I have done nothing to you: the mindset of an narcissist

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Tyler JTI

Tyler JTI

Күн бұрын

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@elnoor3392
@elnoor3392 Жыл бұрын
Narcissist are too messy. They like to do bogus cutthroat stuff then act all casual like nothing happened then do it all over again. And they want to keep you in their life when they go no contact then enter back in your life because they sat up here in lied and went on a full blown slander fest and are afraid someone is gong to tell you and figure them out.
@ElyjahDHerring
@ElyjahDHerring Жыл бұрын
They take no accountability because taking accountability hurts there pride
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
Exactly we live in a time folks don't want to take accountability
@calebcooper5922
@calebcooper5922 Жыл бұрын
Hey tyler do you think you can do a video about extroverts harassing introverts for being quiet and to themselves. And the famous saying "watch out for the quiet ones"?
@dontbelongherefromanother
@dontbelongherefromanother Жыл бұрын
They're egotistical
@bellemi8814
@bellemi8814 Жыл бұрын
They don't care they just don't care
@jamesbreeden9016
@jamesbreeden9016 Жыл бұрын
People with a low level of consciousness (self-awareness) are childish and immature. They can also cause a great deal of drama in a person's life. It is our responsibility as awakened beings to protect ourselves and adjust the situation accordingly. Great video Tyler! Blessings
@shirleygonzales5284
@shirleygonzales5284 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@srj6963
@srj6963 Жыл бұрын
Well said my friend.
@tommyparkerparker
@tommyparkerparker Жыл бұрын
You described my sister, ex girlfriend and a former coworker.
@bizminded555
@bizminded555 Жыл бұрын
My so-called sister did this same mess to me after I stopped speaking to her. I didn’t say a thing because it wasn’t worth my time nor energy. I hope my silence make her think about her effing 💩. Glad you came back to this particular subject. Thank you.
@blackhawk6695
@blackhawk6695 Жыл бұрын
Yup!! My sister did the same I had to cut her off have not spoken to her in a long time!
@thepamperedgoddess3279
@thepamperedgoddess3279 Жыл бұрын
Don’t count on it. Drop her from your consciousness entirely and do t give her another breath of life in your mind.
@OkieDokie-ft5pm
@OkieDokie-ft5pm 11 ай бұрын
​@@thepamperedgoddess3279Yep! That's exactly what I did to my older sister
@AnimalRescue2023
@AnimalRescue2023 Жыл бұрын
Yes I HAVE Been there too too many times with my own relatives
@nv_chino
@nv_chino Жыл бұрын
They be the same ones that be doing the most harm and cause the most trouble.
@Ericka11111
@Ericka11111 Жыл бұрын
This is accurate. I kept hearing "I didn't do anything to you" But my inner knowing knew differently 💛💫💛
@lorraine4755
@lorraine4755 Жыл бұрын
Yep, I stay away from lying family and people who lie and think I'm a doormat. With me it's what you see is what you get, i don't play games. Look at me as an idiot, stay away.
@smustipher
@smustipher Жыл бұрын
There is no point in talking to people who refuse to be honest. It's better to just LEAVE THEM ALONE
@LoveMusic-dv4sl
@LoveMusic-dv4sl Жыл бұрын
I love this video! When people say I haven't done anything to you means they won't take responsibility for their wrong doing, but will point the blame on someone else. I've dealt with this before.
@GreeneChakra
@GreeneChakra Жыл бұрын
This is it my EX!
@dontbelongherefromanother
@dontbelongherefromanother Жыл бұрын
In narcs minds, they've done nothing wrong and someone else did. It's gaslighting at its finest. Narcs aren't stupid and know what they're doing
@OkieDokie-ft5pm
@OkieDokie-ft5pm 11 ай бұрын
Classic narcissistic BLAMESHIFTING from them. That's why I caller-blocked and went NC for life
@shirleygonzales5284
@shirleygonzales5284 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Mr. Tyler. I'm done with these ppl.
@morenitascorp9246
@morenitascorp9246 Жыл бұрын
TheyAreNotPeople☦️
@50shadesofgreyrock68
@50shadesofgreyrock68 Жыл бұрын
Walking away from these situations (if possible) is not an act of cowardice but one of BOLD COURAGE. It takes a lot of strength to walk away.
@OkieDokie-ft5pm
@OkieDokie-ft5pm 11 ай бұрын
They have it SET-UP already so that you're going to look like the "bad" guy anyway if you DARE speak out against their mistreatment The best thing to do is to CUT YOUR LOSSES, give them no NEGATIVE SUPPLY, and go NO CONTACT ("without warning" like Tyler said in another video of his). IMHO That's why JADE (never Justify, Acknowledge, Defend, or Explain) is a popular mantra in terms of dealing with cluster B acting types
@aig2991
@aig2991 4 ай бұрын
Thank You for this
@50shadesofgreyrock68
@50shadesofgreyrock68 4 ай бұрын
@@aig2991 👍👍
@TheMANLAW82
@TheMANLAW82 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Yeeees I Am trying to surpress all this anger i have against my toxic mom every time when she yells, gets at me for foolish, unnecessary stuff
@ameerahrashada4515
@ameerahrashada4515 Жыл бұрын
I no do not deal with people like this because I've cut all them from my life and I now feel really good Thank You for this video
@rosevalley5491
@rosevalley5491 Жыл бұрын
Right on time! I have a family member who behaves this way breaks my heart. You always have good content ❤️
@kcjamdab2155
@kcjamdab2155 Жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with a Evil person right now
@morenitascorp9246
@morenitascorp9246 Жыл бұрын
NPD Psycho MrSmith Demon lol but makes you a warrior-lets go
@kcjamdab2155
@kcjamdab2155 Жыл бұрын
Thanks an it a low budget so called woman lying on me
@kcjamdab2155
@kcjamdab2155 Жыл бұрын
God bless you 4that thank you so much 4that
@blackhawk6695
@blackhawk6695 Жыл бұрын
Get rid of them asap!!
@kcjamdab2155
@kcjamdab2155 Жыл бұрын
We in the shame house it's sad because I haven't done anything to her she has lied on me talk about me ,2 people I don't even know so I'm in my room an hear all 3 of them talking about 4 no reason at all but I don't care God is good all the time
@michaelaxis6304
@michaelaxis6304 Жыл бұрын
yeah yup even more extremely hard when you can't get out without a job and starting to build credit
@drewtrulock333
@drewtrulock333 Жыл бұрын
Block and forget. Only option
@DUHORIGINAL007
@DUHORIGINAL007 Жыл бұрын
the audacity!!! But that how u avoid karma by denying the issue ever happened
@morenitascorp9246
@morenitascorp9246 Жыл бұрын
Sheer #audacity!! Just gross-
@DUHORIGINAL007
@DUHORIGINAL007 Жыл бұрын
@@morenitascorp9246 the goons learn new words everyday
@AnimalRescue2023
@AnimalRescue2023 Жыл бұрын
My Momma is just like this . Tyler God bless you .I hear you
@blackhawk6695
@blackhawk6695 Жыл бұрын
Family can be the worst !
@ereka333
@ereka333 Жыл бұрын
Tyler I listen to your podcast often. It has very helpful information and I wanted to thank you for sharing your wisdom
@hardeepmann3464
@hardeepmann3464 Жыл бұрын
So true. Facts. Family or friends.
@dreamwevr
@dreamwevr Жыл бұрын
Yep that’s it they want not be you because of thier mess up spirit and want to control you
@constancenunn
@constancenunn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@AwakenedOnes
@AwakenedOnes Жыл бұрын
Excellent my brother God bless you
@solomonempathicboyd13
@solomonempathicboyd13 Жыл бұрын
Amen Brother.
@TheMANLAW82
@TheMANLAW82 Жыл бұрын
Brother always on time to preach
@sylvia.222
@sylvia.222 Жыл бұрын
perfectly timed video 💯
@TomHuckACAB
@TomHuckACAB Жыл бұрын
Lookin great Professor. Thanks for all your help
@annicks7385
@annicks7385 Жыл бұрын
I can't wait to hear your podcast. I've been following you for a looooooong time . Thank you.
@leanita7549
@leanita7549 10 ай бұрын
There ARE Several Seats Somewhere for these "people" to have🌝
@Johnadams20760
@Johnadams20760 Жыл бұрын
tyler, i always love your straight forward no nonsense appraoch. . anyway. the narc neighbor i have mentioned before in varouis comments. the covert weirdo. it wasn't necessarily that i remmeber specific things he did ths with saying it. however, after the 4 monhts only of hanging with him and him having bailed out last minute on a game 48 hours before where i had to spend 110 dollar fr both our ticket. he was going to pay me for his. and then lied about his rasons and his actions showe it. plus how he put my life in danger a month prior having me ride a bike without breaks working, at night. by strongly manipulating me into going with it. and during hte ride, the gears broke and he was dramatic and i also spet 170 dollars. etc.. then finding out from another freind who is a bike expert telling me no way anything i did could have casued it. well. that and his constant pesting of me. and i walked away without explination (which is actaully a subject you spoke about in the first video i found you on talking about) well 4 weeks after i stopped but had not totally blocked im out yet on my phone. he literally sent messages 2-3 times over a a few weeks time saying stuff like I never did anything to you i was nothin gbu nice to you, what is the issue i don't understand. this hits the nail on the head. btw. justso you nkow. i never respnded. i have not interacted with him via talking, via making eye contact, email. phone. nothing. it has been a full 19 months on my part of being 100% no contact
@dorisjohns9861
@dorisjohns9861 Жыл бұрын
Yep, a few people, then it got where I used to like to fight some of em to win, to end conflict with em, then I turned numb, so I let most people talk 😮‍💨🤦
@jeremyking5309
@jeremyking5309 Жыл бұрын
Sir you are speaking absolute G facts
@blackjackethare3973
@blackjackethare3973 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I have my neighbors. On the second floor and on the third floor who can't let go making fun of me or talking about me. It does both me. I use to talk about it all the time to my mother to ask for advice on how to be the better person about it. I get harassed about to my face as they use to live next door. My mother screamed at me ask I tired to stand up for myself. Change the situation. Only to find out the one that lives upstairs will not stop talking about me and she does it everyday out of enjoyment. You can't change people who are like this. They will keep doing it. Its better to just live your life and have your own mind about what you can't change.
@hadiza1
@hadiza1 Жыл бұрын
This is so true 😌💕
@Mike_Cosentino
@Mike_Cosentino Жыл бұрын
Love your content Tyler it’s helped me for a while now, may peace be with you!
@victorianjohn
@victorianjohn Жыл бұрын
Spot on🎯 U don’t have 2 B da younger person 2B disregarded; a lot of time da older person gets insults.. it’s all gaslight, then “I haven’t done nothing wrong” #doctrine-of-4giveness I’m so thankful 4 ur teachings🖖🏾💂🏿Shalom KING
@tamarathemoneymagnet6028
@tamarathemoneymagnet6028 Жыл бұрын
I love you videos Tyler they are very helpful keep up the good work!
@Prophezora
@Prophezora Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Tyler! Much love and good vibes, friend!
@twinpyramid5985
@twinpyramid5985 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥TYLER
@RhinoTown
@RhinoTown Жыл бұрын
This is spot on to my experiences..!!! Spot ON! Reassuring I’m not alone in this
@ninath13
@ninath13 5 ай бұрын
You Good Brother nothing but the truth
@caritalonn3656
@caritalonn3656 Жыл бұрын
Yes that I was experience a narcissism that tell me I have Done nothing!
@HoneyBLove
@HoneyBLove 2 ай бұрын
you are absolutely correct
@Happyfeelinpeace
@Happyfeelinpeace Жыл бұрын
Yes! My sister in law illegally opened my mail. My brother said she didn't do anything wrong. It's a federal offense. Let me do that ish though, like wtf. Also, turning my own daughter against me because she can't have kids. Jealousy is a monster who would say exactly what you've just now said Tyler. I've already won by walking away. Thanks so much for the great content!
@EmbodyGodPresence
@EmbodyGodPresence Жыл бұрын
I love accountability, but many others do not like it for some odd reason.. Why would someone only want external power when accountability gives you real power from within
@morenitascorp9246
@morenitascorp9246 Жыл бұрын
Cuz theyre #psycho and evil driven!🤣
@EmbodyGodPresence
@EmbodyGodPresence Жыл бұрын
@@morenitascorp9246 ego driven. Ego mind identity makes people go crazy
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
I practice accountability myself as a part of my life, when one practices taking accountability, it will become way much easier. We live in a day and time a lot of folks hate being held accountable
@EmbodyGodPresence
@EmbodyGodPresence Жыл бұрын
@@TylerJTI i like to be my self because it is only full of love and compassion
@marianotroy5445
@marianotroy5445 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@agnesbrown2572
@agnesbrown2572 Жыл бұрын
Oh, I enjoy listening to your videos. They show sincerity, I can feel it.
@freedomtobeintheknow-kryst9705
@freedomtobeintheknow-kryst9705 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting
@Nunya-g5b
@Nunya-g5b 9 ай бұрын
Old native American proverb a old lady found a snake in the snow freezing cold she brought it into her tp fed it warmed it and when the snake was better it bit her. As the old lady lay there dying she asked it whyd you bite me? The snake simply replied im a snake what did you exspect ??? Dont talk to snakes n cut there heads off!!
@MiraLaLuna11
@MiraLaLuna11 Жыл бұрын
I will check da pod 😊 love da videos keepem coming...awesome material..very helpful Tyler much appreciated ❤👍🙏🫶🦋🐦
@alexraymondd7669
@alexraymondd7669 Жыл бұрын
👏👏real s***👏👏
@EsotericOccultist
@EsotericOccultist Жыл бұрын
I like your shirt. It looks good on you 👍
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@MrBillybathgate5
@MrBillybathgate5 Жыл бұрын
Tyler
@brentfarmer3013
@brentfarmer3013 Жыл бұрын
I saw an associate of mine that I have not seen in a while in public. Should I say something or keep stepping.
@felipealem6590
@felipealem6590 Жыл бұрын
I need help. I love my girlfriend but she keeps arguing with me when I call her out on things. I feel terrible.
@OfficialGoldz
@OfficialGoldz 10 ай бұрын
What did you do?
@felipealem6590
@felipealem6590 10 ай бұрын
@@OfficialGoldz We broke up.
@OfficialGoldz
@OfficialGoldz 10 ай бұрын
You feel happier brother?
@felipealem6590
@felipealem6590 10 ай бұрын
@OfficialGoldz I'm closer to God I would say. Now I know her really exists. So I would say yes because he provides.
@vesselfit2use
@vesselfit2use Жыл бұрын
Hey Tyler, what about people who play nice but then ignore you. They say reach out etc and when you do they read your messages and ignore you and dont give a basic human decency of a generic response. But choose to ignore you. They say one thing and do another? Can you please make a video on that. I feel like its rude to ignore people in this day and age with technology and you see they read your message. It takes 2 seconds to respond. I understand people get busy, but if it's a pattern of then ignoring you and treating you like a 2nd class citizen what's your advice?
@Prophezora
@Prophezora Жыл бұрын
This is ridiculous behavior and then others try to down play it like you are over reacting and maybe they are just too busy but you see them commenting on others people's stuff. Yes been there. Ahole behaviour
@vesselfit2use
@vesselfit2use Жыл бұрын
@@Prophezora it happens to me all the time. Even my so-calked friends I've had for years. They only call me when they are in a crisis or need something and will chat me ear off but when they are finished they completely ignore me and don't respond. And it's weird because I'm not even asking them for anything or needing anything from them. I'll ask them "hey how are you did blah blah work out?" Or "hey did that thing I sent you help?" And literally they just ignore me. And it's more than one. It's pretty much all of them. So idk I'm kind of at the point where if they try to hit me up for help I'm going to not answer. Im not going to continue to be in one sided friendships. Sorry it's happened to you too. It's pretty rude and shows their true character.
@ms.spainishlady2652
@ms.spainishlady2652 Жыл бұрын
😊♥️👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@jacquelinekinchen-gordon5397
@jacquelinekinchen-gordon5397 Жыл бұрын
We have them in my family wicked as can be. Check your Gmail I requested something for you to talk about .
@crystalgeter.6294
@crystalgeter.6294 6 ай бұрын
Get Away 😔⭐🥲
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