i don't want kids, but a mukbang!

[@sharadeshae]

People be saying break generational curses. Well folks here you have it I won’t be having kids therefore curse is broken 😂😂😂

[@catrocks93]

you might be on to sumn🤔 but my family too dang small to not have kids 😩

[@teednae6318]

🤣‼️

[@shayjewels6204]

The math is mathing 🧮😂

[@tashniiie]

Exactly 😂

[@Gratitude84]

There you go 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@accidentsafe]

36 here, no kids, don't regret it. I go on five vacays a year and sleep until 2pm.

[@Jessica.Shawnte]

This is the life

[@kianahazel]

Wow i love that for you

[@idkijustworkhereb6705]

Period. HAPPY for you

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

Yes. My goal.

[@elephant327]

What I'm aspiring to😭🤞🏽

[@clarab1590]

“Choosing to not have kids can be a motherly act in itself” THAT PART ❤️

[@sepeira]

I lowkey don't want kids either I enjoy my freedom lol, but dont mind having them with the right guy

[@RADIYAH30]

Right same 😭🤣😩

[@kingkb2566]

i literally said this the other day 😂 like i wouldn’t mind having them w the right person but i couldn’t imagine having my freedom gone at the same time

[@queendombraids1829]

Lol I totally understand being the oldest I always have to take care of my younger siblings it’s annoying asf I literally can’t go out with my friends unless they tell me a month before parents always working. Ngl they just piss me tf off okay let me list it out. Colored my I phone charger with a sharpie so now it don’t work. Cut my wigs currently whole in the walls my door knob is broken since the tend to bust my door open so many time. They wake me up at 7am bc they hungry they want to eat. The screaming yelling always fighting omg one of them broke the damn living room T.V due to throwing their toys. I always have to bath for them brush they teeth and most definitely when I start driving I’ll probably have to take them to school it’s fuckin ridiculous. Ahhh it feels good to have this out peace and love 💕

[@sepeira]

@@queendombraids1829 ahhhh. I can't even imagine! I'd lose my mind. Praying for you 😫 lol

[@merissacooper6539]

@@queendombraids1829 Nah my momma would’ve had to drop them off at the daycare so I could live my life lmao

[@e1even178]

i realized that as a woman the idea of childbirth was never presented as an option. It was only when i really self reflected that i realized that I like kids... but i love when i give them back to their parents.

[@HeartBr8kRach]

Girl, I feel this in my soul. I’m 33 yrs old and I don’t want kids. I’ve never been maternal. I value my sleep, time, & coin. It’s a hard PASS!

[@gbrieannful]

Has your family tried to pressure you?

[@HeartBr8kRach]

@@gbrieannful They’d mention it from time to time. One day I just flat out told them I’m not interested. They probably think I’ll change my mind eventually. Thankfully they don’t pressure me but society does!

[@AB-yf9xj]

purrr

[@NatureIsleTwins]

No but fr. I agree with you. I’m 24, and the older I get, the more I realize how traumatizing child birth is. Like ripping thru yo pu$$y trauma, almost dying trauma. And this world is so miserable, why would I wanna put them thru that? Just so they go thru the same draining cycles that we’ve normalized? So their soul can get trapped here? Hell naw to the naw naw

[@nothandomlambo4216]

✨The Accuracy✨

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

And then it is also believed that black women have higher deaths when giving birth than our white counterpart; I don’t wanna die so🤷🏾‍♀️

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

@@nothandomlambo4216 right

[@kaatyblue]

this comment section is EVERYTHING, i love ya'll lmao and yes, i have always said i'm not having kids, since i was a kid myself, and am now 27 and every year i find MORE reasons to not have them lmao back when i was a teenager it was just cause i didn't see the point + have always hated children, but as an adult, it's that plus so many more reasons (the ones mentioned in the video)

[@kei_lah]

I have found my people!! With my health history, the thought of child birth is traumatizing, literally life or death! Like Serena Williams barely made it! Idc how selfish it is, i'll adopt before I put my life on the line! We're over populated anway. 😌

[@1412souki]

I also hate how everyone ask women why they don't want kids instead of asking women who want kids why they want kids

[@glowschannel5012]

People have kids for all the wrong reasons.That 'you'll never know what it is to love truly' gang are the worst. Why should another human being be a sacrifice to my personal emotional development.

[@merissacooper6539]

OMFG YOU JUST SAID MY WHOLE LIFE STORY 💀

[@allieshalaby]

THANK YOU

[@sochidala8093]

@don't care “I want a mini me” “I want someone to look after me when I’m older” “I want a legacy” “I want my child/kids to follow in my footsteps and be a _____” like how do people think that none of those reasons sound self-centered or creepy all of them start with I and end with something that the potential parents want none of these reasons show that the parents want to have kids for a selfless reason that would benefit the child I don’t normally hear “I want to give my kids the love I never had” “I want to raise individuals who will be prepared to leave me after 18 years and prosper in today’s society”.

[@rochelle1192]

I'm pretty young but I expect later in my life, I'll want to have kids or raise them. Unfortunately, they can't choose if they want this life, but I'm still going to try to make them emotionally fit and ready for the what the world has to offer.

[@Daydreamerr13]

Those TikTok’s “before I was your mom” were devastating… mom culture is terrifying and being a BLACK mother on top of that?! With how bad my mental illness is?! nahhh I’m ending my bloodline and curses, NEXT 😭💀

[@Sshazex]

So many moms make being a mom their entire identity!!!! It’s so bad! The Betty Broderick case + those Tik toks had me thinking abt that

[@Daydreamerr13]

@@Sshazex my mom does also added to why I’m not having them… really sad to witness :/

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

💯

[@addisondaniale2856]

Literally you pointed out every single thought that I have towards the whole kid thing. I’m not interested, but the thought is sometimes nice to fantasize about if we lived in a perfect world.

[@Rayglisse]

glad to have you back! even more glad you’re talking about such an important topic. my body my choice equals to my life choices too!! stop asking women when they’ll get kids like it’s all they can and should do.

[@HiKONiCONiCO]

As a gay black/Japanese man raised by a homophobic military southern baptist father, I make sure that my potential partner know that I will never put anyone through the same experience of feeling like I never met someone else's expectations and needing to people please chronically. Part of me fears of becoming like my father because we share the same DNA but also because I am never going to feel like I would meet my own expectations of fatherhood let alone the idea of raising a child in a world that is on the brink of disasters unknown frightens me. Dont feel bad for not wanting a child it is absolutely valid.

[@bougiepeaches5497]

I don't want kids(bio and orphan) because I don't like them, they're expensive, dependent, and demanding. Babies are draining, I love traveling, peace and quiet(all the time)

[@coffeebean4356]

Exactly!

[@imFUNsized20]

I love quiet time too much too lol.

[@DELIAHC]

This

[@SheJustLeft]

Lol. Emphasis on all the time.

[@wherethequietbeingsgo]

My thoughts exactly. Especially with all these escalated racial threats. Why I gotta put my child in danger on top of that.

[@TomiTomato]

“Two people really had sex in 1999 and here I am paying taxes” omg lmfao I’m adopting that line ASAP! I need to tattoo it on my forehead😂 This life really be the GHETTO a lot of the time😪

[@miamystical]

Haven't wanted kids since I was a young girl and I still stand by that. I'm meant to be a pet and plant mom and nurture others but growing and raising a whole soul is out of the question for me. Enjoy my independence and freedom wayyy too much and I'm not mentally fit for that

[@angiecam91]

I would love to be a mother someday but nothing about conception, pregnancy, and delivery seems enticing! However, fostering seems like a wonderful option especially if I can parent a child that’s already potty trained.

[@kendrawilliams198]

I feel like that to. It seems scary to have a child right now. I need to know about insurance and I want to be done with college before I have kids.

[@dontcaretbh]

Girl same. I have childhood trauma and god forbid i pass on the trauma....

[@tera4603]

I agree

[@eberechi3025]

Most of these parents don't be loving they kids more than themselves if at all. They claim to be wanting the best for you, but just be looking for some miniature moving punching bags and screaming pillows thinking that their existence is supposed to heal their trauma or smth when in all reality, the only thing they need to be getting is therapy.

[@merissacooper6539]

Exactly

[@LizBiz1250]

Exactly. My mother always says that she loved me unconditionally and more than herself, she says to her friends she is a great mother & has done everything to not become like her own mother (who was abusive) but in reality she had me, refused to care for my basic needs, took the money the government gave her for me and bought things she wanted with it, emotionally neglected me, verbally abused me, and then blamed me for it and said she didn't understand why I would tell such lies to someone who wanted to get me out of that home life. To me "I love you" from her are empty words and people try to say that she does love me in some way which makes me angry because if she loved me she wouldn't have treated me like an object or worse than she treats her own cats lmao

[@ranieshabaker9449]

This 🎯

[@alexrose20]

your audience is so mature ugh I wish my parents had gone through this thought process

[@SheJustLeft]

I was literally just having this conversation with someone. There are so many people with children who seriously should not have them. The person I was speaking to made a great point in that, we should be more well equipped before having children. We go to school to learn all these things that we didn't know about careers we want, but you're expected to just have a child without any type of intense training. I think it is very selfish to have a child knowing you aren't fully ready, just to please society. I'm at the age now that I know having kids is a definite no for me, but I would like to foster an offer child and get them out of the system and be a parent/mentor to them, when I feel I'm ready for that. Great topic and video as always.

[@ma3ixul997]

My mom did have me because of her parents :/ I still can’t get over it and both my parents didn’t have any background or basic information about how to raise children

[@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041]

When it comes to having kids, i'm hella indecisive. At first I wanted children but then considering how incompatible that would be with my personality, I no longer wanted children. However doubt has been planted in my mind since i've been told that i'll change my mind or that I basically shouldn't block my blessings. I guess it is up to future me to decide.

[@kaatyblue]

samee

[@idkwuzgoinon]

I don't want kids for the simple fact that I just don't like them lol. I find kids very annoying and exhausting. I know for a fact that I would 100% abuse them due to my anger management issues so let's just not.

[@derica818]

Amen to the anger issues, I swearrr it's not me but it is.

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

This comment is a whole mood😂

[@peacefulwaters222]

I am so glad that you know this about yourself, I hope you never accidentally have a child (for the child's sake). Wish other parents were as honest and careful as you

[@ranieshabaker9449]

😂😂😂 thank you for your honesty Paul

[@kaatyblue]

i'm glad someone said it. also when people are like "how can you hate something you once were?" well bitch i have hated other children SINCE i was one of them, plus guess what? i am no longer a kid am i? i just hate that "argument" so fucking much

[@edajalexa6933]

as a psychology student concentrating on treating adolescents and young adults, i know i don't want kids because i don't want the responsibility of not raising them correctly despite having the knowledge to do so. you could do everything correctly, but mess up once and bam the child has issues. that doesn't mean everyone has to be a perfect parent or have perfect kids, but i just don't need those worries. plus children are expensive. i can barely pay for what i want in life, nevermind a kid. i also have bpd and adhd and i would like to not pass on those genes.

[@KreativeitGirl]

I’ve met a lot of ppl having kids just for the tax write offs and it’s just sad bc the concept of why most ppl are having kids isn’t for the love honestly it’s for the money.

[@Sshazex]

I want kids but not until I’m 30+! Idc if I’m 50 with a teenagers, I wanna enjoy my 20s. I hate when teen/young parents shame people for wanting to wait until that age.

[@tera4603]

I agree ! I’m not even thinking about the thought of having kids till I’m 30+. I’m tryna live my life ! I wanna enjoy my twenties ! Maybe it’s because I was a sheltered teenager ( still am) I don’t know . But I think that they say that because they mad they didn’t wait and they see other people there age living life without them . But hey at least we’ll be more wise and have experienced life more having a kid later life.

[@Sshazex]

The comment about protecting an unborn child!!!!!!!! Yes!!!! I want to wait until I’m late 20s-30s due to the simple fact I know I’m no where near emotionally prepared to raise children! So many young parents put kids through mental turmoil because they’re children themselves!

[@merissacooper6539]

Yep

[@sylvahasadevaha]

I’ve never said “Thank you!” so many times when watching a video. These have been my exact thoughts for MONTHS now. You really hit the nail on the head

[@coffeebean4356]

I have issues emotionally attaching and being patient. I can't even bother being with my partner 24/7 without getting annoyed or wanting to be independent -luckily they understand- so I can't imagine that with a child. I don't want a kid to go through thinking that they're mother doesn't love them because they aren't hugging, talking, or basically interacting all the time :(

[@merissacooper6539]

I feel you. I have emotional issues detachment issues. ❤️

[@MercLife100]

I’m with you on this

[@squidwardtentacles7144]

Gurl same. You're so lucky you found someone that understands you. 🤗

[@coffeebean4356]

@@squidwardtentacles7144 thank you, there are times I feel like an absolute bitch to him, but he always reassures me and tells me that it's not my fault, nor his. We're very open with each other. 💜

[@mschell350]

When I was a kid, I absolutely wanted kids. But only because I was witnessing how my parents were raising me and I was like “I’m not gonna do this” or “I would never put a child through this.” It feels inherently… selfish. Parents have kids so they can give their kids the childhood they never had. Like for my mom who grew up poor, her love language was providing lessons and tutoring for me. While my love language was quality time and attention which she didn’t give me at all. I feel like I would only have kids to recreate my OWN “ideal childhood” which sounds so dystopian and fucked up

[@7central40]

Oh wow. Good ass point cause I hear ppl say that as a reason alll the time. That used to be my reasoning too-b4 I bossed tf up-💀

[@tottieyana4994]

It’s selfish to have kids if you don’t want them or can’t see them being feasible for you. I commend anyone who makes that decision. Don’t have kids you don’t want. Don’t being children into the world to join you in struggle.

[@PeriwinkleB]

I sometimes wish my mom did this. Woman’s got some issues and had no business procreating

[@rachyyadyy]

honestly same tho. i have depression and having a child who might potentially have it too scares me

[@LisaMayy]

Omg I literally talk about these same things all the damn time and like I’m always defending myself and like it’s so frustrating. Thank you for explaining my thoughts sending this too all those who oppose my beliefs

[@ladyqvictoria]

“Choosing not to have kids is a motherly act” EGG ZACK LEE

[@VibeHighTraining]

OMG I RELATE TO YOU SO MUCH ITS RIDICULOUS LOL 😂

[@jamiadial5973]

I don’t want kids either! I love children but I have no desire to be a mother.

[@brownoutlier]

Same

[@danyellejones3187]

It's your body. Women shouldn't be shamed for not having kids. I waited until my late 20s to have my first. And 30s for second. People had their opinions on my not having more. I keep hearing dont you want more.

[@Dany_C.]

Omg! I spell my name the same way! ❤️

[@danyellejones3187]

@@Dany_C. Cool. Not many of us with this spelling

[@yaniquewest455]

Mate, the PRESSURE for me to have another child is so wild. Me and my boyfriend love our boy, I have no shame in saying that another child could mess up our little trio. We are happy!

[@danyellejones3187]

@@yaniquewest455 Do what's best for you.

[@pioggiaraindrop]

From this video can we also talk about contraception and how difficult it can be to find the right one for you. Knowing how I may not want kids ever makes me so anxious about the possibility that I could have one accidentally.

[@queendombraids1829]

Nobody: Kai: “THE SUFFERING ENDS HERE” (And the applauds begin) *standing ovation

[@abbieamavi]

She said everything I’ve been realizing and thinking the past couple years. The thing is I like kids, but i don’t want my own. I’m open to adopting too, but not now. And again, “in what economy” is also what i tell people and they just get heated. 🙄

[@NekoLovely607]

I agree with all of your points in your video. I don't want kids because I feel like I'm not mature (I'm 28 btw) or patient enough for a child. I can barely tolerate or trust people, I'm a homebody, an introvert, and I suffer from depression and anxiety too. And I wouldn't want my child to inherit my mental illness. That, and kids are with you for a lifetime and are expensive! Financially, mentally, physically, and emotionally.

[@peachy1295]

Some chick lost her teeth, some ppl’s hair straightened, lose half their hair, etc etc and I went into a depressive episode for a week being upset at the THOUGHT of being pregnant. Also what if I don’t like my kid and give it trauma from lack of love… WHAT IF THE POST PARTUM PLUS REGULAR DEPRESSION KILLS MEEEEE. Anyways it’s a whole mess!

[@miriamh5771]

Thank you for making this video! I really dread the idea of having a child, my family and friends call me selfish for not wanting to have kids. Like I really want to have a good shot at my dream career which is flight attending so I would not have time or money to take care of anyone. I also have extreme body image and mental health issues so I feel like pregnancy and postpartum would send me spiraling and I doubt the kid would still have a mom afterwards.

[@gigidivine.1074]

YESSSS!!!! Girl, my period cramps are enough. I'm good off childbirth.

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

💯

[@melisdantou]

girl me neither, lemme grab my food

[@fluffy_wabbit8667]

me neither, i’m right there with you

[@Hispaniola.]

Honestly the whole process scares me and I'm not 100% sure if I want to. 😬

[@biancajones850]

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[@ishwaaq191]

I’m 19 and I don’t want to get married or have kids anytime soon. I’m the eldest of 8 children ( I come from a big family) so I’ve seen what it’s like looking after children and tbh I’m too lazy for that 😭

[@HH-bz6me]

Do you mind telling me your profession because your literally living my dream life lol!

[@Taayooo]

For me: it’s having to teach them EVERYTHING, like I don’t even have it figured out and I have to be a role model?! Tuh

[@NamasteInYourLane]

I also feel people have children because subconsciously they want something in their lives they can control.

[@aquemini154]

I want kids so badly but don't disagree with a single thing you said lmao

[@raresttrash]

omg thank you so much!! you are saying EXACTLY what i'm thinking when i'm having a discussion about kids and it's sooo annoying that i'm never taken seriously when i'm saying i don't want kids >_< i hate this standard that women should have kids and otherwise it's wrong? LIKE WTF

[@adennega556]

For a long time, I just didn't see myself having kids, mostly bc of inflation and past traumas. And even tho I feel like now I'm in a place where I feel like emotionally I'm in a better place to have kids, I just don't see it working out financially at all... like, I gotta save for retirement ma'am... this life now a days is waaay too expensive.

[@tay_dance7696]

I’m so happy that you’re back!!

[@fbaker1289]

I have 3 and it's not that I don't love them but it was the absolute worse decision of my life. Like you said your literally stuck. They're expensive, super active and No off days. Imagine going through depression and trying your best to raise 3

[@fbaker1289]

@Sunshine Only by Gods grace and mercy have I been able to stay sane and not give up! Thank you for your kind words queen ❣️

[@Redvelvetgirl14]

yeah i’ve already made my mind up about kids. i’ll hang with my kids’ friends tho!

[@Youeo203]

She is me. I am her. #childfree

[@taisland568]

Omg I missed this series sm

[@bristraphouse9987]

i’m 18 and coming from someone who babysits frequently…i dont want kids either LMAO 😭 it gives me very much miserable energy like wow.

[@chocolateprincess8543]

I’m 18 and I’m forever childfree.🥳

[@kittykade0039]

Honestly thank you for saying this i agree with literally everything your saying and it’s so nice to hear someone else say it

[@ashantitheara]

One of my biggest life goals is and has always been to be a mother. That being said I agree with everything you said lol.

[@destineegarrison9967]

Pregnancy is ghetto 👏👏👏👏

[@safehaven5176]

If minimum wage rises in order for employers to pay their employees everything will rise in price

[@TheCutypie78]

I love this video 🥺 perfectly put.

[@jillbarlow552]

most people who shame people who abort their kids or dont want to have kids are the people who dont even know who to take care of their own kids . iykyk

[@StettyCo]

She is spitting BARS

[@SlayWithADisability]

• so the gag is , i'm 31 and i still don't have any kids. &' god knows i am happy about. there's enough kids in the world as it is. enough for everyone. i'm not pressed to pop out one of those things lol. if it happens so be it. don't let's social media fool you into believing and thinking it's cute and easy. stay free for as long as you can

[@percs.5578]

i probably won’t have kids either, even though my parents are toxic they broke there back for me & my brother. i would pay them every dime for what they had to go through. & kids are too much.

[@FreshmansDub16]

I want a kid but don’t want the negatives that come with it. Most women have kids and thats their child, they’re the only one that takes care of that kid, regardless if they have the baby’s father in the kids life or they’re married, etc. Most dads don’t help whatsoever and you never really know what that man will be like with the kid until its here. I just don’t want that risk. I don’t wanna raise a kid myself and on top of that feel like I have to take care of everything else too. Its giving a bad decision

[@freespirit-111]

You’re on the right track with your concerns . I’m 46. I had my son at 34, almost 35, then I had a tubal. I never wanted to do it again. I ended up having a c-section and I remember thanking god that I did not have to push the baby out..😀 Anyway, you’re right, the brunt of the responsibility always lies on the mother, it’s a lot of work. I’m married and my husband does help, but you still worry about the child’s health, happiness etc, so yeah, dental appointments, homework etc, it’s all on you, while you try to keep a trim figure, take care of household task etc Parenting is not that glamorous

[@jayk1336]

Okay so I guess you’ve been reading my thoughts lol. I remember telling my parents that I didn’t want kids when I was like 7 or 8. As time has passed I’ve thought about being a mom and on one hand I would love to give a child the opportunity to grow into an amazing adult, but my personality, personal health, and internal desire (or lack thereof) don’t match with motherhood. If the right man comes….maybe, and it’s definitely not a selfish decision

[@annasoph8967]

Same I’m 15 and have already decided

[@AstrogirlNessa]

hey ily and i hope you have a good day, kai

[@basedadri]

I agree with not wanting to have kids either. I’m in my early 20s and I don’t have any intention of having kids & especially not in my 20s (no offense to anyone who has) but idk every-time i say that people get so offended lmao like its my uterus 🤣 and kids are a HUGE responsibility . You cant take care of a child with only love, they are expensive lol like I’m good.

[@Justmelanin]

Omg im glad im not the only one soo many people are engaged married or pregnant ir got kds already in thry early 20s and they look at u like what you doing? Lol im living my life i dont want kids i enjoy my freedom as well. I mever seen myself with kids anyway. But i feel like people should wait for all that because we go thru soo many transitions in our 20's. Thats why some ppl got alot of bm and not wifes or bd and not husband and frustrated. Some people did too much in too litlle of time and didnt give themselves enough space to grow

[@basedadri]

@@Justmelanin yess i completely agree !! Especially in your 20s you go through a lot of life changes/ transitions. I also want to be able to just travel wherever I want to, whenever I want to and sometimes you can’t do that when you have kids

[@Justmelanin]

@@basedadri yess! I completely agree! I love traveling! And learning new things and cultures! And with kids it would be hard

[@khadijjahmote355]

I literally could not stop laughing during this whole video. You brought it with THIS one

[@catrocks93]

i want kids but i’m mentally ill af and i’m 99% i inherited it from my mom and i don’t want it to be the same for my kids :(

[@Hispaniola.]

What are the odds, like kai I was literally talking to my sister about this exact topic and I feel the same way for most of the reasons you shared.

[@beajanebouzy9597]

i agree w everything u said. if i were to have a kid id honestly probably resent it. having to provide for someone else that doesn’t even know how lucky they are would be so exhausting for me.

[@jeremiahmandrade]

She’s backkk

[@indiajade7635]

A lot of people think I’m joking when I say “eff them kids” 🙃🙃

[@indiajade7635]

I like kids! They’re pure balls of energy and their honesty is appreciated and HILARIOUS. However, a kid from MY genes seems very much delusional

[@rosthomson6590]

It is nice to see that I am not alone in feeling this way :)

[@notmyrealname11]

Thank you for making this! I've always been made to feel like I was crazy or weird for not wanting kids, but I don't want them for all the same reasons you listed here. From now on, when someone asks me why I don't want kids, I'll just send them this video

[@prettyinpink1222]

Lolol I adore you!!! Thank you for having this conversation.

[@ayla8345]

My sister in law is 24 and just bought a house with my brother, 2 new cars, went to the Maledives for their honeymoon and have their 2nd baby on the way. WE ARE THE SAME AGE I HAVE NOTHING!!! I live in a small apartment, I’m single, no car, no money and I don’t want kids. Every time there’s a family gathering it’s so awkward because she is every parents dream child and I’m the family disappointment lol My parents want me to be like her so bad it’s so humiliating 😭

[@merissacooper6539]

Nah baby be uniquely you! Own it. Focus on what you have and what YOU can achieve. Don’t go chasing dreams that aren’t in YOUR dreams. ❤️

[@soanyways5167]

I promise your time will come for success 💕and your dodging a bullet not having kids you'll thank yourself later lmao

[@Calmingsounds1234.]

I don’t want kids why would I want a broke animal in my house breaking stuff and running up my bills.

[@bougiepeaches5497]

Right!

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

💯

[@itskch]

yessssss i missed u 🤩

[@usalawlemon]

You might want kids to store as food for later use. People use to do it a lot back in the days when they lived in small tribes. Mukbanging your or other people's kids can be a good idea to reduce overpopulation

[@editname1469]

love your content ❤️

[@Greenrivers14]

I don't want to have kids either, I've been thinking about this for a minute, adoption would be a great idea for when I get financially and mentally stable in life.

[@mekaylaarchives]

you should do trying to make a minimalistic cake for a video!! either with yourself or with kai, i feel like it would be nice to watch. really enjoyed this video !! 🤍

[@naturallysweet87]

I have the same thoughts at the age of 33. It's crazy how relatable this video is to me. Thanks for sharing.

[@champagneprincess4]

“life is inherently suffering” is a fact, it’s frustrating when “life is good” is thrown around everywhere and you see toxic positivity everywhere. people don’t want to feel their emotions everyone is pretending to be happy and cheerful constantly like….

[@Keilitza]

Almost everything you said in this is how I feel about society/kids/capitalism. How it wasn’t our choice to be here.

[@coffeebean4356]

I tell my family all the time that they're gonna have to rely on my brother to have kids because I'm most certainly am not 🙅🏾‍♀️

[@cloverskiezz]

i know that’s RIGHT

[@MiissPetite]

The edit when you eating always get me💀 but you got valid points and I respect that❤️

[@rebekahwalker42]

This the realest shit ever. Thank you for this video 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Uraura777]

Everything you said was so spot on to how I feel and what I’ve tried to explain to people and I always feel guilty and made to feel like a bad person for feeling this way.. the video clip tho😂 thank you for speaking on this topic and being so authentic and open I can relate 🙃

[@welikelethabo]

I’m really happy about the fact that I’m not the only person who doesn’t want kids. People always look at me like I’m crazy because I don’t want kids💅🏾I love this comment section

[@CreativeEricafilms]

as someone who wants kids, no lies were detected in this entire video. thank you for speaking on it!