“I wish I was there to intercept that last thought” - Relatives remember their loved ones

[@wubutterflies4156]

It's really hard. The pain is unbearable, I don't want to die. I just want it all to stop. People just can't understand it.

[@colinsweetman4570]

Can you describe the pain?

[@volix333]

When I was 10, it felt like a million years. The best way out I found, find the cause, and look for the one thing your afraid of looking at. Initially it seemed impossible, but looking for the source of the pain to escape was better than it getting worse. I had strong anxiety, and I thought the world was collapsing, but i was wrong, it just wasn’t. I ignored The Bible and that was wrong of me, and I wish I had listened earlier.

[@Сашаромисмерть]

@@colinsweetman4570 hurts the heart but no blood

[@senorita-qh6bm]

I definitely understand you and I wish you nothing but peace and the ability to be still in a world of chaos. It HURT hurts I know but just know me a stranger you’ll never know Is going through the same and I’m sticking through for as long as I can.

[@Jesus_is_the_way__]

1998 I was going to end my life. On my way to my apartment to commit it, a women passed by me and said “God bless you” I felt like something inside me exploded. And those words sounded so loud deep into my soul. I couldn’t kill myself. I came to The Lord and I don’t have those thoughts anymore. Seek Jesus, read the Bible, He will guide you. Jesus loves you.

[@Juan_Sanchez-Vililobos_Ramirez]

My experience is that when you try to talk about it, everyone you turn to either tries to gloss it over with a few "approved" words like "you'll feel better tomorrow", doesn't want to hear about it at all, ignores it/changes the subject or completely abandons you. Then, when it's done, they either talk about how unexpected it was, how damaged you were, how they felt that something was wrong or how cowardly you were to take your own life.

[@ObtuseRubberGoose2011]

This is so true.

[@steves1015]

i've had the same experience. including from doctors who didnt want to hear what i was going through. Even when someone is trying to be helpful they can use platitudes such as "why are you depressed, you have got more than x"..which then adds guilt to your already bad feeling. tbh, the only people i have found who can help are people who have gone through depression, not many others understand.

[@aaaduccs6667]

Right? It’s so fucked

[@celenathetrinigirl]

I am so fed up of trying to reach out and trying to not feel so stupid all the time. No one cares. My ex, my sister, no one cares. It is going to be better for others once I’m gone; they won’t have to put up with Lena and her sad stories anymore.

[@bta7658]

I can second that

[@MyFunnyBeard]

The guy who lost his father, thank you for being in this video. You have no idea how much that ment to me.

[@Jozzy14235]

Look out for each other, I might not know who you are but you are seeing this video either way for a reason. I just want to let you know you are loved, and appreciated ❤️

[@4CelciusDegree]

If you're not respected who cares being loved?

[@Jozzy14235]

@@4CelciusDegree they both go in hand, you don't need respect to be loved brother. Get out in life and you will see

[@rishabhsinghsolanki8375]

I’m not

[@liltunturi1251]

It is a very isolating world for a lot of us. And the reason why especially young men experience this so much, is because they dont feel belonging, and they dont feel useful and/or aknowledged. Men are very often disciplined in a way, that if they cant handle everything by themselves, they are not respectable or valuable to people. That is so bad, when life is obviously a "multiplayer game" all about balancing each others short-comings and strenghts and skills and service. No one should be so alone.

[@khajalieubarrie5088]

It’s sad people still think someone committing is about them instead of the person themselves. No matter how much hurt you feel about not being able to help them, it cannot be close to the pain he felt and use suicide as the way to end it.

[@VinceeWilliamsMagic]

Thank you for this video. For a moment I didn't feel so alone

[@Wluciian]

You are not alone. 🫂 I know life feels like it is not worth living, but let's just keep going for as long as we can💗 every new day you live is an accomplishment, friend. Be proud of yourself for that, and don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it 🫂🫂 Best of luck and life💞

[@ladeeeedah]

One can easily see, how his father's suicide has affected Joe's life so deeply. He's so wise for his age and articulates his thoughts so well. What he talks about is so important. I wish and pray he finds some peace in his life and heals very soon. I want everyone who's lost their loved one to suicide to find closure and the courage to move on in life, no matter how, impossible it seems to them, for now.

[@kevinweber8431]

My experience after my wife passed has been this…. No one really cares. They want to “fix” you so your grief won’t inconvenience them. Once they realize you can’t be “fixed” or JUDGE that you don’t want to help yourself…they leave you alone. Although there is no fixing some loss it is so easy to help…just don’t let us feel alone or better yet be alone. Sadly no one cares enough to walk the dark path with you, so you end up doing it alone for as long as you can. If you know someone suffering and you care…don’t try to fix them. Meet them where they are and stay.

[@ThemoustachedJock]

I'd want to "fix" you in the positive way, if you get what I mean. I'm sorry. ❤

[@leeaschmidt2490]

I am so sorry you had to experience this. I can’t relate cause I have never lost someone but it sounds so hurtful. Your wife looks really sweet, beautiful and kind hearted.

[@Zippyzappy339]

I'm sorry. I would be there for you and just stay and listen.

[@sosadagod6963]

Im sorry for your loss, thank u for the advice

[@kristywebb3471]

I can't believe I just found this channel today. This is wonderful ❤

[@alexDeGruccio]

Right I found this today too crazy

[@S_J_banana]

It’s a charity too

[@x3mgamingmusic]

Healing is the real luxury in life. Very few people can have that. For the most of the people pain never goes away.

[@drms-liberation]

pay attention to people around you. if something is off, just put aside whatever you're doing and check in on them. trust me, it fucking helps a lot.

[@drms-liberation]

just be there, let them know

[@pacificmainlander]

The story with the mum made me tear right up. I have no words.

[@justplzme]

Even after 20s years passed by the pain is still there. Physicians and psychiatrist give me a lot of medications, it helps a moment. Trying to stop the pain and nightmares. Just wish to sleep peacefully. I do hate when people say I should tell them but when I really wanna tell them, they don't wanna listen to.

[@jmcc8718]

Call on god, he will listen and you will know he hears. Call on jesus and see what happens, call with an open heart

[@cassgray9340]

I hope you’re still here. You are infinitely precious and loved far beyond you can understand in the sight of our Father in Heaven, and our savior Jesus who bears are burdens with us. He sees you and knows your pain like no one else ever could; he felt all the pain of the world on the cross. I was rescued multiple times from taking my own life. Most recently less than a year ago. God rescued me again. You matter to God. You were created fearfully and wonderfully, set apart, you have a purpose. Jesus died and rose again so you could have life and life abundantly. One day every tear will be wiped from our eyes; but it’s not time yet. Call on the name of Jesus and you will find peace and the God of all comfort will bear your burdens with and for you. I’m here to listen too, as someone who was rescued from a lifetime of suicidal ideation. I know the heaviness you feel.

[@ThemoustachedJock]

Have you tried changing psychiatrists?

[@justplzme]

@@ThemoustachedJock I tried everything before I finally decided to stop anything. Thank you for asking

[@ThemoustachedJock]

@@justplzme I'm very sorry ❤️

[@onlyanand91]

"wish is was there to intercept the last thought" not a day goes by that I think of this about my sister... it's been 7 years and i still feel the same pain.

[@ZinaO.]

Some people try... but no one wants to hear. Which is really sad. I'm grateful to see how much everyone in the video authentically cared for the person. ❤️💔

[@istoppedlaughing5225]

I just became an black hole of emotions, it enters but never leaves me and day by day my black hole is gaining critical mass

[@krackenup]

I think we should go out and say 'Hi, how are you doing' or 'Hi, how is your day' 'always remember that somebody loves you'. I go out of my way, which it really isn't, to greet strangers with just a few kind words. Just recognizing that someone is a presence in this world, might just save a life. Make a point of just saying 'Hi' to a complete stranger. I bet they will say hello back, or just give you a smile, or a nod. It's a nice reminder that they do belong in this world.

[@leeaschmidt2490]

👍🏼👍🏼 yes

[@liltunturi1251]

Very true, for some people they didnt have a wholesome, but seemingly ordinary interaction with other person in months and months. As a kid I used to think that adults are so weird, why are they so stone-faced etc. But now I really think that you never know what these random people are going through everyday. Some people are really feeling desperate for connection or just simply being seen.

[@467vsa]

I really appreciate it. But as someone who has to constantly mask their depression, I can never say something along the lines of, "I don't feel like life is worth living anymore." Yet saying that I am great feels like such a big fat lie. I will always say okay and try to move on from the conversation. I dread when people I don't know very well ask me how I am doing.

[@leeaschmidt2490]

@@467vsa same

[@karenglenn6707]

Ooh, our family lost my nephew Christophor aged 18 in November 1998, he is my sister only child. We found out so much that he had virtually kept to himself for a long time, and had mentioned taking his life to his bimbo girlfriend who didn’t tell my sister (his mum) to warn her. Having the police prising her off him so that he could be taken to the Coroner’s Court. Hearing her wail for him in the most pain imaginable was Our family will never be right again, there has been a hole for so long for us all. My sympathy and love to anyone who has lost someone they loved in this way. For me, the thought that he was so tormented that he felt that that was his only option to stop his pain breaks my heart. He had a very loving and supportive family, he was the eldest grandchild, my first nephew. For that to happen to us was unbelievable, he had a very close relationship with his mum. .

[@marccastillo965]

It’s sad. When the thought of taking my life first crossed my mind it scared me so much but then suddenly a rush of happiness and calm moment followed. It’s tough because I know that it will happen mainly because it’s tied to my health. Both my physical and mental are decling quickly but I won’t do it until it’s right I have time and enough

[@Rahul-ej7xc]

Thank you for putting this up. I gotta keep moving forward..... I gotta keep fighting. I'd rather get help than do something silly.

[@noneone2u]

I've been thinking of starting a Motorcycle Club, yes with three patches, to bring awareness of suicide and how microdosing IS suicide prevention. I decided last week to chuck the idea. I have to gain permission from a long standing, hard core club president in an already formed club to form my club. I JUST decided to go through with it. I'm going to do this. Ride for Life. What's the worst they can do? Kill me? Thank you Brothers, save me the trouble. Hahahaha. I hope I make it, but truly, no worries if I don't. I'm my own Ride or Die.

[@nyck]

I hope they see the visions.

[@alison4316]

Harry looks so much like his dad ❤️

[@DenizDuzyol]

Self sabotaging is really bad. Even though I feel so scared and need someone to care, the urge to end my life stems from the thought that no one cares about my life. So it's impossible to reach out and tell people "help me hold onto life".

[@jhonrydc110]

Five years to the day...RIP, Jess.

[@MylesMcQuaidGuitar]

Keep breathing everyone ❤

[@bassacoustic1549]

You too ❤ let’s all dig in and fight on together

[@stratocaster1986able]

The reason people don't talk is because people don't listen. How do people not understand this?

[@Искра-у9ь]

Joe, thank you.

[@Thr3atlvlmidnight]

It's hard sometimes, even when there's "nothing wrong". I think the times when everything is good but you still just don't feel like going on are the worst. It's so frustrating not knowing why you feel the way you do, you know.. where tf is it coming from. I'm thankful for the ones I love that keep me grounded... Real happiness seems so illusive at times but it's out there.

[@anthonyrowland9072]

Every one of those people got brushed off and then just suffered in silence...

[@michaelhawkins4005]

I need a place for this unbearable pain!

[@adamo5238]

I don't know who you are. I don't know what you're going through. But i hope you overcome it. Life is hard but it is worth sticking around. Love from a stranger on the internet ❤

[@bassacoustic1549]

Stay strong both of you. Let’s dig in and get through this, however long it takes to get better ❤

[@danielepedrali7681]

The reason why people don't talk about it to no one is because people don't listen and don't understand and think you are fool. Just a few little words of courage or approval would be a big help, but most of the times is silence. sadly that is something that people who don't suffer of depression don't understand.

[@komrel]

I usually hate when people tell me or any suicidal person to just find someone and talk to them about it, it also kinda feels like "go bother someone else". Now I agree with it but you should do it to argue in favour of suic and try to win. I usually didnt like talking because I didn't want to act like I was important enough to live or just be piece of work for someone. But you should do it anyway and verify if they do think that way, then factor it in for your last decision. In my experience I find myself being right, it provides a comforting feeling that you're not making any mistakes. Still kinda sad though

[@qolfera2319]

The more you fake it the more they get awful about you, its the people around faking it making it worst.

[@liltunturi1251]

you mean people who fake being suicidal? even so, stakes are very high for losing somebody close to you, you have to take them seriously. and if they really are just joking, try to explain that it is very much not ok to joke about it

[@AhanaMaurya-sc2pz]

It's a feeling you can't explain to someone...but you think of as an way to escape the guilt anxiety situation...you care for everyone around you but you know deep down you can't live this way..the self regret is worst and mostly when it happens when you have nothing...you know if you live you gonna feel this way it won't go away...the time have gone now just pressure stress ...and you don't want to accept this reality of yours... The real thing...real pain... dying being disappear is the only way to feel PEACE..

[@ellenanslow3169]

To men who are feeling down you are amazing people and its okay to talk about it please please just open up my bloke went through a horrific day 3 years ago and its the 1st time he opened up to me about and i felt so proud of him but i broke down later that night just felt his pain i tried to take my own life i was going through some really bad stuff and i just couslnt take it anymore thought it was better if i wasnt here if it wasn't for my support worker i wouldnt be here so i thank my grandparents for the love the gave me 😢 but guys please please it okay to fill like rubbish but please talk to someone we love you and your stonger than you think ❤❤❤

[@mariofanalex4455]

Damn this song goes hard for talk of suicide

[@justincase1919]

Noone even has any pictures of me...

[@kellypolfleit3942]

I pray they find peace in heaven

[@craigster1234]

Even IF you do everything perfectly... the person you love may still end their lives.

[@taylorstyles]

it's not easy it will never be...but we need you here. *WE ALL DO* From your family to your friends to your pet.. even if you want to give up, just run away.. go start a new life somewhere else suicide doesn't have to be the answer. We Love You! 🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@casedgod6966]

This royalty free music is bringing me closer to get same fate as these lost loved ones.

[@robiul1448]

I wish someone would talk about good quality in me after I leave

[@MarleneWalker-su8ku]

All thre of them are right in saying if you have the slightest doubt about someone try and talk to them, but dear god I hope this doesn't translate to them thinking they should have done more, or should have known.Please anyone who has lost someone this way, do not blame yourself. The mind has a trick of looking for blame rather than cause because someone took their own life, the people that did this were just tragically ill. No one can be blamed for not knowing the thoughts of another person even when it's someone you love , please please be easy on yourself.

[@XiePepper]

Life is overrated and I don't understand why people want us to stay alive so bad.

[@davidpineda2561]

i can't achieve that. because i realise it's not about me anymore. if i did it i would hurt my little ones mabie more then what i feel sometimes.

[@carlamitch9964]

In 2015 I went to take my life. Something told me to "stay" it'll get better. It has not gotten any better. Almost everyday I regret my decision. I start therapy again in January 2024. If you see this provide good vibes this one is the right therapist. 😁 I been through a few. 1. told me I don't need therapy since I wasn't sexually assaulted. another told me im too much of a coward to end my life. I told my last therapist I don't believe in god and my story on why I do not ( long story will not provide details) She told me I won't feel lonely if I start back believing in god. ( which was something I discussed to her about) and said I'll stop feeling depressed once I go back to church.

[@liltunturi1251]

I very much related to what Robbie Williams said... "It is like a silent voice waiting and waiting for the right moment, and when something bad happens, only then you will hear it in full volume. Voice telling you that experiencing another day, another morning, another night is not worth it at all." It is a mental disease, just like depression it progresses to more and more dark thoughts, until your reality is nothing but morbid, ultimate despair, hopeless kind of thinking almost everyday. And really the worst thing is that you feel so incredibly insignificant and pointless existence while you are suicidal, so you dont want to tell anyone, you dont want to bother anyone, you dont feel like you are worth getting help. It isolates you and then drives you mad. Most suicidal people though in my opinion REALLY want to live, they need a major change in life and are desperate for improvement in areas of life that are the most detrimental for them, and those are different for everyone, so it is hard to give advice to these suffering people about what they should do to feel better. I found suicidality is about being more afraid of living than dying. Dying is still a terrifying thing, but it can become preferable in some cases. Well I had to get it off my chest. Last couple years have been rough, but I start to plan again.

[@markoska3217]

I really appreciate thees videos, so I can see the other persons view. which gives me an idea what will I cause by my death. the only and the biggest shame is that even tho I feel miserable and want to kill myself. im not mentally strong enough to tell that to someone I know who is able to help me. only if there was a way i could show thees videos to my parents for them to realise Im not ok and offer the help im not able to ask for by myself.

[@explosaoradiotiva7901]

Sometimes, Sad people looks very happy

[@akshy471]

Why is it that almost all people watching these videos are those who're planning it?

[@errolm8313]

Shit.......

[@HeBorka]

Because after 20 years I ve been brave enough to open up, but no one was strong enough to listen, they turned their back. I am blamed for their acts' consequences and I am tired of being the black sheep.

[@assaulth3ro911]

Honestly? I feel like that's who these videos are meant for... the best thing they can accomplish is to prevent more of this happening, right?

[@HeBorka]

@@assaulth3ro911 How does this video prevent anything? One who wants do die will do regardless of how it makes people feel. Especially as they don't care.

[@bobertbobston276]

@@HeBorka well yeah, when you don't care it makes things a lot harder, even on yourself. So at that, you'd be holding yourself back. Don't you want to feel better? Don't you remember what happiness feels like even in the most faint way possible. Now if you do, then work with us, because that's the only way you or anyone will get better from anything.

[@ChanaElisheva]

“Would’ve been nice to see you though”, means I want to see you. Answer, I want to see you too! Are you free tomorrow? Do you want me to come over now? You can sleep tomorrow. Being there is everything. Whether you’re the parent or the child, when you’re both up at the same time, it’s for a reason. The whole reason for you to be alive might be to be a lifeline to the person in front of you (by text, phone call, etc). Don’t just ask-show up! When they’re dead and rotting it’s too late. Talk is cheap. Actions are everything.

[@PlebianGorilla]

I spent all day today having ideations. I’ve tried to communicate that, it’s almost like it was glossed over. It hurts. I don’t know if I’m seeing things clearly though. I just don’t know at all. I spent the whole day on KZbin basically. Typed so many things into the search bar. KZbin’s algorithm can tell and recommended me this video along with a couple similar ones.

[@MagisterialVoyager]

I struggle again. The death on a massive part of my identity is necessary, but suffocating nevertheless.

[@georgeh5075]

They all seem to have adjusted quite well, even the mother really. Makes it feel easier I think.

[@mariog8297]

I think I am beginning to feel a grip of these thoughts. But i am tackling them away. How can i help myself? Maybe some advice for the every day?

[@volix333]

Instead of letting the pain take control even if it looked like my world was ending, I challenged my anxiety, tried to find the cause, initially i thought it would kill me just challenging it, but it didn’t, it’s the one thing your afraid to look at, it saved me, I started actually paying attention to church, praying, instead of ignoring it like the stupid kid I was, it’s what stopped me from killing myself when I was 10. With time, pain fades away The one thing your afraid of looking at, is where you should look.

[@jman8136]

Honestly you have to talk to someone that doesn't mean you confronting the issue or doing anything of the sorts, but definitely talk to someone

[@Sarah-dl4sl]

Just do it instead of fishing for attention on a random youtube comment section

[@Wluciian]

If you can, try reaching out to suicide hotlines or local mental health hospitals/institutes, as they can provide therapy or at the least lend an ear and offer advice and empathy. I speak from experience when I say it is best to talk to someone about it, even if it feels like words won't come out, or that you are faking it, or any other shitty thing that your brain tries to come up with to stop you from getting help. Something my therapist had taught me was make a chart of problem->reason->solution, which helps you locate the issue causing your distress. For example, my days feel repetitive-> I don't leave my room/house-> try to go out for a few minutes a day, and increase slowly. Try to take small steps, since doing everything in a burst is not a long term solution. Methods to fend of suicidal ideation myself was try finding reasons to live-which I know can be hard sometimes, but they can be small things like pet a dog on the street one more time, send a funny meme to someone again, play a game I like, eat cotton candy, all those little things that make life worth living. It's like building with lego bricks, stack the small things up one by one until it's big enough to topple over the looming cloud of darkness above your head :) Depression makes you feel and think lots of things that are completely false, and it's hard to convince yourself otherwise at times. One thing I heard is, if you rethink of some of the thoughts you get-speaking for myself here since I don't know what demons haunt you, friend- like 'Nobody actually likes you' or 'You don't deserve anything', and think of it as someone you don't like/hate saying those things to you, you will realise how hateful, mean, and inhumane they sound. Honestly, they sound like stuff the worst and bitchiest character in a movie would say to the main character. Are you really going to take that lying down from someone as bitchy as, say, Sarah up here? I know I won't :3 Use whatever emotion you have against those thoughts, even if you end up kicking your sheets in anger at 3 am :D I hope these have been at least a bit helpful, and even if they weren't you know you are not alone :)) warm, tight hugs to you, and best of luck and life 🫂 I may be an internet stranger, but I hope you can feel me cheering you on from behind the next time you are kicking the assess of those demons >:D

[@bassacoustic1549]

My advice would be to try and create long term plans that’ll help you to be in a happier place in life. That way you can accept feeling depressed for the short term, knowing that you’re aiming for something. It’s the hopelessness that kills.... and if you have a positive long term vision for yourself, that eases some of the hopelessness. Stay strong and dig in for the long haul, you can be rewarded for your persistence in the end ❤

[@Tdragonfly]

I’m watching this to remind me of how my kids would feel if I did it

[@user-zq7gl9tx3y]

I was told my nephew committed suicide and was in jail . I don't know if I will ever believe that though . Haunted always by the thought

[@Heiwa1928]

Let me spit some fact there. When we are alive..they actually don't care..when we start sharing..at first they don't understand you..then they start to understand you a little and at the last they get bored of your Shyte and also gets angry sometimes because they think we are not trying enough or they think we just don't want to try.. And when we finally give up. They will give these emotional speeches which doesn't matter at all because we are gone forever. So don't share..save your dignity and try to live as much as possible.

[@celenathetrinigirl]

What if you want to talk, but no one cares to listen?

[@jaydeeslater5922]

If you feel no one cares to listen whom you know, talk to a random stranger (like through a chat line/help line) or write your feelings out or if religious, pray. It’s important that you don’t hold it in though. It’s a lot of weight for a person to carry ❤ Don’t go through it alone…

[@celenathetrinigirl]

@@jaydeeslater5922 Thanks.

[@bassacoustic1549]

I’ll listen. You’re never alone.

[@maiselkitsunenko4524]

I feel so bad when i have suicidal thoughts, i wish i coudlnt harm people who love me.

[@mashroom2927]

Please LISTEN!

[@dendevis4331]

удивительно, что они довольно легко теперь об этом говорят. мне нравится, что не рыдают, а улыбаются.

[@artgrid6768]

I just want my mom to understand me, father doesn't support us she is a single mother and it's very hard for her i know it but she is too harsh i cry every day to bed and yeah those words like why were u born when will u die pls go away from my life hurts a lot I try hard not to take them in my mind but end up failing.. i am 12.5 or u can say 13 yrs old. 2 yrs ago when grandma was there she used to love me a lot support me lot but she is not here anymore and things became worse after she passed away.. i want to end myself, go away from my mom's life but end up thinking what would happen to her I tried suicide 2 times but i backed off in the middle I tried to share it with my mom but she thinks i am just making things up and i am just sad..( we r Indian btw ) she always compares me to other students like why u got so low she got 95% and the day depression came to my life my studies have gotten worse i am in class 8 so it's tough coping with studies and depression which my mom doesn't wants to know about... The most important thing I forgot to tell is that she has done masters in PSYCHOLOGY 🙂 i am just living for my dream to become an army officer

[@eeniemeeniemineymoe1]

I know my life will end this way, I just don't know when or how. I'm sick of this pretending, of feeling anxious and tired all the time, and of this fake smile. Someone will tell me: "Go talk to people" But I can't, I don't trust people! I don't trust my family, therapist or strangers. Honestly, I'm just scared of them because I'm a fucking freak

[@senti7965]

You're not alone. I'm still here fighting!

[@eeniemeeniemineymoe1]

@@senti7965 You're still fighting because you're still hoping. I've felt this way for as long as I can remember, and the prospect of living like this for the next 40-50 years terrifies me. Anyway, thanks for trying to cheer me up.

[@philipplays4838]

@@eeniemeeniemineymoe1 Yo man don’t give up there’s always people with you!

[@nece2505]

being freak is a privilege. im not a proffesional but if you want to talk about yourself we can connect. i have felt like this so many time in my life even i know that my situation is better than most of people but i am a med student and i ponder about this topics.

[@barryclegg9961]

I wish I could go sleep and never wake up to have to live another Day again.

[@Ella.46667]

Why. ? Are u miserable? In pain?

[@salifyanjikunda5426]

Same here. It really hurts me knowing that I have to face another day

[@Ella.46667]

@@salifyanjikunda5426 what ur life life right now? Wat would improve it?

[@johnthorpe8341]

THOUGHTS ARE EMOTIONS THEY CAN KILL-IM NOT BEING FLIPPANT-OVER 15YRS AND THE FEELINGS OF WANTING TO DIE ARE STILL WITH ME-THOUGHTS ARE EMOTIONS-ANYONE READING THIS WHOSE PAIN IS LEADING THEM TO END THEIR LIFE PLZ SPEAK YOUR THOUGHTS T0 SOMEONE-TO YOURSELF MAYBE-SUICIDE IS A BRUTAL KILLER IT CARES FOR NO-ONE AND IT FEEDS ON THE MIND AND ITS THOUGHTS-THOUGHTS ARE EMOTIONS THEY CAN KILL

[@normalman1445]

people dont want close to people who want suicide. Sad reality

[@WaleedAdam85]

If im lucky in Mental Health Day i will read some one write some thing like " dont give up " or " be strong " or " you can do it " or some kind of AI generated motivational piptalk And they wonder why i dont like people

[@bassacoustic1549]

I get what you’re saying. I suppose generic comments like that are only because people don’t necessarily know enough about your specific situation to give tailored advice. I find those responses tedious as well so I agree with you. Hope you’re doing ok. It may be a generic thing to say, but keep fighting on and aiming for the life you deserve.

[@WaleedAdam85]

@@bassacoustic1549 Its a long story and this is the only thing i can write down about it But Thx ❤️

[@bassacoustic1549]

@@WaleedAdam85 self love and self care. Live in a mental bubble with yourself if you need to, just being kind to yourself, and aim for better things down the line with some long term life plans (that gets rid of the “hopelessness” feeling which is the big killer.... if you see a vision for the future you want, it gives incentive to hold on through the dire present times). When you know you’ve been close to death, once you’re better in the future everything will feel like a bonus, as you’ll know deep down you’ve cheated death by surviving depression, so you can take the handbrake off and really go for life as a free hit. I know what the incredible depths feel like and how brutal life can be. Plan your way out of your problems and be proud for getting to the next day. Just wanted to give some words of encouragement, as they apply for myself too. The world is a mean and nasty place and people need to know that despite the world making them feel unimportant, they are important and there’s a way through. ❤️

[@WaleedAdam85]

@@bassacoustic1549 who are you ?

[@bassacoustic1549]

@@WaleedAdam85 just a random KZbin commenter trying to help people!

[@MrDando87]

We want to talk. The problem is the waiting list for talking therapies is nearly 6 months where I live.

[@yossarianreborn2904]

Personally, I think every one of these people knew, but didn't care enough. Especially close family. They always know.

[@фвы-к4э]

I think so too, though I don't really blame them, it's really uncomfortable to realise someone you love and deeply care about is going through suicidal thoughts, and you just prefer to insist to yourself that your loved one is okey and that it's nothing severe, rather than actively talk about it, because like I said, it's an uncomfortable feeling and most times, you just don't know the correct words to say to your suicidal loved one.

[@Kitty-mb4hy]

No, the relatives usually don't know. People are often really good at hiding that they're suicidal because they don't want to be stopped.

[@Falcon22792]

They always know

[@josefkerr898]

@@Falcon22792you’re a damn fool. But I hope you never feel the pain of losing a family member or friend this way.

[@hugemusiclover1837]

The only thing I don't like about this is the music. It's too loud for this heartbreaking video

[@pinksushi]

Suicide is a complication of mental illness. Talking about suicide alone isn't going to help. To prevent this complication, address the elephant in the room. Most people with mental illness are really strong inside, so telling them to be positive, be strong and hold on isn't going to help them, they've held on far enough. Instead ask them what is the one thing that makes them miserable, keep prodding empathetically until you get to the crux of their disease. And help them from there. Often times when you ask them to talk about it, most of them have been living with their illness for so many years, there are layers of negative coping skills, secondary mental illness that obscure the true cause of their mental illness

[@Sarza001]

I just wont it all to stop.

[@danielbeaulne3801]

I don't understand it. Not sure I ever will.

[@ChronosK]

what if i have no one to talk to i dont want to worry the only ones i can trust, i love them to much for that, they shouldn't ever worry about me

[@iseekvengeance]

What if there is someone who is genuine to listen to you? Ask yourself, these ppl u trusted, if they are in your position would u want them to tell you what they are going through? I hope that answer your question. I genuinely wish you find the courage to talk with someone you trusted.

[@blaswar3207]

Why do they think about suicide or are they depressed? What led them to that thought. I would like against a relationship between the causes.

[@princessthabahamianspartan4810]

Honestly!

[@HeliosEffect]

1:27 the music is incredibly inappropriate lmao

[@HeliosEffect]

But as someone who has thought about killing themselves multiple times this is an incredibly heavy video

[@Izzyandmore123]

Ik right?

[@nidiadiaz7679]

Pero cuáles son las alternativas¡?¡ _Qué podemos hacer para ayudarlos¡?¡? Cuáles son los últimos avances científicos a este respecto??

[@markjacob2386]

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️

[@MJ-qi4mm]

I'm sorry but my mom won't understand what I'm saying until it happens. at least I'm going to get a hug from my mom for the first time even if I'm dead haha..

[@bassacoustic1549]

Stay strong. There’s a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep going.

[@Yobama862]

0:50 music name?

[@shelbyisa]

Oasis Wonderwall

[@MaxMax-th7uz]

😢

[@Sudhanshuvattssharma]

Nobody understands

[@channelyeimy]

Thats a good physiology that you put an off music in this video

[@battheman777]

If you're going to ask someone about this topic, your only chance of success is 1- to do it in an intimate setting, usually 1 on 1. 2- the person has to feel, I mean truly know, that you actually care and sincerely want to help them. 3- They must also know you're in it for the long haul. Depression is a state of mind and, kind of like habits, takes a lot of time and effort to change. Too many people are willing to ask or listen... for a little while. Then they get tired of hearing the same thing over and over and have an attitude of "oh not this again." People who are depressed don't want to feel that way, but tragically, they don't know what to do to differently to escape it (Much like addiction), They don't necessarily want to die, but they want the pain to end and can't see another way besides death. For those looking for a way out, Christ is the way. His atonement was effectuated for YOU. His gospel will teach you the way to access the atonement and find true healing. Turn away from the teachings and pop culture of the world and let Him make you whole again.

[@anandmohan1847]

😟

[@thechrysanthemum]

all men

[@gloriahallelujah1118]

No one wants to see suffering in loved ones . And if they say they are having dark thoughts ,society shoves pills to suppress those emotions And those pills can indeed cause suicidal ideation . Suffering is in the Mind We never leave the Mind We leave the body We are not the body We are pure SPIRIT They are bringing the message of LOVE YOURSELF Treat others like you wish to be treated No more suffering if we all practice unconditional Love Love is patient Love is kind Love doesn’t hold grievances Love doesn’t make demands Love only gives and alive never fails. Forgiveness is needed now more than ever . Be the one you seek . You are looking for the Love that you inherently are . No one can give you the Love you already possess , you must find it within Not out in the world . The lesson will repeat 🔁 Guilt = Reincarnation same Dream over and over Until we learn GOd is Love Love is what you are Peace is your inheritance You can only give your peace away No one can take it .🙏⚖️ Thank you God 🙌 Peace I bring to you Peace is leave with you Forgive them for they know not what they do or who they truly are . What is eternal cannot die We are the Holy children of a loving God Heaven is not a place but a state of Mind Divine Mind Or we can choose the hell realm on earth 🌍 and decide to exit to rinse and repeat . Either way , we will Remember.. That’s our Creators Promise Learn through FORGIVENESS..

[@nevaehhamilton3493]

Preach

[@leoramirezcorona1124]

It selfish to force people to live if they don’t want to

[@stefdiazdiaz7067]

It may be, however i don't think it is so simple

[@Izzyandmore123]

Canadian healthcare ahh take.

[@PinkSparklerToontown]

these people all had access to mental healthcare. No excuse

[@ZZ-rc1yw]

What a stupid response And you're the one telling me I got shit wrong. Look up track 3 of the album "whole lotta red". You should do what the title of the song says

[@turkiedurkie4895]

I don’t think you understand how mental health care works..or mental health in general…don’t speak about something you’re uneducated on like you know what’s what. You’re either a kid or a very mentally sheltered person

[@CommentFrom]

Just another troll. I sincerely hope you don't have to experience feelings like wanting to die. It's not fun.

[@pacificmainlander]

@Emzo An ignorant comment at best.

[@sciencetv5249]

No therapy can improve mental health.

[@bertkelley3213]

Fuck the people that says it's a cowardly selfish act. What's more selfish than telling someone suffering so deeply they want to die that they have to stay here and suffer more so you won't have to be sad. I'm sick of everyone else's feelings and emotion determining the length of my suffering. If the ones that claim to love you actually did so they would assist in leaving this shit hole behind. But no. They're happy in their little lives. And can't stand thinking of you making it sad. That's the epitome of selfish.

[@jensdanielsson8847]

There is a way to intercept it. Eutunasia allows people to go to a place for unstigmatized ending of their life. It also allows for those people to say why they feel like not living, without loosing their opportunity and right to end life. It also reestablishes the ownership of contract for social security and welfare back where it belongs, the government. Meaning, governments will have to start taking responsibility again for the welfare and rights of their citizens. Suicide is a human right issue that currently is being overseen and pretended of as some hard to understand equation. See it this way: Companies who sell products have a far more vested interest, in current times, of getting to know why customers were unhappy with their experience, to the point that they spend a lot of money on surveys trying to figure out how they can improve and why the customer was unhappy. It is also information that they take seriously, because they know that they loose money on not doing so. Governments however do not take suicide and the un happiness of their citizens experiences seriously. Eutunasia clinics would stop wars. It would stop terrorist acts, hence the name suicide bomber. A major factor as to why these organisations can exist and push people into terrorism in the first place, is due to the fact that governments have ILLEGALLY given away the social contract of said citizens and humans, to criminal network organisations who use them as slaves for political and economical warfare. Governments do not allow eutunasia, because it, historically would be seen as holocaust. It is still holocaust to pretend that people killing them selfs did so out of mental health issues. An eutunasia clinic would be a place for where people can go and end their lives with dignity and without pain. It also opens up, like the topic of this video asks for, second chances and most importantly, good byes. A eutunasia clinic would be a place where people would go, get sedated and finally injected with a deadly dose of painless poison. That way the ending of that life will once again be placed back into the hands of its rightful owner, the governments who daily ignore the realities of their members of nation and citizens to the point that they go off and kill themselfs. Not only would an eutunasia clinic open up for being able to "intercept that last thought". It would bring back responsibility to governments to listen and correct the structures and incompetent actions taken that planted the seed of that last thought. For many it would mean being able to die with dignity, end pain and get peace and for more it would mean the chance to love, hug and farewell that closed one in an equally dignified way.

[@Izzyandmore123]

Dude wtf we shouldn’t euthanise suicidal people.

[@stratocaster1986able]

The reason people don't talk is because people don't listen. How do people not understand this?

[@yayeet1746]

They also don't know how to/can't handle it

[@piece4phil]

don't expect all people to understand you. I don't even know you

[@Xusni123]

​@@piece4phil i think he is not meant when he say " the people don't understand " random people on the internet so dont say " i don't even know you "he meant the people around him such as family, friends