Hey everyone! I hope some of you find this video informative and helpful. Please feel free to let me know what you think. Here’s a link to the video that sparked my diagnosis: • Video
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@kodoman664 жыл бұрын
Super high IQ, poor EQ, sometimes I’m a genius, other times I’m so socially awkward I want to go to bed and forget about the day.
@indridcold84333 жыл бұрын
I question the accuracy of the standardised IQ tests. I have been tested at 162 for the shorter test and 164 for the longer test. I am not sure what those scores mean exctily, but I know they are higher than the vast majority of people. The thing is, I am not at all social, feel rather stupid around others, and I am inept with forced social interactions. I can not possibly be as intelligent as the tests falsely claim.
@user-ec9yu1ep2j3 жыл бұрын
David, if you announce you have a super-high IQ, then you likely do not have one. One who legitimately is super-high IQ would likely not be able to function in society. Not only that, they wouldn't declare IQ as a means of self-certification, followed by self-depreciation that appears relatable which takes away from the severity of you boasting about your perceived intellect. IQ is a poor indicator of practical intelligence, like Poverty is a poor predictor of crime as appose to familial risks.
@jessicarichards9133 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he would know of his IQ is high, they have tests for that you know 🙄
@roseydot4 жыл бұрын
I’m a 23 year old black female in Texas who also is in the gifted category, went to magnet schools but always had issues learning and connecting certain things. I would always say things I though were just honest and logical and end up in trouble. Honestly I wanted to kill myself before watching this. It’s been hard not having help when people say you don’t look like it but multiple times I have been told I probably am and was diagnosed at 2 in California. I live in Texas where there is like no help and it’s really affecting my mental health, like I’m tired of always being out of place, and wrong. I’ve been trying to get tested but it’s an endless cycle. Your video and The comment section have helped relieve some of this tonight. I don’t feel stupid and alone anymore. I feel like people understand something which I’ve never felt in my entire life. Thank you
@TLOVE-zl4yd3 жыл бұрын
Hi Faith, my daughter is 15 years old and I just had her assessed for the Spectrum and she’s been diagnosed as a Gifted Autistic child. We live in California too. You are not alone and if nobody has ever told you this... You’re loved, Jesus loves you and you are worth it. He has a purpose for your life. If you’re ever contemplating hurting yourself this is the number to talk to someone 1.800.273.8255... It’s to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. This hotline is for you and anyone else that might need it. May God bless you! Keep the faith, Faith...It’s a beautiful name and it has a wonderful meaning. Look it up in the Bible because God has a lot to say about Faith.
@Tiera-zc1he2 жыл бұрын
Hey can we please talk im also a black female with autism and i feel so alone:(
@TLOVE-zl4yd2 жыл бұрын
Tiera 1997 Hi Tierra! How’s it going? You’re not alone sweet heart. There’s a lot of support out here in these KZbin streets...Lol😄 I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way, but please know that you are loved! Please feel free to express whatever it is that you’re feeling.
@rachelthompson74872 жыл бұрын
I feel you. I'm a half black 23 year old woman.I've struggled with depression and self harm. I really need to be understood and diagnosed.
@stagename1031 Жыл бұрын
Hope you’re doing better!
@dr.feelicks20515 жыл бұрын
Having the diagnosis definitely alleviates the self deprecating
@riannamajzoub52415 жыл бұрын
Also gives clarity and piece of mind. Actually helps guide you to the right places and gave me my street smarts and street credibility. Sometimes I say the streets raised me more than my own folks.
@Joy-uy4mq5 жыл бұрын
Helps lots knowing and accepting yourself, without the need to conform all the time, choices when to wear the masks required to achieve your own goals, and allow yourself time out when you overdo things without feeling guilty or not normal. Helps a lot to balance that inner turmoil, and self judgements that can be self limiting. The freedom to be just you is ok.
@feralbigdog5 жыл бұрын
not in my book, its one of the things i put myself down for, even have a term i use(at least in my head) but i wont say it, dont want to insult everyone
@DerricktheWhite4 жыл бұрын
@@riannamajzoub5241 pffft
@indridcold84334 жыл бұрын
It made it worse for me.
@BlackeBird6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I felt growing up. Everyone seemed to understand something about connecting with other people that I didn't get.
@bethgarrison90996 жыл бұрын
YES, thank you, it has finally been put into words 👏
@rachelgibson18586 жыл бұрын
Just because someone is socially inept. Doesn't make them autistic.
@katrinnajasso66685 жыл бұрын
Other things can make someone socially inept. such as PTSD, or anxiety @@lucybemore4373
@lucybemore43735 жыл бұрын
@@katrinnajasso6668 its not inept. Its different. I was diagnosed and talked to several doctors. One day I'll make a video explaining how my best friend taught me thru it.
@pipwink47605 жыл бұрын
Lucy Bemore plenty of people with things like anxiety/ ptsd certainly are socially inept because of their mental states though... Having little control over how they behave in and read certain social situations and having to re/teach themselves how to socialise "normally". It's just a different root cause.
@Peace-Love-Light4 жыл бұрын
Does anyone ever get called weird, mean, or “antisocial” (not in the personality disorder sense but meaning ‘you don’t talk to people’)?
@surepal39854 жыл бұрын
All the time... I'm not diagnosed, but I really think I most likely have ASD... People misunderstand me and it makes me feel overwhelmed and then I start acting in ways that come off as mean when they're just panicked...
@caseykemp78094 жыл бұрын
All the time.
@kingfrozt23054 жыл бұрын
If they ask you that its because you have a charisma about you and they want to get to know you.
@HalloweenFreak313 жыл бұрын
All the time.
@coreycox23453 жыл бұрын
All the time. I can do it, but it sometimes seems like it would be too exhausting.
@Rjshadow114 жыл бұрын
I was just diagnosed with ASD today. My psychologist said he was kicking himself for not coming to that conclusion sooner. I have always been ridiculously shy and find it very difficult to connect with people (I have 2 close friends). I had selective mutism as a child - I could not talk to grown-ups. I would freeze and not be able to speak if they tried to confront me with something or ask me a question. I grew out of the mutism, but was still very socially awkward. More often than not, people meet me, hang out with me once or twice, then they ignore me and never talk to me again. I try to be nice and polite, but the results indicate that I regularly do or say things that people find to be rude/creepy and they repel from me. I become twitchy (rapid blinking, nose twitching, swaying/can't stand still) and my voice can get shaky. The fact that people are so passive-aggressive and indirect with their issues with you (they just ignore you and talk behind your back rather than confront you) makes it very difficult to understand what you're doing wrong. So I just could never figure out the problem. I LOVE the idea of going to a social gathering/party and having a great time. But every time I actually do, I come home feeling worthless, rejected, and even suicidal because I just can't connect with people in the way the average person can. To add, I am also not funny. I used to think I was, but my close friend and partner (who was actually the first to mention I might be on the spectrum) lovingly broke it to me that I'm REALLY not. Alongside that, I do not laugh a lot at things. Quite often, people in social events will randomly laugh really hard and hysterically at something, but I just don't understand how that is so funny... I can't even count on one hand the amount of times I've found something funny enough to laugh like that. I feel so lonely. I can know someone for YEARS, but then a new person with good social skills will come along and form a stronger bond with the person in 1 day than I could in those years. I am isolated at work because of all these issues, and whilst most of my coworkers are friendly have no real issues with me, they still don't want to go out of their way to have a conversation with me, and if they do, they treat me very differently (somewhat similar to how they would treat a child or a disabled person) to everyone else. I am horribly irritated by certain sounds; raspy voices, coughing, the "phegm" noises people make when they have a cold, and ESPECIALLY people who overenunciate their consanants or make 'saliva noises'. For this reason, I cannot STAND meditation videos, sexualized commercials, or intimate scenes in movies with a lot of kissing. Whenever I listen to a guided meditation video, I often become angry, twitch and get chills because they think it's relaxing to overenunciate every freaking consanant. And don't get me started on screaming babies/toddlers, banging pots/pans/glass/metals or sudden loud noises in general. I actually wear ear plugs when I use the vacuum cleaner and I block my ears when I flush the toilet. I have never felt normal, but I never felt legitimately disabled either; I am basically too weird for the normal people and too normal for the weird people. I am completely alone. I have been kicking myself for YEARS, because no matter how hard I try, I just can't feel a part of anything. I can communicate one-on-one with a lot of people, but the second a third (or more) person joins, they connect with each other, I can't connect with them, and it becomes a two-way conversation and I am just standing there awkwardly while they chat; they won't even make eye contact with me, even though I am standing right there trying to join in, they only look at each other. I feel awful and alone, but I'm so relieved that I finally have an answer and can start fixing the problem.
@Otakuhannah1214 жыл бұрын
Yeah same
@freya59024 жыл бұрын
Hey, i relate a lot about the paragraph on sounds. If i have to be around sounds without a break, like in a city, i get very upset, i sometimes cry, having a temper tantrum. I started this day's questioning because of seeing the word 'p*rn' and becoming very upset about it, and wondering why i hated anything sexually suggestive, at my boyfriend's family party some girls dancing appeared on the tv and i immediately felt a whole lot of tears coming and then walked away to cry a LOT to myself. Then my thoughts led me to how i never seem to "get it", along with other things, and how i can emulate a normal personality but then i feel like i'm in another body and i still don't seem to truly get it like others do. I have a sister with autism though as far as my family knows, it was caused by the umbilical cord around her neck at birth, not genetic. I feel myself wishing i had the diagnosis of autism so i can finally explain what is so weird and off about me. I also could not make any sort of eye contact as a child and younger person but i've always been aware of myself and questioning, and curious & empathetic towards people because they've always been the biggest mystery. I feel like i'm capable of learning and having skills but around people it feels like i lack access to what i know. I'm afraid of streets, i feel like people are watching me, i'm afraid of hearing a knock at my door. These are things i can think of at this moment. I also overshare and what i say doesn't make people respond in a way they do to others, they don't seem to follow what i say sometimes. I relate to a whole lot that you've said and i hope that brings you comfort in some way
@freya59024 жыл бұрын
Also, i can be confident around people, but it's different, i get excited and giddy and i feel like i act like a child but i entertain people and let people laugh at me and that makes me feel accepted, so i think that's why i act like that
@presidentamanda74684 жыл бұрын
Yes. I have the same problem where I don’t find a lot of things funny that most normal people do. That was incredibly isolating growing up. So I would fake laugh to fit in not understanding that people could tell I wasn’t experiencing the feeling and then people would call me out on it and ask why I laughed “like that”. I was in a group therapy session and I asked everyone how they made friends and what made someone want to stay friends with another person and I legitimately got strange looks. It felt like the air being sucked out of the room. Every time I try to fit in, it falls so incredibly short. I’m fairly certain I’m on the spectrum (my ex was).. I’m going to speak with my psychiatrist about this and see what he says. It would explain a lot.
@francescafrancesca35544 жыл бұрын
@@presidentamanda7468 I wish you the best.
@AwkwardWhispers4 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate you talking about giftedness with autism. That's what I get most upset/frustrated about with my own case. Being told how smart and capable I am all the time, yet not being able to get past an initial job interview even though I'm qualified for the position, takes a huge toll on my self-worth and adds on to the anxieties I have about the future. Hearing a similar struggle from someone else's mouth, with a positive attitude behind it, validated my feelings. And, I thank you for that. =)
@taylorjongsma80404 жыл бұрын
AwkwardWhispers I also totally relate to this!
@amaebarnes3 жыл бұрын
When you said that you always struggled with the fact that you knew you were capable of high achievement but you just couldn't seem to ever make it happen...I felt that so deep. I know for a fact that I have Aspergers but I've been dismissed by doctors my entire life so I'm just really scared to go to my doctor for a referral, with the possibility that they are going to laugh in my face and imply that I've been reading too much "Dr. Google" I wish doctors would say in their biographies whether they are very knowledgeable on the presentation of Aspergers in women. It would so much to me to get an official diagnosis but even more so, I suspect my daughter may be on the spectrum as well so I just thought that I would get the confirmation for myself first and then I could feel valid enough to put her through all that testing as well.
@kayjay-kreations2 жыл бұрын
Often women find out because of their child's diagnosis. Good luck xx
@sdrawkcabUK2 жыл бұрын
Look up the formal diagnosis criteria for the country you live in, then go along and just say stuff that ticks all boxes, which is how how doctors typically operate IME. This is how I got mine in the UK (socialised health system). Or if you have the means you could just pay for a private diagnosis.
@thehollyannrose6 жыл бұрын
I think I'm autistic, but my parents refuse to accept the fact that one of their children could have anything different about them. Like my older sister obviously has it very badly, and they're still in denial.
@AlwaysTimo6 жыл бұрын
Autism might be part of Neanderthal DNA, take it as a compliment
@721rena6 жыл бұрын
@@AlwaysTimo um what??
@721rena6 жыл бұрын
Omg im so sorry you're in this kind of family. I don't know what kind of advice tø give. But depending on your age and her age you two can try and see a doctor on your own tø get help. Best of luck tø you both hun!
@KikiMeowKitty6 жыл бұрын
Hollyann Rose I think I might be too, or something like that. But I never tested for it.
@kristiechalene79456 жыл бұрын
@@AlwaysTimo NOT necessarily. It is sensitivity to just about ANYTHING. Such as aversion to feeling the air brush across your skin when a fan is blowing. Wind is one thing..not an issue. BUT the centralized feeling of a fan blowing directly on the skin feels unbearable. Having too many people in the room talking loudly and constantly moving about around you while you are trying to pay attention to just one person. Same scenario but trying to read a book, watch tv, hell trying to DO or ACCOMPLISH anything. Then having to LITERALLY REMOVE MYSELF FROM THE SITUATIONS, NEVER USED FANS, AVOIDED THEM IF POSSIBLE, DIVERTED THE FANS.I always thought it was just "too busy"/"too much chaos" and everyone felt that way. Come to find out it is AUTISM.
@VictoriaElizabethTV5 жыл бұрын
I'm an aspie and no one believes me because I'm "too normal" but they don't know how I am on the inside. I have so much trouble finding friends that put up with my crazy interests and quirks, and it's so depressing. I shake and twitch a little bit when people talk to me and lately it's getting worse as I've become more isolated. I'm forcing myself to go to a party and participate in a debate at my college so hopefully I'll become as strong as you.
@Unicysis5 жыл бұрын
Fuck those ableist posers, they wouldn't even know what "normal" was themselves if they saw it at the bottom of the 100 proof vodka they drink every Saturday night....... I'm Aspie too, so I know what it's like to get visibly shaken at the slightest threat or misconception, but in the end I'm the one who makes those fools twitch when I tell them they're no different. Come with me to a party and anyone who looks at you or judges you wrong I'll verbally shake them down in a heartbeat with my newfound confidence, it'll get so bad that they'll be walking out of that spot with wet pants and their dicks in their hands....... 😂😂😂😂😂 There's nothing wrong with you having your own special interests and quirks, they're probably ten times better than the vague, overrated, overglorified notions that other people seem to have about themselves and that they put about like dogs across the carpet. Television is fucking horrible, and so are the sycophants that they advocate, they should sell them and get themselves some retro gameboys, at least they have more platform and definition. Don't even trust friends, even they might be just as condescending if they don't already know your truth, the only true friend you can rely on is yourself. Self-respect and necessary silence never betray, take it from me.
@martinfurstenberg22815 жыл бұрын
Hello Victoria, ive got AS too, but fortunate for me i like to be alone and do stuff by myself, but i know what your mean, parties are boring, there is much more what you can do instead of just drinking. A couple of days before i was sitting in a Bar with friends and where talked until 3 in the morning about science and there and my topics. What i want to say is, your not alone. And if you just want to talk, write me. Greetings, Martin.
@RichardChappell15 жыл бұрын
Being quirkie and having crazy interests does not make you Aspbergers, nor does being introverted. It just makes you a person like the rest of us.
@RichardChappell15 жыл бұрын
@@Unicysis - Your very reaction is an indicator that you are probably not really on the spectrum.
@Unicysis5 жыл бұрын
Richard Chappell Your statement is an indicator that you’re a skeptic who believes that autism isn’t real, in which case you should read more books.
@bossiestplebita05284 жыл бұрын
I always felt different and like I was “broken”, when I was growing up. My mom once made fun of me for not knowing how to talk to people but I didn’t understand why she would tell me that. I always felt soooo alone...I know in my heart that I’m in the spectrum. I don’t feel broken now. I just feel like this is who I am. This is me and I feel like I overcame a hurdle. ❤️🤘🏼
@jetxsctr2 жыл бұрын
@Tara Johnson wait me tho
@faithlawes42406 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I am also a female with autism and can really relate to what you are saying. I’m a normal looking person so none of my friends or relatives believe me since I only let the symptoms show at home in a safe non judgmental environment. That whole not being properly understood thing has kind of overridden the awesome effects that finally having this diagnosis has had. Instead of being relived that I can better understand my behaviors and know that there is a community of people I can relate to, my friends and family make me feel more alienated than ever. I have been trying hard to find other autistic females (especially who appear normal like me) but it’s so hard, as many women don’t know that they are autistic in the first place. THANKYOU for putting your story out there, it brings me a lot of comfort 💗💗
@natural33623 жыл бұрын
Me too. I want to get out of the neurotypical world. I really want to do it but i just couldn't. I feel very lonely because none of them understand me and i don't understand them.
@kayjay-kreations2 жыл бұрын
I found out this week no body would believe me except other neurodivergent people so I find comfort in them or books written by autistic authors. neurotypical people don't get it generally.
@arachnidproductions74904 жыл бұрын
I thank you for putting up this video. Ever since I was born, I always wondered why I wasn't as social, talkative or extroverted like other kids. I was always quiet, shy, bashful, introverted, and nervous around new people I don't know. Or I'm just plain like that in general. I'm also very antisocial and I'm always alone and I never understood why throughout my childhood. Funny thing is, it wasn't until I was 15 that my parents, my teachers and my doctors finally revealed I, indeed, have Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD.) My parents explained to me at one point that I was diagnosed with Autism when I was much, much younger, but I never really known of it until I asked them why I'm so shy and quiet and antisocial and to which case, they told me I'm Autistic. The thing is, I have Mild Autism, which means impairment in speech, confusion in sarcasm, avoidance of eye contact and etc. And I was constantly picked on, teased and bullied alot from elementary school to high school because of it. Because I was "Different" from the other kids in those schools. I looked down at myself constantly because of my flaws and my weaknesses from what my bullies and the other kids told me in my past and also current day. But luckily enough, I'm working on ignoring the negativity shot towards me and both my parents have reassured me that I'm not the only person in the world going through this. There are some of my favorite actors, musicians and other people who I heavily admire in the world that has Autism as well. That brightens my day every time, and also does so now that I have checked out this awesome, super helpful video about you explaining your Autism symptoms and ones I can very personally relate to. It warms my heart every time. And for that, you earned a new subscriber. Thanks for this video I can relate to. You're a very down-to-earth person and I look forward for more uploads from your channel. :D ~ Devin Moss, from Texas
@Lost_In_Peace4 жыл бұрын
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@mateoreardon98684 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and Autism and I appreciate that everyone in my family is ok with it. Some of my friends have Autism and their parents will never accept it.
@sdrawkcabUK2 жыл бұрын
As it’s largely genetic parents will often be in denial as it would likely involve having to examine themselves at a fundamental level, which most people avoid
@tash17416 жыл бұрын
I'm looking for the diagnosis now too. I felt everything you said! I am crying because I knew the whole time I was on the spectrum and grew up with a non compassionate family who told me I was stupid and lazy. This finally makes me feel seen thank you. I am going to the doctor I don't know how to go about this but just knowing his makes me feel so much more compassion for my younger self why I couldn't be like everyone else. Thank you
@SartorialisticSavage654 жыл бұрын
Ah now, the gifted thing makes so much sense. That's why I feel in such limbo in life. Brings to mind a Beach Boys lyric, "They say I got brains, but it ain't doin' me no good." While I may be somewhat attractive, talented and intelligent, my horrible social presence and interactions keep me from obtaining more of the life I want and always dreamed of even before I found Autism inside me. I never got a professional to take it seriously yet. And besides also not being treated for childhood (and lasting) trauma I was treated for all the wrong stuff in mental healthcare. We have a similar story. I hope you're well!
@merncat755 жыл бұрын
Btw, you did an amazing job at explaining all of this so eloquently, in so much detail and in a way that could be understood.. really appreciate that!!
@carpefuego4 жыл бұрын
Holy. Moly. You have no idea... or maybe you do... how this video affected me as a 36 year old... who has just watched a video of someone basically describing my life... and my struggles. Now... to find someone to take me seriously and assess me. All this to say, thank you for making this video.... Thank you so much.
@amyabrams46494 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I’m 21 and have just been diagnosed and I always felt like an outsider and thought I must be the only one that experiences these things, but as you highlighted not “looking autistic” can make it feel pretty invalidating when others don’t understand the spectrum and I’m so relieved to hear another girl talking about this and feel peace that I can relate to someone out there on such personal and specific things. The right label takes away the fear of the unknown!
@veritysharrock61386 жыл бұрын
Kelcey, thank you for being so open and sharing your story. So great! So relatable. I'm studying a Masters of Educational and Developmental Psychology and I am learning to help people find out if they have autism, usually with younger kids. I loved hearing about what your journey is like as a young woman. I learnt as much from you as I have from any lecturer or professor :)
@SweetWillowDsgn6 жыл бұрын
It's helpful for people to share their stories. Thank you.
@FreeLee1236 жыл бұрын
This was helpful. Thank you for posting it.
@ScreamingReel5005 жыл бұрын
Helpful in what sense? So people can be borderline autism? Where is the line drawn? BS.
@oisinosborne28525 жыл бұрын
@@catherinebradshaw3519 aspergers doesn't have a face when I meet people for the first time and I say I have aspergers they are usually shocked as I come across as normal as I learned how to function in social settings it not impossible it just takes times and a lot of practice.
@oisinosborne28525 жыл бұрын
@@ScreamingReel500 it actually is as it helps people express themselves for example people could trade tips with one another for time managment skill or how to look someone in the eye while talking things like that. Aspies help other aspies.
@aarongatti2005 жыл бұрын
Aspergers is like acting in a movie everyday of your life, but you dont know what character your supposed to be. Im 40 years old never diagnosed but i know what i struggled with when i was younger and to a certain degree deal with today. Just because someone is social doesnt mean theyre not screaming inside with anxiety you just learn and train yourself to get threw those awkward social interactions and overtime you can mask it very well
@mialundgren844 жыл бұрын
I’m 35 years old and I got diagnosed with autism, adhd and bipolar disorder a month ago. I always knew there was something ”wrong” with me but never got any help. It felt like no one took me seriously. Now im finally at a place where I can see happiness and I can be the mother my son deserves.
@Ikgeloofhetniet4 жыл бұрын
Mia Lundgren I’m 35 too and recently got diagnosed
@mialundgren844 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Watkins It cost me about $15.
@mialundgren844 жыл бұрын
Ryan Reed thats awesome. I Hope you get the right help now
@fishstixsuck5 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing this as you are definitely helping others like yourself come to an understanding and healing. I grew up Dyslexic and had amazing hardships in schooling and it wasn't until my late 20's until I found about my learning disability. Like you my brain over compensated so it was "hidden in plain sight." Praying you find many blessing on your healing journey.
@evanbsings4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I’ve known I’m autistic but after hearing you describe being twice exceptional it helped me really think about it and realized what it really feels like. I’ve always felt like my mind was moving so fast and my body couldn’t keep up ever. I almost skipped grades and had a high reading level and was in top percentiles for learning and comprehension but i never felt like I could do the things I wanted to do. Because of this video, I feel as though I understand why I am the way I am and I wouldn’t have ever connected it without this video. Thank you so so so much
@kenyahardy33096 жыл бұрын
Love your video. I have an 11 yr old son with Asperger's and a 6 yr old daughter who was diagnosed with severe Autism. My daughter although she is very severe does not look like it all. The only thing is that she doesn't talk at all. People are always confused because my son talks and then when they approach my daughter she just stares and smile. Then I have to explain that she has Autism and the first thing people say is "she don't look like she has Autism". What does it look like, is always my response.
@HarrietFitzgerald5806 жыл бұрын
Kenya Hardy what does it look like. Mind blown. Best response ever! 👏🏻🎉
@coryscott56056 жыл бұрын
Great response!
@kamaha13fm16 жыл бұрын
My son is 6 and just started talking again. He had a few words at the normal time and then quit talking. Autism is very hard thing to understand.
@HarrietFitzgerald5806 жыл бұрын
kama13 my daughter is nearing two and hasn't said her first words yet. She babbles a lot, but no real words. Trying not to worry but it's hard.
@coryscott56056 жыл бұрын
Natural Vegan Mom Im not going to tell you that you should worry. But be aware of milestones your child should be reaching. My daughter didnt speak either at 2. When she was almost 3 and not speaking that is when she was diagnosed with autism. I wish we had her evaluated sooner so we could have gotten help and support earlier. She ended up speaking a few words when she was 4.5. Now she is 10 and wont stop talking. lol
@katyscotella21586 жыл бұрын
Hey Kelcey! I was so happy to come across your page. I work with autistic students, and I absolutely love what I do. And you’re absolutely right on with your explanation! Thank you for making a video like this, I believe it’s important that more people know about Autism, and how beautiful it is. With all my love❤️
@Lindsay-xz2oc5 жыл бұрын
This video was the catalyst to my seeking an assessment, thank you so much for being open and vulnerable. I also feel like you have explained so much that I can't to my family that I have actually used it as a means of explaining to the aunt who tells me it's not possible.
@smallcinema20106 жыл бұрын
Your video was very enlightening! I'm looking forward to more videos, for example about your most outstanding symptoms. I have a hard time at social events or chatting. Toby is so cute! Take care 😁
@selenarodgers6863 жыл бұрын
I have autism and I feel so alone, and I cry because I wish I was like everyone else.
@haydenwinfield53973 жыл бұрын
I Have Autism I Was Diagnosed With Autism At Age 14 I'm 27 Years Old Now Iv'e Been Living Interdependently On My Own For 3 Years So Far
@ripgirl20095 жыл бұрын
You helped me so freaking much! I have always felt and had those same exact feelings and its nice to see someone so similar in age that has the courage and knowledge to share your story.It makes me feel like theres hope for me. Thank you so much!
@theaspieperspective56175 жыл бұрын
OMG, SO did I! I didn't think I could be high functioning Autistic, but after reading the symptoms in 2011 on WebMD, and then getting diagnosed in 2012 with Asperger's Syndrome... Man! It was the biggest relief in the world, but SO frickin' surreal. I am SO glad you got officially diagnosed! 💕
@OliviaRetroGaming6 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video
@sandijensen31555 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! Good for you for being your own advocate and getting tested!! I have a daughter that has so far been given the diagnoses of "twice exceptional" with giftedness, dyslexia, language/speech issues, and some sensory issues. She is "social" and also pretty athletic, so I have always dismissed the possibility of her being on the autism spectrum due to these characteristics! I appreciate this video and will keep this in mind in the future if she continues to have troubles! Thank you!
@yungbean0014 жыл бұрын
Awh. Thank you for sharing this with us. It’s a ripple effect!! You were inspired by a KZbinr, and you inspired me to dive deeper into this for myself. Thank you again.
@patryk98064 жыл бұрын
I fight every day because of my "inadequacy" and I just want to say that I can relate to your story and feel amazing connection with you. It is so great to be understood when everyone judges you from their own subjective perspective. I love you and all people commenting here, you are all wonderful and deserve respect and love :)
@roberthurtado97844 жыл бұрын
Within the past 6 months I've been coming to a realization that I am autistic, looking back now there has always been a non verbal disconnect in my life. People have always implied that I was different and suggested that I should be segregated from certain groups and situations. I always blended in as a kid but never knew what the elephant in the room was. I've had people make comments about me, they call me slow and stuff. I am very clumsy, I hate the fact that I fit the stereotype as far as cornering and balance. When you see me I may seem very callous and unemotional, but this is normal for me I need stimulation go emulate emotion. I just got medical insurance and I am working towards getting help, a diagnosis would help alot right now; mostly by getting rid of the uncertainty I know I am different, i just want people to understand. The biggest shock was realizing that I had been stimming my whole life, eye contact isn't that uncomfortable for me, my problem is inappropriate eye contact either looking too long or not blinking comes off as a stare and naturally bieng aspie my eyes are a little eccentric people think I'm some kind of psycho or something lol.
@redrockasrama72156 жыл бұрын
Congrats on a proper diagnosis. I just completed my formal testing.
@mo_seas_5 жыл бұрын
Omg. You have make the room drop around me listening to your symptoms and panic attack gestures/movements and I feel like I’m right there with you. I’ve been diagnosed and treated (~12yr-now as a 30yo) with ADHD, massive depressive disorder, generalized anxiety/panic disorder and never felt, free. I’m going to do more research and see what I can do. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!
@nomoneyrecord6 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for posting your experience and sharing your struggles as a person and as a female. It takes a lot of strength as well as compassion to open yourself in a way to help build yourself as well as other looking to do the same!
@uptown36364 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience. I, too, was diagnosed with ASD as an adult (earlier this year), and your story is so similar to mine. It is so validating to know that I'm not alone.
@bryanbryan61084 жыл бұрын
I’m glad the diagnosis has made you feel better. My ADHD diagnosis did the same for me.
@Owl_of_Starlight6 жыл бұрын
Yes! I echo your sentiments, and I am glad you got your diagnosis earlier than I did. It's so freeing to finally have the right understanding of why one's experience is different to that of others.
@Selectraf3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you so much for making this. I'm in my 20s (F) trying to get diagnosed.. There are not a lot of resources where I am though, and I've called about 5 different places (Dr., hospital, psychiatrists, places all those people referred me to) and no one has been able to assess me or know where I can even be assessed. It's frustrating but I'm not giving up because it's my life, and like you said it feels good to finally know and find the label that fits. It's all about growth and you need to understand what you're working with to grow!
@keylimepie604 жыл бұрын
thank you for making this video because I felt like you were explaining my own life to me. I have been dealing with the obvious signs that I might be on the spectrum and then thoughts of me just overreacting and faking it. This helped me to accept what I know deep down more, and so, thank you for that.
@taylorjongsma80404 жыл бұрын
Kalyn Young Me too. Thank you
@keylimepie603 жыл бұрын
@@brandon556 I’m well, how are you?
@paigeroby67726 жыл бұрын
Autism is very hard to diagnose in women. And unfortunately a lot of women like you suffer until their adulthood for a diagnosis. I was in the exact same boat as you . My diagnosis just never seem to fit my characteristics until I turned 16I was finally diagnosed on the spectrum. It's such a relief to have a name for the struggles I suffer with every day.
@petercarlson37556 жыл бұрын
Hi Kelsey, Great to listen to you and hear it from your perspective. I have a daughter with ASD1. A brilliant mind and a caring soul really under the anger and meltdowns she has. She had been best served by a very carefully administering daily medications, to reduce anxiety and improve concentration. I too sought diagnosis and came out with neuro-diverse, which really just means that I can relate well and do suffer some of the symptoms too. Especially under stress or strain emotionally. Recognising these traits in myself creates empathy for others on the spectrum, it also intruiges me and I want to learn more about it. All the best with your videos etc and of course being gentle with yourself, it really helps.
@46greetings Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so open, willing to share. You are an inspiration and help.
@NikkiSchumacherOfficial6 жыл бұрын
Jeez, now that I have a daughter who I was researching for, I have been running across all these videos over the last few months and am in a similar boat to you. Fist bump for solidarity my friend. 👊🏻
@OkteiviaJacob5 жыл бұрын
i’ve known my whole life that i was different to my peers, telling myself i just had a lot of social anxiety and similar things, but i’ve never been brave enough to go to a doctor with my issues. i don’t know exactly when i first thought of ASD but it’s definitely something i’ve considered for a while but always been hesitant to research it too much. in more recent years i’ve started showing symptoms of ocd and it’s getting progressively worse, i did some research around this (as it’s coming to be a big part of my life) and found that ocd can be a part of ASD and it makes sense. so i continued the research, and relate so much to masking and feeling as though i’ve never fit in socially but have just been “pretending”. in the last year i’ve started working at a primary school where i see many children going through the process of diagnosis, and now i can’t stop thinking about it for myself. i know it fits and i’m almost certain it’s what my struggles have been my entire life, but i’m so anxious to visit the doctor. i went the other day for something completely unrelated and worked myself up enough to mention to the doctor, simply asking how I could go about getting a diagnosis for something like ASD, and he just replied saying that if I did have autism, I’d have already known about it. which I HAVE known, even if i didn’t know it by name as a child. i just feel so discouraged to go again, even with another doctor, because i just feel they’re going to say i don’t have it because i mask my social issues so much and don’t “look” autistic
@splitscreengaming57856 жыл бұрын
Great video, as a special education teacher I loved hearing your perspective and insight. keep up the good work!
@davidegan8076 Жыл бұрын
🎉 congratulations 🥳 it’s a great thing to get the diagnosis that fits and you can understand yourself better and get help where needed x and acceptance is important too. Good easy on yourself
@madisondunkley49054 жыл бұрын
Everybody is different, even within a community. It's just a relief to know. I want the diagnosis to get the right help. But personally I'm just more relieved. Like, finally my life makes sense. I had to think back on that skimming thing. I didn't think I did that either and I can't really remember any particular moments except sever thunderstorms. I always thought I was having a mental breakdown or something. Oh! I just remembered I did that a lot in college... 🤔 Something to think about. Anyway, thanks for sharing this. It's nice to know I'm not completely alone and completely weird. 💖🙏🏾
@jacobfschaffer3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is so similar to my experience too. I was just diagnosed yesterday at 27. Was overly misdiagnosed as a kid and became so jaded to labels. A chain of events including a KZbin vid led me on the journey to discovering this about myself and yea it makes all my struggles make sense. Thanks for sharing!
@ravenwingthecat27075 жыл бұрын
It is so helpful when other people share their stories. Thank you so much. A couple months ago I have recently got diagnosed with autism, which makes so much sense now, but to be honest, it is still frustrating at times dealing with it.. it feels like a constant battle just to make one friend..
@MyASDJourney6 жыл бұрын
Hi Kelcey - Age 59, male - just diagnosed ASD 2 months ago. It's a lot to absorb for sure.. but I think I can assume that this "key" has had a profound impact on your life too. Count your blessings that you know at a younger age. It made me feel complete in many ways, to know that I'm on the spectrum and this was at the heart of a part of my self identity that was always missing. Wishing you the best!
@itsjustrenee13205 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed to your channel. Looking forward to viewing your videos.
@victoriaarcturus2034 жыл бұрын
My ASD Journey What’s the point of getting a diagnosis ? It’s expensive & what do you gain from it ? If you’re Austin you know you’re you can read the symptoms on the web, why do you need a price of paper from a “ psych” to agree with you, to make it so ?
@midnightexpres284 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I have a hard time getting my words out and in stuttering but when I'm thinking about something I'm able to put pieces together in my mind I was in special needs for most of my life
@kepstein88883 жыл бұрын
I did not expect a ferret in this video. Our pets help us through things. They don't scrutinize, judge, or advise. They are just there for us.
@jansobel60246 жыл бұрын
Yay!!!! Good on ya Kelcey! You're helping blaze a path that people like me can follow. I've just self-diagnosed this past week. I'm a 45 year-old man who was diagnosed with dyslexia as a child. I received Sensory Integration Therapy for two years and my IQ shot up so they put me in the gifted classes, but I usually got C's. I berated myself worse than my parents did for my underachieving, all the way through college. Some years after college I got a diagnosis of ADD and a prescription to go with it. I was soooo grateful for the help and the label. Now I find myself in the same position, except on a much bigger scale. I might still doubt it if it weren't for the specificity of some of the markers. (Prime examples.....thought my hearing was clinically bad, got it tested, nada. My eyes track towards license plates in an effort to track patterns. Friends don't return my calls......the truth hurts, but maybe less so now.) Ha, now that I think about it, my Dad used to rail on me about eye contact. I couldn't put the effort in at school but I can rattle off the names of actors, directors, etc. I'm still soaking in what this means. Random memories pop up, I examine them now through the lens of Autism, and feel enormous relief. Through the lens of Autism, my dumpster fire of a social life has some explanation to it. (Not the least of which is being honest about the situation. How much energy have I spent staying in denial of the rejection strangers and friends regularly heaped on me.) Beautiful catharsis.........................I'll try and check back later with an update. Thanks!!
@RyansChannel02036 жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful, smart, and lovable person. I know what it's like living with Asperger's. You are not alone.
@elzymoreno65985 жыл бұрын
Ryan's Channel what is aspergers? Exactly 🤔
@Holobrine5 жыл бұрын
Elzy Moreno Check out Max Derrat’s series on it: kzbin.info/aero/PLDYqIK_NYzw77oQTcWpF_l1P6z2m1_ihw
@kathrynrhodes77856 жыл бұрын
Myself, growing up actually for most of my life I saw myself as less than related to having Autism. That only changed within the last half year. For years I used to hate my brain. Now, I’m happy as hell for my mind the way it is. I’m glad I am Autistic. It’s given me the freedom to be unapologeticly me. I know I would not have half the fire in my soul if I didn’t. I also don’t think I would have the protection against and such an aversion to conformity and bullshit ie social games. 6 years ago I didn’t even know how start a conversation. Nothing at all came naturally, not even the inflection in my voice. Nothing social. September 2012 I made a promise to myself that I wanted to turn over a new leaf and understand people and anything and everything social my very first day when I went to college in Olds where I studied business administration. I remember back in highschool sitting with classmates at lunch talking in group conversation. I wanted to join in, but I didn’t know how so I stayed quiet. I thought if someone was nice to me they were my friend. I didn't understand anything about how friendships worked. In highschool I understood math better than people. Most days I just went to school and went home. I didn't even go to my fist highschool dance until grade 12. That was scary and awkward for me. Most of my life, I was a huge people pleaser and just wanted other people to like and accept me because I didn’t like and accept myself. I forced myself to do things that made me uncomfortable which was anything and everything socially related, and making myself be the first to initiate conversation and if things went well ask to exchange numbers. Someone has to initiate, or connection never happens. Now after relentless and constant practice, I do now without much thought, whereas years ago I had to think quite a bit and wasn’t sure and didn’t understand. I didn’t understand sarcasm, a lot of jokes, or a lot of non verbal cues. Now, I actually enjoy starting conversations, and have no problem leading if the other person starts to run out of things to say. I enjoy talking to people, and more so only surround myself with people who like me for me. Kelcey knows me and sees me as the outgoing and outspoken person I am now. That only happened very recently. I know not everyone is going to like me and that's ok. At the end of the day, the most important opinion of me is the one I have of myself. The most important thing for anyone in life is being true to the core of what burns within their soul. Nothing else matters. The people that judge anyhow are really just projecting their own insecurities. Secure people don't do that. They lift others up because they are completely comfortable with themselves and want others to feel the same because we all deserve to be. You never know what someone may be dealing with, that's why I like to be kind. Holding a door open or a random compliment from a stranger can change someone's whole day. Hate is literally like a poison that you drink hoping for the other person to die. The best and healthiest revenge is to improve and empower yourself in a way that makes you happy, not to please others. It is our differences that make each of us beautiful and who we are. I’m glad I had to work for my social skills. I appreciate them more, and you know what they say... hard work trumps talent where talent doesn’t work hard. I’ve actually had many people tell me I’m more socially aware than most people not on the spectrum, even people who have known me for years. I worked damn hard for that, and am very proud of that. At the end of the day though, it doesn't matter how people validate me, it matters how I internally validate myself, and that goes for everyone. I finally became happy with myself when I finally started to let go of the people pleasing which is a never ending road to hell. Life is short, and I believe the purpose of life is just to live it to the fullest in however that looks to you and being true to yourself. Emotional intelligence, social awareness, compassion, empathy and understanding are the most important things in life to me. I’ve seen how damaging lack empathy and social awareness can be. Of course, there are many people not on the spectrum who are and can be socially unaware. I grew up with a family member like that. That's what I mean when I say I've seen how damaging lack of awareness and empathy can be, especially close mindedness. It just is different for someone on the spectrum. We all have challenges, it’s part of being a human being. No one's challenges are better or worse than another’s. Just different. Despite mine growing up, I wouldn't trade me for anyone. I’m aware of the social games people play, I just don’t play them. I strongly believe you can be direct, while remaining tactful and being considerate to another’s feelings. Tact is extremely important to me. I’m passionate about many things, but one of the most is autism awareness. Hence my billion comments lol. Anyway that’s more about me and I love sharing my own thoughts and experiences regarding autism. Autistic and damn proud of it. Amazing video once again. I have lots to say lol especially regarding autism. I'm not at all surprised in the overflow of responses in the comments to Kelcey's take. I'd honestly be more surprised if there wasn't. Anyway, that is my take. I enjoy sharing, and I hope any of my personal takes helps anyone else who is reading the comments. Peace and love everybody!
@tll1436 жыл бұрын
Wow!! I’m so proud of you
@kathrynrhodes77856 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I also have an incurable chronic pain condition called fibromyalgia that I beat. Not with drugs or covering the symptoms but doings complete diet change. At my worst, I swore to myself that if I could overcome my chronic pain that I could do anything. I have, and I will. My pain is barely anything to a zero, something I thought for a decade was impossible.
@wearejungians5 жыл бұрын
Kathryn Rhodes hey Katheryn! Do you have Instagram? Give me a follow (@alphalogic_)! I’d love to talk to you as I believe I am autistic and would love a little nudge in the right direction to get a proper diagnosis. I was suicidal until recently because I felt no one around me understood me and heading this stuff makes more sense to my lack of social awareness!
@ThatCoffeeGamer6 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed your video! I’m a 30 year old male with Aspergers but never officially diagnosed. I’m training at a university now to be a counselor for people struggling with this. I think videos like yours can help people see the broader spectrum outside of the Rain Man.
@suigenris5 жыл бұрын
Love you for this, you've articulated the last year to the T. And the description of myself who is very capable, and very autistic. Being both exceptional and limited is so difficult to explain without wanting sympathy but understanding. Thank you for sharing, I've come back and watched this now 4 times and will be using this production when I help educate my friends and family.
@suigenris4 жыл бұрын
It's been 5 or 6 times now. Time has passed and with new perspective this video still continues to help me strive forward through uncharted waters. I hope you're journey has been fruitful, enjoyable, and worthwhile.
@livkind35225 жыл бұрын
Internal tensions---"should be capable of" ---totally get that - thank u for sharing!!
@nicolaasedietenbroek99484 жыл бұрын
I sent this to my daughter... you have so many similarities and she is about your age!
@SarahJohnson-kr8ww5 жыл бұрын
Hi Lynn, thanks so much for your brave video. I'm a therapist and will absolutely be showing your video to some of my clients on the spectrum. This was fantastic.
@merilochhead42234 жыл бұрын
this video is the first video that gave me that holy shit: this is me feeling. i’ve been looking into ADHD, OCD, and other things but nothing clicked the same way this did. i’m going to do a lot more research now! thank you so much for making and posting this video.
@nixdortundnixda6 жыл бұрын
ive been thinking about it for 3 years now (or maybe more, my memory is absolute shit) and i wanna get a diagnosis but idk how and i dont feel "autistic enough". Thanks for sharing your story. It wont make me do anything right now but maybe 30 more of these kinds of videos and i might pursue a diagnosis. or not. bye
@farellwilliams13414 жыл бұрын
Did you manage to get a diagnosis? Just interested in your situation
@nixdortundnixda4 жыл бұрын
Yeah i went to a doctor and she told me im not autistic. She didn't get to know me at all though, it was just one conversation and i didn't check the right boxes to be diagnosed. But im just trying to treat all my problems individually now and if theres an underlying cause it doesn't really matter to me
@farellwilliams13414 жыл бұрын
@@nixdortundnixda got it, dam that's a shame but as long as you know that is the most important and there is becomming a stronger autistic communion here on KZbin and social media so if you need help you can reach out to us anytime because we all get it❤❤
@virifdrl5 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful 😍 I have anxiety so, sometimes I feel that everyone doesn’t like me and I have mental breakdown but I’m getting better 😊
@rethinkeverything29826 жыл бұрын
So you opened my vocabulary straight forward and made me more open to being able to start some where on putting the puzzle pieces together for my own ways to see how to sculpt what steps I need to take to finding more to the reasons that lead me to being different as well and I thank you for that! ((see if I were to have this previous sentence edited, they would say that it is a "run on sentence" but it in fact isn't & I'm sure you agree as well. lol.))) I am all for you discovering more research about these different branches into this diagnosis that leads people that are not diagnosed in this same position to have some understanding & to open more minds to these possibilities. There is a big disconnect that leaves me just mourning for the world around me and I don't know why I feel all of these extra senses while others around are just like- not, and it makes me hard to understand. I am fully behind you on this journey you are in right now & you go girl! --- Nat
@debrakaiser65855 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Lynn! I found this very interesting and so glad you found an answer : ) All the best to you!
@kathrynrhodes77856 жыл бұрын
I love how you spoke about this in such a public way. Quite honestly one of the most captivating KZbin videos I've ever seen. To everyone reading this my name is Kathryn, and I also have Autism. I actually know Kelcey a bit. What a wonderful person. Autism to me personally isn't a disability, but merely a different way of thinking. We all think differently. The world needs all kinds of minds. If we all thought the same the world would be boring as hell, and I guarantee you we would still be living in the dark ages. I love anything to help autism awareness and anyone's preconceived notions of it. What an amazing video Kelcey. Kudos to you girl. And I agree on the labels thing. Labels can be negative but they can also be positive if it helps one understand themselves. Anyway Kelcey I so love your own thoughts on this, and you have a knack for story telling by the way! I can't emphasize enough how much I love this. You go girl!!! 👊👊
@zkatt19596 жыл бұрын
So where do you go from here? Would love a followup video about your future plans, work, lifestyle etc
@canny7x4 жыл бұрын
Kelcy I think it's really awesome that you chose to Share your experience because I'm sure it's going to help other people. This condition can be a real struggle for so many of us and we need to know there are others who are handling it in a positive fashion.
@SuperMrsMar4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! My 3 year old daughter was recently diagnosed with autism and I am trying to learn as much as I can to try to be able to communicate with her and understand enough to help her. There is so little known about autism with girls (especially 3 year olds as most girls are older when they are diagnosed). She has an amazing SPED preschool teacher, but without that degree myself, I feel like I am not doing enough at home. Thank you for being an inspiration.
@markhenryramsey91326 жыл бұрын
You're doing you very well. I'm 42 (in uni) and have always worked etc. It has only been the last few years I've expected I have autistic traits and my doctor wife agrees. My father also has a rare form so it's likely. Personally I don't feel I would benefit anything from having a label so I haven't been formally diagnosed. Basically I'm saying there are probably lots more people out there that are autistic in some way and don't even know it. Keep being you, you're 1 in 7.5 billion (Aprox)
@moondogmcblackfoot4 жыл бұрын
I’m an Aspe...the struggle is real. Stay strong.
@loowitloopunit505 жыл бұрын
Awe you have a ferret! So cute💜 I have two of them. Im so glad you have a diagnosis. It can be so relieving in some ways.
@AMentorway4u4 жыл бұрын
I dont have what you speak of, but I watched you and read the comments. I'm blown away at my ignorance of everyone's struggles. I dont know what normal is anymore because everyone is dealing with something. But thank you for sharing and all the best to you and blessings to everyone.
@Noabynature6 жыл бұрын
I believe and a friend of mine speculates that I am on the spectrum. Unfortunately as a black female we are the least studied. Female and Black. its frustrating because I honestly don't know what to do to get help. Or where to go. Thanks for posting this video bc i like you don't fit the stereotype... or I've developed my own way to hide or disguise my symptoms. But i still struggle all the time. Ive been mis diagnosed as well plenty of times. At this point from all the research and reading the dsm and literally trying to figure out what is wrong with me i need to find a therapist to help me figure out if this is what it is. I really hope you do this second video bc i really found this helpful.
@jeweerly23196 жыл бұрын
Tommy Jones wtf mate
@Noabynature6 жыл бұрын
tobagotb10 why would you say something so toxic and vile. Not knowing anything about what I'm going through? Do you know how depressed I am? Or how much I struggle with being alive. Do you not understand how much words hurt? I didn't ever get notified that you said this. But I had a terrible week. I've had a terrible year my mom died. And I'm alone. And I came home to read this hurtful crap and just sat here and cried. Bc im already struggling so much with depression. That a stranger's words can be and are peircing. You have no idea what I'm going through. And yet you're selfish enough to try to hurt others. It's not ok. I'd never do something like that.
@thequad43486 жыл бұрын
tobagotb10 I wish you had her feelings and she felt better. Bc the world needs less of you. And more ppl like her. I said it.
@Noabynature6 жыл бұрын
oh wait um... Was that person referring to someone else or calling me a p.o.s? I'm so confused. I only see the one comment that says get off the internet you p.o.s. And I'm like what did I do. 😔
@Noabynature6 жыл бұрын
tobagotb10 ok I'm sorry. Yes he must've deleted the comment because I never saw it but thank you for taking up for me. You have no idea how much something so small can be so uplifting and powerful. Sometimes the smallest things we do can touch someone's life. And that small gesture made me feel so much better. There are kind people in this world. Even in the internet. And I read that entire I've learned post and I agree with so much of it. Thank you my friend for sending me the love! Spiritual hugs 🌼🌺🌸
@martinegelinas4596 жыл бұрын
I got diagnosed last june and It is such a relief yet so weird to have a late diagnosis. I can so relate to what you said. I waited 2 years before going to get my diagnosis because I feared getting dismissed cause i'm a pro at masking my ''symptoms''. Thank you for this video :) glad to see adults on the spectrum.
@dominiquer84316 жыл бұрын
what doctor did you go too to get diagnosed?
@kelly__05075 жыл бұрын
Hello where did you go to get diagnosed
@pleasedontkillmyvibe27745 жыл бұрын
Kelly__ I went to get a diagnosis and I was told I wasn't autistic. Frustrating to say the least. I am 20 years old... I am practically lonely and completely isolated.
@kelly__05075 жыл бұрын
Please Don't Kill My Vibe same I’m 20 and I’m always alone but I love being alone anyway and I also isolate myself it’s bad but I don’t completely know how to communicate like an adult😞
@pleasedontkillmyvibe27745 жыл бұрын
Kelly__ you are black and autistic like me... we don't get represented alot. Um... what is your special interest if you dont mind me asking?
@TRMcCoy5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lynn! I've been wondering if I had this 33 and lots of other diagnosis I still don't know...keep bring awareness. We need this out there!
@Onebeautifulheart5 жыл бұрын
Lynn, Thank you for sharing your story. It makes me think of my beautiful daughter who is also "Twice Exceptional". She is Autistic and Gifted. I feel like the most blessed mother to have been given her as my daughter. I want her to have the healing that comes from being officially diagnosed with Autism. She was tested for Gifted when she was 9 years old and that helped our family so much to understand her needs more. I want to be able to learn more about Autism and her needs. Thank you again for sharing.
@k9muers3 жыл бұрын
I went through all of this and my son got diagnosed when he was 6 I got diagnosed last year at 39years old I finally get the support I need
@faeriesmak3 жыл бұрын
Are you in the US? I was wondering about how you began the assessment process. I was looking into ASD because I am positive my eldest son has it along with the ADHD he was diagnosed with when he was 3. I am pretty sure that I have it as well. I would love to be assessed!
@Spills515 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your time. I am trying to figure out what is going on with myself. I am 40 now and ever since I was a child people said I was different. I always felt like an outsider and communication never came easy to me. While smart, you wouldnt know it from school. I just never paid attention. Like you I am not just looking for a label. I am looking for the RIGHT label. Sadly, I let this bind me up pretty bad. I made the mistake to always look at it like "I can handle it! Dont need help!" This just made things worse and now half my life is gone without any real answers. Idk if im gonna ever figure this out but...the longer it goes the easier it gets for me to wanna just check out of life in general. Sucks...But im trying still. I told myself I would atleast give the medication side of help a chance before I just pack it in and call it a day. I am very TIRED. Anyway, good luck with everything and Im glad you have some reference to work with. I cant think of anything worse then knowing something is off, but not being able to pinpoint it. How do you fight something you cant see? Your still young...now that you have figured it out please make the most of that information.
@bexa79425 жыл бұрын
The way you say this is so clear to me. It's like your saying the words that are normally stuck in my head.
@rachelupdegrove59084 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing! Going through the same thing right now and this gives me so much hope ❤️☺️
@Sarah.Jane.3 жыл бұрын
So I feel like your describing my life with the hand flapping curl up into a ball rocking back and forth panic attacks when you get overwhelmed.
@sbsman49986 жыл бұрын
The fact I achieved anything in life is amazing considering I had near zero networking, few friends and avoided study groups like the plague in college, but was intelligent focused polite honest direct maximally. Completely alone I relied most effectively on my autistic intellect. Once heard that a person is autistic only when with others, alone not ~~ while solitude is the way the body heals itself. Lovely video thanks Kelcey.
@lisajguo5 жыл бұрын
"A person is autistic only when with others, not alone" - wow, I relate so much.
@gay4milfs5 жыл бұрын
i got diagnosed earlier this year and this video is so validating. thank u. after 18 years im finally getting the support i've always needed and it feels so damn good
@beaugdspd-bass25405 жыл бұрын
I'm going to have my 18 yr old autistic son watch this video when he gets home from school today. Thank you so much for posting this.
@1chipchap6 жыл бұрын
This is me in a nutshell . ADHD too and always being told I'm not living my potential . I find it so hard being around people yet I'm a chameleon and I feel dreadful after .
@cloroxbleach1754 жыл бұрын
Word of advice to anyone with these conditions, manage ur mental health by creating a short term and long term plan. Because stuff happens in life and I've seen way too many people go crazy
@annie.hi.2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! We are looking to get a diagnosis for my 13 yr old daughter and having that framework now has really helped her understand her struggles which then makes it easier for her to address them and know how to approach them. She also, while sometimes seems a bit quirky, presents pretty normally, unless you’ve seen her in the right situation. But that doesn’t make her struggle any less of a real struggle. I honestly can’t imagine her accomplishing all that you have because life seems so hard for her, but maybe she will get there as she matures.
@clarradactyl77914 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing this! the video that sparked a lightbulb in you, also inspired me to look into ASD further...and yup, i tested high for having ASD and i’m 33 years old. i was in denial at first bc people have always described me as the girl who’s “friends with everyone” (aka me masking hardcore 😂). for me, having autism is like being in a play where everyone has the script, but you’re the only one who doesn’t. constantly feeling out of place, but not knowing why or how to fit in like everyone else.
@heatherhughes56835 жыл бұрын
I've always thought something was off with me..for as long as I can remember. I'm 19 and a college freshman. I hate living with a roommate, because I get overwhelmed by all the small sounds and actions she does. There used to be nights when I would walk around outside at 3 am, because I was overstimulated and couldn't get my brain to stop spinning. I get weird attachments to objects that I shouldn't be attached to. Examples include: a small felt voodoo doll that I made that I had to make sure I was in my pocket before I went any where; a tennis ball that I have to have in my hand when I fall asleep; etc. I pick at my scalp (and have for years) when I'm trying to take tests or just get overwhelmed by things I feel like I don't understand. Apparently I used to stutter a few years back, but I don't remember it because it was "normal" for me. Sometimes I still find myself stuttering or repeating words and phrases when I get excited or upset or just overwhelmed and lose my train of thought. I don't like going out, and I don't have many friends...Of the few friends I've made in college, I hardly talk to them, because I always feel like they don't like me. I can talk to people "easily" I suppose, but I don't really like initiating and it is hard for me to continue conversations. If I am to initiate a conversation, then I likely rehearsed it before hand to figure out what I need to say.
@TaybearXD3 жыл бұрын
I pick my scalp when I get stressed. 👀
@tympani81354 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! I’m 17 and just got diagnosed. Still super weird. Like what do with this info? How does my perception of people on the spectrum change? I never knew one could go so long and not know?
@kiwitsunami61135 жыл бұрын
This video helped so much. I was never diagnosed until this year, and it made so much sense to me. I had known that there was a lot different about me, and I would always wonder why I acted and thought differently than most people. My autism has held me back for so long, it has been very hard for me, and I always thought it was all my fault. Thank you for making this video, I really needed a video like this, cause I've been having a harder time, and this helped so muh. Thank you! 💖💖
@bobbi53555 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm happy to see my daughter could live a normal life with the right help when she gets older. ❤❤❤
@ayse57125 жыл бұрын
Learning about ‘high functioning’ females with ASD has been so eye opening and wonderful. At first I thought no way could I be on the spectrum; my only exposure was from books like ‘the curious incident of the dog in the nighttime’, but learning more about autism i am really relating more than I ever thought. Makes me realise how important awareness and representation is. I never recognised myself as perhaps being autistic because I couldn’t relate to people w ASD that I was aware of. When I’m overwhelmed I go mute for hours and rock back and forth for Christ sakes hahaha. Like cmon hun u autistic. Just coz u shit at maths u think it’s impossible? Oh dear hahahaha
@princetonshot Жыл бұрын
Omg same. I'm also really bad at math. I can't grasp it. I wish I was good at math at least :(
@jordongrubic13485 жыл бұрын
I love invisible i too. I'm honestly wondering if I'm on a very high functioning part of the spectrum. I've been diagnosed with ocd and a learning disability. I may want to get tested.