I have "High Functioning" Autism | AUTISM IN GIRLS

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Olivia Hops

Olivia Hops

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In this week's video Olivia Hops talks about why telling people they have "high" functioning Autism isn't a compliment, but a back-handed one!
I go over why the "high" and "low" functioning labels don't work. Autism isn't a linear line, but a giant circle with endless possibilities! Just because someone may appear "high" functioning, it doesn't mean they don't have struggles. It doesn't make them any "less" Autistic. It just means they're better at hiding their autistic traits to appear "normal."
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@lindsayshults1927
@lindsayshults1927 2 жыл бұрын
This was so beautifully articulated! I have a “high” functioning daughter, and so many people comment how “you would never know” (as if it’s a compliment)?! A quote I really love is… “mild autism doesn’t mean they experience autism mildly. It just means you experience it mildly when with them. No one really knows how hard they have worked to get to where they are now” ♥️
@snivly2066
@snivly2066 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I also have a daughter that people say the same things and actually have friends that have said I could “cure her”…ugh
@beckymcmanus3367
@beckymcmanus3367 Жыл бұрын
This was very informative. My ASD seems similar in alot of ways. Diagnosed at 55. I do live alone but in a chaotic mess ! Terrible with finances too. Frequent under the duvet shut downs ect. Can I ask why you feel you will never live alone?
@datyeen
@datyeen Жыл бұрын
...it IS a compliment though. It means that your daughters disability is not outwardly apparent.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@pingunin
@pingunin 2 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with Aspergers two weeks ago at age 25. I believe I would have been diagnosed correctly years before if I hadn't been high functioning in communication skills for an autistic person. I have sensory issues, I need a lot of routines and structure and burn out from every social context. I can compensate a lot because I'm intelligent but it makes me depressed beceause it drains all my energy. I'm definitely not high functioning, I'm HIGH COMPENSATING.
@stayinalive9434
@stayinalive9434 2 жыл бұрын
I am much the same and find the depression part is the worst. Normal everyday life exhausts me, but always trying to cope and persevere sucks. High compensating is a good term .
@blueroses226
@blueroses226 2 жыл бұрын
Gurl, you’re not alone.
@sternentigerkatze
@sternentigerkatze 2 жыл бұрын
High compensating. Thank you for putting it into words!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@tiana5395
@tiana5395 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you highlighting the difference between what we present vs what we go through.
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching my video, Tiana! I'm really glad you liked it. :)
@katrecemiller8325
@katrecemiller8325 Жыл бұрын
It’s just 7 days and the outbreaks are well treated and unseen. Thank you so much #Autism #Cancer #Herpes for curing my HSV 1&2 completely. 🌱kzbin.info/door/_YFEEZEr1BxGkNg1d4vqww 💙🍀
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@michellegarry1872
@michellegarry1872 2 жыл бұрын
Olivia, I think you just changed my granddaughter’s life for the better. Her stepfather is constantly criticizing her for her need to be alone etc, basically everything in your video (she’s 17). He hassles her constantly. But after watching your video, his eyes are now open. Thank you!!
@sternentigerkatze
@sternentigerkatze 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for your family!
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos
@ms.aelanwyr.ilaicos 2 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing to hear. It can be so challenging to explain what is happening without the lexical benefits that come with categorization.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@Hello-hello-hello456
@Hello-hello-hello456 Жыл бұрын
That will definitely make a positive change in their relationship ❤
@lizmurphy4616
@lizmurphy4616 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe people waste their time telling you you aren’t autistic.. you have helped so many people by sharing your story. Don’t let the negative comments affect you too much, with love and gratitude ❤️🙏
@le_th_
@le_th_ 2 жыл бұрын
People regularly waste their time telling other what they are or aren't, including people's parents, siblings, other family members, physicians, teachers, therapists and many, many other who perceive themselves as "specialists" or even "experts". That's even more common from behind a keyboard where they can't be held accountable. Many people don't know what they don't know, and some of those people even have PhD's. Then you have way too many people who are all-or-nothing thinkers, not unlike some on the autistic spectrum, who believe their own subjective experience is the only experience possible. I'm more surprised when people don't behave that way, and quite pleasantly so.
@thelombaxsystemtv7492
@thelombaxsystemtv7492 2 жыл бұрын
There is absolutely nothing wrong with Her, end of, so shut up!
@thelombaxsystemtv7492
@thelombaxsystemtv7492 2 жыл бұрын
@@le_th_ Well, to put it bluntly, You aren't any different!
@le_th_
@le_th_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@thelombaxsystemtv7492 Here, let's see if I can be as classless and defense as you... (cute and pasted from the comment you deleted) TheLombaxSystemTV replied: "There is absolutely nothing wrong with Her, end of, so shut up!" 6 hours ago
@le_th_
@le_th_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@thelombaxsystemtv7492 Do you often allow internet strangers to rile you up so easily? What's it like to be that emotionally fragile? What's it like to be so delusional that you believe you're entitled to tell others to shut up? What's it like to be struggle with an opinion that differs from yours? You must have a really hard time in the world with that fragility and being so very easily provoked by a total stranger?
@VS-bm3ep
@VS-bm3ep 2 жыл бұрын
Also: we are often times punished for when we show our struggles. The amount of times my meltdowns where seen as me ,just getting upset about nothing‘ and being met with anger when I don’t function ,the right way‘ made me try my absolute hardest to hide my ,bad‘ days when everything is just too much and I’m just not capable of masking any more
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@kennydunk
@kennydunk Жыл бұрын
See my brother tell me I can't do that because of my sensory to light and sound. Then goes directly to his Nintendo switch to play video games. Lights and sound. So why to be an ass or because video games help him escape a world where everyone at least in my house does everything for him?.?. I think my older brother is just full of shit and lies about it when he is asked to do one thing.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@anayurigomez2452
@anayurigomez2452 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏼 I love the way you explained that, I have an 11yr old daughter that was diagnosed with Autism 2yrs ago and some family members think there is nothing wrong with her but we see her everyday struggles specially me that I have to be with her most of the time. This video was very very helpful thank you 🙏🏼
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching my video! I'm so glad you liked how I explained this. My extended family was/is the same way with me, so my mom knows exactly how you are feeling right now. She eventually just stopped trying to explain. If they want to learn, go for it, but other than that, just ignore it best you can. Your daughter is awesome and she can grow up to be anything she puts her mind to! God Bless you both! 💙
@RN4MERCY
@RN4MERCY 2 жыл бұрын
@@OliviaHops Thank you! My Granddaughter is in her early teens; she is at the top of her class very articulate, and a gifted musician and animal charmer. Owning a cat and dog is a true source of comfort and emotional support. She shares many similar struggles and the traits you’ve described, yet she is very sensitive about any mention of Aspergers/spectrum/autism to the point of meltdown and shutdown. Your videos give us hope that she will grow to be as filled with grace and love as you.
@RN4MERCY
@RN4MERCY 2 жыл бұрын
We share a similar experience. Some family members are very opinionated and ignorant, truly believing her issues arise from a lack of STRICT discipline . The struggle is real. Bless you!
@deinodinosuchus
@deinodinosuchus 2 жыл бұрын
remember, there isn’t anything wrong with _her_ , it’s society’s fault for creating a neurodivergent-inaccessible world!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@kaylabryant3551
@kaylabryant3551 2 жыл бұрын
Watching your videos helped me discuss this with my mom, and I learned I was diagnosed with autism at 3 or 4. She was in denial for years because I didn’t “seem” autistic. Just “overly sensitive and picky with food”. She didn’t realize how much of a spectrum autism is when I was first diagnosed, so I didn’t know about my diagnosis until month ago (at age 22). Thank you so much for making these videos to make me feel like my traits aren’t abnormal or without a reason, it’s so helpful to me and others ❤️
@nangan838
@nangan838 Жыл бұрын
How is a diagnosis done? I am a 38 year old woman. I have asked my Primary Care physician, she acted as if she was clueless about all this 🙄
@yodelissosa7634
@yodelissosa7634 Жыл бұрын
@@nangan838 Ask Your Insurance About Getting A Therapist. A Physiatrist And Psychologist. Then Speak To THEM About All This!! Good Luck On Your Journey!! 🥰 🥰
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@theresedignard4267
@theresedignard4267 2 жыл бұрын
OMG…there may be each of us “unique”, but your video is 99% me. Thank you so much for this one. You are such a gem and so brave for being an “educator” for ND and NT people. I so appreciate you. Keep up the awesome videos. You matter! I “SEE” you! :)
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching my videos and for your super kind comment, Therese! You made my day! :) You are awesome and I'm so glad to have you along for my Autism adventure! God Bless 💙
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@ShintogaDeathAngel
@ShintogaDeathAngel 2 ай бұрын
@AbdulRahman-lv5pj herbs don’t do anything for neurodivergence
@LadyKartoffel
@LadyKartoffel 2 жыл бұрын
This one made me cry. My biggest fear/anxiety is that my daughter is going to be "low functioning" and it's really helping me break that mindset. She's not verbal like you, BUT she is doing better in things like empathy and eye contact. Her sensory issues are pretty bad, but they don't seem much worse than what you're describing. It's hard, as a mom, to think my child won't be able to go to college, have a boyfriend, have a career, etc. which is everything that went through my mind with her diagnosis because, as you put it, people think Rain Man. These videos are really really helping me get out of a dark place and see what her future may actually be like.
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad all these videos could help you think of a brighter future for your daughter! She’s amazing and just because she can’t communicate like most doesn’t mean she can’t communicate. She’ll have her own way of doing it. She can do anything she puts her mind to even if it’s not the “cookie cutter” tradition way to do it. May be harder, may take longer, but with support she can do it.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@ReineDeLaSeine14
@ReineDeLaSeine14 9 ай бұрын
I’ve known non-speaking people who’ve gone to college. I dated someone for 7 years who used both speech and AAC.
@StarfishSunsets
@StarfishSunsets Ай бұрын
If this gives you any hope, when my son was 9 months old, he was referred to early intervention because he was delayed and our reaching milestones. He did not begin speaking until he was 2 (more like 2.5) years old (besides mama & dada). At 18 months old, he was diagnosed with PDDNOS. My world was shattered. He even got dropped on his head at an afterschool program when he was 9 and had a traumatic brain injury and survived a subdermal hermatoma. This caused him to regress a little bit for a year or so, but it’s not over yet…… Fast forward 12 years, my son has been progressing, although not as fast as peers. The PDDNOS was ruled out when he was 6, and replaced with a diagnosis of apraxia of speech. He is still delayed in all areas, but with services, moving forward. Now, my son is almost 15 years old. Although communication is his weakness, he is in college level math and is a high honor straight A student. He flapped his hands when he ran when he was little, was extremely introverted and quiet and would run in circles. Best of all, he is the most kindest and genuinely sweet human I have ever met in my life. He is not arrogant or selfish at all. The progress we have seen over the past 13 years is living proof that those with “learning disabilities” can prevail and be successful thriving human beings and what may be a weakness to some is a strength to others. Many of these kids are “gifted” and have “exceptional” abilities in other areas they are passionate about….like my son is a math genius and I need to use a calculator!! I can speak publicly, and that is his weakness….we are all different. In time you will see that she will grow and progress and you will discover what her hidden abilities are ❤
@ChrisstineLynnn
@ChrisstineLynnn 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for the iceberg analogy--it is PERFECT. I even screenshotted the little graphic you put up of the iceberg saying 'my autism you see' and 'my autism I hide'. We love you, Olivia!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@ShintogaDeathAngel
@ShintogaDeathAngel 2 ай бұрын
@@bolinhong2598 bullshit
@erina7281
@erina7281 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed as high functioning autism as 34years old woman. I’ve struggled so much to communicate with people, that affected my work, my confidence, relationships in many mays. I am so relieved to watch your video that I’m the not the only one. Thank you for sharing your story ❤
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@melaniesanchez2442
@melaniesanchez2442 2 жыл бұрын
Olivia thank you so much for this and explaining it so well. My 7 year old was recently diagnosed with autism and we both have watched your videos. She smiled and said "I'm like her" You give us so much encouragement and we learn a lot from you. Thank you!
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you so much for leaving this comment, Melanie! It made my day and made me smile. Your daughter is awesome and can do anything she puts her mind to! 💙
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@PaperCraneOfHope
@PaperCraneOfHope Жыл бұрын
Hey Melanie… I know you wrote this comment a year ago… But I’m curious as to what lead you to getting your daughter diagnosed? My daughter is 7 and I suspect she has autism, I’m considering taking the path of having her tested. But not sure if it’s in my head!
@melaniesanchez2442
@melaniesanchez2442 Жыл бұрын
@@PaperCraneOfHope hi! I noticed extreme anxiety when she was a baby. She wouldn't let anyone hold her or hardly touch her except me. Even my husband she would fuss with a lot. She was an early talker,at 15 months she was screened and they said she had the vocabulary of a 3 year old. She has a high IQ and would hyper focus on puzzles and having everything a specific way. (She was also diagnosed with OCD) she always would scream when the routine would change,for example bedtime,if we did something in the "wrong"order,it would be a huge meltdown. Many people in our lives thought she just needed more discipline but I knew there was something going on and I was persistent to get answers so I could get her the help she needed.she spoke well and early but she didn't speak to other people. She still struggles with that but doing better. She is also on medication for the OCD and that has helped. Other signs I saw, toe walking, not being able to regulate her emotions, many things had to be repeated the same, and she would repeat,if it got messed up she would start from the beginning. She also has very sensitive ears,sounds make her stressed and so do smells. People get offended by her bluntness sometimes because she will blurt out if something smells and it really does bother her so much she will cry sometimes.textures and clothing bother her,but she has gotten better with that as she got older (8years old now) As she has gotten older she has been able to handle some things a little better. She used to hide under tables in public if someone tried to look at her or talk to her or scream at them. Now she doesn't do that as much. She does try to run away if she gets triggered.she is also very literal. I saw all of this on her before she got diagnosed. I hope this helps and I hope you get answers!
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
My son has suffered autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely, his speech is vital and his social skill is perfect.
@kellygarnet6329
@kellygarnet6329 2 жыл бұрын
Again another enlightening lesson for us. Thanks, Olivia.
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching, Kelly!
@LovelyRuthie
@LovelyRuthie 2 жыл бұрын
Up until my daughter's dx I was labelled an overly-anxious parent for suggesting she might be autistic. Up until the day before her dx I had actual Doctors telling me she couldn't be autistic because she could smile & give eye contact. I didn't dare mention that I might be autistic. Then when she got her diagnosis well-meaning folk were sorry for her & me but assured us it must be just a 'mild' case because she seems so 'normal'. Thankfully, school understood the level of my daughter's support needs & how I had to step in to be her Executive Function & how when she said 'Yes, I know what I'm supposed to do' she was still processing what she was told & actually had no idea what she was supposed to be doing. They began to see when she was masking & how her learning needed to be greatly adapted so she could retain what she was being taught. She's now in a special secondary school & just yesterday a neighbour was shocked & saddened to hear that was the case. I told them how great she is now doing with the help she needs but they seemed confused as to why she needed it because they thought "She was normal." I began to explain her sensory needs and her dyscalculia but just wrapped it up with a "I'm very proud of her," because I couldn't join in with this acquaintance's mourning. It left me feeling sad that my daughter was first overestimated & then underestimated in the space of five minutes. When I tell people about my autism, they tend to laugh it off. Believe me, once they get to know me & my idiosyncrasies they need no convincing LOL. Love your content. Your videos are a brilliant resource I can point people in the direction of.
@ohellosunshine7
@ohellosunshine7 Жыл бұрын
OMG, I am just like your daughter, but I am 27 and I am awaiting a diagnosis! I hope it goes well!!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@LovelyRuthie
@LovelyRuthie Жыл бұрын
@@edwinhill413 autism isn’t a disease to be cured with herbs…or anything. Utter crank bs!
@ShintogaDeathAngel
@ShintogaDeathAngel 2 ай бұрын
@@AbdulRahman-lv5pj bull
@whitneymason406
@whitneymason406 2 жыл бұрын
In these terms I would be considered high functioning and my son would be considered low functioning. I don't like either label because it makes it seem like I'm just a touch autistic, so it's a bit dismissive and makes is seem that I don't need much support. For my son it makes people assume that since he is nonverbal and "low" functioning, he isn't going to amount to much and people pity me. Both are so not true! I appreciate you taking the time to discuss this topic :)
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@liesleverett9308
@liesleverett9308 2 жыл бұрын
It’s been a while since I last watched and commented on your videos since I started my first semester of college this fall and have been working with a new psychiatrist, but this was an excellent way to explain how “high-functioning” and “low-functioning” can hurt someone who is autistic.
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
I hope your first semester of college is going great, Liesl! How is your new psychiatrist? It's hard to find good ones. Thanks for watching my videos and hope you've been great!
@liesleverett9308
@liesleverett9308 2 жыл бұрын
@@OliviaHops He’s great and really knows exactly what he’s doing when testing people, what needs to be tested for, and being able to actually diagnose people. I’m so glad my mom found him since we’ve had a hard time finding someone to fully diagnose me. And yes my first semester of college is going great!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@ShintogaDeathAngel
@ShintogaDeathAngel 2 ай бұрын
@@bolinhong2598 bullshit
@norsevampyr
@norsevampyr 2 жыл бұрын
Olivia, thanks for this video! You are right on the mark with this. I was diagnosed with Autism in 2020 at 34 years old and I found your videos when I was first diagnosed and I want you to know what a comfort they were to me! So many of the things you talk about in your videos I can relate to and it helps validate my experience. Girls on the spectrum are quite overlooked and I appreciate how you are sharing your own experience. I’m sure it helps more people than you know!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@ladystardust2008
@ladystardust2008 2 жыл бұрын
You're The Best. Too tired to write a big compliment so I will just leave it there.
@omarcrosby
@omarcrosby 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing light to these things.
@casscass8372
@casscass8372 2 жыл бұрын
How are you able to smile and talk at the same time like that... its so lovely... I want to learn that skill... 😁
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Aw, thanks so much, Cass!! I don't think I even realized I did that. I bet if you practice you will get it down no problem! ☺️💙
@ralphhancock7449
@ralphhancock7449 2 жыл бұрын
My Sister-in-law learned to do it for her job as a waitress. That really paid off $$$ for her.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@mommaA505
@mommaA505 2 жыл бұрын
I loved the way you explained that. I really think most people think the Spectrum linear. I really like your iceberg Example. I might have to use it in the future 🙂
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Please use it whenever you need!! I thought it was a great way to describe things and I feel like it's something everyone can understand. Thanks for watching my video :)
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@EmilyOrr-oo3pe
@EmilyOrr-oo3pe 9 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful. I have been diagnosed with high functioning autism today at the age of 35 and I am so grateful to have come across this video to help me understand my own iceberg. It gives me a tool to explain what is going on for me to other people. Bless you sharing your message it has helped me immensely.
@SarahDale111
@SarahDale111 2 жыл бұрын
Preach, sister!! 🤘😄
@user-br6tm4tc5f
@user-br6tm4tc5f 2 жыл бұрын
PREACH! Love 💕 this video & your perspective really resonates with me. Great visuals & analogies.
@nancysmith3400
@nancysmith3400 Жыл бұрын
Awesome awareness update, thank you so much. I am learning so much about myself I didn't know how to express. And so much about everyone else that has these autistic challenges. I don't feel so alone and nonfunctional as before your videos. Accepting what is and loving myself and others compassionately is so helpful. Thank you Olivia for speaking to us and for us. Your life is a Blessing to all. 😊💜
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@missnord7730
@missnord7730 2 жыл бұрын
How about rephrasing the word “high or low” support need to specific support needs? This takes the whole measuring out of the game which seems to confuse more than help the person in need of support and leaves people to judge someone’s severity after their own measuring stick. Thank you Olivia for making very clear and understandable videos of what we autistic people live with every day. ☀️
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@Treeny4
@Treeny4 2 жыл бұрын
I genuinely love your channel! You explain things so well. You have helped me make sense of my daughters condition and I thank you for that
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@remekster
@remekster Жыл бұрын
Love the angles you put on Autism and how you described high and low traits. Thanks for this
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@patriciadepiazza1182
@patriciadepiazza1182 2 жыл бұрын
So grateful that you make these videos, I hope you realize which I’m sure you do how much you help those of us out here who have always felt like a square peg in around hole. You have opened our eyes and you’re helping us to live our lives and be excepting of ourselves and making the proper adjustments.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@ginettehb
@ginettehb 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that... more people need to see this... it's been a long road to get to where we are today to understand more about ASD. My grandson is on the spectrum and he is amazing... it is hard for outside people to understand the struggles unless you're "there", but you're videos will help that! 👍
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@tom18807
@tom18807 Жыл бұрын
This is the information I was looking for thanks, great video!
@vanbrewer5932
@vanbrewer5932 2 жыл бұрын
Olivia, this video is wonderful and a perfect description of what it's like to be a "high" functioning autistic person. I've been watching your videos for several months and I was diagnosed with Autism at age 36 back in September. I just want to say that your videos have really helped me understand my autism better and also are helping me gain the confidence to talk about my struggles a little more freely with the people close to me. Please keep up the hard work! I appreciate your gift to the community!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@XanderLand_Studios
@XanderLand_Studios 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, another great video, Olivia! Great to see more Autism videos! Very awesome and amazing to see more positive vibes surrounding autism, and it’s strengths, and it’s struggles. Thank you for being you:)
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching my videos and supporting me! It means so much to me! 💙
@XanderLand_Studios
@XanderLand_Studios 2 жыл бұрын
@@OliviaHops you’re most welcome! I always look forward to another video from you:)
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@angelabolhuis9575
@angelabolhuis9575 Жыл бұрын
So happy I have discoverd your channel. Gives me so much support and self-acceptance. Thank you!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@lvmm2292
@lvmm2292 Жыл бұрын
The iceberg analogy is perfect!! 👌🏼Ty for that, def gonna use that when explaining to others. 😊
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@emilieberthoux380
@emilieberthoux380 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Olivia! 💗 Love from France 😊
@ShawnaB.
@ShawnaB. Жыл бұрын
Well said Olivia, thank you for being the voice for so many of us who aren’t as articulate as we’d like to be. I have a bunch of people who I will show this to. You are helping so many people with your honesty. My daughter and I thank you ❤
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@louisegreen14
@louisegreen14 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos and this channel. I have a friend who has been my best friend for 42 years. Because of your channel I understand her even better and now respect her more. I look forward to seeing more of your content. 😊🤗
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@ViljaVeta
@ViljaVeta 2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Thank you so mutch for sharing! The explanation about the iceberg was so well described and makes everything about autism more understandable! 🙏🏻❤️👍🏻
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@rover790
@rover790 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for explaining this so well. I love the coloured diagrams, it really helps show it clearer. I have some family members with autism, diagnosed and undiagnosed and each is very different. I appreciate your videos and loved your chat with Orion Kelly. Best wishes.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@alyssaschneider1993
@alyssaschneider1993 2 жыл бұрын
I’m “high-functioning” and I would like to say that your videos help me a lot. As a high schooler, many of my peers don’t acknowledge that my struggles are real until I break down in front of them; just because I don’t seem it on my good days. You validate that I am not ‘“wrong” to be both high/low functioning at different times on different days with different circumstances.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@ShintogaDeathAngel
@ShintogaDeathAngel 2 ай бұрын
@@bolinhong2598 BS
@jennym-lsh
@jennym-lsh 2 жыл бұрын
You are such an amazing human, thank you for your videos. I relate to you so much, with so many of the same traits. I am still in the process of being assessed as an adult, I’ve been on an 18month wait list in the UK. Seeing your videos really gives me a lot of comfort, thank you.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@littlebigknits
@littlebigknits 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos! As a parent of a teen recently diagnosed with exactly that “high” functioning autism, I appreciate learning from you. I wonder if you wouldn’t mind sharing a little about the difficulty that a person with autism may have with living on their own…planning for the future here 😊
@alxndramarie
@alxndramarie 2 жыл бұрын
I see no one has replied to you so I figured I’d offer some thoughts. For starters, I am not diagnosed autistic but am currently working with a psychiatrist because I believe I am. I was diagnosed with ADHD early last year and believe I have both after seeing some of my issues not really covered in ADHD but rather in autism and vice versa. So some of my issues may be more ADHD but hopefully worth mentioning and considering for you and your son. I am 32 and have always lived with someone up until a few months ago when my partner and I separated. Living alone is extremely hard. One thing I’ve realized that has helped me stay “on track” often is body doubling. Knowing when to go to bed and get up, eat, shower, and even use the bathroom is easier when you see someone else doing it or needing it first. I didn’t know I had these issues as severely until I lived alone. You latch on to that behavior and the pressure from someone else can be needed. My time blindness makes me lose an entire day in a flash and I haven’t done anything at all or, I’ve hyper focused on something and haven’t eaten or done any house chores. I am currently so behind on house chores and my problems with organizing and prioritizing tasks makes it difficult to start things and I often get paralysis where I can’t get off the bed/couch/chair. And even when I do make good strides, completion rate is extremely low. Grocery shopping is way too overwhelming with the sensory overload of the store and then factoring in people and then to make decisions on what to eat and when and what I need and don’t need. I am exhausted all the time and can’t share simple responsibilities or tasks with anyone else and then they don’t get done. I almost always have dishes in the sink and it becomes a real problem because my sensory issues mean I can’t touch them or hear the sliminess of cleaning them and I’m faced with a physically and emotionally exhausting time to compete a simple stack of dishes or, to throw the dish/Tupperware away. My need to absorb myself in all my interests means I have over accumulated items that I really don’t “need” but I can’t get rid of them. My love of bridge burning or being a hermit means I’m left to my own devices and make poor decisions. The last point I’ll make even though I could make many more, is that my exhaustion levels are so intense that I cannot work full time and so my potential for income unless I run my own business is limited and rent is costly. To sum up a lot of it, what a neurotypical does would take me 3-10 fold the amount of time and I am only one person. Now, all that is to name a few of my struggles but I’d like to offer help. We are fortunate to continue to grow in technology and available services. In terms of planning for the future and what would help me would be taking advantage of services to make life easier. Having a meal delivery service would be helpful if I could afford it but for now I at least get my groceries delivered. I am trying to increase my income to afford to hire a house cleaner bi-weekly if possible to take that off my plate. Their 3 hours of cleaning would probably take me 3 weeks to accomplish. I have hue lightbulbs on every light so I can adjust the light levels and colors when needed and they don’t make a noise I can hear which other lightbulbs can do and it affects me. I am overhauling my apartment to better suit designated areas for various tasks and interests to hopefully help keep me in focus and organized. I have a dog and I have adapted to using the restroom when she needs to. She must know I need a push because she for whatever reason does not eat unless I am eating. My concern for her means I get food and we both eat. She also helps me with sleeping issues (time for bed and less anxiety at bedtime). She also needs meds and so we take ours at the same time. I really think pets or having a dependent can be helpful as they have their own schedule and somehow it’s easier to help someone with their needs than your own. I’m not sure Olivia’s needs that may limit her from living alone but what I can say is it’s extremely hard to do, but there are definitely options too. Hopefully there are some for your son that can help him if he eventually would like to live alone and if not, there are options for roommates or professionals! I recently saw some postings in my area for various jobs as basically a roommate for someone with autism that will also help with meals, meds, and accountability. I never heard this before but may be worth some research to see how that process works! Best of luck to you and your son and hopefully I was able to help a little. 🤍
@littlebigknits
@littlebigknits 2 жыл бұрын
@@alxndramarie thank you for sharing your experience 😊😊
@hrobert745
@hrobert745 2 жыл бұрын
@@alxndramarie thank you for sharing your story! It’s really helpful with all the details. I live with a partner and when he’s out of town, bad things happen, like I fall, get sick, etc. I think I have the same problems regulating myself that you mention. I have been puzzling over why I fall (7 times last year) and I was slowly coming to the idea that I just drop from exhaustion. Your post makes me think maybe that’s true and gives me a new perspective on my issues. I have two dogs who expect me to follow a very strict schedule for feeding, walks, etc. and like you I think they really help me.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son #droyalo with your herbs
@akontilis1792
@akontilis1792 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing these thoughts. I know as a teacher we sometimes are told about a student coming into our classroom that us new to us, and the term of description that may be used is "high functioning" - I know our administration never means it to invalidate any needs or persons, but usually is just a way to begin to communicate what we may be able to expect from that student. Of course we won't really know that until we get to know the student. It's been used more as a way to convey "hey this new student can probably hold their own in your class based on its content, but be alert for other needs your student may have" I really appreciate you clarifying what words convey, and I really love your channel - I have learned so much from you. God bless you, Olivia!!
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@AlisonTrotter1
@AlisonTrotter1 2 жыл бұрын
You are awesome!!! This is so great. Well communicated, and it helps me to understand more as well.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@alexadellastella5247
@alexadellastella5247 Жыл бұрын
just SO well explained!!!!!! perfect, thanks!!!
@em3603
@em3603 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed this today.
@tazeroo6336
@tazeroo6336 2 жыл бұрын
This is a very helpful explanation . Thank you
@stellaglover6841
@stellaglover6841 Жыл бұрын
Well done on explaining this way of looking at Autism. Helps me to try explains this to others when they doubt.
@Awi_i_mi_zo_ni_ve
@Awi_i_mi_zo_ni_ve Жыл бұрын
This was so beautiful! I don't know what to say but..I feel the way you do
@zachsmith9127
@zachsmith9127 2 жыл бұрын
Another awesome video Olivia!
@TheRanch4Life
@TheRanch4Life 2 жыл бұрын
Olivia I love your videos. They have made be feel so much better. Thank you
@eedsweezy
@eedsweezy 2 жыл бұрын
I've just recently gone through ASD testing and am waiting for the team to call me for results. Whether I do have it or not, your content is great and relatable. Thank you!
@rhondadavis3837
@rhondadavis3837 2 жыл бұрын
You have an entire team??!! How do they test for autism? I'm in a small town in Oklahoma. Our doc don't think autism happens to women....
@eedsweezy
@eedsweezy 2 жыл бұрын
@@rhondadavis3837 it's a local practice that has you go through interviews and getting with their aides and the doc.
@eedsweezy
@eedsweezy 2 жыл бұрын
@Rhonda Davis first i saw the psychologist who determined it was worth testing for. they interviewed myself and my wife. Then sent paperwork that had a ton of questions for me and family members. I also had to do a 350 question test. Like a personality type test. It's a common one for asd but I can't remember the name right now. They are still going over things and should hopefully hear something this week.
@rhondadavis3837
@rhondadavis3837 2 жыл бұрын
@@eedsweezy I'm so lost right now as far as getting treatment. I can't even find anyone to help me through the medicaid process. Since I can speak and write well, it is assumed that I'm just lazy and don't want to do my own paperwork. My mom is ashamed of my autistic childhood behavior and downplays it. I was just a late bloomer, she says... But, I'm 43 now, and I am so close to giving up. I have no friends, no one aside from my mom who can confirm that I don't have a job... That is my problem getting medicaid, The government wants a statement from someone I don't live with that I haven't worked in 5 years. I read and hear about people getting help with late diagnosis of autism. I feel myself slipping through the proverbial cracks and it just makes me angry.
@eedsweezy
@eedsweezy 2 жыл бұрын
@@rhondadavis3837 rightfully so. It's frustrating. I hope you find the help you need. Keep going.
@bhan5629
@bhan5629 8 ай бұрын
I was hesitant to watch this from the title, being so so discouraged by the rampant use of functioning labels in yt comments, but glad I did, thank you for spreading proper info!
@TheAstrologyVitamin
@TheAstrologyVitamin 9 ай бұрын
Thank you hun. I'll be mindful of this.
@Craigs_Cartoon_Capers
@Craigs_Cartoon_Capers 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Olivia! Our daughter was diagnosed with Autism Level 1 high functioning last month. She's in 12th grade, always been "quirky," but no one was ever 100% sure she was on the spectrum. Your videos have been great for us to understand autism more, thanks so much! Our pastor said, " I knew your daughter was cool. I didn't know she was ASD cool!" Thanks for all you do to educate the world about our wonderful kids!
@jenamillette8608
@jenamillette8608 2 жыл бұрын
Wow you have just described my teenage daughter on point. The Iceberg is a great representation of how she functions. We are still trying to get her diagnosed as being autistic. It has been a real struggle with her school. Thank you so much for this video. May God bless you and your family.🙂
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@Johnthebackwardsdude
@Johnthebackwardsdude 7 ай бұрын
That was so well said. I have high functioning autism and my family has never supported me. I finally got a formal diagnosis a few months ago and I will be working with a vocational rehabilitation specialist to help me get a job. I’ve worked in broadcast before as an editor and was harassed and ostracized a great deal. So I am a bit concerned about what kind of job I will work and will people be nice to me. Anyway thank you for your videos, you have a new subscriber.
@dinieldelaware
@dinieldelaware 2 жыл бұрын
This was a great video & I'm glad I watched it before making another video for my page. I also used description that autism is a spectrum but I never thought to describe it in such a colorful way thank you 🙂
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@BlackHoleQueen
@BlackHoleQueen 5 ай бұрын
0:34 you just explained me. In the school system, I’m in a class with a lot of people that need help, and I don’t and most rarely ever get help, it just saddens me.
@bronwyncampbell7129
@bronwyncampbell7129 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I was diagnosed at 41 and relate to everything you say.
@derek9063
@derek9063 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. You are amazing.
@mik_88
@mik_88 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, it helped alot! God bless!!!
@rubycubez1103
@rubycubez1103 2 жыл бұрын
When I recently told a former coworker I was diagnosed with ADHD and ASD, she immediately said "you're not autistic". An irrational angered sadness came over me. I don't know why. I guess she's an expert since she was a special ed teacher 20+ yrs ago...she knows all aspects of autism apparently smh.
@Catlily5
@Catlily5 2 жыл бұрын
The diagnosis of Autism has changed a lot in 20 years and she probably doesn't know that. I know an extremely unhelpful former special ed teacher myself.
@faeriesmak
@faeriesmak 2 жыл бұрын
@@Catlily5 I fought the school for 4 years while my son was in middle school because the school psychologist was very outdated. He has ADHD and now was diagnosed ASD. She kept telling me that he couldn’t be having the problems that we claimed that he was because other kids were not hav8g those problems. We were also told that he needed an intervention with her, us, and the teachers to scare him into doing and turning in his school work. Meanwhile I had a kid who had multiple meltdowns a day and was really struggling.
@Catlily5
@Catlily5 2 жыл бұрын
@@faeriesmak So just because she never saw it before it doesn't exist? Sorry you had to go through all that!
@faeriesmak
@faeriesmak 2 жыл бұрын
@@Catlily5 Yes. Actually she DID see it. She told me that all of his teachers say X,Y,and Z, which were some of the main issues but then also went on to tell me that he couldn't be having those issues (even though she said that he WAS having those issues). She also blamed me for some of them, even though I was the one that asked for the 504 Plan, etc. to try to get him some support. It was really terrible. Luckily this year he is in high school and I have had the opposite experience. He is getting a lot of extra help and after I asked for a 504 plan again the guidance counselor asked me if they could start the process for an IEP as well. I told them what happened last year and they are not including the school psychologist in the screening process even though it is the same school district.
@Catlily5
@Catlily5 2 жыл бұрын
@@faeriesmak I am glad that he is getting better help in highschool!
@kbrown933
@kbrown933 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This makes me know that I need to help my daughter with a diagnosis ❤️
@persian9259
@persian9259 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your videos they are very helpful x
@terrimaerz2688
@terrimaerz2688 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!
@michaelyoung7974
@michaelyoung7974 7 ай бұрын
Very very thought-provoking. The comments about the color wheel stimulated my thinking. When I was sub teaching, I had several students diagnosed as high-functioning whom I valued immensely, and who did very well academically. But it's a struggle to find an appropriate alternate vocabulary for HFA, so I'd appreciate any suggestions. I agree with you that when it comes to observing the human condition, so many people figure that if they can't see it, then it doesn't exist or it's craziness.
@summerrose7839
@summerrose7839 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! I’m an autistic person, and I loved your video. You seem really genuine and nice. :) I subscribed. Also texture in food and parties make me uncomfortable too. So you’re not alone there. Lol. Keep up the good work!
@cjramseyer
@cjramseyer 2 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome video, and an incredible explanation. I appreciate how much you shared. Perhaps it would be possible for you to share a "day in the life" type video, which could help people understand how your Autism is unique to you and the same types of situations might be different for another Autistic person. Thanks again, enjoying your videos.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@analucosta40
@analucosta40 Жыл бұрын
You’re amazing. I’m going through your videos and it’s helping me to understand my daughter. Thank you
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@Lyla.kitkat1987
@Lyla.kitkat1987 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I relate so much, especially with the articulate part. I was born in 87 and my mom dealt with multiple professionals when it came to me and back then, they hadn't grasped this because my parents talked about some of the convos they had with these professionals and they were like "she's not "ret@arded" but we can tell she can't function very well either.. I myself have noticed these things...I have the gift of a silver tongue and I used to write poetry. English for the longest time was my favorite subject. I started becoming suspicious of high functioning autism a few year back but I stopped telling people because a common response I got was "i dont think your autistic, you can write and you speak clearly, I know so and so who has it and they can barely hold a pen, let alone form decent sentences.." Not that I'm annoyed with those people, I've just learned I look after it myself for the most part (with the help of The Creator
@Chopper140
@Chopper140 7 ай бұрын
Lots of people get autistic people confused as people with helmets on their heads or banging their heads on the wall. Autism is so diverse and I have what’s recorded as “level 1”. People have told me “you’re not autistic”; I even feel nervous about sharing this with others. Sometimes I am forced to tell people. I’m in a 12 step program and was having a hard time understanding what people were telling me. To their instant judgement, I seem like a “frat boy” or someone who is arrogant but when they get to know me they always are like “I didn’t know you were like that”. So they don’t see what’s really going on and it’s difficult even being as “high-functioning” as I am because it’s easy to perceive me as a shy and nervous person. I can’t tell you how many times people have told me to not care what people think but the truth is I have little problem with that. It’s just that I get real anxious in crowds be due I hear every conversion and can’t make solid eye contact during a conversation. What really gets on my nerves is people saying “what’s wrong with you” or “you’re weird” or “why do you act that way” etc.. I had to learn to control my anger though. I’m 27 and consider myself an attractive male. Lots of women come up to me but end up not being able to handle how awkward I am. They perceive it as me having low confidence. Idk.. it’s weird but whatever I’ll keep going. 👍
@DollyJohanne
@DollyJohanne Жыл бұрын
Thank you!? So well explained 👏 👌 🙌 ❤️
@jousinkad2380
@jousinkad2380 13 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. It help me to understand it much better.
@ClandestineGirl16X
@ClandestineGirl16X Жыл бұрын
Thank you Miss Olivia
@megicsinkl
@megicsinkl Жыл бұрын
i really appreciated this video, i struggle to understand my recent autism diagnosis for multiple reasons, while at the same time i completed understand and it explains a lot about me. one big reason its hard for me to understand my high-functioning ASD diagnosis is how i’ve masked my symptoms for the majority of my life, even internally, nowadays i struggle with my identity partially due to this. this video worded a lot more i wasn’t able to identify and communicate myself, but wow can i heavily relate to a lot of your experience. thank you.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@tinacubillos461
@tinacubillos461 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! I have a daughter and a son who are Autistic and people are always doubting my daughters diagnosis!
@vanessajones9524
@vanessajones9524 2 жыл бұрын
I came upon your videos by chance. I have lots of the traits...🤔 lots of research to do but this is interesting and makes sense.
@RobinFritts
@RobinFritts 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing.
@otheremail123
@otheremail123 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, great KZbin channel!
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, Abe! Really appreciate your support!
@pattie2day
@pattie2day 2 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@GraySmithMusic
@GraySmithMusic 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for this.
@Marzipana1
@Marzipana1 4 ай бұрын
You are wonderful and I thankyou for sharing this, this is so helpful for people like me, who don‘t know much about all the aspects. For me autism was a person that isn‘t able to communicate with our world much and I just learn that there is so much more. I wonder if it is good to have the same name for something that is similar in sensory problems but so difficult in the effect on the person having it. That‘s why I thought calling some as having ‚Asperger‘ is more accurate but you explain that it‘s just levels in the spider graph, it makes so much sense to me now.
@riitaalin
@riitaalin 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm trying to understand My G/sons diagnosis in the past two months of "High Functioning" Autism". My son has explained it some to me but its not what I'm hearing from you completely. He has explained it thru chats from the internet from another country so maybe thats where I got lost some. thank you for helping others.
@alisonwilks302
@alisonwilks302 2 жыл бұрын
Lots and lots of love to you . I feel proud of you. I am disabled and I am so bored of people who don't understand or believe me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@Proudchristian1975
@Proudchristian1975 2 жыл бұрын
I wanted to say thank you very much for your videos. I don't know much about autism and I had a very wrong idea Of what I thought it was. Because of your video it has opened my eyes to a new possibility in regards to my child ,So thank you, and God-bless you. P.S. IGNORE THE HATERS
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@dianabushman5396
@dianabushman5396 Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed at 54 and this has been a crazy year since my diagnosis. I am learning to know myself, my real self what a blessing to finally understand why I have been an alien all my life. Thank you for helping me understand myself better.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son #droyalo with your herbs
@rrmother3748
@rrmother3748 2 жыл бұрын
YES GIRL!!! You tell ‘em sister!! I’m so sick of nosy, judgmental, close-minded people who think that they know SO much more than everyone else. Q for U: In a future video, can you maybe address ASD and gender, and how gender “dysphoria” is more common in the ASD population than the NT pop? I know that’s a political hot button issue (shouldn’t be tho), so I understand if you don’t want to go there! Thanks so much Olivia! Fan since the 1st video!
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching my video and for your sweet comment, Peggy! I really appreciate your support! You're awesome. God Bless 💙
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
There is a Dr that you can get in touch with Dr Oyalo on KZbin. Am excited to share about how his herbs works perfectly in reversing my son autism. now he is herbal with his behavior ok and he can now obey instructions. the herbs has been a positive impact on his and i recommend to everyone too.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son #droyalo with your herbs
@sueq6
@sueq6 Күн бұрын
Really great video..cheers
@wolfdreams2000
@wolfdreams2000 4 ай бұрын
#facts Awesomeness, thank you 😊
@distantplaces6560
@distantplaces6560 2 жыл бұрын
Once again, thank you so much. Even though I’m a bloke, so much of what you say resonates with me. This is so true with me. Only today, I was being pushed to go back to work and felt completely overwhelmed at the prospect of having to put my mask on and engage again. This is because I’ve been labelled as high-functioning. It seems to be a point that is lost on those nearest to me, which is hugely distressing because they more than anyone else should know.
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@madisong5276
@madisong5276 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I’m recently finding out I have “high functioning” autism. I’ve always been OCD, but I kept feeling like there was another component of my struggles that wasn’t ocd, as I had that managed with medication. I’ve struggled so much with social situations & anxiety about abandonment bc deep down I feel similar, that I couldn’t function on my own. It’s surprising to receive this diagnosis but also really validating. I struggled severely with social anxiety especially during high school. It helps to know my autism wasn’t a weakness or flaw that I couldn’t correct intellectually thru managing my behavior but rather something in my brain functioning. I would love to see a video on partner support for autism, and how they support and help with “low functioning” struggles. I know mine has taken a toll on former partners but my husband is really supportive and understanding
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@Dulcimerist
@Dulcimerist 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video, and really well put together and informative! Thanks for all of the work you've done on these! When someone irritates you by saying "Oh. You must be 'high' functioning," a funny reply would be "No, sorry, I haven't been smoking marijuana. Do I really seem high to you?"
@OliviaHops
@OliviaHops 2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately no because whenever I burn a bridge, I usually do it for a very specific reasoning that I could never get over. I'm not trying to say I'm right all the time because one, that's terrible, and two, that's obviously not the case. But in my head, what they did was wrong (doesn't mean I was right about anything, just what they did was wrong in my personal opinion which of course doesn't mean it actually was wrong), and I thus no longer want them to be in my life. If that makes sense...?
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@wendee618
@wendee618 Ай бұрын
I too have autism with no intellectual or communication deficits however I need a level 2 support. Yes I’m good at masking too. People don’t believe me when I tell them. But the daily struggle with health, mental well-being and social interactions are so very real. I also rely heavily on my husband who is also on the spectrum, and together we muddle through life. Life can be very hard and people’s ignorance can make it harder. So if you know someone who has been assessed with autism, please believe that it is true and be supportive.
@cherylyoke4872
@cherylyoke4872 18 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing that. I don’t have someone to help me muddle through.
@davidgarciacooke337
@davidgarciacooke337 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Thank you. I have a little boy that is 4 years old now. He is "very functional" but presents all the signs of the autistic spectrum. Thank you for informing.
@madcow3417
@madcow3417 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you were able to reference Rain Man without going into detail about every little way his expression of autism doesn't apply to you, or isn't actually real. I thought Dustin Hoffman did an incredible job. Also, a movie is a handy reference point: I've already spent 2 hours watching it, that's 2 hours less explaining that you have to do.
@aliviagivens1644
@aliviagivens1644 Жыл бұрын
I have my first initial autism evaluation this Monday, and if I'm given an autism diagnosis, people telling me I dont have autism is my biggest fear. Thank you so so much for your videos. It has helped me and my mom see a lot of similarities that we have, and gives me a lot of hope! ❤
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
@kpaxian6044
@kpaxian6044 3 ай бұрын
I don't tell anyone I am autistic. Only a few people know for sure. But I don't bring it up. I have had coworkers insinuate I am and I just navigate out of the conversation. Probably awkwardly. But they probably get that I don't talk about it. I don't want people making assumptions about my competency. I have already had people talk down to me. :/
@martinaperron9528
@martinaperron9528 2 жыл бұрын
I am self diagnosed, and love your iceberg description. When I tell people; I get the "you don't seem autistic", comments because I am learning that I am a masking expert, and just how much that has led to no one ever noticing despite looking back on my life and asking "How did no one ever notice"? From food texture issues, to the "other girls" asking my 5th grade teacher to tell me to quit following them. I thought we had all been friends since kindergarten. I was wrong. People just dropping out of my life for no reason that I could then see. I am 38 and have never moved out from my Mother! Never really thought to. Apparently thats not quite normal, and when these things were brought to me attention I can kinda see that the majority of people strike out on their own from some in born desire to break free......nope not me. I love your videos. Thank you! They help me!!! 💚💚💚💚
@edwinhill413
@edwinhill413 Жыл бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely and he can now respond to name when called and can also say what he want. This is a great Joy 🤩 Thank you 🙏 Dr Oyalo
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