I Found The Worst Man On Twitter: ProPatriarchy

[@EmmaThorneVideos]

Hey gang, thanks for watching. We just hit 1000 subscribers! W h a t. I feel like we should celebrate somehow... any thoughts?

[@cokedupgirlscout]

Would you ever do a livestream?

[@EmmaThorneVideos]

@@cokedupgirlscout Yeah that's a cool idea!

[@EmmaThorneVideos]

@@darlenesmiles406 I never iron I'm sorry hahaha! Thank you

[@Viss_Valdyr]

@@EmmaThorneVideos 10800 you got randomly recommented to me... keep riding the wave.

[@bbear2695]

i also had this randomly recommended and i have to say your voice is really measured and calm which sooths some of the triggering nature of the subject matter

[@lisaplante6385]

My ex-husband was like this and I was raised to think this way, I am pleased to say I have been able to break away from this.

[@Anna133199]

Good for you! You must be a very strong person, to be able to break away. I'm sorry you were subjected to this shit. No child should be.

[@emilyaitch8143]

Good for you!!

[@kirillzakharov7336]

@@Anna133199 no person ever. no child, teen, adult, or elderly.

[@juliafonseca3790]

Congrats! 💓

[@princessqueerbie7664]

@@kirillzakharov7336 no one

[@yolandaponkers1581]

“No career, no bank account, no male friends” literally sounds like the first step in an abusive relationship.

[@JoshSweetvale]

Relationship? Sounds like the first step into a Fritzl cellar.

[@muskiet8687]

Horrible human beings like that don't see it as abuse.

[@Argeaux2]

My sister went cross at me, because I have male friends. She is now divorced, and I have been married for 35 years. Draw your own conclusions.

[@Argeaux2]

This is the first time I’ve heard that term.

[@thatcarguy1UZ]

As a father of three girls all I can say is that if any of my daughters got involved with a man like this who treated her that way, he would end up with a spiffy new pair of cement shoes and after a 50 mile boat ride off the New Jersey coast, he can go sleep with the fishes.

[@mattmingo7694]

nice. I knew this joker in high school treating my female friend like this, a 'tech savvy' looser. Im a straight up hillbilly. My whole family is. I went in there when he wasn't home and chopped of the cord of EVERY electric powered appliance in the ENTIRE house. (Bolt cutters + fancy computer, tv, stove, dryer, lamp, fridge, washing machine, alarm clock, blender, ect...=😂) He left her alone knowing I'd do it again. Not so tough in the face of an unpredictable lunatic😅

[@johnhough7738]

There's a lot to be said for unpredictable lunatics. Especially the nice ones. Well done, indeed~!@@mattmingo7694

[@0krana333]

@@mattmingo7694 based af

[@alluvius]

You hit the nail on the head when you called out his insecurity. Men like that don't want partners, they can't handle negotiating with an actual thinking adult, they just want a maid that they can rape at will and who cannot leave.

[@anieltavares7991]

A speaking third hand

[@deathstinger13]

in fairness, a maid gets paid. What they want is a, well, was gonna say sex slave crossed with a more 'conventional' slave, but given how slaves have actually historically been treated, they just want a slave full-stop.

[@AndrewJohnson-oy8oj]

Nothing says "I'm a strong, dominant, powerful male" like responding to questions by blocking the enquirer.

[@armyofcats666]

No individual bank account = no way to escape his control :(

[@RMaher-cz7gw]

I learnt in my adulthood that my mum had to hide her money for years before she was able to leave my dad. If a man tells you you can't have your own accounts or access to your own money, run, Or it could be years before you can.

[@cpbwinchester965]

And even if you have a good marriage, separate bank a counts are a good idea. Years ago, my identity was stolen, and my account was frozen while the bank investigated the several thousand dollars of fraudulent charges. If my husband had not had a separate account, we would have had nothing to live on during that time.

[@hope-cat4894]

I would suggest separate bank accounts for paychecks and a joint account just for bills since you would be paying together anyways, but nothing more than that. It's not a trust issue, just personal security to want separate accounts.

[@masunrise7471]

@@cpbwinchester965 I have an amazing marriage. We have been happily married for 10 years but I have always had my own bank account since I was young.

[@masunrise7471]

@@hope-cat4894 It's so weird how older guys my age (40s) get so offended that you don't have a joint account lol.

[@traceysbookishreads]

I would comment more but I’ve not asked my husband what I think yet so.......🤣🤣

[@S_D_C_7885]

Yikes you better get on it 😂😂👌👌

[@lunammoon8503]

honestly, I can appreciate a man who's completely open about how much of a shithead they are like first meeting. It's the people who act perfectly normal and nice until it's too late that you've got to worry about.

[@werewolf4358]

Really saves time, that.

[@Jacob_Lovelace]

Ikr. Love it when they weed themselves out

[@bellycurious]

Exactly! At least he shows his true colors in the first date. He's open and honest about how awful he is.

[@DepressinglyOptimistic]

I agree. Let me run away immediately. Sadly there are women who look at men like this and are like, “yes that is what I want.” But there is always some sad underlying cause.

[@kastanjainen]

I agree!

[@nickguy8037]

I would love to watch this guy lose his mind as he got arrested by a female cop and sentenced by a female judge.

[@spaceman081447]

And prosecuted by a female district attorney.

[@chrisjones5949]

That would be *hilarious.* People would buy tickets.

[@alexb5548]

And sent to a women's prison to sew women's pants

[@doodlydungeon8576]

​@chrisjones5949 it's me. I'm "people". Take my money 💰

[@RansomeStoddard]

These are usually the same guys who have been divorced and can’t figure out why their adult kids no longer spend time with them. They are angry because they are inconsequential and unloved because of their behavior and attitudes. They blame others for the fact that they have never achieved their dreams. This guy is a sad person who deserves our pitty.

[@somedumbasswithlonghair4965]

You absolutely do not deserve pity when you genuinely believe marital rape isn't just okay, but is the good thing to do

[@russelljackson2818]

"Leather should be reserved for men." Weird way to come out with his secret obsession with gay Leather Daddies, but okay

[@wingedyera]

Lol, I immediately wondered if women in the stone age never wore (leather)clothes according to him

[@mattjk5299]

@@wingedyera I'm sure to him women in the stone age were in their "proper place". That place in his mind probably looks exactly like a traditional abrahamic husband/wife relationship or something that didn't exist in the neolithic. Don't worry if there's no evidence of this it's just "natural" probably. I can't say. I've encountered plenty of people that unironically beleive that the neolithic was just neanderthal cavemen. Like they have the worldview of a child.

[@rickyn58]

man women look so good in leather though

[@rickyn58]

have you never seen Emma Peel on the Avengers?

[@CyberBeep_kenshi]

@@rickyn58 Emma Peel was my dream woman. She also owned everyone in GoT :)

[@gloriacox9926]

if your woman is made of clay... she's not your woman, that is Princess Diana of Themiscyra, Wonder Woman herself

[@TheJinx1441]

Or Galatea, sculpted by Pygmalion and blessed by Aphrodite!

[@TheMrbubbles1378]

@@TheJinx1441 was literally thinking about this er... the hercules animated serious where Aphrodite was like picking at Hercules for just not giving her any personality or stuff just that she's crazy in love with him. Episode was a little woke by the end.

[@55Quirll]

Don't forget Eve, the clone of Adam's rib who was a golem

[@gamedierepeat3351]

Or transgender enkidu. Idk this is where my brain went seeing this comment

[@55Quirll]

@@TheJinx1441 On JLU Galatea was the clone of Supergirl, aged a bit to be more powerful

[@Lady8D]

Anytime i hear someone say they want a woman that's innocent and "child-like" it makes me think he needs to be watched extra close whenever kids are around & under no circumstances be allowed to babysit...

[@AB-80X]

Very true. It has kiddie fiddler written all over it. Ew!

[@Tony-ih1pg]

Men are 'so superior' that they have been fighting among themselves since the dawn of time for things such as "who's shadow is bigger" then "who's imaginary divine friend is the best"

[@jenniferkorf4767]

Ikr, my shadow is biggest btw

[@Its419games]

"Men want to own. Women want to be owned." I think there's a word for that, right? Oh, right! Slavery! That's the word!

[@brookebrothers9883]

I will give him this. The happiest point in the last decade of my life was spent serving a man. It was divorce paperwork and a PPO though.

[@somedumbasswithlonghair4965]

Nice

[@eric2500]

🤣😁😅!!

[@briankenyon1543]

Gold.😂

[@rhiwright]

His tweets seem a very long-winded way to say "I'm really bad in bed and have no idea how to actually seduce a woman"

[@TabithaReminiec3399]

Rhi, Don't forget ...I have no idea of the correct way to treat a woman ( with respect)

[@greywolf7577]

This seems to be the common insult, but in reality how good someone is in bed has no connection to how they feel about women. Everyone knows about the stereotype of the lady's man who has lots of sex but still has a low opinion of women. Similarly, you can have a guy who believes in Feminism, but just hasn't had enough experience yet to do well in bed.

[@icravedeath.1200]

If you insult them, will they every self criticize, and improve.

[@BuddleDuddle]

@@greywolf7577 Idk, many times a man can be a womanizer and get women in bed simply because he's hot, famous, and/or rich. The amount of women he's had in bed isn't necessarily an indicator of how good he is in bed lol. I've found that if a guy doesn't care for women, usually they don't care about their pleasure either so they suck

[@justinwatson1510]

Straight women have orgasms less frequently than any other orientation / gender. He isn’t alone in being clueless in bed, it seems.

[@yaso4936]

Trousers attack the mind.. oh good thank god I stopped wearing trousers and only wear leggings, I feel much more clearheaded when I'm comfortable

[@EmmaThorneVideos]

Honestly after being in lockdown so long I do feel oppressed by jeans

[@ShadowmarkReturns]

@Probably Maybe Like skirts for instance. Heccin love skirts.

[@pavelstaravoitau7106]

@Probably Maybe maybe we can get people back onto Medieval woolen hoses, they might be more convenient and cheaper.

[@Alexhenn1804]

@Probably Maybe The Scottish really are superior!

[@UlexiteTVStoneLexite]

@@EmmaThorneVideos that's why I ditched my jeans I only wear loose fitting pants I got tired of blowing out the jeans

[@abrahamstuvwyz6693]

... No career, no own bank account, no male friends, no trousers. And obviously no second date.

[@severalcakes3267]

Do not pass Go, do not collect $200.

[@Alan_Duval]

15:00 Swap out religion for Patricarchy. Same, same. “If religion were true, its followers would not try to bludgeon their young into an artificial conformity; but would merely insist on their unbending quest for truth, irrespective of artificial backgrounds or practical consequences.” - HP Lovecraft.

[@wurdnurd1]

This reminds me of a young woman I met waaaay back when I was in undergrad (seriously, it was the 90s): she was a moderately pleasant person; endlessly coldly polite; always shook hands like her hand was a bag full of pudding; was in university for her MRS (literally, she studied only enough to pass her classes, only took the easiest classes, and openly stated she wouldn't work or use whatever degree she was studying once she was married); and never, EVER smiled. I asked her about the last one once, and she explained that her mother drilled all these rules into her, especially that smiling causes wrinkles, and she would be thwacked if she smiled to train it out of her. To this day, I think of her and feel such sadness that my friends and I could never get her to see the other side (and damn if I didn't try to make her laugh...and I'm a funny bitch, yo!)

[@cakecinema9385]

That’s so fucking depressing

[@spaghetto9836]

Nobody tried to talk her out of it? ;-;

[@BardicSp00n]

Oh man that's dark and heartbreaking...

[@princesssprinklesthecat4192]

Was she hot? Did you guys scissor?

[@ehlowgovna]

@@princesssprinklesthecat4192 Ffs😂

[@ardillakunterbunt1658]

Why would I want a husband who is clearly not capable of basic human tasks like cooking or washing his clothes? I can‘t take a man seriously who needs me to baby him, wtf.

[@icravedeath.1200]

I wouldn't like that either.

[@FearGFX]

Without going into if it's nature or nurture; some women do really want to care for someone so bad that that's what they want. I personally don't look for that in women, it would drive me nuts, but in the Netherlands there is a saying that every jar has a lid that fits it. I guess there is someone for everyone I guess. But it isn't the standard and it also shouldn't be.

[@lunsen402]

becouse gawd or something. maby these idiots think god made men incapable of taking care of themselfs or something...

[@debrawehrly6900]

@@FearGFX I call that "co-dependence."

[@patrickginther8527]

I can't take seriously a man who needs his lady to baby him either.

[@lisajackson9431]

"How to not get a second date unless the woman is desperate or a member of the same cult".

[@gandalf6751]

I had to keep reminding myself that this is a real person while watching this. Some of the tweets are so extreme they seem like a parody caricature of this kind of person.

[@thirstfast1025]

Back when I used to have a gf, she already had a couple tattoos, which I'm not overly keen on. When we took a trip to visit her sister, she asked me if it was okay for her to get another tattoo with her sister to commemorate the visit. I understood why she asked, because I had told her that historically I didn't like tattoos. But I told her that it was %100 up to her if she wanted to get another tattoo. They got the tattoos, and it was never an issue. And even though we are no longer together, she still has the tattoo to remember the visit, which was awesome. I'm glad she got it.

[@elenkonakkk1579]

the trouser argument reminds me of that time in 7th grade when one of my teachers told girls that wearing trousers would "affect out childbearing abilities". Like woman wtf? (yes, my teacher was a she not a he )

[@strawberry_milk_goblin2397]

Ah yes, now girls if you wear pants your body will think you are a man and your uterus will implode like a black hole destroying your womb and leaving you useless to your future husband. Remember even if you haven't met him yet, you live to please him so no tattoos or short hair.

[@FeralFelineFriend]

@@strawberry_milk_goblin2397 My uterus is trying to kill me, so I would not mind if it decided to implode.

[@KateeAngel]

Jeez, I wear almost only pants and I am childfree. Why haven't yet my pants affected my fertility? That honestly would be great if they did 😆😆😆

[@carmensavu5122]

@@KateeAngel Exactly! As a childfree woman, I also thought "humph! if only it were that easy!"

[@RYCH3]

God.

[@warriorwolvez]

I’m in a het relationship with a guy. We’ve been engaged for a year and are looking for houses. He cooks, I put dishes in the washer, he puts them up. I wash / dry clothes, he puts them up. I always drive everywhere. I make “decisions” (meaning what to eat and the like) because he’s indecisive and never *wants* to. (Yes I do beg him to decide every now and again bc I am also indecisive). I budget and take care of bills and other important info. These responsibilities have been worked out through years of communication, understanding who likes / dislikes what, who is better at what. I can not describe how REVOLTING it was to hear some of the phrasing in these tweets - such as the marital rape apologetic one. I really have worked on building such a healthy relationship that I deadass forgot these kinds of people exist.

[@cpbwinchester965]

My husband and I have a similar arrangement. I am the better cook and so I do most of the meal prep and he does most of the dish washing. I have certain garments that require special laundering so I wash our clothes. He washes towels and bed linens. He is picky about the bathroom, so he does the bathroom cleaning. I hate to dust and he hates to mop, so he dusts and I mop.

[@KateeAngel]

My parents are 68 and 71, and my dad was always the one who was doing dishes, he also prepares some types of food and mom prepares others. For example, only mom can cook soups, but something simpler like pasta or potatoes are very often done by dad

[@werewolf4358]

The worst game to play with your SO. 'No *you* decide where/what's for dinner tonight.

[@Undivided-X]

I am secretly envious of your amazing equation with your partner. I am a single 27-year old with parents who've been married for 31 years and they almost never agree on responsibilities. Sad :(

[@warriorwolvez]

@@Undivided-X It's not always perfect. We bicker over things sometimes. But we have a set plan where we spend a minute apart then come back and each have a chance to talk without being interrupted but it has to be "I" and "me" statements and reasons. Instead of "You don't listen" you'd have to say "I feel like you don't listen because I asked you to mow the grass every day this week" - then he has a chance to reply (with I/me statements). It's not easy all the time, but we genuinely love one another and thus make that conscious effort. I have a hard time admitting when I'm wrong - and we have an established way he can gently call me out when I'm just continuing to argue for pride's sake. He has his problems I call him out for too. It takes effort and time and communication. ((Parents however? His dad left when he was 5 and my dad is a sexist, racist, homophobic, -etc- christian who physically, emotionally, and mentally abused my entire family until my mom divorced him when I was 14 so like... I get it))

[@stevethecatcouch6532]

Statistically speaking, women outlive their husbands. As an employee in a public contact position in a federal government taxing agency I encountered widows who were the products of marriages of the sort that whacko prefers. Those were women in their sixties or seventies who for forty or fifty years had never paid a bill, or accessed a bank account for any purpose. Some had never driven a car or shopped for groceries.

[@hope-cat4894]

That's why is baffling to think this is the best way to live in a functioning society. If either partner dies, they don't know how to function independently. If the woman dies, the man can't manage a home and barely feed himself, and if the man dies, the woman can't handle bills to keep her head above debt. It forces people to rush from one marriage to the next before they can even properly grieve.

[@KateeAngel]

So what that they have never driven a car? I have never and never plan to drive a car. I am 27, I study and work, and my mom drives a car, she is 68. Maybe only if she asks me to learn to drive to drive her to summer house when she gets too old to drive herself then I will learn. Apart from that, I don't even want to

[@KateeAngel]

It is also strange they never went for groceries, isn't it? I mean most patriarchal cultures consider it "woman's duty" to buy and prepare food.

[@KateeAngel]

@@hope-cat4894 yes, in the past such classification of duties to "female" and "male" ones worked only because people lived in extended multi-generational families, so there were always several people of every gender in the house. Nowadays, with propagation of idea that people "must" form nuclear families and adult children "must" leave their parents' house as soon as possible, that won't work.

[@werewolf4358]

How do they get along after that?

[@fritzisaackhalil43]

I love guys like this. They make it very easy to teach my daughter what kind of guys to avoid and my son what kind of guy to never be.

[@Dragonsinger71]

You echo the sentiment I tried to teach my daughters: Women don't need men. Therefore I didn't want them to have any man in their lives out of need. He could only be there because they WANTED him there. To repeat a very old saw: a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

[@brookebrothers9883]

"Women want no responsibilities." "Women want to rear children, take care of the entire house, and a husband man-child." Pick. One.

[@emordnilaps]

When he tells women not to make choices, how exactly does he see her managing to raise *his* children?

[@AB-80X]

Hmmmmmmmmmm My ex would agree on the first one... She was always irresponsible lol.

[@thepolyneer6242]

Some of my friends don’t understand why my husband doesn’t do a lot around the house. He works 12-14 hour days every day, in the frigid cold this time of year (farmer). The least I can do is not have him worry about the other chores around the house. In return, he buys me things like the iRobot vacuum to help me out. We understand we each work hard and do as much as we can to make each other’s lives easier. He’s also supporting me completing an engineering degree, so not exactly “traditional” gender rolls. Every relationship dynamic is different 🙂

[@CheesecakeAndMatcha]

I want your husband as my daddy

[@RYCH3]

It is ok to be a housewive! It is about whatever you want to do as long as your man still does everything that he can for you.❤️.

[@mrsuperguy2073]

@@RYCH3 yeah exactly. It's about the choice.

[@LynxieDove]

Yep definitely cool to be a house spouse regardless of your gender and sexuality. :)

[@frankallen3634]

Ugh alpha males, based on a wolf behavior that isn't actually real. And that was the jumping off point...right off a cliff

[@katt.1787]

There is a metaphor in there somewhere considering wolves only behave like this in captivity, but sadly I'm not smart enough to make it.

[@diegorincon4673]

What’s interesting is that the man who debunked the “Alpha” theory was the creator of the theory. For decades he tried to stop it from spreading, but now millions believe it is true.

[@visaman]

This isn't Alpha behavior, it's strictly Blue pill cuck behahvior

[@lunsen402]

@@katt.1787 think Hbomberguy made a video on that stuff and had the perfect analogy. something to do with cages or something. can´t remember though worth a watch.

[@Sarablueunicorn]

@@diegorincon4673 Men creating theories that serve men's interests...ummm

[@MyWellnessJourney1]

This man is truly miserable and alone. I can't believe he would have any kind of real love in his life.

[@AB-80X]

You know what the terrifying part is? I don't think you're right on either part.

[@Trex100]

I’m a man in my 50’s, and you will get no hate from me Emma. You’re wonderful!

[@Tascaraudo]

tragically we will never know what a wife should do if her husband wants her to kick a puppy

[@medude420024]

Well. From what we have learned, we can deduce the answer. You kick the puppy and don't ask any questions.

[@twebster179]

Is "the puppy" what ol dude calls his tiny balls?0.o

[@Revanbzn]

He didn’t even think about it that’s why he blocked, answering would make him think about what he wrote.

[@diegorincon4673]

Well, aim the gun directly at the temple, the pull the trigger gently.

[@doctortorchwood6115]

The wife should kick her husband in the balls. Problem solved.

[@milena66677]

I wonder if he thinks that if the husband dies, the wife should toss herself into the ground with him. -_-

[@bb-3653]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I laughed so hard

[@nathanielbables8652]

What it shock, canda like old school India.

[@VibingMeike]

Wouldn't be surprised lmao

[@chantlmcclary6419]

@@bb-3653 Nah she dress in a Victorian era all black dress with a black veil and then she hits a black flip off the tallest bridge where she lives 😆. That's prolly what this dude was imagining in his mind.

[@bb-3653]

@@chantlmcclary6419 hahaha word, she probably "needs" to backflip with enthusiasm too, according to this dude

[@somthingbrutal]

had an older relative try and "raise" his daughter like this back in the early 80's oddly enough she hit 16 and he never saw her again

[@lunsen402]

good on her. People like that don´t deserve meeting their daughters or future grandkids.

[@chrispfeifer7628]

Yes, we are having a totally shit time here in the US. Half the country believes angels are real, and that Donald Trump is the epitomy of honesty, godliness and just a good man. Go figure

[@lizd2943]

If that's what every girl dreams about, why does he think society needs to continually reinforce it?

[@LadyAmanita]

I know, right? If women were naturally submissive we wouldn’t have to be constantly told, and it wouldn’t require so much policing and enforcement. Real nature needs no encouragement.

[@bennienthejet89]

“...women are people.” GAH IM SO GLAD I FOUND YOU. Standing ovation.

[@masunrise7471]

It is so sad that we have are so ecstatic that someone says women are people. lol

[@ognjensijak989]

You mean ovulation?😏 Am I right ladies

[@sofiab.9129]

@@ognjensijak989 thats great i have to remember 😂

[@diegorincon4673]

A fact? Incredible.

[@philip8498]

im really not sure how that is news to anybody but apparently it is.

[@bmiller7419]

He doesn’t need to give advice. He needs serious therapy

[@leighs.9463]

Bullet therapy...? Haha?

[@TabithaReminiec3399]

I have a better way to handle Propatriarchy Me: Propatriarchy ,Get off of your duff ! Get in that kitchen ,Make me a sandwich , Get me an Apple & a Beer ! Make the bed, do the dusting ,dishes, vacuum the house, the laundry ,mow the lawn etc ...OR ELSE !

[@lorianabanana6066]

Seriously this dude is just an angry, sexist, control freak. I don't want to say he's a sociopath/psychopath (I have a BA is psyche which isn't enough to be diagnosising anyone) but for real dude has no empathy. I don't think he even cares about other men. He just doesn't want ANY woman to ever have power over ANY man because that would mean some women would expect to not be controlled or manipulated by men. Basically he benefits in his ideal patriarchical world- but he obviously could care less about anyone other than him. It's just that any women with any power over her life is somehow disrespectful to HIM in his eyes. You can't teach adults empathy. I'm not sure therapy would do anything for him. He just needs to F off to some forgotten forest where he can pretend it's the 1600's and his world view still has any sway (since it doesn't).

[@oliviawilliams6204]

As a woman into being BDSM and submissive, i find that guy very creepy right from the first tweet, No bank account, no male friends, no career, that's so toxic. Also what a women would be to do if her husband die for some reason? No Job, no bank account, no financial skill how her and her children would keep going? And never mind that's not for all women at all...

[@carmensavu5122]

I'm the same. If a guy said those things to me on a first date, I'd get up and leave. There's no point in continuing interaction with this person. It's obvious he's no Dom. I give a man my submission, and then we can talk rules. If he tries to impose himself on me beforehand, I just see him as a threat.

[@SweetMelodyP]

At least in bdsm there is usually a contract and consent is involved. This guy is abusive as hell.

[@oliviawilliams6204]

@@SweetMelodyP Contract are not really necessery trough they can help, but they sure as hell not legally binding. But Consent, yeah Consent must be there, consent is absolute requirement

[@SweetMelodyP]

Well yeah, not legally binding, it does help to have something written out by all parties involved to help establish safe and sane boundaries. Certainly better than the toxicity the guy in this dishes out.

[@oliviawilliams6204]

@Rachel Bronke well it would be worse for vanilla women since you would not enjoy being submissive

[@StoptheHateJustDebate]

I agree with all Emma’s points here, she’s spot on. I was also struck by the societal “loss” this idiot would cause. Society would be hurt by the number of women scientists, authors, performers, artists, leaders, teachers, etc., that wouldn’t get the chance to develop if we all followed this moronic philosophy… The fact remains that real men, with healthy self esteem, respect and enjoy the company of strong, intelligent and independent women.

[@ladyfreedomrocks]

I never wanted kids. Made sure to date people that didn't want marriage, kids, picked fences, and all that. This is the kind of guy I avoided like the plague.

[@yogadork_namaste]

Oh God when you got to the "woman taking her husband inside her" and how she must always do that. That is why I'm SO grateful for my husband who KNOWS intercourse is painful for me due to my endometriosis and he has what's called compassion and understanding that I can't do it all the time.

[@werewolf4358]

Oof, That's rough buddy. Hope they find some way of fixing that so it doesn't hurt and you can actually enjoy such things.

[@gintarebaskeviciute5672]

Real sus how he keeps comparing women to children, says that they're childlike and all and sees them as a sexual object at the same time. Yikies

[@Revanbzn]

He seems to be a fundamental Catholic. Seen how those treat kids..

[@kathryngeeslin9509]

I wouldn't allow him near kids. Especially alone with kids.

[@lunsen402]

a lot of these kinds of conservatives do in fact tend to fight against age of consent laws... theres a reason why you can marry 12 year olds in some states in the US. In many cases they acctually think that girls should marry as soon as they get their first period... so yea would not suprise me if is a p-word... i mean it does go hand in hand with the infentilasing of woman doesn´t it.

[@gintarebaskeviciute5672]

@@lunsen402 my god, this info just made me nauseous

[@lunsen402]

@@gintarebaskeviciute5672 same for me when i first learned about it. So welcome to the world of pedofilic lunacy

[@bubbercakes528]

I’m a man in my 50’s and I have never thought I knew everything that women want. I also believe that men alone have had long enough to get things right and have failed miserably. Hopefully all the sexes can get together in the modern generations and improve life on our planet.

[@hanzbrixx]

Certainly, the genders will still get together. Men just get a passport and go to the 2nd world. Problem solved.

[@girlbossincorporated]

aww love the delusional optimism bestie 💖💕

[@Alexander59059]

@@girlbossincorporated Well that’s just mean

[@girlbossincorporated]

@@Alexander59059 im not the same person please ignore

[@satanslittleprince]

@@girlbossincorporated the character development lmao

[@ladyfreedomrocks]

The Transformed Wife would say this guy was a catch. If that doesn't make you want to get a retraining order.....

[@MrAsmontero]

I love the way you disarm his arguments by simply assuming that the propositions are true and following the logical consequences of that.

[@bmiller7419]

Pretty sure I can defeat Mr. Man with a waxed floor and a cup full of marbles. I’ll add some glitter for some finesse

[@SophieWoodward08]

I'll set up the cameras, gotta get it in multiple angles 👍🏻

[@lunsen402]

@@SophieWoodward08 when you do send me the tape i wanna watch already have the popcorn ready of course anyone who wanna join watching and chill with popcorn is welcome.

[@TabithaReminiec3399]

B, what do you think of my post ?

[@AB-80X]

Glitter. See that's where you know someone made an effort. Love it🥰

[@somthingbrutal]

"women want no responsibilities" i take it he missed the whole suffragette movment

[@RichWoods23]

That's just a lie enforced by the feminist Marxist cultural atheistic establishment liberal controlling elite. Burn the history books!

[@RichWoods23]

Oops, I left out 'Christ-hating fascistic anarchist'. Sorry.

[@somthingbrutal]

@@RichWoods23 LOL

[@natediaz1863]

Lol no. They want all the privilege, none of the responsibility.

[@guessimstillalive3140]

Mm yess child printing is not a responsibility

[@tempesttossed6029]

Wanting to be owned and wanting to belong are two very different things. Everyone wants to be accepted and belong somewhere. That's a very different feeling to being someone's property.

[@AB-80X]

Indeed. The latter is a very common social aspect of human behaviour - we want to feel loved and cared for. The former is more of a fun Saturday night 😈

[@livliveart]

It's the Sound of Music debate, the whole "you belong to him" vs "belong with him". I think both are perfectly valid to say... if it's mutual. Belonging to each other is a beautiful, romantic thing, but it should *never* be one-sided.

[@AnonymousDragonWolf]

I'm a lesbian, and this is the only time fate has been kind to me. Men have nothing to offer me, and I can treat them as the dangerous strangers they are and avoid them.

[@scottirving4183]

I'm a , and I liked something about lesbian when I was a lot younger 20's. Maybe it is this world view about avoiding dangerous strangers that resonated. Too late I have nothing to offer (daily Mantra of a 6'3" 200lb 40+Yada yada yada;) and fate has tried oxymoronically to be kind one too many times. Am I stupid or is there a good reason nobody will reply or like your comment? I always feel like I'm missing something.

[@AB-80X]

Wow. You sound like a very prejudice and unhappy person. I'm a queer guy, so maybe I see the world differently. But men having nothing to offer? What about friendship, care, love and support? Dangerous strangers? Really? What about all the women who are raving lunatics? Hate to say it, but you come across almost as angry and bitter as the guy discussed in this video.

[@markewing10]

Just want to add that not all men are like him.

[@taylorceleste1006]

I went to my doctor for issues with my sex drive because I wanted nothing to do with it and felt guilty for my, now, ex husband. Hormones were fine, I changed meds that could decrease sex drive and her last piece of advice to 'help' me, was to suggest I just have sex even if I didn't want to 🙃

[@AB-80X]

Oh god, I feel so bad for you.💞 Just out of curiosity. What country was this?

[@taylorceleste1006]

@@AB-80X in the USA

[@HPGIRL1109]

i spent like $400 of my hard earned cash (from my job *gasp*) on my leather jacket and this guy can pry it from my cold dead hands

[@visaman]

Leather trousers.

[@0shaade0]

@@visaman leather, in general.

[@thenaturalmidsouth9536]

My wife absolutely rocks a pair of tight leather pants.

[@stevenredpath9332]

I’d don my leather jacket and stand with you on that hill.

[@silviasantinello2628]

I think most of what he says comes from Handmaid’s Tale...dangerous to think the book was written over 30 years ago and it still feels so relevant. I also know a lot of men (especially in connection with the Catholic Church) who share the same views

[@xenonsan3110]

I want to read the book eventually. The show seemed to start off really well but kind of went with the more drama type stuff as the seasons progressed. It is still somber but it came off as romanticizing the subjects it covers to me

[@LynxieDove]

Not necessarily, the pro patriarchy view, purity culture, etc has really been on the rise, annoyingly enough. *throws up*

[@ghostboy2080]

"To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead." - Thomas Paine

[@KossolaxtheForesworn]

on the first date he makes it clear he wants a relationship that in modern standards is considered incredibly abusive. yay for that.

[@AllanFolm]

He isn't looking for a wife. He is looking for a blow-up doll and a Roomba.

[@markewing10]

He got tired of trimming his fingernails 😊

[@nyxmacaulay666]

Something you've said touches on my personal situation. My ex of five years was a Dr. He used that to control and manipulate me, and everyone around him. He's sort of conditioned people not to question his judgment, takes it poorly when you do. I left him, four years after THAT i find that he's been GPS stalking me from across the country for a year, and trying to get me back in his life. Control issues... they're scary, intimidating, and they aren't obvious on the first date. Wow... sorry for the dump here, but you are RIGHT. Control is the biggest red Flag there is.

[@lunsen402]

hope you called the cops. stalking be very illegal after all.

[@nyxmacaulay666]

I did. Still fighting to have them prosecute him. It’s amazing how hard it is to prosecute someone when they’re white and have money..

[@lunsen402]

@@nyxmacaulay666 sorry to hear that hope you succed

[@daniellamcgee4251]

@@nyxmacaulay666 It's probably the doctor status, too. My experience of court was that they believed everything the doctors' said without question. You may need another person with a doctorate on your side. My situation was different, though; more medical. You have a right to feel free and safe. Sometimes we have to work hard to find every way possible to insure our safety and freedom . I hope your situation has improved since your last post! 💜

[@AB-80X]

@@daniellamcgee4251 Not sure about the doctor status being a general problem. My wife, my brother and my father are all doctors, and they are all very friendly people.

[@emilycrow8278]

Guy read "A Handmaid's Tale" and said to himself "yes, this".

[@mee_shh]

This guy is gonna FREAK when he hears what lesbians are.

[@TabithaReminiec3399]

Or bigendered

[@pinksucccubus]

@@TabithaReminiec3399 bisexual, you mean?

[@lilliesupreme9767]

@@pinksucccubus nah bigendered is a thing

[@nealfirstofhisname]

@@lilliesupreme9767 Like a hermaphrodite?

[@lilliesupreme9767]

@@nealfirstofhisname nah like you're both genders at once

[@Saezimmerman]

“Comment your least favorite thing about me” That you can pull off those glasses so well. My script is too strong for that lense shape, but it’s so cool.

[@abbiebagnell1398]

28:16 - So he wants women to be childlike but women also shouldn't deny their husbands sex.. Ooh I know what that means 🚩🚩🚩

[@Orlando_from_The_Bronx]

I'm actually older than this man, and I have never understood men who think like. Even as a teenager, no matter how tough and assertive these kind of guys present themselves, I have always perceived them as mentally weak.

[@w.k.524]

I absolutely love that he capitalises every Man, Husband, Father, and so on, but when writing about women he never does that? honestly does he even like "females"

[@brandex2011]

Clearly not.

[@linseyspolidoro5122]

[8:46] I’ve also noticed the opposite, where men like that tend to have married independent women who they can’t control so to temper their rage at that fact they blog on the internet. At least that’s what I’ve garnered from the men in blogs like ‘Biblical gender roles.’

[@jguil4d]

I appreciate that he suggests that men should open a dating experience with this. Really gets the “look, I’m a belligerent asshole and you should run. now” out of the way.

[@VelcroYuppie]

If someone abuses my stepdaughter, I'm going to have a discussion with him.

[@allanquinn6015]

"There is no true social revolution without the liberation of women. May my eyes never see and my feet never take me to a society where half the people are held in silence. I hear the roar of women’s silence....." -Thomas Sankara

[@JetstreamDragon31]

The general western countrys are far beyond this point. Women have more rights, which are partly sexist and everything else than fair and pro equality. Still Western Women cry the loudest of being oprest and having less rights than men.

[@beckinevison-smith1025]

I love the look on the faces of men...when I tell them I have 3 brothers and they are all feminists... The confusion is beyond anything!

[@lunsen402]

lol. As a feminist man with a brother and two sister all of which are feminists and two lovely perents who also are feminist i am always suprised when people are suprised. It is a funny look though i will agree. (their faces i mean)

[@luizaviktualia]

Wow, what a sad and infuriating guy :( On another note, I am so glad I found your channel, you're unapologetically political and feminist (duh), energetic and genuine in the best way, manage to phrase complex issues in such a succinct way, and your topics are great! Thanks for making these videos!

[@EmmaThorneVideos]

Thank you, that means so much to me! ❤

[@shadoslacker7409]

As awful as this guy is, at least he recommends making it clear how awful you are on the first date. I always appreciate it when terrible people make it clear that they are, in fact, terrible people early in the conversation.

[@notrandom2]

Oh, and he forgot to mention, "those who know how to read and write need not apply - Report to your local witch hunter"

[@UNknown-sd3ki]

Using threats, demeaning, and shaming someone is love and caring? He must be insane. How can you be a protector when your the problem. I met some strong and wonderful women that are out of this world. Keep up the good work Emma.

[@kc_lee_ann]

“He would’ve hated that ... he’s not very social” made me laugh way to hard cuz my granddad is the exact same 😂

[@elwduecentonove6080]

I want this video to go viral, or at least well viewed for the following reasons: 1) because Emma makes good commentaries 2) so this man can face some consequences for his terrible influence to the world

[@scottrobinson529]

I actually feel sorry for him. My wife and I are best friends and treat each other with mutual respect. He'll never know real love.

[@marinuseltink]

I found you via Sci-Man Dan. And i'm happy i did! I love the sheer amount of snark you use on asshats like this guy :D

[@damnjessieh_]

He's from Bavaria, a strongly catholic state in the south of Germany - still those believes are NOT normal in Bavaria or Germany

[@erikrungemadsen2081]

I thought Bavaria was all beer, bratwurst and bravour!

[@Mary-cw4lf]

They are normal for fundamentalists of nearly every stripe that I am aware of, sadly I was raised on this garbage.

[@visaman]

maybe he is a Mennonite?

[@mathiasbartl903]

Ach so, wo die Männer Lederhosen tragen und das Weibsvolk Dirndl.

[@TheCoyoteOutlaw]

I hope he didn't have kids. I can't imagine what that household would have been like... Also, I have a sneaking suspicion that he is the type who complains that women are indecisive.

[@SydneyPorkchop]

I don’t think anyone can live this way, I would absolutely make him make EVERY decision. What do I wear today…What do I have for breakfast….What do I do first in the house, I’m done, now what do I do? You would hate that especially if I call you at work to think for me.

[@gorefieldluvr6921]

In his mind the woman should take care of kids all day at home... I just imagine his wife calling him every 15 minutes to ask about stuff with the kids😅 "can i give jimmy juice?" "can i pick Jimmy up?" "Jimmy shit his pants can i wipe it up or do you want me to just let it be?" This guy doesnt want a woman, he wants a robot with a uterus

[@AB-80X]

You can't call him. Your phone will be locked for outgoing calls while he's away...

[@tonyippolito7580]

Holy crap! That guy is an absolute douche noodle. What a horrible human being. Secondly, your social commentary is absolutely great Emma. I'm thoroughly enjoying your content. Reading through the comments this video hit a 1000 subs, now I see you're at 50 000!!! You know your on to something good when you can so that in a year. Keep up the good work. 3rd.....I want your coffee cup! My goodness I love those comics. Where did you get it from?

[@benjaminoupillovers]

I spent half your video wondering why there is a big "C" on the top right. finaly understood that it's just a light. love your content!

[@cakecinema9385]

As someone who’s, shall we say, into certain things, I’m so fucking disgusted. Consent. Consent. Consent. That’s what all bdsm is built on.

[@cakecinema9385]

I edited to make my point clearer and to correct my spelling

[@JSDoesThings]

Gods, thank you. I hear things now and go, "Well, with consent.." even in contexts like this. Because sometimes you have darker fantasies.

[@lunsen402]

seconded

[@lunsen402]

@@JSDoesThings spanking and bondage is fun and all, but just as you and cake says it has to be with consent. id be horrified doing anything in BDSM with someone who did not want to...

[@TabithaReminiec3399]

Also a over protective father

[@mindylee2591]

Congrats on your Pokemon plushie AND your first Twitter block!

[@EmmaThorneVideos]

Thank you 😄 What a week!

[@eviljimmy]

This guy has obviously been rejected or hurt and instead of moving on and dealing with it like a normal person, he doubled down and based his personality on it all. Fortunately extreme conservatism like this will always lose in the long run

[@AK-jm1sc]

I honestly feel like it's a kink-lifestyle thing more, just that he doesn't want to admit it so he makes up a fantasy version of the world where this kind of setting would work. I came across some guy's profile once who was saying very similar things, and he also had a girlfriend, I checked out his girlfriend's blog and she very into BDSM lifestyle and basically doing what he says cause of the kinky factor. So yeah, in some kink-circles, this kind of stuff is common which isn't an issue, the problem is when people start taking this outside of the kink and treating it seriously.

[@eviljimmy]

@@AK-jm1sc maybe but I think the kink based stuff is definitely in the minority. Places like Reddit offer people places to double down on their beliefs and gain the confidence to start projecting outward. If this guy got a girlfriend I suspect she would need to be fairly lacking in self confidence and quite naive to not see the legion of red flags

[@malacoda85]

There's also the reality that men like this, who really believe women are inferior and should be property, actively seek women who are into BDSM in order to abuse them. There's a site called bdsmlr (apparently it's where tumblrs porn accounts went after a ban) full of blogs authored by men claiming to be "Dominants" but stressing also that it isn't a kink for them but an ideology, that they are there to hurt women because women deserve to be hurt. They go to bdsm because they are protected within the community even when they hurt women without their consent.

[@weschilton]

Well I got so angry with this tool, that I was all set to reactivate my dead Twit account, and then I discovered that his account was suspended. Maybe there is a bit of justice.

[@stefkukla8533]

Commented on one of his posts where he thinks that women's sensitive natures can't handle certain truths: "Sounds to me as though you (and men like you) are the ones with a "sensitive nature". As a man, I find your views embarrassing, laughable and completely impractical." I imagine he'll be blocking me soon.

[@antaishizuku]

The internet gives everyone a voice no matter how misleading, incorrect, or harmful.

[@visaman]

Except for Donald Trump

[@Kilmoran]

I honestly do not understand men who cannot be in the presence of their equals or betters in any regard. It seems rather pathetic.

[@madizen6312]

Yeah this is awful. My ex husband said he was specifically looking for a young girl he could "mould" into what he wanted. Fukd up He was Mormon, I used to be. Now I'm feminist af.

[@lunsen402]

well fuck that guy. glad you´re away from the dude.

[@daniellamcgee4251]

Congratulations!!! It takes a heck of a lot of courage to escape not only an abusive relationship, but a whole cult, and start over! I am an ally of ex-Jehovah's Witnesses, although never a JW myself. So my first thought was that this Twitter guy would fit right in with the JWs. I don't know much about Mormonism (yet!) but from the comments from ex- Mormons, I gather there are many similarities to JWs. I am so glad you have attained your freedom, and are living your own life with a mind of your own! Kudos to you!

[@tezzerii]

Not a very good "mormon" with that attitude. Imagine me trying to "mould" my missus !! As if I'd even want to. My lds daughter is feminist and I'm fine with that.

[@Ofthehouseofbeards]

I wonder how much of the responsibility this guy takes on when it comes to raising and caring for a child considering he thinks a woman is supposed to be protected from decision making and responsibility.

[@78dentedhead]

I applaud your resilience and mental fortitude. I was getting angry just hearing a few of this individuals rampant paedophilic misogyny. I've no idea how you read enough to make a 34 min response. Major kudos 👍

[@Errcia]

I love that we’re forbidding someone we met on the first date from wearing pants like ight 🤷🏻‍♀️ let me just take them off right here then 😂😂

[@matiasyannuzzi9655]

I think all conservatives should apply that rule, starting immediately. It would hurt their date game so badly, it would drive them and their stupid beliefs into extinction within a generation or 2.

[@spaghetto9836]

@@matiasyannuzzi9655 Just wanted to say, the majority of us are not like that man -_-

[@lunsen402]

honestly if someone came with that on the first date you know "so i have a rule you´re not allowed pants" i´d turn it around and say and you are only allowed to have dresses. honestly these kinds of folks make me sick.

[@somedumbasswithlonghair4965]

Careful saying that, knowing how unhinged these kinds of people are they might view that as an invite 😂

[@lellow19]

I actually agree with that post about letting her know on the first date. Do let her know you believe these things so she doesn't waste her time Edit to add: trousers suck. Clothes suck. Au natural

[@spacelem]

I see his account has been suspended. I guess Twitter gets it right occasionally. What an arse. He'd probably have a heart attack if he saw our marriage.

[@TheLore_Maker]

Call me crazy but the most romantic relationship is one where both people are happy and genuinely enjoying each other’s company. Like this guy is disgusting. Big shocker but women are indeed people.