I totally agree when I was successful in my weight loss journey I didn’t tell anyone.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Yes! Let the results tell the story.
@cynthiahaskins83Ай бұрын
you are 100% correct!! Aside from people trying to sabotage you when they know you want to improve your life!
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Great take! I hadn’t even thought about the intentional sabotage. And sometimes it can even be unintentional but still detrimental nonetheless.
@royalgems5185Ай бұрын
Oh I thought u just steered clear of that part. I like ur angle on it either way. Moving in silence is always a virtue.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
@@royalgems5185 I don’t have any real examples of intentional sabotage in my weight loss journey. Unintentional though I got plenty of that! I said a few weeks ago I wanted to try a flavored ginger ale and my husband walked in the door this afternoon with a 12 pack. I only needed one! 😂😩
@ritzcarlton358229 күн бұрын
People that are not doing anything to improve their life will always make u feel bad for rn improving urs.
@sayless1445Ай бұрын
I agree with you! This applies to everything in life as well❤❤
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
True! Actions speak louder than words!💙
@hannahs1112Ай бұрын
Definitely agree! Sometimes I feel like a goal feels more serious when I keep it to myself
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
The accomplishment seems heightened when you can do it in silence. I never had a true high after accomplishing my goal of running a marathon because I had talked about it nonstop for 18 weeks. Very anticlimactic…
@Sweet.mergingacctАй бұрын
I love your perspective. Thanks for sharing. Last year, I was following along this 1 creator weight loss journey on TikTok and next thing I know he stop posting, and went offline with no explanation. So yea it happens when there’s pressure on self. On the other hand, I am currently on my weight loss journey and it holds me accountable to share throughout this process. However, I will be mindful of your tips, to be sure that the effort into my goal is more than the sharing.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
The pressure is real when we get caught up in “doing it for the ‘gram”. I just want everyone to learn from my mistakes and succeed at their goals. You got this! 👊🏽
@Mirigirl201223 күн бұрын
I think it depends on the person. Some people are easily steered by others opinions. And some are influenced by their own inner grit, so it doesn't matter who knows. And what is for us, nobody can take away from us unless we hand it over to them. Words are very powerful...we SPEAK things into existence and call them as if they are. So, it depends on the fortitude and perspective of the individual. Great processing and I love this Channel so far with all the motivation and inspirational information. 💪🏾💪🏾
@ursgetsfit23 күн бұрын
Great perspective! It depends on the person and sometimes the situation because I’ve been both. I’ve gotten so caught up in talking about something that I lost the momentum to complete it, and I’ve talked about something and it fueled me to finish. Thank you for the feedback on the video and channel, happy to hear it’s been helpful. 👊🏽😊
@evelynjones326327 күн бұрын
This so true❤
@ursgetsfit27 күн бұрын
Sometimes we can talk ourselves right out of our own goals. 😩💙
@Robloxlegend49Ай бұрын
GREAT ADVISE
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Thanks for the feedback!
@debbienapoleon9959Ай бұрын
Wow... not what I expected, but I totally agree.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Sometimes it’s the most simplest things that throw us off track. 😩
@vs0063Ай бұрын
I'm in my fifties now and I don't need to share unless it's something that will help me. Otherwise, it's going to have the opposite effect, raise my cortisol levels and defeat the purpose. Just my opinion.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Sometimes it’s good for accountability but more often it does have the opposite effect.
@marydawkins2673Ай бұрын
I agree!!
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Who knew it could be so counterproductive?? But I’ve done it quite a few times and it’s a real thing.
@JessicaSmith-ie7cmАй бұрын
Did you have any type of weight loss surgery prior to losing the 70 lbs? And yes, I agree that when we speak of something and it does not come to fruition that we leave ourselves wide open for ridicule and judgment.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
I had VSG in 2014. Can’t believe it’s been 10+ years! Regained most of that weight back and found myself at 225 lbs in 2022. I talk about it in a few other videos on my channel. And that’s a great take about ridicule and judgement. And sometimes we are our own worst critic when it comes to failed goals.
@tinalewis6782Ай бұрын
I disagree. If I don’t compare myself to other more accomplished athletes in my favorite sport, how can I know what to aim for? How do I get a picture of better form? How do I know what’s possible? With all due respect, the “don’t compare yourself with others” means you have no role models and nothing to strive toward. Who wants a life like that?
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Thank you for adding a different perspective to the conversation! Do you think it makes a difference if the role model is an insanely athletic, superhuman figure versus the guy/girl next door? I wouldn’t feel bad about not hitting Sha’Carri Richardson times but if my neighbor beat me in a foot race I might feel some type of way. Does that (or should that) make a difference?
@tinalewis6782Ай бұрын
@ I can learn something from everyone in my sport. Why would I feel bad about someone’s skill level if I can copy their technique? I want to compare myself with others whose skills are more advanced. It’s terribly difficult to put together a jigsaw puzzle if you don’t have the picture on the box as a guide.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Great perspective!
@onehamm4462Ай бұрын
Agree and disagree. Some goals, if I don't say them out loud, they will never see the light of day😂.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
That’s a great take! Sometimes it’s easier to quit or not start if no one else knows about it. 😅
@evelynjones326327 күн бұрын
Hello❤
@ursgetsfit27 күн бұрын
Hi 👋🏽 💙
@boikhutsorosemaseko6247Ай бұрын
So is this the same reason why guys be telling you how they going to do all this but never actually do.
@ursgetsfitАй бұрын
Benefit of the doubt says maybe...sometimes. Sometimes they’re just lying with no plans to do so.