Inner Peace - What I Had To Change at 65

What I had to change to live a more peaceful life! Hello, all my friends and I hope you enjoy this conversation about living a more peaceful life. I touch on a lot of different subjects that pertain to a woman over 60....identity, expectations and purpose. I ask you to perhaps list one or 2 women you most admire. I picked up a book called " 100 Voices" and as I read some of the quotes I was comforted, intrigued, and inspired, so I wanted to share this with you this week.
Thank you all for being there and I hope your weekend will be calm and safe. I love you all to the moon and back....I only wish I could sit down with every one of you and talk...you lift me up and enrich my life beyond words.
Susan & Desi
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Eleanor Roosevelt Quotes
“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
“Do one thing every day that scares you.”
“Do what you feel in your heart to be right - for you’ll be criticized anyway.”
The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams........
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[@mgansworth78]

I just love your videos. 💜⚘ I'm 42 - I've been sober from drinking for almost 1 year now after walking away from a very tumultuous relationship (10 yrs on and off - but I've known him since I was 16 and we had an affair - it wasnt good) I still smoke cigarettes but hopefully quitting soon and finally repairing my relationships with my 2 sons who are 22 & 20 years old. I have those same regrets looking back now like holy shit did I waste my life? But I refuse to keep beating myself up! My sons are so much happier now that I'm home and sober we have fun again. But yes I'm also finding my way - I hope to work on environmental issues this coming year. I love sewing - especially historical clothing- I'm finding so much new joy in my life since leaving the chaos I was sure was love. I agree with just saying what's on your mind and not wait for others to bring it up, if it's on your mind just say it ! We dont have time to waste ! My most inspirational woman in my life is my Gram. My fathers mother, she was so strong, I love her very much. She passed awhile ago but I think of her often - she took care of me when I was lost and made me feel safe. ⚘💜

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Melissa!!! Congratulations for 1 year of sobriety and rebuilding your life! You sound so happy, brave and determined! it is so amazing that when we really put our mind to something....we can do anything...and what seemed so impossible for us to achieve...we do it and never look back. We choose life. Perhaps we need to love and care for ourselves as we do others. Thank you for being here and inspiring all of us!!! Have a good Sunday xxoo Sending love from me and Desi

[@vicki9298]

You just keep going. I too am a life that has been changed. Don't worry about whats behind, we can only change the future. Not the past!!!❤

[@ivoryrichardson4074]

Melissa, you are to be admired! Congratulations on your sobriety! XOXO

[@mgansworth78]

Wow thankyou all for the kind replies ! I don't talk much about myself to people in my life I just keep chugging away but it is nice to hear that it's going to be alright ❤ this channel is wonderful!

[@dianne4474]

You go GIRL!!! Congrats on your sobriety, you are doing it, one day at a time! God Bless

[@theteal123]

I have to say that after my Mother passed away at 92 in January, I realize how strong of a woman that she was. She had massive pain in her knee, most people would have been in a wheel chair, but she went out every day on her walker, barely able to move it with no help from anyone. My Father divorced her when I was in 2nd grade, she was devastated, but she made tons of friends, had parties, went out to work every day and remarried. She was almost deaf in the last 5 years of her life, but she had people over for dinner for good conversation, while she pretended to understand what they said with a smile on her face, so happy to be entertaining. I really admire her strength.

[@zazicool6275]

What a wonderful, courageous woman. Thank you for sharing this with us.

[@theteal123]

@@zazicool6275 Thank you for liking. I miss her so much.

[@susannovak8263]

Your mom sounds like a great woman. Strong women are remarkable women. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sure you miss her very much. 🌷

[@happydeedee2441]

What a strong (and sounds like determined) woman. So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing. Peace friend. 🌷

[@kikit6846]

So Sorry for Your Loss. I Lost mine as well. There is such a Terrible VOID. Your Mom had a Silent Strength, that Carried Her Onward. Peace Be With You Dear One.🌹

[@Heather11268]

It is called putting on the mind of Christ, Cast down the dark thoughts and regrets and chose love, joy. hope and never stop dreaming.

[@ritaking8827]

Amen!

[@meko3089]

That’s not a woman

[@joanellebracht5311]

Amen!

[@vicki9298]

I have had quite a life. But 18 years ago a woman came into my life. She found me reaching out to learn about Christ while I was behind bars. She became my mentor, allowed me to follow her as she followed Him. Her name is Lonnie Cunningham-Turner. She ran A Door of Hope ministry for women. Her faithfulness changed my life forever. I have never gone back to the old life. My family has been restored. My life has been restored. Thank you Ms Lonnie💜

[@debra832]

Hello my name is Debra, I'm trying to find Lonnie Cunningham - Turner I'm unable to find anything Thank you

[@vicki9298]

@@debra832 Ms Lonnie is in her 70s now. Maybe close to 80? I just turned 65! I have been out of prison 19 years the 28th of September. I was thinking about this 2 hours ago!! So, obviously Ms Lonnie is retired. She left Georgia and moved north to be with family years ago. I lost touch. I don't know if she's with Jesus and now I want to attempt to reach out.

[@debra832]

@@vicki9298 did she have a podcast do you know of ? I'm in Massachusetts were are you? I'm 61 if your ever looking to talk I would be happy too. I had the same issue with the alcohol also, I started down the road of going to prison not for a long time but probation violation and I did that two times and I was done.. then I still continued to drink and it really wasn't doing anything for me but keeping me drunk.. now I'm having problems with my knee full of arthritis and being 30 pounds over weight the two Drs. I went to will not perform the knee replacement.. I really hope to hear back from you Debra

[@Melissabella]

I admire every woman who gets up every day and keeps going when everything that can go wrong does go wrong. Women who keep trying. Women who have hope that there's a better day ahead. Much love to you and Desi.

[@vickiecarey5214]

Please realize that you are making a positive difference in the lives of some people thru your videos. Thank you.

[@robinpaella6818]

You've already made a difference, Susan! You saved Little Desi and for him, you are his world. I ADMIRE YOU and thank you for making the world a little better in the contributions you make with your channel.

[@midnightblu3388]

Dear Robin: WHAT a BEAUTIFUL comment to Susan & Desi!! I was thinking the exact same sentiments!! SO thank YOU Dear Susan I admire, adore & respect YOU for being the LOVEly friend to US all & best Human lil sweet Gangsta Desi could EVER have!!🤗😇😗🙏🐶🐕💘 We all LOVE YOU & Desi SO much!! Thank YOU kindly for lovely videos❤💖

[@TamarasTimelessBeauty]

Oh Susan...every week...you encourage, support and inspire my heart. I am so grateful for you. 😘💕❤️

[@vesnaxo9514]

me too ...in so many ways me too 🙏

[@susanhart8495]

Eleanor Roosevelt quote “We must do the things we think we cannot do.” It is a quote I try hard to live by. She was amazing.

[@wendyeroche343]

I admire Ruth from the Bible..she was an amazing woman 😍

[@nancygerbutavich1305]

Hands down my grandmother meant the world to me! I was lucky to have her live right across the street! She had 10 children; 9 were girls...can you imagine!!! and 1 boy! And she worked full time on her feet all day in a chocolate factory! She made every dinner from scratch, she was no nonsense, but had a great devilish sense of humor! I miss her so much she was awesome!!!! The real deal💕

[@shaunaclapham9763]

I'm an animal nurse of 18 plus years. I'm at most peace when I'm with animals. Thank you for your kindness for animals. You made this 53 year old extremely happy. You are an inspiration to me. Thank you friend.

[@nikipoulikakos4319]

Expectations, it’s a big one. We raised our two sons and now they have their own life. They don’t call or see us as often as we expect or like them to. Or, we visit them and we at times are invisible to them, we expect so much and get so little. It’s better to change and live without expectations so we don’t constantly get disappointed. We have more time on our hands, we need to fill our own lives and stop resenting others for not being the way we would like them.

[@GRITSonthebeach]

It is difficult to lower or completely eliminate the expectations I have for my children (adult). They are, after all, a product of us. Does it mean we failed because they don't care enough to be a part of our life. Or, did we succeed because they are now so very independent.

[@JayneNicoletti]

Working with animal rescue doing home visits were the best years of my life. Thank you for helping the animals.

[@zenpeace8547]

Absolutely! Animal rescue is so important!

[@louisemwaura7348]

Susan you are someone great.you have accomplished something great.its never to later to make a difference.because off your video today i have more inner place.im reminded off a quote i hear a war veteran said.If he had never been wounded!He would never know God could heal.the scars are evidence off his healing.dear Susan i believe Our wrinkles are evidence off God Peace. I've taken in some deep breath and i agree it's thearpy.keep making a difference.

[@deedee212]

Thank you Susan, I know how important it is for women to help others! We need to spread more Kindness. Eleanor Roosevelt's quote "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Has always been my favorite quote of all time! I wish for you more happy moments in your every day life!!!!!!!!! God Bless!!!!!!!!!

[@SRAshley100]

I honestly have to say after reading Corrie Ten Booms book and how she survived the Holocaust she would be my most admired woman.

[@gailbreen279]

You’ve inspired me to read about her Thanks Sheila

[@SRAshley100]

@@gailbreen279 you are welcome and I hope you enjoy and find as much inspiration in it as I did.

[@judithyealy5948]

Corrie ten Boom has impacted my life too. The book and movie about her is called "The Hiding Place". She also wrote about her life growing up, "In My Father's House". Throughout our lives, we go through many seasons/changes. Having a faith in Jesus has carried me through . He has carried me through, actually. I'm now 76 and have been over many bumps in the road, twists and turns I never expected!

[@shewhispers45]

I read Corrie’s story along with Anne Frank’s Diary so many years ago . Each story has stayed with me all of these years. Whenever I feel sorry for myself or I’m feeling that life is so hard at the time I remember Corrie’s story and what she went through and I realize how my struggles are very minor. She is also one of my most admired women.

[@SRAshley100]

@@shewhispers45 yes I read both, too! I feel the same!

[@cherylcoyote]

You've made life better, calmer, richer for everyone who stumbles on your videos and comes to love you, my wise, articulate friend.

[@LittlePoet]

I have gin....lets play again! Love you!

[@barbseibert8303]

You make a big difference in many lives.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Barb, you melt my heart. Thank you so much. Susan & Desi

[@oliviaholland6970]

Such a beautiful message. I am always moved by your introspection on what is going on in your life. I lost my only child, my beautiful son 11 years ago this Christmas. I realize that his memory and mine will be gone as time goes on. But we were here and we loved and were loved by others. What more is there! I love my rescue cats, my friends, my family and enjoy the small things in life. As I sit on my deck and look at the lake I count my many blessings. I am recovering from Covid19 after spending time in the hospital. I so admire the many first responders who took care of me. So many brave young women who put my health and needs first. Life is good.

[@dianne4474]

God bless Olivia. Continued good recovery and good health. Sorry about your son. 😢

[@peggygenoway]

I have grown so fond of your channel. I "feel" when I watch your videos. Even Desi is emotional...very sensitive doggie...it's in the eyes.

[@mtherese13]

Me, too. I can’t wait for each week’s post, & even though I’m a stranger, it feels like having the new best friend you always wanted, the counselor who is “one of us” & doesn’t judge, the sister who puts on a smile when you know she’s crying inside....& then lets you see the tears. My muse. A mentor. A nice shining twinkle light

[@carolynb1413]

A woman I admire would be Rosa Parks.....the strength it must have taken to do what she did is inspiring.

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

So true

[@ruz7951]

9 months before rosa parks was Claudette Colvin, but because she was an unmarried pregnant teen the NAACP didnt want to use her as their example so they staged their secretary of the NAACP, Rosa Parks, to do what Claudette had done. I dont know how much of a hero Parks was, but Claudette is a true little known civil rights hero.

[@carolynb1413]

@@ruz7951 Wow......I never knew. ........How horrible that I didn’t know and that she had to do that 🙁

[@marypeterson5289]

You already make a difference Susan. Look how happy & loved Desi is. You also are so inspirational to myself & many others. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Big Hugs❤️

[@StephanieJoRountree]

Wow! I didn't know Eleanor's mother was so cruel. The photo of young Eleanor was beautiful - she was NOT ugly at all~! Very thoughtful video, Sues. Thank you for sharing. Actually ER is one of my inspirations!

[@happydeedee2441]

I agree. ER was (in my opinion) so beautiful. Not in a "make-up" kind of way...just a naturally beautiful girl. BTW, I saw that same documentary on PBS, Mrs. Roosevelt over came a lot, ie, postpartum depression, her husband's infidelity, death of a child...Such a strong woman.

[@vicki9298]

I was thinking of the same thing. Isn't it amazing how what we perceive as beauty changes?? I think she was gorgeous. Beauty...what are you??

[@deborahtallent330]

Thanks, Susan! I really needed that. I have just turned 62, and in today's world, we are ancient. Thanks for making me remember that I do have value, and I can still live my dreams. I have been in remission from cancer for 5 years now. I am so thankful for life. The flowers seem a little prettier and the grass a little greener. I want to tell those people who are struggling and feel alone. God is with you and he will bring you through whatever it is you are facing. Tell Desi hi. I can't wait to share a pic of my little Pnut with you. They look a lot alike. Have a great day, and God Bless.

[@marthamorris9596]

On Darling, Don't you know you make a tremendous difference in all our lives? You absolutely do!! We all love you!

[@TheCori01]

My grandmother was my role model. She lived through the depression and had a very difficult life. She taught me strength, courage and what it feels like to be loved. Thank you for your inspirational videos! You and Desi are a blessing!

[@hazelscohfield6258]

My Grandmother too; I am 69yrs old and there is not a day goes by that I don't think of her and her love for me. She lost her own mother not long after she was born and was brought up by a stepmother whom only loved her own sons. My grandmother had to go and clean out grates for the the rich people in the big house; before she went to school. She was aged 7yrs, yet she was the most kind loving person I have ever known. God bless

[@ruth_gordon]

My grandma was my role model as well. I wish I could hear about your -- and Hazel's --grandmothers!

[@ruth_gordon]

@@hazelscohfield6258 This is so touching! I wish there was a way to hear more of her story.

[@ladykokob9149]

The woman who I greatly admire is the Australian doctor Catherine Hamlin who dedicated her life to help young African women damaged by traumatic birth. Dr Hamlin operated on them and fixed them up so their urinary and bowel system did not just leak and those women were rejected by their community and lived a shocking life. Catherine died this year at 93 but she left a wonderful foundation that runs 6 fistula hospitals for women in Ethiopia.

[@littlemom2070]

I have heard about this lady. Thanks for reminding me of her remarkable work.

[@mareeschollum2986]

I agree. Such a blessing to all women who no longer had to endure the discomfort and embarrassment.

[@deniseheitz9208]

As women, I wish we would embrace the age we are. I am 64, and loving it. I have more courage now than in my 20's or 30's. I am not afraid to try new things, I am not afraid to rid myself of people who bring no joy or happiness. I devoted the first years of my adulthood to my husband, daughters, and my career. I wouldn't change a thing, I love my family. Now, it's time for me to get wings and fly. I'm taking piano lessons, learning a new language. I volunteer at a Senior Center and an animal shelter. The possibilities are endless! I exercise and eat as healthy as possible. Yes, there are a few wrinkles and some things are heading "south" faster than I'd like. I believe happiness and joy are a "choice". Every day I make the decision to be happy. My life is not all unicorns and rainbows, some days it's a stretch to find anything. I keep a "Journal of Joy". A few weeks ago, my entry was"I had a good hair day". LOL The women I admire are women who paved the way for the rest of us. Showed that anything is possible. The only barrier is a failure to dream big! I tell my daughters.... the only people who fail in life, are people who fail to try! Thank you for your channel, I enjoy it so much.

[@kathysanders4358]

I’m a reader so I would love your “book club” on women or for women! Also I love this video. My son told me many years ago my expectations are to large. He said stop thinking all these things are going to be and when their not you get sad or mad. I’ve had to deal with this for years. I do get hurt when things don’t go as a thought they would. This video hit me also talking about regrets. Wow is that me! Thank you for being you!!

[@juanitaice3125]

I love the idea of a book club. Peace and love to you and Desi.

[@jeanneewaseck6635]

Yes, I would love such a woman's biography book club online!

[@amystroomer6166]

Me too!

[@robynross255]

Great idea!

[@Natalia.B.Gallazzi]

God sent! I’m very down today, you’re lifting my spirits ♥️ thank you 😊

[@suziet1925]

Regrets ... such a heavy weight to carry. I'm still learning how to let them go. I haven't got there yet. Thank you for another thoughtful video Susan.

[@jacques3893]

You make a difference to all of us. Thank you

[@lmccauley7319]

@@donnahazlett6676 God Bless You Donna, that really spoke to me today. :) Thank you.

[@donnahazlett6676]

@@lmccauley7319 You're welcome. God is so awesome. Remember Jeremiah 32:27. Nothing is too difficult for God. And Luke 1:37.🙏🏻🌞🌹

[@lmccauley7319]

@@donnahazlett6676 Amen. :)

[@sabine3769]

Me too big ones..

[@thriftytowers7160]

You've made me cry - in a good way! My faith is weak and my self-belief has gone down the toilet. I was 58 this past saturday and spent the whole weekend alone, partly due to lockdown, but also partly due to being single, partly due to having no children, and partly due to the recent death of the last of my 3 cats. It's a tough time for me. So thank you for your encouraging words and I will watch this vid again. gillian

[@VintageView]

Thank you, Susan! You and Desi are truly gamechangers in my life. Don’t let anything stop you in your goals and you will help us change the world for the treatment of animals. We love you both! 💕

[@lightbearer3643]

What a great video thank you for your inspiration of empowering women. 🙏😇 So beautiful. The woman I admire is you little Poet. For you have been courageous to face all your difficulties & move us all through it. You have helped all of us become the change we want to see. To love ourselves & be the best we can be. You give comfort, grace & balance in chaotic times. You are truly someone special Little Poet. Thankyou for being you & making our lives better 💖🙏😇💐

[@CupCaked]

I agree. Our Little Poet is very special indeed❤️

[@MultiArabian]

I agree!!!!!!!!

[@dinahsoar6982]

"New dreams for sale". I saw that one day and realized that all the dreams I'd had, that would never come to pass, could be replaced with new dreams. And in that moment I gained strength and peace b/c I quit looking back and had something to look forward to. btw: you are so artistically talented as well as wise. I can see both in your videos. They are impressive, each is a work of art, and you are the artist that brings them to the screen and to all of our lives. Thank-you!

[@denisadellinger]

i love that! New dreams for sale. The day we quit dreaming is the day we start to die.

[@magnoliab928]

So happy to hear you are thinking of volunteering for animal causes. The voiceless innocents need caring humans to speak for them against cruelty, neglect. All rescue groups and shelters need volunteers so very badly. Dog walkers, brushing cats fur, cleaning cat boxes, playing with the animals, and just Love being shown to them perhaps for the first time in their lives. 💕

[@susancrowshaw9878]

Hi Susan, very uplifting video as always. I admire a dear friend of mine who at 83 had the courage to emigrate from England to Australia to live with the son she had to give up for adoption 59 years earlier. She was widowed and had no other children here and he really wanted her to be with him. I thought she was so brave and almost two years on she is very happy. We never know how our life can change. Xxx

[@mariad7915]

Currently, I have strong admiration for Heidi St.John and Candace Owens. For a person of the past, Queen Esther. I went and found an image of the first quote and pinned it; it's a great reminder especially after a divorce, at least for me. I just turned 50 and I get the identity issue. I have remind myself some days more than others that mine is found in Christ and that is what matters. ~Hugs

[@mtherese13]

Candace Owens is one of my heroes - what incredible courage she has, each & every day. Mind blowing

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[@cherieallen9508]

@@mariad7915 if you.only knew.i won't burst your bubble today.😔

[@mariad7915]

@@cherieallen9508 Would you please expand? I'm lost on how you would burst my bubble and what I don't know.

[@cherieallen9508]

@@mariad7915 maria..remember what the Good Lord said..don't put your faith in man.. I saw a video about a year and a half ago..and all.i can say here is mother Teresa was born a man..and was called Father Terry. .isaw a photo of the young man and it did look like " her". She was trafficking young children for the Queen..and what better way then to disguise oneself as a kindly ol woman helping the children.people did make comments on this video and said they can verify.that they knew Father Terry..and believed the story was true.other than what I saw and heard I cannot say it's 💯accurate. (SCOTTY MAR10) MAY HAVE SHOWN IT..WISH I.COULD REMEMBER BUT MOST NOT ALL OF THESE VIDEOS HAVE BEEN BANNED BY YOU KNOW WHO. ( SCREW TUBE)🤨I only trust Jesus now..not man..better that way.🙏❤

[@brandyberry2414]

An inspirational woman for me is Ruth, from the Bible.

[@heatheradamson2280]

I admire YOU Susan.

[@LittlePoet]

I just love you Heather....and I admire you!! What a kind heart you have! xxoo Susan & Desi

[@vessyioannou259]

Susan your apartment looks like million euros in Greece. Your hair and you are beautiful. People that can't sit still live very long.

[@nurserobbi781]

Hi Susan...other than my mom, I have 2.. I am a nurse and the more I learn about Florence Nightengale the more I admire her. They never taught us in public school she developed the pie chart...she figured out, not a man while in the Crimea that soldiers needed a balanced diet to survive as more died of malnutrition than war wounds. The second woman is Juliette Low the founder of Girl S counts. She was partially death from childhood then unknown to her a piece of rice lodged in her good ear causing terrible infections and ultimately she had worse deafness in that ear but she still started and supported this great organization for girls. She was an iron and other metals artist. She came from a rich family in Georgia, she didn't need to donate her last years to children but she did till her untimely death from breast cancer. Those are mine...Robbi from Minneapolis

[@irenetovar7756]

First and foremost, Jackie Kennedy, such a classy lady, Second, Princess Diana, classy, humble, caring, and Third, Melania Trump, the way she carried herself during this trying time for her and our President. Please don't say anything ugly, these are the women I respect. Thank you.

[@dreamscape405]

Those are wonderful choices! Agreed!!

[@boundless1219]

I agree with your choices.

[@dorawedlock3969]

I remember Jackie, she was like a queen! I admire most my mom. She would have done anything for her family. Her only aspiration I always thought was to be a homemaker. I wonder what unspoken dreams she had? She also lived through the depression, rationing, wars, caring for my handicapped twin for 25 years and still was optomistic about the next day.

[@janedelaney4327]

Irene Tovar Jacqueline Kennedy was truly magnificent. Her story is worth reading. She saved Grand Central Station and truly shored up the White House with antiques and mementos of many past presidents and did this with her own campaign for donations.....She was very educated, had a wonderful, respectable accomplished career (before and after her two husbands), and could (honestly) speak 3 or more languages fluently.

[@MultiArabian]

U r spot on with these women!!

[@dixiesmith56]

I so appreciate your willingness to share your inner feelings. You are so authentic. Keep being a voice for all of us.

[@dloveofgod8269]

Good talk Susan, hello to you and Desi. Yes, those expectations & unrealistic expectations can take us down a negative winding road. Being hopeful is a positive thing. When those negative thoughts come to mind we have to stop them by replacing them. We can control what thoughts stay & we give more time to. Even if you have to sing to stop a thought 😀. Seriously our brains can't do both. We practice replacing those thoughts by having a gate keeper as they creep in. Concentrating on our breathing helps to relax us as we slowly exhale, it can actually slow our heart rate. There are generations of wonderful women who have come before us. I wonder how many prayed for their family's descendants? There are amazing women & men too that came before us, paving the way & inspiring us. We are so fortunate to be in a country with freedoms not only of speech but action. Yes, helping animals is a loving kindness whether supporting rescues, rescuing or advocacy. I admire Mother Teresa, my mother, grandmothers and women in my family all passed away but not forgotten. 💕 Have a blessed week.

[@pammartin9876]

I admire my 39 year old daughter for her strength, wisdom, her understanding and her fight, in going through in vitro several times, having to endure pills, patches, injections to become pregnant and be a mommy herself, something that we take for granted getting pregnant but for her was a heart wrenching journey. As her mom helping her through this, other people have absolutely no idea what she put herself through. She delivered a beautiful baby girl 5 years ago and I still get emotional. Her sacrifice, strength and determination is endless. I as her mother admire, and respect her, she taught me a lot

[@gitanaxu11]

Susan so happy you are helping animals, I am a animal lover too and work with animals and I am also a crisis counselor for victims of sexual assault and domestic violence. Plus I am a reseller to help my family and also to help a shelter for the homeless. I will be 60 on the 15th and am doing what brings a smile to my heart.

[@sandraelaine401]

Jane Goodall comes to mind. She passed on the ordinary life to live among and study chimpanzees. For 60 years. What an amazing life she has led. And all the precious animals who loved her and know her. I wonder and hope she goes back to visit them. I'd love to read biographies and share with a group of ladies. Your videos inspire me.

[@pattykarr3878]

I admire you and the life you have made for yourself. I am 81 retired from 51 years of nursing where I so loved my work and now I am a little lost. I look forward to seeing you each week. Thank you

[@jodywatson6673]

“In youth, it was a way I had, To do my best to please. And change, with every passing lad To suit his theories. But now I know the things I know And do the things I do, And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you.” ~Dorothy Parker (Love her!)

[@cindy_lou_loves_to_stitch]

What a very beautiful, inspiring message!! 💗🌞🦋

[@christinasmyth5674]

My goodness Susan this is weird, I have 4 grown up kids and my eldest who lives in New York ( I am from Dublin) has hardly lifted the phone to speak to me in the past few years never mind call me on my birthday! I am the person who keeps the contact going but whenever I call he is either with a date or is otherwise busy . It’s very hurtful but a lot of what you have said today makes an awful lot of sense . I will strive to be that better person 👍

[@cametientaucoeur]

“You have to accept whatever comes, and the only important thing is that you meet it with courage and the best that you have to give. “ Eleanor Roosevelt I try to abide by this sentiment, as I deal with my husband’s terminal condition. Grief is difficult in any loss, including divorce. Jeanne

[@susanziegler2798]

I remember Helen Keller, and her wonderful teacher Annie. Helen was born deaf and blind. And through this amazing teacher Annie, she became a speaker for the blind an author and an accomplished woman!

[@paulasannen3627]

Me again....another woman who is special to me is Beatrix Potter Living in the UK....she followed her dream, drawing, painting, writing and creating beautiful books for children.... and what i like so mutch about her was, when her succes was growing, she bought a lot of land for poor farmers, so give them a chance for a beter live TOO!!! Many blessing to You and sweet Desi.....💕🤗 PS, sorry my writinģ isn t perfect, as i live in Belgium (Europe)Dutch language

[@joeyriddle]

You are making a difference in people’s lives, and that has to give you a beautiful sense of fulfillment 💜

[@sharon5781]

Susan, YOU make a difference in my life every week w/ your amazing videos. I love your words of wisdom.🥰

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you Sharon so much...you are so kind.

[@alisonnicholson8060]

Warm reminder today for gratitude. My basement apartment does not have a view, but my cat and I are home and warm and safe and its the best place to be.

[@prudencecampbell3075]

So entertaining, when I listen to your words of wisdom, I remember my mom that was sick for so many years. That was all my life, Then she lost her legs and yet she was so cheerful. She was still kind and thoughtful, loving and understanding and helped me to reach my goals. She wasn’t a burden to anyone, until she died. I loved her spirit. And I love your spirit, somehow you manage to help us smile through our sad day. Love you and desi little poet, you made my day. I’m buying that book, saw it on amazon.

[@deborahthomes3383]

Bless u prudence

[@sheilaenglish3293]

“Who am I ? Who was I? Who do I want to be?” Worth some time thinking about. Even at this age we need to think of the future and how we want to be in it. Thanks for suggesting this.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here....all I have are questions and now at this age, I don't want ot rush the answers! Love to you from me and Desi

[@judyfaul9186]

My favorite Eleanor quote," No one can make you feel inferior without your consent"......I also admired Ruth Bell Graham.

[@susannovak8263]

My mom, who died in 2012, is someone I admire. She was a professional softball player in the All American Girls Professional Baseball League and trained with Babe Zaharias for the 1942 U.S. Olympics track and field team (which was canceled due to World War II). I miss her, like most of us who have lost our mothers. And I greatly admire my cousin Kim, who had such a marvelous career. When she was young, she was much stronger than she realized. She had spunk, enough that she insisted on keeping our last name when she was told that she needed to change it. In the 1950s, young actresses were not allowed to have their own opinions. She is still a resilient, fascinating woman who has spent a lot of time discovering who she is. 🌷

[@terrifromm5085]

I really admire Eleanor Roosevelt too. She was remarkable and a great First Lady.

[@mtherese13]

Did you not yet realize that you are making a measurable difference in the lives of your varied subscribers? You have lifted me up! 🥰 I want to challenge you to think about the invisible women who make a difference by caring for their families, friends (like you visiting Bill, making a difference in his last days). Some of the biggest difference makers (heroes) are unnoticed by many: the steady mother of Laura Ingalls Wilder, for example. The mother of St. Bernadette, in her extreme poverty, but believing in her daughter’s truth. I used to dream about making a visible difference, being noticed publicly as a change agent; now I focus on living a life unencumbered by the admiration & respect of others. Quiet, peaceful, sweet life. Sweet sweet life! Thanks for this thought provoking video. 🦋🍂🍀

[@elizabethmaloneorlando217]

I forget to say that this video moved me to tears. I want to acquire the book, 100 voices so that I can read it with my daughter. I would also love to be in a book club, that's a great idea. 🌹

[@stellatranchina9351]

Every now and then we all feel lost and wonder about ourselves, but we must remember that we are all a child of God and he loves us and we are all here in this world for a reason. We might question what it is, but we are all put here for a reason.

[@BethCrafts]

Most admired woman ... My mother! Confined to a wheelchair from polio shortly after giving birth to her first child, she gave birth to seven more children. Never to walk again, never to dance again .... what an amazing woman. I miss her and ashamed I didn’t tell her enough times how AMAZING she was.

[@lmccauley7319]

I understand and can relate...my mom was also in a wheelchair with MS, she is gone too. I think your mom knew you loved her and our mothers will always love us no matter what. :)

[@susann.1618]

Elizabeth Bowes Lyon, the Queen Mother; Queen Elizabeth II 's mother. She saved the monarchy after Edward VIII's abdication and refused to leave London at the the start of WWII. I wrote a paper on her for an organizational leadership course in my MBA program a few years ago. Watch The King's Speech, which also shows another amazing aspect of this woman. Now I'm off to the thrift store to look for and buy that book.

[@Shellbee55]

This video is so powerful, emotional and inspiring. My identity got lost in being a young mother that's what I knew from 19 and 22 then you realize when they go to College, get married you forgot about you along the way. And through divorce are alone. Identity and loop thoughts of "what if" replay over and over. Living in the past memories of raising my kids was my joy and I still live in that. You're so right they move on, I'm still in the past. This needs to change. I have a few more years then I'll be 60... it's time to figure this out. Thank you for always putting things in such a poinant way. 😭❤️🥰

[@leighhiggins9643]

Eleanor Roosevelt is someone I’ve admired for many years. She was phenomenal and did so much good for our world.

[@marciamellow1211]

I have just found interpeace,resently. What I have discovered is I have to be loyal to myself, before anything can be peaceful, in me or around me...things and thought come so naturally and peacefully, it is so amazing to live in peace, life takes on completely new meaning. It is comming up on 1 yr, since my Husband passed, this is when this peace within me has happened... hoping all can find peace in their life...❤

[@suzanne296]

I actually look forward to saturdays! Cause of your channel. Keep it up. And bless you and desi.

[@susan5301]

My Mom was my hero..... What she went threw in life, no one should have to endure what she did. She has been gone now 23 years and I still miss her all of the time. She was the strongest person I have ever known...........

[@kathymitchell8666]

Susan B. Anthony for giving us a voice. Also, Ruth Bader Ginsberg. She was a pistol! I’m still amazed at how women have been oppressed simply for being women. As it is in all prejudices, there is no real basis to it. These two women certainly come to my mind. There are so many to choose from. Thanks to all of them!

[@latherandlace]

Joseph Campbell was remarkable. That quote is so very true. Glad to see your post!!!! ❤️ Maya Angelou!

[@krazedvintagemodel]

This is so ironic, the fact that I have recently become interested in the fascinating life of Eleanor Roosevelt. We as women become wise as an indirect result of our accumulating years and experiences, and learning how to find personal peace from others. I am glad I found your channel.

[@zenpeace8547]

Animals rights are so important! Thank you for bringing that to your life and sharing! I have learned that regrets, what I call "should have, could have, would have" are so damaging and hurtful to our souls. We cannot change the past...we can only learn from it. @When we know better...we do better..be kind to yourself! Keep breathing! Namaste'

[@lynndubai4984]

Our greatest gift to ourself is to help someone else

[@prestagraber1145]

I haven’t yet finished watching this because I am working, but I have to say just watching the opening made me feel so much more at peace. You are a true blessing, Susan!

[@deannalynnkennedy754]

This was lovely. You find the best books! Thanks for sharing your wise advice and these lovely quotes. I’m feeling peaceful watching this.

[@melindapierce8234]

I so admire Eleanor Roosevelt! I have often thought that if I could meet one woman in history, it would be her. She had such a big heart and was so dedicated in helping others! 😊

[@karenlowes7802]

Princess Diana! Beautiful in so many ways.❤

[@bethlamont3973]

You're making a difference in our lives. I look forward everyday to you videos.

[@dianepate9041]

Thank you so much for this beautiful tribute to calmness, self worth , love of ourselves. May God bless you and each of us in this journey of change.

[@LittlePoet]

You are so welcome and thank you Diane for being here and being so kind...Love to you from me and Desi

[@sjp4u338]

I did animal rights work too. It’s a wonderful cause. I want to do it again. It’s very hard 😢....but we’re their only voice. The best thing in life is to rescue an abused animal. The love is incredible. 💗❤️

[@debraserafini7741]

This was your best..I just loved it.I'm 65 and newly single (again). Your message today was so uplifting.Thank you so much.

[@18MundyStJournals]

I just so love your videos ❤️ they evoke so many emotions in me. They are like mini movies.. you are so talented. Xx

[@annjako7546]

I can't thank you enough for what you have done for me, you have made a difference in my life, and actually growing up Helen Keller was a big influence in my life, she was an amazing woman, extremely intelligent, I have so many things I would like to share with you, but don't want to take up to much of your time 🤗🤗🤗, Thank you again Susan, it's hard to find my voice sometimes, but with you I'm comfortable, Blessings to you and Desi

[@annawhite2572]

Just watched this today! Brought me to tears with those quotes! Thank you Susan! I love our talks! And Desi!

[@hollytaylor3242]

You already do make a difference in lives. I am in a much better place in my peace and sanity because of you and what I've learned from you and your followers who comment below. In a time when I can't even meet an friend for breakfast because of covid and now the election from hell, you have taught me to seek beauty. So, after I voted I went to my first thrift store where I found a tall pierced porcelain vase. At first I rejected it because a vase with holes won't hold water, but then I remembered your twinkle lights and how I've admired them, so I bought that holely vase and filled it with lights and it is now a thing of beauty in what was a dark corner of my home. You shine light into our dark corners.

[@cherievivianperonetti3753]

By far, striving for Peace of Mind, finding it, and living with that Peace -- exceeds any fleeting fancies or flashes of "happiness" that comes and goes. -- Wonderful message here, Susan.

[@jodywatson6673]

Without saying, Maya Angelou would be on my list however there are so many others.

[@elisabethdavis5882]

Great choice !

[@tamarafigueroa9796]

Your so a beautiful Lady , and yes you can make a difference, and you can walk in your calling, , there is something great waiting to b unveiled for you , walk in it , never is to late , go as far your dream can take you , is in you ...have a marvelous week 😊

[@lindajames5065]

My Mom was my hero, she went through a lot in her life ,and had very painful rheumatoid arthritis, yet she would always still help others and always would cheer others up with her sweet smile and laughs. She was a Christian Woman and prayed a lot for her family and friends❤️. I miss her dearly, she was my rock.❤️ Thank you for another great video Susan. I hope you have a great week 😃 Hugs to you and Desi 🤗🤗 Texas Lady🌹

[@scottie32021]

Little Poet that was lovely bless your heart tell you who inspired me today YOU this video has gone into my favourites then I can watch it again thank you .

[@LizLyonsPhD]

As always you add value to my week (a week that ended so well, on Saturday, thank goodness). My most admired woman is my mother, who helped tens of thousands of children with special needs as first a teacher, then supervisor, and finally Director of Special Services at a large school system in New Jersey. Second, for me, has always been Eleanor Roosevelt, for all the reasons you shared and more. Both of those women were brilliant, caring, and giving, even though born to privilege. As for animals, I am a fierce animal rights champion. While there are millions of cats and dogs that need our help, there are literally billions of cows, chickens and pigs that are tortured to death from babyhood at factory "farms" run by big agriculture cartels. That is where we need to start. One way is to stop eating those animals. I won't be graphic here, but just a little research and all of us should be appalled at what they are doing. It is horrifying. Love you and Desi, Susan, as always. I am better for knowing you. 👩🏻💖

[@kathyhaynes6818]

My Granny was an amazing Proverbs 31 woman. She was filled with joy from the Holy Spirit, she loved gardening, and I remember her always humming hymns as she did her chores. She ministered to those in need by visiting the sick, taking food, praying with them and praying for them. She had so much faith in the Lord and I never saw her sad. From her I've learned that by focusing on worldly things, it's easy to miss God's perfect plan for us.

[@patriciaatkinson4500]

You are making a difference. Everyday, every conversation, every poem and video. Never doubt this!⚘

[@scottwilliams-dl9te]

Hello ✋ Patricia, how are you doing??