INFJ, IT'S TIME TO STOP PLAYING NICE

[@Wenzes]

What is the hardest part of choosing "YOUR" energy/path as an INFJ?

[@Wenzes]

@infjmale91sure, always open to suggestions

[@ZetsubouBlack]

it's the fact that I don't know what I want, or nothing excites me long enough to follow through. I feel like I kill a lot of projects because in my head they're all doomed. And they're all doomed, because none of them excite me enough. I like to work, I want to work, but when I try to visualise what the "perfect work" is, I can't picture anything

[@bymysense3861]

Hmm I actually didnt get what to change exactly 🤷‍♀️😂 Is bad that I am fine with how things are right now? I know that from the outer perspective there is nothing actually interesting going on around me, but after a long time I just started to like spend time with me 😊 I was always trying to be interesting, chase others and nothing. So I gave up and I finally surrendered to my interests eventhough they are not SOMETHING in the real word 🤷‍♀️ but I know that according to my potential there is just a little bit going on for that.

[@KCobainFan4Ever]

The hardest part of choosing my path is feeling afraid that I’ll never become someone that accomplishes something I’m proud of, (besides myself as a mother). I’m so afraid that I’ll find out I’m not good at anything fruitful, and that will be one of my worst fears come true. But I’m not trying to put that into the universe. I’m ready to do this work because I can see so much of what you are saying, I can relate to how you used to feel, and yes I’m unfulfilled and unhappy. Another fear of mine is staying in this stagnation I’m currently in. In the end, I’d rather have tried and failed than to die someday, wondering “what if”. So much of my energy does go into my imagination, I can only imagine 😂… what I’ll be able to accomplish if I put that energy into my real life. Taking a new step. ❤ Namaste Wenzes

[@kristyboxx]

To share it with the world. World is full of opinions and once I share whats going on inside me there is a huge level of vulnerability attached to it.

[@braxtonmills1235]

Accepting how dull some other types are. Time to chose our own energy INFJ.

[@luciana1930]

never in my life have I felt what it's like to be bored

[@Bat_Boy]

Choose your pain. I prefer the pain of the occasional loneliness, than the constant pain of toxic, dysfunctional people causing chaos in my life.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Amen 🌸

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Having a high IQ along with INFJ means that finding your “tribe” can be challenging. As long as you enjoy your company, you are never lonely.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

@@Clevelandsteamer324 🌸💯🌸

[@naamanpratt]

✔

[@braxtonmills1235]

You found us ;) ​@@Clevelandsteamer324

[@deborahwolff5651]

I love art and nature. I build my interests around that and it is a great experience

[@suzie_155]

This is so true, once I made peace with my boring life, I really felt better. Loved this video, very informative ❤

[@pablofmfdoc6143]

No problem being alone.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

As an INFJ-A, I agree. Thank you for reaffirming what I intuitively knew as a teen. My adult is taking charge of my teen, letting her know its ok, to step aside from the negativity, of my relatives and live authentically according to how God made me. I will use my planner to plan around work, school, activities that I like to do with or without someone.

[@corporaterobotslave400]

I don't really get bored unless I'm with other ppl. And nothing is ever missing when I'm alone. I'm beginning to think I'm a completely healed empath now. My best friend is God, and He's never boring and nothing is ever missing with Him. He guides me to the proper path (obeying His commandments) and then everything else is so smooth. Peace.

[@eart5657]

I feel exactly the same 😊

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

It scares me tbh how the Ni world of my mind feels so damn real and I can insert these realities unto ppl in my life but what's most scary is when I finally have waken up and realize the dissonance between my Ni world and my Te world. I have to regularly ground myself (engaging in sensory activites) and actively plan activities/goals in my real life. Now I know why having a planner has been so pivotal since grade school - It literally allows me to organize my real world into actionable things and a place to house reminders and thoughts because I lose touch with my reality all the dang on time.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

YES! I used to love using my planners in middle and high schools. I've slacked off

[@_Celine_26]

Oh yes being Te blind can really feel like I left myself in the cold. That's why I love making lists and plan my days especially during luteal, it makes me feel better

[@bethiciaprasek1008]

I do not remember ever being bored. I do get tired or need some alone time.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Needed to return for my daily “get outta my head” message❣️

[@daviddrakey1686]

Serenity Now! I am enjoying the "Blacklist" series. Jesus is Lord!

[@kevinyarusso326]

Not worried about being bored. I enjoy my hobbies and my own company. Don’t need anyone’s energy, they can do their own thing and I have the liberties to do likewise. Sometimes a guy, bores people out of his life.

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

Thanks!

[@kristinehurst8348]

It seems I don’t choose my reality until it hits me in the face and I finally am aware of it .. I always try to please others and it drains me

[@PenelopePitstop0078]

🌸thank you This is my main challenge: “living in my mind.”

[@ggnome7]

Thanks!

[@Scaredycat55]

Very good I understand, Very cool and thank you

[@realizationstation2173]

I am so deeply thankFULL for you, your choice to live by example, and your Divine progress!!! Much LOVE, sis

[@raissaadorno4804]

genius!!! kisses from Brasil!!

[@thewolf5446]

Biggest fan of your channel 👍👏 From Algeria ..

[@lindateuling7862]

I'm finding SE to be easier to connect with - and it's always worth it. However, it still isn't emotionally easy. Right now I have a somewhat stressful thing I need to do fairly soon. It's something I will need to complete next week so I've already started setting things up so that I can do it in the least stressful way possible and already I feel better. i'm helping my extroverted sensing by planning ahead of time, and even having an alternative plan just in case. I may even end up doing it a whole different way, but when I can look SE in the eye and let it know that even if it is my weaker function I am firmly in charge, and it can be done. It's helping me to actually look forward to it 😊!

[@tamastokos1583]

What if it never got any better? I keep repeating this question. And it hurts....

[@braxtonmills1235]

Sounds like a toxic person. Also there is nuerochemistry.

[@DonTrump-sv1si]

I just wish the physical me matched up with the thought of me.

[@richardjohanson612]

Setting boundaries hard to do until your tired of the Cognitive Dissonance it causes... Complex-PTSD from childhood learned behavior patterns from Covert narcissistic family. Blacksheep of family...born an illegitimate child from an adulterous relationship before Roe vs Wade Scapegoated most of my life... ignorantly! Not anymore... took personality test... Infj-AT here... not my choice but Gods. Thank you for completing our personality test! As promised, here are your results: Personality type: Advocate (INFJ-T) Traits: Introverted - 66%, Intuitive - 83%, Feeling - 85%, Judging - 68%, Turbulent - 60% Role: Diplomat Strategy: Constant Improvement

[@lesleyrose6282]

Is that a filter or is that really what the room you’re in looks like? I wish you could get a larger painting so I don’t have to see the white walls lol

[@vivianebuelens9512]

I know why ….. ! 0:44

[@ellarataj6590]

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[@prschuster]

If you have a creative imagination, why not go into art or music and create something in the real world with that? There are a lot of real world opportunities waiting to happen.

[@TheGameSeekers]

I was bored few days ago.😊hehehe Making choices is a great source for growth😊 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 P.S. Thank you pretty eyes.🙇(bowing)