Ghosting is just so rude, says a lot about a person's character!
@floatingchimney3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the person who ghosts is in a really bad state of living. I ghosted many people when I was clinically depressed. It was just too hard for me to put everything in words.
@spookyypodcast3 жыл бұрын
@@floatingchimney I think you should not done to any one as maybe your in bad state but you don't know about the person you ghosted is going through... And i think everyone has a tough life... So don't use them for your puropse
@simba96493 жыл бұрын
And what when he do twice
@TanvirAhmed243 жыл бұрын
Ghosting is incredibly painful because you get a taste of something good and then it's cruelly taken away from you without any explanation. And most of the time, you're not trying to get over the person who did this to you, but their betrayal. But let me drill this into your head now: Whether you've been gradually ghosted or suddenly ghosted, most of the time it's never you! You just happened to get involved with someone so emotionally immature, they couldn't be honest with you. That's it!
@emmawatson65823 жыл бұрын
OMG! I needed this!
@kurokotetsuya94563 жыл бұрын
This is so true!
@fullmetalalchemist4713 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@TanvirAhmed243 жыл бұрын
@@emmawatson6582 I'm glad I could help.
@TanvirAhmed243 жыл бұрын
@@fullmetalalchemist471 Thank you!
@AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын
*"Never ever give up, until you become proud of yourself."*
@aheasanhossenabid75953 жыл бұрын
True* nothing last forever ....forever is a lie💔
@lex28lush103 жыл бұрын
Become proud of yourself Now. . There must be so much one can be so proud for.. Why wait..? Happiness comes when you stop waiting for everything to be perfect 💚
@aheasanhossenabid75953 жыл бұрын
@@lex28lush10 truee your successful right now
@lex28lush103 жыл бұрын
@@aheasanhossenabid7595 🙏 Much Appreciated this. Likewise for all loving souls out there... Sending back lots of lights 🌟
@djdigital38063 жыл бұрын
🤔 Facts!
@MrStano-jy3ts3 жыл бұрын
If they ghost you, move on as soon as you can. I know it hurts but God knows what he is doing.
@saikeerthi27633 жыл бұрын
Yess..
@MR-mv6hd3 жыл бұрын
yes, actually that was his biggest mistake because once he started acting like that it was such a turn off for me. Once he started doing that he was not attractive to me. It takes all from them because I know they have no respect and respect is everything.
@rustyrules42643 жыл бұрын
@@MR-mv6hd he showed his weakness 😩
@tatiannaday42783 жыл бұрын
@spike well you could try harder to make things right for you and not give up
@tatiannaday42783 жыл бұрын
@Spike why don't you watch the other jay shetty ghosted videos and maybe you'll get your awnser
@IPPredators3 жыл бұрын
If they can't have a mature conversation about why they're leaving, are they really good for a relationship? I think not. A relationship should have deep conversation, trust, respect and honesty. If they avoid any of these traits, find someone better.
@conqururfear3 жыл бұрын
Never knew it even existed, until it happened on august 1st
@johnbingaman36453 жыл бұрын
@@conqururfear I never knew it either, dated a girl for 2 months kissed her goodnight never saw her again, I got closure on my own 5 months later went back to her ex-boyfriend, it is a NON verbal abusive way to end or say bye to somebody that you had a really good connection with, it tells you what they really were as a person, you never thought they could do that to you that's what went through my head ...like this person so into me how can they do that... just no explanation at all that's the part that bugs me...
@aquariusrising70193 жыл бұрын
Youre not mourning the person. Youre mourning the hope you invested in them.
@staurilanfield47333 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 100%, went through a complete Dark Night of the Soul and completely healed, forgave and moved on. It’s been 2 years and he contacts me out of the blue every few months, never apologizing or explaining. I just ignore and do my thing. He’s engaged to someone else and has been since 2 months after we broke up, they’ve yet to marry, I’ve blocked him on everything, he still finds a way to contact me, he gets left on read. It’s his issue, not mine. I did nothing wrong, it wasn’t me. Forgive yourself, them, and know your worth.
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@FeelGoodWithin3 жыл бұрын
If person Ghost on you He is confused or might be dating someone else. Move on. Never wait for person who is not putting any effort. Actions Speaks Louder Than Words
@JoinDrSuri3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! And yet, that moving on can be difficult without a sense of closure - sadly, with no explanation and response from other people, you will never get the answers or closure from the other person, so it comes down to yourself to find that sense of closure through acceptance.
@harshitaroy82053 жыл бұрын
See...the person with true intention don't ghost. Next, u don't trust the person ghost u. Suppose ...if I ghost Jay Shetty constantly, he won't like me. If I do have some bad intention or no intention at all... Jay would never like to communicate with me. In that case he becomes a bad communicator to me. So, it's better to have everyone their own ways to their desires.
@johnbingaman36453 жыл бұрын
@@JoinDrSuri I got closure 5 months after I was ghosted by her, saw her with her ex-boyfriend a distance away from me long distance just happened to be the right spot got my closure oh, it sucks no explanation no nothing
@kisabel0283 жыл бұрын
I agree with what Jay said 1000%. Went through a ghosting situation in June 2020 and I’m finally moving on.
@emusicquotes.66323 жыл бұрын
June 2020 ! Me too. Wanted to move on either from then but still cant get over it. Yet, Life goes on.
@abhinavmeda50423 жыл бұрын
July 2020 for me!
@mariacristinaconcepcion44263 жыл бұрын
April 2020 for me... and it will be a year now. He ghosted me last year. Funny and it is a blessing for me to finally move on. I am free and totally moved on. Thank you for this wonderful video. 🤗😊💖 Beautiful lessons learned. 👍👏💖
@suzanoz45063 жыл бұрын
It's cruel.
@singlewcheese64013 жыл бұрын
💝 I was in a long distance relationship with someone I dated 20 years ago. We reconnected 1 1/2 years ago and he told me he had never stopped loving me and wanted to marry me....over and over. He said it all first. Then one morning he just hangs up on me after I say hello (literally a 10 sec conversation) and when I text/call back thinking something bad happened...no response. The sad thing is this man is 51 years old and emotionally unavailable. Honestly, I never thought it was my fault. The immaturity it takes for someone to inflict pain on others has their own issues....something I want no part of. I'm just thankful I found out who he is now instead of 5 years (or 5 months) down the road! I don't need closure because I know my worth! 💪 It is his loss and I know he knows it deep down inside. 😔 That is now his burden to bear. He was also financially irresponsible and in debt. Too bad I never let on that I've worked hard over the years and am now worth a pretty penny! 😎 I learned long ago not to let all your secrets out too early. 😉 Remember....when people show u who they are.....believe them...the first time!! 🤷♀️
@nicoleonfeels3 жыл бұрын
Just be open and honest and decent. Ghosting is not necessary.
@Greenrivers143 жыл бұрын
Yeah people that ghost are cowards, it's really unattractive if you think about it.
@ma.michelledimeroroa64053 жыл бұрын
It happens to me recently he ghosted me without explanation but I'm more better now I just let it go if he thinks I'm not worth it for him I'll be worth it with someone else but I just believe in karma
@ilovegoddoyou70033 жыл бұрын
BREAKING NEWS Whoever reading this, Just know that God is about to drop you a Miracle that willl cancel your worries in life. Amen.💕
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@MissSmith183 жыл бұрын
Amen! 🙏 Same to you ✨
@AWholeLottaLola3 жыл бұрын
_amen and amen. Same to you_
@guaiwangchristelle54053 жыл бұрын
Amen💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lizzetl.51913 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏
@tropicaltanner3 жыл бұрын
These days ghosting is so common, I myself have faced that and in spite of asking 1000 times - I never got the answers why it happened at the first place. Only that "it is a clarification not any argument to discuss that we can't be together"! It pains but then there is no cure for narcissistic people, you just have to hold yourself - that is all you have got. They won't come for your savior! No matter how much love you do to them, suddenly they will behave as if you do not exist at all (overnight)!! Thanks for sharing this - I am sure there are many out there like me who need to listen this!! I wish all of those people who are already facing this situation to bear some more strength and life is beautiful and better off such people!!
@hibiscushoney37593 жыл бұрын
I went through narcissist abuse too. Les Carter and Dr. Ramani have great insightful therapist advice on their you tube channels. Both a credible and really helpful. I hope you find the strength to heal and those 2 channels provide topics to support you.💗
@sanamrana81993 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir👍.. When someone avoid you, Never distrub them again...bcz they can't realize how much it affects on others person lives😔
@shannonprice51873 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true. I was married to a narcissist husband who left us for the mistress. I had to raise our special needs kiddos with autism spectrum disorders it's hard work but him leaving was a blessings to us. Because I became the best version of myself and my kids are doing well today. I'm grateful to God almighty for healing and loving new within myself and forgiveness. 💞💞💞💞💞
@shannonprice51873 жыл бұрын
@Piu Chakraborty Thanks I appreciate your support 💜😊
@shannonprice51873 жыл бұрын
@@Savita_Palekar Thanks I appreciate your support 💞😞
@shannonprice51873 жыл бұрын
@Piu Chakraborty Thanks I appreciate it ☺️
@sheelabhoi2713 жыл бұрын
Don't worry karma will hit him back.
@shannonprice51873 жыл бұрын
@@sheelabhoi271 Its so crazy but he is receiving his KARMA for hurting our kids and myself the mistress is doing him in! I'm going forward with my kiddos. Thanks for your comment 😊
@Shazistic3 жыл бұрын
Life is 10% what happens to us & 90% how we react to it -Shazistic
@jasnafarzina25363 жыл бұрын
Plagiarism?!
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@eppsislike3 ай бұрын
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@PatriziaViselliArtist3 жыл бұрын
Immature, irresponsible, lost, out of control, weak. They are not the strong people they present themselves to be... They only match with people like them. Please, stop feeling like it's you. It's them!
@jeslord7183 жыл бұрын
My fist love broke up with me by text this august and it pains me yet today, i think of her every day. I don't talk to to her anymore becuz I'm tryinging to move on but the pain wont go away. I overthinking about the break up all the time, I'm tryinging to be a good person but i feel like an ass about everything. I hope you all find your soulmate one day. Peace be with you all!
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@roxmontez31733 жыл бұрын
Stay strong!! you are not alone in this battle...
@amferrer953 жыл бұрын
Im experiencing the same. Let's be strong.
@sunitafisher47583 жыл бұрын
🌸 angel sadly they do this to prevent you from getting any closure. They leave a door open to try to get in touch again at some point only to keep hurting you. Believe me when I say it had nothing to do with you or anything you did. This is all their very own character & personality. You need to remember just how special you are, you are a good person that deserves so much more & they knew it. You dodged a bullet, now close your eyes take a deep breath & imagine they are standing there in front of you & you turn your back on them and walk to a door close it behind you turn the key & discard it. Never ever look back, now keep walking into open beautiful sunlight and know your worth. You will meditate and remind yourself just how amazing you are & all look at all good qualities as a kind decent person. You will know in your heart you deserve love & it will come to you. Know this as the truth ✨
@callista1723 жыл бұрын
I hope you are better. I know how much it hurts.
@trbrm63193 жыл бұрын
Let's face it...some people are just not meant for us to be associated with... When we realise this then we gradually learn to let go and we also find out that there's so many other worthy things to live for (enough people who accept us and love us for who we truly are)
@gemigem24113 жыл бұрын
Ghost them back when they come back 👌🏼🙌🏼
@patriziaverrelli46573 жыл бұрын
I think what hurts the most is the feeling of betrayal. It's very rude & immature to walk away without an explanation, espicailly when they never had it so good 😡
@kimberlygreen63103 жыл бұрын
Should I share you my experience & few tips ??🙏
@luisriba80823 жыл бұрын
Well I feel that every time someone ghost me, I felt that I knew that person before and you expected to happen because you learned not to trust people. You lose interest over time and you learned that reasons don't matter at the end. It's better to live, learn and leave things behind keep yourself moving forward. There is a world out there for you to conquer.
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@firenzeong3173 жыл бұрын
I received a text from a guy I was seeing . Out of a blue , he texted me that he recent ex made contact with him and he wanted to meet her again. Asking for my understanding. I totally ignored his text. I know my worth. I don’t have to ask why and second closure. The best response is no response. Further,he doesn’t deserve a response. Just walk away knowing your worth. Self worth= Self Love= Self respect.
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
He was rebounding you.
@MrEOM41Ай бұрын
He didn’t ghost you tho … I’m sure that hurt him getting back with his ex
@stevenambon133 жыл бұрын
I realized learn to be happy alone than you get relationship for hurting you.
@PhetteHollins3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I was in a 2 year relationship with someone and was ghosted 2 months ago. I'm definitely finding my own closure & realize that there was unhealthy/poor communication involved. Thanks for this!
@Shehroz-Ali3 жыл бұрын
I was ghosted badly too by the same guy for the second time. He never provided me any closure. I had no clue what i did wrong this time. I made things so easy for him this second time. Man! I was here for you only, stood with you in your every thick n thin, wantec a secure snd stable future for both of us and you weren't anywhere when i needed you. How fool am i honestly and how fool is this love. Atleast be kind to someone who loved you. If not as a partner, friend, atleast treat him as a HUMAN who has a heart and emotions.
@mariamehnaz80723 жыл бұрын
Bro my bf ghosted me. If he ever comes back should i give him chance??
@kerryqg78513 жыл бұрын
Been ghosted this summer by the guy I was in love with and who promised me the world, the future and a great love. Never had an apology or a normal explanation. Still on the road of moving on. It had hurt like nothing ever did. But now I feel better, and I'm very close to letting it go completely. Thank you for the video and thanks to you guys for your wise words in comments. People like that are really immature and weak, we don't need a partner like that in our lives. When you have a good heart and willing to do anything for others you just don't deserve such treatment. I believe in karma, they will get what they deserve eventually.
@rupasravanthi46553 жыл бұрын
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@kerryqg78513 жыл бұрын
@@Lifeofloops I will :)
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@annettemcclain3473 жыл бұрын
Ghosting made me feel like u see the person on the outside. But never the one on the inside. U just tell them u don't want to be with them. To leave a hole in someone's heart , just makes you heartless, no matter why u done it. Dont ever say things you don't mean to someone, maybe thats the lesson u should learn ghoster. Maybe you should look in the mirror and ask yourself why u have to be fake.
@luisrueda84063 жыл бұрын
This is so true, communication is key on every relationship, both parties must be willing to communicate and share their feelings otherwise a good relationship will be impossible, this happened to me with my ex, she avoided any serious discussion, now I walked away and mean it
@JoinDrSuri3 жыл бұрын
So true - people often thing that couples would think, react, agree on everything all the time, and nothing could be further from the truth. Communication is the backbone of any relationship - it's the only way two people can understand each other's values, likes and dislikes, perspectives on life, and what experiences shaped those perspectives. Sadly, most people struggle with conflict avoidance to the point that they would rather completely avoid anything remotely uncomfortable. Sadly, that's a bad recipe for a relationship - Every relationship needs to be nurtured through communication and thoughtfulness. I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but hope you will find (or have found) someone who is better fit for you.
@tambokikaysharaclaire26783 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭
@HowellConsultations3 жыл бұрын
In case no one has told you today, Keep pushing through the heartache, lack of motivation & self doubt. When you feel lost, that’s the perfect opportunity to find a reroute. There’s so much you’re meant to do in this lifetime, don’t give up on it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey ✌
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@caliswine43063 жыл бұрын
I've been there it sucks you feel like crawling in a hole but believe me things get better just love yourself and the right person will find you😘
@jerin_pearl3 жыл бұрын
Same happened with me two years back but it took me a lot of time to come out of that because I was unable to forgive him...but now I finally moved feeling peace with myself doing what I love to do ❤️
@iamdidi.3 жыл бұрын
I can't even express to you HOW MUCH I needed to watch this video WOW. Thank you Jay
@adib36483 жыл бұрын
Dont open urself to anyone so easily..unles until they knw thats what they want...so they wont just walk away from u so easily...
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
Very good point!
@faith.1113 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Thank God for it. I've been stuck on someone for months that ghosted me out of nowhere. But I'm really trying to let go and focusing on my goals. It's been incredibly painful and difficult hanging on to hope. Much love to everyone who's going through this also. Were much stronger than we think. ❤
@YouRobin1113 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing 100%
@shivanitaneja52973 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jay sir. I Thank you from every little bottom of my heart, for making this video reach to me. It's a blessing that people like you exist, and make this creation worth living. Sending Love, Blessings and lots of Gratitude to you. 🙏
@iCourtneyCheyenne3 жыл бұрын
To everyone in the comments I feel for you. Being ghosted is a different type of hurt, I’ve gone through things that were hard and discouraging but this hurt me in a way I’ve never experienced before. I wish I would’ve seen this video and the comments here when I was crying my eyes out months ago. to know others have felt that way before too makes me feel a bit more comforted but also so sad that this is something other people had to experience too. I kept telling myself “when the passing months surpass the amount of time we were together maybe then I’ll be okay.” and they did but just like in the video, I still think about her at random moments. Even when I’m happy, even when I’m doing okay. It really is like a open wound with nothing to help it. After being sad when it happened, I became angry and I was blaming every bad thing happening to me on her ghosting me before I finally had to accept it. It really was like the stages of grief. I’ve come to realize that the person that I was so infatuated with was immature more so than I thought and emotionally unavailable. To give someone everything one day and then take it away so suddenly is so cruel and I just hope I’m the last person that she will do that to. I don’t need an apology or explanation because I know there is a reason that people make the decisions that they do. I know it wasn’t my fault. Once you accept that it was nothing you did, then all you can do is hope that the other person makes better decisions in the future. Even after being hurt, I’m still rooting for her to do well in life because I want her to mature and be content- it seems apparently she’s not reached that yet. I hope you’re all doing okay.
@christinerobinson25703 жыл бұрын
I already am proud of myself. I found a strength even though I'm lonely. And maybe I'll find some peace and maybe things will always be difficult. I don't know, but I'm hopeful and frightened at the same time and it's ok to be me for once in my life without an explanation.
@kenGPT3 жыл бұрын
The best advice I've been given is this: "Learn to accept the apology you never received." It's helped me through so many heartbreaks.
@sandramichaelson12723 жыл бұрын
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@DaSkarekrow3 жыл бұрын
I wrote a rap call Ghosted, where it's about being ghosted but also feeling like a ghost.... trust me, it's hurts so much not getting that closure....it's a wound that won't heal
@ishikaahirwar99473 жыл бұрын
whatever you post I can feel it deeply 🖤 thank you so much jay
@joerjelynalfonso73683 жыл бұрын
I badly need this words of wisdom.. its a destiny I think coming from my notification without searching for what I've feel right now. 😭😭 being ghosted again and again.. 2020 this is so much😔😭😭 thank you sir those words of yours makes me realize and it ease the pain of my broken heart.. so sad its christmas but im ghosted by someone I think he is different 😔
@MarvelousPm3 жыл бұрын
Jay, your timing is always perfect.
@zimbochic_cara3 жыл бұрын
It is indeed
@wms723 жыл бұрын
I am being ghosted since the Sunday after Christmas. By my kids. They got their gifts from me. Then, gone.
@azeylinn3 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry to read that :(. Hope you have a great day/night!
@roxba773 жыл бұрын
Can’t believe this came on my feed. The comments are great.
@DelightfulGem3 жыл бұрын
Timely advice. Glad to see this video. Being in sales have resulted in many friends ghosting me. 🥲💕
@neskorock3 жыл бұрын
This is me. After 10 years, I still don’t get any closure.
@kimberlygreen63103 жыл бұрын
Damn ! Can I advice you dear ?
@neskorock3 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlygreen6310 sure, what is your advice?
@urvashisingh21353 жыл бұрын
Know Your Worth.
@kimberlygreen63103 жыл бұрын
@@neskorock will you write to me? 2 0 5 6 3 6 8 3 2 1👈
@greta8633 жыл бұрын
You made me cry because It happened to me so many times and I sufferred like crazy. Thank you Jay.
@NARA-s1t3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much jay. You're such inspire me. Im had a bad relationship with someone for fast 4years and in reality and fantasy. Now im forgiving myself and moving out frm the past and starting a new me. Im just hoping 2021 its the best year for mylife to achieved anything i want..❤️ may god blessed you all your family and love ones😊
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@ramyanagashree3 жыл бұрын
So true. My mom's cousin sister who was very close to her all of a sudden started Ghosting. Many a times my mom feels sad about it as they were very close. My mom tried calling her cousin but she won't pick the call. That's really sad to see my mom hurt. I'm supporting and consoling my mom to forget about her and move on. I felt atleast my mom's cousin could have messaged her what happened so that my mom could have had a closure to her relationship with her cousin.
@michellea98573 жыл бұрын
Seriously don't have sex with a guy until he puts a ring on your finger at the altar, it's way too easy to get emotionally caught up in each others bodies, and get blinded by your feelings to reality ...it just ain't worth the heartache.
@wms723 жыл бұрын
Nope. Don't have sex with anyone until he swears publicly before the altar of Almighty God that he will love, honor, cherish, care for and protect you and your children FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. And you swear the same for him.
@simonacristiname38073 жыл бұрын
Michelle A & wms72....you are both out of this world...Don't you realise that no man will stay in a relation if you are not sleeping with him?! Swearing & marriage isn't a guaranty of happiness either... Men are all cheaters and sooner or later they ALL step outside their relation- some because are curious to have random fun (to try some new experience, sleeping with the first female that is flirting with them)...Some are cheating/ghosting- to test the reaction of the other partner ( " she loves me so much that she will take me back no matter what I am doing").... Others are considering cheating a sport so they can't live without a thrill/ new sensation non- stop .. Some men are getting bored/suffocated/ overwhelmed in their official connection so, instead of solving the issues they prefer to jump in others beds... Some are cheating just because that's their nature - to get excited for short period of times & never commit....
@Gods_LovelyChild3 жыл бұрын
The ring don't mean nothing... Divorcing the narc as we speak. Protect yourself physically, emotionally and financially at all times. People change all the time be prepared to walk away with your head held high at all times.
@princesses278Ай бұрын
@simonacristiname3807 not true there's a lot who will real Christians. Besides self respect is more important than having a man.
@laurievenegas10293 жыл бұрын
Wow today marks three years my husband left with no explanation. This is great to watch and helpful
@JohniArmani8 ай бұрын
I hope you're doing much better.. 🙏
@winter86463 жыл бұрын
I think I needed to see this. Praying I’ll find my closure & healing
@karend53273 жыл бұрын
Thank you., brilliantly explained. Time to move on after driving myself insane as to why. Must work on loving myself and pursuing my dreams. Blessings, Karen, UK.
@aliasgerchanniwala70883 жыл бұрын
Such 4 minutes videos are the best. Idk why you just stopped posting such videos. Please start posting such short videos again. They are amazing.
@bellakim20573 жыл бұрын
Ouch! Someone did this to me and it's awful feeling ever! You keep thinking that what did you do wrong for him to just dissapear 😞
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
You didn't do anything wrong. It's that there is another person.
@bellakim20573 жыл бұрын
@@antilaw9911 yes i understand now😞. Thank you appreciate it.
@literaturebuddy Жыл бұрын
This is the best video I've come across till now!!! It completely describes my situation... I found it sooo relatable!
@yogi9631Ай бұрын
That's lower than low. You were his rebound!!!
@ronalidc29373 жыл бұрын
This video just popped up in the right time. Hope y’all are doing well.
@FathimasYT3 жыл бұрын
Yes .Same here..
@GoldenAngel-3 жыл бұрын
Same here 🙏🏽
@yahyamohamad85783 жыл бұрын
This Is The Best Serious For Me ! Life Is Easy .Just Humans Are Making It ...Complicate Design ! #ThisIsMyDesign #ThisIsMyVersion
@stephencarne73923 жыл бұрын
Q= how do you stop loving someone A= you don’t ! You learn to live with the pain 🙏
@Blue-kz3vf3 жыл бұрын
I don’t agree with your answer. You do stop loving someone if you put the effort, but it will take time so be patience. Remember: time heals everything!
@princessken902 жыл бұрын
@@Blue-kz3vf I wonder if time make them forget how badly they hurt good people ?
@jayjay-op9ev3 жыл бұрын
Really needed to hear this..I ve been in pain for over a year..trying to give myself closure 🙏
@JohniArmani8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video 🙏 it popped up just at the right time and date for me.... Going on almost 4 years since My ex of almost 11 years... Got caught lying and cheating... And instead of her letting me know why she did those things... She called me all types of names... Said she had daddy issues, got mad , and ghosted me without a word... Thought I was going to die the first couple of months... Then it got a bit better.. but from time to time it pops in my mind and it's hard for me to get out of the emotional loop and repeat in my mind about why, and all the things I wished I would have asked her or even told her, that I didn't get the chance to...... So I'm definitely saving this video and going to play on repeat definitely helps put things in perspective. Thanks again. 🙏🙏
@nisrinekasmi2863 жыл бұрын
It seems that I'm so good at finding people who are good at ghosting ! It just keeps happening over and over and over again ! 😭💔
@henrydavids52763 жыл бұрын
Such great insight and view point to accept only what you can control.
@SmileensChair3 жыл бұрын
Seriously needed this today. Instead of wondering why now I can feel better knowing that there are people that just do this🤷🏽♀️ thanks for the reminder! It’s just the way some people are but to allow the brain space they take up is a wastes of space . will send a 🙏🏼 if the thought pops up instead.
@stephaniejames95723 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me WhatsApp me let's chat better.
@stephaniejames95723 жыл бұрын
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@jkeen14923 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done. Just know it's the wrong thing to do and refrain from doing it to someone else. You can be better than the heartless person who did it to you.
@chaitanyakarande31293 жыл бұрын
I just broke up and this video still reminds me of her 😭
@zimbochic_cara3 жыл бұрын
Sending plenty hugs
@shivanikapur72433 жыл бұрын
My last relationship of 1 year defined in this short video so well!!! After giving all chances, got my heart broken badly ... The one who broke it... Still have no apology or explanation... #people_hurt
@LagunaLeonhart3 жыл бұрын
2:33 is where the video actually begins.
@devangidevani72933 жыл бұрын
Jay I’m one ur follower I really love all ur good video Ur my inspiration I really appreciate u and ur wife that u r so blessed with such a good positive thoughts. I would really like to meet you both of you 😊☺️ Keep it up 👍
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@sunitafisher47583 жыл бұрын
🌸 Please note a ghoster is a sad person that has no backbone Most of the time they don’t poses any decent traits so please do not expect an apology or any answers Instead try to get closure for yourself, write a letter to the ghoster & give them a piece of your mind. Now close the letter and destroy it, either tear it or throw it into the bin. You will imagine they are standing right in front of you. Picture them feeling very ashamed of themselves, see them with face or eyes lowered. Now imagine yourself walking proudly away with your head held high, knowing you are the better person. You will walk to a door, closing door behind you & on them. Turn that key to lock it & throw it away, imagine yourself walking into open air and towards beautiful light and feel light & free. Please meditate and remind yourself of your self worth, because your are amazing & beautiful. Always remember this and never stop believing in yourself 👍🏼
@rupasravanthi46553 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much yaar...Iam going to try this now 🤗🤗❣️
@georgetacarmen88243 жыл бұрын
No problem. Will do. Thank you. You are the best.
@natacha81973 жыл бұрын
Well said. Some people are just stupid having no concious at All.And we are waisting our time in waiting and hopinh they have some.
@mariaayala26493 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jay, for a very deep video; yes some people are about themselves and don't care about who they hurt.
@dragonviper83 Жыл бұрын
People who ghost are cowards, plain and simple
@Yes_you_read_that_right3 жыл бұрын
People won't always give you closure. You'll have to give it to yourself.
@Love-vr3qx3 жыл бұрын
He ghosted me. Has blocked me from everywhere and doesn't even look at me. I'm so sad since 2 months 🥺😐
@urvashisingh21353 жыл бұрын
Awwww ❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂
@Love-vr3qx3 жыл бұрын
@@urvashisingh2135 zada hasi ari h
@urvashisingh21353 жыл бұрын
@@Love-vr3qx No ...This is very innocent feeling. We don't deserve them. Know your Worth. ❤️
@Love-vr3qx3 жыл бұрын
@@urvashisingh2135 ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@andromedan36483 жыл бұрын
Thank your lucky stars ✨ he’s gone. You don’t want someone in your life that is capable of such a cruel act.
@wellwisher17553 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jay,stay Blessed May God Grant us with the Goodness also protect from the evil and make it easy guys
@kc2703523 жыл бұрын
he was never yours in the first place, it was just your turn
@wealthlibrary3 жыл бұрын
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@Lionhearttarot3 жыл бұрын
Just class yourself the better individual if someone ghosted you, obviously there are accountable and non accountable reasons that we all have, but people eventually come clean and we do meet them again when the time is right.
@idaimani68273 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jay Shetty. The video really help !
@rodrijunghu27793 жыл бұрын
I just had some conversations with a girl that suddenly ghosted me. We were talking very good, but out of the blue, she did not reply my last message. The funny thing is that I message her from another social media, and she reply me very short, and then she told me that she have been busy to reply the others messages, and she will do. Until today there is no answer. What does that means? Why she did that? Why people these days DO NOT like to get involved in anything? It hurts a lot to people that have a good heart and good feelings... Idk...it just hurts! I will read you below guys!
@JoinDrSuri3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry - ghosting can be so very hurtful, especially when you're taking the effort to reach out multiple times and communicate, and she is not extending the courtesy to communicate her thoughts and feelings, rather than completely ignoring you. Sadly, we live in a society where conflict avoidance has gone to a whole new level, and ghosting is one form of it. When a conversation starts feel uncomfortable and awkward, people find it easier to completely disengage rather than actually engaging in a dialogue, whatever the outcome of that dialogue might be. While it might be easier for them, it certainly isn't easier for the person being ghosted. I'm sorry that you're hurting, but sometimes, the silence says more than the words ever could. And this might be one of those cases.
@MdKaif-dr8zo3 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened with me since the day before yesterday 😢😢. She assured me that she would reply. But she didn't.. And I can tell you, it hurts too much
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
Because they getting attention from others they think is better.
@MdKaif-dr8zo3 жыл бұрын
@@antilaw9911 bro! She messeged me half an hour ago, after two weeks..
@shreya61353 жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this thank you Jay❤️
@birinaL3 жыл бұрын
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@harshaaa55793 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE THE BEST MOTIVATOR 😍😍
@muthupriya9663 жыл бұрын
This resembles my life. Jay you are doing a great work. I was trembling to find a closure this video changed everything 🙏
@allelujah30173 жыл бұрын
I cannot stress how much I needed to hear I wasn't the only one who's been struggling with this. Jae, your words really helped, thank you 💙
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
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@fukumoristar71763 жыл бұрын
It happened to me now 37 yrs ago That is true break my life my heart..i was young that time
@nidhisingh37603 жыл бұрын
Jay's videos are always soo relatable and IDK if it's just me but they always appear at the right time in my life. Things happen and just in 2-3 days I find a video that's just based on that very issue.....Anyways I find all his videos very insightful and apt. 😊
@eslivannoort28483 жыл бұрын
Wow this situation is something I experienced a few weeks ago and been struggling so hard with. I had my friend in a gaming community who I talked so much with (basically daily) we had an amazing chemistry and talked about traveling for 6 months next year and all with another friend. Then out of nowhere she told me she didn't want to talk anymore and just never responded to any of the people I know that know her as well. She left without any explanation and blocked me online. Nothing has happened between us, we could always talk for hours and we helped each other with things we struggled with. It broke me so much and I still care since I promised that whatever happened I will be there for her and will love her (not as in a relationship, but friends) And I just have to let her go even though it hurts so much.
@unotoli3 жыл бұрын
Creating your own explanation is a horrible habit that can strike back. Just make a decision that is healthy for you - be happy without a weirdo who does not communicate, forget and ignore (don't waste your time). Learn people more before committing next time.
@haroldkarwofodi36343 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for this timely message Really needed this because i have been ghosted myself and it still really hurts despite forcing myself to move on
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you want to manifest within two-day ♥️♥️♥️
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯
@giftkane51723 жыл бұрын
Whtsaap him**
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@mjwander13 жыл бұрын
Exactly the kind of breakup I had in 1996 at age 18. For nearly a year I wondered what I did. I realize now I didn't do anything. I was spared from a lifetime of misery being in love with a narcissistic predator disguised as a pretty and innocent looking young woman. My only regret is that I didn't realize this back then I would have had a much happier year.
@miraclejackson69173 жыл бұрын
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@miraclejackson69173 жыл бұрын
He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three day ago with out delay💯💯
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@simonacristiname38073 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately- I met such a jerk a few years ago...not even now I don't have an answer to the question "Why he behaved in that miserable way?"...All I ever got was " it's too much, too serious, too complicated"
@andromedan36483 жыл бұрын
Ghosting says everything about her/him and nothing about you.
@betsyjoseph26383 жыл бұрын
Ghosting! Never knew what this is, until it happened to me.after a 8 year long relation. The pain. The confusion. The unending questions in mind. The huge void. The trust issues later. All i wanted was a closure. Nobody really thinks the pain through, its chosen coz i think its easier rather than being honest, mature and courageous.
@stephaniejames95723 жыл бұрын
hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me WhatsApp me let's chat better.