1. Over analyzing & over explaining everything 2:10 - Never complain & never explain - Cause you a lot of grief - People do things just for a season not for a reason - You need to give your own self worth - Deploy the art of detachment “let them” - You have to accept people as they are - Give him freedom 2. You nee to understand the difference between masculine and feminine energy 8:45 - Masculine: driving, asserting, moving forward, getting what you want, doing - Feminine: being, flow, relaxation, intuition, receiving, boundaries - The more you praise him the better your relationship will be - amplify his masculine by leaning back, be the passenger - you deserve to relax 3. learning to be vulnerable 12:09 - you’re not attached to the guy; you’re attached to what he is doing for you/ to his behavior - “I really needed you. I had that crisis in my family and you weren’t around and you hurt my feelings. I will talk to you later. I don’t want to talk to you now.” - Speak from the feeling center, tell people how you feel 4. Stop the need to trying to be right all the time 15:19 - Be wise - Sometimes you need to make him feel like he’s the one who had the idea 5. Establish and maintain healthy boundaries 16:40 - The difference between him treating you in a way that doesn’t make you happy and him treating you like the most prized thing that he has - The more healthy boundaries you set the more he’s going to feel like he has won a prize by being with you 6. Prioritize self-care of everything else 19:22 - The growth and optimization of who you are - Looks, body, mind, university - If you prioritize yourself other people will prioritize you 7. Communicate with softness and kindness 20:37 - „I feel…“ - Not pushing people - Being soft will get you more than being harsh - The more he will open up to you - „I really need you to do this for me“ 8. Be open to receiving as opposed to always giving 21:34 - You need to be open in understanding that when someone gives to you, they receive more than you could give them by just giving - If you can produce genuine joy for a person, an affirmation of this masculinity by him giving you something you will do far more for him 9. Release the need for constant reassurance 23:00 - It's not cute, it's not fun - It creates a downward spiral of energetic drainage - When you make people focus on your bad attributes, they will only see that 10. Trust the process 24:33 - You’re enough - Being in your divinity and flow - If there is a Problem say to him “yeah I trust you will work it out/you’ve got this”
@dianacastorАй бұрын
OMG! Thank you so much.
@TankaCАй бұрын
@@dianacastor you're welcome
@gabbyv891Ай бұрын
You’re the best !
@user-kd6tb2qx6vАй бұрын
❤❤❤ all good to you ❤❤❤
@anacristinamoura881Ай бұрын
Thank you!❤😊😊😊
@katbarronАй бұрын
Ughh the "Let Them" approach is SO spot on. I have been living this for a while now with the man I've been dating. The more I "let him" the closer he wants to be. When I try to talk and figure things out, he moves away. And since I'm the Chooser, I get to decide if his behavior works for me or not. There is so much reclaiming of POWER in the "let them" approach
@scarylouishАй бұрын
I don't mind the bullet points! It's one of the reasons I prefer your content. I don't need to hear a bunch of fuzzy chit-chat which is common on some other channels. I love your style. Pls keep being you 🙂
@xo.AmberNicholeАй бұрын
Agreed!
@elizzylaurenАй бұрын
i LOVE YOU, but the little snippets are super distracting. when it's just a discussion (without snippets), it feels more like a conversation w you! ♥️
@jfaustin1742Ай бұрын
I agree. It makes it feel more like a generic self help vid. Not as intimate
@Dolly-b7h9rАй бұрын
agree!
@Margarita.NazarenkoАй бұрын
Perfect! I’ll go back to old format! Xx
@RebeccaMiller-ep3ugАй бұрын
Agreed!
@kristenk708Ай бұрын
Agree as well, those snippets kind of reduce the quality of the video in a way. Really no need for them
@nastasjamitrovic8484Ай бұрын
This is one of the best relationship videos ever! I’ve never seen it broken down in such a clear and straight forward way. Every sentence is golden. Thank you Margarita ❤
@PiecesoftheshadowАй бұрын
Having OCD makes me over analyse everything and need constant reassurance and it’s so distressing. But also, this video helped me see the stuff I have to work on but also showed me I made the right decision to let my love go even though it broke me. I couldn’t keep trying to create this balanced type of relationship alone…
@gatosandreaАй бұрын
I have OCD as well! And I have been analyzing lots of things too and need reassurance, haha. What I try to do is to work on my self-love and obsess over more interesting things. I wish you the best
@chiagozieokwuaka6254Ай бұрын
I actually love how your content is short and straight to the point.
@jansuratos667Ай бұрын
16:34 water your dog and walk your plant was so funny to me. Ive actually said something like that before 😂😂. Love you Margarita ❤️❤️❤️
@leche1971Ай бұрын
I love this too 😂!
@shawtyg713Ай бұрын
You are the internet best friend I didn’t know I needed. Love your energy, thank you for being so real ❤
@SahalieloveАй бұрын
I’ve been listening to you for a while, but I haven’t yet heard “never complain and never explain.” I love that! On my channel, I discuss the idea that people say “communication” is good for a relationship, even though it often makes things worse.
@gg_kinzАй бұрын
That's the motto of the British Monarchy
@cherrylane79Ай бұрын
I always thought it was weird that you cannot communicate when something is wrong. How do you tell other people about things if you can't "complain" or explain something? In a good relationship communication is valued.
@gg_kinzАй бұрын
@@cherrylane79 complaining or nagging is annoying. It's not constructive
@SahalieloveАй бұрын
@@cherrylane79 The basic approach is to state your desires (or occasionally to exaggerate how much you like it when he does something right, hopefully more through being visibly happy than with your words) and if he doesn’t meet them, to not be available for it. This ranges anywhere from going out with your friends on a Friday night if you wanted him to plan a date in advance but he didn’t, to leaving the guy if he doesn’t meet your standards. The thing about complaining is that you might allow yourself to be treated in a way that you don’t like because you’re allowing it to happen. You complain while still being available to be treated in a way you don’t like. In myself, I also have found that I complain as a means to keep myself from crying. In learning to be in my feminine energy, I was surprised to find that I suppress myself from crying, I thought I didn’t do that. If you complain, you are in your chasing energy, you are trying to make your man treat you differently. If you don’t like how your man treats you and you cry, HE is in his chasing energy, he sees there’s a problem and he tries to fix it. It’s the same thing as the example above, which I use a lot on my own channel. He sees the problem himself, that he didn’t plan a date quick enough and he missed out on seeing you Friday night. If you complain that he asks you on dates last minute, but you’re always available last minute, you’ve given him no problem to solve, as he still gets to see you Friday night.
@swiftieforlife5243Ай бұрын
Hey Marg, i really struggle with toxic female friendships and have constantly been mentally bullied by my female friends and female family members would definitely appreciate your guidance on how to navigate female friendships because honestly guys are the least of my problems right now, just want a wholesome uplifting group of friends(regardless of the gender) but i get burned time and time again.
@FeralFeminineАй бұрын
Have you tried communicating your boundaries with them and what comments are/are not appropriate? If you explain the rules and they consistently choose to not follow them, then it’s time to cut ties and walk away. It’s much better to love yourself and be alone than to feel alone while surrounded by people who don’t love you. 💜
@Melisa-g1jАй бұрын
Guidelines are all the same if someone’s toxic they’re toxic cut the chord and see where you’re going wrong by picking the same bad ones ❤
@amberc6355Ай бұрын
I agree, I would love to hear more on female friendships. I do think a lot of these things can apply to all relationships, but it would be an interesting take on how our female friendships are different than our romantic relationships.
@kautharnoor2844Ай бұрын
Agreed, I’ve always found female friendships to be tough to navigate where there’s just genuine rooting for one another and non-toxicity
@swiftieforlife5243Ай бұрын
@@JAYD1476 so true after spending so much time on self healing years even and identifying that i come from a dysfunctional family I feel that I've grown as a person but then i go out and still feel like I am 13 and not part of the cool kid club. I'm 21 now and i feel that i might never have meaningful friendships in my life.
@Annamarie200Ай бұрын
This just reminded me of something! This book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”. My confidence shifted in a whole new way.
@harrisarianna7Ай бұрын
Thank you this book help me a lot
@notabotbrittanyАй бұрын
Every time someone tells me I’m “overthinking” something I’m like yeah that’s what I do. That’s literally the only skill I’ve maxxxxed out so I have to utilize.
@lou15176Ай бұрын
You could be overthinking. You could also be intuitive about certain things. Watch out for people gaslighting you. We don’t ALWAYS overthink x
@notabotbrittanyАй бұрын
@@lou15176agreed. That’s actually a common thing men say when you’re on to them…..😂
@lou15176Ай бұрын
@ touché my friend. I used to retaliate - but that’s a losing battle….Don’t do that. Walking away is sometimes necessary 😊
@НарминМирАй бұрын
Omg girl I know right
@niyatipanda2323Ай бұрын
Hi Margarita. I've learned a lot from your content. It's probably coz of your on-your-face kinda talk. Could you please stick to your previous method of recording like in the last few videos which only had subtitles? I understand you want to grow and experiment new styles, but including random clips of couples in between your talk was quite distracting for me.
@xo.shyriaАй бұрын
I love how deep you were into this episode, that you casually said this.. .. 16:30 . 💖Thanks for all the insight on this! Love the watering the pup + walking the plant!
@bissanahmad7185Ай бұрын
I love your content! I'm a regular viewer! I just have one suggestion: Would it be possible to avoid adding extra footage on the side and focus solely on you in the video? I feel that sometimes it can make the video feel a bit cheesy. We don't really need demonstrations or examples, as your energy and insights are already more than enough! I really appreciate what you do and don't want your content to feel like any other typical video online, I coudn't continue because these footage are taking away my focus!
@mierikswortelАй бұрын
Agree! And it seems IA, doesn’t fit the quality of the content.
@PavlalittlerootАй бұрын
Agreed it is horrible and so distracting 😢
@infjcupcakeАй бұрын
I came here to say this! It feels off brand and distracting for the incredible content.
@PavlalittlerootАй бұрын
@@infjcupcake yes it is better to watch just her
@jacksonthedoggyАй бұрын
I totally agree ❤ I love her, and just want to focus on her
@leylani__Ай бұрын
Your femininity radiated through this video✨
@G.V.3Ай бұрын
Thank You for just being here, Margarita ❤
@avleckАй бұрын
These pep talks/instructional videos are EVERYTHING. You are a gifted, natural-born mentor & speaker. Luv u, my dear. Thanks for the abundance of crucial wisdom & HAPPY HOLIDAYS! 🔔🌟
@ken654312Ай бұрын
I heard Allison Armstrong say, to communicate with the masculine to start with, “it seems as though..” instead of “I feel like..” because the masculine will hear you referring to you “feeling” and respond wjth “well, I can’t control her feelings”. It’s overwhelming for their brain. Whereas, if you say, “it seems as though..” they’ll process it differently and you’re more likely to get somewhere. Example: “I feel like you don’t care about me because if you did me you’d do XYZ.” Say “it seems as though you don’t care about me as much when you do XYZ”, instead.
@Karolina-f4fАй бұрын
I was wondering about this one too. Whenever I start with “I feel as” or “in my opinion” I get hit by “your feelings or opinion is what’s in your head and it’s not the reality.” It’s hard for some men to comprehend it.
@lillaperendyАй бұрын
I think the problem is not the feeling statements - that is feminine communication - however a man might hear that you blame him for your feelings. He not doing stuff for you is not actually the cause of your feelings. It is how you interpret his actions. You make it mean he doesn’t care about you when in fact it could be very false (he could just be busy, stressed out etc.). You have to be clear on what his actions triggered in you and self-sooth first. Then when you understood what and why you felt and made yourself feel better you can then communicate it to him without blaming him. Eg. “I love it so much when we get to spend time together babe, and I also noticed I feel quite overwhelmed when I don’t have help with the houeshold chores. What could we do about this? What do you think?” This prompts him to want to help you cos you didn’t directly make him the problem, instead you give him a chance to come up with a solution - which most men love. I hope it makes sense :) Or you can just simply state your need like “I appreciate your help so much around the house, yet I feel that I would love to spend more quality time with you. That always makes me feel so loved. What do you think?”
@ken654312Ай бұрын
Yeah, I don’t mean they’d respond in a gaslighting way. Like in your head. That’s just wrong if they’re doing that. I’m just saying to frame it in a pragmatic way so we’re speaking their language a bit more.
@hannahjoy86233 күн бұрын
How interesting! Language is so powerful.
@Nash_AuroraАй бұрын
When she said "water my dog and walk my plant" at 16:38 she's so relatable. i do that a lot
@kaylacurtis111Ай бұрын
This video reminded me of something I read recently-have you ever heard of 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons? That book is so transformative, it's a life changer.
@EmilyJason-e1wАй бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@nastasjamitrovic8484Ай бұрын
Where can you find this book? Seems difficult to find it
@purrrgatoriumАй бұрын
@@nastasjamitrovic8484it’s a bot
@Lifeoflevi24Ай бұрын
As a female (ignore my son changing my username to his own 😂) I realised I’d easily be love-bombed because my inner child was so desperate for love/validation but I’d only stay/chase guys that would than be avoidant because I felt like I had to earn love as it wasn’t just given freely/unconditionally as a child. I never understood why I didn’t just be a man that was already ready to commit and be a good partner to me, now I realise that uncomfortable feeling was just because it was so unfamiliar. I’d become avoidant towards secure men and anxious attachment to avoidant males. I thought I just liked the chase or was obsessed with one person; didn’t understand codependency and attachment styles until mid 20’s then it all made a LOT of sense and I’ve been able to heal my inner child, be in a healthy secure relationship and validate myself too. Hoping this comment helps someone who also felt like I used to. It gets so much better once you start to connect the dots and understand yourself better to be able to do better for yourself. Absolutely love your podcasts, have listened to them for awhile and now enjoying your KZbin videos too!! ❤️
@Sand.witches15 күн бұрын
Thank you again❤ I just wanna say that you don't have to make the videos longer because for me the length is perfect for consistent focus throughout the video
@dreamerno.3175Ай бұрын
Ohh Margarita, u r literally my saviour! Without watching ur videos, i won't even realize I was doing all these wrong things, and I was even proud of being too masculine.
@languageandmana9255Ай бұрын
I love 30 minute videos❤ less is not detailed enough and more is too long because I need to come back to study. Thank you so much for your amazing videos on relationships and anxious attachment. Could you please make more videos on how to not think of a person who didn't want you and heal you anxious attachment?
@TheWellKeptLifeАй бұрын
Love this video 🎉(as I do all your content, long time follower) you often mention how these things relate to female friendships in passing, but I’d actually love to hear you speak more on HOW to navigate female friendships more in depth. As a married woman your advice has helped me tremendously but I still struggle with building friendships with other women
@SandraBea333Ай бұрын
Oh! I LOVE the bullet points because I have ADHD and I take notes as you go and then come back to them and add details that align with me.
@SabinaFeyzulova11 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@sugarspunsubsАй бұрын
Do you think you can talk about why in the beginning stages with intimacy when you’ve been with someone for years and years it starts to go down I know in the beginning most men are the ones that want it but usually women get into their 40s and 50s we are the ones that want more. I think this would just be something good to talk about.
@melissaayres634714 күн бұрын
I follow you on other platforms! And I was just asking the universe to tell me how to stop sabotaging my relationships! And here you are!! Sharing the answers!❤🎉
@ciiiicciiiiАй бұрын
I ordered your book can not wait
@RyGM-xl8be16 күн бұрын
I bought the journal and re watched this ✨ Can’t wait to check in three months from now!
@amberc6355Ай бұрын
Love these points❤ I think these are all things many of us do or have done. It’s great to get some perspective on how we can show up differently to get what we want out of our relationships.
@Magick_Medicine29 күн бұрын
6 mins in and this is already pure GOLD! Thank you Margarita always
@ashleydaer703Ай бұрын
You have opened my eyes so much with this one video. Thank you so much, I've got a lot to get to work on. I've been stuck in my masculine energy for so long, this is a new discovery to embracing my feminine energy and bettering my relationship with my partner. Can't wait for your next one!
@ShopgirlNY182Ай бұрын
I’ve saved this for future reminders, thanks Margarita! Wishing you all the best! ❤
@mscoconut20Ай бұрын
This is so great Margarita, thank you! Honest feedback as a big fan of yours - the AI generated content visuals and stock imagery used are, I think, underselling your format.
@jacksonthedoggyАй бұрын
I totally agree ❤ I love your videos but the cuts to the stock images, etc is distracting
@goluboenebonadgolovoiАй бұрын
Queen’s uploaded! 🎉🙌🏼 Thank you Margarita 💖🙏 Top tier as always ✨💫🥰🫶🏼 Sending love and light to you and your family ❤️☀️
@TheMagdalenaBB29 күн бұрын
I like the bullet points! I wouldn't mind they are on the screen as you talk. I'd prefer it to the clips. It makes it easy to follow and recall for later.
@bpassion4fashion581Ай бұрын
Great insights Margarita ! But what I want to emphasize is on how funny your delivery is !!!! I laugh so much with all of your videos . Sometimes is about how you frame something, other times I feel like you are almost at the brink of telling it while singing rap! 😂😂😂😂 keep these videos coming ! On a more serious note , my issue has always been this one- I have always fallen for explaining to men the difference between masculine energy and feminine energy and why they “ should “ be doing x, y and Z. What I got with years of messing up and being heart broken is that if they don’t know this information from the beginning, meaning that they are in working from their feminine , I will no longer engage in teaching. I am ready to welcome an alpha male that’s grounded in his masculine . I choose to stay in my feminine.
@FatimaShahid-wl7vh4 күн бұрын
i love this video. i watch iy every day and the way she delivers is so good. its to the point, hint of sarcasm and love the examples. makes me want to be a better person
@maryr23Ай бұрын
Girl you are slaying this makeup look, it was made for you. Also the black dress looks so good on you 😭❤
@marleenmathewsАй бұрын
Dying right now 😂 water my dog and walking my plant
@notabotbrittanyАй бұрын
OH MY GAWT!!!! Girl you look fckn smokin in this thumbnail. Holy sh*t. Gorgeous. ❤ Edit: also gorgeous in the video and always but I mean come on. That’s a badass photo.
@hannahstantonАй бұрын
I know this won’t apply to a lot of woman but I’d love to hear your thoughts on a post partem reinvention/physical glowup/working out who this new version of yourself is xx
@TheChristinameeee10 күн бұрын
Omg yess please!! I’m struggling with postpartum and explaining my feelings to my husband who can’t begin to understand where I’m coming from😭
@Paulina-yv7goАй бұрын
Yes, I heard you talking on IG that we didnt approve those edited videos;)- I second that, just you on the video is what we want! 😊
@hibbahansari26Ай бұрын
It's about time I binge watch all your videos for my feminine winter arc 🫶
@Yllos-i6x23 күн бұрын
You are absolutely amazing! Your wisdom and generosity shine through in everything you share. ❤
@renphi17Ай бұрын
Love the content. Please speak into 🎙️ I have my volume at 40 and once an ad comes on, I’m blowing out my ears
@Draw-y6dАй бұрын
This is exactly what my problem is! I notice every single thing and surprisingly everything aligns to truth at the end!
@jovictoria3Ай бұрын
You are the queen, the queen lets the people do work. YES!’ 👑 thank you Margarita 💕
@4seasons546Ай бұрын
We love ❤️ you Margarita you have a lovely way of speaking voice is soothing to listen to and inspiring I understand you may want to develop by bringing other people that inspire you but please keep doing your individual you only chats because frankly that’s what I prefer so far The other ladies may have interesting things to say but they’re just not pleasant to listen to for the most part maybe ttell them to work on their voice delivery.
@jacquelinemarie918Ай бұрын
As usual this was on point and fabulous! Girl, thank you!
@Karolina-f4fАй бұрын
Margarita, you little angel muffin, this is exactly the content I needed ❤ and I’m so glad you decided to come back to the 30min length videos! Amaziiiinnnn’
@HeatherStecherАй бұрын
Agree with wanting more on female relationships! I’ve been using a lot of your advice on anxious attachment in that way too and would love if you could maybe elaborate on that. Love you and your content (and your book!)
@ophelia9604Ай бұрын
Margaritaaaa I love you so damn much. I'm from Iran. You literally saved me. I trust you. And I love everything about you. Specially the way you talk, like the old sister I never had. Thank you for exiting ❤❤❤🥺🥺
@giannapranayama3105Ай бұрын
Wow This was so incredibly helpful you are so good at getting your points across and saying the hard stuff in such a useful way thank you so much
@tailthemarketmaker2551Ай бұрын
Great format Love the blouse!
@danamashtakova364Ай бұрын
Margarita, this is the best video of the year with very valuable advices! Thanks so much for your energy and love ❤ Sending out lotsa love to you ✨💛
@julie-laurebernard327828 күн бұрын
Thank you very much Margarita ❤ I have taken notes, your content is useful, I am so glad to have found your channel!
@andreealazar38Ай бұрын
Love you! Such a blessing to listen to you! ❤
@fortune_rosesАй бұрын
Recently reset to connect with my feminine energy. Then a guy friend suddenly asked me on a date! He's cute but never thought about it before :D *Aquarius (Pluto* went into my sign) so taking things slow & steady
@JenniferKristin88828 күн бұрын
THIS VIDEO IS GOLD! 👑⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@Creating2413Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video! Awesome! My biggest challenge is trying to speak soft and not always being right. Or even just adding something extra to the conversation that didnt need to be said. And then im thinking i should not have said that. He doesnt really care. And not in a bad way but just it wasn't really needed and it just changes the vibe.
@tinasparkles2434Ай бұрын
Margarita, you look utterly radiant! ...Just finished your latest book, thoroughly enjoyed it ❤
@jacksonthedoggyАй бұрын
Girl, would you ever do a hair and makeup tutorial?? You look stunning, I would love to know about your makeup and hair routine ❤
@murlik779Ай бұрын
hey Margarita what a wonderful video while you were talking i was making notes in my notepad Lol 😂 you are beautiful and amazing loved your content and information i am 45 and found out about feminine energy 3 years ago and i do cultivate it till this day because of not being tuned in my feminine i pushed my man away in my previous relationship which was 3 years ago but i love myself more now and i am more confident now then ever i was in my life love and light from California LA
@RainbowObsydian3 күн бұрын
Relationships are a catalyst for change and my last boyfriend really grew into a more beautiful human though out our relationship. Some things I did tell him to change like the way he reacted when he was upset and whether it was my influence or not he did change.
@TJ-hw5tb27 күн бұрын
Faaanraastic video. Watching it twice in a row .
@sashar5646Ай бұрын
Margaita, thank you for your videos. Can you do some more on recovering after a toxic relationship/situationship? Thank you
@Georgemoore-q9nАй бұрын
Hello sashar🌹🌹 How are you doing! Hope fine
@arihereeeАй бұрын
20. Never been in a rel but, still watching for the future and this girl is perfect 💗💗💗💗
@angiet5682Ай бұрын
The nails are nailing Margarita! ❤ But also love love love your content🌸
@hiameena9682Ай бұрын
Just the video I needed
@heidyalfonso6556Ай бұрын
You are very wise! I enjoy your conversation very much.
@michellebhАй бұрын
“Be attached to his actions” was an aha moment for me
@IsshesakshiАй бұрын
Omg! I can listen to you for an hour or maybe more🔥🔥🔥 I love your energy 🔥🔥
@annam.4184Ай бұрын
Great advice as always! Thank you. And your arms look good in this😉
@El_izabethheartАй бұрын
Love this Margarita!! ❤🥂👜
@carolaacevedo603210 күн бұрын
I love you Margarita thank you so much!
@JaeCole82Ай бұрын
Thank you Margarita! 🫶one love💚
@jasminedeluna1189Ай бұрын
👏🏻I 👏🏻 LOVE 👏🏻 EVERY 👏🏻BIT 👏🏻 THIS!!!!!! 💁🏻♀️🥰✨ Thank you for the length.. the detail... Examples.. yes ma'am! ❤
@mildewww95774 күн бұрын
Margarita girl looking stunning!! ❤
@beenishtahir836610 күн бұрын
You are my saviour. Thank you❤
@sarahsitaraanandavelander9193Ай бұрын
You are so spot on and amazing !! Epic download ❤️🔥
@clairekirkwood8939Ай бұрын
Looking stunning Margarita. Like these lwngth videos with bullet points ! X
@SincerelypauletteАй бұрын
Awesome … You’re The GOAT
@kirtidagautam6786Ай бұрын
Hi Margarita, "I love your content" is an understatement. I adore your videos. A small feedback: It is much more fun to watch you talk, and the video clips distract me. I loved your original style of talking without those clips.
@SunnyD8028 күн бұрын
Needed this, thank you!❤
@TheChickenFairy.Ай бұрын
LITERALLY he was not interested and pulled away 2 months in, it would’ve been the same for years if we stayed together!!!
@dtoussaint0615Ай бұрын
Thank you for another great video!
@bonbutler5039Ай бұрын
Just started following you, great advice! Love your aura!
@janinepolanco319Ай бұрын
We love you margarita! Thank you and you look stunning 💛
@trisham22333Ай бұрын
IMO- A person's actions will always reflect how they prioritize you in their life. Your level of importance to them will show. Along with how you place others in your lives as well but never over exhaust yourself to show someone your worth. A person (no matter the relation) will or will not be authentic, true, & interested fully in many ways & show up for you without asking or questioning him/her.
@Paulina-yv7goАй бұрын
Number one so you can apply those principles- chose a guy you like for who he is and who is mature, dependable, responsible- then you can apply the rest. Otherwise you can put yourself in a dangerous situation when for example trying to trust him, his decisions about family finances and other important matters. I learnt my lesson by experience when chose a guy who always lived under parents umbrella...ended in divorce.
@BunnyBryceАй бұрын
What if he demands me to reciprocate his efforts? What I mean by this is that he initiates video calls, sex, watching movies, playing games etc. and is irritated that I don't do the same. Meaning that I don't take the driver's seat just as often as he does? What then? What if he has mother issues (which he does) and wants me to be motherly and nurturing instead of foxy and indpetendent? What if he has abandonment issues and every time I take care of my own stuff, he feels abandoned and accuses me of cheating? Yup, sounds toxic. But life is toxic to a large extent. Most of us grew up with some toxicity in our environment. Ideally, we would cut toxic people off, but what if it's not toxicity but trauma that needs to be healed? Should I be the queen who leaves when she lets the man be who he is and he shows up as traumatised, willing to work on himself, but not giving her what she expects of a man? Should I abandon him because I deserve the best?
@vanessamelerooАй бұрын
I NEED A PART 2 of this omg this is my 5th time re watching 😍😍😍
@MojeggingsАй бұрын
First i just want to say i freakin love your vibe and you are my go-to when i start feeling my annoying anxious attachments and within a few minutes i start to get that “Damn I’m a Bad Bitch” vibe lol. I love it. I wondered if you could maybe do a video of what to do if you caved and wrote 50 soliloquies back to back after having an insecure moment that you somehow convinced yourself it was fact that your partner is sneaking around on you. How can i become sexy and attractive and make him chase me again after my super crazy episode?
@ArtemisDeer444Ай бұрын
Forgive yourself, you're human after all... Pull all of your energy back to yourself and let him come to you. Don't try, become 🙏🏻💛