I need to Leave | S08E30

[@christophermelo7889]

I'm fond of the advice, "before you diagnose yourself with depression, be sure you aren't just surrounded by assholes." In vacationland, with many trying to live for 52 weeks in one, you may well be.

[@kirkrobbins9090]

Jordan, I'm a little crude myself, so the post above speaks to me! It's not paranoia, if the B...rds really are out to get you (even if it's through stupidity or lack of skills). You're doing it right, and the beauty is you can change your neighborhood easier than most! Keep your family safe, and yourself sane. Find that sweet spot, safe anchorage and a little peace!

[@everydayeverything]

That should be on a tshirt

[@jimfisk4474]

Jordan and Desiree, you both are very competent and can ride this out. Everybody has problems like this once or maybe a lot more in their lives. There should be some kind of mechanism, order, rules that can be enforced to let only so many boats in an area and that would absolutely solve the problem. Of course humans being what they are can't get together on this, story of the human race. Everybody should be as happy as ESA, thanks much and look forward to your next❤❤❤

[@williammacpherson2906]

If I can help you at all, I suffer from anxiety and depression way the world is now it’s very wishy-washy I have a brand new boat for you to maintain a wife and a daughter. Just those three Would you send a normal man crazy you’re doing a great job learn how to breathe learn how to except the good things that you’ve done each breath each day, measure your accomplishments and sit back in the confidence of your own self reliance. I hope this helps. take care my friend.

[@spartagirlful]

Jordan, remember, you were a newbie one time and I’m sure you made some people nervous. We all have a learning curve. If someone maneuvering makes you nervous as long as it doesn’t affect you, offer assistance, teach someone as you’ve been taught. Make a friend, chances are you’ll run into them again down the road. It seems that you look for things to be upset about. You don’t have to be perfect. We are all flawed, just roll with it. Try to embrace your surroundings,boats, people or new environments. Remember your in their country.

[@Tigerlilart]

That little girl is just the cutest little bundle of pure happiness!! That face is adorable!!

[@rgronback]

So glad there wasn’t an ad for Better Help in this episode! 😂 Well done, as always!

[@thomascreek6387]

I gotta admit I thought this was definitely going to have a better help ad. Kudos to him for being real, and not shoving online therapy ads at us during his anxiety.

[@tofuComputer]

Indeed. I actually tried BetterHelp but quit right away when I learned they are being sued for sharing patient information. That and the care wasn't very good as well.

[@kimberlyonseastar]

@@tofuComputer I’m a Licensed Counselor and Better Help is horrible for therapists. They grossly underpay. I’m very glad Jordan got support and has been so open but there are much better services out there such as Headway and Alma

[@patricewilson4549]

I was thinking the exact same thing 😅

[@svdoinitright7519]

Don't sweat your issue Jordan, a lot of us don't like crowds and in some cases, people in general. I don't think the is anything wrong with you, you're just part of a group with your kind of perspectives. I also think that is partly a prerequisite for being a cruiser, you don't want to spend time in large groups, you want to spend it by yourself or in small groups.

[@susanmonette7092]

Well said! Jordan, there is nothing wrong with you. There are a lot of us out there just like you.

[@journeyon6598]

Agree. Be compassionate with yourself. You have new responsibilities and are exposed to a lot of new experiences. You are very skilled and not everyone has the same skill level which would create worry in many people.

[@mitchcopeland8693]

So glad your not afraid to talk about your true feelings ,

[@jag1970s]

Oh, and I would also add that having a baby changes your priorities and what you are looking for. Those people on a week’s holiday are looking for a very different experience to you and the stakes are very very different. Your boat is your family home and the trip is your lifestyle. For them, it’s a holiday and…. I notice you don’t drink alcohol. Speaking as a European I can tell you a lot of drinking is going on around you. If you put an English bloke on a boat and stick him in Greece for a week he is going to be drinking. I like your channel x

[@buccaneerbeth3452]

Lovely Vlog …It’s quite simple ….What you are experiencing is Fatherhood …!!…You naturally have such a protective, caring & compassionate character…so wonderful that you can talk to your beautiful “Bud” about how your feeling …don’t ever stop doing that ….You have one happy gorgeous baby …love to see her growing & fitting into boat life …a natural ….As for Italians !! There boatmanship is exactly like their driving !!!! Avoid at all costs 😂😂😘😘😘

[@13Xerro]

This was a particularly good episode in no small part because it was so good to see how you two support each other when one of you is stressed or unhappy about something.

[@hairyferrit]

Being aware of risks has a few times saved my life and often prevented serious harm. It is difficult though to find a fine balance and I am not sure I ever have. But being still alive at 62 with years of motorcycle riding behind me I know that worry can sometimes be your friend.

[@adrieaaneveraers1300]

Feel you man. I suffered from anxiety alot of my life. What works for me is putting things into perspective. Understanding that I'm powerless over everyone and everything around me. Knowing that I can't sweat the small stuff and unless it's life or death, it's all small stuff. I think your insight is healthy. By no means am I telling you what to do, these seam to work for me. ❤ your channel. Peace out.

[@glennburch1081]

Jordan, a lot of men will not share their personal insecurities with others..... it is big of you that you do so with us. It makes me feel closer to your family in a humbling way. It makes me want to keep coming back to your channel. I love your narration of these episodes, they are so, so, good. I have learned a ton from Project Atticus and I appreciate you, Desiree and your precious daughter who is one of the happiest babies I have ever seen. You guys are such great parents. Keep up the great work guys, can't wait to tune in next week. Be well, be safe.

[@philgawthrop2518]

I'm with you bud, can't take being around knuckle-heads or in crowds. My entire life I have chosen remote places and small gatherings. I'm 71 and it hasn't changed. Fair winds and smooth sailing.

[@kennethpelletier1667]

I think your anxiety comes from being a father and wanting to protect your family. It's normal

[@seanlathbury5410]

Could not agree more! It’s part of being the protector of your wife and child.

[@MrHogadog]

Exactly- new dad and definitely those stressors are real. Having people nearly hit your boat/home everyday would stress anyone. Not just you. Try mindfulness in the meantime and scoot somewhere less crowded.

[@josephclayton1835]

@@MrHogadogHa now I know what my t shirt with mindfull state means!

[@MrHogadog]

Ha, yes true- btw mindfulness won't stop a charter boat running into you.

[@peterlang5985]

yes! the male actually changes (new neural pathways and stuff) as fatherhood sinks in. So, more careful, aware, anticipating threat etc. Translates hugely to sketchy anchorages that create loss of control/security. Nothing is wrong with you Jordan. Try to be OK with the tension. See it for what it is, accept it and know you'll deal with it well.

[@sailingseagrass]

Hi Jordan, I’m a psychotherapist and a green sailor. While watching this episode, before you even made the decision to move away from the crowds, I was telling my husband, he needs to avoid those crowed areas and pivot toward what matters and then you came to that insight. I would never suggest that someone should expose themselves to suffering unless they’re trying to overcome a particular fear, like a phobia regarding crowds or learning to be more assertive. Also, Europeans aren’t as sensitive as us Americans. They appreciate the directness. Americans, we kinda avoid it😊You and Desiree figured out how to med moor and in a pinch, you could do it again but 1) it looked stressful 2) no one wants to be on the road with crazy drivers let alone crazy boaters. We admire both you and Desiree’s tenacity and ability to work through a problem. And Desiree has really good hair. Hang in there!

[@19tibbetts]

Jordan you are not crazy. My wife and I crew 2x times year on a47ft catamaran in Greece during shoulder season .We have an experienced Greek captain and the place is insane. I told my wife I would never charter a boat there. The feelings you have are normal for anyone who tries to balance risk/reward. You hit the nail on the head ,too many boats and few safe places to keep them. Love your channel .

[@robertocadillaco317]

Don’t be so hard on yourself I like your cautious ways don’t change how you do what you do.

[@Truthnessification]

Hey mate, there's nothing wrong with you, different isn't wrong. You've got this, together, what a team you two make. 🤗

[@repurposedart9897]

You guys have a lot going on... little baby with some scares of health issues plus sailing....its good to talk it out in hopes to let go and know its all going to work out with maybe a few bumbs along the way.

[@DevDeeb]

Man Jordan you just keep inspiring me! The care you put into the family, and boat are astronomical. Striving to be a bit like you everyday. Don’t beat yourself up too much, as a man you’ll always run that scenarios through ya brain. Desiree the way you supported him in this video is lovely. Fav family on KZbin ❤

[@fredbrooks8347]

Sail on, you and your family will be fine. You are a father, a husband, and a sailor. The fact that you talk about feelings shows many positive attributes about who you are and what you believe. As always have fun be safe and see you next week.

[@Cyberdemon1985]

**** If you can see this reply in time **** There is an anchorage called "Amos" on the North Westernmost point of Greece on an islet called Othonoi off the coast of Corfu (Latitude: 39° 50' 29" N, Longitude: 19° 24' 08" E). This anchorage is very secluded where very few sailors know about it. You will love it there to relax and unwind. There are two general stores and a couple of cafe's. The anchorage provides free water. Ask for Yiannis Katechis who manages the anchorage. Good Luck and enjoy your stay in Greece!

[@aricabergeron7446]

You are both amazing the love and understanding you have for eachothers feelings is like no other ❤I’ve been binging your videos ! Living vicariously in my little bubble .

[@conbertbenneck49]

Jordan, Med mooring goes with the territory. When we sailed in the Med, everyone would moor stern to the quay. That allowed all the locals on their evening stroll to peer into your cabin. I preferred to go in bow first, dropping my anchor off the stern, which gave us privacy and kept the quay dirt and dust out of the cabin. Many Italian harbors are semi-circular so as the Med mooring people anchor, rodes lay over one-another. I wondered how we could leave in the morning with an anchor-rode salad on the bottom of the harbor. In the morning scuba divers are on harbor duty. When you indicate to them you'd like to leave, they'll go down along your rode; get the anchor; untangle your anchor and anchor rode from all the others and hand it back to you. Their charge for their service was very reasonable. In the Med, at Italian ports, boats are very tightly packed. When you arrive there someone will wave at you, and indicate you should moor there. All boats will move a few centimeters and Voila, you have a spot for the night. Italian sailboats also have a gate in the stern rail and many have elegant and elaborate teak boarding ladders - with hand rail - so that you can leave your boat in proper Italian evening "go to dinner" stylish dresses or slacks and silk shirts. The best restaurants, gelato, and clothing stores are all in the quay area. Italian ports also have public baths available. Ask! Enjoy your trip.

[@vial1sim]

I feel your pain. We have only spent 2 seasons in the med and have med moored maybe 5 times total. I pick our anchorage to swing moore and accept a longer dingy ride i also like the privacy. Don't forget nearly all those boats are charters with no experience other than video instruction before their holiday. Wait til October, it's a different world.

[@blackthornhealing]

Beautiful people thank you for your video.

[@daveamies5031]

Jordan, I know many would call you a worry wart, but your cautiousness may just save a life one day, learn to be OK with who you are and just avoid situations that make you worry, aim to avoid being in the wrong place at the wrong time and you'll be a lot happier (I see in this video you're already starting to do that 👍)

[@Betruetotgeyself]

That just reinforced his anxiety. Not helpful.

[@daveamies5031]

@@Betruetotgeyself You say that as though anxiety is bad, it's just an emotion, you learn to control your emotions and use them to strengthen yourself they can can be very positive. Every emotion can be either a weakness or a strength, depends how you control it or let it control you.

[@donnakawana]

I have noticed since you've become a Father the weight of everything now weighs double... You can't constantly second guess everything... An my dear heart as I suffer with anxiety... Please don't let it stop you from living life... ! I say this because it what I did... An I am relearning how to live an move thru this beautiful world .. when I feel it coming on what I do is focus on something an I put myself in that moment not in my worries an fears... But in the moment!! I love how you 2 support each other.. So inspiring. Live is a beautiful thing . Your both just the bestest parents wee Isla could ever have!! ✌🏼💗😊⛵

[@suzannechance5876]

Your situational awareness is excellent and you know what you are doing. Anxiety usually serves as an early warning and that is a good thing! What is not good is that you think there is something wrong with YOU. Watched you many seasons now and know you have struggled with self doubt, etc but please, please, please....knock off the negative self talk. Not a damn thing wrong with you! Relish the awareness, don't beat it down or feel guilty to recognize that most people automatically lose 40 points off their IQs when they get on the water! You have a beautiful family and you are a Good Man!

[@sittinandthinkin]

Everyone who gets a boat and plans on seeing the world imagines secluded Islands with peaceful anchorages and solitude. Port life is most of the reality.

[@kimberlyonseastar]

So much love and respect for you Jordan! For what it’s worth I’m a Licensed Counselor and I don’t think there is anything “wrong” with you. Your reactions are normal for someone who is as experienced a sailor as you are being surrounded by newbies and just too many people. You’re smart to honor your needs and it’s awesome that Desiree feels the same. I’m a sailor too and we are doing this lifestyle to get away from the crowds.

[@skiyogagirl]

21:30, so beautiful & peaceful…loved the singing & watching Isa’s sweet face!

[@llgee1380]

I must say that your little precious girl is the world . There is nothing better than that sweet potato!!! She kills us with her smiles ❤

[@charlescartwright6367]

Aloha, I want to thank you for sharing the little one growing up. My granddaughter is about your age or a little older. My heart melts every time I see her. Jordan I have the same feelings as you, I'm in my 80's and have survived, back off and enjoy what you have, just be prepared for the other people and be ready not worried!!! easy to say yea!

[@palmedor9916]

Jordan you the man. Most of us wouldn't dar to have the life style you have, I thing you are doing amazing. much love 🙏🏿👌🏿

[@adkinsfamily3611]

I just want to say that you trusting your gut makes you not only an excellent father but husband as well. Also, the craziness of what was going on in that anchorage would give me anxiety too! Have grace for yourself. This too is part of the adventure. And your videos of a window into this lifestyle are super meaningful. You don't labor in vain!

[@hd-xc2lz]

Wow. That is a conversation rarely encountered on other sailing vlogs. So refreshing. Bravo to you both. Haven't watched your channel for some time, but now I'm back, subscribed.

[@TheAtma50]

I'm with you Jordan, people stress me out, because you never know who'll do what or when, so I tend to treat them all the same ... with suspicion!! Stay Safe & Fair Winds!! ☘

[@SCN_Adventure]

Don't be so hard on yourself. You are doing great. I know the feeling about many boats and many beginners and the chaos there can be. I have teached in sailing sailboats since spring 2006. There are many crazy beginners after the years with corona who think that they can sail but they can't. I love your family.

[@rizalinobautista6258]

Hang in there Jordan! You are taking care of your family excellently! Love you guys! 🥰

[@Jrbana1989]

I really admire you guys honesty in your opinions...and how you'll try to be polite in tight situations. Coming from the Caribbean Trinidad and Tobago

[@tonofquestions]

Jordan - Thanks for being so open and real. I can identify with the way you think. I'm a twelve-year U.S. Navy veteran and spent my time on three different nuclear powered submarines. Quite a different dynamic from your life on Atticus II, which is why I love your show so much! What you are describing is what we in the nuclear world call "conservative decision making" and it's a good thing that will drive risk down and will keep you and your beautiful family safe. Keep on keeping on and get the heck out of dodge 😊

[@heronemosheppard8877]

Excellent self awareness & analysis. Very gracefully and vulnerably shared. I love your choices and your inner& outer work to be a great person. Yer a stand up guy, Dad and partner. Great job. Great video. 🙏🌅🌿

[@chrissterba501]

Love this episode (all of them of course)! And Isa's smile and giggles are soo contagious! I miss that, wish my kiddos would stop growing:-) Thanks for opening up and your views on the anxiety. So I'm 46 years young, and just had this occur for me this year. In not wanting to acknowledge it or discuss, it actually got out of hand for me one day and I ended up taking the express ride to ER. Let myself get so stressed that my BP was 208/177. Anyways, I've been doing well since, but yes now something that I work through. I loved your comment, "instead of changing what I dislike, maybe I should pursue what I love with even more fervor"! I could not think of a better saying, thanks again! Take best of care of each other and your lil' rock start:-)

[@andybrown6288]

As a father of 3 I empathise with you. I think it is stressful when around people who are self absorbed and unaware of the consequences their actions have on others. There is a lot of beauty in the world where the herd do not congregate, and you are less at risk from others. I have a lot of respect for you both as parents and sailors. Go well

[@billyblue922]

At first glance I read your comment as "as a father of 31.." I totally understood the anxiety lol

[@carpediem6431]

I read the same thing. 😂

[@AndrewHill-p8m]

Jordan you are so not alone in this overwhelming desire to protect your home/boat and most importantly your family. I have sailed and power boated all over Florida, the keys, Bahamas, Windward and Leeward islands. And although I love being in those beautiful places, the anxiety never fully left. I couldn’t accept boat crews that I knew were inexperienced and dangerous, sketchy anchorages, weather windows that others on our boat didn’t appreciate. I guess I always felt like I was the one who was always expected to have the right answers, and I just was never sure in the moment. And I ultimately I made the choices that kept everyone safe and reasonably happy. But at the decision point I always felt l I should have better skills, be more knowledgeable and better prepared. It’s exhausting You are an inspiration and I am squaring up a lot of my demons hearing your honest emotions. Thank you for putting yourself out there Andy

[@perry-ad]

I'm a grandfather these days and my love of and fascination with cute babies has grown so much in the last couple years. I'm so grateful to get to see your wonderful little girl! Jordan, I really hope you got away from all of the anxiety. Your patience and perseverance are really noble.

[@wow.sailor.]

Jordan, you are doing great, remember one thing and that is life is short and you are on your way to take out the very best life has to offer. Take a short break but never give up. I SALUUT you for living your dreams

[@maryjnorwood3962]

My anxiety would be unbearable. You maintain a sense of decorum and politeness. Very admirable. 😎❤️ (Beautiful water and, oh my gosh, that bread!)

[@jaeljade3609]

I don't blame you for being nervous. You have a family to protect and your investment. What a jerk, the guy that refused to motor away just a bit. I wouldn't want to anchor there ever again.

[@stevecarroll8513]

It’s alway good to listen to yourself, to be able to analyse and talk through.. be happy you can do this as many can’t

[@buckroberts4876]

I'm glad you are being kind to yourself Jordan. Appreciate the honesty and for bringing us into your family adventures. Seriously, I call your caution "wisdom"! Be blessed and enjoy the journey.

[@Hotzenplotz1]

Thank you for being so honest discussing this in front of the camera.

[@ThoughtfulWander]

You are an example of a conscientious boater.. there are soooooo many who are not... just like drivers on the roads... you got this Jordan! Keep your family safe and keep rolling! Love Issa's smile it lights up the video! 👍👍

[@philthomas6123]

SPA..... I really enjoyed this story. I thought the communication and support Desiree gave you was pretty phenomenal. But at the very beginning of this episode was something that caught my eye. It was your daughter's beautiful smile. Then throughout the episode it just kept coming... There was Desiree commenting about anxiety and she is just smiling..... It was a special reminder for me on the simplicity of happiness and the beauty of a smile. She has had a tougher start to life than many and for certain, each of you are in my prayers. It just gives me a reminder of the goodness of God when you see that kind of peace and happiness!!!

[@aprile271]

great video beautiful islands just a great way to enjoy nature sea and colors and meals i was drooling over your fish meal, enjoy stay safe and dont worry so much dear one youre great !!!

[@jessieeggers4589]

You are both doing incredibly well ❤❤❤

[@susiebafford7921]

Jordan, I guess there’s some craziness everywhere. You’re just being an awesome protective man who wants to enjoy life with his family. You’re doing great! I feel blessed to see all the places you all go to. ❤️❤️❤️

[@LorienDrechsler]

I can only say...your not alone in those feelings. Even on land, when I leave the crowded metropolitan areas and start entering the rural country, I feel a sense of relief. It's like I was meant to be away from the crowded masses. I think you're the same way.

[@Myhappyplace65]

Dear Jordan & Desiree. You guys are living a dream and so are we through your experiences. You are real and its a joy to have seeing your growth over the last 2 years . Jordan you are an amazing narrator. Man the way you tell the story is so pleasing I can even listen to your stories without watching and I can visualize what is happening while you fix stuff. 😀. Awesome job man! Desiree what can I say lady. You are just awesome and you complete Bud and he completes you. Baby and Oso fill us up with smiles every time. Baby will have a story to show and tell about like no other one day/. Anxiety is real and at 58 I am feeling it so I know what you feel and I know you will manage it well. Love you guys😍

[@AndrewGPeterson]

Jordan, I watch you and your family. you inspire a lot more than just me. just be you.

[@reatreatseclusion9891]

Your absolutely fine Jordan, bless you, some of us don't like lots of noise and people around them, and yes it those situations it can make you anxious, your a sensitive soul which is beautiful. Xxxx

[@garyvanzyl7498]

Put out as many Fenders as possible and don't be so hard on yourself!!! Isabella is turning into the sweetest happiest little soul. Love your blog! Happy sailing. ⛵🏝️⚓🇿🇦🤗🤗💖💖😎

[@P4ddyC4ke]

You shared a very real and beautiful moment between husband and wife. This is why I love this channel so very much. Thank you for sharing your life and adventure.

[@cliffcoombe9644]

I see a caring father and husband and a fierce protector of his family. I see a man I would choose to sail through a storm with. I see a brave courageous man following his truth. I see a man questioning himself and in so doing growing into a better version of himself. I see a man gifted and chosen by a beautiful supportive partner. I see a man who is hard on himself for being the man he is. I see a solid good man! Keep on keeping on, you are on track and you got this🤗.

[@carlrosenbaum3754]

Great video

[@BackyardBeeKeepingNuevo]

Most people become more cautious and anxious as they get older and when they have the additional responsibility of a young child. I was 28 when my daughter was born and I went through the same thing you are going through. Now at 56 my goal is to have as little stress and worry as possible even if that means traveling to places “off peak” and taking roads less traveled. I enjoy peace and quiet. That is why we moved out of the city. Find your own pace and your own place.

[@pandapack6960]

A true skipper will always be aware of the risks at all times, it is normal especially when everything you hold dear and own is within your boat. You will become more comfortable with the anxiety over time but it will always be there as is part of the life you choose Jordan. All I would say is that some of the people you will meet on charter yachts desperately wish they were you and get to feel that life for two weeks a year. Please be patient with them.😊

[@TheMarlai]

Perfect answer !

[@dmoss1285]

Look guys, there is nothing wrong with either one of you. I am stressed watching these situations. Its my stress. Not me being stressed because you are stressed. This place is not cutout for you guys and thats OK. Get the heck out of there. Look most of us on this channel dont give 2 craps about where you go. We just want to be with you. We are a part of your family. I watch because I want to see you. Doesn't matter where. I dont care if its Greece or 10 buck 2. Seriously. Your production is awesome and beautiful no matter where you take us. Your show is fun to watch, well because yall are good people. Get out. Go somewhere else. Dont care where. Its not worth it! Love yall.

[@DVolvoguy777-x7o]

Isabella is looking awesome! She shares the same name as my granddaughter. That is cool stuff! Jordan, I feel your pain. Going into fatherhood can be stressful for sure. I know the feels even after 5 kids. Lots of people here got your back for sure after reading the comments here. Atticus is your home and the worry you have about it is real. It need to be in top condition for your family. Worry for Isabella is legit too. My family will keep yours in our prayers to help you get resolve for how you’re feeling. Lauren is an awesome cheerleader for you. She got your back and loves you very much. Keep your chin up sir! You got this!

[@mhorses72]

Going to pretty much anywhere in the Med in August is like going to IKEA on a Sunday afternoon. With the added perk that all prices are jacked up. It's quite normal to be stressed out :)

[@sarahthompson8097]

This made me tear up multiple times, I felt empowered by you sharing your realization of "who u are and what you love " thank you:) such a great video!

[@rdembow]

Jordan, you have a wonderful wife ,child, a great boat and dog ! You have everything going for you and your family !!! I have a great boat out of the water, a wife with dementia, lost our dog and cat this year. So it’s a matter of perspective and absolute gratitude for what we all have !!! Perhaps the you tube pressure to produce needs a vacation and a good reset for what matters the most.

[@lotusdolphin]

Anxiety comes at weird times in our lives. The only thing I can tell you is to really listen to your inner voice, which is exactly what you did. Sending love from California🤟🏻💜😎🐬🇺🇸

[@meagantaylor8320]

Thank you Jordan for always being so honest and vulnerable. We love how real you are. Don't be so hard on yourself. Your boat is your home, its all you have. While others have a boat as a weekend activity and if it gets a little dint its no big deal. And others are in a hire boat and there care factor is low. You take pride in your home and you like to do things the right way.

[@MikeJones-wl6gb]

Thanks for another beautiful episode. Being a father and mother brings on a whole new set of anxious moments....it gets easier.

[@macambrag]

Guys you are enjoying a great time along with lsa, who is getting prettier every day, and despite of the rookie sailors around you. GODSPEED friends!

[@JABBO56]

You have worked so hard on that boat, paying attention to every detail. I can understand your anxiety when people come close to your home/ transportation. God bless you all.

[@stevenmichael4209]

Jordan you are doing awesome, keep doing you!!!

[@mrsfarrarmakeupfarrar2224]

Daughter so beautiful! She has that smile that lights up the sky ❤

[@ariedegroot9490]

I have been following you for years! I am 87, I sailed in the Caribbean, St Barths, St Maarten, Curacao and Bonaire and Us Virgin Islands and I crossed the Atlantic 3 times on a Battle ship.!! You still amaze me!!

[@loripeaceandlove6391]

Omygosh! What an amazing video-thank you for sharing with us your struggles. I’m so happy you’re feeling better. PeaceAndLove Lori

[@mermaid7775]

Excellent narrative. You guys have become masters at observing and moving through life lessons. It's so valuable (and courageously vulnerable of you) to share the process with the world. The Med is mayhem in summer, on land and sea. Your perception seems accurate to me. Good you followed your gut. No need to live like 'everybody else'. You've created an extraordinary life for yourselves. Live that one.

[@labradore99]

I've found that how I relate to people, especially in social situations comes down to how I deal with my own anxieties and challenging feelings. When I hide from anxiety or suppress it or distract myself from my problems, they get bigger and stronger. When I talk it out, admit I need help and ask for it, ESPECIALLY with the "biggest" stuff, I feel better and deal better. Like with everything else, communication, patience and putting in the work makes all the difference. I used to feel like asking for help was the same as failing, but I've found that the fastest path to failure is to keep pushing myself to go it alone. I get the feeling you might relate to that, Jordan. I hope you find what you need, because so many of us love you guys and wish you the best!

[@MichaelFoster-wz7tq]

Your worries seem to come from being a protective father and a good partner, I think that’s a good thing. Much respect from a stranger.

[@gawebm]

Your stories and video productions stand our far beyond any other youtubers I follow. Your stories are compelling and the quality of of story telling is exceptional. Thank you!

[@kristaready8812]

I'm sorry to see you experiencing such anxiety and missing out on the charm of some beautiful places because of it. You're on the right track, keeping to more remote places or going to the popular ones off season. Isabella is getting sooooo cute. I just wanna pinch her cheeks and squeeze her 🤗💞

[@armoredsaint6639]

Welcome to being warrior, protector, provider,husband and father Jordan! You and yours will survive! Oh, and PS bud we have to learn to pick our battles!

[@davidmann5648]

Already had you guys (especially Isabella) on my prayer list. I will keep Poppa on my list daily for a while. Hang in there Dad.

[@mrkevind]

So glad to hear someone else has an aversion to crowds. I personally am annoyed when we go to a tourist spot to “see the sights” and there’s a million other people ruining it. It definitely spoils the ability to enjoy without anxiety because you’re constantly trying to be one step ahead of “that guy”. You’re not broken, you’re responsible and it comes with a price.

[@balaenopteramusculus]

Second that, man. I absolutely cannot stand crowds, especially around these supposed highlights. Turn around the corner to lesser known places and you will find other spots not in guidebooks or travel websites that are just as awesome and beautiful, and probably even more. I will actually look up the highlights, only to avoid them, hahaha. The world and even the Med is full of off the beaten path locations and you don't even really have to look for them. Just walk away from the crowds and you will run into them by accident. And it even feels better to have the have 'discovered' them yourself!

[@mikebikeboy]

Those kinds of anchoring situations with lots of people rubbing shoulders would drive me nuts too man. Nothing wrong with you. Like you said at the end, go to the places you love.. maybe the north seas around scotland and iceland and greenland would suit you better.

[@alohatvn]

That cave is so awesome 👌 ❤. Greece 🇬🇷 is so beautiful 😊.

[@davidenorth]

Jordan it’s amazing all you guys do. Anxiety is a real thing. At least you are self aware enough to recognize it. Keep well and fair winds.

[@davidhall8874]

As an introvert, I energize by being alone. Extroverts energize by being around people. However when Extroverts comes near me they can suck out my strength. I think it is the same with personal space. Some people want space, others want closeness! The latter type of people make me want to take up shooting as a hobby! Jordan, there is NOTHING wrong with you!!!!!! You are simply different that a lot of people. This does not make us wrong, just different. Learn to embrace who you are and accept your uniqueness! You are, from the perspective of a long time viewer, a really great guy. Find your comfort zone, learn toendure the hard times and bask in the good times. Life is about finding the balance! Blessings!!

[@phyllispritchard8627]

Just 🐝. Thoroughly enjoy seeing the two of you growing together. 💜❤️🐝🔮⚡️

[@wheredidileavemycell]

Ive watched yall since getting locked down in bocus. I will pray that God gives you and your family perfect peace. I pray that God will give you rest and reassurance that transcends your situation. I pray yall stay safe.

[@russellneville7145]

Hay guys. Another good vlog. That inflatable kayak looks like good fun & so appropriate for boat life. Ps. Your little girl is so cute & seems to handle boat life like a pro. Keep up the good work. SV Kiwi Lady Opua Bay of islands New Zealand 👍🏿

[@fotomesec]

Thanks for your thoughts on anxiety. When I reach the point of burnout as a skipper after several days of crowded anchorages and docks, and possibly bad weather, I take a few days of rest in a safe harbor or marina. After a few days, the desire to sail and cruise returns. The responsibility is even greater with family and dog on board. I feel you.

[@petegraham1458]

You are dealing with this ok , I understand one of the issues with cruising your own boat is everything is new and requires risk analysis and even when you do everything right someone will blunder in and cause chaos, I have even had to get on someone’s boat and show them how to anchor and set stern lines , had to go on a big power cruiser with another sailer and save it from grounding because the owners panicked and would have run over both our ground tackle as they were bashing around . Sometimes we had to just vacate the popular spots and go to he hard to get to anchorages that only competent sailers will navigate, most times over a happily hour beverage we hear even more frightening stories! The break was a wonderful time to recharge!

[@everydayeverything]

The honesty about your feelings of anxiety is so raw, half the battle. I totally feel for you

[@dougwaites869]

Coming from a small village in Northern New England USA and summering in a small sea side village of 500 people, I totally understand your desire for small and simple.

[@madeonwater]

Best tip for the med. Stay away from everyone, get a long chain (100m at least) and put some more rope and anchor in the deep water so stay out in the bays, then use the dinghy to come in. Avoid Italian boats at all costs.

[@mikeriddell176]

Living in the south of France and having had a boat here for more than 30 years, I quite understand your feelins. I experienced this every season in Corsica or Ibiza. The mad August crowd of inexperienced sailors who only rent a boat one week a year spoils everything. Keep away from the « must se » places untill the end of September. Love your episodes, you’re a lovely familly