I Quit Watching P*rn…But Did Not Expect This

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Dan Go

Dan Go

Күн бұрын

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@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
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@somanrama5923
@somanrama5923 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video. For me is that I am more present with real women and I look them in the eyes way more. Its fun. Especially if they are quite attractive themselves.
@hellcatderkay2061
@hellcatderkay2061 6 ай бұрын
you can’t imagine jerking off is the safest drug if street drugs and alcohol and smoking jerking off can only be fantasized and not watch porn
@JBplumbing12
@JBplumbing12 2 ай бұрын
When she's in a bad mood does your wife make insulting insinuations about your past porn habit?
@danfounder
@danfounder 2 ай бұрын
​@@JBplumbing12 Never. Also, I've got no shame around it as I'm an open book about these things with my wife.
@JBplumbing12
@JBplumbing12 2 ай бұрын
@@danfounder She is a good wife. You are blessed.
@standingmaximumverticaljump
@standingmaximumverticaljump 8 ай бұрын
If the porn is free, the consumer becomes the product.
@applea.m.h.3560
@applea.m.h.3560 6 ай бұрын
What if the KZbin is free?
@sanyok185
@sanyok185 6 ай бұрын
​@@applea.m.h.3560same. you consume advertising with content too
@NewEra-us9gd
@NewEra-us9gd 6 ай бұрын
@@applea.m.h.3560 social media aint free internet aint free as soon as they shown you ads they already profit you
@calebkelly8221
@calebkelly8221 6 ай бұрын
Then get Premium so you don't have to sit through ads.​@@applea.m.h.3560
@grismatics
@grismatics 6 ай бұрын
@@applea.m.h.3560 we watch ads and a lot of people say yes to cookies
@louisdellalucca8969
@louisdellalucca8969 2 ай бұрын
I made the decision to quit this morning. I realized that my consumption of porn was affecting my relationship with my wife. I realized I’ve been taking her for granted. It was affecting our intimacy and she doesn’t deserve that.
@Praveen-bq6oo
@Praveen-bq6oo 2 ай бұрын
What's the improvement in your body and relationship after giving up?
@brianbgood
@brianbgood 2 ай бұрын
How’s it going? Any tips to make it 2 weeks?
@imho4990
@imho4990 2 ай бұрын
maybe change wife>?
@james-patrickpye8609
@james-patrickpye8609 2 ай бұрын
Of course it would disrupt you intimacy, your cheating in your wife with every woman you watch. You may not be willfully doing this to cheat, but it’s what’s happening in your mind.
@Poetry4Peace
@Poetry4Peace 2 ай бұрын
then theerss us and me with no girl whastoever ah decisons lol
@splitfeys4566
@splitfeys4566 9 ай бұрын
when you said you're 44 it blew my mind, you look like you're 31
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@bwnco
@bwnco 8 ай бұрын
Asians dont age! LOL Amazing genes!
@cliffchampion5501
@cliffchampion5501 8 ай бұрын
He’s Asian and they don’t Raisin
@shuang7877
@shuang7877 6 ай бұрын
I am 42 and I get a lot. We asians - if we take care of our fitness, have moderate diet and basic skincare, I feel we can last forever
@kill3rbyysight
@kill3rbyysight 6 ай бұрын
@@shuang7877 true I'm 31 and look 23
@WilliamDiaz-p2h
@WilliamDiaz-p2h 9 ай бұрын
replaced pron, smoking and alcohol with the gym and sleeping more, best thing i could have ever done idk if i have seen these extreme benefits but focus and clearing up brain fog is definitely one of the benefits.
@brad265
@brad265 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely! So nice to think clearly.
@r1x2yxx
@r1x2yxx 5 ай бұрын
@@brad265 thank god that we are muslim and all this is haram
@sonOfTheL1vingGod
@sonOfTheL1vingGod 5 ай бұрын
@@r1x2yxxa lot of muslims are filthy behind the scenes and in secret , islam can’t change your desires only Jesus Christ can.
@Shaolin91z
@Shaolin91z 5 ай бұрын
Haram doesn't lead to salvation. Thanks Lord for bible study class. Thanks Lord for your salvation
@oscarleyva6485
@oscarleyva6485 4 ай бұрын
My friend, I'm struggling. I desire to meet you at the top of the mountain and shake your hand in solidarity. I can do this. I can do this.
@nehathakare8321
@nehathakare8321 6 ай бұрын
11:25 when you quit a habit, you leave a void and you can't just quit, the habit needs to be replaced 💯
@szililolabu
@szililolabu 6 ай бұрын
Wise words. Replace, don't just eliminate.
@plutokarim.97
@plutokarim.97 5 ай бұрын
yaya it needs to be replaced
@tkr212
@tkr212 5 ай бұрын
You can. Omg
@carlh.8797
@carlh.8797 4 ай бұрын
That's exactly how not to relapse after longer streaks
@lobserionia
@lobserionia 4 ай бұрын
Just go outside. Sex only takes few minutes and watching P takes can takes hours in a single day.
@therichbuddha3277
@therichbuddha3277 9 ай бұрын
1. More energy 2. More focus 3.More confidence 4. Better business 5.Better sex 6. Better relationships with women
@EmilioFreestyleTv.
@EmilioFreestyleTv. 9 ай бұрын
Appreciate it bro, God bless
@neilmccabe172
@neilmccabe172 8 ай бұрын
1 - 4 are probably true but 5 and 6! Not every man wants a relationship with women and getting access to sex outside of a relationship can be difficult for most average men. View but practice self control and don't become addicted. Same as drinking alcohol really.
@johnurban7333
@johnurban7333 7 ай бұрын
@@neilmccabe172finding the right woman can be very difficult. And after the honeymoon period sex becomes less and less. That’s why a lot of men turn to porn. Not sure how serious he is about the subject with all the movie snippets every 10 seconds. Is this video supposed to be funny or taken seriously?
@ocd9656
@ocd9656 6 ай бұрын
When we deny our happiness the universe will agree no matter what. So don't deny your happiness, that includes finding a woman
@zetsuboukibou1975
@zetsuboukibou1975 6 ай бұрын
What's sex😂
@youdontsay2529
@youdontsay2529 9 ай бұрын
This is the addiction no one talks about, because no one is homeless or looks like a crackhead as a result. But I'd argue the damage is just as profound.
@mhaas281
@mhaas281 8 ай бұрын
It's talked about all the time. It's all over KZbin.
@Drkbardockssj
@Drkbardockssj 8 ай бұрын
It's no where close to as damaging as even just smoking or weed
@kembla8
@kembla8 7 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@kill3rbyysight
@kill3rbyysight 6 ай бұрын
@@Drkbardockssj it depends how much ur into it.. i know ppl fully messed cus of it
@DennisMpofu-wv5zo
@DennisMpofu-wv5zo 6 ай бұрын
It's the worst addiction
@theucheao
@theucheao 5 ай бұрын
Big respects for making a video like this, being vulnerable and immortalizing your change forever- real man right here
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
you mean simp.
@TheTheawe
@TheTheawe 4 ай бұрын
I'm quitting today. That's it, as of today I'm quitting.
@cbilljones
@cbilljones 4 ай бұрын
How you making out?
@ienjoyedthisverymuch8468
@ienjoyedthisverymuch8468 3 ай бұрын
Still going strong?
@ChairmanKim
@ChairmanKim 3 ай бұрын
Relapsed a few times already 😂
@kyeorlam1351
@kyeorlam1351 3 ай бұрын
I wish you the successful. Now, you have no reason to fail.
@ThatAIGuy-onYT
@ThatAIGuy-onYT 3 ай бұрын
good job bro
@wrenchguy2937
@wrenchguy2937 9 ай бұрын
I'm going thru exact thing atm. Thank you. As an asian guy..I don't want this thing to affect me. I will change and do better!
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Great to hear 🙏🏼
@brad265
@brad265 5 ай бұрын
Check out the book TINSA. You can do it!
@jacksonrelaxin3425
@jacksonrelaxin3425 3 ай бұрын
What does being Asian have to do with it? Lol
@liverightdieproud2189
@liverightdieproud2189 4 ай бұрын
Day 5 of no PMO. Replaced it with reading. Today I feel more focused but a little anxious too.
@crosstolerance
@crosstolerance 4 ай бұрын
That is a great idea!
@thvtsydneylyf3th077
@thvtsydneylyf3th077 4 ай бұрын
keep going man!
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
Wow, already 5 days? That's incredible.
@fatherdamien69
@fatherdamien69 2 ай бұрын
so you just read like 15 hours a day now instead of fapping? lol did you fail yet?
@Martin_Romanowski
@Martin_Romanowski 9 ай бұрын
Porn like drugs or alcohol Absolutely 0 benefits in your life My best friend always says since we were in high school school if you have 20-30 min to watch that you have time to go for run do push ups & read
@Wingedmagician
@Wingedmagician 9 ай бұрын
lets be honest. those 20-30m are going to the screen or random useless conversation
@seadonkey6913
@seadonkey6913 8 ай бұрын
@@Wingedmagicianbecause you’re watching porn.
@Limitless-m8x
@Limitless-m8x 7 ай бұрын
Facts
@hanzoY248
@hanzoY248 7 ай бұрын
@@Wingedmagician you choose that however
@somechannel2461
@somechannel2461 6 ай бұрын
😂it is easy to say when u can easily have girl I want see wha tu would see if u was ugly as fuck or not 6 tall 😊 Not having sex at all or girlfriend in ur 25+and so on Porn exist couse they’re is demand and there is demand couse ppl needs it 🤷‍♂️ Sexless males is a thing not couse of their ‘decision’ but couse they tried and it not work out
@kw5961
@kw5961 5 ай бұрын
I've been away from it for 40+ days now, feel so much better.
@Johnny_win221
@Johnny_win221 15 күн бұрын
Are you able to say 5 benefits after being a month clean?
@Amrendra_Yadav07
@Amrendra_Yadav07 5 ай бұрын
I used to watch porn 3-4 hours per day regularly, It took around 8 months for my subconscious to clean itself when i went cold turkey. Now my mind field feels broader and its one of the best things i have done for myself❤❤
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
3-4 hours a day? Wow, now even I have to admit that this is a bit much...
@ezecskornfan
@ezecskornfan 3 ай бұрын
8 months? screw it, im opening those tabs again.
@hamzadaddak238
@hamzadaddak238 3 ай бұрын
Don't do it brother you're better than that ​@@ezecskornfan
@Jkdiisisisi
@Jkdiisisisi 3 ай бұрын
@@ezecskornfan 8 months is for when the person went extreme. on average its 1 1/5 months - 4 months.. You can quit this man.. you got this!
@DiljitHayre
@DiljitHayre 4 күн бұрын
You know what I stumbled upon this video. And yes I used to watch it and one day I realised what a load of s*** this is same old repetition same old b******* what the f*** are we watching this crap for and it is addiction. You're just watching the same old thing over and over getting more and more down the rabbit hole. I just stopped it and I feel better about myself. Good luck human race. You are now all f***** for watching s*** like this. Where does it lead you? And I guess we all know where it leads these judges policemen members of parliament. They all do it and some break and before you know it, you are watching c******* p*** you know it down that f****** rabbit hole banned a lot of it. Internet will eventually break humanity. It is Pandora's box once opened. Very hard to close well down to all the blokes that stopped watching it
@Eric-sm8pv
@Eric-sm8pv 5 ай бұрын
The ability to teach, inform, educate AND Humor people is just absolutely amazing!
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
True! I wish the channel owner would learn those.
@HoneyGuys-w5x
@HoneyGuys-w5x 4 ай бұрын
Total respect you! I poured my extra energy into writing on a very powerful, fully expressive, authentic level. Very enriching.
@dereckbrannigan6195
@dereckbrannigan6195 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for your courage in facing and sharing this addiction
@MrGordonSims
@MrGordonSims 9 ай бұрын
Ahh these Millennials and Gen Zs will never understand the shame of having to walk into one of these video stores back in the 90s. Honestly how did we even find those places without Google Maps or Yelp?? Anyway, damn good video. Thank you.
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
😂They were usually hidden in the corner of a parking lot and looked dirty to walk into.
@Ozmni11
@Ozmni11 9 ай бұрын
I used to love going for a cruise around town with friends. When I would spot one of those stores i'd take note then go back alone or with other people that like corn too. It was very shameful and exciting.😅
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
It's society that puts so much shame into it, in reality it's not that shameful. When I was small I would be afraid to go to such a store as well, but I've realized there's nothing to be afraid of.
@Verociity
@Verociity 4 ай бұрын
Walking into there felt like finding a gold vault full of treasures, you had to go on an adventure to discover them which made it more exciting.. but now you're just a few clicks away from a gold mine, only to realise it was a trap all along.
@howardlam6181
@howardlam6181 3 ай бұрын
@@Verociity Yea, so still an adventure to click on 10000 links to find out the exciting ones
@DReese8533
@DReese8533 9 ай бұрын
Always great stuff from Dan. A lot of young men have no idea that habitually watching porn is bad for them and holding them back. I haven't watched a minute of porn in more than 5 years, don't miss it at all.
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Right on and thank you
@suzannemartin6817
@suzannemartin6817 5 ай бұрын
So good! So glad you’re free and no longer unknowingly helping perpetuate the horrors of s-x trafficking!
@papasmurf3986
@papasmurf3986 Ай бұрын
I am quitting today for good. That's my word.
@Ayo_SkyieWrites
@Ayo_SkyieWrites 4 ай бұрын
Day one. The likes I get will be the number of days I'll be clean
@KyleBLVD
@KyleBLVD 3 ай бұрын
U got it
@aarontyus7072
@aarontyus7072 3 ай бұрын
Are you surviving?
@cauvang1183
@cauvang1183 2 ай бұрын
Why seek validations from other to start doing something good ?. I see this comment as "like or i will ruin my life"
@SKSHREDDED
@SKSHREDDED 2 ай бұрын
You didn't understood the video or didn't saw the full video your attention span is less because of p*rn,shorts,reels😐 replace your bad habit of p*rn with good habit channel your testosterone to positive assetful useful skill learning things 🫂❤️🗿 best of luck king 🔥
@romainebarnes4052
@romainebarnes4052 2 ай бұрын
Any update
@WhiteZombieWayne
@WhiteZombieWayne 5 ай бұрын
Hi first time viewer here… thank you Dan for your courage and insight. I have no doubt this video will help many men. I’m actually several months in successfully quitting porn and for those just starting please realize that you can do it, it can be done and you will beat this. These videos are always a huge help. In moments of weakness the best thing you can do is to distract yourself. So if you find yourself on the couch feeling weak and feeling that you’re about to break you need to immediately get off the couch and just do something…anything… I would jog around the block or go to Lowe’s and walk around or go to a loved ones house and just visit. As quick as the shameful thoughts appear is as quick as they disappear. Those impure sexual thoughts are to be held hostage by your mind… like literally held in captivity until you the grand master decides what to do with them. and then you starve those thoughts…by not feeding it, it withers away and dies. Keep starving them until they realize there is no food to be found here. A Strong journey is ahead my fellow men.
@DataWalkerSolutions
@DataWalkerSolutions 5 ай бұрын
its called urge surfing. you don't have to beat the urge you just have to outlast it. the brain will get bored and move onto something else. instead of resist and resist harder, just delay delay delay. I'm gonna finish game and then Im gonna do this....delay delay delay, your mind will move on.
@Ziivokun
@Ziivokun 4 ай бұрын
I'm also a first time viewer, but this is the cold turkey I need to eat. Also, prayer is a good weapon against it. I've been praying to God that He help take away this unhealthy addiction, finally setting me free of it since sex is meant to be a wholly intimate and committed act, not a vice to be vilified. Also, bring my mind back to last year before it started to become the source of my procrastination. For the past several months, a day hardly goes by without me trying to wank off. It's time to start eating the turkey, making it taste like chicken.
@albee209able
@albee209able 7 ай бұрын
Thank you. Your videos are very informative and always to the point. 13 minutes all good information.
@danfounder
@danfounder 7 ай бұрын
Glad you like them!
@finneganwilliams1524
@finneganwilliams1524 Ай бұрын
Very eloquent and professional. It's refreshing to see a clear and succinct presentation on this topic. Good points and a message that needs to be shared.
@RonBeaulieu
@RonBeaulieu 5 ай бұрын
Started the journey on quitting recently. Really did it for the girl that I love and plan on marrying. I need to be my best self not just for her but for me. I love her so much that I couldn’t let this addiction /bad habit to get in between our intimacy and love for eachother.
@HugoWalter-sd7gb
@HugoWalter-sd7gb 5 ай бұрын
Same thing here!
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
Good luck. See you back in 8 years when she divorces.
@josiahkeim
@josiahkeim 4 ай бұрын
@@nightmareTomekstub your toe. Who says stuff like that
@valdasmacernius9147
@valdasmacernius9147 3 ай бұрын
Dont ever tell her that you love her so much if you want her to stay.
@Wonderwoman79G
@Wonderwoman79G 2 ай бұрын
@@nightmareTomek Micro aggressive much? Who says that? You should have just wished him well and left it at that.
@teefrankenstein4340
@teefrankenstein4340 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I’m 43, I followed the same path as you. VHS tapes, Then internet, and now it’s everywhere for free. I was the same way, never rented from the video stores, usually got them from family or friends. I’m going to stop, I know it’s hard, but I will treat it like I did smoking and junk food. I know I will fall off the wagon a few times, but eventually I will overcome. Thank you for your story and the video.
@HUGEHEATFAN22
@HUGEHEATFAN22 4 ай бұрын
Good luck bud
@khalilmustafakhan8340
@khalilmustafakhan8340 7 ай бұрын
The footage choice for your videos is just incredible😂
@GamerSyke
@GamerSyke 5 ай бұрын
After only a year God helped me out of this addiction. I'm so thankful for it, because I no longer need that type of entertainment to be entertained and can take joy in the simpler things. Praise God.
@gideonmahiga
@gideonmahiga 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@fatherdamien69
@fatherdamien69 2 ай бұрын
God did it? How do you know it was god? When I was a christian I always asked god for help with and god never helped me. When I became an atheist, then I got free of it all on my way. No gods needed.
@GamerSyke
@GamerSyke 2 ай бұрын
​@@fatherdamien69 God doesn't solve your problems for you. You have to actually put in your own effort, and he'll help you do that. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm guessing you just assumed God would fix everything without putting any effort in yourself, and as soon as you turned to Atheism, you suddenly started putting in effort and got results.
@Shaolin91z
@Shaolin91z Ай бұрын
😆. When you were a Christian? Christians are renewed with the holy Spirit. You speak in past tense. Are you saying you don't have the holy Spirit anymore?
@Shaolin91z
@Shaolin91z Ай бұрын
Or are you saying you never had the holy Spirit...which means you were never a Christian. Interesting 🤔
@rod1424
@rod1424 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honesty my friend. May God continue to help me fight porn watching and cleanse me, and focus on goals.
@philipmitchell6239
@philipmitchell6239 Ай бұрын
You have helped me with a life long problem and i thank you from the bottom of my heart.
@brentduanefoster
@brentduanefoster 6 ай бұрын
Love the vulnerability in this video! Definitely helping me!!! Thanks, Dan!!
@TTBTechResumes
@TTBTechResumes 12 күн бұрын
Because you're here just know you're making the right move.
@SpiderWhatThe
@SpiderWhatThe 9 күн бұрын
Yessr
@garrettstaack5650
@garrettstaack5650 9 ай бұрын
You forgot Lord of the G Strings
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Nice
@XxlilqhostxX
@XxlilqhostxX 9 ай бұрын
LMAO
@jesuschristlookslikeme522
@jesuschristlookslikeme522 8 ай бұрын
Whore of the rings! 😂
@darrenwalshe8513
@darrenwalshe8513 8 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@pauldavis6882
@pauldavis6882 6 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@TheFinalGamerRN
@TheFinalGamerRN 5 ай бұрын
The replacing fact is so on point, thank you so much Dan!
@rwwilson21
@rwwilson21 5 ай бұрын
You said replace it with goals. For me, the MAIN goal I'm seeking is why I quit.
@michael-ig7hg
@michael-ig7hg 28 күн бұрын
happy for you bruh!
@21Rengoku
@21Rengoku 8 ай бұрын
Came across your Chanel recently and I love it, it helps me get back control over my bad habits, and I think the exact same as you about everything which is crazy but I guess self improvement takes us all to rome.
@sandilobianco6734
@sandilobianco6734 Ай бұрын
Very informative. We all have an addiction to something. Good point about substituting an addiction for something else that is less harmful.
@yungm3782
@yungm3782 5 ай бұрын
I’ve started consuming porn in my tender age of 10 years old… I was peer pressured by one of my best friends at the time. He was a year older than me. I’m 23 now and I’m still trying to quit this evil habit of mine. I hope that after watching this video I change my behavior towards pornography
@johnnyringo2695
@johnnyringo2695 5 ай бұрын
Yeah bro you need to quit ASAP. You dont want to go into your 30s with this addiction.
@tromboneman4517
@tromboneman4517 4 ай бұрын
Don’t shame yourself. Shame kills your efforts to quit.
@bradenloraas2863
@bradenloraas2863 3 ай бұрын
You are stronger than this
@carstenbredahlgjelsten8331
@carstenbredahlgjelsten8331 29 күн бұрын
Dan Go • Thank you for this fiiine video🙏🏽 Inspirational! Greetings from Copenhagen, Denmark🇩🇰
@diosteama2719
@diosteama2719 6 ай бұрын
You're so real for this
@shaunsanders8933
@shaunsanders8933 Ай бұрын
This information is 100% accurate and PRICELESS. Thank you
@AwakenedLotus
@AwakenedLotus 6 ай бұрын
I'm quiting porn, cigarates and saveing all my money and eating healthy. ITS EAT OR BE EATEN!!!
@9parasqn656
@9parasqn656 11 күн бұрын
Very honest, very good. Thank you.
@tromboneman4517
@tromboneman4517 4 ай бұрын
As a Christian, I’m frankly frustrated with the way the church treats this addiction. I do believe it is wrong and want to quit, but the messaging of shame around it makes it so hard to quit. The number one place I should be able to go for help is frankly the last place I feel like going to.
@jc4evur661
@jc4evur661 4 ай бұрын
As a fellow Christian I understand. When I was a new Christian I had certain addictions (alcohol, pot) that I felt were negatively affect my walk. So I started praying that if the Lord wanted me to quit those things that He would take the desire for those things away. In otherwords, I put it on Him, because on my own I couldn't quit. Fast forward to today, It's been decades since I've had a drink or smoked pot, and no longer struggle with either...try praying this way with porn.
@babalus101
@babalus101 4 ай бұрын
Thanks very much for sharing, Dan. Not an easy thing to broadcast to the world, but very helpful to sooo many of us, whether early or late into our reboots. We appreciate you.
@xortegaccaedu
@xortegaccaedu 3 ай бұрын
Great video, thanks for sharing your experience. I have also stopped for the same reason, to become a better version of myself. Been almost a couple weeks now.
@mickypea5684
@mickypea5684 11 күн бұрын
Thankyou for your honesty.
@LeJimster
@LeJimster 4 ай бұрын
I quit it for 30 days, didn't feel any benefits but I was depressed at the time and didn't focus on any new habits. Since then I've been working on slowly adding healthy habits and my mental and physical state is much better. I think this time I've got a better idea of what I need to be redirecting my energy into.
@jc4evur661
@jc4evur661 4 ай бұрын
Watch for things that trigger the desire. For me, I would give in when I was bored. Also, when I was high or low emotionally I would give in.
@bannedfordays.5101
@bannedfordays.5101 Ай бұрын
Staying up past 10:30pm when i'm tired, your subconscious takes over and I'd say 50-75% of all lapses happened after this time, at least for me.
@ivanpickering7979
@ivanpickering7979 Ай бұрын
​@@bannedfordays.5101your right
@steveborne9821
@steveborne9821 11 сағат бұрын
Thirty days? That's great! It's just a habit....habit's can be broken...but my question is 'Was the porn harmful to your life?' The hardest 'part' is late in the evening when I truly have nothing better 'to do.' I work hard, study, and I am single. I live a healthy lifestyle by eating right and exercising. A healthy sexual libido is a sign of 'good health.' So where does a single man direct this Libido when they don't want a partner? Ummm.....i really don't know if I 'want' to stop. An 'addiction' is something that Negatively effects a person's life. If porn isn't negatively affecting my life, why would I want to quit completly. I would say that if I were in a relationship and watching porn that wouldn't be good for the relationship UNLESS your parnter watches with you.
@placeofgames6087
@placeofgames6087 Ай бұрын
A wise man used to say life of a man is a war, we are fighting 24x7 not with anyone but with our self, but one day victory will be mine❤❤
@DakocityLIVE
@DakocityLIVE 5 ай бұрын
This is something that scared me. I usually had such a strong "pipe" and could last quite a bit, could be super passionate my partner, etc. Yet after watching p*rn more and more as my life spiraled downward I literally got scared I got ED at 23 years old.. huge wake up call. im still battling this demon at 25 but after watching this video on top of many other positive life changes over these past few weeks I think im finally going to fully stop doing this to myself. Thank you
@saintpendulous5264
@saintpendulous5264 4 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this today. You're really inspiring, and I appreciate you being so vulnerable to help others like me.
@bluelotus333
@bluelotus333 6 ай бұрын
I noticed when I stop my physical appearance improved my skin was more glowing
@azizahtas
@azizahtas 6 ай бұрын
Your aura was getting stronger 🎉
@brendanosullivan2484
@brendanosullivan2484 5 ай бұрын
Definitely, i had a before after pic of mine and i couldn't believe the difference. My appearance in general completely changed. Just looked like i had far more life in me
@Thirushan_
@Thirushan_ 27 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story man! Really inspiring and helpful
@lukaz2040
@lukaz2040 3 ай бұрын
I feel like you just narrated the last 5 years of my life! from the break up to the results of abstinence. I am massively heartbroken, but that experience made me realize I have been allowing vice and distractions to destroy my relationships and the connection to myself. Porn is been there since I was 13. Always replacing the connection I could have had with my partners with cheap quick dopamine. I decided to quit almost 6 months ago. Including alcohol, coffee and social media. You are spot on when you say quitting must have a purpose. I did it because I learned that I was avoiding my feelings because I can't deal with the anxiety and stress. Now there is no more hiding from myself. The results are incredible and much more than I expected. I am more connected to my friends, I am more successful in my work, I feel proud of myself, I am slowly becoming my best friend. Thank you for sharing this! and I hope one day to have a family like yours!
@MojoWRLD_5150
@MojoWRLD_5150 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for making this video Dan!! I’ve been struggling to gain better self control over this and your video gave great insight. Not just to quit but to replace it with healthier habits. Be well brother 🫡
@Zoet50
@Zoet50 6 ай бұрын
Appreciate your honesty
@jaybrown7434
@jaybrown7434 7 ай бұрын
Great video!! We needed this The titles in the beginning are hilarious… hindsight is 20/20
@bcarp3
@bcarp3 2 ай бұрын
I always notice after a relapse I’m severely irritable for roughly a week.
@wasteland70
@wasteland70 4 ай бұрын
Your videos are so smart and honest. I've watched several. I've subscribed and I wish you all the best.
@chilevodoo2082
@chilevodoo2082 9 ай бұрын
How old was you when you stopped? Great seeing older men giving up vices and shows we can change at anytime
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Around low to mid 30’s
@chilevodoo2082
@chilevodoo2082 9 ай бұрын
@@danfounderthanks for the reply. I stopped around 27 but kept coming back after a few months off. Currently 32 and 4 months off it. Thank you Dan. I will look back on this comment when I’m 44 years of age and be 12 years without it.
@Zoydotheman
@Zoydotheman 5 ай бұрын
@@danfounder Damn so when did u start then?
@mantapdjiwa9768
@mantapdjiwa9768 5 ай бұрын
@@danfounder how did you deal with Insomnia ? that what I got quitting porn
@johnnyringo2695
@johnnyringo2695 5 ай бұрын
@@Zoydotheman he mentioned around 14-15 and then with internet it got addicting.
@fury44556
@fury44556 11 күн бұрын
I feel like I am quitting watching it because I have just lost all of the desire to watch it. I didn't know there were benefits to quitting it. But I am ready. I do recognize that I have more energy already and I have been desiring my woman a lot more.
@mdg221
@mdg221 9 ай бұрын
In Diana jones and the Temple of Pune
@brewerfireguy
@brewerfireguy 2 ай бұрын
Such an honest video ok something that is so common but so taboo at the same time. I appreciate your transparency in your addiction as well as your recovery and then the suggestions you provide. Thank you!!
@BHBalast
@BHBalast 6 ай бұрын
To be honest I quit porn for more than one year and not much changed in my life, I just find woman more attractive at average which has no effect on my day to day life anyway
@johnnyringo2695
@johnnyringo2695 5 ай бұрын
depends, how long did you watch before quitting?
@BHBalast
@BHBalast 5 ай бұрын
@@johnnyringo2695 what depends on what exacly, how much my life will change, how much I'll find woman more attractive or sth else? Be more precise please
@seondeon6204
@seondeon6204 4 ай бұрын
So you telling me you got no benefits? Your brain probably hasn’t fully healed then
@PilotChris06FW
@PilotChris06FW 4 ай бұрын
I've recently stopped watching...Ben about 2 weeks..I dont have the urge to watch which is good but I now feel numb and I still don't have any motivation and my other life stresses are feeling worse.
@tromboneman4517
@tromboneman4517 4 ай бұрын
Find good things to replace the bad habit! For me, working out and being more social helps.
@troysvisualarts
@troysvisualarts 18 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing this video. I'm autistic, have an obsession for a certain part of the woman's body, have been addicted to internet pn for over 25 years looking at pics and vids on what interests me, have had one nighters but never a real relationship, don't understand love too well as very few women ever showed an interest in me ever, the pn has negatively impacted me as all my other passions in life go to the wayside and it takes centre stage, have tried quitting too many times to count and even lasted 6 months but still fell off the wagon because of the lack of relationships and lack of sx, pn has decreased my performance when I actually do once in a while have an encounter with a woman, I'm pretty much right now feel like I'm at rock bottom and I've watched your video twice and it's giving me incentive to try my damn hardest to stay away from pn on top of other recent things that have happened that have destroyed my already low as hell self esteem! I hope this time I can succeed and live a happier existence and get some of my self esteem back! After seeing how it's physically damaging the brain it gives me further incentive to quit!
@Dank_Farrik
@Dank_Farrik 4 ай бұрын
I stumbled across porn at the tender age of 12 years old and got hooked for almost 20 years now. It was my coping mechanism for my shitty childhood. I tried to keep it a secret all that time and it eventually ruined my marriage. I’m currently together with a beautiful woman and it’s undoubtedly affecting my performance in bed and I know I need to quit. I’m about to start seeing my therapist again for this and life in general. Thank you so much Dan for being open and honest about this. It NEEDS to be talked about. For all you men (and women) out there, stay resilient. We can do this!
@WillMarcouiller
@WillMarcouiller 4 ай бұрын
I too had a shitty childhood with all forms of abuse including sex abuse. As far as I can remember, I started compulsive sexual behaviours by 5. Talk about something abnormal! I needed to release the stress somewhere... I'm 48 now. I still have these hedonism behaviours which drive me to porn and have sex with myself rather than the loved one. I've been trying to quit for 4 years now, and it seems like I just can't. Did you succeed?
@Dank_Farrik
@Dank_Farrik 4 ай бұрын
@@WillMarcouiller I've slowly started losing interest in things I used to like: first and foremost video games, then tv shows, and I actually have been cutting out the porn without interest in it or a relapse for a whole week. I've been listening nonstop to breakup music on Spotify and losing myself inside my thoughts. I also never stopped regularly going to the gym for the better part of 15 years. In line with Dan's advice, I'm going to pick up piano again to occupy myself so I'm in the works of buying one.
@nightmareTomek
@nightmareTomek 4 ай бұрын
@@Dank_Farrik Yep, time to fix corn addiction instead of working through the s_itty childhood. People these days...
@gruesomeduck6126
@gruesomeduck6126 Ай бұрын
Bruce Lee as the painting behind you is proud of you, I saw it moving
@CScott-wh5yk
@CScott-wh5yk 9 ай бұрын
One of your best videos - thanks for sharing. Do you recommend abstaining from “cranking it” too while quitting?
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
I did that and it worked for me.
@Mzansi74
@Mzansi74 12 күн бұрын
Thanks for this!
@luxferremusic
@luxferremusic 6 ай бұрын
If somebody say porn is not good I know this guy's is smart.
@AllanRochez
@AllanRochez 5 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing your story, man. Hope this video makes a positive impact on society for generations to come!
@joshscott-savage8339
@joshscott-savage8339 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your candor!
@rod1424
@rod1424 6 ай бұрын
This is the reason why the matrix doesnt fully block porn in the internet and in media in general
@RobertRuiz-k3f
@RobertRuiz-k3f 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your testimony ✊
@therichbuddha3277
@therichbuddha3277 9 ай бұрын
This is great! A good history of how we all became dopa-addicts. This bio-chemical compulsion is a nasty mofo. New sub.
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@Mraren01
@Mraren01 Ай бұрын
Thank you for making this video
@doyourbest7655
@doyourbest7655 3 ай бұрын
Short term reachable goals is the path to achieve almost anything.
@ollieh452
@ollieh452 2 ай бұрын
One thing I don't hear anyone talking about is the connection between loneliness and porn addiction. When I lived with family I rarely looked at it but I moved out, am living on my own now and I know I look at it too much. If I had company (even a pet) it would really help. Porn steps in to fill the void of loneliness.
@Shaolin91z
@Shaolin91z Ай бұрын
Peace in Christ surpasses all understanding. Bible study class gives you peace. There's no loneliness in HIS PEACE. Thanks Lord for your salvation and peace
@dr.furrytoe443
@dr.furrytoe443 3 ай бұрын
I needed this today! TY brother
@MD-hd1cp
@MD-hd1cp 9 ай бұрын
Good advice 👍
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@santu7066
@santu7066 4 ай бұрын
I'm going through the same same situation u went through and man... this is really helpful, thanks a lot!
@jeremyr8793
@jeremyr8793 9 ай бұрын
Im on this decision at age 35. Its been in my life since maybe 10 years old. Also what camera do you use for your videos lol
@danfounder
@danfounder 9 ай бұрын
Good to hear. Camera is a canon. I have no idea the type tho.
@ZajimKujovic-j9k
@ZajimKujovic-j9k Ай бұрын
I had the same experience! I wrote a book about that part of my life and in couple of months will be published. I already started the process of publishing the book. I completely understand what you went throguh Dan.
@BigA.71
@BigA.71 5 ай бұрын
Hey Dan, I just came across your channel. The first video that I watched was "I'm 44. If you are in your 20s, watch this." (I am 53 this year.) I was also addicted to porn when someone brought a porn magazine back from the US (I live in Singapore) to our boarding school. I was 12. It wasn't until I was 16 that I came across video porn. Back in the late 80s, porn was only available on VHS, and you really had to go to some shady places in Malaysia and Singapore to find them. Porn short circuits your brain, and the temptation is so great that it will lead you to take some significant risks, and I am not talking about our parents finding out. Where I grew up, it could mean getting into trouble with the Law. Kudos to you for being open and transparent in sharing your story. It takes great courage and vulnerability to do so. You are providing excellent public service. I am rooting for you, and I am going to learn from your KZbin channel how I can share my story and inspire others.
@YCKIDesign
@YCKIDesign 27 күн бұрын
100% been thinking about it for a while now is the time!!!
@persieprince9345
@persieprince9345 5 ай бұрын
Amazing video, porn is really bad is much worse than other bad habits like drinking and smoking
@Tory-JJ
@Tory-JJ Ай бұрын
thanks I was hoping to find a guy like you. I want to quit. I am with my long time partnet and I want it gone. ENTIRELY.
@KaroMal93
@KaroMal93 4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad that I stumbled upon your channel
@AshTheDuke
@AshTheDuke 9 ай бұрын
Its so hard still trying not to watch it
@TVResults
@TVResults 8 ай бұрын
There are support groups that can help. Check out SPAA
@braikka
@braikka Ай бұрын
I found that I had become a souless shell. I was addicted & I needed the 'hit'. But, afterwards I would just feel regret & empty. I decided to quit & give my life to Jesus🙏. It's the best decision I ever made
@edgetheedgy3418
@edgetheedgy3418 4 ай бұрын
I stopped watching p*rn and on the third month I achieved enlightenment I started levitating and everything in my life started being cool and good I even won the lottery and the president came and gave me the key of the city now I'm mayor soon I'll be president on month 4!
@bolivar4537
@bolivar4537 3 ай бұрын
No you didn't, coomer.
@Cleedek
@Cleedek 5 ай бұрын
Okay, I will test it too! Thank you for inspiring me.
@emptyazurite5972
@emptyazurite5972 5 ай бұрын
0:17 Forgot one, The "X-Men"
@ekowapeja
@ekowapeja 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@prettydecenthuman
@prettydecenthuman 11 күн бұрын
I had been thinking this for a long time. It has been four or five days. And I have tried before. But this time I feel different. I am not focusing on quitting. I am focusing on replacing it with real life pleasure; like doing what I like or talking with people or reading romance.
@christophmeech
@christophmeech 5 ай бұрын
I have a question about this. In the video, its not clear to me if you mean by stopping to watch pron, you also mean to stop m*sturbating as well. Better question, what is your take on this. Do you think that only quitting to watch it, makes a difference if you still do it but without any distraction and only by yourself and your mind? Thabk you in advance!
@ayosgsauce
@ayosgsauce 5 ай бұрын
Great video, thanks for your transparency.
@JIMN26
@JIMN26 5 ай бұрын
Fasting is the best way to get over any addiction, whether lust, alcohol or sugar addiction.
@jayare2583
@jayare2583 5 ай бұрын
Yea quitting porn makes it easier to get on a healthy diet.
@Verociity
@Verociity 4 ай бұрын
how does fasting help rewire the brain from addiction?
@JIMN26
@JIMN26 4 ай бұрын
@Verociity Not sure the scientific reason, but I know fasting increases your self discipline and resets your body and minds chemistry. I speak from experience. I'm not a religious person, but Jesus and other spiritual leaders did fasting for similar reasons. It is time proven and overlooked in today's society.
@5150eruption
@5150eruption Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
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