HOW TO SURVIVE A KIDNAPPING -adult grabbing you by the wrist

Steven Hiscoe Shihan is an 8th degree black belt in Can-Ryu Jiu-Jitsu and 30+ year law enforcement officer. How to survive a kidnapping attempt. This technique helps escape a wrist grab. This video was taken during the 1 day Survival Academy

[@majormana1]

Much better then what saw on news recently that didn't even tell the kids to make a racket.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Sorry I beg to differ. Predators want to grab kids and get out of the area without being seen or heard. At least this way the technique slows them down and gives the kids a chance to yell and create a commotion. Hopefully someone in the area will hear what is happening and come to their aid. This is not about hurting the adult cause your right it won't, it's about giving yourself a chance to survive. Thanks for your comments

[@Madelena714]

Thank you for sharing this! I'm going to teach this technique to my 6yr old!

[@JoelHuncar]

these kinds of techniques have the ability to save lives not just because of the physical technique itself but because you are teaching children to use good tactics to escape an adult who is intent on abducting them. This combined with the yelling "help stranger hes not my dad!" that you showed in your other video could really save a child's life. Thanks for posting these and I hope you don't mind if I poach a few of these drills for my children's programs.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

This is why we teach the kids to yell, let me go now or this is not my parent. We do not teach to yell Help

[@jayliang2318]

HiscoeJiuJitsu How come not help? Isnt that the direct word to say? Wait Never Mind Just solved my question. They will just think that it is the childs parent acting foolish.

[@denzel387]

HiscoeJiuJitsu good work mate self defense is really inporent for kid and adults to do it can help you

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Thank you

[@sanjogmaharjan87]

+HiscoeJiuJitsu I\'m not sure but ,if anyone else wants to uncover how to defend yourself try Lomonting Survival Situations Mentor (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my friend got excellent results with it.

[@juliawburn2352]

The kidnapper wouldn't want attention drawn to them. What they're looking for is a silent, scared kid the complies. If they try and grab a kid they starts screaming "Let me go!! You aren't my parent!!" passerbyers are going to stop and watch. The child, of course, is not nearly strong enough to throw off an adult (though they let go instinctivly) but they're scared of being noticed.

[@nabranestwistypuzzler7019]

My sensei said to just twist your hand away.

[@sifugreg6073]

Great technique, I will show this to my kids class, wish all kids knew this it could save a life some day. Thank you for posting this

[@VeryAmazingGrace]

This is quite interesting. I'm 13 and a few years ago I did kung fu. We were taught to kind of rotate our wrists when they grabbed it. I've used it on people my age ( in self defense ) but never on an adult. Thank you this is good to know if that doesn't work.

[@MostAmazingThingsToSee]

This is very good. And must say, i respect this all the way. keep up the good work

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Thanks Mike, glad you liked it.

[@MostAmazingThingsToSee]

I have 2 little kids, one 13 and the other 5.... coming over from the philiooines. And I worry so much about them being bullied or an adult trying to do anything. And I worry about me going to jail if anything would happen....lol Just having these type of classes helps out in many many ways.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Sifu Greg, your welcome, this is part of our Survival Academy techniques, thank you for the comment.

[@maxirwin520]

thank you so much for doing this to our kids to help stay strong

[@jenniferlynn467]

I will keep these in mind. I am 27 but im only 4'8 so I thought would be better to look for defense videos for kids due to the fact that I am short but im worried that if ever have to use the technique that my body weight wouldn't stop the attacker cause im only 85 pounds, wouldn't he just be able to walk over to his car with me like that?

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Jennifer lynn never stop fighting, the idea is to be heavy and as loud as possible. Attackers want to be quick and invisible so we need to slow them down and gain peoples attention

[@jenniferlynn467]

HiscoeJiuJitsu yea ill remember that thanks

[@nabranestwistypuzzler7019]

How do you weigh 85 pounds? When I was 4’8”, I weighed 70 pounds.

[@iraja9918]

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[@amandarose9886]

I teach kids 3 and up. These are both excellent techniques. I will use them, thanks.

[@owandrew1043]

For the second method if he tries to take your hair while you are on his leg ?

[@tonysicily2687]

Umm, loved it, I expected it to be another reworked ‘TikTok’ defense, but this is quite practical, given the huge difference in strength and body mass. Subscribed, Saved, and Liked. Thank you for sharing.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

@@tonysicily2687 thank you very much.

[@ashleyveril1146]

thank you for sharing this video.☺

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

+ASHLEY EVE DAMASO you are welcome

[@mieldale6432]

Bless all y’all.

[@apphiataylor8863]

Yah...I see the point of this...but from my military training, being on the ground is the last place you want to be when someone is attacking you...would have been better to have him kick the shins while standing then run. Nice work helping kids, tho...it's better than most of us are doing. xxx

[@THEJKDMAN]

is not the best way but can help in some scenario. Good work.

[@maskedfishing7168]

Do you have anymore videos on avoiding a kidnapper. I would love for my kids to learn these. Thank you

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Just those on the following playlist kzbin.info/aero/PLCGulWO-EbsUOw0k9Sj4Yhh_3-C6MOz8U

[@hollygroeschel1574]

This is video is awesome, and I as an adult was taught to do these moves in a self-defense class! YELL as soon as you drop: "fire" or "help me/stop" Point was - make as much noise as you can to get attention! My question would be, as you drop, and kick - or then grab around their legs, could you not slam up into their privates? Thanks!

[@80fik]

Thank you very much!

[@philswede]

I live in Sweden and have two kids. Thanks for these videos, sadly we need to teach our kids these skills here now. Thank you for uploading. A question from my 9 year old daughter. - what should i do if the attacker pulls my arm/ wrists when i drop, so i spin around and get into a head first towards the attacker (still with the back on the ground) Use fist to balls or teeth on flesh? Dont ask me where she got those words fro. ;) She's a smart one at least .

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Apphia, I totally agree with you about the last place to be is on the ground. Like I mentioned below though the idea is to slow them down and make as much noise as possible to attract attention. Ever to pick up a cat that doesn't want to get picked up? Kids have to be as crazy as that. I appreciate the constructive comment.

[@mandoesgameing8127]

Not fucking jiu jitsu and you don’t fall to the ground

[@tonysicily2687]

Loving your kids self defense channel, really informative😂😂😂😂

[@namelessdubs9807]

wait, what if the person. grabbing you is just your parent, who is just trying to get your attention. if you do this to them, what's gonna happen...

[@themcmater3453]

NamelessDubs well you have to be a shitty child to do this on your parents

[@vipe650r]

Well, most kids aren’t morons, for one. If they are old enough to perform this, they are old enough to know you do NOT hit mom. After that, parent your child.

[@anti1training]

Nothing will happen to their parents, from these techniques.

[@dxadly]

You don't kick them in the leg, you kick them in the balls (;

[@nabranestwistypuzzler7019]

How is he in 8th grade? I saw that he’s up to the guy’s shoulders, which makes sense, but he just looks shorter. EDIT: Ohhh... I misread the title & I thought it says that the boy is in 8th grade, but then I realized that it says the man is an 8th degree black belt.

[@brians374]

Let me ask you this question, do you feel the mental development of a child, ages 8 - 15 is capable of handling the stress of a fight or fight situation? I'm not trying to start a debate here, I am just trying to learn as a parent... And, how much training is involved before the actions become instinctive? I would assume it is dependent on age and development...?

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Hi Brian, each kid is different I guess. I think if give them the tools to defend themselves and get them to practice frequently and increase the intensity in our classes I would hope they could stay calm and react. I think the same applies to adults, if you are not the kind of person to show any outward aggression when needed then could that adult respond in a stressful situation. I truly believe it is based on the individual. If we are not real with our kids then they are living not knowing the true dangers that exist.

[@starbuckwhy]

+Brian S (RubberDuck) the important thing is to deeply instil in the kid the idea that they should be fighting back when they are attacked by an adult. the exact move are not that important. as for the kids being able to handle it. i'm a very very sensitive person, but i got in my first fist fight when i was 7. and was choking people out by the time i was 13. kids are not adaptive, but they are highly reactive. * a kid can handle whatever their life requires them to handle.

[@starbuckwhy]

+starbuckwhy *adapting means getting what needs to be done at the lowest possible cost. solving a conflict with a few diplomatic words rather than a big fight would be an example. being highly reactive means releasing as much or more energy as was put into what was done to you. crying because someone said a harsh word to you is an example, screaming scratching and clawing at someone who grabs your arm is also an example. your kids will do the one you have shown them how to do.

[@iraja9918]

YOU ARE CORRECT YOU NEED TO TRAIN TILL INSTINCTIVE BUT IF AS A GAME MYB 4 OR 5 TIMES MINIMUM?

[@beautyseekingfor2148]

What about if grab our leg but they not pull

[@angelinatran4930]

For the second method where the kid hugs your leg, can't the person just hit her head or neck? What if the man had a weapon?

[@kencurrier3790]

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[@sharpshooter6343]

I love it

[@No-ds4tz]

what about if theres multiple attackers? there been allot of people trying to kidnap kids around my neighborhood, so i want to know how to go against them so i can help my brother if anyone tries anything

[@domibpl3213]

you just need to run away with him to a place with lots of people

[@ejanocrowsnatcher6785]

I learnt something different, you can grab your own hand on the arm they have hold of and use both your arms to yank that 1 arm free

[@oldsgtmajusmc]

11/20/15-Great vidio- I teach 4-6 year old- they are not as big but the principles shown are excellent. I will e mail you-Ari (Richard Luntz of executive Self Defense -----Claksville Tn.

[@khadijoadam8547]

I always wished I could do karate

[@sophiacapistrano6594]

But what if so many guys are there and your just one

[@deadeye339]

Would you mind esplaining more about why not to yell Help. thank you

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

deadeye339 everybody yells help and sometimes people don't really pay attention but if you are yelling " this is not my parent" or "let me go now" it seems to really get people to look and get involved.

[@katiesurridge9578]

I'm 14 but very weak. So if something was to happen to me would I still be able to defend myself?

[@tonysicily2687]

Hi, 6 years later, I hope you are safe, and found a great self defense course near you. There are some great ones out there, check out Urban combative and CALM both specialise in realistic self defense

[@hayley-louise2645]

i do tia kwondo and im nearly a black belt...dont really need this but its definately usefull for others....i also dine kung fu...not as good as tia kwondo tho cause it was more like meditation nit self defence

[@mandoesgameing8127]

Lorren-louise pinkle how long have you done tea kwondo because some Dojos are belt hander outers

[@Lauren-se5bu]

I think there's a better way than this. Just bring your elbow up to the other person's elbow, it creates an impossible angle for them to keep holding. All the while having a strong base (feet apart) so you don't get dragged so easily. I learned this in the Women Empowered program by Gracie University.

[@tonysicily2687]

Adult to adult, this works, but kids do not have the strength to effectively break free. Try it, I have, it simply does not work, even some adult women cannot. See it work without pain distractors being used first.

[@iloveshaylah2]

let me go no let me go no

[@soupinc.8269]

My bro just bits them lol

[@Madelena714]

My daughter and I rough house, so it will be a good thing to practice with her. Since I don't mind a few shin bruises to ensure she will do it right it the time ever arose. And she will take pride in knowing she can beat me down when she sees the bruises later on:) it'll make her feel strong if she cal kick hard enough to give them to me.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Maddie B thanks for the comments Maddie.

[@iraja9918]

THANKU THOUGHT GONNA B STUPID FAKE NOT REALISTIC BUT PERFECT INCREDIBLE WILL B SHOWING MY CHILDREN ESPECIALLY STING ROLL RUN + SCREAMING/SHOUTING FOR HELP MYB ASWELL

[@ursulasmith6402]

Really aesome, many children can be saved from horror and if iwould be president, i , i woyld ask congress and i will sign the bill.

[@sethblood6050]

No offense to you as a coach, but this fallen on your back is a bad way to get pinned. The fact that an adult is above you give them the leverage. One good kick to the face, boom the kids gonna ball up and cry. I'm 14 but I've done boxing since I was 7. Grab me by the wrists and I'll knock your ass out.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Seth Blood I appreciate your comment. How how posting what you would teach a young child to do. I doubt boxing is going to have any effect on an adult.

[@mandoesgameing8127]

HiscoeJiuJitsu and you think this will 😂

[@Smitty-op4ld]

he won't acknowledge it in pride blinding carrying for the children enough to think...hmm If i was the attacked and they risked me going to jail doing this what would i do to shut the kid up? So he can retain them for free at the expense of looking like they wasn't the expert in the gee

[@chrisgomez1840]

i taught my bro twst n pull

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

Joel, your welcome. Maybe we can hook up and I come down and teach a full course for you. Poach all you want.

[@emileighmatthews4955]

I hurt my brother showing him this

[@namelessdubs9807]

how id do it: sing on the floor by ice jjfish while spazing out like crazy. maybe not. I would use the technique in the vid.

[@tonysicily2687]

Have you tested this? You would simply be dragged along the floor, it will not work.

[@VET.abubakar.grewal54]

I try this on my friend

[@mandoesgameing8127]

Jesucristo de Nazareth how you bum

[@rhysdavies7550]

Jesucristo de Nazareth Holy damn,That is a strong word but im not getting into it.

[@mandoesgameing8127]

Jesucristo de Nazareth no I won’t you will and you no what your still a bum

[@Smitty-op4ld]

Definitely won't work. Do not get on your back and kick your kicks will not hurt a grown man and getting on your back is exactly what they want. They will not try to pull you up, they'll punch you while on your back and carry you off severely injured or unconscious. Bite the wrist with everything you have and pull back (don't hold the bite pull flesh with you) and spit and run, make a lot of noise to show the attacker you have zero inhibition.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

+Robert Smith thanks for your comments but I disagree. The goal is to slow the attacker down and create witnesses by being as loud as you can. Please post a video of what you think is a good solution so we can critique it.

[@Smitty-op4ld]

@@HiscoeJiuJitsu if your family is kidnapped and some little boy who's been abusing you daughter is trying to wake up the attackers so you don't get free when you try to escape, when him doing that to you work? The wrap and hug the leg is the worse. They're gonna get hit in the head. As for what I said works, it's in the comment...can't be fully demonstrated if you read it obviously.

[@HiscoeJiuJitsu]

+Robert Smith lots of different scenarios isn’t there. This scenario doesn’t involve my family getting kidnapped. Thanks for your comment.

[@Smitty-op4ld]

@@HiscoeJiuJitsu that scenario wasn't a self defense scenario but one to get you out of pride and thinking like someone trying to silence a child. It's obvious that you just agreed in that scenario that none of this does anything. Only a kid and some mothers maybe convinced enough to give you their money to teach.

[@jeetkunedohungary]

Utcán földre feküdni nem egy jó megoldás.. Könnyebb lágyékon rúgni, vagy a szemébe nyúlni a támadónak.. és utána futás.. 👍

[@brainshowers3925]

falling to the ground is not effective

[@jamesgrayson1564]

Only if he try to kill you, its not effective.

[@brainshowers3925]

I want my kids to learn how to pulverize the perverts larynx or shatter his testicles or something that's going to end the encounter not fall to the ground right where he wants you n shit

[@alexanderchippel]

It's my philosophy rest every man, woman, and child should own a gun. Don't bother with crazy techniques thst won't work on someone who has temporary super strength and speed from s recent hit of PCP, only results.

[@vipe650r]

You are endorsing giving a life-ending firearm to a developing brain that lacks the capability of weighing and evaluating consequences?

[@Smitty-op4ld]

They used to teach gun handling to every elementary school kid and some were probably above average in the class because they went hunting with their dad's at young ages.

[@Thraxz666]

HIT THE GROUND! in a self defense situation? You are trying to adapt your martial art to the street... you can't play soccer with a rugby ball.

[@hottvodka]

¡sʞuɐɥʇ