One of my overthinking problems is I always imagine fake scenarios until it ended up hurting my own feelings.
@MissUnkn0wn3 жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it, I be thinking the worst and end up hurting me
@ese_c0nejo_malo9293 жыл бұрын
Honestly I feel the same way about this to🤦🏽♂️😭
@RazFiveM3 жыл бұрын
Dude Like every nigh when i was 12 i was like always overthinking i just do like i look at the mirror and say no bad day is gonna stop me from achieving my dream think of Positive And now look at me Graduating College with an honor
@sufferplenty3 жыл бұрын
Glad there’s other people that struggle with this, I break my own heart everyday from overthinking and it’s starting to hurt way too much
@biocaringbynour3 жыл бұрын
This is literally what’s happening to me and what’s giving me all this anxiety and put me under pressure
@keshav27065 жыл бұрын
The ones struggling with overthinking and anxiety...I pray it fades forever and we all live happily...Pray for me too❤
@darryljl51385 жыл бұрын
I will bro I'm glad someone else really cares for the well being of others ❤
@nampabin23565 жыл бұрын
Thnk u n i am grateful to see ur comment
@ibtisamsiddiqui30365 жыл бұрын
Ammen
@shaukatmadhani84474 жыл бұрын
Allah bless you
@simonking62814 жыл бұрын
Your in my prayers man.
@minnesotaballer9465 жыл бұрын
I overthink so much that sometimes I don’t even know how to explain my thoughts
@jamboy18435 жыл бұрын
You're not alone, stay in it... Watch and progress your thoughts
@kados12465 жыл бұрын
I was walking down the road overthinking then walked in to a post then started Overthinking about people seeing me walking in to the post which resulted in me overthinking about my overthinking then I walked in to another post then I walked in front of a car and died then made this KZbin comment
@Xmudrykk5 жыл бұрын
Minnesota Baller exactly
@Xmudrykk5 жыл бұрын
If I do explain my thoughts ppl will say I have mental issues and I think I don’t o think it’s just my anxiety
@AC-xl8sq4 жыл бұрын
yea and i often overthink those i say to people and i just can’t help but to overthink and it’s become my habit
@dean_cadancex62773 жыл бұрын
What hurts the most is that when you're finally happy, your mind will immediately think that "the happiness won't last long and you will be sad right after so DON'T be too happy or it'll hurt you more" and straight up imagining negative thoughts and stuffs to change your mood really fast.
@karamelcarmedia69303 жыл бұрын
That happens to me too
@dumacele67243 жыл бұрын
💔i think this is what hurts most about the the whole overthinking and anxiety problem. nearly ruined my hard earned job interview today..it has ruined many things for me;friendships,relationships,opportunities,etc😟,,like,,can one just have peace and be present just for a month,week,day,hour,,minute😟😟🙆🏾♂️
@offbxrry45773 жыл бұрын
i hate this
@angelonieto42083 жыл бұрын
This happens to me which is the reason why I searched this video up
@dantixx49263 жыл бұрын
What did you do to stop these thoughts?
@lucianaeiraldi25944 жыл бұрын
overthinking tortures me. i simply can’t keep living like this it’s horrendous, i cry and think about anything for hours even if it’s insanely stupid.
@marilougushwa82703 жыл бұрын
God Bless
@itzzz.zahra_3 жыл бұрын
same I feel your pain.
@chcmntmrnt3 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😭
@netflakespandemica15773 жыл бұрын
Yasss huhu
@jameswalterlakra57963 жыл бұрын
You all Making me feel so good about myself Finally I feel I'm not alone, literally millions of people suffer from this. To be honest it feels good not to be the only one. And trust me on this one - I can literally feel the pain you all do cause I've been dealing with this all my life , I'm still dealing but reading comments like this is therapy for me. Hope we'll get better mental health ❤️ We are all together guys It's completely normal
@madebyluv3 жыл бұрын
Don't believe everything your mind tells you - best advice ever.
@adamgfx92293 жыл бұрын
I love you, that one sentence has made me feel so much better god bless ❤️
@madebyluv3 жыл бұрын
@@adamgfx9229 sending hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lux26333 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊. Now I can finally sleep.
@pratimarai26843 жыл бұрын
Yes mam same things happen with me . Myself Anand and i read in class 8th and i am overthinking from recent days very much and i cabt eat and sleep properly i am too tensed about my future and i want to benormal back can u plz help to cure it😭😭🙏🙏
@itz_yaboi_uglyugly86253 жыл бұрын
@@pratimarai2684 same
@bryanfurious61004 жыл бұрын
People don’t know the actual pain of overthinking, sometimes I overthink about some very dark stuff to the point I start shaking and sweating and on those moments I’d feel very lonely and depressed af and the cruel part is that u have no control over it.. :( bro life is hard
@kvngalex34614 жыл бұрын
Our Pranks i feel u bro😔
@B_R_A_N_D_Y4 жыл бұрын
I know that feeling dude😔
@horatiux83414 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro..overthinking right now about dark thoughts 😭😭
@melekjebril76374 жыл бұрын
And it got worse with the pandemic
@theminusel58634 жыл бұрын
am overthinking how to torture humans
@sucross3 жыл бұрын
I love reading people's comments in here , it comforts me to know there are people who feels the same way with me. Thank you so much for sharing what you're being through. I hope everyone can fix this
@dinorichie96456 жыл бұрын
I overthink about being lonely, and problems I’m dealing with, social anxiety, depression, being unhappy. Being judged, health. I just want the weight to be lifted off my shoulder and to be at peace
@CarterHayes775 жыл бұрын
me too
@catrinwilliams30165 жыл бұрын
Me too it’s like being in a cage that I made for myself
@INCOGNITO-iq4qy5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ahmedmasri28665 жыл бұрын
That's exactly me
@officialyk17035 жыл бұрын
Dino Richie trust me dawg ☹️
@Adixx06 жыл бұрын
1. Be aware of your thoughts. 2. Be conscious, live in the present. 3. You are not your thoughts Great video, thanks a lot.
@MetaImoon5 жыл бұрын
Adi X I legit just read this comment and it hit me like a bullet man. Thank you.
@lobeyari29335 жыл бұрын
OMG THIS IS SO HELPFUL
@iamtheonewjoknocks5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@funandlala5 жыл бұрын
I love this comment :')
@Thatguy-yi1rx4 жыл бұрын
Bro thx a lot I’m gonna keep repeating this to myself every morning
@begummm117 жыл бұрын
I found myself not concantrating on the video because i started to overthink... Damn.
@dionisakissakis22977 жыл бұрын
shit me too
@AstridAnex7 жыл бұрын
Me too omg
@bushrajahan9837 жыл бұрын
Begüm Yetişkin same..... 😧
@jannathundal76697 жыл бұрын
Ugh!! Me too !!!!
@michelenintricepsi65297 жыл бұрын
Ayn hacı abi
@erika52623 жыл бұрын
Today my therapist said something interesting: when we don’t understand something we create an answer for it. Hours later I started overthinking about something and realized I was using the mechanism she mentioned and it makes perfect sense. So I just told myself the same thing and it’s like realizing you’re dreaming, suddenly I feel in control again.
@mikail27363 жыл бұрын
Can you elaborate that more. I want to understand
@abdirizak98103 жыл бұрын
I think you don't know what you live for, nor do you know who created you so beautifully, you ypu think about your future. you think about your behavior and how to control it. You think the things around you are right and wrong. you Think about people's comments and criticisms. you Ask yourself some questions that you don't need but you have to answer when you feel like a crazy philosopher. I know you sometimes tell you self "I'm honest, good,so why the life bother me ??" If you need to survive this problem first ask yourself "who created me, why he created me?" The One who created you can take away that problem and give you a sweet life,not this bad life in this world because He created you in the first place to have mercy on you if you obey His command. I am a muslim, in the last few years i have been behaving the way you live, meaning i am a muslim and i was forgot my creator that time"god" , i was listening to music, i was doing bad things like "meeting girls". , I tried to solve every problem I encountered normally "alone" but I couldn't. Today I am back and I have returned to Allah and I have found happiness, confidence, courage and power and everything has become easier for me because I always recite the glorious Qur'an "the word of Allah" regularly. please come join us so that you do not miss the sweetness of life in this world and the next that awaits us after death. don't underestimate my point and look for the real islam by forgetting the little idea that "islam is a terrorist". please save yourself i don't need anything from you. Live happily ever after, brother / sister.
@mlaikamalik50532 жыл бұрын
Wait can you explain that please. I liked what you said but didn't fully underdtand
@jay1k3082 жыл бұрын
@@abdirizak9810 this is a powerful message brother thank you for your insight 🙏🏾
@jay1k3082 жыл бұрын
@@mlaikamalik5053 from what I got from this is he put his strength in God to make him stronger, he found real purpose
@samueltorrisi29895 жыл бұрын
The voice in my head never stops 6 months later never thought 500 people would have seen that comment
@Arisuuu6854 жыл бұрын
Sammmmeeeee
@theminusel58634 жыл бұрын
schizophrenia
@kianawalters50064 жыл бұрын
Wss no matter how much I tell it stop and talk to someone it comes backs right after when I think I am done with it but I don't think I am dealing with anxiety
@Arisuuu6854 жыл бұрын
@@kianawalters5006 you know what you need to forget about it i had the same problem but now it never came back like do some activities such as drawing sports try to cook its gonna be hard at first but just try also since i listened to the quran trust me i think u r not muslim but just try it like whenever u r going to sleep listen to it its sooo relaxing and nobody and nothing helped me better than that
@kianawalters50064 жыл бұрын
@@Arisuuu685 thank you so much I don't really overthink .I realized it only happens when im alone so I keep active and it hasn't really came back like dat but I am Barbadian and a Christian 🙂
@whiazelyu2714 жыл бұрын
FOR EVERYBODY WHO’S OVERTHINKING JUST LIKE ME, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER🥺❤️
@officialjeramy4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@rozhb.abdullah17854 жыл бұрын
💕💕
@smperera4 жыл бұрын
@Dayna Dvorkin dont worry its temporary feeling trust yourself you are a strong person
@ربيعةفاتمة4 жыл бұрын
When will we get through this I can't live now
@smperera4 жыл бұрын
@@ربيعةفاتمة there are different ways for different people. So if u cant find the way please get advise from a professional. I am not professional but I can tell you there is a way. For now try to concentrate and be active, do something you like.
@healthylife89916 жыл бұрын
Over thinking is just like a slow poison. It will destroy all your hard work.and life.
@shivanshuraj71756 жыл бұрын
Overthinking about anyone...it almost kill you from inside.one side you dont want to stop thinking and on other hand you know you are wasting time ..overthinking its too hard to get out"
@pokemonemeraldlover6 жыл бұрын
Shivanshu Raj How do you do it
@pokemonemeraldlover6 жыл бұрын
Cedie Gaming Its been helping for me to not be scared of the thoughts :) I know im alright and life goes on
@donaldoduckus65666 жыл бұрын
Yes that is true if you overthink way too much then you can focus on even the most minute details and it could be really distracting.
@kg-wq2ue6 жыл бұрын
@@pokemonemeraldlover yeah 👍
@marcusatm3 жыл бұрын
1. Keep a journal 2. Meditate: control your mind with discipline 3. Be self aware Be present in the moment 4. Force your mind to engage 🧠 5. Separate your thoughts from yourself: use your thinking to help you. Ask yourself: how can you change your situation to help you. Every problem has a solution!
@ep1c.2 жыл бұрын
just marking this comment
@Cinsear4 жыл бұрын
Is it me or does anybody else feels emotional reading the comments about people who share a similar struggle with you? 🤦🏾♂️😔
@yellowdds55474 жыл бұрын
specially this quarantine season, it has a big impact in our mental health
@x0katiexo004 жыл бұрын
I’m not ready to go back to school because my anxiety is way worse 😣
@Unforgettableflower4 жыл бұрын
@@x0katiexo00 i wish i can go to school cuz i cant sleep at night i overthink too much
@deadsoul14634 жыл бұрын
@@yellowdds5547 quarrentine is helping
@yellowdds55474 жыл бұрын
@@deadsoul1463 quarantine helps to prevent the spread of the virus, yeah. but were talking about mental health issue here bro. the mental health issue cause by isolation
@oldaccoutn75444 жыл бұрын
I overthink about my past so much it’s frustrating and depressing I really think I am a bad person because I overthink every mistake I’ve EVER made. I really can’t stop
@dahranisahak73494 жыл бұрын
That’s so me. I overthink about what the person say and tell my self that they did that to hurt me. And then I don’t talk to them or get angry white them that’s soo frustrating 😢
@mmt15754 жыл бұрын
Same
@danaeannbabyface4 жыл бұрын
I do this sometimes... it got better when i started to accept that im human and will make mistakes.... mistakes are how u grow and gain wisdom.... be kinder to yourself ... practice it ... it will get better ... at least it did for me ... takes time tho
@arieelloo4 жыл бұрын
I'm with you, I have some advice for you : "the bad part it's you can't undone the past, the good part it's you can learn from it, and the actually happen it's nobody care about us and our mistake, let it flow like a damn't river"
@NinoKhukhu4 жыл бұрын
I even made some kind of list of my mistakes and when I find out about new one, I am like: OH, I made it again! Like it is an achievement, there are some levels and you can never complete it
@razer00720734 жыл бұрын
I constantly think people are judging me
@hajardesu40704 жыл бұрын
I'm just like u, soo much like u ...even if it's absolutely the opposite i always feel unwanted and nobody like me, nobody cares about me , i m done with these negative thoughts ....... Feeling unwanted is the most hurtful feeling ever
@budah39954 жыл бұрын
I think all the time of being scared to go into water even fresh lakes I think there’s always something that will kill me and I can’t control it if I try to swallow something and it doesn’t go down right away I get anxiety and start panicking and then I can’t swallow anything Bc I overthink it way too much and always thinking I’m going to die.
@gracek51544 жыл бұрын
heyy. u know I used to feel the same way, and one thing I did that changed my whole mindset on this is thinking "yeah I look good, I don't blame them for looking. my outfit is super nice" everytime I go out, I would feel confident in what I'm wearing, and that would change my whole perspective on things. because know its hard, but you shouldn't care about what other ppl think of u. if you internally feel good, that radiates, and other ppl see that confidence too. I hope that helps:)
@hajardesu40704 жыл бұрын
@@gracek5154 yeaaaa exactly but u know sometimes it's hard to think like this bc when we are in th situation of feeling unwanted ur mind automatically stop thinking positively and he gives u only negative thoughts and it's rly rly hard t control them but th important thing is to try and never let these fucking thoughts beats u and control u ......i liked wht u wrote btw
@ramu9924 жыл бұрын
Yo, people are too busy with their own lives, they don't care abt u for more than few minutes.
@fredsternberg13333 жыл бұрын
I’m struggling with past decisions, which my mind sees as mistakes and then I ruminate about the mistakes. Your video is very helpful and I need to implement the lessons
@bferfolja3 жыл бұрын
Same, here. Most of them probably even aren't mistakes, but i imagine scenarios where they are mistakes to be true. If that makes sense... This video made me realize that sometimes you just need to literally cut the link between yourself and the past. This video helped me.
@kotoamatsukami25822 жыл бұрын
@@bferfolja ik bro its so fkin hard, it literally kills u inside all this overthinking I cant do it anymore 😪
@V4MP1EEE2 жыл бұрын
Same, I made some pretty crappy decisions in the past, but all we can do is keep trying to fix them! Dont let your mind discourage you, we will get through this no matter what your mind says!
@souravramesh40942 жыл бұрын
Same prob:(
@jack13moore2 жыл бұрын
Same here I made one last week still beating myself up now..
@X1R-EZ3 жыл бұрын
Let's be honest... You searched for this "How to stop overthinking" Hope you get better
@ozgurdeniz_6573 жыл бұрын
ahaha
@pipobex3 жыл бұрын
Obviously??
@captainaryan263 жыл бұрын
nah, I just searched 'overthinking'
@sllk29143 жыл бұрын
I did for my friend actually
@jagjag12023 жыл бұрын
Nah I got in my recommended
@kaycee67244 жыл бұрын
I overthink life. I overthink about everything i do and say. I think so much it messes up my day. I think about life and why i live it. People want everything and i wonder should i give it. I think and think and do nothing more. I think about the past and who i was before. But i forgive myself for every mistake. I'm just gonna breath and have a brake. I'm praying for all of you so please pray for me. What the future holds we'll wait and see.❤️
@marklee13764 жыл бұрын
Kaycee your not alone....always pray to GOD🙏
@KamiiSola4 жыл бұрын
Same..
@eymme55714 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@smperera3 жыл бұрын
"Therapy in a Nutshell" this youtube channel will definitely help you
@cinnamongrader66083 жыл бұрын
*Chloe Temari* I’m the same as you, it’s terrifying. Especially when your overthinking gets you nowhere. But I believe in you as much a I believe in me. Let’s do this and change our future for the better!
@axrasa-39454 жыл бұрын
"Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today is not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!"
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, and happy to help :)
@sarahsarahgreat4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.I will always remember ur message.
@dankcam91444 жыл бұрын
Thank you Man U helped me alot
@axrasa-39454 жыл бұрын
@@dankcam9144 No problem bro :))
@Lovekai8884 жыл бұрын
Thank u much luv 🙏🏽🤍
@marisolimperial3512 жыл бұрын
I've been overthinking my future a lot. But I realize it's taking a toll on me. I've been getting anxiety. I sometimes feel that my heart is going to burst anytime. Thank you for this video. I hope to gain such courage to fight with my thoughts.
@nsdhanush10864 жыл бұрын
i overthink about person who does'nt even care me.
@tcfbryan45664 жыл бұрын
NS DHANUSH same
@mrcovett66644 жыл бұрын
try this video brother ''how to not give a fuck''..because in reality you because what you think
@rgl_disobey29614 жыл бұрын
I’m here to tell you two things get up and realize your worth a lot more than that person💯
@angelitatirtasemita23714 жыл бұрын
yea I have the same problem. and it has been years,.. i feel insane!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/pnXNnXmna9-HgMk
@muhammad_yunoOs4 жыл бұрын
Same me also have problem
@claudy61455 жыл бұрын
I always overthink about 1)embarassing shit I did in the past,in a way that makes me end up thinking this is the only way people rember me 2)everything I do,especially when other people are involved (it eventually ended up with me being really scared of social interactions to a point where I’m not capable of making new friends cause I’m too scared I will mess everything up) 2)my lonliness
@mikeoxmall72885 жыл бұрын
everything u said describes me too.. i cant even get into relationships because i always overthink EVERYTHING. like ik it’s normal for people to overthink, but for me it’s always, non stop overthinking about every little situation/scenario. story of my life. and yeah i think soon it’s gonna be even friendships that i won’t be able to have bc i just overthink and it’ll just go down the drain. im pretty sure i have super bad social anxiety so like i can’t ever really talk to people that well/hold a convo bc in my head there will be non stop thoughts like what i’m supposed to say, how they’ll react, etc. also mb for typing this whole ass essay to ur comment lol, just makes me feel less sad/ hopeless that i’m not the only one. i hope your overthinking gets better over time 🙂
@claudy61455 жыл бұрын
mike oxmall I completely feel you,it sucks. And I think I have social anxiety too. I’ll start terapy soon,so lets see if I find out. Anyways,thanks for replying,you really made me feel understood✨hope we can both find our way out of this!
@peterbrako16125 жыл бұрын
thottie good thing is u have enough time to let them see u for the great person u wanna become. Still time bro still time. Just make a positive change for yourself
@claudy61455 жыл бұрын
Peter Brako this made me feel eased,thanks for bringing good energy in. Really appreciated.
@adeelahmad98755 жыл бұрын
Me too
@prowarrior01554 жыл бұрын
I really hope this overthinking stops. It’s so exhausting, depressing and the anxiety is too much... 😢🙏💯
@mrcovett66644 жыл бұрын
try this video ''how to not give a fuck'' because you real become what you think bro
@nepsyjunkie64594 жыл бұрын
Same here 😥
@edidi57174 жыл бұрын
its been nearly half a year, how are you doing now?
@tenejul82694 жыл бұрын
I was like that too and still am it was a non stop for like 2 years and I got really depressed lost so many friends, and no motivation for school, and I just wanted to give up. But I started working out and it felt much better, and I was spending a lot of time alone, but socializing in the internet. So now its much better. But remember just work out and eat healthy u will be ok trust.m! Stay strong! I love you all!
@1991civiclx4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@V4MP1EEE2 жыл бұрын
As someone who's struggling with past decisions, I overthink way too much and its been affecting my life ever since I was 7. All we can do is not let our minds discourage us! Keep trying, your strong and you will get through this!
@ryanmerkle58685 жыл бұрын
For me: over thinking is the root of MY anxiety
@sushanthme72715 жыл бұрын
may be bcoz of overthinking u got anxiety..
@christinagreaves79325 жыл бұрын
Me too x
@confiance14925 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Nelcomarproductions5 жыл бұрын
Same.
@hesoyammy94385 жыл бұрын
Of course. Anxiety is conspiracy theories about yourself.
@Scry9998 жыл бұрын
I overthink on how I talk with people, more specifically how they will react and what they will say. I have social anxiety :(
@Scry9998 жыл бұрын
***** Yea, the solution is right there.
@atinybear_45338 жыл бұрын
Hi. Me too :(
@hanif28298 жыл бұрын
revurts wow u just find the perfect name for my anxiety, yesss mee too, i have social anxiety. thinking what people might think of me if i do this or that, what if they look down on me, what if i hurt their feelings, what if they dont respect me, do i do the right thing in social events, afraid meeting people, and so on. scary voices in head keep telling me to just chill and sleep in my house but it holds me back from living my life to the fullest. hope your anxiety gets better now :)))
@MyPinkJelly8 жыл бұрын
Wow me too!
@kichz.76947 жыл бұрын
revurts me as well
@oopsidaisys4 жыл бұрын
me: *watching this* also me: *still overthinking anyway*
@gabrielm64224 жыл бұрын
Chewing gum reduces overthinking
@user-tv8pr6ij9z4 жыл бұрын
Me im thinking about my death
@shroom23634 жыл бұрын
It’s okay. You aren’t alone
@YooSheron4 жыл бұрын
EVERYTIME I START OVERTHINKING I LISTEN TO NCT U WITHOUT U CHINESE VER IDK WHY
@boystorytreasure4 жыл бұрын
Ohhh im sorry Jaehyun loves u
@miagallagher47773 жыл бұрын
Don’t trust the mind, trust your gut 😌 praying for you, it’s really hard but you’ll get through it
@jakia20203 жыл бұрын
What if your gut tells you the same thing as your mind😔😔
@miagallagher47773 жыл бұрын
@@jakia2020 then go with it❤️ I’m an over thinker and I’m trying to learn ways to get Through this but we can do this. We can get through this together
@samandarrahmatullayev37432 жыл бұрын
Pls help me how to stop it
@acculemency2 жыл бұрын
idk why this comment makes my situation worse im srry
@sobiariaz52115 жыл бұрын
Seeing a lot of ppl going thru same issues.. not just me alone.. feels a little better but I pray that we all get what we need🙏#staystrong#ameen
@rockrock14095 жыл бұрын
I have psychosis and delusional disorder and haven't done anything in my every day life for a long time but just be on my phone while intense dark times happen at the same time so it really fuck me up to have repeated weird or random thoughts or words or memorys unstil I stabilized my life more by a more routine responsibly and recreational things and take strong meds and also be self adware and repeat be relax be in reality not give a f.. It has made me distant of possible love partners until more stabilized but I know it possible to fix or duct tape if actually go ham on it by the right counter mindset.. Meds.. And more of a fun and heathly and responsibly combo routine
@sobiariaz52114 жыл бұрын
rock rock stay strong !
@sobiariaz52114 жыл бұрын
Raymond Musgrove 🤞🙏
@sobiariaz52114 жыл бұрын
Motivational Videos thank you!
@syedabbashusaintm10414 жыл бұрын
I overthinking alot these days.... Specially due to lockdown but i have a quote which says " no pain whether physical or mental lasts forever " and by remembering that i become someone with control over my thoughts... And now i am gonnna implement all the things this guy said!!
@ninjapirate1235 жыл бұрын
I overthink so much that I don't even mention what I'm thinking about. And doing this makes me very nervous. I try my best to stop but overthinking is just a habit that it is very hard to make it go away. Edit: thanks for all the likes. And reply to my comment to tell me how u guys feel about overthinking too
@robhasdriven8954 жыл бұрын
That might just be ADHD
@ourvoiceisone51744 жыл бұрын
Same here...
@eugine82304 жыл бұрын
KK Xie same
@ninjapirate1234 жыл бұрын
Exactly, and when I got bored of thinking the same thing over and over I still keep thinking about it 😭
@leticiadiaz52414 жыл бұрын
KK Xie that happens to me too sometimes
@bathecat98345 жыл бұрын
I overthinking about every worst possible outcome of everything even i overthinking i have some disease that i will hurt people or loose my mind
@Wroakz5 жыл бұрын
BAT ASS same
@user-dd9qb5qe6c5 жыл бұрын
Don't stress mate. It's called Intrusive thoughts. Everyone has them, it's just the amount of attention that you choose to give to it that makes it different for you. I'm going through the same thing right now. Thoughts aren't reality and I always think that if I pay too much attention to it, I could actually go mentally insane, but you just have to find closure and after doing so, you can try ignore the thoughts now that you've attended to them and you've solved it. You won't see changes immediately but keep trying 🌻✊
@@mmmm...4888 I think you don't know what you live for, nor do you know who created you so beautifully, you ypu think about your future. you think about your behavior and how to control it. You think the things around you are right and wrong. you Think about people's comments and criticisms. you Ask yourself some questions that you don't need but you have to answer when you feel like a crazy philosopher. I know you sometimes tell you self "I'm honest, good,so why the life bother me ??" If you need to survive this problem first ask yourself "who created me, why he created me?" The One who created you can take away that problem and give you a sweet life,not this bad life in this world because He created you in the first place to have mercy on you if you obey His command. I am a muslim, in the last few years i have been behaving the way you live, meaning i am a muslim and i was forgot my creator that time"god" , i was listening to music, i was doing bad things like "meeting girls". , I tried to solve every problem I encountered normally "alone" but I couldn't. Today I am back and I have returned to Allah and I have found happiness, confidence, courage and power and everything has become easier for me because I always recite the glorious Qur'an "the word of Allah" regularly. please come join us so that you do not miss the sweetness of life in this world and the next that awaits us after death. don't underestimate my point and look for the real islam by forgetting the little idea that "islam is a terrorist". please save yourself i don't need anything from you. Live happily ever after, brother / sister.
@Chinix6 жыл бұрын
Seeing this video has 700k views makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one tht overthinks things
@madhuripatil46595 жыл бұрын
Overthinking (mind chatter) is a normal thing and almost everyone does unnecessary overthinking so don't worry about it
@stephenwilliamson21645 жыл бұрын
Rockylol I agree! I thought it was just me. I like the solutions
@aysezulalkaradavarc21134 жыл бұрын
And it get me worse. Because more people feel like that
@kunzangtseten85654 жыл бұрын
Buddy your comment made me smile
@fearislive_14 жыл бұрын
Same here bro I also get relax
@balasubramanianp63613 жыл бұрын
I feel comfortable cause I'm not the only one. Don't worry guys we will get through this together 💜💜💜
@serenitynik58013 жыл бұрын
My sleep gone at 5am... I was not overthinking,but my thinking makes it over... So decided to quit... Because I'm suffering for 2 days... It makes me feel muscle pain in head for few minutes...
@johnlewis57763 жыл бұрын
ayy fax bro😩😩😩
@samuri18873 жыл бұрын
How has it been?
@As1997-n1n2 жыл бұрын
Yeah😊
@jeenachun52712 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@Aikosaan4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m trapped in my mind. I overthink mostly everyday and it really gets in the way of everything that i do. It’s easier said than done whenever people say “just don’t think”. Even in my sleep my thoughts would be racing that I couldn’t be able to sleep at all. I just hope I and everyone will find peace in their mind soon❤️
@raman61893 жыл бұрын
Same here, only the night part
@midloran3 жыл бұрын
Everyday and every night
@taleeciarichards73953 жыл бұрын
That’s me
@ruthyjean52923 жыл бұрын
same, how r u now..
@ruthyjean52923 жыл бұрын
@@taleeciarichards7395 how r u now
@shiwalikaushal97183 жыл бұрын
I imagine every possible scenario in my head that i don't feel amused or happy when that thing actually happens.😔
@dariocavallari19997 жыл бұрын
if i had a dollar for everytime i overthinked i wouldnt be overthinking anymore
@rahulguitar6 жыл бұрын
Isaak i would be richer than jeff bezos in a week
@bngboy32536 жыл бұрын
So damn, true!
@annafanakerpan605 жыл бұрын
Made me smile and I couldn't agree with you more... In terms of overthinking with growing trees, I would be standing as tall as a Seqouia tree! Which has been known to grow as tall as you could never imagine possible ;)
@justiny.48915 жыл бұрын
*Ooffff*
@qw561715 жыл бұрын
So you were over-thinking in order to become rich?
@nikkieh14456 жыл бұрын
If you watched this by anxiety Then. You are perfect...and I know it's hard.....but it's your life, so stop thinking about everything and everyone else and their reactions and emotions.....Think about yourself for once❤️ I know not everyone has it like this...but I do and needed to get it out❤️
@XVisionary9786 жыл бұрын
I've been hearing people telling me to start thinking about myself the past two weeks...hmm
@lnnation35416 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@Kevin-146 жыл бұрын
I'm here for the anxiety and stress But the problem is, that i'm overthinking about myself, my future, my life I don't care about the other people
@hagopvartanian5886 жыл бұрын
NikkieH14 well, this is the reason I have been watching this, although it may not seem like I have had a reason to overthink, it’s just the way I process it and I know it’s not very normal but hey I have to fight it instead of constantly ask myself “why did I become this person or start thinking so deeply about things?” It’s the only way to stop my overthinking and I play sports and I know I can be great but sometimes I let the negativity get to me and it’s terrible. If your reading this and you have overthought on a girl, or what your life should or is, or what you are afraid of it turning out to be or you are looking back at the past or anything just remember that if you think in the present day you cannot have fear, watch a video on that and you will understand, stay strong I wish you all luck and chase your dreams nothing is impossible, the only person making it seem impossible or stopping yourself is YOU!
@Dwvvv5 жыл бұрын
@@Kevin-14 same here man, same here!!
@cocinera74087 жыл бұрын
overthinking ruined me. i can't live happily and JUST relax for today, i'm always thinking about the future and all my thoughts are the negatives
@smendes20047 жыл бұрын
Via Nia future doesnt exist! Only the present is real. The rest is just "mental garbage".
@innazera59297 жыл бұрын
It's the same with me the only difference is that for me it's the past I always think about
@gaffer23156 жыл бұрын
Same with me bro
@arijithazra96366 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too
@basaktoksoy42566 жыл бұрын
Silvia Mendes This actually helped so thanks. 🙏
@siddharth_07713 жыл бұрын
Tip : Whenever u panic or negative thought strikes ur mind just say to yourself "I am just overthinking".
@shinybeans5062 жыл бұрын
And straight back to overthinking
@thypham58374 жыл бұрын
I overthinking about my future I overthinking about my life I overthinking about myself I overthinking about school I over thinking about tasks I over thinking about my family
@sxurabh3 жыл бұрын
sameeee its soo annoying
@bongiperez75653 жыл бұрын
Me too me too
@babydas61123 жыл бұрын
Same 2 same😀
@darktrolls90473 жыл бұрын
Yes bro same problem
@TerraTuvvy3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@shabibasharief50475 жыл бұрын
Me starts the video .. reads the comments and start Over thinking ..and then realise I haven't listened to the video..
@eddyman76455 жыл бұрын
B
@joelhall6495 жыл бұрын
Loool
@peterbrako16125 жыл бұрын
alisha khan 😂😂 take it easy and start again
@geminlys32155 жыл бұрын
OMG. Same like me Hahah. 😂
@namjoonslostpassport21454 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂✌🏻
@Kpox094 жыл бұрын
for those who are on the verge of giving up, you will see sunshine, you will find peace and you can finally say to yourself that you're okay.
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, and happy to help :)
@yasminenasseraldin18134 жыл бұрын
Kpox JD thank u that really helped 🥺it just seems really hard
@andinh45133 жыл бұрын
I have been thinking a lot about the relationship with my friends recently!
@mmmm...48883 жыл бұрын
Fuck it i am stuck in the same stuff
@monamaeconsigna20292 жыл бұрын
Thid
@mollyasell66194 жыл бұрын
I overthink pretty much everything about myself. As soon as someone I care about gives me a sign that I did something wrong or act like they think I’m annoying I start overthinking and think the worst case scenario. This tiny little sign can actually just be that my friend is having a bad day, but it can haunt me for like a month and eventually I start thinking that it’s something wrong with me and that I should change myself. This often happens when I start getting intimate relationships with people. As soon as they act just a little bit different than they use to I start looking after flaws on myself, both on my outside and my inside. I wish I could be happy and confident about myself and stop worrying so much about what everyone thinks about me, I mean I know that not everyone can love me, but my brain and anxiety doesn’t want to know that.
@alexgiertych51013 жыл бұрын
This happens to me as well, I overthink so much that everything is exact for me to the point where I feel like I’m developing ocd with certain things. I can remember things that happened months and even years ago and overthink about what I should have done differently if I should have said down to the slightest word
@Younggeneration7423 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me too right now ..
@SilentKiller-tx7xk3 жыл бұрын
I can relate this
@rikeilycruz45123 жыл бұрын
GIRL I FEEL YOU, i have the same problem, and it's hurts my chest every time i overthink, plus i'm very anxious about what other people think about me or about to say when i text them. It's super hard, i just want to be strong and confident to be able to be happy and relax.
@goodvibestv20173 жыл бұрын
I thought I'm the only one whose experiencing this. 😥 Keep fighting! We can survive this! 😊
@whiazelyu2714 жыл бұрын
TO EVERYONE WHO IS STRUGGLING RIGHT NOW WITH FAMILY PROBLEMS, CAREER, IF SOMEBODY YOU LOVE IS ILL, I PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU... YOU’LL GET THROUGH THIS DON’T OVERTHINK TOO MUCH🙏❤️...
@cinnamongrader66083 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥺 I pray for you too, let’s get through this together!
@sportsworld99173 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@sUxz.xx003 жыл бұрын
thank you Hun!!!🥺💕💕
@alfiemia38614 жыл бұрын
I overthink soo much that I usually take jokes too seriously I get offended then start to overthink about how badly I reacted and how the person will take it😭
@sUxz.xx003 жыл бұрын
Same and sometimes even tho the things that I think that it is not even Tru I will eventually just start thinking about it even tho it is just a small big deal, and it will like my mind eventually forcing me to think even tho that it is not my fault😭😭😭
@ismailwalker83 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that I typed, how to not Overthink i saw this comment.... I really needed this
@robertadam38583 жыл бұрын
I'm overthinking every little thing what happens in my life and others life also. I hardly trust someone...even my love relationship and I overthink every detail to "prevent" something bad happens to me... After this video, I realised that my mind in grey, but the reality is like a rainbow😍 Thank you for the advices! 🙏 I believe that we all will get better soon! 🤗
@hasanmadani83103 жыл бұрын
Hey man i think im in the same position as u are could u give me a piece of advise maybe and do you still feel better now ?
@robertadam38583 жыл бұрын
@@hasanmadani8310 Hey! I started to write in a notebook about me and my negative thoughts to realise what I am, then I'm writing the positive version. I started to meditate...to listen my breath and the environment. Also, my girlfriend is helping me by talking with me about all thoughts...and she is encourraging me...this helps me to gain trust in her. I'm asking questions too, like: why am I thinking about this? is this makes me happy? where do I want to reach with those thoughts?...or any kind of question that make you be positive. I'm trying to realise that I can't control anybody...this is illegal also :)) and if something bad will happen to me, I'll take the decision then. I hope that at least 1 of these ideas will help you. Stay strong! 💪
@robertadam38583 жыл бұрын
@@hasanmadani8310 when someone said to me to stop overthinking, I felt like he.s asking me to be a dumbass...now, I'm feeling like a "dumbass" but I'm more happy 😁
@rileymartin56826 жыл бұрын
I over think on what I do. I always think I'm doing something wrong, or I could have done better. Like after I hang out with friends, I just think about everything I thought I did wrong, and I should have done better. And it now I'm just constantly thinking negitivly about myself.
@tiffanysar-lecluze56796 жыл бұрын
Same same same 😭😭
@ferdoeric5966 жыл бұрын
I know its not easy for you but you have to realize that people forget most of the things very quickly.. so whats the point of overthinking when if you would ask them they wouldnt remember... its all about perspective And even if they did notice some things you did just tell yourself they dont see shit. I hope you find a solution
@epicfighter52735 жыл бұрын
I have no idea Yeah I everytime I’m with my girlfriend or friends I always think about what I could’ve done better but in reality I already did good. Bro I know what you’re going through and it really fucks you up but we gonna overcome that shit
@nijntje6665 жыл бұрын
I do that too and on top.of that I start to think about solutions to fix it
@davidrobinson63005 жыл бұрын
I do it it too I always stay quite sometimes with friends coz I worry if I gonna embarrass myself or say something stupid it really bad around girls aswell coz I want to be flirty but worry I gonna be creepy or somthing so instead I come off as boring I usual doubt myself all the time but I’ve notice I getting better I going gym more talking more feeling happier in myself still a little quiet in some situations and still feel like I should’ve said something but nowing that I said more than last time makes me happier each time hang in there I know it will get better for us all on her. Soz wasn’t expecting to to be this long thanks for reading if u did I’ll probably be overthinking about this comment later 🤣
@Ldrlvr3553 жыл бұрын
I overthink everything and it’s starting to affect everything.
@kyha78613 жыл бұрын
you’re not alone❤️
@denafarhat78613 жыл бұрын
hey, has it gotten better or easier for u? If it hasn’t it’s ok everyone heals at different rates
@joshsutherly61563 жыл бұрын
Affects my relationships
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@kyha7861 To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Let change happen. When taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes. Senior Counsellor.
@spongebobsmum63103 жыл бұрын
@@joshsutherly6156 same bro nobody is alone here ♥️
@heyboo22474 жыл бұрын
I am scared of everything! Whenever I do something I think of all the bad things that could happen then I don’t wanna do it anymore and I’m scared! I also hate it when people say : get over it , or , it’s no big deal ! Like , thanks that’s so helpful! Ashsjskaiiehdbdbdjshshsj
@leodelmichaellaporte52943 жыл бұрын
i feel you
@ahmedoo21053 жыл бұрын
Literally me
@cassiedunn25732 жыл бұрын
I know, they tell you to get over it without actually teaching you how!! Its like if someone was learning a new language to "just speak it" without knowing how
@Ninnee6443 жыл бұрын
For the last few years I have been surrounded by people who have personalities that are difficult for me to deal with. Interaction with them on a regular basis is unavoidable, and it has eroded my sense of self-worth because their natural tendency is to be critical of everything and do not easily appreciate or acknowledge my accomplishments. I was an overthinker to begin with, but recently it has gotten out of hand with me second guessing everything I do, and devaluing my own opinion, interests and achievements. Right now I am trying to pass a very important exam, but overthinking is hampering my preparations. This video made sense to me. I could help me. Thanks!
@Ninnee6442 жыл бұрын
@@ommsuryavanshi4363 Focus on yourself so hard that you blurr out the existence of these people most of the time. That's what helped me. When you are truly happy and feel engrossed in goals you set for yourself, ride high on the achievement of those goals, these people start to fade away.
@cookiepatrol74314 жыл бұрын
I am a maladaptive daydreamer, and, it's been really hard for me. I always act like everything is fine, I laugh, smile, give compliments to others, while thinking about crazy things nobody would expect me to imagine. Everybody always tells me I have a "perfect" life. But no, nobody knows I am a maladaptive thinker. Everyday I think about going to the therapist, but that isn't easy. I'm praying for all the other maladaptive thinkers, ppl with anxiety, deppression, more. You're not alone.
@selffulfilledbitch76313 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu may god be with uu
@kohjiwada47577 жыл бұрын
I feel like I am overthinking the future. I am afraid of fear. I am afraid of being afraid.
@mar80147 жыл бұрын
yes I was so scared I peed my pants and I am scared to feel so scared. I literally thought my mom was the devil and it scared my butt off.
@aschenbecher28996 жыл бұрын
+Kath Cohn maybe you need to learn how to identify REAL “danger´s” (you can ask people who care for help) and decide if the fear is appropriate / acceptable or not- (mostly it´s not as dramatic as our imagination make´s it up to be) -and it can also be the case that your balance between negative and positive thinking needs to be fixed, so you need to focus a lot more on the positive*, this will be easier when your anxious mind is taken care of (= you are also learning to identify REAL risks/dangers.) *so realy try to search for more positive things of course there is no instead change by tomorrow, but certainly after a feew weeks (make some notes or take a picture if you realy want to change something) :)
@tggahru1466 жыл бұрын
I get the same
@LuisRamos-jg2yt6 жыл бұрын
Is hard to get over the fear but u can do it You are the only one that I have control Over your Self Ask yourself what is fear don’t feed it Fear only exist if you feed it be Strong Meditate - Meditation is key so is Prayers. Be bless if u need some one to Talk to I am here
@andreasleonlandgren30926 жыл бұрын
Marianna Tsemekhman I am afraid 2
@prashanth78355 жыл бұрын
Who else in here can feel there own heart beat ???? My mind so crazy now I'm out of control
@RobertCOVELL5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@vanetzamunoz93014 жыл бұрын
Meee!! I hate this
@snipee-mi5jl4 жыл бұрын
Bro same, I always feel my heart beating idk why
@prashanth78354 жыл бұрын
@@snipee-mi5jl I don't know why ?? But it happens for many causes, anxiety , stress and high pressure , but can't control mind it's hard once you into this shit , it never Goes away no matter what ??
@koizumi65983 жыл бұрын
I've been overthinking of something that's not even essential with my life and thank you for the tips, this is gonna be work for me! 👍🏻
@darlingladymoon4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I overthink a lot and it gives me so much anxiety that my hands just become cold and freeze...
@GGG-tx3vl4 жыл бұрын
Same, my hand and feet will become sweatyy and i cant focus on doing tasks anymore
@darlingladymoon4 жыл бұрын
@@GGG-tx3vl yeah I sometimes can't even concentrate in my studies, it's pretty hard...
@tanzilakavkaz62694 жыл бұрын
Same
@darlingladymoon4 жыл бұрын
@@tanzilakavkaz6269 sad... :(
@ربيعةفاتمة4 жыл бұрын
Even my hands are freezing while reading ur comment sometimes I think that I'm not normal I'm different and now one understands me should I end up my life😭
@flormuerta90618 жыл бұрын
I over think my life way too much and I stress about everything..
@andreahernsaze41447 жыл бұрын
Karen Flowers your. not alone
@azamayenna59467 жыл бұрын
Karen Flowers same here
@keerythegoon65137 жыл бұрын
Azam AYENNA same
@FluffOfFuzz7 жыл бұрын
Karen Flowers Same I overthink so many things idk why 😭
@ggwhhbb18227 жыл бұрын
me too. i know it hurts me . i know its making me miserable and even affecting my confidence and work and life. Why can not I stop it ?
@sobiariaz52115 жыл бұрын
I over think so much that I feel like I am going crazay 🤦♀️
@abdulsalamashkir57175 жыл бұрын
Same
@grozbeats5 жыл бұрын
No you are not. Its just a voice. Nxt time just make a song in your mind...
@mikeoxmall72885 жыл бұрын
honestly.. 😔
@darryljl51385 жыл бұрын
Me too I probably just crazy tho
@sobiariaz52115 жыл бұрын
mike oxmall yeah smh
@raqibshaik74013 жыл бұрын
I overthink about my future , I wanted it to be in a way , a particular order or fashion... , but things are getting so far away from what I imagined.. That's when I thought , wait this is not the right thing .. that I really need to switch off the voices in my head I did... All of a sudden I became empty. , Blank.. And I eagerly waited for the frst thought to arrive.. My thought which came was "And I immediately realised... That I'm in the moment , what to do NOW " Im glad, that the moment I became self aware ,and wanted to completely switch off my mind.. , is the exact moment automatically my mind gave me the right thought for the present ... i believe u don't have to ignore yur mind. Just shape it to work according to you. You know what I did now.. Searched for these videos and became even more aware .
@gamerster3 жыл бұрын
I have noticed when I overthink about something, it makes me stressed and then I become depressed. This video has given me some food for thought on what to do to start to control my overthinking. Thank you so much for making this video.
@krishanthakur70674 жыл бұрын
I am overthinking about my future....I just start imaginating a lot about my future..n this causes headache and pain in my eyes....I just want to stop thinking a lot...n wanna live in present.🤔😭😭😭😭
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I posted a video recently that I feel will help you to take control of your thinking: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpmZh4CqYtpjrdU
@khlingkhling94964 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😭😭😭 Don’t know what to do :( i don’t want to take sleeping pills at all :(
@Unforgettableflower4 жыл бұрын
@@khlingkhling9496 me too i dont know how to sleep anymore i close my eyes but i cant sleep
@hayzenmask42904 жыл бұрын
Im overthinking about past events and how different they could have been especially when im tring to sleep
@clouds75584 жыл бұрын
Samee
@muhammadwitjaksono35847 жыл бұрын
I overthinking about my future and my past. It makes me become anxious everyday.
@a.msayem16637 жыл бұрын
bro live in the moment,,,,,,
@nariko477 жыл бұрын
LONE FALCON That's exactly what I need t do as well =(
@a.msayem16637 жыл бұрын
me too buddy
@Abra_TV7 жыл бұрын
Meditasi bro
@saurabhyadav13216 жыл бұрын
MUHAMMAD WITJAKSONO overthinking made me take bad decision that im regretting after listening everybody advice i again overthink and made bad decision..... I cant eat because overthinking makes me depressed
@anacampos45343 жыл бұрын
Admitting that I am self sabotage and I need to change is why I’m here trying to change this horrible habit. Thank you for this video 🌺❤️
@Sakura.0_0.5 жыл бұрын
I'm overthinking while watching
@anassbarriche99744 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@blazegaming67345 жыл бұрын
Overthinking makes me stress and I just don’t need that in my life right now
@rockrock14095 жыл бұрын
I have psychosis and delusional disorder and haven't done anything in my every day life for a long time but just be on my phone while intense dark times happen at the same time so it really fuck me up to have repeated weird or random thoughts or words or memorys unstil I stabilized my life more by a more routine responsibly and recreational things and take strong meds and also be self adware and repeat be relax be in reality not give a f.. It has made me distant of possible love partners until more stabilized but I know it possible to fix or duct tape if actually go ham on it by the right counter mindset.. Meds.. And more of a fun and heathly and responsibly combo routine
@yeetyeet28065 жыл бұрын
Same I keep overthinking about the worst scenarios and I don’t know how to stop it 😭 I can’t even sleep at night cuz of it.
@eliyajd86495 жыл бұрын
Me too sometimes my mind brings a lot dramas
@samandarrahmatullayev37432 жыл бұрын
@@yeetyeet2806 what about now bro Are you alright now
@will-oc3uq6 жыл бұрын
Whenever I start trying to live in the moment, I start overthinking about the fact that I'm trying to live in the moment
@Xmudrykk5 жыл бұрын
guiguiii lol same
@JackH22544 жыл бұрын
Sooo relatable
@darlingladymoon4 жыл бұрын
Shit... Same
@dansamoylenko91293 жыл бұрын
same wow
@angelinarose7933 жыл бұрын
My overthinking has ruined a lot of friendships in my life and shows the absolute worst self of me. I want to become better. I want to do better. I want to change for the better.
@tenn31277 жыл бұрын
I over think about my love life!!!! I constantly worry about the unknown!!! I guess my past experiences caused this.....😔😒
@tenn31277 жыл бұрын
Rafael Eliassen yes it will
@beepbopbeep28737 жыл бұрын
Rafael Eliassen how do i have almost no thoughts? Whatever thought i have is embarrassing and i say it in my sleep talk..
@nbayoungboy51536 жыл бұрын
Same
@toffee50016 жыл бұрын
literally overthinking about the same shit rn
@lifewithjazw58515 жыл бұрын
tenn 3 SAMEEE
@yashaswidasari70194 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the one who doesn't have control in self thoughts but here I see many of us are suffering from the same problem I wish all of us get out of this hell.
@laramaedelossantos63865 жыл бұрын
I overthink why I live. I overthink of my grades, I always want to have a high grades. I compare myself to others. Please help me
@sobiariaz52115 жыл бұрын
Pray harder!
@jetakota4 жыл бұрын
Try to be little better of yourself than yesterday yourself . Not to be better than others. Small change of yourself . For example , If ur friend read a book once a day and u don't read at all, try to read one sentence of anything any article for one day. So u are better than yesterday . Try to increase slowly by increase it by 2 sentences after 2 months. U will read one book per day eventually . Don't compare yourself with others. Compare yesterday yourself with today yourself
@namjoonslostpassport21454 жыл бұрын
I even overthink of this comment too.. i need help too...
@jetakota4 жыл бұрын
@@namjoonslostpassport2145 always think in 3 steps. 1. Observe the opposite if you see something try to think of the completely opposite output. For example , if you see a person crying , think why person is not crying but not why is he crying . If you see someone rich, think what happen if he is poor. If you get hurt think what if i haven't got hurt. 2. 10,10,10 rule. Think of a result of an action after 10 seconds 10 minutes 10 hours . 3. Often happening Most of the time things about to happen is what always happen . If you smoke you will get cancer . If you work hard you will get better results. So try to think like in above criteria . You will be smarter everyday
@pranitapatar55484 жыл бұрын
@@jetakota i overthink about dieing. Like i overthink so much, i think like do people suicide because of thsi? Will i end up like that? All these things. I have always been a happy child. But overthinking has caught me so baddddd... What do i do?
@paulandreisioson31212 жыл бұрын
I'm overthinking while listening to this. Im so amazed it really fits what is happening to my mind right now. This is a big help.
@sanjanagrover74364 жыл бұрын
When u see others suffering from same problem,, it feels better!! UR NOT ALONE....: ))😀
@jameswalterlakra57963 жыл бұрын
I Know right I feels literally so good that we're all the same That's why KZbin video's comments are therapy for me
@fruitpunchsamurai83 жыл бұрын
@@jameswalterlakra5796 yes same for me
@Monic243 жыл бұрын
🤣
@sadialaghari3 жыл бұрын
Ded 😀 i'm feeling relaxed now
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@jameswalterlakra5796 How are you now? Practical action is needed. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@Notsudeys4 жыл бұрын
I mostly overthink about somewhat embarrassing things I’ve done or about a time I got into an awkward situation with someone, basically anything that has to do with being social with other people.
@priyankabhamu15794 жыл бұрын
I think "troubles gonna follow where I go
@Younggeneration7423 жыл бұрын
The situation am in right now..
@Younggeneration7423 жыл бұрын
I think the same too
@leslie55797 жыл бұрын
the tiniest thing can happen and my anxiety starts to get 10× worse just because the scenarios i make up in my head
@mandymars95416 жыл бұрын
Help if you can maker of vid
@lilib4286 жыл бұрын
leslie me rn
@dschneiderkj526 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'll do something, or text something, regret it... and then if there isn't a reply, or something, I blame myself and I think that they're thinking "That guy is weird and a loser. Who says that?" But in reality, it's not as serious as I think it is. It's usually just a Shrug your shoulders type of thing. But I y overthinking is really hard on me. I need to learn to just "stop caring?" But "not stop caring" at the same time? I guess just not let it get to me on a personal level.
@xaleximeisterx47475 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, same!
@dean_cadancex62773 жыл бұрын
The other different pain is that when you're finally happy about something, your mind immediately tells you to stop being too happy or the sadness that would overtake will hurt you so much. Which me ending up having no happiness anymore, I don't know what else to say because I have ALOT in mind that I don't like to think about yet it stays there...
@ohlalalalla83244 жыл бұрын
Its hard that you can't even explain whats in your mind that keeps bugging you from day and night
@sUxz.xx003 жыл бұрын
Like ye and it's GETTING REALLY ANNOYING I can't stand it anymore 😭
@c3rys._.074 жыл бұрын
I can't sleep because of it! My dad has cancer and I feel like I'm going to lose him and always imagine his funeral.. This makes me cry every night x
@pranjalvaity.4064 жыл бұрын
Hello brother my dad is ill and depressed, I imagine a lot of scenarios just like you do. But I end the though saying to myself that he will go to place better than this earth soon and won't live as miserably as he is living now. Life is unpredictable and tough brother, *Everyone who takes birth has to die someday* That's what my father says every now and then. So not stress about the things you can't control
@wajeehanoor62924 жыл бұрын
omg😞
@yuppamungudamalie7254 жыл бұрын
No matter the situation , also put yourself together and pray to God,he always works in a different way we can not see . but many people don't believe in God .
@davidstoma4 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you all mean. Keep trying to figure it out. Meditation or sitting quietly in a room by yourself even for just 5 minutes seems to help
@dwayneratemo47584 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@daviengodfrey34004 жыл бұрын
i'm trying soo hard to focus on the video but my anxiety say: no way mr
@mqdisvn4 жыл бұрын
exactly
@mqdisvn3 жыл бұрын
@@hrvojestilin6256 yes nothing works :(
@mqdisvn3 жыл бұрын
@@hrvojestilin6256 aww thank uu
@salehsaleh5773 Жыл бұрын
Found this video at the right time. I've been stuck in the train of negative thinking for years now and speaking from long term experience, Yes, overthinking can drive you crazy and really mess up your whole entire life. I'm currently starting to be aware of all my negative thoughts and trying my best to keep my head staright and focus on what really matters. Stay Present Everyone ❤️👊🏼
@rohan113 жыл бұрын
I literally started thinking when he said "You have to accept yourself". All of my own insecurities started crossing my mind and I went on and on until the video ended😣 So I had to rewatch the video 🙂
@lamekkeren3 жыл бұрын
Don’t accept bad things
@apriltherese212 жыл бұрын
Good Lord me too
@rishotnongkhlaw61133 жыл бұрын
Because of my overthinking, I can't enjoy life,I want to be excited again about life like when I was a kid, but overthinking has prevented me from doing that and has also prevented me from living in the present and I'm constantly living in the past and future *This Is A Torture* !
@yrg.jamari82603 жыл бұрын
this is my case also!
@AlexPloscar3 жыл бұрын
Me too, bro. But keep fighting! Fake it till you make it ❤️💪🏼
@rishotnongkhlaw61133 жыл бұрын
@@AlexPloscar thanks bro
@technologyinnovations50573 жыл бұрын
Sadly, 100% relate to this :( I really hope that it will get better for you and everyone else eventually one day in the future 🥺🙏
@xoniye35732 жыл бұрын
@@technologyinnovations5057 I miss the days with my friends no worries or anything. It's beautiful to think about. ever since covid came everything has been ruined, I wish i can be the same again
@evelyn21544 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad about overthinking that I just wish I could stop because at this point I just wanna cry bc I can’t do anything
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
This video might help you a bit more actually: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rXivmouiZbtmnKM
@manvimukati9364 жыл бұрын
Same happens with me😥
@KamiiSola4 жыл бұрын
Same
@tblmoon4 жыл бұрын
Samee
@amara._.59754 жыл бұрын
Same
@powerjolt72152 жыл бұрын
Extreme overthinker here, seeking to help myself and rid my overthinking mind of the negative thoughts that I for a fact know aren't all real and tend to be an inflation of a nonexistent problem. I haven't figured out how, but what I do know is that you can control your thinking. You absolutely need to focus on what you're currently doing. I find that if I focus on exercise, or I focus on my sport, my drawing, my eating.. I don't overthink and I especially don't think negatively. I just focus on what I'm doing at that moment. Even better if I can do any of these things with other people (which is why team sports are so effective for me) But the question begs, what if I can't do anything? What if I'm just about to sleep and all the ideas come flying or I'm really bored and have nothing to do.. What then? Personally... I haven't figured this one out myself... What I try to do at least is think of a scenario. Make my own script where I make my own choices... and then I found that things can still go haywire, especially if I go a little too out of character (I'm picturing myself how I was and how I wanna be again and it feels so different from the shell of a person I am now, that it feels too fake...) That's when I decided to create a new character. A person like me, but not me. Give him some of my characteristics and give him characteristics I desire. For example, now I wanna be better at school, achieve more, but I Procrastinate... I'm a hard worker but I can't find myself engaging as much anymore... Might be burnout... Now I tamper with that character trait. I make it less for him. So now he procrastinates less than I do, couple that with me working hard when I want to and he can actually find himself doing the work and doing better at school. It's a simple concept, but I make him feel so much like myself, while not being me, that I can place myself in his shoes. If it was me, it would feel like a lie, but seeing as it's a replication... I feel I could be this guy. Could have his confidence and his ability to focus. That helps me to actively be more like him. See the world in his perspective and sooner or later I'll adapt to be like him then I'll just make someone newer and better. Because like it has been said: "There will always be someone better than you" at anything. I can be the best pilot, but I won't be the best sailor. I've went on for long enough. While no one may read this, that wasn't the point of the comment. For me the point was to get the thoughts out of my head and breathe. I mean that's another way to stop overthinking. Stop keeping your thoughts to yourself. Let them out, let them breathe and after you have done that, breathe yourself.
@mezzy10637 жыл бұрын
I overthink about how my future will be. I overthink about what people think of me and who i trust. I overthink what girls think of me. I overthink about my appearance. I overthink about how my school life is super bad and how behind I am. I overthink about being lazy which makes me more lazy.
@mar80147 жыл бұрын
sounds like my brain. Omg i think about the lazy thing a lot and I feel selfish a lot bc i don't help ppl
@decemberose7 жыл бұрын
Dude that's my mind right there
@thecomplexer39676 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same brother hope we all feel better soon 😔
@guyvaknin166 жыл бұрын
Well buddy, thats called under-thinking then. U are unconsiosly rethinking the same patters, without being led to a specific conclusion, or prodoctive understandings. I highly suggest u to hear the podcast -Think and Grow - strategies to deal with overthinking' (i think his name is Rubin). It will shift ur perspective about thoughts :)
@puyearprod.9296 жыл бұрын
Mezzy same. I can relate to all that.
@sinchandasgupta19788 жыл бұрын
over thinking is killing me.. i can't focus :"|
@Mythiqoeatsbreadladdd7 жыл бұрын
Sinchan Dasgupta same here, I can't focus on anything for 5 minutes without a stupid negative thought about what might happen in the future and as soon as I get one of those thoughts my energy, motivation and ability to care about anything vanishes and I don't know how to get rid off it.
@edmondlonnergan3957 жыл бұрын
Gerbz
@sudheerkumar58667 жыл бұрын
hi im facing the same problem. If you got the solution please reply me or I will reply you
@jasianazar65637 жыл бұрын
Same problem
@adarshhota6887 жыл бұрын
Same
@kazion48514 жыл бұрын
I feel depressed because i haven't got much of a social life no friends no partner and I'm overthinking of all the things that other people have whilst I'm alone. I dont want to be alone forever but I feel scared that I will be.
@Niko-sg5bq4 жыл бұрын
Playstation king i know that feeling man. I just broke up with my girl too.. I dont have a real friend only people i know ad iam rather alone.. bc there are no many real friends. But trust me. People come and go. Just chill and you time will come😄
@marklee13764 жыл бұрын
Same here too😔
@tenejul82694 жыл бұрын
I was like that too and still am it was a non stop for like 2 years and I got really depressed lost so many friends, and no motivation for school, and I just wanted to give up. But I started working out and it felt much better, and I was spending a lot of time alone, but socializing in the internet. So now its much better. But remember just work out and eat healthy u will be ok trust.m! Stay strong! I love you all!
@KayionisHigherSelf3 жыл бұрын
I understand it’s hard I just talk to hotlines and try Try my best to control it u overthink a lot any pain that I go through I look up stuff then over think like if I have it it’s just a lot I also suffer from being alone forever to I wish someone can hear me our I can talk to someone about something that’s why I say the hotlines can help.
@Tinkerツ3 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling exactly the same right now. 😞😞😭😖
@Billsony3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much man I’ve been overthinking about my girl and just our whole situation so much, and it is automatically cured when I’m with her but as soon as I leave I can’t get her out of my head. . . But I really like this girl and I just gotta get out of my head and I’m so thankful for this video 🖤✨
@yc75073 жыл бұрын
I'm seventeen years old and my application for medicine has been rejected from all four universities, lockdown has really fucked my learning up and I don't know what my A level results will be since exams are cancelled and I find studying very difficult lately due to a constant feeling of panic. I have really high expectations of myself and I don't want to let my family down. I also wanted to go to a university in London because the change seemed exciting but that seems impossible now lmao. Strangely, I've found that listening to songs by BTS has really helped me; their lyrics are very comforting and relatable and it gives my mind something to focus on as I read the translations from Korean. Sorry for the brain dump if you're reading this; I just wanted to get my thoughts out and its better than screaming into a void.
@ervin71243 жыл бұрын
Dang you’re going through a lot, But I promise you’re not alone I’m sending my prayers to you hope things Get better!!🖤
@richjoyv.jereza69913 жыл бұрын
I don't know you but I know you could do it if you badly want it. I'll pray for you and stay strong and healthy
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
YC, How are you now? Practical action is needed. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes and prayers--Counsellor.
@HopeForTheHighway4 жыл бұрын
I just want to let you guys know that if you ever need a friend or just someone you want to talk to. I will always be all ears. You are strong, kind and beautiful. Please love yourself
@RafaelEliassen4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I really appreciate that.
@lost40593 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would search for a video like this but I did today:( and oops there are many who are already like me... I hope everyone will be fine ASAP Sending love and hugs to every single person who will come across my comment🤗💛
@elijahfooty20073 жыл бұрын
I used to overthink soooo much but what made lose those thoughts that were killing me in the inside and affecting me for around 2 to 3 months were to talk to someone u trust and ask for advice because that's what I did and I felt so much better at the end and I haven't overthinked since that day.
@jaradfraser80058 жыл бұрын
As soon as you said "Not getting caught up by the noise in your head" I thought yeah, that's me.I do walk around not paying attention to things around me, i am too focused on what is going on inside my head. This is especially bad when i am walking around with my significant other or my friends/family, but when you say "Pay attention to you environment" I don't know how to, i do try, i try really hard, but i just keep relapsing back to being stuck in my own head, i can't focus on watching a video or doing what i normally enjoy because i just keep thinking over and over again and it never stops. I have tried meditation and i have been meditating for 2 days now, do i really have to meditate for months to start feeling like i have control over my mind? I need constant reassurance and when i don't get it, i get into a really bad place, this is taking a toll on my relationship with my significant other. Your videos are amazing, thank you for being you, you are helping so many people and i cant not get inspired by you!
@mariaveronica95547 жыл бұрын
Jarad Fraser I feel the exact same way.
@aqua34187 жыл бұрын
Consistency is the key. Making the decision to continue to push every day, regardless how you feel or what you see. Eventually after months of continual effort you start to see some real results. Rome was not built in a day, so don't give up if you seemingly fail once. Failure is proof that you're trying, so if you're not failing somewhere in your life, THEN you should be scared. Don't even look at your hotel, just focus on each small step you have to take to get there, and step by step, you'll win.
@Az-_3 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with anxiety, overthinking, stress and ADHD all my life, started practicing meditation, full awareness and started overthinking about my issues and how I overthink. But recently I've had many realizations and realized I'm not my thoughts and I do have power over my mind and body. Thank you. Thank you for helping me clarify and control my brain. Sincerely one of the people that let my issues steer me into chaos.
@quandledingle75223 жыл бұрын
Same
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
A zero, To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Let change happen. When taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes. Senior Counsellor.
@angiesajulga84962 жыл бұрын
i am also struggling with overthinking,anxiety and ,stress.i dont know how to handle it I feel lonely and betrayed.nobody understand me.I am keeping it by myself😔😔😔
@anand__3462 жыл бұрын
@@angiesajulga8496 can I have your wtsp
@lalainaenriquez70358 жыл бұрын
my friends make me feel so conscious and insecure about myself. i really want to let go of them and find friends that will support me. its hard because im forced to interact with them on a daily basis. i cant bear it anymore. their words affect me too much and they know it. they use it to hurt me. i dont want to be with them anymore. i try not to care but i care too much. its hard. but im thankful i found this video it really really helps.
@LifeChangingPicks7 жыл бұрын
Jhaila Ina Enriquez sometimes you just gotta make that move and just cut them off they'll understand and maybe change there's ways for you to comeback and fw them again
@sulagnadeb2747 жыл бұрын
Jhaila Ina Enriquez Most of us have been through this, you know. I myself have. I chose to let go of them, literally block them and be alone. You have to not be afraid of being alone. Now i'm blessed with a wonderful group of supportive, loving, caring friends. Believe me, you're better off alone than with someone who hurts you.
@roschphilipfernandez26187 жыл бұрын
they are not really truly your friends...I have the same issue and I can tell you now, walking away or staying away from such people can really help. If you continue to stay with them you will just get worse, more sad and more of a target to attacks.
@mayanasir29617 жыл бұрын
Jhaila Ina Enriquez how is everything now?
@aqua34187 жыл бұрын
Those are not friends. Hope everything is better for you now
@leespencermusic24533 жыл бұрын
Overthinking just destroys . I hate it !! I’m so happy, but keep making myself feel sad and useless with my thoughts . I’m glad I’m not alone !