I’m 26 and I’ve never had a girlfriend

[@georgeangell194]

I lived with my grandparents too and a very shy person. It is incredibly brave of you to share your situation. You are not alone, friend.

[@9mma32]

I am 19 very shy whats your age

[@Pdrock2001]

Buddy you are already on a good start . You are aware of your behavior patterns and acknowledge the trauma you have endured . That is the first step and you were brave when picking up this camera and sharing your heart out . Things will get better don't compare and keep going on ahead .

[@bigweewee5944]

I (34, M) can relate with your situation, I was super insecure, shy and introverted when I was your age, it was almost identical for me to what you are saying. I started travelling and it changed my life. I invite you to travel and hang out and to create a new social circle when traveling

[@eduard476]

That s*it is expensive.

[@doorknob8972]

​@@eduard476It isn't outside of the us

[@zacosman3398]

Haha he became a s*x tourist

[@test-ym3de]

how brother?

[@Vice_City_2004]

But how do you create a strong bond. I'm 32 now and I don't have the will to make strong bonds now

[@skydancer1867]

Understand that you are not alone. There are countless men like you. I had my first date at 24 and my first girlfriend at 30. The key is to get out there and don't make excuses. You absolutely can turn this around.

[@dannysummers4591]

Cope

[@skydancer1867]

@@dannysummers4591 Cope? So its not possible to turn around?

[@giorgosurban]

how did you meet your gf?@@skydancer1867

[@ColonelFluffles]

Maybe sounds like a stupid question... But what does it practically mean to "get out there"? Can you perhaps give an example? And where did you meet your girlfriend and first date? Like, how did "getting out there" end up getting you a match. Thanks in advance

[@skydancer1867]

@@ColonelFluffles Get out there means learn to socialize with people of all kinds and build confidence. Many guys don't even have male friends, but wonder why they can't find a girlfriend. This is skipping steps. For me nowadays, my socializing is mostly through church, where I have built friendships. I meet women through online dating. Online dating gets a bad rap in these circles, and in many ways this is warranted. I am admittedly more dependent on it than I would like to be, but I have had success with it, and have landed many dates and a couple relationships. My goal is marriage, so I don't mean to hold this up as the ideal success story. That's not what it is so far, but its a start.

[@zaguel]

you have a very good look on things brother. no toxicity, no women hate, nothing. you just know what is wrong with your life, and trying to fix it. good shit, really. hope the best for you

[@ridleyroid9060]

I live with my parents, mostly cause rent is just not affordable. And I'm also a shy loner who never really goes anywhere, and I appreciate your courage in making this video, and I also appreciate that I can relate through your story and feel less alone in our struggles.

[@NewfieAsianKid]

It's been nearly 8 years since I first had mine back in 2014. A first real serious relationship I had, and I got to tell you, it's not something that you would expect. At the start it's going to be awesome but then later on the months, she's going to go through mood swings that women go through, whine, complain and find ways to start unnecessary drama that you don't need. It's tough when it comes to dealing with women.

[@V_For_Vigilante]

Cool. How old were u back then ?

[@brianmeen2158]

“And find ways to start unnecessary drama that you don’t need” They sure will! These guys don’t seem to realize just how much work and stress relationships are

[@NewfieAsianKid]

@@brianmeen2158 I remembered one time my ex and I sat had lunch at the food court and before we see a movie at the theater, I had pieces of food accidentally on the table and she goes and rant and complain about bacteria! She even gets easily jealous too whenever she sees me have small talks with other women (which is only casual small talks, but no intentions of sexual flirting). And walking past other women with revealing outfits too at the sidewalk. What she expect? Always have my eyes the other way?

[@TheSupaman98]

@@brianmeen2158Great. Are you going to stop finding relationships because apparently us single guys are “so lucky” to not be in one? Try being completely isolated from any kind of romantic interaction YOUR WHOLE LIFE and see how much of a problem “dealing with women” actually is in comparison. I would do anything for “dealing with women” to be a problem I have to deal with. You are taking your relationship for granted.

[@spinturt]

You are a kindred spirit. Grew up with grandparents and hide away gaming. Thank you for posting this.

[@andrewhenderson6544]

What do you mean hide away gaming? I have a good idea but I want to hear it from you

[@doejohn7548]

26 too I’m not a virgin I had hookups just can’t approach girls cause I get in my head that I’m ugly or no girl would want me I haven’t had a girlfriend neither it sucks on the weekend when I’m doing Uber and I see couples having fun loving each other hopefully this year I find someone and I can get myself out there wish me luck man I feel you tho

[@CreatureQuestTv]

Don't worry you deserve to be happy .❤

[@ethanbarry4736]

I’m 29 in July never had a girlfriend dating apps are waste of time and €

[@manosijroy8282]

I agree with you about the dating apps. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and recently on dating apps I got unmatched immediately by 2 girls(One is 19 and the other one is 21) after I asked them out after a decent chat. I also tried asking out 2 girls recently who were in the same school as me. One of them is 19 now and we were chatting on Instagram for a month and I asked her out on last Sunday and she even agreed that we will meet up one day but 6 days ago she blocked me mysteriously for no reason and it hurt me. Then yesterday I asked out another girl who is turning 20 next month and I asked her out very politely for a coffee after chatting with her on Instagram for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after seeing it. My last hope is my childhood friend now who is 21 now turning 22 after 4 months and I asked her out for a coffee too but she isn't that active on Instagram so still didn't see or reply to my message yet. I hoping for a positive reply this time but I am so worried that what if she rejects me too.

[@thedrifter1446]

@@manosijroy8282 call your friend dont waste your time.

[@MST9525]

@@manosijroy8282it’s all not gonna work out if she’s not replying bro. Keep trying. It’s like winning the lotto honestly

[@NicholsMediaPress]

@@manosijroy8282How did it go did u and ur childhood friend start dating or anything?

[@MorshuRicher]

I've been getting the most matches I've had in awhile but almost all eventually stopped responding (I'm talking 10+ matches) and nothing that warrants not replying since I try to carry on the convo, but luckily I'm decently attractive so I also cold approach but I usually try to sense their attitude before I try. Haven't got too far with that yet

[@KamalTiwari82]

I am a little over 40 and never had a girlfriend, I have a lot of anxiety when it comes to talking to people and I find that the majority of the time I also experience abuse, when walking down the street if I am looking at a girl who isn’t dressed appropriately I get called a perv so sometimes I have alot of anxiety which comes from society. I struggle with people alot especially in work, because I struggle to talk I find that I don’t keep a job for very long either.

[@manosijroy8282]

Damn man really at 40+? Are you an Indian? I am a 22 year old Indian (Bengali) guy living in Bangalore in India who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just completed my engineering 3 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Almost 2 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and today I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake. I do feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. Also in this Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet.

[@MorshuRicher]

I had this girl at a temp job (granted didn't last long because it was technically long distance) she was the top girl there and talked to every guy who worked there but I knew she would choose me. I'd say try to have that mindset

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman.

[@PhillDrakeEntertainment]

28 here and never been in relationship, never kissed the girl always I feel anxious, I decided to work on myself this year to change some of the habbits, I feel you man it's not easy to find a perfect girl today.

[@BLUESKY-zt1nv]

62 ..

[@GHC2US777]

Get a Passport and Date Overseas.

[@psychostranger2097]

I am 38 years old virgin male. Never had a girlfriend.

[@manosijroy8282]

Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but finally had my first date just 2 days ago(on Saturday) and got my first hug but still not my first kiss yet and still single. She is 19 btw and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days and have been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 but finally 2 days ago we decided to meet in the mall and we actually did and ate in the Mcdonald's there and then took photos and selfie and I pinched her cheeks a lot too as she is really cute and asked for a hug and she gave one hug too for a few seconds but it was still nice. I towered over her tho as I am like 5'9(174-175 cm) and she is only like 5' or probably even 4'11. But overall it was a good date. Idk what she feels about me but I still can't believe that everything went so well. But I also like this another girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I am planning to study MBA next. She also says me hi almost daily and we do handshake and she smiles and sometimes initiates conversations with me but I only answer what she asks and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations near her but hopefully after today's date, my shyness near girls seemed to have reduced for sure. Last month I also came to know that she finds me cute and 3 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too. I honestly like both the girls.

[@Evanpetersno1fan]

STOP COMMENTING THE SAME SHIT WE DONT CARE .

[@jacqueslee2592]

Why don't you travel to Australia, Europe, or Asia? Go get a hooker or escort. It is legal over there. Only Americans are 40 year old virgins or virgins for life because they cannot get laid by escorts when they want to have sex.

[@terrycraig6386]

​@@manosijroy8282you pinched her cheeks? Really? How did that go? lol

[@angelit161]

@@terrycraig6386lmao

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman. Is it over for me? No, the truth is that it never started!!!

[@TJ45223]

Yeah you’re cooked

[@MeJustMe101]

16 year old here, never had a girlfriend and because Im used to it at this point, I like being single. No bs, I dont need to pay for food every week at very good resturants on dates, i dont need to hear constant whinning, I dont need to share a bed, I dont need to live up to any girls expectations. I don't need to constantly be texting her, I dont need to be a simp, Im really liking this. Strong alone, die alone. Thats my motto about dating. I dont need women just as much as women dont need me. Women can go date a bear, I dont care.

[@aktivniigomes1989]

you're a literal kid, you have plenty of time to find someone if you want but I'm 29, it's over for me

[@ry1786]

@@aktivniigomes1989 yeh im 16 i started to workout to get muscle wish me luck

[@Halo3VT]

Gonna turn 30 in three weeks, it never began for me. Still a virgin, talked to many girls, used dating apps, met a single mom, fcked me over mentally cos she was playing with me. No I did not kiss her. Wish you all the best mate. Go through it, you will find out for yourself if it is worth it or not. GONNA get my Wizard Diploma soon btw 😂 I will hang that on my wall.

[@manosijroy8282]

I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?

[@keyshawnscott12]

​@@manosijroy8282go ahead and ask her

[@lorebringers]

@@manosijroy8282 man ask her out on the first chats with her do not wait 1 month shes gonna friendzone you..

[@ultanmahon5080]

​@manosijroy8282 Exactly the same as you mate. I'd just ask her, no reason not to.

[@Halo3VT]

@@ultanmahon5080 She dated an other guy last year. Thought she is a traditional woman so she left basically. I denied the kiss when we first met, I mean so much to being religious from her side. I am a Wizard now, guess some men are not meant to be with a woman.. And sorry mate, it is very tough.

[@kyairamarbury]

Omg you’re just the cutest! I’m sure you will find a great lady soon enough. Quality over quantity. You seem like a great guy. My husband was very shy and I basically had to make all the moves and it was worth it!so don’t worry it can happen and it’ll be the woman that’s meant for you!

[@azzazz4549]

Stop giving him false hope lol

[@100-w6e]

@@azzazz4549 it seems like you’re not frustrated at all

[@whyme3772]

@@azzazz4549He’s not really that bad. Post a picture of what you look like 😂😂

[@kaleb5117]

Very well spoken, it’ll be no problem once u get over the shy part

[@ChrisWelch97]

I’m 24 years old & im a virgin never been in relationships I get called it a lot & it don’t affect me one bit I couldn’t care less I’m happy as I am if I find a girl I like then good if I don’t not end of world I’m always trying to find the right one I just don’t like it when people say u should get a girlfriend like it’s part of everyday life rules when it isn’t u can be happy been virgin whole life finding a job more important than relationships paying your way in life relationships is a bonus I’ve had girls saying they really like me then nothing escalated after that I do believe there’s someone out there for everyone just needs to be the right person we are all different of course I’m not desperate at all I rather worry about leafs falling of a tree than relationships don’t try worry about it mate someone out there for everyone great video mate that’s just my opinion

[@Ghost-vg6iq]

I like your answer trying to find happiness in small endeavors

[@andrewhenderson6544]

I remember when I lost my virginity, that feeling is unforgettable. You have something great to look forward to. Make sure it's the right person.

[@darkmidnight818]

​@@andrewhenderson6544losing your virginity is a social construct. I could literally lie.

[@darkmidnight818]

​@@andrewhenderson6544and its not like its what you see online. I heard the first time sucks.

[@JohnSmith-fs8bu]

Looking good Dan, just keep grinding that’s what life’s all about. One step in front of the other

[@dylansmith1548]

I appreciate you being so honest Dan and sharing your story have you ever tried weight lifting or some type of cardio exercise overtime it slowly giving me a lot of confidence anyways hope you're doing well!

[@colossalmedia]

Hey man, dont let this fear get to your head too much. Take a walk in the park, you can see plenty of average looking guys with average looking girls. This year go on a self improvement and looksmaxxing journey. And as you’re "leveling up", reach out to girls. Don’t let your thoughts keep you from talking. Confidence and charisma is EXTREMELY important when talking. Focus on these two and I‘m positive you’re gonna be much more successful in your dating life. Good luck my friend.

[@GeomaxxingBlackpill]

There no looksmaxxing for your height or face

[@blakedwyer8227]

No heart break, no drama. Live your best life my dude 😊

[@leetun444]

Fr that's basically how my life has been lol I'm 16 btw

[@tofoo1]

@@leetun444ya same dawg

[@crystlelakefarm1254]

Nope, single people absolutely experience heart break

[@mq-r3apz291]

im 24 and im PURPOSELY not having a girlfriend despite getting "one nighters". I need intamacy but as an introvert i prefer to focus on myself so yes im not a virgin but no relationships.

[@BlackPrimeMinister]

God bless you, my guy. Build yourself up. Women are absolutely NOT the prize.

[@jacobperez8921]

It’s sad to see so many lonely guys that I can relate to on KZbin and on the internet in general. I think the red pill content out there does give good advice in general but I don’t agree with everything said within the community. I hope you are well dude. You are not alone in this fight.

[@adrienhelferich7069]

Dude I believe in you I’m 18 tbh and for 3 years of my life I did nothing I was a surfer young youthful outgoing attractive had a pretty girlfriend in 9th grade arguably the prettiest 11th grader in the school and I decided I begged to do online school to try and take it to the next level although I got addicted to Netflix and so I stayed in the house for 3 years hardly went outside and go sunlight maybe once a week for 10-30 mins if that from 14.5- 17.5 even now some I developed permanent long lasting affects from this stuff such as anxiety paranoia confidence issues extreme ocd headaches from blue light I could go on all night not to sound like a picky complainer but it’s truly tough I also have a problem with my height every time I surf now I canstantly think about my height I’m 5’7 and it’s hard I feel like I stunted my growth too I go by a pretty girl now and I have no confidence because my social life went to crap I’m trying to work harder on my problems now but I totally understand and empathize for you and have real faith in you Dan:) ❤

[@manosijroy8282]

At least you had a gf in high school and could experience teenage love whereas I completely missed out. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently got unmatched by 2 girls(one is 19 and another is 21) on dating app after I asked them out even after a decent chat. I also tried asking out this girl who is 19 turning 20 in August and we were in the same school but now we are in different colleges and we have been chatting on Instagram for a month and she even agreed to meet up and I was super happy but she blocked me mysteriously for no reason last week. Then 5 days ago I tried asking out another girl who is turning 20 after a few weeks and we also were in the same school and have been chatting on insta for over 3 weeks but she immediately blocked me after I asked her out for a coffee. My only last hope is this girl who was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 and now she is 21 turning 22 after like 4 months. I asked her out too for a coffee but she isn't that active on Instagram so she still didn't even see or reply to my message yet but honestly I am hoping for a positive reply but also worried that she might reject me too.

[@geraldleuven169]

@@manosijroy8282 Dating nowadays is a hell.

[@WafflesLol00]

​​@@manosijroy8282It's been 3 months, did she reject you or not?

[@MorshuRicher]

Man I hate the games some of them play

[@kylabutler2195]

Thank you for being so honest in this video, and I am so proud of you for making the appropriate changes to change your life ❤

[@ironknobsteelworks4063]

I didn`t have a girlfriend till i was 28. I made the mistake of not socialising in my teens and my job was a male only environment. This severely impacts your chances with women.

[@initiatorhater0688]

i assume with your girlfriend you had to be the one to ask her out and shoot your shot with her

[@adamcrocker1335]

You're very self aware and are fully accepting that there are changes you can make instead of having a defeatist attitude and that is more than can be said for a LOT of men in your postion. Wishing you yhe best of luck buddy!

[@philbuck365]

Also you can take classes that teach you to do public speaking. If you can speak to a group of strangers you won’t have trouble with those girl. And never act desperate or needy . If you act like you don’t care one way or another . This will make them want you more.

[@Mariovdls]

Bro its definitely mental, you're not ugly (no homo) you also have good conversations skills, but fr you're a good looking lad

[@Reformed322]

Hi Dan! Loved the video. Hey dude, I get it, I didn't have my first gf or lose my virginity until 29, which was last year. I'm gonna be honest, this is the opener that is the reason I'm now engaged, is when you match with someone just ask right away to go on a date. I found that around that 26 or 27 age, women just want to go out on a date and skip the texting phase. I was always terrible at texting. If you aren't comfortable with going on a date right away, ask to call and talk over the phone, that's also why I'm engaged. I guess to put it this way, I noticed that when I started to go on dates in my late 20's, the more they appreciate chivalry and a gentleman. Also, keep up that attitude! Never lose it! When you achieve that list of goals then make a new one.

[@hanyan2012]

Your self-work and self awareness is very attractive to women. You also have a very calming voice and demeaner. Keep up the good work building that confidence, and the right lady will enter your life when the time is right :)

[@JustSavwill]

Honestly, how dating is these days. I see it as protection. Heartbreak is the worst feeling to experience. I’m going through it right now. I don’t even want to date anymore. There’s very few good ppl out there. Soo I say you’re lucky and if you do find someone, let’s pray she is a genuine soul.

[@regista4]

I'm sorry to hear you had bad experiences but honestly this level of cynicism is not really what Dan needs to hear when he's trying to get himself out there and start interacting with people more. Yes there are bad people and yes you can get hurt when dating but I truly believe there are way more good people out there than bad and all the rough times are worth it once you find the right person.

[@regista4]

@stevo6891 As of his most recent video, Dan had his first kiss with someone he met on Hinge sooo... good thing he doesn't have the same cynical attitude you have :)

[@RandyDungcaRJ]

I’m feeling the same thing but I’m a 19 year old male. I’ve never had a talking stage with a girl. I’m a really shy person I keep to myself as well. I’ve never drank or smoked in my life and that makes me think, do I need to do those things to fit in with other people so they can just talk to me?

[@Us3r739]

How tall are you?

[@RandyDungcaRJ]

@@Us3r739 around 5’7 or 5’8

[@autorenteamasb8804]

When I read the comments it’s always those same gaslighting advice like join a gym, dress well , love yourself blalbala hahahah

[@frog6054]

​@filmdude5058 Literally almost everyone here has been doing that and it didn't change nothing.

[@angelit161]

Some guys are beyond helping. Some just need therapy cuz they never seem to be satisfied with anything

[@potentglitter5300]

You’re aware of the changes you need to make and that’s great! That’s good you’re going out more and going to church. I actually met my fiancé through a church group. God bless!

[@a32tl]

I’ll be 55 in a few weeks and I’ve never been in a relationship of any kind. Never even been on a proper date.

[@manosijroy8282]

Woah damn man really at 55? How come? Thats scary. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend, never even kissed or hugged a girl in real life. Recently I got rejected and blocked by 3 girls(rejected by 7 girls in total so far). These recent 3 girls who rejected me were in the same school as me but now we are in different colleges so we had been chatting on Instagram for months and finally asked each of them out for a coffee. One of them who is 19 turning 20 in August even agreed to meet up but she blocked me mysteriously after a few days whereas another one blocked me immediately. Then few days ago I asked out another one who is 20 but she too rejected me saying even though I am nice, she just isn't comfortable to meet up with me and it hit me hard. But yesterday I finally gained some hope as I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 in a couple of months and she replied positively. We were close friends when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011. But she isn't that active on Instagram so she took almost a month to reply to the message in which I asked her out and she finally replied yesterday. She replied "yeah ok" but didn't say when we will meet exactly so I asked her to decide when we can meet. I am still a bit worried as she gave only a 2 words reply so idk whether I will be lucky this time or not.

[@nobodysperfect06]

Won't surprise me if all if you're a guy or male

[@jeffreywong7244]

@@manosijroy8282hey man I’m turning 19 soon, and I’m on the same boat as you. I’ve asked few girls out although each interaction became better, the last one ended with 4 dates and I got friendzoned. It really do sucks but I think we should just focus on ourself the bitches can come later, us men should strive for success and not for girls. Mentality is very important. Don’t be that ass kisser or nice guy. Good luck man !

[@johnblah1040]

@@jeffreywong7244At least you’ve had dates, I’ve never had any. It sucks for us bro

[@jeffreywong7244]

@@johnblah1040 I feel you, but confidence plays a massive role even if you look good. I suggest looking at the redpill, as I think it’s really helpful in developing how we think.

[@grandiosa86]

I have not made it yet, but finding a group to attend or something or support group can be very rewarding I have heard.

[@EchoVids2u]

I recommend joining a dance club. I was scared at first but I started learning bachata and have gotten very comfortable dancing, in the class you dance with girls, start making friends, get people's Instagram, and attend dance socials. It's a great way to meet people and feel confident in yourself.

[@JediMaul]

I’m 20 years old never had a girlfriend myself. I’ve tried dating apps and hang out with girls but it didn’t get far as I expected. I gave up on them because there a waste of time to me honestly. I just focus on leveling up at my job, building up my money and building confidence as I go. The right will come soon I just have to be patient and love myself. I met a German girl she’s a intern at my job and I fell for her like an idiot and she only saw me as a friend lol. I learned a lot from it and I was able to boost my confidence up and get out more. But first I got to focus on myself and my goals. I appreciate this video and the confidence you show to all people. Because I wouldn’t bare myself to do it lol. But eventually bro you will find someone. Just focus on yourself and take care of yourself. That confidence you have is a good start and will boost a lot more going out and stuff. I’m working on it myself and getting better and see a lot of progress as I go out and talk to people and stuff. The right one will be knocking at your door to open!

[@watchmetry]

I'm 26 too, my parents were in their 60s growing up also very shy too which doesn't help especially living in chicago. We shall overcome.

[@Mealtimefake]

Wow, I really appreciate the sincerity or maybe authenticity! Especially, when you concluded by explaining why you don't upload very often--that is something many don't admit.

[@Luis-kh2oh]

It's worth the wait I didn't started dating until I was 23 before than I was a emotional wreck and in a personality crisis in a town that treated me as a outcast but when I left the world open up to me I had friends a girlfriend and a great job in the state parks focus on oneself is good change is good it's never to late life doesn't disappoint you you disappoint life

[@josephmessina3587]

Lucky you! I was 37 years old when I had my first so called girlfriend, don't miss her. You ain't missing anything. Concentrate on your job, career and any other pursuits that you enjoy or makes you a better person inside. All you are doing here is exposing your weaknesses for all to see. That said, no woman can fill the emptiness in your heart.

[@bailey2517]

Youre so full of shit.

[@_Kiwyy_]

I like how you talk, very eloquent! You'll make it happen man, I'm sure!

[@gabrielleperez6548]

Good luck man!! 💚 sending my prayers 🙏🏻

[@anyo_mations]

At least you're self-aware. That's half the battle

[@King_of_Sofa]

Bro, I guess I'm a wizard!!

[@Joe-d3t1t]

Stay strong brother!!

[@lokisan79]

I’m 26 and, although I haven't found my tribe yet, the idea of being a wizard does sound pretty amazing-just imagine the spellcasting! Jokes aside, thanks for sharing your story.

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman.

[@Necronth]

I'm glad you made this video, and I am glad to have watched it. You are a really cool dude. I became a Wizard last month, but despite that I have become more outgoing and have been able to interact with strangers competently in like the past 2-3 years. Still learning, But yeah, you are miles ahead of many and you are going in the right direction. I don't doubt you will find a partner. You have good body language, are well spoken, invested in a valuable career, etc. And you are setting yourself up for a good future. God Bless!

[@manosijroy8282]

So are you 30 now? Did you have a gf before? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. Recently I started going for some classes to get coaching for upcoming exams(which starts from Nov last week) to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 2 weeks ago and planning to study MBA next. There I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. We did handshake on our first class which was on 13th July 2023 and she sometimes tries to initiate convos with me asking whether I had lunch or not and says me hi but I just answer her what she asks or say hi back and I am still shy near girls in person so I am usually shy to try to initiate any talks with her unless she herself is the one who tries to talk with me first. BTW 4 days ago, she actually said she finds me cute and that really made me blush hard and my friends too teased me hehe so I feel a little more hopeful now. Since 28th May 2023, I also have been chatting with this 19 year old girl on Instagram. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other and now she is in a different college which is very near to my home tho and I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago who is 21 now turning 22 very soon. But my childhood friend is very inactive on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up, she didn't reply about when exactly we can meet up as she takes weeks and even a month to reply to me. I do chat with the 19 year old regularly sending each other virtual hugs and sharing everything like about our day, classes, about ourselves and many more but it still looks like she just sees me as a friend so I am still nervous to ask her out as I also got rejected recently by 4 girls.

[@yutupedia7351]

wizard of what? some kind of video game? 🤔

[@AldairPerez-fh9ny]

Don't worries man you're not the only one

[@peterhenriksson1512]

The most important thing in life is to have peace with one self. If some people want to join it is a bonus.

[@thxcaze1416]

I am 18 but I feel like this guy is my future self talking to me

[@Weezyfan0306]

I’m 22 and I know it’s over

[@Trudon]

​@user-yg7kb1mt9z ur still very young. I'm 34 & never had a girlfriend.

[@Weezyfan0306]

@@Trudon don’t take this the wrong way but, I don’t want to end up like you.

[@Trudon]

@@Weezyfan0306 well u better get on it then. Time flies. I remember being ur age thinking by 25 or 30 I'd have a gf or wife maybe but nothing. Before u know it ur my age still single. Unless u take active steps now to change u will do.

[@manosijroy8282]

@@Trudon I am also a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and it bothers me a lot. Btw is a month long enough to know whether someone is interested in me or not? After getting rejected by 4 girls very recently, I asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on Instagram so even though she agreed to meet up she haven't replied yet about when we can meet. I have been chatting with this another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is 19 now and in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college. We are in different colleges now but we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school. So we only have been getting to know each other for a bit over a month. Her college is very near to my home tho. We chat daily and talk about literally everything and we are both foodies too and send each other virtual hugs but there isn't any flirting in the chats yet. It looks like she still sees me as a friend. I wanna ask her out but is 1 month already long enough to know whether she is interested in me or not or does it take longer?

[@MrJeng300]

Dan!! Nice shirt! I just got my first gf with 28. You can and will do it. Keep improving yourself. 🙌

[@oscarperez5539]

Nice man,What made you wait until 28?

[@MrJeng300]

@@oscarperez5539 Anxiety issues, depression, bad habits/lifestyle. Smoke (both weed&nicotine) free for over 5 years now, working out, job, more friends, own flat, things are slowly moving upwards. 🙌

[@oscarperez5539]

@@MrJeng300 awesome man!

[@manosijroy8282]

Do you feel I missed out by never have dated at 22? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before. I feel FOMO all the time when I open Instagram and see most of my followers posting videos of them hanging out with the opposite gender and posting it in their IG stories. I feel terrible seeing couples or even just a guy or girl hanging out as friends as I feel I completely missed out on young love but I keep it to myself or share about it my close friend who is 23 and he tries to make my mood better. I use dating apps but most girls ghost me. Today also I got matched by a girl on Hinge who is 18 almost 19 but as usual she is ghosting me just like my previous matches who were all 18-23 year olds. I also follow and send dm to girls on Instagram who were in the same school as me and are 19-22 year olds now but majority of them ghosted and blocked me because I was too shy near girls in my school days so never interacted with them in school so I guess most of them kinda just see me as a stranger. Still around 4 or 5 girls chat with me daily but I am nervous to ask either of them out. One of them is my childhood friend when we were in elementary school and now she is 21 turning 22 after 4 months and I wanna ask her out but we didn't talk in person since 2011 so idk whether she will be comfortable or not plus she isn't that active on IG so her replies are kinda slow at times.

[@initiatorhater0688]

i assume with your GF, you had to be the one to ask her out, pursue her, hit on her

[@ELdASenSei]

Here, 36, never had sex or a gf. You're not alone

[@Evanpetersno1fan]

lower ur standards then, ur fault

[@Godssoldier.]

​@@Evanpetersno1fannever. I'm gonna be with the right person or no one at all.

[@andrewgonzalez9002]

@@Godssoldier. ok, well that’s a choice but most guys in that position aren’t in it because their picky

[@philbuck365]

If you want to date make yourself the best You can be . Join a gym get fit you will look better and naturally feel more confident. Find some hobbies something you can do that will make you happy that doesn’t require girls. Happiness is contagious and confidence girls find very attractive. Let’s start with baby steps tell yourself you’re going to go somewhere and you’re gonna have conversations with three different girls just for practice just try to keep their attention try to make them laugh and don’t ask him out. If this is too difficult you can make it even easier on yourself go to a girl that you’re not attracted to someone that you don’t want to date but go through the motions try to talk to her ask her out if you want see how she responds to you and you can build on that .

[@Dan-RS]

I've been trying to take better care of myself but have been dealing with health issues that make it hard to workout. Been going to the doctor and trying different stuff though lately to figure it out.

[@MrJeng300]

@@Dan-RS Would you care to elaborate what those issues are? Sucks to hear that man, but I'm sure there's still something you can do.

[@GeomaxxingBlackpill]

There is no gym for your height

[@BLu3RayDiskRang3]

It's going to be okay. I've had multiple partners and have just had sex with a few of them. I'm single now, and I'm still worried about messing up my next connection with a beautiful woman. The only grass that's greener on the other side is the weed I smoke.

[@kristynguyen6056]

You have such a positive attitude. Keep going!

[@markhatch9893]

A positive attitude isn't going to get him a gf lol

[@chuckcollins2349]

​@@markhatch9893not really

[@GeomaxxingBlackpill]

Why don’t you date him then

[@GabrielNechita-ep1hp]

I don't know why, but I watch this video every day, twice per day.

[@inker1972]

You got problems 😂

[@Frusie]

@@inker1972we all do.

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman.

[@foxirelle8841]

I'm 25 and in a very similar boat; I've found that women tend to avoid me because of three accursed flaws. I'm fat, I'm Arab, and I'm autistic. There's nothing more humiliating than constantly being rejected and ignored because of traits that I don't really have any control over. I always see skinny, neurotypical white dudes find perfect girlfriends without even trying, and in turn, it makes me hate myself, and those three traits that I've had my entire life. I guess what I'm trying to say is that you're not alone, and here's to hoping that the universe eventually stops walking all over people like us

[@tilt6715]

You can't control the fat part?

[@foxirelle8841]

@@tilt6715 no, I can't. Losing weight isn't viable for some people, myself included, no matter how hard they try, believe it or not

[@tilt6715]

@@foxirelle8841 Had a feeling. My aunt's the same way.

[@V_For_Vigilante]

Aren't some arabs white tho?

[@foxirelle8841]

@@V_For_Vigilante not white enough to not get called racial slurs and blamed for 9/11, that's for goddamn sure

[@josephang9927]

I'm 31. Same shit. It does Not get better.

[@manosijroy8282]

Damn man. I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and yet to get my first kiss. I started going for some classes to prepare for some exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college 3 weeks ago and I am planning to study MBA next. There in the class, I got crush on this girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She tries to initiate conversations with me and say me hi but I just say her hi back and answer what she asks but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. Almost 2 weeks ago, she actually said that I am cute and that made me blush a lot and 2 days ago I gave her chocolate too. I was really shy but with my friends being with me, I gave her the chocolate and she thanked me with a smile and we did a handshake but I am worried that what if I made her uncomfortable by giving her the chocolate as she didn't say me hi in class since yesterday and that made me upset. I do also feel a bit worried as she has 2-3 male friends in our class so I feel scared thinking what if she goes for either of them. Also in next Saturday, me and a girl who is 19 year old now planned to meet in a McDonald's near her college. We used to be in the same school but didn't know each other in school days and we just have been kinda knowing each other for several months via Instagram. I have never been on a date or even a normal hang out with a girl so I am nervous. I am also worried whether she is really serious about hanging out with me on Saturday or she is joking as I just got rejected by several girls before. I am afraid that what if I mess up or something. I am hoping things will be fine and it won't get cancelled. I also asked out my childhood friend 3 months ago and she is 21 turning 22 soon and even she agreed to meet up but she is very inactive on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to my messages so she still haven't replied when we can exactly meet.

[@josephang9927]

@@manosijroy8282 I think you are doing fine and will do well. In my case I just did not care until too late so now I'm old and inexperienced and women hate that.

[@Evanpetersno1fan]

Honestly speaking i dont care tbh, maybe cuz im younger (19) idk but i wouldn’t mind an inexperienced man@@josephang9927

[@andrewgonzalez9002]

Only gets more painful as time passes

[@Us3r739]

We just a waste of air for real. No woman want us to

[@khang.ngtr487]

I'm the same age as you and in the same situation. I tried to date a few girls I liked but it never turned into a relationship. Just keep on looking, brother 💪

[@marklong8222]

Same here brother I'm 26 working never had a girlfriend or any luck finding one

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman.

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman.

[@anthonyqueiros9833]

Never forget bro you have value as a person

[@aint_perfect]

Machines need cogs to function properly

[@hiyabuddy7]

Hobbies my dude. That's a good place to start. But getting out of the house is the most important part. Not going to "meet" anybody new on the couch my dude. You got this💯👍

[@sillyfilly5528]

24 here close to 25 and I’ve never had a girlfriend either, I’ve lived with my family all my life, I’m autistic and very socially awkward, I’m physically unattractive, I don’t understand how to be social, making friends and keeping has never been easy so getting a relationship is even harder, I’ve kinda given up tbh because I feel like people will never understand me or like me for who I am.

[@portman8909]

Consider escort.

[@The_First_Sean]

Being an incel is brutal

[@whyme3772]

Being an incel will just get you no where. It’s like constantly hating on the (morally) rich. Instead of hating on them, learn from them. And improve your social skills and take better care of yourself before approaching women.

[@Zombie9Slayer]

In 5 years time I will be 30 and I'm a virgin and never been in a relationship, It's mad. Some People that I went to school and college with are already married and have children. People say that I am a nice guy and I try to be happy all the time. I do worry a lot and have anxiety, even at work I worry and the people I work with always say I am great but I don't have that much self confidence I doubt myself.

[@initiatorhater0688]

i agree with this other user, your case or situation angers and fills me with resentment, because its a reminder that cases like this are male dominated, the vast majority of people who go well into their 20s, reach 30s and older, and have never dated, never been in a relationship before, are male. Mostly male, and it should be unfairly obvious as to why reality and nature is cruel like that, yes i know there is no such thing as fairness.

[@judgeholder8112]

Can someone please help this man out?

[@superalloywheel]

Wishing you the best keep it up

[@patricksmith4424]

I totally relate to where your at. I am 59 and have never had a girlfriend. What's important remember is that there is a lot more to getting girlfriends than what is told, especially as far as guys are concerned, it's actually really hard for shy people. I put a big ring around shy because shyness is basically fear which comes over as lack of confidence to women, a big big turn off. I was the youngest of a big family, all boys apart from 1, I only related to older people as a result I hated school and only went for 3 years. I never learned to make friends and I never learned to be a man so I was pretty stuffed as soon as I hit adult hood. The ages between 16 to 18 are really important as that's when your peers are are starting to play around also losing your virginity will give you a huge amount of confidence in dealing with women. The older you get the worse the hang ups so their is a downward spiral going on. You are going about this in the right way. addressing the issues and working on them bit by bit I wish I had done that. Putting this video out is a great start. You are a good looking guy and obviously have stacks of good stuff going for you, so I think that going with a plan them some lady should be out there. I don't like saying this but have you considered a session with a good wholesome prostitute? You would be many rungs up the ladder after that, believe me.

[@manosijroy8282]

Damn man really at 59? Is 23 still kinda late in your opinion? I am a guy who turned 23 just 5 days ago and I never had a girlfriend before. I did have my first ever date 3 months ago at the age of 22. She is 19(turning 20 next month) and we went to the mall, ate in Mcdonalds and then we hugged and took pics and I was pulling her cheeks a lot as she was really cute. But 2 weeks after the date, she became toxic to me and blocked me on all social media apps. She basically just used me for free lunch and to take lots of pics of her. I also have crush on this another girl who is also 22 (turning 23 next month) in a class where I go for preparation of several exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college like 5 months ago and planning to study MBA next. I am generally shy near her and she is the one who starts conversations with me. She also has called me cute a several times and I pulled her cheeks twice too and gave her chocolate once but I see her being with her male friends a lot and now due to exams we aren't able to meet. 2 months ago, I went out with this another girl in the same class who is also 23. We are just friends tho and we roamed around the city that day and had lunch in a big restaurant. We also took several selfie and I pulled her cheeks as well but was shy to ask for a hug. She even called me an amazing person on my birthday 5 days ago. I also am following several girls from the institute I go to who are within 21-25 age range on Instagram but I am yet to send them a message. I also have been chatting with this another girl for several months on Instagram and she is 19(turning 20 in April) and we used to be in the same school but she was my junior so we didn't know each other during school days. She is very sweet and caring and chatting with her makes my mood much better. We send each other virtual hugs daily too and we are both foodies and like talking about food a lot. We plan to meet one day too and eat somewhere nice. But in the end, I am still single.

[@patricksmith4424]

@@manosijroy8282 23 too late! To a 59 year old that seems like a kid. No you are in your prime with a whole life ahead (God willing). However, age can be relative so when you are 23 and see what your peers have been doing in their young adult years you can feel you have missed the boat, when in actual fact the opposite is the case. The point I was making was that when you young, like with school and college it's a bit like a conveyer belt, so if you don't tick a box when you should you can get a hang ups about it, which just gets worse. That's why you have to face those hang ups at any age and try to resolve them. I remember when I was 23 and at college this guy asked whether I was still a virgin. How ridicules that I was ashamed and wanted to bat of the question, but the fact that I did not come out with a clean answer meant I was. Because of my lack of experience I always lacked confidence around girls, they pick up on that as being uninterested so you never get the chance to progress and it just gets worse the more time passes. You seem to be well down the road to getting a partner, just going out together and getting phone nos mean you are almost there. Remember that when you get on that well with someone you will openly discuss your past, so your female friend will be on your level. As I am so inexperienced I cannot comment about how you should behave on a date, but the pulling cheeks bit strikes me as being a bit weird, if it's you and they don't mind fine, if suddenly out of the blue then probably best to avoid. All guys have to be careful with innitiating physical contact with women, esspecially now a days when one wrong move and you are arrested. I have noticed that gay men have far more freedom in this respect. They are always hugging ladies, like ladies do to each other because they know there is no sexual intent. It must be very difficult for yougs now on that front.

[@dr.seytan4310]

@@manosijroy8282its never late

[@The92Waffles]

I was 30 when I had my first gf and sex for the first time. For those of you getting older and fretting - don't. It can happen when you least expect it. Don't over think it and you will be fine

[@100Kakdela]

You sound quite smart and very proactive for an asocial person. Moving in the right direction.

[@thesecretsofjordan]

You’re not alone Dan

[@Arachn1d1902]

I hate taking pics too. Every pic I take is covered in filters so you can't actually see me

[@douglasmaddox3308]

Brother you doing good already! First thing you did right was acknowledging that you've been too afraid to do things and now you're getting out of your comfort zone. That's where you will see the most growth and if you keep working on yourself brother by this time next year things would be completely different and moving in a positive direction. God bless

[@PossibleBat]

Brutal reality is you have to put yourself out there and go though many people and rejections before finding someone worth it, otherwise waiting for it to happen "naturally" and not actively doing something to make others know you are looking, doesn’t work and nothing will happen. It’s basically like playing the lottery and expecting to win, you are going to lose a lot more times before winning and you might not even win at all

[@howardlangton7982]

To the people who say "focus on yourself, date later in life" That's actually bad advice. I honestly think the sooner you have your first romantic relationship the better. If you're like 30-40 and still never had a girlfriend, women will see it as a turn-off. It's much like how employers see it as a problem if you have less work experience. "Oh you've never had a job before at age 30? Why would hire you if no one else will?" So please if you're still young and you have the opportunity to date, DO IT. Even if it ends in a heartbreak, having a romantic experience under your belt will pay off.

[@manosijroy8282]

I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before but finally had my first date just 3 days ago(on Saturday) and got my first hug but still not my first kiss yet and still single. She is 19 btw and is in 2nd year of college and we used to be in the same school but didn't know each other those days and have been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 but finally 3 days ago we decided to meet in the mall and we actually did and ate in the Mcdonald's there and then took photos and selfie and I pinched her cheeks a lot too as she is really cute and asked for a hug and she gave one hug too for a few seconds but it was still nice. I towered over her tho as I am like 5'9(174-175 cm) and she is only like 5' or probably even 4'11. But overall it was a good date. Idk what she feels about me but I still can't believe that everything went so well. But I also like this another girl who is also 22 or maybe 23 in my class where I go for preparation of exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I am planning to study MBA next. She also says me hi almost daily and we do handshake and she smiles and sometimes initiates conversations with me but I only answer what she asks and I am still shy to initiate any further conversations near her but hopefully after today's date, my shyness near girls seemed to have reduced for sure. Last month I also came to know that she finds me cute and 3 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too. I honestly like both the girls.

[@Evanpetersno1fan]

?? im being honest when. say this but i wouldnt care if a guy is a virgin, inexperienced or doesnt have alot of money . maybe its bc im young (19) and dont require much but i dont see that as a turn off

[@Evanpetersno1fan]

WE DONT CARE@@manosijroy8282

[@howardlangton7982]

@I_like_turtles111 Yes it is because you're young yourself, obviously. Or maybe you just happen to have lower standards in general which is good. But most people just don't, and there's the problem. And aside from that I just don't understand why one would delay dating, if they have the time and opportunity. I just don't. It's a lot like learning to drive; the younger you are, the more it will pay off.

[@vohtq]

what youre saying is very misleading you give the viewpoint that focusing on yourself takes forever when all it could take is a year you also give the impression that it prohibits new dating experiences when in reality as youre self improving more and more dating opportunities come maybe even within that year but you have to first so you can get the right frame of mind and keep growing in a relationship going into a relationship inexperienced with no focus towards yourself its doomed to fail unless the woman is just something else youre saying its okay to fail just because the title of yeah ive had a gf still holds when in reality if a high value woman ask that question she already can tell the answer from the way you act towards her since most likely if you never focused on yourself you probably have never dated a high value woman so even if you say yes ive dated before they will be like hm then why is he acting so scared and naive with me compared to if youve focused on yourself and you are comfortable with yourself to a point you dont put woman on a pedestal if you say no ive never dated before they will think youre lying anyway or they wont care abot\ut it long story short that title doesnt matter if you act like youve dated multiple woman of that caliber before

[@AnwarBelion-l9c]

I'm 37 and never had a woman 😢

[@orianogiorgetti6459]

I am 52 years old and I have never had a woman.

[@CamouflageN337]

80% of women are attracted to less than 20% of the men, don’t worry. You’re not alone when it comes to online dating, it sucks.

[@921Ether]

this is the only sensible comment ive read so far. this is a looks not a personality issue. he will go out and get rejected a bunch of times and ultimately gravitate towards the blackpill to cope. average women want above average looking men and theres nothing one can do about it. if you havent gotten any female attention until now its not gonna magically change

[@gatoloco3949]

Bro, Google "63 percent of men are sexless and single".

[@ingod4u]

its closer to 10% now

[@amhf1013]

We’re struggling too guys. A lot of us don’t feel like we can date right now. It’s the economy, the social environment, social media, family, everything. I have never seen our society in this state. I just want y’all to know it’s the women too and a lot of us aren’t dating. We don’t feel like the world is a safe secure place now either. Keep your heads up.

[@j.d.s.8132]

You being voluntarily celibate is not the same as him being involuntarily celibate.

[@stephengrant4841]

Sure, but y'all can get a guy whenever you want. It doesn't matter if you feel like you can date, the fact of the matter is women are more desired and can attract a guy by just existing, men need to do so much more and if we don't, we die alone.

[@Howhughes2013]

Same here. Never been in a long distance relationship. I did however learn about skills that I never would have learned if I spent all my time with my significant other. It takes patience because you are always becoming a different person with each passing day.

[@Howhughes2013]

I’m usually hard on myself because I am truly a geeky and awkward person. You can literally tell when I’m nervous around people because I sweat a lot. What makes it worse is that I don’t look like the type of person who should have these insecurities. Oh well. Each day gets better.

[@hecrek]

Even our body are different we all feel what can't we explain and brother it's not too late for change, you're not alone bro❤

[@vasirus9449]

Hang in there, soldier! You’re not the only one in such a difficult situation.

[@tamaratodorovic]

I‘m soon turning 26 and never had a boyfriend either. I know many people like us, even if they have a lot of contact with people, but we just live in a more isolated society where even when you talk with people it’s harder to bond and feel close.

[@nobodysperfect06]

It's more shocking for a woman to still be single by a certain age compared to a guy because women don't have to do the pursuing like men do, women have always been on the receiving end of sexual attention

[@ColumbianPlanter]

Miss Todorović, you will never understand the suffering of being an incel. You could easily wed a Catholic gentleman within a week.

[@bladeedge481]

But nowadays woman that are not in a relationship sleep around

[@johnblah1040]

@ManletAdventuresYeah true

[@oofydoom]

This comment reply chain is awful. Espousing things like this are just as vain and ridiculously undignified as all the women who you guys complain about, which I don't blame you guys fully for there. But just my two cents and as another woman here, maybe consider and not assume that all of us are like that who have thrown their respect and whatever other morals away or is so separate and inhuman that we cannot struggle with issues similar to you (albeit, maybe not as common or fully dealt in the same way). As with OP's comment, it seems from what I can understand, she only wanting to empathically unite in the issue at hand; and communicating how the society structure we inhabit is fundamentally corrupt and ultimately affects us all, especially in the social context.

[@sbrooks904]

i was like you. i got me a tripod. i went out and embarrassed myself talking to women in person. i got a freaking sales job. i forced myself out of that mindset.

[@georgemartinez7045]

I'm currently going through the same time. I'm trying to keep my hopes up but its hard tbh.

[@kinglisco1379]

If you try to get any girl just to get a female you might get the wrong one, getting the right girl might take years or even weeks, but it’s more worthy

[@user-qu5sr7lg1f]

you're a legend for not repeating the cycle

[@keyshawnscott12]

Same except im 23 and never had one always been rejected

[@joshpoi886]

I’m 31 and a virgin. You got time to figure things out brother, be persistent and you’ll get there

[@gotflowo]

How come? I was until about 24

[@mexicanink746]

I’m only 15 but I can’t seem to get over this fear that I’ll never lose it. (I know 15 is way too young to lose it and I’m not saying I want to lose it now obviously.) I’m just scared that I’ll never lose it later on or even find love later on or now…

[@andrewgonzalez9002]

@@mexicanink746 yea no it’s valid to worry. Everyone will tell you 15 is so young and you’ll be fine, but I had the same feeling that I was set up for an extremely lonely life when k was young and I was spot on. You know yourself better than anyone else

[@gods2173]

What video games were you addicted to?

[@parsaabdolhossaini3978]

god I love your intelligence, self awareness, emotional understanding, once you understand masculine, feminine nature, I'm 100 percent sure you will do amazing in dating. embrace the masculine side. don't let media saying a behavior is toxic masculinity stop you from being masculine. I'm 100 percent sure you will do amazing in relationships. all the bests

[@talonmage40k]

I'm 43 and never had a girlfriend. You're still young, bro.

[@manosijroy8282]

Damn man really at 43? Btw I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and yet to even get my first kiss. I started going for some classes for almost 2 months for preparation of upcoming exams to get into an MBA B School as I just graduated college in last week of July and I wanna study MBA next. There I got a crush on this girl in my class who is also 22 or maybe 23 now. She says me hi daily with a smile and we do handshake and she tries to initiate conversations with me but I just answer what she asks or say hi back but I am still shy to initiate any further talks with her. 4 weeks ago, I came to know that she finds me cute and that made me blush a lot and my friends teased me too and 2 weeks ago I gave her a chocolate too and she smiled and thanked me with a handshake. Today she heard my singing too along with several of my friends and she seemed to have liked my singing too. The only problem is I am shy and I also smile a lot in class plus she has 3 or 4 male friends so I feel worried whether she will go for either of them. Also today, me and this other girl who is 19 year old planned to meet up in a mall in our city but I had to cancel the plan as my dad has a medical appointment in hospital so I had to come with him to the hospital. Me and this girl had been chatting on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and we used to be in the same school too but didn't know each other those days. We seem to have several things in common and send each other virtual hugs too. I was excited about meeting her today as it was my first time going out with a girl but had to cancel it and hopefully we will meet next week. 4 months ago I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 now turning 22 by the end of this month but she isn't that active on Instagram so she takes weeks or even a month to reply to me so even though she agreed to meet with me, I don't know yet when we will meet.

[@talonmage40k]

@@manosijroy8282 Didn't I talk to you already?

[@manosijroy8282]

@@talonmage40k maybe but I don't remember. Btw it's kinda scary that you are 43 and in the same boat as me. I had to cancel today's date with this girl too because family comes first(if you read my full comment you will know why it's canceled).

[@Evanpetersno1fan]

seems like ur fault tbh, lower ur standards then. have have such high standards then cry about being single@@talonmage40k

[@darkmidnight818]

​@@manosijroy8282🤖

[@johnsuttoniiijs]

If you need a husband hmu.

[@jarrellseymour312]

With no friends you can focus on God more... all this free time you can be sharing the word of God... these other don't matter in death. You never lonely... people with many friends still lonely cause its something in their life only them dealing with.