If An Avoidant Isn't Doing THESE 3 Things, They Won't Change! | The Thais Gibson Podcast

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I am so glad that I found this community. I'm learning so much about my attachment style. Thank you!!!!

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Thank you so much Tammy, your comment made my day! I'm glad you found my channel as well and proud of you for seeking the growth. All the best on your healing journey! 🧡

[@joshliam1967]

Ditto Tammy! PDS as a resource has been life changing for me as well

[@melissam.6054]

Insightful conversation, rich with nuances from both your perspectives! I especially appreciated how both of you described my former trauma-based habits of ruminating and "being locked into your own head", causing total disconnection with my body and my suppressed/triggered feelings being stuffed down. No more, thank God! What a blessing; you're both doing God's work by courageously sharing your healing journeys with us, thank you, Thais!

[@NataliaNieves-fi8vd]

So happy and proud to hear Mike's journey and recovery. This channel is such a blessing for us who can relate. Thais is so awesome, I love your story too.❤❤

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[@LeftNyles121]

It’s shocking how Magnetic Aura on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!

[@yougotgroove]

I want to read this

[@cheryl2675]

I LOVE what he said how people won’t leave you going through dark moments but they will if you push them away and don’t let them know what’s going on with you. 1000%! Going through this now and couldn’t agree more. I’m really beginning to question myself and calling it quits when I know it has nothing to do with me. Just a very odd and puzzling feeling.

[@amyfigueroa1911]

Quite literally the best sell for meditation I’ve ever heard! Seinfeld and all! Thanks Mike 😊

[@smonaful]

Meditation is the only and the best medicine for all human ills. Brings you to your Source and makes life the greatest joy.The greatest love affair is the one you will have with yourself. And when it spreads outwards, there is no greater high in life. Spread the message by living this truth.

[@mgn1621]

You still need to learn healthy behaviours in being human.

[@yougotgroove]

Your just revealed every person's purpose in life by example... Keep shining your light❤❤!!

[@yougotgroove]

​@@mgn1621Yes your right! And once you truly connect with yourself by emptying your mind of all that external source, and you connect with your authentic self, you will find home in your heart, and that's where the blueprint will guide you and give you everything you need in order to live your life's purpose. Once you make this connection with self you'll realize that you're already whole and complete. Our purpose is to awaken others to this realization,❤ that's our purpose

[@JSath]

I was waiting for him which seemed like a break up, 1 month later he appeared, I was answering him but platonic! Suddenly he sent kisses! I left paralyzed, I didn't know if I can show my emotions of how hurt it felt all this while or accepting and behaving nice to him back . . But he got offended and deleted all the chat and left! Man what am I supposed to do? Take him back and go through the same pain wheel again without any regards to my emotions? I am not a child

[@xOFFtheCUFF]

You deserve better and not this boomerang effect. There are actually great people out there that don’t play this traumatize games. I think it’s selfish for someone who is an avoiding to get involved in relationships is very selfish of them. They need to mature and heal their trauma before getting other people involved in their lives, I’m dealing with it now 🌿

[@atmodlee]

You stand up for yourself and leave a painful, toxic cycle. That is what you do. You run forward and you never look back because you aren’t headed in that direction.

[@JSath]

I wish I can run away as advised! One of my friends walked through how horrible my life would end of I end up with him! But these avoidants are too good with the initial 'lovebombing/investing time' they literally get too close with you, probably out of experience, and then they slowly introduce pull and push just as how my grandma taught swimming lessons to my mom by tying a saree around her tummy and throwing her deep into the well, raising up the saree/rope to let my mom breathe and throw he back in! Man I wish I dint love him! You know they are so good to show you a vulnerable side of themselves to keep it as a bait to click in the prey 's mouth! This much being said I still love him , I am doomed

[@no.5810]

I was doing so well. 5 months of being more secure with someone i really liked, then a relapse. Brought the shutters down, ran away, shut down. I'm feeling very sad and disappointed in myself. I'm disorganised attachment I think - AP and DA.

[@BobbieKulse]

this format really suits me

[@PaigeYesLee]

Thank You Thais 😊🙏

[@Healingpawsss]

I just wanted to say that I just got myself a free trial at the personal development school and the school looks amazing!

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Soo happy to hear that! Come into webinars too and ask me questions anytime. It is all included in the pass so you can join in and we have those events included free every day for extra support and community!

[@Healingpawsss]

@@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Thank you, maybe I will! 😺❤️ Sounds great to get the chance to ask specific questions and also to see and hear other people that are doing the work ☺️.

[@Sophia-vx8gj]

I’m confused, what are the 3 things? All I got was meditate..

[@joseMgarcia0711]

That's funny. Had the same reaction to that loneliness-health study that Mike had. However, I haven't been able to actually be more open to foster healthy relationships. I tried. Maybe one day will try again. I'll just let my healthy living take me as far as it can.

[@KizzieDruces]

best!!!

[@YorieHasegawa]

this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest

[@barbara6840]

I think we can "avoid" the attachment labels and simply call these people "emotionally immature". Let's face it, emotionally mature people are out numbered with the EIP. You should consider doing a segment on the scarcity of emotionally mature who are choosing to stay away from EIP because dealing with EIP can indeed turn you into one.

[@RitaP41]

Hope you're in therapy for that depression, getting at the root cause.

[@SadaeTakata]

read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.