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[@freddy-qn5ct]

Bro just spawned out of no where and decided to make the best videos in the world

[@Ariel_3214]

@@SuperBlackDog69 Lol.

[@hhhhhh-hhhgh]

Literally

[@MjenTa.]

Exactly

[@Teapotman2]

Ikr

[@tom-cr3cn]

​@@SuperBlackDog69 mbappe

[@wisteria_02]

1. Encourage other people to talk about themselves 2. Give sincere and honest compliments 3. Avoid arguments 4. Try honestly to see things from the other person's perspective 5. Smile Edit:welcome minnaaa

[@munibah9258]

Thank you❤

[@ebrusweetie8233]

Love this ❤ thanks

[@panzershrek7942]

Problems: 1. I dont usually care for what other's have to say about themselves 2. I dont have any incentive to smile

[@ettiquartz]

@@panzershrek7942no offense my guy but that really sounds like a you problem. If you want to change those things, I hope you will find a solution to it, if not, this might be the wrong video for you.

[@tiranito2834]

​@@panzershrek7942 more problems: - Avoid arguments? So we're just meant to swallow people's stupidity and mediocrity? If shutting up, listening and smiling is all I need to make "friends" (shallow ones at that it seems like to me), then I'd much rather be alone. I cannot imagine myself in my daily job not calling out people for their stupid shit. If I did not, I'm not sure how many people would die as a consequence. But I guess people don't care about the therac 25 not happening all over again, because they'd much rather not have their feelings hurt, it seems. And that is just in my line of work... if i cannot tolerate people like that on the job, imagine having to tolerate them on my personal life. Mission impossible. - Give sincere and honest compliments is something that I feel like I could genuinly do. If there ever was anyone I met that I had anything good to say about them. I've only met one person in my entire life who was deserving of any compliments for their actually amazing accomplishments. Am I just meant to lie to people to their face and compliment their mediocre work? Again, this comes full circle to my previous point. I'd much rather be alone than to lie to people for the sake of getting fake, shallow friends who only care about their egos.

[@_basel_]

The fact that 269k people watched this video says alot about the cruel world , but its beautiful

[@Stewie_eating_Heisenburger]

I think that's just the KZbin algorithm taking effect

[@dbdlegionjoey5140]

411k now 9 days after publishing

[@Arkmobile158]

Hey your really smart😊

[@_basel_]

@@Stewie_eating_Heisenburger ya i think so...

[@_basel_]

@@dbdlegionjoey5140 impressive 👏

[@jingalalala]

There are people who don't want to talk to you and won't talk to you It's okay it is not a mission to be friends with the whole world cus that would never be possible But being friends with even one person is a blessing

[@axle3064]

Thank you for the advice your an amazing person!

[@jingalalala]

@@axle3064 damn your words made my day...

[@Ilovegenshin77]

That's actually beautiful...your absolutely right, having just one person support you and hang out with you is really better then being alone

[@yspegel]

About 8 years ago, I felt lonely and a bit depressed. I decided to, whenever going outside the door, to just smile at people whether I felt like it or not, the amount of smiles I got in return made me feel like smiling every time!

[@user-zy3dh4cm5r]

😊 man... That is so true... Its just that being told to do it always sounds corny. Ive tried it myself and its awesome

[@JuhoSprite]

Nice cheeks

[@giorgosd3624]

Idk man, if i smile all the time i would be like a damn clown 🤡

[@user-zy3dh4cm5r]

@@giorgosd3624 well of course not all the time

[@yspegel]

@@giorgosd3624Maybe it's a good idea to learn the difference first between a friendly smile and a creepy evil clown smile 🤣

[@anushkaverma2203]

i think it's important to acknowledge that we shouldn't change ourselves in the process. the "if they like me, they like, if they don't, too bad" mentality is still applicable if making someone like you includes going against your core morals and values.

[@mujtabaraisani7376]

well you wouldnt befriend such person in the first place right

[@HetulTrivedi-pt4xr]

Agreed

[@r.shreyas9680]

true. and some of them over here might already be likeable by people but they can't see bcoz of their insecurities. It's good for them to work on the latter i guess .

[@Roddy556]

I disagree. People have negative traits, talking about themselves too much for example, that make them who they are. If they can change thise things and be better than the person they are now why not do that?

[@MuiKaHo]

@@Roddy556 why would you try to change someone else? if you dont click and their morals are different from you, its not worth being their friend.

[@funnygoose2146]

Instead of arguing, you should try to discuss. It turns from a competition about winning, into a learning experience for both parties (hopefully). That's how I like to think about it at least.

[@nhikari33]

I liked how you actually explained your pov Have a nice day

[@someone4585]

And sometimes they won’t be interested in said discussion and that’s ok too. I think if the conversation is going no where it’s good to just change the topic

[@daduckoftheinternet]

good word man

[@ryanfang837]

Thank you for explaining it and giving an example on how to avoid an argument! ❤❤

[@zogo-official]

That is the best alternative possible. Not only are you not destroying the other person's pov, but you're also engaging in leaning with an open mind.

[@xxChacaronXX]

#6 - know your weaknesses and be ok with them. This allows others to be laid bad around you. They don’t feel like they have to be “perfect” because you’re so easy going with your own faults (obviously don’t be a mess about it tho)

[@pablo7512]

Great point.

[@viksplosion7105]

hey man, I noticed you post poker vids on ur channel. What's your favorite psychological trick that you use to trick people in poker?

[@RunBoy]

I don’t want people to like me more, I want to love them more.

[@marialovesmarklee]

Doing this would make others feel cared for and appreciated .

[@joesephjoestar6430]

the same principals stand, if you loved someone more you would smile more, compliment honestly more, want to know about them more, avoid arguments more. If you don't love them then remember what a wise man said: "love is like a fart, if you try to force it, its probably shit"

[@js21]

I do try all of these things whenever I have a crush... I do not get a gf anyways 😂​@@joesephjoestar6430

[@pretzelschannel6595]

Sometimes i feel sad cause people forgot the meaning of love. They always think it's romantic or crush but it's not if its with family.. what about friends?

[@patrikrathan8705]

love yourself

[@daitannasenshi992]

Bro wake up , IncognitoCeo posted again

[@Lakshaymehta01]

Yeaahh, I'm awake.

[@rikkaislife]

Ty, had to wake up from my 7 hour napping

[@wins._7]

Yessir

[@JuhoSprite]

Nice buns

[@eritz412]

It’s the first of the month

[@Doobjo]

My sincere compliment to the viewers of this video: It takes conviction to know that you need improvement and it isn't always easy to sit yourself down and say, "I am not good at this so I want to learn more". The fact that you have decided to watch this video says a lot about yourself. I am impressed and motivated by each and every one of you who acknowledge your own shortcomings and have the willingness to improve upon your situation. Keep it up, I am absolutely positive you will reach your goals if you apply yourself to the fullest!

[@karma5746]

This is a really beautiful comment I am really glad your taking a initiative in complimenting/encouraging others to grow I hope you too would have a blessed day and achieve all the things you want.

[@Unusually_Despicable]

my compliment to you is : you have a nice butt

[@yaddakinglet]

The tip about letting people talk about themselves actually helped me a lot when I first started socializing (in college). Unknowingly encouraging others to talk about their life and interests, because I didn't have any of my own, got me a good friend. And the smile... At some point, after talking to my therapist and getting rid of toxic people in my environment, I actually started smiling more and began enjoying every day I lived. Then I developed a habit of wishing others a good day: drivers, cashiers, just random people I've encountered. The amount of smiles I got in return and still get to this day is amaizing. Also, I think the key is confidence. Not necessarily bold confidence: just understanding that your emotions and feelings, requests and wants are valid enough to be sure you have all the right to communicate to another person. Being sure you can freely talk to someone, make mistakes, be slightly weird or unusual, and it's okay. That helped me overcome shit ton of fears. To an extent when people don't believe me saying I'm an introvert.

[@chalmuns8571]

I appreciate your comment. Definitely helped change my perspective for the better.

[@devinplombier6918]

I've realized that I have already been doing all of those things more and more recently, but not for other people to like me. I've been doing this to like myself more, to have a clear conscience about myself

[@asbjrndyri9404]

That’s wonderful, have a great day🖤

[@Nats3ki]

Same, I literally saw my new self when i was watching this video,all of these made me respectful enough that everyone in my class likes to talk with me and it even made me get really close with a girl from class

[@Air_conditione]

The music, the ghibli in the background, the chill voice and not condescending tone, these videos are the best

[@sharkkisser54]

The yung lean accent is on top too

[@Kehveli609]

@@sharkkisser54 i think your name is cringe/funny in good way:D

[@sharkkisser54]

@@Kehveli609 thanks haha:D

[@eulalawrence1222]

"Do I like myself?" is a question everyone should ask themselves if they want to be loved/liked. The first and foremost step for making others like you is to love yourself and I'm not talking about the "toxic self-love" advice rather to become a version of yourself that you can love. Trust me if you achieve this there is nothing that can hold you back. "Treat others like the way you expect them to treat you" can be applied here. Talk to people like the way you expect/like them to talk to you. You need to think over all this to get the idea but You've free will, think about it yourself! These are just my thoughts. I apologise for any mistakes made and to anyone I have hurt through my horrible writing. Amazing advice! I love all of these. they all seem so simple yet so hard to implement

[@siddhant-sj3mu]

Hey brother i appreciate ur comment

[@kiramini22]

yes

[@wheatwhole_]

me personally I think I’m pretty mid rn since I’m skinny and mediocre in what I do but idk if that’s what “do I like myself”? On the other hand I’m much nicer than most and like to help

[@eulalawrence1222]

@@siddhant-sj3mu Thank you for your kind words!

[@eulalawrence1222]

@@wheatwhole_ To love yourself is to improve yourself. I believe that you do not hate yourself but do not love yourself either. It's fine though. My advice: Ig work on your physique and look for things that you can improvise in your work to achieve better results. This should help you I think. Just implement, a work done imperfect is better than no work. Have a good day!

[@EeveeTheQueen]

Listening is one of the softest forms of love

[@kitsu929]

I've always been actually doing these without even finding the video before, I can't say that many people really like me but at least I have no problems with no one. I don't think anyone would hate me (of course they can, but I think if they do it's probably all about themselves and it's personal) so I'm grateful for that. I try to respect everyone and I'm trying to be careful about not judging people randomly, and I think people like that about me

[@mightnare3237]

I like the way you describe yourself :) Have a good day

[@kitsu929]

@@mightnare3237 aww thank you, that made my day

[@bigbrainbeen1592]

W pfp

[@dontplsgx7934]

You sure sound like a respectable person:)! I could never do it in the first place😅

[@kitsu929]

@@dontplsgx7934 heyy thank you for saying that!!

[@plswatchinfinitytrain]

great advice but i have a little remark here :) Don't only talk about the other person all of the time. Yes, they will like you for listening to them, but they won't actually care about who YOU are, only what you can do for them. It is so incredibly important to have mutual relationships. Feel free to share a little story from your life, and they will feel closer to you, because they get to know you better.

[@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey]

Thanks for commenting, I have a question related to the first principle, if we like someone and we are utilising the first principle during a conversation, for how many occassions we should utilise this and when should we start talking about ourselves to create a balance, because if we keep questioning them or keep extending the conversation from sub-topics picked from the main topic of the conversation then it may get boring or the other person will get suspicious. I know that it is when they are going to naturally ask about us then we have to answer naturally and honestly, and I also know we shouldn't tell everything at once, share your insight please.

[@plswatchinfinitytrain]

@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey my experience is that when i try to structure conversations in a mathematical way, then I struggle actually connecting with the person im talking to. I dont actively try to balance the conversation, i just go with whatever is easier for me at the moment. Things like conversations and relationships are trial and error. Sometimes you will make mistakes and say something embarrassing or unexpected, but thats okay. Its normal.

[@plswatchinfinitytrain]

@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey usually i put stories at the beginning of conversations because theyre a good openener

[@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey]

@@plswatchinfinitytrain thanks for replying, I think that I shouldn't think too much about application of principles and all that stuff, like you said instead of approaching conversations mathematically I should just go with the flow, unfortunately it is high time for me and I wish I could have just be in the natural state of flow and take things as they come (trial and error like) , but at this age I have some pressure, clock is ticking for me and that's why I'm analysing everything, things were not like this 10 years ago for me, I wish I had achieved some experience in dating and relationship, so I wouldn't have to worry about things the way I do now, all I can fo now is hope and keep trying.

[@plswatchinfinitytrain]

@@TatTvamAsiSwetaketu-nz4ey it sounds like youve been working a lot on getting better at this and like its been very difficult and I can see that you are very knowledgeable with communication. I hope things work out for you!!!! :)

[@_ray_ok1643]

bro dropped the best guide videos i’ve ever seen, you doesn’t just explained but made the video based on practice, which helped remembering the info better and easier, along with the examples you gave us

[@alejandroramirez1043]

When I first saw this, I was like ‘damn! I needed this’ and when I saw everything said. I realised, I had already been doing this from the start.

[@Lakshaymehta01]

I've just finished reading the book! *"How to win friends and* *influence people"* It's super awesome!

[@yousihard8569]

Are there any points not mentioned in this video or importieren Things?

[@Lakshaymehta01]

@@yousihard8569 Yeah, There are a lot! The whole book contains so many great ideas 💡

[@Lakshaymehta01]

@@yousihard8569 Yeah there are lot. The book has so many useful ideas 💡

[@shaunaktari8473]

I too have same book but haven't finished it

[@Lakshaymehta01]

​​@@yousihard8569yeah, there are a lot. Consider reading the whole book :)

[@DanielBro42]

summing up this all video in one sentence: Be a decent and kind human being, and don't be afraid to talk with people

[@therandomizer-oy9nf]

W daft punk pfp

[@MasterHackleDown1]

Highly agreed, cheers to your insight brother

[@bruhmoment1835]

This is ass advice though, the video is actually helpful.

[@vitorguerreiro3902]

@@bruhmoment1835I agree the video is pretty good I can see a lot of these things in people I like a lot

[@mohammedsaud7817]

The fact that almost a million people watched this video says a lot about the cruel world.

[@diogoalmeida4115]

One really important thing for when you're talking to someone is to leave space on your speech for others to fill in with their opinions and perspectives

[@Mk_kiki22]

Thanks for the advice , love your confident keep going 💪

[@Lostinabyss-qi1dt]

Idk Why but this old anime scenes with music makes his video so relaxing or refreshing I always watch his video on Fullscreen

[@katz32]

ikrrr the feeling itself is so calming that my mind has programmed itself to watch his videos on full screen avoiding any other stimulating content!

[@tiranito2834]

Yeah man, it is sooo refreshing that literally every single youtube channel has been doing it for a few years now. Yep. Refreshing. Not repetitive and copypasted at all. A dated new aesthetic, one could say...

[@0xAA55]

@@tiranito2834thank you

[@DonGob]

@@tiranito2834 u got some examples? would love to have a look at some more of this aesthetic!

[@JuhoSprite]

Hey man just wanted to say you have beautiful lips

[@ArizonaicedTea-cv2uk]

I am16 since yesterday and in high school and I love this video for what it is, but I'm at a total loss. I do all of these things. I know I do, yet still... so many people do not like me, maybe I'm just being bullied... like don't get me wrong, I have friends, but I used to have so many friends and now I only have like three. I don't know what I could have done wrong for so many people to hate me now but all I know I can do is to keep trying. To keep being empathetic an compassionate. No matter the cost or what others will think, but it's hard when I feel so lonely.

[@flamart9703]

Don't worry, that's normal for your age and for people to change their preferences. It's impossible everyone to like us or to spend time with us - people have their own problems even though they act as they don't have any.

[@SumitSha-lw7yp]

I am quite in your situation, btw hello i am sumit from india and I too apply all those principles from the video but still i don't have more than 2 good freinds. Don't worry u shall keep a positive attitude in every lemon this life of yours throw at u. If u feel like making an international friend -awkward; i know but still a good way to know each other and btw u are too much kind the way you explained your situation. ❤

[@simonbonde9123]

Genuine people often have fewer friends. The popular guys are often not so empathetic and compassionate unfortunately:/

[@SumitSha-lw7yp]

@@simonbonde9123 i agree. The popular guys tend to make other feel low or down happens in my case.

[@therestlessanxiouschild]

Quality over quantity (:

[@vinqzo4100]

i hate myself alot and i have been thinking about just isolating myself and to just stop talking at all but this video has taught me to just be happy for others and maybe not talking about myself the whole time thanks for making this video

[@linguicinhakkkk4639]

This vídeo had an impact on me, I was feeling depressed because I have insecurities that people wouldn't like me as much as I thought they would, but I feel better just by watching this video. Thank you, for real. Remember guys, you are enough and deserve respect no matter what you do. I hope yall have a great day ❤❤😊😊

[@AdrienMelody]

The way I win/avoid arguments is by asking thought-provoking, open-ended questions about the other person’s position. It’s often as simple as asking, “Why?” Literally, a sincere “why” will get the other person thinking, and their answer is usually pretty interesting. Because most people put so little critical thought into the positions they hold, a few probing questions is often all it takes to either get them on my side or, at the very least, make them far more open-minded about the subject.

[@scary_elsa8791]

I love your pfp!

[@hanzoo7943]

Tysm bro ur making my life better with these new videos that ur uploading

[@Gamerbozz768]

same 😊❤

[@Bhavesh-id4fo]

Yeah right 😊😊❤

[@Peloissaaan]

I stopped chasing people, now I only wait for someone to be my friend, still waiting for that day

[@lioness5883]

Be sure that the right time will come. I already was in the same situation

[@WarahiBhardwaj]

Wanna be my friend?

[@alosjudeo]

Man I needed this video. Sure some of the concepts are general knowledge but just having someone talk over them and allowing me to sit back and think of ways to implement them really helps. Much love❤

[@Mk_kiki22]

As we Say Listening IS one of the softest forms of love Hope one day that we will be surrounded by many peopole who use that forms of love ❤️

[@sunandasamanta3044]

"I want to be a kind and gentler person"

[@Santiino]

I love how you make/edit your videos. Its beautiful and refreshing.

[@BuymyproductsXD]

cute pfp ♥♥♥

[@oneAMghost]

I love how simple this video was. It gets straight to the point on each tip without wasting any time. Thank you!

[@7rofte178]

i have seen countless videos on youtube but this one just hit directly on the heart .thank you so much for sharing this . i hope all people would try our best to make a positive surrounding and world :D peace out

[@hrtfelt.0o0]

Best self improvement video ever made

[@hispaniaerex8933]

Bro, keeps traking mam i know you are doing well, good luck

[@steph2G947]

Today, I learned that I have to, need to, want to smile more. Not only for people, but for me as well. Thank you for this video.

[@FondsRL]

I love to see people smile so i am happy that smiling at other people works. I sometimes even cry after seeing everyone around me smile

[@gabucho3869]

*Insert Compliment Here*

[@snonmouse6596]

Adding on to the 5th one, letting yourself genuinely laugh. So many times people feel too serious about a lot of things; smile to engage the other person, laugh at semi-funny things to disarm them, and don't take life too serious; laugh at your own goofs!

[@KirstenR0]

That's so usefull , thanks for sharing that :)

[@spirit6075]

How to win friends and influence People 1.encourage other people to talk about them 2.Give them sincere and honest appreciation 3. The best way to win argument is to avoid it 4.Try to see things from the other Person's POV 5. Smile 😊

[@Chillism-Ape]

these videos are so chill i really appreciate the content. keep up the amazing work!

[@mrnoblemonkey8401]

I love just putting on this guys videos and settling in with a cup of tea

[@affuaffu5538]

Well, I would like to say something. I was exactly like this when i was in high school, and surely without any effort every one loved me. The things you get for being kind

[@endercooper2347]

What makes this video great is that it may seem like we are changing ourselves for others but in realists we are opening ourselves to the beauty of human beings and the beauty behind a true conversation.

[@kabei8]

You are awesome! Don't forget that.

[@cyberneticlonewolf_yt8486]

It's not humanely possible to like everyone

[@DoGgYiE]

yeah cause some people are demons , it’s not hard to smile at everyone and be positive and open but some people genuinely are evil or not trustworthy and that’s the only reason ion ever like anyone. idk abt u

[@lofishorts8255]

Yes. We can never come to like people who hurt us deeply. But we try to always move on. ❤

[@ChosenProverb]

Do not be of this world, rather, be of the nature of your Father in Heaven, and strive to be perfect before him just as Jesus would proclaim unto us.

[@user-jc7vv2kb2o]

Yes it is bro

[@littlehorn0063]

true, yeah. Sometimes is it's just not worth it. But that realization usually comes later, after some time

[@topy706]

1. don't look ugly

[@wealthythealthy]

Haha i wanted to comment this 😂

[@crash-view]

I’m cooked

[@saposabio03]

the true uglyness lies beyond the phisical, even a person with a croocked tooth, black eye and missing a ear will look bealtiful with good toughs

[@topy706]

@@saposabio03 gigacope9000

[@faye7199]

The most likeable guy in our year isn’t handsome but he is so charming and full of charisma, while also being really bright and funny. I like him a lot but despite being a pretty person, i mess up, and either dont get a joke or don’t respond in a way that makes him want to be friends with me. Id say im one of the least popular in my year.

[@PRAYINGMANTIS.]

i'm super glad that i adapted the argument point a year ago. it changes your life literally, you just feel wayyy wayy better when you back off from an argument that you know goes nowhere

[@caroa.l.2182]

Same, i would always fight with my mom at dinner but now I just say 'okay we have different opinions' and move on. Dinner is so much nicer now

[@blueberryy5911]

I want to give everyone watching this right now a massive hug and tell them that everything will be ok and you will find your people and become the person they want to be

[@crusader_gaming8273]

Don’t talk about you’re bionicle collection if they aren’t interested

[@TsukiEdits106]

Silver play button soon ❤ bro you grown damn fast keep up the good work much appreciated ❤

[@dillydonk753]

your profile picture is stupidly cute! I love it!! 😆

[@TsukiEdits106]

@@dillydonk753 xd… 😁😆

[@EarCandyAsmr]

principle 3 is not only great for your own peace and making people like you- but it’s very attractive when I see someone can diffuse a situation instead of feeling like they have to be right or get the last word in. I love when myself and other would rather put our pride to the side than prove a point because deep down everyone knows who was “right” anyways.

[@therealmacaron]

I just found this channel, and I already know I would like to watch more of this. Your style of content creation is extremely unique. Keep up the great work!

[@VEIN_YT.]

Bro woke up and decided to make the best video of the year ✔️❤️✨

[@khushpalsinghchouhan9th708]

True 👍

[@phurbutsering4485]

I have adapted in life in such a way that I somewhat know how to make people like me. But after making everyone like me I realised I wasn't ever able to make actual close friends or people climbed over my head and took advantage of me so you should be careful of that. I would recommend you to have enough self satisfaction that you wouldn't need many people to like you. I of course would not recommend everyone hating or not liking you also, it's hella lonely.

[@devpratapsinghyadav8966]

Same boy

[@mrmisty_i]

Same

[@wassimhaddada765]

i rater be lonely then having friends that make you fell lonely

[@liliac3895]

So true,your kindness at times is taken for granted. At the end of the day,you feel so lonely.. Like you gave your energy to them and when it's not reciprocated the same ,it hurts.

[@mrmisty_i]

@@liliac3895 Yeah like you go through everything to try and please everyone ask them how their days are going when you really want someone to ask you that. The loudest person in the room is usually the one who needs help the most

[@cameronbelden6456]

I'm just getting out of a very abusive relationship. I've lost almost all of the people in my old social circle and I'm trying to reach out again and meet new people to get my mind off her. This video is helpful, thank you so much.

[@McDuckles-bx4gf]

I hope ur successful :)

[@TheRealAkechiGoro]

Ive been known as a quite person for a while. When I watched this video a week ago, I was feeling motivated to make more conversations. I started talking more to people and more and more people started taling to me. All these principles helped me through my shyness. To anyone reading this, dont build a wall of aloofness, don't overthink, don't be selfish, don't be rude. Act like a human being.

[@muyundatesla244]

Why does it feel like I just arrived on earth 🌎

[@_simone_isaline_3188]

Boywithuke posted this on his story thats why im here 😂❤

[@CRACKOOO]

Lmao😂

[@Marleto123]

same

[@Heyzull]

same lol

[@user-zg9tl2dv8z]

Me too

[@cajoreturnz8351]

Your videos are so asthetically pleasing, it's insane

[@user-dm4ss9iz3d]

I was boredly scrolling down youtube in hope to find something interesting and this video is truly one of a kind.

[@thatmemeboy]

Ive started reading a book and started developing a systemic schedule

[@hanzoo7943]

W

[@dwacheopus]

Keep going mate

[@thatmemeboy]

@@hanzoo7943 thanks

[@thatmemeboy]

@@dwacheopus thanks mate

[@AAirMolten]

ohhh , nicceee , what book are you reading?

[@LazyAbpreZed]

This video isn't about "How to make people like you" but it is about how to be a better person in general. 😄

[@marektop5676]

On point

[@Yusan754]

Man I just discovered your channel through this video because it popped randomly in my recommendations and you did an amazing work ! I'm already applying these points in my life but it's great that you're spreading so good advices 🙂 just looking at the titles of your others videos makes me want to binge your channel like, every single video title is one of my major issues that I want to fix (how to stop scrolling, working without motivation etc). Keep up the good work 🔥

[@Caroline-mg5lj]

There is this one girl in my class that just makes my day better when I’m around her. She has a sweet smile, always helps others out, makes amazing grades but never brags, and somehow makes me feel really comfortable and heard when I talk to her. She has this way of intently listening to whatever you are saying, and stating a helpful opinion or giving advice. She just has this way with people and as someone with social anxiety it makes me kinda jealous 😭

[@Ewwwwwwwwppl]

You can't breathe while you're smiling There is no such thing as this I just wanted you to smile

[@Praise--]

you failed miserably my friend

[@Lakshaymehta01]

Well, I can breathe while smiling

[@IncognitooCEO]

W comment

[@_jojo_815]

the end of the comment made me smile thanks bro

[@E.N77]

Thanks ❤

[@mismisimognomo101]

It kind of bother me how some people need these tips, this is basically being a decent and grounded being. Understanding that you're clearly not the main guy in the story and obviously no one is, while trying to make it in a world were most of the people you will encounter actually behave like they are. Growing up without love, without incentives to actually like to learn and good rolemodels can really ruin a life. We're all just passing by, only one life. Being caring, loving and treating others how you want to be treated is amazing. Weaponized ego is huge in our days, and it used to hurt me a lot how specially men let their ego ruin their lives, instead of sharing their feelings, their fears and asking for a hand.

[@nanbanxd]

You are right..

[@pilotman4438]

I'm the main guy and all bad things happen to me

[@raptorjesus9054]

But wouldn't you agree that it's ultimately a good thing for these kinds of people to seek improvement? It's unfortunate that it isn't the standard, but so is most things in life tbh

[@user-po4wt4kq2n]

You are really an inspirational person. You are able to balance a job in the army and upload such consistent and high quality videos,your time management is amazing.

[@redemption14]

Sh*t is genuinely life changing bruh I love you bro 😭🙏

[@mcqq1]

i dont know. if those principles should make people like me, then i dont want to be liked personally i hate compliments, they are just words. it feels like a cheap method to get other person's attention and not arguing with people?? we cant avoid an argument completely, that will make us be dominated in every field and forcing a smile... if i am not feeling like it i am not going to force it. that would be completely against my true feelings... i would prefer to look for things that make me sad and fight the sadness in that way, not by ignoring my sadness but i completely agree with seeing things from other perspectives. we shall look at the world more broadly. that is part of my philosophy

[@tiranito2834]

Completely agreed with this comment tbh. First time in this comment section that I have nothing to argue against, ironically. Like, it is so obvious that the summary of this video is "to make people like you, just avoid confrontation", literally, just put up a facade, feliz falsedad, and that's it, no problems whatsoever, you'll be the most popular guy in town. Whenever someone needs a person to step all over, that is... Falsely complimenting people, being all smiles and never saying what you truly think for the sake of avoiding arguments and simply telling other people that they are correct in every single instance is something that I find completely despicable. Not only will it lead to false, shallow friends, but it also is counter productive from the point of view of wanting to achieve some kind of meaningful connection or literally any progress in any aspect of life. If you are convinced that someone is wrong and are bound to f- themselves over, then why should I just nod and smile as if nothing was wrong? That's not what a real friend does. I'd rather be alone tbh. Not to mention, imagine if everyone just falsely agreed with everyone else and never tried to argue anything. Where would humanity be? Why has human progress stagnated so much outside of highly specialized fields? Because most people are fucking mediocre and simply try to avoid confrontation, that's why. That confrontation being any form of hardship, including any argument, debate or even just plain learning. But I guess making false friends matters more than becoming a real person. And, as you said, literally the only point that I can agree with is trying to see things from others' point of view. In my line of work tho, that is mostly to try to understand just how they came up with such an incredibly stupid and absolutely deranged idea.

[@lili-jin130]

@@tiranito2834I agree with you. Last year I read this book and tested it out. To be honest, it worked well. I made several new friends and know more people. As time went by, I grew closer to one of the friends I met using these principles. But later I realized this relationship was start/ based on “me being a listener”. So she is used to tell me everything that happened to her, yet she wouldn’t respond to me the same way I did. Though the effect of these principles can vary from person to person, and I might have much more to learn regarding human relationships, I still think there are high chances that you make fake connections rather than genuine ones .

[@Lakshaymehta01]

Liking without even watching. Yeah!✨

[@Abdullah.Sikder]

His vids are awesome I did the same too

[@midozgaming7579]

Another important advice is to maintain eye contact while talking to someone, and to put more focus into your body language and facial expressions, they mean a lot

[@Shattered_shards]

I was subscribed when you had 38k, now I’m so glad you have 100k! I’ll always support you, thank you so much for your life changing videos!

[@omarak6399]

I don't think this is something you learn from the internet

[@redrox3312]

You have to be open to new learning opportunities regardless of where they come from

[@dream.seller9019]

Five principles to make other people like us- ☘️Encourage other people to talk about themselves ☘️Give sincere and honest reaction ☘️The best way to win an argument is to avoid it ☘️Try honestly to see things from the other persons pov ☘️Smile:)

[@TravelWithZ33]

most underated youtuber ever thank you man i really needed this

[@aryamanchugh8316]

you repeating the same things again and again made me remember them, thank u

[@asuu5379]

why do you have to use 1980 - 2000 anime rfor this video

[@kanesimmill637]

Its good

[@JacobvanlalawmpuiaJacobvanlala]

Idk ,but I love it ❤

[@saurabhlingayat7059]

Any one from India??

[@Bhoomanyu]

Me

[@mopix5]

My g

[@chimken321]

you know now that i think about it i have this one friend that everytime i see him i just start smiling

[@littleminx7666]

From my own experience, i observed that the best connection were formed when i was my authentic self, when my reactions and talking was genuine, when i had good intentions in my heart. Be the energy you want to attract

[@bellan812]

The videos you made are simple and fun. Ez to understand fantastic job mate.

[@dull6919]

Thank you bro this video is golden keep putting in the hardwork!!!STAY STRONG💪

[@krowemoh7341]

Your videos are so good man, I’ve been really struggling to turn my life around but this seems to have really motivated me into actually changing my life. Keep it up dude

[@aaabatteries1118]

I havent subbed to anyone in so long this videos amazing bro I always smile 😁 whenever the times right

[@aimz2899]

This is the bets video ive seen this year so far... I had already read the book but the way you edit and show it is so relaxing. I subscribed immediately :] Your channel is very nice.

[@Izaokas-IgnotasChodakaukas]

You're helping a lot of people with these- keep it up.

[@lamb3977]

This video has really opened my eyes in terms of my relationship I've had for more than two years now. I'm confident to say I'm going to make sure that it'll thrive with these tips, thank you for making this video. And as for a compliment, to anyone out there that might read this comment; you're amazing. Don't let anyone make you think otherwise. You're going to thrive no matter what happens!

[@Earthworm7]

Thank you😊

[@CluelessHadi]

Felt like listening to a close friend. Thank you for this video 🙏

[@DarkKats]

In 6 minutes and a half, bro made me go from feeling like the best person in the world, to understand tjat I can always be a much better person, Thank you

[@papadragon83]

bro woke up and chose love

[@franklei669]

I relate with this very deeply, oftentimes we see ourselves alone and this if because of our ability to make meaningful relationships with others. This video inspired me greatly and i think it is very relevant

[@sonderment]

congrats on 100,000 subs! just subscribed!

[@GeorgeTheDinoGuy]

The best thing you can do is show a genuine interest in people, and realise people are interesting! I have started to learn so much and make so many friends just getting to know random people.

[@sunclat9425]

bro dropped the best advice out there and thought we wouldnt notice

[@Mushroom-Man.]

Your video style is amazing!

[@lucasnahp]

bro, just 8 videos so far, u create uncountable value for people wishing you soon reach 1m subscribers💪

[@xykleogd7180]

As someone who has a lot of interest in meeting other people this is a great way to come off as likable and befriend people, thank you so much

[@bl4nk327]

Man it's been a journey been here since kind of the beginning! Lost of awesome stuff you have made! Congrats on 100k🥳🥳💯

[@batteries8297]

W pfp

[@officialSmiunie_luv2021]

Thank you for making this beautiful and loving video, the algorithm needs more creators like you ❤

[@fireboltntn_4511]

I love your videos they are so uplifting and make me feel so much better about trying to improve myself and be a better person. You are a great person I appreciate what you do.