How to Tell a Friend You're in love with them

I know how awkward it feels, that's why i thought it important to make this video. There are really cool ways you can go about showing a friend you like them more than a friend. i'll show you how
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00:00 - Intro
01:06 - Don't tell your friend in these situations
02:52 - Lemonade finance promo
03:43 - Strategy 1
04:16 - strategy 2
04:49 - Strategy 3
05:13 - Strategy 4
05:58 - Strategy 5
06:42 - Strategy 6
08:17 - strategy 7
09:21 - Strategy 8

[@graceomakada5082]

You can tell when someone is interested in you. People cannot pretend for long

[@ernestmalonkane8668]

The one who won Jessica's heart ❤ is the most blessed man in the world. I am so jealous, I pray and wish I can be with the one of Jessica's caliber. You're so good Jess, you have them all qualities of a true, genuine, intelligent and ofcourse beautiful lady. Stay blessed 🙌🙏🏼

[@verondalytle7858]

MOST DEFINITELY!!!!

[@dae9743]

Just be yourself she like Alpha male!!!!

[@kofikena6212]

Are you definitely sure? Don’t confuse her personality here to that in a relationship ….She might be different in a relationship

[@avm5496]

@@kofikena6212 Her language is incredible, at the same time her eyes are stating she is lonely.

[@aaronmontgomery6977]

Yeah that brother's starving

[@lezzgp]

Jessica is a National Key point. She must be protected. Always with the dopest advice. Always chilled. She’s a Gee..

[@reddeserted13]

My advice: Let the woman make it obvious. Don't do much of anything until she's all but telling you to do so. Just be there, be around. She'll eventually cross over, if you're patient, even if she thinks you're not interested.

[@fitforlifepft1]

1. Tell them how you feel especially if you been hanging out.. 2. If Yes good, but if they just want to be friends, tell them you do not want a friend. 3. Stay nice to them yet busy.. Be Successful.. Do not hang out with them as they will be using you as an upgraded version of a pet.. 4. If she hustles backwards, then she has to work for you and fit in your time.. If she doesn’t come back, she was using your time resource as a way to make herself feel better when she is lonely (friend Zone) or in other words.. An intelligent Pet to pass the time.. Lol

[@ronaldofori2568]

💯💯💯

[@a.l.4720]

So true

[@zacharymitchell3986]

Picking the moment and letting them know how much their friendship is are two of the most important ones to me 💯🎯

[@Leo-yn5fx]

Jessica you are blowing up. This channel is heading for a million.

[@musaa.olarray6456]

I love the last line, time was given till she decided to reject and I'm free to catch up with others, thanks mum, that's how I call you, I'm learning a lot from you.

[@teachersikhumbuzomoyo5419]

My jess this is one of the trickiest topic ever gorgeous! Moving from friend zone/s is very difficult

[@hephzibahmusic8660]

Thanks for the update ❤️ I really appreciate your good works Jessica

[@lebohanganthony4141]

Most of the time I get that you are really talking to me and helpful. ❣️🤦🏿‍♂️😥❤️

[@preha5639]

Trust me some relationships are meant to be just friendship I lost a good girlfriend by crossing over the line physically and it wasn't worth our friendship.. Speaking from experience it doesn't work, Fairy tales don't come true

[@muazswallah5189]

I personally witnessed that, it's damnnn painful 😣

[@fonzworthbentley7455]

It's still best to go for it. Most married couples I know started out as friends

[@findinggrowth743]

Man you ain’t lying. She never was my girlfriend always a good friend and then we crossed the line next thing I know friendship wasn’t the same, shit we dnt even talk now and we been friends since 2003

[@EMN25365]

Yeah broh

[@Eddybo22]

💯💯💯💯💯 not every kitty 🐈 is worth the adventure.

[@ikechukwuaugustine3957]

This is exactly what I expected Thanks sis Jessica. 💕💕🙏

[@rahabmugambi7697]

❤ I truly love the message you have delivered.well researched and proper explanation.the body language tell it all .keep going higher ❤

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Your tips are very valuable and were never taught in school, and I missed high school more than 51 years ago. I appreciate your facts of life during my old age. Once again, God loves Ghana!

[@captainkeyboard1007]

@Kabiru Landon Happy Day to you, Friend! I am glad to be one, too. It is something that brothers and sisters need to learn how to be in the family. I am pleased to learn that Gracious Great God used a man as His instrument to return your partner right back to you. I wish you both the richest blessings that only Gracious Great God can deliver. I thank you for tapping or typing to me.❤

[@loyalpaul_The_Great]

Jessica releases her videos at the right time for me Always super helpful

[@daveondiekaaron2204]

GOOD ADVICE MY FAVOURITE ❤️

[@solomonwaswa4786]

I really appreciate your advises uv taught us

[@jackymiclove2547]

Great advice dear!..thanks, for sharing

[@mainaben135]

good advice jessica

[@christopheromotosho1477]

You are doing a good job, Jessica. Keep it up. Cheers

[@georgeabasiumoh7213]

Thanks for this Ms Jessica

[@user-qj2ju6ie6v]

A good advice

[@Don_Willy]

Thank you so much

[@ramondcunningham1]

I love your content, please never stop doing you. Love all the way from Florida USA 🇺🇸 ❤️

[@JessicaOS]

Appreciate u

[@user-qb1pf8fv3p]

Thank you a lot

[@dreambird6041]

My dear you will win the influencer of the year 💥

[@abrahamkwaghga]

This is wonderful 🥰

[@homeawaymanagementgroup8866]

Thanks Jessica. I just received “ I don’t know you very well. Let us give some time “ text. The video is 6hours late.

[@chuksalbert2829]

This is great

[@toksthoughts]

another advise Jesse, one needs to be intentional about it

[@LifeAndStories89]

The best of Jessica ❤️🥰😍

[@tapiwajrchinhare8291]

You always give points 💪💪

[@musopero1]

I have been in a similar situation when I fell in love with a friend. I told my paternal aunt and she gave me advice which was inline to what Jessica is saying. Her advice was for me to take my friend to a last supper and then break the friendship by first avoiding her for a few days. After the two days I was to write to the friend and tell her that our friendship is hurting me so much because I realised how much I loved her during the the last upper and I cannot bring myself to make her uncomfortable by telling her my feelings and it was best that I stop seeing her. I told her how much I loved her and how much my avoiding her-was hurting me, but had no choice except to stop seeing her. The next thing she did was to come to my place after a few days and told me that my absence had made her realise how much she loved me too. She also told me how much she cried when she read my letter. We became lovers and only broke up when I moved out of the country to study. She gradually fell in love with someone whom we both knew and I was happy for them both.

[@musopero1]

@Kabiru Landon Hi! That is wonderful that you are both together. I wish you the most in your relationship.

[@musopero1]

@Kabiru Landon I do apologise sorry I didn’t get your message. I wish you could be more explicit so that I could understand what you meant

[@introvertedways6976]

Wow that's truly amazing 😢

[@churchillmugosero9556]

Bad ending

[@josephNdichu879]

Glued to your lips and eyes 😍

[@philipizemi5734]

Amazing content ❤

[@Spider_7_7]

4:16 strategy number 2 -- I asked a friend (and former coworker) if she thought we would ever be more than friends or not, and she said no. Since then she rarely has any contact with me. Seems like she doesn’t want to have hardly any contact since I asked her that. It is definitely a risk, just like Jessica said, so be prepared to (possibly) lose your friendship. 😞

[@jasencadet12]

she did you favor, that type of relationship can toxic if it Unrequited love

[@Micky_Frimps]

Wow 👏🏽

[@dvforextrades]

Thank you Jess. At least am a master of this one🤭

[@effiya_ephya]

Quite a delivery 💙 Great stuff!

[@effiya_ephya]

@Jamila Ibrahim Good for U. Enjoy his services alone. I’m good, thanks.

[@addoasante7437]

Jessy we need a topic on "tips to make a conversation with a lady so nice"

[@justus4488]

Jessica, you know what... You just grabbed my subscription today.

[@justus4488]

Cool

[@charltonronald9582]

Jessica...pse put 2 like buttons...I simply like before watching...then after watching I want to like again... Many thanks

[@JessicaOS]

😅

[@EMN25365]

Good content

[@ponderpointjohnawo6964]

Hey Jess. I really want to know how you do this. Did you write down everything you said here and read it all through or you just flowed as it comes.? A big great job I must say... Thanks for your contents, I've been gaining a lot.

[@EPVmedia]

I agree with everything you've said Jessica except for one important thing I think you left out and that is.....always drop verbal or action oriented cues as to how you feel, and carefully watch her feedback or reaction, and this should start a couple of weeks or few months before you actually tell the person how you actually feel. Giving the person cues and making them suspect or wonder if you want more than just being friends softens the ground considerably either way. If they are interested they will give you back soft hints of affirmation. If they are not interested, they will either softly indicate that as well or just flatly ignore your cues. Either way, don't miss the opportunity to actually let them know. Thanks.

[@brightjuniorfumey8809]

I think sharing your feelings for someone over text may come off as cowardly.

[@YTGTWGaming]

Me to you lol more than friends 🥰

[@iAMANELMERIAN]

8.56 That's it, gentlemen. That's it.

[@hollywoodmovietrailershd1787]

Today I Lost a Wonderful Women sadly... But she will be in my heart until my last breath ❤

[@JessicaOS]

May her soul RIP 🙏🏾

[@Wrestler1983]

🌷

[@sharonomari573]

Jess Jess 💐💞👍

[@danfiesta1]

She won't be mad at you if she likes you. I have a friend and I told her about my feelings after 5 years if friendship. Her reply was "I need to settle down " Note she already got 2 kids. That might be the reason behind her settling down.

[@theboyamiri6402]

The girl I like is my bestie and am even scared that if I tell her my feelings is going to end our friendship 🤦🏿

[@jourdanfarquharson4697]

Depends on what type of person she. Some females may cut you off as soon as you confess. But thats mainly if youre not very close. However in case id suggest leading one of youre casual conversations into the confession, use suitable past events that connect well to youre confession. If she cut you off then it wasnt that close. Or in my case where the rejection is via not feeling the same( didnt say she only see as friend or brother) there is possibility that you 2 need time away from each other to see if things change. If you two are part of a friend cirle where both of you interact closely with the other friends then id say you could confess and agree to stay friends on the basis of the friend circle

[@kevincroft9848]

Thank you Jessica for this very important video. I happen to have a good friend who I would like to know more romanticly She is 45 Iam 65.She has two children one boy 10 one girl 12 lovely kids . But the boy dosnt like me the girl loves me alot. I would like to take this friendship deeper into a romantic relationship. I take all your points on board. We are very close friends but I wantvto marry this friend of mine . We get on really well . But my friend is a little afraid of commitment. What can I do. Kevin from UK 🇬🇧

[@yungfelix17]

I like my friend but I'm not sure how she feels. We talk for hours, basically everyday & I do feel like she likes me more then what she acknowledges but who knows. Gonna tell her oneday, but it would definitely have to be in person...texting something like that is a bad idea

[@TooprettyBoy]

People feel how they feel 😕

[@lonewulfmo9128]

Both perp and victim of this. Told a friend I like her more. She didn't feel same, I accepted, we remained friends, Good friends. Another female friend on other hand I got phone calls from several of her friends wondering whats up between us, that was soooooooo awkward cause I'd never EVER insinuated or hinted or flirted w her. Friendship was never same, just weird n awkward n not OK any more.

[@davinta3876]

What can I say Jessy? It is an awesome video once Again , Kindly allow me to just shared a bit experiences story about this subject. From my previous experience it has been works very best but with time, patience, humble and comfort. I came across one lady when I was at the college about 13 years ago, we went same college, at that time she had a boyfriend, she was sophomore and I was just a fresh man. I mean I was really down to earthy by her brownish color, indecent voices and her bluish typo eyes, by the way I got crazy feelings if I met a girl with blueish eyes, ♥️,Anyway, I went ahead and expressed to her about my feelings, which she turned me down by said nope, She told me straight that she was in love with her boyfriend which I happened to seeing them hanging around most of time. Don't give me wrong I was hurted a little bit , So then decided to be her friend whereby we could hang out everyone now and then , so I stayed on sideline for all those years in college without getting neither romance nor hugging. However, since we're sharing a lots of talks a stories over the phone , she was very much shared to me the ups and downs and mis treatments that she was going through on her relationship, So very often I was around to comfort her in time of need without crossing a line of his boyfriend or said bad critics about her boyfriend,such as I was even willing to escort her to the hospital from time to time , while his boyfriend did not. I was assured that she was getting a very simple birthday gift every year for the five years period even after graduation. So then after graduation we were still seeing each other as friends for another 3 years in row, as usually just played dummy "santa clause who give gifts and comfort and time when there is a need". I was very shock one day after five years down along the day ,she called me over the phone and told me that she paid for motel and asked me join her because she is ready to make the best love to me. Guess what it took me less than an hour and I was there. We did make the best love , it was really nice. So then I asked why did she decided to give to me? while she is in relationship with the same boyfriend.? She told me that she admitted my humbleness, patience and my willingness to always being there for her more than her boyfriend. So I was shared with him for almost a year and before I know his boyfriend found out and confronted me that she really love her and they have had a plans for marriage. So I did the right thing for her and let her go. So I hope you can see when your patience, humble , comfort to a girl eventually you can win the heart.

[@lovethsweetlove5601]

Jessica I like you

[@omarcasinogh7141]

How to choose the one you love

[@moneybizniz24-79]

🇬🇭

[@Screwbear]

What if this friend is touchy feely with me, starts arguments when i don’t talk to her and often calls me whenever Im thinking about her. Sometimes we’ll avoid each other for hours at work until one of us say something. I think we’re both fighting feelings.

[@emmanuelduru4942]

You both love each other

[@allankarabo4978]

That's your wifey bro!

[@stewarthtet2551]

Should i confess her as a surprise or drop hints through mutual fris?

[@fonzworthbentley7455]

I'm attracted to a friend of mine but not romantically, only physically..how do people begin a friends with benefits situation? I see a lot of FWB couples in my social circle and I don't know how they do it

[@jourdanfarquharson4697]

Id like to know the answer to this too

[@12Messenger]

Jessica Os If I enroll in patreon for the 25 subscription How long would i wait before able to video chat you live?

[@JessicaOS]

Depends on both our schedules.

[@ilikegummybears8943]

Should we keep talking to someone who does not feel the same way after they know you like them. you know they will go with someone else later in life

[@JessicaOS]

It's entirely up to you

[@mondioscar6547]

What could it be if She smiles and responds 'i won't mind you' anytime you initiate a private conversation with her and still keep you in that ego to hit on her.

[@bootsybrown]

What pretty brown eyes you have 👀

[@bootsybrown]

🤗😁

[@edwardbrito4010]

I think this is a mismatch of love & it’s unfair for person most in love. They are worst position do most & care… I highly doubt person not in love does more. I think saying it romantically & beautiful way is best yes they may crush you but it’s best. Use your personality however it is & say something like I want to love more deeply we started as friends & my love for you grew deeply maybe a time or moment. Explain it & she may have hesitation say I want to love you more deeply. If she says no or is repulsed say it’s not fair if you are not my future gf if I love you this deeply so give me some space to adjust. I may give you half time & love now so I can find someone that truly loves me. But now I give you maybe your final chance to see how much more I can love you & for you to begin loving me closer & giving this a shot. If she rejects you it’s ok I still care for you as a friend we just be more distant so I make room in my heart for my true love kiss her hand. If she accepts then kiss her to be sure. Everything depends if you have no connection this be bad idea.

[@findinggrowth743]

I need help then Jessica, I been telling this young lady I like her she knows and can tell, I told her I dnt want a fuck buddy or be a friend with benefits and yet we are nothing. Also show I want more and voiced It, I see her more then somebody I tlk to. Even had her as my screen saver 🤦🏽‍♂️ at a point

[@findinggrowth743]

@jane love I dnt want my ex always gonna love her but nah she can live the life she wants, instead Wht we was building

[@nkamwesigasaul]

I have been watching ur videos but still am failing to convince a girl, who ever I approach she tells me she is booked and has a boy friend

[@B_Thunderbolt_]

She texted me and stopped replying . It’s 3months later and she keeps posting stuff to get at me. Is she waiting for me to start the conversation again ? I thought she ghosted me? Yes I didn’t know the 3day thing women do. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️ there are too many coincidences with her FB stories and posts.

[@geraldgrecilien4835]

Your friendship won't be the same if she or he says no. You'd better stay in the friendship relationship instead of expressing your love for your friend cause that friendship can disappear in a blink of an eye! And this is so sad!😒😒

[@jeidriell]

I was thinking on how to express my feelings to my crush, and suddenly this video dropped, I really appreciate u for this video ma'am. I pray for more Grace upon ur life and family 🙏 and also looking forward to come share my testimony here in the comment section 😏

[@lebell79]

Ah thats easy: i make grunting noises and point at my croch . Try it, it works!

[@michaelg7456]

More great info Jess! Lemonade and Passion! 🍋💵✈️💃🏽👍

[@JohnM...]

I'm sorry but this advice is garbage. If you're interested in a friend becoming MORE, yhen: 1. Never ever TELL her, but SHOW her by increasingly flirty behaviour and teasing of her in a playful way. Jesus Christ, NEVER tell her you like her that way. 2. NEVER, EVER, if you like her romantically, accept just 'froendship'. That's just plain PATHETIC. I did exactly what she said with a friend and got the reply: "I was always very FOND of you 🤢🤮 but if we catch up it would only be as friends." My (SELF RESPECTING) reply: "Well, if things change and you feel different, you have my #. Take care."