I Found My Sister Pretending To Be Me Online And Claiming My Child Is Hers r/Relationships

[@pelgervampireduck]

that last comment "I hope you apologized" is insane. OP doesn't have to apologize for anything!!!.

[@owl7072]

"I hope you apologized for trying to directly invalidate her feelings" I- no. It's literally so blatantly obvious that _she was the favorite_ that saying otherwise _is_ a bit delusional and she needed some sort of reality check otherwise she would have kept attacking OP and pinning all of her issues on her. It doesn't matter if she's depressed and anxious, she doesn't get to blame OP for her actions and then pull the "I'm mentally ill therefore you can't say anything" card when she gets called out for it. It's good she's getting the help she needs but there's no excusing her actions.

[@pippo17173]

She is a living red flag and honestly when her life is falling part, it's no surprising she turn to this to escape it. Ya no way anyone would allowed this go on.

[@browhattheactualfu-2659]

Always that one commenter Istg

[@terramarini6880]

Yep, golden child had everything from dad and expected the same from the world, world knocked her down so she did the smart thing and got medicated for it, then let her D tell her she didn't need them and now she is homeless and jobless...How far she fell from her pedestal of grace that daddy built her. Pretty much the script for golden children that really can't live up to the hype.

[@jaymel4691]

Yeah, no. OP should not apologize to June for giving her a sorely needed reality check. It would be one thing if OP actually WAS the favorite (which she would have had to face and deal with herself), but she wasn't and she had plenty of examples to prove it. People need to stop using their mental illness to excuse their own shitty behavior.

[@natcourt8719]

For real! And based on the dad's initial reaction, it's not surprising either... mom was stunned but dad was in denial until he went through the blog. Even then, his disappointment spoke volumes. If OP didn't confront her parents first and showed evidence, I bet he would've kept denying it and protecting the golden child.

[@desmond_craddock_5226]

I love how she explained she knew it was her kitchen because she decorated it. Surly you know it’s yours because you live there

[@Gringo7213]

Depends, a lot of places in the US are built exactly the same, so decorations are what distinguish one house from the other on the inside.

[@pansprayers]

You'd be surprised. Most developments have two or three floor plans they build off of, and the companies building them have hundreds, if not thousands of the model built that you live in. Not everyone upgrades from the standard turn-key, or has unique decor. Housing is pretty cookie cutter in the US suburban hellscape.

[@jaymel4691]

Seriously, so many houses are basically the same except the paint color on the outside and maybe the layout being mirrored. The same house designs are basically repeated over and over again, especially if it's a subdivision that was all built at once by one company. I can see how many kitchens would look exactly the same inside except for the decorations.

[@moonlightshadowpony]

I have a neighbor who has the exact same kitchen as ours when we moved in, just mirrored over, same floor, countertops, cabinets, fridge, even the oven and microwave were identical but mirrored over. Not only that, but my old scout leader, family friend, ex best friend, neighbor across the street and co-worker all have the exact same house layout so from the inside you cannot tell them apart except for the decor

[@AJ-qe5xj]

I feel she expanded on how she recognized it b/c ppl online are so harsh and mean sometimes. She probably thought ppl may comment how do you don’t know it’s not just a kitchen that looks like yours, many kitchens do have similar designs or design schemes. OP was just tryin* to clarify there could be no mistakes it was 100% her kitchen not another person’s who looked similar.

[@CharlesGriswold]

Invalidating her feelings? June _was_ delusional. She had also done things that had caused a massive amount of emotional distress to OP and was absolutely not "validating" that emotional distress. Good grief.

[@rahulmodi8706]

Posters like that make me think they lack basic comprehension skills. The sister was the favourite and it needed to be said

[@AndyyWithAY]

Your sister saves you from homelessness and you decide to impersonate her online and post photos of her minor child online without permission. The cheek on this so and so.

[@gregjayonnaise8314]

I think part of why the sister saw OP as the “favorite” has to do with the Golden Child’s dilemma. The thing is, when one kid is treated nicely and the other is treated like crap, sometimes, the psychology of the two kids get heavily warped to apply to how the parents treat them. A kid who is neglected or unfavored often has to work twice as hard to get recognition. The favorite child, on the other hand, gets the same validation for minimal effort. This can affect the favorite kid into adulthood, because, while their sibling was emotionally neglected and will have issues of their own, at least the neglected kid has a better grip on reality and how they have to put work into their lives. The favorite child has everything handed to them, so, when they are adults and can no longer rely on their parents uneven favoritism to support them (because, no matter how much mommy loves you, if she’s broke you’re not getting any money), then they find themselves at a loss. As kids, they got everything, but when the time came to be independent, the favorite kid was unprepared. As a result, the sister sees OP with a functional life (not even a perfect life, just a normal one) and gets resentful of the fact that, despite being the favorite, OP ended up being the responsible, stable and good natured sibling. I think this is where the sister’s envy stems from. That’s not to say that the sister isn’t an asshole, but having a favorite kid is very destructive in the long run for BOTH siblings; it creates self destructive people pleasers and maladjusted tyrants, both with shitty self esteem.

[@alicereeds5952]

Well said, so true

[@avinabamandal3204]

Some people shouldn't be parents atleast 30-40% of tye parents

[@AndyyWithAY]

The sister getting fired then kicked out immediately after is an enormous red flag to me. Not something normal people usually have happen to them

[@MarkNarrations]

Good shout Andy

[@pippo17173]

Hearing how the parents baby her is also a major red flag and a massive fuck up on their part.

[@BruinPhD2009]

Yup. If crazy things keep happening around the same person, common sense would lead you to consider if that person IS the problem.

[@pansprayers]

Well, the ex shaming her off of her meds will cause that. I hate people who think that they alone are a substitute for the medication that is keeping a person functioning. My husband can't properly make serotonin, nothing to do with me, so I buy the meds that help with that issue from the pharmacy for him. He's so much happier and stable that way. Weird, 🤷‍♂️

[@jaymel4691]

That many stressors at once can trigger mental issues in even a "normal" person, so I wasn't necessarily sure at first that the sister wasn't "normal". It's certainly a red flag, and one possibility. She could've been an otherwise ordinary person under extraordinary stress that had a mental break or something. Either way, she needed help and at least now she's getting it. It seems to me like June was the "favorite child", not OP- June just saw how successful (normal) her sister's life was compared to hers because she was handed everything by their parents and her younger sister learned early on how to work for what she has. It seemed like a big clue to me when OP reported her father at first didn't believe her about the fake mommy blog, until he saw it for himself and then he just looked disappointed. His princess had just fallen hard off her pedestal. June was ill-prepared for the real world as an adult due to being babied when she was younger and of course her sister did better for herself because she was already more independent. That may be why she was fired from her job. In any case June's ex was an asshole and at least she managed to get away from him finally. She never would've gotten the help she needed if he was still in the picture, he wouldn't even let her take her meds.

[@MaRi-dz4fu]

It's crazy how parents playing favourites usually destroys the relationship between siblings. OP's dad immediately dismissing the possibility of his golden child doing something so shady was very telling. Unhealthy dynamics passed from one generation to the other. I'm pretty sure this story is much deeper than what we've heard and there will be more for OP to work through in terms of her relationship with her parents and sister

[@crem-crem4070]

“The hand that rocks the cradle” is now on my lost of movies to watch

[@eldeano9964]

"I've found your 'mummy blog'". What the whole life I'm faking online, with doctored pics, details and undeniable proof that I did it all?. I don't know what you're talking about

[@AndyyWithAY]

Classic case of no good deed going unpunished. The sister thinks deleting the blog would solve anything. That was never a condition. The police needing to be called, saying she hated OP.

[@jaymel4691]

Yeah, that just shows how delusional she was. Deleting the blog was a given, no matter what else happened.

[@thepinkestpigglet7529]

That's not something you can call the police over...

[@opal5138]

I think I’m a bit tried because when op said that her sister had been pretending to be husbands wife I thought op should do a paternity test to make sure she is the mother of her child

[@elaexplorer]

LoL

[@heathermiller5765]

You don’t mean a maternity test? lol 😄

[@alymatronicdeeare8265]

I hope the sister gets better tbh. She's clearly having a break of some sort, and while that doesn't excuse anything, it's still rough.

[@reallyisay]

Imagine if/when she had taken the baby..she's dangerous

[@AndyyWithAY]

If sister is delusional and thinks she is OP, she needs to be committed. I was just worried that the husband was in on it because in one story the husband and sister had a secret life together. That was completely sick

[@eldeano9964]

Yeah I was wondering that, and questioned why no one in the comments thought that either.

[@audreym3908]

@@eldeano9964 I already watched this story on Lost Genre and he read OP's comments and she mentioned about that thought. Long story short, his long term gf cheated on him badly and he hates cheaters, so he would absolutely would never do that to OP.

[@jenniferstewarts4851]

story 1- this is kind of terrifying. That sort of thing is almost like she was setting up to kidnap the child. Vanishing with the child, with the blog "proving" it was her child. The fact that she "said" it was because sis got everything... and she didn't... while she was the favorate child growing up... sounds like the real world hit her... when she COULDN'T get everything just handed her her, and decided she'd instead take what she wanted, and use the child to make herself more important online.

[@ThePinkBinks]

Why do so many people believe that they’re owed a free life if their sibling did well? Why do they believe their parents should “make it fair”? (I seriously don’t understand this trend of belief.)

[@pansprayers]

There's 'equal' according to what each child needs, and then there's what is going on here. June was given WAY MORE than OP at every turn, and it didn't work out so well in the end.

[@lsmmoore1]

The thing about "making things fair" is that this framework originally referred to the idea of how we all have a responsibility to make things as fair for each other as we possibly can, and the corollary that it's kind of a cop-out not to bother contributing to making things fairer for others just because life doesn't automatically hand you fairness. And it still means that. Not "give me all the stuff because it's my due".

[@gregjayonnaise8314]

Because when you favor one child over the other, you end up distorting how both see reality. The favored child is so used to being spoiled and doted on that, when they are treated as mundanely as other people, they feel like they are being treated unfairly even when they aren’t. The neglected child also tends to see basic human decency as “niceness” and will have very low standards.

[@ThePinkBinks]

Greg Jayonnaise Interesting. That is exactly what governments are doing to society right now. Thank you for the perfect timing of your message. You just answered a very important question. ♥️

[@WolframKKM]

That dad barely makes an appearance in the story, but you can tell he really did a number on both daughters. Hope he's getting some perspective having to help clean up the mess he's made (and mom too for, at the very least, standing by).

[@jas1007]

I just listened to this on another channel, but I need Mark to read it in order to fully process the absurdity of it

[@MarkNarrations]

Haha

[@MiraTheWarlock]

Okay while there's a tiny chance the sister's just surrounded by jerks, the fact everyone's dropping her like a hot potato in rapid succession really should've tipped OP off that she's a tad unhinged Edit: Okay nevermind, the ex is a forking manchild

[@pansprayers]

Yup, as soon as he convinced her off of her meds, her world understandably went to hell. She needs help, but Jesus.

[@wmdkitty]

@@pansprayers The ex is not responsible for her choices.

[@RaiaSnow]

@@wmdkitty But his actions did start her downward spiral.

[@oompaloompa202]

Manipulators can be so sweet and have such concern for you. They only want what's best for you. Scary shit.

[@artemishallihan8973]

I've been on the internet stories too much cuz the first part of this story, the thought crossed my mind that the husband was cheating on op with the sister. Glad it wasn't the case, op has a good husband and set healthy boundaries, and sister is getting help but I need to get my head out of cynical plot twist mode.

[@ginathecookie]

same

[@Merryfrances]

I remember this original post giving out some serious Single White Female vibes. Glad there’s an update. Thanks for sharing.

[@MarkNarrations]

No problem, thanks for listening

[@jakeryan4545]

I will throw this out there responding to the comment about the dad playing favorites. Sorry it's kind of long because I give an example. I think they could both be the "favorites" but in different ways. I used to work in child services and saw this many times. The parents thought that one child was "better" than the other or I guess "naturally more successful". The other child was worse or I guess "needed help". So the golden child could do no wrong and was given verbal and emotional praise but left to fend for themselves more, while the spoiled child was often verbally put down but had everything handed to them. Both children would be resentful and see the other as the favorite. So the parents could have constantly said to the sister (June) "why can't you be like OP" and constantly praised OP to her sister or made negative comments about sister's life in comparison to OP. Basically saying that OP was "better" than sister. (Think of like how Ross and Monica's (from Friends) parents treated them). This leads to resentment by sister. But because they thought OP was "better" a.k.a. more successful / more capable / more intelligent / harder working/ etc., they didn't support her financially the way that they supported sister because they thought she didn't need it. Obviously this leads to resentment by OP. I don't think the parents meant to do anything bad. If sister had severe anxiety/depression, this probably manifested it in ways in which the parents thought they needed to take care of her / "baby her" (especially financially). But this same case also probably lead to them making positive comments about OP, comparing her to OP in a way that puts her down. Like I totally see a situation in which the parents were like "June, you aren't making that much money at all, and I think boyfriend isn't stable. Your car keeps breaking down, let us help you out by getting you a car." June after back and forth - I guess that's a good point, I won't turn down a free car. 2 months later, after parents got June a car. OP sees parent's get June new care and goes what the heck, they never got me a new car, only offered to sell used one to me. OP purchases new car. Parents - "June did you see OPs new car? Her and husband must be doing pretty well. It is really nice." June - parents obviously feel OP is better than me, keeping commenting on how nice it is, and how her and hubby must be doing nice. If June has severe anxiety and depression I could see her twisting this even more like her parents were rubbing it in that they purchased a car for her while OP could do it herself. So instead of like Friends where it is a joke, it becomes a serious issue.

[@anonmouse15]

I was expecting this to end with June attempting to kill OP and make a suit out of her skin.

[@bonniebaldridge1248]

This at first sounded like the fiklm "The Hand That Rocks the Cradle'!

[@janglesthearsonist5265]

I think this whole blog thing started because OP's sister moved in with OP when she was in a very dark place from her breakup and shortly after this major life shake up there was all of the sudden a baby that brought her much happiness. She pretended to be OP in the blog since her jealousy grew the longer she stayed with the family and became further attached to OP's child, husband, house, and lifestyle. If I were OP I wouldn't let her near my child, even if she improves, until they were in their teens, when they could understand the possible danger of being near their auntie even if she seems fine.

[@user-wj5cx2zp7v]

Literally was about to comment "The hand that rocks the cradle" when Mark said it first! Creepy as fuck.

[@TheHellsHobbit]

OP needs to kick her out and report her blog. Hope she and hubby are not having an affair.

[@Tammohawk1]

Lost Genre did this story today also. I've managed to get my days and nights mixed up and am lucky to be up by noon these days. I hate it. Anyway, I made sure to watch Mark and skip L.G.'s video today. I prefer Mark everyday of the week. Anyone who tells you to not take your medication, especially for your mental health, tell them to Kick Rocks and Pound Sand. They can try to walk a mile in your moccasins before trying that themselves.

[@clappingpenguin4256]

Whether early or late, nothing like some waffles and Reddit stories to make a day great! 😊 Much love as always, Mark! 🧇💛

[@MarkNarrations]

Hey Clapping always good to see you mate, hope you've had a great day. Much love bud!

[@clappingpenguin4256]

Mark, it's always good to attend even if I sometimes turn up after the initial party. 😊 It's been better than yesterday. Much love! 💛

[@elizabethescalante7866]

You've seen The Hand That Rocks The Cradle, Mark?!

[@RosesTeaAndASD]

I'm glad the sister is getting treatment for her mental health again and at least the blog is gone too. Good on their parents for saying OPs sister needed therapy to stay with them - it's sounds like a very supportive family.

[@marybrown6756]

This is leaving a bad taste in my mouth. Not once did I hear her say anything about her responsibility. I heard her do a lot of blaming, but not a lot of accepting. Now, she ain’t right

[@Mewse1203]

Story 1: so she fights with her boss for unspecified reasons, fights with her boyfriend for unspecified reasons and then pulls some hand that rocks the Cradle shit. Get rid of this psycho quick... OP can also send a DMCA takedown for all the pictures OP owns if she refuses to take them down. Hopefully this just the sister and the husband isn't having an affair. Edit: so she was already having issues and her douchebag boyfriend was insecure about it and made things worse. I knew there had to be something you with her when her life fell apart after so long. I'm glad June is getting help.

[@wmdkitty]

Wow. OP's sister is legitimately _insane._ OP should be pressing charges after kicking the creep out.

[@mbyerly9680]

Mary Higgins Clark wrote the novel, THE HAND THAT ROCKS THE CRADLE, if anyone is interested. She was doing Lifetime movie plots long before the channel existed.

[@jeancarbonneau6966]

I don't know what I would do if someone tried to call themselves "daddy or mommy" if I had a child now. I know that things would be really weird between myself and that person.

[@FriedaMMartin]

Good afternoon! I finally determined a print I want on the handbags

[@skylazer4065]

I love to see how many people use the word 'stellar' again. I was afraid to be one of the few who used it, but seeing how some reddit folks still do is absolutely amazing

[@ChefBoiRLiik]

Hey Mark just turned 20 today and love starting my bday with your video

[@Silence-1170]

Happy Birthday! Hope it's a good one! :)

[@trashcan_princess]

Happy Birthday! Eat lots of sweets!

[@MarkNarrations]

Wehey! Happy Birthday Malik! Wishing you an absolutely wonderful day ahead of you!!

[@carolroberts4614]

Happy Birthday!🎂🎂🎁🎁

[@pippo17173]

Honestly this entire story is why people need to learn on catching up with any signs of depression so you can help.

[@jennilynne1977]

Always happy to see a post from Mark! I hope everyone is having a great day/afternoon/night! Peace, hugs and love to everyone!

[@wessexdruid7598]

First story - it's saddening how many don't see mental illness just like any other illness. It can happen to anyone - and pretending you don't need treatment is stupid, whatever the illness.

[@browhattheactualfu-2659]

What I wouldn't do to fistfight that ex

[@memyselfandi7782]

OPs sister was the jealous older sister and that's why she was so upset when she saw op doing fine when she wasn't doing well. She doesn't hate OP in particular, I think she didn't like the 'baby' that had taken her place as a child.

[@LunaMane]

Jeeze, this is one of the sadder ones. June definitely needs to speak with a professional to deal with her demons. At least she seems to be working on getting better, and her and OP got to talk.

[@clairebear-96]

Mark you and LG covered the same story this morning 😂 I love it

[@tiawheeler1153]

That first story was absolutely terrifying... Just from the sister's rants (as well as what was said by the OP and the parents), it is kind of clear that the older sister had a pretty pampered life and was now having to deal with the fact that things in the real world don't always go the way that one wants. That being said, being jealous of the OP's life is one thing... but the sister writing OP out of existence so that she can "live" OP's life [even if it is online] is a completely different monster. The OP and her family aren't characters in a fanfiction... they are real people! The older sister obviously needs some help (and a reality check), but the OP might want to put some distance for her and her family's own safety. You don't want to risk her hurting someone, whether it's herself or someone in your household. Edit: Okay, so I finished hearing the story and am glad that things went well all things considered: June is out of that situation and is getting her mental health back together, the sisters have reconciled for the most part, and no one wound up getting hurt from that exchange.

[@bethmorton6540]

Hope your having a great day Mark!

[@MarkNarrations]

Decent Beth thank you and how about your good self?

[@bethmorton6540]

@@MarkNarrations could be better but your videos have been a great distraction ^^;

[@scousemouse9566]

I'm so glad June is doing better and i hope she gets stronger and better 🧇🧇🧇🧇

[@gelibeanzcantrell7192]

June's ex sounds just like mine. he always told me i had no reason to be sad and didn't need any friends cuz i had him... he's abusive asf! i'm glad she's away from him. i hope she never sees him again and i'm glad she's doing better.

[@Russman67]

Sister is not okay! OP needs to get her out and fast.

[@madcatlady]

as not being the favourite child, I know firsthand how the favourite always thinks you had it easier and are lucky how things always work out when I know damned well I had to be self sufficient and do things myself from a young age, my brother on the other hand was coddled, I know so many others too including ironically my own mother herself who did the favouritism, I don't think she did so intentionally, just thought I could take care of myself better and was more responsible. OP also being much younger her parents may have been less invested as thought the older one will be their caretaker in old age.

[@olivergabriel4401]

"I hope you apologized for trying to directly invalidate her feelings when calling her delusional about her saying OP is everyone's dfavorite" or something like, bullsh#t, im tired of that phrase "invalidate feelings", like what?! many times peoples feeeling are completely irrational, unfounded or delusional, like in this case. So invalidating people´s fee fees isn't wrong by default She clearly was the favorite so she saw OP doing better as unfair, despite all th evidence to the contrary

[@ashessakura7518]

One of my friends actually had an ex who shamed her into not taking her medication and he actually said “I want to be the one to make you happy, seeing you taking drugs for that makes me sad, can’t believe you’re doing that to me!” Yeah, there’s a reason he’s an ex so I can completely believe that June’s ex would say something like that because I know knobs like that

[@katiesmith2031]

Mark thanks for the video hope you and poppy are having a wonderful day

[@JasperCatProductions]

Good grief, that old and jealous of your sister cause boo hoo everyone loves her more. I would be very limited in any contact with this sister. She sounds horrible and a whole lot of drama and trouble. People don’t have the life they want so try to take someone else’s? Gross?

[@fedoraqueen4575]

Mark I am loving it these updated episodes

[@louellacharlton4425]

Tyvm Mark.

[@alecgrandy]

Hey Mark I love your videos and always puts them on when I'm gaming or cleaning the house. Much ❤

[@MarkNarrations]

A pleasure to keep you company whilst getting some of those pesky chores done. Thanks for being involved :)

[@bloonh8tr619]

I saw this post scrolling through Reddit and put no thought into it based on the title but oh buy what a twist

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

I would've still seen a lawyer and pressed charges and got a restraining order for myself and my child

[@devchekhov7512]

Yeah, she agrees to therapy, gets back on meds, owns up to her actions, makes amends and rekindles a relationship with her sister and BAM--slap her with some charges and a restraining order! Good idea

[@GabrielleHayes1921]

@@devchekhov7512 I made that comment before the update. I never would've let her come back into my life, she's just asking for trouble.

[@ruffr4bb1t]

This story is like a glimpse into my future with my siblings 0-0

[@Bonaduece]

...that's very concerning!

[@Midnight0Mistress]

I remember that post and asked why her father treated her so poorly??

[@Silence-1170]

Have a great Tuesday all! Wishing all of you waffles well!

[@MarkNarrations]

Hey Silence hope all is good my friend!

[@Silence-1170]

@@MarkNarrations it is keep up the great work! We all appreciate your hard work in making these videos!

[@groofromtheup5719]

More proof that the Golden Child didn't actually get any favors from the favorite status.

[@BraveryWing26]

I really feel for OP. Her sister is psychotic and awful. So glad the sister got better and apologized.

[@marahbaker8615]

OP is better than I am bc I would care if my sister went to therapy or not, she'd be out of my life permanently

[@MalachioftheForest]

To the comment about apologizing for calling her delusional.... she was fucking delusional, like, it doesn't matter how she feels, that isn't reality. Older sister was clearly the "favorite."

[@queenluciefer]

Whoa, I just realized I started watching 1 minute after upload! lol Btw, Hi Mark, hope you have a good one!

[@Mewse1203]

Be kind, be safe and take care of yourself. Have a great day. About to hit the road...

[@lewischase]

Good afternoon Mark

[@BgChf-dg5lv]

That last comment is stupid. Older sis was clearly the favorite and was being delusional about it. Why does that person have a problem with calling a spade a spade?

[@TriXJester]

This is fucking Psychotic.

[@Flotton]

Much love you legend

[@MarkNarrations]

Much love Flotton YOU legend :)

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

🤗🤗💜💜

[@semideadnat]

I have a theory that the reason her ex kicked her way was because of her wanting a baby. Now that OP’s sister lives with her sister, she’s jealous of her and her family which is why she’s wearing OP’s things and claiming she’s OP’s daughter’s mother. Edit: op should sue June because they have photos of a minor aka someone who isn’t her daughter. Also didn’t expect I was correct.

[@RosePanda42]

Story 1 is an actual family guy episode

[@Josku2411]

Oop early and currently drawing my higher vampire lady Sylvia Elyse Amaranth she is delightfully fashionable

[@MarkNarrations]

What year of fashion is Sylvia?! :)

[@Josku2411]

@@MarkNarrations I'm gonna assume what time period vibes(i'm dumb sometimes with understanding wording)and it's Medieval fantasy but she has dresses that would fit modern day too

[@AKASANJEEWA]

2:39 in to the story hell no. More than anything she invaded your babes privacy without your consent!! No need to find excuses

[@mistysgamingchannel9918]

sister needs serious therapy. That's crazy shit .

[@yadayada752]

So if someone is being delusional and you tell them they are delusional, you are INVALIDATING their feelings. Are you kidding me! She needed therapy because of this. Do you think the therapist is going to let her get away with not accepting the truth. You are delusion OhthatEthanMiquel

[@dorotheawalker7985]

Better make sure she didn't get life insurance policys on you pretending she was you and she is one who gets the money.

[@Cassandra765]

Wow! This story was wild, but that last comment was completely wrong. OP shouldn't have to apologize or validate her sister's very WRONG impression that she was somehow the favorite child when it's obvious that wasn't the case. By validating it, OP would only be making it easier for his sister to keeping pining her troubles on her. The sister needed a reality check. And I am glad that she seems to be getting better.

[@kp2223]

Still part of the early club! Thanks Mark , Waffle on

[@AIBot929]

June sounds alot like my brother tbh

[@ItachiUchiha-sh6of]

I will say having seen it in my own family I can understand why older sister would see op as "the favorite." My own father (who is the eldest) is considered the favorite child out of the three siblings. Mainly because he never "needed" help from his parent unlike the other 2, who still rely on them. So he is seen as the success and they are not but they get more financial help. (Obligatory this does not justify sisters actions)

[@rahulmodi8706]

The sister is delusional but I wonder what affects the dad’s enabling of his golden child had on her.

[@Mimino55-y5k]

Poor husband. The OP really has no judgement in bringing in her golden child sister in the first place, but OP was like la-di-da, let's bring my unemployed and depressed sister in, that will help with the family dynamic. And stop blaming the former BF, that chick was clearly too psycho for anybody to deal. OP was lucky she did not try to kidnap the baby.

[@rylashadow18]

S1) She's trying to live your life. The first step is to ask that the blog be pulled down since she's impersonating you and be flagged as a fraud. The second step is to talk it over with your husband about getting her out of the house as soon as the next hour. She's not safe around your child nor is it safe to keep her in your home where she can have access to her. Whatever her excuses are your child's safety and well being are now the top priority. Nothing else matters. Share those images and blog with the police so that you can get her tresspassed from your home and get a order of protection, a restraining order and make sure you're ready to share her picture with any schools you have planned for your child's future as a don't allow near your child or on the school property with the protection order and restraining order on top of your paper work. Make sure she gets a loud clear message that she'll never be allowed near you and more importantly around your child again as long as she draws breath. Just know you're perfectly fine to go full scorched earth on anyone who tries to defend her and her actions. So she did it for the attention. To be fulfilled about something in her life. To turn around and say OP was treated better is so delusional. The OP could tell her dad couldn't grasp it until the proof was smack dab in his face. He had his golden child's pedastal rug pulled out from under her and now has to question his own parenting in her entitled belief to OP's life. I'd tell the parents, especially dad that there would be minimal contact until she's seen a therapist. Seeing my daughter again though? Not unsupervised and especially while my sister was staying with them. That'd be "Unless you agree to come see her and be supervised than you'll have to wait until you can make it to see her. Sis has forfeited any right to be around my child for as long as she lives. Anyone who supports her deserves the same treatment." She thought that deleting the blog erased the fact that she is so disengaged with reality that it makes everything right? Yeah no. Like I said before it's time to have her tresspassed from your home, report her to any site if she tries to pull this again (Cause you have no idea if she saved any of these images) and go forth with a protection and restraining order against her. If she really is making improvements I'd say wait a year or two before thinking about letting her around your child supervised.

[@terramarini6880]

At least wait until the child is old enough to tell mommy when auntie is acting weird again.

[@rylashadow18]

@@terramarini6880 Which is why she's supervised with her visits. OP's dad wouldn't be the one in charge nor her mom. Either hubby or OP needs to be the one supervising or someone OP knows well and trust. Sis forfeited her rights when she decided to play in the land of make believe against the best interest of the real parents for her own ego. If her parents can't or won't accept those rules then wait until the kids in the teen age years and has some self defense classes as well as their own phone for safety as well as breathing classing for screaming at the top of her lungs. This is about the OP and her husband making this a boundary that no one, not the sister, not the parents and no one that wants a pitty party for them can undermind.

[@benry007]

I think OP did everything right here. Except maybe I wouldn't allow my older sibling to stay at mine for years without getting a job or doing some kind of training.

[@lina9535]

Sooo... I'm thinking the argument between the sister and bf has to do with not being able to have kids, and she's obsessed with it

[@unicornjennie]

S1 NTA your sister is mentally disturbed. Please press charges against her, and this identity theft. She's endangering your child. HUGE RED FLAGS your sister is delusional liar. Kick her out immediately, show your husband. Lock all your socials down. You don't need to apologize to her at all.

[@lkuhhdsfgasdgvdadfg]

Sister is upset because its the family that matters. Not the school, not the cars, or the laptop. The younger is a mom, and a home maker. Is happy. Is fulfilling her purpose, as we all should. And the older one is not, nor likely ever too, and she knows it. Its upsetting and has caused her to become unhinged. Pay attention girls, chaseing the things men do wont make you happy. Theres a reason why more men die at there own hands.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Whoever is reading this i send hugs and great vibes. Drink water, eat food, nap, take a break, take care of yourself gosh darn it. And if you don't I swear I will find you and keep you in a cottage and take care of you. 🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗💜💜

[@MarkNarrations]

Thank you always Broken for raining that positivity :)

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

@@MarkNarrations much love m8, your art is getting great 🤗🤗💜💜

[@DarkbutNotsinister]

Hey, Broken, sorry about the other day. I was so caught up in the idea of the “Cottage Club”. I love our corner of the internet. All positive & peace. Thank you for bringing it to my attention. Also, GOOD FOR YOU for standing up & being who you are. That person is beautiful and SAFE at our cafeteria table. Last night I was racking my brain trying to figure out where I came up with an (incorrect) male picture of you in my head. It’s because you use “m8”. I’m from the US & “mate” isn’t a commonly used word. I’ve only heard men from the UK use it to refer to their “bestie”. Can you tell I was in therapy forever? I need to know where the thought came from & then over think it. Much love, m8!

[@Cheycartoongirl8]

Hey there Waffle Gang! Doing some drawing on my drawing tablet. Hope you all are having a great day! Life Hack: Always sign original documents in blue. That way there's never a question as to which document is the original and which one is the copy.

[@indiagale7918]

Sewing while watching

[@mikea491]

But... but she was delusional.

[@atha1ia454]

1st one, to be honest sounds like she is just so miserable with her life in tatters and living a fantasy to make herself feel better, don't think she is building a career or after her sisters husband. It is weird, but catfish exist for many reasons and most are far more toxic than this

[@JootjeJ]

Interesting how both women consider their sibling the favourite one. I see the same thoughts in my kids and I honestly can't see why. Is that a sibling thing?

[@kerribottriell-baxter7345]

People like Sister's BF annoy the heck out of my. Mental health is a real thing and people need to stop being so ignorant. What sister did wasn't cool either. At least things have worked out to a degree.

[@broken_queer_but_fighting8589]

Hey you yes you remember to take care of yourself gosh darn it, you are always valid, and I love you and care about you so please take care of yourself 💜💜🤗🤗💜💜🤗🤗