I'm Leaving My Cottage - I was not ready for this

[@TheCottageFairy]

It's all happening sooner than I expected and so I am not yet quite ready, but I'm doing my best to take deep breaths and prepare myself mentally for the change. New adventures await! Empty house tour coming in a couple weeks. Thank you all for your kindness. So much sadness on the news, please take of yourselves and be kind whenever possible. So important to cultivate love, especially when things seem dark ❤️ hope this little video can offer some moments of peace.

[@morriganrimmer1532]

Wishing you all the good health, happiness and love in your new home! Allow time, for this is a hard transition, but know you are doing it to be happier in the end Hoping you are not finding the news too down dragging and allow time offline to reflect and reconnect 😊 Sending love from England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@antoniuserickkurniawan1946]

I hope you soon make another vlog...I'll pray for your long life, healthy, happy and more success in the future...Love you full from Jakarta, Indonesia ❤❤❤

[@ggalaxy9065]

Wishing you a smooth transition to your new home! Btw, how's your sweet bunny, Mr Darcy?

[@shortsss7463]

Wishing you a happy and peaceful life ahead!sending love🍾💓

[@Day-Zee62]

I’m excited to see the new changes in your life. You are going to be just fine. Thank you for your strength💪🏼Cuidate mucho🙏🏼🦋

[@LisaIsabelle]

Whoever gets lucky enough to be the next tenant of this little cottage will surely be feeling all the love, serenity and peace you have imprinted into it's walls. 🥰

[@sarahsayanything9776]

Indeed 💚 I’d love to find a place like this when I move back to Washington 🏔 🌲

[@smaxrob]

Agreed. I would happily live in it. Especially after it housed her calm presence. I imagine it feels so peaceful having had such a kind soul inhabit it. I am used to living very far from town so it would feel like a hop skip and a jump for me to get to anywhere with a gas station in under an hour. And a town with a book store would be a dream 🤩

[@errollleggo447]

Well said Lisa!

[@kakaakemi678]

💜💜

[@amteo7107]

I couldnt agree more

[@MoonlightCottageASMR]

I thoroughly enjoyed your videos in this place, it was a wonderful journey to watch and I'm sure the future ones will be as enchanting as they've been during these 2 years. I wish you the best for the next steps, knowing you'll create a magical dwelling ! 🥰

[@philomenaward1833]

Thankyou for inviting me on your very personal journey, it has inspired and encouraged me, it has also come at a time in my life where change and decision making are needing courage and faith more than ever before. I thank you for sharing the many faceted aspects of your living in your cottage and engaging with your world, I has been a truely sane and beautiful journey to share. Thanking you from deep in my heart, perhaps you may find out how much you have touched and how many you have reached with your generous self.Thankyou Philomena in Africa

[@am13007]

Aww I love seeing you here!

[@LaureninGermany]

Omgoodness - I just looked at your channel after seeing your intriguing name. What a find! I shall be tuning in tonight, it looks like a treasure trove of imaginative beautiful videos!

[@Anja22_13]

Hi there, I love Paola's videos and I also watch and really enjoy your ASMR channel - how nice to see you here as well. Greetings from New Zealand 🙂

[@myotheraccountonothe]

Keep the little box with all its timeless treasures . Someday you will show them to your children and grandchildren. They will cherish the little box 😊

[@HerCupOfSIMPLE]

That is so true😍

[@patriciacarlyle9456]

Make it into a little fairy diorama within the box using the acorn cups etc❣️

[@viviancardenas4565]

We’re going to miss your sweet little cottage!🥺❤️

[@shortsss7463]

Definitely 😢

[@mariaetheridge8343]

I'm pretty sure the new home will become fairy-like soon! It's the way Paola lives her life and bravo to that!

[@cbenji2]

I personally can’t wait to see the journey to make her new “location” into her “home”

[@viviancardenas4565]

@@mariaetheridge8343 Very true, her new home will be even more magical🧚

[@jayb3931]

This couldn't have come at a better time for me. Today would have been my daughter's birthday. All day I have tried to be brave, singing her Happy Birthday and refusing to cry. I have just sold my house and moving back to my home country. I am so excited to be going home but everything I do hurts, every decision I make is questioned, every minute step forwards feels like betrayal... and yet I must. If I had gone first I would want my daughter to be flying high and loving life, taking every opportunity before her, seizing every moment. So to honour that I am trying to do the same. Seeing your vlog today reminds me, that however hard, life goes on, and so it should. Thank you x

[@stephaniebrogdon4024]

Sending you wishes for comfort and strength today🤍

[@paulamewies4798]

Lighting a candle for you 🕯️💕

[@nikkihines3652]

Sending love and light 💡. I wish you the best in your journey 🤓

[@elizabethsteed5661]

Sending you best wishes for your new chapter in your life. so very sorry for the lost of your daughter. stay strong. 🌹

[@1tlb0k61]

What a wonderful testimony to & for your daughter, to choose to move forward. May your earnest action toward hope spark and ignite a warm fire of contentment and a life well lived. I am so sorry for your loss ~ hugs

[@Theravadinbuto]

As the books kept going into the box I was saying “that’s going to be heavy. That’s going to be very heavy.” Because, of course, I’ve done the exact same thing myself 😁

[@pamelasusanne22]

Lol same

[@janinafisher101]

I think many of us who have "been there, done that" were thinking exactly the same!😊

[@danicecreager951]

@@janinafisher101 I only did it one time, then quickly learned to use satchels to carry books :-)

[@janinafisher101]

@@danicecreager951 A really smart idea! We learn quickly!😊

[@monicalyn15]

Me too! I was saying “Nooooo stop!” Need book boxes with handles and even those get sooo heavy lol

[@lauribailey5756]

I'm so proud of you for setting limits on how much you share with us. Having a public life does not mean the public owns you.

[@amberhawke]

Agreed. And on the same note, if it takes you (Paola) a month or more before you can create another video, that is fine. We as the audience are not due anything from you, you have a new start to worry about. Take your time.

[@elevationview673]

Thank you Paola for sharing your move. Only if you knew how much the cottage fairy has helped with me with my grief over the last year. I know my wife Lynn would’ve loved everything about this channel.

[@lakemichigan6598]

What's difficult about this, besides the actual move itself, is you're voluntarily leaving a place where you've been happy - but given why & to where you're going, plus for whom this is all happening, any sadness you're feeling will be temporary - & quickly replaced with gratitude for this beautiful location's part in all the healing that allowed this wonderful transition to occur.

[@rimonagale1625]

So well put!

[@aussieopalgirl2915]

It is amazing to have videos of your life in the cottage. I have lived and moved from many places in different countries, but all i have is my memory of these past times. At every place i created a beautiful ambiente. Everytime i have left lots of things behind. New things came to me. I treasure it all. Letting go is a process trusting better things will come. Blessings

[@lakemichigan6598]

@@aussieopalgirl2915 The good news: All the healing that occurred there she gets to take with her - and the rest of the experience, whenever it comes to mind, will always, I think, warm that a whole lot bigger than average heart of hers.

[@lakemichigan6598]

@@nataliewilliams3519 My prediction: Everything's going to turn out even better than expected.

[@simpleextrovert]

Opportunities will arise, even if you’re not ready for it. ❤️

[@courtneyawalsh]

Always.

[@gaellewis]

Here in Australia we are currently living through the worst floods in our history. While I was fortunate not to lose my home, helping others who have, has been illuminating. From having to let go of precious art to children's school books, family photos, countless mementos that hold sentimental value, has shown me that even in the midst of all the mud and sludge and watter logged helplessness, somehow we find the courage to let go, to give one last look at a treasured item and consign it to the pile of rubble at the front of house after house in street after street in so many towns along our eastern coastline from Brisbane down to Sydney and beyond. The community spirit of helpfulness and commaradiere is what is sustaining us all. Thank you for your precious weekly videos. This was exactly what I needed this morning before setting off for another day of helping where needed. 💖

[@jennymay4720]

God bless and help you all Gael, how heartbreaking.

[@childofnature-norway]

Sending you my love and prayers all the way from Norway ❤️

[@smallboatlife]

I truly wish all the best for everyone there. Australia has had more than its fair share of difficult things in the last few years.

[@patriciaortega4380]

So sorry you & your country are going through this. I have been there too. We lost everything in the Harvey flooding in Houston but still have our home. Even after 4 years our home is still not completely done. So yes it’s hard. My prayers go out to Australia 🙏🏼

[@FM-qm5xs]

The rain has been horrendous. There is mold everywhere in my little shack. I think I am going to spend the whole day cleaning everything.

[@BoundingSquirrel]

I can't believe how serene you seem, considering that you're packing, moving house, and suddenly, at that. Bravo, and may you have every happiness in your new life and home.

[@healthybydesignyogi]

This was so sad... I love being in your sweet Cottage. It always made me feel safe and comforted. It was really sad to see you take the cottage apart. It's going to be quite a change for you and I wish you all the best.

[@niknoks6387]

I’m 51, I still have momentos from my school like a school tie and a signed white shirt, signed by all my friends back then. Some things should always be kept. Strange I still feel 16 in my head, however my body tells me otherwise lol ❤️🇬🇧

[@kjosephine70]

You showing us your painted box with the acorns and dried leaves reminds me of the scene from my favorite movie Amelie, where the older gentleman cries as he looks through the box of trinkets from his youth (marbles, photos). Such a poignant scene.

[@mariaetheridge8343]

Erm.. not wanting to be a know-it-all but I'm pretty sure they are of acorn cups. I think the come from the eucolyptus tree... Keep that box of treasures!!

[@Jessica_1010]

This made me a little teary 🥲eyed! The cottage will always be a special memory for you, and all of us💗 can’t wait to see the new place!

[@1tlb0k61]

True. I will Miss the cottage too.

[@tairad687]

Your healing process gently told is great for those in the harsh PTSD world of compartmentalized life events. May we all compost our damaging remnants of things we should move beyond. ❤️

[@aimeeelizabeth1]

Love the way you said this ❤️

[@lisastratton5145]

Wishing you every good thing, but will truly miss the sweet serenity of your cottage. 💖

[@lisastratton5145]

@Thomas Stewart Hi, Thomas

[@lindathompson4784]

“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” -Seneca I am so excited for you! Let the new journey begin!! ❤️

[@Domestikos88]

where did she go? back to city life?

[@amg9163]

_"Closing Time"_ (title of a song that uses that quote in the lyrics)

[@LaSorciereFeuillue]

Your cottage adventures kept me going as I wound up 27 years in Early Childhood in a too busy workplace with less than efficient or trustworthy management. I packed up my cottage a month ago to move 2,000 km to Cairns in Tropical North Queensland to finish my nursing degree. I remember taking down the pictures I bought from your etsy store! They are carefully stored and waiting patiently for me to find a new home. Leap of faith with love guiding actions and decisions; and lots of busses and inspections!! Experience your rite of passage, as I know you will 💞

[@emy3800]

How you finding it, abit hot? Iam looooving the summer in Victoria, moved from qld… it’s beautiful here

[@LaSorciereFeuillue]

@@emy3800 ooh yeah, I knew it would be but wowsers. Ceiling fan stopped working last week but the pool oh thank Heavens for the pool. Occasionally in full PPE for entire AIN shift is also character building but it is the wet tropics. How's Victoria treating you? Wait for work footy tipping to start!! That's an experience.

[@dlhccl]

Sending you and hubby-to-be lots of luck and joy in your new home! Hugs from N.J. 🤗

[@ElizaJames777]

What a bittersweet goodbye to such a warm and magical space. Something I’ve taken note of when moving with a lot of books is to distribute them in separate boxes with lightweight stuff like pillows, small decor, ect. I’m excited for your new adventure and can’t wait to watch it unfold ❤️ your videos bring so much peace and inspiration! Good luck and best wishes with the move!

[@dehelwig]

I found that after my parents died, I felt myself hoarding material items from my childhood home that helped fill the void of their absence. As time went on (and is still going on), I'm able to separate myself from these items easier. By making positive (sometimes risky or difficult/uncomfortable) life choices, and creating and nurturing new and valuable relationships with some extraordinary people, we are able to let go of the past and run happily to the future. Growing pains are necessary and rarely stumble-free. You show great humility and gentle strength in your growth. Sending warm blessings your way as you complete your transition!

[@101beechbum]

The part my husband hates the most about moving is all my books.. lol. Smaller boxes for the books will save everyones back. 💜😄💜

[@nicola6234]

Just fill boxes with half books and half clothes or linen, that helps 😊

[@FM-qm5xs]

I use reusable shopping bags for moving books. They fit in perfectly and aren't too heavy when filled.

[@kellyhummingbird]

I stopped collecting books after moving a few times but those are good tips

[@garymason7517]

There are things that we can never part with such as books read over and over. Keep what brings you joy. It’s all part of your personality sweet child. Best wishes for your future. Exciting and sad at the same time.

[@lucycolgan3362]

Beautiful caring kind words Gary Mason

[@BeaArk1977]

Like yourself I left my beloved cottage after living there 21 years. It was my one true north. Due to Lyme disease and aging it was time. As life progresses we must adjust our sails. You will carry the joy of living in your cottage for life. Like you change is so very difficult. We do not know what tomorrow may bring. We must celebrate our time as best we can. Sorry it is sooner than expected. It leaves less time to process change ,loss, and the excitement of new beginnings. However, it has to be done, savior the moment of change as you embark on a new life experience. Hugs

[@nicoleonfeels]

The cottage, and all the memories made in it, will always be with you in spirit 🧚💜

[@gisela1074]

I love your video's! I love the music you play. I wish you the best. 🤗

[@LaureninGermany]

Of course you have to move now. It’s snowing. You can’t do this when the weather is good, it’s not allowed by the gods of house-moving. For me, leaving my gardens and the birds and other animals that would visit it was always heart wrenching. When I have to do something that makes me fearful (if I‘m honest with myself, that’s what I‘m feeling!), I remember what a wise colleague once said to me, when I was worried about something: she said (in German) „Lauren! Habe Mut!“ - Lauren , you should have courage! And I always think, yes, she’s right… I‘m so grateful to her, even though she shocked me at the time. It helps me gather myself when I’m overwhelmed.

[@sylviacarlson3561]

I have to be honest, I"m a little sad at seeing you leave this darling cottage, but I know another journey awaits you. Please keep these videos coming once you're settled my Fairy Queen!

[@ylliesh0011]

I can't wait for a new journey you're about begin as a soon to be wife. Now, I'm imagining everything you might as well be doing in your new home. Please know that as a fan, I'll always cheer for you Paola. Sending love, from Philippines ❣️

[@moongold9025]

I am going to miss your Adorable Fairy Cottage 🧚‍♀️ and your beautiful ways of decorating it. Now the time has come for you to spread your Fairy wings and fly off to a new adventure. I wish you love and all the best that life has to offer and then some. I am looking forward to seeing your new home and the precious Mr. Darcy.

[@moonwater8089]

I moved out on my own recently. I'm not quite where I want to be in life, but it's going in the right direction and I'm grateful. Change is so hard for our minds to process and it can hit you way later than you expect it to, so please take care of yourself if it becomes overwhelming. We'll always be waiting. I wish you the very best. Your videos are like tiny breaks amidst the chaos. Thank you.

[@orchid3457]

Dear, dear fairy, let me wish you the best of luck for the dawning of the spring in your life! May it be an ever lasting , fascinating, beautiful spring! God Bless you and Luke! Love from Sri Lanka!

[@lisatiptoes]

Moving is never easy whether prepared or not. And it is always good to look at what we have and evaluate. Looking forward to seeing what the future holds for you.

[@malissahyatt2425]

My mom said that the thing about moving is you have touch everything in your house. Haha. I'm anticipating my own move soon. This is a good one. I'm going home

[@emmasallotmentdiaries]

Such wise words about change. You're completely right, beautiful things can come from change. Wishing you lots of happiness in your new home, and once again thank you for such a lovely video. I look forward to them so much! xx

[@kayaker9912]

I am a 60 yr old mom of one amazing daughter (21), and have found your videos to be a calming moment in my anxiety riddled life. I am sure part of that calm is the setting and the charming cottage. I, too have two tiny cottages on an island in Maine, though I live in a house with my husband only 8 miles away. My two cottages are charming and give me peace and comfort much like your's, like arms wrapping me up in security and love. You will do fine and soon you will make any house a new home with your beautiful creations, so best of luck to you in your future. One step at a time and enjoy the journey.

[@coachedby.karolina]

There's always sadness when we're leaving our old life behind, but at the same time moving is also quite exciting, a new chapter in our life opens up. I sometimes think about the old places I've lived in and it can feel like things would have been easier if I'd stayed. But then I remember how much I've learned and how I've rediscovered myself through the process of moving and I can't wait to move again into my permanent home. Wishing you happiness and a smooth transition x

[@mac-cat]

Your comment really resonates with me and the stage I’m currently in with my life. Change is needed for the soul yet the what if’s will be present regardless of our decisions. May your permanent home be filled with happiness and abundance! 😊

[@coachedby.karolina]

@@mac-cat that's very kind, thank you x

[@gwendelyne]

I am so excited for you Paula!! You're right, new adventures await you, and I can't wait to see them 🥰 The universe usually gives us exactly what we need, when we need it ✨

[@instagamrr]

You’re not alone either. I’m going through some change I’m not quite ready for too, and that was a wonderful way to describe it - we can handle it, it just came a little sooner than expected

[@N-A-uw5fp]

Whenever I move, I use wine boxes for books. They’re sturdy, have holes on the sides to make carrying them easier, and they don’t let you over pack too many in one box.

[@laurensheppard5932]

The Neverland Box is soooo adorable. I hope you always have a space to keep incalculably precious treasures like that

[@sdrogers286]

There are times when we have to get out of our comfort zone. Transitions are surely one of them. These are times of growth which, you already know is a good thing. It does surface many emotions. I have just recently made a transition from the city to a rural area after my husband went to heaven. As a matter fact that is when I discovered your channel-in the middle of the transition. I started organizing everything meticulously and ran out of time before the moving deadline, so some had to be boxed up to finish sorting in the new home. I pray for God's peace for you, and strength. A wedding is a wonderful thing to be preparing for. I relate to the chaotic overwhelming feelings. You will have the wonderful adventure of having a partner to share the load of joys, dreams and challenges. I am starting a new life in this new season of my life as a widow. Your videos have been helping me learning to appreciate the joys of being alone after all my adult life was with my husband. I look forward to your new adventures. I am also an introvert who loves books and I have more of a creative mind. I identify with you on many levels. God bless you!

[@hollyjohnson9688]

I am so sad for your loss of your husband. May you continually see Gods love and comfort as you move forward. My sister is widowed and my brother too. In the same year. I know so many widowed folks now. May you find joy eventually and comfort now.

[@sdrogers286]

@@hollyjohnson9688 Thank you for your very kind words. I am so sorry for your sister's loss. I know it's been a very difficult season for so many. It was such a lovely surprise to have such uplifting thoughts in my inbox today. Again I thank you.

[@cindygaudet1390]

I hope you do well. I am 65 and have moved 28 times as my dad and husband both were cdn military. I guess now even though we are retired we still have wanderlust. It doesn’t bother me to move, Isee it as a challenge to start making a new house a home. I am glad that I am somewhat introvert as find we have less friends as harder these days to meet people but I don’t want many, I have a few stitching friends.

I like to do small rituals when moving. To let go material stuff, but also habits, emotional states or anything that doesn't serve my highest good and wellbeing anymore. It is an opportunity to let go of the old in order to welcome new energy for growth. How exciting!

[@teresamazotti1315]

Moving is hard and stressful. Take a lot of deep breaths and meditate. You can do this. You are an awesome woman!! ❤️

[@majesea]

So cool that you have been True to yourself… your little box shows that … I would keep it as a reminder of who you are and that you have followed the path that is meant for you 💕

[@ambermashal]

This transition is so exciting! can’t wait to watch you turn the barn into your home and make it perfect for your new family✨

[@debravogt7139]

You are a beautiful soul! You bring light into my life, which can be quite dark! You bring peace to my soul! I used to live in a place called LA Playa! Leaving your home is frightening, but the two of you will build a new life together! You are blessed with a gift! You continue! We will support you! I hope for you to be happy, creative, and filled with joy!

[@ms.iloveteaching7304]

The love and care you invested in this sweet little cottage will surely be felt by the new home-owners...when they see that adorable bunny painted above the door frame - they will know and I'm certain their hearts will swell. How wonderful it is that you have documented the beauty of your life there so that you can look back as you move forward to the next amazing stage in your life. All the best...and remember wherever you go, you have an amazing gift to bring things to life through your creativity :)

[@msunshine4412]

Thank you for another beautiful, thoughtful and inspiring video. How wonderful that this move has truly been a time of cleansing and welcoming in your life! You have some beautiful books! As someone who has moved hundreds and hundreds of books, I wanted to give you some suggestions (which may come to late in this instance, but here goes). 1) Keep your boxes at less than 40 lbs. 2) pack similar -sized books together 3) pack books flat, alternating spines - esspecially when packing hardcovers 4) pack paperbacks on the bottom of the box and add the hardbacks on top - the paperbacks are better able to handle more on top of them than hardbacks spines can. 5) fill empty spaces with napkins or small towels or even clothes, to keep the books from shifting in transit. 6) fill boxes completely, so that a box placed on top of another doesn't "sink" onto the one below. and, finally, which should be #1- 7) use the sturdiest boxes you can find to protect your books during a move. Wishing you a wondeful new life in your new home and many blessings - Dios te bendiga abundantemente.

[@susanneluond8178]

I really appreciate Paula's honest and natural way. Even in a big change she shows her sensual, loving and natural way of dealing with it. Thank you for your authentic being.

[@alisoneden]

The connection you have with nature is a part of your soul. Who to know this better than our childhood self. Best to you in your journey. ✨💚💎✨

[@jordon3558]

I laughed at the big box of books! When my inlaws were newlyweds, my mother-in-law packed all of my father-in-law's books into a big refrigerator box when he was at work. She was so proud of herself until she realized it would be impossible to move. You aren't alone. :)

[@MyArnette]

your cottage is beautiful, your books are beautiful your plants are so beautiful gee😊😊 what a beautiful life.

[@tealandyellowsbyaashnamukh3069]

I am currently going through a huge change - moving to a new city, renting a house with my partner, getting a new job and so much more. As exciting as it sounds, to me it has felt so overwhelming, uncomfortable, and scary and I often suffer from the anxiety of the unknown. I am trying to take deep breaths and learning to do all I can to reach the place I have been dreaming about. Uncertainty can make you switch between stress and curiosity. I am trying to be kind to myself and learning to accept how I feel. Thank you for sharing this and reassuring me that I'm not alone and so many people in the world are going through similar phases in their life.

[@lanellehatcher561]

Books...... why do they bring us such comfort! In an age of everything electronic..... I still find the feel of a book in my hands brings me such comfort and peace. I think it will always be that way.

[@suzannebell51]

I have just been through a transition where I have downsized after children leaving home and have moved to a much smaller, simpler way of life which I love. You are right, it is very cathartic to go through your belongings and let go of a lot of things and learn to treasure what you keep (for me it was after living in the same house for 20 years and bringing up 3 children there!). I am embracing the change and even the range of emotions the transition brings. I wish you happiness in your new phase of life and know that you will create a tranquil, creative and inspirational space for you and Luke to love. Watching your beautiful videos brought me peace during my transition and inspired me to create a warm, peaceful space for myself.

[@JosephinesDesigns]

Praying all goes very very well. Please keep that lovely box filled with treasures from your childhood. One day your children and grandchildren will love discovering it. And they will count it as a treasure chest from you. Love and prayers....k💗

[@marianneking1030]

Our lives are an open book, the end of one chapter is like the period at the end of a sentence. Onto the next chapter and new and exciting adventures. Godspeed.

[@gails8950]

That’s a treasure box of your childhood you can share with one of your own. Precious.

[@libbyt2581]

Honestly felt like crying for you. You've shared so much with us! I remember having a really hard time a few months ago and I kept waking up super early, I had moved into a new place and wasn't taking the change well. I'd become deeply depressed. So I'd watch your videos for comfort and it was like escapism while also being incredibly real. I'm really excited for what's next for you.

[@brennapetersen8522]

Okay, but I cried so hard for NO reason. Your cottage is MY second home, and I am sad to see you leave it, but I know your new chapter is going to be fun.

[@nandinithakurs1107]

Wishing you good luck fairy Paula, may God help you in every way, cheers to happy time ahead, love from India 💖

[@cherylodonnell6050]

I will miss this special cottage but look forward to seeing your new place. Best wishes.

[@katheejasuhail8280]

It honestly feels like I'm moving out of the house with you. Like how you've had many different experiences at this place, I've been watching videos of you from this house during different phases of my life as well. I guess this place will definitely stay special and I hope this sudden change in your life will bring in many things that you truly cherish ❤ Sending you my love all the way from India Paola 😇❤

[@SorbetCitron17]

Packing clothes with books is a good move. Very nice idea, the coffee can turned into a plant pot. Take care.

[@nons1206]

awe we’re gonna miss the cottage too :(( i hope you’re new home will be as homey as this one for you :)) i hope you’ll also feel as safe at home in your new home!!

[@1Trollcat]

Can you do a video on your plant care routine?? Your house plants are crazy healthy and I love them!!! I can't get a wandering jew to look like that to save my life!

[@myvlogofshadows2921]

I'm a 29yo trans girl and for the first time in my life I'm finally restarting it giving a big step and moving to another country very different than the one I was born in, after years going through a lot of domestic toxicity and abuse from my parents towards me. So I've been gathering inspiration through your videos. When you said there's things you need to let go, I thought about all my lonely companions, books, makeup, collections, great part of them will all need to stay and go to new homes because I'll be able to pack only two luggages towards my new life. But there's nothing more exciting than being able to break free and finally see a light of a new journey. Thanks for creating so much inspiring content, I'm very exciting to see your next steps! May your new cycle be full of happiness and wonderfulness.

[@goldyblob]

Sending you love…

[@jessicaderosa9625]

Prepare for the shock ( i come from a narcissistic family ) and when you are far and free for a first time will shock you, because you will realise the ' bubble' where they lock you up for years

[@Lisa-yf4lo]

Good luck! ☺️ you are so brave, I hope your new life brings you peace and happiness x

[@reason5591]

@@goldyblob my first born grandchild has grown up and is transgender and I've given him nothing but support. All of my Irish Luck to you 😘

[@skylarnorton4487]

Unfortunately, due to today's circumstances in my country I have to think about moving to another one. And I've been dealing with a lot of pressure these days, so my thoughts are in a complete chaos right now. And then I asked the universe to show me which way I should go and the next thing that happens is I go to KZbin and see your video on top of the recommendation list. I guess it should encourage me to leave but no matter how many yeses I get to go and do that I still feel too much doubt. Maybe it's all because of the wait time that has to pass which is eating me alive. Anyway, I hope you like your new place better! Congrats!

[@seriouslywhatever1031]

Best of luck in your move. I'm moving house soon too and the best way to deal with anxiety is to be productive and to keep busy. I'm sure your pets will love having a bigger house to run around in. You have so many lovely books! I keep pausing the video to try and see what they're all called. Home is where your books are, imo x

[@katieannjones89]

Oh Paola, I'm going to miss your beautiful cottage so much. I know that the future holds so much happiness for you and Luke, but I can't help feeling sad at not being able to see the Cottage Fairy in her cottage any more😥 I hope you'll take us with you and let us share your new life. Sending much love ❤️

[@michelepastele5347]

Please be careful not to hurt yourself! You created such a beautiful environment there. I can't wait to see what you will do in your next spots! You've truly created an artist's retreat! x

[@carmenreyes387]

But why did she leave?

[@cherimoore2458]

I will miss your lovely little cottage. Looking forward to following your next steps.

[@talkdeepwithgina]

“Go through your things and see if they hold the same meaning” yesss! I love, just in case no one has told you recently.. I’m SO proud of you 🙏 For choosing the unknown and all of its possibility over all you’ve created over the many months there! You’re truly an inspiration :’) I am moving in a few months time and starting the process of releasing the things that no longer serve who I Am now. I don’t know about you? (or anyone else reading this) but I have always had such an emotional attachment to inanimate objects.. and I’m currently in the process of releasing that. It’s not easy but I so agree, keep the things that hold meaning for where and WHO you are now ☺️ Sending all my love to you sweet soul!! 🤍

[@rutheli]

Two things you said I found deeply relatable. 1. That in the past you’ve tended to avoid making decisions that made you feel uncomfortable or self conscious. How we all have that phase at one point or another. It’s true for me. 2. That you have lost chunks of memory, and have blank spaces instead and this they say can happen after a scary or traumatic event. This is also true for me. Thank you for sharing these moments with us. Change isn’t easy. But looking ahead - to what lies beyond the overwhelm and chaos - has helped me. And prayer. And deep breathing. And the reminder that this too will be a beautiful thing. Lovely things await you ♥️ praying for you

[@sueshynn586]

This is so very exciting Paola. This must mean that your new house was finished ahead of time. Just think of the excitement when you unpack each box and put your treasured things in their new home. Keep your Neverland box as some day you can show your children. Love from Sue in the UK

[@janelesniak1817]

Having been,a military wife moving is always hard. Home is where you are with family. You will create a beautiful nest in your next home

[@BeatrixBetwixt]

The little pieces of tangible memories are always so interesting to come across. Happy and safe move dear. May this new adventure bring forth wonderful things🤍

[@beverlybower4893]

May your heart and soul embrace the beautiful life you cherished in the cottage and may you find joy in your new journey. Peace to you, Paola❤

[@DrSarahWright]

Such perfect timing for this video. I loved what you said about going through what you own and considering what you value, what you should keep in your life and what to let go of. Like a spring cleaning. I have a lot of changes coming up as I am moving in two weeks and am having a job change. It can be daunting at times but I'm also really motivated by change. Thanks for the reminder and the video in the midst of everything you have going on. And good luck with settling into your new place, can't wait to see it all come together!

[@kyatkyat24]

Your videos are so healing and magical. it warms my heart. Thank you. Thank you so much!

[@barbararoyal6139]

Transitions and change…even if a positive thing…can be challenging emotionally and physically. Going with the flow one step and one day at a time helps me with that. So very happy for you and this new chapter of your journey ☕️tea breaks help too😊

[@chayanika1982]

Best wishes for the new life 🌸🌸🌸

[@jonikaye8572]

I’m 😢. Change is hard for me. You and your cottage have brought me so much joy and comfort. Sending lots of love to you🥰

[@katewolfe7812]

The Iger chaos moment was amazing, I hope the chaos on your journey was more entertaining like that moment than anxiety producing ❤️🙏❤️

[@MeiKasai]

When you look back at your entrance to your home, I can see all the emotions of moving so clearly written on your face and in your eyes. I feel that no matter how many times one moves, it always feels like the end of a chapter, which fortunately means the beginning of a whole new chapter of possibilities.

[@sherylgifford9387]

On days when you miss your cottage, you have all of these great videos to turn back the clock and reflect on the adventure. Happy days ahead!

[@aprilyeno1919]

Simultaneously sad and happy is often the best feeling. It allows us to sort through our experiences, and hold on to only what we must retain. ❤️🙏🏻 wishing you every happiness!

[@sandramarroquin3691]

Same here with a treasure little box, I got it to keep my lil nephews tiny flowers he used to give all the time and my nieces giving me special tiny rocks or sea shells and different things for Valentine's day and I kept all this beautiful moments and now my 4 nieces and nephew are married and with kids. I'm 51.years old and when they visit me they always wanna to see that treasure little box and all my photos albums that i have when they were little. I wouldn't question my self to keep that box, one day you'll see how it turns in a real treasure 🙌🏻💕💕✨

[@Me.602]

Change can be good. I pray your future is as peaceful as your time in the cottage.

[@rrichardson53]

After you get married and move, I hope you will continue creating these wonder videos even if not as frequently as before. I recently "discovered" your KZbin channel and have been watching your videos from a year ago. When you wear certain dresses, you remind me of someone who has stepped out of the "Little House on the Prairie" era. Love it. In a world that is so loud, chaotic and materialistic, it's so soothing to visit TheCottageFairy vlogs...they are beautiful and comforting to view.

[@AmaniHanna]

So heartwarming to see you love a place so much that makes it hard to leave. It really shows how much you've made your place a home. Right now I'm struggling with living in the future - so excited to find a home and move in with my soon-to-be husband, that I'm not living in the present anymore, longing to leave rather than soaking in these last few months in my current place. Your perspective reminds me that home is what you make it. Wishing you all the best in your next phase of life.

[@danieltporter959]

Nice save with the Book...lol

[@tropatasnimbushra9443]

I always love your videos

[@shannonkoeller8378]

Thinking of you and wishing you joy in this next adventure.

[@tgirl71]

Moving can surprisingly be very emotional, sometimes you don't realize how connected you are to the energies of your space. I love where you live as it's not far from where I grew up. Best wishes for ease of movement and grace for yourself in whatever you experience as you make these physical changes!

[@malissahyatt2425]

I have mourned at least 3 different spaces since 2015. So hard.

[@lifewithsharonb5138]

My gut was 'wrenching' watching this, because we moved out of my home state of NJ, and my home of 28 years 3-1/2 years ago. We're now in Florida. It's like being on Mars. I am still not adjusted, and want out of here. I miss so much about the North! Particularly the Seasons. I hope you find everything your heart desires in your new home. My thoughts are with you, and I'm sending you a warm hug.