I Had A Baby At 37 Years Old | @Jouelzy

[@jouelzy]

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[@Julie-qr9ow]

Congrats on your baby Joulzey! My mother had me when she was 37!

[@chinkydiamond]

Congratulations! I got married at 38 first child 39, second child 41. My sister married at 40 first child 41 second 43! We are raising our kids size by side and I wouldn't have it any other way! Our parents were starting to wonder if they'd ever get grandkids and they got 4 in two years!

[@jamiecare1042]

Sounds like me and my sister. She’s pregnant for the first time at 37 and god willing I will be able to conceive with IVF soon at 40. Our partners came into our lives late 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@goddessaset]

CONGRATULATIONS!! Many blessings

[@chinkydiamond]

@@jamiecare1042 Wishing you all the success with your IVF journey. Yes, definitely kissed a couple of frogs before I found my prince at 35. By the time I met my hubby I was so grounded in myself and my worth, he had to put in work!

[@chinkydiamond]

@@goddessaset thank you!

[@AppleBloom21]

Oh wow thank you this is so inspiring I was starting to feel down I’m 31 and haven’t met mr.right but I’m not having kids just to have kids. Congratulations to you and your sister

[@kehindeemiabata4032]

I had a baby at 39 yrs old , he was 6 weeks premature and weighed only 3pound10. He is now 17 yrs old and 6ft 5 inches and studying A levels.

[@jumokeonifade85]

Lovely, 🙋🏾‍♀️from the uk ❤

[@heatherhernandez9139]

Was it challenging to be a “older” mom? What were they?

[@kehindeemiabata4032]

@heatherhernandez9139 Not for me it wasn't.. ... enjoyed every moment and still do.

[@ktw70]

Having a baby at 37 is very normal. There are people who give birth well into their 40s. Congrats, mama!

[@ayak6317]

Honestly I’m so confused, it’s not like she’s 47 lol

[@Oh_Nana1990]

Right. Like I’m confused 😂

[@frequencyreached]

Having your first child after 35 is kinda a big deal medically. It’s considered “geriatric pregnancy “. If you had a child when you are younger it is easier to have a child after 35 because your body already knows how to carry and birth a child as opposed to an older woman that has never done so.

[@queenprincess4life]

@@frequencyreached not an issue for most black wombman

[@Candaceee246]

@@queenprincess4life that’s not true many black women have complications

[@quitaphillips]

As a woman in her early 30s who isn't quite ready to be pregnant but recently realized wants to be a mom, I appreciate all the women sharing in the comments.

[@breacarrington4683]

Girl me too! I’m 30 and just not ready yet. Me and my husband have an great support system, our own home, and are thriving in our careers but I just want to hold off a little longer.

[@dammygold4138]

Thank you guys for sharing 🥰

[@kel6357]

Babes, if you can freeze your eggs and take your time. If you haven't, just speak w your gyno about your hormone levels that give you the quality of your eggs, etc.

[@pinkhappynesslady5331]

@Kel Will this just give information about the hormone levels; and can the hormone levels be enhanced? I'm 31 but cannot afford freezing my eggs

[@tamaraslay]

SAME🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LiaTheLight]

Preserve your baby’s privacy as long as you need to!

[@iwasbrithen6294]

I went my whole pregnancy protecting my baby. I waited til the last minute to tell people I considered bloodsuckers.. they didn’t get a due date, a gender, NOTHING! Not even a name until I brought her home! BEST DECISION! 🧡💯

[@honeylemon2372]

Heck, until 18 years old even lol

[@Myaccount923]

@@iwasbrithen6294 literally same thing I’m gonna do lol ♥️

[@iwasbrithen6294]

@@Myaccount923 yes! I enjoyed my pregnancy because of it!

[@OOoKarmaoOO]

Yes a lot of these babies growing up in front of the camera ain't doing well

[@Camille4Real]

Awww! Congratulations! I became a Mommy at 35, and now I'm "baking" our second at 40 😊.

[@ladiepink]

Y’all give me so much hope!!!! Congratulations!!! I’m 36 n single

[@liastorm795]

Congratulations 🎉

[@Mimi8402]

Congratulations! How is it going so far? Is it really as tough as they say it is when you’re 40?

[@Camille4Real]

@@Mimi8402 it was tougher to conceive the second baby. Other than that, it's going great!

[@delle3955]

Congratulations 🎉

[@daviah.7136]

As a teenager, everything you stood for was so influential to me. This literally feels like your big sis or cool aunt having a baby. I'm over the moon for you

[@perfectionreleased2113]

I second this!

[@JayySanders1]

Same!

[@dorwashere]

same!

[@PatriciaPatricia_]

Hearing you say "I am living the life I have always wanted to live" put a smile on my face because it's not a sentiment I hear from black women often. You are deserving and worthy of living your birthright and getting to witness it, albeit parasocial-ly, is a testament of its tangibility. Community is absolutely paramount to survival and the way you've been intentional about making it a part of your birthing process and motherhood journey and overall LIFE is both beautiful and IMPORTANT. Thank you for sharing this bit of your life with us and CONGRATULATIONS on your new blessing!!!!!!!!

[@lovechild69]

Girl I had a baby at 37 yrs old too…and now she is 16 yrs old. Congrats!

[@1hinita]

yall are an inspiration. i keep seeing so much about having babies late and i get it but a part me thinks its sexist when folks swear hving babies after your "prime" is a bad choice. i want to be prepared, and i feel that will happen when im financial settled and mentally prepared; whether i have one or adopt. much love.

[@lovechild69]

You will forever look younger than all your kid friends younger Moms. They are always shocked when they say your Mom is how old? Your baby is a blessing that will keep you forever young.

[@justthinkppl3647]

Had my Baby at 37, he’s 21! I’ll be 58 this year!! Dad was 42!!

[@jacquelynn2051]

@Bigheartoneggshells Get genetic testing if after 35 or just luck up with good paired older parents. My parents had me at almost 40 and I’m a self proclaimed thoughtful genius. Also keep in mind that they love to age women as if old sperm isn’t a thing. Just be healthy and reasonable for the decisions you make for YOUR circumstances. My parents even had 4 before me..yet I’m my paternal grandparents namesake so when my siblings get out of order you know what I tell them: Mom and Dad saved the best for last. I know..rude 😂 Congratulations on your baby Jouelzy! You waited and I know this child is blessed!❤

[@Laura-sg6ss]

Ooo!! 😋

[@LilLeezy]

I just had a baby at 37 myself. My baby girl is 5 months old. So glad I waited until my late 30s to embark on this parenthood journey. I love every minute of motherhood! ❤❤❤

[@SeattleMama24]

@LiLeezy I’m 40 years old and also 38 weeks preggo 😆 my first child is 3 years old already. Like you, i’m glad I waited late. My 20s and 30s was full of so much freedom and exploration, I am contently settled in Motherhood and feeling so grateful to have experienced both sides 🥰

[@urArchitect]

I love hearing these stories! I would love to see more Black-Woman led content describing this specific experience. Thanks for sharing!

[@kittensmitten3287]

@@SeattleMama24 this is beautiful. I'm 33 and about to prepare for a child with my husband and I was concerned because, well 30s. I take pretty good care of myself but you know the stigma with age. So silly. Congratulations to you all!

[@cheetopuff99_]

@@SeattleMama24y’all’s experience is so refreshing to hear. There’s still so much I want to do before becoming a mother. There’s no rush . Congrats to yall🎉

[@aneshiadarling]

​@Kitten Smitten 33 is a baby in the grandeur scheme of things. I'm 36, my kids be like I'm old...I'm like if you only know! Ppl are living til 60s, 70s, 80s and older. It's not guaranteed but nothing is. I had my kids in my 20s but I wish I would have been in my 30s and had lived more. I'm so much more at peace and wiser now!

[@maloneaqua]

My mother was in her 30s and married to my dad for 10 years before she had me - and as a religious, southern Mississippi woman, she was considered very late/old. Yet I had a better upbringing than all of my cousins. A consistent family home (not an apartment), good schools, safer neighborhood. Few black children of the crack boom can attest to having as good of a childhood as I did

[@lakendracollier5099]

Amen!

[@danielledonald9192]

❤

[@diwi5823]

It's weird that bw have babies so young that everything else (normal ages) seem old. I looked at stats from that era and Japanese and ww weren't having their FIRST child until about 30 and up

[@avonnehuggins2122]

@@diwi5823 in the south it's very normal for any woman to have a child at an early age.

[@diwi5823]

@Avonne Huggins The stats were inclusive of the whole US and definitely included the south, north, etc comparative to other parts of the world. They get census and statistic info like that from multiple places like women applying for their baby's birth certificate, hospital vaccinations, getting prenatal care, etc. (Also, I am from the South and a bw for reference). I didn't need the stats, but I looked at them anyway. You can do the same. Bw were the only demographic pumping out babies in the majority of early 20s out of ALL. We can use this info to be defensive or better informed..

[@tayzonday]

Woohoo! Congrats! 👶🐣

[@gregd73]

you still around? chocolate rain!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@EvaElyse]

@@gregd73😂😂😂

[@melindanicoleee]

@@gregd73😂😂😂😂😂

[@syds8752]

@@gregd73 plssssss

[@Megamonkeyboy09]

Ooooooh shit the legend😂🔥

[@regancudjoe1184]

Congratulations!! 🎉 I had my baby at 38. I kept my whole pregnancy off the internet because I wanted to protect my peace. You don't owe us anything!

[@Yayanikki]

I did the same ❤

[@shopece8807]

Late 30's pregnancies are so normal to me. BUT I've also been exposed to a lot of women having their first babies between 35-39 (many of them with little to no complications). More than a few in their 40's. Congrats to you Jouelzy!

[@T.H-v4h]

the better you take care of yourself the less risk you will have. a lot of women who put off having kids until they are older are usually college educated and understand the importance of health.

[@Eveningbreeze721]

Same. 37 seems pretty normal to me.

[@BluDrop5]

My OB/GYN's nurse had twins at 47.

[@shopece8807]

oop didn't know I had replies to my reply lol. Hey ya'll!

[@shopece8807]

@@BluDrop5 my endocrinologist had her 2 kids at 40 and almost 43 respectively...she actually got an IUD so she wouldn't have more lol.

[@ItsDeniseRenee]

Congratulations! I was 37 when I got pregnant and I started at 219lbs. They called me a geriatric pregnancy. I wound up having a c-section. 11 years later, he’s doing just fine. It will all be well!

[@ALABRASILIANA]

Love this!! Thanks for sharing and offering hope

[@dezinechic]

it all depends on the person and a lot of the time 35+ pregnancies are just fine although they love to keep bw scared......instead of being vigilant on their healthcare.

[@ItsDeniseRenee]

@@dezinechic FACTS! They love to try to keep you scared and keep you dependent on medications and on them for the final word on everything going on in your body. But in this day and age, we really have to be proactive about our overall HEALTH and WELLBEING and leave them on reserve only for accidents and unexpected events because they are not into WELL care at all!

[@dezinechic]

@@ItsDeniseRenee thissssss! 80% is up to you(as in everyday preventative) and 20% is with them( preventative follow-up etc.).

[@VerdeLane]

My cousin and her husband had their 3rd child when she was 44 (she thought early-ish menopause was at her door lol). She's a registered nurse, her OB (also a bw) had her 2 sons at 39 & 41 and didn't inundate her with "geriatric preg" talk. She had a total textbook pregnancy and delivery he's now 10 and wearing us all out! 😅

[@dominiquepowell-saidykhan2916]

Awwwww Congrats!!! I’m 37 and 33 weeks! It’s crazy what we go through due to our age let alone any other complications. I’m grateful for my care thus far because I know many black women cannot say the same. This journey is wild! Can’t wait to be on the other side…

[@19Hollisterchick90]

I’m over here cheesing like hell. I’ve been watching you for so long and I’m just elated! You deserve every bit of this. You are such a wonderful, delightful, beautiful woman.

[@chelseaallison9499]

my mom had me at 37. there was so much acceptance, wisdom and overall ease she has that makes me so thankful she had me when she did.

[@rogodwynn]

I'm so gagged, am I the only one who had no idea?? Congrats Jouelzy!!!!

[@Loch1210]

Me either.I’m like what?

[@jasminejoseph8307]

I was waiting for this comment. I'm like damn was I out if the loop this long?!! Joulezy's apart of the mom club now! ❤🎉

[@stephanieoutlaw1170]

I was looking for this comment as well❤❤❤😂😂…. I noticed a change but I wasn’t sure!!! Beautiful ❤right 🎉🎉🎉

[@shawnwashington1778]

My mom had me at 41 and my brother at 40. We’re her only kids. And she has been the best mom.❤ cheers to motherhood!

[@MariaPetalcorin]

I live in Japan and 37 is completely normal for a first pregnancy. I was 33 when I was pregnant and I was considered a “young” mom 😄

[@hannah60000]

Is that so? When I lived in Japan, I had a student who had a child at 35. They considered her a “mature” mum. I guess it may depend on the specific region! I hope Japan is treating you well! I can’t wait to visit/return. 😊

[@MariaPetalcorin]

@@hannah60000 Yes, I was surprised when my doctor told me that. I live in Tokyo though, so I guess it's not that surprising since a lot of women seem to put off having kids due to their careers. You're probably right about it being regional.

[@2bhonest957]

I had a baby at 39 last year. Very healthy pregnancy Congratulations

[@Zanaaa50]

Congratulations, Mama Jouelzy! 🎉❤🎉 I had a baby boys at 36 and 43 years of age and it's THEE best decision I ever made! Been watching your content since Lord knows back when and I am THRILLED for you. Best wishes to you and your precious son.

[@So_Cato]

Oooh 43? That gives me hope! I want one more!

[@kiaj.d.5855]

@@So_Cato I had my third at 36 and he was 10 lbs. They all increased in weight. I don’t think I could handle another chunky baby lol.

[@BibleNerd22]

​@@So_Catoyes, girl. I came for the encouragement in the comments.

[@shopece8807]

@@So_Cato my endocrinologist had her 2nd baby at 43 (this was 2 yrs ago) ... she was still very much fertile after that and said she was getting an IUD because she didn't want anymore. Sometimes your "bio age" is a lot younger than your chronological age (her words). A more "extreme" case is my older sister's friend had her FIRST baby at 50 in late April of this year (happened naturally). 40's can bring more complications maybe but 40's is definitely NOT the end if you still want kids :--).

[@sg5720]

OMG no. My kids are older and hubby and I still young enjoying our lives. Mad respect to older mothers with young children. 😊

[@valenciasheltondurham4400]

I had my last child at 37. I had no problems during my pregnancy and had a natural childbirth after having had a C Section with my second child. Because she was big, 9 lbs and 14 Oz, l insisted on natural birth and delivered a healthy girl. She is my only daughter and I breastfeed my last two children. I am 74 now. Congratulations and much success to u

[@Oonagh72]

Congratulations!🎉🎊🎈 👼🏽 DO NOT POST YOUR BABY!! As badly as I want to see him, I want him to be safe and happy. He is loved by such a beautiful and broad community and that is all I need to know.

[@CharleyAngel]

Postpartum looks good on you. I’m currently 33 , and always told myself if I didn’t have a baby by 33 I was done. Well, I’m here now and I know that’s not true! I’m noticing more and more women are having babies at a later age , especially Black women. It’s inspiring and I love hearing the stories/ experiences. Thank you for sharing and I wish you and baby all the best!

[@jouelzy]

I told myself the same thing now look at me! Lol.

[@Livelaughloveadorn]

I have a close friend who made the same comments. She had two children back to back after the age of 36.

[@jeanjeang8914]

Congratulations...i had my girl at 37, she's 19 now in college...truly an awesome baby girl❤

[@Jojo-tf2zp]

I'm consistently so impressed by the way you navigate your public life. You look so happy and joyful, congratulations on your child and your community!

[@higherrealms5309]

Girl, my mama had TWINS at 42! They’ll be 22 years old in June.

[@shamelessmaya]

You DID THAT! Congratulations Joulzey 🎉💕 I’m so happy for you 🥰

[@justcallmebetty7717]

I'm so amazed at how 30's is still considered OLD or odd to have a baby!..I was 33 when I had my daughter who will be 25 this July and I still look GOODT!!..in your 20's its PLAY TIME🥳but by your 30's you're ready to start a more mature adventure and your mind is ready 😊Congratulations and enjoy every single moment ❤❤

[@DosesOfZia]

Thank you for sharing this outside the pay wall. I love to hear about BW having healthy pregnancies & babies in their late 30s and 40s. It gives me a little hope that I can still have a 2nd or 3rd baby if life leads me to that place later. 💙

[@jennahope4353]

i am so happy for you. you inspire me, almost 40, pcos miscarriages, now single.... i hope it's still in God's will for me. until then... i am enjoying cultivating my new community. que Dios te siga bendiciendo 🙏🏼 love from Austin Texas!

[@Blessed1985]

I am new to Austin too! I hope you're loving it 🙂

[@j.c.maxena5352]

Congratulations, Jouelzy! My mom had me when she was 39 and we have the best relationship.

[@MaureenMurphy_]

Congrats! My mom just had twins at 47 😭😭

[@thehoneydeev]

Thank you for sharing and congratulations to her! Woohoo

[@rebekahkingbello9560]

❤

[@myriamwilliams]

😍😍Blessings to mother and children.

[@sg5720]

Damn - I’m the last and my mom had me at 34 - so that is okay. I don’t know how you ladies be having your first over 35 yrs etc...I could t. Hubby and I young enough to still have fun as our kids are older, and our parents young enough to enjoy playing and having fun and seeing their grandchildren grow up. Each their own, but in today’s world, I’m just glad God blessed me with my children at this specific time. I just has so much respect for you ladies. Wow indeed. 🙏🏽😊💯

[@Robloxlegend49]

Congrats !

[@Nerd_Jee]

My mom had me at 37 yrs old back in 1987. I’m currently 35 turning 36 in August and have no kids. 37 seems to be the age.

[@MichelleIsProsperous]

Whew chile I hope not! I’m 36 and I’m hoping to God and my ancestors that the plan b I just took worked 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Idek why this video is in my feed out of nowhere 😭😭😭😭

[@ncegbu]

I had my first at 38 (she’s 14 now) and my second at 41. Both pregnancies were a hazing, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

[@ebonyrenee7392]

You know my therapist asked me who my community was? To this day I am still working to build on my community. I love that you got to experience a pregnancy that involved nothing but love. I want all black women to experience that. I am working on being intentional with building a community that is engulfed with love. Seeing you talk about your experience and that smile upon your face. I am so elated for you, Soror. That baby was rooted in love and he is going to feel that forever ❤

[@Myaccount923]

Same. Where do you start? I have my partner’s family but even they are not 100% healed and I wouldn’t want my child around them too much. They’re relatively healthy compared to my immediate toxic family which I had to almost completely cut off.

[@octopussy888]

⁠@@Myaccount923I’m sorry to hear that. I’ve always wondered how people are going to raise their children around relatives that are abusive or toxic. Or if they have enable abuse, especially against children, for so long. Like how do you raise them in that environment??? I don’t want kids, but that question always floated around in my brain. Sending you ❤️

[@Myaccount923]

@@octopussy888 thank you♥️♥️ and when you find out, let me know 😩😂 I don’t have aunts or even cousins either to rely on. But I’m just going to protect them the best I can and teach them the importance of a good community while I try to build my own as well. I’m not even 100% sure I want kids bc of my childhood but I’m open to it

[@Faircafe98]

@@octopussy888 You leave. I know that I did with no regrets

[@octopussy888]

@@Faircafe98 I wish I could leave too, but I can’t afford it and if I were to leave, I would be alone. I also wouldn’t know where to go or how to find my tribe. But I’m glad you’re able to find peace.

[@Yayanikki]

38 and a proud first time mom! Just had my baby girl three weeks ago 🥰🥰🥰 My labor was natural and no complications. Blessings to all the women on their birth journey ❤️❤️❤️

[@SeattleMama24]

Community for a parent is so essential. And def not easy to build or maintain as you stated, but so worth it. I’m 40 and preggo with my 2nd child. Idk what I would do without my peoples 🥰😍 congrats on being a Mommy. It’s such a crazy, tiring. Exciting journey 🤪

[@gentleshadow1]

This comment section brings me so much peace and joy. I'm 26 and so many friends and people on social media are getting married/engaged and it makes me feel anxious that the biological clock is nearly done. Thank you for reminding me that there's so much more life to live still ❤

[@dittney85]

1st baby at 35 and 2nd baby at 37. We plan on getting pregnant later this year so ill be 39 when the 3rd baby is born. I enjoyed the extra ultrasounds. Getting to see my baby more often and calmed lots of my anxiety. 2 epidurals that both wore off. Dr gave me the option of going for a c section after laboring for 2 days and stalling at 9cm. I contemplated a vbac for baby number 2 but ultimately decided to go for a 2nd c section. 2 c sections and recovered very nicely, no post procedural pain. HIGHLY RECOMMEND A BLACK FEMALE DOCTOR! Mine was amazing and I plan on her delivering my 3rd.

[@Wall0fCatz]

Awwwwwwww good job 🎉 I had my son at 38!!!! So happy for you girl!

[@lucinejules7446]

Had my baby @ 39 ♥️..don’t have any regrets….Congratulations 💕♥️!!

[@nickysunshine8734]

I had a baby at 37 years old as well. I’m still 37 and my daughter is now 8 months old. She is my 3rd child and it’s been 10 years since I had a baby. I’m done 😂. I’m now focusing on getting my body back to where I want it and getting the new born her passport and we all travel the world 🌎

[@Tia.0721]

Wow! This video came right on time! I’m 40 and 39 weeks pregnant; I get induced next Thur 5/25, as my age automatically makes me “high risk”. My Parents make it seem like me and my Husband are “old” just for choosing to wait until we’re older to have our baby. Thank you for this video.

[@brownsugar2u]

Don't feeI bad.I had my first child at 40. We're both doing fine. He's 9 months now. You'll be fine.

[@jjamerican93]

Congratulations, Brenee! One major thing your child will benefit is from the years of wisdom and experience that you and your husband have as parents. I'm in my early 30s, but don't feel ready to have kids just yet, so seeing women like you in this situation is helpful.

[@donnabohanon1570]

Congratulations 🎉 I had my children at 33 (girl) and 37 (son) No problems except for some sciatica with my son. He is now 25 my sonshine. Enjoy your little one. It’s an amazing ride.

[@youareenough4978]

No compliment for your daughter.

[@Jo_Thee.Farmer]

Congratulations!!🎉🎉 I'm 32 and starting my life over, I want a kid or two. This gives me hope that I still have time.

[@jouelzy]

You absolutely do!

[@TheeJessieWoo]

🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️ you’re glowing and I’m so happy for you

[@ashleymad8829]

Congrats lady!!!! I’m 38 and just gave birth to my beautiful baby boy!! Live wonderfully in your new beautiful space with baby.

[@jouelzy]

Congrats!

[@Moritimorii]

My mom was 37 when she had me! I’m 24 now and my mom’s my best friend. Congratulations on your new best friend!

[@jouelzy]

Love to hear that!

[@mutedearthvirgo]

Girl I can literally hear all the love and abundance in your voice alone. Congratulations!

[@ruffey1748]

The same age my Mum had me 🎉 One thing I'd point out is that you really feel the 37 years when your kids are in their late 20s. If you're retired or semi-retired by that point, the kids will just have reached mid-career stage, or may want a career change. I took some big choices at that age to pursue my goals, and that came just as my Mum was winding down and wanting us at home more (she's a single person). They're big stages of life for mother and child, so there's a need to be mindful that you're going in different directions and to respect those individual journeys.

[@MSLILLY4533]

I had my first child when I was 34 and my second when I was 40. My children have the very best version of me at this age. I got to finish college travel and enjoy life and then I became a Mom. They have my full attention as a mom and I'm so in love❤❤. My O.B. had to look at my chart to see my age and I did it natural the second time because the first time the epideral didn't work. Life is great. Sending lot's of love on your motherhood journey.

[@jouelzy]

Yes I’m so happy this is the version of me my child will get. I have the means in so many ways to give them my full self.

[@MSLILLY4533]

@@jouelzy ♥

[@mahoganysoul7195]

💯💯❤️🔥

[@kamjohne523]

My grandmother had a total for 4 children, my mom being the youngest who she had at 39. That same grandmother also got pregnant twice in her 50s (my family is fertile). Please don’t let people put undue pressure on you to have a child by a certain age. Do it when your life permits for it. Spiritual, emotional and financial well-being is paramount when parenting. Congratulations Jouelzy! 🎉❤

[@queenprincess4life]

Kudos, I just wrote about my family too😂. My mom had 4 kids naturally in her 40s and my grandmother had her last child at 52. We might be related. I think these folks manifest “high risks” issues for themselves, the person who thinks they can and the person who think they can’t are both right.

[@jasminesblooming]

Found my Tribe! *sits down & gets comfortable* I had my twins at 34 going on 35 prematurely at 6 months and 29 weeks old.

[@theflowers999]

thank you SM for sharing this! i'm 30 rn and feel like there's a good chance that, if i do have a child, it will be when i'm in my late 30s. its really dope to see someone at that point articulating their experiences. Congrats to you + your bundle of joy!

[@liastorm795]

I’m having mine late 30’s also🤷🏽‍♀️ People have them in their teens/20’s and regret it or carry fomo because they didn’t enjoy their youth. Orrr put them off on their parents (my cousins) 🫠😒

[@shemelial1]

Congratulations ❤️! I had my first baby 6 months ago at 39 years old! I am so in love with my son too, motherhood is def a beautiful thing

[@jouelzy]

Congratulations 😊

[@JAllen-tx3di]

This video feels like Joy, The Joy and whatever that feeling is that I can't describe with words is bouncing off of you and I am sitting here just smiling in silence and feeling warm and fuzzy.

[@Lovejones05]

Had my first at 37 and my second at 39. They are 17 and 15 now. Soooo glad I waited to have them. Was not ready in my 20s.

[@HeavenTaylorWynn]

"I have never felt so loved in my life" is too real! I accepted long before I gave birth that my child's father wouldn't rise to the occasion (because that's what he showed me). But never once did I think I'd be alone BECAUSE of community. Truly, community is one of the biggest reasons I moved forward with it. I am eternally happy for you Jouelzy. Thank you for sharing this with us!

[@ahill221]

Congrats Momma ❤ I had an unproblematic pregnancy and a healthy baby at 37. She's 11 now. I'm so happy your experience is what you wished for. ❤

[@GabbiGriffinTV]

My mom had my little sister at 37 she said it was the best thing she could’ve ever done!!! Congratulations and I wish you so much happiness and peace and joy on your journey!!! 🥰🤗

[@molly8070]

I’m 25 but most people I know already had their first kid at the average age of 21. Many ppl think it’s weird that I wanna wait till my late 30’s to have kids. It’s nice to see others that have done the same. I do have the looming fear on if I will still have the ability to have kids in my late 30’s. It’s encouraging to see many women do it with no issues.

[@masseiy]

I’m the same I’m looking into freezing eggs as insurance

[@sanara77]

Congratulations. I just had a baby 3 months ago and I’m 40yrs old, no issues

[@JasmineAvril]

Girl I heard you in my soul on that medical condition part! My youngest is 5 months and having to sit her up after every feed in the beginning was ROUGHH! It will get better sis! Congratulations congratulations! ❤🎉

[@jouelzy]

Thank you. I am so looking forward to out growing that 😂

[@makiahlyons4972]

I’ve watched your content for so long, I was absolutely emotional. I was/am so happy for you and loved that you kept it private and that you were able to share what you wanted on your own terms.

[@SweetTee04]

❤ Congrats!! I’m 37 and I too just had a baby. And my entire pregnancy the thought of mortality lived in my mind……but everything turned out fine and I am so happy for that.

[@empressrenee3847]

GURLLLLL as a follower of yours for years I remember seeing this vid …. An saying “omg better me than her “ NOW at 37 im 13 weeks an sooo greatful for your vid !!!! I too an deciding to keep mines private…

[@IgnoranceAverse]

Congratulations, Jouelzy. Your son is so incredibly fortunate because you will be an outstanding mother.

[@DawnofA]

I had one at 40! He's almost two and I love being a mom. My doctor was male and he really put me at ease. He was like it's all good don't worry about what the internet says.

[@parkerh6556]

I’m 30 and I’ve always freaked out because I never wanted a child in my 20s, but I realize I will more than likely have a “geriatric” pregnancy. It feels beautiful to see you and others have children in your 30s and bask in it. I feel less pressure knowing it’s okay to do it on your terms and it ends okay. 😊😊😊

[@icedcocoa221]

Congrats 👶🏽 We need a whole vid on how you built that community lol

[@MeganMajorie]

OMG jouelzy! I was wondering where you went! I'm so happy for you! This baby is going to be so lucky and intelligent!! God bless you! I'm cheesing all the way.

[@Adele1024]

I’m currently pregnant at 41 and I’m considered obese too. So far I haven’t had any complications, and my bloodwork has all come back normal. I have a 20 year old and an eleven year old that I pushed out, and I’m really anxious about being told I need a c-section, I’m hoping I can just push this one out too 😩 Edited to add Congratulations on your new little one! 💐🎉

[@carolineshesoflyhodges9532]

My aunt had her first and only baby at 40. The WHOLE family was in shock.

[@hersupreme9256]

You look so beautiful, congratulations❤

[@AlluringFire]

Yayyy Jouelzy!!! I’m 30 pregnant with my first little pumpkin! 💜 congratulations, I wish you the best on the new journey of mommy hood!!!

[@umuu2]

And congratulations to you and your little bundle of joy too 😊

[@AlluringFire]

@@umuu2 thank you! 💜

[@reneeh618]

This was such an important conversation. Particularly the community building discussion. I am 37 with a 1 year old and community is soooo important. Thank you so much for this video and congratulations!!!

[@tamiaedrington5762]

Omg I hope this isn’t weird but I thought I just saw you at chipotle with a baby 😂Then immediately saw this lol

[@ahniyahclay4460]

My mom had her 5th child at 42 with no complications at all! And she later found out she had cancer at the time she was pregnant. A woman’s body is really magical. Congratulations!🥰

[@macywood4619]

I guess I will have a child in my 40’s because it’s no way I’m having a child now in my 30’s. I’m not ready financially and romantically.

[@naturaleyeam]

It’s honestly the best time to have one. I’m 35 and planning for my 3rd around 37. It so much more pleasant especially when you are mature, balanced and happy.❤

[@naturalbeauty511]

Congratulations, I had no idea! I had my first baby at 34 and would like to have a second in the next year or so ( I’m 36). Welcome to motherhood, so happy for you!

[@Ashley.Melissa]

hey Jouelzy! i watched this video a while back when i was thinking about children. here i am today to say I just turned 37 in July and I am pregnant!nThis video found me at the right time again! 😃🥰🥰🥰 thank you!❣

[@jouelzy]

Congratulations!

[@ananasvostel]

Congratulations!! I had mine at 39. Always a blessing. Enjoy your little one!

[@sarahgordino6695]

Congratulations. I’m also 37 and have been trying with my partner for the last year. Fingers crossed.

[@undrmyumbrellaa]

my mom had me at 37 and she tells me how different it was for my brother, who she had in her 20s. i feel like i have some life i want to live first and its beautiful to see the joy on your face but also the hope you (and others in the comments) are giving to others. wishing you all the best with baby boy

[@kimmiecakes4388]

Sisss! I absolutely LOVEDDD this video. As a black woman who is 31 years old without children yet. This was just so refreshing to hear. But can we PLEASE 🙏🏾 have the details on this hair. You look absolutely gorgeous!

[@LoveLiesLacefronts]

Congratulations 🍾🎈 I had my daughter at 40 and it was amazing. I’m in Charlotte too and went to Maternal Fetal Medicine as well due similar risks. All is well here.

[@jouelzy]

Love to hear it!

[@Chimiri88]

Congratulations mama! I had my first at age 34. We are planning our 2nd after he turns age 3. We were not bless to have a community. My family is very small and his is in a different country but we make it work beautifully.

[@freegurl76]

I delivered my precious bundle of joy at 38. Being an older mom is always an interesting topic at play dates. 😂

[@shemaths1668]

I have sooooo many relatives who had kids in their late 30's early 40's. Many of them had a kid in their 20's and then had a second/third kid later in life. The majority of my family hit menopause in their early to mid 50's. I be laughing when folks say, "you better have a kid before your eggs dry up" it's stupid

[@sweethoneybee3616]

Congratulations

[@Awesome00012]

Love and empowerment. I'm here for it! Congrats on the baby. Coming from a 25-year-old. Women in their 30s and all ages are beautiful.

[@bettyeboop2942]

Thanks so much for discussing you having a baby at 37. I had my one and only son at 38 years old. I had to have a induction and a emergency c section and I also had to get 2 epidural because the first nurse missed my uterus and I would have to have another one or I would have to be knocked out to give birth. I am so glad I was able to experience motherhood, I will never take that for granted. But, I am also glad I only had one child. He is the best and I look forward to helping him to become an adult and see him be a productive man.

[@locsndocs]

Man how can i like this 100 times! Congratulations mama❤

[@luneeve]

That’s a pretty good age to be honest! My mom was nearly 45 & I had more than most, thank God! Congrats been watching you from the beginning and look at youuuu! 🎉

[@dorothypittmon3072]

I had my son at 37 he’s 24 and I had my daughter at 33 she’s 28 . My doctor told me I was season he told me I waited a good time to have a child. I prayed and ask God to please let nothing be wrong with my son . Both of my children are perfect nothing wrong with either one of them