I Caught My Husband Using a Dating App for Men

I arrived and noticed my husband's behavior was really strange. He wasn't the thoughtful, charming guy I thought I had been emailing, but rather he was cold and distant. Many months had passed and all I had really received from him were glances in disgust and the bare minimum in conversations.. he couldn't even TOUCH me. I knew this behavior was definitely not normal, and DEFINITELY not the love I had hoped for. Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore and I broke down crying to him.. I guess this made him take pity on me because we somehow ended up in bed together and before I knew it I was knocked up.
My husband and I are no longer together, but we're still trying to get divorced. Now that I look back I realize how uneducated I was in the whole ordeal and wish that I had just left sooner so he could be happy with who he wanted to be. To this day he will still not admit that he likes men - I wish that he did because it is no sin. The sin is in the lies he told me. But, it doesn't matter, because now my son and I are finally safe and happy.
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[@alchemy-the-animated-series]

How could he call his own child ugly and take out his anger on a child?!

[@bonkbonk02368]

C'mon man he gave his child the genes....

[@alchemy-the-animated-series]

@@bonkbonk02368 lmaooo i just realized that. But the kid still has a chance at being straight

[@bonkbonk02368]

@@alchemy-the-animated-series didn't mean sexuality wise, I meant like appearance wise😅

[@bonkbonk02368]

@@alchemy-the-animated-series Like, he called his own child ugly, I meant he called himself ugly☠️🤣

[@alchemy-the-animated-series]

@@bonkbonk02368 LMAOOO WHY DID I THINK U MEANT SEXUALITY WISE 🤦‍♂️ 😂 and yeah ur right if he calls his child ugly, then that means the child got the ugly from him

[@sugggamelly1894]

I really wish guys would tell their partner straight up the truth. How you gonna lead on your partner knowing your doing guys on the low.

[@man1388]

Ikr

[@Violeta-bm1tx]

Right that’s just wrong

[@call_me_anarkiddie8134]

Dude, this story is fake.

[@melissakimbrell447]

*straight* on

[@nikolatheme5572]

First of all do you really think he could be open in whatever country he was in. He would probably be done for if people found out. Then internalised homophobia within him because of society. Then it being arranged marriage, so he probably didn't want it in a first place. I only blame him for taking it out on a child.

[@adannaanigbgou1142]

i don't care if your gay, bi, lesbian, you led someone on, you let them believe that you truly love them, like it gives me chills

[@barbz5534]

Well you can tell he was grown in an homophpbic home he is telling him self that he is not gay even though he likes men

[@fabiankioku5100]

@@barbz5534 still not an excuse

[@jaicool9376]

His fetishes gay orientation extremely fine betraying you is wrong

[@Kida_mnesia]

That's exactly what I wanted to write

[@zbear199b3]

Yes

[@justencimino5951]

Yes it is OK but that doesn’t give him the right to neglect his child and wife

[@Kida_mnesia]

Yes

[@cnocee]

yall know these stories aren't real at all

[@edgarallanpoestheblackcat6613]

She should had left him a long time ago.

[@hopesfile]

Your husband is 💅🏽

[@bby6421]

BYE-

[@hopesfile]

@@bby6421 LMAO HI-

[@MayaMaya-ey8li]

😭😭

[@deonambrose]

😂

[@ratenthusiastnico]

Sweetie not all gay men are flamboyant.

[@cheamhood7265]

This guy is didnt even consider her feelings

[@Im.lucky.t0.have.met.y0u]

The poor child had to go though that at such a young age that’s awful 😭

[@iknowwhoyouare_]

t o k o

[@bbldrakevibes7851]

This is actually horrible, I hope she finds someone who will treat her and her baby like treasure.

[@ferrariprobz]

I like ur profile pic lol

[@ferrariprobz]

I like ur profile pic and ur name L0L

[@lostseouls]

these comments are so sad, yea being gay is alright, but the fact that ppl are forgetting this person is a bad person

[@trinakline7873]

I know ;(

[@lunardragon4515]

Exactly my point!!!

[@hiraaltaf528]

Exactly if you are gay then dont marry to a girl plz

[@Alaplaya9]

You are also not getting that "this man" is not real

[@arianapeterkin9529]

When I saw this video, I knew that would be something people worry about.

[@kellyjoseph4748]

I get that some people are not accepting of the LGBT community, however you do not treat people the way this man treated his family, he should have been upfront with his wife and maybe she could have helped in some way, even if it was just leaving him and let him be in his own so he can have the freedom to explore

[@call_me_anarkiddie8134]

This story is fake...

[@lunardragon4515]

@@call_me_anarkiddie8134 nah it's real bro.

[@lunardragon4515]

Bruh......

[@nikolatheme5572]

She said that they both could have been killed for this so I think hat people in that country are little bit more then unaccepting. Also brcaus eof it being arranged marriage I am pretty much ok with everything he did except taking it out on a child.

[@cursade-lif2897]

@@nikolatheme5572 he lead her on to the point where she came to his country he didn't have to do that

[@marrieabba3607]

You know...some of you here are weird. If he wasn't into men and all, you'll would be bashing him for betraying her countless times. But since he's gay/bi y'all are trying to justify is actions with the "he's trying to find his sexuality" card. I will be very frank, Being gay doesn't justify the fact that he treated her and their son wrong.

[@nikolatheme5572]

Here is the difference, did you notice how she talked about the country and how she said they could be killed for that. Well now Imagine having internalised homophobia and living in that situation. If it was normal marriage I would agree that cheating was wrong, however it seemed like neither of them had a say in it. She also knew he liked man and kept making advances even after. The only thing he did wrong in my opinion is how he treated his son. He son didn't deserve that but everyone else got what they deserve.

[@nikolatheme5572]

I mean really, homophobes been forcing gay people into these situation and then act butthurt when these situations happen.

[@dariaazarova7236]

@@nikolatheme5572 i agree, ijust dont really see why he ABBUSED her u know

[@dariaazarova7236]

@@nikolatheme5572 he should have just asked for a divorce

[@nikolatheme5572]

@@dariaazarova7236 I mean why didn't she? If I am correct she run away and still to this day isn't divorced from him. Which tells me that situation they were in wa s more complicated. Also I seen many people saying why dosent he just move to another country. Well first of all he has internalised homophobia so that wouldent help on it's own. Second it isn't as easy as people make it out to be. You need plans, packing and money to leave. Plus if he did that there could have been possibility that he will lose touch with his family. Third for some people it is alot harder to leave country they grew up even if they are unhappy there.

[@Maxithicc]

Reminds me of Freddie mercury's story with his girlfriend

[@Veezyindacut]

yikess

[@theresa849]

He's gay??

[@fukase861]

@@theresa849 very, thats how he died because of aids lmao

[@theresa849]

@@fukase861 omg

[@theresa849]

@Bominator I know him I just didn't know he was gay haha

[@rickylafleur9601]

Maybe he didn’t love you anymore. Statistically 1-3 marriages don’t work out.

[@oruletesfahejiz]

Genius right here

[@uhhkdc08]

👏👏👏

[@jordzsupremacy]

lmao

[@BlackJoker29]

he never loved her to begin with o.o

[@rickylafleur9601]

@@BlackJoker29, pimp.

[@deonambrose]

The thumbnail had me weak 😂

[@ferrariprobz]

L0L

[@lyle_marie_ceniza]

The husband could have just been honest to her.

[@hiraaltaf528]

If anyone is gay just please dont ruin a girl's life like this just tell her at the beginning

[@conejablanca225]

The miniature picture looks like if miley Cyrus and Hitler had a baby😆.

[@Kazuma_kiryu311]

Ikr lol

[@Brazyondrugs]

omfg ur so right

[@themcadambrothers3184]

Somebody is actually probably gonna draw your comment

[@sayadiva123]

That hits hard. I'm sorry you went through that. Glad you got out of it

[@aaliyahrobinson9175]

I’m confused on how they got married .

[@sunnyblesses9251]

You don't have to be ashamed of asking affection to your lover or husband

[@galaxy_mooncat779]

I hope she finds a man who loves her

[@synia9053]

Same

[@angelayanguwu1883]

geez, why would the husband be like this? I am shocked

[@bby6421]

I-

[@hopesfile]

He's a little 💅🏽

[@angelayanguwu1883]

@@Babyduragg wow

[@hopesfile]

@@angelayanguwu1883 he is ✨gay✨

[@Acissye]

Title check: "My Husband Loves Men That Wear Dresses and Did THIS Behind My Back" Feel free to comment the new title if it appears!

[@T3rranc3]

Well do

[@CLOUDYANGEL-qq8to]

It was literally that when i looked than i went to play a game came back and it said "the father of my child turned gay" and that was like 3 mins ago

[@Acissye]

"My Husband Loves Guys That Wear Dresses and Asks Them to Do What?!"

[@mariareynolds446]

My Husband Loves Guys That Wear Dresses and Asks Them to Do What?!

[@Acissye]

@@mariareynolds446 haha Back to the beginning I see - I rly wonder why they do it

[@sparklyloveyou20]

I don't know what kink this husband has but it sounds weird as hell

[@treechoppa42]

Hunny Its called being gay which is fine, betraying your wife isnt

[@treechoppa42]

And being gay isnt a kink

[@sparklyloveyou20]

@@treechoppa42 i know that someone's sexuality is not a kink, it really shouldn't be, but it sounds like the husband is fetishizing men wearing feminine clothes which kind of sounds weird if you're asking me. Now, Im not directing any form of negativity towards lgbtq, in fact I'm bisexual myself so, yea, and men and women have the right to wear whatever they want so men wearing women's clothes and makeup shouldn't be a sexual kink but a positive way of expressing themselves and their true personality.

[@sparklyloveyou20]

@Dede August i mean, it's ok to have a kink for something, I personally don't kink shame, but you shouldn't be kinking over someone's sexual orientation, I'd consider live, and let live

[@mackenziethebestbrittanysd5561]

@@treechoppa42 this is 100% not how gay men usually act

[@aepbuzz]

so obviously he had a lot of internalized homophobia, but oh my god he shouldn't have made you suffer

[@sophiaquintana256]

I never saw a story like that before

[@zara.1212]

she’s so right. i hope he regrets how he treated her and their son and seeks help. he needs to learn to accept himself and be a good parent.

[@bussinbussin2618]

The sin was him cheating💀

[@mellowcream4804]

I mostly know when gay dudes dont wear dresses but femboys do.

[@AktivnaPropaganda]

I love men who wear dresses too 😳

[@bby6421]

SAME

[@pwud11n64]

YAAAAASS

[@uselessweaboo2434]

Samee

[@hopesfile]

sameee

[@ashtonamajiki6831]

I’m a femboy

[@saraqm7171]

Awwww 🤢🤮🤮🤮, How much this man is disgusting

[@princesslee8882]

You don't treat people this way. WHOS WITH ME!!

[@Mira-ee6lw]

These comments drier then my skin

[@SaraAli-qz9ii]

The most important thing is that you are and your son in a safe....

[@katherineknapp6604]

Gay cool they way he treated you and your son, not cool!

[@faexs_3208]

I am freaking first for the first time I am first and I hope she finds someone who actually loves her

[@Tuvivlogs]

Army!!!!!!

[@mackenziethebestbrittanysd5561]

@@Tuvivlogs stop

[@stevedicktip9500]

@@Tuvivlogs stop it

[@ther3487]

Probably the only real story channel out there

[@animetalk8132]

Confuse when she said didn't wanna sit on her in the bedroom

[@artsylinna9599]

First of all, don't make a title like this, men can wear dresses if they want. Second, if you are having a straight relationship and realize the guy is gay, dump him. Because that is a huge disrespect to you, the fact that they lied to your face, acted like they're attracted to you, or not even bother but just minipulated you (sorry if I spell word's wrong my brain is not working since it's morning here) dump this man, or dump the women if she's a lesbian and is just minipulating you, the guy, it goes both ways. Ofc this can also happen to non-binary ppl but I'm already tired of typing. Moral of the story, leave your ex if they're minipulating you into being with them. Not healthy.

[@Zoe-dy4uk]

It’s not that easy. I hope you realize you sound very ignorant.

[@artsylinna9599]

@@Zoe-dy4uk I know it's definitely not that easy to do so but I am tired an the time when I typed this. I haven't experienced anything like this myself but I've heard enough stories from friends and other sources. I'm sorry I sound ignorant but I definitely won't underestimate situations like this, I know it's hard, like I mentioned, it's literally manipulation, and I know the lady in this story had a child in her already and there were possibly many more reasons to why she couldn't leave this relationship besides that she is pregnant such as maybe just general family pressure. And I hope you get that I am by no means attacking, I'm simply explaining my actions and if I sound offensive I'm really sorry and I apologize for sounding like that.

[@Zoe-dy4uk]

@@artsylinna9599 It’s okay

[@artsylinna9599]

@@Zoe-dy4uk thank you for being nice

[@nikolatheme5572]

@@artsylinna9599 girl... It was forced marriage neither of them had a choice.

[@anneboleyn2236]

She should've left him earlier.

[@akirakozume7261]

Homophobics be like: Edit: lol it's the frist time that someone answer me like this, thinks how I think. I'm defending the man cuz even tho he did something wrong he needs to be accepted and I'm not saying that the woman isn't right tho.

[@hopesfile]

when I read the title my eyes went wide 🤚🏽 it sounds ✨homophobic✨

[@bby6421]

I wish some people would accept people who dresses how they want. Like if a guy wanna dress like a girl or wear anything girly let them it's none of you're business🏃🏽‍♀️

[@katarinateofanov]

No that's not homophobia. She was his WIFE, they were married and had a child! That means he cheated and lied to her basicaly their whole realiationship, you'd probably feel upset too if it happened to you. Beeing gay isn't an excuse to lie to someone like that.

[@hopesfile]

@@katarinateofanov I dont think the marriage was like buddy buddy "I knew her for 14 years" it was probably a forced relationship but I wouldn't care i would get a divorce and act like an adult. I would be happy my partner came out of the closet

[@artsylinna9599]

@@katarinateofanov no, we are discussing how the title itself, without looking at the story is highly suggesting general hate/dislike towards men who wears dresses. I do agree in the fact that the guy in this story is a manipulating piece of sh*t, but we are only discussing the wrongful wording or choice of the title as it isn't the most relevant to the story and also like I said, suggests hate/dislike towards men who wear dresses.

[@nethermationreal]

The art/art style is so pretty 😔👌🏿

[@ferrariprobz]

Ikr

[@estherreinhold5923]

Why does her husband reminds me of Sangwoo from killing stalking 😳

[@zoehange4217]

I aM iNsIdE

[@maylee431]

Y'all should look into both sides. She would obviously be hurt, I mean- she carried their son! Not to mention that he hurt their son.. And I know how hard it is to come out the closet, cause I also came out a year ago.. and it ain't wrong to admit that you like guys, the girl even said that in the end of the vid. The title sounds homophobic tbh👁️👄👁️

[@floray_draws]

I agree, when I first saw this video title, it sounded like men liking guys was a bad thing, I think they could have done a better job naming the title.

[@janiecealbell8530]

@@floray_draws it is a bad thing. He cheated and cheating is never okay even if you are coming out

[@nikolatheme5572]

@@janiecealbell8530 yeah in normal marriage this was arranged marriage in country filled with homophobes where he probably could have been killed for it. So maybe think about his side more.

[@jaedevrick]

I think the title was fine. Homophobia Will always be a thing. But the title didn’t give that. What caught my attention was “my husband”

[@game_throweryt8452]

Nobody cares if your first

[@JesusMartinez-rr2ry]

I really need to file a restraining order against the thumbnail of this video.

[@fionnous4263]

You are not ugly

[@cicirosehannigan]

I'm okay with gay people but not a guy like that

[@danielafurtado5439]

Isn't you fault woman, this man is just sick. You did well leave this guy behind. Just look after yourself and your son. DO NOT let his stupid behaviour put you down and go and find a good man that loves you and your son 🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽

[@marajithestrongestthereis910]

This is worse than cheating by far🤣

[@woningagemo1334]

When I saw the title I clicked the video like ' Oh damn he's gay'

[@violetberryartist8662]

Right at the start is already weird, I mean like, 3 phones??????

[@m.newyork4670]

I thank you 🙏 a lot , I was looking for short stories to read .you really make my life easy 😊

[@kaisongamer8633]

As soon as I looked at the thumbnail of this video, I was like: your husband is a James Charles wannabe.

[@Franaflyby]

There's allot of men out there sneaking around on their wife. I know a guy who sits and greets people going to a church and then I find out he's hitting in my ex husband. Weirdo!!

[@VixenVulpix266]

oh no that's not okay

[@xxari_cupcakexx1522]

So this man wanted to do something “fun”?

[@nightwolf7244]

What kind of husband is he?

[@lostangelwings5953]

Idc if u are lgbtqia+ if u are leading people on or cheating on someone, it’s wrong

[@catwoman5665]

Gay or straight cheating is cheating.

[@analogaudiorules1724]

WTF did i just watch, my eyes... they bleed...

[@mellowcream4804]

I want her husband to find this

[@gxuniverse7300]

The husband is HUGE insult to LGBTQI community.

[@kaeyravelez]

I wish men were open about their sexuality 😔 they would be surprised with how many people are okay with what people like

[@bubba283]

I wish I could be open that I'm a gay guy, I've learned there's way more of us than most people think

[@angongpeter2150]

Well that's creepy

[@arshilzia3842]

2:38 girl even the goats getting bonked but you 💔!!

[@internetvoid4437]

1:49 Black-White

[@francinecharles5047]

2:11 we just gonna ignore how they made her albino in one of the frames 😭💀

[@elmin82]

this happened because some people are afraid to coming out and they have to life a double life

[@meloette9896]

He has a family: a wife and a child. An asshole is an asshole. NO excuse for the crap he did.

[@elmin82]

@@meloette9896 that's why he have to coming out , if he's gay ...

[@meloette9896]

@@elmin82 Are you actually justifying his horrific actions towards his WIFE and SON?

[@هدي-ه8ظ]

@@meloette9896 cause he’s gay that’s why. Double standards

[@game_throweryt8452]

I feel bad for the women

[@deeg4132]

Dam sis, what the goat do to u?😞

[@mackenziethebestbrittanysd5561]

He's abusive?

[@EmptyHub]

That's not what she ment

[@iiShannii]

🤣

[@mightychondria666]

It’s ok to be gay (coming from a pansexual demisexual) but thats not the point here, the way he treated his children is wrong

[@topshotta_walahi_killer-da651]

Lol

[@Jacketchipss]

I’d like to remind people that this story is completely fake and they quite literally portrayed him to be evil and horrible to his wife and kid so that cishets would hate gay men even more because of their own preferences. Throughout the beginning of this the woman is literally SO HUNGRY I swear and then she stright up judges the guy like wtf you just.. like. Homophobia at its finest. Now, I am only hating this whole video. I understand situations like this happen in real life and that it’s very much of a problem, but seriously I can’t believe you are defending this woman because of how the man was created to be hated. Of COURSE they made the woman the victim. Deleting this comment in a week. I will not be reading or responding to replies.

[@mirramirror5369]

Yeah ok a week😂, so I hope your doing well and found errors in your comments and saying you won’t read or reply indicates you truly do understand the problem with the man and what he did wrong

[@maroua5855]

"Wallaaaah ul3adim u are gay, wallaaah you are gay." -random guy 2017

[@هدي-ه8ظ]

Wallahi hes gay 😂

[@rania2072]

Sorry for you

[@themcadambrothers3184]

Let people be who they are Statistically 1-3 marriages don’t work out CREDITS FOR THIS COMMENT I MADE: forest ferrer

[@ethanbumpus9580]

I doubt if this is real

[@raineblackstar3522]

A guy doing Drag isn't bad y'know. He probably didn't tell you because you didn't accept him for loving Drag.

[@beautybrainsbrawn]

That doesn’t excuse him for treating his wife so poorly!

[@raineblackstar3522]

@@beautybrainsbrawn it may not, but it's usually the result of unaccepting behavior and the need to defend himself over his sexuality. Both sides made mistakes, so don't even think of arguing with me about this.

[@savannaj222]

@@raineblackstar3522 he literally cheated on her multiple times and abused her and her son this isn’t transphobic homophobic or anything she didn’t do anything wrong

[@raineblackstar3522]

@@savannaj222 she did do something wrong. Tricking him into thinking that she was another man and causing him to spill his secrets. Usually marriages do not have secrets so something doesn't add up here. Also don't try to argue with me. I'm just expressing my opinions here.

[@janiecealbell8530]

@@raineblackstar3522oh yeah she’s wrong, not the guy whose abusive to her emotionally and their son

[@mckai4717]

He’s a cross dresser XD

[@mellowcream4804]

And be like “damn what did i do damn man damn..”

[@chriswilkinson9400]

Go Back to grandparents house

[@rockweex5484]

He’s kinda just doing his this let him be

[@man1388]

No, not while hes still married.

[@maylee431]

We got it but he's married and he is lookin at others, he even guilt tripped her.. Im okay if he wear dresses but I feel bad for the wife

[@rockweex5484]

This was before I watched the video I see what mistakes happened

[@savannaj222]

@@maylee431 he also abused their child and her so idk why people are defending him and mad at her

[@man1388]

@Rock Weex All is forgiven.

[@kalasiahodges754]

he not gay he's just vibing purrrrr

[@topshotta_walahi_killer-da651]

Errrhgh fiyah

[@deeg4132]

He said 💁🏽‍♂️💄 👠👗

[@xxari_cupcakexx1522]

I just realized they are using procreate! Look at 3:09 the brush there is a procreate brush

[@yousifalzhra]

Jesus loves you

[@mr.buttnugget3023]

Sis not trying to be funny you should have left !

[@EvilEnsembleStars]

I'm like 26 seconds end and I'm already considered

[@ButterscotchMcBean1995]

What a gay boy.

[@star_deluxely3004]

ok I just checked L- L

[@asimarthurton1776]

A very interesting story you told but who knew that your husband was in two men knowing that he only he did you for that I don't say then I don't blame you there are some countries as well hearing that allow gay marriage to happen or any other day relationship but if I was you you're lucky that you took you so long with you because you really don't want your son to grow up to be just like his father so have faith and keep pushing forward and what is the time comes you can fully divorced his ass forever🤞🏽

[@beonthego8725]

You bore a heavy boden for so long.

[@plazycat1061]

Gurl no

[@nctoutsold2022]

Maybe he'll be a clothes artist? 🙂 Like, you can't know

[@soldiermarvinbackup]

7:21 it is in fact a sin

[@alexthecatwolf]

This is homophobic

[@yuniion1]

I’m so early :o

[@anastasiabacklund8854]

0:14 Just admit it is grindr, we all know it is grindr

[@bubba283]

My ex gf caught me on grindr app, I said oh damn

[@justsomepersononyoutube9271]

Disgrace