my undebatable hot takes (argue with your mom)

[@Fedha-dm1up]

Don’t have kids if you know you gonna hate kids

[@OGSuki.]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ My grandma literally told her kids: “I don’t like kids.” What the fuck are they supposed to do with that?

[@northcoast2469]

Simple as that.

[@actoflove3255]

I love kids. But the spoiled ones and the ones that don’t have respect or don’t listen I can’t be around them to long

[@kindakay4360]

My mother

[@learn2draw716]

@@actoflove3255 No such thing as a spoiled kid. Kill that mindset.

[@SomeoneOnEarth_707]

Bruh when she said “wanting kids is inherently selfish” I’ve been thinking that YEARS! If u CHOOSE to have kids, in my opinion, u can’t complain about how much having a kid costs or EVER use the “I brought u in the world” line, like they didn’t ask to b here, u forced them to🙃

[@Bushtickler]

Fucking periodt

[@missshannonsunshine]

Right then they use that as an excuse to abuse and berate you and look Pikachu surprised face when you don’t talk to them a lot

[@Fedha-dm1up]

Exactly you don’t have kids if you don’t want to have kids .

[@malaykav]

Meeee in my late 20s not foreseeing ever having kids. The concept of choosing to have a child has never been appealing to me. Like do you sit down and have a conversation with your significant other about it? Does it just happen because you aren’t taking precautions and you just go with it? My bank account, my goals, and desires all say nahhh to children. And pregnancy kinda sounds trash.

[@malaykav]

@@sydknotsydney especially in America. Wheww no thank you.

[@mannasteelyt]

"White woman and black men are the same thing but in different fonts" That hit.....

[@lisacarnegie1427]

Period

[@ralphkeeldar4726]

thx for your opinion. I think the color of your skin shouldn't matter. I subscrided. 👍🏾💐

[@Fedha-dm1up]

Period

[@izzyiris614]

As a white woman I would love to point out the fact we aren't all like this. Most white women are in support of equality for everyone

[@Fedha-dm1up]

@@izzyiris614 But like most white woman are the same people who try to Gaslight people of colour when they want to speak out about issues that they have. And most of them only one equality for themselves but not others

[@lizzie5734]

Hot take: gen z white kids (especially on tic tok) have a white savor complex. Someone signs one petition or puts BLM in their bio and all of a sudden it's "omg go gen z. We are literally stopping (insert discrimination). We are so open minded. We are better than every generation before us. They didn't care like we do." Like y'all fr comparing yourselves to the great black men and women who fought during the 60s and even sacrificed their lives for this shit? Gen z is not as open minded as they think they are either. I see bullying and misogyny all over tic tok from every race and white kids need to stop acting like they just solved racism and like the older generations didn't care. I'll tell y'all right now, black people have been caring and have been fighting, y'all just don't want to see it and act like y'all just ✨ did that ✨

[@kgalaleloratsoana1872]

Preach 🔥

[@neptune2266]

they jump on movements like blm as an opportunity to rebel against their parents, not to spur any actual change in society.

[@bubeudeh]

@@neptune2266 TAAAAAALK

[@bubeudeh]

SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT GOD THANK YOU

[@ariesmry]

Attention and ego.

[@lesbiannotthespian]

"Straight black men are the weakest link" I wholeheartedly agree

[@ralphkeeldar4726]

thx for your idea. I subscribed. Like to make contact with people all over the world and learn more. 👍🏾💐

[@havenhorlback]

im not disagreeing or agreeing with you but why do you think this

[@lesbiannotthespian]

@@havenhorlback look at the person above me's comment. they summed it up pretty well

[@northcoast2469]

Damn hopefully y’all run into a black man that can show you they are good. There are good people out there.. sad That people wanna think that there aren’t this goes for males and females. There’s a good person for everyone they just haven’t came yet keep y’all head up

[@faithhannah3271]

@@northcoast2469 EXACTLY

[@aph2772]

Gen Z is called Gen Z cuz it should've been the last, end it.

[@kaifoster]

Crying

[@idkwuzgoinon]

Don’t worry climate change will finish us if not WW3 will. We’ll see which one comes first.

[@iman7026]

It’s foreshadowing. Humanity ends HERE lmfao. 😀✌️

[@DANNYTHEFROG123]

Gen Z still out there procreating

[@imanahmed6126]

@@iman7026 bruhhhh😭😭😭😭😭 we in English class for earth?? 😭💀🤚

[@jak_93]

Adding onto the veganism can feed into racism thing. A lot of people ignore how much indigenous culture practices revolves around hunting and preparing meat and animal by-products and there is no way for you to separate the two. It's not just food, it's clothing, songs, and so much more that would be lost, diluted, or couldn't be practised anymore if indigenous people went vegan in the western sense. Why the vegans think it's okay to shame indigenous people for keeping their culture alive when most of its been bulldozed to the ground is beyond me.

[@BRIXXANY1]

I agree and if America was still a nation of only indigenous people I can guarantee that animals wouldn’t be bred to just be slaughtered. From what I’ve learned, Indigenous people respect everything that the earth has to offer. I watched a video (I don’t remember the name of it :/) where this reporter followed this tribe around to see how they live and one part stuck out to me. They have a ritual where a bull or cow (I can’t remember) literally offers itself from the rest of the pack to be killed for the better of the land, community, etc. it’s a respected and practiced tradition.

[@jak_93]

@@BRIXXANY1 I'm Australian so my perspective more comes from what I know of our own Indigenous people. But, I wholly agree Indigenous people have far more respect and understanding of the land.

[@TheCinnamondemon]

strong disagree.. just bc its your "culture" doesnt mean its ok. some cultures had human sacrifice. my culture in west africa has female circumcision. other cultures involve brutal racism and colonization. "culture" in and of itself is not a virtue.

[@TheCinnamondemon]

@@BRIXXANY1 but i do agree with the fact that indigenous cultures have a much more profound respect for humans, animals, and the land. veganism wouldn't be such a pressing issue if the country was still largely indigenous because we wouldn't have this gross over-consumerism that compels us to breed and torture animals, killing our environment and health in the process, to keep up with the demand

[@jak_93]

@@TheCinnamondemon No it's not but, a large part of Indigenous activism is about regaining autonomy and the right to be the ones to change their culture and not outside forces. So for me, it does come off as very colonialist or racist to be telling an indigenous person to change their culture because its unpalatable to a vegan - if it just involves things like hunting animals for food or as a part of cultural practices. Yes, outside pressure is needed to stop inhumane practices such as FGM and human sacrifice, but if there is reform in other areas needed it is not our place as outsiders to dictate if and how that reform happens. Reform should happen from within as those within are best equipped to reform the culture whilst preserving it as well.

[@giaxalyse]

I don’t know how many times people have brought up their racial preference out of nowhere. Like?? I don’t feel like hearing about your deep rooted self hatred and/or racist stereotypes about people.

[@jeyyne]

Amen

[@Fedha-dm1up]

Exactly but it’s black women like another race it’s a problem but it’s black men do it it’s okay because of its preference because black woman did something for them to not like us

[@giaxalyse]

@@Fedha-dm1up growing up I definitely thought no one would like me, black guys weren’t interested in black girls non black guys not interested in black girls, it gave me a lot of self esteem issues that my non black friends simply didn’t get 🤷🏽‍♀️ no one wants to feel like the bottom of the barrel and plenty of black girls growing up feel this way, it’s so sad

[@donaldducksazzcheeks]

Right like why? I didnt fucking ask😐

[@giaxalyse]

@Lotus jumping spider haha what? No one said that 😂. We’re clearly talking about the people who hate specific races and play it off as “preferences”. “I don’t wanna date black women because they’re always mad that’s why I only want a white woman” “I don’t wanna date black men because they’re all cheaters that’s why I only date Asian men” and insert any other stereotype.

[@imnotxden2794]

I couldn’t agree more with your opinion on drugs. Some people need a glass of wine after a long day of work, others need coffee in the morning. These are both drugs they are just normalized by society while weed and other drugs still have a lot of stigma attached to it.

[@Fedha-dm1up]

Exactly that stigma is because white man pushed narrative that drugs were terrible just because people of colour like brought them into America . Watch Yhara Zayd’s Recent video it’s very educational

[@colemathis7471]

Some drugs like weed or tabacco I think so, but hardcore stuff like meth, heroin, cocaine. That stuff is bad even in moderation and we need to do more to get off this planet. These drugs affect black, white, asian and everyone in-between there is no way we should normalize that.

[@imnotxden2794]

This!!! And white men in the US also decided to use the war on drugs as a tool of systemic racism and mass incarceration of black & brown people. Thx for sharing I will definitely check them out :)

[@imnotxden2794]

@@colemathis7471 I agree with you, I was talking about drugs like weed, alcohol, shrooms, etc. Not hard drugs😅

[@narauskii2595]

im only going to college because i have nothing else to do. there’s no job out there i want. im just trying to waste time at this point

[@jaynamugenyi5804]

Honestly feel this so much. Even if I had a job I like, are they going to hire someone who hasn't been too college? NOPE.

[@LLCoolJ_25]

That’s what I’m doing 😂that’s why I said “let me do community college first” bc idc which university i go to. I was like “let me be a psychologist but it’s a bunch of school. Then I found an internship for IT (information technology) and that’s a field that’s needed. It also doesn’t take very much schooling. Yes it’s a 9-5 but fuck I don’t want to be extraordinary, I just want to be able to afford life. At least get out of my moms house.

[@lia3111]

Omg I thought I was the only one I literally have no reason to be in school rn

[@zifeepuechi3593]

Omg meeeeee!

[@vsboardza]

I hope you aren't going into debt for boredom though...

[@TheSunflowerGoddess]

I hate when people say that "I'll change my mind" about having kids. I tried to get a tubal litigation at 21 and was denied by my (then) gynecologist because he claimed that I'm too young and that he supposedly did this before for a young woman who ended up changing her mind... 😒🙄 Anyways, 4 years later at 25 I'm still Childfree and adamant about remaining this way. I will not date *anyone* who has or wants kids and I have literally ended a relationship because I found out that he wanted kids and thought that he would change my mind 😒. YOU know YOURSELF best, don't let anyone coerce you into living a life that you don't want.

[@giaxalyse]

OOOO when people would applaud their faves for posting a black square during blackout Tuesday and saying how proud of them they are. This is why they think that’s enough, people want to gas them up for doing ✨nothing✨

[@amyashae8025]

Videos by gia I so agree it's annoying because the crazy thing is a lot of those same people who posted those black squares have only posted those black squares and that's it. People like this always get praised for doing the bare minimum just because they have a title. I also think that people like this don't care because they have the mentally of "well if it isn't affecting me why should I care?"

[@colemathis7471]

@@amyashae8025 Honestly its a group mentality most of these white girls don't give a damn about what's going on, they post during blackout Tuesday because its the "woke" thing to do.

[@giaxalyse]

@@amyashae8025 SO TRUE!!!! Legit they hit it and quit it. It’s so annoying. And they’re normalizing doing nothing. How is the world supposed to change if people think it’s okay?? Also Blm was trendy. When I spoke out about it beforehand people called me the angry black girl but when it’s trendy those same people are reposting on Instagram smh

[@roddy.m]

Here’s a thought: Ultimately, money is only valuable because people have this weird obsession with gaining a certain social status within society. People seem to be overly concerned with being better than and having more than the next person. That’s evident with there being a 1% that basically controls the majority of the wealth on this planet.

[@user-bv5sq9dy7w]

This!

[@Tixz-is7wb]

I probably won’t have kids because there’s a chance that I can be just as traumatizing as my mom was to me , to them , and I don’t want that for a child :/

[@tibianelnair8714]

If your acknowledging this concern your already a way better parent than your mom

[@sunettas9738]

I'm sorry to hear about your trauma, I hope you're doing better now

[@Tixz-is7wb]

Sunetta S Thank you ❤️

[@Laylowex]

Her in the title: argue with your mom Me remembering that my parents are Nigerian: *ight I’m good cuhz*

[@nnekaugo]

LMAOOO right like i’m not tryna get kicked out

[@ellaa5986]

Nigerian too 🇳🇬 so the arguing is definitely out 😅

[@naecomplains]

arguing never ends well with them 🇳🇬😭

[@zephyr8053]

same

[@Laylowex]

@@nnekaugo Facts

[@diamondbrown2237]

what she is saying is LITERALLY my brain cells communicating with each other when i think about my life ...🙂

[@archangelq721]

"this shit is on x games mode at all times" wit the voice crack and everything & That's just one of many great quotables from Kai

[@MelanieHeart]

The opening. AGREED girllll if anything i'm adopting

[@Trynatostayalive1234]

Right!!

[@janahjill9803]

Exactly. I want to foster in my fourties but I personally do not visualize myself having children . I’m 18.

[@findyournearesteotc]

🙏🏽

[@1818-i4c]

i had to ear that wrong😳😳

[@LaughMusic331]

Also having a kid during a pandemic intentionally is a little weird to me but idk 🤷‍♀️

[@adaekwutife6261]

I kinda thought I was the only one lmao but ppl have there reasons ig

[@roastedbeans2051]

It's full on weird!! People are having kids because it's an "obligation" in my culture... It's disgusting.

[@bubeudeh]

its just sick

[@oyinkanotubanjo6073]

I was just thinking this...

[@sparkofanidea2248]

Some ppl were pregnant before this pandemic started and happened to give birth during it, just like ppl who happened to have children on 9/11, during the Great Depression. By your logic the my ancestors are selfish and weird for giving birth during slavery

[@laylaabdul3329]

“You do need to to aspire to do anything.” I, too, have been thinking about this recently. Humans weren’t put on Earth with all the societal constructs and nuisances we have today. People were able to be valuable and see themselves as such in a time where all they accomplished was eating, staying alive, and providing for their circle. That’s being said, living like cavemen isn’t the answer. But everyone agrees that the best things come when you aren’t looking for them, a good mindset turns everything to gold, etc. so why don’t more of us actually do what we love and let the rest happen? Some people don’t have the financial luxury but at the same time so many middle class white kids go to college just because and end up living lives they never dreamed about, only settled for. My goal is to start living like nobody ever told me who I was or should be.

[@LLCoolJ_25]

This is a thought I come across a lot and get depressed about. Like I’m tired of going to work at a Walgreens, when I could just be a human trying to survive and eat. Then my mom always thinks I’m not doing enough, like I just don’t want to exist

[@lia3111]

@Idk what is considered realistic to you? I feel like there’s no such thing as being realistic. Everything is literally made up. We could really just not doing anything but we can’t because we’ve be programmed to think that going to school for half of our life and then working to our death bed is the only path we should follow. Idk just my take on things tho

[@kianaw.8096]

it’s so refreshing to see someone with the same thoughts as me lmaooo thank u

[@KayGee_yt]

Having children IS ghetto. I've really been considering adoption lately but it's not adding up because there's millions of couples waiting to adopt and millions of children who remain unadopted. Make if make sense

[@kaseymaison1658]

The very last hot take about black women dating white men being different than black men dating white women. Whew🥵 somebody snapped

[@scorpionqueen11]

Hot takes? Pshh. You mean FACTS? This video needs to be seen by a LOT of people.

[@LuvKitKatt]

Nah hot takes

[@nouhaila2983]

Righttt I’ve never agreeed more

[@baileym7105]

@11:00 I Doordash and noticed that in the “ghetto” areas people mainly ordered fast food because those were the only options, whereas the “richer” area’s had a vast array of healthy food to choose from, very rarely fast food is delivered to a nice area.

[@Greenrivers14]

Yeah, I've noticed that too! I've been door dashing throughout 2020 and the "ghetto" areas did seem to order more fast and unhealthy food. I've also noticed that since the pandemic has slowed down every service, that the trash was piled up in some of those areas and the smell was really bad. It's very bad and unsanitary even if we weren't in a pandemic.

[@joycearmstrong1648]

girl yes! I’m tired of people idolizing obama just bc he’s charming🙄

[@LuvKitKatt]

SAME

[@mannyrivera6399]

He squandered the opportunity to be a truly transformational president, he had a super majority for 2 years and didn't do anything of real meaning, he was just another status quo neo liberal

[@donaldducksazzcheeks]

@@Fedha-dm1up uh uh I can't read dis😭✋

[@bellesimp2457]

Obama is a god

[@magicizaproblem]

He told the people in flint that it was ok to drink the water twice....

[@alexandria5547]

the money part , do not get me startedddd I get so irritated with the topic alone because all the shit is made up

[@lilyr2729]

this whole video should just be called "kai's communist manifesto" lol

[@vsboardza]

But communism is a scam too! Atleast in practice

[@Tixz-is7wb]

Omg yes! I never understood why they couldn’t just print more paper to pay off their trillion dollars of debt 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@hedgejae_]

wait...you're onto something-

[@roastedbeans2051]

Because economic development dictates that when you print more money, you raise inflation. Therefore the loan that the country already had would raise too! It's all a conspiracy. Ikik... But that's why modern democracies built on the backs of the two world wars are fated to fail.

[@EduardoGonzalez-tc2dg]

Are y’all serious right now you guys don’t know basics of a economics.

[@Tixz-is7wb]

Eduardo Gonzalez Yes. I was 100% serious when I said that ...

[@anuhassan5596]

Where would it come from??

[@Swttpea]

America just will never be the peaceful inclusive place we want it to be, because it was never built to be that.

[@Ohtiaraa]

Leave.

[@callingclaire3017]

Sis did NOT come to play, as usual 😌

[@maddys5991]

I don’t agree with all your positions on certain things but I do like to hear your point of view and appreciate your unapologetic ness because let’s be real it’s 2020.

[@malaykav]

I love these comments. Knowing I’m not alone. We think too logically to bring kids into this world honestly. Like what is the benefit? What selfless desire is fulfilled by brining a child into the world? And if I bring race into it..whilst I LOVE being a black woman...this shit is hard.

[@colemathis7471]

I'd say 70% are accidents whose mothers didn't want to/ couldn't abort. (That includes me too😃)

[@malaykav]

@@colemathis7471 I can see that. I wouldn’t be surprised if the percentage was higher. Especially in America where healthcare and abortion aren’t always an option.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@malaykav its more like 50% couldn't abort (found out too late), 30% are trying to keep their partner happy 20% actually want the child

[@danzeltshuma2024]

"...And nothing ‘gainst Time’s scythe can make defence Save breed, to brave him when he takes thee hence."

[@ito4805]

Ok?! Because the world has blatantly let me know any unborn child I have is already in danger....I literally just can’t even 🙄

[@daisyflower1545]

Totally agree with the not having dreams/aspirations. I suffer from depression also and I've felt like I needed to have dreams to be a "good" person. F that, I'm just trying to survive at least for now before I can live.

[@rondeezee2828]

It’s so crazy, I’m a cis male, black, straight...and I loved every second of this video!! 🤷🏽‍♂️💯💯💯 you truthfully dropped GEMS from start to finish. No one is fit to argue with these statements! Damn near made me hate ME!! 😂💯✊🏼

[@1c2y3b]

OMG!!!!! I say to myself all the time that life just isn’t that great to keep passing it on to other people.

[@jpocket7330]

I love hearing your voice and opinions. I feel like I don't get such raw honesty on anyyy other channel. Thank you for posting videos. Appreciate you and hope you have a the most restful niiiight

[@graciaxxl8808]

I've always said the same thing about the kids thing. It gets people riled up but it's quite literally true.

[@babyboyD]

your hot take on ancestors: what you said it very true. not everyone's ancestors actually did anything useful with their lives. but I think when people talk about "our ancestors" they're talking about the generation of black folks before that DID help us to get black to where we are now. and we really wouldn't be this far if it wasn't for those generation's help so I think they are worthy of praise

[@tauncheworkman8153]

hot take: we need to stop judging a whole race/gender of people based solely off of personal accounts

[@kennemedia01]

I agree 100%

[@Alchemy77]

Agreed

[@ademideakinsefunmi8547]

I agree you shouldn't judge a community based on your personal reactions but it would be foolish to not take caution when interacting with that community even when people with similar experiences to you have a similar experience to that community.

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Nothing personal about the truth. Majority of black transgender women are being killed only by bm

[@tauncheworkman8153]

@@ademideakinsefunmi8547 i agree 100% but people are too diverse for one race or gender to be one race. that’s like you eating a rotten banana and now you think all bananas are rotten. like no, just that banana is rotten, understand that you can find a nice and ripe banana.

[@princessmochi524]

I'm not having kids because mental health is passed down in my family and of course mental health struggling people can always get help but let's be honest imaging having a kid going threw everything you did that sucks

[@Dayzdajay]

I resonate with this comment so much ! Mental health is a issue in my family as well

[@saskiapowell]

I’m in complete agreeance! My boyfriend watched this video and then told me to watch it, he was like “You two are the exact same...” and I am with you sis

[@daisyflower1545]

Its funny that people call people who don't want kids selfish when a lot of people want kids for selfish reasons. Life is hard I'd rather adopt a child already here

[@Molz333]

I have a need to watch this since my mum passed away when I was young but I have a step mum so...idk what I’m gonna do with my own life but that’s wonderful in its own way I guess? I like to stay positive even through all the negative sh*t

[@jelissan.5569]

Aww i’m sorry

[@Molz333]

@@jelissan.5569 It's okay, it's been 10 years now so I've had time to process and move on as best as I can and the life I have now it's necessarily the one I want but I'm on my way

[@tumiseadebowale4343]

“The bar is literally in hell”💀

[@jayscott778]

BRO SAME I THINK ABOUT HOW THINGS ARE MADE UP ALL OF TIME AND IT FRUSTRATED ME ( ESPECIALLY MONEY)

[@adaekwutife6261]

Rt I'm just thinking about how money is literally just numbers

[@sarahbabiker9963]

if you want kids adopt, adopt adopt!! help someone who was already brought into the world have a better life, if you can provide a good life for a child why would you create a new one when there are people who are already here that need it. I would agree there is a degree of selfishness however if you happen to fall pregnant its obviously your right to have the child if thats what you want. I just don't understand the desire of having children from an early age especially.

[@bellesimp2457]

Or have kids

[@rambofiles]

she’s like a female version of sneako. so direct and not afraid to share her opinion. mad respect

[@imtats]

i’d say sneako adds more “gen z” humor to his shit. but i def agree with you on the raw unapologetic opinions

[@gazmaane7408]

my hot take: america is embarrassing 😳

[@ARaebow]

That part 🥴

[@kryssstal111]

Your Aquarius rising is shining in this video !! I agree 100%

[@Destiny-nz5yg]

I’m not gone say too much... but you right 😂😂

[@TwinJoee]

When she said you dont need extra accolades to deserve someones love HIT me because i went above and beyond for someone who in the end told me i dont have enough goals for them to be with.

[@justicewhite4739]

you kind of contradicted yourself when you said we shouldn't have goals, then right after you said we should be a good person and try to survive. That is a goal in itself. Another contradiction is, you said its selfish to bring a human being into the world because that person wants a relationship with their child but i could say you wanting a relationship with a partner later in life would be selfish according to your standard.

[@Joythealchemist]

Yes . The child thing was weird given your hating on humans when she in fact is a human . a lot of her hot takes were common sense .

[@ito4805]

@Anon A society has conceptualized and glorified life as a gift... that’s the thing. It’s a brainwashing narrative. It IS selfish to bring a child into the world and be upset that they’re on drugs or become deviant based on the parents standards. Because that child is not a reflection nor should be a direct result of the parents expectations. It’s selfish to think people should be who we want them to be for us. The world does not value life, nor treat it as a gift, when we’re all witness to senseless violence against our own species.

[@shenobiyashar8281]

It Wasn’t Up For Debate

[@kentuckycriedfricken_]

@@ito4805 truee but I mean some of it is just natural parents being parents, worrying about their babies growing up in the world, etc. Just gotta disregard it.

[@lovelygigi1661]

imo I do need to have goals because its what keeps me up and motivated, if I didn't I would be super depressed (from personal experience)

[@nayyy.floremila5800]

I felt this

[@nnebugho]

No Nuance November: The idea of "too many people on the earth" ultimately is rooted in the inherent predisposition for capitalism.

[@Lifeishard237]

What

[@lilash7918]

@@Lifeishard237 i kinda get it. For example, right now there is enough food to feed every person on earth. But bc of money, people starve

[@opinionatednobody5631]

no bc why didnt you read the one that said " as humans we should all admit were all aweful people and we should all k*ll ourselves"' lmaoo that was the best one

[@CreeMo]

you are unbelievably unorthodox, i love your perspectives. your mindset is extremely taboo to i’m sure a lot of people.. you’re refreshing❤️❤️❤️

[@yimikageorge1164]

Today’s my first day watching you and I’m already hooked. You’re so intelligent and well-spoken.

[@SupaSweetKay]

Girl! As soon as you talked about straight black men as the weakest link, I subscribed bc I’ve BEEN saying that! Wrote a whole speech about it and it could’ve been 1000 pages tbh

[@nyaeimani8262]

I love Kai’s personality❤️ I aspire to reach her level of unbothered-ness ✨

[@naturalbby1722]

“Unpopular opinions really aren’t unpopular people are just afraid to say sh1t!” EXACTLYYY👏🏾👏🏾

[@tizzaray]

"If you have a problem with this video, you can take it to the comments or your mother!" MORNING MADE! 😂 We have no arguments or suggestions ma'am! 🙅🏾‍♂️

[@baileym7105]

Im glad I found you, you have very interesting and refreshing takes.

[@luvhannah.1510]

props to me for being early. i did that PURRRRRR

[@Nassit-Gnuoy]

Early comments really do be a flex.

[@bluebaby3074]

yes purrrrr

[@jelissan.5569]

having kids is selfish, like why

[@aclassiccity]

to further the name/empire? i don't have any of those so i agree with you lmaoo

[@Nandiee]

its not selfish if you can afford to. that's just a whack reason honestly.. its selfish if you cant afford to provide for them or love them accordingly.

[@jelissan.5569]

@@Nandiee I asked one of my friends moms and she said it’s selfish bc like they’re only really having that kid to fulfill to gap of love that they want so much so they do that to benefit themselves just to have the kid go through a world of suffering etc yk?

[@jelissan.5569]

@@aclassiccity RIGHT the whole family legacy thing doesn’t benefit anyone at all, tell me who now rly cares abt ur ancestors, let alone know what your last name even is, unless your family is like a multi million business that’s known nationwide

[@eyonceee]

I wouldn’t call it selfish cause not everyone has that “I’m killing the earth” thought but adoption first would defo be better

[@anjelinde2121]

First 30 seconds in I’m already hitting the like button 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@hearmeoutbro]

I DESPISE people who tell me I’ll change my mind when I say I don’t want kids.

[@jaliane]

Part 2! Where is the lies???? I relate to these too much!

[@mirrypeter8300]

I think Americans can do better we need to stop being self centered and not everything is about us .. Europeans are laughing at us .

[@Laylowex]

Yeah

[@Fedha-dm1up]

Europeans aren’t any better

[@IsaUrameshi]

Africans are cackling.

[@msmultiloverable]

@@IsaUrameshi disagree with you there, individual African countries are very self-centered and xenophobic towards other African countries

[@sashankonyana7422]

lowkey everybody fucked up

[@tafari795]

This video is so incredible. These hot takes are just overall thought provoking and operate as great eye-openers. I really enjoyed the learning process of the vid, plus the humour of it. 🖤✨

[@shenobiyashar8281]

OPENING PART: I Agree Wholeheartedly, Like Do You Know How Many Children Are Born Just Because The Parent(s) Doesn’t Want The First Child To Be “Lonely”? Now That I Think About It That’s Selfish Asf And Sad.

[@kiara_lofi]

Never been this early in a minute 💀 the beginning was cutthroat lmaooo🤣

[@Davyonnaalissa]

I literally clicked off someone else video just to watch my favorite youtuber 😍🥰 love you Kai ❤️

[@allisonmorris9856]

yesss the queen posted again 🙌

[@Tixz-is7wb]

Please write a book 😭

[@TheeKingP]

As a 26 year old male. This is all facts! It’s rare to hear someone around my age speak like this now but it’s good to know that there are people who think the same. All truths. We think the exact same way.

[@xeniad4715]

okay Kai you look GOREGOUS as usual

[@lovelylexx8044]

Wow & i thought i was going out sad bc i have no “dreams or aspirations”, or a dream job, or bc i have no desire to start a business. I just want to be able to take care of myself & enjoy what i enjoy. Also don’t necessarily want kids either! I’m not completely against it but if i don’t, I wont be sad. & also done believing in men. I’ve always referred to myself as a hopeless romantic, but i now look at that as exactly as it states- Hopeless.

[@tae6611]

Man you are definitely a Sag. We relate in our views

[@abbieamavi]

*3:50** WHEN I TELL YOU I CHOKED* my thoughts exactly 😂

[@elise4466]

yeah you hooked me with the first part. agree

[@livingfinance]

Too much teenage/early 20’s angst, but you have more living to do.

[@j.malll00]

That’s for stimulating my mind today ❤️💯

[@elishaetc]

you aint lie not ONE time. *subscribed*

[@fried_okra3005]

Millennial hot take: It’s a privilege to see shit from the perspective of the last generation and be able to look back to judge the decisions of those who came before.

[@lilxalicia8808]

I’m late, but whew you came out the door shooting

[@someoldguy5316]

“That’s just how America is built, war for no reason” can someone please explain that one to me?

[@sarebear7777]

The one about black men dating we not being the same as black women dating wm is SO true.

[@pinklolo1994]

This was nothing but FACTS 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@flylady7695]

Girl you just help me with so much that I have anxiety about like literally on a daily

[@DANNYTHEFROG123]

It's a privilege to talk about capitalism when you are benefiting from it.

[@Nicole-sm6sc]

Polarization is a cancer that's spreading. A lot of these issues we keep fighting about have no answer. There's more than one way to live and a lot of these situations are grey areas. I think the only constant in life is to mind your business, be kind and don't abuse kids

[@jas-n-motion]

She's a genius!

[@WhySoAwkward]

First sentence killed me 😂

[@tomi9400]

Spitting straight facts and nothing but facts. Yes I agree that everything is fakeee.

[@k.5089]

I didn't fwu at first, but after youtube recommended these hot takes I had to subscribe. We have a lot more in common than I realized

[@eimshmellee1414]

11:06 And similarly food swamps where large fast food chains prey upon poorer areas

[@mariahcole2866]

The moment the person I date compare my skin to a food I gotta go cause no sir

[@stackedbandzz6451]

Ur voice is soooooo soothing to me. I could litteraly listen to it for hours...

[@hawrarocks]

always watching all the commercials for you

[@Bblyeri]

when kai said flo mili shit i lost it lmfaooo