicated and convoluted to be meaningful. Some of the most simple things in life can be the most profound and beautiful If you have the capacity to recognize and appreciate it.

[@lovemaine0394]

Out of all professional motivational speakers out there, you're the only one who really helps me a lot. Thank you, Queen!

[@stutishrivastava2003]

Same!!!

[@sarinamhi7354]

How I wish your profile picture was you

[@anamikapa5534]

Me too

[@aniketchakravarty2583]

another male viewer from india, so im an 18 yr old boy struggling with crippling depression and constant physical and mental abuse from my parents. Honestly i was sick of most male self improvement youtubers telling me 'oh just hit the gym and meditate bro', cuz even by doing all of that, i never understood why i still used to break down in tears during night and had to cry myself to sleep until the mental pain was finally gone. Going through all of the loneliness, abuse , confusion and self hatred alone i thought there was no point in having even a single ounce of hope for life anymore. But then thanks to my cousin, she recommended me your channel and i noticed that im finally starting to feel better day by day as i keep watching your vids. i hope one day i'll finally leave my parents' place and see a totally new version of life. Edit: So Its been a while since i'm on my healing journey and im here to acknowledge the fact that yes it still hurts a lot and its not an easy process at all. A lot of times you are going to find yourself reliving the whole traumatic scene in certain social situations and even end up crying with a combined feeling of frustration and extreme sudden hatred towards the abuser. But always remember that since you were strong enough to survive the damage, you're well damn strong enough to survive the recovery too. AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!

[@Restricka]

I hope you get free too, you are worthy of all the love and happiness

[@hordevran]

Follow Nofap which gives you motivation for anything you need and certainly stop watching these 'female self centered youtubers'. This is women's battle, they hate each other.

[@khushboo4852]

Best of luck brother I hope you get all the love that you deserve

[@riannawalker5904]

You're amazing and I'm glad you're getting better🤍

[@nainavaidya4337]

All the best. I hope you feel better 🤍

[@mafer_mv]

5:55 - Focus on evolving yourself to get the privilege you want 12:08 - Self pity is a waste of time 12:48 - Self pity leads to more negative emotions 13:14 - Self pity prevents you from dealing with your emotions 13:56 - Self pity interferes with relationships 14:12 - Self pity is a habit that you can change 14:22 - Accept the situation for what it is and focus on what you have now 14:57 - Volunteer to a worthy cause 15:24 - Start something new and make it apart of your lifestyle 16:05 - Look for the positive in every situation 16:27 - Look at yourself from and outside perspective 17:01 - Ask yourself what advice would I give a loved one about this situation 17:05 - Treat yourself like someone you love deeply 17:47 - Remind yourself of the times you were able to overcome tough situations 18:25 - Make a list of people circumstances and situations that you love and are good 18:44 - Write down things you are grateful for in a journal 19:20 - Repeat to yourself what you are grateful for 20:07 - Ask other people what they are grateful for 20:26 - Teach your children to be grateful ✨ 21:24 ✨

[@nicolenunez4220]

thank you!!!✨✨✨

[@zinbkoubi4660]

Thank you for this ❤❤🦋

[@angelicosubs]

Funny thing is 555 (angel) number is about changing and that's also kinda what the time stamp is about

[@sophianiyifasha4793]

Thank you 🙏

[@stargirl11zz]

ty

[@inarahshariff6796]

Words can't describe how much respect i have for this woman

[@nanukabeshkenadze]

when my 4 years old brother had cancer I realized that literally nothing matters in this life but being healthy,I was going to oncology clinic very often and seeing these little kids without hair and without any hope killed me,most of us don’t realize that we are very privileged and some people would do anything to be in our skin,we should be grateful because of that P.s my brother beat cancer and now he is doing great❤️

[@warholgirl]

you're so right

[@nadineelseudy5835]

Yay for your brother I’m so glad 🥹😍 and beautiful point

[@stormi7851]

I'm happy for you!

[@saraabd5489]

Happy for u

[@rainandcoffee6426]

Thanks to God for your brother ❤

[@TheBlackSuperSaiyan2100]

The pretty privilege point is so damn good because we as men were taught recently that women are living life on easy mode because they're pretty. When in reality you have women who get abused and cheated on but they are drop dead gorgeous. Also ones who suffer from depression and anxiety. Those things are not easy to deal with and I'm glad that I came across your channel to see a new/better side of things. Keep it up!

[@TheBlackSuperSaiyan2100]

@The_Audacity @The_Audacity I respect your grind and come up and thank you for sharing this. Also, I feel like people get lost in making excuses. Some men nowadays will be talking about women like they didn't earn their spot in the pecking order. And that if they did then it MUST be because of some specific reason that they made it to the top. It can never be "well maybe they just worked harder than me". Their fragile male ego is going to get shattered knowing they got out worked by a woman and so they make up these scenarios that make no sense often. Because yes women have it hard. Allot of times harder than most men because on top of trying to look the prettiest on the outside and be respected in the workplace, they also have to work on their mental health. Most men are taught to suppress these emotions. It is far easier to run away and say fuck it but I respect women so much because they deal with so much shit emotionally and HEAD on. No running from it or bullshitting. Just real work. You're right though. God is definitely worth any and everything.

[@TheBlackSuperSaiyan2100]

@The_Audacity I totally agree. As one, we can all conquer the world and I truly believe that. God bless you and yours as well.🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@en2336]

So??? Ugly people deal with those things too and have even worse lives?? They can't just make thousands modeling a month and then hire a spiritual coach like Liz?? Smh beautiful people are so disconnected and cringe. And so are their followers

[@UdoADHD]

Also you’re not pretty just because you’re female

[@rrewwww]

people like you give me hope in the opposite sex, thank you for being the way you are

[@sofiacardinali689]

“The bad will never outweigh the good because my mindset is right”. so beautiful, thank you

[@medhyaverma-cy4rx]

I really believe in this now and it keeps me going through difficult situations every now and then. Thank u so much.

[@sophianiyifasha4793]

How to stop feeling sorry for your self 1. Volunteer for a worthy cuzz 2. See the positive in any situation 3. Be there for yourself , comfort yourself (How would you treat a love one who is going through what your going through) 4. Have a gratitude journal 📓 and be grateful Thank you Liz ❤🙏

[@quengquymaiman8005]

"You thought you couldnt make it and you still made it, and you should be proud of youself" thank you Liz, your words are really special and powerful that touch ppl heart

[@quengquymaiman8005]

-update: im in my lowest point right now bc art school is so tough to me, i feel like i have no passion anymore and i wanna quit cause i think i wont make it suddenly someone liked this comment and it reminds me of how i should keep studying, because in the future i will make it anyway cause that’s how i’ve been through million times in the past, thank u again Liz and random person who liked my comment

[@bionicmarissa]

As an arm amputee when you said "You have arm privilege" I DIED🤣🤣🤣

[@SoVidushi]

this comment made me laugh (tho i prolly shouldn't have) so thanks for that, hope you have a wonderful day xx

[@anaalvarado7871]

But maybe you have 2 legs so you're still privileged🥰 you're alive, privilege! You are healthy, privilege!

[@La_ilah_ila_Allah]

It’s not even that funny, settle down

[@La_ilah_ila_Allah]

You very ungrateful. If you didn’t have not arms or legs you wouldn’t be laughing. Being ungrateful is very unattractive

[@La_ilah_ila_Allah]

You commenting this shows you didn’t even listen to what she said and learn from it…

[@nishi9178]

I heard this message during an Islamic lecture and wanted to share "If you woke up today with all the things you were grateful to God for yesterday, what would you wake up with today?". I realised I would've woken up with literally nothing at the time I heard that. It really helped me to truly be grateful about even the smallest of things.

[@zineb4330]

we so proud to be muslims alhamdoulah

[@bellswingu]

liz herself is a Muslim ❤

[@doniadane3725]

As an Iranian girl, who is currently living in iran, watching this gave me goosebumps thank you for being our voice. I am grateful that women like you exist to spread these important words. It has been hard living through isolation government is forcing on us and your videos always bring me peace ❤️❤️

[@بشاررشوو]

Love

[@NikkiClark]

🤎🤎🤎

[@arma.j2655]

اره واقعا👏🏻

[@zara-cm3kv]

i think maybe she’s iranian as well? I’m not sure though x

[@haerin8885]

@@zara-cm3kv shes from belgium

[@Wr-3985]

Your mom seems like a very strong, beautiful woman, that raised an amazing daughter. I‘d really love to see a video of you both together, if you want to

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

The video is not about her mom.

[@MrSandManBringMeADream]

as your male viewer, also living iran, i really appreciate and am thankful for the knowledge you given us liz. i know your channel is for female audience but it really helped me with my self steem and i sometimes wonder why is it not being taught to us more too. everyone deserves happiness, freedom, success and all the best and i wish it to you all. thank you for being our voice and support. Women, life, freedom.

[@nobodyelse7911]

I'm so happy people like you exist, praying for Iran

[@MrSandManBringMeADream]

@@nobodyelse7911 thank you! i appreciate that. tomorrow will be in our hands one day. and we are responsible for it. for a better future.

[@nobodyelse7911]

@@MrSandManBringMeADream yess Iran will be for Iranians, what a beautiful place it is. Good luck to you and your family ❤️

[@beky4685]

Keep it up kingg

[@yungmun4155]

anyone can learn from these conversations, regardless of your gender. I hope things are well where you are and good luck on your journey!

[@leilacateee]

Screamingggggggg because I keep replaying all of Liz’s vids now I’m sooo happyyyy

[@Jadiorliminals]

Same

[@bolysbekayana]

Agreed!!

[@Crumpledpages]

14:39 "It happened. It happened, honey it's fine. It happened. Okay." Thank you, Liz. That literally broke me. Every time I see one of her videos, there's a part of me that heals and feels emotions that were buried somewhere deep within.

[@melaniegrace7707]

I love that you aren’t a people pleaser. As someone who people pleases as a trauma response it’s such an inspiration to me. You think you’re beautiful? Say it. You can observe how people react to you? Why on earth should you be called a narcissist for speaking the truth. I appreciate you so much for this and many other reasons.

[@negindream6948]

I’m from Iran… I’m grateful that you heard our voices Please Pray for us and pray for Islam🙏🏻

[@99nura]

Sending so much love ❤

[@asmo450]

This is a year late but I wish you the best❤

[@Sss-qw1qp]

Sometimes im glad that i can speak&understand english, this is so helpful.

[@stopppppppppp33]

me too but i am french lol

[@annamayumpacan6179]

“If i don’t talk about myself like that, who’s gonna talk about me like that” YESSSSS GURL!! DEFINITELY!!!!!

[@saramcdonnell3631]

Layed in bed depressed crying all day. I really needed this ❤️

[@rociomartinez8666]

me too

[@sammiii52]

same..

[@corrosivecub]

you posted this comment three weeks ago, i hope you’re doing better now ❤

[@harshitamodi5373]

I hope ur doing much better now❤️

[@jredits24]

This is the girl thats putting therapists out of business. Literally therapist of the century, love you liz x

[@FavouriteGalaxia]

I'm a 22 yr old girl from Spain, with a very fucked up home situation since I was born and stuff. I was feeling awful and with my power and listening to you, such a divine speach, my life has changed drastically in less than a week. I send you lots of love of you and your family, I'm so grateful i can hear and see another day for being able to listen to you. ❤️

[@Koko70816]

She’s amazing!!❤

[@paulacaroline9464]

I believe that you'll figure everything out. Keep going and believe in yourself and your inner power.

[@FavouriteGalaxia]

@@paulacaroline9464 what a powerful message, saved me today! Thank you so much, i send you lots of love, gratitude and abundance ❤️

[@kelseyylittlee]

“you may be born into a burning home, but you don’t have to live in a burning home”

[@albertiljevic3972]

samee i am so grateful too

[@smy693]

As an Iranian here, I do appreciate your support of us, Iranian women are creating a new history. Thank you, Liz, I love your videos and really get obsessed with them. Please be our voice.

[@Zouhra07]

Sending virtual hugs to all the women at Iran from Spain 🫶🏽

[@smy693]

@@Zouhra07 lots of love from Iran to you

[@heyheyhey9741]

hey is it better if you live there

[@aylinarkan199]

as a woman, i stand with you and iranian women

[@ibtissam_652]

Biig hug and love to iranian women from MOROCCO

[@soniadomaradzka3120]

“Yes, bad things happen, but the bad does not outweigh the good, and it will never outweigh the good because my mindset is right” ❣️✨

[@mehditate]

Awareness is key in this process Liz. People get triggered, but don't know why, like reaaallly why. I know this is out of left field, but life hit me pretty hard. I used to live in Miami being around street violence, guns, death, and I even used to eat $3 a day, 25 cents noodles, expired toast and canned campbell tomato soup. I survived the Boston Marathon Bombing which was a few feet away and I saw all the blood the people screaming and I was alone at 18. I also used to live in a room with no kitchen, trash bag as a window and bugs crawling on me at night. I also took boxing to protect myself and learned how to defend against bigger threats. Now I live in a cabin in the north of Sweden where I go down to a lake to breathe and heal my past and I post on KZbin to help others who need it the most. I just uploaded a video on my reset routine and looking to upload a mini documentary next week. I hope this helps someone reading 💜

[@MrandMrsMastURpeace]

Love the name. And thank you for sharing your story. Powerful.

[@mehditate]

@@MrandMrsMastURpeace thank youuu 🙏🏽

[@dearlantsov]

happy for you man, you survived all that...it's truly incredible. hope the everything goes beautifully for you always!

[@mehditate]

@@dearlantsov thank you 🙏🏽 I appreciate you

[@axnagraea]

i can’t say this ENOUGH. pretty girls have it ROUGH in this world and are always attacked for their confidence, i LOVE how you said your last video wouldn’t trigger a confident person… so true. don’t even remember you talking about yourself all high and mighty, only remember relating to stalkers, ending friendships, etc. YOU GO QUEEN!

[@larae7922]

same goes for people who have low self-esteem. Not all of the people who hate themselves envy pretty people at all. Not everyone is like that. Although I do struggle with insecurity I never get annoyed of confident people in fact I feel happy for them. The only reason I feel this way is due to my past, I'm still working on it to this day so hopefully I'll learn how to love myself.

[@happydaysmile]

I agree with you

[@dipset4016]

Ok let's not go too far...pretty girls don't have it ROUGH

[@jupiter443]

@@larae7922 yes!! that is healthy!! you were fortunate enough to learn through experiences that you don’t have to be jealous and envious

[@TOXBOXTV84]

Let’s not pretend that pretty privilege doesn’t exist

[@AJRTOV]

I'm a man and I hate watching men self care bc they are SO toxic and like Liz is like such a sweetheart and I love her videos she has help me a lot fr

[@ManicMaidenASMR]

Girl I saw your last video and rolled my eyes at all the negativity. All the insecure people were just projecting their jealousy onto you calling your confidence “narcissistic” LMAO. I enjoy your videos they motivate me to actually do something about my situation instead of crying about it and getting triggered when someone else is doing well. You’re an amazing role model don’t let these losers get to you 💕

[@albertiljevic3972]

exactlyy

[@farahfarah6591]

Frrr

[@ManicMaidenASMR]

@@robertcaballero6684 girl then these videos aren’t for you! You just won’t get it ❤

[@freaykbaron8580]

@@robertcaballero6684 exactly

[@freaykbaron8580]

she wouldnt be where she is if she didnt look the way she does.

[@astrokid9636]

You're literally saving me from an abusive relationship. Im so traumatised, damaged. But im focusing on healing process. Thank you liz you gave me hope.

[@Moonstonee212]

Did you left?

[@jemmaros1888]

i hope you’re doing better now 💗

[@ayybibi]

oh girl im really hope you’re doing okay 🫶🏽

[@KN-hg2nv]

please plan an exit strategy if you haven't. if you have believe me healing is hard but it's worth it ❤️❤️❤️ good luck

[@dayanahafeezah8862]

This made me realize that self pity can be equal to being not grateful, because self pity is literally focusing on the bad things and the things I do not have. And Allah already mentioned in Quran (Surah Ibrahim, 14;7) "if you're grateful, I will increase you". Thank you for opening my mind, and I should stop self pity. I didn't realize how much damage it did to myself.

[@lex7938]

Your moms story is so touching and so humbling. Your mom is literally a superwoman and so are you. Thank you for sharing this story today Liz and consistently giving us new perspectives to think about!

[@miamacfarlane2854]

Your Mom sounds like such a wonderful woman. She's like a hero.

[@dianaisdelulu]

this woman is the true queen. when I was watching the last video " why everyone is always obsessed with me" I saw soooo many comments saying: "yeah, it's easy for her to say, she's pretty". And I was just sitting and thinking why didn't they hear her words and decided to be feel sorry for themselves instead. And here I open this video and see the answer. Liz, you're amazing❤

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

Because they are correct... I largely did all of this stuff, actual change happened with me improving my looks. I've seen similar things happen with height, makeup, booty size or muscles. No matter how infectious that personality is, attraction gives you more opportunities to express it, which makes you more confident because of sheer number of experiences. It's basic social mirroring! Positive mirroring leads to confidence, negative leads to distress. The issue is always people taking one extreme or the other. You can listen to her words, improve and realize privilege, in a pretty way does help you so much in life.

[@gena7129]

You're really such a strong, brave and well-spoken woman. As a 19 year old girl struggling with severe weed abuse directly correlated to my ADHD and social anxiety, your videos have been an absolute godsend in what feels like the darkest times of my life. Thank u for creating this channel

[@rubym6258]

why do you sound like me? I’m a 20 year old girl w/ a weed addiction + I have ADHD & social anxiety 😂😂😂😂😂😂LOL

[@laurareaf7984]

@ruby Same here, but I decided to go sober of weed 5 days ago and I already feel better and more in control of my life. Before, every day was ruled and centred about the next time I was gonna smoke. It’s not easy but at the same time it is if you make the decision and take it seriously. I’ve had to consciously stop myself even if i really wanted to smoke. I’m doing all this for myself and for the better version of me that is so proud I’m doing this. I’m not doing this alone but with a friend who was in a similar situation. I swear it impacts our mental health so much, even more if we have a history of conditions. It’s not easy to admit you are addicted to it and that’s the first step, so congratulations!! 6 days ago I wouldn’t dare to admit it. If you’re looking for encouragement to quit, here it is. Ask for help if you need it and do it with someone else if you can!! I’m doing it and I’m no different than you, so you can do it too!! I wish you the best. You’re not alone ❤️❤️

[@laurareaf7984]

@@rubym6258 my previous comment was also for u ❤️

[@rubym6258]

@@laurareaf7984 wow thank you, I definitely needed to hear this! I can totally relate with every day being centered around the next time I smoke. Its stressful because i feel myself go into a panic every time i think about running out. It’s so easy to want to be numb & just stay in my comfort zone but Ive been knowing it’s not going to help me progress, i just haven’t been able to officially stop! you’re right it’s for the sake of bettering ourselves, this is my sign to stop for good!

[@rubym6258]

@@laurareaf7984 I wish you the best on your journey to! I unfortunately can’t do this with someone else as that someone else use to be my ex lol but either way im doing it. Thanks for the encouragement

[@Leena02]

Hi Liz, hope you’re doing well.. Silent viewer here. I’d like to let you know that you’re my mentor, I always think that you are a blessing from God and I am incredibly thankful for the knowledge and advice that you give to us. Please know that you’ve been a huge help after God. And I always say this: no one will ever abuse you more than you abuse yourself. If you know your value, run away don’t stay. Thank you Liz..

[@antonia9310]

this woman literally changed my life

[@oyinosikoya]

The way my confidence has skyrocketed after being introduced to your videos omg.. literally have no time for mediocrity in my life. I am the best and I deserve the best

[@maimanababiker2734]

I'm Muslim..... 🌸 I'm very Grateful for what you've said about our religion.... Your follower from Sudan 🇸🇩, grateful for the beautiful energy that you give , it's the first time for me commenting on your videos . Love 🌸

[@mak2488]

I found myself criticizing your videos. Days and weeks went by and they kept being suggested to me. Since I kept feeling miserable and stuck, I decided to keep watching. Then I realized the voice that was criticizing, was my mothers. As much as I thought I was my own person and not like my mom, lo and behold every single criticism that was deliberately preventing me from being open minded and progressing, sounded EXACTLY like her when she would criticize me and others. Which is even MORE reason to heed your advice and wisdom. This is a next level way of living life, that you’re sharing with us. I am so so grateful for it.

[@su-desu]

Literally every video she posts is life changing

[@LeahUndead]

"Life is not for the weak". I've been thinking the same most of my life and for that I felt like I am not made for this world. That I am one of those defective products of the universe who slipped through the quality check. But now that I think about all the sh*t that I went through, I am still here. Others have quit for less. Wanted to quit so many times myself too, but I am still here so I am slowly but surely starting to belive that some higher power saw my strength, my true powers and my potential and therefore planted me here because they knew I am an unbeatable. And the hardships are making me even stronger. I can and I will make it. Thank you Liz for your videos, you are the first 'life coach' who has truly hit home with me and you make me see things from different perspectives. Blessings to you ❤ And never give up guys!

[@BellaBankes]

“your character shows on your face.” I understand what you mean totally. There are a lot of beautiful people with not-so-beautiful hearts, or who are very damaged. And like you’re pointing out, they’re often hated by others who don’t have strong self esteem simply because they’re beautiful on the outside, not knowing anything about them. Great points in this video 🤍

[@feyla4814]

Honestly I’m at a point where I’m only watching this to stop feeling sorry for the people that missed out on me hope they’re coping well!

[@hhgt237]

LMAO WHAT

[@77768]

mood

[@oyinosikoya]

Yes queen

[@elainelegaspina4765]

REAL

[@Starliet]

SLAYYYYY 💁🏻‍♀️💅🏻

[@jazzmine9673]

as an iranian girl i just wanted to thank you so much for your support and kindness we really appreciate your effort to advocate your time to inform people and specially women . women should be heard all around the world thank you for being our voice ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@houdael6428]

Is liz iranian ??

[@jazzmine9673]

@@houdael6428 I don't think so but I dunno !!

[@sophiabaninajjar1423]

@@houdael6428 some site said shes Belgian

[@se.i.4393]

@@sophiabaninajjar1423 I don't think there are Belgian refugees, I live in Belgium for so long we hadn't war, maybe she came to belgium?

[@windws7137]

@@se.i.4393 bruh. Liz said they fled from the war (Middle East) to Belgium. Honestly I'm jealous of you guys, I'm from Ukraine and eager to get outta here too

[@mariiaraudina4717]

Your family story touches me very much, as I am Ukrainian refugee now, I am living in another country; my bf, father, granny, friends are so far from me… but I cannot just suffer. I need to do my best to help myself, my younger sister and my mom. War - is the worst thing! Thank you for this video.

[@Mina-hn3ms]

So sorry for what you and your people are living, hope you will able to come back home soon

[@jenandilber4433]

So sorry for what ur living, But I prefer to live in another country than to live in my own country, because in Syria there are no necessities for life, there is no work, there is no electricity, there is not enough water, I hope that one day inshallah I'll travel to another country and complete my studies and dreams

[@haniaazam5818]

You’ve helped me more then ANYONE

[@seraph1cx]

YESS

[@VanessaRodriguez-pk6th]

I stood up for my friend when these girls were talking bad about him. I can say that you were a huge influence in me doing so. I am now proud of myself and thankful for you Liz

[@nadineelseudy5835]

You rock 🙏🏾💕

[@Diana-kr9bj]

i am Ukrainian so i can relate to your refugee situation. Thank you Liz for your videos, they really help me and inspire that even though hope is not here for me i know that its still out there and i can achieve things you achieved

[@dyuraselplay6926]

Она тоже мне помогает как с жизнью, так и с улучшением моего английского, ахаха. Крутая девушка

[@MMM-gr6us]

@@dyuraselplay6926 и мне

[@Unwxkeism]

You are such an inspiration, thank you for being such a good role model for me and other teenagers

[@MrandMrsMastURpeace]

You betta preach girl!! Continue shining your light into this world and living out your greatness. Those that are for you know your intentions and those that aren't, they just aren't. Not everyone will like you and that's ok. Keep walking into your God given destiny. He will align it all up for you. And that's for EVERYONE out there reading this message. YOU ARE POWERFUL, YOU ARE WORTHY, YOU ARE ENOUGH. ❤️ Blessings and joy to all!

[@PorshiaVonne]

I loved that “everyone is obsessed with me” video 📝

[@bayanalnsr1790]

I got inspired from that title , we should start normalizing being this proud of ourselves,we (women) have been raised to be humble , don't get so praggy about your beauty, success, life It's time to stop that and be aware of what society have been feeding us from the start

[@abbdas22mohammed]

What's your country

[@chrischin5957]

You’re incredibly uplifting. I’m thankful to have come across your existence and knowledge! Keep prospering :)

[@lilyremae2490]

She's more than an advisor, she's the real woman who have been through the worst and she tries to help us not to face those things , she's a pure angel , i thank God for introducing me to her ❤️ ilysm Mama Liz❤

[@carmenkami1735]

Damn, Liz, this was exactly what I needed to hear. I am at a low point right now and I was trapped in the self-pity trap for a few hours. Thank you so much for always telling the truth

[@MissEcstatic]

You’re such a queen. I remember watching your last video and just thinking who wouldn’t wanna be obsessed with you. You have the confidence and energy that uplifts people. It’s only valid. Keep doing you! Maybe some people think it’s self absorbed to think that way but that’s a humble healthy ego to put ourselves first and people who actually have done inner work will understand this

[@ananyapandey830]

"You know why they always put women against each other? Because women united is way too powerful." Louder for the whole world to hear, Liz.

[@crybbcassie93]

Nobody is ugly. People just do not love yourself at the same level as people who make them look ugly inside. Thank you for your work, Liz. You make my life better.

[@clara-in6ku]

@@rulingstone123 what is the definition of ugly? why do we call people “ugly”, “ugly” doesn’t exist, only societal standards do. No one is ever ugly. There’s nothing wrong with being ugly but no one is ever ugly.

[@tttttg5486]

Girl you don't know how much I wanted you to post today I really needed it thank you

[@OtiliaGabriella]

Women united are powerful… that’s so true, we can even see it in the Barbie movie

[@boopbap7798]

thank you so much for speaking of the Mahsa Amini situation, im a 14 year old half Iranian girl who lives safely in Arabia but it hurts me to know that I can not fight with my sisters back home. we love you and thank you for your wonderful work ❤️

[@XiomaraThaGoddessMeow]

This message was like a warm hug... It's just what I asked the universe for. I wanted a word of inspiration, and you gave me just that.... Thank you!!! 🔥💚🔥

[@aBrownWitch]

I can’t even imagine being against you. You’re a light in the darkness. I literally wish that if I had someone like Liz to scold me back then! The people who hate Liz, in reality hate the reality their trying to hide for so long. It takes courage to accept that & it’s not everyone’s cup of tea! love Liz🌟

[@maddyG7414]

Your point about triggers is incredible. Such a good way to clap back at those who are projecting their insecurities onto you. Our triggers will tell us so much about ourselves, but many people aren’t willing to self reflect, so they see the problem as being outside of themselves.

[@mahfuzarahman9097]

I saw you everyday. You're just a real mirror of life. who don't sugarcoat things. you don't motivate, you just scold us to stop going through negative things. a big appreciation for you. Love you with all of my heart.

[@orwahs6275]

I cried really hard when you mentioned about iran. I as a iranian i feel great full for being able to live somewhere i can be safe for i pray for iran every day and for my land to be free i love you so much liz . Youre really a big motivation for me youre the biggest grace and power for women or people that watch you thank you. Thank you for being always kind and helpful even to the people that don’t appreciate you

[@MeganRogers-f5s]

“Life is not for the weak” wow, that really hit me.. Words can't describe how much respect i have for this woman.

[@KIMIlKO]

Liz is honestly like a breath of fresh air

[@yourthatbsf]

Liz rips my heart open & makes me see how worthy i am....i am so grateful she exist:)

[@tiarnabananaz]

Also it’s ok to cuddle and validate yourself when you feel down because toxic positively is just as bad as self pity! Just try not to let yourself drown in self pity because it can really take over your life and make it 100% worse like Liz stated. You are worth it.

[@Shaantibihh]

I really appreciate how straight forward you are instead of beating around the bush like a lot of other self help KZbinrs. Thank you!

[@honiarmy4853]

oh my i am Iranian and i see this video after one year and it makes me cry because of the end part... you are such amazing person🤍

[@mahimae6925]

Hey liz, I'm from Iran and I have been a fan of all your videos for a long time. it's so great to see how the person I look up to is supporting me and my people. I'm so thankful of you for spreading awareness about what's going on in my country 💞 and for helping us through our journey of getting our simple human rights. It's really painful and hard but as you say; life is not for the weak. #mahsaAmini

[@amyfard]

خداروشکر یک هموطن هست که ویدیو های لیز رو ببینه 🥲💗

[@Elena-vs4gl]

@@amyfard منم هستم

[@jazzmine9673]

@@amyfard و من نیز 🎉

[@Lul253.]

Jzhina amini forever a kurdish girl !!!!

[@pratibhasethia6605]

More more power to you.. support from India 🙏🏾

[@literally-nobody]

I STARTED LISTENING TO HER AND I AM ABSOLUTELY OBSESSED

[@rizzamaemondejar4392]

I want to thank myself for trying. Being here, watching your videos changed me and will continue to do so. Thank You Lord. Thank You, Liz!

[@michellecortes6138]

Thank you Liz! I was crying over a boy but now I’m looking at the positive things in my life and being grateful to be healthy and having two legs and just being alive. Just working on me and doing self-improvement work.

[@mariemartirosyan9027]

No words just grateful for this message.💗

[@Doodle_DoooTV]

i am grateful that u exist . when i feel low,or feel nothing , confused whatsoever, i just watch your videos and bam i am back again. thank you .

[@aya._a29]

listening to liz has really made me realise how lucky i am and how much i have to help me get myself to the best version of myself. If it wasn’t for her i would have never knew that I COULD CHANGE MY OWN LIFE iv always thought that when the time is right someone will come and change my life for me,instead of myself!! THANKYOU liz for opening my mind to different things ❤

[@sybrichx]

Your last video didnt trigger me. It inspired me to be like that and I literally took notes from it and I apply it everyday. And tbh, it made me feel good that people love you so much and are so obsessed with you, bc you’re beautiful inside and out. You deserve it. Jealousy is a disease and its hard to get rid of it for some people. I hope they can learn from this.

[@medhyaverma-cy4rx]

I just needed this video. Liz, you teach me,almost every single day, a life lesson while just sitting in my room. Your life lessons enable me to cope up with my past and let me build my best version and good future, changing my mental state for the good. You're the best mentor I could ever have Liz ❣️

[@myoung4720]

Liz is an icon, she's a legend & she is the moment

[@pascalramael5678]

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[@myoung4720]

@@pascalramael5678 tiktok, duh

[@pascalramael5678]

@@myoung4720 tiktok 😅 how meaningful 😂

[@jenniferhayess_]

i love the way you approach things . never do you just criticize.. you always give actionable steps to actually help ppl💚

[@Mohinur_Muzaffarova]

Grateful for such an amazing video. Especially, as a Muslim, I'm thankful for people like you ,who has tolerance and great understanding of religion, helping to spread positive thoughts about our religion. Thank you, may Allah bless you and your family 🤲🏻

[@ЛизаМартынова-н9д]

i'm a refugee from ukraine and every day it was difficult for me to come to term with this , but this video touched my soul and helped me accept everything as it is and move forward, thank you🙏❤❤❤

[@nrmf]

I get so excited when you upload you just know it’s always something with great quality. Even if it’s simple reminders about being grateful and confident, it’s always something positive to hear and look forward too. I’ve been depressed this week and it’s amazing because in a sense now it’s really important I start applying important practices you’ve been preaching. Much love stay blessed Liz🥰

[@reginaphalange8340]

Thank you for mentioning Mahsa Amini. I didn't see it coming and it caught me off guard; it reminded me of all the things that happened back then. It was truly tragic.

[@Lina-zm5sb]

I’m in love with everything about you , I’m 17 years old living in an extremely abusive household and everyday I think of ending it all but your story gave me so much hope and strength I have lived this long and I know I’m strong and smart and now I feel like maybe after all of this I can still make a beautiful life for myself and become the strong successful woman I want to be . I was extremely touched by your mother’s story she’s such and incredible woman ❤️❤️

[@stelatoska2919]

Liz you haven't saved me with your videos but you have reminded me everything I already know and you have motivated me to take action... I am so grateful for that

[@irodaburkhan]

Hi Liz! I wanted to thank u to teach me writing letter to my future self. Everything on that letter is happening. For real. And the main is, you mentioned word like "i am not with people who can't be with or stands with my higher version of myself", i wrote that down, within last two days i witnessed to that. I almost forgot abt it, but while praying suddenly, idk how or why, remembered about that line, and cried, gratituded. Thank u, Liz💜

[@foxies1029]

What did you do to achieve that honey? Can you tell me the way, thanks?

[@user-oe9iy3pk2n]

hii! what video did she say that in? id love to watch it

[@mathildawilliams5419]

I remember talking to God about any relationships in my life saying, disconnect any negative relationship I have with people that do not contribute positively to my life and connect me with those who do since then anyone who walk out or come into my life I'm okay with that and those that leave I am like OKAY AND 😂😂. That really helped me to stay calm

[@foxies1029]

@@mathildawilliams5419 love that thank you for answering❤

[@Michelle.x]

Which vid

[@oum3351]

Liz, you made me cry when you said ‘life is not for the weak’ it’s so true ❤