"I Don't Think Love Exists" with Anthony Cumia (from Joe Rogan Experience

[@bloodprince113]

"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition he provides something." - Chris Rock

[@9000Gameplays]

Amen to that!

[@pmaii7707]

4k Starfish yeah it’s cause your not attracted to them or there not attracted to you so you play your part

[@zsuzsuspetals]

Well if Chris Rock said it, it must be true! Women could say the same thing. They are only loved under the condition she looks good and provides sex on a regular basis.

[@mtjeeves1234]

@@zsuzsuspetals Well, I'm sorry. That's what the feminists have turned you into. We're complaining because being a society of workers is all feminists think men are suited for. Women are in the position they are in because of their belief structure, just like men who for centuries have catered to women to provide for them and keep them safe. We used to be respected for that. Now we're disrepescted for it, and still expected to do it! What is required of women in society today? If a woman can't support her child. We give her EVERYTHING she needs. If a man can't he goes to a debtors prison. If a woman commits a crime. She rarely sees 60% of the punishment a man does for the same crime. Women aren't accountable or responsible for their actions in society. They have NO social responsibilities any longer, they just make demands of men!

[@zsuzsuspetals]

@@mtjeeves1234 You will never find someone more anti feminist than me. I am 47 years old, I've been married for 20 years. My husband has never cooked a meal or done a load of laundry. However I also had a business degree when we met. He was completely broke. His car was worth $500. I paid all of our bills and we used my car for the first two years we were married. I worked and took care of the house while he built his business. I married him for love, not his money. But I also loved his work ethic and intelligence. His passion was his company. It took many years to see a profit and only after 18 years of marriage did we really start doing well in life. I'm sure people I'd meet now would think I married my husband for his money. They have no idea how much we struggled and how much more I had than him when we met. I resent this idea that women are just gold diggers when most of the women I know are married to men who make equal to what they make. Yes there are gold digger women out there. but it's like accusing all men of being pick up artists. It's offensive. I loathe feminism. I belong to two different women's groups that are anti feminism and pro men's rights. I volunteer with our church group in a mentorship program for young girls teachiing them to embrace being feminine and reject feminism. I try my best to make a difference. I love Chris Rock and think he's hilarious. but I also know that comedianes go for what is funny. And what's funny means something that has truth to it. But it doesn't mean it's an absolute. So for men to take Chris Rock quotes as though it's Jordan Peterson is a bit disconcerting to me. Eddie Murphy also said many times in his stand up that "all men cheat'. Would men want women listening to that? What Eddie meant is that all men like him cheat. Yes Chris is right, men will ask what a woman looks like. Women will ask what the man does. But that does not mean if the man doesn't have a good job that the friends aren't happy for their friend for meeting a guy. Same with the guys asking their friend if a woman is "hot". If she's not hot, would a guy try to talk his friend out of going out with her? No. It's just a question. It's not meant to be taken more than that. Honestly these days, most women would be happy to hear that their girlfriend met a man who can support himself.If he has his own apartment or a small house and makes a middle class living, he would be considered successful. Women can often feel very used like men. At times we can feel like we are just supposed to be things of beauty, a uterus, and maid. My husband never treats me like that which is one of the many reasons I love him. And I never have treated him like a resource. It's why our marriage works. I hate seeing men so bitter and resentful. It's understandable but it's still sad. My best advice would be to stay off the legal prostitution site, Tinder. Good luck to all men out there. There are still good women left trust me. You have to look harder for them because you won't find them on a dating app :)

[@eoinMB3949]

The only way to have a totally healthy relationship is to first get to a point where you dont actually need a relationship.

[@lordzooq8987]

WORDD!!!! THIS IS SO FACTS AND IM LEARNING IT LMAO Tbh i used to be a simp because I made the mistake of thinking that if I just loved her and treated her well then she would love me too. I was wrong. Ever since I started not giving a fuck about em and doing my own thing, focusing on family and friends Ive been so much happier.

[@avijeetsharma8737]

Agreed

[@BoneCK15]

The girl I'm engaged to now made some bitchy comment a couple weeks into our relationship and I basically said she can take that shit with her and go pound sand. I didn't need it. She hasn't said anything bitchy since in 3 years. They can tell if you're bluffing though. You really don't need the shit in the first place if it is going to work.

[@MrAlexanderLang]

@@BoneCK15 No they can't, it's not some bullshit detector, she is a vulnerable narcissist the only way to get trough to her is to show high aggressive emotion, she then associates what you said with aggression, she in fact doesn't care what you think it's only "do you fit into this ideal image i have of you in my head?" That's running on infinite loop, you are a weapon to wield, she is only cleverly disguising her true self by pretending (or actually) being content in status quo. It could also be she has friends where she vilifies you, they like playing perpetual victims if they have low self esteem, and sense of self worth, that's her exhaust valve the moment that support is gone she becomes way too neurotic with frequent mania episodes and emotional dysregulations.

[@unclerandy398]

I love how so many things have this kind of paradox to it.

[@Raindropsontheglass]

"I stayed in a marriage I hated for 9 fucking years". So that's why he's so passionate about the topic of love 😂

[@Foekjoe]

He convinced himself to stay with a women he didn't love for way to long and now he hates love in general. What a pussy. It's like using a barely drivable car for way too long and then hating all cars.

[@walterwhite640]

Ramiz Ali hahaha it’s so painfully obvious

[@Lawltasticness]

His perspective on love is why he stayed with someone he doesn’t like for so long and then broke up with them. Self fulfilling cycle

[@walterwhite640]

lindahl what are you even trying to say? You’re basically repeating what goes on in the video in a weird ass way and then saying the self fulfilling thing... How high are you? And pls give me your connect because whatever you’re on I would love to be apart of it.

[@bobdole27]

@@Foekjoe Fuck off mate, when a man gets divorced thats more or less a financial death sentence. To fix you're analogy its like driving a shitty car and hating it, but realizing that if you leave the car a bunch cops are going to come, bash your legs, and tell you to keep putting gasoline in the car you can no longer drive

[@tristramcoffin926]

" I don't have a girlfriend. I just have a friend who would be really mad if she heard me say that." -Mitch Hedberg

[@ARINOXMUSIC]

On god

[@lordrob13]

I used to like Mitch hedberg. I still do, but i used to too

[@cavemanlovesmoke4394]

Legend

[@Omkar3324]

Deep

[@RackedandStacked]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jericho-pn3zi]

“If you ever get married, get a dog. Because the dog will always love you, she won’t.” ~Dave Chappelle

[@LmaoMoni]

Jericho 1444 isnt dave chappelle in a long term marriage

[@slaveofgod3481]

@RuthlessMule 874 lol

[@ryand4533]

LmaoMoni Yes so he’s speaking from experience! And as mentioned earlier has a dog!

[@Jericho-pn3zi]

Ivan Trudeau good observation.

[@slaveofgod3481]

@Ivan Trudeau a woman may not even if you do

[@Legend-zo9bc]

No one is ever yours, it's just your turn,

[@Legend-zo9bc]

@Charles Lee Ray - I stand corrected lol, it's been a while.

[@maxlantano9076]

Legend 11 You got sixth place

[@Legend-zo9bc]

@@maxlantano9076 - thanks like I didn't know! lol

[@therealjuan6184]

Most of us acknowledge the necessity of propert rights and self preservation. Of course you don't own anyone.

[@SoulDelSol]

@@therealjuan6184 i think it means that your relationship will not last and at no fault of your own even though right now youd bet your life that it would. Don't be a literalist

[@Supernovaautographs]

Just remember she doesn't love you. You were merely her best option in that moment of time.

[@kicken41]

Really? That is the worst attitude I've heard in a while.

[@kicken41]

@ATOMIC ACE PUGG What Taylor says is a perspective that denies love, yes you were her best option back then, however isn't even something negative. Have fun living a life denying love

[@yanksrule5502]

@@kicken41 he's quoting patrice oneal who said this to anthony many years ago

[@torachan23]

kicken41 have fun living life getting triggered by seeing the truth in KZbin comments

[@tonyg9921]

It will never not be true

[@vicentemorales2533]

*"I'm living my life by my own rules, and people don't like that"* Word

[@maxkukharchuk9458]

Yeah cuz nobody likes a selfish prick lol

[@vicentemorales2533]

@@maxkukharchuk9458 Exactly, people love a simpleton whom they can manipulate and boss around

[@maxkukharchuk9458]

Vicente morales simpleton doesn’t go with manipulate and bossing my friend. It’s kind of the opposite.

[@vicentemorales2533]

@@maxkukharchuk9458 it does

[@vicentemorales2533]

@THIS is moug me duro exactly, most of man my age are either divorce and miserable or in a relationship and miserable, is clear that their way of doing things just doesn't work, and yet they're trying to tell me otherwise? Really? I'm happy and they aren't, so they want me to be just as miserable as they are, but I won't budge, my happiness is very important to me and I'm not going to put it in risk for anything at all 👍👍👍

[@teddybeer6206]

The man has his opinion on Love. let him have it. it's not necessairly bitterness. it's just his point of view based on his life experience.

[@teddybeer6206]

It exists but it's not the definition everyone thinks it is

[@narutodbz777]

Ted Michel how can he say it doesnt exist just bcuz it doesnt work out for him 🤔 closed minded thinking at its finest

[@smokexsmoke99]

Ted Michel I am starting to think romance love doesn't even exist and the concept of it is a bad thing for the human race. I think that romance love is nothing but just regular friendship love with kissing and sex added to it. It seems to me that most people who are in relationships or married are just being with someone just so they can benefit themselves (rather than just because they have a special type of love for that person). If that is true, then it would explain why most relationships and marriages end up in either a break up or a divorce. So I basically think the concept of "romance love" is created by humans, just so they could just find the right person to keep having sex with and to have kids with. In all the romantic relationships I've been in, I've never felt a special type of love for anyone. Also all the romantic relationships I've seen end up in either a break up or divorce. So that is another reason that romance love doesn't seem to exist for me. Also the reason I think the concept of romance love is bad is because it caused a lot of problems for humans by having a lot of them commit suicide (due to a broken heart) or caused them to have a lot of emotional and psychological problems. Humans can still exist without romance love; a fact that proves that is that the concept of romance love doesn't exist in the animal world. Most of the time, a pair of animals mate and have babies, and stay with each other until the baby grows up, and then they pair split up and go their separate ways. So why can't humans be like animals? I feel like platonic love is a way better and way healthier type of love than romance love is, since it doesn't cause near as much problems for humans as much as romance love does. And also almost most of the time when a person loves another person (platonically), the person will keep loving the person until they die. And as I said, most of the time when a person loves another person (supposedly romantically), the person will eventually stop loving the other person and the relationship will end up in either a break up or a divorce. And also another reason that platonic love is way better than romance love is because it actually exists unlike romance love.

[@mikeharrington2793]

RSD

[@MrVuckFiacom]

I mean love is basically just a chemical "oxytocin" that compels you to breed. Doesn't mean that he's just butthurt over life, just his opinion.

[@stevedenny3026]

I wanna call you beautiful but beauty is on the inside and I haven't been inside you yet

[@bernardlartims9114]

Damn ! 😂

[@Brian-en6id]

How romantic!

[@diplamatikjuan3595]

Hmm this just might work ...

[@Last_one_before_I_go]

What a line !...filed away for future use.

[@americanhealthcaresurvivor]

You should write Valentine's Day cards lol

[@NormanOz]

Bruh, this guy really took the red pill and swallowed it quite well

[@waleeds5070]

He dropped some heavy pills here that he almost sent me back to the rage stage.

[@process6996]

Nah, you can tell he's not really thought this through and is not coherent with it. He's just an inmature guy with a trauma who won't risk getting punched once more 'cause he won't be able to take it.

[@michaelj6392]

Norman he also went through a rough divorce, voice of experience.

[@pedromedina93]

Patrice oneal gave him the red pill

[@Grandprixguffaw]

@@pedromedina93 hes doing it beyond the grave, RIP

[@conorm2524]

A relationship is just one person slowly realising they don't like you as much as they hoped they would.

[@bogda3560]

@@vodkacannon There is not such thing as a perfect person for someone! This is bs...

[@therealjuan6184]

This is just cycnicism

[@acutecloudd7970]

That's a sad reality for you, you'll be living a miserable life

[@cryformeharder5891]

@@vodkacannon Nope. This is romanticized bullshit propagated by nonsense thought. There is no such thing as perfect for someone. Most relationships eventually turn cancerous. If you actually stop to think about your past relationships.

[@chrisvoss4499]

yah

[@ihatenoms]

Love exists. I know this because my grandpa used to wake up every day and make grandma breakfast bc she was bedridden. He'd do everything for her and she'd do anything for him and when she finally passed, he did a day later. Sure, our lizard brain only wants to fuck, to pass our genes on, but we're much more than our lizard brain. We're capable of feeling complex emotions. While we may have the most basic of instincts we also have more modern ones. One of the biggest reasons humanity has survived for so long is bc we would group up and form communities. Communal based species cannot exist without some form of love or affection for others. Have you ever seen a dog reunite with its family or mate? It would be foolish not to call that love. If they can form bonds like that, why would we be unable to do that? I know that theres billions of failed relationships going on right now. But that doesn't mean there aren't relationships that are going strong after years and years either. Love isn't about not arguing or being perfectly in sync, bc that's impossible. Love is about working through your arguments together. Living through the ups and downs of life together. Love doesn't work unless both parties are willing to put in the effort to keep it going. Love isn't easy, certainly. It's something you have to work really hard at, but it's worth it. And it exists.

[@2000dpdpdp]

Ice thank you family and your bitch are 2 different things my guy

[@AgentMorgan2010]

The genuine thing we call "love" is not work. It doesn't require it. It's something that happens.

[@saintsoldier530]

AgentMorgan2010 that’s called lust

[@AgentMorgan2010]

@@saintsoldier530 No, because lust is purely sexual; this thing isn't.

[@agoogleuser8840]

that was the gayest shit I ever read..

[@femain1788]

When I hear Anthony talk about love the first thing I think about is Patrice O’Neal. That man broke it down better than anybody. RIP

[@trevwill21]

A happy man is a happy relationship. A happy woman is a miserable man. Patrice O'Neal RIP

[@notyourpapi2386]

TA D well you gotta make ur girl happy and that will stress you out meanwhile she’s prob banging the barista

[@trevwill21]

@@notyourpapi2386 nailed it!

[@o0oStillWeRiseo0o]

Patrice warned Anthony. Anthony was simping hard and then found out the hard way

[@jebes909090]

Patrice is smiling from beyond the grave. He finally gets it.

[@railander]

I was looking for this comment.

[@AmanpreetSingh9]

That's what I think when I watch this clip, Patrice would be proud of ant for finally getting it

[@Kali23Yuga]

The tragedy about relationships is that they either end in boredom, which still makes it a drag to end it, or one party dumps the other and it's total misery too, even knowing they would culminate into the former. There's no solution to this and yet instead of not engaging in it, we can't help ourselves.

[@unknown-tz7tw]

Aossic Freud you can help yourself. You can stop searching for the one. The one is you, all you need to be happy is yourself.

[@treehouseapefeet5185]

"Why would you want any other when you're a world within a world?"

[@Stephen-uz8dm]

I was in a beautiful relationship of just under two years that ended recently ans it's all good man. I'm better for it and glad it happened

[@movingtokitchenerwaterloo]

Siyovaxsh En-sipad-zid-ana you choose to be above it all?

[@gbae636]

thats the problem when people get married they stop working on their relationship. there is maintenence to a relationship too.

[@ignasty3591]

I’ve been with my lady for 10 years. We have our first kid due in 2 months. The thing is that there was a time a few years into our relationship, I was an opiate addict. Broke as a joke. She stood by me through all that and most would have jumped ship. The physical withdraw and financial strain. All the lies. The battle was a 4 year long one with peaks and valleys. It’s crystal clear that she has passed the test of love. I’m a very fortunate man. I wish more people out there could be as lucky as I’ve been. But make no mistake that I had to push myself and take control. I was blessed to have her help me do that successfully. I may have wound up dead, if not for her. Very sappy, I know. But true.

[@nopenope7700]

That's an INCREDIBLE story. But women love to fix men, they like projects. It gives them something to do. Same thing happened to Robert Downey Jr. (Iron Man for anyone that doesn't know) He was DEEP into drug addiction, he even went to jail for it. But his wife stuck with him, through and through... It's amazing what type of compassionate, durable, selfless souls we find on this Earth. But it truly is a gamble. THAT my friend, might be a diamond.

[@LmaoMoni]

​@@nopenope7700 Men to control women. It gives them power over something. The same thing happened to Kesha. (popular music artist for anyone that doesn't know) (btw dont agree with either of these just food for thought)

[@nopenope7700]

@@LmaoMoni that doesn't make any sense.

[@LmaoMoni]

@@nopenope7700 what doesnt make sense to you

[@nopenope7700]

@@LmaoMoni you need to proofread your sentences before you post it. I'm guessing you meant to say men want to control women, which is absurd because any man that is possessive has some deep insecurities that he needs to solve. And to insinuate that all men desire power over ANYBODY is also foolish and highly cavillous. Now I don't know what happened to Kesha, so I can't speak on the matter. But the thirst for power is genderless.

[@fateisnotthesameforall4811]

"I do not think you can name many great inventions that have been made by married men" - Nikola Tesla (The G.O.A.T.)

[@CRF250R1521]

Deep!

[@absentiabenertia5204]

Only great men love a pigeon - Nikky tessy

[@jordy835]

or guys who have had the unfortunate opportunity to meet and date toxic borderline chicks who don't get the fucking message lol

[@Ezm42069]

too bad most of us are idiots

[@michakowalski2930]

wow, that one made me think. I remember this book that had on it's first page, "Thanks to my wife and children, if not them I would finish this book two years earlier". It makes me thing. I'm passionate but I'm not doing what I'm passionate about as much as I should to achieve anything I guess, because I want to be a good bf, spend time with her etc. And it's almost a fight to get some free time so I can do my thing "but it's a weekend and for you the best way to spend it is if I wasn't here!!" How often did I hear that. : /. Rant off.

[@topgtom]

You’re searching for something outside of yourself when you lack it inwards, you will never find happiness or love this way

[@KingAbel510]

Kool Tony 🗣

[@afschoolaccount792]

How do I find it with in myself what’s a good start?

[@phantomkelgar3704]

Or any other way.

[@tacontic1117]

@@afschoolaccount792 figure out what you're looking for in other people and try and reflect that

[@Septiviumexe]

​@@afschoolaccount792 talk to a therapist, (avoid the negative stigma) there's nothing wrong with someone helping you with your life, we all get lost sometimes. Try to care for others even though you will find some that wont care about you, this is a good start. But there are good people out there, have hope

[@RossKempOnYourMum01]

He's not 100% right but he's definintely on to something about lust turning into a "habitual togetherness." It's not even together in comfort most of the time IMO, it's together in contempt.

[@Trazynn]

@emergerq romantic love is lust. Whatever you call it afterward is cohabitation.

[@acutecloudd7970]

@@Trazynn Wrong

[@randomperson1497]

You are not wrong.

[@AmosPokharel]

I hate to break it to you Morty, but what they call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard then slowly fades away......." - Rick Sanchez

[@goldjustgold5942]

Can't wait for season four on adult swim.

[@jumbokins9919]

I hope this is satirical

[@SirBrucie]

@@jumbokins9919 What? its a point mocking the reality of love nor ''satirical''. Do you still believe in fairy tales too?

[@heelstevenmaggle5615]

Watching Rick and Morty ain't gonna get you any action.

[@ABlackRainbow]

Love Rick and Morty. And that's exactly what Rick should say to be honest lol But it's all about point of view. Technically, your entire consciousness, all of your emotions, all of your actions, are chemical reactions. So when someone says this, like yeah, love is a chemical reaction, so is everything else. Does that make it 'not real'? It's at least a real chemical reaction with physical processes.

[@gnostictruth1599]

“Men love women, women love children; children love hamsters- it's quite hopeless.”― Alice Thomas Ellis

[@36savage61]

Nah the children usually love the parents

[@gnostictruth1599]

36 savage - You've never met my mother....

[@36savage61]

@@gnostictruth1599 i meant the children usually love the mother back, my mistake

[@PoopsWithCaT]

My father loved me. He loved me so much he would cum inside my asshole when mom wasn't home. Explain that to me.

[@36savage61]

@@PoopsWithCaT are u serious?

[@bronwyngavin6076]

"The one" doesn't exist. There are at least 3 people in every state you can "fall in love with".

[@Flosseveryday]

Way more than 3.

[@Flosseveryday]

@Madeline Monahan it's called dating.

[@Stewdawg4]

Absolutely. I always laugh when people tell me it exists. Also to the other commenter that out of the three in any state one is the best: that could be true, but you’ll never have any way of verifying that you got the “best” one.

[@sanitytax9262]

He's confusing love with infatuation and the "honeymoon" period of a relationship. Love is something that grows as you appreciate the person you have been with, over time.

[@tomfury6276]

Sanity Tax The word love is too ambiguous!

[@EatPieYes]

@@tomfury6276 How so?

[@Andy-ly2tz]

It still doesn't exist lmao

[@capybara809]

Euphoria maybe u haven’t had any luck with it 🤷‍♀️

[@Andy-ly2tz]

@@capybara809 It's not luck. Love doesn't really exist, it's just a chemical reaction inside of you. Soulmates don't exist, the ”right” person doesn't exist. However, I do admit it's sort of nice to view that reaction as something more. It makes you feel nice.

[@choppedporks671]

“Love is only a feeling of curiosity more or less intense, grafted upon the inclination placed in us by nature that the species may be preserved.” ― Casanova

[@SKreatywny]

@Michael P you're a poet Michael.

[@travv88]

@Michael P I hear that.

[@lunatic4152]

Michael P that doesn’t mean that you need love. Womanizing doesn’t mean your in love. Casanova was a womanizer he loved tits and ass but he never married and believed in love.

[@Yggdrasill8]

@@wuutnopepe613 Reality is a dream a God would have

[@alexanderleo6809]

@Michael P u know how much pussy casanova got?

[@Xarkom89]

I think the closest form of love a human can have is the one between a parent and child. There is no lust involved there (hopefully) unless you're an animal. But there are parents who abuse their children too, but those are the lowest of the low.

[@messagefromtheKing10]

That form of love is called philia

[@Jimbo292]

I think the closest form of love a human can have is with him/herself. Although I can't really say because I don't have kids

[@jeremiahkirkman100]

@@Jimbo292 yae you make a good point.

[@Dizzinator2114]

Jimbo292 the love from parent to child is more so I love you because you are mine and I want you to succeed in life whether you hurt me or not. The child pest fully realize this, but eventually we come to realize how much our parents sacrificed for us later and love them for it. This love can be experienced between a man and woman, but the thing is we tend to not look at each other as family. You see when we look at our children we don’t consider them optional, but these days we don’t view our spouse that way. They are expendable if they don’t do what I want them to.

[@Xarkom89]

@@Jimbo292 I still think the love between parent and child is more. Though I agree it is important an individual loves or is content with themselves, but no stronger sign of love than to sacrifice something of yourself in order to give to another. It's a selfless act and that is what makes it stronger than self love.

[@MisterCharlton]

Who's watching this while quarantined?

[@c_rem6101]

Fax, this podcast feels so much different like 2014 was really 6 years ago😭

[@Sin526]

Nobody Literally nobody

[@Y0uKnowMyName]

Holy shit man. That's some next level shit!

[@theville9885]

The Diaz Brothers. Only at night though, they train during the day.

[@mikecappadocia5959]

You're a loser

[@VegitoBlackk]

Love is nature's way of tricking you to breed

[@tforal2]

So true

[@haidengeary8277]

Yes, human nature. Without it, we'd not have survived. If you believe that we'd be better off not surviving, you're insane. We , as a species, have suffered greatly to get to where we are now. And will continue to suffer. But, suffering, like any pain, is worth it when the suffering ends. Without darkness, you'd have no clue what light was. Yes, it is and always will be very painful, but try to learn from it. If you want to defat it, then do not allow it to make you bitter. Its very difficult, I know. But life is worth it.

[@mandownmandown838]

Rama Lurio 😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️ must be a server glitch...

[@omaramoodi3057]

Oh my God, amazing , comments and replies.

[@omaramoodi3057]

Vegito Black , your a genius.

[@Ravensidentity]

The jealousy part is on them, but, I'd like to know if someone I'm sleeping with is sleeping with other people. Love may not exist, but STDs still do.

[@meesvanlierop9942]

Ravensidentity condoms also do exist

[@DiogenesNephew]

@@meesvanlierop9942 Not effective enough for certain very permanent STDs.

[@meesvanlierop9942]

A.J. Ello like?

[@DiogenesNephew]

@@meesvanlierop9942 Herpes. Warts.

[@hebrewkazu]

Wouldn’t make a difference if you knew whether or not they’re sleeping with someone if the issue is STD’s. Better off just assuming they probably are and whatever STD scares you to death they could possibly have it.

[@bespushkule3136]

This man didn’t get the respect. I think everyone knows that “love spark” doesn’t last. But you can still genuinely love and care for someone, as long as the RESPECT for one another is there. It can get boring, sure, but those are the sacrifices you make.

[@Nobody92421]

Sadly, females lose respect for men that actually treat them well, and usually leave him for an abusive "bad boy". No idea how our species has survived this long??? Oh well. I'm an engineer, not a shrink. Don't care. ; )

[@brotothewilliams9890]

@@Nobody92421 bruh what females are you fucking lmao women arent as shallow as you seem to think

[@oceanwavesandcocaine1129]

@@Nobody92421 you just been getting unlucky with women, it all comes down to charm and luck

[@dankmark691]

@@brotothewilliams9890 i swear the people on these podcast and some of the commenters are seconds away from suicide and its sad

[@isaacdagoat2169]

@@brotothewilliams9890 most women are.

[@MrBluntizy]

Some people wont believe anything unless they've experienced for themselves.

[@TayLynnMusic]

Good point....I wonder if he's ever been in love?

[@MrBluntizy]

@@TayLynnMusic my guess is not since he doesn't believe. If he had maybe it destroyed him and so he denies it because it was too painful

[@TayLynnMusic]

@@MrBluntizy good point

[@MJMACIAS]

l

[@KevinPaterson]

How else can you reliably form a belief? I guess there's trusting someone else's experience, but with love it's a different level. It needs to be experienced first-hand.

[@nickfaust206]

How in the hell is it legal that he has to pay for his wife's lawyer? She's the one who wanted a divorce!! The law should require the person who initially starts the process to pay for it

[@marissasteffani8037]

Nick Faust Depends why they got divorced

[@mr.j410]

Why do we need to pay in the first place

[@kylefer]

This is why celebs like Ricky Gervais never got married, legally. It is a quick way to lose your life, what's the statistic now, 80% of marriages end in divorce? It's crazy.

[@sentientcardboarddumpster7900]

@@kylefer the leading cause of divorce is marriage

[@arai6147]

Being Alex lmao 200% true

[@dan7478]

Lust/passion + obsession/infatuation + familiarity/comfort + fear of being alone + convenience = "love".

[@JVNSfit]

Extant Dan + fear of seeing that person with someone else

[@thomaskoukouris4070]

I'm writing this shit down so I don't ever forget, this shit of truth

[@dan7478]

@@JVNSfit You're right... jealousy and possessiveness is tied up in it, too... although I'd put that under 'familiarity/comfort-zone', or maybe 'fear of being alone'... but whichever way you frame it, 'love' always seems to be a combination of those elements.

[@jaxonmattox9267]

@@thomaskoukouris4070 Hahaha I literally copied that shit into my notes

[@Daniel-xu1xc]

@@dan7478 the most common use of 'love' is being attracted to someone physically. The end

[@scanspeak00]

A dog is still a man's best friend.

[@Awesomeguy614]

Charlie Chalk That might be true for many animals but dogs are probably an exception. There was an experiment done on dogs regarding something like this. The dogs were put under a brain scan and presented the sweat of a stranger and the sweat of their owner. When smell the sweat of the stranger only their olfactory region of the brain lit up but when smelling the sweat of their owner the pleasure/reward region lit up just as it does in people when we think of those we love.

[@AXharoth]

scanspeak00 cat too and cow

[@FloydMayweatherSr.]

AXharoth Cats see humans as bigger cats that are cool.

[@AXharoth]

MrDHdavid u sure? why?

[@FloydMayweatherSr.]

AXharoth time.com/3898677/actually-your-cat-thinks-you-are-a-giant-cat/

[@kazxkx4695]

You can almost hear Patrice O’Neill’s voice in this one lmfaoooo

[@darklord220]

YES

[@edwardicus4]

He taught him well.

[@dsandoval3514]

Life can be so hard and can leave you so wounded. It can be very difficult to be optimistic after going through so much. Especially when it comes to love.

[@dawnbroker5156]

He is just being realistic. True love doesn't exist.

[@dawnbroker5156]

@SENILE MEESEEKS, Exactly! A lot of people don't like to be sincere with the fact that humans are shitty for the most part by miles. True love and true friendship don't exist. Everyone one is after the money(some may try to pretend/deny that this is not the case) and it's everyone for himself.

[@minkregal8965]

Amen to that

[@EthanNoble]

Pessimism has its uses

[@rockead77]

This is Joe at his best. I don't think he talks like this anymore on the podcast for fear of being "cancelled."

[@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656]

Boof Noof he cant be cancelled. Stop being dumb and learn how the world works. It’s a podcast. Stupid,

[@thegreathadoken6808]

@@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656 Wake up, man. There are activists and lobby groups making it their personal business to get Rogan off the air right now, and they won't stop until they get it done.

[@noahsyoutube2218]

I'd have to agree..Joe's podcast hasn't touched to many real subjects in the last year or so

[@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656]

The Great Hadoken he’s not broadcasted anywhere. It’s a podcast. So no one can get him off the air. Stop being stupid.

[@thegreathadoken6808]

@@dogmgfuckshitmcgee4656 He's on KZbin. It's their site. They can, and do frequently ban people from uploading, including podcasts, if they decide the material is not in compliance with their rules. And they are often manipulated from multiple areas to BEND their own rules to get people demonetized and/or outright banned. He won't get the same reach anywhere else. If he gets taken off KZbin, his reach becomes a fraction of what it is now. We know this from what happened with Alex Jones. KZbin is a direct line to regular people who might not know who you are but their habitual use of KZbin keeps them coming back. Podcasting from your own site limits you to fans dedicated enough to go seek out his site and keep going back. Breaking habits that might be years in set. Podcasting from your own site also requires co operation from others. You don't get to own a website without co operation from others. This can be manipulated too. The Daily Stormer found this out to their cost. Wake up, dude.

[@justins7796]

idk man I love these chips I bought a few hours ago

[@jsm530]

I love dogs especially mine and they love me back so it's a genuine relationship with my canine companion. He's conflating list and sexual urges with love. Love is a genuine thing it is hard to measure but it something that happens over time. It's not instantaneous.

[@jeffreydahmer3322]

Tss.. wassat?

[@foalscompass4739]

Yah and then you ate them are going to shit them out and flush them goodbye...😭

[@jayybee2074]

Justin S Hahahahaha

[@kamoraone7906]

till the bag is empty

[@lysol5555]

Women: he's gotta be centered, have a great sense of humor, listens to me, have a good job, his own place that is clean, confident, able to banter, successful, easy to talk to, not needy, keeps me surprised, stylish and tall, and more Men: it would be nice if she is not obese and easy to talk to.

[@dawb86]

Not obese was naaassstttyyy lmao!! You should have just said not fat hahaha!

[@dawb86]

@Congress Member Twilight lol I know but you know how someone tries to say something in a politically correct way yet it comes off as almost MORE offensive? like instead of calling them midgets referring to someone as a "little person," hahaha!!

[@jeffrielly]

...I wouldn't mind if she has a little bit of a muffin top, but yeah obese??? NO!!!

[@jeffrielly]

...I actually thought of setting up a fake Bumble account just to make a laundry list of requirements that's as long as what you see women's profiles and include things like "no fatties" just for the lulz lol

[@bobballard387]

Don't exist

[@curmudgeonbear3699]

This is all Patrice O'neal. Anthony finally started taking Patrice's advice.

[@Sp1n1985]

Took so long

[@Coff1nf33der]

In terms of his girlfriends texts. I don't think even friends are cool with getting cancelled on the same day an hour or so before the party or meeting or whatever, unless of course its a good reason. I wouldn't want to be friends with a guy for long who cancels last second and says "I changed my mind. Something else came up". That's what many women do when you start dating them, this flakey behaviour, it is not something an adult should be fine with.

[@hon3yweed]

I know this is old but so damn true! Thought that right as he said it. Used to have a buddy a few years back that pulled shit like that all the time. Drove me up the wall

[@ProMrLecoq01]

Honey Weed how’d it end

[@hon3yweed]

@@ProMrLecoq01 he bettered himself

[@rolanddes]

Jochen Schütz exactly. Nowadays I see this flakey behaviour a lot in women. And if you throw this at their face somehow you end up looking like a pushy guy. So I started not respecting or not caring like there is an adult sized child in front of me. I do the same to them. That makes them angry yet they are more attracted to me when I behave flakey compared to when I behave like a stand up guy. We are all doomed and I am just riding the rollercoster towards hell.

[@joeski1073]

rolanddes everything you said smdh so fuckin true

[@ep_med7822]

Herein lies the problem with stupid modern people that the ancient and medieval people figured out There are 4 types of love, three are emotions, one is a movement of the will: 1) Philia: this is friendship. The gents here seem to have this 2) Eros: Sexual/Romantic love. This is that feeling this man is talking about. 3) Storge: Tribal / Familial love like what parents feel for their children and blood relatives 4) Agape: Willing the good of the other Without number 4 the other three are indeed fleeting unguided emotions.

[@MaulqasmPK]

Thank you!! English is such a great language but our vocabulary for love is so impoverished, the Greeks have 21 words for love. Even the Germans have two, and English only has one!!

[@Dr.Zoidberg087]

wow where did you get this from? I'd like to read more into it.

[@Baronvonbadguy3]

Well I do love when certain things are agape

[@tylermacdonald8924]

What is this from? Philosophy?

[@tylermacdonald8924]

Is this greek philosophy or?

[@ImpossibleIsNothin]

I know he's talking about romantic relationships, but what about love for your mom or dad? Love for your child, love for your friend? If love isn't real, then why do people still carry such a commitment to people they're not trying to copulate with? Love for a spouse or significant other is just another manifestation of love, just with a person you are sexually open to.

[@michaelrossi5128]

Love is real, its just a dirty trick.

[@ImpossibleIsNothin]

@@michaelrossi5128 How? How is it a trick?

[@manchesterunited4619]

ImpossibleIsNothin you’re mistaking unconditional love for the feeling of being in love

[@ImpossibleIsNothin]

@@manchesterunited4619 I know the difference between these, but the gentleman in the video said "love isn't real". Maybe he was talking about the feeling of being "in love" (or the more specific word, "limmerance"). Even if he was, that's still a real feeling (sure, that's nothing to build a relationship purely on, but it's still a real feeling that should be acknowledged). Either way, the love I described can still be conditional (love for a relative is conditional on that person being your family, for a spouse on them being married to you and having earned your love, etc). Dude was talking about "love isn't real, ppl just wanna bone". OK then, what about when you love your mother? You don't wanna hook-up with your mom, so what do you call that commitment you have to your mom?

[@emilydarrall6693]

@@manchesterunited4619 love for friends is absolutely conditional too, and I would say for family too (although children seemed to get loved unconditionally), If my friend treated me like shit, no way would I love them. It's all different kinds of love, and it's all conditional

[@hannahanthony3639]

Anthony is definitely a disciple of the cult of black Philip. RIP Patrice AhhMen

[@kingjah007]

stephen anthony Wish i could like this twice RIP Patriece Oneal ....#Giveheroptions

[@Fridgemusa]

Anthony is my favourite role model ☺

[@indykid811]

hannah anthony BLACK PHILLIP FOREVER. I am a Black Phillipian Occultist myself. RIP PATRICE The Great

[@CapitalJ2]

nintendoluigi but he loved Patrice

[@krmitt5]

Fuck this podcast im gonna go listen to the don right fucking now.

[@imdjc4]

In the beginning, when two people get together - the honeymoon period - we're like blind rabbits. Once the dust settles, we're left with each other as to who we really are. Choose wisely.

[@phanatic215]

That perfectly describes my last relationship. Those for 2-3 months were Disney movie magic...then the demands started kicking in. "I think motorcycles are unsafe and I want you to get rid of it"...WHAT?!?! This is from a chick that rode horses. At least I'm in total control of a motorcycle, a horse can get spooked by something and toss off a rider.

[@TotalNigelFargothDeath]

@@phanatic215 It's time to abandon ship, it's only going to get worse.

[@jeremiahkirkman100]

that's why the man is supposed to leave after that phase. enjoy the new relationship then get another girl.

[@h0bohunter344]

@@phanatic215 to be fair you are very likely to die on them, she's just looking out for you bb.

[@phanatic215]

@@h0bohunter344 I love you for being concerned about my well being

[@TheGreatElderOne]

Holy s*** Patrice O'Neal's preaching finally got through to this dude congrats Cumia on graduating!

[@metalmayhem3622]

I'm really remembering the conversation where Patrice says he wants 2 hotel rooms, and Ant is fighting him on it. Oh shit, I found it really easily. I thought I was going to have to remember what "episode" it was from. /watch?v=wfCMf1ogltw Ant saying "You don't find that cute?" and Patrice replying "I find it annoying." fucking kills me every single time. "Are you fucking super in love? Somebody needs to shoot you in the face with a don't givafuck gun, nigga. You are some in love niggas, man." I'm not the type of guy that goes back looking for evidence that someone's full of shit, I just remember this conversation between Ant and Patrice because it made me laugh so god damn hard.

[@metalmayhem3622]

@Miles Davidson Oh, I don't know. I haven't seen it (I'm looking at it now). On the one hand, I feel like I really know Patrice. I have a similar brain (although I'm not nearly as funny, and I'm white.) He wasn't good at marketing himself, he hated that aspect of show biz. He's also said something along the lines of 'she's basically earned marriage because of all the mental abuse he's put her through.' He's dead, though. He has an amazing amount of fans, still, almost 8 years after he died. She could be righteous in wanting to bring something amazing to his fans. I don't know exactly what her ideas were, but Patrice knew a LOT of big names. If interviews were entailed, flight costs and everything could amount to a lot of money. If I'm watching the same documentary, the guy mentions movies being shot "entirely on iPhones" and mentions one called "Tangerine" with a budget of $100,000, and claims it's "critically acclaimed" which means jack shit to me. That doesn't mean it's good. I'm not very far into this, so I don't know the final outcome, but so far it's just annoying me, and reading the comments by a bunch of toxic non-thinkers also annoys me. She doesn't have guidance right now. She's Patriceless. It doesn't surprise me if she's making bad decisions.

[@metalmayhem3622]

@Miles Davidson I go deep as a fan of the show. I've been through the Weston Patrice playlist several times, the Colin, Louis, Billy playlists, Black Phillip several times. I've listened to most of the other segments I've found, as well as being a big fan of Ron and Fez. The negativity bothers me if it's without humor or philosophy. I'm not a fan of this gossipy/tattletale/judgemental drama culture. Or, like Patrice said on Elephant in the room, the "self policing" that men are doing. Ah, Porsalin created the worm documentary, I started but never finished that. I'm looking at it again, there's some very funny lines. I actually can't tell if it's done in humor or seriousness, though. It's too boring and seemingly directionless for me to make it all the way through. I'm at 14 min in and tapping out. Even the funny lines are nothing that hasn't been said on the show. It was a long running theme that Jimmy is a coattail jumping worm. And, what I'm talking about, what annoys me about this culture; Porsalin shows Jimmy saying things that Colin says. I could do the same thing every time Porsalin makes an invertebrate, worm, etc etc joke about Jim. I'm just not into the "I'm gonna catch you" crap. I love hearing Patrice stories, what I'd really like to see is a group of his friends like Bill Burr, Jim Norton, Dane Cook, Colin Quinn, Kevin Hart, Nick Dipaolo, Kinda Vos, in a room together, telling stories about Patrice and trashing each other. I left Bob Kelly out because he won't fit indoors.

[@metalmayhem3622]

@Miles Davidson "The tri-state mollusk" is very funny, but again, I can link a show where Colin calls him a mollusk And like I said, it's not just the negativity that bothers me, its when there's no humor or philosophy. I think a lot of things affected the show, the Sirius+XM merge kinda made things a bit shittier. Opie becoming a father made him less of a destroyer; Ant going down the black people commit crime rabbit hole made him less funny, etc. I also think I went through a period awhile ago where I was listening to shows with just Opie and Anthony, no comics, and they had pretty god damn good chemistry. It wasn't the top 10 funniest moments or anything, but it was very entertaining conversations. I am a fan of the Danny Ross era. I think he was great for the show, always pulling up exactly what was perfect for the moment. Sam is such a dweeb and hip-hop gossip baby. Patrice's death really did effect the show and the world of comedy in general. Billy Burr moving to L.A. affected it also. He's not as legendary when it comes to bits as Patrice, but was always entertaining. That really sucks for you. I only found the show, probably around 2014? I think I was just getting into it right before Ant got fired. I was recommended a Louis episode and decided to listen to it. I resisted the shit out of it because of "shock jocks", I always thought Howard was boring. I remember being 13, trying to watch his show, and thinking he was just trying to be edgy. I made it through the Louis playlist, one of the last episodes being Patrice's tribute, after hearing that, I listened to his playlist and he's been with me EVERY SINGLE DAY. You definitely fucked up not going. By the way, another thing I'll throw in about Ant. I don't know if I believe that tranny thing. I know what type of girl Ant likes and that seems highly out of character lol.

[@alphonzawill]

Cthullu Fhtagn after he went they the bullshit.

[@johneicher8606]

Anthony Cumia actually makes me pretty sad. Love isn’t a Disney movie, but it’s certainly not getting divorced and hating the world either

[@bentonja668]

And yet most marriages end in divorce

[@johneicher8606]

John Smith Actually approximately %41 percent of marriages, so a little under half. There are really healthy marriages out their.

[@djjukeboxhero6491]

@@johneicher8606 so if we go skydiving and a tell you two of the four parachutes don't work but I don't know which ones...you still jumping?

[@johneicher8606]

That’s an over simplification. Marriage statistics are based on time spent together, financial situations, and mental health. Most divorced couples either got married within a year of meeting, are in poor financial situations, or got married because of an accidental pregnancy. It’s not a gamble. Choices, perspective, and responsibility are major influences.

[@Pegasus_p12]

DJ Jukeboxhero as the other guy stated there are huge number of things that raise or lower the chance of divorce, simply marrying after the age of 18 reduces the risk by 24 %, cohabiters have a increased chance of 50/80% after marriage.

[@generalcrustard0311]

Man how quickly times change. Rogan couldn't say half the shit now he said just less than 5 years ago.

[@jessieflores9745]

The last of his kind what do you mean?

[@niks9652]

Kind of a over reaction lol, I think he will still say this stuff

[@funtimes8296]

Examples?

[@howiefeltersnatch2973]

Rogan is a shill; with Jones. His guests are dope af tho.

[@GV-gr9qm]

The last of his kind - I noticed the same thing.

[@jasonstatham2966]

Love is real, just not like the way they show in movies, thats all bullshit. Also, that perfect couple on instagram is cheating on eachother.

[@hockeymasktime1918]

Are you cheating on Rosie Huntington-Whiteley, Jason?

[@hockeymasktime1918]

@MadDilla ATCQstarr Your logic is sound and I actually agree...but how did your parents had you? How did my parents made their family? They met each other...being different individuals from other families. Nowadays having a relationship is actually dangerous, but other than that, part of that is essentially "inviting" a stranger into your life.

[@dharmaqueen7877]

Love is like gold. There is real gold and there is fool's gold, which only appears to be gold. Too many people "fall" in love based on surface appearance while ignoring what lies beneath the surface.

[@hockeymasktime1918]

@MadDilla ATCQstarr Well, can't really argument against that. Point taken. You're right, as much as I'd like to say otherwise. The western world is fucked.

[@cryformeharder5891]

@@dharmaqueen7877 What lies beneath the surface? Blood and organs and water? That's nice. Here we go with the goofy cliches of real gold and fools gold. Sounds like another goofy fallacious overrated outdated cliche. Sorry but I"ve been told to have faith and believe in god and all that all my life and I just don't think people can be this screwed up and there honestly be a god that cares. Keep going with this romantic idea tho. It seems to really inspire some people.

[@ALEN1ful]

So he basically went MGTOW.

[@nanorivera5233]

yeah, he's an asshat

[@chc2650]

You dont go mgtow after getting divorce raped. Thats like becoming a Christian after dying. Doesnt work that way, he already got took for millions. Hes a casualty at this point.

[@nanorivera5233]

@@chc2650 I mean, Mgtows actively try to avoid getting used in their relationships with women, and it seems like that's what he's doing. A bad divorce would be exactly the kind of thing that would make a person go Mgtow.

[@nanorivera5233]

@@WrathofFenrir99 meh, I'm not the one who said it first. Seems kinda mgtow ish to me though.

[@jerome2726]

Lmao he`'ll learn.

[@jakebateman]

I get the impression this guy has had some pretty negative experiences in his life

[@welshhibby]

Jesus everyone has 😒

[@jakebateman]

@@welshhibby yeah but we don't all end up whiny miserable sacks of shit

[@anonyeetmas2180]

And you are part of the fucking problem

[@jakebateman]

@@anonyeetmas2180 or am I part of the solution? actively try to make your life better, or wallow in silence. I'm all for people seeking help but not for people throwing their horrible ideology out on the table like this. This guy probably has influence on people. And I made an observation that hes being a whiny bitch about his problems. Since he put himself the position for us as listeners to critique his position on love that he clearly feels so inclined to share. I'd love to talk to him directly about this to see what he has to think but Instead I'm replying to pepe the frog Turn inwards and seek out solutions to your lifes problems now or you will be 50 and miserable like this guy

[@anonyeetmas2180]

@@jakebateman you don't know thing about me bitch i do better myself in fact I'm better than you. You are a part of the problem because you all are fucking liars and really actually don't give one damn about a man's pain or problems and you know what that's fine too but at least be honest about how much you don't care instead leading someone on

[@GearsDemon]

Just so people know, anthony went through a really ugly divorce (no kids involved) and still had to give up millions to his ex wife. Joe has said in another podcast that it probably took 10 years off of his life through stress.

[@quiroz441]

but he fault was that?

[@quiroz441]

eric quiroz who i meant.

[@hagersMD]

eric quiroz Wife, from what Anthony and Opie says. His wife was an alcoholic and one day decided to bring another girl from a bar home for a threesome which they kept doing for a while. Anthony eventually, fed up with his ex-wives buffoonery started seeing the other girl privately and his wife left him and took his entire life's savings from his bank account then sued him for millions and "future income" when she had zero part in his career.

[@arieshanma4362]

hagersMD thats why unless the lady is Ronda rousey, Aimee teegarden, or a hawt doctor who cured a dibilitating disease fully, vacinations and all..... NOT. MARRING. SHIT. LOL

[@777games777]

GearsDemon Marriage is a women's trap, Divorce is the end game. She walks away with most of your shit, plus the shit that you bought her over the years. She's better off and ready to meet her next victim. You on the other hand, confuse the whole fucking time, lost all the shit you've worked for, feeling destroyed and a wreck. Trying to piece everything together while still having to pay for her shit( Alimony and child support, etc..). Yea, they want you to think marriage is so beautiful

[@BangMaster96]

Marriage is a government contract that binds men into taking care of a woman for the rest of his life. Even after divorce, he must pay alimony, and if there was a child, he must pay child support and he doesn't even get custody of the children. Nothing good comes out of marriage for men. And in marriages where women earn more than their partner, women are also forced to pay alimony to their ex, however, since majority of the cases, it's the men who make more money, it's also the men who end up getting fucked in divorce settlements.

[@daykon6843]

Sunny shah one word prenup 😂

[@BangMaster96]

@@daykon6843 Prenup are not useful, if a Court wants, it can declare Prenups null and void.

[@daykon6843]

I guess it’s better to not get married on paper and to get “on” married in the more traditional sense, which is in a ceremony with a priest, rabbai, etc. present and leave the government completely out of it.

[@conorm2524]

Cohabitation laws now also fuck men. So no.

[@GamingCentralTV1]

@@daykon6843 as Conor said depending on the state you live in if you live with a companion long enough you are considered married under law

[@matthewbaumann630]

Men love more idealistically and women love in a more opportunistic way.

[@beasmarty]

By women, you mean whores.

[@larali2415]

Bullshit

[@IshyVideos]

@@larali2415 salty

[@bianka94825]

Lol tell that to my cheating ex. Whom i cooked for, spoiled, moved countries for :')

[@lalluna9460]

@Max A Million dude it goes both ways.

[@vincemelson9655]

Oh his wife took 7 figures, oh I see what broke this man haha

[@ultraegovegeta5401]

Biggus Dickus what balls?

[@SUPRESSOR106]

Heywood Jablowme RELAX DUDE. Damn! What the fuck is wrong with you lol?

[@Getitdone21084]

Vince is a simp white knight

[@leangoblin3954]

Heywood Jablowme lmao

[@thebeasters]

@Stereo Typist because he's an idiot for getting married

[@logoscrescendo609]

Marriage is about commitment and Love is a VERB.

[@Jesusissupremebeauty]

🙌

[@WILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLU]

I listened to this 2 months ago and it's inspired me to divorce my wife of 5 years after realizing i wasnt in love. Thanks Anthony

[@ЕржанНасанов]

congrats, buddy

[@treehouseapefeet5185]

Update? S'been three years. You happily alone or did you screw up and get remarried to some other harpy?

[@JediMasterBaiter]

Going by his profile pic, I don't think he's happy.

[@Jessica-ee5nq]

LOL. Best comment.

[@dongambino5308]

This nigga prolly broke his wife heart because he felt like he related lmao

[@ggood2850]

Ant -"I'm not a boyfriend" Joe - "how do you do that?" Ant - "you tell them, I'm not your boyfriend!" 🤣🤣

[@slammysammy9555]

@SlayerPayback If you give a shit if a girl is taller than you, you're a pussy lmao. She's only the man in the relationship if you're insecure lol

[@Nikedemos]

@SlayerPayback obsessed with height, huh? Just like a woman ;) Guys don't give a shit about height.

[@brendandaly2493]

@SlayerPayback 3 daughters? If no sons we call that sissy mickey in Ireland.. 😂😂😂

[@slammysammy9555]

@SlayerPayback bruh you're just a pussy if you let a girl being taller than you affect your manhood

[@hockeyolp8]

@@slammysammy9555 Bruh....get outta here. Most women won't date or look at a guy if they are shorter than them.

[@joncolunga673]

One thing that is true (sadly) is that the relationship is never like it was in the beginning. No matter who you get with. No matter how much you loved them from the start.

[@ClockComics]

True, though it doesn't mean it's less good over time

[@Modestasgailius]

Nothing lasts forever you get used to your life .

[@deadreck024]

I have been married for 15 years. my wife and i love each other just as much now as we did then . Arguments are normal . how many times did you argue with your parents or siblings ? Did that mean you didnt love them ? no ! I find people just have bad taste in partners.

[@konstantstompa9248]

Nail on the head... people rush into things with completely unsuitable and/or poorly matched partners and then wonder why things go sour.

[@shawnkay5462]

People have too high expectations from marriage/relationships. Im married but I honestly think you can live a perfectly normal and happy life without a partner.

[@uncleouch9795]

I haven't talked to my exs, since they became exs.

[@phoenix6209]

Same fuck those bitches

[@TG-ls8lb]

same fuck those slags I agree

[@TheRealTooda999]

I fuck mine

[@iant720]

Uncle Ouch me too bro. Fuck em

[@upsl2020]

@Douglas Fisher i do, i m over them because i m not desperate to fuck my exes. I think Is Just about having a mature and honest relationship, if you know there Is no love anymore why keep pushing? The real simps are the ones Who never talked about the problems in the relationship and suddenly got cucked by their exes and became so bitter they don t want to talk to them anymore

[@briantracy6889]

“The white knight”=“Simping”

[@phantomprophet6791]

@Cody K ok boomer

[@davidsoael615]

@@phantomprophet6791 Look how cool you are, someone asks for the origin of a word they've learned recently and you're using the situation to shame people for their age. Just fucking grow up.

[@chinese_bot]

@@davidsoael615 Okay boomer.

[@valforatlas]

fck off yo do you know how cringe that shit is? Have some self awareness

[@chinese_bot]

@@valforatlas You sound like a boomer.

[@jordanturner7917]

Anthony found out the hard way that Patrice was right all along. Now he's living by Patrices philosophies lol

[@favor4afavor823]

Dr. O'Neal was a red pill OG

[@conorm2524]

I don't see anything remotely funny about it. Just a seriously harsh lesson about hypergamy.

[@mattdecker8724]

Yeah the guy who ate himself into an early grave at 40 Bc he wouldn’t listen to doctors clearly had it all figured out.

[@conorm2524]

@@mattdecker8724 What a dense statement. So if Patrice was skinny he would've been correct?

[@mattdecker8724]

@@conorm2524 Nah I'm just stating a fact. If he was such a great philosopher maybe he should've used some of that brain power to take care of himself instead of eating everything in sight.

[@Apollocreed2076]

There's no Love just a transition from lust to tolerance.

[@jeralinsunflower7300]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@bartolomeestebanmurillo4459]

These days people confuse lust with love. It takes great effort and finding the right person but such relationships and people are rare.

[@ToxicAfricanKing]

Exactly. And most people are caught up in "situationships" that they have to deal with for the rest of their lives. They just try to stay afloat. Survive. Worse so when there's a kid.

[@theville9885]

Rare? Rare? The chances of finding "the right person" are equivalent to encountering a dinosaur two days from now.

[@bartolomeestebanmurillo4459]

@@theville9885 Yes rare, such relationships do exist.

[@theville9885]

@@bartolomeestebanmurillo4459 or... now hear me out on this: or they used to exist. We believe they exist because they've been discovered before and museums put them on display as proof of their existence. *anology*

[@iiTzLurks]

Well i never found anyone in my life im 20 never kissed never had a gf nothing so i guess love don't like me

[@dallascomegys]

Patrice had some heavy influence on Anthony and it shows in this clip

[@tommy2170]

opie & anthony show with patrice gives so many gems

[@EvilSlothsTony]

@@tommy2170 Yes. He is using "The Patrice Standard".

[@patriarchysound]

Patrice's teachings continue to live on!

[@luiso.9103]

Amen on that one !

[@maskedasmr4992]

“Love is a mix between lust and fascination” honestly true as hell..prob fly over a lot of ppls heads

[@wyonthebeat]

MaskedAsmr it wasnt that hard to understand

[@gal1885]

I’ve never heard so much truth spoken....seriously, this man gets it

[@ang_ro]

Anthony is describing the state of Limerence that leads to comfortability. It's all just chemical reactions in the body and brain that become habit. He's absolutely correct.

[@intuitthruit]

Ang Ro good girl

[@user-hi2nd]

@@intuitthruit lmfao

[@Feber2001]

Lust=Limerence

[@runreilly]

Interesting. I've never heard this word in a world where "experts" talk about this topic all the time.

[@WomboBraker]

What isnt then? Breaking stuff down like this explains nothing

[@miguel111093]

Love exists but it's super hard to find dude. I feel like I got lucky with my wife but iv dated for years and I can tell you from experience, most women these days ain't worth it.

[@9oth]

miguel111093 you’re one divorce away from removing that comment

[@veritasabsoluta4285]

@terminalcommand There are couples that have spent their entire lifetimes together. Can you explain that?

[@houseofmatrix6174]

miguel111093 true statement

[@thefatebringer2046]

miguel111093 LMAO HAHA sure buddy

[@sbusisothulasizwe4828]

@@veritasabsoluta4285 it doesn't mean people still love each other if they stay together get married for more than 20 something years and you will see

[@michaelservice2355]

Love is our favourite fantasy, then comes time travel, then immortality.

[@diplamatikjuan3595]

That's bullshit man, take that back! Time travel comes first

[@thomasmills339]

Time travel is first with me.

[@stanleyshady9465]

I believe the pursuit of happiness is the biggest fantasy.. that covers all three

[@slowsatsuma3214]

Stanley Shady The pursuit of happiness in of itself is not a fantasy, but the idea of thinking that you will ever obtain it is

[@slowsatsuma3214]

Stanley Shady I know what you mean I’m just being pedantic

[@AV57]

This is why humanity built civilization. Haha. You can’t just tell everyone to do whatever they want and expect a functional, efficient production line. Monogamy was never the natural, individualistic popular choice amongst humanity. It was forced on us in order to get people to stop thinking with their genitals, and instead think about the stability of their community. This is why we killed cheaters. It was the only way to get humans to stop running around, fucking everyone in sight, and creating massive drama that would ultimately wind up leading to all sort of insane jealousy.

[@SeFu2006]

So the walking dead is right

[@smith1008]

@@SeFu2006 lmao

[@dithaingampanmei]

I feel that, even with all the modern progress, and social restructuring, we humans have never evolved beyond a primitive animal mind. If it continues like this we'll all be dead for sure. If I were a dictator I might even consider cutting off the balls and ovaries to knock some sense into humans🤣 just kidding

[@AV57]

Dithaingam Panmei, there is a constant internal clash inside humans. Our impulses tell us to do one thing, but logic pecks away at it. Even other species of animals have this inner turmoil as in the case when domesticated animals are faced with tough decisions.

[@manuelguerraphotography7168]

THANK YOU! this badass "Alpha male" comment section needed this kind of explanation. Even being imposed, coupling and nuclear family were crucial for the evolution of our society.

[@BrighterThanYours]

Most companionship dynamics consist of “you are of value in x amount of ways. Let me possess you to increase my worthiness to the world.” Love is so rare that you probably feel it once in your life(you know the exact one I’m referring to). This man has just not had a good run of it period...

[@mikes589]

Love is being lucky enough to tolerate each other and fart around each other. Farting is key.

[@bc8715]

Mike S so true

[@alexisault4444]

If you can make a woman laugh that is the KEY. Trust me I'm a chick. If you can make you're woman laugh it will last a lifetime.

[@aygwm]

Alexis Ault if you can give a girl an orgasm that is the key. Laughing is just a precursor

[@gstylez0107]

@@aygwm You couldn't be more wrong.. So long as you base the quality of your relationship on what YOU can provide HER, you will never have her love or even her respect, she has yours. Don't forget it..

[@sapien82]

I know my partner loves me because she offers me some of her snacks

[@marymoore3585]

I never saw the need to control a man....as for changing him, you can only change a man if he wears diapers. Either love him like he is, or leave him alone.

[@lars1296]

Mary Bargeman Yep

[@moelozofo9780]

No e-girls allowed within the comment section.

[@marymoore3585]

@@moelozofo9780 what's an e girl??

[@phiyuh]

@@marymoore3585 Don't mind him he's a trigger-happy troll. I love the diapers quote, I'm going to be remembering to use that one :3

[@thathandsomedevil0828]

Great stuff, now tell that to all your sisters. 😁

[@bluedreamer6564]

i think the real issue with understanding love as a concept, is just a limitation of language. people subscribe the same word to many different experiences (lust, passion, romanticization, idealization, variations of physical and emotional attraction, etc). in western society, people tend to associate the word "love" with the concept of romanticism, rather than the concept of "human love;" the acceptance of a person as they actually are, rather than the ideas you project onto them, and an altruistic caring for their safety, health, and happiness (i.e. they way people feel about their family, pets, and close friends, but only occasionally significant others (people tend to approach romantic relationships with their own happiness in mind-"this person is everything *i* want" "this is what *i've* been looking for" "i think they're right for *me*"-but true love, in my definition, involves thinking about the *other* person). this experience is very distinct from passion or romance, so i choose to subscribe the word "love" to it; specifically "human love." (even then, i've been conditioned by society to use this interchangeably with "passion." like, when i say "i love chinese food," i really mean i feel passionately about it. i don't selflessly care about chinese food, the way i care about my loved ones.) anyway, i agree there's no objectively definable phenomenon called love, but that the experiences people have, regardless of whatever words they apply to them, are legitimatize experiences

[@jbart4183]

For all the married men out there that still believes in love, do this experiment; Lose your job intentionally and go back to your wife and tell her you lost your job, see her reaction and come back here and tell us if "unconditional love" exists.

[@Adeem_Ahmed]

Or just don't lose your job at all and just tell her that you did.

[@Menaceblue3]

@@Adeem_Ahmed Or lose your job because of a virus pandemic and see if she still loves you.

[@JordansConcept]

@@Menaceblue3 gonna be a lot of divorces in the coming months. 😂

[@iliveinsideyourhouse3943]

I bet no one would dare to do this.

[@elinborgolsen7702]

And for the married women out there also wanting to do an experiment, here's one: Intentionally get as fat as possible, as fast as possible. Observe his reaction and post it here

[@NoWokeComedy]

5 years later, the Red Pill movement hits all time high

[@YungContentshow]

praise god bro

[@srijanagrawal255]

Love is a lust for possession - Nietzsche

[@saswatrath609]

Dude don't go with Nietzsche on love. He fell in love twice, proposed and got rejected. Then he goes like, love is an illusion and what not.

[@srijanagrawal255]

@@saswatrath609 Come on man, nietzsche was a genius and most of his shit was from observing other people's behaviors anyway. I'm not saying he's right but he certainly has an interesting idea and the accolades as good as anyone

[@Kgoverstreet]

That’s not love :)

[@nopenope7700]

DAMN. THAT IS OCEAN DEEP.

[@zor2014]

You can never love something that u don’t want to possess. She’s not urs, its just ur turn.

[@Vestu]

A person who can love himself, can love others.

And there is the reason why women can't love anyone!

[@nintendo9231889]

@ they hate themselves and other women

@Arkham Knight "modern liberated women"....? Who hurt you? Or are you a virgin with blue eyes?

[@ianhinson2829]

Not necessarily. Some are incapable of loving anyone other than themselves.

[@tazmania7785]

The Blue pull is a one hell of a drug for some men.

[@chinatype2bassrocker809]

The blue pull? that's sounds like a painfull jerk process.

[@manuellujan666]

He's angry he's better but unfortunately there's a lot of truth in what he's saying.

[@gabegoodbody1689]

Patrice, Cumia and Norton hosting a podcast would be the greatest podcast ever. EVER

[@lakarox6777]

love is living with no fear... giving your true self - the good and the ugly - to another human being is something people do very rarely these days...

[@joeybelea4772]

Agreed

[@malikjohnroshankhan3965]

Love did not exist. It's all about sex business.. sorry for that but it's a reality.

[@joeybelea4772]

@@malikjohnroshankhan3965 Nope. To what end? You get the pleasure and then what? You're never going to be satisfied. So people go looking for love. The real deal. Pleasure and love are not the same, society socially constructed it to be but we can choose.

[@lakarox6777]

@@malikjohnroshankhan3965 for u maybe

[@Stewdawg4]

I don’t quite think you understand the subject matter of what they’re talking about. You’re still base level, no offense... dig deeper, if that’s possible for you.

[@hendrixjoe555]

this guy argued with Patrice O'neal so much back in the days; now it all makes sense to him.

[@kiabahjoe470]

Joe D. Real shit The black Phillips show should be taught in schools

[@DeV_Rob]

😂 I think Anthony can thank Patrice O'Neal for his new point of view

[@Fatelvis2]

I didnt understand this guy till he said SEVEN FIGURES oh shit now I understand

[@realtalk1310]

I fell outta my chair when he said that.

[@yumpie100]

it’s sad you guys dont know Ant

[@setoarise]

What seven figures mean?

[@setoarise]

@Elliot Rodger lol, thanks dude

[@wanderingdoc5075]

$1M ain't that much anymore. If this guy was worth say $10M, and he lost $2.5M in the divorce, that's literally a chip in the bucket. Not losing that money vs. losing it makes zero difference to quality of life.

[@gs.d5089]

Women love opportunistically, Men love ideally

[@zackklein2225]

sad but true.

[@johnnygreen200]

Not always

[@gs.d5089]

Johnny Green Yes of course, naturally women are hypergamous in nature but there are women out there who are very self-aware and can control their drive to mate with the highest status men around

[@gunny-lneck4352]

@Just Chill bru you sound like a beta trying to shame other betas your just like the people the first part of this video talks abt

[@themysticfedora]

@Just Chill anyone with that profile picture who uses the term beta unironically 3x in a single sentence isn't a man

[@Solomon_Bachelor]

MGTOW 4LIFE

[@thataintnomoonsucka]

Showing support for my MGTOW bros. Bitches be crazy.

[@thematrix2661]

@@MrFreeGman what makes you think mgtows remove them self from the gene pool?

[@baalusk2662]

if it breathes, its a thot

[@mansterj]

@@MrFreeGmanFor myself it's not about trying to "show them" many of them can't be taught, and will have to learn the hard way. I will not risk any of my children to be taken away to be raised by a Marxist system. I will spare my lineage from that burden, those who never existed will never have to bare the sins of those that came before them. I joyously decline a genealogical immortality for no one else sake but my own.

[@MrFreeGman]

@@mansterj Good for you. Your weak defeatist genes will be removed from the gene pool and humanity will become strengthened as a result. Natural selection doing what it does best.

[@13xxnetoxx]

Anthony is becoming Patrice lmao love it

[@spinningchurro]

Neto Rodz Patrice would be proud.

[@DanielinAction]

7 years late

[@LarryHazard]

O Neal? Lol no

[@DumbBaby]

They were always kindred spirits. I love hearing those two riffing.

[@obakengmoshobane4590]

@@spinningchurro true

[@yerusalem4832]

He's right, but theres a difference between romantic love and platonic love. Romantic love (falling in love) is just hormones and lust. Real love is a contract with mutual obligations. Most people think romance and butterfly feelings is love, huge mistake.

[@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx9618]

Platonic love is a type of love, or close relationship, that is non-sexual.

[@yerusalem4832]

@@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx9618 i wasnt really using it in that sense. What i meant was real love is a contract that is honored, not butterfly feelings. You can love a lot of things.

[@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx9618]

@@yerusalem4832 I know, you weren't using it correctly. That's why I provided you with the definition. I'd love to know the word that describes your "contractual love" concept from ancient Greece though, because I've never heard of such a thing.

[@yerusalem4832]

@@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx9618 "platonic love" is a modern colloquial term. So modern people dont use it in the older sense. The older sense is in a philosophical commitment to something or someone, be it a country or a woman or a leader, whatever. Maybe platonic isnt the right way to describe it, maybe it is. Point being most people just use love to describe the hormonal reaction rather than a philosophical concept

[@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx9618]

@@yerusalem4832 Pray tell where I can find this updated definition of Platonic love?

[@KnotApps]

This guy's idea of love is like that of a 12 year old girl hyped on disney movies and the notebook.

[@dawb86]

@Moeba Pop lol, he lowkey sounds like a woman scorned hahaha!

[@Tes-qe1jc]

You’re trying not to see the truth. There’s no such thing called love in a relationship. The only reason anybody can stay with you is if you have something. It’s just an exchange of things that you think is important to the other person.

[@alphonsoalonso6102]

Exactly. I get where he’s coming from but this is shit we worked out in our 20s. He’s like what? 50 something? And still referring to sex partners as “girlfriends”. “This is a girlfriend text”. “Oh you’re calling me out because I made a commitment to take you somewhere and then declined after post nut clarity BECUZ IM NAWT UR BOIFREN”. XD

[@jebes909090]

No, his illusions have been stripped away. This is all there is. A non successful famous millionaire won't understand this.

[@Lordani66]

Found the femoid.

[@zaxles]

It's all brain chemistry, there's no magical love force.

[@BOZ_11]

rationalism, cognition and mathematics are all just brain chemistry. there is no spoon

[@ChaosLierLen]

Doesn't the idea that love is a bunch of chemicals suggest that there's objective physical scientific evidence for the existence of it?

[@dastardlybastardthe2nd]

I dont believe in the sun. Its just hydrogen being crushed together. There is no magical sun force. I don't believe in life. Your body is just a complex chemical cocktail. There is no magical life force.

[@star0809fel]

@@dastardlybastardthe2nd haha good one. 😂

[@dastardlybastardthe2nd]

@Charles Lee Ray How does something simultaneously not exist AND be the symptom of chemical processes? You can argue over it's sincerity, its purpose, its necessity, or even its meaning. But to say "love" is nonexistent while arguing its a product of neurochemical processes is beyond ridiculous. If love is a chemical then it exists.

[@DU85]

Patrice O’Neil would be so proud of you Anthony

[@diplamatikjuan3595]

He's in the cloud like Obi Wan

[@NosyFella]

Patrice and that whole Opie and Anthony show was a stain on culture. We're better off without that shit. Horrible.

[@NosyFella]

@Shahaan G funniest to you and a few others maybe. I don't find making fun of callers with speech impediments amusing. I don't agree with Patrice's views on many aspects of life or that he was 'one of the funniest men who ever lived'. Opie was insecure and unfunny, Anthony was occasionally witty but also a massive bigot, same with Jim. I'll stick with George Carlin.

[@genaroflores835]

☝😏 This guy looks like Mo from The Simpsons ☝😏

[@robert__]

that's really funny actually

[@Upgrayedddd]

Lol OP and Rooney, it's odd you feel that way. Just seemed like two guys sharing experiences and opinions. Is it that hard to handle bro?

[@wagnerp1213]

dude you had me crying at starbucks and im getting strange looks lmao from he even fucking sounds like him.

[@favor4afavor823]

It's partly the look, but kinda the voice and definitely the attitude

[@lefthandcigg4253]

@@Upgrayedddd its always a white knight no one asked 4

[@spuntoddler9702]

My dude pulled NO punches Calling his ex wife a burden on his career 😂

[@greglyons2526]

Till they die and then you have to handle the grief. It does exist,although its hard to find.

[@MrNewsitall]

Anthony hit the nail on the head. When I was single and not looking for a relationship, that's exactly what I used to do. Tell them from the beginning, we're not in a relationship. Hanging out and having sexual relations is cool but as far as locking into something where one or the other had to be each other or know ones where abouts, not happening. Every one of them were cool with it and some took a bit to understand but never had a problem with it because they already knew what it was.

[@patwaddington]

Yeah man I always say that as well. Sometimes I’ll always get the “where is this heading” after a few months of just having sex

[@PhlebiacClown]

Don't get married, if you do get a prenup. I'm hearing far too many stories of these shameless pitiful woman taking advantage of the corrupted and flawed legal system to steal a man's entire life just because they can. Ha, and woman wonder why men just want to fuck them and leave...

[@westcoastmoto2063]

I've lost everything twice, stupid me I know. Now I refuse to own anything they can take.

[@benbacon5986]

^This.^ Absolutely. This.

[@TheDeysiRae]

Actually, according to another JRE episode, sex without commitment is an "evolutionary bargain" men are biologically wired to be unable to resist. There's a scientific base to it, you don't have to be fucked over by other women in the past to take future ladies up on "the bargain."

[@classygary]

“Art is a lie that enables us to realize the truth” - Pablo Picasso