How to Stop Overthinking Everything | The QUICKEST Way!

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Rafael Eliassen

Rafael Eliassen

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@JibrailMusic
@JibrailMusic 3 жыл бұрын
One of my overthinking problems is I always imagine fake scenarios until it ended up hurting my own feelings.
@MissUnkn0wn
@MissUnkn0wn 3 жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it, I be thinking the worst and end up hurting me
@ese_c0nejo_malo929
@ese_c0nejo_malo929 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I feel the same way about this to🤦🏽‍♂️😭
@RazFiveM
@RazFiveM 3 жыл бұрын
Dude Like every nigh when i was 12 i was like always overthinking i just do like i look at the mirror and say no bad day is gonna stop me from achieving my dream think of Positive And now look at me Graduating College with an honor
@sufferplenty
@sufferplenty 3 жыл бұрын
Glad there’s other people that struggle with this, I break my own heart everyday from overthinking and it’s starting to hurt way too much
@biocaringbynour
@biocaringbynour 3 жыл бұрын
This is literally what’s happening to me and what’s giving me all this anxiety and put me under pressure
@keshav2706
@keshav2706 5 жыл бұрын
The ones struggling with overthinking and anxiety...I pray it fades forever and we all live happily...Pray for me too❤
@darryljl5138
@darryljl5138 5 жыл бұрын
I will bro I'm glad someone else really cares for the well being of others ❤
@nampabin2356
@nampabin2356 5 жыл бұрын
Thnk u n i am grateful to see ur comment
@ibtisamsiddiqui3036
@ibtisamsiddiqui3036 5 жыл бұрын
Ammen
@shaukatmadhani8447
@shaukatmadhani8447 4 жыл бұрын
Allah bless you
@simonking6281
@simonking6281 4 жыл бұрын
Your in my prayers man.
@minnesotaballer946
@minnesotaballer946 5 жыл бұрын
I overthink so much that sometimes I don’t even know how to explain my thoughts
@jamboy1843
@jamboy1843 5 жыл бұрын
You're not alone, stay in it... Watch and progress your thoughts
@kados1246
@kados1246 5 жыл бұрын
I was walking down the road overthinking then walked in to a post then started Overthinking about people seeing me walking in to the post which resulted in me overthinking about my overthinking then I walked in to another post then I walked in front of a car and died then made this KZbin comment
@Xmudrykk
@Xmudrykk 5 жыл бұрын
Minnesota Baller exactly
@Xmudrykk
@Xmudrykk 5 жыл бұрын
If I do explain my thoughts ppl will say I have mental issues and I think I don’t o think it’s just my anxiety
@AC-xl8sq
@AC-xl8sq 4 жыл бұрын
yea and i often overthink those i say to people and i just can’t help but to overthink and it’s become my habit
@dean_cadancex6277
@dean_cadancex6277 3 жыл бұрын
What hurts the most is that when you're finally happy, your mind will immediately think that "the happiness won't last long and you will be sad right after so DON'T be too happy or it'll hurt you more" and straight up imagining negative thoughts and stuffs to change your mood really fast.
@karamelcarmedia6930
@karamelcarmedia6930 3 жыл бұрын
That happens to me too
@dumacele6724
@dumacele6724 3 жыл бұрын
💔i think this is what hurts most about the the whole overthinking and anxiety problem. nearly ruined my hard earned job interview today..it has ruined many things for me;friendships,relationships,opportunities,etc😟,,like,,can one just have peace and be present just for a month,week,day,hour,,minute😟😟🙆🏾‍♂️
@offbxrry4577
@offbxrry4577 3 жыл бұрын
i hate this
@angelonieto4208
@angelonieto4208 3 жыл бұрын
This happens to me which is the reason why I searched this video up
@dantixx4926
@dantixx4926 3 жыл бұрын
What did you do to stop these thoughts?
@lucianaeiraldi2594
@lucianaeiraldi2594 4 жыл бұрын
overthinking tortures me. i simply can’t keep living like this it’s horrendous, i cry and think about anything for hours even if it’s insanely stupid.
@marilougushwa8270
@marilougushwa8270 3 жыл бұрын
God Bless
@itzzz.zahra_
@itzzz.zahra_ 3 жыл бұрын
same I feel your pain.
@chcmntmrnt
@chcmntmrnt 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😭
@netflakespandemica1577
@netflakespandemica1577 3 жыл бұрын
Yasss huhu
@jameswalterlakra5796
@jameswalterlakra5796 3 жыл бұрын
You all Making me feel so good about myself Finally I feel I'm not alone, literally millions of people suffer from this. To be honest it feels good not to be the only one. And trust me on this one - I can literally feel the pain you all do cause I've been dealing with this all my life , I'm still dealing but reading comments like this is therapy for me. Hope we'll get better mental health ❤️ We are all together guys It's completely normal
@madebyluv
@madebyluv 3 жыл бұрын
Don't believe everything your mind tells you - best advice ever.
@adamgfx9229
@adamgfx9229 3 жыл бұрын
I love you, that one sentence has made me feel so much better god bless ❤️
@madebyluv
@madebyluv 3 жыл бұрын
@@adamgfx9229 sending hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lux2633
@lux2633 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊. Now I can finally sleep.
@pratimarai2684
@pratimarai2684 3 жыл бұрын
Yes mam same things happen with me . Myself Anand and i read in class 8th and i am overthinking from recent days very much and i cabt eat and sleep properly i am too tensed about my future and i want to benormal back can u plz help to cure it😭😭🙏🙏
@itz_yaboi_uglyugly8625
@itz_yaboi_uglyugly8625 3 жыл бұрын
@@pratimarai2684 same
@bryanfurious6100
@bryanfurious6100 4 жыл бұрын
People don’t know the actual pain of overthinking, sometimes I overthink about some very dark stuff to the point I start shaking and sweating and on those moments I’d feel very lonely and depressed af and the cruel part is that u have no control over it.. :( bro life is hard
@kvngalex3461
@kvngalex3461 4 жыл бұрын
Our Pranks i feel u bro😔
@B_R_A_N_D_Y
@B_R_A_N_D_Y 4 жыл бұрын
I know that feeling dude😔
@horatiux8341
@horatiux8341 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro..overthinking right now about dark thoughts 😭😭
@melekjebril7637
@melekjebril7637 4 жыл бұрын
And it got worse with the pandemic
@theminusel5863
@theminusel5863 4 жыл бұрын
am overthinking how to torture humans
@sucross
@sucross 3 жыл бұрын
I love reading people's comments in here , it comforts me to know there are people who feels the same way with me. Thank you so much for sharing what you're being through. I hope everyone can fix this
@dinorichie9645
@dinorichie9645 6 жыл бұрын
I overthink about being lonely, and problems I’m dealing with, social anxiety, depression, being unhappy. Being judged, health. I just want the weight to be lifted off my shoulder and to be at peace
@CarterHayes77
@CarterHayes77 5 жыл бұрын
me too
@catrinwilliams3016
@catrinwilliams3016 5 жыл бұрын
Me too it’s like being in a cage that I made for myself
@INCOGNITO-iq4qy
@INCOGNITO-iq4qy 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@ahmedmasri2866
@ahmedmasri2866 5 жыл бұрын
That's exactly me
@officialyk1703
@officialyk1703 5 жыл бұрын
Dino Richie trust me dawg ☹️
@Adixx0
@Adixx0 6 жыл бұрын
1. Be aware of your thoughts. 2. Be conscious, live in the present. 3. You are not your thoughts Great video, thanks a lot.
@MetaImoon
@MetaImoon 5 жыл бұрын
Adi X I legit just read this comment and it hit me like a bullet man. Thank you.
@lobeyari2933
@lobeyari2933 5 жыл бұрын
OMG THIS IS SO HELPFUL
@iamtheonewjoknocks
@iamtheonewjoknocks 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@funandlala
@funandlala 5 жыл бұрын
I love this comment :')
@Thatguy-yi1rx
@Thatguy-yi1rx 4 жыл бұрын
Bro thx a lot I’m gonna keep repeating this to myself every morning
@begummm11
@begummm11 7 жыл бұрын
I found myself not concantrating on the video because i started to overthink... Damn.
@dionisakissakis2297
@dionisakissakis2297 7 жыл бұрын
shit me too
@AstridAnex
@AstridAnex 7 жыл бұрын
Me too omg
@bushrajahan983
@bushrajahan983 7 жыл бұрын
Begüm Yetişkin same..... 😧
@jannathundal7669
@jannathundal7669 7 жыл бұрын
Ugh!! Me too !!!!
@michelenintricepsi6529
@michelenintricepsi6529 7 жыл бұрын
Ayn hacı abi
@erika5262
@erika5262 3 жыл бұрын
Today my therapist said something interesting: when we don’t understand something we create an answer for it. Hours later I started overthinking about something and realized I was using the mechanism she mentioned and it makes perfect sense. So I just told myself the same thing and it’s like realizing you’re dreaming, suddenly I feel in control again.
@mikail2736
@mikail2736 3 жыл бұрын
Can you elaborate that more. I want to understand
@abdirizak9810
@abdirizak9810 3 жыл бұрын
I think you don't know what you live for, nor do you know who created you so beautifully, you ypu think about your future. you think about your behavior and how to control it. You think the things around you are right and wrong. you Think about people's comments and criticisms. you Ask yourself some questions that you don't need but you have to answer when you feel like a crazy philosopher. I know you sometimes tell you self "I'm honest, good,so why the life bother me ??" If you need to survive this problem first ask yourself "who created me, why he created me?" The One who created you can take away that problem and give you a sweet life,not this bad life in this world because He created you in the first place to have mercy on you if you obey His command. I am a muslim, in the last few years i have been behaving the way you live, meaning i am a muslim and i was forgot my creator that time"god" , i was listening to music, i was doing bad things like "meeting girls". , I tried to solve every problem I encountered normally "alone" but I couldn't. Today I am back and I have returned to Allah and I have found happiness, confidence, courage and power and everything has become easier for me because I always recite the glorious Qur'an "the word of Allah" regularly. please come join us so that you do not miss the sweetness of life in this world and the next that awaits us after death. don't underestimate my point and look for the real islam by forgetting the little idea that "islam is a terrorist". please save yourself i don't need anything from you. Live happily ever after, brother / sister.
@mlaikamalik5053
@mlaikamalik5053 2 жыл бұрын
Wait can you explain that please. I liked what you said but didn't fully underdtand
@jay1k308
@jay1k308 2 жыл бұрын
@@abdirizak9810 this is a powerful message brother thank you for your insight 🙏🏾
@jay1k308
@jay1k308 2 жыл бұрын
@@mlaikamalik5053 from what I got from this is he put his strength in God to make him stronger, he found real purpose
@samueltorrisi2989
@samueltorrisi2989 5 жыл бұрын
The voice in my head never stops 6 months later never thought 500 people would have seen that comment
@Arisuuu685
@Arisuuu685 4 жыл бұрын
Sammmmeeeee
@theminusel5863
@theminusel5863 4 жыл бұрын
schizophrenia
@kianawalters5006
@kianawalters5006 4 жыл бұрын
Wss no matter how much I tell it stop and talk to someone it comes backs right after when I think I am done with it but I don't think I am dealing with anxiety
@Arisuuu685
@Arisuuu685 4 жыл бұрын
@@kianawalters5006 you know what you need to forget about it i had the same problem but now it never came back like do some activities such as drawing sports try to cook its gonna be hard at first but just try also since i listened to the quran trust me i think u r not muslim but just try it like whenever u r going to sleep listen to it its sooo relaxing and nobody and nothing helped me better than that
@kianawalters5006
@kianawalters5006 4 жыл бұрын
@@Arisuuu685 thank you so much I don't really overthink .I realized it only happens when im alone so I keep active and it hasn't really came back like dat but I am Barbadian and a Christian 🙂
@whiazelyu271
@whiazelyu271 4 жыл бұрын
FOR EVERYBODY WHO’S OVERTHINKING JUST LIKE ME, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS TOGETHER🥺❤️
@officialjeramy
@officialjeramy 4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@rozhb.abdullah1785
@rozhb.abdullah1785 4 жыл бұрын
💕💕
@smperera
@smperera 4 жыл бұрын
@Dayna Dvorkin dont worry its temporary feeling trust yourself you are a strong person
@ربيعةفاتمة
@ربيعةفاتمة 4 жыл бұрын
When will we get through this I can't live now
@smperera
@smperera 4 жыл бұрын
@@ربيعةفاتمة there are different ways for different people. So if u cant find the way please get advise from a professional. I am not professional but I can tell you there is a way. For now try to concentrate and be active, do something you like.
@healthylife8991
@healthylife8991 6 жыл бұрын
Over thinking is just like a slow poison. It will destroy all your hard work.and life.
@shivanshuraj7175
@shivanshuraj7175 6 жыл бұрын
Overthinking about anyone...it almost kill you from inside.one side you dont want to stop thinking and on other hand you know you are wasting time ..overthinking its too hard to get out"
@pokemonemeraldlover
@pokemonemeraldlover 6 жыл бұрын
Shivanshu Raj How do you do it
@pokemonemeraldlover
@pokemonemeraldlover 6 жыл бұрын
Cedie Gaming Its been helping for me to not be scared of the thoughts :) I know im alright and life goes on
@donaldoduckus6566
@donaldoduckus6566 6 жыл бұрын
Yes that is true if you overthink way too much then you can focus on even the most minute details and it could be really distracting.
@kg-wq2ue
@kg-wq2ue 6 жыл бұрын
@@pokemonemeraldlover yeah 👍
@marcusatm
@marcusatm 3 жыл бұрын
1. Keep a journal 2. Meditate: control your mind with discipline 3. Be self aware Be present in the moment 4. Force your mind to engage 🧠 5. Separate your thoughts from yourself: use your thinking to help you. Ask yourself: how can you change your situation to help you. Every problem has a solution!
@ep1c.
@ep1c. 2 жыл бұрын
just marking this comment
@Cinsear
@Cinsear 4 жыл бұрын
Is it me or does anybody else feels emotional reading the comments about people who share a similar struggle with you? 🤦🏾‍♂️😔
@yellowdds5547
@yellowdds5547 4 жыл бұрын
specially this quarantine season, it has a big impact in our mental health
@x0katiexo00
@x0katiexo00 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not ready to go back to school because my anxiety is way worse 😣
@Unforgettableflower
@Unforgettableflower 4 жыл бұрын
@@x0katiexo00 i wish i can go to school cuz i cant sleep at night i overthink too much
@deadsoul1463
@deadsoul1463 4 жыл бұрын
@@yellowdds5547 quarrentine is helping
@yellowdds5547
@yellowdds5547 4 жыл бұрын
@@deadsoul1463 quarantine helps to prevent the spread of the virus, yeah. but were talking about mental health issue here bro. the mental health issue cause by isolation
@oldaccoutn7544
@oldaccoutn7544 4 жыл бұрын
I overthink about my past so much it’s frustrating and depressing I really think I am a bad person because I overthink every mistake I’ve EVER made. I really can’t stop
@dahranisahak7349
@dahranisahak7349 4 жыл бұрын
That’s so me. I overthink about what the person say and tell my self that they did that to hurt me. And then I don’t talk to them or get angry white them that’s soo frustrating 😢
@mmt1575
@mmt1575 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@danaeannbabyface
@danaeannbabyface 4 жыл бұрын
I do this sometimes... it got better when i started to accept that im human and will make mistakes.... mistakes are how u grow and gain wisdom.... be kinder to yourself ... practice it ... it will get better ... at least it did for me ... takes time tho
@arieelloo
@arieelloo 4 жыл бұрын
I'm with you, I have some advice for you : "the bad part it's you can't undone the past, the good part it's you can learn from it, and the actually happen it's nobody care about us and our mistake, let it flow like a damn't river"
@NinoKhukhu
@NinoKhukhu 4 жыл бұрын
I even made some kind of list of my mistakes and when I find out about new one, I am like: OH, I made it again! Like it is an achievement, there are some levels and you can never complete it
@razer0072073
@razer0072073 4 жыл бұрын
I constantly think people are judging me
@hajardesu4070
@hajardesu4070 4 жыл бұрын
I'm just like u, soo much like u ...even if it's absolutely the opposite i always feel unwanted and nobody like me, nobody cares about me , i m done with these negative thoughts ....... Feeling unwanted is the most hurtful feeling ever
@budah3995
@budah3995 4 жыл бұрын
I think all the time of being scared to go into water even fresh lakes I think there’s always something that will kill me and I can’t control it if I try to swallow something and it doesn’t go down right away I get anxiety and start panicking and then I can’t swallow anything Bc I overthink it way too much and always thinking I’m going to die.
@gracek5154
@gracek5154 4 жыл бұрын
heyy. u know I used to feel the same way, and one thing I did that changed my whole mindset on this is thinking "yeah I look good, I don't blame them for looking. my outfit is super nice" everytime I go out, I would feel confident in what I'm wearing, and that would change my whole perspective on things. because know its hard, but you shouldn't care about what other ppl think of u. if you internally feel good, that radiates, and other ppl see that confidence too. I hope that helps:)
@hajardesu4070
@hajardesu4070 4 жыл бұрын
@@gracek5154 yeaaaa exactly but u know sometimes it's hard to think like this bc when we are in th situation of feeling unwanted ur mind automatically stop thinking positively and he gives u only negative thoughts and it's rly rly hard t control them but th important thing is to try and never let these fucking thoughts beats u and control u ......i liked wht u wrote btw
@ramu992
@ramu992 4 жыл бұрын
Yo, people are too busy with their own lives, they don't care abt u for more than few minutes.
@fredsternberg1333
@fredsternberg1333 3 жыл бұрын
I’m struggling with past decisions, which my mind sees as mistakes and then I ruminate about the mistakes. Your video is very helpful and I need to implement the lessons
@bferfolja
@bferfolja 3 жыл бұрын
Same, here. Most of them probably even aren't mistakes, but i imagine scenarios where they are mistakes to be true. If that makes sense... This video made me realize that sometimes you just need to literally cut the link between yourself and the past. This video helped me.
@kotoamatsukami2582
@kotoamatsukami2582 2 жыл бұрын
@@bferfolja ik bro its so fkin hard, it literally kills u inside all this overthinking I cant do it anymore 😪
@V4MP1EEE
@V4MP1EEE 2 жыл бұрын
Same, I made some pretty crappy decisions in the past, but all we can do is keep trying to fix them! Dont let your mind discourage you, we will get through this no matter what your mind says!
@souravramesh4094
@souravramesh4094 2 жыл бұрын
Same prob:(
@jack13moore
@jack13moore 2 жыл бұрын
Same here I made one last week still beating myself up now..
@X1R-EZ
@X1R-EZ 3 жыл бұрын
Let's be honest... You searched for this "How to stop overthinking" Hope you get better
@ozgurdeniz_657
@ozgurdeniz_657 3 жыл бұрын
ahaha
@pipobex
@pipobex 3 жыл бұрын
Obviously??
@captainaryan26
@captainaryan26 3 жыл бұрын
nah, I just searched 'overthinking'
@sllk2914
@sllk2914 3 жыл бұрын
I did for my friend actually
@jagjag1202
@jagjag1202 3 жыл бұрын
Nah I got in my recommended
@kaycee6724
@kaycee6724 4 жыл бұрын
I overthink life. I overthink about everything i do and say. I think so much it messes up my day. I think about life and why i live it. People want everything and i wonder should i give it. I think and think and do nothing more. I think about the past and who i was before. But i forgive myself for every mistake. I'm just gonna breath and have a brake. I'm praying for all of you so please pray for me. What the future holds we'll wait and see.❤️
@marklee1376
@marklee1376 4 жыл бұрын
Kaycee your not alone....always pray to GOD🙏
@KamiiSola
@KamiiSola 4 жыл бұрын
Same..
@eymme5571
@eymme5571 4 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@smperera
@smperera 3 жыл бұрын
"Therapy in a Nutshell" this youtube channel will definitely help you
@cinnamongrader6608
@cinnamongrader6608 3 жыл бұрын
*Chloe Temari* I’m the same as you, it’s terrifying. Especially when your overthinking gets you nowhere. But I believe in you as much a I believe in me. Let’s do this and change our future for the better!
@axrasa-3945
@axrasa-3945 4 жыл бұрын
"Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today is not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!"
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, and happy to help :)
@sarahsarahgreat
@sarahsarahgreat 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.I will always remember ur message.
@dankcam9144
@dankcam9144 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Man U helped me alot
@axrasa-3945
@axrasa-3945 4 жыл бұрын
@@dankcam9144 ​ No problem bro :))
@Lovekai888
@Lovekai888 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u much luv 🙏🏽🤍
@marisolimperial351
@marisolimperial351 2 жыл бұрын
I've been overthinking my future a lot. But I realize it's taking a toll on me. I've been getting anxiety. I sometimes feel that my heart is going to burst anytime. Thank you for this video. I hope to gain such courage to fight with my thoughts.
@nsdhanush1086
@nsdhanush1086 4 жыл бұрын
i overthink about person who does'nt even care me.
@tcfbryan4566
@tcfbryan4566 4 жыл бұрын
NS DHANUSH same
@mrcovett6664
@mrcovett6664 4 жыл бұрын
try this video brother ''how to not give a fuck''..because in reality you because what you think
@rgl_disobey2961
@rgl_disobey2961 4 жыл бұрын
I’m here to tell you two things get up and realize your worth a lot more than that person💯
@angelitatirtasemita2371
@angelitatirtasemita2371 4 жыл бұрын
yea I have the same problem. and it has been years,.. i feel insane!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/pnXNnXmna9-HgMk
@muhammad_yunoOs
@muhammad_yunoOs 4 жыл бұрын
Same me also have problem
@claudy6145
@claudy6145 5 жыл бұрын
I always overthink about 1)embarassing shit I did in the past,in a way that makes me end up thinking this is the only way people rember me 2)everything I do,especially when other people are involved (it eventually ended up with me being really scared of social interactions to a point where I’m not capable of making new friends cause I’m too scared I will mess everything up) 2)my lonliness
@mikeoxmall7288
@mikeoxmall7288 5 жыл бұрын
everything u said describes me too.. i cant even get into relationships because i always overthink EVERYTHING. like ik it’s normal for people to overthink, but for me it’s always, non stop overthinking about every little situation/scenario. story of my life. and yeah i think soon it’s gonna be even friendships that i won’t be able to have bc i just overthink and it’ll just go down the drain. im pretty sure i have super bad social anxiety so like i can’t ever really talk to people that well/hold a convo bc in my head there will be non stop thoughts like what i’m supposed to say, how they’ll react, etc. also mb for typing this whole ass essay to ur comment lol, just makes me feel less sad/ hopeless that i’m not the only one. i hope your overthinking gets better over time 🙂
@claudy6145
@claudy6145 5 жыл бұрын
mike oxmall I completely feel you,it sucks. And I think I have social anxiety too. I’ll start terapy soon,so lets see if I find out. Anyways,thanks for replying,you really made me feel understood✨hope we can both find our way out of this!
@peterbrako1612
@peterbrako1612 5 жыл бұрын
thottie good thing is u have enough time to let them see u for the great person u wanna become. Still time bro still time. Just make a positive change for yourself
@claudy6145
@claudy6145 5 жыл бұрын
Peter Brako this made me feel eased,thanks for bringing good energy in. Really appreciated.
@adeelahmad9875
@adeelahmad9875 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@prowarrior0155
@prowarrior0155 4 жыл бұрын
I really hope this overthinking stops. It’s so exhausting, depressing and the anxiety is too much... 😢🙏💯
@mrcovett6664
@mrcovett6664 4 жыл бұрын
try this video ''how to not give a fuck'' because you real become what you think bro
@nepsyjunkie6459
@nepsyjunkie6459 4 жыл бұрын
Same here 😥
@edidi5717
@edidi5717 4 жыл бұрын
its been nearly half a year, how are you doing now?
@tenejul8269
@tenejul8269 4 жыл бұрын
I was like that too and still am it was a non stop for like 2 years and I got really depressed lost so many friends, and no motivation for school, and I just wanted to give up. But I started working out and it felt much better, and I was spending a lot of time alone, but socializing in the internet. So now its much better. But remember just work out and eat healthy u will be ok trust.m! Stay strong! I love you all!
@1991civiclx
@1991civiclx 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@V4MP1EEE
@V4MP1EEE 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who's struggling with past decisions, I overthink way too much and its been affecting my life ever since I was 7. All we can do is not let our minds discourage us! Keep trying, your strong and you will get through this!
@ryanmerkle5868
@ryanmerkle5868 5 жыл бұрын
For me: over thinking is the root of MY anxiety
@sushanthme7271
@sushanthme7271 5 жыл бұрын
may be bcoz of overthinking u got anxiety..
@christinagreaves7932
@christinagreaves7932 5 жыл бұрын
Me too x
@confiance1492
@confiance1492 5 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Nelcomarproductions
@Nelcomarproductions 5 жыл бұрын
Same.
@hesoyammy9438
@hesoyammy9438 5 жыл бұрын
Of course. Anxiety is conspiracy theories about yourself.
@Scry999
@Scry999 8 жыл бұрын
I overthink on how I talk with people, more specifically how they will react and what they will say. I have social anxiety :(
@Scry999
@Scry999 8 жыл бұрын
***** Yea, the solution is right there.
@atinybear_4533
@atinybear_4533 8 жыл бұрын
Hi. Me too :(
@hanif2829
@hanif2829 8 жыл бұрын
revurts wow u just find the perfect name for my anxiety, yesss mee too, i have social anxiety. thinking what people might think of me if i do this or that, what if they look down on me, what if i hurt their feelings, what if they dont respect me, do i do the right thing in social events, afraid meeting people, and so on. scary voices in head keep telling me to just chill and sleep in my house but it holds me back from living my life to the fullest. hope your anxiety gets better now :)))
@MyPinkJelly
@MyPinkJelly 8 жыл бұрын
Wow me too!
@kichz.7694
@kichz.7694 7 жыл бұрын
revurts me as well
@oopsidaisys
@oopsidaisys 4 жыл бұрын
me: *watching this* also me: *still overthinking anyway*
@gabrielm6422
@gabrielm6422 4 жыл бұрын
Chewing gum reduces overthinking
@user-tv8pr6ij9z
@user-tv8pr6ij9z 4 жыл бұрын
Me im thinking about my death
@shroom2363
@shroom2363 4 жыл бұрын
It’s okay. You aren’t alone
@YooSheron
@YooSheron 4 жыл бұрын
EVERYTIME I START OVERTHINKING I LISTEN TO NCT U WITHOUT U CHINESE VER IDK WHY
@boystorytreasure
@boystorytreasure 4 жыл бұрын
Ohhh im sorry Jaehyun loves u
@miagallagher4777
@miagallagher4777 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t trust the mind, trust your gut 😌 praying for you, it’s really hard but you’ll get through it
@jakia2020
@jakia2020 3 жыл бұрын
What if your gut tells you the same thing as your mind😔😔
@miagallagher4777
@miagallagher4777 3 жыл бұрын
@@jakia2020 then go with it❤️ I’m an over thinker and I’m trying to learn ways to get Through this but we can do this. We can get through this together
@samandarrahmatullayev3743
@samandarrahmatullayev3743 2 жыл бұрын
Pls help me how to stop it
@acculemency
@acculemency 2 жыл бұрын
idk why this comment makes my situation worse im srry
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 5 жыл бұрын
Seeing a lot of ppl going thru same issues.. not just me alone.. feels a little better but I pray that we all get what we need🙏#staystrong#ameen
@rockrock1409
@rockrock1409 5 жыл бұрын
I have psychosis and delusional disorder and haven't done anything in my every day life for a long time but just be on my phone while intense dark times happen at the same time so it really fuck me up to have repeated weird or random thoughts or words or memorys unstil I stabilized my life more by a more routine responsibly and recreational things and take strong meds and also be self adware and repeat be relax be in reality not give a f.. It has made me distant of possible love partners until more stabilized but I know it possible to fix or duct tape if actually go ham on it by the right counter mindset.. Meds.. And more of a fun and heathly and responsibly combo routine
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 4 жыл бұрын
rock rock stay strong !
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 4 жыл бұрын
Raymond Musgrove 🤞🙏
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 4 жыл бұрын
Motivational Videos thank you!
@syedabbashusaintm1041
@syedabbashusaintm1041 4 жыл бұрын
I overthinking alot these days.... Specially due to lockdown but i have a quote which says " no pain whether physical or mental lasts forever " and by remembering that i become someone with control over my thoughts... And now i am gonnna implement all the things this guy said!!
@ninjapirate123
@ninjapirate123 5 жыл бұрын
I overthink so much that I don't even mention what I'm thinking about. And doing this makes me very nervous. I try my best to stop but overthinking is just a habit that it is very hard to make it go away. Edit: thanks for all the likes. And reply to my comment to tell me how u guys feel about overthinking too
@robhasdriven895
@robhasdriven895 4 жыл бұрын
That might just be ADHD
@ourvoiceisone5174
@ourvoiceisone5174 4 жыл бұрын
Same here...
@eugine8230
@eugine8230 4 жыл бұрын
KK Xie same
@ninjapirate123
@ninjapirate123 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, and when I got bored of thinking the same thing over and over I still keep thinking about it 😭
@leticiadiaz5241
@leticiadiaz5241 4 жыл бұрын
KK Xie that happens to me too sometimes
@bathecat9834
@bathecat9834 5 жыл бұрын
I overthinking about every worst possible outcome of everything even i overthinking i have some disease that i will hurt people or loose my mind
@Wroakz
@Wroakz 5 жыл бұрын
BAT ASS same
@user-dd9qb5qe6c
@user-dd9qb5qe6c 5 жыл бұрын
Don't stress mate. It's called Intrusive thoughts. Everyone has them, it's just the amount of attention that you choose to give to it that makes it different for you. I'm going through the same thing right now. Thoughts aren't reality and I always think that if I pay too much attention to it, I could actually go mentally insane, but you just have to find closure and after doing so, you can try ignore the thoughts now that you've attended to them and you've solved it. You won't see changes immediately but keep trying 🌻✊
@FreeTritYT
@FreeTritYT 5 жыл бұрын
Ok bat ass
@TarunTechEnvironmentCC
@TarunTechEnvironmentCC 5 жыл бұрын
@@user-dd9qb5qe6c did you got any change
@user-dd9qb5qe6c
@user-dd9qb5qe6c 5 жыл бұрын
@@TarunTechEnvironmentCC yeah it's definitely gotten better
@ggg1815
@ggg1815 3 жыл бұрын
I love all of you. We're in this fight together
@mmmm...4888
@mmmm...4888 3 жыл бұрын
Love u too Lets do it together💪💪
@tplayz4020
@tplayz4020 3 жыл бұрын
Love u too Ill say shut up to my brain
@abdirizak9810
@abdirizak9810 3 жыл бұрын
@@mmmm...4888 I think you don't know what you live for, nor do you know who created you so beautifully, you ypu think about your future. you think about your behavior and how to control it. You think the things around you are right and wrong. you Think about people's comments and criticisms. you Ask yourself some questions that you don't need but you have to answer when you feel like a crazy philosopher. I know you sometimes tell you self "I'm honest, good,so why the life bother me ??" If you need to survive this problem first ask yourself "who created me, why he created me?" The One who created you can take away that problem and give you a sweet life,not this bad life in this world because He created you in the first place to have mercy on you if you obey His command. I am a muslim, in the last few years i have been behaving the way you live, meaning i am a muslim and i was forgot my creator that time"god" , i was listening to music, i was doing bad things like "meeting girls". , I tried to solve every problem I encountered normally "alone" but I couldn't. Today I am back and I have returned to Allah and I have found happiness, confidence, courage and power and everything has become easier for me because I always recite the glorious Qur'an "the word of Allah" regularly. please come join us so that you do not miss the sweetness of life in this world and the next that awaits us after death. don't underestimate my point and look for the real islam by forgetting the little idea that "islam is a terrorist". please save yourself i don't need anything from you. Live happily ever after, brother / sister.
@Chinix
@Chinix 6 жыл бұрын
Seeing this video has 700k views makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only one tht overthinks things
@madhuripatil4659
@madhuripatil4659 5 жыл бұрын
Overthinking (mind chatter) is a normal thing and almost everyone does unnecessary overthinking so don't worry about it
@stephenwilliamson2164
@stephenwilliamson2164 5 жыл бұрын
Rockylol I agree! I thought it was just me. I like the solutions
@aysezulalkaradavarc2113
@aysezulalkaradavarc2113 4 жыл бұрын
And it get me worse. Because more people feel like that
@kunzangtseten8565
@kunzangtseten8565 4 жыл бұрын
Buddy your comment made me smile
@fearislive_1
@fearislive_1 4 жыл бұрын
Same here bro I also get relax
@balasubramanianp6361
@balasubramanianp6361 3 жыл бұрын
I feel comfortable cause I'm not the only one. Don't worry guys we will get through this together 💜💜💜
@serenitynik5801
@serenitynik5801 3 жыл бұрын
My sleep gone at 5am... I was not overthinking,but my thinking makes it over... So decided to quit... Because I'm suffering for 2 days... It makes me feel muscle pain in head for few minutes...
@johnlewis5776
@johnlewis5776 3 жыл бұрын
ayy fax bro😩😩😩
@samuri1887
@samuri1887 3 жыл бұрын
How has it been?
@As1997-n1n
@As1997-n1n 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah😊
@jeenachun5271
@jeenachun5271 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@Aikosaan
@Aikosaan 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m trapped in my mind. I overthink mostly everyday and it really gets in the way of everything that i do. It’s easier said than done whenever people say “just don’t think”. Even in my sleep my thoughts would be racing that I couldn’t be able to sleep at all. I just hope I and everyone will find peace in their mind soon❤️
@raman6189
@raman6189 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, only the night part
@midloran
@midloran 3 жыл бұрын
Everyday and every night
@taleeciarichards7395
@taleeciarichards7395 3 жыл бұрын
That’s me
@ruthyjean5292
@ruthyjean5292 3 жыл бұрын
same, how r u now..
@ruthyjean5292
@ruthyjean5292 3 жыл бұрын
@@taleeciarichards7395 how r u now
@shiwalikaushal9718
@shiwalikaushal9718 3 жыл бұрын
I imagine every possible scenario in my head that i don't feel amused or happy when that thing actually happens.😔
@dariocavallari1999
@dariocavallari1999 7 жыл бұрын
if i had a dollar for everytime i overthinked i wouldnt be overthinking anymore
@rahulguitar
@rahulguitar 6 жыл бұрын
Isaak i would be richer than jeff bezos in a week
@bngboy3253
@bngboy3253 6 жыл бұрын
So damn, true!
@annafanakerpan60
@annafanakerpan60 5 жыл бұрын
Made me smile and I couldn't agree with you more... In terms of overthinking with growing trees, I would be standing as tall as a Seqouia tree! Which has been known to grow as tall as you could never imagine possible ;)
@justiny.4891
@justiny.4891 5 жыл бұрын
*Ooffff*
@qw56171
@qw56171 5 жыл бұрын
So you were over-thinking in order to become rich?
@nikkieh1445
@nikkieh1445 6 жыл бұрын
If you watched this by anxiety Then. You are perfect...and I know it's hard.....but it's your life, so stop thinking about everything and everyone else and their reactions and emotions.....Think about yourself for once❤️ I know not everyone has it like this...but I do and needed to get it out❤️
@XVisionary978
@XVisionary978 6 жыл бұрын
I've been hearing people telling me to start thinking about myself the past two weeks...hmm
@lnnation3541
@lnnation3541 6 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@Kevin-14
@Kevin-14 6 жыл бұрын
I'm here for the anxiety and stress But the problem is, that i'm overthinking about myself, my future, my life I don't care about the other people
@hagopvartanian588
@hagopvartanian588 6 жыл бұрын
NikkieH14 well, this is the reason I have been watching this, although it may not seem like I have had a reason to overthink, it’s just the way I process it and I know it’s not very normal but hey I have to fight it instead of constantly ask myself “why did I become this person or start thinking so deeply about things?” It’s the only way to stop my overthinking and I play sports and I know I can be great but sometimes I let the negativity get to me and it’s terrible. If your reading this and you have overthought on a girl, or what your life should or is, or what you are afraid of it turning out to be or you are looking back at the past or anything just remember that if you think in the present day you cannot have fear, watch a video on that and you will understand, stay strong I wish you all luck and chase your dreams nothing is impossible, the only person making it seem impossible or stopping yourself is YOU!
@Dwvvv
@Dwvvv 5 жыл бұрын
@@Kevin-14 same here man, same here!!
@cocinera7408
@cocinera7408 7 жыл бұрын
overthinking ruined me. i can't live happily and JUST relax for today, i'm always thinking about the future and all my thoughts are the negatives
@smendes2004
@smendes2004 7 жыл бұрын
Via Nia future doesnt exist! Only the present is real. The rest is just "mental garbage".
@innazera5929
@innazera5929 7 жыл бұрын
It's the same with me the only difference is that for me it's the past I always think about
@gaffer2315
@gaffer2315 6 жыл бұрын
Same with me bro
@arijithazra9636
@arijithazra9636 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too
@basaktoksoy4256
@basaktoksoy4256 6 жыл бұрын
Silvia Mendes This actually helped so thanks. 🙏
@siddharth_0771
@siddharth_0771 3 жыл бұрын
Tip : Whenever u panic or negative thought strikes ur mind just say to yourself "I am just overthinking".
@shinybeans506
@shinybeans506 2 жыл бұрын
And straight back to overthinking
@thypham5837
@thypham5837 4 жыл бұрын
I overthinking about my future I overthinking about my life I overthinking about myself I overthinking about school I over thinking about tasks I over thinking about my family
@sxurabh
@sxurabh 3 жыл бұрын
sameeee its soo annoying
@bongiperez7565
@bongiperez7565 3 жыл бұрын
Me too me too
@babydas6112
@babydas6112 3 жыл бұрын
Same 2 same😀
@darktrolls9047
@darktrolls9047 3 жыл бұрын
Yes bro same problem
@TerraTuvvy
@TerraTuvvy 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@shabibasharief5047
@shabibasharief5047 5 жыл бұрын
Me starts the video .. reads the comments and start Over thinking ..and then realise I haven't listened to the video..
@eddyman7645
@eddyman7645 5 жыл бұрын
B
@joelhall649
@joelhall649 5 жыл бұрын
Loool
@peterbrako1612
@peterbrako1612 5 жыл бұрын
alisha khan 😂😂 take it easy and start again
@geminlys3215
@geminlys3215 5 жыл бұрын
OMG. Same like me Hahah. 😂
@namjoonslostpassport2145
@namjoonslostpassport2145 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂✌🏻
@Kpox09
@Kpox09 4 жыл бұрын
for those who are on the verge of giving up, you will see sunshine, you will find peace and you can finally say to yourself that you're okay.
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, and happy to help :)
@yasminenasseraldin1813
@yasminenasseraldin1813 4 жыл бұрын
Kpox JD thank u that really helped 🥺it just seems really hard
@andinh4513
@andinh4513 3 жыл бұрын
I have been thinking a lot about the relationship with my friends recently!
@mmmm...4888
@mmmm...4888 3 жыл бұрын
Fuck it i am stuck in the same stuff
@monamaeconsigna2029
@monamaeconsigna2029 2 жыл бұрын
Thid
@mollyasell6619
@mollyasell6619 4 жыл бұрын
I overthink pretty much everything about myself. As soon as someone I care about gives me a sign that I did something wrong or act like they think I’m annoying I start overthinking and think the worst case scenario. This tiny little sign can actually just be that my friend is having a bad day, but it can haunt me for like a month and eventually I start thinking that it’s something wrong with me and that I should change myself. This often happens when I start getting intimate relationships with people. As soon as they act just a little bit different than they use to I start looking after flaws on myself, both on my outside and my inside. I wish I could be happy and confident about myself and stop worrying so much about what everyone thinks about me, I mean I know that not everyone can love me, but my brain and anxiety doesn’t want to know that.
@alexgiertych5101
@alexgiertych5101 3 жыл бұрын
This happens to me as well, I overthink so much that everything is exact for me to the point where I feel like I’m developing ocd with certain things. I can remember things that happened months and even years ago and overthink about what I should have done differently if I should have said down to the slightest word
@Younggeneration742
@Younggeneration742 3 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me too right now ..
@SilentKiller-tx7xk
@SilentKiller-tx7xk 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate this
@rikeilycruz4512
@rikeilycruz4512 3 жыл бұрын
GIRL I FEEL YOU, i have the same problem, and it's hurts my chest every time i overthink, plus i'm very anxious about what other people think about me or about to say when i text them. It's super hard, i just want to be strong and confident to be able to be happy and relax.
@goodvibestv2017
@goodvibestv2017 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I'm the only one whose experiencing this. 😥 Keep fighting! We can survive this! 😊
@whiazelyu271
@whiazelyu271 4 жыл бұрын
TO EVERYONE WHO IS STRUGGLING RIGHT NOW WITH FAMILY PROBLEMS, CAREER, IF SOMEBODY YOU LOVE IS ILL, I PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU... YOU’LL GET THROUGH THIS DON’T OVERTHINK TOO MUCH🙏❤️...
@cinnamongrader6608
@cinnamongrader6608 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥺 I pray for you too, let’s get through this together!
@sportsworld9917
@sportsworld9917 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@sUxz.xx00
@sUxz.xx00 3 жыл бұрын
thank you Hun!!!🥺💕💕
@alfiemia3861
@alfiemia3861 4 жыл бұрын
I overthink soo much that I usually take jokes too seriously I get offended then start to overthink about how badly I reacted and how the person will take it😭
@sUxz.xx00
@sUxz.xx00 3 жыл бұрын
Same and sometimes even tho the things that I think that it is not even Tru I will eventually just start thinking about it even tho it is just a small big deal, and it will like my mind eventually forcing me to think even tho that it is not my fault😭😭😭
@ismailwalker8
@ismailwalker8 3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that I typed, how to not Overthink i saw this comment.... I really needed this
@robertadam3858
@robertadam3858 3 жыл бұрын
I'm overthinking every little thing what happens in my life and others life also. I hardly trust someone...even my love relationship and I overthink every detail to "prevent" something bad happens to me... After this video, I realised that my mind in grey, but the reality is like a rainbow😍 Thank you for the advices! 🙏 I believe that we all will get better soon! 🤗
@hasanmadani8310
@hasanmadani8310 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man i think im in the same position as u are could u give me a piece of advise maybe and do you still feel better now ?
@robertadam3858
@robertadam3858 3 жыл бұрын
@@hasanmadani8310 Hey! I started to write in a notebook about me and my negative thoughts to realise what I am, then I'm writing the positive version. I started to meditate...to listen my breath and the environment. Also, my girlfriend is helping me by talking with me about all thoughts...and she is encourraging me...this helps me to gain trust in her. I'm asking questions too, like: why am I thinking about this? is this makes me happy? where do I want to reach with those thoughts?...or any kind of question that make you be positive. I'm trying to realise that I can't control anybody...this is illegal also :)) and if something bad will happen to me, I'll take the decision then. I hope that at least 1 of these ideas will help you. Stay strong! 💪
@robertadam3858
@robertadam3858 3 жыл бұрын
@@hasanmadani8310 when someone said to me to stop overthinking, I felt like he.s asking me to be a dumbass...now, I'm feeling like a "dumbass" but I'm more happy 😁
@rileymartin5682
@rileymartin5682 6 жыл бұрын
I over think on what I do. I always think I'm doing something wrong, or I could have done better. Like after I hang out with friends, I just think about everything I thought I did wrong, and I should have done better. And it now I'm just constantly thinking negitivly about myself.
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679
@tiffanysar-lecluze5679 6 жыл бұрын
Same same same 😭😭
@ferdoeric596
@ferdoeric596 6 жыл бұрын
I know its not easy for you but you have to realize that people forget most of the things very quickly.. so whats the point of overthinking when if you would ask them they wouldnt remember... its all about perspective And even if they did notice some things you did just tell yourself they dont see shit. I hope you find a solution
@epicfighter5273
@epicfighter5273 5 жыл бұрын
I have no idea Yeah I everytime I’m with my girlfriend or friends I always think about what I could’ve done better but in reality I already did good. Bro I know what you’re going through and it really fucks you up but we gonna overcome that shit
@nijntje666
@nijntje666 5 жыл бұрын
I do that too and on top.of that I start to think about solutions to fix it
@davidrobinson6300
@davidrobinson6300 5 жыл бұрын
I do it it too I always stay quite sometimes with friends coz I worry if I gonna embarrass myself or say something stupid it really bad around girls aswell coz I want to be flirty but worry I gonna be creepy or somthing so instead I come off as boring I usual doubt myself all the time but I’ve notice I getting better I going gym more talking more feeling happier in myself still a little quiet in some situations and still feel like I should’ve said something but nowing that I said more than last time makes me happier each time hang in there I know it will get better for us all on her. Soz wasn’t expecting to to be this long thanks for reading if u did I’ll probably be overthinking about this comment later 🤣
@Ldrlvr355
@Ldrlvr355 3 жыл бұрын
I overthink everything and it’s starting to affect everything.
@kyha7861
@kyha7861 3 жыл бұрын
you’re not alone❤️
@denafarhat7861
@denafarhat7861 3 жыл бұрын
hey, has it gotten better or easier for u? If it hasn’t it’s ok everyone heals at different rates
@joshsutherly6156
@joshsutherly6156 3 жыл бұрын
Affects my relationships
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@kyha7861 To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Let change happen. When taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes. Senior Counsellor.
@spongebobsmum6310
@spongebobsmum6310 3 жыл бұрын
@@joshsutherly6156 same bro nobody is alone here ♥️
@heyboo2247
@heyboo2247 4 жыл бұрын
I am scared of everything! Whenever I do something I think of all the bad things that could happen then I don’t wanna do it anymore and I’m scared! I also hate it when people say : get over it , or , it’s no big deal ! Like , thanks that’s so helpful! Ashsjskaiiehdbdbdjshshsj
@leodelmichaellaporte5294
@leodelmichaellaporte5294 3 жыл бұрын
i feel you
@ahmedoo2105
@ahmedoo2105 3 жыл бұрын
Literally me
@cassiedunn2573
@cassiedunn2573 2 жыл бұрын
I know, they tell you to get over it without actually teaching you how!! Its like if someone was learning a new language to "just speak it" without knowing how
@Ninnee644
@Ninnee644 3 жыл бұрын
For the last few years I have been surrounded by people who have personalities that are difficult for me to deal with. Interaction with them on a regular basis is unavoidable, and it has eroded my sense of self-worth because their natural tendency is to be critical of everything and do not easily appreciate or acknowledge my accomplishments. I was an overthinker to begin with, but recently it has gotten out of hand with me second guessing everything I do, and devaluing my own opinion, interests and achievements. Right now I am trying to pass a very important exam, but overthinking is hampering my preparations. This video made sense to me. I could help me. Thanks!
@Ninnee644
@Ninnee644 2 жыл бұрын
@@ommsuryavanshi4363 Focus on yourself so hard that you blurr out the existence of these people most of the time. That's what helped me. When you are truly happy and feel engrossed in goals you set for yourself, ride high on the achievement of those goals, these people start to fade away.
@cookiepatrol7431
@cookiepatrol7431 4 жыл бұрын
I am a maladaptive daydreamer, and, it's been really hard for me. I always act like everything is fine, I laugh, smile, give compliments to others, while thinking about crazy things nobody would expect me to imagine. Everybody always tells me I have a "perfect" life. But no, nobody knows I am a maladaptive thinker. Everyday I think about going to the therapist, but that isn't easy. I'm praying for all the other maladaptive thinkers, ppl with anxiety, deppression, more. You're not alone.
@selffulfilledbitch7631
@selffulfilledbitch7631 3 жыл бұрын
Thank youuu may god be with uu
@kohjiwada4757
@kohjiwada4757 7 жыл бұрын
I feel like I am overthinking the future. I am afraid of fear. I am afraid of being afraid.
@mar8014
@mar8014 7 жыл бұрын
yes I was so scared I peed my pants and I am scared to feel so scared. I literally thought my mom was the devil and it scared my butt off.
@aschenbecher2899
@aschenbecher2899 6 жыл бұрын
+Kath Cohn maybe you need to learn how to identify REAL “danger´s” (you can ask people who care for help) and decide if the fear is appropriate / acceptable or not- (mostly it´s not as dramatic as our imagination make´s it up to be) -and it can also be the case that your balance between negative and positive thinking needs to be fixed, so you need to focus a lot more on the positive*, this will be easier when your anxious mind is taken care of (= you are also learning to identify REAL risks/dangers.) *so realy try to search for more positive things of course there is no instead change by tomorrow, but certainly after a feew weeks (make some notes or take a picture if you realy want to change something) :)
@tggahru146
@tggahru146 6 жыл бұрын
I get the same
@LuisRamos-jg2yt
@LuisRamos-jg2yt 6 жыл бұрын
Is hard to get over the fear but u can do it You are the only one that I have control Over your Self Ask yourself what is fear don’t feed it Fear only exist if you feed it be Strong Meditate - Meditation is key so is Prayers. Be bless if u need some one to Talk to I am here
@andreasleonlandgren3092
@andreasleonlandgren3092 6 жыл бұрын
Marianna Tsemekhman I am afraid 2
@prashanth7835
@prashanth7835 5 жыл бұрын
Who else in here can feel there own heart beat ???? My mind so crazy now I'm out of control
@RobertCOVELL
@RobertCOVELL 5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@vanetzamunoz9301
@vanetzamunoz9301 4 жыл бұрын
Meee!! I hate this
@snipee-mi5jl
@snipee-mi5jl 4 жыл бұрын
Bro same, I always feel my heart beating idk why
@prashanth7835
@prashanth7835 4 жыл бұрын
@@snipee-mi5jl I don't know why ?? But it happens for many causes, anxiety , stress and high pressure , but can't control mind it's hard once you into this shit , it never Goes away no matter what ??
@koizumi6598
@koizumi6598 3 жыл бұрын
I've been overthinking of something that's not even essential with my life and thank you for the tips, this is gonna be work for me! 👍🏻
@darlingladymoon
@darlingladymoon 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I overthink a lot and it gives me so much anxiety that my hands just become cold and freeze...
@GGG-tx3vl
@GGG-tx3vl 4 жыл бұрын
Same, my hand and feet will become sweatyy and i cant focus on doing tasks anymore
@darlingladymoon
@darlingladymoon 4 жыл бұрын
@@GGG-tx3vl yeah I sometimes can't even concentrate in my studies, it's pretty hard...
@tanzilakavkaz6269
@tanzilakavkaz6269 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@darlingladymoon
@darlingladymoon 4 жыл бұрын
@@tanzilakavkaz6269 sad... :(
@ربيعةفاتمة
@ربيعةفاتمة 4 жыл бұрын
Even my hands are freezing while reading ur comment sometimes I think that I'm not normal I'm different and now one understands me should I end up my life😭
@flormuerta9061
@flormuerta9061 8 жыл бұрын
I over think my life way too much and I stress about everything..
@andreahernsaze4144
@andreahernsaze4144 7 жыл бұрын
Karen Flowers your. not alone
@azamayenna5946
@azamayenna5946 7 жыл бұрын
Karen Flowers same here
@keerythegoon6513
@keerythegoon6513 7 жыл бұрын
Azam AYENNA same
@FluffOfFuzz
@FluffOfFuzz 7 жыл бұрын
Karen Flowers Same I overthink so many things idk why 😭
@ggwhhbb1822
@ggwhhbb1822 7 жыл бұрын
me too. i know it hurts me . i know its making me miserable and even affecting my confidence and work and life. Why can not I stop it ?
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 5 жыл бұрын
I over think so much that I feel like I am going crazay 🤦‍♀️
@abdulsalamashkir5717
@abdulsalamashkir5717 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@grozbeats
@grozbeats 5 жыл бұрын
No you are not. Its just a voice. Nxt time just make a song in your mind...
@mikeoxmall7288
@mikeoxmall7288 5 жыл бұрын
honestly.. 😔
@darryljl5138
@darryljl5138 5 жыл бұрын
Me too I probably just crazy tho
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 5 жыл бұрын
mike oxmall yeah smh
@raqibshaik7401
@raqibshaik7401 3 жыл бұрын
I overthink about my future , I wanted it to be in a way , a particular order or fashion... , but things are getting so far away from what I imagined.. That's when I thought , wait this is not the right thing .. that I really need to switch off the voices in my head I did... All of a sudden I became empty. , Blank.. And I eagerly waited for the frst thought to arrive.. My thought which came was "And I immediately realised... That I'm in the moment , what to do NOW " Im glad, that the moment I became self aware ,and wanted to completely switch off my mind.. , is the exact moment automatically my mind gave me the right thought for the present ... i believe u don't have to ignore yur mind. Just shape it to work according to you. You know what I did now.. Searched for these videos and became even more aware .
@gamerster
@gamerster 3 жыл бұрын
I have noticed when I overthink about something, it makes me stressed and then I become depressed. This video has given me some food for thought on what to do to start to control my overthinking. Thank you so much for making this video.
@krishanthakur7067
@krishanthakur7067 4 жыл бұрын
I am overthinking about my future....I just start imaginating a lot about my future..n this causes headache and pain in my eyes....I just want to stop thinking a lot...n wanna live in present.🤔😭😭😭😭
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I posted a video recently that I feel will help you to take control of your thinking: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rpmZh4CqYtpjrdU
@khlingkhling9496
@khlingkhling9496 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you 😭😭😭 Don’t know what to do :( i don’t want to take sleeping pills at all :(
@Unforgettableflower
@Unforgettableflower 4 жыл бұрын
@@khlingkhling9496 me too i dont know how to sleep anymore i close my eyes but i cant sleep
@hayzenmask4290
@hayzenmask4290 4 жыл бұрын
Im overthinking about past events and how different they could have been especially when im tring to sleep
@clouds7558
@clouds7558 4 жыл бұрын
Samee
@muhammadwitjaksono3584
@muhammadwitjaksono3584 7 жыл бұрын
I overthinking about my future and my past. It makes me become anxious everyday.
@a.msayem1663
@a.msayem1663 7 жыл бұрын
bro live in the moment,,,,,,
@nariko47
@nariko47 7 жыл бұрын
LONE FALCON That's exactly what I need t do as well =(
@a.msayem1663
@a.msayem1663 7 жыл бұрын
me too buddy
@Abra_TV
@Abra_TV 7 жыл бұрын
Meditasi bro
@saurabhyadav1321
@saurabhyadav1321 6 жыл бұрын
MUHAMMAD WITJAKSONO overthinking made me take bad decision that im regretting after listening everybody advice i again overthink and made bad decision..... I cant eat because overthinking makes me depressed
@anacampos4534
@anacampos4534 3 жыл бұрын
Admitting that I am self sabotage and I need to change is why I’m here trying to change this horrible habit. Thank you for this video 🌺❤️
@Sakura.0_0.
@Sakura.0_0. 5 жыл бұрын
I'm overthinking while watching
@anassbarriche9974
@anassbarriche9974 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@blazegaming6734
@blazegaming6734 5 жыл бұрын
Overthinking makes me stress and I just don’t need that in my life right now
@rockrock1409
@rockrock1409 5 жыл бұрын
I have psychosis and delusional disorder and haven't done anything in my every day life for a long time but just be on my phone while intense dark times happen at the same time so it really fuck me up to have repeated weird or random thoughts or words or memorys unstil I stabilized my life more by a more routine responsibly and recreational things and take strong meds and also be self adware and repeat be relax be in reality not give a f.. It has made me distant of possible love partners until more stabilized but I know it possible to fix or duct tape if actually go ham on it by the right counter mindset.. Meds.. And more of a fun and heathly and responsibly combo routine
@yeetyeet2806
@yeetyeet2806 5 жыл бұрын
Same I keep overthinking about the worst scenarios and I don’t know how to stop it 😭 I can’t even sleep at night cuz of it.
@eliyajd8649
@eliyajd8649 5 жыл бұрын
Me too sometimes my mind brings a lot dramas
@samandarrahmatullayev3743
@samandarrahmatullayev3743 2 жыл бұрын
@@yeetyeet2806 what about now bro Are you alright now
@will-oc3uq
@will-oc3uq 6 жыл бұрын
Whenever I start trying to live in the moment, I start overthinking about the fact that I'm trying to live in the moment
@Xmudrykk
@Xmudrykk 5 жыл бұрын
guiguiii lol same
@JackH2254
@JackH2254 4 жыл бұрын
Sooo relatable
@darlingladymoon
@darlingladymoon 4 жыл бұрын
Shit... Same
@dansamoylenko9129
@dansamoylenko9129 3 жыл бұрын
same wow
@angelinarose793
@angelinarose793 3 жыл бұрын
My overthinking has ruined a lot of friendships in my life and shows the absolute worst self of me. I want to become better. I want to do better. I want to change for the better.
@tenn3127
@tenn3127 7 жыл бұрын
I over think about my love life!!!! I constantly worry about the unknown!!! I guess my past experiences caused this.....😔😒
@tenn3127
@tenn3127 7 жыл бұрын
Rafael Eliassen yes it will
@beepbopbeep2873
@beepbopbeep2873 7 жыл бұрын
Rafael Eliassen how do i have almost no thoughts? Whatever thought i have is embarrassing and i say it in my sleep talk..
@nbayoungboy5153
@nbayoungboy5153 6 жыл бұрын
Same
@toffee5001
@toffee5001 6 жыл бұрын
literally overthinking about the same shit rn
@lifewithjazw5851
@lifewithjazw5851 5 жыл бұрын
tenn 3 SAMEEE
@yashaswidasari7019
@yashaswidasari7019 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the one who doesn't have control in self thoughts but here I see many of us are suffering from the same problem I wish all of us get out of this hell.
@laramaedelossantos6386
@laramaedelossantos6386 5 жыл бұрын
I overthink why I live. I overthink of my grades, I always want to have a high grades. I compare myself to others. Please help me
@sobiariaz5211
@sobiariaz5211 5 жыл бұрын
Pray harder!
@jetakota
@jetakota 4 жыл бұрын
Try to be little better of yourself than yesterday yourself . Not to be better than others. Small change of yourself . For example , If ur friend read a book once a day and u don't read at all, try to read one sentence of anything any article for one day. So u are better than yesterday . Try to increase slowly by increase it by 2 sentences after 2 months. U will read one book per day eventually . Don't compare yourself with others. Compare yesterday yourself with today yourself
@namjoonslostpassport2145
@namjoonslostpassport2145 4 жыл бұрын
I even overthink of this comment too.. i need help too...
@jetakota
@jetakota 4 жыл бұрын
@@namjoonslostpassport2145 always think in 3 steps. 1. Observe the opposite if you see something try to think of the completely opposite output. For example , if you see a person crying , think why person is not crying but not why is he crying . If you see someone rich, think what happen if he is poor. If you get hurt think what if i haven't got hurt. 2. 10,10,10 rule. Think of a result of an action after 10 seconds 10 minutes 10 hours . 3. Often happening Most of the time things about to happen is what always happen . If you smoke you will get cancer . If you work hard you will get better results. So try to think like in above criteria . You will be smarter everyday
@pranitapatar5548
@pranitapatar5548 4 жыл бұрын
@@jetakota i overthink about dieing. Like i overthink so much, i think like do people suicide because of thsi? Will i end up like that? All these things. I have always been a happy child. But overthinking has caught me so baddddd... What do i do?
@paulandreisioson3121
@paulandreisioson3121 2 жыл бұрын
I'm overthinking while listening to this. Im so amazed it really fits what is happening to my mind right now. This is a big help.
@sanjanagrover7436
@sanjanagrover7436 4 жыл бұрын
When u see others suffering from same problem,, it feels better!! UR NOT ALONE....: ))😀
@jameswalterlakra5796
@jameswalterlakra5796 3 жыл бұрын
I Know right I feels literally so good that we're all the same That's why KZbin video's comments are therapy for me
@fruitpunchsamurai8
@fruitpunchsamurai8 3 жыл бұрын
@@jameswalterlakra5796 yes same for me
@Monic24
@Monic24 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@sadialaghari
@sadialaghari 3 жыл бұрын
Ded 😀 i'm feeling relaxed now
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
@@jameswalterlakra5796 How are you now? Practical action is needed. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@Notsudeys
@Notsudeys 4 жыл бұрын
I mostly overthink about somewhat embarrassing things I’ve done or about a time I got into an awkward situation with someone, basically anything that has to do with being social with other people.
@priyankabhamu1579
@priyankabhamu1579 4 жыл бұрын
I think "troubles gonna follow where I go
@Younggeneration742
@Younggeneration742 3 жыл бұрын
The situation am in right now..
@Younggeneration742
@Younggeneration742 3 жыл бұрын
I think the same too
@leslie5579
@leslie5579 7 жыл бұрын
the tiniest thing can happen and my anxiety starts to get 10× worse just because the scenarios i make up in my head
@mandymars9541
@mandymars9541 6 жыл бұрын
Help if you can maker of vid
@lilib428
@lilib428 6 жыл бұрын
leslie me rn
@dschneiderkj52
@dschneiderkj52 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'll do something, or text something, regret it... and then if there isn't a reply, or something, I blame myself and I think that they're thinking "That guy is weird and a loser. Who says that?" But in reality, it's not as serious as I think it is. It's usually just a Shrug your shoulders type of thing. But I y overthinking is really hard on me. I need to learn to just "stop caring?" But "not stop caring" at the same time? I guess just not let it get to me on a personal level.
@xaleximeisterx4747
@xaleximeisterx4747 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, same!
@dean_cadancex6277
@dean_cadancex6277 3 жыл бұрын
The other different pain is that when you're finally happy about something, your mind immediately tells you to stop being too happy or the sadness that would overtake will hurt you so much. Which me ending up having no happiness anymore, I don't know what else to say because I have ALOT in mind that I don't like to think about yet it stays there...
@ohlalalalla8324
@ohlalalalla8324 4 жыл бұрын
Its hard that you can't even explain whats in your mind that keeps bugging you from day and night
@sUxz.xx00
@sUxz.xx00 3 жыл бұрын
Like ye and it's GETTING REALLY ANNOYING I can't stand it anymore 😭
@c3rys._.07
@c3rys._.07 4 жыл бұрын
I can't sleep because of it! My dad has cancer and I feel like I'm going to lose him and always imagine his funeral.. This makes me cry every night x
@pranjalvaity.406
@pranjalvaity.406 4 жыл бұрын
Hello brother my dad is ill and depressed, I imagine a lot of scenarios just like you do. But I end the though saying to myself that he will go to place better than this earth soon and won't live as miserably as he is living now. Life is unpredictable and tough brother, *Everyone who takes birth has to die someday* That's what my father says every now and then. So not stress about the things you can't control
@wajeehanoor6292
@wajeehanoor6292 4 жыл бұрын
omg😞
@yuppamungudamalie725
@yuppamungudamalie725 4 жыл бұрын
No matter the situation , also put yourself together and pray to God,he always works in a different way we can not see . but many people don't believe in God .
@davidstoma
@davidstoma 4 жыл бұрын
I know exactly what you all mean. Keep trying to figure it out. Meditation or sitting quietly in a room by yourself even for just 5 minutes seems to help
@dwayneratemo4758
@dwayneratemo4758 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@daviengodfrey3400
@daviengodfrey3400 4 жыл бұрын
i'm trying soo hard to focus on the video but my anxiety say: no way mr
@mqdisvn
@mqdisvn 4 жыл бұрын
exactly
@mqdisvn
@mqdisvn 3 жыл бұрын
@@hrvojestilin6256 yes nothing works :(
@mqdisvn
@mqdisvn 3 жыл бұрын
@@hrvojestilin6256 aww thank uu
@salehsaleh5773
@salehsaleh5773 Жыл бұрын
Found this video at the right time. I've been stuck in the train of negative thinking for years now and speaking from long term experience, Yes, overthinking can drive you crazy and really mess up your whole entire life. I'm currently starting to be aware of all my negative thoughts and trying my best to keep my head staright and focus on what really matters. Stay Present Everyone ❤️👊🏼
@rohan11
@rohan11 3 жыл бұрын
I literally started thinking when he said "You have to accept yourself". All of my own insecurities started crossing my mind and I went on and on until the video ended😣 So I had to rewatch the video 🙂
@lamekkeren
@lamekkeren 3 жыл бұрын
Don’t accept bad things
@apriltherese21
@apriltherese21 2 жыл бұрын
Good Lord me too
@rishotnongkhlaw6113
@rishotnongkhlaw6113 3 жыл бұрын
Because of my overthinking, I can't enjoy life,I want to be excited again about life like when I was a kid, but overthinking has prevented me from doing that and has also prevented me from living in the present and I'm constantly living in the past and future *This Is A Torture* !
@yrg.jamari8260
@yrg.jamari8260 3 жыл бұрын
this is my case also!
@AlexPloscar
@AlexPloscar 3 жыл бұрын
Me too, bro. But keep fighting! Fake it till you make it ❤️💪🏼
@rishotnongkhlaw6113
@rishotnongkhlaw6113 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlexPloscar thanks bro
@technologyinnovations5057
@technologyinnovations5057 3 жыл бұрын
Sadly, 100% relate to this :( I really hope that it will get better for you and everyone else eventually one day in the future 🥺🙏
@xoniye3573
@xoniye3573 2 жыл бұрын
@@technologyinnovations5057 I miss the days with my friends no worries or anything. It's beautiful to think about. ever since covid came everything has been ruined, I wish i can be the same again
@evelyn2154
@evelyn2154 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad about overthinking that I just wish I could stop because at this point I just wanna cry bc I can’t do anything
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
This video might help you a bit more actually: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rXivmouiZbtmnKM
@manvimukati936
@manvimukati936 4 жыл бұрын
Same happens with me😥
@KamiiSola
@KamiiSola 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@tblmoon
@tblmoon 4 жыл бұрын
Samee
@amara._.5975
@amara._.5975 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@powerjolt7215
@powerjolt7215 2 жыл бұрын
Extreme overthinker here, seeking to help myself and rid my overthinking mind of the negative thoughts that I for a fact know aren't all real and tend to be an inflation of a nonexistent problem. I haven't figured out how, but what I do know is that you can control your thinking. You absolutely need to focus on what you're currently doing. I find that if I focus on exercise, or I focus on my sport, my drawing, my eating.. I don't overthink and I especially don't think negatively. I just focus on what I'm doing at that moment. Even better if I can do any of these things with other people (which is why team sports are so effective for me) But the question begs, what if I can't do anything? What if I'm just about to sleep and all the ideas come flying or I'm really bored and have nothing to do.. What then? Personally... I haven't figured this one out myself... What I try to do at least is think of a scenario. Make my own script where I make my own choices... and then I found that things can still go haywire, especially if I go a little too out of character (I'm picturing myself how I was and how I wanna be again and it feels so different from the shell of a person I am now, that it feels too fake...) That's when I decided to create a new character. A person like me, but not me. Give him some of my characteristics and give him characteristics I desire. For example, now I wanna be better at school, achieve more, but I Procrastinate... I'm a hard worker but I can't find myself engaging as much anymore... Might be burnout... Now I tamper with that character trait. I make it less for him. So now he procrastinates less than I do, couple that with me working hard when I want to and he can actually find himself doing the work and doing better at school. It's a simple concept, but I make him feel so much like myself, while not being me, that I can place myself in his shoes. If it was me, it would feel like a lie, but seeing as it's a replication... I feel I could be this guy. Could have his confidence and his ability to focus. That helps me to actively be more like him. See the world in his perspective and sooner or later I'll adapt to be like him then I'll just make someone newer and better. Because like it has been said: "There will always be someone better than you" at anything. I can be the best pilot, but I won't be the best sailor. I've went on for long enough. While no one may read this, that wasn't the point of the comment. For me the point was to get the thoughts out of my head and breathe. I mean that's another way to stop overthinking. Stop keeping your thoughts to yourself. Let them out, let them breathe and after you have done that, breathe yourself.
@mezzy1063
@mezzy1063 7 жыл бұрын
I overthink about how my future will be. I overthink about what people think of me and who i trust. I overthink what girls think of me. I overthink about my appearance. I overthink about how my school life is super bad and how behind I am. I overthink about being lazy which makes me more lazy.
@mar8014
@mar8014 7 жыл бұрын
sounds like my brain. Omg i think about the lazy thing a lot and I feel selfish a lot bc i don't help ppl
@decemberose
@decemberose 7 жыл бұрын
Dude that's my mind right there
@thecomplexer3967
@thecomplexer3967 6 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same brother hope we all feel better soon 😔
@guyvaknin16
@guyvaknin16 6 жыл бұрын
Well buddy, thats called under-thinking then. U are unconsiosly rethinking the same patters, without being led to a specific conclusion, or prodoctive understandings. I highly suggest u to hear the podcast -Think and Grow - strategies to deal with overthinking' (i think his name is Rubin). It will shift ur perspective about thoughts :)
@puyearprod.929
@puyearprod.929 6 жыл бұрын
Mezzy same. I can relate to all that.
@sinchandasgupta1978
@sinchandasgupta1978 8 жыл бұрын
over thinking is killing me.. i can't focus :"|
@Mythiqoeatsbreadladdd
@Mythiqoeatsbreadladdd 7 жыл бұрын
Sinchan Dasgupta same here, I can't focus on anything for 5 minutes without a stupid negative thought about what might happen in the future and as soon as I get one of those thoughts my energy, motivation and ability to care about anything vanishes and I don't know how to get rid off it.
@edmondlonnergan395
@edmondlonnergan395 7 жыл бұрын
Gerbz
@sudheerkumar5866
@sudheerkumar5866 7 жыл бұрын
hi im facing the same problem. If you got the solution please reply me or I will reply you
@jasianazar6563
@jasianazar6563 7 жыл бұрын
Same problem
@adarshhota688
@adarshhota688 7 жыл бұрын
Same
@kazion4851
@kazion4851 4 жыл бұрын
I feel depressed because i haven't got much of a social life no friends no partner and I'm overthinking of all the things that other people have whilst I'm alone. I dont want to be alone forever but I feel scared that I will be.
@Niko-sg5bq
@Niko-sg5bq 4 жыл бұрын
Playstation king i know that feeling man. I just broke up with my girl too.. I dont have a real friend only people i know ad iam rather alone.. bc there are no many real friends. But trust me. People come and go. Just chill and you time will come😄
@marklee1376
@marklee1376 4 жыл бұрын
Same here too😔
@tenejul8269
@tenejul8269 4 жыл бұрын
I was like that too and still am it was a non stop for like 2 years and I got really depressed lost so many friends, and no motivation for school, and I just wanted to give up. But I started working out and it felt much better, and I was spending a lot of time alone, but socializing in the internet. So now its much better. But remember just work out and eat healthy u will be ok trust.m! Stay strong! I love you all!
@KayionisHigherSelf
@KayionisHigherSelf 3 жыл бұрын
I understand it’s hard I just talk to hotlines and try Try my best to control it u overthink a lot any pain that I go through I look up stuff then over think like if I have it it’s just a lot I also suffer from being alone forever to I wish someone can hear me our I can talk to someone about something that’s why I say the hotlines can help.
@Tinkerツ
@Tinkerツ 3 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling exactly the same right now. 😞😞😭😖
@Billsony
@Billsony 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much man I’ve been overthinking about my girl and just our whole situation so much, and it is automatically cured when I’m with her but as soon as I leave I can’t get her out of my head. . . But I really like this girl and I just gotta get out of my head and I’m so thankful for this video 🖤✨
@yc7507
@yc7507 3 жыл бұрын
I'm seventeen years old and my application for medicine has been rejected from all four universities, lockdown has really fucked my learning up and I don't know what my A level results will be since exams are cancelled and I find studying very difficult lately due to a constant feeling of panic. I have really high expectations of myself and I don't want to let my family down. I also wanted to go to a university in London because the change seemed exciting but that seems impossible now lmao. Strangely, I've found that listening to songs by BTS has really helped me; their lyrics are very comforting and relatable and it gives my mind something to focus on as I read the translations from Korean. Sorry for the brain dump if you're reading this; I just wanted to get my thoughts out and its better than screaming into a void.
@ervin7124
@ervin7124 3 жыл бұрын
Dang you’re going through a lot, But I promise you’re not alone I’m sending my prayers to you hope things Get better!!🖤
@richjoyv.jereza6991
@richjoyv.jereza6991 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know you but I know you could do it if you badly want it. I'll pray for you and stay strong and healthy
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
YC, How are you now? Practical action is needed. To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in school, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes and prayers--Counsellor.
@HopeForTheHighway
@HopeForTheHighway 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to let you guys know that if you ever need a friend or just someone you want to talk to. I will always be all ears. You are strong, kind and beautiful. Please love yourself
@RafaelEliassen
@RafaelEliassen 4 жыл бұрын
Wow, I really appreciate that.
@lost4059
@lost4059 3 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would search for a video like this but I did today:( and oops there are many who are already like me... I hope everyone will be fine ASAP Sending love and hugs to every single person who will come across my comment🤗💛
@elijahfooty2007
@elijahfooty2007 3 жыл бұрын
I used to overthink soooo much but what made lose those thoughts that were killing me in the inside and affecting me for around 2 to 3 months were to talk to someone u trust and ask for advice because that's what I did and I felt so much better at the end and I haven't overthinked since that day.
@jaradfraser8005
@jaradfraser8005 8 жыл бұрын
As soon as you said "Not getting caught up by the noise in your head" I thought yeah, that's me.I do walk around not paying attention to things around me, i am too focused on what is going on inside my head. This is especially bad when i am walking around with my significant other or my friends/family, but when you say "Pay attention to you environment" I don't know how to, i do try, i try really hard, but i just keep relapsing back to being stuck in my own head, i can't focus on watching a video or doing what i normally enjoy because i just keep thinking over and over again and it never stops. I have tried meditation and i have been meditating for 2 days now, do i really have to meditate for months to start feeling like i have control over my mind? I need constant reassurance and when i don't get it, i get into a really bad place, this is taking a toll on my relationship with my significant other. Your videos are amazing, thank you for being you, you are helping so many people and i cant not get inspired by you!
@mariaveronica9554
@mariaveronica9554 7 жыл бұрын
Jarad Fraser I feel the exact same way.
@aqua3418
@aqua3418 7 жыл бұрын
Consistency is the key. Making the decision to continue to push every day, regardless how you feel or what you see. Eventually after months of continual effort you start to see some real results. Rome was not built in a day, so don't give up if you seemingly fail once. Failure is proof that you're trying, so if you're not failing somewhere in your life, THEN you should be scared. Don't even look at your hotel, just focus on each small step you have to take to get there, and step by step, you'll win.
@Az-_
@Az-_ 3 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with anxiety, overthinking, stress and ADHD all my life, started practicing meditation, full awareness and started overthinking about my issues and how I overthink. But recently I've had many realizations and realized I'm not my thoughts and I do have power over my mind and body. Thank you. Thank you for helping me clarify and control my brain. Sincerely one of the people that let my issues steer me into chaos.
@quandledingle7522
@quandledingle7522 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@shyaaammeneen63
@shyaaammeneen63 3 жыл бұрын
A zero, To feel better reduce negative thoughts with a simple practice. Your breath and mind [brain] are closely related and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. Let change happen. When taking a walk, sitting in a park, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a good life. Reduce negative social media. Avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes. Senior Counsellor.
@angiesajulga8496
@angiesajulga8496 2 жыл бұрын
i am also struggling with overthinking,anxiety and ,stress.i dont know how to handle it I feel lonely and betrayed.nobody understand me.I am keeping it by myself😔😔😔
@anand__346
@anand__346 2 жыл бұрын
@@angiesajulga8496 can I have your wtsp
@lalainaenriquez7035
@lalainaenriquez7035 8 жыл бұрын
my friends make me feel so conscious and insecure about myself. i really want to let go of them and find friends that will support me. its hard because im forced to interact with them on a daily basis. i cant bear it anymore. their words affect me too much and they know it. they use it to hurt me. i dont want to be with them anymore. i try not to care but i care too much. its hard. but im thankful i found this video it really really helps.
@LifeChangingPicks
@LifeChangingPicks 7 жыл бұрын
Jhaila Ina Enriquez sometimes you just gotta make that move and just cut them off they'll understand and maybe change there's ways for you to comeback and fw them again
@sulagnadeb274
@sulagnadeb274 7 жыл бұрын
Jhaila Ina Enriquez Most of us have been through this, you know. I myself have. I chose to let go of them, literally block them and be alone. You have to not be afraid of being alone. Now i'm blessed with a wonderful group of supportive, loving, caring friends. Believe me, you're better off alone than with someone who hurts you.
@roschphilipfernandez2618
@roschphilipfernandez2618 7 жыл бұрын
they are not really truly your friends...I have the same issue and I can tell you now, walking away or staying away from such people can really help. If you continue to stay with them you will just get worse, more sad and more of a target to attacks.
@mayanasir2961
@mayanasir2961 7 жыл бұрын
Jhaila Ina Enriquez how is everything now?
@aqua3418
@aqua3418 7 жыл бұрын
Those are not friends. Hope everything is better for you now
@leespencermusic2453
@leespencermusic2453 3 жыл бұрын
Overthinking just destroys . I hate it !! I’m so happy, but keep making myself feel sad and useless with my thoughts . I’m glad I’m not alone !
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