i turned 22 & moved back home.

[@_davvinaa_]

Kai comes, gives us major life updates, then dips😂

[@dynamict4722]

We love her for it😂

[@zakiyatamin5744]

😂😂

[@dangdeionn]

Girl I knew this was coming (the roommate thing) . I’m 23 still at home and planning to leave soon. I wasn’t ready I tried the roommate thing and I feel like being on my own is the best way to be. I rather be home in my early twenties than to have to come back in my thirties.

[@se2664]

Honestly my mom doesn’t play with the roommate shit! She was hesitant about me trying to live off campus with roommates in college. I don’t have the patience to tell people to clean up after themselves. I don’t need people sneaking around eating my shit! Or roommates inviting people over and they can mess with your stuff

[@dangdeionn]

@@se2664 yes that too but people have no respect . And my story is horrible . I would never roommate again especially not with a man.

[@SelenaLuvGomez]

Yes! Stay home until mid 20s and stack your money up/ do school, etc. It’s a golden opportunity and many people wish they could have the chance 🙏🏽

[@TheThriftQueen]

Yes as a woman now in my 30s, it’s wise to make it work with your parents if you can. Be respectful and just honor their rules and SAVE YOUR MONEY! Paying rent and other bills is tough once you get on your own. I moved out at 25 and I thankfully haven’t had to go back home since graduating college. Just be smart with finances and always save.☺️

[@dangdeionn]

@@TheThriftQueen just curious how much you think on average a woman should have once moving out and saved up around the ages 23-25.

[@kylaj.4975]

“It’s so exhausting living with unnecessary defenses and not even knowing the reason why”…..felt

[@lesbiannotthespian]

"People need help, and will never seek it." truer words have never been said, Kai 🙌🏾😭

[@bluhummingbird2179]

I felt that.👌🏾💯💯

[@alextroy9202]

Yes

[@catalinaparlay]

I am 25 and just moved back to Atlanta for the second time and it’s just not it. Safety is a concern, especially as a Single Black Female. I will be moving back to my small hometown in south Georgia and pick myself back up. It’s totally fine to go home to your support system and utilize them and apply your new life skills. So you got this girl! We got this!

[@se2664]

Honestly after ATL being reported as having the highest HIV rates in the nation and a man getting shot & killed in his rolls Royce in buckhead, I could NEVER live in ATL. Nothing about the city appeals me except jack harlow and pole dancers

[@ThatChickKim]

I don't even blame you for leaving Atlanta. I left in April 2021, and I'm so much happier here in Texas.

[@vanessavazquez5167]

@@se2664 yeah nothing appeals me either. Before coming to ATL i think like me other people thought about the hustle and bustle of the city but it just doesn’t feel like home to me

[@ladybug3380]

ATL isn’t safe anymore I wonder why that is?

[@elevatedlife3884]

I left ATL because there was a crime outside our window every few days ): still love other parts of Georgia tho

[@KahlenBarry]

i’m super proud of you & your resilience. i’m glad you’ve been able to identify things that don’t serve you. i’m def going through my own journey with that. wishing you the world on yours. ❤️

[@maxwellgrimsley]

There’s no shame in coming back home. I’m so sorry you’ve experienced all of this, people suck. I hope and pray you’re able to find your place and your peace with it. Sending love! 💜

[@LibraLife47]

After 22 comes 40. Don’t waste the next 20 on anything that isn’t giving you life. 💜

[@MissTrinitiB]

I needed to see this 😌

[@beautifulemily6382]

Ok

[@willarroz6703]

Thank you

[@Lotus-wl9ll]

Yes! Love this 🤎

[@TheThriftQueen]

Amen

[@sunkissedqueen2885]

I was worried when you said you moved back home because I thought you had moved with your parents. I’m so glad to hear that you are in Chicago but living elsewhere and that you have the space to have some semblance of normalcy while also learning more about yourself in a loving environment. Sending you love and glad you got out of ATL- it’s very ghetto when it comes to making quality friendships

[@wtfisgoingon129]

Same. I was worried too. But glad she’s doing well and living in a safe space!!

[@GlamGoddes101]

Same! I didn’t watch the video yet but glad to hear she’s good 😌

[@modernninasimone]

I decided to move out at 18 and because of my mental condition I had to go back home. Now I have no choice but to stay with my parents. I resonate about feeling like you regress when you stay with your parents. It's like, I grew a lot being on my own but now I've come back and their toxicity is still here. I feel like a previous version of myself and its draining. I wish there was a way I could talk to them about it but the thing about narcissistic parents is that they will either always find an excuse or never acknowledge the problem at hand. I'm grateful that I'm physically okay now but I know me being home is taking a toll on my mental health. 2022 I'm definitely gonna try again. I'm glad you're able to stay with family friends, sending lots of positive energy! :)

[@creativegeenyus1819]

Sorry you feel that way.

[@modernninasimone]

@@creativegeenyus1819 the feelings won’t last forever, I’ll be okay, here’s to 2022!

[@katherineraquelle1930]

I agree with you.

[@deaundre]

i relate so much to this !

[@pinkmapleflower3996]

I'm grateful to have a healthy relationship with my family because people are indeed weird. I'm happy that you didn't let those weird people and negative experiences dim your light. Do what's right for you and focus on the things that brings you joy.

[@mikenzie48]

✨the atlanta situation✨ can’t wait for that video lol 😂💀

[@Jazzycanvibe]

I was thinking the same thing this entire video! Like what HAPPENED

[@TM-tc3om]

Me too because I've never been there

[@Emilyrosemarie]

Me too. Girl I had such a tough year. Moving out, toxic friendship, and my career. Making content is a great help. Hope you get to heal from your past trauma.

[@CR-oc3vy]

"You can only do so much healing and self discovery on your own" I feel this so much, idk how to find relationships that are safe for me

[@coreyparks8072]

Being ok should not be a privilege. And the steps you take to feel safe should never be negotiated, Wishing you and other's in the weird world the best

[@JourneythruCourtney]

2021 has been such a rough year. I just turned 30 ( and I'm a sagittarius) and moved back at home from the west coast to the midwest for the 3rd time. It happens, and there is so much more to come after 22. Your awareness of yourself and your needs is going to serve you so well in your 20's and beyond ❣️

[@ifichukwu]

“The more i learn the more i figure out like i don’t really know” 😭😭 THISS

[@grlnmbr3]

it's really interesting and validating to see someone else go through an almost identical experience as me. I also turned 22 in 2021 and dropped out of uni and essentially decided to reset my whole life. thank you so much for posting this video because I have never felt more understood.

[@inesdeleon4270]

This hair style looks so good on you I love it!! and the nails too you look like yourself but at the same time different in a good way, your face has a new glow imo.

[@sideshowviolin]

Mental health is so so important. I’m excited for your next chapter of growth. I moved back home to Florida last year and it was the best decision I could make

[@saturnsfinest]

so many ways to be shitty to a person... THE DOCTORS DON'T EVEN KNOW, I felt every word of this. I was literally just saying I'm tired of having my guard up if I'm going to be around other people , and I'm starting to only choose to be around people who make vulnerability easy. My birthday is falling on a Tuesday this year and I've decided to spend it alone , I realized I owe it to myself to have a birthday where I didn't worry about other people and I got to just show up. Thanks for being super open, its cool how so many can relate.

[@nathilism]

I spent my 22nd birthday baking my own cake and when I told someone she seemed to think it was sad, but it was nice to spend time with myself! Hope you have a lovely birthday x

[@AshleyNY]

Wow… I’m going back too… after living in LA & Atlanta it just feels right. I feel like I’ve been trying to make a home out of my dreams/career when in all actuality your dreams are the “home” no matter where you are. Sending good vibes to you always & thank you for your constant transparency 🦋

[@synmariel]

you’re literally the spark of hope that i have basically telling me, “do what makes you happy”

[@Wewereneveryoung]

You're in your 20's. You're growing and learning and this is the time to make mistakes. Don't ever look back and regret any of your experiences. You'll thank them later for the hard learned lessons that'll help you grow into the person you become later. We're not perfect and we all make mistakes.

[@frannie045]

We’re on the same boat. The same day I turned 22 I lost my job which made me move to my dads house this month. 6 months before I moved to a whole different country expecting to heal the trauma I endured back at home, wanting to actually live and enjoy my life just for everything to fall apart again. At this point I have no expectations on life, just going through it day by day

[@Yepsaiditandwhat]

The fact that you’re 22 and your brain is so brilliant. Idk what it is but the gen after me (I’m 32) your awareness is just there and I commend you. Stay connected stay grounded. Keep following your heart ❤️

[@noneoftheabovemedia]

With relationships, those who aren't showing you love and affection don't have much love for themselves meaning they can't be emotionally available to anyone else, parents and family members included. If you're somebody who's put in the work to realise and work through your own trauma and yet those around you haven't done the same work and still deny you affection or love, then that is 100 percent a THEM problem. You are available to not only give love, but also receive it because your own excess baggage has been opened up, whereas those around you crippled by depression, low self esteem and their own traumas still carry that shit around. And it sucks as hell when those who are unavailable all happen to be your close friends and family! It's still a lonesome world to be in even after therapy has been had and trauma has been realised because those around you haven't done the same. That being said, I fully relate to you having done all the work and yet still not feeling satisfied or adequate in your relationships because as you've shown, you've grown and overcome whereas those around you have remained the same and refuse to learn from their mistakes.

[@90sgyald]

I’m 23 and I just moved back with my parents. Roommate situations are just not worth it lmao. Thank you for this video💛

[@shuger99]

Turning 23 on the 26 of this month and just moved back home to my moms house after being in an unhealthy relationship. Thank you for sharing your journey it def helps me feel way less alone

[@montezdiamond7065]

Happy New Year! Unfortunately, some people do not have the capacity to build community and peacefully live with others. Atlanta has drastically changed and I was raised in Southwest Atlanta. Your return home and living with friends will cover you as you continue to prosper. Much love and light to you sistah. Shine bright and all is well with you!

[@staciii]

The title makes it sound like you’re 50 and moved back home. You’re still soooo young

[@MonaHerSelfM]

You're so young still. What you experienced was a fucking lot. Especially with the safety aspect. You're very reflected and i tip my head how conscious your current decision has been. I'm 30 and moved a hell of a lot too. I stranded 5 years with a guy i didn't love and settled too early. With 24 i cut ties and tried my own thing. Then I ran into the next relationship and settled for something that wasn't ready. Noooow.... I'm 30 and 4 years with ANOTHER human passed. I basically always looked for safety and lost my freedom and development. I broke up with my SO in hopes of finally finding myself. My purpose and everything. Honey, don't talk too hard to yourself with second chances and everything. You're just at the beginning. You're so cool and brave.

[@SheedaVision]

Boo, when I watched your video, I said it was a bad idea to move in with your friend. I had roommates in college many of them were friends and it went sour. I’m happy that you got out though!

[@se2664]

Honestly I’m pretty old school. The only people I’m living with are my future husband and family members when I can’t afford to live by myself. I could NEVER live with friends or temporary boyfriends. Your home is your sanctuary not everyone is meant to live with you

[@SheedaVision]

@@se2664 That’s the best way to go! When you live with friends, you get tired of each other. Then you likely won’t be friends with them anymore.

[@ObsessedWithChrist]

Continue that self love journey, Setting boundaries with ppl that aren’t used to you having any is one of the hardest things ever. Keep your head up.

[@yossyo3226]

When u talked about narrricistic parents & how U said “u Learn how to be like them to defend and protect yourself”SUPER TRUE

[@squidwardtentacles4234]

happy belated birthday kai! im proud of you for prioritizing yourself and doing what’s best for you

[@val3rystar885]

Hey Kai missed your content! Im so happy you're choosing yourself Thats the bravest thing to do in this crazy world

[@SoEventfulprizeworthy]

Love, chapter 22 is full of endless possibilities! You’ve blossomed so much so that it radiates off of you. I’m sending so much abundance and peace! Life is so ready for you, just keep your head up. Xx

[@Brownsugarsoulbriety]

Fellow Sag here and I can def relate a lot to this. I salute you for picking you and rediscovering who you are. I affirm that you have an amazing self love journey and thanks for sharing your journey with us 😊🧚🏾‍♂️

[@tatiguzman8459]

I completely get this! I’m turning 21 in January and just went through this. Last year, I moved to live with my father and his wife because my mother kept kicking me out of the house due to her narcissism, she never liked me growing up and had told me that and shown me that from a young age. ANYWAYS, 🙄 I move into my dad’s wife’s house to stay with them and I start working every single day. His wife starts asking me where my dad is & if he’s cheating and gets jealous of how much time my father was spending with me. She ended up making him choose between me or her. My father being the bum he is didn’t have a place to stay so he chose her because he basically lived there rent free and used her as an ATM. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I had no place to go so I ended up getting involved with the wrong guys who ended up trying to sell me into prostitution. I went through a lot of SA with them & I was exposed to a lot of drugs. I met a girl, I liked her and choose to trust her, & she ended up luring me into a kidnapping and sex trafficking. I luckily got found & was brought to a woman’s shelter. I had to leave there and another abuse shelter paid for my ticket to get me out of the city because I was high risk for being murdered. I went to Houston, TX to stay at the HAWC but that didn’t work out. I ended up finding a job at a restaurant and saving my money up while living outdoors. I was hospitalized a few times during the process. I’m currently home but I’m moving to college in about a week. hopefully this gives you motivation. I never talk about this with anyone so it makes me happy to get this off my chest. Lol I know mine is more dramatic than yours. TDLR; I went thru trauma, I came home, I’m going to college 🥰

[@twill1007]

Good Lord you’ve been through a lot and you deserve much better than your parents (based on what you said). Blessings to you, stay strong, finish school, stay safe

[@jamiyacathcart3195]

God bless! Praying nothing but prosperity for you ❤️

[@alissaloya8721]

Love you tati.

[@tatiguzman8459]

@@twill1007 Thank you in Jesus name I’m healed & blessings on your name as well 🤍

[@tatiguzman8459]

@@jamiyacathcart3195 Thank you in Jesus name I receive that prayer and declare my own prosperity 💗

[@yardyknow6522]

Being lost coexists with being on ur exact right path. Keep going Kai and anyone reading. We got this🖤

[@timothynguyen6190]

protect ur peace sis

[@latiamcdaniels5808]

Keep doing what is healthy for you and progressive for your growth. I applaud your tenacity and beauty during this process. I dont personally know the ugly parts, but your spirit and story seem familiar. I'm walking a similar path, and i just want to say.... I'm proud of you!!!! Tia

[@GlamGoddes101]

I really hope that moving out works out for me, I can’t do it in this household anymore. Trying to grow in a toxic environment isn’t impossible but it’s so difficult, and I know I’d function better overall if I wasn’t here

[@johnjackson775able]

This was right on time, literally going through the same thing right now! Thank you for being so transparent 🙌🏾.

[@4nge3]

I’m living for this look Kai 😍

[@sipshardonae]

I honestly live your channel. You made me realized that it doesn’t matter if we don’t have it together, as long as we strive for better situations we are on the right path for us.

[@tempestthe1ne377]

Can feel the growth through the screen. I’m proud of you. Thanks for sharing your experiences

[@kaylizzle7545]

Sending you love ❤️ I hope you’re doing well these days

[@lindseygueye6078]

I’m 21 and moving back home after a breakup (with a severe narcissist) and toxic living environment. Didn’t want to because my parents are also toxic but I’ll have my little sister who I adore, and also helps that I’ll have my best friend, who’s also decided to leave her uni accommodation to move back home too. As much as I wanted to, I realised proving my independence isn’t as good as peace of mind and I’m okay with that ☺️. We got this girl 👏🏾, thank you for always being so transparent (I feel like you’re my American parallel sometimes it’s insane 😅).

[@debbyluxe]

Heyy hun I’ve moved away from family too and I’m only 19 turning 20 in June. I also come from a toxic environment. Do you recommend mixing back to live closer to my best friend and family? The rent is cheaper there but I really wanted to stay down south for uni this September.

[@je39981]

It's how people react to those boundaries that really let you know if they are worth being in your life or not. -Kai Foster

[@Realprettyree]

I rlly get what you are saying. I feel like being at home stunts my growth, I’ll be 20 in August and honestly I’m just tired of the toxicity because it’s draining and keeping me from my goals. But I’m trying to stick it out because I can not fully take care of myself financially as of rn, but I think it’s very sad when you feel like you have to “escape” sort of from your household and trauma. So I totally understand you.

[@heysilly1341]

Girl you look good. Your skin is truly glowing 🥰

[@KreativeitGirl]

I’m actually really curious to know why/what made your living situation toxic with your last roommate, because I’ve watched her also on KZbin she’s always giving me a mixed persona. So really curious to know if you ever decide to do a video on that, I’d appreciate it lol. Also HAPPY BELATED BDAY!!

[@babybutterfly2342]

I was thinking the same thing!! 👀

[@queendombraids1829]

I was already expecting banger collab videos from both of them 😭 I was so excited 😤🥲

[@ariwilliams130]

@@queendombraids1829 Same here! I'm a bit surprised by this new revelation. I'm definitely looking forward to the next video that breaks it down. I'm also curious if her roommate will make a video from her perspective as well. This is a bit unexpected

[@lexifrancis]

who was her roommate ?

[@apollodraftss]

@@lexifrancis it was trinity

[@myaccountability3080]

22... super experienced... mature... and STILL as long as there is breath in your body... You have so much more growth to endure... so complex now.. interesting. I wonder and anticipate how the 30yr version of you will flower into. Can't wait to see.

[@gypsyjane6352]

GIRL GIRL GIRL. after i found your channel, i was hoping to meet you one day! Atlanta deadass.... sucks. I'm tired of it!! the people down here are scary as hell. When I found your videos, I was like cool, i love that more people like me are coming here but honestly it doesn't cater to us. Like there are more than one kinda black person. Most of the shit down here I do not enjoy doing, the woman are super catty, it's hard to make friends for whatever reason, and the cost of living is being ridiculous. The blatant rent increase year after year going but be several hundred is insane. The amount of times I see tiktoks of other young black women saying they live in atlanta or surrounding areas with no friends - and the comments! the comments chile, hundreds of women are in the same boat. it's actually kinda spooky. I'm moving. Over this.

[@GlamGoddes101]

Interesting, how are there so many black women there but they all struggle to make friends?

[@gdrs761]

Kai, i feel like you're my spiritual twin honestly. Sending love❣

[@jeauanna.5972]

When you made the rash decision to live with Trin, I just KNEW something would go wrong…

[@jcs.yt3]

so happy for you. i am proud of you for always putting yourself first

[@ROGUEXUNT]

I'm hoping that 2022 will bring a lot more good into your life you deserve to not feel so stressed out . 💞

[@caroljane8378]

So young and so wise.. pressure may burst pipes.. but I’m telling you from experience that you will always have FAVOR over your life because you never let what happens to you define you and that resilience will help you persevere through whatever life throws at you and unfortunately more challenges are coming just know that diamonds too are made from pressure. Just know that whatever is happening to you is happening FOR YOUR GREATER GOOD! We ask for strength and God gives us problems to overcome! I look at my life as a living testimony we all have one and just know that your Mess is a Message to help encourage others who will go through the same. I would be so blessed to have your wisdom at your age but at 27 you are still inspiring me and helping me in my purpose to be authentic and unapologetic to living life according to me! Thank Kai for being you! ✨✨✨

[@TaylorRae736]

I love your (what you've shared with us) relationship with your sister! Also from your experience with your family growing up, I'm glad she has you to share experiences with and a support system. I wish I had a sister like that when I was younger.

[@EllaSpeakz]

I MOVED 6 TIMES THIS YEAR. I FEEL YOU. LOOK AT YOUR 4TH HOUSE SOLAR RETURN.

[@theemiamarie23]

I love how you have had your trials and tribulations but you continue to flourish and live your mf life! For that alone I praise you and I know you will absolutely do amazing things in the upcoming future. Much love ya twin lol- Kai

[@shaniquawilliamson44]

You look extra pretty in this video

[@Earth222Heavenn]

You can really tell a difference in your glow. I really hope you are finding a new peace within your environment 💗

[@alext3480]

"a new peace within your environment" yes

[@jayk1336]

I recently turned 20, and I graduated high school in the middle of this pandemic. Moving out wasn’t really an option for me and my parents have no boundaries. I start therapy soon and I’ve been working for a few months, but health issues (physical and mental) have really hindered me from moving out.

[@bellbell9990]

Sending you love! Everything with work out❤️

[@marshamadrigal9280]

Hi Kai! My name is Marsha and I have been following your channel for a while. I recently graduated from Howard and I relocated to Chicago in august. If you ever need anything feel free to reach out.

[@mariap9826]

Girly, my early 20s have been rough! I am glad you are choosing to protect yourself. I hope Chicago brings you new opportunities 🥰

[@jboogey022]

I love how self aware and open you are. One of my favorite people on youtube!

[@these.twenty.somethings]

It’s funny bc I did the exact same thing, moving back to Chicago at 22 for my self growth and babes definitely still on the journey three years later! You’re so aware so I’m confident that you got it.

[@Shesaphantomm]

Im from Atlanta, planning on moving to Dallas with my friends after we graduate. I completely understand why this city turns people off. It’s completely changed from when I was a kid, most of the people you meet weren’t even born here. It’s becoming worse and more gentrified, plus it’s too overcrowded. Everybody is also looking for a comeup like this is LA or something, it’s a city full of liars. It’s even worse for black women here. My family loves it here and I don’t want to be too far from them but this city doesn’t even feel like home so I might as well explore what else is out there

[@issasugazad5949]

you have such a radiant energy around you. I hope you find the paths that favor you the most. BLESS

[@kdennis2461]

The energy felt strange in the last new apartment videos. Glad you went home

[@aliviablount]

It would be awesome to see a reflection video from you where you detail how you feel now compared to your feelings and experiences in your older videos. Like a look back. KZbin is a very cool self reflection tool

[@Lifeishard237]

Yea roommates are not it unless they are siblings and even then it’s still annoying lol. Independent thinkers and spiritually stable people need to live alone unless you’re living with someone you plan on marrying. It’s really exhausting living with the best roommate let alone one that sucks.

[@alext3480]

roommates suck ass... tried of living with strangers

[@bbyx9790]

It didn’t work out with Trinity? :( friends shouldn’t be roommates sometimes

[@sheplutotarot8053]

I wonder why!

[@se2664]

@@sheplutotarot8053 honestly probably just preferences and differences. It’s exhausting to compromise your boundaries for temporary roommates

[@soniafranklin5307]

I was a roommate with my best friend of 10+ years but it definitely didn’t work out because of how different we are. Sometimes it’s better to love people from afar or with some personal space boundaries. Nothing bad to say about my best friend herself. That could be similar to what happened here.

[@loveleebeing]

Doing what’s best for you, love to hear it. Your glow is still very vibrant despite the energy/vibes you’ve gotten away from, keep shining Kai🌞

[@nandipak7467]

I think this is the first time I’m seen Kai really smile. That makes me happy. 🥺

[@kazaridixon3679]

I love and affirm all the love you are receiving from those around you at this time (WHO LOVE YOU)! You are so deserving, wishing you the very best.✨💗

[@prettyinpink1222]

Proud of you, Kai. Protect your peace first, always! ❤

[@boop5326]

Remember your mental health is the top priority.

[@xeniad4715]

Kai I literally thought of you today. Sending love to you today from the Caribbean ❤

[@KiniaSwaby]

You have gotten more beautiful this year and your voice changed in a good way. Love you and your videos.

[@samantharegistre43]

Thank you Kai for your honesty on here! You articulate so well all the feelings I feel always and I appreciate your will to be strong and keep making changes to better yourself❤️❤️❤️

[@miasgardenadventures2998]

I wish I was so aware at 22. Inner Child Healing is part of my journey.

[@AngieSmiles123]

I loved this video. And I love this journey of 22' you're entering. I wish you all the best. Glad I sat down to really take in this video. I missed your content :)

[@h3inoush3ffa]

Finally living in the now, as a 32 yr old (w/ all it’s scary and real shit) does feel like breathing for the first time. There’s nothing like existing while not worrying about my 2… 5… 8, year plan.

[@hanansherka5659]

Happy for you, hoping you continue to be surrounded by love, and that this new year is filled with health and joy.

[@emmsdastine]

Girl same, was in a sad ass relationship and also he ended up breaking my ankle.. so move back to my parents house after my surgery.. don’t get an apartment with you bf was my lesson.

[@missdiosa]

what the fuck i am so sorry

[@aurorasonearth]

Love who you’re becoming

[@itsleecruz]

So proud of u ! sometimes it's hard to things for yourself but mental health is serious and i'm happy you're doing what you have to do for yourself

[@saintsinnr]

I can really relate to everything you said (my 2021 went very similarly, especially with having toxic roommates). Congrats on finding peace with the present and standing in your own truth.

[@dynamict4722]

Kai in the Chi!

[@jalisasellars3500]

Kai… I needed this video you don’t even know 😭 I’m so proud of you ❤️

[@daisydaisy11]

i see you, i feel you, thank you for sharing things sm ppl can relate to . 💟

[@CydonianKnights11]

Being in the military and living in multiple cities. Coming from Miami people hate Miami but I love it.

[@panickytheartist]

sending you love !!! i've been following your journey since you moved into your howard dorm room and you've provided me with so much insight for so many things and I appreciate the way you allow us a window into ur vulunablities/hard to talk about stuff. It's takes a weight off my shoulders to see someone my age who is experience life similar to myself.

[@jtl6057]

I’m going through the same exact thing. Atlanta , back home to Ohio. No more roomates. Lesson learned

[@ladiiesmiiles]

Kai you look amazing.