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Sid and Dina

Sid and Dina

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@farah..4033
@farah..4033 2 жыл бұрын
Guys please don’t stop these videos! Actually missed them, been watching Dina for over 10 years. Wish her and sid the best!
@samahamara8543
@samahamara8543 2 жыл бұрын
Tell them
@londongirl6711
@londongirl6711 2 жыл бұрын
I'm married with 3 kids right now, and honestly before marriage my parents allowed me to live my life (within boundaries). I studied, swam, climbed mountains, spent time abroad, did charity work, everything. And after marriage my toxic inlaws didn't allow me to LEAVE THE HOUSE UNACCOMPANIED except for work! Ladies, please live your lives right now, marriage DOESN'T complete you!
@shushitnow
@shushitnow 2 жыл бұрын
are they still your in laws or did you leave? do you live with them? this sounds crazy to me. how can they dictate your movements whilst you’re grown and have your own kids.
@ye23.
@ye23. 2 жыл бұрын
No man can make me put up with BS like that. Have some self confidence and tell ur in laws to fuck off 😂
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 жыл бұрын
that's why you need to be careful who you marry - marriage can complete you if you marry the right person
@samsensation786
@samsensation786 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you
@londongirl6711
@londongirl6711 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all your kind comments. Alhamdulillah things have much improved, I moved out of inlaws and life has returned to normal, PLUS my relationship with inlaws has vastly improved.
@hithere1113
@hithere1113 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and unmarried and I feel like I'm just realizing (embarrassingly enough) that I don't need a man to complete me in life. I've grown up thinking that my life would only begin after I got married for some reason, even though my parents never pushed that ideology on me. But Alhamdulillah I've been able to do so many of the things I only thought I could do after marriage like starting my own businesses part-time, buying a car, traveling (with friends lol...I'm still brown!), living in another state by myself, volunteering, etc. The older I get, the more relieved I am that I accomplished these things on my own b/c Allah knows how much I would've attributed those things to being married had I done them with someone else. Nothing against those who get married younger; it's all written for us by the best of planners so sometimes we just have to sit back, chill, and enjoy what little things we can.
@kritakhatun
@kritakhatun 2 жыл бұрын
This is exactly the process I'm currently going through! 25 and also unmarried but with each passing year I look at what I've achieved, practically and spiritually and it makes me so happy to have achieved so many amazing things (qualified therapist, my own car, my own place...and soon to publish my own paper!!!!) Alhamdulilah x1000000. Just as Allah has planned my current life so beautifully he will do so for my future goals. Like you said for the time being, enjoy the rideeeee!
@tbonesteak1481
@tbonesteak1481 2 жыл бұрын
Ah I’m 26 and fighting the pressure (of marriage) and apparently I’m too immature cause I don’t want to
@tbonesteak1481
@tbonesteak1481 2 жыл бұрын
And yes each year of your 20s unfolds a new side you in terms of personal growth and confidence, marraige is great if it’s with the right person but don’t rush it just cause
@kritakhatun
@kritakhatun 2 жыл бұрын
@@tbonesteak1481 very true, marriage is a HUGE responsibility so might as well share it with the right one! But, I'm sure we can agree the societal pressures to get married within a certain timeframe is agonising! This new generation is having to fight again the grain. But hopefully, on God's timing all will make sense.
@nabati8903
@nabati8903 2 жыл бұрын
I’m turning 29 this year also unmarried. Some days I feel the pressure (that I put on myself), some days I’m glad I’m not married. But I know in my heart I want children 😣 Pray for me.
@tasneemgeorge2408
@tasneemgeorge2408 2 жыл бұрын
Oesophagus vs Sarcophagus had me howling 🤣 Keep it coming guys. So good to have these advice sessions back!
@FoodIsOverrated
@FoodIsOverrated 2 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it esophagus? Had to get mine checked a lot for medical reasons and they say esophagus on the medical records.
@tasneemgeorge2408
@tasneemgeorge2408 2 жыл бұрын
@@FoodIsOverrated Correct. British English spelling is Oesophagus. American English spelling is Esophagus.
@koebraapeters9821
@koebraapeters9821 2 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂 This had me howling too oh my goodness 😂😂😂😂
@sammebegum8537
@sammebegum8537 2 жыл бұрын
I just love the way Sid gives advice, he says it in a realistic way without sugarcoating and sometimes it’s what we need to hear
@Alhamdulilah400
@Alhamdulilah400 2 жыл бұрын
It's so true what Dina said about appreciating the little things, that's what makes you a grateful and content person. If you chase this world, know that this world runs faster than you, you will always be unhappy chasing this world. Think about the hereafter, the grave, when you're all alone. May Allah make it easy for this girl and us all. Ameen!
@ooffish
@ooffish 2 жыл бұрын
"Is this what you came into the world for" Damn Sid hit deep. Love these videos, keep them coming!!!
@Itiswhatitisbrodontbemad
@Itiswhatitisbrodontbemad 2 жыл бұрын
Send her some I like me merch man she’s the only one that emailed you lol and she’ll feel good about herself a bit and reflect back on this positive feedback time to time I’m sure
@hyrunnisa997
@hyrunnisa997 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful idea!
@patchworkpig89
@patchworkpig89 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@aqilahhussain7104
@aqilahhussain7104 2 жыл бұрын
Good idea!
@hibaaaaaa16
@hibaaaaaa16 2 жыл бұрын
You guys have no idea how much I needed this reminder. I'm so thankful this dropped right when I needed. I've been experiencing this for the past one week because all my friends have travelled really far and I was kinda feeling stuck in a rut. It was hard to watch their stories of them having fun in a different place and I felt very weird I was not able to do that because of my indecisiveness. I felt like I was missing out on all that because of my situation. I though I'd never get a chance like this which is the dumbest thing to think cos why not? This just made me realize its okay. I do have a lot more chances. I'm still young. You dont know what's coming for you!
@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 2 жыл бұрын
What a great question! I would also add that it could be that we crave sin because we just might not have enough dhikr in our life. When we taste the enjoyment of dhikr we will literally lose the enjoyment of wanting to sin, and we would always want to spend time with Allah when we are geeling bored or empty. May Allah the most kind make it easy for all of us Ameen♡
@aminaqx
@aminaqx 2 жыл бұрын
YAY! I’m so glad you guys are uploading again!!
@artaxoctarine4704
@artaxoctarine4704 2 жыл бұрын
Omg omg omg am I dreaming? Sid and Dina questions are back?? Ahh can’t wait to watch this Also the oesophagus v sarcophagus conversation is so funny
@1247Anna
@1247Anna 2 жыл бұрын
So glad you guys are back, it feels so nostalgic I spent all of summer 2017 watching every single one of your advice vids at work secretly and this made me realise how long its been and how much has changed🥺
@zohaaq3261
@zohaaq3261 2 жыл бұрын
big relate
@sanahadi1870
@sanahadi1870 2 жыл бұрын
T we are;:aware as asr/
@turquoise1162
@turquoise1162 2 жыл бұрын
I've been writing in a gratitude journal daily for the past 4 months and it has completely changed my perspective/attitude - I am overall a much happier and upbeat person as I naturally now focus more on the positive things, no matter how small, rather than the negative, from when I first get up for the day. I've even had the courage to change jobs for the first time in 7 years and I'm in a much better place now because of it, because I'd write daily affirmations like "I am capable, I am brave, I am worth it" etc. It doesn't take long, literally 2 mins in the morning and evening, and I use nice bright pens to make it look pretty and colourful. But it's helped me reflect on what I'm grateful for (even things like a bright sunny day, hot cup of coffee, my cat etc) and has got me through some stressful, sad times. I would highly recommend it to anyone who finds themselves in a rut/down/bored as I promise it'll make you feel better and more inspired to achieve happiness/success/positivity. There are plenty of gratitude journals on Amazon or I'm sure you could even do it in a plain pad of paper :) just jot down in the morning: 3 things you're grateful for, how you're going to make today great and a daily affirmation. And in the evening 3 things that went well that day and what you're going to do tomorrow to make it an even better day. Sending everyone some love!
@sidrashah2023
@sidrashah2023 2 жыл бұрын
"Egyptian mummies are buried in Esophagus"-Dina Tokio
@aqsa7631
@aqsa7631 2 жыл бұрын
At 22, although its still very young I realized that it truly is the small things that are the most amazing! I found happiness in studying ( I play some nice background music and use the time to get good grades because I know thats what makes me happy) I even go a step further an even get dressed up just to study. life becomes better when you realize you are in control (for the most part), take your 20s as a chance to discover or rediscover yourself and your interests. As a woman, I stopped caring about love as I realized doing beneficial work and being very educated fulfills me and makes me feel alive and I am considering going back to university as a mature student to pursue law as I realized i'm very interested and fascinated by it! I would also say take one day at a time, or even one week at a time, focus on your mental, physical, and spiritual health. Life is so precious and once you learn to find happiness in the little things, I believe thats when you truly feel like you are living, not just existing.
@fibrahim4fi
@fibrahim4fi 2 жыл бұрын
😊
@Weekend845
@Weekend845 2 жыл бұрын
Dina you’re so right! When does the chase for the next thing end. I really like what you said
@michimishka7585
@michimishka7585 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and I’m married with 3 kids and honestly sometimes I feel that way. Lol it comes and goes. I’m graduating in may as a software developer and I still feel like im bored sometimes. I think it comes down to hobbies.
@JB-ys2cp
@JB-ys2cp 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you said that so casually!!! Graduating from any degree, especially software is an amazing accomplishment with three kids!!!! You should be really proud of yourself.
@samsensation786
@samsensation786 2 жыл бұрын
This is great advice. I really needed this, being in my 30s and feeling guilty hopeless at times. Especially in ramadan I reflect on my life.
@hyrunnisa997
@hyrunnisa997 2 жыл бұрын
Move out of your parents house and live on your own, I know in muslim families women are encouraged to stay home until they get married but don't. Find some good Muslim girls your age if you want roommates, or live in a girls dorm if your university has segregated dorms. Living in a dorm on campus and participating in all the fun halal activities on campus there are so many fun things that dont involve alcohol or sex. I had a great time in college even after I converted to Islam. I loved Friday movie night at one lecture hall, or anime club, or climbing club at the rec center. The rec center used to host trips for students...it was so cool going camping with a bunch of other students. honestly don't move back in with your parents. You can do so much on your own after you graduate.
@ye23.
@ye23. 2 жыл бұрын
Yep this the best advice. Move out! I did and moved to a different state on my own. In my culture its rare but I did it and it was the best decision
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 жыл бұрын
Moving out was the best decision I made alhamdoulillah - I moved from a small town to the capital city and I'm living my best life. As much as I'd love to get married, I refuse to sit at home and wait around for a man. Life is too short to be sitting around like Rapunzel
@OnyxxRose
@OnyxxRose 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed move out, you will learn yourself better. This is a great comment
@TR-ej5nj
@TR-ej5nj 2 жыл бұрын
How does one do that though??? My parents have that idea that you should move out when your married (cause female alone is dangerous etc). I really have the want to either move out live in my own but that depends on actually being able afford that and live in a decent place OR I deal with living at parents and save money to solo travel to fulfil the need of wanting to be on my own or independent. Its just convincing the parents.... I'm in my last year of uni so I've lost the chance to move out and live in dorms.
@hyrunnisa997
@hyrunnisa997 2 жыл бұрын
@@TR-ej5nj Its never too late to move out. I know this is hard for people coming from muslim cultures but you don't need your parents permission. figure out what you want to do, save up for a down payment to an apartment and just do it. Tell them you would like their support but its your decision in the end. My mom was going to disown me after I converted to islam, she was being very controlling and I just had to tell her that I am an adult and I can make my own decisions. If she doesn't want to talk to me anymore thats her choice but I won't stop being muslim.
@vsmystic108
@vsmystic108 2 жыл бұрын
I missed you guys! And I felt Dina on a spiritual level talking about enjoying the little things in life. Sometimes life is just shit at the moment and you either start enjoying the little things or be perpetually miserable... so I chose to enjoy the little things.
@theblackestbeauty
@theblackestbeauty 2 жыл бұрын
A marriage will be more fulfilling and happy when you know who you are and what makes you happy. Life in general will be better if you get out in it and get some experience under your belt. Volunteer with children, the elderly and the poor. Volunteer at hospitals or animal places. This will give you an idea of if you could do any of these things regularly, without being paid. When you find that thing you can do unpaid, regularly, this is where you start looking for a career. Get your degree in that and along the way you will find friends, potentially your husband on your journey. Go on trips. They don’t have to be really far away. Live in the dorms in college. It will give you a different perspective on life. See if you can be self-reliant. Experience gives us the tools we need to make good decisions and know the path we want to take based on what’s best for us.
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 жыл бұрын
love this advice!
@RR-xm9iu
@RR-xm9iu 2 жыл бұрын
Love this. Just what I needed to hear. Thank you x
@ro_ses
@ro_ses 2 жыл бұрын
Have you ever thought of making this a podcast? Or maybe it already is? Either way, this is great stuff to listen to while on the move!
@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking that too. Audio podcasts are better. Less pressure for them, no need to even vlog, and easier to keep consistent. Might be next thing!
@sandrae2398
@sandrae2398 2 жыл бұрын
omg i really needed to hear all this lmao like i didn't even realize your advice would apply to me
@anjy6566
@anjy6566 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this video guys! What an interesting question- isn’t it crazy sometimes to think that this feeling that this young girl feels is how a lot of us young women have felt. The university you don’t seem to enjoy because you don’t want to do the Haram, feeling like you don’t no what journey your on, consistent goals, this idea or concept that a man will somehow save you and give you a blissful life. Being in my early thirties now and not working for the first time since 16 has definitely been really hard. Part of me feels useless. I always said I wouldn’t want to be the housewife type, not that there is anything wrong with it, but it’s just not for me. Now I reflect and think what do I actually want from my life. But I think watching this highlighted that being the independent woman I once was needs to start again and that life is most definitely what you make it! Can’t wait till the next Video guys x
@1992fantasy
@1992fantasy 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this, it has resonated deeply with me
@athraahameed1893
@athraahameed1893 2 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone so I'm going to make this short I am 22-year-old female from the UK I Have two sisters who have severe disabilities and a mother who is not in the best health physically which meant from the ages of 13 till now I need to take care of them physically and emotionally I feel like my teen years that were reserved for travelling and making new friends have been wasted because every single summer I need to take care of my sisters and my mum I left for college in the fall of 2019 and as you can imagine college has been cut very short in a few months because of Covid and lost two was totally based online as the cases were very bad in the UK which meant I needed to stay at home, during these years I have become very antisocial and stayed at home for the mojority of time, basically my life is if pre covid it was very similar to lockdown as it would only leave the house when it's necessary to go to the doctor get haircut or to do the essential things like going to school. right now when I look at my life I have no actual friends except of my best friend of seven years and I feel so bad that I feel my life has been wasted comparing to my peers who were travelling around and meeting new people even my social skills has become very diminished and minimal who have any kind of advice would be much appreciated, I want to make friends and start enjoying life and also make up for the lost time.
@jy2044
@jy2044 2 жыл бұрын
Sis, pray to Allah and I shall do the same for you! May He make it easy for you! Ameen! If you have a family member that could perhaps help some days to look after your sisters and mother just so you could get some free time to yourself - that could possibly help in you meeting your friend, and maybe ask this friend to bring her other friends when meeting up, so you have exposure to different people. Also, if you're in to sports, joining a sports club can give you an opportunity to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people and hopefully make lifelong friends. One more thing sis, it is better to be alone, than be surrounded by people that do not care about you, so be cautious about who you let into your life, as you don't want to be left feeling empty. To end on a good note, Allah has a plan for you, and His plans are always the best! Be hopeful sis that it will get better! With hardship there surely is ease!
@PiPaPoPuPa
@PiPaPoPuPa 2 жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum! If it is any comfort to you, majority of people our age are lacking friends after graduating uni- you are not alone! I’ve learned that it’s unfair to expect your teenage self to lead an ”exciting” life. Some people might be lucky, but when I look at my teenage self, I see a child. I’ve only now, at 24, been able to make enough money to travel, try new hobbies, or even get a car. I don’t have as many friends as I used to and I do not travel due to covid and it’s totally okay. My hobbies and career bring me the most fulfillment now. Try some new crafts, take an art or language class for fun, play some video games, explore a new part of town on your own, volunteer. Dina made an amazing point about how if you invest in yourself as a person, you will naturally attract like minded people. It’s so true. If you are shy, like me lol, you will have to push yourself out of your comfort zone and attend events at your uni, masjid, in your city, etc. and initiate conversations with other people. You might feel silly or uncomfortable at times but you will absolutely not regret that you tried. You might not come out with new besties, but you will meet a couple of friendly faces to talk to every now and then. InshaAllah I hope you are able to be kinder to yourself- there is nothing wrong with not doing much by 22 and it’s *never* to late to travel, make new friends, find a hobby, etc. ♥️
@sherryl7602
@sherryl7602 2 жыл бұрын
Sis you are just so strong and you probably don’t even know it! MashaAllah. You’re super young and you will live a great fulfilling life. Social skills will come with time I promise. And you will also have so much reward from God for all your efforts for your family and for your ur heart ♥️
@Bd-mq8td
@Bd-mq8td 2 жыл бұрын
Never compare your life with the mindset that you missed out because when you are enjoying yourself you will feel bad for why you didn’t do this earlier so never look at the past and think about what you did is what any girl in your situation would have done and there’s many who can relate to you. Just don’t get yourself trapped in comparing and regretting what happened in the past that you have no control over. Everything comes from God and he has the best plan for you. You are still very young and have a young soul start enjoying yourself, maybe start activities, do some sport/gym or even cook something for yourself even if it’s just once a week. Your life just started don’t worry about the future or the past at any age my Love ❤️ trust God and pray to him he will always answer
@annonymous354
@annonymous354 2 жыл бұрын
Big respect for Sid opening up about his struggle as well as giving us realistic non wishy washy advice.
@greebo9859
@greebo9859 2 жыл бұрын
Liking this comment for the use of wishy washy which imo isn't used enough
@nidaqamar3246
@nidaqamar3246 2 жыл бұрын
I have never seen Sid give any wishy washy advice on any video and sometimes that is all I need to hear.
@sherwood9917
@sherwood9917 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings to this young lady. I hope she realizes that happinness comes from within; no man is ever going to gift her that. Keep working on the "man in the mirror."
@ruqyahsweidan5355
@ruqyahsweidan5355 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you thank you so much for doing Sid & Dina question. It's been so long and no one does them like you guys do! Please keep going!!
@nodice8312
@nodice8312 2 жыл бұрын
It is so nice you have the time and the head to do these videos again! I have appreciated you both through it all. Thank you.
@ani8218
@ani8218 2 жыл бұрын
U know how much we have missed u two making videos like this. Please dont stop it. We love u dina and sid.
@thisisarika
@thisisarika 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice, I really like how you both have such different things to add to the conversation!
@soniamiller3469
@soniamiller3469 2 жыл бұрын
I personally think that the average person is in a constant state of comparison. Most people look at others they think have a glamorous life but fail to realize struggle is part of the human experience. It's lonely at the top so even the most "successful" person has struggle. Also adventures don't come to you, you have to seek them out. If you don't like your current life then jump feet first
@Mahdz
@Mahdz 2 жыл бұрын
This was so good, it gave me the kick in the bum I needed about doing SOMETHING CAUSE I CAN'T JUST DO NOTHING!
@lachmiegunraj9761
@lachmiegunraj9761 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect answer !! Love watching your videos and especially these Ramadan vlogs!!
@gagglesas
@gagglesas 2 жыл бұрын
Sid is completely right about the two 'ways' haha
@tayyibahkhan1585
@tayyibahkhan1585 2 жыл бұрын
I so agree. Also another thing to think about like imagine ur child self walking into ur home. Like how would they feel about what you have. Like me when i was a kid i would think it was so cool that my apartment has a balcony, that i have a big 49” tv i had no tv when i was little, tht i have a cool dining table, tht i have a cat, tht i have perfume and like hair styling tools all this makeup tht i use, when i was a kid i wouldve tht i was so cool if i saw myself now. So its nice to think of tht instead of thinking oh wtf u have a a tiny apartment u should be SAVING FOR A HOUSE and like ugh u dont have money to buy anything blah blah
@zohaaq3261
@zohaaq3261 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this
@hasmax786
@hasmax786 2 жыл бұрын
Haram things you could do: Alcohol, drugs, intimacy with opposite gender, clubbing. Why would you want to do these things? Your only going to regret it afterwards and wonder if god will ever forgive you. P.s. he is the most merciful never forget.
@RetajAZ24
@RetajAZ24 2 жыл бұрын
You want to do these things because it fills a void inside of you but only temporarily. When you want the halal, society has made it so hard, so the easy route ends up being the haraam. Doesnt mean its right. But we all have needs emotional psychological physical intellectual and when these arent being catered to the right way, the wrong way becomes very tempting.
@sleepx3651
@sleepx3651 2 жыл бұрын
@@RetajAZ24 You said exactly what I wanted to say.
@RetajAZ24
@RetajAZ24 2 жыл бұрын
@@sleepx3651 im glad im not the only one who feels the same! And from the number of likes seems like many feel the same too!
@randomlygeneratedname7171
@randomlygeneratedname7171 2 жыл бұрын
@@RetajAZ24 No one can be used as an excuse not even society. Everyone has their own perfect tests
@jennbear0909
@jennbear0909 2 жыл бұрын
i’m from taiwan. and your videos always encourage me a lot! thank you! please keep on this QA ~
@im.m
@im.m 2 жыл бұрын
im dying at sids reaction at the end about abusive men ahhahahahhahaha
@SunnySunny-zu4gk
@SunnySunny-zu4gk 2 жыл бұрын
Loll same 😂😂
@monainthekitchen1460
@monainthekitchen1460 2 жыл бұрын
Awww when Sid said he doesn't enjoy life in general! Can def relate..We are not supposed to love this dunya
@JB-ys2cp
@JB-ys2cp 2 жыл бұрын
I perfectly understand what the girl in the video is going through. I felt like that for the past few years (since I was 19) after I started university and when I felt into the cycle of uni then part time work constantly. I felt like my life and career was going nowhere, especially after seeing so many celebrities my age succeeding whist I was doing nothing. It got worse when the pandemic hit just as I turned 20 as I felt like I was at home decaying and doing nothing. Alhamdulillah, I am out of that rut now at 22. My advise would be to focus more on Islam and realise that this life is just a test and JOIN THE GYM, it really does make the biggest difference the way Dina said. Even I look forward to trying new stuff and that feeling after a good workout!! Also, make goals for yourself. Small realistic one like getting your licence, reading a book, learning a skill, meeting up with friends or family for a coffee etc. If you’re not sure what career path to take, volunteer at different places and do research to see what you’re into. Don’t let life pass you, try to make use of every day
@trolltingz8683
@trolltingz8683 2 жыл бұрын
Love that Sid is all for a woman being able to support herself! I'm so used to men being possessive and trying to trap their women by being financially reliant on their husbands so they don't leave.
@mimo4856
@mimo4856 2 жыл бұрын
Live your life as if men do not exist or even if that's hard to imagine, you will never get married. Not saying you should never get married, but don't go chasing it or lust from someone who will not add value in your life. See how much you will grow. I can vouch for that. I studied, passed my pre-reg exam in Pharmacy, worked in hospital far from home and now in GP practice close to home. I couldn't be more blessed and happy. I always had thoughts about my life being boring but you know what...I do not regret it one bit. Life is a journey, it becomes what you make of it. Be the main character of your own story and your bestie is Allah!
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 жыл бұрын
Love this advice!
@nadineelsharkawy2551
@nadineelsharkawy2551 2 жыл бұрын
I am South African living in Egypt. I like watching you guy's .I just subscribed 😊
@zs7984
@zs7984 2 жыл бұрын
The thing is with setting goals from young to the age of 30 is that the world is constantly evolving and there's more pressure for us to start owning businesses and starting a career from young due to the competitiveness. Life is really different from when the older generations were our age therefore there is no clear predictions as to what being successful means when we get to that age and your best bet is to continue to set expectations & goals for yourself.
@sm2293
@sm2293 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you sort the ED out Dina sending you love❤️
@gal69lag
@gal69lag 2 жыл бұрын
Me yelling at my phone: "it's sarcophagus you dummy, YOU'RE the Egyptian one!" 😂
@sm2293
@sm2293 2 жыл бұрын
Sid thank you for your honesty wishing you the best of luck hope you feel better💫
@alycianaidoo8718
@alycianaidoo8718 2 жыл бұрын
It oddly feels very comforting knowing that there are other people who are going through the same things I am even though we are so different …really appreciate the advice you guys gave 💜
@SunnySunny-zu4gk
@SunnySunny-zu4gk 2 жыл бұрын
I loved this video, probs one of my favs. I loved the real life chat at the end and you guys said things that I needed reminding of ♥️
@M_789x
@M_789x 2 жыл бұрын
This intro was so funny, I actually laughed so much..Dina pranking Sid .. love your videos
@rukhsanarauf3264
@rukhsanarauf3264 2 жыл бұрын
I love Sid's facial expressions they are so funny. You both are fantastic mashallah xx
@Rawoonah2cool
@Rawoonah2cool 2 жыл бұрын
I misssss thisss. Bring back the ask side and Dina series 😭❤❤❤
@lilia7870
@lilia7870 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice 👏🏾
@mahadewiiii
@mahadewiiii 2 жыл бұрын
Sid is so patient 😆
@nooshinkhan6215
@nooshinkhan6215 2 жыл бұрын
I know, Dina really needs to chill out and let him speak/finish. That would drive me crazy.
@mahadewiiii
@mahadewiiii 2 жыл бұрын
@@nooshinkhan6215 I don’t mean it in a bad way… I’m sure they both annoy each other. But my husband isn’t patient at all, he would have just cracked it and left me there 🤪
@nooshinkhan6215
@nooshinkhan6215 2 жыл бұрын
@@mahadewiiii haaa x
@FlusherBox
@FlusherBox 2 жыл бұрын
@@nooshinkhan6215 Idk Sid interrupts her a lot too
@samahamara8543
@samahamara8543 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeeeeees Sid and Dina videos ! Like the old days ♥️
@aisham6170
@aisham6170 2 жыл бұрын
Hasn’t even been 50 seconds into the video and I’m laughing ahaha love you guys
@nabati8903
@nabati8903 2 жыл бұрын
Love this guys! Missed these videos so much. Always found reassurance in this type of video whenever you guys did it. Feel like I’ve lost my mind over being unemployed over the last 3+ years and then failing at a test to get into a job I trained over a year for that I thought would take me and my family out of this financial instability (this was a year ago and I still cry over it some nights - felt like I failed my mum esp because she is pushing 50 now 😣 and it should be my turn to take care of her, buy her whatever she’s always wanted). But Allah is great.. never planned to be a business owner much less own a few businesses (not “successful” yet, just starting out). Got an epiphany that Allah always gave me just enough to get me through to whatever “the next one” is. Still trying to mend my broken heart from that failure a year ago but I am teaching myself to trust in Allah’s plans because He knows best. I have always wanted children but being unemployed I didn’t think I was “worthy” of any man just yet. Not comfortable with not having my own resources before settling down mostly bc I’ve seen how miserable my mum is now having to wait on her husband to give her money whenever she wants to eat something or buy something and he rarely gives her any money and tells her to wait for the next paycheck before he can give the money to her. My heart breaks whenever this happens. Alhamdulillah I can buy her whatever she wants to eat now but not whatever she wants yet. I hate her husband with all my heart bc now that it’s his turn to provide, he does so little, not even the bare minimum, forgets that my mum was the sole provider from day 1 that they got married & for over 2 decades she was the one who came in with the paycheck meanwhile we never know where his money went all those years. And even now. I do believe he was and is currently cheating on her. I have to succeed so she doesn’t think that we cannot make it on our own without that man. Because we can and we will. Pray for me if you‘ve read this far.. I really need it. 😣
@fibrahim4fi
@fibrahim4fi 2 жыл бұрын
Asalamu alaiykum Nabati I am 29 single and been unemployed for 2 and a half years .. I have just recently got a work from home job it’s not up to my average salary but atleast it is something Alhamdulilah. It sounds like you’re intentions of working is pure so make dua to Allah in so much detail and never stop asking Allah. I hope this message helped knowing that there are people that are in similar situations right now.
@nabati8903
@nabati8903 2 жыл бұрын
@@fibrahim4fi Wa’alaikumsalam. Thank you so much for your kind doa. May Allah grant you the job of your dreams soon.
@fibrahim4fi
@fibrahim4fi 2 жыл бұрын
@@nabati8903 Ameen.
@weezee4657
@weezee4657 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah shower his blessings and mercy on us all.
@fibrahim4fi
@fibrahim4fi 2 жыл бұрын
@@weezee4657 Ameen
@Ullahussain
@Ullahussain 2 жыл бұрын
flipping rapunzel in the tower 😂
@hiraimtiaz5513
@hiraimtiaz5513 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this video! U guys are a vibe!
@khurramahmad5866
@khurramahmad5866 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys! Really needed to hear that! Keep it up guys, we need you more than you know 😅
@ubaydahsuliman8010
@ubaydahsuliman8010 2 жыл бұрын
I think Sids trying to say that you don't need to be in a toxic environment to push yourself to achieve thing to get out of such a situation. Knowing your needs, wants and aspirations is a human individualistic thing, it doesn't depend on any one or any type of circumstance. If you wsnt to be a healthy lead person, know who you are.
@sm2293
@sm2293 2 жыл бұрын
Sound advice marriage is not the be all end all👏
@jamilakauser9881
@jamilakauser9881 2 жыл бұрын
The kitty at the back 🥺😭❤️
@hk.a.4818
@hk.a.4818 2 жыл бұрын
I am exactly like that person. I am so pessimistic, every time try something, I get bored easily and dont get support from my family. I dont care my little happy moment, had to live my life how they want. living with them and I am not working so I had to obey. Elhamdülillah I have a great life but I am not happy. they dont appreciate what I did
@Shambo44
@Shambo44 2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree with you Dina. Sid should praise you for me being a strong independent woman and the best role model possible for Hanna 💖💖
@ShritaSira
@ShritaSira 2 жыл бұрын
more of these please!!! flippin love you guys xxx
@cupilycake342
@cupilycake342 2 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! So real! Really enjoying listening to you.
@johannaliceaga5936
@johannaliceaga5936 2 жыл бұрын
Loooool Dina not knowing what an esophagus is looool she didn’t know we have two ways on our throats hahahaha that’s too funny
@yakuhane8636
@yakuhane8636 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you guys are doing these again! Used to love these 😊
@shiringaouir3172
@shiringaouir3172 2 жыл бұрын
Fab advice guys ! Missed seeing your videos xx
@selmamohamed8362
@selmamohamed8362 2 жыл бұрын
Ahhh I’m so glad y’all are back 🥳🥳
@sm2293
@sm2293 2 жыл бұрын
I got my ilikeme hoodie from the first launch and I love it the quality is 💯 and perfect for these cold days so comfortable! I want a shirt😍
@TVOE_12
@TVOE_12 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeesssssssssssssssss so excited!!! Pls keep them going!!!!!! Never stop!! Love you both so much 💕💕
@atharyalotaiby4042
@atharyalotaiby4042 2 жыл бұрын
Dina: what have you done naughty naughty? Sid: not about myself Dina: ……….oh
@SajaAl13
@SajaAl13 2 жыл бұрын
I MISSSEDDDD THESEEE SO MUCH
@nouraaccessories
@nouraaccessories 2 жыл бұрын
I don't mean like booom boom club 😂😂😂 Definitely a mum over 30, same as me 🤣
@zarnabsaleem4978
@zarnabsaleem4978 2 жыл бұрын
So excited to see you guys back ayeee!
@buluchka
@buluchka 2 жыл бұрын
This video was very good , lets hope more will be coming!
@mariazigerlig9860
@mariazigerlig9860 2 жыл бұрын
Love ur videos guys its just sooo funny, raw, true and wise !
@rodolfosantos3781
@rodolfosantos3781 2 жыл бұрын
thank u for the advice
@tbonesteak1481
@tbonesteak1481 2 жыл бұрын
I missed this so much
@miti203
@miti203 2 жыл бұрын
There are lots of fun halal stuff you can do! Nice clean fun as they say so fun doesn’t equal haram 🙏.
@emiliaa.X0X0
@emiliaa.X0X0 2 жыл бұрын
Ayeeee! Y’all are back😂💗
@dakotaryt5783
@dakotaryt5783 2 жыл бұрын
I would love it if sid and dina could upload a vidio of life advices in general...and all they learned so far!!!!! ❤️❤️
@PocketEdu4life
@PocketEdu4life 2 жыл бұрын
Well done guys some sound advice
@yaskay7393
@yaskay7393 2 жыл бұрын
Honey be like your mum 🤣🤣🤣 Dina cracks me up something id say to my husband👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 🥰❤️
@sabirebaser3885
@sabirebaser3885 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with what you said about women not needing to wait for a man to be ‘ complete ‘ them but just want to point out that many of us were raised with that mindset that life ‘ starts ‘ after marriage or something and that its men who have to work and women dont. What i always say is that we are all human and we are together in this shit. Men or women we live the same life , when we work we make the same money ( not talking about equal pay ) just the fact that we are getting payed in general. This mindset that only men have to support their families needs to go away honestly cause it’s unfair towards men as well. Cause i know a lot lit women who think like that i think they have the right to demand everything from a men ( material vise ) which is stupid. We all just have to keep in mind to work on ourselves. Our own lives and own happiness, finding a partner and supporting each other will happen anyway and if you work on yourself you will attract the right people like Dina said
@nurdeens
@nurdeens 2 жыл бұрын
She needs hobbies. She sounds bored af
@MizanurRahman-dj8lg
@MizanurRahman-dj8lg 2 жыл бұрын
You have to appreciate what you have and count your blessings. Forget about what you don’t have. Be great full for what you do have. This will give peace and contentment and happiness to your heart and mind.
@fatimahconteh3971
@fatimahconteh3971 2 жыл бұрын
It's called the struggle. All Muslims wants to do things that are considered haram. However, we need to try and abstain form it, and may Allah make it easy for us.
@pinklunaa
@pinklunaa 2 жыл бұрын
YAY SID AND DINA IS BACK! 😭🤍
@asfahful
@asfahful 2 жыл бұрын
Dam @13:30 so important, that's strong statement
@buluchka
@buluchka 2 жыл бұрын
What, good to see you here guys
@aseeshera5998
@aseeshera5998 2 жыл бұрын
I understand the peer pressure. But it's different if your parents are being orthodox strictive. Then you get this pressure from parents oh you need to get married. So when do you just live.
@romaiseb
@romaiseb 2 жыл бұрын
you need to set boundaries then and not listen to their nonsense. Our parents aren't always right
@soumacave5240
@soumacave5240 2 жыл бұрын
When you are with toxic people yes they can make your life hell..some relationships are totally wast of time and energy. Run away
@BibledGoogled
@BibledGoogled 2 жыл бұрын
So glad you’re back doing to videos 🥰
@kaki6147
@kaki6147 2 жыл бұрын
AMAZING VIDEO. pls do not stop them❤️‍🔥
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