I'm unable to provide for my wife and children anymore so my wife wants divorce, What to do?

[@tristanriel700]

I can hear the heaviness in his voice. May Allah make it easy for him to increase his finances.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

I am sorry but why Marry a single mom of 4!?

[@ShafiullahNoory]

​@@user-ue4fh5mv9sbecause its Halal.

[@miladokul1947]

Amin

[@za-jo5yg]

​@user-ue4fh5mv9s it is OK to marry a divorced woman with kids but only if you can fulfil her and the kids needs

[@muhammadfurqanalam]

​@@user-ue4fh5mv9s to support her financially and in many other ways

[@mahinhossen5758]

I can feel the sadness in his voice. May Allah help my brothers, hope he can be with his families again

[@Lala_monzz]

knowing muslim men, he probably went to pakistan, got married to a second wife and that’s why he can’t provide for the first and now he’s mad the first wife wants divorce 😅

[@Pesimesi]

⁠@@Lala_monzzlooking at your comments, why do you always assume bad of your brothers? You have no evidence, yet you backbite and slander him. You did it before with the guy asking for jail time, and you jumped in saying what if man had intercourse with an infant. What you do is not normal, fear Allah

[@za-jo5yg]

​@@Lala_monzzmaybe your father is like that not us. We know what it takes to marry another woman including permission of the first wife and financial stability to give justice to both

[@khalidnoor7735]

​@@za-jo5ygpermission is not needed of the first wife, state a source for that.

[@Tam974eva]

I am confused as to how his wife is in Australia and he is in Pakistan. Is it just visa temrnation issues? If so, I'm still suspicious bc if she's married to him and lives there, shouldn't she be able to have him with her thru marriage visa?

[@eerie-000]

If it continues like this men without jobs then i wonder what can possibly happen to the world.I completed my masters of engineering almost 12 years back and still struggling to get a stable job in canada no matter how hard i try , no matter how much additional training i get, no matter how much I pray. But still I believe in Allah and I hope HE will save me finally.Please pray for people like us so that we all have a stable job.Salam.

[@cheikhmate]

SubhanalLah just yesterday I watched a video about the current situation in Canada. A real catastrophy with those rent prices and immigration crisis and scapegoating. Keeping you in my duaas akhi don't give up ! May Allah grant every one of us ease after the hardships

[@AAslan-wd2ze]

Say lot of istighfar, salawat upon Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and say also la hawla wa la quwwat illa billah. Not just uttering. With complete Believe. May Allah azza wa jall grant you and all of us success in this world and in hereafter. Ameen Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa ashabihi ajmaeen

[@iamnot664]

I'm in the same boat as you, may Allah SW make it easy for us. I'm an engineer with a few years of experience too, can't find a job. Make dua for us, the struggle is real especially in this economy.

[@allyback204]

try relocating to a financially stable or developing muslim country like Malaysia, UAE, Qatar, Saudi Arabia etc. It is a win win situation, bcuz 1 - you will be able to get a good job there provided you have a western education and experience (and they like that). 2 - you will move to a muslim country so no more racism and you can freely practice Islam. 3 - life in those countries is relatively cheaper comparing to Canada. Consider my advice. May Allah grant you success in both this life and the hereafter. Assalam waleikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

[@zahrahh6511]

May Allah grant you and everyone in this situation an amazing job that is best for you in this life and the next. 🤲🏼

[@MarianA-by2oo]

Its soo heartbreaking really yaa Rabbi,may Allah unite you both and give you enough rizq to provide for your family your entire life,ameen

[@ShafiullahNoory]

Ameen

[@tinkeringtim7999]

I feel for the brother, I am surprised the sheikh did not soften his delivery.

[@izzuddinrani8784]

Allah knows best

[@PakuZero]

it's been 6 years that he hasn't been providing, idk why she waited so long, 2 would be too long

[@za-jo5yg]

​@@PakuZeroshe isn't wrong if you think about it. Women especially dovorced have expectations that the man will take of her and her kids and it's the man's responsibility to provide

[@PakuZero]

@@za-jo5yg yeah I'm saying she was wrong for waiting that long, and probably shouldnt have married him with uncertian visa status. After 6 years 100% there should be no discussion of her being wrong in seeking divorce

[@Name-y2x4c]

​@@PakuZerowhat will she get by divorcing him? Some money magically?

[@mallorystewart6125]

Poor guy 😢

[@piqueny8872]

Guy married for the visa what does he expect? Close friend of mine married a immigrant man who got deported for illegally hiding She went to visit him got pregnant came back to her parents home she works provides her son is 10 years old. Her parents raise him she pay for there lives Her husband does nothing She’s not divorcin because she doesn’t want to be another divorcee She’s stuck married to a dead beat husband and father

[@user-Muslim1967]

​@@piqueny8872 Feminist detected 😂😂

[@takahashi2852]

I honestly can't have sympathy for him due to the fact that he married a woman with 4 children that aren't his, having 2 additional children with her and a limited visa is just swimming in the sea while filled with deep wounds, not just salt in the wound I was immediately dumbstruck as soon as I've heard that he married a woman who has 4 children from a previous relationship when he isn't even financially stable (expiring visa negates financial stability in his case) So in conclusion just off of what he has said: No he's not a poor guy, he dug his own grave when he married her on a temporary visa when she has 4 children that aren't his

[@HowToTouch]

​@@piqueny8872awwww.... Anyways

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

​@@piqueny8872fr I always say to first world citizens never to marry third world men or women

[@Profshinobi]

May Allah help this brother, grant him wealth physical, spiritual, and mental wellness and grant him an even better wife which will stick by his side through good and times.

[@sonny7159]

Guys... She waited for years. Years. She was too patient... She needs a provider. It's quite simple. He could've changed career paths at this point... Nearly a decade... 2015 to 2024? Was that the time period? Subhan Allah. Allah ta'ala is Witness over everything.

[@Semilines]

Amin

[@VENoM-fb7rm]

Fakin feminist​@@sonny7159

[@kamraz5474]

Aameen thumma Aameen . Am mother of 5 almost in the same situation but I don't know why tears came into my eyes when I had felt the sadness in his voice . May Allah grant him stability in his financial issues and also grant him what's kheir for him. Aameen

[@MrSaimoooo]

@@sonny7159 She needed to go WITH him! The place of a wife is at the husband's side! His visa had been revoked! What was he supposed to do?

[@shake9245]

May Allah make it easy on him Ameen may Allah grant us all success in this world and hereafter Ameen

[@sarhan_104]

There's sky and earth difference between currency of Australia and Pakistan. How will this man will provide for Australian wife in Australia while working in Pakistan.

[@omarfarooqi5545]

Im earning in pounds but when i go brazil with my wife who lives there and i will earn in their currency will i be ok?

[@Paqcar]

⁠​⁠@@omarfarooqi5545it’ll be fine if she’ll also be in brazil

[@Handle0108]

@@omarfarooqi5545 if the value is similar enough when exchanged then it should be ok. It depends on the cost of life there.

[@omarfarooqi5545]

@ as salam alaykum and thank you very much dear brother

[@Karachi12234]

Why isn't his wife sponsoring her visa

[@spinmaster0]

It's one of the rights of a wife that she is provided for. If the husband cannot do so, she can leave. Feel bad for the poor guy but not much he can do.

[@alpha-boss]

Divorce is not the end world. He can get married again once he gets back on his feet

[@Horizonistic]

​@@alpha-bossA marriage is very sacred, it is not something you can just toss around. You can hear the sadness in this brother's voice. May Allah help him see success.

[@alpha-boss]

@Horizonistic I understand, but in a situation like his. What do you expect him to do? His only option is to let go and move on. And once he gets back on his feet, maybe he can marry her again, and if not, then get another wife. It's that simple..

[@spinmaster0]

@@alpha-boss No, but it's not a pleasant experience either. Especially for men in this position.

[@alpha-boss]

@spinmaster0 True, but it is what it is. 🤷 It can't be helped. May ALLAH help him...Ameen We all have circumstances in our lives..

[@drsmart0078]

May Allah eases his pain and brings him blessings regarding his finances and other issues . Ameen .

[@Truthway2]

I pray to Allah that He makes it easy for you and that you get a job with a halal earning, O Allah, you are Ar-Razzaq Amin.

[@hasanferoz2364]

Money is the glue to stick for relationships

[@MrGizmoalchemist]

We can’t judge any of you two. But it’s a very saddening and unfortunate situation. All I can say is that maybe during this time keep working on making yourself closer to Allah Subhanahu wa Taala through Fard, Sunnah and Nafl. And He is the best Disposer of affairs. Wish you both all the best. Make dua that He finds you both and kids the best solution and grant contentment and shukr through it. It’s an awful state to be in a limbo marriage. There are too many of us neither here nor there.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Play dumb games win dumb prizes! Enjoy raising 4 kids that's not yours

[@VENoM-fb7rm]

​@@user-ue4fh5mv9sexactly idk what was bro thinking while marrying a woman with 4 kids 💀

[@lilacblue783]

It's one pf those unfortunate situation where I understand both sides. I hope hes able to get back on his feet and recover his marriage. Ameen

[@The_Lightless]

I feel for brother here, it is not easy to get a stable job + income in this type of economy today. It much easier said than done.

[@zultrax7496]

Lol then why to get married in first place 😂 idk why broke man try so hard to get married when you will get hoor in Jannah just focus on salah because zakaat and haj out of equation live a broke life because after all this is not a final destination and marriage is not compulsory if you work hard and for a long duration you hardly have some urges . Only rich should marry in this economy

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Yea then as a BROKIE why did he get married. Now since u feel for him u should provide for him I think

[@zultrax7496]

@Elizabeth-jk4yj yes It should be illegal for a broke man to marry.

[@The_Lightless]

@@zultrax7496 what are you saying 😂 the prophet helped marry off poor brothers too. Money is not everything but I agree you need to be able to provide if you’re gonna marry.

[@The_Lightless]

@ I mean you’re right but doesn’t mean you can’t feel for your brothers and sisters in their difficult situations.

[@gdadimi149]

May allah help him ameen

[@AminaBilal-h6s]

May Almighty Allah make it easy for everyone. Ameen 🙏

[@iamnot664]

My advice to the brother, build your wealth, take care of your two kids and then marry someone who doesn't have children. You deserve better even if you weren't able to provide. The prophet SAW married off men who were flat broke, sure it is our responsibility to provide but a man isn't just a wallet. I ask Allah SW to provide for you and guide you. Ameen.

[@sarahm4516]

and a woman doesn't need to offer free services either

[@adjam4014]

@@sarahm4516there was clearly no true love here. If he is trying hard, surely she should back him. Why not go live in Pakistan? It looks like she is a selfish person. Allah knows best.

[@AAslan-wd2ze]

adjam4044 education is better in pakistan!? Don't blame the woman directly and don't think only of one side. Maybe she has a good reason too!? And Sheikh Assem didn't even blame her or say she was selfish. Calm man!? I hope he gets back to his family soon with a good salary!?

[@iamnot664]

@@sarahm4516 I don't think she was offering him any "services" while he was working abroad thousands of miles away just to provide for her and her kids.

[@Fifi6799]

Men aren't just wallets, sure, but he has to bring some benefit into the woman's life. Otherwise, what's the incentive to leave your parents house to go to some man if he can't provide the meat for your dinner? Lol

[@Mahi-yj7rn]

I am your brother from Bangladesh please ignore my sister from Yemen

[@iamnot664]

She is not a "sister" it's a dude scamming people lol

[@SheikhAmeen]

🤣

[@jinxsesame9660]

this gave me a good laugh, may Allah bless you

[@Mahi-yj7rn]

@@jinxsesame9660 may Allah bless you too

[@1eV]

She's a bit crazy huh?

[@nnnnn643]

may Allah make it easy on the brother ameen

[@creativity2598]

I think people should avoid asking sensitive matters to this shaikh. He is quick to conclude. He doesn't take into account what it actually means for the family, the consequences etc. People should ask Muhammad Salah instead. He is calm composed and considerate and gives a few options. How much money is decent money, what is acceptable income. What measures have you taken to make some earning etc etc. Then give a solution or advise. With shaikh Assim I would only ask things like wudu salah zakat related

[@salamat304]

Quite bold of you to say this about someone who has studied the religion but Islam has very clear regulations that will not change because of your feelings. If the wife has patiently waited for him for 6 years then it’s her right to ask for divorce. You feel bad for the guy but 6 years is a long time. You guys in the comments are acting as if Allah has forbidden a woman to take divorce. If he wanted he should’ve changed career paths or should’ve looked for something to workout. If he can’t provide for her then he has no right to feel bad since the wife has already waited for a very long time.

[@creativity2598]

@salamat304 what is the solution for the man now? Remain unmarried for the rest of his life, where and how should he releive from his biological needs. What if nobody is willing to marry a divorced woman with kids?

[@salamat304]

@ 1- Allah is the one who writes the future not you so stop deciding what her future will be. 2- This her right that Allah has given her so you’re no one to act as if she’s doing something wrong when Allah has not made it sinful. Stop this controlling mentality and justify a man’s physical needs for a women to suffer for 6 years. Again, the religion doesn’t runs on your morale and upbringing, it has clear rules. Her asking for divorce is her right if it contradicts your morals/upbringing then that is your problem so don’t sit here and speak on a question that asked about what the religion says and sheikh only replied with what the religion says that’s not his opinion but that’s basic Islamic rulings which it seems don’t align with your mentality.

[@creativity2598]

@salamat304 you are so silly I am not forcing anyone. Why do you assume. Stop accusing others. I am only talking about realistic consequences. Stop telling people to take hasty decsisions and do not think about future consequences. Life is not a movie stop making it sound like a fairytale. Tells a lot about your uobringing.

[@alpha-boss]

I feel bad for him, but it's not so bad if he gets divorced. He can get married again once he get back on his feet. Life goes on as they say

[@piqueny8872]

He’s lucky he hasn’t got any biological children with her So he can marry any women in his village and start fresh build his life in his country

[@alpha-boss]

@piqueny8872 I have to rewatch again. I don't remember if he has children or not. I remember his wife has children from another man...

[@SoleilMagica]

@@piqueny8872 he has two children with this woman and took on her children from her previous marriage as well

[@piqueny8872]

@@alpha-boss 4 step kids- he’s a step father keywords he mentioned

[@alpha-boss]

@piqueny8872 I have other things on my mind, so i forgot after watching the video . I'm not gonna spend my time thinking about other people's problems. I have my own problems...

[@TN-vt5im]

May Allah make earning easy for all of us and give us halal which would be more than sufficient for us to provide for our families.

[@incrediblehulk8031]

Although this is sad to hear. But be careful who you marry.

[@Tam974eva]

I am confused as to how his wife is in Australia and he is in Pakistan. Is it just visa termination issues? If so, I'm still suspicious bc if she's married to him and lives there, shouldn't she be able to have him with her thru marriage visa? (Unless there were another wife in question.) Regardless, this is a sad position to be in. Inshallah, Allah guides him. Men have to shoulder a lot of responsibility and should prioritize accordingly.

[@comedyalbums7202]

Man should focus on kids and allah and not wife mist problem solved because u can het another wife don't invest in her at all

[@Ash-zp9sy]

@@comedyalbums7202wtf? I feel sorry for any woman married to you! Disgusting thought process! 🤢🤢🤬🤬

[@Ash-zp9sy]

@@comedyalbums7202you can also get more children through your new wife too so forget your children too. Scumbag 🤡🤡🤢🤢

[@Sashaal_Mariana]

@@comedyalbums7202 i hope you get mature mentally before having a wife.

[@beaboutpeaceandpleasure9230]

Allah's blessings may be in granting the divorce

[@AngGabriel]

Bro got married, had 2 kids, took on her kids, with no permanent work visa? Im happy the shaykh didn't even budge on him. Disaster. Allah make his affairs easy, ameen. The sister isn't isn't much better in my books either. Now she has 6 kids and wants to divorce?

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

But can you blame her? She wanted a provider slave and in return guy thought he could get a permanent Visa but in the end nobody got nothing but 2 more kids

[@AngGabriel]

@user-ue4fh5mv9s it's honestly a horrific case. From him and for her. Disaster, and poor planning. May Allah help us all and rectify our affairs. Ameen.

[@AdamSabir1]

Seems like he just wanted the idea of a wife and not the reality of having a wife. Who seeks a wife when they have no stable income? It’s selfish and delusional.

[@Ash-zp9sy]

@@AdamSabir1agreed I know how that feels believe me 😞

[@abdulkasu8504]

I feel for my guy, most guys are struggling to make ends meet, it's how the world is, should it be OK for the woman to leave the man? If so expect ALOOOOOTTTTTT more divorces ( the thing shaitan loves the most)

[@Wasabi-g3t]

Divorce is halal why are you saying shaitan loves it the most? If it's done for valid reason, it's halal. Don't make up your own rulings.

[@MrSaimoooo]

@@Wasabi-g3t Hadith on Satan: Devil most pleased when families are broken By Abu Amina Elias / April 15, 2013 / Bad Deeds السيئات, Devil-Companion القرين, Discord التحريش, Divorce الطلاق, Family Ties صلة الرحم, Fitnah الفتنة, Hatred البغضة, Iblees إبليس, Jinn الجن, Manners الادب, Marriage النكاح, Satan الشيطان, Unseen الغيب, Water الماء Jabir reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan places his throne over the water and he sends out his troops. The closest to him in rank are the greatest at causing tribulations. One of them says: I have done this and this. Satan says: You have done nothing. Another one says: I did not leave this man alone until I separated him from his wife. Satan embraces him and he says: You have done well.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2813 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ إِبْلِيسَ يَضَعُ عَرْشَهُ عَلَى الْمَاءِ ثُمَّ يَبْعَثُ سَرَايَاهُ فَأَدْنَاهُمْ مِنْهُ مَنْزِلَةً أَعْظَمُهُمْ فِتْنَةً يَجِيءُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُولُ فَعَلْتُ كَذَا وَكَذَا فَيَقُولُ مَا صَنَعْتَ شَيْئًا قَالَ ثُمَّ يَجِيءُ أَحَدُهُمْ فَيَقُولُ مَا تَرَكْتُهُ حَتَّى فَرَّقْتُ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَ امْرَأَتِهِ قَالَ فَيُدْنِيهِ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولُ نِعْمَ أَنْتَ 2813 صحيح مسلم كتاب صفة القيامة والجنة والنار باب تحريش الشيطان وبعثه سراياه لفتنة الناس وأن مع كل إنسان قرينا It's not his own ruling...

[@MohamedMagdy-ql3pl]

Always painful to see Muslim families being ripped apart, and I know it's the right thing to do in this case, but it still hurts. وأعوذ بك من غلبة الدين وقهر الرجال.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Really? Don't you think he made dumb choices

[@Mikyla123]

But then where is the love between husband and wife ? That means no money no love...this kind of things are now destroying society and marriage where Money is everything not love and patience and Fear of Allah...

[@comedyalbums7202]

There is a very strong hadith which i earlier thought just a common hadith then i see what women are doing they are just after money bro, the hadith said that the majority of hell residents were women and also not because of idol worshipping but being always ungrateful toward their husbands

[@zultrax7496]

@@Mikyla123 Allah make man providers bro but unfortunately some of us broke still foolishly want to get married nah man don't ruin women and your life . Just get married to hoor like abu qudama if allah send u in Jannah

[@4U_X]

​@@comedyalbums7202 womp womp if you can't be a provider stop getting married and destroying women's life.

[@comedyalbums7202]

@@4U_X just like if a women if she can't give sex to her husband or love him even if he provide for her than she is for the streets and also if u women can't provide sex don't get married amd destroy a mans life 😹😹😹

[@mallorystewart6125]

Are you a Muslim? I am a Muslim .As per shari'a marriage is a deal. It's all about rights and duties. Personal feelings has no place in the Law. Love is not relevant. As a long as a man can provide he has a lot of privileges over his wife; for example if he can provide he can take other wives and her feelings don't matter at all, if she gets trauma and gets ill because of this, this doesn't matter at all. BUt if a man can't provide, he loses all his rights and privileges. As per shari'a, he doesn't worth anymore as a husband. There are other things: if a spouse gets chronically ill or disabled (man or woman doesn't matter) can be abandoned. If he or she is infertile, he or she can be abandoned. Their sorrow don't matter in front of the Law. Omar RA had more than one wife and yet he divorced a woman because she couldn't have children anymore. If a man is infertile, he can be divorced, same. And as long as a man can provide, there is no real equity between husband and wife, he has more rights over her. But if he can't, he becomes kind of a nothing as a husband. Do you love each other? Great, you're lucky. Does you and your spouse validate and take care of each other's feelings and emotions? You're very lucky and blessed. But this has no relevance as per the Law. Even sex is a question of numbers. As a woman you must have intercourse everytime he asks for it, except if you are menstruated or ill. If you are a man you are recommended to have intercourse with her every 4 days but it's not mandatory. In front of the Law is a duty. If there''s love and real connection in it, your business. As a Muslim I've learnt that the only way I can achieve full dignity as a human being, no matter the gender, the best is to be able to provide for yourself and avoid marriage. But if you are a woman this is even more true. If you're not married, your dignity and value is not linked to having money, or being infertile or ill or disabled. You can build your dignity and value on what you really achieve in religion and you give to society.

[@mariamu1239]

Women are known to stay in worse situation than this, so there's more to this that he is not letting the sheykh know. Allah knows best, some men will tell aöl sorts of lies to get married and expect you to just go with the flow when you realise he lied (talking from experience). 😢

[@Lightexo]

Real life 😔

[@HabibiDubaiAbdulKitty]

Money is important

[@-God-Is1]

I see people here saying how hard it is for a man to find a job and provide. Let’s be clear here- he needs MONEY, not a career. If it means waiting tables or cleaning bathrooms or bagging groceries for money, so be it. Otherwise, I’m sorry to say the sheikh is spot on.

[@SuperSweetToffee]

Sorry to say this but this very common nowadays. 20, 30, 40 etc years ago it was ok for a man just to provide for his family whilst the wife stays home looks after the children, household, etc. Nowadays, because rent, bills and food is skyrocketing, wife has to step in as man isn't able to provide for everything. We can tell by his emotions, he's trying his best and its not really his fault. BUT now she wants a divorce. Doesn't the woman understand that if she divorces him, it's going to be much more difficult as a single parent?

[@Muslim_Brother_A]

We need to become fincanciallu independent and strong and able to not depend just on a job where everything can change in litteraly 1 day.

[@OwaissAbdullahh]

They want us to help them with chores, but they run away when we need help.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

I dont feel bad for him cuz why in the world would he get with a single mother of 4 kids! He was screwed from the start

[@longingsummers78]

Mayhe communicate... Noy all wife are evil... He must have done something

[@0Reelok0]

Why marry and have kids if you cant afford it. and did he marry her for a visa?

[@HassanEO]

She already had 4 kids from another marriage and 2 kids from him. Is she going to marry the next man and expect him to provide for 6 kids that isn't his? She should move to Pakistan and accept her husbands situation, no one will be better off with a divorce.

[@0Reelok0]

@HassanEO she should move if she wants to move. In my opinion I don't think she should have married a guy who couldn't provide in the first place

[@baligoddin9315]

Brother leave her asap because she needs get married again quickly

[@majestic6303]

What is the term annulment?

[@HassanEO]

Khula

[@mdkhan3928]

He could try to renegotiate a misyaar type nikaah contract.🤷🏿‍♂️

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

You think she would though? She is a single mom of 4! Must have married only for a loyal provider slave and he thought of scoring the permanent visa but both failed

[@Rayan45535]

The big question is why he can't provide for her??? If it's not his fault than she is not the right woman for him and he can get a better wife inschaallah!

[@pinkcloudd]

What do you mean? It's his responsibility to provide for his wife and kids, so putting the blame on her is atrocious.

[@SoleilMagica]

His visa expired therefor, he had to move back to Pakistan. The problem is that in Pakistan, he doesn't earn enough to provide for his wife.

[@The_Lightless]

⁠@@SoleilMagicaProbably the conversion rate of his money earned from work in Pakistan currency to wherever his wife lives is very bad.

[@essakhan4360]

@@pinkclouddlol she wanted a provider and not a loving husband , in Australia every expense is taken by government of children and for the mother her allowance, so if she still wants more she’s basically looking for a sugar daddy

[@Fatima_fiz]

​@@essakhan4360every wife wants her husband to provide for her... And if he can't then why marry a wife from a rich country

[@mdkhan3928]

...may Allah make it easy for them to find an amicable way & save their marriage & may Allah save all of the marriages😎 that are in trouble😩. Aameen.🤲🤲🤲

[@abu-ff8ws]

In arabic there is a wise saying: they say women are of 3 types . 1 is against you , 1 would die for you and 1 would neither die for you nor is against you. The first one is a woman with children, the 2nd is a woman who never married before and the last is a divorcee woman without children

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Fr never marry single mom's or third world women regardless of thier pioussness cuz both will use you

[@user-ff4zd7lh3q]

So the woman who would “die for you” can become 3rd type? Divorced woman were once women who weren’t married 😂

[@abdullahmansoor5161]

Dumb saying

[@grimreaper999]

This saying goes against Islam and sunnah.

[@NKJ4K]

Make dua for the brother, may Allah reward you

[@soldierboy2352]

He takes care of her step children and yet she wants divorce? This world is mad 😢

[@Ash-zp9sy]

Without any money? 🤣🤣 Ok 👍

[@soldierboy2352]

@Ash-zp9sy i hope you go through much worse condition and may allah help this brother ameen

[@grimreaper999]

​@@soldierboy2352you do know when you curse another muslim for invalid reasons that curse goes back to you? May Allah give you hidayah.

[@Ash-zp9sy]

@@grimreaper999 I didn’t even say anything to him?

[@grimreaper999]

@@Ash-zp9sy Not you. The one cursing you.

[@DKingFisher]

Someone should find this brother and get some money so he can kickstart some business. Help him please

[@dkhailiaichrak7031]

This is the reason why relationship based on serving are seriously messed up, I am a Muslim and honestly I don't believe that women should slave for man and man aren't a money machine for woman, the all mighty basd marriage on compassion and cordiality (الود والرحمة) yet some people are so set on making life so hard for everyone just to momentarily satisfy their male ego, people need to reconnect with the real teachings of Quran.

[@wonderwalls3565]

Male ego? Its the females ego here. do you think some one will marry here with 6 children? BTW Islam does nto work lie "I dont think this and I dont think that". I am oretty sure she has lost the thrill other wise she could have easily applied for spuse visa and he could come back to AUstralia and could take care of the family.

[@ssjlkrillin]

The man and the woman are to complement one another. Too many people are entering into marriage from the perspective of what they can gain or benefit for themselves and not how they can build happiness for each other. This is one major reason why so many marriages are failing.

[@user-us7el6ss2l]

@@ssjlkrillin Companionship, like a best friend.. but closer...

[@dkhailiaichrak7031]

@ssjlkrillin you're right

[@BMLKABD19]

Funny thing is that with the current liberal world, the Muslim husband’s rights are nonexistent. Yet the responsibilities are always there.

[@aamerelhouli7125]

So how does this go for brothers in less fortunate countries were there jobs have been stripped from them does that mean they all are going to get divorced what if a person gets sick is that another reason for a divorce what if the wine is a big spender what if there is family issues the brother has taken on 4 step kids clearly his been used for his money very sad

[@wrinklytomato9897]

My mom waited since 2001, became the main financial source of my family and dislike me and my sister when we suggested that she'd divorce my dad lol. If i send this clip to her I'm gonna be labeled as a bad child

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Waited for what?

[@comedyalbums7202]

Cash

[@potatomars2443]

Your mother must have genuine sincerity to her marriage. She loves her family and does not want it to fall apart for cash. She is supporting her spouse and that is a good thing to do, based solely off what you said here.

[@TeeLion]

I think the so called wife is also to blame I presume hand on quote because I again assume she knew of his visa issues which is a risk then proceeds to have kids with him. He is also to blame as well, I'd be surprised if she finds someone willing to take 6 kids not of there own hopefully the system can help her out where ever they are.

[@abdullahmansoor5161]

It's a God given right that sisters are to be provided financially by their husbands, the most basic right. No blame on the wife.

[@AnannaAkter-fp6nr]

This is why you need a educated wife so she can help you financially in bad situation.

[@KS-cl8br]

Yeah sure education is important but seriously why would she want a husband who is a continent away she can't ride him he isn't providing money so what benefit seriously is he providing her at least now she can remary and have somebody in her bad and provide for her

[@KS-cl8br]

*bed

[@razamughal9095]

Breaking news: education is NOT connected with employment. The two things do not go hand in hand. When one seeks education they should do it for their own SELF WORTH. Even if they dont work afterwards they will be worth something to themselves and to others because you can tell when someone is educated just by the way they talk. Education is a MUST. The people that work longer hours and have a dogs life are the uneducated ones.

[@beasthunter4003]

Life is hard for men maaaan 😩

[@EE-kt8sh]

He's facing the reality of life. Women want what you can provide them not you.

[@casemiro3663]

FACTS. It's called CONDITIONAL LOVE towards men. That's why I'm rich and single 😎

[@Hiyamsabr]

My husband works very very hard, I hardly ever see him, and I am pregnant. He earns very little but Al hamdulillah I can cook. I stay home, care for him when he is here, cook and clean and learn my Deen so I can teach him. I am extremely grateful for my husband, and I will never leave his side. Allah will provide, and my husband is doing the best he can. Yes, some women (many of them in Europe where I come from) are not willing to wait and have patience and live on very little. Having no new clothes, no wedding ceremony, no vacations etc. But some women are marrying for the sake of Allah, only want a safe place to live and pray, have someone to care for. Hes not facing « the reality of life », he is facing someone who maybe is out of patience and trust.

[@The_Lightless]

Doesn’t matter, it’s well within their right in Islam.

[@SAAD92ification]

Red pill movement

[@casemiro3663]

@@SAAD92ification facts bro. I rather donate my money to the mosque than fake women

[@wonderwalls3565]

why he did not get spouse visa?

[@hailstorm4447]

So why is the wife not moving with her husband to Pakistan? I don't get it. I don't care if you are "Australian" or whatever, go where your husband goes. Simple. Moving to Pakistan is a million times better for the children as well. Let them be around Muslims, hear the Adhan, pray and play in the Masjids. Why is she staying back?

[@wonderwalls3565]

Thats not the quesiton. The main question is why she is not applying for spouse visa?

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Why would anyone in their right mind leave Australia for Pakistan

[@wonderwalls3565]

@@user-ue4fh5mv9s wife is suppose to live iwth her husband no matter where he goes. this channel is for Muslims not sure what you are doing ehre.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

​@wonderwalls3565 how did you assume I ain't a muslim? Wallahi this guy was dumb to marry a single mom of 4 and then have 2 more kids all on a temporary visa! He was delusional from the start

[@wonderwalls3565]

@@user-ue4fh5mv9s I assumed based on your comment. You dont know If a wife refuses to go with her husband no matter where he is going as long as its not a threat to her life and her children life she is beign sinful. I did not know that Islam says to have kids in Australia you need to have a visa of Australia. I thought you just need to have a Nikkah to have kids. Now I do agree that he was delusional thinking his wife loves him and married a woman who already had 4 kids and who knows how did she got them. I would like to know why she has not applied for spouse visa? Somethign tells me she reverted to marry him, her children are from non Muslim men and now she got experience of a brown guy and she does not want it anymore.

[@haya4228]

What is a man good for if not money?

[@waleedhussain7162]

Brother- We don't know the full story though but your wife should have moved with you to Pakistan. If she don't then she is not worth it. Wo kehtay haina k agr wo jaana chahay to usay roko nai, qk wo jaa chuki hoti hai (If she wants to leave, don't stop her and let go, because she's already gone). Sad that you have your own 2 kids with her, but brother that's life, that's because it was a wrong decision to marry her in the first place. She could've been in Pakistan and still asked for you to divorce. Biwi ka pata ghurbat aur bimari main chalta hai (Wife's true loyalty is revealed in poverty or in ailment). Loyal wives with 9 kids wouldn't leave you if you don't have a penny, but there are some who'd leave even if you have a mansion. So don't worry. Offer her final time to come to Pak IF you can't goto Australia but if she doesn't then Khalaas. And Pakistan is not a war torn country, there are so talented people and students that then can migrate to Aus/Canada and rest of world and create great lives for themselves while maintaining their deen and social values. We often forget the 1000 blessings we have in Pakistan as compared to Australia or non muslim countries due to all the negative things we keep hearing 24/7

[@wonderwalls3565]

SHe lost the thrill in the marriage. the women here is Australia think she can get any male she wants. She could have easily applied for spouse visa nd he could be back in Australia.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Why would anyone leave the beautiful country of Australia for Pakistan

[@ImranKhan-gc1tl]

Does this channel just repost from the assim al hakeem channel?

[@NK-jo6dd]

The Sheikh should be more understanding to this brother who clearly sounds distressed. Divorce is the last resort. If the woman knows the husband is unable to provide through no fault of his own, then she should be patient and maybe provide a helping hand by seeking work aswell. Didn't Khadija ra overlook the fact that the Prophet pbuh was poor and shared her wealth with him? Its a different case if the brother was lazy and just didnt work.for no reason, but if he is trying hard, then why break up the family

[@ibiro868]

Biggest mistake was becoming a step dad

[@muhammadfurqanalam]

To all the sisters there , men can be financially stable and unstable sometime, don't leave them in there bad situation if you didn't in there good time.

[@s.c.7381]

Thats romantic blabla. The wife has 6 kids and is the one suffering. Everyone can cry. Please THINK before you marry and leave a broken family behind!

[@muhammadfurqanalam]

@s.c.7381 if men runs away from there responsibility than women have the right to leave him but if men is trying his hard and still due to some financial condition or any disaster or for any problem he is not able to provide much to his family than she must stand stood with him in his bad time instead of stabbing him .....

[@s.c.7381]

It seems that their situation is not that of a couple of weeks. It has nothing to do with a little sabr and sacrificing a luxurious life. There are SIX starving children, health costs, housing, school snd whatever. If you wait years for your husband who is not there for providing with money nor emotional than this is no marriage. Obviously you brothers live in a somehow very theoretically mindset far away from the reality of life. We see this everywhere. Mosques are full of pious brothers, but not able of providing for YEARS. Then came refugees finding jobs, helping their families here and abroad. How they find jobs but our brothers not? They need some REAL brotherky advice. Not that general "women are greedy, fitna...". They should learn not to whine where the wive is the one struggling to provide, care with hungry and sick children abd have no time and stage for tears.

[@muhammadfurqanalam]

@@s.c.7381 if someone says all women are greedy then he is not a man......, What do you mean by "pious men are not able to provide their family? But refugees are able to get a job " are you living an imaginary life? Do you know getting a job is not a joke now a time and the condition of Pakistan is the worst... Don't follow the path of feminist, they will destroy your iman.

[@muhammadfurqanalam]

@@s.c.7381 if he completely abandoned his wife then she has the right to him but if in this bad situation he is able to provide this much that she is able to survive then she shouldn't leave him.

[@Bhghih]

Bro I can't stay silent. He got married in 3015...

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Are u from the future. Whom did he get married to in 3015? And how is he alive for that long. That's like 1000 years. Are u sure about this?

[@asadullahusmani2437]

This world sucks

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Not really, but if you marry a single mother of 4 for a green card and she leaves your ass for not providing, then yes

[@ibrahimavich1443]

He should tell his wife to move to his home country. He will be more able to provide then. If she refuses to leave Australia then its her own fault as husband should decide where his family lives.

[@DontOpenThisChannel]

The solution is simple which is that tell your wife to move to Pakistan and then you can provide basic nessesites for them and if she is resisting without islamic justifiable reason then she is Zalim. Another thing it is not your fault if you are putting effort for earning money without compromising the Deen because fit this into your mind that Allah increases the riqz for whom he wills and decrease for whom he wills so you should only do what you are suppose to (judging by what Allah has revealed) while accepting the worse case scenario of this worldly life and that's the only way to find satisfaction and easiness in your life.

[@mdkhan3928]

🤷🏿‍♂️

[@athitayastirling8259]

Was this guy looking for a wife or an Australian visa?

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Let's be real hear lol...she wanted a provider slave and he wanted that sweet sweet Visa

[@omarfarooqi5545]

I am from uk and earn in £ but i will move to brazil to marry someone with 1 child. I have a few thousand saved. I will earn in that brazil currency. Will i be ok? Should i do it?

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

No way, man! She will use you for getting a visa or considering the fact that she is a single mother! Never marry third-world women they will use you and leave

[@comedyalbums7202]

Just marry a vergin why waste life for a women

[@Hisso-b7m]

Is he trying to study while having kids and no money?

[@JosephTrump]

Sheikh is 100% feminist . He told us in another video to accept women if she had physical relation before marriage. Also here he is taking side with women .then what is there for men in marriage

[@kingofsevenseas3305]

No, he is fair to both men & woman depend of what is the question. Just because someone said something about woman right, does not mean that people is feminist

[@Wasabi-g3t]

Seen a lot of his stuff, he's always fair. Don't slander with him with feminist accusation. He always gives scholarly consensus.

[@JosephTrump]

So it means that if wife has some fault, we can divorce her as well

[@Ash-zp9sy]

Depends on the fault? If she is ageing and you want a younger woman then that is immoral.

[@Ash-zp9sy]

Providing for your family is Allah’s law let that sink in

[@JosephTrump]

@@Ash-zp9sy but not illegal..... above case is also immoral

[@JosephTrump]

@@Ash-zp9sy but no where Allah says that wife should leave husband if he doesnt earn

[@Ash-zp9sy]

@@JosephTrump if the man won’t or can’t provide the wife has a right to leave him but if she supports him in hard times obviously Allah swt will reward her for this

[@essakhan4360]

In Australia, a mother with children is well-supported by the government. School fees, living allowances, and even university costs for children are covered. The mother often receives housing and financial aid. If she still demands more, it suggests she entered the marriage expecting financial benefits rather than love. True love isn’t based on wealth-if a woman loves her husband, she’d support him even in hardship, knowing Rizq is from Allah. A man tries his best, but Rizq is ultimately beyond his control. If she was looking for a provider and not a partner, it’s clear she wanted a sugar daddy. May Allah protect us from such relationships. Divorce in this case seems justified.

[@comedyalbums7202]

Remember the biggest reason Muslim women are in hell is always being greedy and want more from her husbands and they never get satisfied what he have my my now i have seen a lot of this type of cases

[@HassanEO]

Only reasonable take in his terrible situation.

[@KS-cl8br]

both spouses have rights and when he doesn't fulfill it she has rights to divorce.. learn something ... is your head filled with air ... husband is supposed to provide also what good is a husband who has been away for years who is she supposed to ride when he is on another continent

[@Unusualkangaroo]

We dont know much, shouls avoid blind blaming and guessing about peoples intentions in sha Allah

[@CrazyGamer-nt7nf]

Sheikh u made his look guilty this is really bad! Why u do that to a poor innocent guy who did his best to provide for family but has not yet been successful in getting any work? He tried but so far no luck... hopefully soon...he can find job but he is not guilty u did something very wrong here!

[@potatomars2443]

Sheikh you should not blame this man. We do not know his situation, and only Allah is the provider of risk.

[@mccookboidat]

So basically a wife is like your employee

[@Sharukh-ze4dh]

?

[@DidiJunaidi-z4p]

Yes even close to slave (not western standard). But this is best to keep family healthy

[@TheMostSusGuy]

Basically a soulmate

[@mccookboidat]

@@DidiJunaidi-z4p definitely NOT a slave if she can leave if she's not getting paid

[@amatulfulani6390]

@@DidiJunaidi-z4p Screw that. That delusion ya’ll have going on.

[@JosephTrump]

Don't agree with Sheikh's answer

[@Chad123-g3d]

If she married u for your money ,this will happen

[@Shaniyasidd]

Maybe she wants divorce so that as a single mother she can get more government benefits. She would need the benefits because he isn't providing for his family.

[@razamughal9095]

If he signes any form of divorce paper just to trick the authorities that IS a talaq

[@jimbo1480]

Men need to be financially and mentally stable before seeking a wife.

[@zainjalad6773]

he was, but life happened.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

​@zainjalad6773 guy in his right mind would marry a single mother much less of 4 kids! He wanted the visa but failed in getting so

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

​@@zainjalad6773he wast. he was not sure his visa would hold up. that negates his financial stability. plus why did he marry and take 4 children lol.

[@SAAD92ification]

​@@zainjalad6773wife happened 😂

[@HassanEO]

Rizq is from Allah. You could get sick and need hundreds of thousands for treatment at any point. Pray that those words you uttered don't come back to haunt you and that you'll face that kind of hardship.

[@SohaibTariq-j4t]

Is this a business or marriage

[@wZaidhan]

she has the right to take a divorce because he's not fulfilling her rights in the marriage. this is not business this is what a marriage is.

[@sage6321]

It’s marriage. She should stay w him till she and her children starve to death. Very logical. Thats why you’re creating a religion as opposed to typing about others. Lmao PHAHGGOT

[@ArmadusMalaysia]

Marriage is business. If you treat it like some fnal fantasy game, you're going to be played.

[@1saadx]

@@wZaidhan Not sure if ur a bro or a sis but know that marriage is give and take. Reverse the case over here "My husband wants to divorce me because I can't provide kids, what should I do?".

[@eshaanuddinkhan6634]

@@Thatssswhatithought he probably meant to say cannot care/handle/teach them good manners the kids

[@LA-ws7gx]

IF WIFE IS PARALYZED FOREVER SAY WHEN MAN IS 30 YEARS AND WOMAN IS 25 YEARS, THE MAN WONT WAUT ANOTHER DAY TO MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN. IM SURE 80 % OF HUSBANDS WONT EVEN GIVE WIFE A GLASS OF WATER IF WIFE HAS A SIMPLE FEVER IS RESTING IN BED😂😂😂

[@Wifixsmasher448]

So all men are just money banks? Don't generalize all the men. Did you go to every husband and see if they provided a glass of water for their wife or not? Don't spit garbage out of your mouth

[@LA-ws7gx]

​@@Wifixsmasher448of course in islam man is the bank , 😂😂😂 ,, it is the sole responsibility of the man to financially provide for wife and kids. Just like wife is the baby making apparatus

[@Doktor00Magnus]

Wife took a vow to respect and care for her husband and reneges on it, the man looks after HER four children - children from some other man that this man is paying for, but when he runs into some problemsm she treats him like he is nothing. Money minded and low value low character woman who sees men has piggy banks, good riddance - you dont need her or her four children bankrupting you my man, run for the hills and dont look back. She was lucky that a man took her on and her four children, she wont find anyone else now. Is probably mooching off on state benefits now.

[@Ash-zp9sy]

God forbid any woman has anything to do with you. You sound like a weasel and too clever for your own good 🙄🙄🤡

[@loladivinitysugarladyacademy]

The poor woman and the six children. I’m sure she doesn’t want to divorce her husband, but she has no choice. It wouldn’t even make sense for her to go out and get a job and help him because of the cost of childcare. She must divorced and go home to her parents where the children will be provided for . And she needs to divorce so she can marry another man who will be a stronger provider.

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Cost of childcare? Why have children if ur not sure about finances lol

[@الحمدلله101]

She ain't getting a third husband while being twice divorced with 6 kids, let's be realistic

[@comedyalbums7202]

​@@الحمدلله101bruh no sane man will even marry a women with more than two kids as there surely be something so called cash

[@potatomars2443]

She should support her spouse during hard times. It is very unrealistic she'd get another guy to support her when she has a history of leaving people when they are facing difficult times.

[@maximusdecimus1906]

I don’t agree at all everyone has ups and downs, in the west all women’s are working put the kids in day care work both of you full time. Lazy wife not a good mother and wife shame on her

[@tinkuroopa2754]

He is losing even dowry and this is how wives behave

[@HassanEO]

A loving and understanding wife would follow with him to Pakistan, instead of sitting in another country and demanding khula for a situation out of his hands.

[@KS-cl8br]

Seriously would you want to live in Pakistan

[@razamughal9095]

​@@KS-cl8brdamn right we would. That country gives a BETTER lifestyle than the west provided you have enough money

[@KS-cl8br]

@@razamughal9095 okay please never leave there

[@wonderwalls3565]

He needs to provide the minimum ie 2 room house and enough food that they dont starve to that. That is what the prophet PBUH use to provide. Any woman who demands more than that and use that to ask for divorce is sinful.

[@user-ff4zd7lh3q]

What about utilities like gas and electric? Or water? Medical costs? Should the children never go to dentist or doctors or opticians? Is it sinful to want gas and electricity?

[@wonderwalls3565]

@@user-ff4zd7lh3q Medical is free in Australia. people who need dentist are the ones who spend loads of money buying sugary treats. poor people never need a dentist. Its not sinful to want gas or electricity. government pays loads of child support to people who dont have a job here in Australia. even people who have job and earn less than a particular amount get child support. Allah' messenger's wives would not eat for days, forget the gas and electricity. Now go ask Allah's messenger If he was being sinful for not feeding his wives.

[@wonderwalls3565]

@@user-ff4zd7lh3q Also ask Allah's messenger If he was not fulfilling his dutie4s and his wives rights by not providing them 3 times daily food, clothings, dentists, medical care and Iphones.

[@takahashi2852]

did he just say 4 step children? Who does he think he is? Elon Musk?

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Exactly... like bro was desparte for that visa or green card

[@potatomars2443]

His wife could've also been a widow of someone else, please don't judge people.

[@AbdeGOAT33]

become a shia and allah might help you

[@zultrax7496]

Marriage should be a luxury available only to the wealthy. When a poor guy marries, he hurts his wife and kids in addition to himself. Broke men should work long hours and maintain celibacy in order to curb their cravings.

[@essakhan4360]

Lol she just wanted a provider and not a husband, a loving wife will sleep with you in a hut and hungry out of love. But if she’s looking for someone who solely for the purpose of feeding her, this happens

[@amatulfulani6390]

And no woman should tolerate that.., no one wants their daughter living with a dude in crappy living conditions out of “love” nor should she. Stop being delusional and always expecting women to settle for nonsense.

[@Elizabeth-jk4yj]

Love? A man should be rich. How can a human love another human lol. Are u reading too many books. Ofc not u don't read.

[@khalidnoor7735]

​@@amatulfulani6390 no one said a woman "should" do that, he is just stating a fact. Women when they are really into a guy do some odd things. He's not saying her rights should be trampled on or she doesn't deserve to be provided for. Most men will never have a woman that really loves them like that, it is what it is.

[@potatomars2443]

@@amatulfulani6390 I just think that you should not leave your spouse during hard times.

[@amatulfulani6390]

@@MA-jn8rk​​⁠ We’re talking about basic necessities here. He didn’t even mention anything lavish. You’re just making excuses. Being provided for is her right. When the tables are turned, y’all have NO issues going on about your rights, but constantly make excuses when you’re unable to provide hers. No one said any thing about being rich, yet he said that he cannot provide. Stop trying to fault the woman. He said he can’t provide. That’s that. She doesn’t have to stay if she doesn’t want to as this has been an issue for YEARS.

[@cinto1394]

At times like this, I hope Sheikh can also gives advice to the couple beyond legal rulings. Yes, by Shariah, he has shortcoming for being unable to provide. But if there's no other reason than financial, I hope they can stay together through thick & thin, and look for solutions. I dont see how divorce will solve the problem as there's no guarantee that she can marry financially capable man right away. And even if she did manage, the new husband can also face the same challenge in the future. Marriage is beyond rights & obligations, sometimes it takes compromises & compassions especially during tough times. Perhaps, the wife can help to look for alternative income as well. May Allah ease their affairs.

[@wonderwalls3565]

The first mistake he did is married a woman woh was born and raised in Australia. Maririage is like drinking coffee for these women here is Australia. And flirting and having multiple males friends is like drinking water. I am talking about women who wear hijab here is Australia. Second mistake he did was married a woman who already had 4 kids.

[@The_Lightless]

Yeah it’s not easy to provide for that many children, you must know exactly what you are getting yourself into. Also if the Australian thing you said is true, that is very sad.

[@wonderwalls3565]

@@The_Lightless Actually Its not that difficult. he needs to provide the minimum ie 2 room house and mimumum enough food that they dont starve to that. That is what the prophet PBUH use to provide. Any woman who demands more than that I use that to ask for divorce is sinful.

[@user-ue4fh5mv9s]

Bro, quit living in your fantasy because your muslim majority country also have rotten women who are no better infact they are hypocrites for living double lives

[@The_Lightless]

@@wonderwalls3565 I mean many people are unfortunately not like you, especially women of the modern times compared to women during the time of the prophet (SAW) so I suspect they want a bit more but who am I to pry in other people’s matters. Marrying someone who already has 4 children and then you also have children on your own. Like man you are providing for 6 children. That is really not that easy, especially with modern day economy and cost of living. Being stuck in Pakistan is another shot to the foot because conversion of Pakistan currency to Australian money is probably terrible.

[@wonderwalls3565]

@@The_Lightless Thats not the point. the point is. this Sheikh put the blame on the man and told him that he needs to provide for her, although Its true but he failed to mention what is the defiition of "provide". If he can provide the minimum he does not need to divroce her and she needs to ask for Khula and that is going to be sinful act.

[@اليا-ك9خ]

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This make me question a wifes love as my friend who is a very wealthy muslim mam said if i want happiness stay with man if u want heart attack stay with ur wife, i said why iam not even married bro he in reply said one day u may get married be careful and care for ur parents and never waste ur love for ur wife because she can leave u so u can get another wife why worrying but don't invest in love than divorce wont heart