I Have No Friends

May 21, 2022 (#3)

[@Doro4u]

To be honest, REAL friends are very rare. Most friendships are an act.

[@sho8567]

true

[@finixmoon127]

That’s why I don’t call these people friends, but rather good acquaintances

[@Albamonte589]

Not always

[@Albamonte589]

@@Doro4u I sometimes walk in the zoo and go to the chimp enclosure and mistaken them for my friends so I go in the enclosure because I think it's the school cafeteria but then I realized it isn't because the chimp rips my face off It ripped my dick off too but my friends do that as well

[@CoolCat_24x]

Well said

[@IamINERT]

I wish all the lonely people could spot other lonely people

[@afghzr7729]

Wouldnt that be great lol

[@naeco1602]

@𝙰𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚖𝚒 We can have many friends but still lonely. Some have very few friends but guess what..they don't feel lonely. Maybe because you don't have that deep and mutal connection with your friends?

[@apo11ocat]

i connect to this comment on a spiritual level

[@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg]

They can, and they would rather be alone than be around those people.

[@amenenema474]

Yes. Everyone puts on their best, bravest, fakest, "I'm totally okay and normal" face to get through the day. Can all of us lonely, sad, desperate people just start wearing a sign or something?? 😂

[@rickjohnson9558]

I am a 59 year old man. I have no friends, no close relatives. Never been married, no children. I used to think there was something wrong with me (there probably is), but then I read a line from the French philosopher Jean Paul Sartre, "Hell is other people". That really perked me up. I work, I read, I travel, and generally I'm happy. There is nothing worse than being around people who you don't especially like. Being in a relationship with someone you actively despise (been there) is worse than anything. You're young, you're smart---be patient. It'll happen.

[@user-qu9ez2xy5l]

True

[@jessee.23]

Maybe you have no friends because you are special. Do you know that fable of the Eagle and the chicken? Maybe you are just an Eagle.

[@rickjohnson9558]

@@jessee.23 I don’t know that fable, nor do I think I’m an Eagle. I’m just kinda jaded by life and bitter and distrustful, but thank you for the kind words

[@jessee.23]

@@rickjohnson9558 I know what you mean. But it seems that you don't need anybody to be happy, as you find your happiness at work or when you travel.

[@rickjohnson9558]

@@jessee.23 true enough. Life is short and you have to find happiness wherever you can. I hope you’re successful in finding it

[@Free_soul777]

2 years later, I'm watching and I feel I'm the one who is speaking in this video.

[@rabiaakheiri]

Try something new, Don't expect anything from anyone. And life goes on

[@h.....t-ow5vh]

​@@rabiaakheirieasy to say then done

[@rabiaakheiri]

@@h.....t-ow5vh because u are weak

[@naiveamerican]

You are not alone. Hugs

[@marcelokodama238]

Seeing her crying broke my heart into a million pieces.

[@David-bj8mg]

Seeing her crying made me realize how weak woman are. For man this is standart

[@scorpio958]

same

[@Santaaintgottime]

Santa is very sad seeing this poor girl pour her heart out ❤ stuck in the world of keeping up with the kardashians (jones)

[@philkilcommon5554]

Mine too. At 53, with quite severe M.E and Fibromyalgia, I'm much older, but since getting sick, I'm just waiting to die, life has become meaningless, and a torment.

[@ceeejay9112]

​@@philkilcommon5554i understand, to a degree. I'm not as ill ...but life seems meaningless. As Robbie Williams says"I don't wanna die, but I ain't keen on living either", or maybe I feel it the other way around?? In any case, just go day by day, moment by moment, and always remember there's someone out there worse than us. God bless you. Best wishes for yr health, mental and physical, emotional and spiritual ❤

[@G4meb0y19]

This poor girl needs a hug

[@di4985]

No I believe she needs a friend

[@alainthijs1583]

Both. A hug and a friend

[@sonnychhuon2694]

She needs to be kind to herself and become her own friend first. Treat yourself like someone you care about.

[@user-dn9kk9qu5y]

YEAH ABOUT THAT FAM ... YOU GO FIRST I WILL WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS FROM THE SAFETY OF MY APARTMENT LOL

[@sillysunnyd1237]

Im late, but i want to be her friend so badly

[@veronice_ronnie]

"If you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them." -Jodi Picoult

[@eggsdietdiary]

😢

[@incinerator7146]

:(

[@pandaaamaa]

how painfully true!

[@veronice_ronnie]

@@pandaaamaa yeah reality...

[@scotlandmc1724]

not true for me lmao i love being alone. looked up ‘i don’t want friends’ to see if anyone else felt similar and this came up….not exactly the vibe i was looking for.

[@beatrice6537]

Hi. I know it’s been two whole years since you posted this video, i stumbled here just now. I looked for some meaningful comments that could give real advice and found very little so i thought “Why not share my story?”. At 26 years old, i still feel a little behind. One year ago i thought exactly “Why does everyone KNOW How to make friends, How to Connect, and here I am struggling just to talk to someone?”. For some years all i brought to the table in a social situation was laughing and nodding. Like I couldnt even speak sometime, i was very embarassed and shy. At 13 i really had no friends, i was the loner that everyone avoided. At 14-15 i started high school and decided I would change. I made some friends, but never really fit in, I still felt I wasnt like everyone else. As years passed by, i started questioning the same things you said in the video. I never felt i had real friends. I saw everyone around me connecting so easily to others, and i just felt insecure and even more shy. I started going to therapy, i read books on psychology and relationships, I met my boyfriend. Social skills and making friends are a journey, a journey you typically do naturally when you are like 10-14, you start to open to the world and the world gives you feedback. At the beginning even if you “make a mistake” (saying the wrong things, ghost someone, be immature and some things like that) you just recover soon. When you’re older, it takes more time. It’s trial and error. At the beginning I had people I really liked in my life, people I wanted to be friends with, and I ghosted them because i was so afriad to say the wrong thing. I replied to msg days after and they got bored. It was just my insecurity, my fear, because every conversation for me was rare and crucial. All of this to say you have to start. You just have to start, to ask that person to go out, to reply a little more often, to talk to someone at an exam or lesson. You will get hurt and some things will go wrong, but you will learn. Social skills are skills to learn, and I still have my way to go to really be authentic and happy in my relationships but I am really grown, i am not so shy anymore, i can talk almost to anyone, i have my friend groups and people I can really trust. Please go to therapy and talk to your therapist about these things, read about friendships, about self esteem, shyness and social anxiety. Try to re build your self esteem and self image, you just see yourself as someone that is alone and cant be like the others, but it’s not true! It’s just the way you feel you are being perceived by others because of the hurt you felt. it really will get better. Do one step at a time ❤️

[@추사김정이]

The nature always bless you.

[@ZipFpe-1]

Are you sure? I'm 11 and I'm struggling to make friends, I am struggling to be around other kids😞 that's why I don't like school, I have anxiety and depression

[@hieubui7907]

Thank you for sharing. It means a lot to me. Small actions can truly have a big, meaningful impact. I also struggled to connect with friends as a kid, but I haven’t given up on improving myself. I’ve been working on my communication skills, expanding my knowledge of psychology, and finding peace through faith in God and Buddhism, learning to accept the past. Time helps us grow. I’m grateful for the practice of self-love, understanding, forgiveness, and moving forward.

[@itis_ze]

​@@ZipFpe-1 It's normal. Just watch out.

[@ZipFpe-1]

@@itis_ze ok, I will watch out 👀

[@joep5146]

In this day and age of social media miserable trolls, it takes a lot of guts to do what you did in this video. I hope you find what you're looking for.

[@SiSiWilde]

Yes

[@TheVirginGary]

NEVER, Ever, do your research using Wikipedia, like the girl in this video, unless you like being misled. Google and the mainstream media are out to mislead you too. Being an actual Christian really helped me to be able to spot what most people cannot see.

[@Neckername1]

As someone who used to be in Media, and had an early start on the internet, I have been telling people the big mirror society will be forced to look into is coming, and I dont think people realize how ugly the reflection will be.

[@joep5146]

@eliluminado7--Take out the words "Being yourself in" and leave "Any social media is a bad idea" and I agree with you.

[@asdfdc1946]

@@joep5146 oh you're one of THOSE guys smh

[@cate1020]

i literally searched up on youtube "i have no friends" because i feel so alone. The hardest part is i've had a beautiful friendship. she was like my sister, we did everything together, told each other everything. She ended up moving to a different country. This was about 2 years ago, and we barely talk anymore and i feel like i'm never going to ever experience the friendship i had like that again

[@danieltorresjr.698]

Same. Kind of. I too had a best friend, we were kids in middle school, having fun, saying dumb jokes, making promises. He was like a brother to me. I have already lost many friends before for many reasons even dumb ones. So I thought I finally found one that would stick with me, we talked about living together for awhile, then inviting each other to our weddings. Highschool came and all of my friends were gone, even the one I thought was my best friend, well, he gave up on me. I asked him why he wasn’t contacting me, he answered and I knew from that point on, it would’ve been one sided. So I let him go. Then next thing you know I find out all my old friends are having the time of their lives, and here I am still thinking about the past. I’ve been on the football team, I’ve been in many after school clubs, I’ve learned to play electric guitar, learned other languages but nope, nothing seems to work, it’s like I’m uninteresting no matter what. I made acquaintances but no friends. It also doesn’t help that I went through two break ups freshman year. I really thought one of those relationships in particular was going to last a lifetime. I go out and look at the kids with their friends, I’m turning 18 and about to finish highschool. I’m about to be an adult and I feel like I have yet to experience my childhood. Seems like I will still have to continue life on my own. I wish you luck on your journey

[@cate1020]

@@danieltorresjr.698 We are literally in the same exact boat, it's my last year of high school and i feel like i don't have anyone. (i have one friend but we are really not as close as we used to be) I told myself I am going to give my absolute best effort to make some friends this year! if it doesn't happen it doesn't happen but at least i can say i tried. It's hard not having your best friend with you anymore, it almost feels like they never existed in a weird way. it's nice to think about the good memories but honestly it just hurts. Yesterday I couldn't stop thinking about it and i was in a really low spot, that's what brought me to this video. I also used to be SUPER extroverted, but over the years it's been so much harder for me to talk to others. My best friend made me a lot more confident and i didn't even know it until she was gone. I just feel like I don't fit in with all these people around me, but hey there's always someone out there. I'm not sure when they'll come along but in my heart i know. I really wish the best for you and I hope this year you can get out of your comfort zone a little bit and maybe you'll meet someone new!! Push yourself! ☺️ Youre not alone we are going through the same thing

[@mankaransingh4243]

I feel you .... The exact same happened with me and my bestfriend... Cuz I introduced him to a cooler guy

[@theplug2767]

Dam I feel u

[@danieltorresjr.698]

@@cate1020 Thanks. I’ve already tried to fit into groups at school, even the stereotypical ones, I’ve had lunch with the smart kids, I’ve been to fun and even boring after school clubs, I’ve been in sports teams, but nope. I’ve stopped trying. I don’t think it’s worth it as a senior. I’m working and saving to go out the country next summer with a gym partner of mine. I think I’d like to travel around for awhile meet new people that way

[@darryldonnelly5363]

"I just don't what's wrong with me" is a question I've asked myself a million times before its horrible having no friends overtime I've gotten used to it

[@samantha14843]

I've also asked myself that question so much that it's actually sad. Every day I ask myself, "What's wrong with you, why are you so weird, why don't you have friends like a normal person?" Life just hurts really bad sometimes:(

[@DLPfan-km8dc]

Bang 💥😂😂

[@nitishgautam5728]

​@@samantha14843 we don't have friends because we feel so insecure and fearful about what others will think about us , and there is nothing wrong with it because in our past there were incident in which everyone hurted you so know you just avoid people and people avoid you back.

[@WizPUGBM]

@@nitishgautam5728 Kind of, yeah. I always complain about never going out but I also never take the initiative to start a conversation with other people. My current lifestyle has made me depressed but im still putting in no effort. there's definitely something wrong with me

[@Candycloud_19]

Yeah me too

[@Oblinski]

The Loneliest People are often the best people you will ever meet. We aren't shallow, we aren't vain, we simply just crave connection with others, however because of our deep emotional ties to others, other people feel threatened by us. We see people for who they really are, we say it how it is, and that scares them. If you were a true friend you would stop your friend from doing something stupid. That kind of act is never appreciated in the moment, but appreciated in hindsight. That is why we are lonely people only care about us after we are gone from their lives.

[@kitbobit2415]

beautifully said

[@Bordie3D]

"What the fuck is wrong with me that I complain about this and I make no effort to try to change it" that is such a mood.

[@DominosF11]

Yh 😂

[@AwwesomlyAwwwetumn]

Yea……but my not trying is because of my learning not to it brings worse

[@GlowithOmi]

This one

[@Secret-jg1bk]

The real issue is trying and putting the effort in, when there's others out there who put in no effort and it just comes naturally, then you're rejected by everyone you personally put effort into just to be seen as a door mat.

[@SouvenTuduCODOH]

​@@Secret-jg1bkYes Spot on

[@zeke-8329]

"im mad at myself cause I dont try" this hits hard :(

[@Sakurinha21]

true, i really feel like her

[@cscs9192]

She need to try harder...

[@Keepyourselfsafe313]

@@cscs9192its difficult, easy to say if youre extroverted and social.

[@cscs9192]

@@Keepyourselfsafe313I bet its difficult. I'm not introvert, but i have other problems in my personality to deal with, and still not succeeding...its along battle. I mean we all have our burden, but we must not give up.

[@DeeK-du3ig]

And I think that idea is so flawed. Living is trying. But because you aren't "partying it up and meeting 20 people a day while also balancing getting a high paying job/good grades" like the "ideal person", you aren't trying. B.S.

[@XxBlacKSouL666xX]

Sometimes the idea of having friend or a lover is more recomforting than the real thing which is equally disappointing

[@ambakaro]

"Cuidado con lo que deseas porque puede que un día lo consigas" 100% cierto

[@Lilstormcloud91]

Facts 💯

[@shawnholton5182]

And sometimes having a real friend or lover is truely wonderful. It can happen.

[@dings2962]

I think it really depends on who you are talking to. I’ve had friends in my life who i wish I‘ve never met in the first place, because they have brought me so much pain and trauma. But there’s no way i would give up the friends that i have now, to forget those bad things from the past. There is more good than evil. And relationships with kind people can teach you this. You just have to find them and sometimes it takes a bit. Go to spaces where people with same ideologies are. you should actively search and also choose who to be friends with. And when people disappoint you, you will either have to let them go, or see if the disappointment is something you can work through together. Love and relationships in general are never perfect but they are often worth fighting for. People will also accept YOUR flaws. They will eventually like them.

[@SouvenTuduCODOH]

Yeah

[@TonicTheSeshHog]

I empathise with you. Being on your own is hard and it really tests you mentally. You start doubting your life, worth, capabilites etc. Just know you have amazing qualities, and there are people out there who would be grateful to call you their friend. Right now your paths haven't crossed yet, but in life things can happen so randomly. You literally never know whats around the corner. And when you do eventually meet your future friends, it's okay having a small circle. Theres a great quote: "If friends were money, I'd rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies" Your friends are out there waiting :) you got this 💯 Also respect for you uploading this video. 👍😎

[@EbenFuller]

Hopefully this lovely young lass is happier these days and not feeling so lonely. She seems like a sweet person who ought to have some good friends.

[@Marixx.-]

Same here i hope she's doing alot better cause she deserves happiness ❤

[@scorpio958]

same ❤

[@cynnanoli]

❤

[@lolhahahalmao]

where is she active in? what’s her name? how did you know bout that?

[@ajkundrath9661]

I'm a single 39 year old man with no children and never been married. I live alone. I work full time and own my house. I'm happy. Living in North West Ohio

[@efremsa]

Dont you feel lonelyness ?

[@ajkundrath9661]

@@efremsa I do

[@Thethethe231]

Hi I hope you will got friends maybe a wife as soon as possible But if you want an advice from me ?​ Search about islam Even if we are alone we dont feel loneliness Good luck in your life @@ajkundrath9661

[@jena_2722]

Oh that's great but also a bit lonely , Wishing you good health and always happy❤

[@079Francvs]

@@efremsa en mi caso tengo 30, vivo en República Dominicana, tengo mi propio negocio de desarrollo web, vivo solo... pero no me siento solo. Mantengo contacto con mi papá y mamá y tengo un par de amigas con derechos... supongo que sentir o no soledad es un tema de salud mental y tu propia mentalidad. Honestamente me siento mejor así que estando permanentemente acompañado, casado o viviendo con mis padres.

[@russiasgreatestexports4026]

“Wanting my alone time, when I’m alone all the time”, that one I felt in my soul. I do exactly this.

[@topophil]

What's wrong with it? I genuinely don't get it. I love my alone time, I'm sharing it with you right this second.

[@Lily-ow5wm]

@@topophilthat was me until it became my new normal.

[@innileliluvsan]

ong. lol sounds like my ex.

[@UnpopularGameGuy]

I felt that shit

[@56m900]

@russiasgreatestexports4026 "This loneliness won't leave me alone." Otis Redding, Sitting on the Dock of Bay.

[@Liv73387]

I relate to this so much! I never thought I would get to a point where I’m this miserable. I’ve had toxic friends throughout school who have messed me up to the point where I sometimes don’t feel real. It’s nice to know that there are others with the same situation. Much love ❤

[@Love_Yourself4830]

I lost my 13-year-old daughter to suicide six months ago. A big part of my healing journey has been making videos that talk about the "bad stuff" and looking for other creators who do the same. It took a great deal of bravery for you to make this. I hope you know how proud of you I am. I hope you know how much you are valued and loved. Thank you for...being human.

[@aneyelesspig8899]

Holy hell!! I can't imagine all the schock and grief you must've went through... my condolences. It's truly saddening to hear about someone so frail and young pass away. I hope you and the family are doing well.

[@2bh]

WOW im very sorry for your loss i wish you the best

[@timtimslimjim]

I'm really sorry for your loss. I lost a cousin last year to suicide. Not that that means I fully know what you're going through but I know that it's painful and hard to put into words. I wish you the best in healing.❤

[@Love_Yourself4830]

@@timtimslimjim Grief is different for everyone and not worth comparing, but I understand your message and sincerely appreciate the sentiment. Thank you for taking the time to reply.

[@acht2849]

Moving comment, thanks. Humanity is key, you are as couragious as this girl. Take care, sorry for your loss. Kind regards from The Netherlands.

[@_Sparrow_]

Every word you said... I understand. I feel you... I'm 22, have no friends or boyfriend. Everyday I feel extremely lonely and I don't know what to do with my life anymore.

[@PrettyGoodLookin]

Save, save, save...your money. Study compound interest . At your age if you start chucking away as much as you can to get an investment nest egg....then the compound interest will add up to millions in the end. People need financial security more than Friends. Friends are hard to find these days. Learn to cook so well you will not have to use a recipe after awhile. Work on your inner world. I know this.

[@avc9054]

I can recommend any sport where you meet people. Dance lessons or gym are also good options. If youre there you Most likely have the same interests as all the other people who are there

[@spawn1265]

Give the thanks to feminists,no man wants a false acussation, all women can be an Amber Heard. Try to have initiative with a man, girl's turn start.

[@moonknight6088]

Fellow 22-year-old here. Don't tie your self-worth with how other people value you, you are and always will be the most important person in your life. All relationships sour over time, the best thing you can do is know that you are valuable, capable, and full of potential with endless room for improvement. Don't let other people make you doubt yourself, your opinion of yourself is the most important part of your happiness. You deserve to be happy. In my humble opinion, friends and girl/boyfriends are often just temporary solutions to permanent problems that only have the power to overcome. Keep your head up, don't be too hard on yourself, and remember that we never know what our future holds. I also have no close friendships anymore and have been single for years but I'm still gonna overcome my challenges and kick life's ass, I hope you can too. You got this.

[@jetsofaqua2206]

I’m the same at 21 almost 22. It sucks

[@Nazinsky]

Being introverted sucks. I feel you. I feel so lonely but I love my space. I’m losing friends. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

[@binlapipo-fc6ev]

There is no wrong with u

[@MrStufolo]

Nothing is wrong with you.

[@syedibtisamhaider9257]

There is nothing like an introvert or extrovert bro, get out of these pseudoscientific terms

[@Doro4u]

@@syedibtisamhaider9257 those pseudoscientific terms are rather generalizing which I don't agree with but at the end they are explaining a specific matter for the better understanding. Although with that being said, they are kind of situational instead of fixed trait based on people's personalities. Our minds can control it and it's rather a choice of a person to be either extroverted or introverted. Both can be extremely difficult to go against tho

[@swagflame7972]

same here.

[@omosav]

This is too.. relatable.. I completely understand.. how you feel.. it kinda struck a nerve with me since I often feel lonely despite having ‘friends’ , it didn’t feel real to me.. I always wanted to put effort in but never succeeded.. I always was afraid .. my heart was killing me inside every time I tried.. like ‘is this even worth it? Why am I fucking loser who can’t do this?’ I feel like you literally read my mind.. and you’re so strong for putting this on the internet. You’re real one for putting this out there . From the bottom of my heart you made me cry. 😔

[@dazzamcg2369]

Damn we need to protect this girl at all costs. She really needs a big hug and someone to open up to in person

[@AlmightyScorchy]

You have people like that near you and you don’t even notice it

[@rian0xFFF]

where are her parents

[@danrobins775]

Well, that's the whole point of the video you silly goose 🤣

[@TheDextermat]

She is not alone, she looks like a good kid being invisible for some reason.

[@brunosm.l2267]

@@AlmightyScorchy damn, what's that culpabilization stuff? you don't even know him (I assume is a guy, because as a boy I felt something similar.

[@FATMAN-EATZ]

I honestly hope this girl found happiness and joy in life

[@Uhh_I.forgor]

The bad thing about never having friends is that when you try to connect with others you don't know what to say, feel or do because for all your life you did not learn how to do that but instead learnt how to live without anyone

[@alejandramarquez6804]

Yes you cannot be authentic. It's harder as adult.

[@RosinDaddy5280]

​@@alejandramarquez6804yes especially at 32

[@jvansolivj4556]

This!

[@daniiii.v]

Social anxiety and the comfort of being alone.

[@AzizOudi-f4y]

I struggle to make friends because of social anxiety 🙂

[@rkworth1]

i lost my 16 year old daughter last year, she took her own life. she felt pretty hopeless about life - especially friend relationships. she was a wonderful person, but would pick crappy friends. you are not alone. i think social media has really screwed things up for people. people put their fake faces on, but i think everyone feels pretty empty inside. thank you for sharing - sometimes i think i was at fault. but hearing how other people are dealing with the same issues makes me know that she was not alone. you are not alone - hang in there - and be safe.

[@Simonsays..]

Sorry about your daughter ! ❤ And yeah i agree with what you said , these are hard times , social media is at 99 % fault for it all i would say.

[@HueroVat]

So sorry.

[@alexjoaogarciaricardo3175]

all the prayers for your daughter I don't even believe in God but I really hope that where she is she is okay, I am 18 years old and I am sure that her daughter and I would have been good friends because according to her description we went through the same situation, I hope you are good love from cuba 🤍🤍🤍

[@barrywallace4415]

sounds just like my 22 yo son. felt alone had sorry greedy friends felt lonely. he had many friends but not good ones. Nov 7 22. last day on earth. young lady you are blessed just to be here. you are somebody and we care about you# what can we do for you

[@vegablix]

i am so sorry. prayers to you.

[@candesoriano]

My psychologist told me once that I wasn't meant to have a group of friends, so I left her. Never allow someone to tell you that, even yourself.

[@aikighost]

What an absolutely terrible thing to tell someone who is there for help 🙁

[@bs-as]

??? As a professional, she shouldn't say any personal opinions. You have done the right thing

[@uuamenator]

I'm really curious, what was the context? Was she actually trying to be mean, or was there a more profound meaning, such as, nobody is owed anything in this life, and you're not MEANT to have this, like as a freeing allowance to not 'have to' have it to feel good about yourself?

[@candesoriano]

@@uuamenator that would be a nice point of view of seeing this! but she said it was because of my personality, like the groups usually have a lider who everyone follows, and i am in conflict with that idea

[@bs-as]

@@candesoriano I'm in conflict with that idea too.People are free and make it own choices. I believe that. And I have friends. Not several, but good ones. You have done the right thing.

[@JennaRose957]

I have no friends either. I haven’t had one since I was 17..now I’m 26 and my mom is the only friend I got.

[@hexonn9355]

Real😊

[@gurusakiwrites666]

I'm 28. Same thought. My mom is my bestfriend.

[@binlapipo-fc6ev]

Me too. But we can be friends 🫶

[@klarge24]

I’ll be your friend I’m also 26 turning 27 on the 24th I’m getting old :(

[@binlapipo-fc6ev]

@@klarge24 27 isn't that old 😌. I am 21 years old. Btw where are u from ??

[@222mpg]

Oh you sweet girl, your vulnerability is powerful. I hope you know that you’re not meant to connect with everyone as not everyone has good intentions for you…your soul is pure. You will find your crew and they will be people that have good intentions for you. I am 22 and feel the same as you do. You are seen and heard friend☀️

[@SenorLoadenstein]

I'm 41 with no friends and no life. Your video speaks volumes. Life is very heart breaking. I hope your life becomes everything you dream of. I wish you happy thoughts.

[@ellarose876]

thats very kind of you to say, and i hope youre okay ❤

[@user-pu6pn8vt5d]

Do you want to maybe.. talk about something? Like video games or tv show or.. whatever's on your mind? I know it probably won't lead to anything special, but it's worth a shot, right?

[@Tonyidk542]

​@@user-pu6pn8vt5dHey, I know you didn't ask me but I would like to. I don't have any friends at all so it would be nice to talk to someone about anything.

[@GruppeSechs-bn2mt]

Making friends after your 20s and maybe early 30s is almost impossible unless you make them in the workplace or are very outdoorsy. I work from home and like to stay in most of the time. That's a recipe for a solitary life.

[@BrokeAgain]

you made it this far, you maybe happier than with people with friends lol

[@z-past1454]

She doesn’t realize it, but these few videos she made revolving around her experiences and story are really relatable. Many people could learn a thing or two from this content

[@darkthunder168]

wait did something happen to her? what do you mean by she doesn't realize it 😔

[@z-past1454]

@@darkthunder168 Oh no no, I’m saying throughout these videos she’s given great insight into her life and yet she does not show any hint of acknowledgment of how in depth she is

[@AC-mp7cx]

i feel likes its really hard for men to be liked by anyone

[@z-past1454]

@@AC-mp7cx It can be depending on their background. Some just fall towards toxic masculinity

[@Berndr]

@@z-past1454 yeah she does , she literally says she does not take any interest in anyone and wants to be in her apartment, and when she does have a chance to go out with someone, she ignores their texts and she sabotages it because she prefers to have me - time ... point being friendship is hard work and two-way road, she wants someone to care about her when she feels lonely without her doing any work ... having friends means being there for them and listening to them whine, even when you would rather be at home playing a computer game! Having friends means placing the needs of others before yours ... nowadays no many do that !

[@4sety]

You are incredibly brave for being able to post this on KZbin. I have nothing but respect. And virtual hugs for everyone here.

[@jahamas_gnd]

rs

[@fuckdefucker]

The problem is self-conciousness, if you keep telling yourself that you don't have friends or that it is impossible to have, you will never get out of it. Just GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE. There is random activities that you can join where no one knows each other and its the best to start friendships. Don't try to please others, be yourself and go out there.

[@4sety]

@@fuckdefucker Facts. And if you are really being yourself out there, you can also feel secure that when someone takes a liking to you, they like you for you and there's no hidden side for them to eventually discover that you fear will scare them away. Okay, maybe there is, but you now have one less hidden side to worry about.

[@nio804]

@@fuckdefucker It's that ""JUST GO" thing that's hard. I can relate to her struggles; I don't "just go" anywhere, because it feels like there's *nowhere* to go. Like, when I think about going somewhere, most times my mind just goes completely empty, and I feel *no* desire to go anywhere, and I can't force myself because I just don't know where to go; I don't know how to *want* to go anywhere. Even when I do, I can't go to places with lots of people because the noise alone can make me feel physically ill, so actually meeting people is really difficult. (I suspect I might be autistic to some degree, but I'm not diagnosed. I have an ADHD diagnosis though.) I've also only very recently begun to figure out what "be yourself" even means, and for me it's something that doesn't seem to fit into what is considered "normal", so I have to overcome all sorts of internalized bullshit that has been pushed on me over the years. "Be yourself" is not really advice that always works for everyone. There are many places in the world where for many people "being yourself" is unsafe or even potentially deadly. Seeing people give this advice is one of my pet peeves, because it only works if you don't have a problem in the first place; If you don't know how to even summon the desire to get out there or what it means to be yourself, it's completely unactionable.

[@fuckdefucker]

@@nio804 I know its hard, don't worry, I'm the same. The thing is, most of what I'm hearing from her is that she doesn't have any friends. Yet there is solution to that problem. That was my point.

[@judythepunk461]

I know exactly where you are coming from... I'm a 23 year old girl. I have no job, no friends, i dont study and im on the verge of tears everday. Then we have my older sisters, they have good paying jobs they like, they both have a husband, friends, they enjoy life, travel around the world and one of them is even pregnant. While i'm of course super happy for them and i love them with all my heart, it is so incredibly shattering to see how my life could be right now if i just had a purpose in life. I have no clue what i wanna do with my life, and the thought of working a shitty 9-5 job and live paycheck to paycheck because i dont have any experience and havent studied is enough to give me terrible thoughts... I'm so incredibly lost and alone and i'm too scared to ask for help

[@oldheadtv3152]

Friends are overrated. Focus on making some money

[@judythepunk461]

@@turquoiseheart948 and you just assumed i havent?? such ignorance to everything it's baffling

[@judythepunk461]

@@turquoiseheart948 such a lame troll okey :(

[@lucamcardle729]

Focus on being a part of a community, even if it means sacrificing your self-esteem because you might think it's too cringe. In the limg term, it will benefit you. Also, put something random on your calander every month and you have to do it no matter what, even if it's a hike up a mountain or going to a concert

[@lechedecoco112]

@@oldheadtv3152 and have a girlfriend?

[@abigailamoss358]

I am feeling the loneliest i’ve ever felt in my life, im 23 and I have no one. I hang out with my mom and that’s it. I spend my weekends watching podcasts and watching tv. I want to travel and experience new things and connect with people but I have no one. This video helped me feel recognized.

[@ellahinkle6418]

Same

[@forgemaster6120]

im also 23 and have no friends and im going back to college for my last 2 years and I know nobody.

[@antonfolstad9186]

@@forgemaster6120 hod did it went? made some new friends?

[@forgemaster6120]

@@antonfolstad9186 nope :(

[@antonfolstad9186]

@@forgemaster6120 why what happened?

[@gamergotdis2348]

This video is all I needed to show that I'm not the only person feeling this way, thank you so much for putting this video here.

[@leom6165]

we were made to be this way by design offcourse the design made by other people who worry that the planet exhausted all its resources they going to used depravation as next way to avoid people from procreation meanwhile transgenderism is taking over with the same purpose

[@egemen261]

[@zzz_barbie]

wtf is these replies

[@hotmcfly9247]

Yea

[@shottasam]

@Mabus Nero heartless no empathy

[@marcinml6537]

You can still feel alone among fools. It's hard to find wise friends.

[@AhmedSamir-eh5ye]

That's exactly it! I've always felt alone and nobody understands why. This is why

[@gregoriomiller8241]

Fake friends can actually make you feel lonelier than if you were alone

[@ceeejay9112]

You can even feel alone amongst intellectuals....imho

[@AhmedSamir-eh5ye]

@@ceeejay9112 It's not about being an intellectual or having a high iq, it's about being able to appreciate your friend and love them for who they are and being loyal. If you make fun of the struggles of a friend for instance, you're a fool.

[@MillennialLos]

But being the only fool around the wise feels like being kicked while I’m already down.

[@adammmyn777]

Loneliness hurts so much.There is like nothing I can do with it,sometimes.I can’t make others to become my friend,it is something we can not control

[@FrostDrift69]

Im a 26 male and have 0 friends, barely any family to talk to. What helped me out the most, was finding more than one job to stay busy. Im not the smartest, the best looking, but all I know is I try. You got this girl! I believe in you :) #KeepFighting Edit: Appreciate all the wholesome comments ❤️

[@marcsonic01]

staying busy is great. the only thing worse than being lonely is being lonely and bored

[@nav2263]

yeah i’m trying to find stuff to do since i’m still in school

[@yakoozey2271]

This is going to be me in the future 😀

[@nillil442]

Yes, boredom is the worst thing in this life.. It makes you think about things you shouldn't be thinking about

[@brainfart_]

man, u precisely describe me

[@andrewgoldstein1029]

I'm a 51 year old man, and yet I still found this extremely relatable. Please accept a big virtual hug. And if you happen to read this, please let us know -- how are you holding up?

[@spideylexi]

19 year old girl here and I feel you andrew! it’s funny, even when we feel lonely every single day we are never actually alone!

[@hammernails7393]

@@spideylexithat’s a great thought. We were drawn to the title for a reason…and then she read my thoughts. Poor thing. Wish she could see what we see❤

[@godswill2527]

​@@spideylexihave you seen the newest Super Mario movie?

[@spideylexi]

@@godswill2527 sure have

[@i_like_stars567]

💀💀

[@piotrekmalkowski5070]

Girl, you have no idea how much I'm feeling you. I'm in my 30s and my life revolves around working, getting coffee at the local coffee place and sitting in my apartment alone, hoping that time will pass quickly. I wish I could make some sense of it, but I can't. Sometimes my reality feels unbearable and I want to end it.

[@cousinalejandro9931]

Lol thought i was alone

[@hannagrace55]

Jesus loves you ❤

[@CreamyBeige]

The last two comments are dogshit. Ignore them please

[@orls9068]

Im like you, I turn up the music and dance around 😊

[@wormtea]

don't do it, try to make some friends, change a bit of your routine idk, it will make you feel better

[@daxlife1]

Its never later to make friends ... i beat you already made some .. God bless you girl . i hope you make a lot of real friends :)

[@ensaymadie603]

Every few weeks I come back to this video. There's just something so comforting about seeing someone with the same struggles as you. I hope we all get better someday.

[@foxterie7458]

Bro just talk to people

[@sksksksksk7458]

​@@foxterie7458I try but no one's interested. I just feel like the moment I begin to talk I'll mess up something. I stutter in front of girls my friends my parents cuz I am so much nervous to talk to people. Lockdown ruined me and i haven't had a serious human conversation since 3 years

[@JaysonT1]

​​​@@sksksksksk7458What I am about to tell you is personal and real. I have healed a lot in the last few years and a major part of that is from studying the writings of Mark Manson. Completely changed my perception of many things. If you have romantic issues, his book "Models" is the greatest book ever written for men. He has stuff about life and growth all over the internet. There's work involved but I will tell you it has definitely changed my life for the better. Major turning point for me.

[@oogabooga9390]

@@foxterie7458bro saying this as if it’s easy for everyone 💀

[@onebottleofwater9487]

@@foxterie7458 Many of us did try man. I don't have a single friend anymore, all drifted apart. Now when I tried to reconnect with old classmates/friends in the neighborhood, rarely did anyone reply. They all have their own circle now. Sometimes it's really too late

[@Skelterbane69]

The whole wishing to be with a friend, then when the opportunity comes, you just wanna be back home, is such a mood. It's definitely more common than you may think.

[@Candycloud_19]

Yepp I want to socialize with other but when I do I feel so anxious and it drains my energy so bad 😢

[@army_girl1630]

​@@Candycloud_19 i also feel anxiety too

[@jebotekarotte6307]

I‘m like that too. We need psycholigcal help to gain self confidence. Everyone is saying „go hit the gym and you‘ll become more confident“. Yeah well not me. I tried it and after one month I realized that i hate it and it doesn‘t help me. Not because there were no results. I know it takes longer to see something. I just felt like the same sack of sh*t as usual. So I think People like us need mental help. Who cries about being alone then finally becomes the opportunity not to be alone anymore but then you prefer to be alone again. I feel this 100% but I think that means we are mentally ill.

[@BATMADZ_]

Yeah. About a couple months ago I went to a little social event for the first time. It was just a little thing my karate class was having so students could bond. Everyone over there is so friendly and *even more* friendly to each other. So yeah, some talked to me a bit, I felt okay I guess most of the time because they had activities to do that don’t require me having to sit and watch peoples long conversations with each other. But later, I’ve decided that I’m never going to those social events again now that I think back and remember how quiet and awkward I was. What was I thinking?! Sucks, because I’m still not friends with any of those people and that’s the only extracurricular class I had where I thought the people were decent (I’m homeschooled, so I’m not around people my age a lot) this is way too long so probably no one will read this anyway, but I’ll still post it because I can’t really talk about it elsewhere-

[@egemen261]

[@Retr0Dima]

Man, I remember feeling exactly like this back when I was younger. You might think this video is cringe, but the amount of views speaks for how extremely relatable your situation at that moment in time was. Thank you for having the courage to open up. Hugs from Europe.

[@DevineInnovations]

Edit: Seems like a lot of people are getting the wrong idea of what I'm trying to say. I don't blame them, I often have a hard time expressing myself. So for any future readers, please read the whole comment before reacting. Honestly, I think this video is kind of "cringey," BUT I actually respect her more for it. I wouldn't be brave enough to be that open about my feelings in a public video and cry like that. Plus, I relate to almost everything she says here and I know her tears are real and she's not just fake crying for attention like some people do on social media.

[@aph9155]

@@DevineInnovations you relate to this and still call the video cringy? man, give her a break, she doesn't deserve that

[@HarambaeXelonmuskfans]

@@aph9155 oh yeah and who are you to say what’s white and black mr. RACIST!!!!!

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

​@@aph9155Toxic Masculinity strikes again

[@victorinprogress]

@@DevineInnovationswhat’s cringy about being authentic. It’s not like she’s acting 😂

[@나의해방일지-u3d]

Hey.. don’t cry😢 i’m korean i don’t get what all you saying and i’m not good at making English sentence but i can feel you as just watching this video. This too shall pass. The day you smile happily will come one day.

[@sweetpea3365]

"The strongest man is he who stands most alone." - Henrik Ibsen. I really hope she is ok 💖

[@Rucwkdu]

"The he being the metaphor feels not right" -Me

[@r.nahuel4255]

FUCK THAT!

[@jackymoreno5354]

I completely understand how you're feeling. I'm 27 yrs old and have zero friends. I never go out. Have never experienced ANYTHING. No parties, clubbing, etc. I'm either at work or at home. No in between. It can be very lonely, but what has helped me is just working on myself. I still have my bad days, but I've come to the realization that being alone is better than being surrounded by people who are not adding to your life. It will be okay ❤ Edit: This comment was for OP and others in this predicament to let them know they are not alone in feeling this way and that it can get better. Just because my situation has gotten a bit better NOW doesn't give anyone the right to invalidate my past/present experiences. That's wild. It's like telling someone battling depression that they don't look depressed. Some people just mask well. Thank you to all the kind comments❤ Bye✌🏼

[@shesadiamond5167]

Samee, there's days where im good nd other days when the loneliness hits lol

[@baroquer]

I am alone, but not lonely

[@moonvlog_]

Im here for u if u need anything ​@@shesadiamond5167

[@FWÆHHHHHHHHHH]

Is it grippy tho

[@LittleJ-hr1mc]

Me neither I have just escaped domestic abuse and not one of the friends we had bothers anymore they all sided with him so I sit alone every night with my 3 kids (my only real friends and I adore them) and watch my ex best friend go out drinking with her husband and my violent ex.i wish I had a friend who I could speak to,maybe take the kids out and stuff I didn't do anything to lose them all

[@northernskies86]

This is one of the most relatable videos on YT. Stay strong. We’re all gonna make it brahs.

[@Sunkissed333]

I love you

[@savesoil3133]

#SaveSoil have you heard of the movement before?💓

[@LilXancheX]

@@Sunkissed333 do you? Or are you just asking for attention

[@Sunkissed333]

@@LilXancheX when someone is feeling so low and expressing how they feel especially a teenager, its everyones job to make them feel better. I do that everywhere, even if you were in her place bro i would have done the same, i never seek attention, attention dont pay my bills.

[@LilXancheX]

@@Sunkissed333 who said she was a teenager? And how is it everyone’s job?

[@8022林彥龍]

That's me Focusing on your own goals is more important than socializing. Many people's goals are just to show off to others, such as a high income, a sports car, a handsome appearance, but I just want to improve myself.

[@CAMELOT331]

Breaking my heart. What is important to learn is that everyone in this comment section wants to be your friend and wants you to be happy. I am no different. I'm thankful you put this video out there for the world to see.

[@cosmic3393]

Girl in a Blue Dress has no friends because I make better videos 😂😂

[@sssexybitch]

Thats not the point though, the point is theres nobody THERE IN REAL LIFE. Uk that best friend u can meet hang out with go to places have fun with them in REAL LIFE thats the point. Its the same for me, just like her so i definitely understand her. Obviously u can find "friends" online n some even stay for months n even yrs but hanging out in real life is just the real deal.

[@SPACECOWBOY_Hej]

pipe down walmart wagie

[@Arylist]

kinda sad

[@josephhaslam4724]

Hey it's you!! :)

[@skr00ge.]

4:10 Damn, that hits way too close to home. The amount of friends that I allowed to slip away because I just wanted to be by myself yet at the same time I didn't want to be alone. It's an insane amount of regret I feel every day. Thank you for uploading this, I know I'm not completely alone now even though I have no one.

[@40KLIKES]

Fr

[@boss_niko]

I did it too many times and now I am completely alone but I dont regret it.

[@lilhax7971]

This one of the major regrets that majority of people have and it’s sad.

[@SuspiriaX]

@@lilhax7971 citation

[@SuspiriaX]

@skr00ge As long as they're not dead what's holding you back from (empathizing with and then) contacting them?

[@freya399]

Making friends as an adult is incredibly hard and no one really talks about it! When you're not in the company of the same people every day to build a friendship over time it takes so much more effort which is really overwhelming. I hope you're okay, try not to beat yourself up, making friends as an adult is a challenging thing for anyone ❤

[@EepyBnnuy]

Yeah 😔

[@amirah2834]

Yup...

[@LilPGKing]

It’s better to live alone and not have to worry about making friends. That’s what I do I just move on with life and get it done.

[@leodebraga9346]

Brilliant!

[@sharkawakaorb9220]

Internet exist and as an adult you have the ability to fly out to an internet friend

[@shahadat_uk]

I live in London for the last 2 years as a student and I feel literally the same way as her. Why is it so hard to make friends even in a city like London? [Edit: I wish someone would come and reply to my comment and be my friend]

[@Mxnstxr_]

See it's really hard to find real friends in this generation... People don't be there for you when u need them but will always show up automatically when u get rich, it's a fact. And it's better to have no friends than to have the fake ones.

[@shouhai.d3ad]

No problem if were friends?

[@beccaboo2k01]

I'm 22 and I feel this so hard I had plenty of acquaintances at school but never hung out with anybody outside of school, and now i'm feeling the consequences

[@retro.raider]

I did hang out with friends a lot after school/during holidays. But now I’m in the same boat as you. Nothing bad happened, just drifted apart.

[@high7305]

Do you Instagram sweetheart?

[@AnnaIsHere]

​@@retro.raiderTrue. After you stop visiting a place together, you realize how much harder friendship becomes! School/college/job/offline courses/activities make it much easier by solving the problem "where and when do we meet and who is going to be the initiator of the negotiagion about it".

[@BellaVevo08]

I just turned 22 last month and I've left only one year in college and I'm feeling so sad 💀 , I've been having severe anxiety because i realize i have no friends outside college and I'm so lonely I've spent the whole summer alone And i realized my friends in college ain't that real friends :( and I'm going to graduate without any friends :(

[@jakesmith-bs4jd]

Literally the same as me

[@videokolik8635]

As a 23 yo guy who has never had any close friends or gf and who happens to be eating his pizza at his single-room apartment, this video literally hits my home. For me, I'd say my unattractive appearance and short height, and a couple of rejections just broke me and I just decided to give it up for a while and focus on grinding for my business and skills. I've recently started working out again, too, which is great for my mental health but it seems to me that I'll be the same alone & unattractive person for the rest of my life, which is still a very harsh reality to embrace for me. Sorry for the depressing thoughts and good lucks to the lonely wolfs out there.

[@cihansaglam5907]

Nerde oturuyosun brom

[@videokolik8635]

@@cihansaglam5907 Sarıyer

[@distinctloafer]

What business?

[@videokolik8635]

@@distinctloafer programming and stuff

[@fij715]

This kind of coping will get you nowhere my friend. You cannot change the universe but you can change who you are.

[@dannagarcia3105]

I literally don't know how I stumbled upon this video, but I cried the whole time because I used to think no one else felt the same way. I'm about to finish my first year of college with NOT even 1 solid friendship, and I hate myself for it. It sucks to see everyone going out, experiencing stuff and actually living their lives and then I'm just here doing the same thing every single day. Thank you for posting this I really needed to see this, and for everyone else on the same boat, hang in there hopefully it will get better for us

[@yavcyavcyavc]

I’m in the same boat. In college going through a rough time right now, especially right now. Hang in there, if not for yourself for the people you love. For me it’s my mom. I care about you, you got this :)

[@emi2600]

Joining clubs or groups it's a great way to meet someone new, since those people have similar interests. It's also important to be yourself, if someone wants to be your friend it will be for who you trully are not for a fake personallity. Try to attend social events like parties, meetups or network events and start conversations with someone you don't know. Ask them about their interests, what they do for a living, or if they've seen any good movies or TV shows lately. When you're meeting new people, it's important to be a good listener. Show interest in what they're saying and ask follow-up questions. Don't forget to mantain that relationship and never give up. Making friends can be challenging but it's duable.

[@ryanfuqua1773]

aw tuffin up no need to be a baby like this won

[@Kenzie-S-W-]

Yeah you are not alone! I too go through the exact same thing! 😢 But yeah hopefully things will get better for all of us!!!

[@Kenzie-S-W-]

​@@Iamma7moud same here 😔 I have just finished my first year of college and I still get really sad seeing everyone hanging out with eachother and I am left out! 😢

[@omarfaruque98xy]

I was popular in high school. Captain of the soccer team, went partying instead of studying most of the time. In college, it was more or less the same. Then life hits and everyone goes there separate ways, instead a few. You can count in one hand how many friends are true in your life. For a short period, even a social butterfly like me thought I had no friends and was a complete loser. Every one has times or moments like that, its completely normal. Im so greatful that I'm able to just chill with my best friends every weekend after work. Never take them for granted, life would be miserable without friends by your side.

[@rodeogirl8459]

wow, listening to this was almost hearing out loud my own thoughts. I feel the exact same way as you do, I turn 23 in two months and I feel like I haven't experienced really anything at all. I have no real life friends, no job, still live at home with my mom, and I'm at home 24/7. It gets really hard some days, and I distract myself with meaningless things in order to not fall into a depressive episode when I realize my situation. I don't know what to do either, and I really resonate with what you said about not being able to follow through with plans, I do the exact same thing, turning down the off chance someone invites me to do something because I would rather stay at home, even though deep down I don't actually want to do that. So I also understand what you mean by feeling like you only have yourself to blame for being in the situation you're in. I think it just becomes unusually hard to socialize once you've been by yourself for so long, you kind of forget how to, like how to read body language or just how to keep a conversation going. I also haven't experienced anxiety like this in a long time, and I really believe that has a lot to do with why it's so hard to meet people and even hangout in person with friends I only text. I'm in my head a lot, probably too much, and it's so hard to change my ways because of it. I hope you know you're not alone in feeling this way, I really feel for you and I'm so sorry you're going through this because I know how painful it can be. You should feel really proud of yourself for finishing college and getting your own apartment, that's something I can only hope to do someday, and seeing someone going through similar things as me being able to accomplish those things is really inspiring, so don't ever think you aren't someone to look up to. I really hope things get better soon

[@grgamer8470]

Do you feel it's not the right time to get a pet you can walk out like a dog?

[@anthonyman8008]

🥺

[@oal2181]

You’re so brave.❤️

[@anthonyman8008]

@Personal everyone feels like a loser. It's why so many try so hard

[@ianlulu]

I look up to her too for being brave and expressing her feelings. They really helped me understand that Im also not alone in feeling this way

[@schweizerluchs7146]

I genuinely hope she's ok, would love to get a update from her!

[@peterhogben3304]

Yes like don’t do anything hasty.

[@VeraMakarcheva]

she killed herself 1 week ago

[@joannatomkow7444]

what????@@VeraMakarcheva

[@schweizerluchs7146]

@@VeraMakarcheva Source?

[@arigatameiwaku]

I love it how people pretend to care about some random girl killing herself. It is her choice. She didn't like life? Every person is free to leave,because life can be horrible to some people.

[@cococalypso9890]

Girl, you are not alone. Being an introvert, I still struggle with this sometimes. You have to tend and nurture relationships like you would a garden. If I don't do this, I get too comfortable being alone. It takes some effort. I wish the best for you and hope you're doing well.

[@426F6F]

I'm the same way. I used to be extremely extroverted until I had a long spout of depression which changed me as a person. I am actually really comfortable being alone now and find that having more than a few people around can get overwhelming. It's something I'm working on, though. The only way you can get better at something is through effort and repetition.

[@Maestro_Hulk]

This poor beautiful woman just needs a man in her life. All she needs to do is lower her standards or be open to men, she is stunning and adorable she should be confident in her appearance. Any guy who turns her down is just an arrogant, shallow dickhead. As long as she lets men or women into her life there are millions that would be her friend and lover. Don't give up girl, you just need to be tough and realise that you are beautiful and deserve a man.

[@winlonghorn]

​@@Maestro_Hulk100 percent!! She is absolutely a beautiful young lady. I pray she finds someone who cherishes her for her. She deserves the world!

[@squadofone7170]

I get this but it’s just that I am struggling to understand it I am a deeply unlikeable person because trying to nurture and organize friendships ALWAYS falls through

[@alessandro3657]

I'm 27, and have a very big luck to have a supportive girlfriend, but beside that, i don't have any other person to talk. I always been very introvert and is hard for me to make new friends. I sure know a lot of people, but no one ever message me or remember my existence. Is somehow nice to see more people that feels like that.

[@theaverageguychannel8654]

This woman is so relatable. I hope she's made thousands of friends. If not, I'll go eat pizza and talk with her. And then we can both be quiet introverts for the rest of the day while we watch TV and eat the leftover pizza. She's a wonderful person for sharing this. She's actually really good at expressing herself. I'm the kind of person who likes to ask 1,000 questions and get opinions about stuff. She seems like someone I'd love to talk to.

[@docdugo1409]

@@peace691000why would you say this ?

[@kayka3262]

@@docdugo1409what did she say?

[@martinpetersen6266]

1000 friends is bound to be superficial ones though.. better to have 5 or 10.

[@GuestR-Evolution]

@@martinpetersen6266yes

[@theaverageguychannel8654]

@@martinpetersen6266 let me rephrase: I hope she has thousands of friends to choose from

[@elianwyn]

I don't think I've ever seen a video more relatable than this... I sit here alone, hesitating and keeping my walls up, never interacting with anyone, in no opportunity to do so, only sharing brief "hellos" and shallow interactions or having brief online friendships. I'm 31 now and I feel like time has passed me by, I'm at the age where nobody makes new friends anymore and I honestly don't even know how I would. Acceptance is something I've been struggling with. Sometimes there are nights when my heart is wrenching because I'm so alone, but I don't think anyone has the patience to put up with someone as reserved as I am, so here I stay. I want to say that I hope for the best and hope that in the 5 months since you posted this your life has gotten better, but even if it hasn't, at least there's maybe some small comfort in knowing you're not alone.

[@Matrixx.u]

Very similar how I feel, I'm 15 right now, at least I'm not the only person feeling the same emotions ❤

[@audreyheart2180]

🙏❤ A frenemy is not thoughtful. It will always be about themselves. I once had a frenemy who never once said, "Oh come, lemme see where you are staying.. How's the acting going? I watched all of your shows. I watched 'Ugly Betty'; hoping that I'll see you in a scene. I'm so proud of you". None of that. 🙏❤ When somebody comes with snarck comment or they say or do one or two things that is uncalled for, know that that's a frenemy. They're keeping tabs on your life, "When did you buy that? How are you able to afford this?" Frenemies are in competition with you. They're not rooting for you, saying "You go girl! Do your thing. I'm supporting you. I'll be right here." .. They're in competition with you. I just moved out of the way and let her fly past and crash. Let your frenemies go before they drag you into their negativity and they distract you from being friends with bossbabes that love you; you love them; you love each other's families; you evolve; you grow together; she's the wind in your back; she's the sun ahead of you. And she really means the best for you. You have to get rid of a lot of people in your life. They're distractions that will distract you from your destiny, your ultimate goal. Throw them out. Don't respond to their accusations. They're not worthy of your golden time. 🙏❤ You build your brands; your careers, (your husband, your children). Be happy. Evolve to be this positive wonderful person. Don't let negativity in your life. I have seen it a couple of times. It happened to me. There are no regrets; only experiences. -Fumi Desalu Vold

[@k_lee_ms]

Very similar to how I feel i'm 14 most 14 year olds in my town go out and hang out with their friends but I'm in my room alone watching movies cause I have no friends to hang out with

[@zimojiang1632]

I'm 22,start planning to live alone for the rest of life.

[@makayla1374]

@@zimojiang163221 and it definitely feels that way 😢

[@AidenMaaz]

Social anxiety is really intense. It holds you back from initiating with others, leaves you stuck in your head, creates a vibe of aloofness that pushes others away. I had a rough period when I was in my early 20s. I got a therapist to help me manage my anxiety, chose a job that requires lots of communication, and forced myself to talk. I took classes for things, karate, guitar, piano, filled my time with activities, some social, some solitary. I went on job interviews i didn't even want just to practice talking to strangers. It gave me things to talk about with others as well as kept me busy. I was in a constant state of being scared shitless at first, ngl. I stuttered a lot, I got nervous, I embarrassed myself, got laughed at, but it's really improved and I have friends that were so patient with me in the beginning. I'm 30 now. It truly can be done if you can start working on the negative feelings attached to interacting with others. I live far away, but if you want a pen pal I'd trade emails and be your friend!

[@Kleezain]

I could use one

[@sassi7966]

Yes this is it. This is the answer I'd love to have written myself ❤

[@jasonsure2633]

Am literally the same and it has made me stuck in my life 😞

[@shesadiamond5167]

This gives me some hope 🥲

[@poppins586]

This is truly heartbreaking. I've always had friends until I got married to a Doctor in Psychology who made me realize that they didn't care about me. In fact, they were trying to destroy me. Sweetheart, don't worry about having friends. Find someone to love.

[@Great_WesternTVFan]

People complain that dating in 2020s is impossible but they ignore the fact that true friendships are impossible these days too, which is worse. Got back stabbed by my bff after losing my other closest friends in the summer holiday last year after we finished high school. Now here in college, I struggle due to how so many students are too narrow to reach out to others. I hope you all find better friends in the future.

[@Enzo-jv4me]

yes, that's true, in these days friendships are for a short time. And this happens for some things, mostly happens because the people you thought that were your "friends" got bored of you or they were just fake friends. But if we have some great and loyal friends, we should take care and keep them like they were treasures cause currently they kinda are.

[@iiCounted-op5jx]

brutal

[@cah9683]

Tk you. ❤️‍🩹

[@rehabtalkradio6344]

As a father, my heart is fu#@ing breaking for you. You literally have me in tears. wishing the absolute best for you youngster. I don't mean for this to sound any way dear, but I adopted a scared animal from the animal shelter when I had no friends. The road it took me was endless, boundless, and wonderful. My absolute prayers for you child. Realize how incredible you are for doing what you are doing. I'm in rehab from drinking.drinking is NOT the road to take. You've got what it takes. But it's gonna take all you've got sweetheart.

[@DevineInnovations]

My father fell off the wagon after more than 20 years of sobriety. I know it's extremely difficult to quit. Stay strong.

[@hannahwest3140]

You sound like an amazing dad. I never had a dad that was nice like this. God bless you

[@rehabtalkradio6344]

@@hannahwest3140 I'm praying for you as well youngster. The holidays can be hard. Especially without certain family around. *Long distance hug

[@livingonmars6405]

wow, keep strong you are too, amazing

[@anoakenstaff]

Wow, you sound like such an amazing person.

[@DevineInnovations]

I think what is frustrating is, if I saw her I would assume she already had a lot of friends, a boyfriend and an over all happy life based on how she looks and that she probably wouldn't want to waste time talking to a loser like me. And it makes me think how many people I didn't bother talking to who were also very lonely desperate for friendship. I wish there was a way for lonely introverts like us to connect and talk to each other without having to fear being rejected.

[@pnkkv]

Go up and talk to ppl. Ik it's not that easy but if u don't get in that habit you never will. Sooner is better than later

[@atarachin234]

Rejection is life tbh. Not everyone will like us and it's ok. You have to try harder and eventually it will be natural

[@zimojiang1632]

same.I already start planning to live alone for the rest of life.

[@aesthetic9650]

I wish that too.. I really liked the idea that we are the lonely who are afraid of being rejected can connect to each other because you know we can understand each other more than anyone can because who have lots of friends won’t understand like a lonely person who have no friends

[@ChunskieFartFilms]

The existence of the other means rejection is inherent. Learn to accept it as a fact of life and it will no longer cause you problems.

[@christiancatchpole6614]

Oh my god this made me so sad. I hope she has some people to care for her in her life.

[@TaylorMMontgomery]

we as a society have got to talk more about loneliness. It's always so strange that it's a human emotion that we all experience but for some reason most are so scared to talk about. I'm really proud of you for talking out loud about it!

[@MiSFiTSiNWHiTE]

Talking about it is not enough. We should do something about. We need a community and encourage others to be together and not just say “Loneliness is a huge problem…”

[@TheDenizxo]

Very true I blame social media

[@TheDenizxo]

@@49er4life10 completely agreed the did a docu on shorts actually degrade and make us more stupid by watching such things in short attention span. Everyone is so disconnected and striving for some time of right personality I don't understand. Suxz ❤️

[@STMARTIN009]

We should also discuss family dysfunction and estrangement. Work and family is like high school at times.

[@anonymous-uo6ub]

"most superficial thing ever..." girl i feel you on everything you just said, i didn't care to try to make an effort because it seemed like nobody wanted to spend time with me, nobody interested in me. So I lost interest in relationships and isolated. It felt good for times I needed to cope because I've always coped alone but it's been slowly killing me psychologically and I hate it for that. This is the most genuine thing I've seen on KZbin ever, don't worry about crying, it's a natural thing for all (or most) humans!

[@nathanstarnz5468]

You have to try and be active, and interesting, otherwise yeah people aren't interested and they move on, you have to be constantly trying to have friends to have friends.

[@Melissa-818]

Jesus-Christ love you my brothers and sistersss ! Come back to him ! (John 3:16) "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." He died for you ! You will be saved by believing in his name, and you will not go to hell. So, accept him with all your heart, read the Bible ! Here is the good news ! ❤🥰🥰

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

​@@nathanstarnz5468Yeah the problem here is this is an easy way for narcissistic people to look down on other people. This happens all the time.... You also start to seek out "being interesting" instead of being yourself, which usually is far more interesting but hey 😂 Interesting is my issue, and I'd argue it's subjective. I think people are interesting inherently, everyone is different. I can talk about politics and philosophy or marijuana for 8 hours straight, I love it and it interests me people's opinions, how they got there, how it affected their morals etcs. Versus "ate bro you see the game" 😭 like brother I can only pretend to care for so long. You simply need to find people that enjoy what you enjoy. Imo, you can ONLY vibe with people who have no interests as you, but you're "interested in" if it's heavily transactional, and usually around sex, business or drug use. Most humans desire both, and you can totally have multiple groups.

[@victorinprogress]

@@Melissa-818you’re not helping

[@AnnaIsHere]

​@@nathanstarnz5468I think it's more important to be interested in people, than be interesting.

[@Demon-pb5jm]

Sitting here, crying in the kitchen alone on fathers day because my dad died three years ago, i never recovered. I lost everything, including all my friends because i became such a downer.

[@OdenKozuki-nj1pv]

All power to you man sorry for your loss

[@scorpio958]

sorry for your loss ❤

[@user-lq2ie2mo8l]

Why'd name yourself demon then, switch it to gem

[@cheesyplays6228]

i dont feel like going into detail but i had something similair and lost all my freinds too because i became the miserable sad guy

[@randomdude10011]

Sorry for your loss and I’m sure you’ll be able to get through this

[@1tchyf33t]

Girl i feel you I'm in the same situation, whenever i feel myself in this situation i try thinking to myself that you only love once so whenever you feel awkward or exhausted enough to talk to someone just go for it you only have chance obviously if they're being mean or doing some sneaky snake stuff stay away from them but just go for it girl. Also you don't have to be so hard on your self. People come and go I'm sure you'll meet someone or some people! This video at the moment is 2 years old so I hope you're doing well c:

[@angelaurahoneypot]

I’m 33 with no friends. And honestly, after losing a 15 year sisterhood, I’m taking my time and learning to never place all of my eggs into one basket. This video is refreshing. Hugs for you my dear 🫂🤍

[@mariestrawberryswirl2171]

I could really give a Shit at this point, Hun. I feel you. After your 30s You’ll meet No1

[@angelaurahoneypot]

@@mariestrawberryswirl2171 I’m done trying atp 🤣 if best friend shows up, she shows up 🤷🏽‍♀️🤣

[@slipperychugger]

@@angelaurahoneypotthat’s the mentality if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be 15 years is crazy I can’t imagine it just took me over a year to get over my friendship with this kid from high school that was like my brother that I fell out with during the summer starting college was rough but I’m finally starting to heal so I truly can’t imagine 15 years of friendship you really are a trooper my bud and I were only friends for abt 2 years so you seem like a really strong person for being able to cope with that and heal keep ya head up

[@AG-sj4om]

@@angelaurahoneypothow you lose 15 year sisterhood

[@angelaurahoneypot]

@@slipperychugger oh nooooooo it’s been 2 years and I’m STILL grieving 😣 it’s not easy but I’m getting through. Hugs for you too my dear ❤️❤️❤️

[@CosmicCassondra]

Girl I’m sitting here eating some pizza, watching this video and crying my eyes out. I can relate on so many levels, not only is it a challenge to find friends, it’s a challenge to find YOUR friends. I’ve had “friends” who aren’t my vibe but I kept them around because I wanted at least a friend. That’s just as bad, if not more lonely than actually being alone. I don’t know why it’s so hard to find your tribe, but I try to keep faith that they are coming. I’d be lying though if I didn’t say that there are days that I cry my eyes out because I feel so alone and days when I wonder if I’ll ever find my tribe. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability.

[@carolyn8147]

wow you explained my situation perfectly.

[@lalissa466]

@@carolyn8147 same

[@Celestials1aurora]

Exactly:(

[@lalissa466]

@@Celestials1aurora 💔💔

[@Celestials1aurora]

@@lalissa466 do you wanna be like friends 🚶

[@vladimirofsvalbard9477]

I'm 30; married and have a son. I remember being in your shoes; it literally feels like yesterday. I'm going to clue you in on something very important that I wish I would have known over a decade ago. Those people you see; holding hands, going to parties, living out their college dreams, all the posts you see on social media. It's all a facade; believe me! You are witnessing people that largely hold themselves together by living out a series of artificial interactions and made up stories on social media to please their parents and friends. After college, a significant amount of these people tend to fall apart in life. There's always things you can do to increase you sociability, relatability, empathy, and mannerisms. However, in a world where people are digging further and further into artificialness; you need to know that it's not solely a YOU problem. Try to focus on gaining ONE true friendship at a time. Volunteering is a good way to meet people and they don't have to be your own age as well. Having a female mentor (if your mom is not active in your life) is essential. Just as much as having a male figure for a man is. Don't envy the kids you see at college. Try and push yourself more into the direction that you want to go and work on your own shortcomings. True friends and relationships will naturally fall into place :)

[@cjadventures8840]

This is facts honestly, I second this. That's why I dont use instagram for stupid crap, just memes.

[@geothrasher]

couldn't have said it better thank you

[@dirtjunkie8702]

Girl in a Blue Dress, read what @vladimirofsvalbard9477 wrote!

[@nicholasscratch]

Thank you

[@brettthewilder2338]

I mean, whatever you gotta tell yourself, but nah, my guy, people going to parties, having relationships (both friendly and romantic), and generally enjoying life isn’t ’artificial’. You telling yourself that to make yourself feel better about the years of your life you spent lonely and miserable is what’s artificial. 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[@CreativeIdea-9441]

There is no relationship as warm and pure as family.❤

[@ursvamp85]

Oh man, this hit so bad. You are SO brave for doing this and just look how many people resonate with you, which confirms you are NOT alone, there are many others like you, and there is NOTHING wrong with you! I hope you read all of these supportive comments and it goes someway to comforting you. I really do hope since this video was made that you got to a better place emotionally and socially and found like minded people to bond with. 💜

[@JimmyGarcia-hh2og]

Beautiful!!!❤️👍💯

[@ozarkrefugee]

Great reply!

[@なーさん-g3p]

I’m Japanese and I’m 24 years old, I have no friends, I’m really alone. I stay at home by myself in holiday all day. And my family and I don’t get along , so I can’t go home. And sometimes I drink for forgetting it but my heart is breaking off… But when I read this KZbin, I know there are people like me

[@snowflakes90]

Of course there are…… BUNCH

[@pamthecreator5437]

@@なーさん-g3p I wanna be your friend.

[@FarhanKhan11268y]

I'm 23 , from Pakistan and i think it is globally the same

[@Kartez228]

Hello from Russia, i guess

[@DeamonSlayer1337]

Whats your instagrams, lets connect

[@anshi1274]

wow i didn't expect to cry so hard while watching this. Everything is so relatable that it hurts. Thankyou for being so vulnerable here.

[@aashiii4703]

I think being alone is really good and relaxing nowdays no one is real and getting real people is rare , if you feel alone just learn something new upgrade yourself that other peoples wants you to be your friend , and be your own bestie stop finding happiness outer because at the last no one go with you

[@MoaathAlabdouli]

You made me feel that I am not the only one feeling this way, thank you.

[@Yuucagma]

Its normal man, this society is sick, its better to be alone, loving yourself. Dont worry about that

[@williamgrand9724]

You are going through allot and it sounds allot like social anxiety. Highschool is tough because kids are ignorant, Adulthood is tough because people are busy and apathetic. It's just tough to make friends and I'm going through a similar struggle myself as an introverted guy who struggles with opening up to people. I'm 34 now and as I have gotten older I have learned to be more accepting of myself, started going to the gym, started letting myself cry, and just trying to be more mindful of how my brain works, but I still struggle with not having any friends. Therapy can be a powerful tool in situations like this because a therapist can really help you unpack your thoughts and feelings allot better than you can when you are deep in the depths of a depression or anxious mood. You are young and good looking you WILL find someone 100%! but you need to push yourself out of your comfort zone and maybe change a few things. I would recommend going to therapy, people see therapists for less severe problems. Please don't turn to alcohol to cope with this that will only make things worse. We're all rooting for you!

[@mikelisteral7863]

the mind created a big ego identity out of it. now shes trapped in the shame spiral fabricated by the ego

[@manictiger]

I've gone the reverse route of "letting myself cry". I did that crap when I was 17 and it only ever made depression worse. Like, I got addicted to crying and feeling sorry for myself. Gave myself an ultimatum to do it, or stop whining. Well, I'm still here, so I didn't "do it". Anyway, I went through a rage phase, made a buttload of money with that rage, and am now retired in my 30s in a stoic phase. Not really good at "stoic", yet, but I'm doing my best. As for friends. I just need to finish the roof and clean the place up. Physical barrier now, instead of mental one. No one wants to hear about all your baggage. You don't have to share every little neuroticism you have. Trust me, they know. Just carry on. The world will start weeding out the weak soon. Forge your alliances and get stronger.

[@cosmic3393]

Girl in a Blue Dress has no friends because I make better videos 😂😂

[@fatihcecen3635]

@@manictiger that simply what it is. I am broke also no friends but who gives a f and for why. No one needs a sympathy just move on. And develop a little apathy world is not a quiet good place to be a sensitive person so just don't be one.

[@pedobearsensei2]

You are older than when you were starting high school but yo uare astill young, go make some frinds, you are on the age of having them, going to party, doing activities, travelling, etc.....make them and enjoy Try to be social on the gym I did in the calisthenics park in my city and i´ve made osme contacts there....be open to talk, ask question, make some jokes, say hi or bye when you leave...and you have chances to do it Good luck

[@aasthasharma9279]

I searched "No friends" and landed up on this, I couldn't control my tears. I have been like this since i was 8. Being bullied, having no friends, being alone all the time. I spent all my high school and undergrad life alone, had my bf by my side but he has his own friends so i end up feeling alone. Boyfriend can help me to a certain extent but i do need a girlfriend, i do want a sister like person with me who cares and stays. I've felt lonely almost all my life, but whenever i try, i end up being ghosted or just like a granted side friend who's chosen when others aren't available.

[@mohamedyasi7876]

Thats sad 😢 searching no friends or how to make friends is sad💔 ( for me too 😭) . I hope you find a lot of friends that care about you for who you are .

[@DuaHarmony]

Same this is what I was searching I just want someone to share my feelings and talk alot😭.. like this girl I'm 14 and in school everyone find me quite and cold no one talks to me it hurts and I want someone to share my feelings

[@DuaHarmony]

@@mohamedyasi7876 I'm literally crying because of what happens today in school..I hate being lonely I can't share my problems even with my mother because I don't talk alot to her😭

[@DuaHarmony]

@@mohamedyasi7876 I'm not friendly to tell my mother like what happens today and she's not interested listening my stories and I don't have any sister I have brothers but I don't talk to them.. I have alot in my mind I want to talk alot but I don't even talk that's the problem with me.. day by day it is killing me inside seeing other girls in my class being happy with their friends and here's me being quite and minding my own business and not talking just being sad... It hurts

[@thecollector4574]

I’m so sorry bro ❤❤ please keep pushing, everything is gonna happen and figure itself out i promise

[@user-jg5oe9bd6t]

This video is like looking into a mirror. I’m not gonna lie, it hurts so fucking bad seeing a reflection of my own feelings through another person. My comment is just one of many, but for the sake of both of us, let’s do our best. We will probably never know each other in our lifetime, but our experiences are so similar. Anyone who reads this only sees my words on their screen but, to you, Girl in a Blue Dress, and to anyone who also sees themselves reflected in your video, let’s be strong together and learn to carry ourselves through life so that we may be happy when we finally go. It’s incredibly vulnerable posting something so personal like this and I can’t thank you enough for doing so, so please ignore the trolls and internet assholes. I’m rooting for you and for both of us :)

[@user-jg5oe9bd6t]

@HeWhoSpeaks Uh huh, how old are you by the way?

[@user-jg5oe9bd6t]

@HeWhoSpeaks Wow, you should become a writer! You’re very good and making up your own stories about people.

[@user-jg5oe9bd6t]

@HeWhoSpeaks Oh yes I’m sure loneliness is the least of her concern, considering thousands of people in the comments have shown support for her. Seriously, if you’re over the age of 13 you’re worse off than her. It takes something worse than that to turn into someone like yourself. I hope your delusions make yourself feel better!

[@SaphInfection]

​@HeWhoSpeaksSA??? You do realize you are talking about a young teen/child, right? Please tell me youre not using the word SA in the way i think you are, because thats horrifying

[@HenryCool-cw8fw]

Same.

[@soulsword44]

I know this vid is one year old but still I think it's important to say that a person like you (crying and reflecting about your situation) is not dumb or not worth having friends. I don't think it's your fault that people can't see that you have a great heart. I mean, it's still not easy making friends even if we have the internet nowadays. I just hope that everyone who is alone and feeling these emotions like you do can find some lovely people to hang out with

[@danieldavis3952]

Maybe my comment above could help?

[@crimsonspade4305]

Ile drink to that 👍 Cheers 🍻

[@vibinvina4309]

You are so kind❤

[@ahadmerchant7510]

God this is literally EXACTLY my life. The superficial friends in high school. Not doing anything after school. Losing contact with people as you progress through life. God it’s fucked up. Seeing them on instagram. Being alone in the dorm room. Its genuinely like looking into a mirror. You’re not alone. This I can promise you.

[@cosmic3393]

Girl in a Blue Dress has no friends because I make better videos 😂😂

[@cattofoxyalt]

@@cosmic3393 WTF MAN

[@stewartfiol9620]

I feel your pain, I have felt like you feel since I was 17 I am now 60, I would have loved you as a friend, believe me many people would also love you as a friend, you have a special quality you have passion people do like you, God bless ❤

[@dikastederook6380]

Being a 25s introvert who barely has any friend, is trying to get a job but can't, has no girlfriend (and isn't probably not going to get one anytime soon due to a lovely combination between being unemployed, not going out often and being pretty shy and not very experienced at it) and rarely goes out, I must say that intro about sitting alone staring at a computer on Saturday night knowing everyone else is talking, meeting, partying, having fun, etc, and feeling like you're missing everything is...sadly too familiar and relatable. Hope you, and everyone in the same situation, can get better in the near future. Massive support to everyone going through this.

[@thups9552]

Same thing here, bro. I feel like I've reached the point of no return now though lol, any attempt at closeness is now annoying to me

[@Tan_15115]

İ don't think you didn't have friend . When you are child , people's always becoming friend haha . Like it's enough to be child ,But Now.. you can act like "confident person " maybe it can work. But i realize i should turn to my family and maybe friends in Playstation worlds , KZbin geek chanels , and surely sport club maybe like fight sports. And i am being happy for fictual near future friends some times . Buuuut hehe all of that's can make you ..at least not feel pain maybe.Also i trying feel myself like 17 (İ am 20~) and think actually all of these things have rules .

[@Primatenate88]

Most people ain't worth 2 shits in a bucket, but there are a handful of stellar folk out there. Become an excellent judge of character, dont judge people based on appearance, get hobbies that require you to go out somewhere, get in shape, get a tan, do psychedelics, drink a 12 pack in public (fuck the law, you're already invisible aint you?) host a poker night, go to a bar and play pool, darts, whatever, go see a local band perform, do a blood ritual and summon an eldritch God or two, ask if they play poker, learn spanish, join a cult, leave the cult and join a gang, beat down the cult members with your new gang, dig a hole and bury someones phone that you stole, light firecrackers and throw them at the neighbors BBQ, Dye your hair black and get 2 or 3 face piercings, put dogshit in peoples mailbox, dwell the cemetary at night and try to raise the dead, give the neighborhood brats 20 bucks to steal lawn decorations, put decoration collection in someone elses lawn, pour syrup on peoples front door to attract ants, collect 5lbs of dogshit and donate them to the local chapel

[@suplexed]

@@thups9552 Nah bro it's never too late. I don't think its annoying as much as it just sucks being uncomfortable. Just think of it like you're training for a sport; practice long enough, and the awkwardness fades away. Believe me man, I was a complete weirdo till I worked at mcdonalds for a year or two after high school.

[@perfectopubg7320]

Try Islam, gives you the feeling of peace inside your heart.

[@medaminbelghithi]

give this girl a hug guys

[@bosskiller551]

But How can u tell me

[@VeronikaGama]

I will if I see her

[@Randomii15]

the hug is 1.9 mil views

[@izzalrahizam8865]

hug me please.

[@Birdbandb]

I’d hug her so hard. Poor thing.

[@CharlieBema]

I’m crying with you, and this is the heartfelt conversation I needed. I’m so glad that people are no longer afraid to show their true feelings and openly make videos about them, because I can watch them and know that I’m not alone and that not having friends is normal. it's so sad and cozy to cry together. I finally found what I was looking for for so long🌻 And most importantly, you are okay! Don’t think that there’s something wrong with you and that’s why you don’t have friends. You are a wonderful girl!❤

[@vibinvina4309]

You are so kind

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Me too i’m in the same boat i stopped caring. We may have time but we also may not get anything accomplished within that time. People can be mean. Don’t worry about it. I just talk to whoever is friendly

[@theflamerises499]

I have no friends left now and I have spent so much time alone I find it hard to change. Listening to you talk is like listening to my own thoughts. I came to realize that everything I worry about is what society says I have to be. You don't have to be anything. You don't owe the world anything. There is no mold you need to fit into. You are great.

[@dxisyxo6518]

this is the best quote to live by, ur exactly right

[@leom6165]

it is no a coincidence that so many people are in the same path we are the byproduct of something that is out of our control we were design to be this way we were programed to be this way over the fact that there are too much people on the planet and those who design that are using many ways for that purpose feminism gaysism transgenderism and now pedophilya race

[@writeherstory11]

This is literally all I think about every single day. I feel like no one fully understands how crippling loneliness is. And it ends up being a cycle. You feel trapped and consumed. The saddest thing for me is the few instances in which I let people in my life they completely betrayed me or disappointed me in the worst ways. So I started to wonder if it was protective in a sense. I don’t know. I hope it gets better for you. I speak to my therapist about this every week and I’m trying to just get used to it.

[@Blox117]

Lol you're a ⬛♀you aren't alone. Y'all always being loud af and in groups

[@enrater123]

@@Blox117 lmao come on man, I didn't thought it happened either but apparently some of them are indeed lonely

[@akyelus7626]

@@enrater123 u guys are racist and sexist as hell, we're people too wtf

[@writeherstory11]

@Blox117 You don’t know me nor do you know black women either because we’re all very different.

[@jaiganticpooey3012]

@@Blox117 You really thought all black women were a monolith 😂

[@user-ey2ms7ly5h]

This is so relatable and I know it's fu**ing depressing and lonely.. but what I'm thinking for myself is I know I'm bad at socializing but I at least try and that's it and that's all and I'm proud of it. I'm still so awkward and I'm so bad at it but I'm trying to do it by contacting a few close people (rarely but I try) and volunteering (not requiring to really talk to people). Even contacting people is so stressful thinking about getting rejected and feeling hurt or making a mistake or being judged negatively and I have so much scenarios and worries in my head. I hope you are better now I'm not sure how you're doing but I hope you'll be alright..It's like don't let your anxiety control you and decide for you and decide your actions but when the anxiety is sooo much it's just so difficult. Some people just don't feel anxious but I'm always so anxious and nervous and it makes me feel like I'm not supposed to and I'm wierd.. I honestly hate my anxiety and I wish it could go away but then it's trying to help me and warn me because I get hurt easily. I need to get used to getting hurt and getting rejected and get used to not blaming myself too much which is very difficult. But I feel like I can do it somehow. It's baby step and a very slow process but idk I excercise and run and try to make things work so why wouldn't it work? I'm gonna do it until I can make it and I have hope because I know many other people have overcome this and I can always use therapy

[@seeyouallintherapy]

you are LITERALLY me. i felt this so much. it scared me how each part of this applies to me, just how accurate this is. stay strong

[@xShujin]

You stay strong as well! Things will get better, and you deserve friends and happiness. Love to you!

[@thomasvleminckx]

@@xShujin "Things will get better" is a well-intentioned lie, but a lie nevertheless. When you have a structural mental issue in your brain, just waiting won't make it go away. Believe me. I have exactly her problems, and I'm 34. I've been this way since my teens. Inaction = no healing. Remember this.

[@Alymoomoos]

I feel this girls pains so immensely. I always dream about finding a person who is alone and in the exact same situation as me that I can then become super best friends with to have each other. I have run into trying to become friends with people who already have friends, and they never prefer me over the people they have known longer. Now I wanna be her friend XD (Btw I think she is so so so so pretty and cute, her skin is flawless and her hair looks so healthy!!

[@katrinat.3032]

She is really naturally cute

[@sayrenjones]

💯 feel this lady.

[@Extray]

I legit dream about the exact same thing as you almost everyday