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[@Salem-sn6ji]

"maps deserve to feel safe" so do children.

[@Waff1es]

the moment you announce to the world that you want to diddle kids then you don't deserve to feel safe

[@Salem-sn6ji]

indeed

[@nicolechan9391]

What's map stand for

[@anxiousperson3325]

yo what the fuck

[@lacobjadders6334]

It's the moral obligation of every man and woman to make sure they do not feel safe.

[@emmagivemeaminuteimbufferi1266]

List of people who can consent: Legal, sober, sane, human, and living adults List of people who cannot consent: Anything else

[@sakuraash]

Sober legal adults

[@jeffersjerb8998]

Where there isn't a power imbalance

[@MrPF]

Sober legal adults with at least tribal level of mental capabilities Just saying adults also includes animals...

[@axinitewolf]

People who are attracted to trees: aw man!

[@beth641]

Emma I'mnottellingyoumylastname 69 legal adult HUMANS* gotta get the zoofiles too my man

[@macoy3943]

“Inflation fetish” Lowering the value of the dollar really turns me on.

[@juliasanchez6300]

Why aren't you the top comment?

[@macoy3943]

Julia Sánchez Because I commented yesterday on a year old video, plus I only have 3 likes

[@lessevilnyarlathotep1595]

More like "I pop a boner watching aunt marge in prisoner of azkaban getting blown up like a balloon"

[@johnrankin7135]

You have any devaluation vids you could message me? Asking for a friend..

[@macoy3943]

John Rankin I got u fam kzbin.info/www/bejne/i36kdn95p6-rqpI

[@astrixinthestars1047]

"You are 13, thats too old for me" Excuse me while i pour bleach into my eyes

[@andrewdowns9047]

You picked the wrong target. They're the ones that need bleach in the eyes

[@astrixinthestars1047]

@@andrewdowns9047 u know what? Good point chap

[@andrewdowns9047]

@@astrixinthestars1047 in hindsight I should have clarified I was referring to the pedos and not the 13 year olds

[@astrixinthestars1047]

@@andrewdowns9047 figured, figured

[@soupsoup.9591]

the only time it is acceptable for a person to say that 13 is too old for them is when the person saying it is under the age of 13 themselves

[@gryotharian]

You can’t call it necromantic that means you’re a wizard who raises the dead. As a necromancer I am offended that people are relating my craft with necrophilia.

[@fructosecornsyrup5759]

But what if they're turned on by necromancers?

[@kathvg]

Fructose Cornsyrup that’s valid

[@13quizz]

Kath VG true

[@thisisabcoates]

@@fructosecornsyrup5759 Then they're necromantophillic

[@ipermaga4618]

That said necro-romantic I think

[@youwontbutyoumight3984]

"my age of attraction is 0-7" i dont want to be alive anymore.

[@sansgirlfriend]

Same

[@translucentbear]

Make sure you aren't near the necrophiliacs when you start the not-being-alive-anymore.

[@sansgirlfriend]

@@translucentbear lmao 😂😂

[@youwontbutyoumight3984]

@@translucentbear HOW DARE YOU DESECRATE MY DEATH THIS WAY

[@SliverOfSomething]

@@translucentbear Yeah well cremation is a thing

[@leoxd4912]

"Dude, you're 13. You're way to old for me." - onision 2020.

[@zora1138]

The only way that wouldn't be weird if the person saying that was 9.

[@alchemispark7751]

Onision is a 9 year old at heart, But he's still legaly an adult so thats some wack shit

[@heylol9166]

shane yaw, zie laverne

[@coldfrenchfry5181]

Can anyone else find their account?

[@eveyaspaas3667]

“My age of attraction is 0-7” We’ve had a good run... but I think now it’s time to delete the internet.

[@naomideoliveira1886]

Agreed.

[@katiemcdonagh4048]

It needs to go

[@coratheneutralmilkhotelfan2131]

We need to delete the earth

[@skakee10]

You think we should just stop at the internet?

[@flayedtwig4550]

yup it's been a good time but we gotta GO

[@SaphiraFae]

The bottom line? Consent, my dudes. Children physically cannot consent because they do not underStanD what they're getting into. Corpses can't consent because, uhm, they dead. Jfc

[@meticulouslymindless]

And animals can't consent because they lack understanding of human language

[@larsswig912]

If you ignore consent completely, your BASIC HUMAN MORALS tell you it's wrong to fuck a child, a corpse or your pet dog.

[@lunapawspurr8016]

@@larsswig912 Idk my dog seemed to enjoy it, but then again it hard to tell if a pile of ashes has feelings or felt anything

[@dami5154]

@Mr. McMeme r/noahgettheboat

[@marciamakesmusic]

@@larsswig912 To be fair, morals are subjective. A pedophile has obviously different morals than someone who isn't a pedophile. Consent is the difference.

[@RickTheSmugLord]

When I heard Maps, at first I instantly thought there were people being attracted to MAPS, like... "Aww yeah, This Continent is really turning me on! I really like the looks of Florida there!"

[@btryx9378]

😂😂that made me laugh

[@idrinkpastaforaliving_6269]

Sam3

[@CyberSaurian]

I like that definition better

[@whateverworksmate.721]

Texas be lookin' thicc

[@thothcarter6994]

There is actually an ad for ancestry.com with a woman who is attracted to the country of Italy

[@Cy_an1d3]

Basically as long as it’s consensual. You can’t consent if you’re underage or dead or an animal. This has also been brought to my attention “or drugged”

[@Cy_an1d3]

Iåm Øk the dislikes are onision and his groupies. Lol

[@user-qv2qf1jk5o]

Or drugged

[@oliverjohnson1813]

@@Cy_an1d3 Your name is how I feel after watching this.

[@dollitamusic]

Kill me Slowly this is a really good definition actually

[@idayaon8069]

Also, intoxicated and unconscious.

[@fart9653]

I’m a minor, and have been a target of an online predator. I was 12 and didn’t understand what was going on, but I am far away from them now and safe but let me tell you: if you are a MAP and take advantage of a child you will ruin their life. There is a type of emotional damage and discomfort that words can’t explain that latches onto them. I am only one in thousands of children that have been targeted, but I send out my sympathy and love to the other targets.

[@caspertheunfriendlyghost]

Oh my god are you okay? I want to check in on you because I know how much that can hurt people. Edit: okay well actually now I was targeted to. It wasn't as bad as I'm sure it was for you guys, but a 18 year old entered a KZbin community I was in, and she had been there for a while so people trusted her so we would give her our dïscord usually. Other people had it much worse than me, but she flirted with a bunch of underage people knowingly. She had my discord and would ask me for selfies a lot. Luckily I hadn't responded because I was busy, but people started speaking up, and she got banned. i think she deleted her account too. Even just experiencing it, knowing I could've been one of her next targets, someone I thought I could trust, it just has really messed me up. I don't know how someone could purposely try to ruin someone's life like that

[@hw5062]

Also as someone who was a target of a person in my life being predatory towards me as a child I completely agree. It fucks you up for life and as much as these "maps" deserve therapy kids deserve to feel safe and not be at risk from predators who are empowered through the Internet.

[@ratfromanothergalaxy1824]

Yeah the same thing happened to me when I was eleven it really does mess you up

[@eevee6930]

I think one of the saddest moments I've ever had was having to tell a 13 year old that they weren't responsible. They were too afraid to tell anyone else. It seriously shook them. I can't understate how damaging this can be. I really hope that kid can get better.

[@elinasjostrom9524]

Children are innocent Angels. Pedophiles should be tortured to death IF they even once do anything to act out their evil "sexuality". If someone touched my child, even did something over internet to Them= they WILL suffer and die. But I dont want ANY child to be hurt by those monsters. They should be put in prison for life even if they never did anything, as a preventive measure. Childrens lives are more valuable than those demons. They are not human. There is something wrong with Them that cant be fixed. Its not worth to Keep Them free or even alive, they are too evil. They might look like us, but they are not human. The sad thing is that att one time, they were also small innocent babies. But to stop the cycle of abuse, pedophiles who out themselves on internet by posting pro-pedo bs, should be tracked down, locked Up, investigated and either stay in isolation in a supermax prison for the rest of their livets or just killed straight away depending on if they hurt children or looked at child por n. That should be death by torture. Slow torture. Non offending=life in prison.

[@vidzeerox]

Tumblr: NO FEMALE PRESENTING NIPS Also Tumblr: all this is ok.

[@robotragika4861]

This video was before the nip ban

[@ayindephulgence4950]

@@robotragika4861 rip nips

[@PercyJackson123456]

Luca Uttó I’ll bet you five SpaceDollars that this shit is still up.

[@allisunshine444]

it’s sad bc we have freedom of speech so people can say whatever fucked up shit they please but we don’t have the freedom of our physical bodies to use/display them equally across the binary genders

[@wriggleby]

@@allisunshine444 ikr

[@pastapanda4042]

MAPS don't deserve to feel safe. Children do. Stay away from kids. Get help.

[@Anumbris]

They were children once too, remember. All adults were.

[@pastapanda4042]

Мартин Лютер What's your point?

[@Anumbris]

@@pastapanda4042 That you stop caring about those children when they grow up. That's hypocrisy.

[@pastapanda4042]

Мартин Лютер What? I said children deserve to feel safe while "maps" do not, whatsoever, deserve any kind of safe space.

[@Max-vl5nh]

Pasta Panda Wouldn’t therapy be a safe space?

[@valeriaagasi117]

the fact that tumblr priority was to delete all the porns on the site makes me laugh

[@holidaycat5160]

& the ban was pointless anyway. You can't look up porn from searching it but you can definately find it.

[@MrPF]

Tumblr: Two adults having sex? BAN A map fetishising children? ALLOW AND RECOMMEND TO EVERYBODY

[@cinnamonroll96]

Honestly though. They say they want to ban everything that could potentially harm people etc etc. but yeah whatever this still exists sooo: great job Tumblr. You’ve showed

[@holdtehmayo]

“I’m the MAP!” Dora. RUN!

[@kiera6326]

lilDeviant 😂😂😂

[@emptyice]

Underappreciated comment

[@moss5356]

oh no

[@kris2672]

At dawn we hunt

[@maddiem1908]

NOO YOU DID NOT

[@sarahgonzalez162]

“So your *romantically* attracted to corpses but not sexually attracted???” *I don’t like itttttt*

[@rubyjean5102]

sarah g It’s not even possible to be romantically attracted to a corpse. You can’t have a relationship with a dead body lol

[@sarahgonzalez162]

Ruby Jean I agree, that’s just what she said though 😂

[@kylelheureux9780]

Ruby Jean some murderers keep their victims bodies around and treat them like they’re still alive, like they’re their partners. It’s weird.

[@rubyjean5102]

Kyle Lheureux Yeah but it’s like being romantically attracted to your car. People who are romantically attracted to inanimate objects have mental illnesses because you can’t love somethings personality if they don’t have one lol. And yes, people who are in denial about a loved ones death and Jeep their dead body rotting in their bedroom also clearly need psychiatric treatment.

[@kylelheureux9780]

Ruby Jean I’m a bit confused, I wasn’t insinuating they didn’t have mental illnesses- I think they definitely do

[@rvtar34]

"is paedophilia a fetish or orientation" crime. it's a crime

[@lassielyra]

It's not a crime for the attraction - as a gross and discomforting thought as it is. If someone who is a MAP doesn't hurt any minors and doesn't act on it and gets help then I don't see a reason for anything other than sympathy for them. It's once they target minors and hurt anyone that they lose every bit of respect.

[@something_sanea]

Abigail Skye Stewart how can you have sympathy for someone who’s sexual attraction is literally rape?

[@whichcache2517]

@@something_sanea Because paraphilia, by definition, is a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities. Simply having a paraphilia doesn't mean you're going to act on those attractions, nor does it indicate that you've acted on them in the past. If we encounter those kinds of people, they should get them help, not discard them like rotting garbage because of an attraction that they don't even act on.

[@RycoreXIII]

Technically it's a fetish that is a crime.

[@ozu2647]

Sanea Because they didn’t choose that affliction. If they go to therapy and successfully avoid doing something horrible, then my sympathy remains. Like if someone was afflicted with HIV, I’d feel bad for their situation unless they went around trying to infect other people.

[@KokoroKaisen]

No joke, not gonna lie. For a second I thought they were talking about actual maps. Like pieces of paper that tell you where things and places are.

[@Ellisepha]

Cartographers are problematic 🤔

[@isabelmarrero2577]

Same

[@JM-mx4fw]

I thought they were talking about MAPs multiple animator projects. But it seems that they have stolen our acronym and used it for their sick purposes.

[@slithra227]

The mapmaking community on tumblr actually got really REALLY annoyed with the MAP tag, from what I heard

[@KokoroKaisen]

Knave good

[@clanobananashenanigans167]

as a minor, being objectified and sexualized by adults makes me extrEmely uncomfortable and feel unsafe. I do not like Pedophiles and MAPs that do not seek help.

[@alirosenbusch151]

Yes

[@IBL15]

Nice pfp you got there

[@kitirena_koneko]

I really can't see any person other than someone with an objectification fetish enjoying being regarded as just a fetish object, honestly, regardless of whose fetish we're discussing. I'm disabled because of several health problems, and while I know there are folks with fetishes for disabled people, the thought that someone would only be interested in me sexually because of my disabilities makes me feel a little creepy, so I totally get where you're coming from.

[@geckojorts]

hi! i’m a minor! MAPs do not make me feel safe. there have been multiple times when a MAP has purposefully made me feel unsafe. MAPs don’t deserve to feel safe.

[@ИмяФамилия-и6ъ7ъ]

I feel sory for your experience, but minor attraction can't be controled. There are tons of people (trust me, atraction to minors a lot more common than you think) that suffer from even thoughts about that. And then there are bunch of people that think "well if I can't control my thoughts then I shouldn't control my actions!". Do not shame people for their thoughts, but for their actions.

[@ИмяФамилия-и6ъ7ъ]

@Odd's Channel they trying, but that not making things better. There is 2 ways - you suffer but try your best to live like a normal person helping yourself with it and you can go to psychologist and tell him everything. But after that forget about any attempt to interact with any kid, wich is not making you feel better. You have to pay for your honesty but people won't appreciate that. And I think that is fucked up. Not only therapy won't help (you can control your actions but what turns you on sexualy is not something you have control over) you but also you will be ashamed for trying to be a better person. For people like this saying that all pedophiles should be killed or castrated is like saying "hey, you have thoughts that ruining your life for past 20 years and makes you feel like an amoral piece of shit? Wow, you should die. Of course no one will help you lol"

[@fransandersson4717]

Unless its like a map off Europe

[@lacobjadders6334]

@@ИмяФамилия-и6ъ7ъ Shame people for their thoughts.

[@ananyas8389]

A-fucking-greed

[@savon1710]

theres a surprising amount of pictures of bongs - i guess a lot of stoners don't bother to learn the difference between paraphilia and paraphernalia, although they're radically different.

[@born_asleep]

that’s fucking hilarious

[@oliverjohnson1813]

Stoners are too high to spell. Sounds like some shit I'd do not knowing and hating myself afterward.

[@wohdinhel]

RADICALly different

[@Brynwyn123]

Or they stick their dicks in there

[@thoughtfuldevil6069]

What do you call a paraphilia for paraphernalia? Fucking unpronouncable.

[@Alpacnologia]

List of things that make something OK to have sex with: -Alive -Of equal sentience to all other parties -Of sexual maturity -Capable of rationally making the choice between consent and non-consent -Enthusiastically consenting List of things that make it not OK: -Not of sexual maturity -Not of equal sentience -Not capable of making the choice -Not consenting

[@thatb1h855]

i mean,,what abt trees??

[@Alpacnologia]

@@thatb1h855 check the list i guess they can't really meaningfully communicate to give consent, and we don't know if they're at all sentient, so i'd say don't fuck trees

[@ozu2647]

I’d rule plants as inanimate here, we’re talking about stuff with nervous systems here

[@KM-mw3jp]

People are allowed to romantically like (& potentially pursue) anyone they want... AS LONG AS ALL PARTIES INVOLVED ARE OF LEGAL AGE AND CONSENTING. And no, someone under age, drunk, drugged, DEAD, of less "power" then you (i.e. your student or employee), AN ANIMAL, etc. is not consenting. In those cases, it is almost always RAPE.

[@Ssupport7580]

Kylia McCoy it also has an undertone of homophobia - it’s riding on the coattails of the “born this way” movement LG folks pushed for in order to push for their ability to rape children and defile corpses. their “attractions” are not inborn like sexuality is, they are distortions created by sick-minded individuals.

[@KM-mw3jp]

sumo wise Very good point, there is a wide difference between sexual orientation and that, that is like a bug that sits on top of their sexuality, and definitely shouldn’t be there.

[@atticusrumi]

Kylia McCoy wtf so you're claiming that incest is ok???!!

[@KM-mw3jp]

Atticus Rumi Ya know, I definitely didn’t list all the no-no’s in our society, sex wise. But honestly, as long as it’s consensual? Like obviously someone can’t be taken advantage of, and there is a power play in there, like relations with a parent. But as long as it’s consensual who cares? Maybe don’t procreate but that’s another topic

[@dutchik5107]

Forget the almost For the law it is always rape. And it is always rape in those cases Unless it is like a couple with one year apart just over the legal age barrier. Because hey. They are on exactly the same level and could even have been together before the birthday of the eldest came up.

[@photonicdog]

finally, someone who rags on tumblr who actually knows tumblr, i hate how every public criticism on tumblr is focused on its social justice aspects or its place as a space for marginalised groups because its clear those people don't actually use it. thanks for shedding some light on actual toxic parts of tumblr like the terf communities and, uh, all this

[@MirasaurusRex]

Seriously, it's so... so... SO much worse in there than anyone on the outside realizes. This series is such a great idea.

[@firetarrasque4667]

At least it's not 4chan.

[@taylort3674]

Too many people: lololol Tumblr and their as Jay double yous and 5000 genders, THIS IS THE REEL PROBLEM!!! Anyone who's actually been on and used Tumblr: there are literal pedophiles on here.

[@firetarrasque4667]

At least they try to justify it *coughcought4chanwhydoyouhavechildpornographycoughcough*

[@preston21354]

@@taylort3674 for real!!!

[@emilypvaglue6199]

Ew I’m 14 and even thinking about a person who is older than 18 being attracted to me honestly is revolting

[@preternatural3231]

you're right but tbh if anyone over the age of 16 tries anything with you ... run. At 14 you're in middle school going to highschool while 17-18 year-olds are ready for uni; it's just too much difference in lifestyle, experience, and (of course) developement for it to be healthy

[@caseyh8386]

@@preternatural3231 I have to agree, when I was 14 an 18 year old showed me attention and I thought it was great, he took my virginity on my 15th birthday and tbh I was not ready for it emotionally even though I thought I was. When I think back now, although tbh he wasn't that different to me in mental age, I was too young to be involved with what was basically an adult. Nowadays I'm married to a guy with the same age gap of four years, but because I'm an adult now (im 27 he's 31) we are the same level of maturity, at the same stage of life and the age gap seems tiny and unnoticeable. I really think when you're a teenager you change so much so quickly that a gap of even two years can seem giant.

[@Kimberly-fk3kh]

It's fine your to old for them. But honestly kick them, beat them, scream. Do anything to make it apparent that you do not consent if someone tries something

[@lolalane69420]

That's very fair, but I find it strange that a 4 year gap is totally ok later in life. I'm definitely not saying it's ok to be over 18 and attracted to minors, but I feel like age is much more exaggerated at a young age.

[@Justaspacequeen]

Same.

[@samarter7863]

As an asexual person, I'm thoroughly confused and scared

[@URFTBOUND4LIFE]

ThatFandomBoi Don't worry. We're all scared

[@peepawliliavanrouge]

Oh wow, same. Who and why would anyone think of any of this?????

[@lampsandclovers]

Another aroace here, and I heavily agree what the heck is up with people aaaa

[@ethanpowderly4066]

im not ace but i, too, am lusty for death

[@theworstdadjoke6518]

Not ace but I'm also confused and scared. The human brain is a horrid place and I would like my conciousness to be removed from my body plz and thank you

[@meganbruce41]

Yes, like you said in this video, the key that these people keep forgetting when they say “love is love” in regards to these fucked up fetishes is that consent is key. The LGBTQ community is not hypocritical for being against these people because we preach love is love for consenting adults. Two women getting married/falling in love goes both ways. A dead person cannot consent. A child cannot consent. An animal cannot consent. It’s not a hard concept to grasp.

[@aaronwebb2171]

Megan Bruce salute...

[@meganbruce41]

Jinxed Swashbuckler exactly!!

[@hotelpsycho9886]

And being aroused by murder is fucked up

[@Jetty_wolfe]

“Should pedophillia he called a sexuality or a fetish?” Neither it’s a mental illness and people who suffer from it have a right to get therapy to help their condition

[@birdbrain6503]

Until they get child pornography or touch children. Once they go to that point they deserve a cell in prison

[@idontknow898]

Thanks, I've been struggling for a bit to classify this shit, but mental illness is right on the nose. I really don't understand it though, how someone could see a young child, or a fricking dead body and be attracted... Jesus Christ

[@theplumscrub1627]

I Don’t Know Understanding others gets easier when you realize why they think the reason they do. Reasons are most often due to past experiences, (for serious unusual behaviour it could be childhood trauma.) and almost never purely because of facts.

[@theblackbaron4119]

@@birdbrain6503 A Rope is cheaper than prison. It's just wasted tax money. No one respects pedos, their lifes are forfeit for they have destroyed one of a child forever.

[@ieatgarbage8771]

Wait, so we’ve been shitting on the mentally ill this whole time?

[@TheSynthPunk]

"Should pedophilia be considered a fetish or an orientation?" Dude, it should be considered a felony, end of story.

[@TheSynthPunk]

@@Max-vl5nh In a legal sense, yeah. Doesn't mean that it's any less reprehensible.

[@johan13135]

So, just like Homosexuality in a lot of countries then?

[@phae_c]

what about loli hentai

[@stormisuedonym4599]

@@johan13135 Not remotely. Children can't consent.

[@angelskins]

**bam** ELECTRIC CHAIR

[@claireoconnor307]

I’d say the one situation where a minor x adult relationship is ok is if the minor is like 17, the adult recently turned 18, and they had already been dating when they were both minors

[@skitariiranger4346]

Some states have laws where that is OK

[@lassielyra]

@@crissy4445 It's the same here in South Africa except we have a bylaw that the parents can take away consent. (dunno why that is) So if you are 18+ and have sex with a 16/17 year old and the parents find out the *parents* can charge you with statutory r*.

[@crissy4445]

Abigail Skye Stewart Damn, that must be difficult as fuck to deal with legally 😂😂

[@bayza7955]

This was always my biggest concern but I’m thankful to say I’ve been with a dude only 8 days older than me for 3 years. No issues here!

[@IBL15]

Oh god somewhere the age of consent is 12

[@ArtTreyn]

Jotaro didn’t fight a vampire and lose all his friends to be looped into the paraphilia tags on tumblr

[@vrmpyr]

Jotaro hunts MAPs for sport

[@vinegardoppio4486]

He is too great for this. He never deserved this.

[@cutecommie]

Remember when he kinkshamed a harmless man in Morioh village to death?

[@samjames6714]

Jotaro touched up a child and that’s canon

[@xthyl9855]

@@samjames6714 OK they were both minors at the time

[@kodarpy]

Is pedophilia a fetish or an orientation? *It’s a CRIME*

[@pillsburydoughboy1627]

Pedophilia is a mental disorder Child molestation is a crime Know the difference

[@cottage-core_]

You guys literally need to stop defending pedophilia. Full stop.

[@i_5695]

@憂い c r y b a b y 大麻 no look up fetish

[@marinatedweasel5424]

I would say it's not a crime. ITS PURE FUCKING EVIL SUCK IT VATICAN!! 🙅🏻‍♂️🙅🏻‍♂️🙅🏻‍♂️🙅🏻‍♂️🙅🏻‍♂️

[@SoI_Badguy]

@@cottage-core_ who here is defending it?

[@marswells2328]

the poor stoner girl at 2:17 probably meant to tag "paraphernalia"

[@UrsahSolar]

LOl

[@Renthorneofficial]

🤣🤣 poor thing , cute bong though . 🙌🏻👌🏻

[@coraf2728]

Does this also name your email ? But uhhh women don’t have dicks??

[@crissy4445]

Thank you for your sensitive approach to this topic. My uncle is a KZbinr who basically started the ‘paedophile does not mean child molester’ movement and he was taken WAY out of context. The goal of the movement was allowing paedophiles to speak with therapists openly about their issues and to discuss coping mechanisms that won’t harm children (are child shaped sex dolls okay or a gateway? Child porn is ALWAYS harmful, so should we be animating child porn?) because people refuse to have these conversations and shut them down, leading to paedophiles ‘snapping’ and just molesting children because they don’t care anymore and want to just fully give up and do the worst thing they could do. One of my uncle’s friends killed himself after several years of isolating himself in his house and nobody could understand why he wouldn’t go outside, but it was discovered in his suicide note that he was a paedophile and didn’t want to harm any children or feel the way he did and couldn’t take the guilt or the thought of looking at someone’s child and being attracted to them-as he had a lot of thoughts about how the child and parents would feel if they knew and was disgusted by himself. NOTHING my uncle said was intended to imply that it’s at all okay or should be glorified, but he wanted to start open conversations about how to prevent pedophiles from ending up in a place where they’re entirely in charge of managing their own disorder in secret-which puts them in a position to also molest children or engage in child pornography without anyone knowing there’s a risk of them doing that because they’ve never told a therapist or professional about their issue. The point was to open up a real conversation about what pedophilia is and to prevent offences against children by offering help to pedophiles, without people automatically saying ‘if someone tells you they’re a pedophile they deserve to die and I hate them’-NOT to allow pedophiles to feel like it’s okay to feel the way they do or something they can’t help. Your empathy at 5:35 was refreshing and we need to start thinking about coping mechanisms and prevention, not just throwing around claims like ‘kill them all’ which make pedophiles think they have to hide their attraction and therefore any actions they may eventually take without help.

[@katysullivan3192]

Woah super insightful thank you for sharing, I watched a documentary with maybe your uncle that shared the exact same ideals your comment says and have always thought it made the most sense, maybe in the future this is will the general mood around it who knows

[@aonodensetsu]

that's what The Pedophile's Handbook made me realize, as controversial as it is - still haven't found the courage to read anything but the introduction chapters of it though, and maybe for the better

[@alliebonesVODs]

That's the real reason not to demonize someone for their fantasies/fetishes/urges - if simply admitting that you feel immoral urges is enough to warrant punishment or ostracization, then no one will ever admit it and thus never get help.

[@robertsmithfan877]

YESS EXACTLY

[@pramada9431]

I agree with this a lot but I don't know if it should be like that people shouldn't feel ok to thnk these things. I mean like, it's ok to think in that way as long as they don't act on it. If we say don't think that it's not something they can control. I think it's just better to give emphasis on the action than the thought. Coz most people already feel like shit for thinking that. I'm sure therapy helps but can it stop them from thinking about it? Can a bdsmer be given therapy to stop make them liking bdsm? Just talking about possibilities

[@pondersprocket2274]

There's a difference between fetishes/kinks and paraphilias. Sexual behaviors are generally categorized as paraphilias when they become obsessive in nature or harmful to those involved. (Please note, this is all based on my own understanding.) So, for example, if someone had an innocuous kink like getting turned on by sneezes, that kink becomes a paraphilia when the person can either no longer control their sexual desires when someone sneezes--whether the sneezing person be someone they're sexually involved with or not--or when they physically cannot achieve sexual satisfaction without its involvement. Similarly, if someone was a dom and into BDSM, that wouldn't necessarily be a paraphilia, but if it gets to the point where they have to force their domination onto unwilling participants to achieve climax, then it would be a paraphilia. Mind you, many paraphilias do not have laws put in place against them and they are not necessarily bad, but when a sexual behavior is attributed as a paraphilic disorder, it's because it causes extreme discomfort in the life of those afflicted by it, very often making it difficult to maintain healthy relationships, be they sexual or not. Pedophilia would be a paraphilia, not a fetish, because we have psychological evidence showcasing that relationships between sexually immature children and sexually mature adults are detrimental to the child in question and their development (this applies physically and mentally--and no, this does not give leeway for people to engage with "mentally mature children"). Additionally, the younger the child in question, the greater the likelihood for both physical and mental damage. There is no way for it to be healthy, therein it's a paraphilia and not a fetish or kink.

[@Nublet864]

Thanks for this my brain needed a pallet cleanser after seeing a bunch of pedos "defend" themselves

[@lovedandlanguished]

🙌 Finally. A voice of reason.

[@codacheetah]

Oh hi Ponder!

[@giuseppegaribaldi7272]

Ya I took one intro level psych class (so basically an expert now) but in the class, this is how it was described. Not anything but paraphilia because pedophilia is inherently harmful.

[@raspberryjamus287]

Plus it's disturbing and extremely upsetting to any good person to feel those things, which IMO would make it a paraphilia.

[@riastradh]

The second I head “0-7” I just paused my game and slowly started staring at my phone

[@Zebozomi]

**Skyrim music stops**

[@creepychawn7634]

i thought paraphilia was the love of paranormal stuff like x-files... i am yet again disappointed in this world

[@1tylerq127]

That's spectrophilia and I'm into it

[@samt3412]

@@1tylerq127 If it's a "-philia" would that just be a sexual attraction to aliens?

[@1tylerq127]

@@samt3412 "-philia" on its own just means sexual attraction. Sexual attraction to aliens in particular (or mutants or other non-humans) falls under the umbrella term xenophilia.

[@michealtaormina1561]

@@1tylerq127 paint me like one of your french ghosts~

[@1tylerq127]

@@michealtaormina1561 oui oui, mon ami (this is about the extent of French I know, don't anyone even try to reply in French cuz I will not understand)

[@emma-di5ly]

As a minor who has interacted with a MAP on a regular basis until I cut ties because he was being extremely creepy and literally made me feel threatened despite being five states away, MAPs don't make me feel safe.

[@ghostie-8089]

Very triggering rant I apologise: I actually hate the term map, pedophiles and pedophiles, as someone who was sexually groomed and extremely fucked up by a pedophile while already in a horrible place mentally, struggling like anxiety, BPD, suicidal ideation and self harm, they kept me alive to abuse me when no one else would, they got me to cut off all my friends so I couldn’t tell anyone saying they were protecting me; all pedophiles are capable of that, they should all kill themselves and I don’t think I’ve ever said that about anyone or anything but it’s horrible, the things they put children through, I know there’s picture of my 13 year old self with bloody marks down her legs on the internet, I know some so called “non offending map” has seen that I fucking know so don’t even get me started. it’s disgusting, if you’re a pedophile you’re a horrible person and you genuinely deserve the worst.

[@emma-di5ly]

@@ghostie-8089 You're right, I don't know why I used the term MAP, I usually don't. It was probably in my head after the video. I am so sorry for your pain. My experience was nowhere near as extreme as that and that behavior is absolutely inexcusable and disgusting. I am so sorry for what happened to you. I don't know if I agree with all of them killing themselves. There is therapy out there and if they know how disgusting their condition is, some seek that out. I don't know if the therapy can cure it, though. Anybody who looks up child pornography or touches a child is absolutely an evil and disgusting person and most do, in fact, do that and they deserve the absolute worst. People who seek out help are not good people, but they do realize how disgusting their condition is and want to change it, so I don't wish quite as bad things upon them. I don't wish death upon anyone (for better or for worse), but if anybody deserves it, it's pedophiles and rapists.

[@azathoththeprimalchaos2289]

@@emma-di5ly i had a reply but I accidentally deleted it. Heres a shorter version because i forgot the first one: Yes from what I've heard the therapy does work. And I agree pedos don't all deserve to die. Hell that mentality has actually lead to more pedos acting on their desires because getting help would be outing themselves as being a pedo, even if they haven't done anything. This leads to more children being raped, and thus more children saying all pedos should due meaning more pedos rape more children etc.

[@azathoththeprimalchaos2289]

@@ghostie-8089 all humans are capable of similar things. The pedophilia part could easily be replaced either something just as bad. I understand your perspective, but if anything saying that all pedos deserve to die makes them more reluctant to get help to cure their illness. Which leads to more people like you going through all that, because of you stopping them from getting help. If they do act on it, that's bad, worse than murder if its rape, but telling them to kill themselves makes them more likely to do it because it makes them give up in trying to change.

[@lunatick9792]

HoMoSeXuAlItY iS jUsT lIkE pEdOpHiLiA! No. No, it's not. Consent is not a Disney Princess. Edit: ummm, thanks for the ton of likes, guys! That's a first. :D

[@lunatick9792]

@@Saibellus You actually have a very valid point. And I apologise for using "pedophiles" as a way of referring to child abusers in general. But in my opinion you still can't really compare it. When it comes to the part where you act on your emotions, for a gay person it's absolutely okay. For a pedophile it's not. Biologically, it might not be so different, I have no idea how brain chemistry evolution works, but non-straights are totally normal people while pedophiles are in need of therapy (and I insist on that). By the way, I'm not saying people who are in therapy are somehow worse people or anything. I've been there and most of them were really great, but yeah. I hope I managed to bring my point across.

[@Saibellus]

@@lunatick9792 i do agree that there is a difference in that their attraction to kids can never be acted on, because obviously children cannot ever consent. my main point is that the "starting point" in the brain of where this attraction comes from really is basically the same as any human beings innate attraction and it really is similar to orientation. the desire to not be tarred with that brush is understandable, but ultimately comes from the same place of pathologizing the person themselves for their wiring. i would say the ACTING ON of these urges is the problem and that focusing on the idea that having these feelings at all as being the bad thing is misdirected and ultimately useless. socially i advocate for just accepting these people as just another variation in the human psychological spectrum who are unfortunately incapable of acting on their desires like other adults, and need help with ensuring that.

[@Samm1e]

@@Saibellus kid isn't am gender and sexuality is based on which gender you like.

[@Saibellus]

@@Samm1e who says, though? sexuality is defined in a lot of ways, and while gender plays a strong role in it there are lots of things affecting it besides that. not to delve too deeply into throwing around studies and whatever, but the things that trigger arousal in humans are extremely variable. personally id say if a man is, say, exclusively attracted to women in their sixties and up for e.g. then yes, they are straight, but ALSO isn't it more than that? they are incapable of attraction to a woman below a certain age. we colloquially call that a fetish, but what is a fetish if not a more specific sexuality than we are socially used to acknowledging?

[@Samm1e]

Saibellus when you get down to the nitty gritty, sexual orientation is based on gender or the lack thereof. CHILD isn’t gender which is why pedophila is a fetish, not a sexual orientation.

[@croatoan2229]

Tumblr be like " im the map im the MAP im the MAP"

[@aenjel8043]

SHDJKHJDS

[@ceebbees12345]

Dora fans on Tumblr are in for a surprise

[@hummingvoid7824]

Aaaaaand there goes my childhood.

[@goblinteeth8347]

That's wrong on SO MANY LEVELS

[@ghostfacezak]

Croatoan I LOVE YOU

[@LoverOfAllThingsCool]

This sounds super negative but, at some point we need to stop trying to make ourselves feel better about our flaws and actually try to fix them. Take me for example, I often hate myself for my inability to finish anything I start and my weight. I used to just be like everyone on Tumblr and was all "body positivity" and "love yourself for who you are" but the reality is, that was just me once again trying to be comfortable in my bad habits. I don't love myself, but I do like myself enough to want to be better. My weight is unhealthy, and so is my work ethic, I need to change, I CAN change, and so can everyone else. Self care 100% includes bettering yourself especially if that means seeking psychological help

[@Catglittercrafts]

NotATurkey agreed!!!

[@heartpng]

Yes so true. "Self-care" should be about loving yourself while also working to be a better person

[@LoverOfAllThingsCool]

I'm not sure either but the fact is attractions like those are unnatural and unhealthy so most if not all likely stem from a trauma during the developmental stage, once you find the root cause it seems logical that you could change your way of thinking with time and therapy doesn't it? Excluding pedophiles, I don't see how any other paraphilia is different than I don't know, liking taller guys, or preferring verbally abusive women. And if it really isn't possible to change that, you should at least strive to understand why it's unhealthy and steer away, find different, less harmful outlets

[@LoverOfAllThingsCool]

Why do you say that? I disagree because I see them as glorified fetishes but I'm always open to being proven wrong.

[@LoverOfAllThingsCool]

Leon Niehling wait... are you serious? You don't see ANYTHING wrong with pedophilia? You don't see ANYTHING wrong with being attracted to children? Okay then, there's nothing I can say to you

[@kasiaszymanska5057]

the fact they are making all of this a sexuality makes me disgusted.

[@Awesomeduud]

I know a guy who confessed to having attractions to little girls and he was so distraught and guilty about it. It was difficult for him to say it and he was doing it in my old church group. Props to him for admitting it and I do admire people who are aware it is wrong and work to stop it

[@Anumbris]

Thank God I don't live in a society where you are forced to feel ashamed and guilty for who you are. At least not to that degree.

[@Anumbris]

@@strawberrysana4497 Why? Just because society sees them as monsters?

[@strawberrysana4497]

Мартин Лютер No because abusing a child who probably doesn’t understand the concept of physical love yet is gross.

[@thr0wout795]

Мартин Лютер are you really pulling a “we live in a society” pedophiles give kids trauma for life and their stupid fucking boners had to destroy someone’s childhood and let them grow up with mental illness. don’t care if ur foreign or not u should understand this!:)

[@ellealine4159]

Girl - With - Luv i think most of them already feel ashamed and helping them is better than shaming them. Bc they're right about one thing - as long as they don't act on it they're not bad people. They need help but how in the world are they going to admit such a thing if everyone sees them as monsters?

[@abbymorrison3097]

You: I don't have any lipstick on my face Your lips: *Am i a joke to you?*

[@roslyn-rose124]

Could be a lip stain that's what I assumed

[@nabbyy8392]

Thanks edgy Velma.

[@mathildecolls]

Beautiful edgy Velma.

[@deadchannel9911]

Gorgeous, beautiful edgy Velma.

[@matthewperry1067]

Ruh roh raggy, I don't like where this is going

[@SjofnBM1989]

I feel like you meant this as an insult which is funny cus it isn't

[@PatronSilverWave]

SB W Pretty sure they was joking nigga

[@romywhite290]

A long time ago I wandered into NOMAP tumblr, and found a positivity blog. This one blog was more of a support group to keep MAPs non offending. Not positivity in the sense of "be proud of yourself" but more like "keep your head up, don't offend, make sure you get mental health treatment, if you offend you aren't welcome." Which is what the community SHOULD be. I also read an article a while back about people coming out as Pedophiles and the quest for mental health treatment. It was really moving.

[@EthalaRide]

4:45 the way I heard it (from shoe0nhead's video about maps/pedophobes) I think she explained it perfectly by saying "Sexuality is based on gender. 'Children' *isn't a gender.* [...] The relationship can't last! If the "aoa" is 2-7 and the kid you've been manipulating for years turns 8, What are you going to do?" It's definitely a fetish if anything.

[@hanjiackerman8677]

Don’t forget when she said: “Children grow up”

[@elcidbob]

Pedant time: It's a paraphilia. Fetishism is a different paraphilia. Paraphilia is the parent category.

[@hhasnohope8488]

Does anyone have the link to the video I want to watch it.

[@EthalaRide]

@@hhasnohope8488/watch?v=vux3-uFNtLw Her rebuttal so a response on her original MAP video /watch?v=mfEgDiRe7_I her original video

[@hhasnohope8488]

EthalaRide Thank you!

[@doingmybest5518]

I remember seeing a segment on the news about a man who lives a super normal live, as a MAP. He has kids and a wife he loves, he just happened to also be a MAP. So he told the police on himself, told his family, and his neighborhood. He explained he did it because he never intended to act on it, because he knows it was wrong, and wanted to run it by everyone in case those parents didnt want their kids around him and he said he'd understand. But he never acted on it, so the parents of the kids were mostly okay with them being around him unless they'd be alone with him so he did just that, made sure they'd never be alone with him, as the only reason they'd be over would be to have play dates with his kids, so there really wouldn't ever be a chance for the kids to be alone one on one with him anyways. The entire neighborhood was pretty much okay with him because he made the precautions to make sure the kids felt safe. He was investigated when he told the police on himself and no CP was found, nothing. Dude was clean. He said he knew it was wrong to feel this way, and refused to ever look at CP because he felt it might fuel his desire. That is the only MAP ive ever looked at and thought "poor guy" because i know he couldn't help it and he at least went the extra mile to put the kid's safety before his desires. I don't really feel sympathy for them, but that one guy was doing the right thing. The difference is he knew it was wrong, and did everything he could to prevent it. Last time i saw him in another article, dude is still going strong. I don't think they deserve sympathy, but every now and then stuff like that pops up and it really makes you think. Pedophiles are still bad tho dont get me wrong 100% dont support them i just thought the dude from the article was worth mentioning

[@Anon-rt3fx]

- miscellaneous things - that’s very unfortunate, whenever I hear these things I feel bad because he is so much better than the pedophiles who act on their “desires”. Hopefully a cure will come out one day because he doesn’t deserve to have to feel that way.

[@Anumbris]

Well that's a very strange person. Why would you do something like this?

[@stubberz4972]

Link to the article??

[@theplumscrub1627]

Мартин Лютер The man probably has a life and a moral compass.

[@theplumscrub1627]

- miscellaneous things - We shouldn’t support pedophiles by saying “it’s ok to do and think that” but we should support them to get help and better understanding of what their thoughts and actions mean.

[@RIBAYRO]

I'm a skeletonphile. I love people that are skeletons on the inside.

[@rainbowlack]

you pervert :OOOOO

[@frogonaburger]

**thinks** wAiT- KIDS HAVE SKELETONS INSIDE THEM AND BABIES DO TOO. :O

[@kittycoutourxxx2706]

a cute patootie so do plastic people with skeletons

[@kittycoutourxxx2706]

are you attracted to inanimate humans???

[@rezandrarizkyirianto-1933]

Study necromancy. You'll get the real meaning of being a skeletonphile. The Order of Necromancers are always recruiting new members. Don't trust the Mages Guild propaganda! I can guarantee you that joining the noble Order of Necromancers is one of the most fulfilling thing I did in my unlife (I'm an undead immortal lich, by the way. Benefits of joining the club!)

[@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594]

“Desire to eat feces” And I’m done eating my noodles now.

[@AlyonaDoar]

Someone likes maps.... Edit: posted this comment before watching the video, I meant the physical location maps behind her....

[@VG_Gamarh]

Mega oof

[@AshenSpark]

Oof

[@ceebbees12345]

Tbh, i was thinking that in a previous video I saw. It's hilarious that you would post it here XD

[@boldanabrasevic3020]

Big oopsie, Alyona, big oopsie

[@peterparkersass]

"Inflation? I don't know what that means." Oh shes so lucky

[@communisttrash8590]

What is inflation

[@emilya3552]

Do i know what this is? No. Am I going to google it knowing I shouldnt? Most likely.

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

@Alexis Eronmwon I relate so hard to this comment right now. Oof. I have been avoiding DeviantArt lately, to spare my poor eyes. lol

[@ahhh8147]

I’m not googling it please inform me wtf it is

[@iworshipgaysandsatan6822]

Baby I think basically it’s when the belly inflates to either an abnormal size (and this is sexually gratifying to people?) or to the size of a pregnant woman? I think it’s fetishising the idea of growing something inside of you and the appearance of an inflated bump in the belly. I’ve seen people like pump air into their assholes and shit, people really out here trying to be fucking balloons

[@judahosborne8868]

"My age of attraction is zErO to SeVEn"

[@מעין-צ9ג]

Fresh out of the womb

[@FirstnameLastname-gb4ww]

Fucking spawn camper

[@lisamartin9831]

@@FirstnameLastname-gb4ww Omg I laughed but then I felt guilty

[@samt3412]

@@lisamartin9831 I don't fault you that's just internet humor

[@69_natalia_420]

Thats their iq 0 to 7 not 8 never 8.

[@TheAyanamiRei]

I thought "Oh just some necro, should be interestingly terrible" Me LITERALLY 1.5 minutes into the video: "OH GOD!! WHAT IS ALL THIS?! THIS IS NOT WHAT I SIGNED UP FOR!! I HAVE MADE A SERIOUS MISTAKE!!"

[@tawnyZOMBY]

the thing is, NOMAPs don't act on their desires because it's 'illegal,' not because they think it's wrong and not because they think minors can't give consent. these 'paraphiliacs' do need therapy, 100%

[@Max-vl5nh]

tawny. Not always true. Yes, most pedophiles only refuse to touch kids because it’s illegal, but some wouldn’t do it either way out of guilt. They do need therapy, yes, but saying that they ALL want to touch children and would if it wasn’t illegal is a generalization

[@thr0wout795]

Max max sweetie, don’t lie

[@Nimbithefallen5326]

Max Definitely not true, if you were allowed to touch and mess around with what you like you would.

[@Max-vl5nh]

Sky The Angel :3 Psychology says otherwise.

[@Nimbithefallen5326]

Max How? I’m pretty sure there would be no reason for you to put restrictions on yourself if you were 100% allowed to date the person you couldn’t date, or eat the food your parents said was bad for you, or anything like that. Psychology is a lot of things, but temptations are a studied part of it.I’m pretty sure it would explain why many, MANY of them kidnapped, raped, and killed thousands upon thousands of kids. Also groomed them, talked inappropriately to kids, and threatened their parents. Saying “I’m gay but I don’t act on it, I don’t like guys/girls sexually, I understand that it makes people uncomfortable” when it’s _perfectly fine_ makes no sense. If you can act on it, why wouldn’t you? It shouldn’t even be allowed for kids to give adults consent on romantic/sexual actions. Also, if they believe it’s wrong to go past a certain point (kissing, intimacy, etc) then they shouldn’t be pursuing kids.

[@woah__lia]

“Maps deserve to feel safe” Yeah well so do kids

[@gibbonplays6111]

Maps dont deserve to be in peace,they deserve to rest in peace

[@1tylerq127]

None of us deserve to feel entirely safe, we feel too safe as people as it is and I feel like it stagnates us as people to an extent. Not really talking about the real trauma kids who actually deal with actual pedophilia rather than just the idea of non-offending pedophiles existing in real life and online. Oh no, the horror of knowing that you're part of a demographic that could possibly be targeted by a rapist or murderer, or basically all women, children, minorities, straight white males, anyone who drinks in a bar, people who go to a school, movie theater, or anywhere other gathering in which mass shootings happen, people using Uber or public transportation, people who have to pass through a dark alley or disreputable neighborhood to get home, Catholic (the thing about priests and kids had to come from somewhere), someone of a religious belief system that isn't tolerated where you live, or just, y'know, a person who exists on this bitch of an Earth.

[@mischa2643]

Maps deserve to be kept in a light-fast, air-tight conservation case and taken out on a yearly basis for maintenance! Same goes for the MAPs. Keep them in the airtight case, and dump the slop out in a year (or when the gases from decomp blow the lid off ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ )

[@1tylerq127]

@@mischa2643 Anyone in support of such treatment of another human being deserves the same punishment they perscribe.

[@mischa2643]

meanderingNekomata~ eh maybe I’m just a miserable bitter person who deserves whatever I’ve got coming to me after spending the last 20+ years watching the men who repeatedly raped me when I was a child go unpunished and even lauded in our community. Who can say?

[@prettybigpengus]

8:42 _oh god they put us asexuals on the same plane as that thing-_ _dISGUSTANG_

[@nicholasharvey4393]

Not My Austria Furthermore, 'necroromantic' makes even less sense than 'necrophiliac': you can't date a corpse even if you can (disgustingly) have sex with it.

[@ArturGlass.C]

I was thinking that.

[@Sirvaria]

@420Praiseit Gitgudneosucksasstoo r/unexpectedjojo

[@prettybigpengus]

@@Sirvaria is that actually a subreddit omf

[@Sirvaria]

@@prettybigpengus unsurprisingly yes

[@spookiestking9353]

"Nercroromantic Asexual" Me, an asexual: NONONONO Keep that out of our small, damaged community

[@Chicagocanine]

I don’t understand how someone can be romantically attracted to a corpse. Necrophilia and any other things where people are attracted to those who can’t consent is really disturbing.

[@SkunkfapGaming]

Chicago Canine trust me, we don't either

[@rencogu2877]

i think we can blame every supernatural romance book for this one

[@dand1253]

There are people who can anthropomorphize the Eiffel Tower to the point of considering it their boyfriend. Anthropomorphizing something with a human face makes perfect (crazy person) sense in light of that.

[@marielambert4107]

Chicago Canine It‘s probably exactly the fact that corpses can‘t consent that is so appealing to necrophiliacs. As in: „Hey, a corpse will never laugh at me when I try to have sex with them“ or something like that.

[@pheurangtchi9754]

*Marie Lambert* Or "it will never leave you" or "say no". That's an excuse even zoophiles use.

[@wildsycamorepoetry6583]

There's a slightly lesser known tumblr subculture I'm wondering if you'd look on called tradfems. It stands for traditional femininity, and they are women who promote traditional gender roles. At first scrolling trough their blogs, they seem kinda wholesome and innocent, but after looking for a while you'll find that they are very homophobic and many of them think that no women should work or vote, women shouldn't be educated, and just generally hold incredibly misogynistic views. Some blogs like this are @princessbellle, @traditional-femininity, and @feminine-godessess

[@wildsycamorepoetry6583]

if you want to find the worst of tradfems, search "lesbian" on @princessbellle's blog

[@wow6787]

wildsycamore poetry i dindt find her blog ://

[@rachelprojects7590]

this sounds super interesting i hope she does a video on it

[@andrealopez4361]

ughhhh you totally forgot about the fucking rape and incest support blogs you can usually find them in the same blogs that support DDLG anyway.... I guess people just have many ways of coping with their life and tumblr is literally the only social media that would put up with that.

[@emilyelkins6944]

I was down with traditional femininity until homophobia and like lack of rights came in. I just like the ideal if the wife staying home and cleaning while the dad works but like I still wanna vote and I love me some gays lol

[@rileyprice2053]

Last year I dated a dude who was a necrophiliac. I didn’t know he was one and I just thought he was joking when he talked about killing me and fucking my dead body because he had a dark sense of humor and I liked that. 2 months later he started getting creepier and talking about fucking dead girls ALL THE TIME, I finally broke up with him and I’m glad I did and wish I would’ve realized how messed up he was before I dated him.

[@frogofalltime]

Did you date Ted Bundy? 😂

[@garbagereviews3236]

@@frogofalltime ewwww emojia

[@GlamStacheessnostalgialounge]

I really hope you called the cops and got a restraining order against the sick fuck.

[@Flevir]

I hope the guy gets some therapy. I'd hate to see his desires actualized. And hey, with the advent of sex robots, maybe that will be close enough to what he wants that he can both obtain the sexual gratification he wants and not hurt anyone.

[@bloodymoron8819]

_My age of attraction starts when the sperm cell enters the egg cell up to about 7 months._

[@unfortunateanchor1717]

Onision is that you?

[@IBL15]

@@unfortunateanchor1717 i think it’s Shane Dawson

[@joy2367]

"idk what inflation is" sister i wish i was u

[@xxctsxhtlnxx]

😂😂😂 Honestly same

[@xxctsxhtlnxx]

@I so wanna die its when people have kinks for characters either obese (600-700lbs) or literally inflated like a balloon

[@xxctsxhtlnxx]

@I so wanna die oh god I just looked that up and I want to die

[@nd5175]

exodus ...we are not talking about the economics, are we?

[@heva2996]

@mona m. sexual arousal from touching (or whatever they do) shit. Basically 2girls1cup........

[@PhoenixDemon94]

i have one rule for Tumblr. only follow friends, artists, and comedy blogs. anything past that i'm honestly scared to search for

[@sootlet8894]

yeah... I've been on Tumblr for several years and that's p much my strategy to avoid the fucked up side of Tumblr. And if someone starts posting... questionable... things... just immediately unfollow before it gets worse.

[@skeletoninyourbody9896]

It's like an ocean, you never know what there might be the deeper you dive in. I keep within the same circles as well; art, photography, fanfictions, fan accounts.. Other than that is a big nah

[@afiamahmood1313]

The not wrong NSFW blogs are also pretty good.

[@FragrenceAtMiracleEd]

as a gay person kinda involved in BDSM there is a HUGE difference. Namely, with orientation, as you say, there is love and feelings of warmth. I would phrase it as with an orientation it's subjectifying. You love that PERSON, woth kink and fetishism it's objectifying: you love getting off to that THING.

[@kiwifarmsdotnet]

Lovy, i keep my bitch in a cage nigga

[@FragrenceAtMiracleEd]

What are you trying to say? You can love somebody AND keep them in a cage if it's consentual and properly handled

[@dutchik5107]

As a bisexual switch (really depends on the person I am with what I am) I fully agree with that. It is completely different. Luckily. But like bdsm is also more in love. In the way it is impossible to without love and trust. It is when you also love tht person I feel like with a lot of those paraphilia shit. There is no love at all involved. Not even talking about the consent. Even tho it sometimes seems like there is no consent. If there is none in bdsm we just call that an abusive relationship.

[@cidevant002]

Kinks and love are not mutually exclusive terms :/ I wish more people would understand that, even on the LGBT community, because it was first the gay community the one to give shape to the BDSM one and is sad so many act as if kink can only be a purely sexual thing. If that is for you, awesome, but kink can also be emotionally satisfying, loving and caring. Fetishization IS inherently objetifying, though, so you are right on that. Someone that use you for their fetish doesn't see you as a person, just as a mean for an end.

[@FragrenceAtMiracleEd]

Candy Von Bitter I don't try to argue that kinky relationships can be without love, but it's the person you love and while the kink can be a deal breaker for if the relationship works it's still the person you love. That can be platonic love too btw as you don't need a romantic relationship to be in a kinky relationship but you do need to care for one another to a veritable extent so it not become toxic (which, contrary to popular belief, most BDSM relationships aren't) Fetishization would be a proper name for pedo and necrophilia, as well as that attraction-thing to murderers, because it's the category the person is attracted to, not an individual. Just as I am attracted to the power dynamics in sex. It's like comparing the terms self-image and self-esteem in psychology: they're largely the same but differ slightly in important ways.

[@bluessbelles]

“My age of attraction is 0-7” FBI OPEN UP

[@the_viriathus5719]

I kinda feel bad for necrophiliacs. I mean, that industrial freezer is gonna crank their electric bills up a lot

[@hearteatrs]

😳

[@sotsu618]

“My age of attraction is 0-7” I currently have 911 on speed dial do you wanna go further Edit: also, adding this, many of the things in here is NOT like homosexuality/same sex relationships. Adults can consent, however, animals, children, and corpses cannot. That makes a huge difference.. Edit 2: another thing, there is a difference between just saying you’re one of these things, and actually going out and having sex with/doing said things

[@lisamartin9831]

I don't understand how we still have to explain how consent is what makes it ok...

[@PmpknHead]

Adults under influence also cannot consent

[@thelanktheist2626]

@@PmpknHead Neither can sleeping people.

[@beckfry5374]

From what I understand the term MAP was actually created by medical professionals trying to destigmatize the treatment of such instincts. I do think it is important to point out and encourage people to seek treatment for such to prevent them from hurting children. Anyone who hurts a child deserves to be in jail for life, but if we could stop things before things get to that point it would help so many more children to begin with. Putting someone in jail after the trauma doesn't undo it, preventing it through therapy for "MAPs" with monitoring from professionals who could alert the authorities or take other measures to prevent such people from being a danger to others might.

[@rocioperez8321]

It's honestly depressing that proud pedos took hold of the term. Non offending pedophiles deserve help, deserve to be seen as people too, but instead they're usually grouped in with the criminals that act upon their illnesses. Criminals deserve to be shamed, 100%, but my heart goes out to those who recognize they're ill and are afraid of speaking out because of the stigma

[@taylormanes8113]

what upsets me is the fact that a lot of the time the people crusading against pedophiles are young people who have been abused by pedophiles themselves. so I feel like its kind of ridiculous for these people to be mad about abused young people who are upset about pedophiles looking for solidarity and positivity.

[@lilguyonhiswaytothemall]

I disagree, most people I talk to are disgusted by pedophiles, I mean go up to any parent and ask what they feel about pedophilia and you'll see the most angry responses.

[@taylormanes8113]

i don't disagree with that, but i'm talking about kids on tumblr who dedicate a lot of their time to posting anti-pedophile stuff. i feel like even though the average joe on the street is disgusted by pedophilia, most people aren't gonna go out of their way to be posting about it unless there's something big in the media.

[@poddopetals]

Yessssss! You understand! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!

[@livxsara]

This, thank you!

[@squashedshibber2684]

Pedos are degenerates, everyone hates them which makes me have hope in humanity.

[@TeamClusterTruck]

9:32 Can we address the fact that the Happy Sugar Life girl (Satou Matsuzaka, a murderer who kidnapped a small child who she keeps locked in her apartment) got categorized as non-offending?

[@LunaRyuugamine]

Maybe because she didn't sexually touch the child? She's still awful, though.

[@cutecommie]

All of these "your fave is [something]" blogs are evil.

[@Garousimp]

Wait what

[@haleyselene]

Oh god kidnapping counts tho why Tumblr why

[@tailsthedarkking838]

*Being in the animation community, seeing MAP in this video confused me at first.*

[@honeywoffl1665]

Mood

[@J_productionss]

Fr

[@julietf3360]

Same I was like “what’s wrong with Multi Animator Projects? Are there people who want to MARRY Multi Animator Projects??”

[@erinboorstein7141]

:o I saw ur subbed to spooky! Also yea I thought the same thing

[@JohnDoe-wf7sx]

goes to calarts

[@Starstruck_Seven]

"I don't know any pedophiles" Greg: *angry onion noises*

[@Pineapplesnakes]

You are so blessed for not knowing what inflation is

[@diamondheart1580]

What is it

[@user-ez9sp5wr3z]

Sht thats not good

[@danielsasser3988]

On today's episode of 'Kids and Google' : Littlr Suzy and Timmy's wholesome childhood ends

[@cryptica4495]

Diamond Heart Go check deviantart for me real quick and come back

[@bisexualantigone]

Inflation fetish isn't so bad if ya keep it closeted guys fjwjjw. But maps? Nah.

[@brandeningram5274]

You can have a relationship with a corpse. It just won't last long.

[@alannahcrawford9351]

Tell that to Dr. Carl Tanzler

[@Dgero]

Then it would just be a relationship with calcium

[@lupingreeny1834]

"May death do us part" ........ "Oh right, it's a corpse... Welp time to burry it back I guess" . . . (please, I know I sound desperate but if you see this add it to #cursedcomments)

[@estromberg5153]

There's always formalin

[@YuubiTimberwolf]

"MAP" is a madeup term and destroys the true, acual meaning "Multi-Animator-Project", a term that exists since the beginning of animation on YT and other video hosting platforms and is used by wonderful and fantastic artists for thier work. I despise that so fucking much!

[@ellypaws]

The term MAP was published in DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) and the first book was originally published in 1952. It's not a made-up term.

[@gamzee3610]

This is cartography erasure and I will not stand for it.

[@iitimaii8011]

I only knew MEPs so far. Gonna go check out maps now thanks!

[@markbradley5320]

@@ellypaws did u google that just to feel smart ?

[@kodaskii5042]

@@ellypaws You do realize that the DSM has gone through multiple iterations right. Also that Cartography has existed since humans started traveling. Oh, and PS - MAP was added to the DSM-5 back in 2013 and had been mainly talked about in 2011, so yes, Multi Animator Projects are far older.

[@aoife8977]

It's times like these that I'm glad to be asexual to be honest

[@PmpknHead]

Same

[@kity1081]

preach

[@depthperception1550]

“All types of love deserve respect!” Me (Asexual homoromantic): YES THAT IS GOOD YAYYYY Post: :) Me: oh god Post: necrophilia and pedophilia are ok! Me: no stop no

[@sambibambi5409]

Depth Perception jfc just say Gay

[@mytasteinmusicisyourface3020]

@@sambibambi5409 no, they dont identify as gay, so why would they call themselves gay?

[@4st7lb96]

MyTasteInMusicIsYourFace ur username is literally from a tøp song u shouldn’t have an opinion nos da xx

[@trashedeggnog3858]

@@sambibambi5409 a romatically relationship does not need sex to sustain it let them be

[@Brynwyn123]

@@sambibambi5409 most ace people aren't sex negative, they just don't experience sexual attraction. Hell, half of them still have sex for other reasons. People are complex and their labels aren't harming you, stop getting so offended.

[@YaBoiMeatBallze]

*W h a t i n t h e g o d d a m n*

[@zoey2344]

I don’t know why, but I absolutely adore this comment

[@marilujang6945]

I found a tag called raceplay on tumblr and it’s basically fetishizing races. Maybe you could review that for the next episode? (There are a lot of racial slurs so)

[@horae2583]

honestly im not sure that it would be her place to explore as a white woman? just like a cis oerson probs shouldnt be exploring trans fetishization, a het shouldnt be exploring gay fetishization, etc.

[@gretablackwell495]

Yeah that shit’s disgusting in every way

[@hawkscratch]

*professionalcryptid* Her race doesn't make her opinion any less valid than a black person or an Asian person or a Native-American person. Anyone with a clear head and sound mind can recognize racism in an environment.

[@ZZRose-xk9ss]

WHAT THE HELL

[@chocolattemocha8512]

THERE'S *_W H A T?!_*

[@guyofminimalimportance7]

"I'm inclined to think (pedophilia) is a fetish" I mean even then that's kind of unfair to people with fetishes.

[@clareswanson8744]

Paraphilia and regular consensual fetishes are very different

[@schlongersaurus]

Nice maps Edit: THE MAPS ON THE WALLS

[@claire-xq2ys]

this. has. me. rOLLING LMAOOO 😂 😂😂

[@axel_the_battle_axe5273]

As a trans guy, I found out I was trans from a very traumatic experience. As do a handful of trans people. The trans minor fetish bit is so so so icky especially. That’s so so so so wrong

[@ethangames4889]

*cough cough* clapdaddie *cough cough*

[@eee-xd5bo]

THERES A TRANS MINOR FETISH

[@eee-xd5bo]

I"M NOT THAT FAR INTO THE VIDEO SO DON'T LAUGH BUT WTF

[@shrikesvalley4272]

.... TRANS MINOR FETISH? oh for fucks sake.... (im a trans minor not a transphobe)

[@hi-rh9cq]

Ikr-

[@masterplusmargarita]

10:06 - So, the anime girl labelled "nomap of the day" caught my attention. Because I am a filthy weeb, I happen to have seen the show "Happy Sugar Life" (it's an awful edgefest, don't watch it) and know who Satou Matsuzaka, the "nomap of the day", is. She is a high-school girl who kidnaps a little 5-year old girl off the street, convinces both her and herself that they're in romantic love, and proceeds to murder several people so that she can keep this girl for herself. The show ends with her setting fire to her entire apartment building and jumping off its roof with the little girl. The fact that the "map" community is willing to make a character who is so clearly evil a sort of representative of them, even if just for a day, is both really disturbing and sort of appropriate.

[@pouffling7649]

5:00 Pedophilia shouldn't be classified as either because fetishes and sexuality are about consent

[@leavemelonely1264]

if you think in any capacity that being attracted to a minor, sexually or otherwise, as an adult is okay, you need professional help. you cannot be romantically involved with a child. you cannot love a child as a romantic partner and that can’t love you that way either

[@jklroxmysox111]

Well that’s the difference between an offender and a non-acting MAP

[@youngroyalty7991]

"MAPs Deserve to feel safe" NOT ON MY WATCH

[@ikethethotslayercertifiedw5782]

They're right though. Multi-animator projects deserve not to be flooded with trolls asking for parts.

[@emmarector3084]

Everyone deserves to feel safe, even if they are a bad person. I can't stand MAPS, but you should still treat them like humans.

[@confusedaf1112]

Pedophilia is a mental illness. I think what we should do is give them therapy; if they harm a kid, lock em up.

[@woagnya]

Your Neighborhood Friendly Bernkastel/Mariuteau Yes. This.

[@nederlandsemuziek9151]

Young Royalty so true

[@dragonsarecool9368]

Me, an aroace: *sees the necroromantic asexual thing* Me: *visibly dying*

[@Aron-ru5zk]

Da Artist Person that’s what they want you to do...

[@reigenarataka5589]

me, a homoromantic ace: *also visibly dying*

[@thisisabcoates]

Me, a semi/heteroromantic asexual: *buys chainsaw*

[@eee-xd5bo]

I FELT THAT

[@elin4364]

I gotta say sometimes when I see people talking about these map types they get really weird about it. Like I agree that if someone rapes a child they should be locked up for a long time, but I get really uncomfortable when people start talking about killing / forcing people to do stuff ect just for having some specific thoughts / feelings. Something about doing things to people who have done absolutely nothing wrong just goes against some of my core beliefs. Its like people forget that they're people too.

[@ItsAsparageese]

Accurate. It's thought policing, helps no one, and just begins a dangerous slippery slope. People who act and cause harms are a different story, but persecuting people for specific mental disorders to the point where they can't even seek help is how we end up with mass shooters and other disastrous outcomes.

[@lou7408]

idk man but something about a grown ass man looking at a child and thinkin "i wanna hit that" also goes against some of my core beliefs.

[@user-it7wd4qk9w]

Fr like surely we know by now that if your made to bottle up all your thoughts and feelings ur bound to snap. And like if the only (wanted) options end in death, why would a pedophile want to be killed for “thought crimes”? Like if the sentence for thinking about shoplifting is the same as shoplifting a computer, obviously if you’re thinking about shoplifting, you’re going to shoplift the computer and try not to get caught. Like if you make it so thinking and actually doing the extremes have the same consequences and you can’t get any help obviously ur going to go out in the most extreme way??? Like if you can’t get help it’s gonna progress?? I think anyways, it makes sense to me. Thinking/talking about it I mean.

[@sagevb3246]

I constantly live in fear of saying paraphilia instead of paraphanilia

[@psychedelicfeline6164]

Paraphilia disorders are listed in the DSM-5, and are psychiatric illnesses (there are symptoms that must be met of course.) I'm surprised that wasn't mentioned. I learned a lot, maybe too much, in my sexuality studies at Humboldt State. Just wanted to put that out there, as it wasn't mentioned in the video. Interesting stuff though.

[@maisiet3084]

you should do a video on the super duper traditional women/men of tumblr who genuinely think all women should just stay at home and look after kids etc, it’s actually hilarious

[@lateybird]

From someone who has struggled with this kind of stuff in the past, having something so disgusting and out of your control is isolating and depressing. Especially when you feel like its too embarrassing to get help. I don't feel like there should be a community for these things because they are all extremely anti recovery, but if its a safe space discussing intrusive thoughts and getting support it is not a bad thing. To anyone struggling with this, there is help, you can get better.

[@a.d.r.m.7730]

Society: *Why can't you just be normal?????* Tumblr: *Aaaahssudhjrnd*

[@toomiesyndrome4838]

this has me screaming and i have no idea why

[@JohnDoe-wf7sx]

ya

[@lolaepona9491]

Lmao fuckin bobadook.

[@swampy7943]

The difference, to me, is CONSENT. You can do whatever the hell you want, define it as a fetish, attraction, I don't care- IF YOU'RE NOT HURTING ANYBODY. Kids can't consent, and I won't get into corpses. Whatever you feel (and I do believe there should definitely be help made available to people struggling from disorders such as paedophilia), the moment you harm somebody- that's when society should start caring about what you're doing.

[@VampiraVonGhoulscout]

Dude I think you stumbled on the Tumblr version of the Dark Web.

[@etchasketch1602]

Relationship = TWO OR MORE people CONSENTING to be with each other, of their own volition, all parties willingly being with each other. CHILDREN. CANNOT. CONSENT DEAD BODIES. CANNOT. CONSENT ANIMALS. CANNOT. CONSENT

[@eloujtimereaver4504]

Okay, but what about parasocial relationships where one party is totally unaware of the other, like, you know, all of celebrity culture? You are proclaiming that being attracted to a celebrity who does not, and never will know you, is wrong.

[@etchasketch1602]

@@eloujtimereaver4504 I'm not, bc those people aren't in a relationship with the celebrity. They might like them or fancy them, but they aren't dating them. They aren't in a relationship because the celebrity didn't consent to be.

[@etchasketch1602]

@@eloujtimereaver4504 what I was saying is that you can't have a relationship with children animal or dead bodies because the other party did it agree to that relationship. People find celebrities attractive, but no one is forcing the celeb to date a fan. They enter relationships with their own consent and agreement to be there. Children, animals or dead bodies cannot give that agreement.

[@eloujtimereaver4504]

​@@etchasketch1602 I am under the impression that most people who fancy dead people, or animals, or children, are also just partaking in a parasocial relationship, there are people who commit crimes, but it is likely at the same rate as dangerous celebrity stalkers, significantly less than a percentage of the demographic. The blogs reviewed are referring to an attraction, not active relationships. Wide swathes of the population claim to be tree huggers, very few of them have ever forced themselves on a tree. My point is that your definition of relationship is inaccurate. There are many many one sided relationships.

[@minaashido4643]

@@eloujtimereaver4504 they aren’t relationships, they’re fantasies

[@blakethememe3840]

New name for the video: "'Romantically attracted to corpses' and other phrases I never expected to see."

[@lyorleeds8745]

IMO, pedophilia isn't an orientation bc sexual orientation is usually about gender, and that... isn't

[@jojibot9193]

Lyor Leeds 200 IQ