If Exes Were 100% Honest | Split Decision

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@fabiolanunez7679
@fabiolanunez7679 11 ай бұрын
Ngl the host is so good at getting them to spill lmao
@spookysneeze6352
@spookysneeze6352 11 ай бұрын
Yes!! Such a supportive instigator 🤣🤣
@Athena_36
@Athena_36 11 ай бұрын
“so what did he not do around the house🤔”
@scottwall8419
@scottwall8419 10 ай бұрын
Why would anyone lie about that in the first place? Seems like a silly to ngl about
@schqrr
@schqrr 10 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Daveeeeeeyhowyoudoing
@Daveeeeeeyhowyoudoing 10 ай бұрын
It's almost like they won't get paid unless they answer all questions (I was an this show before, it's in our contract)
@karywalker9617
@karywalker9617 11 ай бұрын
The lady who cheated is constantly blaming her cheating on different love languages and it's driving me crazy. the answer to ur needs not being met would be communicating and try to fix it or break up. not cheating. the answer is never cheating. she is making her situation look so tragic but she probably broke this dudes ability to trust longtherm with her careless actions.
@nala6846
@nala6846 11 ай бұрын
And then she said how she thought of getting back together because she's 30 and wants a family/kids soon 🤢🤢🗑
@natalyturcios7176
@natalyturcios7176 11 ай бұрын
For real, like love languages is a huge think sometimes some people cant give physical love to somebody and maybe the other partner is craving that. So communication is so important and i feel like if you ever feel like expectations are never met is better to break up than to choose to cheat.
@Mr.SlyCooper777
@Mr.SlyCooper777 11 ай бұрын
@@nala6846she wanted to have a hoe phase it seems
@alansamuel2454
@alansamuel2454 11 ай бұрын
@@nala6846Yep. I cheated on you, broke your heart, and being the first gf ruined your trust, I'm sorry but it was actually cause of love languages you see that I slept with your friend. My mouth doesn't work so I got my legs to instead. Now that's cleared, shall we start a family?
@itssosadtobehonest
@itssosadtobehonest 11 ай бұрын
i understand her fully, and i'm sorry for her feeling that way
@misteroddstuff
@misteroddstuff 6 ай бұрын
"She was my first and I tought she'd be my last" Damn, that actually hurt me
@russiasvechenaya58
@russiasvechenaya58 Ай бұрын
boy slill cries while his love bangs white guys because they “fill her up”
@arshdeepsingh3797
@arshdeepsingh3797 Ай бұрын
1k likes and no comment!?
@kenz2237
@kenz2237 11 ай бұрын
priscilla seemed like such a genuinely sweet person. she will definitely find somebody that wants to be in a long term relationship with her someday
@Maria-mv4ig
@Maria-mv4ig 10 ай бұрын
She seems so wholesome.
@dandroner
@dandroner 10 ай бұрын
Priscilla hit me up
@giulia6344
@giulia6344 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely. Also very beautiful.
@niallk9336
@niallk9336 6 ай бұрын
Can I ship Priscilla and My ?
@VeraEcht-pj3pj
@VeraEcht-pj3pj Ай бұрын
He will regret leaving her some day. What a….
@stevenfoster9402
@stevenfoster9402 11 ай бұрын
Jen was straight up ripping My's heart out and eating it in front of him. I feel so bad for the guy.
@hamisa_mahimbo
@hamisa_mahimbo 11 ай бұрын
Me toooo!!! He better NOT go back to her. He can do so much better
@amw2005
@amw2005 11 ай бұрын
i so so hope he finds someone bc he seems so genuine and full of affection to give
@mercutiomurphy2743
@mercutiomurphy2743 11 ай бұрын
she dont deserve another chance, you can tell she desperate now cuz she's older.
@3K2-k3m
@3K2-k3m 11 ай бұрын
It’s better for him on the long run she and the poly chick are extremely toxic like they were fr trying to gaslight their ex on camera🤣🤣 she have the audacity to claim it was due to a difference in love languages🤣 we all know she would’ve continued cheating if she wasn’t caught and if they got back together she will also cheat🗿
@nehashrestha738
@nehashrestha738 11 ай бұрын
She sounds so selfish and amature
@aaronvalencia753
@aaronvalencia753 10 ай бұрын
Jen just found out about love languages so that’s her explanation for everything 🤣
@Maximum7077
@Maximum7077 5 ай бұрын
She seems like the classic 2024 psycho
@laylaprincess5066
@laylaprincess5066 2 ай бұрын
Why do you act like people can’t grow? Some people really have to be alone to understand and look back at their relationships. You seem closed minded
@bc5852
@bc5852 2 ай бұрын
@@laylaprincess5066 found the cheater
@dqson7502
@dqson7502 Ай бұрын
@@laylaprincess5066 defending a cheaters horrible explanation, taking 0 accountability? I bet your lovely in a relationship
@JW-qd3ol
@JW-qd3ol 11 ай бұрын
My, PLEASE don't take Jen back. She doesn't deserve you. There are literally millions of women out there who will respect you like she NEVER has.
@user-sf9gs2pg1b
@user-sf9gs2pg1b 11 ай бұрын
fr, she just wants to get back with him as she's getting older and it's probably harder to find single men who are family oriented now that she wants a family. She can have that, sure, but she doesn't deserve to have it with him.
@onemillionpercent
@onemillionpercent 11 ай бұрын
theres literally even examples in the video of better women, i.e. priscila
@williamspears1627
@williamspears1627 11 ай бұрын
"There are literally millions of women out there who will respect you like she NEVER has." You DEFINITELY don't understand how hard dating is for men. Especially minority men.
@nessparadis6948
@nessparadis6948 11 ай бұрын
@@williamspears1627, as if it isn’t hard for women 😒.
@merethalok9759
@merethalok9759 11 ай бұрын
@@williamspears1627dating in general is EXTREMELY hard now a days. People don’t know how to keep healthy relationships/friendships anymore. Yes, it’s easier for women to get laid than men. However exclusively dating someone and both being loyal and respectful is rare. Seems like people are just quick to replace you as soon as there’s one disagreement and that’s going for friendships as well.
@binks3196
@binks3196 11 ай бұрын
Wishing Priscilla and Victor the best whether it's separate or together. Both extremely mature and stellar communication, exes or partners.
@J-tt1lu
@J-tt1lu 11 ай бұрын
I thought he kind of sucked
@Blaze-nu4jq
@Blaze-nu4jq 11 ай бұрын
​@@J-tt1luwhy
@nadiasmith8752
@nadiasmith8752 11 ай бұрын
@@J-tt1lu why do you think that?
@olugboyeopeyemi2428
@olugboyeopeyemi2428 11 ай бұрын
​@@nadiasmith8752 I mean He literally wasted her time and her love for 2 years and saying he doesn't really feel like he belongs in a relationship. Like I would be livid&I would never speak to him again if I were her but I guess that's where her "niceness" comes into play&how she's still all buddy buddy with him.
@nadiasmith8752
@nadiasmith8752 11 ай бұрын
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 I agree with you and I would be livid too. I think she definitely should move and she gives off the vibe that she would still want to be in a relationship. He’s probably feeding off of that by still befriending her so he can still have access to her.
@radiatelight4100
@radiatelight4100 10 ай бұрын
I truly admire Priscilla's ability to be so open-hearted and honest. I can only dream of having this courage level after a painful breakup. Love her
@Abdullah-xr2wx
@Abdullah-xr2wx 6 ай бұрын
Cry about it than
@tommyls4357
@tommyls4357 6 ай бұрын
Priscilla is a catch. And so are you.
@y2m3e.45
@y2m3e.45 4 ай бұрын
@@Abdullah-xr2wx when you learn English first
@er-ha
@er-ha 11 ай бұрын
I wish they asked the “I wish my ex and I were still together” question in the beginning WITHOUT the couples turning around and then after all the questions and have them turn around. Would be interesting to see who changes/why
@frmapletrees
@frmapletrees 11 ай бұрын
TRUE
@way9883
@way9883 11 ай бұрын
they need to apply this on future episode!
@jamieepf9806
@jamieepf9806 11 ай бұрын
That's great!!
@sherryg2510
@sherryg2510 11 ай бұрын
They'd see it in the video after though. It's recorded
@Playsch00l
@Playsch00l 11 ай бұрын
wait why tho
@ChipotleCoffeeDiarreah
@ChipotleCoffeeDiarreah 11 ай бұрын
If your girl "best friend" is texting you to come cuddle, she ain't your best friend dog.
@Ray03595
@Ray03595 11 ай бұрын
there was definitely something going on even if he didn't cheat. Crazy to make her feel crazy for seeing that.
@khadijahbegum3546
@khadijahbegum3546 11 ай бұрын
I feel something was going on between him and his girl bsf but he didn't want to disclose it.
@candlelight-lu4oh
@candlelight-lu4oh 11 ай бұрын
Yeah he was trying to gaslight so hard. Okay saying the things she did wrong but had an excuse for everything she mentioned.
@Ray03595
@Ray03595 11 ай бұрын
@@ichgeheunter he’s only telling half the story clearly. His best friend girl friend didn’t just randomly decide to start flirting with him out of nowhere
@Ray03595
@Ray03595 11 ай бұрын
@@ichgeheunter if you need me to spell it out for you, he clearly let her think about this stuff for a long time and it’s literally why in the video she has trust issues about him. Not telling your partner the truth and dangling the thought you cheated on them/was flirting or doing whatever behind their backs is messed up.
@andreaponce8160
@andreaponce8160 10 ай бұрын
Difference in love language is NOT an excuse to cheat
@jazzed5039
@jazzed5039 6 ай бұрын
The possibility of love language is 90% of the time different with people around me, that doesn't made them a cheater. She wanted to cheat so she did and now she just had to give lame excuses.
@spotty329
@spotty329 5 ай бұрын
she wasnt saying its an excuse, she kept saying it was her biggest regret. she only explained why she did cause the host asked
@Maximum7077
@Maximum7077 5 ай бұрын
@@spotty329 I dont feel any regret at all for anything from her. He was the one looking completly down while she is completly fine with her 304 behaviour. She just wants to get in his life to control him again it seems
@sweet3488
@sweet3488 11 ай бұрын
Jen only wants My back because she wants a family and realized how good he was for her
@t6nyaiscool
@t6nyaiscool 11 ай бұрын
exactly!! he better not take her back
@corablah9809
@corablah9809 11 ай бұрын
I think it's a practicality thing for her and it's understandable, but I think finding someone who is what she wants, speaks her love language, and would be a great father, would be a better person for her.
@xso_0
@xso_0 11 ай бұрын
She doesn't deserve him. Cheaters never quit. She'd do it again if she had the chance and I hope she never gets that future she wants.
@sweet3488
@sweet3488 11 ай бұрын
@@corablah9809 I feel like she just wanted to experience something different. And now that everything else failed in life for her she’s treating My like he’s the last resort for her desires.
@manilkasheran2934
@manilkasheran2934 11 ай бұрын
How does she expect to have back after she said that she found someone better in bed than My. I appreciate the honesty but they should move on from eachother.
@iAteTehChoco12
@iAteTehChoco12 11 ай бұрын
Honestly I'm so glad Victor told Priscilla that he was done. So many people stay with spouses who openly show they're not interested in the relationship anymore out of fear of being alone.
@candlelight-lu4oh
@candlelight-lu4oh 11 ай бұрын
Shes very pretty and seems kind. She could definitely find someone worth it.
@user-sf9gs2pg1b
@user-sf9gs2pg1b 11 ай бұрын
Tbh, I'm the type to be with anybody for the rest of my life if it means not being alone, even if they treat me poorly or something. Definitely the other person would have to leave me.
@waakyeuchiha6112
@waakyeuchiha6112 11 ай бұрын
@@user-sf9gs2pg1b damn bro you could do better
@quantumjourney1
@quantumjourney1 11 ай бұрын
@@user-sf9gs2pg1bFix that.. Go out and have more experiences
@MEpeopleannoy
@MEpeopleannoy 11 ай бұрын
@@user-sf9gs2pg1b you should work on that
@ktr2345
@ktr2345 10 ай бұрын
Priscilla and Victor break my heart in a way. The fact that he went from pursuer to not-relationship-person screams avoidantly attached, which probably made her anxious? Pure speculation ofc. Both seem so genuine and caring and wonderful.
@jomangeee9180
@jomangeee9180 4 ай бұрын
it says volumes that he was supportive, and she genuinely appreciates him for that
@ElectricPansies
@ElectricPansies 11 ай бұрын
Mia and Rae should not even be just friends honestly 😂 That friendship is a dumpster fire.
@Natu014
@Natu014 10 ай бұрын
Rae resents Mia so bad. Mia is shady for not telling her other partner about Rae tho. They said they were 19 when they dated so I wonder how long it’s been since.
@dragonfly12
@dragonfly12 9 ай бұрын
fr lol
@Mia-iu2by
@Mia-iu2by 8 ай бұрын
​@@Natu014 i mean if that partner specifically asked to not be informed though that's respecting boundaries... I'm not poly, so idk
@dafdafadfadfadfdazxcxzfaf8506
@dafdafadfadfadfdazxcxzfaf8506 8 ай бұрын
@@Natu014 What a surprise lmao a poly relationship with trust issues.. Never saw that one coming 🤣🤣
@C_In_Outlaw3817
@C_In_Outlaw3817 8 ай бұрын
@@dafdafadfadfadfdazxcxzfaf8506 Lmaooo
@laurenstarks8078
@laurenstarks8078 11 ай бұрын
I think Jen mentioned love languages like 300 times as an excuse for EVERYTHING even in the middle of luna and danes conversation?????
@AB-mb8uy
@AB-mb8uy 11 ай бұрын
Fr like why did she feel the need to but in the conversation
@pinchetii6555
@pinchetii6555 11 ай бұрын
She wasn’t butting in, she was just giving her opinion/two cents. It’s not that deep, chill
@dewdew80
@dewdew80 10 ай бұрын
@@pinchetii6555 "she was just giving her opinion" nobody asked for her opinion and the nature of the video should've made it clear that it was butting in by giving it
@meghnashanker3945
@meghnashanker3945 10 ай бұрын
@@pinchetii6555 Love languages are complete nonsense anyway. It's so obvious how desperately she was clinging to the concept to try and make her cheating make sense in her mind.
@qest6889
@qest6889 10 ай бұрын
was she spreading disease
@xxthrashiexx
@xxthrashiexx 10 ай бұрын
falling for someone and having them just decide they’re done with the relationship is my biggest dating fear
@rla8713
@rla8713 10 ай бұрын
Get ova it..live your life
@xxthrashiexx
@xxthrashiexx 10 ай бұрын
@@rla8713 i am lmao fears are normal 🤦🏻‍♀️
@filtrations
@filtrations 9 ай бұрын
better than getting cheated on
@xxthrashiexx
@xxthrashiexx 9 ай бұрын
@@filtrations they’re both terrible in their own ways 🤷🏻‍♀️
@earthdyrad
@earthdyrad 9 ай бұрын
Sadly it does happen, however you will forget about it, if it does happen to you and you'll be stronger as well. It's a risk I took and I found my soon to be husband🙂
@gc12347.
@gc12347. 11 ай бұрын
Rae and Mia are full of drama, like I don’t even know who’s the most toxic between the two
@Ergenhae
@Ergenhae 11 ай бұрын
I felt like Mia was completely the toxic one
@graeqs
@graeqs 11 ай бұрын
MIA
@suomi4536
@suomi4536 11 ай бұрын
@@Ergenhae but also Rae making Mia's wishes about Rae's own issues and comparing them and saying nothing Mia could ever experience compares to her experiences is toxic af
@xEPICxNESS
@xEPICxNESS 11 ай бұрын
I couldn’t decide either I’m just happy they broke up 💀
@justinwilson9848
@justinwilson9848 11 ай бұрын
Nobody in this video should have been in a relationship
@xTIYx
@xTIYx 11 ай бұрын
Luna looks like a tired babysitter who just wants to give Dane back to his mom
@PostWarKids
@PostWarKids 11 ай бұрын
well she can't because he moved from Florida to Alabama for her
@ItsBrittles
@ItsBrittles 11 ай бұрын
@@PostWarKidsthis is an amazing comment
@scarlettl-m7309
@scarlettl-m7309 11 ай бұрын
sobbing
@lunamartinezzz
@lunamartinezzz 11 ай бұрын
She deserves much better 😭
@frankdmon1162
@frankdmon1162 11 ай бұрын
Women
@sagittariusxx8
@sagittariusxx8 10 ай бұрын
Rae has such gaslighter energy. How did Mia “always get what she wanted” sexually if they were both tops but Rae never bottomed but Mia would to please Rae? Not wanting to be strapped is a perfectly valid boundary. Also they completed invalidated any personal feelings Mia may have about her own sexuality and gender just because rae had their own.
@Lovesomemaria
@Lovesomemaria 10 ай бұрын
Yeah you can tell she would just make her feel bad for anything
@hejti3894
@hejti3894 10 ай бұрын
Rae is so mean, she's using the fact to she needs to tell the truth to be mean
@dragonfly12
@dragonfly12 9 ай бұрын
and also how she said Mia could never feel as intensely as her at 27:18
@salami5801
@salami5801 9 ай бұрын
it was incredibly ironic that she invalidated mias feelings after mia said she did a lot of emotional labor!!! case in point!!!!!!
@Py-Py-Py
@Py-Py-Py 7 ай бұрын
It doesn't sound like gaslighting...It just sounds like a major disagreement. Stop throwing that word around. Yeesh.
@heaventhedoll
@heaventhedoll 11 ай бұрын
when priscilla talked about how victor made her feel safe in big crowds with the gesture he’d do, i actually teared up. it’s something so small but means so much
@pookiebearsgf
@pookiebearsgf 11 ай бұрын
me too like why did i get emotional 😭
@TheAlixAmanda
@TheAlixAmanda 11 ай бұрын
Literally same like ugh they would be such a sweet couple!!
@qest6889
@qest6889 10 ай бұрын
@@TheAlixAmanda some of the best couples can't be a couple
@stablequasoar
@stablequasoar 10 ай бұрын
You want to be handled like a … doll?
@Cherrykins
@Cherrykins 4 ай бұрын
@@stablequasoareveryone treats dolls differently, some treated them like babies, some drew on their faces & cut their hair
@frmapletrees
@frmapletrees 11 ай бұрын
thoughts: victor and priscilla are so unproblematic and both seem like genuine and great people. i feel bad for priscilla because she is sooooo sweet and she rlly thought it was gonna be endgame, but on the other hand, i’m glad victor expressed his feelings so honestly. they are much mature people and i wish them the best :)
@olugboyeopeyemi2428
@olugboyeopeyemi2428 11 ай бұрын
I don't know about saying Victor is "unproblematic" He literally broke up with her simply because "he doesn't feel like being in a relationship anymore" after wasting her time&love for 2 years despite him saying that she treated him amazingly&all that I don't know,if Priscilla was my sister or friend, I would hate him so much 😂
@user-ns9uw8zh4f
@user-ns9uw8zh4f 11 ай бұрын
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428yeah but that’s just how he genuinely felt, its better that they broke up before the relationship turned sour
@machetepunktorg1718
@machetepunktorg1718 11 ай бұрын
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428but what would have been the alternative? Stay with her out of pity? That would’ve been the problematic thing to do to me personally…
@Matt-gu8pz
@Matt-gu8pz 11 ай бұрын
​@@olugboyeopeyemi2428we praise women for leaving 20 year long marriages with kids because they wanted " to explore themselves" but are shitting on a dude who respectfully broke up with his 2 year gf and helped her date other people?
@Adam-tx1tr
@Adam-tx1tr 11 ай бұрын
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428Would you rather break up with somebody because they cheated on you or because they lost interest?? Losing interest/attraction in a relationship is something you can’t control.
@tavoton1989
@tavoton1989 10 ай бұрын
28:08 My heart broke when Mia breathed a sigh of relief after Rae agreed with her. You can see how desperate she was to hear those words and its so sad, to me at least, even though she was sort of at fault, sort of.
@billiefitzgerald8338
@billiefitzgerald8338 5 ай бұрын
Rae seems like a gaslighter and like finally she's being acknowledged for a second.
@jas_rawlinson
@jas_rawlinson 11 ай бұрын
I can feel the eggshells Luna is constantly trying to tip toe around; how carefully she tries to manage his anger. He gives major gaslighting vibes
@realityjester3325
@realityjester3325 11 ай бұрын
seriously
@Thankyouverymuchfriend
@Thankyouverymuchfriend 11 ай бұрын
HUGE gaslighter
@dorianleakey
@dorianleakey 11 ай бұрын
​@@Thankyouverymuchfriendhow? Name one thing? She even looks depressed and hurt when he doesn't want her back, yet somehow she was scared of him? She came on a show to air their dirty laundry yet she is frightened? You don't even know what gaslighter means. What you did was not like his long hair and think she is pretty, that's the extent of your analysis of him.
@ymoonysun9130
@ymoonysun9130 11 ай бұрын
It looks more like Luna is the gaslighter gurl, she doesn’t want to acknowledge her own mistakes and keeps playing the victim like he’s only in the wrong, common he moved because he wanted to? Gurl be fr
@wintersbabyy
@wintersbabyy 11 ай бұрын
@@dorianleakey It’s so obvious, you probably can’t see it cause you’re drawing parallels between him and you and you don’t like what you’re seeing.
@elereal
@elereal 11 ай бұрын
Interesting that Dane moved into the offensive once he realized there was no chance for him to get back with Luna
@meganod279
@meganod279 11 ай бұрын
And he did absolutely right. You don't need to sugar coat things when you clearly see that someone doesn't want you. Imagine expecting people to be sweet fakers just to please others. Good for him
@NopixelatedClipz
@NopixelatedClipz 11 ай бұрын
Not once he realized there was no chance. But when he realized that she thought of him that less
@The_BigB
@The_BigB 11 ай бұрын
She sounds hurt and not taking dane's side but she is COLD to him
@Janice_Kinase
@Janice_Kinase 11 ай бұрын
He's toxic af. His own behavior is the reason she doesn't want him anymore. I wonder which personality disorder he has, because he very clearly has one.
@khadijahbegum3546
@khadijahbegum3546 11 ай бұрын
​@@The_BigBafter how he's treated her ofcourse she's going to be hurt. He was COLD to her not her to him. Hypocrites
@jasonseeb
@jasonseeb 10 ай бұрын
Dane straight up went passive at the end with the qualities question. His way of answering questions were geared one way until he realized he wasn't going to get his way, then the switch happened.
@RicegumNeverBrokeAgain
@RicegumNeverBrokeAgain 6 ай бұрын
It's because he heard honest answers from her that she no longer wants him
@jasonseeb
@jasonseeb 4 ай бұрын
@xercesgrlthat means he was in no way shape or form ready for any relationship if he's going to swap personalities like that. He was rejected, which happens. If either person is like that in a relationship it's either not going to last or it's going to be continuously toxic
@xowarrior
@xowarrior 11 ай бұрын
Jen's reasons for cheating are so bizarre, I got second hand embarrassment
@isabelb.203
@isabelb.203 11 ай бұрын
I didn't like her, Dane and Mia
@olugboyeopeyemi2428
@olugboyeopeyemi2428 11 ай бұрын
​@@isabelb.203I didn't like Luna What did Dane do??
@lorashukuryan4121
@lorashukuryan4121 11 ай бұрын
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428He's cheater and creepy
@cimnairobi4742
@cimnairobi4742 11 ай бұрын
​@@olugboyeopeyemi2428he's playing the victim
@xowarrior
@xowarrior 11 ай бұрын
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 tbh all of them are kinda toxic
@WhenYoureAlexa
@WhenYoureAlexa 11 ай бұрын
Ah yes, the ol’ don’t do any housework until your partner starts to nag you and then act like they’re the villain because they don’t want to be your maid anymore.
@tessaelto1472
@tessaelto1472 11 ай бұрын
Yuppp. Honestly I'm suspicious af of any guy who says his wife or girlfriend "nags" him.. My ex used to say the same when I would try to bring up the night before when he was being drunk and crazy af
@Zwird
@Zwird 11 ай бұрын
That is legit embarrassing. Maybe she didn't break up because of the cuddle text or his constant victim attitude and holding things he's done over her head, but not cleaning should be a huge deal breaker.
@tes-xj8uy
@tes-xj8uy 11 ай бұрын
he gives manipulative/gas-lighty vibes
@shegotit143
@shegotit143 11 ай бұрын
I would’ve agreed with you however the only thing that made me defend him slightly was him feeling depression. It’s hard to do things if that’s what’s going on… however I don’t want to assume that like I know that to be 100% true…and that he’s not just being lazy out of choice
@deadman4222
@deadman4222 11 ай бұрын
i mean sometimes you have different standards, one partner might find leaving dishes for 1 day acceptable while the other doesn't. shes forcing him to live up to her standards and nagging him when he doesn't. Made worse by him feeling depressed.
@charliehelmijr
@charliehelmijr 8 ай бұрын
The way Rae completely disqualifies and just casts aside Mia's feelings and/or experience, shocking. Of course you were going through something horrible, that maybe we don't understand or understand how horrible it feels. But that doesn't mean you can just compare it to what the other person is feeling/experiencing and say: mine is worse, so it trumps yours, so that's that.
@blackfishbones
@blackfishbones 11 ай бұрын
The lesbian drama never disappoints bro
@user-lr1jf7jc5t
@user-lr1jf7jc5t 10 ай бұрын
the way I skipped all their scenes
@norceenhamdi
@norceenhamdi 10 ай бұрын
@@user-lr1jf7jc5t literally missed on sm tea
@lels4507
@lels4507 10 ай бұрын
“imagine not being able to top someone you love 🥺” im dead😭
@athens9867
@athens9867 10 ай бұрын
That's what happens when two women are together. Drama drama drama 😂
@poohbear1001
@poohbear1001 10 ай бұрын
​@@athens9867stop complaining and go make them some sandwiches 🤡
@thomasperry3276
@thomasperry3276 11 ай бұрын
Props to the ex couples for having the courage to come up here and do this!
@Pinchifyy
@Pinchifyy 11 ай бұрын
fr
@The_BigB
@The_BigB 11 ай бұрын
Bills are due lol
@violetblyss
@violetblyss 11 ай бұрын
literally. I could never lol
@TheNinjapancake14
@TheNinjapancake14 11 ай бұрын
And embarrass themselves for our entertainment 🍿
@user-sf9gs2pg1b
@user-sf9gs2pg1b 11 ай бұрын
I think they get paid, tbh I'd do it for money lmao
@HH-ie5eb
@HH-ie5eb 10 ай бұрын
My and Priscilla could make a great couple😂😂I see no drama, they seem genuine and affectionate, and both invested in a relationship
@JR-kv6ez
@JR-kv6ez 6 ай бұрын
My might not be adventurous enough for her tbh.
@danjoredd
@danjoredd 4 ай бұрын
Ugh no.
@alexey-mariejohn4154
@alexey-mariejohn4154 2 ай бұрын
If that is what you see when you listen to them, I just know you don't know the difference between toxic and healthy couples
@mathurhp
@mathurhp Ай бұрын
Priscilla is into BDSM and for some reason, I can't see My fit into it.
@raiden5386
@raiden5386 11 ай бұрын
Jen didn't deserve My, he was the best boyfriend he could be and Jen met that half heartedly
@ieevux
@ieevux 11 ай бұрын
but if she didn't feel fully satisfied in the relationship, then obviously he wasn't "the best boyfriend" for HER.
@ItzJamm_
@ItzJamm_ 11 ай бұрын
@@ieevuxnigga what
@revostepify
@revostepify 11 ай бұрын
@@ieevuxso she should’ve just broken up with him instead of cheating lol
@ciscodoee
@ciscodoee 11 ай бұрын
nobody is perfect. gotta remember its her first time living life too.
@ieevux
@ieevux 11 ай бұрын
@@revostepify from my understanding they were teenagers & teenagers do stupid shit in relationships, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
@drewpixels
@drewpixels 11 ай бұрын
Dane after realising he’s not getting a second chance he just decided to be pure chaotic 😂
@eyeah4511
@eyeah4511 7 ай бұрын
😂
@klajdiallajbeu5848
@klajdiallajbeu5848 7 ай бұрын
childish behaviour
@Nyarlathotep_Flagg
@Nyarlathotep_Flagg 6 ай бұрын
I don't think so, his early criticisms were very much on point.
@Freeflow32
@Freeflow32 6 ай бұрын
I think he was just holding back from the beginning because he still had a little bit of hope since he loved her more. But clearly he had enough and just decided to stop being gracious with her behavior.
@damadhattahttv
@damadhattahttv 6 ай бұрын
the fact that still to this day she doesnt see him moving thousands of miles so she can stay by her family id have been chaotic way before.
@chuck8893
@chuck8893 10 ай бұрын
Luna seemed really quiet around Dane like others have said, it seemed like she was stepping on eggshells and having to be careful of what she said…
@bamafretwell486
@bamafretwell486 10 ай бұрын
You are 100% correct!! She just wanted to take Dane, her treat, out to L.A to have fun and make cool memories. Luna was reminded why they weren’t a couple anymore 😢
@qest6889
@qest6889 10 ай бұрын
he can twist things to appear as you see in the comments.
@earthdyrad
@earthdyrad 9 ай бұрын
That's usually what happens in traumatic relationships.. It tends to shut people up about what to say.. Selfish of me, but I was really hoping Luna would give us more information on some of the comments on what Dane said, and that she looked like she was going to comment on some of the stuff but retracted from answering.. Maybe it was me being selfish as to me wanting to know how she can get the courage to come forward like that in her defense against her ex but she wasn't very talkative.
@Py-Py-Py
@Py-Py-Py 7 ай бұрын
She probably couldn't disclose too much cause the details were privy
@seanliu5574
@seanliu5574 7 ай бұрын
Ppl say that she was on eggshells but she seemed emotionally shut off and not forthcoming
@ASANCHEZ97421xyz
@ASANCHEZ97421xyz 11 ай бұрын
Luna made a sweet escape, even the way Dane would constantly talk over her when she was giving answers
@dorianleakey
@dorianleakey 11 ай бұрын
He didn't talk over her. What are you talking about?
@sofaloaf.
@sofaloaf. 11 ай бұрын
@@dorianleakey24:47 theres 1 example
@dorianleakey
@dorianleakey 11 ай бұрын
@@sofaloaf. hmm, you make it sound like silencing her, but with the editing and how she responds it seems more conversational.
@olugboyeopeyemi2428
@olugboyeopeyemi2428 11 ай бұрын
​@@sofaloaf."1 example" but then , the judge above you used the word "constantly" 🤔
@voskresenie-
@voskresenie- 10 ай бұрын
She talked over him too. You don't always need to take the side of the pretty girl.
@stephh1228
@stephh1228 11 ай бұрын
Is it me or did Dane become saltier, and saltier throughout the entire video? Lol
@frmapletrees
@frmapletrees 11 ай бұрын
YUP he said there wasn’t a quality he couldn’t find in anyone else like you just wanted her back 10 mins ago 💀💀
@phillyb2424
@phillyb2424 11 ай бұрын
@@frmapletrees Can't blame him for not continuing to stroke her ego when she was dismissive towards him throughout the entire video.
@lexilexia5097
@lexilexia5097 11 ай бұрын
Wasn't this about being honest
@stephh1228
@stephh1228 11 ай бұрын
@@lexilexia5097 well yeah it is, but it’s just an observation throughout the vid lol
@kidbrown2010
@kidbrown2010 11 ай бұрын
Yes. It's hilarious how he came there to make up but once he saw she wasn't willing to put up with his childish garbage he got salty like "I didn't wanna get back with her anyway".
@TheAwesomeJeffrey
@TheAwesomeJeffrey 4 ай бұрын
Every time Jennifer talked, she talked about love languages. My girl, you need to take a deeper look into yourself and that relationship
@biankhatsuren286
@biankhatsuren286 11 ай бұрын
Priscila looks like the sweetest person ever
@illsaveuintime
@illsaveuintime 11 ай бұрын
Looks are deceiving. Important lesson to learn
@jonathanschalken6050
@jonathanschalken6050 11 ай бұрын
@@illsaveuintime bro he litterly said at the end she was the nicest person he knew
@agematters
@agematters 11 ай бұрын
Yeah plus she's into BDSM
@Atiny44
@Atiny44 11 ай бұрын
@@illsaveuintime bro
@Atiny44
@Atiny44 11 ай бұрын
fr she has a beautiful smile
@secretmina23
@secretmina23 11 ай бұрын
I feel so bad for My. I hope he finds someone who shows him why him and his ex never worked out. He deserves a happy ever after 🥺
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
Why? Because she's a garden tool and belongs to the streets
@dodo5257-v3f
@dodo5257-v3f 8 ай бұрын
It's because he's in America. He just needs to get a passport to his home country and I bet you he can he replace any EX in a second. He won't even know what a heartbreak is anymore. Those traditional women are on a different level on making their lover feel like a king.
@subwayanime5wynne840
@subwayanime5wynne840 8 ай бұрын
@@dodo5257-v3fyeah cause American women are their own person and live their own life with their own standards INSTEAD of giving up their whole life and mothering their husbands every single need like a child. Women are individuals of their own.
@nnamdiazuakola5254
@nnamdiazuakola5254 6 ай бұрын
@@subwayanime5wynne840”their own lives”. That’s why 70% of divorces are by women who upend their family’s lives: children, husband and all. Just because they want to “live their own lives”. No concept of sacrifice, responsibility and integrity.
@ashlingarcia599
@ashlingarcia599 9 ай бұрын
I feel like though Dane may have felt overlooked or underappreciated in his and Luna's relationship, Luna constantly felt the burden of trying to please him while taking care of them both. This stress could've been the reason for her overlooking what he considered sacrifices or efforts he made just because so little was being done from him and so much needed to be done for them both.
@ellesmanifestations8969
@ellesmanifestations8969 11 ай бұрын
Jennifer literally smiled and was holding in her smile when My was talking about how he cried over her. Please don’t take her back My, she doesn’t deserve you at all.
@FrankAsagi
@FrankAsagi 6 ай бұрын
The guy has almost no experience with women. He clearly wants her back. And that's a shame.
@DigitalWraith
@DigitalWraith 6 ай бұрын
That girl is toxic.
@FrankAsagi
@FrankAsagi 6 ай бұрын
She's the reason *"The Red Pill"* exist.
@kunpunko
@kunpunko 6 ай бұрын
you do realize some people smile or laugh when uncomfortable yes? she’s literally in front of strangers and a camera which will be posted to millions, i don’t think she expected him to go so deep in these discussions..
@kunpunko
@kunpunko 6 ай бұрын
@@FrankAsagiso a girl awkwardly laughing in an uncomfortable situation is the reason you males are violently misogynistic?
@Savannah-
@Savannah- 11 ай бұрын
I can appreciate the idea of "love languages", but sometimes I feel people use them to justify not meeting their partners needs or compromising when they can. Relationships take work and understanding how your partner feels and what they need and finding a way to make that happen that still preserves your needs. These comnunucation and compromise issues will still exist even when you meet someone with the same "love language". There is no ideal soulmate that can just read your mind and needs all the same things as you.
@Savannah-
@Savannah- 11 ай бұрын
@AmiriHipHop Obviously. That's why I explicitly said I can appreciate the idea and that SOMETIMES I feel people use it the way I described. In this video one couple mentioned how one person didn't express their love/affection verbally and it made the other feel unloved and it was chalked up to "love languages" being different, which that mindset may have contributed to why she cheated. There are obviously times where compromise isn't possible and certain needs just can't be met by the other person and that's ok. Not every person will be compatible, but even when you are generally compatible it still requires work and compromise to meet all needs.
@icebreaker5303
@icebreaker5303 11 ай бұрын
Exactly having different love languages isn’t an excuse to completely neglect the needs of ur partner
@misodko1668
@misodko1668 11 ай бұрын
definitely, also ppl keep talking about their home/ family growing up. I wanted to hear them not just mention it, but also try to explain how those experiences played a role in their relationships.
@olugboyeopeyemi2428
@olugboyeopeyemi2428 11 ай бұрын
You ate!!!
@majorlykeys7634
@majorlykeys7634 11 ай бұрын
Love this perspective
@cosmicspear1734
@cosmicspear1734 10 ай бұрын
I personally believe Dane was the major contribute to their breakup. Even if you just listen to what he is saying in this video, you hear him interrupting her when it is her turn to speak, his body language is honestly terrifying, and he keeps trying to turn it against her and say she was nagging when she just wanted him to stop using sadness about moving away as an excuse to not pick up after yourself. He felt that he sacrificed for the relationship by moving? Well I'm sorry, but that is nothing compared to what she did for the relationship. Her voice is staying calm while he is getting agitated and that indicative of anger issues. He was just overall toxic and I hope she's better off without him.
@bamafretwell486
@bamafretwell486 10 ай бұрын
You nailed it honey!!! Luna Drew is my child, she is an extremely honest human ((: She made too many attempts to forgive Dane until she didn’t anymore 😢
@newsavefile
@newsavefile 6 ай бұрын
His body language was terrifying? Wha?
@niallk9336
@niallk9336 6 ай бұрын
He said himself he was the primary cause. Terrifying ? Get a grip.
@dawnofthewalkers4915
@dawnofthewalkers4915 4 ай бұрын
Ah moving is nothing. Leaving behind your town, family and friends, people you’ve built relationships with and formed bonds with your entire life is nothing. You must not know how depression works. Also his body language is terrifying? You must live a sheltered life for how he’s just standing there to be terrifying.
@MMD-z6z
@MMD-z6z 2 ай бұрын
She clearly saw greener pastures elsewhere, but that usually dont work as you intend, which is why she was even there... I think she wants to keep him around as backup like most women do but that not going to be the case anymore lol
@marr.kuaria
@marr.kuaria 11 ай бұрын
it is beyond me how men like Dane manage to end up with absolutely beautiful and sweet girls like Luna and still have the audacity to act the way they do...
@AT-kp4hc
@AT-kp4hc 11 ай бұрын
its the sterotype that comes into play
@dorianleakey
@dorianleakey 11 ай бұрын
Act what way? People are crazy in how they interpret this, the only thing he does wrong objectively is not tidy up.
@MEpeopleannoy
@MEpeopleannoy 11 ай бұрын
cuz all men are born with the audacity inside of them x
@OmniCheeksss
@OmniCheeksss 11 ай бұрын
You're judging too much. They definitely both had issues. She glossed over him moving states like it meant nothing.
@dorianleakey
@dorianleakey 11 ай бұрын
@@OmniCheeksss Not just glossed over, claimed it didnt count, what she did counted, even though no examples were given, his was what he chose to do. She is quite narcisistic, he is a slob round the house.
@candlelight-lu4oh
@candlelight-lu4oh 11 ай бұрын
Dane is insanely selfish and manipulative. Dude not picking up after himself was probably the last straw
@iixlxssyxii
@iixlxssyxii 11 ай бұрын
@@soandso5058​​⁠my guy, I’ve seen so many of ur comments replying to people talking about Dane, why u so defensive 😂 they both were on the wrong, including him. Relax brudda
@angelinahealy7085
@angelinahealy7085 11 ай бұрын
@@soandso5058 but what do you need explained? having a partner that doesn’t do simple things to run the household would be beyond frustrating. as for the manipulation if you can’t see through his comments and the smirking idk what to tell you
@natalyturcios7176
@natalyturcios7176 11 ай бұрын
bro they way he says he stop trying but also says he gave more love
@smashmusique
@smashmusique 11 ай бұрын
there's different levels of cleanliness... Luna could be with someone crazier on the cleaning aspect and annoy her. it's about compatibility, you can't change your partner.
@razzlejazzles
@razzlejazzles 11 ай бұрын
It sounded like he needed to be "told" to do very simple things, like picking up after himself (something you'd expect a child to pick up on). She knew if she didn't ask it wouldn't get done, and he resented her for asking. @@smashmusique
@diyalectic52
@diyalectic52 10 ай бұрын
This was perfect mix of intimate, spilling, sweet and class. I hope jubilee keeps that balance if they do this again. Thanks to all the ex couples. Like me I think the audience could see some of our own relationships in what they were saying.
@emmaphant02
@emmaphant02 11 ай бұрын
Priscillia's growth to a no at the end would have taken so much more work than people would expect - PROUD OF YOU
@Abdullah-xr2wx
@Abdullah-xr2wx 6 ай бұрын
No
@excripto1
@excripto1 11 ай бұрын
If exes were honest many of us would still be in relationships.
@muwopinnocent2815
@muwopinnocent2815 11 ай бұрын
🧢 I would of made da bx cry
@indiancurryman
@indiancurryman 11 ай бұрын
Bruh fr
@zz-ih5xe
@zz-ih5xe 11 ай бұрын
Or you would've broken up way sooner instead of dragging things out
@Zeldazaz
@Zeldazaz 11 ай бұрын
No
@drakegeralds699
@drakegeralds699 11 ай бұрын
Or never dated
@corridawn3851
@corridawn3851 7 ай бұрын
Luna seems so sweet, it's infuriating listening to Dane continuously interrupt her and invalidate everything she says
@euphedine3140
@euphedine3140 11 ай бұрын
Mia and Rae are so messy😭
@garydavis5807
@garydavis5807 11 ай бұрын
I love it 😂
@ilTHfeaa
@ilTHfeaa 11 ай бұрын
we love a good queer couple that fit the stereotype 😅😅😅
@mandiedukes
@mandiedukes 11 ай бұрын
They’re so toxic lol they would’ve been a cute couple but their personalities just don’t match unfortunately.
@samu-chan
@samu-chan 11 ай бұрын
stay straight kids ❤
@Zwird
@Zwird 11 ай бұрын
Rae acting like a victim the whole time
@ameow13
@ameow13 11 ай бұрын
If I ever hear the words "love language" again I'm gonna scream 😱 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
@zakeyx8407
@zakeyx8407 11 ай бұрын
I luuuuuuve youuuuu 😂
@jigglypuff2562
@jigglypuff2562 10 ай бұрын
sammeeeee
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
Jen got annoying with that
@annabelle.rose.slay.
@annabelle.rose.slay. 9 ай бұрын
frrrrr
@earthdyrad
@earthdyrad 9 ай бұрын
Why? 😅 What's so bad about that phrase?
@omarsharif4484
@omarsharif4484 10 ай бұрын
i dig Victor. no cheating, just a " i dont feel like doing this anymore" respect
@alexisfuller1503
@alexisfuller1503 11 ай бұрын
My you deserve so much better than Jen. She cheated on you and tried to make weak excuses. Point blank, there is no valid reason or excuse to cheat. It hurts my heart seeing My stand on "yes" to wanting to get back together. He could find someone so much better if he moved on. He derseves someone loyal and who repsects and understands his way of showing love.
@user-sf9gs2pg1b
@user-sf9gs2pg1b 11 ай бұрын
I was so sad about him choosing "yes" too. She made a mistake in cheating on him, and now wants him back because she realizes the grass wasn't greener. She's terrible. If she wanted to start a family with him, she had her chance.
@irockgame1
@irockgame1 11 ай бұрын
I mean he did mention he wishes there was a "maybe" choice to stand on. He seems like he would love to be with her deep down but he knows its not wise to. Doesn't mean he doesn't want it, just means he has PHENOMENAL self control.
@akeemscott7616
@akeemscott7616 11 ай бұрын
Agreed
@rsquestingandbossing4071
@rsquestingandbossing4071 11 ай бұрын
OMG NO to JEN. There is no excuse for cheating. Plus, the way that she was talking about the relationship feels like she's going to do it again. She only wants you back because she's getting older and she's getting less attention that she did.
@JumperDorian
@JumperDorian 10 ай бұрын
Dane was making me laugh so hard with his gaslighting smiley laugh lmaooooooo
@adoringlalo
@adoringlalo 11 ай бұрын
this was so fun yet uncomfortable to watch… please do more of these!!
@eeee8479
@eeee8479 11 ай бұрын
You should go on the next one
@alicemichaelis9468
@alicemichaelis9468 11 ай бұрын
Lol u so messy
@Natu014
@Natu014 10 ай бұрын
Yes please!!!
@ayouspace4780
@ayouspace4780 11 ай бұрын
priscilla is the spot of light in this video. I hope she finds someone who loves and values her and treats her to her value for the rest of her life.
@funfungerman8401
@funfungerman8401 8 ай бұрын
She and my seem like a perfect couple tbh xD
@beaudecamp3534
@beaudecamp3534 10 ай бұрын
Luna is so gorgeous and seems so nice, a girl that went with a guy she gave a chance to and he ruined it. He got lucky and he messed it up
@Nbubs-1
@Nbubs-1 11 ай бұрын
With Rea and Mia - Just because someone their problems or challenges are tougher than others does not mean they are less valid or the sacrifice less important
@yung.alchemist
@yung.alchemist 11 ай бұрын
bruh mia is entitled af what are you talking about. she was horrible and selfish and had the audacity to claim sex was "emotional labor" like girl you have no idea what that term means
@brebre7138
@brebre7138 10 ай бұрын
@@yung.alchemistsex is absolutely an emotional experience. if you are performing sex solely for your partner and not getting joy how is that not emotional labor
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
​@@yung.alchemist I think Mia just wanted sex a lot and didnt get it the way she wanted
@Zimburtledurdles
@Zimburtledurdles 8 ай бұрын
@@yung.alchemistboth Rae and mia are entitled tbh
@niallk9336
@niallk9336 6 ай бұрын
@@Zimburtledurdles Nah. Mia tried to actually pull the "emotional labor" card with her 0.0 EQ. She fulfilled a lot of stereotypes. Not surprised the one filling the male role in the social dynamics got taken to the cleaners. Probably why that demographic has the highest divorce rate, by a wide margin.
@DirtyStinky
@DirtyStinky 11 ай бұрын
People who cheat are just rotten to the core😂 incredible how she tries to justify it
@LyricalMedicine
@LyricalMedicine 11 ай бұрын
Mr wonderful glad to see you
@chibaby800
@chibaby800 11 ай бұрын
She didn’t justify it
@Zwird
@Zwird 11 ай бұрын
Seriously where did she justify it.
@alex-dm3sn
@alex-dm3sn 11 ай бұрын
@@Zwird I think by "how she tries to justify it" they mean when Jen said that My just wasnt speaking her "love language" and meeting her needs. How you take what she said depends on the person
@graceagbessi3206
@graceagbessi3206 11 ай бұрын
She didn’t try to justify it, just gave an explanation
@Coco21212
@Coco21212 10 ай бұрын
Priscilla is so wholesome. I love her.
@marktrana4839
@marktrana4839 11 ай бұрын
Dane is 100% the broke boyfriend energy from the guy on TikTok.
@gingerlee726
@gingerlee726 10 ай бұрын
But didn't you hear? He 'felt just as dedicated' to the goals even though she was the employed one and just 'nagged him' all day. 🙄
@MagnusDreaMT
@MagnusDreaMT 9 ай бұрын
You mean the one that got her a job working with him
@Yuuki_Asuna
@Yuuki_Asuna 9 ай бұрын
He had to get her a job, tf you talking about
@daftrok
@daftrok 8 ай бұрын
Broke? The dude moved to Alabama AND FOUND WORK FOR BOTH OF THEM in Alabama. He has flaws, sure, but he can admit it, and she "doesn't want to get into an argument" when looking at the mirror. His look and demeanor gave that vibe until you hear their stories. Never judge a book by its cover.
@Justinian43
@Justinian43 7 ай бұрын
but he found both of them jobs……. so how is he broke?
@aconvowithcrissee222
@aconvowithcrissee222 11 ай бұрын
Rae and Mia: alot of drama idk who is worse Luna and Dane: yea it seems like dane wanted luna back and once he realized shes very done w him he kinda started retaliating Jen and My: my definitely deserved better Update: Victor and Priscilla i totally forgot about them bc they didn't really talk but theyre honestly the healthiest unfortunately they were solid til victor was like nah 😭 i feel bad for priscilla
@scottwall8419
@scottwall8419 11 ай бұрын
I agree except Dane and Luna. Lina avoided so many of Danes critics by "not wanting to fight" or doing some cutesy nervous move then rebutting but never acknowledging his frustrations whereas Dane apparently took hard looks at what she thought and acknowedleged his shortcomings in an effort to move forward. I have a wife like Luna who just diverts attention off herself and never acknowledges their toxicity or contributions to the negativity in the relationship.
@pinchetii6555
@pinchetii6555 11 ай бұрын
Tbh I do agree there was a lot of drama between Rae and Mia but the way that Rae invalidated Mia’s feelings just REALLY threw me off. She def could’ve reworded her words better to communicate it healthier, but to downplay Mia’s feelings?? Especially as her first time ever doing that with a woman + all the emotional stuff with that type of relationship and doing it for the first time. So personally I think Rae is worse in the relationship
@Galaxylion_omega
@Galaxylion_omega 10 ай бұрын
@@pinchetii6555so that threw you off but not all the toxic crap Mia said she did
@lukaarda
@lukaarda 10 ай бұрын
ngl i felt like dane said everything so that ppl could pity him and luna felt guilty abt it. gives off gaslighter vibes
@camille5073
@camille5073 11 ай бұрын
My favorite part about this is when a couple is arguing, how everyone else just stands there awkwardly😂🫨
@robertct06
@robertct06 5 ай бұрын
Every single time I was like “They’re just letting this happen?!”🤣💀
@ninan3817
@ninan3817 11 ай бұрын
Rae is saying that Mia’s emotional labor isn’t valid at 27:14 is actually terrible wow
@joannalee8525
@joannalee8525 11 ай бұрын
I ageee! That was the most shocking thing in the entire video. The speach beat all Dane’s gaslighting attempts uff
@PJ-oe6eu
@PJ-oe6eu 11 ай бұрын
​@@joannalee8525I'm a bit curious where people see actually gaslighting with Dane? Like it seems like he admits he is lazy he didn't clean (even if he disputes that it was necessary). He also seems like a stereotypical useless stoner archetype as well as coming of pretty immature but in my opinion those red flags aren't enough to say he must've been gaslighting about the things they disagreed about. Am I missing something?
@akeemscott7616
@akeemscott7616 11 ай бұрын
​@@PJ-oe6euI feel the same
@sina7256
@sina7256 11 ай бұрын
Why? Bro if someone doesnt want you to go down on them either respect it or leave. BOUNDARIES?? Mias crying about not being able to go down on her bfr 😂😂
@spookyspider1014
@spookyspider1014 11 ай бұрын
@@PJ-oe6eu At one point he corrects Luna saying 'that's how it was' to 'in *your* head that's how it was' which is textbook gaslighting. Insisting that it never happened and making the other person doubt themselves. It's really shitty when you don't feel heard and your partner isn't willing to even entertain that they may have actually messed up and hurt you.
@PowerPlayBRoficial
@PowerPlayBRoficial 6 ай бұрын
If the guy takes her back he's crazy, once a cheater, always a cheater...
@freedomm
@freedomm 11 ай бұрын
Off topic: But can I just say that Jubilee does more for casual Asian representation than any other media? So refreshing.
@darkkforest
@darkkforest 11 ай бұрын
Are they not an asian teams for most of them? Correct me if I'm wrong.
@innitbruv-lascocomics9910
@innitbruv-lascocomics9910 11 ай бұрын
Interesting, I just noticed that 😊
@mamindersingh8181
@mamindersingh8181 11 ай бұрын
You mean Chinese?
@torik7256
@torik7256 11 ай бұрын
​@@mamindersingh8181idk if youre trying to imply that they only feature Chinese people? The host here has a Japanese name and I think the host for the middle ground videos is Indian. They clearly have asian representation within their team and in the people they feature....its a bit exagerative to say its only Chinese
@CookiesNCream4ever
@CookiesNCream4ever 11 ай бұрын
@mamindersingh8181 Chinese?? Where lol? FFS there are 2 Filipino people in this video lol.
@FilmwColleen
@FilmwColleen 11 ай бұрын
priscilla and victor has such a simple but beautiful explanation for why it ended but also why it happened.
@cl4za
@cl4za 10 ай бұрын
I feel scared for Luna. I’ve been with a “Dane” and they’re lowkey dangerous. The emotional manipulation is wild.
@MyDarkrai95
@MyDarkrai95 11 ай бұрын
Dane honestly gives “loser skater boy who can’t hit it” vibes.
@raimeyewens7518
@raimeyewens7518 11 ай бұрын
Ya. He looks like his “band” plays at a coffee shop in Seattle. And when they are done he goes behind the counter for his shift.
@animegirl2.068
@animegirl2.068 11 ай бұрын
I'm so glad I'm not the only one one who is reading him as that as well. 🤣
@candlelight-lu4oh
@candlelight-lu4oh 11 ай бұрын
He just gives dirty vibes.
@Homesick47
@Homesick47 11 ай бұрын
Imagine looking at someone and immediately judging em, calling em loser and dirty. Yall really the most self aware ppl huh😂 yalls physical appearance must definitely be perfect huh
@candlelight-lu4oh
@candlelight-lu4oh 11 ай бұрын
​@@Homesick47nah I watched the video and I was spot on.
@moonhunter9993
@moonhunter9993 11 ай бұрын
Dane is really immature... not sharing household chores properly is such a typical "blind spot" for many men... they get sooo defensive because they have to actually do their fair share.
@denidale4701
@denidale4701 11 ай бұрын
Isn't the issue also not being direct and proactive about it? If he really doesn't care then he doesn't. That opens up possibilities. Either in sitting down and discussing how he can compensate for that issue, e.g him fixing stuff and doing things of equal effort/amount that she might hate doing/will never have to do. Or them splitting the chores or doing them together. I never really understood why couples see chores as an individual task that is a competition. Do the dishes together and have a nice chat meanwhile. Or fold the laundry together, that makes it much less boring anyway. Or if you want to compete, both clean a room, the fastest getting a dinner cooked by the other. Find a way that works for you where you can feel appreciated for your effort. He may get a bj in sexy lingerie if he does the chores during the week, she may get a massage or whatever she wants. Of course it is better if that happens organically, but if that fails, it won't be the worst if they put out a ruleset like 5x doing x will be that reward. However all of this necessitates actually communicating and not being shy to say what you really feel while trying to compromise
@adleighrung3962
@adleighrung3962 10 ай бұрын
@@denidale4701 wtf are u even saying
@HtttpsPaige
@HtttpsPaige 10 ай бұрын
I hope it was an eye opener for him
@gingerlee726
@gingerlee726 10 ай бұрын
He didn't even do half of the financial obligations. So she did 90% of the household and 75% of the financial. That's just too much.
@moonhunter9993
@moonhunter9993 10 ай бұрын
@@gingerlee726 yeah, but he's playing "butt hurt"...
@ohhireneexo
@ohhireneexo 7 ай бұрын
We’ve all seen a Dane switch up, whether in film or in real life or at least heard about his type. He reeks of toxicity. He wants to control her. He definitely use to gaslight her based off this short video in my opinion. I hope she stays away from him.
@ogxh0018
@ogxh0018 7 ай бұрын
And I missed the part where he gaslit her. Maybe the part where they were talking about his laziness but thats about it. Luna probably is lost because she most likely dated after and didn't find the commitment Dane had for her in other men and now she's just lost
@ogxh0018
@ogxh0018 7 ай бұрын
And I hope Dane truly moves on because Luna and women like her won't find success in dating if they can't admit their own faults in a relationship, regardless of who did more to mess it up in the first place.
@n0trhys187
@n0trhys187 11 ай бұрын
Rae and Mia were 100% the most "toxic" relationship there besides Dane and Luna. They were more... Passive aggressive?? And the way they were talking about there significant sacrifices, Mia just looked so uncomfortable talking about it from what I can see..
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
Dont forget Jen being disgusting
@Natu014
@Natu014 10 ай бұрын
Yes, I noticed the passive aggressive from Rae too. Not defending Mia though, was she really even into the relationship?? Yikes.
@hotscarysummer8072
@hotscarysummer8072 11 ай бұрын
Rae just completely shut down Mia on the intimacy thing. Like even if there was pain on their end there was still pain on her end too. Her sacrifices and feelings shouldn't be compared to yours in a battle, it's not a competition. You don't win the pain game.
@richieluckenbill1590
@richieluckenbill1590 8 ай бұрын
Rae is the type of person that is very confused (as she openly admitted) and is very hard to please. She said that their sex life isn't great but yet when asked if they had better sex after the breakup, she stood on no! She needs some therapy..
@her7450
@her7450 8 ай бұрын
@@richieluckenbill1590they both need therapy lol. They sound so toxic
@lamb7490
@lamb7490 10 ай бұрын
I hope the Asian guy reads this. DO NOT get back with her. Once a cheater always a cheater is the truest statement. Just bc you’re getting older and had love does not mean you won’t find it again. Please do not get back with her.
@throwawayaccount6409
@throwawayaccount6409 4 ай бұрын
Would be wise advice if he had options, clearly wont tho
@mrmormonmanvevo6945
@mrmormonmanvevo6945 11 ай бұрын
I lowkey just feel like Luna had standards for herself LOL
@joeconkle8826
@joeconkle8826 10 ай бұрын
Yup, realized she could do much much better.
@Sixundergr0und
@Sixundergr0und 9 ай бұрын
She stood on business
@Animodeus
@Animodeus 8 ай бұрын
She is not as nice as she seems
@headerahelix
@headerahelix 8 ай бұрын
​@@AnimodeusWhat do you even mean 😂
@krisjones4051
@krisjones4051 6 ай бұрын
@@headerahelixShe acts like a narcissist. Dresses like one too
@standingappa1160
@standingappa1160 11 ай бұрын
Jen had her fun, now she wants to settle down and get back with him. Hopefully he doesn't fall for it. Jen is for the streets
@kidbrown2010
@kidbrown2010 11 ай бұрын
🧱🧱🧱 🏃‍♀🏃‍♀🏃‍♀
@akeemscott7616
@akeemscott7616 11 ай бұрын
No cap
@scottwall8419
@scottwall8419 11 ай бұрын
The wall is undefeated
@firedaisi
@firedaisi 10 ай бұрын
Real
@emilycasciani5307
@emilycasciani5307 9 ай бұрын
Dane was a gaslighter and got so upset the more they responded to the questions. womp womp
@yuriambassador
@yuriambassador 11 ай бұрын
dane is the personification of the victim complex ex bf that spins the story every 4.5 seconds ahhhhhh i feel u girlie
@comkioxd
@comkioxd 11 ай бұрын
She literally refuses to be accountable and there's still comments defending her, you people are toxic and need help, stop validating people's shitty behavior
@khadijahbegum3546
@khadijahbegum3546 11 ай бұрын
Real💯
@yuriambassador
@yuriambassador 11 ай бұрын
@soandso5058 it was revealed to me in a dream by an archangel these are video comments just like anyone else its my opinion lmao
@Zwird
@Zwird 11 ай бұрын
​@@yuriambassador☠️
@er-ha
@er-ha 11 ай бұрын
@soandso5058 Yeah, an opinion based on how they act lmao. Of course we don’t know the entire story-we’re all just responding to what we see here. That’s fair~
@FredsHiddenAccount
@FredsHiddenAccount 11 ай бұрын
Luna 100% deserves someone better than Dane. That dude just gives off bad vibes.
@tessaelto1472
@tessaelto1472 11 ай бұрын
@@soandso5058Better than what? A hot girlfriend who makes all the money, pays the rent, and cleans up after him? He deserves what he puts out 🤗
@Sixgirlss
@Sixgirlss 11 ай бұрын
@@soandso5058 you're literally saying this under every comment about one of the girls deserving better and saying their ex partner deserved better instead. dane did NOT deserve better, he literally won the lottery with luna, she's great. he won't do better
@chubbybunny3778
@chubbybunny3778 11 ай бұрын
​@@Sixgirlssthey're probably some weirdo incel
@jocelync.2034
@jocelync.2034 11 ай бұрын
@@soandso5058 careful ill start to believe that youre dane..
@anonymousbo0318
@anonymousbo0318 11 ай бұрын
​@@tessaelto1472Except she didn't id1ot. She's mid, and he was working and got them the jobs in the first place, goof.
@athraxz3899
@athraxz3899 9 ай бұрын
How did Dane even pull Luna lol
@wagneracevedo3796
@wagneracevedo3796 4 ай бұрын
Cause he chill
@NathanHydra
@NathanHydra 4 ай бұрын
@@wagneracevedo3796*on the surface
@throwawayaccount6409
@throwawayaccount6409 4 ай бұрын
if u took off her makeup theyre looksmatched and his hippy look obviously appeals to her
@ilTHfeaa
@ilTHfeaa 11 ай бұрын
“she was my first, and i thought she was my last too” bro that just uhhh cut like a knife
@kyndallhaney7212
@kyndallhaney7212 11 ай бұрын
dane is such a manipulator 😭 he’s constantly gaslighting her
@baromi1025
@baromi1025 11 ай бұрын
It's the "in your mind, that's the way it was" for me 💀
@kyndallhaney7212
@kyndallhaney7212 11 ай бұрын
@@baromi1025 no bc i would’ve walked out of that place😭🤣
@baromi1025
@baromi1025 11 ай бұрын
@@kyndallhaney7212 Girl, same 😭 I don't know how she could stay there with a straight face the whole time... I swear every time he spoke my mind chose violence, and he's not even my ex.
@lorashukuryan4121
@lorashukuryan4121 11 ай бұрын
Finally some smart comment ❤
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
​@@baromi1025 lets not reach to violence. Its too extreme
@TheGreatChrisB
@TheGreatChrisB 10 ай бұрын
Luna and Dane 100% seem like the couple who got together young. He never grew up and stayed a stoner, and she wanted more in life. I bet she stayed in the relationship WAY longer than she should have. Deadbeats don't change.
@LillithIO
@LillithIO 2 күн бұрын
He even LOOKS like a deadbeat
@haboo6077
@haboo6077 11 ай бұрын
That come cuddle with dane and Luna was hilarious. the way he said "yeah I think she was doing it on purpose *giggle*" and "that's my story... true story *giggle*"
@dorianleakey
@dorianleakey 11 ай бұрын
Well, it's what you would do if it was true also.
@lahie16
@lahie16 11 ай бұрын
​@@dorianleakey Dane, I swear this is you lol. Why you under every comment caping for that guy?
@savageunitato100
@savageunitato100 11 ай бұрын
@@lahie16I was about to say the same thing! And swear this guy is dane
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
​@@lahie16 there's another commenter "soandso" who I believe is prob Dane. Guy probably has multiple YT accounts
@Tribrid-zv3nq
@Tribrid-zv3nq 10 ай бұрын
@haboo6077 Luna revealed somewhere in this comment section that Dane cheated with multiple girls including Ms. Come Cuddle
@thereisalighthouse1121
@thereisalighthouse1121 11 ай бұрын
Glad Luna got away from that manchild who excuses weaponized incompetence
@steezsteezsteez
@steezsteezsteez 6 ай бұрын
absolutely her fault for choosing him lmao i dont feel bad one bit
@aquatic-bv5mc
@aquatic-bv5mc 6 ай бұрын
@@steezsteezsteezah it’s always the women’s fault. 😂
@Yuni.xx03
@Yuni.xx03 6 ай бұрын
@@steezsteezsteezgood for you dude
@Cherrykins
@Cherrykins 4 ай бұрын
⁠@@steezsteezsteezprime example lol, you're weaponizing her "incompetence" to say she should've been smart enough to not be with him
@l.4070
@l.4070 3 ай бұрын
Wait what can you elaborate? I thought she was the one the more "heartbreaker"
@indiabrittany
@indiabrittany 9 ай бұрын
I think love languages are legit, but it’s it’s not fair to expect your partner to adhere to your love language without trying to express love the way they receive it.
@chrisco9826
@chrisco9826 11 ай бұрын
This is truly “$5 couple therapy” 😳
@BLU3xo
@BLU3xo 10 ай бұрын
Tbh it's more than most people get I'd imagine
@essenceofsoul27
@essenceofsoul27 11 ай бұрын
I'm glad to hear the open discourse with Mia and Rae around their sexuality. So often, the emotions and thoughts of the partner that is with someone who is trying to figure out their identity is ignored or downplayed as not as important and i think that's unfair. I still don't think Rae understands that her journey wasn't the only one that mattered and that it isn't more important than anyone else's journey.
@MinThant07
@MinThant07 9 ай бұрын
I thikn Victor shows signs of avoidant attachment style while priscilla might be clingy as in a person with anxious attachment style. It looks like a classic push-and-pull relationship which eventually led to the breakup.
@jamestramel4000
@jamestramel4000 11 ай бұрын
I’m gonna say it… I don’t think Luna and Dane were right for each other🤣🤣🤣
@queenrudshel
@queenrudshel 11 ай бұрын
Like they were both the problem.
@makeadifference4all
@makeadifference4all 11 ай бұрын
The hot take of the day! 😅
@Zozoo21
@Zozoo21 11 ай бұрын
Mostly Dane hes the problem
@amirj8550
@amirj8550 11 ай бұрын
@@Zozoo21 What are you?, a feminist?
@Zozoo21
@Zozoo21 11 ай бұрын
@@amirj8550 how tf does that make me a feminist??!?
@rthenderson9231
@rthenderson9231 11 ай бұрын
The body language and articulation of Luna and Dane tells me everything I need to know about who is genuine and who isn’t.
@voskresenie-
@voskresenie- 10 ай бұрын
go on...
@sthetik3019
@sthetik3019 10 ай бұрын
Explain please 😊
@pietandersen6120
@pietandersen6120 7 ай бұрын
I’m autistic, please help, I’m not picking up on it
@Gmoneyaiden
@Gmoneyaiden 7 ай бұрын
please inform
@nandhanaprakashsimi3519
@nandhanaprakashsimi3519 7 ай бұрын
lol, ok, so Dane is the toxic one, and lane is not, cause she looks like she is walking on eggshells. @@pietandersen6120
@tristanr.9025
@tristanr.9025 7 ай бұрын
Every time Jen brought up love Languages it took 5 years off of my Life
@braydenbro9247
@braydenbro9247 11 ай бұрын
Interesting to see Jubilee adapt their content from sub 10 minute quick sound bite discussions, into long form deeper discussions. I wonder how and why they decided to change it? Is the audience different and how so? How has react content affected these kinds of decisions?
@fionappl3lesbian
@fionappl3lesbian 11 ай бұрын
react content 100% is the biggest influence on the content change
@braydenbro9247
@braydenbro9247 11 ай бұрын
@@fionappl3lesbian That would be my assumption. These vides are optimized for reaction. Wonder if its actually worth it tho.
@apakz
@apakz 11 ай бұрын
at the end of the day it’s mostly about pulling in the cash. long form content (the longer the better…) has done that with better rates on this platform for a long time.
@maybeitsasecret
@maybeitsasecret 11 ай бұрын
I feel like their discussion vids have always been this way??? but definitely more lucrative now and more time means more ads
@braydenbro9247
@braydenbro9247 11 ай бұрын
@@maybeitsasecret Their videos have gotten much longer than they were a few months ago. Middle ground used to be 10-12 minutes IIRC.
@MyDarkrai95
@MyDarkrai95 11 ай бұрын
Dane honestly gives “loser skater boy who can’t hit it” vibes. He started that punching walls, gaslighting energy when he got mad.
@khadijahbegum3546
@khadijahbegum3546 11 ай бұрын
Fr
@taigaforest2009
@taigaforest2009 11 ай бұрын
copied comment
@christian.294
@christian.294 11 ай бұрын
Copied comment
@Scarlitcorpse
@Scarlitcorpse 11 ай бұрын
Both him and her suck . Dane and luna energy seem draining asf . She seems like frfr that she nags a lot .
@chubbybunny3778
@chubbybunny3778 11 ай бұрын
​@@soandso5058what did Luna do wrong?
@ResinEssenceByCheri
@ResinEssenceByCheri 5 ай бұрын
Wow….my husband told me he loved me on day THREE. And again on day 4 and 5 and 6 and again every single day up to today which is now 16 years later. My heart belongs to him, forever. 💕
@neenuhcruz
@neenuhcruz 11 ай бұрын
i understand Luna's stance in my core. Im glad she has moved on. also for Rae, i feel for them on some points but ultimately their vibe is pretty manipulative.
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