IF WOMEN believe they can HURT YOU when DATING THEY WILL (emotional manipulation of female nature)

[@CaseyZander]

Learn, Understand and Master the LANGUAGE of WOMEN 😘 below ⬇ app.caseyzander.com/I-learn-language-of-women

[@forgottenfuryan]

Ladies understand bad boys because they're witless hedonists. Tell us about men oh pause.

[@iloveamerica4891]

Boys this is how Emily talks to me ... "I love you and u hold my heart in ur hands! I will go where ever u are to be with u!"

[@josephkush1032]

Had to learn in life that almost all my problems come from my own mind.

[@jimjames9779]

Aka, the happiness in your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts! Aka, if you think you can, and if you think you can't, you're right!

[@josephkush1032]

@jimjames9779 exactly! That's my favorite quote

[@cosmicsea89]

If we can just manifest money through telekinesis

[@adamalchemy2790]

It is from the moment she realizes that she cannot hurt you that she gains the ability to love you.

[@airgunballistics1779]

​@@godsbruh Yes

[@adamalchemy2790]

@@godsbruh 😆🤣😂 That's if she wasn't attracted to you to begin with

[@SD-mi2vc]

Women dont love. They use

[@TheSuperJP3]

@@godsbruhShe failed with me. She took the L…

[@adamalchemy2790]

@@godsbruh 😆😂🤣 That's if she wasn't really attracted to you in the first place

[@Jbeezy126]

I went on a boy's trip to Florida this past summer. However, one of the homies decided to bring his girlfriend. They're complete opposites. My buddy love Harleys, wheelies, burnouts, drinking, smoking. She likes art, books, and makeup. We all decided to go to the strip club, and she tagged along. She got drunk like everyone else and was spending money on strippers getting dances. We didn't see her much in there though because we were all having a good time. (30+ group of people). I go outside to get some fresh air and I see her as soon as I turn the corner. She's bawling her eyes out and shaking. I asked her what's wrong and she said that my buddy didn't care about her, he's not even looking for her, and she regretted coming to the strip club. She wanted to order an Uber back to the hotel. I was straight up and asked her, "how does a girl like you end up with a guy like him? You're complete opposites." She said she loves the thrill factor. She told me she doesn't even know if he likes her. lol She probably has a lot of options but continues to stay with the guy who doesn't even stay by her side at a strip club that he brought her to. He gives her no validation. She begged me not to tell him that I found her out there like that. I just can't believe a girl would rather be outside of a strip club, crying, than be with a guy that would never put her in that situation. That was an eye opener for me about female nature.

[@chilledchad]

That part about her saying she didn't know if he even liked her.. dude the amount of times I've heard that from a few women I picked up on work nights out or just at work.. they were always the quiet, introverted types too. They are all hardwired the same. The rest were more rich family "good girl" types and they would have a sudden party girl streak whenever they were with me. The two most manipulative and yet obsessed huckups I had were psychiatrists too. Had one girl who was in healthcare, she would occasionally send me pics of her patients info while making fun of them. They are all the same. The soft loveable pure characteristics they claim are bs. They are harsh and cold underneath the fakery. It's why they are drawn to those things.

[@irishassassin-k2w]

Women are actually stupid in the sense that they view a lot of strong traits as weak and vis versa.

[@alextrezvy6889]

First you have to define what is 'nature'. There is 'long' lecture by russian philosopher Geydar Jemal (Джемаль), who explains that a human was 'created' from at least two kind of substances. He calls it 'heavy clay' and 'subtile clay'. The fact that modern society conditions women to _exist_ in a certain way doesn't mean it is the only nature

[@Joewnny]

tell me more ​@@alextrezvy6889

[@meme-zv7kw]

This is a perfect example offemale nature thanks for sharing

[@theyoungeldertravels]

This is a sick ass world

[@jamesdot87]

You only feel that way because you believed lifes supposed to be fair !!! Life was meant to be LIVED not fair 😂😂😂 realize this and you wont feel so mercisless

[@TebohoLetsoaka]

Mother nature is b*tch 💁🏽‍♂️

[@1younglock]

Naww frr

[@jayy7712]

Shit crazy, but gotta adapt or you will fail

[@TebohoLetsoaka]

@@theyoungeldertravels It's a jungle bro, you adapt or die 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@starzgalaxy17]

Remember: You choose to let things bother you

[@Alex-gt5ho]

I'm choosing to get less and less bothered

[@alexl.4362]

True

[@metamycology]

Clearly you lack an understanding of psychology if you think that’s true

[@starzgalaxy17]

@@metamycology read 48 laws of power

[@deadman12078]

They push where there's mush.

[@discorabbit]

If she knows she can’t love you unconditionally, she’ll lose respect when you do. Powerfull

[@arto.mendes]

there is no unconditional love, even from parents sometimes...

[@troobix_s]

@@arto.mendes Love is a feeling. And only those who consciously controling it at least somehow are able to love unconditonally. But for women to control their feelings is much harder. That is why also the maternal instinct does this effect - some women hat3 children, but when they do have their own - they are radiating their love towards a child (and start to react positively even on other babies cries) - once again, because emotions and feelings are more in control of them, then themselves.

[@arto.mendes]

@@troobix_s i only disagree when you say that love is a feeling... for me is a decision, you decide to love someone... but agree with everything else you said, and I also think its hard for women to hold their feelings and emotions, especially on hypergamy

[@troobix_s]

@@arto.mendes Well yeah, for any smart person it's a choice. But as everyone describes love (books, movies, songs) - it's a feeling. Selfish feeling.

[@arto.mendes]

@@troobix_s truth, I thin thats the reason why some people break up on the relationship, because when the feeling gets cold they dont have anything to hold on...

[@Jerry11011]

One of the best videos you have made, Casey! When you give the perception of “options”, you’re well liked by many, and she sees that value into you, then you are basically running the table. I was hit with disrespect the other day, I told her “alright, I’m just gonna bounce”, she immediately started to pull back the disrespect and started acting right. Be strong my kings on here!

[@generationchurch7233]

The evolution of this channel is profound. There are broad strokes and then there are the subtle nuances of communication. The content on this channel is highly detailed to the point you completely understand what you are enacting, and you understand why it works and generates the results that it does time and time again. You are not just carrying out an action. You are invoking a proven blueprint that in turn evokes an expected emotional response. The understanding of the why is where the wisdom resides, and this channel is the best at doing that. Hands down. Casey you are a Bonafide star brother and welcome to my home state!!!

[@GJones247]

This is 100 percent. Pure FLAME.

[@joseeduardovazquezortiz564]

I have been following you 3 years ( it changed my life ) If you ask me this is the most raw/ shocking/ real video up to date Thank you for your Knowledge Casey

[@tjgotbands]

bad boys are what they desire bro. you gotta make her feel a wide range of emotions. roller coaster. ups and downs. happiness, sadness, good vibes, anger, uncertainty. etc. when you are the simp you ONLY make her feel the same one emotion which is a constant uphill like a roller coaster . and there’s a quote that says you can make a woman feel anything except BOREDOM. she gets bored of the simp

[@kulentarian55]

Good looking tall bad boy , u can be bad all u want no looks no honey , just a lonely prison cell

[@burns46824]

this is fantastic. There are some exceptions, as some spiritually-minded women have escaped the curse of Eve. But even the vast majority of Christian women are still falling into these mindsets that you are discussing. This is pretty much all true.

[@obersveyourmind]

Best explanation ever in this channel. Couldn't agree more cause that's what I constantly see women seeking for.

[@jimfischione2743]

Yep. Exactly.

[@allowambeBOWWAMB]

the recipe is to have your heart broken and experience it fully yourself , then you will just do what he says automatically

[@mathewstevens4526]

exactly

[@druidbonez]

BIG FACTS THE INCELS JUST DONT GET IT

[@cosmicsea89]

It's worse when there's potential with one and they decide to friendzone you, sucks more than an actual breakup 😖

[@AlexG1020]

I've been watching every one of his videos for a year and you are 100% right. I still held eye contact too long, showed too much interest, and drove away a girl who was obsessed with me back to her ex. I knew it all and still couldn't hold back. Really just have to experience it personally I guess. Just wish I didn't wait until my 30s.

[@allowambeBOWWAMB]

@@AlexG1020 Dude i didn't learn until my early 40s. So. The thing is once you heart is REALLY broke, you will never be the same again. You will be wearing armor

[@anuragsharma65622]

You are a blessing for us, CZ❤

[@Jbeezy126]

your vids seem like theyre helping so far with this new girl at my work lol. I'm usually the definition of the nice guy but ive been playing it cool. She's giving me compliments, and trying to tease me whenever i go into the office from the shop.. I've never given a compliment back yet because were just colleagues. I think it's killing her that i wont make a move but ill participate in banter. normally i wouldve lost her interest in our first few conversations lol its been 7 months and she still is all smiles and giggles.

[@pereiraplaza222]

7 months and no date or kiss???!

[@SKRooU2]

@@pereiraplaza222 and as soon as he ever gets the balls up to ask her out she will tell him she has a BF as she giggles and jiggles all the way to Tyrone's house.

[@lewis1937]

This is SO true. It’s a breath of fresh air hearing it.

[@ANDERSONKIPKORIR-q6f]

I've learnt alot from Casey Zander. All I can say is let women come the 5th priority in your life.

[@waynecooper9411]

You didn't finish your sentence. If women believe they can hurt you, they will.....TRY. Only you can hurt you. It's what you allow

[@swaynec.o.p.d_the_discography]

I wish I saw your comment before I posted mine, it belongs here, as a response. Yep, my Ex tried, but got FRIED in the end (lol)!!!

[@Eugenejones-e7l]

This is so deep it’s scary Case. Thanks for your wisdom. Starting to have second thoughts about women nowadays.

[@carlking3964]

Prolly should have 3rd's and 4th's too!! Funny though, how some people put try to still put the blame back on the male, because he allowed himself to be deceived, by pure selfish evil!! Funney how nomatter what, they will spue that garbage!! With only trying to find a way to continue the evil.

[@Tattoodad84]

I joined Headman Nation 8 days ago. Guys, don’t even question it. Join the movement and thank me later. Casey is on point and has everything laid out. Trust me, you need to hear what he has to say

[@HASEL.mp3]

This woman called me something stupid on a call with her friends and I immediately started walking away

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

Good.

[@DrScottYpresWoods]

This timing was perfect.

[@cei1948]

Age is a number, date, young, live Young and sleep long

[@filibusterl.a.county279]

Casey would be a great emo songwriter, ala Taking Back Sunday....so many deep lines about girls in this vid 💯

[@robaindb1281]

I've witnessed this first hand in an extreme form... She made up her own stories about me cheating on her or having a booty call or anything just when i was unavailable for some time... When i apoligized for not letting her know i was unavailable i just thought i gave her what she wanted but that killed interest and more and more tests kept coming. After i told her to get together that same weekend she imagined some weird stupid reasons why we couldnt be together and the pullback was hard but i stayed strong and cut contact.. after two weeks i get texts she is crying of how much she misses and loves me 😂😂😂😂😅 but i say no to that shit thats just playing with my ❤️❤️ ❤

[@regalkennedy4284]

😂😂😂 when you cut all contact and become power than the sting - because it damn stings, it sets them off balance.

[@harharmahadev688]

This man is legit guys Just listen to him & apply thing in life I wish I had listened to him one year ago...😅

[@meezybeezy4711]

EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION AND I AGREE WITH YOU 10,000 %

[@jonthedawn]

Facts brother. Thank you

[@eliasharding3376]

Basically don't be a simp

[@Matt-w7p]

Still learning hugely from every video, about women’s psychology, from this Casey dude. I’m learning the deep and true reasons why my last girlfriends have walked. Cheers man

[@wernergansert6377]

Some of your best points, best content right there

[@jimmytheeJTW]

Been through this a few times finally I get it. Props for tellin the truth maing

[@carlking3964]

SCARY, BUT THIS TOO IS 100%. BEEN THERE, AND HAD THIS DONE TOO ME TOO! TO THE LETTER!!

[@rbr8931]

@@carlking3964 what did she do?

[@carlking3964]

@rbr8931 theyv'e all........done the same deceptive selfish stunt game, that this vidio, refers too!! Hopefully, you can comprehend the vidio! Enough said. And that is all......that will be said! Oh, and MERRY CHRISTMAS.

[@anthonymichaeldurkin6244]

Thank You. Mr Zander.

[@JoseChung21]

Casey....WOW...no words brother...keep cooking...

[@K.R_Mony]

This is the realest talk for men ever

[@Mr94Corvette]

The truth hurts. And no man is hated more than the one who delivers the truth.

[@MapleSyrupPoet]

Truth is always appreciated by Vincent 😅

[@rawlingsprempeh495]

One Casey video=keeping me on track

[@DispholidusTypus]

This video is PLATINUM with GOLD trim...

[@moxxfactor756]

PERFECT TIMING

[@jnmanousos]

I have been married for 30yrs. I have the same profession as my wife have a business together and have everything we have together. We are great friends and have gone through many different hardships. We persevere . We respect one another being individuals. My love and her love shows in different ways . Zander says he has 10 years of experience but doesn’t have 40 yrs of experience that I have with women. I have to say he’s got a lot more to learn once he understands that he won’t be in his 20s and 30s forever and he can’t play bad boy for too long . Mature relationships both require giving, respect, patience, discipline and friendship. These tactics that Zander puts out are for serial fucking around so he’s gonna see how it feels when he lives in his big house with his big muscles his 458 all alone when he’s 40 . Zander you don’t know it all my friend

[@jakethesnake3831]

Good for you dude. But you're forgetting that you got married in the 90s, which was a completely different period of civilization. Forgetting about social media and dating apps, it was pre INTERNET, for crying out loud. You have no clue what women and dating are like in 2024. It's a mad Max futuristic dystopia. You come from a different era of human history in your little time machine to criticize a guy who's living and breathing the experience of today. If you became single again today and had to start dating and find a new wife you'd get absolutely rocked with your ancient view of women and relationships. Scurry off now, old man.

[@UvaldoMora]

You both are right, he just said that she always will be more atract to the bad boy, but she needs a man like you to stick arround. And it makes sense, like us men we May have more raw desire for a dancer in the club, but will always love our wife.

[@stevejhkhfda]

agreed. A lot of youtube influencers are black pilled because many women in the 20s don't want to settle down because they have security from jobs/parents and many are immature. They want excitement. It doesn't stay like that forever so I think guys this age should just take it on the chin and focus on making their own lives good.

[@ShporkyBoof]

You're right man. Zander is 100% optimizing his game for women with the highest SMV, those in their 20s. I too, am trying to figure out the balance. My current conclusion is that you need to keep gaming them like their 20 until after they go thru menopause. Then you can probably finally love them like you've always wanted. Idk tho, cuz I'm only 29 yet 😂

[@tyronevonchadley]

Ok boomer.

[@camokazi1313]

Bro, your video broke my heart. 😔 _THANKS!_ 😅

[@johnfried5333]

TOTALLY CORRECT!!!!

[@educ8te]

Am 50,and can concur with this guy.I have got more women in my life,when I had absolutely nothing going for me,and struggled when I had a good job,decent flat,etc. That's when the penny dropped

[@kennysaxkin16]

Thank you Casey,hard to internalize this fr but its what its

[@meezybeezy4711]

EXACTLY RIGHT!

[@NG-qo7nu]

ILY Casey Zander it makes me sad women give you bad vibes or confusion

[@meezybeezy4711]

EXACTLY RIGHT ON POINT MY FRIEND ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION!

[@matiasdanielgimenez91]

5:05 I've seen this so many times by now. It's crazy, but it's true.

[@busybboy1915]

I wish this wasn't true but it is. I've been seeing it daily with the girl in my life. The other day I upset her and the next day she told me that I made her cry and that she thinks I don't care about her and I only talk to her cause I'm bored and I wouldn't care if she went away. I didn't say anything and just changed the subject and you know what nothing changed. She thinks that way but still likes me and still wants me. I don't treat her horribly Im just indifferent and it drives her crazy.

[@davidsonasseater]

All woman understand is fear

[@RawCultureReport]

Damn these videos hit hard evrytime like a splash of cold water

[@Oliver_Kaiser]

So true brother, thanks for clarifying

[@pioneeratheart6496]

4:34- What do women label most men as? The Spanish word is "mandelon". It's not even women's fault. Men have earned it. In my experience women have told me it's "refreshing" to meet a man who is direct and honest in his intentions.

[@JohnQPublic345]

what does that term mean, translated ?

[@animtres]

"Refreshing" before they dumb your ass seconds later.

[@krees895]

Mandelon ? Dónde dicen eso ?

[@ShyMplsMale]

I'm solid. You can't hurt a rock.

[@YondaimeApproved]

Thank you 🙏🙂

[@kulentarian55]

Your best video well done ! The only thing i dont agree with is , you cant fix this, men must walk away until woman level up , there is no need to jump into the fire, take it back now

[@barcavsreal3993]

"You can't fix this" because men will never Walk away(there are always s*mps)

[@Yezebnesh_Maharat]

True. Happened to me. Almost went to jail.

[@rbr8931]

What happened man?

[@Yezebnesh_Maharat]

@rbr8931 Tried to set me up.

[@lebolebocinski1543]

ye talk to us

[@OnPoint-Photo]

Ok so 7:10 is probably the strongest Truth I've heard about them and the basis for why everything in relationship is the way it is... Wow.. epic info .. thank you for what you do Zander . I know the meaning of your last name my friend. Epic Info

[@joihnlecouteur3087]

probably the best to the point explanation I have heard. Question: Does this logic apply to virgins also.... does the pair bonding with a nice guy change anything ? With high body counts with bad boys, I can see the self destruction happening.

[@brickterscale3753]

I believe this wholeheartedly after what I’ve been through. But how does a guy get married & have kids in this environment?

[@zizouurb6332]

If you want get married and kids you’re in your feminine energy

[@brickterscale3753]

@ so wanting to spread your seed and follow God’s way is feminine?

[@theone7216]

Dont

[@inker1972]

You can't be something you're not..

[@JohnGriffith-w2w]

Young men! Listen to this post a few hundred times and internalize it! Treat this knowledge with respect way before a woman can emotionally hurt you because she will. She is a woman and that automatically makes her contemptible!

[@jorgethecoach]

I wouldn’t say having to be sinful at all.. social indifference is at the root of it all. Breaking social norms (example: picking up women while grocery shopping.. is that the social norm? Nope. There you go)

[@LH-lv4zs]

These are the same women who end up single-mums, and try to convince their daughters to find a "nice guy". Unfortunately, the daughter follows in her mother's footsteps and ends up just like HER.

[@DJTravisGales]

You are so correct

[@jayalexnader]

I agree and this has worked for me all the time, but what I want know is why do some eventually leave and say “this is too toxic” if this what they like?

[@matthewsilva8617]

If you can make her come, she will want to stay..if you want her to stay she will probably leave..if you want to leave, she will fight for you to stay..makes no sense but it’s true

[@tjgotbands]

you know whats funny so I got this new tattoo on my chest couple days ago and it says “patience” I sent her a picture of it and she said “i’m gonna test your patience… jk” i then said “test me” the very next day. I didn’t hear from her at all. Until about midnight she texted me. now I am mirroring her energy and haven’t texted her for over 15 hours. 2 can play that game hun. lol it’s funny cuz i know what she’s doing.😂 she wants to see if i’ll get emotional from her little pull back game

[@mateolillolillo4841]

She mighta been giving you a booty call bro

[@markrkahn]

"Don't be moral.". How do you respect yourself?

[@warriora7245]

I’ve known this a while…but I didn’t realize I’m the bad guy😢. Like damn, no wonder all my “relationships” were just that. “””relationships””” somehow ima “bad boy” Who wants a relationship, shit

[@STUNNAG-bj8hf]

golden facts

[@RanqeOwnez]

Why did I have to learn this the hard way..

[@npchonkler4430]

The juice isn‘t worth the squeeze. Just stay single, live by your moral code, pray, retain your semen, focuss on health and career- that‘s enough to be content.

[@theone7216]

Yep that's me

[@bensin8419]

Stay strong brothers. I care about all of you more than that chick you are trying to get. Think about that...

[@DonjoSports]

I hope you men realize there are women out there who don't play all these games Casey is talking about.

[@brickterscale3753]

Seems impossible to find them

[@1younglock]

Sure hope so

[@cheezedoodlenygguh6229]

How old are they? 45? What is their waistline size? Smh.

[@davecollins1753]

Truth !!

[@plumisland1070]

Awesome!

[@bigspidey]

This is too real

[@Kakekutter]

Preach Casey

[@JonDoe-w9t]

🎤drop‼️💯👍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎

[@theone7216]

I know from experience even the ugly ones will try to break you facts.

[@theone7216]

Im single for a reason

[@Martin-eu2ke]

Just get become one time heartbroken and you will become emotionless

[@metalmyles9761]

In my experience it is more rewarding to walk a moral path instead of attract these types of women. God will lift you up but she will ruin your life and God does reward patience

[@carlosrosales6728-e9h]

Shit hits hard but it makes a lot of sense.

[@meezybeezy4711]

EXACTLY RIGHT!

[@bakiprinc]

On point

[@Alex-gt5ho]

Can someone tell me how tf are we supposed to win at the game?

[@biffmercury]

Never attach to an outcome

[@Ace-gu6wj]

There is no winning my friend 😂

[@yellowquantum4240]

Invest in a better tennis 🎾 racket to get better at playing the game. It is just a game.

[@Alex-gt5ho]

@yellowquantum4240 at tennis you can win but with women it seems like whatever you do it gets you fucked over

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@Ace-gu6wjthat’s because men continue to portray women as winners for existing. Do they not see how they create the very problem they have the nerve to complain about later?

[@askohirvonen5066]

At 2:20 I hit the like.

[@pioneeratheart6496]

WTF, the trolling about a silly ebook?

[@EriPages]

Unfortunately correct

[@itlp5525]

This guy is taking the dating advice in another level 👏

[@granth9352]

Thanks heaps Casey, Ive lined up a date for tonight, but, Im a bit unsure about this woman, I think I might hit the chicken button on this one, shes way too close to Home.

[@kevingave3153]

What happened to the glow up series?

[@CokChopBeats]

Why would she do that to me?

[@kenetik13]

Be her lover before her bf

[@NICe22702]

1:57 and I know this is gonna be a banger

[@markvitelli6312]

Casey what about guys dating older women?? 70-80s….i like older women.

[@jerrythomas9833]

What if a guy is enlightened and thats why he is detached and dont care?

[@user-lb3ty9wg5g]

Wait, so you cannot show your girlfriend how much you love her because she will use it to hurt you? Am I understanding wrong?

[@iamthebear-69]

What does she want? 100 men in 24hrs.

[@davidsonasseater]

Exactly

[@shengsun5916]

The same as us. 100 women in 24 hours.

[@michaprost4123]

Does this apply to christian women ?