I Started HRT (Hormone Replacement)...Estradiol Patch for Hormones After Hysterectomy

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Are you using the Estradiol patch? If so, pros/cons? And where is your preferred place to put it?

[@BadAllergies514]

Yes, for many years, love it. Same patch as you have. Place it on your lower tummy, alternating sides. Don’t hesitate to changes doses if you have side effects. Did the pellet for a few years, was just too much, and caused weight gain.

[@joangrigsby1031]

I have in the past used Hrt but they helped very little I still had the hot flashes maybe not as severe but they were still there.I did not feel they benefitted me enough for the trade off of possibly breast cancer or other cancers so I stopped them.I am 57 and still have the hot flashes they do ease up some with time.I have been thrown into surgical menopause since the age of 39.I have come to the conclusion of accepting the things I cannot change.If God brings you to it.He will bring you through it,and you will become better because of it.If you endure to the end.A great attitude is what you have and what you need to endure menapause because it is not for the weak or faint of heart.Hang in there sweet girl,,,you got this!!!!

[@Gardenwitch1954]

My doctor prescribed oral HRT because my hot flashes were so intense! Weaned off after 8 years and now just use a vaginal cream as needed for dryness. Menopause is so different for everyone, I am praying for you🙏for an easy transition.

[@joangrigsby1031]

@@Gardenwitch1954 @welcometomycurls they make a very good product unlike any other it's the best and is called Replenish they sell it at walmart.It is the very best product for dryness.You have got to get you some.

[@UrsCurt12]

Im using the same patch 50mg and I love it. I just wear my patch below the belly button line and alternate sides.

[@Shazi-xt5xw]

So happy you’re feeling better. Just wanted to throw this out there, HRT is not just to relieve menopausal symptoms. Lack of estrogen can lead to a range of more serious illnesses for women such as osteoporosis, Alzheimer, heart attacks, etc. there’s a lot of misinformation and confusion out there, even amongst doctors. To all women: do your own research and be an advocate for your own health.

[@sleekmodernchic]

Speaking facts. Everyone thinks hot flashes are cute/funny, but they're a warning signal that something is off in your body. Lack of estrogen is strongly linked to heart disease which is the #1 killer of women, not breast cancer. I've been on estrogen for 5 years, clear mammograms, I don't have high BP. I've been strong German and lost 20 lbs. as a result. Estrogen HRT has been life changing for me.

[@andreakumer276]

Absolutely true ! I need to have the best quality of life is what my doctor always tells me ❤

[@aliciabratton3832]

Glad you got help with hormones! I am on week six of my HRT with Estradiol. I am feeling SO MUCH BETTER!!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Oh yay! Thanks for sharing that! I'm on day 5....and am already realizing that my night sweats are less severe. Where do you place your patch? The instruction box said lower abdomen or upper buttocks. Yesterday when I changed my patch, I placed it on my upper booty. I think I'm liking that area best. Do you have any tips or suggestions?

[@aliciabratton3832]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls Upper booty. I just try to press with my palm for 10-15 seconds to "seal" it. Its a learning curve!

[@anako1976]

I just started estradiol this morning. Thank God! I finished cervical cancer treatment 3/8. The menopause symptoms escalated into a nightmare. I wish so badly I started HRT years ago, let alone 7 weeks from finishing cancer treatment, as that wasn't enough. Dramatic hair loss, muscle atrophy, total loss of sensitivity down there, hot flashes every 30 min, no sleep, brain fog. Basically insanity. Within hours of taking hrt, i felt better. Hoping my hair grows back and the rest of my issues get better!

[@melindacallaghan5367]

Thank you Renee for sharing. I am 50 and in the throes of perimenopause. I have experienced insomnia, night sweats, I started bioidentical hormones a few years ago. There is absolutely no reason to suffer. Without Bioidenticals I would not sleep, be at risk of hurting others from the rage, and not be able to function. If men experienced menopause they would all be on hormones after the first symptom.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

So true!!

[@andreacrouch36]

Estrogen saves lives. Every woman should be on it to prevent osteoporosis, heart disease and Alzheimer’s (and divorce and traumatized children) I tried all delivery systems. the patch was undeniable for me. I take a whopping 1.5 2xweekly. Feel and look 30 and absolutely nothing can get me down. progesterone at night makes me sleep like a bear as well. Time for the hysterectomy. So grateful for your insight here thank you.

[@christineolexa5116]

I have been on HRT for over 40 years. Yes, every woman is different! In my personal experience, the benefits far outweigh the risks. I have tried to go off of HRT several times and it is always with very negative results. Yes, it is a process of learning to know your own body. Find what works for you. Advocate for yourself and strive for the quality of life you desire. Remember our health is a gift from God! 🙏

[@katherine.benson4489]

I have had the same experience. I have been on HRT since 1987. Going off causes me to lose control of my emotions very easily and to just lose the ability to become centered. I take the lose dose tablets every other day.

[@kathypilchman3657]

I am 58 be 59 in September I had a hysterectomy partial hysterectomy about eight years ago. I never went into menopause so I guess that's why I'm not on hormonal replacement pills

[@annedavies2885]

I am considering oestrogen due to problems with infections, utis and further up. My life has been terrible during the last 6 months. I didn't have a bad menopause and thought I had done alright, but now I may have to go on oestrogen to have my life back. I am a bit scared...

[@shellyroper9100]

I am 13 years post menopause and six months ago I started BHRT pellets of estrogen and testosterone. It has changed my life for the better and my husband was so glad his wife got libido back 😂 I take compounded progesterone daily. I sleep like a champ now, got my mental clarity back, my strength. It’s been great.

[@73burntly]

That was everything for me the pellet therapy I did it before my hysterectomy now I'm on my hysterectomy I'm going to start with estrogen and work my way back to the pellet I won't need the progesterone now that I'm uterus-free

[@Painter931]

I went through a regular menopause. I had uterine polyp removed it was a large growth . A uterine ablation was done which took uterine lining away. It's done with warm water and no pain. I was 55 years young at that time. I stayed home from work four days and was able to get back to work. I'm retired. I'm 65 now. It's been ten years since then I am healthy and no hot flashes or hormone changes. I didn't need hormones. I carried a little pocket fan when I felt warm. I eat good food "no take out" and I drink lots of water. Wear light clothing. I was not going to take hormones I read bad things about them. I suggest do some research and then decide if you continue with hormones. There is no quick fix for everything your body goes through. One thing you might want to do is stop drinking" alcohol drinks" and do not eat too much of sugar products. Alcohol produces a lot of sugar in your body. I have read about menopause for a long time. There are over 50 symptoms. I am not bothered by hormones changes anymore and I'm 65 years young. My body went through changes naturally. I hate any kind of drugs. I want to live symptom free. Not being a slave to medicine then other problems start to develop and they will with today's medicine. You don't want what medication will do to your body in years to come. Hormone pills and patches have side effects. Doctors don't know everything. What do doctors care if you get sick or die their life goes on. I had a couple of bad experiences I know. Wish you a good and healthy life.

[@madisonc2410]

Absolutely agree…they are synthetic so not natural. Bio-identical hormones are much better if someone needs them.

[@annedavies2885]

That's good to hear, but what about women who grow their own food, bake their own bread, even mill their own wheat and then they get constant infections due to lack of oestrogen, some of these infections are dangerous to health. What happens when you build up antibiotic resistance? What happens when you can't live your life and be productive. What happens when this happens to someone who was always anti-hormones and has read all the data. What happens to these women? When you have exhausted every herbal remedy and pessary there is? It's tough. I am glad you are not in that position - you have been lucky. What would you choose - stay in the house all day, or go on oestrogen? It's tough.

[@kellypollet7130]

I’ve been on HRT for 20 years now and I am sooooooo glad I did. Progesterone helps me sleep 8 to 10 hours solid almost every night. I have no more dryness down there or anywhere else, thanks to DHEA. Thanks to the estradiol, no more hot flashes and night sweats every 20 minutes, oh and let’s not forget the cold spell right afterward, blankets on, blankets off….all night long! I had to change doctors to find one that understood hormones, most doctors today aren’t trained in it. My current doctor said he was blown away at what he didn’t know when he went on and got further medical training on hormones. Now he’s able to help his patients better to live regular lives again. I’m happy for you that you’ve been able to get the help you needed.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Oh wow! That's fantastic! Thank you for sharing that info.

[@esterlund9845]

Is it a progesterone prescription or over the counter? How much does it cost?

[@crh251]

@@esterlund9845, the progesterone you purchase over the counter is weaker than the prescription progesterone. I take the oral progesterone made from plants. It’s $10 a month. I’m also on the estradiol patch (also made from plants). The patch is $10 a month too. I pay a total of $20 a month for both with insurance. I sleep great too! Plus my blood pressure has come back down to where it was before.

[@silviahansen6103]

I had a full hysterectomy about 5 yrs ago. Please know, everyone goes thru menopause differently. Don’t assume you need hormones. Wait to see if you even have any symptoms before you start hormone therapy. If you’re concerned about osteoporosis, there may be other options. If you do have symptoms, do what you have to do. We women are amazing and our bodies are amazing. Be well all!❤

[@barbiedoll6530]

Very well stated! All women are different...don't follow trends...follow your instincts and your physician's advice!

[@ProstMahlzeitNZ]

Excactly! And maybe ask a holistic doctor for natural options!

[@lovindatJoan]

I so agree!

[@BrandiNNiNi]

I had a emergency Hysterectomy and after a few months I was so sick. We started Estrogen and I started so much better. I eventually after about 12 months began to wean myself off of it, and it's been 7 or 8 years I've been off. We can lay in bed, gain weight and be so miserable or do what we can to slowly ease into the menopause as we were meant to. Do what's best for your life journey. Glad you're doing better day by day❤

[@brendaguerin5423]

I had a hysterectomy when I was 33 I am now 77 and still have personal summers. I was on hormone therapy for a few years then stopped.,after I learned about the potential dangers of heart issues and breast cancer etc. I am healthy and do not take any meds at all. I have no medical issues at all.

[@chocolate9726]

I'm 58 my GYN suggested a full hysterectomy due to fibroids and palups that keeps reoccurring I'm really scared and undecided about the surgery.Thanks for sharing this is really helpful information

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I had a massive fibroid and uncontrollable bleeding. I'm so glad I had the hysterectomy. Life is so much better now! You should absolutely consider it.

[@angelasmith257]

I got the surgery had no issues was a breeze except when menopause kicked it right away it was brutal thank God For the patch I’m still on it 7 yrs later…

[@ljjackson7106]

Renee, the fact that you are so healthy, flexible and trim is a HUGE factor for you! ❤ To your continued healing!!!

[@sharih5741]

I went through a natural menopause at about 55. I had night sweats and some hot flashes over a period of a few months. Since then, none. So those who don’t do hormones may or may not need them. Everyone is different. I was just happy the heavy periods were over!

[@gigigigi1508]

That's a natural way for a healthy woman, especially at 55. No hrt needed.

[@doudou53d44]

Those moments will also pass. Patience you are getting there ❤️🌸🐕‍🦺😎

[@PLMannequin]

Not sure if it helps, but I can relate to everything you're describing re: night sweats/hotflashes. Things are better now, but there was a time when I slept beside a big pile of giant 100% cotton beach towels and fresh 100% cotton pajamas. When I woke up from a night sweat, I'd just change into a new pair of pajamas, replace the towel, have a quick drink of water, and go back to bed, all nice and dry. (In the morning, the big clammy pile got washed!) It got to a point where I could do the whole process in the dark without disturbing husband . . . and almost stay asleep while I was doing it. Good luck with the HRT! P.S. Sleeping Swedish style (you and Randy each having your own separate summer/winter quilts) is something you might want to try! Regulating body temp with another person under the same blanket can be tricky!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Wow! You have a whole process set up! It's now day 5 with the patch...and I'm sleeping better. The night sweats are less severe and hopefully it will continue to get better. Fingers crossed!

[@Gardenwitch1954]

I do the same!

[@PLMannequin]

@@Gardenwitch1954 hi5 to Sherri. lol

[@rachelc.5463]

I finished going through menopause at age 48. Never took any hormones because I wasn't bothered that much with hot flashes and night sweats. What did happen as I was going through menopause I had depression first time in my life, went to my PCP she put me on medication for depression. I got to feeling better in no time. I took medication for a short while so glad in this day and age medication for depression is available for women going through menopause.

[@GDixon-ch3yl]

Your energy level in your voice has returned ❤

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Yes...It's getting much better

[@GDixon-ch3yl]

​@@WelcomeToMyCurls I'm glad to hear it. Btw, eat soy, it has natural estrogen. 9 years past menopause ❤

[@sfviris5582]

Hang in there-recovery is a process. ❤

[@suefitzpatrick6803]

Hormones are controversial and we have been misled about their dangers. We each have to make these decisions with as much information as possible with our medical providers. I’m glad you’re doing better!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

So true!! Thanks Sue

[@freeandfancy]

They cause cancer just like other pharmacy people drugs do.

[@lynndinovo3500]

I had HRT for years. I didn't have any ill effects from them. I was told by my Gyne that the HRT had more benefits than harm. Good for heart and prevention of dementia. There are different theories about HRT. I was too emotionally disturbed to not have any HRT. The hot flashes were awful even in the dead of winter. Everyone is different. Do what is best for your own health.

[@carascottvo]

This. SO much this. The 2002 WHI study was poorly run and has LONG been disproven. According to my guy, Dr Robert Mathis, about 5-7% of menopausal women have enough hormones to live a healthy life after the childbearing years, and the rest of us probably need some help if we're not going to succumb to things like osteoporosis, dementia and heart disease. Like he said, "Mother Nature didn't have a plan except to kick us to the curb when we can't have kids anymore!" Well, forget that! I want to live life! :)

[@brendaandrandyking4126]

Look up dr boz recent video on hormone therapy

[@Mphscat]

Having had a complete hysterectomy I can tell you (at least in my experience) HRT is essential. In addition to the Estrogen, your physician should also discuss the importance of Testosterone replacement also. Please look at all the benefits of it after menopause.

[@judithpearson3968]

So glad you're feeling better. Will continue to say a prayer for you. The soreness will go away. It just takes time. You even looked more like yourself. Be patient with yourself , Renee. It's easy to get impatient when you can't do things you want to do. Glad for your continued progress and for keeping us updated.

[@kw8501]

I feel so lucky! I was in menopause at 50 (I'm 57 now). I had heavy bleeding and a couple of night sweats and hot flashes over the years but I breezed through it. I have never felt better. I have all my parts and pieces though so maybe I still have enough hormones. I prefer to stay natural with few medicines. Hope your HRT helps you!

[@Edangel14-421]

I am a new subscriber. I am in the process of getting a hysterectomy. I appreciate all this information! I am following this journey like a hawk. I wish I had your gorgeous curls! Thank you so much for sharing such a personal journey. 💕

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Welcome! So glad you're here 💕 I'm happy to answer any questions you have...just let me know.

[@Edangel14-421]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls Thank you!! I am in the process of finding a surgeon I trust. I would prefer the newer technologies as you had so fingers crossed!

[@susanzatorski8142]

I am having surgery next week.

[@Edangel14-421]

@@susanzatorski8142 I'll be praying Susan 🙏

[@annas8535]

@@susanzatorski8142 how are you doing?

[@juliemackenzie1978]

I'm so glad that you are feeling better. I didn't have any major side effects from menopause. The women in my family transitioned into menopause so effortlessly. Thank goodness. But, my friends have been put through the ringer. I empathize with all of you who have had major issues. 😳😕💔 Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊

[@christineg4934]

2 years ago, I had a total abdominal hysterectomy. I had an incision that went, hip bone to hip bone. I stayed in the hospital for 3 days. They could not do the surgery any other way due to the football size mass that was being removed also. I was so swollen and stayed swollen for 6 months!! The swelling went down slowly after that. The gas pains were almost as painful as the incisions were for the first month. I went on Estradial pills, 5mg. They saved my life! I was miserable. I cried at nothing and everything, I had to change the sheets every day and shower twice a day due the sweating. The total absence of estrogen is not good for your heart or bones either. I am on the other side now and life is great, you will get there too .

[@christineg4934]

When weighing the pros and cons of taking Estrogen or not.... I leaned that more women die of heart disease then die of estrogen caused breast cancer. Heart disease can be cause by lack of estrogen, also your chances of getting osteopetrosis increases with lack of estrogen. For me, it was easy choice, but if someone has breast cancer in their family, the choices may be different.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I agree! For me, the benefits outweigh the risks.

[@debbieyates29]

So glad to hear you are feeling better. Hot flashes are the pits. I used to wake up soaking wet, had to change the bed because it was soaked too. You almost feel like jumping in the fridge to cool off. You life may change for the better in that you have been made to slow down & take things at a slower pace. You look amazing!!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Hi Debbie! It's the worst feeling to sleep in wet pajamas and on damp sheets! I have to get out of bed and fan off my pajamas to try to dry them. It's too much! Not to mention that I'm woken up every 2.5 hours and simply can not get into a deep sleep. But I've now had the Estradiol patch on me for 5 nights....and I'm sleeping better every night! The night sweats are less severe....I just get hot but don't break out in the horrible sweat. That's an improvement!

[@lf7065]

I've had this surgery as well, and it takes a long time to heal. Up to a year or more. We have a huge wound inside where our internal organs once were. Please go slow. Dont push yourself. Rest a lot. Give your body time to heal. 🙏🙂

[@rosep9866]

You are healing.😊 Just remember your body went through some major changes so be loving to your self..Have a wonderful quite week ,,buy some flowers for your self that a nice beautiful pick yourself up..❤️🌹

[@marcyjrtmom8139]

So glad you are feeling better and you look amazing! Cannot believe no one told you to get yourself a bedside fan! I am well out of menopause but still need my little fan at night. It is a must have!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Thank you so much!! We have a ceiling fan in our bedroom that runs all night. I puts off a great cool breeze.

[@jmcg6189]

When I was having the flashes I slept with 2 fans on me at night. I didn't have a ceiling fan at that time. Eventually they stopped.

[@amynewell2527]

Isn't it great that we can work with our doctors and come up with a treatment that is best for our own individual needs. I've been on an oral HRT for about a year and a half and it has helped my post menopausal symptoms tremendously. I hope you have an easy journey to find what works best for you!

[@debbiedavidson4877]

I went thru menopause at around 54…I’m now 72 and still having hot flashes…and none of my friends have them! I cannot do HRT bc my sister had breast cancer so be very thankful you can take them.

[@susansendelbach7761]

when I can't sleep I listen to podcasts. 5 minutes later I am sawing logs! Use your phone for them. This American Life, The Moth are two of my favorites.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Interesting....thanks!

[@ossier2796]

I’ve never used hormones , kept my fibroids (got small after menopause) or had a hysterectomy. You look fabulous after surgery and healing up nicely. I think everyone has different experiences with menopause. I’m 72 and never had hot flashes and only mild night sweats but I’ve never had children so I don’t know how any of these things affect menopause. Hope the hormones help.

[@cherylhuhn6180]

I was lucky .I went into menopause @50. And didn't have night sweats! Glad you are better!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Lucky you!

[@lynndinovo3500]

You are on your way to feeling great again. It's all a process. HRT is a lifesaver. Your attitude is so positive and that is key to a good recovery. Listen to your own body. That's the best you can do for yourself. I love your curls btw. 😊😊

[@lucybloom7600]

" Happy to have Hormones" fabulous Renee that you are able to get the patch and it's helping right away. Awesome.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

It really is! I'm feeling better every day 😊

[@ileanagarcia-soto5449]

I am lucky, I started hrt months before my surgery. The think that happened to me was that the hrt completely took my ovary pain away, so no pain prior to surgery. I am super happy to have hormones too!!!

[@rondalangenfeld9893]

Been on Estradiol patches 0.025mg for almost 10 years since my total abdominal hysterectomy at age 45. It’s life changing, don’t want to ever give it up. People are very anti HRT, I’m a Registered nurse, talk to provider, research on your own and do what’s best for you🙂. That small amount of Estrogen is life changing!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I absolutely agree! Everyone should do their own research and determine what's best for them. When I knew I was having a hysterectomy, I started researching immediately. I feel like I understand the risks and benefits...and the options. I do think I need hormones and will take them. I'll just have to figure out what method I prefer and the dose that helps me. Thank you for sharing that great info!

[@genfinegan7690]

I love my HRT. I use a twice weekly patch and take my progesterone at night. I did a huge amount of research before I decided to start. Made a huge change for the better in my life. I am 55 and was miserable before. Happy youre doing well.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I've now had the patch for 5 nights...and I'm already seeing the difference! The night sweats are less severe and I'm able to get back to sleep faster. Thank goodness! Hoping it continues to improve. I have also done a huge amount of research so when the time came, I understood the pros/cons and what my options are. Thankfully I do have a doctor that understands. I'll see him again in 2.5 weeks for a follow-up. Thanks for sharing your story!

[@angelasmith257]

My doc will only give estrogen cause I have no uterus,progesterone raises the risks of cancer…

[@venusm61]

Hi Renee. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are helping a lot of women. I had a full hysterectomy in 2003 at age 42. I had that same patch. It will start working after a few days. The lowest dose possible that works and the patch is the safest because if you take them orally the hormones get processed by your liver which can cause complications. I was told to place it in the same area in which you are placing. I wore the patch for two years. I did not have any menopausal symptoms afterward. There are silicone sheets that one can purchase for the healing of scars. Ask your doctor. When they first came out about 30 years ago, I purchased one that was reusable from the pharmacy. It could be washed. Now they are over the counter. Not sure if they are as effective. My husband got a slash on his forehead from a hockey stick. It was an awful looking wound. I applied this patch to his forehead. It worked! There is absolutely no scar visible.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Oh wow....thanks for the info! I'll look into the sheets. I certainly don't want any scare on my belly because I still wear a bikini in the summer 🏖️

[@sherimcgill5139]

Your experience is very interesting! I would compare it to ripping the band aid off 😂 I went through menopause naturally starting at 48. I would get the hot flashes during all hours of the day and night about every 20 minutes at first, but the nighttime ones were the worst. All that has tapered off, but if I drink caffeine, I will still get a hot flash. I’m 59 now. I’m praying for the day that I will no longer notice them or even have them. Keep on surviving Rene, it’s just a part of life ❤

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

You aren't even kidding! I was thrown into menopause the minute my ovaries were removed....with zero hormones. Not fun at all! But I'm working my way through it :)

[@joangrigsby1031]

Great advise!

[@kathystclair9485]

Watching videos about HRT lead me to your video. As you know once you have surgical hysterectomy hormones are important and vital! I went through normal menopause at 51 and 3 months into it I was a completely different person. I had panic attacks nerve pain that lasted 9 months, went to many specialists to figure out what was wrong with me. I was put on an antidepressant and tried other meds. Never did I think post menopause would hit so hard. I finally had to go to a neurologist. He diagnosed me with nerve pain due to anxiety. It was a nightmare for that 9 months. I felt I was just existing. Finally, I waited 8 entire years before I sought out a doctor who was a proponent of HRT. I suffered so long because of fear monging concerning HRT. I was putting my estradiol patches on the lower part of my stomach and the past year I have been putting them just right above the hip. They stay on much better there. BTW, I am 66 now. There are so many health benefits I plan to stay on them. A lot of OBGYN doctors do not promote HRT because they have had little to not training in that area. Good references to watch on KZbin is Menopause Taylor, Mary Clair Havor, MD. And also, probably my favorite doctor to listen too, though all very knowledgeable on this subject is Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith. Best of luck on this journey!

[@maggieslifeisawildride512]

Oh Renée...I feel for you. I'm 56 and went through perimenopause for close to 10 years! Yes...hot flashes and emotional...I hate that part too. I found on Amazon a cooling blanket. I bought two and placed one under me and the other on top plus a small fan when I went to bed and it really did help. The fan did not have to be directly on me just in the room to help circulate the air. I sometimes used an old fashioned corn bag that I put in the freezer and then under my neck to help cool me. I also took an OTC supplement for the hot flashes. I still had some nights where I woke up drenched but overall it got better. And don't be too hard on yourself...it's natural to be more teary when you've had zip for sleep. I also understand the pain and limitations that you're dealing with. I have a spine injury that always (every breathing moment) puts me at a pain level of 5-6 out of a 1-10 scale. I can never lift more than 10 lbs and boy is that inconvenient...Lol! It will get better...be patient with yourself. You are doing everything you should...it just takes a little time. Thank you so much for sharing your hysterectomy story with us all...we women have got to stick together and do what we can to help each other out. And you are super blessed to have Randy be so supportive, mindful, and helpful during this recovery period. You go Randy! Lol! Oh...how is your hair doing? Anesthesia always dries out your hair.

[@janhankins911]

Yes, I certainly agree with the effect of little to no sleep. When I haven't gotten enough sleep, I cry like a baby over nothing. "How are you today, Jan?" Jan sobs.

[@maggieslifeisawildride512]

@@janhankins911 Oh yes!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Literally....me at the grocery. I just started sobbing. For no reason. I was just sleep deprived, emotional, and had no hormones!! 🤪

[@vanessapontiff9367]

Can you please share the Amazon cooling blanket and your thoughts on it? Is it worth buying and did it help you?

[@ashasivapalan6029]

I did feel like an important part of my body that kept everything in balance has gone. I did feel a bit low although I was trying to stay active and stay positive. Apparently some women feel a loss. It's been two years since I had it. I feel much better now.

[@michellem8284]

Night sweats that prevent sleep are miserable! I know! I used Estradiol patches for awhile, but believe it caused my colitis. I'm not the only one who believes their crohns/colitis was brought on by hormone replacement. But, I do understand the miserableness of night sweats and mood swings and needing some relief. Each person has to do what they feel is best for them based on their personal and family medical history. Hormone replacement has risks just like any drug (even Tylenol has risks) and doctors and patients have to weigh the benefit against the risk. I'm glad you are doing so well and hope you get some relief.

[@natalievstaden1430]

You're doing wonderfully well, good news.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Yes, thank you! I'm feeling stronger. Yesterday, I actually went to Hobby Lobby and Homegoods because I'm redecorating our guest bedrooms. After about 2 hours of walking around in the stores, I got tired and came home. But at least I was out!

[@libbyhaines3105]

I had a total hysterectomy about 10 year's ago, it was such a shock to my system i got the shingles. After changing my diet 4 year's ago to ketovore all my symptoms went away.

[@shawnalexander4928]

I had my hysterectomy in 2012. The worst mistake I made is declining HRT therapy. I didn't have any night sweats in the past one month. However, my hair thinned out, and I became so depressed. Turns out, even though my hormones were in range, I needed estrogen. I finally started estrogen 1 mg a week and a half ago, and my darn hair started to grow back. Ladies, if your hair is thinking and no one can figure out why, talk to your doctor about HRT. By the way, I had a partial hysterectomy.

[@christybeem3483]

I went into menopause early. Just this past January it was official (a year since my last period), and I just turned 48. I guess I'm pretty lucky. The hot flashes are NO fun, the absolute worst part for me. But my night sweats aren't near as severe as yours. I do wake up about 3 times a night, and sometimes I have difficulty going back to sleep. I started using a sound machine, and I always sleep with a fan on me to help. In fact, I have the fan on me 24 hours a day pretty much. I don't feel like I need to go on HRT, but thanks for sharing your journey. It helps to be able to hear each other's experiences.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

We have a ceiling fan going in our bedroom at night so that helps. And wow 48 and done!

[@joangrigsby1031]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls with menapause you are never done

[@cynthiaamitrano8915]

I went into menopause at age 33. A life changer.

[@deborahhenderson5219]

Oh boy Renee~ poor girl. I had a forced hysterectomy at 45 years old, 20 plus years ago. I was so lucky. I did not suffer much at all. I had the full blown incision too, which you can't see at all. I remember saying to myself right after coming home from the hospital even, " Heck, I could vaccuum if I wanted to". My doctor put me on a very low dose of HRT immediately before leaving the hospital~ so I have never experienced the hot flashes, lack of sleep, mood swings etc~ again, I've been so lucky I guess after hearing your difficulties. I can't wait till you tell us you finally are able to laugh a big belly laugh~ it won't be long! You are getting there girl, I just love ❤️ you!!!!

[@valerieshepherd6823]

Renee... Bio oil will help to reduce appearance of the scars xxx😊

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

bio oil? Not familiar with that....I'll look it up. I've always heard to use vitamin E....but after looking into it....basically it doesn't do anything. Hmmm...

[@Micahisabel7]

Hi Renee! I wanted you to know that between you and another KZbinr you have truly made this whole total hysterectomy experience much better than I thought it would ever be! My surgery was December 14th, I am 4 days post op. I watched your videos multiple times to make sure I didn't forget anything and thankfully it has been a pretty smooth process. I had an injury to my throat and then had an allergic reaction to the throat spray they gave me to help me THEN found out today I had strep throat too!😂 HOWEVER, the actual incisions, ride home with the travel pillow, going to the bathroom, and walking has been much easier thanks to your tips and tricks! I appreciate you sharing tour journey! I started my estrogen patch today, it is 0.1. I am 50 and was perimenopausal beforehand. Hoping I have success with the patch like you did! I hope others see your videos and comments and it helps them the way it helped me!

[@dothatch5147]

So sorry you are having problems. Time will heal all just be patient. I had a hysterectomy some years ago but I was lucky that my dr put the pellets in before she finished up. I have tried all the types of hormones. I will say the patch was my least favorite for hygiene reasons. The shots were great but inconvenient to go to the office every 6 weeks. The pills just ok. But the pellets I give a 100% . They last 6 months. All of the ladies I met in office or were friends just loved the convience of pellets. In all of these years I have never had a night sweat or a hot flash or any symptons of menopause. I feel the reason is my doctor putting the pellets in at surgery. I tell you this so that you know there are many ways to take hormones and I suggest you try them to find your fit. I wish you luck and to soon be back to feeling back to yourself. Let me add this Rene. I am 76 now and healthy. I believe the hormones kept me healthy. I have my regular checkups my bone density is fine I had a heart cath my heart is strong I had a colonoscopy every 5 yrs all fine. I dont have a mindset of a 76 year old. I owe it to great doctors and good hormones.

[@lorij9649]

Gotta have compassion for Renee! Sorry for the pain and inconvenience your hormones are causing you. I'm 69 and have never had one hot flash in my life.... or any hormonal issue. I am not bragging, but very happy and about it. Very fortunate in my overall health...So what is possible for one person is possible for another. Please readers Do Not Think that when you go through menopause you will have a bad experience because you have only heard about the pain and hot flashes. My period stopped at age 48 without one problem!! I am a person who loved having a period every month though! It was something I counted on. Be Thankful for your periods. It means your body is Working Properly.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

You are lucky 💕

[@vanessacarmichael9584]

Thank you for posting this. I am due to have surgery in January 2024 and I truly had idea on how I may feel. So thank you for sharing

[@kefirheals7383]

I'm just wondering why your doctor felt you 'had' to get your ovaries out. Poor little Renee, having to go through all this stuff. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

[@AidaJof]

I am so happy you are feeling much better and you got a doctor who listened to you and provided you with the HRT that you needed. Hopefully, the night sweats will improve over time and you can get a proper night's sleep. Take care. FYI - when I was going through menoupause, I had Estradiol gel that you rubbed inside your wrists and that got me over the hump.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I have a friend who uses the Estradiol on her wrists also. I think that's a great option also! I'm excited to talk to my doctor when I go for my follow up visit in April and get more info 😊

[@faeryhill1]

This has been a very insightful video Renee... I'm glad you're feeling better on the hormones ❤ I actually have a appointment in a week or so to see my doctor... after foolishly thinking I had gone through my menopause as I'd experienced major mood swings, hot flushes, brain fog and others...AND hadn't seen a period in 9mths! I bled again with a vengeance twice... now reverting back to to nothing except mood swings and v.bad night sweats! I've always been one for a more natural way of dealing with things but because of my M.S and Osteoporosis I feel I need to at least have the facts laid out. Thanks to everyone on here for your own experience and thoughts ✨️ 🙏 ❤ keep on healing Renee ❤

[@user-yp1fb4pn1e]

I had a partial hysterectomy and have never felt better. I was only 31, but I chose not to take anything at that time. once i hit menopause, i did go on hrt, natural compounded. I did gain weight, maybe around 15 lbs, after i stopped the hrt, i lost it. I didn't have too many symptoms, just the hot flashes, lasted two years, but not bad. I went off of hrt and am doing great. vitamin d3 with k2 has been a huge help. I'm healthy and living a great life. thank you for sharing....you look great, love your hair. you look young, too. pray all goes great for you. take extra care and get rest.

[@debbiedixon4722]

I'm a new subscriber. I'm 56 yrs old and will be having a total laparoscopic/ vaginal hysterectomy on June 20. I've enjoyed watching your "real life" videos! Thanks 😊

[@barbiedoll6530]

You look phenomenal Renee! Take your time during recovery! My sister still carrys her pillow around to this day....she had surgery 15 years ago. hahahahaha You are not alone!

[@sandyt8981]

Your experience with surgical menopause mirrored my experience with natural menopause almost ten years ago when I was 50. It was like having a newborn, only at least with a newborn you can look forward to the baby eventually sleeping through the night! HRT saved me. I use the patch, too, and I also take a 200 mg progesterone pill every night. It's a miracle! (I found your channel because I saw your hysterectomy recovery video. I'm having a full hysterectomy next week due to a fibroid that's the same size as my uterus.) Thank you for sharing your story with us.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Best of wishes to you during your surgery. I'm now 6 months past my hysterectomy and feeling wonderful! You'll be a new woman with that fibroid gone 😁

[@tracythaemar1864]

Short story: I had a complete hysterectomy when I was 48, I did not have the option of laparoscopic surgery and they had to cut me open as if it was a C-section, so my recovery time was about 3 months. About two months into my recovery I became so bored, and antsy that I begged my mother and my cousin to take me to the movies. I convinced my mamma that there wouldn’t be a strain on me because I would be sitting down and that there would be no harm to me. Once we were at the Cineplex I had a short walk to the front doors, then a rather longer walk to the correct theater our movie was playing in. By the time we sat down I was in so much pain I wanted to cry, but I didn’t let my mamma or my cousin know this because I had made such a fuss about getting out of the house, and how I was up for the small outing. I didn’t realize until then that sitting in a restrictive seat would be so uncomfortable. I don’t remember the movie we saw because I was so close to screaming during the whole show. Side note, my mother walked with a walker because she had back issues, and when we all got up to leave I almost passed out, not being dramatic, I fell to my knees and my cousin had to help me to my feet, and my mother gave me her walker so I could walk out of the theater. I was shaking so hard I didn’t think I would make it back to the car. My mamma gave me an earful all the way home, and I spent a week recovering from my outing. So you keep on going slow, and take all the time your body needs for a full recovery. DO NOT OVERDO! It took about a year after my hysterectomy before I felt truly normal again. But once it’s all said and done, your life will be so much better.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Oh gosh....that's horrible! I'm doing small things, short outings, and lots of rest. Promise!

[@jeannezimmerman7034]

Omg your story is so close to mine re the outing. I was 28 and got the earful from a friend and my doctor! I didn't get much family support. The procedure was so hard to recover from plus I had cancer close to my bowels and ovaries. Horrible time. My husband disappeared with a girlfriend and I had come home to being cleaned out. Then I got sick and had the hysterectomy.

[@tracythaemar1864]

@@jeannezimmerman7034 you poor thing. I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope that life is much better for you now.

[@teresagill8501]

Glad you are better! No, those hot flashes are no fun and the sleepless nights are not good. Take care of yourself and go at your own pace. God bless.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Thanks Teresa!

[@toniwanserski9257]

I was only 34 when I had to have a complete hysterectomy. It was an emergency situation, so I was in the hospital for about a week. The moment I woke from surgery, I was soaked in sweat. I was on HRT until I was 52. I'm 55 now & still have some hot flashes, but my doc said I should stop taking it when I would be in "natural" menopause. I used oral HRT because the patches irritated my sensitive skin. Hope your recovery continues to go smoothly.

[@TheHelenhunter]

You don't have to/shouldn't stop!

[@dorothynewhouse1160]

I had a total hysterectomy when I was 30 no HRT therapy I'm now 53 and just left my drs office for hrt therapy! 🤞 I lose weight and my hair grows back and no more hot flashes I'm praying this helps me.

[@gaylewills1294]

I was so lucky. Last cycle at age 51. Never had any symptoms. No night sweats or hot flashes. My mom and sister did not either. We were lucky. I will be 61 saturday. I absolutely love my period free yrs.

[@elizabethconroy7665]

Looking very well and cheerful Hormones do help Had early Menopause at age 39 Went straight on HRT ,immediately Saved my life All the best 😊

[@91livinginthelight]

When you do wake up through the night because of the night sweats, I’ve found eating a pop sickle really helps.Just saying. Hope it help you! God Bless 💕💕💕

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I simply get a drink of cold water :)

[@yolirankin9733]

You look beautiful! Thank you for sharing the good, bad and ugly. I appreciate you Renee. 😘😘😘much love!!

[@lem4100]

GPI3 I had a Hysterectomy in 1985. The doctor left one ovary to make menopause a little easier. I went on HRT but not for long. My doctor called me & told me to get off the HRT. They were finding all kinds of problems from it. I did stop them. My hot flashes were not bad at all. I did fine without them. I had a fairly easy menopause. I hope you find what you need to feel better.

[@patriciareyes3148]

I am 50 and 4 months post op from my full hysterectomy (removed everything including uteri’s, cervix, ovaries, fallopian tubes and lymph nodes). It’s the best decision in my life. No risk of cancer spreading. I initially had hot flashes, night sweats, brain fog, constant headache and insomnia. It cleared up after about two months and I’m actually feeling a lot better. More energy and no more pain. I’m still running hotter than normal (I’m usually cold) but overall it’s been good. No more “real” hot flashes and no night sweats. My husband said he now has a new “hot” wife, not a “cold hearted” one anymore. I’m taking a soy menopause supplement but I don’t know if it’s helping or if I’m just regulating myself better. I am not opposed to HRT. Im glad it’s helping you and I’ll look into it myself if I start getting symptoms like you were describing. Good luck! 👍🏼

[@annas8535]

I am getting same thing July 10th for cervical adenocarcinoma 1B. This is encouraging. I put my email on my channel in case you are willing to answer some questions or share your experience. I am 41.

[@paulachristie7807]

I never had hot flashes, but I had severe night sweats and nightmares. I haven’t heard other people complain of nightmares but my doctor said they were related to menopause. I was so tired I couldn’t function at work. My doctor put me on HRT and I was grateful she did. I was on HRT for two years and it eased the transition for me. Looking back I wished I had stayed on it longer but when the big scare report came out my husband urged me to stop and I did. Guess I should add that I am 72 and went through this 20 years ago.

[@melissadraper7560]

Glad your doing better, I have missed you. You brighten my day.

[@makeapennycry]

Thank you so much for documenting this process. I will have to go through it. I have so many fibroids. I take bio identical hormone therapy, pellet every 3 months due t on having gone through menopause already. It’s the best thing ever, so I’ll continue that afterwards. I had the worst hot flashes etc and bio identicals have completely fixed that. Highly recommend!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I am very interested in the pellet....it's something that I'll have to look into. Since I live in a small town, I don't even know if there is a doctor here that uses pellets. But I think that would be the perfect delivery method. I can see the patches becoming an issue during the summer when I'm in the pool a lot.

[@yajairafonsecaortiz4649]

Hi, I had a complete hysterectomy in 2023. I'm 37 years old and I'm sweating and I can't sleep at night and bone pain. They recommended estradiol patches, just to see if they take away the hot flashes.

[@yajairafonsecaortiz4649]

How good are the pellets? I'm desperate with the changes I've had because I don't have ovaries and does it have side effects?

[@makeapennycry]

@@yajairafonsecaortiz4649 I haven’t experienced any side effects although everyone is different so there could be some for some people. It has absolutely improved my quality of life 100 percent, so much. I sleep soundly, have lots of energy ( which was so affected by menopause) and all the side effects of menopause, especially hot flashes for me, completely gone. I have to mention also libido is not a problem at all and that was really affected heavily before by menopause as well. Once you begin the pellet, it’s hard to go back to nothing. I had looked into the traditional hormone replacement therapy before using bio identicals and read that the traditionally recommended ( not bio identicals) only mask the symptoms of menopause but do not replace the lost hormones, thus we continue to gain around the middle to build estrogen producing fat cells and also experience other menopause symptoms. I recommend the book “ Aging” by Suzanne Somers, where she really dives deep into the use of bio identicals 😄👍

[@makeapennycry]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls the pellet would help with the swimming issue. There are just 3 days following the implantation process where refraining from swimming is recommended but after that you are good!😊

[@annegreenwood3624]

you look so pretty love your sweater thanks for sharing another great video i find a gel pack from the fridge helps with hot flashes and a mini portable fan

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Thanks Anne! Have a great day!

[@cleanqueen75]

I’m 67. I’ve been on bio-identical compounded estrodial , testosterone and progesterone creams for 12 years now.

[@kathryncurry8728]

Oh please keep us posted on the hormones. I go to my doctor on the 30th & really hope she’s “for” hormones. I’ve done a lot of research and know we not only need estrogen, but testosterone and progesterone also. Just hope I don’t have to wait even longer to see a midlife doctor to get them! I feel like I haven’t slept well for 5 years now 🤬

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

Estradiol is plant-based and bio-identical which was important to me....just wanted to let you know :)

[@kathryncurry8728]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls yes, that is the one to take, is it only estrogen though?

[@mokhiber1]

Renee you look amazing so glad you are feeling so much better. I also want to thank you so much for being so personal. Take your time with your recovery ❤️‍🩹

[@karenwade6713]

I'm 57 and am thru menopause(natural, not surgical) but I still have break through hot flashes. Like a clock at 3am. Several years ago they were like yours, constantly every 2 hours. I get pellets of testosterone and estrogen and man that was a lifesaver. And if you are taking estrogen you should also be taking progesterone, which I do. That will help you sleep.I still occasionally need them but not as frequent. Those work best for me and of course you must consult with your personal MD. Good luck with your treatment ❤

[@LindajW]

Good to see you looking so much better Renee. I had to have hormones as I was at risk for Osteoporosis. Yes HRT is a trial and error process, getting what’s right and works for you. I tried everything over the years, pills, patches but much prefer the Oestrogel pump with Estradiol transdermal gel. Doesn’t make my skin itch like the patches did after a while, so easy to apply twice a day. Go gently with your recovery, take care dear Renee. Sending big hugs and Get Well Healing Wishes from Linda and Rufus ❤️🙏🏻 🇬🇧

[@lindapearson3411]

My sister-in-law took hormones because of terrible hot flashes and ended up with breast cancer and having both breasts removed. Hope your doctor explained this!!!

[@genfinegan7690]

It wasnt from her HRT. Im sorry that happened.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

HRT is not recommended if you have breast cancer in your immediate family. I do not have that medical history so it's safe for me.

[@chrismahoney4230]

Thank you, Renee, for continuing to keep us updated on your journey! Menopause has been a tough one for me so far, and I'm only 52. I have researched and am trying different supplements, but nothing so far has totally worked. I might have to consider hormone therapy.

[@Acapulc941]

Sylvia is right that we all go through menopause differently. I was SLAMMED into it prior to my 2004 hysterectomy, due to chemo for breast cancer. No one had warned me and it was the anesthesiologist who saw me sweating profusely as I awaited surgery to have my chemo port removed who told me what was going on. Thereafter, as I went through months of DRIPPING SWEAT, I couldn't do HRT, so i tried everything I read or was told about to control it, steadfastly refusing doc recommendations for drugs, which were antidrpressants. Meanwhile, on the courtroom bench or while talking with police officers, I continued to DRIP SWEAT. Finally, the docs explained that the antidrpressants were not on amounts used for drpression; rather in lower dose thought to act on the same part of the brain. And finally, 9 months later, I got some relief from those awful sweats. So, hang in there. You're doing GREAT.

[@marysmith9361]

I had a hysterectomy many years ago and the doctor put me on hormones which I took for 27 years! Never thought of cancer until I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2000. I had the breast removed and been clear since. (nobody in my family ever had breast cancer). I do miss the hormones and for years had the same symptoms as you are having. I told the doc I wanted to go back on hormones because my life was so miserable, he told me "NO"! Not fun at all.

[@lf7065]

Were you on Premarin back then?

[@angelasmith257]

We’re u on the patch?

[@MarlaLukofsky7]

So glad you are feeling better, Renee. Your description of your extreme hot flashes reminds me of my experience when i had chemo due to my breast cancer. My dr said it was like driving my body into a brick wall at 40 mph. What usually happens in life is our hormones gradually reduce over a decade but with your operation and my chemo made it happened in a week and wham. Extreme hot flashes, soaking, then freezing, changing of clothes, sheets, not being able to sleep because of the sweating and chills and on and on. I was not given an option for ER HTR because my bc was ER positive. Still my drs say no to it but I believe that quality of life matters as well. Hoping you continue to follow your heart and your body and make the decisions that work best for you. We are all different and have different reactions and people also need to do their own research on everything and have a dr they can work with, not work for. Can't wait for your next video. YOu go girl.

[@lorrainevart8827]

Similar to yourself hormone treatment not prescribed because of breast cancer previously. I have heard of local cream application which might be okay. Any comments ?

[@vbhandle79]

I was very lucky and had no major issue with the night sweats. I managed my other symptoms with acupuncture, which was a godsend. I did notice that the hot flushes i did have worsened when I had anything sweet like chocolate and sweets. Sad but true😅

[@amixeblu]

I am glad you feel better. I am 50 (picture is *very* recent) and going through peri-menopause; bloodwork showed that my hormones are definitely still there but decreasing, not enough though that it is full-blown menopause. I get the hot flushes sometimes and golly my hormones aren't even totally gone. I can't imagine!

[@amixeblu]

@dan miller If it's got anything to do with my picture, my age, anything that even smells like "dating" or stalking like behavior. NO!

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I blocked him from my channel. I just saw that he was leaving the same comment for many women. You won't have to deal with him again. I'm sorry about that!

[@amixeblu]

@@WelcomeToMyCurls Thank you *so much* Renée. I have been getting stuff like this on a couple channels, could you tell by my reply to him? I have developed a sense of smell for it by now. LOL! But thank you again!

[@kathygirlygirl4109]

Renee, I hate to say it but welcome to the world of menopause. I had the night sweats and hot flashes for years. I am 61 and had my complete hysterectomy at 45. Still having hot flashes but the night sweats aren't as bad. I can't do hormones due to my history of breast cancer 3 times. That's a huge no no. Just know things will be different. Life goes on and I just work around it. I do use the fan over the bed a lot more than before but I feel like I'm dying if I don't cool down. Take care and just roll with the changes.

[@PENcilitis]

Just found your KZbin site...Love your down to earth, honest, bright outlook...I am binge watching your videos, and am really enjoying them with such varied subjects... Thanks for Sharing 👍

[@sharihorting4560]

I had a complete hysterectomy in 2004 at age 46, began using the estradiol 0.1 mg patch immediately as per my doctors instructions. I've never had any menopausal symptoms and I feel great. I have no plans to ever stop, also I have no family history of breast cancer. I alternate the weekly patch from hip to hip, I don't like it on the front.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I put a new patch on my hip yesterday…and I think I prefer it there also. Thanks for sharing!

[@bethfranck2944]

I had a hard time with hot flashes and my physician prescribed Combipatch. It contains estrogen and progesterone. It was a life saver. I was on it for two years and when I went off the symptoms greatly improved. I may hot flash a couple times a week. You’ll love it.

[@angelasmith257]

Did u gain or lose weight after going off them?

[@crystalaudas5035]

This patch unfortunately didn't work for me after my full hysterectomy. My breasts were extremely sore and none of my symptoms went away. I feel like it just added another discomfort to what I was already going through. I live in Texas, so like where you live the heat of the Summer worsens the hotflashes and the frequency increased during this time. After 10 years of trying creams, patches, compounded lozenges, and drops I gave up on HRT. Then, I saw a Tiktok and a lady was talking about Biote pellet therapy and how her menopause symptoms went away, she stopped losing hair, her skin felt soft, the deep joint aches went away, she got amazing sleep, and increased libido, etc. I researched for a couple of months and made the choice to see my doctor, get blood work , and get them. Unfortunately, insurance doesn't cover this HRT treatment. It covers it for men, but not for women. So stupid. I am now on my second insertion and going to get my 3rd the middle of next month. It has been life changing for me and I feel like myself again. My husband and children are excited because the mood swings are gone lol. My doctor said I will know when I no longer need them anymore. As they start to wear off a couple of weeks before the next insertion I won't have symptoms anymore and will know I am past the symptom stage. With me being only 32 when I got the full hysterectomy and 42 now it is undetermined when that will be. It is tough being a woman. I am glad you are recovering well from your surgery. I know these symptoms are tough. You have a great husband to help you through. Menopause can make you not feel like yourself, but so many of us go through exactly what you are going through. At least we can talk about it and learn from eachother.

[@jeannezimmerman7034]

The pellets are amazing. I agree...its stupid insurance doesn't cover the cost for women. But never felt better. As I had a medical retirement, I had to change to Estradiol. Its okay but is covered by my insurance.

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I think pellets would be a great option for me too! Not sure if anyone in my small town even has them available. It will be trial and error for me I'm sure. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@energeticsoulhealer888]

Your doctor LET you have hormones? He works for YOU. YOU tell him to prescribe you hormones, and if he/she won't, then you fire them. I control my health, and advocate for myself. Even if there's cancer, blood clots, etc, the choice is MINE to do what I want with my own body. We gotta get out of the mindset of doctors being in charge. They aren't, and I let them know IMMEDIATELY. If they don't fall in line, I find someone else who will. I'm their boss. Period. Goodness gracious, ugh.

[@angelasmith257]

Amen sister! I have fired many till I found the right one!

[@rhondadiamondninfo5352]

Menopause can be a huge pain in the butt. Glad you started hormones.

[@pamdawson8598]

That's funny, any if us who have had any abdominal operation know what you mean about laughing, goes with the territory. One tends to nurse and protect one's abdomen. Your body has been greatly invaded. It takes time to heal. You're doing a great job. I'm sure your vlogs have been so helpful.

[@missy67]

I tried bioidentical cream when I went into menopause. It went ok at first, but then the benefits started to diminish after a while. I finally went "cold turkey" - it took about 5 years, but all those hot flashes are behind me. I really hope the patch will work for you and that you continue to see improvement!

[@jillcarlson2076]

I had a radical hysterectomy and my doctor put a hormone patch on me in recovery. I also take Evening Primrose Oil (1x every morning) and within two weeks of taking it I was and still am free of all the menopause symptoms! 🥰🙏💕

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

wow....interesting! Evening primrose oil....I'll look into that! Thanks!

[@angelasmith257]

Are u off the patch?

[@starbrightblue4936]

I’m surprised you are driving. Did you have a restriction in the beginning? So glad you’re doing better!!!❤

[@WelcomeToMyCurls]

I was restricted from driving for 5 days....but I didn't actually drive for almost 2 weeks. I didn't go anywhere by myself and need to drive.

[@jillcarlson2076]

Keep strong! You are truly doing wonderful! 🥰🙏💕👍🏻👍🏻

[@TheSchnoodlemom]

I've had hot flashes for over 20 yrs! My husband bought me something called "The bed fan". It goes on the bottom of the bed, on top of the fitted sheet and under the flat sheet. IT"S WONDERFUL!! I turn it on and it blows cool air on my feet and cools me down. I'm not able to take hormone replacement, so I take Estroven. It helps, but I've found the change of seasons amps up the hot flashes for a few weeks.