Love it when an author compares being gay and being sent to prison for a heinous crime in the same passage 😩
@Mels01036 жыл бұрын
😣👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
@My0ceei5 жыл бұрын
Hey
@achilles30555 жыл бұрын
I know right? its SO great 😩😩😩
@adwoabaah5355 жыл бұрын
omfg,, that is my FAVORITE shit™
@whateverworksmate.7215 жыл бұрын
*I know it's like my favorite thing*
@JadeandHerJournals7 жыл бұрын
you should've titled this disappointed but not surprised lol
@ashleyjoyes44257 жыл бұрын
SavageCommaJade yesssss
@beabooks74867 жыл бұрын
SavageCommaJade omg yaaaas queen!!! 🙌🙌👏👏
@ashleyjoyes44257 жыл бұрын
SavageCommaJade lol
@fantasyalover47825 жыл бұрын
"why I'm not surprise" star logo.
@meaganhaynes4 жыл бұрын
Girl how’d you know my middle name
@calliescourtofbooks37277 жыл бұрын
“Oh sorry I fell asleep while I was waiting on you to make me sandwich!” “Go back to sleep AND STARVE!”
@abh1ta2 жыл бұрын
the fact that the book is called ‘ugly love’ is also a big 🚩 because no babe it’s not ugly love this is ugly manipulation and abuse!
@idkwhatimdoinghere2222 жыл бұрын
Lmao fr
@makeuprudie6540 Жыл бұрын
Nope how TF is that abuse dude. Miles never abused her
@abh1ta Жыл бұрын
@@makeuprudie6540 abuse is not only physical it can be emotional and verbal as well
@makeuprudie6540 Жыл бұрын
@@abh1ta @abh1ta dude think about his past he was totally traumatized anyone with child can understand the pain and talking about tate she presented herself onto miles he never forced upon her. He already cautioned tate about the rules still tate went with their arrangement and got herself hurt
@dearlolly2293 Жыл бұрын
i hate the book but i dont see how miles was abusive? he literally told her that all he could offer was sex, what was she thinking? lmao, she literally knew what she was getting into?
@LennyGMouse7 жыл бұрын
"colleen hoover is a genious! just kidding, she can choke" i just died 😂😂😂
@cometfly32476 жыл бұрын
ROFL!!!!! That was my favorite line in this video. I nearly died laughing! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@isabellarussell44075 жыл бұрын
Same, I wish we could meme format that.
@daisy14315 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂😂
@kaylen49305 жыл бұрын
She’ll probably get choked by a guy from her books
@LU-qr3kh4 жыл бұрын
Wait... you died.... choking... are you Colleen Hoover??? 😂
@lavaladybug7 жыл бұрын
The fact that you said "Corbin Bleu from Jump In" and not "Corbin Bleu from HSM" made me laugh so hard for some reason.
@KimberlyByrdV5 жыл бұрын
LadyBossNinja I loved that movie!!!
@thomascampbell3505 жыл бұрын
LadyBossNinja it’s from a vine
@siriuslyconfused14 жыл бұрын
I’ve never seen the Vine but I firmly believe Jump In was the superior Corbin Bleu film.
@thesleepydot4 жыл бұрын
You stole my burrito, Charlie I’m not in cooking school, never will be and never was, but I also read that as Gordon Bleu...
@reinafis86097 жыл бұрын
"We are going to the library to get LIT." Only a reader would understand.
@angiefayed7 жыл бұрын
Will Herondale hello William you are gorgeous as usual. LOL
@reinafis86097 жыл бұрын
angie F Thank you, my lady. I'm flattered.
@user-tq2ho1so7l7 жыл бұрын
Will Herondale woah back from the dead are you
@lolar26267 жыл бұрын
??
@TheAquamarine47 жыл бұрын
Will Herondale haha i love this comment!!
@ryleesakislopez6 жыл бұрын
We love a king who isn't striving for that toxic masculinity and acknowledges other's rights.
@katiemendoza12116 жыл бұрын
This book sounds like a Wattpad book
@eid65846 жыл бұрын
Honestly it does. Those really terrible bad boy,/good girl sort of thing with the 'hot possessive douchbag'
@rosaryrose25056 жыл бұрын
Gurl, I read Wattpad books better than this.
@joselocalau1236 жыл бұрын
Colleen Hoover's books be like that sometimes
@hadild.80076 жыл бұрын
All of her books are like wattpad stories and not even the good ones
@cosmic_bees6 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen the first chapter of like two of her books as a preview on Wattpad before
@Onechaoticlibrarian7 жыл бұрын
As a librarian working in high school with 16-18 year olds this is a vey important video and I will pass it on to my partners at work. Awesome job. Respect. :)
@haileyroberts11035 жыл бұрын
Did anything happen?
@Avary_Ann2 жыл бұрын
we need an update!! :)
@rudolfvarga54297 жыл бұрын
“We both laughed at our sons big balls” THIS IS A LINE IN THE BOOK😂😂😂
@Sidstar1012 жыл бұрын
WHAT THE HELL
@itscherylplayz89252 жыл бұрын
And it's literally about a baby
@smitakumari6527 Жыл бұрын
@@itscherylplayz8925 ew what
@itscherylplayz8925 Жыл бұрын
@Smita Kumari yeah it's disgusting, and nothing to laugh about
@dearlolly2293 Жыл бұрын
the parents are also step siblings laughing at their infant son's "big balls". that's all you need to know about colleen hoover
@KristixlolL7 жыл бұрын
About a few months ago my younger cousin read this book and said it was so cute and i should read it (shes 11 so first how did she get her hands on this book) but i got maybe half way through the book and started crying. mY COUSIN THOUGHT THAT- I am so mad. I didn't finish the book and afterwards her and I had conversation, but I was actually sick to my stomach that my little cousin thought that THAT was LOVE? I told her shes not allowed to read anymore Colleen Hoover books, and handed her one of my Percy Jackson books, considering that was more age appropriate and not mentally scarring for me when she talked about it. Needless to say, I need therapy, and I'm glad someone is actually firing some shots at Colleen for this depiction of 'love'.
@mitchbittercupjonson7 жыл бұрын
Kristixlol yeees show your cousin what quality literature is
@amy2337 жыл бұрын
YES Percy Jackson is perfect for her age. Great characters with GOOD MORAL COMPASSES and great life lessons taught through kick ass adventure stories.
@alishbanoreen28747 жыл бұрын
I am 19 but still couldn't read that book.... it was completely disgusting in my views, never completed it. UGH!!! Anyways, thumbs up for Percy Jackson series.
@chaeshouldread47526 жыл бұрын
And once she gets through so good literature, show her some actually cute contemporary. There are so many out there with better romance than this crap.
@pachamaridamofasat78036 жыл бұрын
I hate Percy Jackson 😂😂 It was so annoyingly childish and those mystical creatures just popped out when it was convenient for the plot and the characters were so immature Don't give such a shitty overrated series to your poor cousin
@yakketyyak64145 жыл бұрын
i could've let the "everyone wants sex" line go because not every character an author writes shares the author's viewpoints, but this lady clearly has some kind of issues with lgbt stuff based on the other jokes about being gay
@-dark-paradise Жыл бұрын
Also everyone wants love line like it was already bad enough with the subtle homophobia and the ace erasure (as often) but also the aro erasure as well (even thou you could argue love is not only romantic one but this is Colleen Hoover we’re talking about I really don’t expect she was meaning that in that line)
@yakketyyak6414 Жыл бұрын
@@-dark-paradiseyeah it’s like. In this case bcuz it’s cropped up a couple times I think this is her own issues w queer ppl instead of her writing a character w issues w queer ppl, whose ideas she disagrees with. Like this is all her lmao
@Emu_bird3 жыл бұрын
Now that Colleen Hoover is very popular again and everyone on Tiktok loves her books, I just keep thinking about your vlogs where you rant about how terrible her books are. Brings me joy
@cemeterygxtes3 жыл бұрын
i see 5 star reviews of this book everywhere and it’s genuinely concerning
@enjajajajaja3 жыл бұрын
Booktok is filled with people obsessing over mediocre books over and over
@AM-dd6dx3 жыл бұрын
I genuinely don't understand how people don't see how problematic a book like Ugly Love is.
@clariskitty75253 жыл бұрын
@@AM-dd6dx I'm on a side of tiktok where people slander Miles.
@AM-dd6dx3 жыл бұрын
@@clariskitty7525 I need to see them both slandered!!
@jennawilson_7 жыл бұрын
I walked into Barnes & Noble the other day and under "Our Staff Recommends" was November 9. I almost screamed.
@oliviagreen88536 жыл бұрын
I would have taken all those books and moved it to another section, that book shouldn't be reccomend lol
@salmaa.63633 жыл бұрын
I literally saw a bookseller recommending it to a customer… All in front of my eyes.
@angelapetkovska1913 жыл бұрын
3 years later and everyone in my country loves that book and i just dont get it. not just november 9 but all other of her books. im so dissapointed but not surprised.
@krystalwithak28897 жыл бұрын
"Colleen Hoover and her dumb little book " lol that made me laugh so hard.
@CaptainLelo7 жыл бұрын
"He's good lookin' so it's okay right." I WAS WEEZINGGGGGGG 😂😂😂
@manmehakkaur23546 жыл бұрын
"They do the nasty and she starts crying and he just runs away" i was drinking water and I actually choked
@dearlolly2293 Жыл бұрын
lmaaoo help
@jamielester41277 жыл бұрын
Wow according to Colleen Hoover I am simultaneously a joke and nonexistent I love some good representation
@matinamnl93547 жыл бұрын
Jamie Lester samee
@Swamp_fairy6 жыл бұрын
Same girl
@oceanfloor35246 жыл бұрын
I guess I am too. Well crap
@evies.10186 жыл бұрын
Dang, so am I!! Guess I know what author I’m not gonna support!
@katie59985 жыл бұрын
Same
@tayruto25147 жыл бұрын
"Just kidding, she can choke" bless 😂
@TheHorseLady12126 жыл бұрын
i was hooting
@catrocks71807 жыл бұрын
Drinking game: Take a shot every time there's 'DISAPPOINTED BUT NOT SURPRISED'.
@mariesummers.5 жыл бұрын
cat rocks - You mean ever time he's disappointed but not surprised, or in general? He was pretty light on the disappointment, in my opinion. The whole video could have had that for its background.
@Spookdog5 жыл бұрын
Thanks I was wanting to die after learning about this sad excuse for a romance book
@saferapocalypse177 жыл бұрын
the angles in this video are on point
@katiehicks35356 жыл бұрын
TW: domestic abuse I think the problem with books like these are twofold: 1. the message that emotional abuse is wrong unless A. they are dealing with their own "issues" and B. they are attractive. If this is the case, then they are not "abusive" they are just "damaged" and that is somehow hot and romantic (which means they are in a roundabout way equating "abusive" to "sexy" which is not only gross, its dangerous especially to young girls). It seems to me that this idea of "damaged" being a "sexy" way of saying "abusive" is a common trend in erotica, and that especially problematic given - 2. The idea that if a person is merely "damaged" then you can "fix" them with enough love. These messages are not only problematic, as you pointed out, but can lead someone to stay in an abusive relationship in the hopes that their abuser will one day love them enough to "get over" their trauma and stop abusing them. And that's something that can literally get someone killed. These book are not only bad, they are dangerously irresponsible. Say it with me-- your abuser's trauma does not justify their abuse.
@JackedThor-so5 жыл бұрын
"Trauma doesn't justify being abusive," very well said. I hate the "daddy hit me when I was younger" trope that automatically absolves the male lead of all "problematic" tendencies! 🤮
@lxxy053 жыл бұрын
yes yes yes!! perfectly said
@idkwhatimdoinghere2222 жыл бұрын
Omg I've been arguing with people abt this thing for like FOREVER. like so on point
@hehehe13896 жыл бұрын
the straights are wildin
@sunnysside67095 жыл бұрын
me when i read oversexualized descriptions of abs
@yakketyyak64145 жыл бұрын
Bro legit I’m bi which is basically half straight and ladies like Colleen really out here tryna make me full gay 😩
@xTheMazeRunner7 жыл бұрын
thank u caleb for taking this sacrifice for all of us so we dont have to read colleen hoover books ourselves. you are the real MVP
@marienamiah24977 жыл бұрын
I love how you’re able to make a serious video entertaining while still providing FACTS. It kinda sucked how you had to keep on giving disclaimers before saying something but unfortunately that’s just how the world is right now. Definitely don’t feel forced to read things you feel like you won’t like because of KZbin (for a rant video or whatever)! I absolutely love the videos where you’re giving your live reaction to the book as you read it so keep it up! :)
@WarKeineAbsicht5 жыл бұрын
Marie Namiah If you don’t have any squicks and triggers that’s great for you and all, but you don’t need to be so condescending and dismissive about it.
@naomithomas96135 жыл бұрын
@@WarKeineAbsicht I don't think they were talking about disclaimers for things that could be disturbing or triggering. A lot of people now put disclaimers before expressing their (usually not even offensive) opinion on a book. Usually something along the lines of "I'm not saying that it's a bad thing if you have a different opinion on this book. Everyone can have opinions so please don't attack me because I promise I'm not attacking you."
@cecillbill5 жыл бұрын
Her books aren't romances. They're horror novels where the scary shit is the relationships, lol.
@katybreen29394 жыл бұрын
cecillbill they are targeted to teens, its a book romanticising abuse for teens, that could make the teens think that that is how relationships work. Why doesnt she just target them to adults?
@Ang_the_psychic_ASMR7 жыл бұрын
I basically choked watching this, especially at the “disappointed but not surprised” parts 😂😂
@Liteweaver3016 жыл бұрын
Angelena Sly literally same
@tessavery21517 жыл бұрын
I haven't read November 9th, an I'm not planning on it after you talked about how the love interest BURNS DOWN the main character's house.
@xRaiofSunshine6 жыл бұрын
I guess they don't like KFC either (☞ຈل͜ຈ)☞
@reginawohletz62506 жыл бұрын
It was a decent book. I think about it every once and a while... Like it's just there, stuck.
@lowkeylonely42656 жыл бұрын
*BUT HE HAS A TrAGiC PAAAAAASST!*
@BL00DYR0S316 жыл бұрын
Lowkey Lonely So he goes ahead and burn down some else’s house? Why can’t he just burn down his house?!🤔
@proseb4bros9766 жыл бұрын
RaiOfSunshine LMAO
@montanac5337 жыл бұрын
You're so underrated oh my god
@salmaxx14776 жыл бұрын
Your sense of humor thooo "He killed someone but he won't goto jail cuz he's good looking" Lololol
@mybirthwrite7 жыл бұрын
This video solidified the fact that I'm never going to read a Colleen Hoover book lmao 😂
@myliddellwonderland7 жыл бұрын
Same
@bennyboii137 жыл бұрын
Me too
@danikay14286 жыл бұрын
It's My Birth Write same
@kairanelle13806 жыл бұрын
You're missing out hard
@shammydammy26106 жыл бұрын
Missing out hard on someone who romanticizes abuse? I'll gladly miss out hard on that.
@teatimewitht69377 жыл бұрын
Everytime “Disappointed but not surprised.” Came on the screen I cackled LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL. I love your ability to recognise problematic issues in the book and make me laugh simultaneously
@ingtapoot2 жыл бұрын
I walked into Barnes and Noble today, and the first thing I saw was a display with all of her books and a sign that read, "Just because they do bad things sometimes doesn't mean they're a bad person." I about died.
@rse35603 жыл бұрын
needed to rewatch this video after how much she’s blowing up on tiktok lmao. a bit of me dies whenever i see some teenager gushing over her books.
@carriedream1013 жыл бұрын
Same same
@abigailscupoftea7 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite video on KZbin.
@taylorrigsby21527 жыл бұрын
I felt a single tear of joy run down my face from laughter.
@amakel43652 жыл бұрын
and now, in the year of our lord 2022, booktok has popularised colleen hoover again... pls help
@sanjanarajesh73592 жыл бұрын
it really feels like you're being gaslit by the whole world when you don't like colleen hoover's books and everyone else does. "all your perfects' literally traumatised me; apart from the cringey lines, the portrayal of love and infertility and mental illness in that book? horrifying. the couple's relationship is strained because of their fertility issues, she spirals into depression and gets no help for it, the mmc cheats on her (and claims he did it because he missed her and loved her so much), and everything is solved in the last few pages. i am still reeling from the horrid experience that was that book.
@amaradominica2 жыл бұрын
I came back to this video because I remember this so vividly from years ago when the booktube community was pointing out the problematic writing of Colleen Hoover. Now, her books are undeniably trendy and popular like what….
@Dee-ux4vq2 жыл бұрын
Well her books are targeted to teens and most teenage girls are on tiktok so I guess that's why. I'm a teenage girl and I also got introduced to her from friends I quite like some of them tbh
@RachelLidya2 жыл бұрын
It’s all because of the damn TikTok
@lunaeverIy2 жыл бұрын
Idk why teenage girls love toxic men🤦🏻♀️ This is why I don't read romance books anymore.
@steamyvegetables1445 Жыл бұрын
@@lunaeverIy Then they grow up adult women into toxic relationships. ie, my sister.
@plazy._.80946 жыл бұрын
*is an asexual* *_disappears_*
@emdove5 жыл бұрын
I wish my asexuality gave me that superpower.
@Grumplebumple5 жыл бұрын
@@emdove Wait you're visible?! I thought we were all invisible
@emdove5 жыл бұрын
Lin C. I’ve crafted myself a custom portable closet to live in, the straight pride flag I painted the outside with seems to trick people into noticing me 🙃
@CruelestChris5 жыл бұрын
You're not supposed to disappear, you're supposed to divide into two of yourself. You are clearly bad at this asexual thing.
@Missjadenoel7 жыл бұрын
Is that Corbin Blue from Jump In
@hansooled2 жыл бұрын
now that colleen hoover is popular again , i feel so good coming here and satisfying my hater self
@hansooled2 жыл бұрын
teenage you was so fun
@prerza7 жыл бұрын
I read Slammed by Collen Hoover last year, and I utterly HATED it. I don't know, I just couldn't stand it. It was so juvenile, hypocritical & manipulative. Maybe I should give her books another shot too? NOT.
@orangetrees1676 жыл бұрын
Prer Tae for some reason i kind of liked slammed, but the 2nd book was trash and she tried to drag the success out. overall she’s pretty fucking juvenile as a writer.
@prerza6 жыл бұрын
Layla Hasanzadah I've heard smilar thoughts about it too.
@catrocks71806 жыл бұрын
The only book by her that is actually good and has a good message and made me cry was It Ends With Us. That's good, in my honest opinion.
@daymalyrodriguez32726 жыл бұрын
The first book that I ever read by Colleen Hoover was It Ends With Us. And it was actually one of my favorite book that stuck with me. It made me feel a lot of things. I thought it was pretty amazing. Now, Ugly Love seems completely different (in a bad way) xD not interest on reading that one.
@catrocks71806 жыл бұрын
I guess it was because It Ends With Us was something that Hoover herself had gone through. Her parents had abusive relationship and she hasn't, in any way, romanticized domestic violence and that's why it was so good.
@micky13907 жыл бұрын
i can't believe this book was shelved in the YA section of your library. eek. and maybe someday is shite. don't listen to anyone.
@kaeleadesilva84697 жыл бұрын
legit tho, That relationship, whilst not as bad as this one, is equally as cooked. It's seriously strange how this woman makes money and writing all these relationships that are always so problematic.
@micky13907 жыл бұрын
Page Turner it’s maddening!
@kaeleadesilva84697 жыл бұрын
Lol never seen your channel before haha, just subscribed you’re pretty cool😄😄
@micky13907 жыл бұрын
aww, thanks!
@LifeInAConcreteBox6 жыл бұрын
There’s a weird process to cataloging and most of the time the librarians who interact with the public don’t determine where items are shelved. There have been times that my co-workers and I have actually sent items back requesting they be placed elsewhere. Ha ha!
@WhittyNovels7 жыл бұрын
i saw the thumbnail for this and am commenting before the video even starts just so i can comment nO
@shainav33266 жыл бұрын
I wanted to watch this because of the thumbnail. It was perfect!
@OliviaRoseInBloom7 жыл бұрын
I love the fact you explicitly said don't recommend me anymore Colleen Hoover books and don't go buy them and half these comments are saying how they love the books and just bought some and are recommending you more😂👌
@toodleloo52576 жыл бұрын
Olivia Rose In Bloom ugh ik, people are fucking dumb.
@anever_ending_story5 жыл бұрын
It's sad that this is written by a WOMAN.
@almourie5 жыл бұрын
I'm not here right!!!! I feel like half of the time it’s women putting us down!!
@mittag983 Жыл бұрын
She's a pick-me femcel so ofc
@fitzsimmonsftw72707 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I haven't read this (and not planning on it) but how many woman have been through relationships like this and have come through the other end with scars, and then this chick is writing relationships like that and acting like its love and making them for young adults and teens to learn about love, and seeing this shit. No. Pls authors, write healthy relationships when writing for young adults and teens.
@mercedemarie56126 жыл бұрын
Natasha Moore Not all of her books are for younger audiences(i.e. Too Late) and not all of her books have terrible relationships(i.e. Without Merit)
@pikapower_kirby5 жыл бұрын
To be fair, I think authors should be able to write about abusive relationships so long as it's clear that the relationship is unhealthy. So long as it isn't romanticized I think it's fine to write about it.
@idkwhatimdoinghere2222 жыл бұрын
@@pikapower_kirby that's the point. She romanticizes cheating/drama /abuse etc
@miguelconamor66875 жыл бұрын
His channel is literally a digital book club, and I'm HERE for it!
@niki46862 жыл бұрын
i keep coming back 2 this video whenever the booktok colleen hype gets on my nerves a bit too much
@naaat32782 жыл бұрын
Same!! They’re starting to dislike it though so we are getting there lmao
@smellydonut50882 жыл бұрын
agh yess!! the whole coho booktok cult is the bane of my existence
@idkwhatimdoinghere2222 жыл бұрын
I'm almost at the point where i wanna create a hate club for her books 😍😍😍
@danilincks58094 жыл бұрын
Maybe this comment will get lost among all your other comments, but if you ever read this I’d like to tell you that as the mom of a teenager who likes to read I cannot tell you enough how much I appreciate your candid review and making me aware that this garbage glorifying abuse is out there and being recommended. Thanks for letting your viewers know that this is NOT cute. I will talk to my kid about it. Also, you’re hilarious, keep up the great work
@simplyjay43657 жыл бұрын
Caleb would really hate After by Anna Todd
@Michelle-je9jk7 жыл бұрын
Jayrisss .Vasquez that book😂 it's so thick😂
@sora14984 жыл бұрын
u saw the future
@rachelburns14614 жыл бұрын
The way I JUMPED when he said “You’re going to fall in love with me, Rachel.” I was really looking around like, “who said that?”
@mukta46892 жыл бұрын
It's there everywhere in the flashbacks and its creepy how he's obsessed with her when he doesn't even know her
@petitchocobo29057 жыл бұрын
"we both laughed at our son's big balls" WTF I'm dying x'D
@christinap81223 жыл бұрын
Everyone on booktube and booktok recommends her books like they’re must reads and I REFUSE to read them because I watched this video 2 years ago LOL I’ve never read a single thing written by Colleen Hoover and I am proud of it thank you Caleb
@fangirlk66107 жыл бұрын
Also all those “disappointed but not surprised” keep killing me😂😂😂
@fangirlk66107 жыл бұрын
Just bless you for posting these videos! You always make my day
@kate___lynch3 жыл бұрын
After your review I cannot believe how many booktubers says it’s their favourite book and giving it 5 stars…
@mirgeo0833 жыл бұрын
Here three years later after reading two Colleen Hoover books because of tiktok. I only read the second one because I thought they all couldn’t be that awful with such good reviews, right? I’m in full agreement, all her romances are toxic abusive relationships, based purely on lust being disguised as love, zero character development and a “twist” ending that is lame and predictable.
@LastDr3am3r4455 жыл бұрын
I tried the Ox line with my fiance, and now my next therapy appointment has been moved up to Friday.
@princessjoe8342 жыл бұрын
😭😭💀💀
@erinmariecece7 жыл бұрын
I feel like Colleen Hoover books are just over, like they are SUPER problematic and our society now just shouldn't stand for it. Don't we have enough sexism and abuse in EVERYDAY LIFE?!?!?! I'm glad you made this video to shut down the haters and verify your feelings, which I think is actually a very well-thought idea. Also shout-out to you for not giving her money and supporting your local library! :)
@erinmariecece7 жыл бұрын
also the ace erasure makes me want to scream
@greyscaleanon75512 жыл бұрын
Just came over to rewatch this book review after seeing Caleb's newest video about Colleen Hoover and...I don't think he gave his teenaged self enough credit in the newest video. In this video he straight-up says that he would have had a higher opinion of this book if there was an epilogue that acknowledged that this was an abusive relationship. Which is exactly the case with the only Colleen Hoover book that he's had any positive thoughts about.
@Nopi9 Жыл бұрын
You were ahead of your time
@gracefredheim89927 жыл бұрын
What I think it is funny is that in 'this is how it ends', she writes about an abusive relationship even though her other relationships are just as bad 😬
@blending_in2 жыл бұрын
It Ends With Us, not This is How it Ends, but yeah I agree with you
@blending_in2 жыл бұрын
Ik this comment is 4 years old lmao
@onsrejeb60832 жыл бұрын
At this point i think she needs therapy
@arminarlert60112 жыл бұрын
@@onsrejeb6083 I have read a bunch of her books for the hype and to get an idea of her stories and writing style and stuff. And I have the same concerns. I feel like she didn't get the mental help and therapy when it was really necessary and now I'm just worried about her
@hihello-73962 жыл бұрын
I feel like the main guy being a walking red flag is a common theme in her books. It was the same with Ryle in It Ends With Us. Back then I wrote it off as CoHo making him creepy on purpose (as he ends up as an abuser), but then in her note at the end she was discussing how she had a hard time because even she kind of fell for him in the beginning? Um he was literally creepy as hell from the get go and idk what about him was EVER lovable??? That's when I decided I'll never read a book from her again lmao
@steph29947 жыл бұрын
This book sounds awful. I don't have a problem if people like a book. that's there right. But ignoring the very obvious red flag behavior is an issue. Thanks for pointing out all the problems with the book.
@melissathemelon98887 жыл бұрын
Steph C agreed
@Christine411107 жыл бұрын
Boy: I make all the rules Girl: oh okay yeah I guess I’m okay with that. Low key Tamlin and Feyre.
@danigreene5986 жыл бұрын
Christine Roland agreed but thankfully Sarah shows how that is abusive later unlike in this book
@lesmortimers47916 жыл бұрын
Christine Roland except that Feyre was never ok with that
@katie59985 жыл бұрын
I agree, and that’s how Rhys kind of was in the recent novella. He didn’t make rules for her like this, but he did oversexualize and control her. Like them bitches couldn’t even look at one another without fucking. What kind of relationship??
@WolfJulia20015 жыл бұрын
I've only read the first book but if this comment pertaining to that 1 then he definitely had a reason to control her like that. He was trying to save a whole country
@katie59985 жыл бұрын
Um actually Girl... I wouldn’t comment until you’ve read the second book at least. I’m not going to try and sway your opinion, but def read the second book before deciding if Tamlins rule making is... good, I guess.
@Klebkatt5 жыл бұрын
"Say the word ox, cause that's my new favorite word from you~!" Uhhhhhhh...are you high, Main Character?
@paterister41076 жыл бұрын
"caleb judging peoples driving for 10 minutes straight"
@changedbybooks7 жыл бұрын
I’ve never read a book from colleen hoover and I’m so glad I haven’t!! Honestly all the things you say are true! Thankyou I won’t ever read her books
@ikeachickennuggets97672 жыл бұрын
I hated this book so much I started doing push ups and hysterically laughing
@rowenmae99766 жыл бұрын
"page 1, things seem to be going good so far so i'm feeling pretty confident--" _30 seconds later_ THIS IS ALREADY STARTING OUT IN A REALLY BAD WAY
@megansabodee2 жыл бұрын
i would like to personally thank Colleen Hoover for confirming i do not exist and that if i were gay (im still in the process of figuring out my sexuality) i should be in prison. thanks
@smaragdapapadopoulou78072 жыл бұрын
Isn't it so heartwarming when an author who's so loved by *so* many people just insults you like that? I personally love it 🥰
@megansabodee2 жыл бұрын
@@smaragdapapadopoulou7807 i know! its the best feeling ever, isnt it?
@theessenceofbeauty1g7 жыл бұрын
*I AM HOWLING*
@madelynhanes57597 жыл бұрын
I’ve seen her books around multiple book communities, and honestly, from what you’ve quoted, I’m disgusted 🤷🏼♀️
@phoenixshadow12906 жыл бұрын
“Can I get fiery chicken nuggets?” 😂I’m screaming
@jacullyhunter39757 жыл бұрын
I wished you read "It Ends With Us" its the only book I ever read from her and it's really good and handles the abusive relationship the way it should be handled. I have never seen anyone mark a library book LOL. I love how much you look out for women characters!!!!!!!
@reginawohletz62506 жыл бұрын
I didn't like that one as much. I read Maybe Someday when I was like 11, and thought about it just recently and read all of her books almost, and I've only read like 3 I absolutely hated.
@ilana31226 жыл бұрын
It Ends With Us is also the only Colleen Hoover book that i've ever read, and until I saw this review I also thought that it was a good example of gender equality, exploring relationships. However, listening to this review I realise now that 'oh no, that book is also really messed up'.
@hadild.80076 жыл бұрын
I recently read “It ends with us” and it was like also my first time reading a Colleen Hoover book and I was just so disappointed because it definitely is better than what “Ugly Love” sounds like but like it was also very messed up and her writing style and the characters made me hate myself. They acted like 10 year olds and the dialogue sounded like a bad wattpad story. Other than that it had a good message and somewhat good plot which was like the only good part about the book so yea read on your own risk🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
@Rammohan-gt8ew2 жыл бұрын
@@reginawohletz6250 My first Colleen Hoover book was "Maybe Someday" and I loved it so much that I couldn't wait to read her other books .. And then I read Ugly Love and couldn't force myself to read more than 120 pages 🤮... I felt characters in "Maybe Someday" were using their brains, but Characters in Ugly love doesn't even seem to have a common sense 🤦
@abominablebookgirl71977 жыл бұрын
Dear Caleb, Please don't change. I absolutely adore you rofl! I feel sad that you have to use disclaimers because people refuse to just...click...x... Anywho, I am always entertained when you say how you feel about things. You're just the bee's knees. Sincerely, The Abominable Book Girl
@azura-moonstar6 жыл бұрын
last comment, 50 shades was a POOR example of bdsm. it was just abuse guised as bdsm. subs make most of the choices for the doms, and its about trust and consent. In fact imo a video game portrayed it best -_-;;
@thesleepydot4 жыл бұрын
Azazura-daro as a kink newbie, thanks! This is really important information! Also, what video game are you talking about, if I may ask 👀👀👀👀👀 For research-
@tracy29197 жыл бұрын
LOL Colleen Hoover books sound like my life “She’s gonna have some insecurities and some drunk guy is gonna be like “You’re pretty!’ and she’s gonna be like ‘You’re right take advantage of me!!!’” DATS MY LYFE 😂😂😂
@wonderlust13086 жыл бұрын
Well... that doesn't sound good.
@berrybaby15706 жыл бұрын
😂
@shethewriter6 жыл бұрын
Tracy Osimowicz nah gurl you can do better!
@crazyangel57275 жыл бұрын
You deserve better :')
@nicoleshan64105 жыл бұрын
You deserve the BEST!!!! 💙
@minoriteabooks26656 жыл бұрын
the amount of times the disappointed but not surprised slide comes up kills. me.
@MichaelaWagner7 жыл бұрын
I can't tell if she's write fucked up stories on purpose or if she is promoting these as good relationships?? like you said, the title is self aware, but also her parents did NOT have a healthy relationship, and she's aware of that, but it still has probably had a major effect on her. It Ends With Us makes me think that she's learning more and more.
@JulEnglefaris7 жыл бұрын
Michaela Wagner --- "It Ends With Us" definitely shows the right choice to make in a bad relationship. And it can really be relatable to people in abusive relationships and families
@MichaelaWagner7 жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@MichaelaWagner7 жыл бұрын
I also think that a lot of older millenials (like 80s born) don't exactly notice toxicity in relationships, and that sucks because they're the people who are writing stories for TV, film, & books aimed at teens. :/ PLL is ripe with it.
@JulEnglefaris7 жыл бұрын
Michaela Wagner THIS. I'm in my later 20s and growing up it was always "do this or that to get a guy to like you" or "if hes mean or rude he's just teasing" rather than how men should respect women. Also i think a lot of 80s born producers or writers go straight for what creates the most drama (because it's more interesting) than how things will be preceived by a younger audience.
@MichaelaWagner7 жыл бұрын
YES!!! I'm 24 and I get that too. I'm constantly trying to help my friends do better in their love lives omfg there's so many trash men that want them. and I agree!! or even when it's still a healthy relationship they still have them fight over dumb things to create drama. It's they don't know how to make anything interesting without relationship problems.
@salmaxx14776 жыл бұрын
On a more serious note. All what you say, the way you wrapped up this video is so right. I loved november 9 when I read it, I thought of it as romance and love and fun and would have give it a four star. But now that I think about it, and watch this video and other ones and reading reviews of how shady and wrong and sexist this type of plot line is, and seeing it marketed off as romance, I realize just how manipulated and threaded into this type of books I was. And I called myself a feminist. This brought light to some aspects I should've been more aware of. I realize this now, so thank you
@mellowmallow48555 жыл бұрын
At least you're aware of that now. There are ADULTS who would romanticize and want these kinds of relationship.
@rana-ws8dd2 жыл бұрын
this is the best video i have ever watched. the fact that everyone loves this book is insanity. thank you for slandering this book & coho ur my fav person ever
@beckya3687 жыл бұрын
I feel like you gave it an honest chance. And now I don't have to try to read her books. Thank you.
@brandiway91107 жыл бұрын
your voice would be greatttt as an audio book, honestly that would be one audio book I'd pay to listen to *not an Audiobook for this book but just a book in general* seriously, consider it id pay money for that
@amordesdemona7 жыл бұрын
omg He HaS tHe V!!!
@RealVintageVibes2 жыл бұрын
Tysm for the honesty!! Everyone loves this book, like wtf, I get everyone has their own opinions but it honestly made me feel kinda crazy that I was the only person I know who doesn’t like this book. It isn’t romance its abuse and that ain’t cute. I’m not gunna be a hypocrite I probably would’ve enjoyed this book when I was 14, however I feel this is the kind of book you would like if your new to reading. Now I’m so much more mature and can see the red flags. To be fair if it was labelled as a toxic relationship then it wouldn’t be so bad but it’s promoted as a love story. My one big concern is that its targeted to young impressionable people who may then in return think it’s okay to be used instead of someone getting therapy.💀
@user-lq3rs6rc4w Жыл бұрын
you really were the og coho hater and i respect that
@badmothertucker65797 жыл бұрын
I think goodreads should update their rating system to include "I wanna choke out of 10".
@TheThreeBookshelves7 жыл бұрын
This is the first video of yours I've seen and I'm in love. This was HILARIOUS. The entire time I was thinking "Wait, is this E. L. James and 50 Shades of Gray under different names?" I'm so glad you finally compared them. But 50 Shades totally DOES romanticize the relationship and make it into a love story when it's really outrageously abusive, but HE'S HOT SO IT'S OKAY!
@amazingly_bookish4 жыл бұрын
It's so refreshing to see someone with a following this big who doesn't like her books either!
@renee30985 жыл бұрын
“Colleen Hoover is a genius” “Just kidding she can choke” And I oop-
@mrstheprettyreckless4 жыл бұрын
I have seen this video an unhealthy amount of time, but it never gets old
@Sambookish7 жыл бұрын
Everytime you showed that meme I died
@marijam64557 жыл бұрын
I've never read any of her books, and now I'm traumatized by the quotes from this one 😂 how does this have a 4.3 on Goodreads?!
@Sarah-cn6fn6 жыл бұрын
I know I'm late to this party but books that glorify or romanticize abusive behavior in relationships is absolutely deplorable. Abuse in teenage relationships is more common than adults like to think and we need to have books that help people realize poor behavior and get out of abusive relationships.
@dmtrv.m3 жыл бұрын
i know it’s been 3 years since this video, but i read “Ugly love” a few days ago and i am so interested in reading or watching reviews about this book. THIS VIDEO IS HILARIOUS, you are hilarious and so relatable.
@sunflower93105 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that when I was in high school I somehow avoided these books. Instead my teachers pushed me toward great literature with healthy relationships.
@musicpassion696 жыл бұрын
I have been in an abusive relationship (leaving him was the hardest and BEST decision I've EVER made) and there was literately subjects I couldn't talk to him about because it pained him. This book is extremely toxic, I can't believe people deem this good or even romantic !