It’s so funny that we’re so concerned about what people will think of us when we dress up/dress for ourselves, but most of the time people are really positive and even inspired by seeing someone comfortable enough in their own skin to express themselves so uniquely.
@BrokenDharmaForge3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. From personal experience every time I go out and dress however I want and feel that day, unabashed by how odd it might be (imagine going to Walgreens with a wooden basket and yellow sundress) people have not only complimented me, but somehow seemed more...Im not good with words but, joyus to talk to me? Maybe it's just my own feels projecting but the world feels brighter and so do others when you live for you (with consideration to other of course).
@CrisOnTheInternet3 жыл бұрын
A couple of days I run into the kitchen and when I see my sister with "odd" shoes I giggled and she automatically said "this is something you'd wear". It's just so aesthetically pleasing to see people wearing unique clothes.
@svetlanabarrow60263 жыл бұрын
Nobody cares about what other people think!
@BubbleBunnyy3 жыл бұрын
exactly and if someone is judging you you don't want them around you anyways.
@saranator4083 жыл бұрын
Yes! We need more people that think this way:D I really love this channel and this community😊❤️🙏
@eleanorjones86133 жыл бұрын
Desi I don't quite know why but I started crying just before the halfway point of this video. You are truly a beautiful person inside and out. You shine so bright and give that light that has touched so many people. Thank you for your work and growth to be honest about self care. Its mean so much to so many.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
And now I’M crying 🥺 Thank YOU for such sweet words. My heart is full 🥺🤍
@smeenasiddiqui23743 жыл бұрын
That's a nice comment today.
@april30213 жыл бұрын
I almost teared up when she was in the car eating tiramisu and listening to that song. The caption was "my heart" ahhhhh I melted. I whole heatedly felt her joy ❤
@yyaaii3 жыл бұрын
Funny, my eyes teared at this moment too 😀
@Emily-nk9gz3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi I want you to know that you’re so loved 💗 no matter how big anxiety gets,there is someone bigger than this. Someone who is always there ,who wants to heal you from all the burden you carry 💕. It is Jesus :). He invites you to follow him,and deny yourself (means to give up your will,surrender yourself and pick up your cross to follow him). He loves you so much,that he was willing to die for all of your mistakes on the cross. 💗 be blessed wonderful sister ,I love you so much ,you really remind me in somethings of myself. You are wonderfully and fearfully made. God has given you a great gift ,the only thing u need to do is to discover it. If you want to have eternal life ,the only thing you need to do is to to repent,and turn away from your sins (like lying,being very angry and aggressiv ,lusting, idolizing, etc),trust and believe in Jesus , like you trust a parachute to save you when you jump out of the plane. He really cares about your precious life ,he has given you so wonderful things 💗 thanks if you read my message,it would mean a lot to me🥺. Much love from Austria 🤗♥️ stay safe & healthy!
@DaPoofDaPoofDaPoofDa3 жыл бұрын
“Self care is doing the things that make you feel more like yourself”
@kendrasmith46613 жыл бұрын
I have been making my own flower crowns and wearing them everywhere everyday and I love it! It was kind of awkward at first, but now I feel so amazing and confident in them. I got my dream reaction the other day when a little girl (probably 3) stared at me and half whispered "She's a flower girl!" 😍😍😍
@aurourasandsadprose92723 жыл бұрын
Awwwww…. That’s so cute!
@yyaaii3 жыл бұрын
I love that! 💛
@adariusburns22043 жыл бұрын
I love your sending off the message that everyone should not care what other people think and just do what makes you happy .That just makes my little heart glow with happiness.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
It’s so much easier said than done (coming from someone who still sometimes struggles with filming in public places) but it’s truly one of the most freeing things! 🤍
@sangeetakumari14683 жыл бұрын
mine too!That was such a powerful line she mentioned in the starting and followed through with it!
@kittyquinn0043 жыл бұрын
You apologized for the buzzing bees, but that just adds to the cottagecore princess aesthetic ☺️💖
@kathleenroberts79723 жыл бұрын
You are an enchantress! Shine on sweet soul!
@SFlaidlaw1013 жыл бұрын
Desi, I just want to say from one creator to another I understand what it takes to create. A lot of people might get confused as to why breaks and mental health are necessary for creators, but the huge amount of energy and pressure it takes to deliver consistently is hard. Especially when you deal with health issues or family-related issues (I watched your Insta story) Not to mention that people can be hateful towards your creations and it takes a whole deal of bravery to post in the first place. This video was beautiful. Thank you for creating it and thank you for taking the time to heal to let it surface.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Why am I crying 😭 It’s like you pulled the words right out of my soul. What you said is so true. I felt so guilty for not having videos up week after week, but it’s also so hard to put your entire self into something when you’re hurting and broken on the inside. Thank you for making me feel so seen 😭💗🤍
@GoodGD093 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi sweet and beautiful lady, you have brightened up my days. I have generalized anxiety disorder and I’ve fell into catatonic depressions throughout my life after some traumatic events that ensued. Your videos bring me joy and they remind me to take care of my heart and my soul and that I am worthy and enough to do what makes me happy. I’ve broken the cycle in my family that chained me to believing I wasn’t good enough to do what I loved or could fulfill. You’re an inspiration, a light and truly one of a kind. I adore you and we are so grateful that you graced us with such amazing content, this is not an easy job and it takes a lot of time and effort. Please know as a viewer I appreciate you.
@livysardothien57453 жыл бұрын
I cried so hard. This life is the one I want. Everyone just seems to be against everything I do that makes me happy. Saying it's childish and being judgemental and giving me those looks that i hate so much. I can't do the things i love cause I'm always anxious and afraid of being harassed by doing what i love. And now I'm so broken and dead inside. I just wanna live like this. But i feel like my life is not mine. I can't control it. I can't live it. I don't belong to anything, not even to myself. They take me and throw me after using me. It sucks. I'm so tired and exhausted. I just wanna be free and happy. This video feels like home. Thank you so much for this Dessi💜
@BambiKiller993 жыл бұрын
I resonate with this... Sending you a warm hug. You’re amazing ❤️
@tajat8663 жыл бұрын
I hope you find the way to be yourself 💜
@livysardothien57453 жыл бұрын
@@BambiKiller99 thank you, back to you too 💜
@livysardothien57453 жыл бұрын
@@tajat866 I really hope so... thank you for replying 💜 have a good one :))
@khadiisam263 жыл бұрын
This comment made me cry 😭♥️
@SalindaNichols3 жыл бұрын
Self-care is absolutely first and foremost for being the most true versions of ourselves, and looks different to us all. Be kind to yourself and take it as easy as you need 💚
@aksheee3 жыл бұрын
ur so beautiful as is desi
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
You couldn’t be more right! 🤍 Also this is a side note but just the other day I saved your “vintage hairstyles for summer” (i don’t remember the exact title) video to my Watch Later playlist because they all looked SO cute! I can’t wait to watch it ☺️
@SalindaNichols3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi aw thanks so much! 💚 Hope you enjoy, I'd love to see if you try any!
@theodycherylcredo26453 жыл бұрын
💛
@lunatonkens79333 жыл бұрын
Great to see you here too Salinda! Haha :)
@ericaenchanted3 жыл бұрын
Awww! You don't just look like a fairy princess---you ARE a fairy princess!!!🦄😊💕🌸🌼💐🥀👑
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
😭💗💗💗
@TheDarthSoul3 жыл бұрын
Did I watch the entire video even though I helped film parts of it? Yes, yes I did. This was so well put together and just absolutely amazing! Nice work Desi 😍👍
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Thanks babe 🥺 This video wouldn’t have been made without you!! 🤍
@scoobertscoobydoo3 жыл бұрын
Y'all are a amazing team, its lovely to witness a little bit of it! Indeed a great video both in filming and editing 😊
@maleficentmistressofevil47093 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi aaaawww what a sweet love of both of you!🤩🥰❤ Blessings!😃🤍
@WalkingWoman-k7x2 жыл бұрын
Duuuude🥰
@TheDarthSoul2 жыл бұрын
@Cozy Girl With A Cup of Tea yes 😁👍
@fairyoftheforest983 жыл бұрын
You're legit the most adorable person ever. I died at the part when you got dizzy in the grass and when you put the flowers in your pocket with the water. Also SO GENIUS
@evaalcala42383 жыл бұрын
I would literally watch this video 1000+ times
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@jodi51273 жыл бұрын
Same I would watch this whenever I wanted to feel warm and cozy:)
@maleficentmistressofevil47093 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi what's the name of the song at 10:38 princess?
@thelittlecountrygal3 жыл бұрын
Self-care is so important not just for body but for the mind and the heart. 😌Thank you for taking over 40 hours to make this work of art for us!❤
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
You’re 100% right! And thank YOU for watching! 💗🥺
@themaydiariesxo3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even begin to describe how your videos help me out so much. Last night I started taking antidepressants which I feel super afraid due to the side effects. But I love how I watch this video which instantly calms me down. Thank you so much for your beautiful spirit and lovely, lovely videos! ✨
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Aww sending you all the good vibes!! Feeling stressed or nervous is the worst and definitely something I can relate to. Thank YOU for such a kind comment 🥺🙏🏻💗🤍 I hope you’re feeling better!
@mononoke80153 жыл бұрын
Best wishes to you. Be yourself every day, with joy or not. Sometimes it's hard, but every man has a power inside himself. I hope you see the beauty and uniqueness of your life!
@alinashirinian24853 жыл бұрын
I wish you best of luck on your journey 💖🍀 I recently finished taking my antidepressants and I can tell that they gave me the strength to start healing myself which imo is the most important thing. The side effects were not fun, but they were a small price to pay for that! And watching soothing, wholesome content like Desi's videos is a great addition to meds, that's for sure!
@themaydiariesxo3 жыл бұрын
@@mononoke8015 Thank you so much for these incredibly kind words ❤️ This is what I plan to do: to cherish my life in the way that makes me happy. I hope you’re doing well too darling ❤️❤️
@themaydiariesxo3 жыл бұрын
@@alinashirinian2485 Thank you so much for your words of wisdom ☺️ I’m not gonna lie I was so afraid and hesitant to start taking them but I also want to get back on healing myself. Best of luck of you too! It must feel so big to be coming off of them. ❤️
@GroovingFlowerChild3 жыл бұрын
Everything about this video is beautiful but you make it the most beautiful. Your energy and aura is absolutely incredible and contagious.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
You are so kind 😭 thank you!! 🥺🙏🏻😭💗
@GracewithBooks3 жыл бұрын
Love starting a day with desi serotonin. I’ve been in SUCH an anxious headspace this past week and with work I know I haven’t been prioritizing myself. This is such a wake up call to do just that 🌻🪴
@sarahwoodward40943 жыл бұрын
I’m so in love with this video, this year has been difficult for me, I started my year with in of the worst depressive episodes I’ve had since high school and I quit a toxic job. This has reminded me that I can do things for me and I don’t need to worry about what others think, time to break out the cool maxi skirt I bought and swoosh around !
@monicaliu60962 жыл бұрын
Protect this girl at all cost! I aspire to live like this, fully embracing myself and enjoying life to the fullest :)
@reginaswope51073 жыл бұрын
Wow Desi. When I think you can't do any better you surprise me. This was pure magic. And just what I needed. And the soundtrack was just 👌👏👍🙌 no words.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh thank you so much 😭😭💗
@junesgardenclub3 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SO CINEMATIC... "Darling Desi's Day Off"
@kritikaaagaur3 жыл бұрын
The length of the videos and the high quality (movie like) proves how much work desi puts into the video. And I loooovvveee it.!!!! Please keep making videos like these
@elizychler90963 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. Honestly, I've really been struggling these past few months because my grandma passed away and there's also a lot of other things that happened, so I haven't really been taking care of myself much. This video helps brighten my thoughts and motivates me to care for myself more, so thank you! 💖🌼
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh i’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine how hard that much be. I know it can be difficult when you’re feeling so down, but please take care of yourself 🤍 Even if it’s just putting on one of your comfort movies, making yourself a nutritious meal or drinking extra water. Sending you a virtual hug! 🤗🤍
@elizychler90963 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi thank you so much! I really appreciate it. 💖
@Ariel_is_a_dreamer2 жыл бұрын
I hope more people have the guts to do this because everytime people dress the way they like, it makes them look sooo beautiful, regardless of style. It's like the person is finally in the style they were made to have, it's always a glow up.
@kristeneks3 жыл бұрын
You dressing up in your favorite dress, with a flower crown and a glittered face just made my morning! This makes me so happy for you! And everyone of us here :)
@saviitude12343 жыл бұрын
Desi this video is EXACTLY what I needed this week!! I’m so excited to watch your journey, learn some new things and no doubt see a GORGEOUS video. Thank you for putting so much love and time into these videos! The reminder that it is not selfish to love yourself literally brought me to tears. I struggle so much with that concept. Thanks so much for the reminder that self love does not have to be expensive, or unattainable it can be simple, warm, cozy and easy. Sending love you you des, thank you.
@janreichard33243 жыл бұрын
This was such a beautiful video and now one of my favorites, especially knowing you are going through some tough times in your life and still brought all your energy and magic! I am all about finding and doing things to nurture my soul! Thanks for the reminder.
@HeatherLaurenCo3 жыл бұрын
The the pearly braids and the voluminous bangs, you look like an elf or fairy!
@MinaElle3 жыл бұрын
This was so magical to watch. To me, watching your videos is a part of self care because they make me so happy.
@summerskiiin71333 жыл бұрын
The best and most comforting thing to wake up and drink my coffee to!!💕 I would definitely be wishing I were as regal-looking and fabulous as you if you walked into my bookstore🥰😇
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Omg ahhh you’re so sweet 😭 A bookstore is such a great place to go dressed up because I feel like book people just get it ☺️
@frayansertzrave3 жыл бұрын
I was actually having a rough week and this video makes me have a sign to make me look out for myself more. Thank you so much for this wonderful video. I appreciate this one. Anyway, you're like a real disney princess! I love your looks Desi! ❤
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Aw you’re so so kind! Thank you 🥺🙏🏻
@kallistoindrani56893 жыл бұрын
There is something magic about reading when it rains! I don't mind this time of year when it's warm out and the sun is shining and I can sit outside all day and read but it's not the same as reading when it rains ( and when it's a bit gloomy outside too).
@TK-vt2xv3 жыл бұрын
This is the best news ever 🥺❤️ I'm so happy for you Desi! You have no idea how much you've inspired so many others to romanticise life with your videos, so it's really nice to know that you're also taking care of yourself❤️❤️
@samanthaharris54042 жыл бұрын
If you walked into a bookstore and I was there, I would think you were soooo cool. It is inspiring to see you be so authentic.
@claraclarke86423 жыл бұрын
The beauty of the final moments of this video nearly brought me to tears. Thank you so much for this!!! 💖
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you enjoyed it! I was editing that part at 3am and my brain was on its final brain cell 😂 I wanted to word it more elequantely but i’m happy with how simple it turned out ☺️🤍
@DalainaRenee3 жыл бұрын
I love reading in winter ❄️ having tea 🫖 staying in like that when it rains. ✨😀
@TheCHADsession3 жыл бұрын
DESI! I can't wait to watch, Self Care is something I need to implement more in my life! Thank you
@ameaturangel2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I just wanted to share that your videos have provided me with some calm and comfort. I am experiencing a lot of change and scary health-related things and your videos have put my mind at ease. Thank you.
@mole56822 жыл бұрын
Completely relate! Hope you have a great day.
@NerdWatchJinxy3 жыл бұрын
That Fleetwood Mac song worked perfectly! SO CUTE.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! For some reason whenever I hear it, I think of skating and just enjoying life and going with the flow 😌 🛼
@lailasolaris2 жыл бұрын
You have made a permanent fan. You are the true modern day version of Anne of Green Gables. Beautiful filming and editing too. Thank you, kindred spirit!
@scarlet54203 жыл бұрын
This channel is such a nice calm place, I love these videos so much
@cianagrosse-rhode99832 жыл бұрын
Lately I have been getting into the cottagecore aesthetic, which is how I stumbled across you and your videos. Subscribed, because you are a beautiful quirky inspiring soul. I came here to say, thank you. After years of truama, I've found it difficult to remember my magick, and how to love myself. The end of this video moved me to tears. You my darling helped break the thick ice that covered the portal to my self love and reawakening journey. I am still crying. But I'm crying because I realize I love myself, my magick isnt gone, and as you said, I am enough. Thank you so much. ❣️
@kritikaaagaur3 жыл бұрын
OOOOOOMMMMGGGG DESIIII I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT BUYING ROLLER SKATES RECENTLY AND YOU DID IT I- OHMYGOD IS THIS A SIGN FROM THE UNIVERSE THAT I SHOULD START SKATING??
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
IT’S A SIGN 🛼✨
@michellabella103 жыл бұрын
Beautiful creation 🤲🏻🥰 thanks for nurturing my soul with an inspiring spirit, joy and purposeful project that influences me to become my best self and love me the way God intended me to do. Glory to God!! I am subscribing now🙌🏻 thank you so much
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, thank YOU! 🥺🙏🏻💗 I’m so happy you enjoyed it 💗
@shannonrobertson72123 жыл бұрын
Omg this sounds like a perfect day! I love listening to my audio books baking but I've been too anxious and stressed finishing this degree while working full time and going on military duty. I spend all day go go go go to anxious to go to sleep. I study to cottage core playlists and dark academia!! Your videos are exactly what I need more of in my life! After this last class I am dressing up like a cottage core princess going to the bookstore, grabbing a hot tea and finding a spot outside! I'd love to find that version of grimm tales!
@barbiloli94813 жыл бұрын
Yay! Desi, do you even realize how happy you make me every time I see a notification that you posted? ✨❤
@elizabethtran87463 жыл бұрын
ikr !!!!!!
@mothman263 жыл бұрын
I'll never forget. I was showing my grandma your channel and she said "she seems sorta ditzy!" I was so upset at her. I told her that your not ditzy. Your happy! I still stand by that! 🌼🌱🌿🌹🌷⚘
@grizeldaxxx45683 жыл бұрын
Desi is such a JOY GERM and just what the World needs xx
@KC-kb4pz3 жыл бұрын
Joy is so foreign to a lot of people🤔
@Valeriesbeautyinc3 жыл бұрын
Well it doesnt matter what grandma thinks only what Desi thinks..she is just inspiring others to be themselves
@margosays74522 жыл бұрын
Oh My goodness, you have encouraged me so much to be who I want to be, and to dress how I want!
@marr8a3 жыл бұрын
I started my self care morning and evening routine too a few days ago
@Yuookiuxtq2 жыл бұрын
I want to say thank you because lately I have been losing myself and watching you just made me want to do be better and I think I can finally improve and put me first for once in my life. Thank you so much again!
@Halyy8513 жыл бұрын
Darling desi, I am so happy that I've founded you in youtube. You're one of the people who really warms me up, and inspire me. I used to feel very sad all the all the time, until I found u. Thankyou so much you re a wonderful person inside and out. Have a nice day love you😊
@catherinecorn71823 жыл бұрын
There are a few things I wish i could tell my younger self... One is this. Just like you dont care how people dress and what they dream about and do, no one cares how you dress and what you dream about and do. They may ne curious why or how, but at the end of the day, you have to do what makes your heart, mind, body and soul sing. I type this as I sit at my antique vanity, fixing my hair into a neat Gibson tuck, and then admire my handiwork in my vintage hand mirror, while wearing a floor length 6 gore skirt I sewed myself. Preparing to go let my goats and chickens out for the day, while dreaming of all the eggs i will soon gather (my chickens are all pretty young right now) I will chatter to my roosters and chit chat with my hens. I will hugs all the goats and pet them and croon to them. I will then fluff up my puppy and tell her what a dreamcake she is, so smart and pretty, and silly, then i will check in on my daughters ducks and the baby chicks and then back into the house to can banana pepper pickles, dry seeds for next year, and get to making dried jalapeño powder for seasoning future dishes. Create the life you wish to live, no apologies, no excuses. Love yourself so deeply and so wildly that nothing and no one can alter your path to self thriving beyond your wildest dreams. Be authentic to yourself
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
I definitely just got emotional while reading your words 🥺 You couldn’t be more right! I especially love at the beginning how you said that really no one cares what you do and how you dress and what your dreams are. They’re too worried about themself, and if anything, they might be inspired to see someone just unabashedly being themselves. Thank you so much for your thoughts! I took a screenshot so I can refer to it again 🤍
@catherinecorn71823 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi keep being you! Most mental health issues today are caused by beautiful unique beings attempting to fit their triangle selves into round and square holes.... We are created special, we dont need labels and boxes and hole a. We need time to develop our wings and learn to breathe deeply and space to blossom.
@taylorgray31473 жыл бұрын
Today--my self care was watching this beautiful video created by this beautiful team of Desi and Jared (!!
@wheretangents33273 жыл бұрын
"If it makes you happy, it doesn't have to make sense with anybody else" this quote literally made me cry :(( i needed that thank you 😭
@videosbyrose59863 жыл бұрын
I saw your Instagram story, I’m so sorry you’re going through so much right now, I hope you’re okay :)
@stone.durfey58623 жыл бұрын
I'm soaking in the sounds of autumn starting...crickets singing, the hushed twilight...everything slowing down...the moon seems to whisper autumn. ..I can hardly wait for the trees to show color...to walk through the colorful leaves...to take a walk after a fall rain...to look for wooly catapillar's. .....Fall is my time of the year...there is a bit of magic in the air...the moon seems closer...there are noises in the woods that sent chills up your spine as you wonder what could it be. All things fall yes that's me.
@hannahjordan69353 жыл бұрын
Somehow this video felt like the best time before a goodbye and my heart is so wildly renched for it and the knowing that in every goodbye there is something new ❤
@BeccaB7893 жыл бұрын
Self care. The real truth. As a teacher, I always put my health last since I was solely focused on work. Now, that my health scare was a wake up call, self care, which includes whatever makes you happy and let yourself be lost in those moments, I take it seriously. But I so love your videos, and I smile throughout. You are a sprite that can brighten anyone's day. Speaking of skating, I remember I also didn't have good balance and never really knew how to break, and so...I would just roll and grab on to a metal sign or lamp post. Watching you try it was so hysterical, but you made it appear absolutely fun. I was laughing so hard, and smiling. Thank you for posting this video.
@morgankate983 жыл бұрын
You uploaded on my birthday! It’s been kind of a sad day and this really helped brighten it. Thank you Desi ❤️
@sofialopes95172 жыл бұрын
I find myself smiling to the screen like a silly kid when I watch your videos. I used to love life so much and see the world like a fairytail... But then, 13 years ago, depression came... And all i've ever tried just failed miserably in my life. I've turned myself into nothing but a sad failure... I'm so sorry for this outflow. At least i'm happy to see that there are people like you that didn't fail their path. You're a real inspiration. And i'm even glad to see that you're keep trying to get out of your confort zone and being who you really are despite what others might think. You are the bravest 💖 Ps.: The daisy chains... O M G 😍
@faithrotich94413 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this video so calming and it encouraged me to also get out and try new things
@lcomposemusic2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe she doesn’t have more subscribers. Her content is beautifully shot and so positive. Love this Darling Desi~
@B_lusch3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if it’s just me, but she the aesthetic that I want to emulate so bad. The gorgeous dresses, sitting in a field of flowers reading 🥺🥰
@MyCozyLife-Lisa9 ай бұрын
Wow!!! So many powerful messages in this video! A couple that stood out…”If it’s out of my hands then it should be out of my head.” “Self care is doing things that make us feel more like ourselves.” I’m 47 and it took me until age 40 or 41 to truly stop caring what others think about me. It’s absolutely so freeing! I’m still working on letting anxiety get the best of me which is why the first quote resonates with me so much. Thank you for such an inspirational video❤️
@phantomlover373 жыл бұрын
Love you Desi, and self care is so important. What a gorgeous video! I hope you are able to take the utmost care of yourself this season.❤️
@winx123rocks3 жыл бұрын
when i was 12 i went to the library to pick up a poetry book i had to do a report on for school. on my way home i stopped by a really beautiful park and nearly read the entire book whilst sitting on a bench. but when i arrived home i was scolded for going to the park and reading; not for staying longer outside than i was supposed to. ever since that have i felt discouraged to do such things. only now, in my mid twenties, i have found courage to do it again, thanks to your videos and similar youtube channels. thank you < 3
@hellothere91273 жыл бұрын
I am expierencing a lot of change in my life this year and you’re videos have made my days so special and all my worry’s have gone away. This video definitely speaks to me. Thank you fairy princess!
@minihappyart3 жыл бұрын
the trick with putting flowers in a bag with water into your pocket is the cutest thing I've seen in a while! :D
@lisakimmence44433 жыл бұрын
I needed that ending message today. Thank you so much for posting. You truly make the loveliest videos that never cease to inspire me.
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@Sarahlovely882 жыл бұрын
i like that quote "if it makes you happy it doesn't have to make sense to anybody else." 😍
@courtneyburton23173 жыл бұрын
So happy to see you! ❤️ Self-care is the bold act of loving yourself and being your own nurse, and I'm glad we get to take that journey along side you!
@amymls19813 жыл бұрын
I totally understand your feelings about the rain. I cherish every drop and love to hear the rain at night. I come from Louisiana where we would get an over abundance of rain 🌧 but since leaving my country in 2001 to live with my hubby in Australia, rain is a a precious thing that comes only once in a while . Lately we’ve been getting more rain which has been so delightful! 🥰🌧😃🏡 Perfect for a cuppa and a nice book 📖. 😁
@lunatonkens79333 жыл бұрын
Also, your videos are so perfect. You really take your time to create something, I will always cherish this beautiful quality over quantity! I clicked on it, not expecting much, I just like your vibe. This video was so much more enjoyable than I could have ever thought! So many fun things in one video. Thank you for doing this 💜
@celestial_peace3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been going through a lot lately emotionally and having a hard time finding that spark again. Spending time alone has become dull and lifeless. I feel meaningless and lack interest. Everything you surround yourself with is so pretty. I loved the flowers and the idea of reading outside in nature. That bathroom transformation was so romantic. I also want to paint even though I have no idea how to. I enjoyed every moment of this video.
@LC_cozy0873 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most inspirational videos I’ve watched in a long time, thank you! 🌞🌼
@maxdumyahn43973 жыл бұрын
You are a true inspiration! Your videos are a safe haven for me and make me feel warm and cozy even if I’m having a high anxiety day ☺️ take all the time you need for your mental health, we’ll still be here for you 💕
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😭
@alyssacarter72673 жыл бұрын
Ahhh!! This video is exactly what i've been needing 🧡
@WithLoveKristina3 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh I love this so much Desi! You're so beautiful, inside and out. And the bees buzzing near the microphone in the beginning made me giggle. You're such a JOY to watch, and you inspire me to pursue romaticising my own life, even when our lives are very different. I love love love love LOVE this, it's enchanting.
@spinstercatlady3 жыл бұрын
This was all so achingly beautiful, Desi...picture perfect 🐦💜
@izzyscraftworld7920 Жыл бұрын
This isn’t any old KZbin video, this is pure art ❤
@juniper5443 жыл бұрын
we know you're going through a hard time Desi, but I'm going to continually keep you in my thoughts and send you and Jared so much love. Things will be okay and you are okay ❤️ stay strong through this hard period of time girl :)
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Your message is so short and sweet but it brought tears to my eyes 🥺 Thank you so much 🥺
@Chelsea.renea.1673 жыл бұрын
Every video I see is like you plucked a scene from a book and made it come to life. Your aesthetic is definitely like a real life fairytale 🥰🥰🧚♀️
@angelaw76193 жыл бұрын
This video made me smile so much! Thanks, Desi! ❤️
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
Your comment made my heart smile!! ☺️💗
@ianmurphy99553 жыл бұрын
I love that people have looked back at the past in this chaotic world in which we live. I know I certainly do taking the best of the period and using it
@Ms.SpookyNerd3 жыл бұрын
I do lots of self care especially for my GA (general anxiety)
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
That’s so good and so so important 👏🏻
@hailzlambert2 жыл бұрын
Your music choices always fit so perfectly. The Taylor Swift cover is so pretty
@jenniferdaniel69523 жыл бұрын
This couldn’t have come at a better time! The end brought me to tears ❤️
@andrearenteria37393 жыл бұрын
This is the epitome of romance and love. And it’s sad we forget that we can and should treat ourselves with the same love we treat others. I once dressed up to go to the bookstore and felt silly at first, but I received so many compliments and just had a blast. People can feel other people’s genuine happiness. Yours emanates through the screen, and feels like a warm hug. Thank you
@aja67243 жыл бұрын
Yayyyy I’ve been waiting for you to post! Im so ready to watch!
@kornelial20453 жыл бұрын
You look so beautiful!! You are right we should not give a freak what others think of us! Have a nice day!
@DarlingDesi3 жыл бұрын
It’s so much easier said than done but SO worth it! 🙌🏻
@ellewinnifred24493 жыл бұрын
I love you, you're endearing and sweet, you're like a living Pinterest board, and your content is beautiful and relaxing. 💚💚💚
@aliamaya133 жыл бұрын
My heart is soaring!!! Absolute favorite video of yours. With the stresses of life, sometimes it’s hard to take care of yourself: thank you for the reminder!! Off to live my cottage core dreams! ☁️💐✨🦋🕊🍃
@thechronicallyillcowgirl3 жыл бұрын
Skating Advice from a roller derby girl: bend your knees, point your hips where you want to go, and DEFINITELY get pads. They also make shorts with padding for your butt too (they look dorky but trust me, they save you lots of pain)
@FaeryLaume3 жыл бұрын
Wearing pads is a far better plan than eventually wearing a cast or bandage wrap.
@gabriellegreene23293 жыл бұрын
yes! wore pads and still broke my foot. good luck to you all 😭
@julyxoxo38383 жыл бұрын
You're literally my spirit animal!
@devinpeacock79403 жыл бұрын
Me, 22 seconds into the video: IT'S SO LOVELY I WANT TO CRY 🥺
@neash50803 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the sign of self-care. You have built a lovely community here. I hope the world gives you twice as much hope and inspiration as you give us.
@elizabethtran87463 жыл бұрын
The 2 dislikes are the toxic thoughts we've all pushed away :)
@elliebrooks3293 жыл бұрын
I like to think they're just some moms who disapprove of roller skating without knee and elbow pads
@elizabethtran87463 жыл бұрын
@@elliebrooks329 lolllll
@setinejad17803 жыл бұрын
I don't even know how to express how I felt watching your video! I just say this, watching it was the very act of self-love to me. You're the sunshine Desi, keep on shinning
@aja67243 жыл бұрын
Hello! If your okay with it, can you link your Spotify/ Pinterest in the description?? I’d love to gather inspiration from it!
@brunacap62792 жыл бұрын
you give me so much Anne of Green Gables vibes, your personality is just ✨✨