If Age Gap Couples Were 100% Honest | Split Decision

[@lolerene3776]

We need to start a support group for people that have watched this episode 😭😭😭😭😭

[@OohLa118]

This comment 😭

[@Bobab0y]

bruh fr like i’m struggling getting though the first 5 min. this is wild

[@birthdaycakey2893]

fr like what is this help 😭@@Bobab0y

[@nancysindani9696]

forealll!

[@K177a]

Lmao

[@napoet_02]

Him saying he wanted to be a slave was INSANE 😭😭😭😭 done set us back 100 years

[@arizzc]

I WAS LIKE WTH 😭

[@Austinflwrz]

Massa’s wife home alone what happened to secrets??

[@musaazi87]

Its a humiliation kink

[@escupetube]

..... obviously he is not refering to that

[@plaugecentury2337]

GIRL I WAS GASPING. And the cherry on top was that her kids were racist and called him the n word as if she didn’t raise them😭

[@Sillygoose24]

The couple where the younger guy said he wouldn't want to have children because he doesnt want his kids to lose a dad so young is SO valid. I'm 25, i lost my both my birth parents. (i never really had a connection to them) but knowing my adoptive parents who are in their mid 80's might make it only another 5 years, is devastating. Its so hard seeing your parents go through the last stages of life and knowing they will most likely never meet my future children, or be there when i am married, or even just have somewhere to go home to.

[@Littlewulff]

So true, but at the same time, consider the kids who don’t get to have parents at all. I think if I were a foster kid needing stability, I’d rather have two nice dads for 15 or 20 years than never having that at all. Anyone who has a different experience, I’m open to hearing it but knowing the alternative for some kids is NO parents…

[@Jen-5595]

It's the only unselfish person in this group for sure...

[@lora753sofi]

I'm a minute and a half in and it's already a tough one to watch

[@user-soon300]

That's me❤ it's really tough to watch I don't feel it's deserve...

[@Roseskatrina]

Some of the info they’re sharing no one could ever get out of me 💀

[@itsnatemate7697]

@@Roseskatrina “I like to be a slave…” 🚪🚶🏽‍♂️

[@KJ75678]

@@itsnatemate7697THIS ‼️😭😭 IM LIKE OH???!

[@lora753sofi]

Okay i finished the video actually it was very touching

[@lailaes802]

Talia and her husband seem the most normal and aren't talking much and I think it's because their age gap isn't that huge

[@Ceerads]

And Alejandro looked young.

[@xxintixx4638]

Yeah they look normal

[@tonyofhousestark1511]

They look normal because this kind of relationship is much more commonly seen than the others, also they have the smallest age gap.

[@pasc8699]

He’s the only one that doesn’t look like he’s trying to look young. Talia also seems mature compared to the other young people

[@ekleiman4043]

I was thinking that too, but it also seems as though everyone else is more out spoken or were asked more questions. Like when one of them would be on no or yes and the other was on the opposite, they weren't asked about. They were talked to sometimes, but I'm almost done with the video and haven't heard much of them.

[@indigolash4650]

I feel like two older gay men are literally gonna be best friends after this😭

[@alexajose-nixon6028]

them connecting over olivia newton john😭😭😭

[@Airbender1802]

Also they look the same 😭

[@rt20089]

One of the couples have a channel named out loud and they're so freaking adorable.The video really didn’t do them justice

[@serpent3nvy]

they all should become friends after this.

[@TheeDezaray]

more than that lol

[@seymagurbuz2066]

-"what will i be in 40 years?" -"dust" 💀💀💀

[@ChrisPTY507]

💀💀💀💀

[@Summer-fb7gb]

I actually screamed

[@myssteehbby]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mirlineesperance2223]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chocolate2162]

I am weaketh😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ElliottOrSomething]

tbh i wouldn’t be able to tell an age difference between talia and alejandro 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@TheLovesnowangel]

I think it's because they have the least age gap. Or she just has aged pretty bad and he aged pretty well

[@freddieking441]

💯

[@mel-ed3yw]

my thoughts exactly

[@RosaGarcia-zd8zm]

Talia se ve mayor y alejandro muy joven

[@shannon3525]

Same

[@bryannab07]

bro the “we met in my dorm” to “i wanna be a slave “ idk if i can finish this 💀

[@Petsmenagerie]

The slave thing isn’t surprising. That is a huge kink in the kink community.

[@magnoliah6476]

same, ive made it just after 8 minutes and yeah im not gonna make it.

[@PurposefulLivingwithNdem]

Going into sex questions to start makes the age gap look like it's sex only. Starting with emotional questions would have been more beneficial, in my opinion. You can do better jubilee!

[@Rnue]

Yeah. Ick tactics.

[@dadoniks1184]

They always start off with sex in order to grab attention

[@NikkiBudders]

I can easily see it as baiting viewers, lessening nerves of the people with a comedic question, or just wanting to get a big viewer question answered so they can move on to deeper subjects. Maybe it's a mix of all 3. I don't really fault Jubilee for it. That's just what pleases the algorithm and exploring viewers. You don't begin by asking hard questions, it's too jarring.

[@TheKidd98]

Dont worry that literally that all these vids are like

[@tmuto5119]

I mean u can extremely easily tell they all have an emotional connection. Ppl were crying for each other and showing how much they love each other. Feel like it’s the base standard, like obvsly ppl in relationships love each other regardless of age. So sex life is a bigger talking point bc that’s one of the things that makes their relationships sm different to typical ones.

[@alexwambugu8228]

“I want to be a slave” is insane “ massa wife is home alone” is senile

[@chubbybunny3778]

LMFAO

[@JaysonBernardo-ch9fv]

Yoooo 😂

[@simbadube8648]

I had to take a moment to process what he said bruh 😭

[@artofjoy4418]

Chai!!! As in ehhh

[@taylakurner]

Yeah, he's telling all their business.

[@iluv.snails]

Jeff seems like such a sweet guy! The way he immediately comforted Cheryl warms my heart 😊

[@nadiajupiter8340]

I would love to see a video on couples with a size difference being a plus size women with a skinny husband it isn’t easy I’d love to hear about other peoples experiences

[@GroundedSolidarity]

Meh

[@eugenetswong]

It makes more sense to create an episode, when the woman is healthy or skinny, and the guy is obese. Society tends to show more support for obese women, and women, who want to leave relationships.

[@AWallflowergirl]

Yes that's a great idea

[@yomnaaa7397]

​@@eugenetswongI think it's the opposite? I don't know where you live but here you can be a morbidly obese male actor portrayed as a love interest, but you can't be even overweight woman in the same position, I think what you interept as "society support" is more of society pity or over correction

[@bean4435]

@@yomnaaa7397 some men want to be victimized so bad they straight up lie lol..!

[@wh0refortwd]

why did nobody help her with her hair😭mf could’ve let her know half of it was straight

[@lorenmphelan1893]

Thank youuuu I was looking for this comment. Her hair was bothering me so much.

[@alexistutera2404]

i’m rolling 😂😂😂😂😂

[@marijaskvorc6293]

Come onnn, she just goes by the saying: If you can't see it, it doesn't exist 😂

[@enmanley]

DEADASSSSS I brought me back to middle school dances, and refusing to let my mom help me with my hair 😭😭😭

[@chelsmeister]

Lowkey loved her hair. It's a look. She rocked it haha

[@notkenziedotorg3736]

Is no one gonna talk about how half of Cheryl’s hair is straight?😭😭😭💀

[@yuiitodoro7791]

Lol

[@beautybyashhhx]

Production did her dirty

[@embananasplit2935]

It’s an 00s inspired style, just poorly executed lol

[@rebeldiamond601]

I noticed that too and tried so hard to ignore it😂😂😂

[@polaris7346]

she said, “the back of my head is NONE of my business!”

[@ashleyredsheep]

Not really a strong choice to start broaching this controversial subject with the sex life but... maybe that's just me. As someone who supports healthy age gap couples, I would think the emotional connection is what you'd want to lead with.

[@annieelle9070]

yeah i feel you, kinda feels like a fetishized take when there's a lot more nuance than that

[@qualiangelica]

Agreed.

[@jato2942]

Sure but at the same time sex is one of, if not the most important thing in relationships.

[@ashleyredsheep]

@@jato2942 Personally I strongly disagree with that, but that's a matter of opinion.

[@jato2942]

@@ashleyredsheepYOU can disagree, but that makes you the minority

[@leeloodallas959]

Cheryl must have has a rough life cuz she says she’s 63 but she looks at least 80. Wow.

[@sierracuacuas2931]

I think drugs were involved

[@CBCRadioGirl]

Her Instagram bio openly says she struggles with an eating disorder, so. Some other commenters have mentioned she's talked about addiction on TikTok, but can't confirm that because I don't use it. Whatever the case, not surprising. She mentions being in abusive relationships in the past, and who knows what else she's dealt with. Hopefully she's doing as well as she can these days.

[@xenondoro8573]

Don't do drugs

[@kikitam00]

Sun damage from being a surfer

[@rosebeelow7159]

She says it was mostly from being a surfer but she’s also said that yes she had a very hard life

[@Kissesfromrory]

Usually I hate ads but I needed a break from this in the lelo thing

[@marmarino2070]

Jeff and Brian should become besties, they were totally vibing! Wish all the best to all the couples!

[@archiraxx]

People like you are incredible for being able to go trough the first 5 minutes and still root for all the couples 💀

[@lebogangngcobo3096]

Tre being 22 is crazy😭

[@djkwells2168]

Yea! They were together for 6 years 😅 and he talks about them hanging out in his dorm

[@amelie4813]

​@@djkwells2168 HE WAS 17???????

[@djkwells2168]

@@amelie4813 something like that crazy how they didn’t even try and cover it up but that is terrible

[@sope2882]

@@djkwells2168 how would Tre be in college at 16/17? Can you add the timestamp for when they said they were together for 6 years because I don't remember hearing that.

[@HeavenlyJLove]

@@djkwells2168it’s jon and brian who’ve been together 6 years

[@martagustafsson5749]

My heart broke when Cheryl talked about her kids not approving of her husband and when she said that she can't visit her grandchildren. To have your kids acting like that towards you and your partner that for once is making you happy and are taking care of you when all the past ones were abusive must be horrible

[@shelbygray2214]

To choose your kid over a guy and stick with him, if family doesn't approve don't go for him, she could of dated younger, she choose him over seeing them

[@martagustafsson5749]

@@shelbygray2214 she said they were racist towards him and sometimes family don't approve for the wrong reasons. She shouldn't just lay flat and oblige just because her family don't approve if they have a shitty reason for not liking him, she definitely should stay if that's the case

[@imdva]

@@shelbygray2214 wtf is wrong with you? her family called him slurs multiple times and are clearly racist. thats the one thing i sympathized with them on.

[@Samiscool114]

@@martagustafsson5749you have no idea if that is actually true there is probably a whole lot more to it

[@msadeyes]

She said she has 7 kids and doesn’t speak to 6, something is off if you don’t speak to 6/7 of your kids

[@Yosefiel]

Wow Jubilee. First subject is sex? Given the sensitive subject, you could've gone a different route. And the guy was graphic at that... Just wow!

[@STRING246]

Was disappointed that this was the direction of this as well

[@jinhub2175]

Why is the topic of sex problematic for you?

[@voyance4elle]

I think it was a great fun icebreaker :)

[@jato2942]

Normal people don’t care. Only you religious people and actual children

[@kateryna-ostapenko]

​@@jinhub2175 i don't think they find the topic problematic in general. Just the fact that they started with that may send the wrong message. I personally feel similarly about hypersexualization in LGBT community. If people have a prejudice towards a certain sexuality, I think it's better to showcase the romantic side of it at first to show that it's a whole relationship rather than a fetish. For instance I'm bi and many people jump straight to the topic of threesomes when they find out.

[@prismen5535]

the: "where will i be in 40 years-", "dust" was wild asf

[@kaylamoriarty4352]

I’m a bit disturbed by the comments “we met in my dorm room” “it was my first time” like WHAT

[@SarunaSari-cc9tc]

he was 16 when they met😭😭😭😭

[@leckmich5452]

@@SarunaSari-cc9tc oh no

[@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721]

​@SarunaSari-cc9tc no. 17 when you graduate college or 18 of your bday falls late in the year.

[@maurartsy2916]

Most were groomed

[@maurartsy2916]

@@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721quarantine was 16 or 15 when they met

[@narutardandproud7568]

Couples of opposite political views would be cool to have on the show

[@vivacev]

I would like that too. I was a bit surprised when one of the couples said they don't talk about politics in order to not have to disagree.

[@Bluntgirly]

I'm so tired of the political videos, let's get new topics

[@myas.6485]

It feels so gross that people date people with different political ideologies. So many of their opinions are about basic human rights

[@Flesh_Wizard]

Or put em in an arena and let em duke it out

[@daviddinoger]

​@@myas.6485lol

[@NovaRambo4427]

I think it only becomes an issue when you *exclusively* desire people far older/younger than you (like 30 *ONLY* dating 19). If you just so happen to fall in love with an older/younger person then I don't think it's a big deal... as long as you are happy (and power dynamics are equal/ there's no manipulation).

[@justinwilson9848]

Might not be for the people who know it but people who don't just jump to whatever they feel

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

To exclude them manipulation to relationships that have large age gap is a little agist. Every type of relationship has manipulation, coercion and downright toxicity. The age, as long as it's legal, is not the difference, it's the level of maturity, attachment, styles, and intentions between both parties. We love to judge people's preferences for some reason. We're obsessed by it. As long as it's legal, it's none of my or your business. I for one prefer people my own age. But I'm not going to be judging somebody who prefers somebody younger as long as it's legal.

[@rseestella2296]

⁠​⁠@@MindfulAttraction2.0Interesting that you say that after you just commented on a video saying that children consenting to sex with adults is insane. There are no MAJOR changes going on in the brain from 17-19 where a child just clicks and becomes equipped with everything they need to be an adult. Teenagers 13-19 do not have the life experience to be “mature” enough to be in a relationship with a fully grown adult. 9 times of 10 if they do, it’s from traumatic experience that’s making them think it’s okay to date fully grown adults who are attracted to the idea of grooming them. A child who hasn’t had the experience to know when to walk out of a toxic relationship or know when a relationship is toxic is the difference. Legal or not, if you are attracted to the idea of being able to manipulate someone because they are coming from a place of naivety , that is weird.

[@johannesmattsson9900]

​@@MindfulAttraction2.0Just because it's legal doesn't mean it's moral, people exclusively going after those much younger than them is often predatory and going after people who haven't had the chance to mature fully.

[@liv-w2o]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0legal doesn’t equal moral lmao also “ageism” doesn’t exist when talking ab this subject.

[@Morg100]

Am I the only one who thinks Tre looks 35?? 22 is crazy!!!!

[@PrettyOmnificent333]

your not.

[@PanoramicView-o5p]

Agreed there’s no way

[@ItsHowdy]

it’s the hair color

[@Morg100]

@@ItsHowdy I’ve seen him with black hair on his TikTok page. He still looks older lol.

[@mikaapichatsakol530]

Alejandro and Talia are not controversial enough for this experiment lol

[@manifestingsanctuary]

They're just the least open

[@hannahgates2994]

@@manifestingsanctuary which isn’t necessarily a bad thing 🤷‍♀️

[@manifestingsanctuary]

​@@hannahgates2994 Of course, just doesn't mean they're less controversial if all was aired out in the open.

[@parrisnia72]

I honestly wouldn't even think they were an age gap couple if I saw them out and about. I mean close up, he does look older than her, but I never would have guessed there was 16 years between them

[@Niya.B649]

​@@parrisnia72 Agree!

[@Scribbby]

You can tell that both Jeff and Tre are an emotionally intellectual couple. They're able to effectively communicate their feelings towards one another and it's a characteristic that allows a relationship to go far.

[@giulia6344]

Brian and Jon seemed even more mature to me. But yeah they were fine too.

[@charityrobbins5152]

Talia and Alejandro never got the chance to talk in this vid. 😂

[@Cherrykins]

they probably didn't have very many opinions worth putting in the video, they're the most "normal" of all the couples

[@mariasarik4269]

imagine dating someone that was 30 when you were born

[@believeume122]

This is what I think of everytime someone says they have a huge age gap

[@BooksToAshes]

I always found an age gap way too much if the person could have been your parent (or worse, grandparent...)

[@jinhub2175]

Ew

[@tortellinicat]

I mean you could even apply that to smaller gaps. My partner is just 5 years older than me and when we think about it, I was in elementary when they were in high school which is weird. I was 13 when they were 18 and that's weird. But we didn't meet then, we met as adults.. so it's normal. But idk I also am just not put off by the idea of dating someone even 20+ years older than me. We're adults, if the dynamic works, it works.

[@prestonmatthews725]

Oh Lord

[@macngeeseyt6029]

There is a reason people consider it wierd.

[@allme1000]

Fr tho especially cherry she groomed that lil boy and made him into her lil slave just like she did back in her day smh 😒

[@ashtinpeaks9972]

Yea, I would say when it gets to 20 it starts getting a bit odd in my opinion. Most the relationships i have seen in my life has been within 10 years of age. I have seen married couples have problems with age difference of 20 years as well just due to retirement and other factors. Each their own, but it is odd for majority of people

[@WubbyPunch]

It’s more important in straight relationships where kids could be involved for sure. But yeah generally the wider the gap the weirder. And the gayer the couple the less weird to be honest lol.

[@jinhub2175]

​@@WubbyPunch lmao you're not wrong tho

[@MrLuffyoo]

⁠@@ashtinpeaks9972it's rare, but it's noone else business except for the people living the relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge others ?

[@Cyberrpuke]

congratulations jubilee you officially created the hardest watch on youtube

[@Marie70707070]

I love the host of this show. He's very open and sensitive. Just a very likeable person :)

[@robynblondie1132]

This!

[@gigi-ph8zd]

i agree you could totally tell he made them 100% comfortable

[@shoutaaizawa1068]

it's almost like his job is on the line

[@QueensNYgirlie1988]

Hats off to Cheryl's one child who isn't a raging racist 👏

[@Ceerads]

I did wonder how her kids could’ve grown up to be racists. One usually learns that from one’s parents. But one’s community has a big influence, too, so that could’ve been what helped develop that hatred in them.

[@hazykuriboh222]

​@Ceerads it sounds like her ex husband's were pretty bad and abusive so I wouldn't doubt their father is a raging racist if he's capable of abuse and SA

[@xenondoro8573]

​@@Ceerads Y'all are wild af. Children are fully capable of knowing their gender, having hormones and cutting off body parts but in everything else it's the parents where the kids got it from. Make it make sense.

[@pluto-kl5od]

@@xenondoro8573 what?

[@AndSoWeLaughed]

yes lets praise the absolute bare minimum. woohoo.

[@madlibs4]

This makes me miss the love of my life who was 42 years older than me and died in 2020. It takes a special type of person to be in an age gap relationship. The confidence, comfortably, and fun energy between these partners is a special kind of connection. There’s no judgement. You embrace your differences. It’s pure love, and every moment is precious. Everything was a fun adventure to us. We were always laughing and could joke with each other without ever taking anything personally. I’ve never felt as free with anyone as I did with him, and it’s such an amazing learning experience to be with someone from a different era. There’s so much mutual respect, and the ability to not care about what anyone else thinks is so powerful. No relationship in my life has ever compared.

[@jess6558]

Omg everyone just said “let’s over share!”

[@HB-ey2dk]

Like... WAY overshare wtf 😂

[@ufohoh]

The black guy having a slave kink is crazy 💀

[@soanyways5167]

Fr

[@Anny-me9ny]

Would you not rather them be honest ?

[@raimeyewens7518]

@@Anny-me9nyyou can be honest without saying we like to shove our arms up each other’s bums and then urinate on each other.

[@itsssandrearenee]

Quran was so defensive about so many of the topics.... from knowing about their relationship; them meeting when he was 16, both of them having SA trauma, and her family issues... I feel like deep down, he feels it is wrong and knows just he fell into a weird relationship when he was so young and broken. He has a big heart and he feels bad for Cheryl and doesn't want to leave her because she'll be alone. That's my analysis.

[@OfficialWikipedia]

When did he say he was 16 when they met?

[@somerandomblkgirl]

@@OfficialWikipedia the information is public information on social media (specifically TikTok) there are many videos about it. Hope that helps.

[@_sadaf_]

I still don't get the whole concept behind their marriage, Their relationship is the weirdest one among them.

[@MoonMoonTM]

@@OfficialWikipedia They did an interview a few years back. He was 16 and working for her son which is how they met. They became "friends" for 8 years and then started dating.

[@Freetheebees]

Wow you made up that “analysis” based on how you perceived him by a few questions? Which btw he didnt seem at all regretful.. Maybe you’re the one that thinks its wrong so you think he does? Weird thought process lady.

[@dozyrozypozy]

"i wanna be a slave" stand up my brother, ur free😂

[@Petsmenagerie]

That is a legit kink. Him being black ain’t got nothing to do with it.

[@ivysrainbow6735]

I hope Cheryl is ok, something is going on with her we can all see it but I hope I’m wrong.

[@stephanie.420]

Meth bb. I’m actually not judging though I used to be addicted to heroin lol

[@uaibix]

something for sure

[@stephen1922]

She’s tweaking for sure 😂 can’t stop moving

[@raimeyewens7518]

@@stephanie.420she does seem methed up

[@TheLovesnowangel]

I honestly think they're both on drugs. She's just into it more

[@KJ75678]

Grandpa ….to 17 grandchildren …at 26….. someone help 😭

[@PrettyOmnificent333]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@WhoAmI2YouNow]

I get the feeling that Cheryl uses some kind of medication.. the way she moves etc.. I hope she is okay

[@TheRockerX]

1:14 my jaw was on the floor when Quran started talking about ejaculating all over Cheryl 😲😲

[@shaymazardoub7506]

My jaw literally dropped When Jon said "Dust"💀

[@jeangenie1240]

They have an excellent rapport, that's just typical of their humour.

[@dani09eveline]

I clown my age gap ex like that too. He always would act like I don’t know dhit because I’m young but I was never that young

[@denisesiddon317]

I called my older ex when I was with him dinosaur as a joke that was acceptable but dust is a bit too far

[@xenondoro8573]

​@@denisesiddon317 It's up to them to decide what is too much. That's a lame roast in gay circles anyway.

[@khozamasechaba]

I perished 😭😭😭

[@enmanley]

This is the most honest I’ve ever seen a collective group be in these videos

[@gracewong957]

maybe to honest i did not need to hear abt the p!ss k!nk

[@SpongebobSquarepants-gz1jj]

Idc ab the age gap it's just that Sheryl met quaren when he was 16..

[@ms.borzynski2195]

Crazy I’m seeing this after watching someone react to Quran and Cheryl. They’re kind of popular on TikTok and they met when Quran was only 16 and Cheryl was like 53 😬😬 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with an age gap but how could you be with someone you knew when they were underage. Kind of icky if you ask me

[@anothertitan5543]

Yeah no thats definitely grooming ://

[@a_83567]

@@anothertitan5543 And in this video he has said some things that imply they got together when he was a minor but I’ll leave that alone.

[@wiseguy240Winston]

Then u think there's something wrong with the age gap.... CAUSE THERE IS 😂

[@ms.borzynski2195]

@@wiseguy240Winston not necessarily because if they met when he’s 30 and she’s 67 like yes that’s a big age difference but he’s be 30 and a grown adult with a fully developed brain you know? So it’s not really the age difference but their actual ages currently if that makes sense? Kind of the same idea of like a senior dating a freshman in high school. It’s only 4 years but the developmental difference is huge but later in life 4 years is nothing

[@v4l3nt1n30]

fr, like sum there was def planned 😨

[@BlueTechBite]

Jubilee needs to pay for my therapy session.

[@alukeom3815]

Not Cheryl showing up only curling the front half of her head 😂

[@meryemk3531]

If she keeps talking too much her mouth gon fall down 😭😭😭

[@itsnatemate7697]

@@meryemk3531Gonna be like them cartoons with the jaw all the way down 😭💀

[@_sadaf_]

She would have probably forgotten, she's aging 🙂😭💀

[@racheltang9985]

Hahaha

[@Oumaima500]

I literally can’t stop laughing about this 😭😭😂

[@Heyguhh]

Having a slavery kink is wild and vile asf🤦🏾‍♀️ (Yes im kink shaming)

[@artofjoy4418]

Exactly!! No sir!!!

[@pasc8699]

I feel like it’s a humiliation kink rather than a slavery kink but he doesn’t understand that yet

[@sd7785]

It's very common, and this mentality is what keeps people feeling intense shame about kinks for years. It does nothing but hurt those individuals. Nothing has been gained

[@Cheray_]

You'd think massa's kids name-calling would turn him on🤷🏾‍♀️

[@sd7785]

@@Cheray_ That's a vile thing to say

[@pallaszina]

I wish everyone the best. My heart melted when Brian hugged Cheryl to console her. It's nobody's business but their own.

[@MoonMoonTM]

There is no way the lady in the thumbnail is only 64. Edit: She met him when he was 16 and was "friends" with him. 🤢

[@itstheboyaj]

All hail Queen Cheryl

[@itsnatemate7697]

@@itstheboyajShe gonna end up like Queen Elizabeth 💅🏽

[@kitcowool]

That’s what abuse, raising 7 kids after two failed marriages and terrible life decisions will do.

[@ラファエル-i3q]

I thought she was at least 80!

[@AllThatJuice-]

Meth

[@VictoriaHatzson]

“We anchored our love on our mutual abuse” YIKES!that even SOUNDS unhealthy, you shouldn’t wonder if it is, from the moment that thought entered your head to the point it exited your mouth you should have been able to realise how wrong it sounds!

[@floflo8164]

i really don't think so. like they said, when u've gone through something like that in your life, it's much harder to find people who really understand you. they can sympathize, sure, but they can't fully step in your shoes, and they shouldn't have to either. as long as both individuals are in their healing journey, it makes for a healthy relationship. speaking as someone who's gone through abuse as well, i personally don't want my partner to pity me or see me as some broken lamb or to feel like a burden in any regard. being with, even just talking to people who've gone through similar things, it's a very different and significant type of understanding

[@birdmandoesnthavediabetes4009]

​@@floflo8164exactly, and I'm sure they were able to establish a much deeper connection on other things after bonding over trauma.

[@RockinLoud360]

You're reaching

[@smileprincess6834]

We all anchor our love based on mutual things, whether be it hobbies, careers, whatever...just because theirs was their experiences of abuse doesn't mean they can't love or see each other beyond that. It just means it drew them closer to one another, like any other mutual thing people can share and they grew from there. It's really not "Yikes" nor unhealthy. Their relationship isn't based around only those experiences, it doesn't revolve around that...that would be unhealthy.

[@manifestingsanctuary]

I think you're confusing trauma bonding with what they explained. It's not the same thing. This shared past experience allows them deeper empathy between one another; it is a positive them.

[@martialartsnerd7673]

"You can't hurt me if I don't read it" I love that.

[@HappyDia01]

The casual discussion about Daddy and Coach and all these other weird pedophilic fantasies was too much for me. You can’t tell me it’s not borderline predatory to be in such a large age gap when you are openly talking about being interested in those types of things.

[@kanyebutdarker8152]

So two consenting adults in a relationship is pedophilic?

[@woahwhat7321]

Very odd and very off

[@AZ-ji3zl]

Also the fact that he’s dated other older men too… jon has issues if he’s consciously only going for older men

[@voyance4elle]

that's silly everybody has kinks and phantasies. There is nothing weird about that.

[@AlzMarioWolfe]

It’s giving mega diet pedophilia to me, like they know they can get away with it because it’s legal but they still totally fantasize about it

[@MrNicoleCherie]

Please talk about the emotional connections more than sex. Plus in queer culture age gaps are extremely common and we feel more comfortable talking about sex because we have to explore it more. This episode would come off shocking cause the way you guys entered into the conversation. Its taboo! Dont make it more so by aaking weird questions! Interview age gap couples and ask what questions they feel are most relevant to their relationships.

[@microwave8931]

It's gross. Across all sexualities, it's predatory. Unless if they're like 30 and 40

[@raimeyewens7518]

That would have been better than fisting and pissing. I don’t care what consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes. I just don’t care to hear about it.

[@carlbonara602]

They did. It looks like they asked the "shocking" questions first because they want to get it out of the way before going into the more emotional/deeper stuff.

[@itsnatemate7697]

It’s extremely common cause ped0s/older men think it’s okay to groom younger gay men and having night stands with them because “oh I was in the closet for decades…” 🙄

[@Freetheebees]

Did you finish the video ?

[@imnotgonnasay3612]

After laughing along with the rest of the internet about Cheryl and Quaran's relationship, I researched age-gap relationships and found this video on Jubilee. Watching the interaction between these two makes me feel ashamed for judging what looks to be a very genuine and happy couple. I hope they continue their life of happiness and love!

[@ArtiyaFuwape]

I mean they met when he was 16 and he was her employee or something. Nothing nice about that. She is a predator and he is a victim.

[@imnotgonnasay3612]

@@ArtiyaFuwape It's best to do your due diligence before judging. Where they are from, age of consent is 16.

[@TheNewLooter]

I don't know what's worse, blud's slavery kink or the necromancy

[@CrankyCanine]

STOOPPP NOT THE NECROMANCY HAHAA

[@allaboutstace77]

Im ded

[@cometthetigress]

That's foul 💀

[@Mrs.411]

OMG THIS COMMENT 🤣

[@rivermana]

You got me lol

[@irlmikasa]

this was so much more wholesome than i thought it would be. of course there are some relationships with large age gaps where it's clearly about money/power imbalance/grooming, but not all of them; this is a clear example of that. i don't think it's fair to immediately judge and be rude to couples like these when all of those horrible reasons to date somebody are also so often found in couples with little to no age gap. love is love and if it's genuine then there should be nothing but support for the couple.

[@heavenlydoll222]

soo true!!

[@Sleepless4Life]

Started off wild asf, but got wholesome mid way through.

[@DanielFreakinAwesome2]

Bro Cheryl crawled out of the crypt for this one

[@ourspace1959]

😂😂

[@georgenep1082]

These are all adults but as a mother the age gap is so hard to understand.

[@sarruh]

the slave kink is WILD 💀

[@sntt3404]

slave/master is not that uncommon or wild

[@icey_joy208]

The amount of times I had to pause to process what I’m hearing is crazy

[@angelcare5969]

Fuuuuk the best comment ever 😂😂😂😂 I'm dieing

[@bethanywest5257]

This was interesting. When the video started I was like “Whoah, no, this is not okay” because of some of the things they were discussing, but as the video went on my disapproval lessened. I’ll say, it’s still not something that appeals to me personally even though I’ve definitely been attracted to older people, but I gained a little understanding for these couples. I do truly believe these people love each other and that’s really all that matters.

[@TheBB1994]

You described what I wanted to say perfectly.

[@madlibs4]

👏 thank you for being open minded and giving their perspectives a chance! Way too many people did not.

[@hj5520]

Quran and Cheryl “anchoring their love” and “bonding” over abuse and trauma makes too much sense… that’s not very healthy. Also did Cheryl only curl her hair in the front??

[@UpsNdownZZZ]

Yes, that shows that's she's whacked.

[@catheriinee3358]

CREASING AT THE HAIR

[@RadiantRiv]

It’s called ‘trauma bond’

[@manifestingsanctuary]

Judging people on youtube like they're on trial in the town square prob isn't healthy either.

[@Ms.marinn]

I’ve been searching for this comment I, I thought I was the only one😂

[@samschwinn9614]

When he said he wanna be a slave 🤦‍♂️

[@KassieKreep]

Tbh, Jeff and Tre are my favorite. The emotional intelligence and openness between the two of them is so strong. Even in normal age gap couples, that's hard to find. In general, definitely should not have started this off with the sex topic. It really does not help with this particular topic. Go through this one in reverse and it would be better and flow waaaay smoother.

[@NRV0]

I'm sorry but I can't really support someone in their 20s dating someone who 60+. Just feels to wrong to me.

[@SpringAngel1]

Trust me, they’ll be OK without your support

[@girlplease2452]

@@SpringAngel1she met him when he was a minor and waited till he was 18 so….

[@alexisoshea1692]

Do you want to explore why that is?

[@diyaa14159]

I know!! we don't need to normalise everything!

[@shakuan868]

I love all your videos EXCEPT THIS ONE! This is why I can’t be a public figure ever cause I ain’t letting this slide!

[@analuizapassos4678]

The last couple, of 16 years difference, is the only one that isn't cringe

[@HippiePajon]

It's less "different" one yeah. But hey love is love 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@Ghxstgvrl]

What exactly is cringe about the other couples? I’m genuinely curious because I didn’t perceive them that way.

[@RyanCooper-r9n]

What's cringe about the other's?

[@RyanCooper-r9n]

​@@GhxstgvrlI'm curious as well.

[@itsnatemate7697]

@@Ghxstgvrl 1. The white and black gay couple started with a student that just got into college and a guy that is equivalent to the age of a father that just sent their kid to college. Don’t know why you’re that age and hooking up with youngsters 🤢 2. This one I don’t see anything wrong, still weird to date someone 40 years older but whatever 3. This relationship started when he was a MINOR and she was “friends” with him

[@jacobwong1763]

Not even a minute in and I wish I could unhear what I just heard

[@jasminechairez1058]

The “hey why you crying lady “ made me laugh so hard 😂😂

[@XDsymphony]

A couple in my grandma’s retirement community have a 25 age gap. The husband is 105 and the wife is 80 they are the cutest couple ever.

[@SQUELCH-zj7il]

At those aged, it doesn't matter anymore 😭

[@itsnatemate7697]

🤣

[@Cheray_]

With age the gap seems to lessen for sure!

[@immanuelcunt7296]

​@@SQUELCH-zj7ilyeah but the point is they were 25 and 50 at some point

[@giulia6344]

Omg you go granps 😂

[@J3R1K4s]

If people stopped watching at the beginning I consider you again. There's some very powerful and deep conversations. I commend everyone for being so open and candid. Your openness, humility and transparency is eye opening and may be hard for some to swallow or wrap their heads around, but I know I have learned more about humanity from this, I can empathize with some subjects as well. I always thought my bf and I had it tough being an interracial relationship with a child, I wasn't accepted in his family and we cant go to some family because we would likely deal with some horrific situations if we came out alive. Though seeing what they have gone through in gay couples and in age gap couples and seeing the interracial experiences as well it has been eye opening. Wishing all of them the best!

[@Busaio]

Cheryl and Quran's relationship gives me the ick.

[@femafull]

same

[@Randomcommenter90]

You're such a hater. It's so sad, too, because they get enough criticism... and for what? Two ADULTS choosing to be together who seemingly have a healthy, beautiful relationship. Yet there's always someone trying to rain on their parade ☹️. GIVE THEM A BREAK!

[@panzerchad]

@@Randomcommenter90 bro definitely likes GILFs

[@anna4338]

​@@Randomcommenter90My biggest problem is that they met when he was 16

[@Randomcommenter90]

@@anna4338 as long as they weren’t together then it doesn’t matter if they’re together now.

[@ratmaid8264]

HOW’D THEY GET CHERYL ON HERE ☠️

[@JoelWright-e7m]

With a carrot on a stick, but with crack instead of a carrot.

[@Uknownperson12]

Fr lmao

[@dimitrakazazo5394]

​@@JoelWright-e7momg I laughed 😂

[@MaddysinLeigh]

@@JoelWright-e7mthis!

[@billymartinez2613]

at the start of watching this i didn’t know how far i would watch because it is a little weird but the more i watch the more sympathy i have especially the wanting family part and not being able to because of age and cheryl’s kids not approving we shouldn’t judge at first sight we should try to understand people first this video was great and more eye opening they’re happy and that’s all that matters

[@file.zip.]

horrible run on sentence

[@billymartinez2613]

@@file.zip. did i ask? no it has nothing to do with the topic go watch some writing video instead

[@Katechap20]

Did I miss an explanation for how they met in his DORM ROOM?

[@DeathShiniGama]

Dorm is college generally. Which is generally above 18.

[@Justinn229]

He was swiping on them aaaapps

[@Tyrone-s7d]

​@@DeathShiniGamaare you saying it's OK for middle-aged adults to pursue young college students? Yes, we know that dorms are on campuses, thanks for the education.

[@chantjelly6773]

​@@Tyrone-s7d the college students are also adults mate...

[@nextbigthing2917]

@@chantjelly6773He was about 17 at the time that’s creep behavior no way around it

[@juliehousley1972]

Cheryl taking that boys virginity is so sad. Like age gaps to an extent arent a problem, I don’t have much of a issue but it does feel very predatory with that specific couple,he was young and didn’t know anything else

[@RadiantRiv]

At age 25 your frontal cortext is fully developed, anything under that age is super iffy since you don’t have the maturity to deal with these issues

[@anna4338]

​@@RadiantRiv they met when he was 16

[@buhahahaha8363]

@@anna4338 really?? that’s wild

[@dimitrakazazo5394]

I still struggle to believe their relationship is real ... I've tried my best to not judge but their relationship and dynamic really looks odd .

[@Cherrykins]

@@dimitrakazazo5394idk all those apologies to his people about what his fantasy was seemed so genuine 😭 crazy to say already but even crazier to say something like that fr

[@Little_miss_mr_star]

SLAVE IS ABSOLUTELY CRAZYYYYY 😭😭😭

[@standowner6979]

Your pfp encapsulates the face I made when I hear it

[@Dreabz617]

At first I was confused because I thought Talia and Alejandro looked like they could be around the same age. She looks her age (27) and he looks like he could be around 35 😅

[@gokcenihal]

and I don't think their age gap is outrageous. They should be able to relate to a great extent

[@Kiall.]

It's wellknown that latinos don't age 😅

[@Julie_875]

I feel so bad for Cheryl and the grandkids situation. Why can't they just accept that she is happy? It's just so saddening.

[@sophialikestocode]

biggest surprise was cheryl being 64

[@UpsNdownZZZ]

*63

[@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063]

Fr, she has to be at least 80

[@Antisocialpessimist]

I think shes lying my mom is her age and doesnt look like that

[@UpsNdownZZZ]

@@Antisocialpessimist My mom is 73 and looks 10 years younger than this woman!

[@Guess-ky2ir]

She struggled with meth when she was younger, so that's why

[@stephanie.420]

Why do Cheryl and Quaran have different stories about how they met all the time?? They’ve said her son was his boss before and that’s how they met, when he was 16..??

[@AlzMarioWolfe]

Yeah she groomed him

[@littlelam3691]

When did the contradiction occur?

[@KristinReneeCreative]

This was surprisingly wholesome to me. I’ve seen and judged these couples before but they are happy and clearly fill a void the other person had in their life. Jeff and Tre are so cute together I love them.

[@PanDaL0v3r11]

I wish more people saw it this way

[@samuelmedina-conchi8757]

They had to start with sex because that was the elephant in the room. Get it out of the way and focus on the other things better. I respect and love watching their love for eachother ooze out of the screen.

[@madlibs4]

Yes! Thank you for saying this 👏

[@Wisteria.ceramics]

Damn the first few minutes where really descriptive…

[@legaleagles3654]

I know, kinda caught me off guard ffs 🤦 lol 😂

[@notrajkishornagar]

33:48 dude Brian really wanted it, he just can't hold his tears back 😢

[@raymax_1071]

I don't care about age gaps that much as long as both are functional and consenting adults but grooming can and many times is a thing with these relationships and that's when it's unacceptable.

[@Guess-ky2ir]

Yea cheryl and quran are the only ones I'm concerned about. They didn't say it in the vid, but they met when he was 16 and working for her son. They didn't date till 20 (I think) but it was still weird imo.

[@MeganR9156]

Jeff and Tre are my absolute faves. They are actual goals, they are both so sweet and genuine and they work so well with each other💛

[@notnow-wq4lr]

yeah but the public s"x in PARKS is.... ew

[@joshualamp2438]

How is Cheryl only 63? Must have been a rough 63 years.

[@theprophetess7940]

😂😂😂😂

[@MaddysinLeigh]

Evil ages you I guess.

[@CookieJessiee]

I know for sure that I would be one of those people who’d judge them immediately as a first impression. However, the more I’m watching and listening, the more I’m sympathizing…

[@i3qyi]

no fr i already knew queen cheryl from tiktok and i was quite judgemental toward them but i geniunely cried a lil watching this and i feel so bad for them now

[@ashtraypup]

@@i3qyishe groomed him lmfao don’t feel bad for her. her son was his boss and she started talking to him when he was 16

[@thesibsfsurkfb]

Really to me it got more disturbing the longer I watched

[@CookieJessiee]

I can also see why 😂@@thesibsfsurkfb

[@idonthavegoodhumor]

@@ashtraypupfr the couples are way too weird, i barely feel bad

[@starguzy4392]

I hope Jon and Brian are able to foster or find something that works for them. The tears when talking about kids made me cry

[@nolord2563]

They should be nowhere near children.

[@pupszs]

A minute and 30 seconds in and IM SCARED.

[@indybruggeman1293]

Sherly is on something. She's acting like she's cracked out

[@CrankyCanine]

She has quirks that definitely point to having some kind of stimulant dependency, but it could have been a past addiction. A lot of people who've had addictions to stims basically develop adhd, and also bruxism (moving your jaw back and forth a lot).

[@salmaabdullahgb]

​@@CrankyCanineyou can't develop adhd you either had it your whole life or you didn't

[@CrankyCanine]

@@salmaabdullahgb Adhd can develop through stimulant addiction.

[@rediettadesse2828]

Theyre not sane

[@wynnie_margeaux]

I think she said on tik tok that she struggled with a drug addiction when she was younger

[@ahhhhh5849]

Public sex is degenerate. Don't involve strangers into your sex life... absolute sickos.

[@ahhhhh5849]

@@BuzziePitch 4:25

[@ahhhhh5849]

@@BuzziePitch He legit says they do it in parks but go off ig

[@BuzziePitch]

@@ahhhhh5849 welp i missed that for sure and now side with you

[@v0idk1tty]

I've done it where it was dark in the middle of the night and no one was around. I wasn't involving others (besides my partner) but we were still in public

[@SpookyPookster]

Parks?! I freak hope dude means like forests and trails not swings and slides parks...

[@thegubmeister]

Lots of these comments are kind of poking fun at the couples and, I'll admit, I also thought this video would be a hard watch since it's about couples who have a significant age gap. But what actually happened is I feel a lot of respect for these people. Especially the ones who actively post about their relationship on social media. That one guy worded it perfectly when he was talking about how seeing the true passion and love people share can really change your point of view. They all have a deep, profound and beautiful relationship with their partner and I commend them all for sharing their story.

[@rebecca2361]

Jubilee is crazy for this y'all 😂✋

[@KJ75678]

My face throughout this episode “😦”

[@likeprincetj]

I understand why people want older people because they’re typically more mature and know what they want by that age.