Inside Look at the Poor In America $850 Month Apartment Tour

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Big Super Living In Arizona

Big Super Living In Arizona

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@gallen2101
@gallen2101 6 ай бұрын
I cleaned, decorated repurposed, etc, his place in my mind watching this! ! He needs help, not just because he is a vet, he is a human being, and is stuck in the depression zone.
@wingadmin11
@wingadmin11 6 ай бұрын
I was doing the same thing while watching! Cleaning, a paint job and some repurposing would definitely help his outlook and reduce depression. Wish I was closer!
@edie4321
@edie4321 6 ай бұрын
Yes, he deserves care, we all do. It is what this world lacks most.
@MagnoliaMolasses
@MagnoliaMolasses 6 ай бұрын
When he panned the walls and ceiling, I immediately began painting in my head 😢😢😢😢I totally feel you
@LuisaD93
@LuisaD93 6 ай бұрын
Are you considered a vet if you are dishonorably discharged? He says he went awol because he knew they’d drug test him if he went back after a 10 day leave and they kicked him out. Isn’t that a dishonorable discharge? Sincerely curious not being mean.
@joananthony6323
@joananthony6323 6 ай бұрын
Yes He needs a support worker
@javonlattimore2444
@javonlattimore2444 6 ай бұрын
I pray that he overcomes the depression he is going through....
@hstone39
@hstone39 4 ай бұрын
That's what I think it is. He's mostly likely dealing with depression.
@PlutoTheGod
@PlutoTheGod 3 ай бұрын
@@hstone39hes got a serious drug problem
@MariselaCronin
@MariselaCronin 7 ай бұрын
STOP BREEDING THAT DOG!!!!!!!!!!!
@Madronaxyz
@Madronaxyz 4 ай бұрын
Millions of dogs are killed in the United States every year because they're not enough homes. I don't have respect for anybody who's adding to the problem.
@munchocrisps
@munchocrisps 4 ай бұрын
People do this all the times. o.o There’s no way of stopping it. In this situation it’s good for him because he lives in an poor environment like that 😔
@blakethetank
@blakethetank 3 ай бұрын
it boggles me how 'poor' people have so many fkn dogs to begin with
@HeartFeltGesture
@HeartFeltGesture 3 ай бұрын
@@blakethetank Its all just part of the unresolved emotional trauma and dysfunction. In their minds its a viable way to make money.
@azgypsy
@azgypsy 2 ай бұрын
I wouldn't purchase a dog from him that lives in those conditions.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 7 ай бұрын
Being poor isn't a reason to live unkempt.
@sactopyrshep
@sactopyrshep 7 ай бұрын
When you are overwhelmed with life and chronically depressed, you have a hard time just getting dressed. This guy doesn’t even eat! Unless someone or some organization connects to him, what you see is what you get.
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 7 ай бұрын
@@sactopyrshep But a lot of rich people live unkempt too. And besides, living neat and clean certainly helps you to feel better.
@Ebony_Darkness
@Ebony_Darkness 7 ай бұрын
yea but hes not just poor tho hes a mentally ill addicted vet its a little understandable
@texasgoddess323
@texasgoddess323 7 ай бұрын
It’s definitely a mental health issue. I wish him healing!
@hilariecalijo4643
@hilariecalijo4643 7 ай бұрын
I totally agree. You can keep things neat and clean, without money.
@dianafoster7883
@dianafoster7883 7 ай бұрын
It appears this young man has a drug problem he needs to address. I hope he decides to take the steps to turn his life around. Nobody should have to live like that.
@MAbdulaziz-fr3ve
@MAbdulaziz-fr3ve 7 ай бұрын
Most likely mental health problems have kicked in, esp when he said the landlord put tape on my door to see who’s coming and going, was a dead giveaway, a continuous cycle of lack of sleep can lead to a mental health issue imagine when you add marijiana and other substances which alter our brain chemical balance
@APERSON2POINT0
@APERSON2POINT0 7 ай бұрын
Agreed. He mentioned a bong. I wouldn't spend a cent on alcohol or marijuana if I had housing issues.
@jessemar65951
@jessemar65951 6 ай бұрын
Definitely a drug substance abuse problem
@joananthony6323
@joananthony6323 6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately he probably needs help
@lo7775
@lo7775 6 ай бұрын
@@APERSON2POINT0 it’s more than weed. He’s all over the place.
@SkinE-Vadee-Veechee
@SkinE-Vadee-Veechee 7 ай бұрын
I've been homeless and an alcoholic. I can relate to this dude. I found something that boosts your morale is to keep a clean place. It doesn't matter how small your place is but keeping things clean helps you value the importance of even small places. It might take a minute to scrub things down and get things up and working but you appreciate things more when you care about them. Try it. Great video
@parasitesundinism
@parasitesundinism 7 ай бұрын
Real and eventually you realize how it's not as hard or take as long to clean up as you used to think
@AnnMarieHall-l6c
@AnnMarieHall-l6c 6 ай бұрын
I completely agree The cleaner you are the richer you are ❤❤❤
@1FlyingSolo1
@1FlyingSolo1 6 ай бұрын
Completely agree. I've also had times in my life where I was homeless and abusing alcohol. It's hard to find the motivation to clean your place when you are in such a dark place mentally, but it does make a huge difference to keep things neat, clean, and tidy.
@edie4321
@edie4321 6 ай бұрын
He needs help to get it there. Once they're behind like this, it is impossible to catch up. I do hope someone will help. There are so many people that need caregivers, and end up living like this. I think just someone caring enough to help him clean will give him the incentive to keep it up. Before he gets evicted for this.
@timothykirby4406
@timothykirby4406 6 ай бұрын
Very good advice
@Nadia_617
@Nadia_617 7 ай бұрын
Congrats to him for quitting alcohol 5 years ago 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽 That was nice of him to invite us into his place.
@yolandamontgomery3138
@yolandamontgomery3138 7 ай бұрын
That is so kind of you Big Super to spend time with him and treating him to some food. God bless you 🙏🏽
@sepulvedaprince7157
@sepulvedaprince7157 7 ай бұрын
Mental health is real..but the layout not bad. Just need some fresh paint and cuzz gotta clean the place up
@TheUnitedStatesofAmericaUSA
@TheUnitedStatesofAmericaUSA Ай бұрын
I like your positive vibe 😊
@TheMeganExperience
@TheMeganExperience 7 ай бұрын
It looks like he destroyed the place - it looks like he was doing "something" and the stove caught fire; that's why literally everything is covered in soot. I'm glad he has an affordable place to live because many in his situation would not have that but I hope he gets it cleaned up.
@back2the80s
@back2the80s 7 ай бұрын
Can’t be healthy living in a sooted filled apartment. Stuff on floor etc. pets in squalor
@fightingtosurvive6527
@fightingtosurvive6527 6 ай бұрын
Probably has rats too.
@kimwarner1681
@kimwarner1681 5 ай бұрын
@@back2the80s I always feel badly for the pets with people like that..he definitely has replaced one addiction with another
@Madronaxyz
@Madronaxyz 4 ай бұрын
​@@kimwarner1681I don't think he's hoarding dogs. I think he's trying to make money off of them. Either way it's terrible for the dogs.
@azgypsy
@azgypsy 2 ай бұрын
Affordable??????
@Chemically_Induced
@Chemically_Induced 7 ай бұрын
there is zero percent chance he's not on dope. especially with his fixation on living downtown.
@roccod9419
@roccod9419 7 ай бұрын
yup 100%, life is full of decisions and he's making the wrong ones
@APERSON2POINT0
@APERSON2POINT0 7 ай бұрын
Right SRP is available is East Valley and those are great communities
@missbuxy
@missbuxy 7 ай бұрын
@@APERSON2POINT0 what is SRP? is it like a section 8?
@APERSON2POINT0
@APERSON2POINT0 7 ай бұрын
@@missbuxy Salt River Project, a utility company like APS that won't provide him service because of his previous payment history with them.
@SweetCandy-x4j
@SweetCandy-x4j 6 ай бұрын
There’s actually a bong in the kitchen and a MacBook in the background.
@erickalovely7776
@erickalovely7776 18 күн бұрын
Nothing wrong with having a small place. But keep it clean. Keep it organized. A clean house helps with a clear mind.
@TLA123y6f
@TLA123y6f 5 ай бұрын
The pink flamingo was no incense burner. It was a pipe to smoke - possibly crack or meth
@Jean-g4q
@Jean-g4q 4 ай бұрын
That's where the glass cracked it got hot 🔥
@roccod9419
@roccod9419 7 ай бұрын
Don't blame your parents, you went AWOL. Clean up your apartment.
@Chad-bp3hm
@Chad-bp3hm 5 ай бұрын
In Las Vegas we got a whole street filled with homeless people in the thousands. This guy is doing a hundred times better than most.
@jasonmelendez5216
@jasonmelendez5216 5 ай бұрын
Bro should have never gone in. Jacked his head up. The people around him didn't have his best interest at heart. The US military is unfortunately being used for corporate interest and is bound to it by our laws and public ignorance. I did 6 years and excelled at my job. I decided not to reenlist simply because the service has no clear direction anymore. Hope this dude gets some help.
@roccod9419
@roccod9419 5 ай бұрын
@@jasonmelendez5216 Dude head was jacked up before he went in. Dude didn't even make it to his 1st duty station. Dude ia a POS!
@OncleJer
@OncleJer 5 ай бұрын
What a short sighted, moronic view.
@Jean-g4q
@Jean-g4q 4 ай бұрын
Mental health is real 💯🙏
@Bridget82267
@Bridget82267 7 ай бұрын
I rented out a room in my house to someone... and i could smell something coming from the room.. i looked in the room, and I'm sorry i gave her until the end of the month to move out... it was worse than that place... it made me sick to think that was in my house....
@emmasarge4057
@emmasarge4057 6 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness...
@kellyj817
@kellyj817 6 ай бұрын
What happened in your room? Drugs?
@ReeseL4D
@ReeseL4D 4 ай бұрын
Urine? Feces?!? Dead body!
@serenity8145
@serenity8145 7 ай бұрын
That place is a major health hazard.
@righteousdaugther
@righteousdaugther 7 ай бұрын
😂
@dwaynejones1555
@dwaynejones1555 7 ай бұрын
Had a neighbor invite me in for a beer with a place like this. I didn’t even sit down. Dog 💩 everywhere, I made a lame excuse & left immediately.
@DeeEf-e9r
@DeeEf-e9r 7 ай бұрын
Some people don't care about Filth.. dogs are filthy.. plus the stench
@peggycain5026
@peggycain5026 6 ай бұрын
Here no reason not to clean up even if you are poor I hope this man gets his life under Control and give the dogs a bath
@fightingtosurvive6527
@fightingtosurvive6527 6 ай бұрын
​@@DeeEf-e9r Dogs are not filthy you pos.
@flysky6248
@flysky6248 6 ай бұрын
Thank you brother for taking us along and showing us the real world.GOD please help us all.
@chicagolowe
@chicagolowe 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate your heart and the time you devote to this platform. I really become depressed and saddened by this situation. I was crying and just couldn't watch straight through. I was praying for him and then I saw the dogs and puppies. I clicked off. Then I said to myself if you're going to support and have compassion you must finish Big super living vlog. I clicked back on and watched until the end. 😊 man life and temptations and choices weave webs of many different paths. I truly hope this man finds joy of life. And deliverance. Big Super GOD knows your heart. Thanks for all that you endure. Be safe and safe travels.
@Thomas63r2
@Thomas63r2 7 ай бұрын
I instantly knew his story was going to involve drugs/alcohol and one poor choice after another. His parents wanted him in the military in the hope that they could straighten him out. His stash in a gutted Book of Mormon, ugh! Its not that he's lazy - he spends a lot of his time high. Even during this video the dude is talking at about 1.25 times speed.
@APERSON2POINT0
@APERSON2POINT0 7 ай бұрын
You got it!
@Isaac-sp9jg
@Isaac-sp9jg 7 ай бұрын
Expert you are 😂
@APERSON2POINT0
@APERSON2POINT0 7 ай бұрын
@@Isaac-sp9jg well we should thank you lol
@Isaac-sp9jg
@Isaac-sp9jg 7 ай бұрын
@@APERSON2POINT0 your welcome I guess 😂
@Thomas63r2
@Thomas63r2 7 ай бұрын
@@Isaac-sp9jg LOL! Maybe you need a transcript of Big Super's questions and the answers given. How many clues would you like? The hollowed out Book of Mormon that he nervously laughs off when asked about what he is hiding. His talking at 1.25 times normal speed. His tales of Narcan. His living in abject filth that he seems oblivious to - because he's so busy! He can't be sleeping in his poo filled bed - he likely just crashes at random times after he has gone too long without sleep. Those were just a few things I noticed.
@OffGridBackcountryAdventures
@OffGridBackcountryAdventures 7 ай бұрын
Seems something is amiss for this individual to live in such squalor.
@maryrinks8383
@maryrinks8383 7 ай бұрын
Hay off grid I watch your channel ❤
@DevinMorris-pd2qv
@DevinMorris-pd2qv 6 ай бұрын
Yeah no shit
@angiecastillo6619
@angiecastillo6619 7 ай бұрын
Somebody PLEASE get this Veteran a therapist. He needs help. He can recover but he needs all hands on deck. Nutrition, therapy, living arrangement, counseling 😢yeesh. I’m getting PTSD just listening to him. I hope for nothing but the best for this man.
@nevermore4971
@nevermore4971 7 ай бұрын
He was kicked out after boot camp. He didn’t serve.
@IceLynne
@IceLynne 7 ай бұрын
You have ZERO idea what he did in the service other than Quit! He's not a "Veteran", he's a loser!
@IceLynne
@IceLynne 7 ай бұрын
@@nevermore4971 she didn't watch the video.
@tiffanycurtis4794
@tiffanycurtis4794 7 ай бұрын
He can help himself he looks able body to work and make a decent living. He chooses this lifestyle I am tired of people who want to help those who can help themselves all the ones please help him main ones suggesting somebody help him. Send him some of your money and watch he miss use it some people just lazy. I am not empathetic too people’s pain, but sometimes you can see through people. That they are not even trying
@IceLynne
@IceLynne 7 ай бұрын
@@tiffanycurtis4794 exactly.
@tmoore7049
@tmoore7049 7 ай бұрын
The animals deserve better!
@avalondreaming1433
@avalondreaming1433 7 ай бұрын
Truth!
@Antny.25
@Antny.25 6 ай бұрын
Good thing they’re not on the street. This man saved their lives. Least they have a roof over there head…not the best but it’s better than the streets.
@goodmeasure777
@goodmeasure777 6 ай бұрын
I wish someone would convince him to take them to a no kill shelter because then they could be adopted out. I don't like when folk in this situation, attempt to "sell" animals because, usually the Mama dog ends up getting pregnant again. Spay Mama and Neuter Dad! If we can't take care of ourselves, at least take care of the dogs, IJS. I notice some people, in a similar situation, use animals as a sort of security blanket. We as humans make decisions, and animals, are subject to those decisions. Sorry, I'm a dog lover so... He needs a case manager to help him navigate through different resources, so he can get back on track, whatever that looked like.
@goodmeasure777
@goodmeasure777 6 ай бұрын
It always bothers me, when people in a situation like this, have animals and then talk about "yeah I"m going to sell the puppies" cuz then Mama dog always end up with another litter. No, you need to take animals to a no kill shelter, where they would be adopted so easily, I know I would adopt them. A Mama and Dad, same breed and puppies? He then needs to get a case manager, who can help him navigate through resources so he can get himself together and back on track, whatever that looks like.
@jenniferfink2506
@jenniferfink2506 6 ай бұрын
@@goodmeasure777 Excellent comment! Helpful and realistic.
@donnamays24
@donnamays24 6 ай бұрын
Well done! And I loved your honesty with the young man’s apartment being in a mess..someone needed to just tell him..blessings❤
@lorirogers9304
@lorirogers9304 7 ай бұрын
Why TF does he have dogs???
@MamaKat40203
@MamaKat40203 6 ай бұрын
To make money. 😢
@kellyj817
@kellyj817 6 ай бұрын
@@MamaKat40203 Breeding animals for money makes me so mad when shelters are full of pets who need homes! It's also unfair to these poor animals to force them to be puppy factories. I hope he'll stop this and spay and neuter them, and clean his home so these poor dogs don't have to live in filth :(
@stickybearskinrug2046
@stickybearskinrug2046 5 ай бұрын
My ex is an addict who is only not homeless bc his dad lets him squat at his apartment sometimes. He told me not long ago that he’d had a dog but his drug ho stole it. He went on and on about this dog. I was like, YOU LIVE IN A VAN. Siphons gas, steals food & drinks. Smokes butts at Circle K. W.T.F. are you doing with A DOG?! It’s infuriating.
@rafterman5072
@rafterman5072 4 ай бұрын
@@kellyj817 Same. This guy is trash for breeding those dogs.
@williamwells6468
@williamwells6468 7 ай бұрын
Is it just me or did this guy just blame literally everyone he ever came in contact with for his actions?? Dude needs to get off the foil
@avalondreaming1433
@avalondreaming1433 7 ай бұрын
And get that dog fixed too!
@mikem9892
@mikem9892 6 ай бұрын
Yea this clown got nobody to blame but himself for his situation
@jessemar65951
@jessemar65951 6 ай бұрын
Drug addicted people never take responsibility just blame the world
@77Tadams
@77Tadams 6 ай бұрын
Yup. He won’t change until he wants to.
@sharonkaysnowton
@sharonkaysnowton 6 ай бұрын
William, I am an old lady- what does "get off the foil" mean?
@NWforager
@NWforager 7 ай бұрын
Big , this channel is some amazing journalism and exposure inside lives . Its your chill demeanor that gets folks talking . these aren't just about apartments and homes in AZ but the life Extremes and all in between . i mostly hope it shows to those dealing with the hard times that there's another way . Comment section can be Harsh but for sure its with LOVE and constructive critique 💗💗🧡
@Thomas63r2
@Thomas63r2 7 ай бұрын
Truth
@mattfoster3100
@mattfoster3100 6 ай бұрын
I hope he gets the help he needs. I have been depressed and just having one good friend that cares could help his whole situation.
@RaesLifeyt
@RaesLifeyt 7 ай бұрын
O man be careful who home you walk into. That is not poor; that's a dependent.
@deeevans324
@deeevans324 7 ай бұрын
I worked in downtown Phoenix on central to Baseline on the light rail extension. I see these guys every night for 4 years, I have heard every story you can imagine. In their minds, they have not done anything wrong. Drugs, alcohol, and mental illness has played a huge factor with people. I’ve been around them so much, I don’t even pay attention to them anymore simply because this is a life that they chose to live.
@kwillie47
@kwillie47 5 ай бұрын
And their stories are long, elaborate, and never make sense
@気にしない-o8q
@気にしない-o8q 5 ай бұрын
@@kwillie47 exactly !!!
@hoagie7859
@hoagie7859 5 ай бұрын
@@kwillie47 and at least half of those people have it in them to get better, they just are so afraid of admitting the real problem, it's inside them. That's why they make these stories, it's all because they cannot blame themselves at all.
@joefer5360
@joefer5360 5 ай бұрын
China is right. Camps for all unproductive citizens. Rights for everyone is dum. Only exemplary people should have rights. The rest should be herded.
@5ky801
@5ky801 4 ай бұрын
I'm really glad you've never lived through mental illness but I sure hope you're met with more kindness than you've shown here should you ever struggle.......c
@carlapierle8623
@carlapierle8623 7 ай бұрын
As usual, there is a LOT more to this story regarding his family than what he is saying. Most importantly, he needs mental help. Living in squalor isn't healthy. It looks like he hasn't cleaned the place since he moved in four years ago.
@bmw9616
@bmw9616 5 ай бұрын
Just 5 years ago 850$ got you a nice apartment where I was from. Now those exact same apartments are 1650$.
@kglarkin1155
@kglarkin1155 4 ай бұрын
Wtf
@Aguynamemiguel
@Aguynamemiguel 6 ай бұрын
Just cleaning your house makes a big difference in your mental health
@theweez1411
@theweez1411 7 ай бұрын
Thank you big super, There are so many that need their voice to be heard. You are doing a service. I appreciate your videos. Love from the weez in kansas
@rh7968
@rh7968 7 ай бұрын
That was the most uncomfortable car ride 😳 super take care!
@MissNoel82
@MissNoel82 7 ай бұрын
Hey Big Super! This hurt my heart! He seems like a nice guy, just needs a friend and some love. I hope he can get in a better environment. Sometimes your surroundings can bring you down! Sending prayers and love.
@OfficialBigSuper
@OfficialBigSuper 7 ай бұрын
I agree
@w.a.watson3078
@w.a.watson3078 4 ай бұрын
This guy has real problems, but I bet he knows how to play the system to get his next fix.
@Purple_Majesty1
@Purple_Majesty1 7 ай бұрын
Either the landlord was sympathetic or the place was crappy in order for him to move in on a promise to pay. This man is suffering from major depression and is self medicating with substances. He is jealous of his sister and angry with his family because they won’t deal with him. I wonder how many chances they gave him to get it together before they gave up on him? He’s so deep in the drug scene he has Narcan on hand to the point people from the trap house ran to him when the lady overdosed.
@up-uw4op
@up-uw4op 7 ай бұрын
I pay 900 for a very nice 3 bedroom house in Michigan with a yard. Its still hard to afford on a single part time income but Im thankful its not as high as most. Still double what I paid 6 years ago.
@w.a.watson3078
@w.a.watson3078 4 ай бұрын
I bet this guy doesn't pay anything. He's probably on some type of program because he's a junkie and was living on the streets. What ever this guy says is probably not the truth only his version of it.
@deedeeotero4475
@deedeeotero4475 7 ай бұрын
A lot of people who have depression, live like this.. they don’t clean anything. He could have taken his dog to a low/no cost spay/neuter clinic so she didn’t have any puppies. Omg does he sleep on that bed? There’s piss & shit good Lord..😢 Thank you for showing him kindness Big Super.
@donnawentz2221
@donnawentz2221 7 ай бұрын
@deedeeotero4475-He said his dogs have taken over the bed so he doesn’t sleep there anymore. And once he sells the puppies he wants to use the money to get a new bed.
@deedeeotero4475
@deedeeotero4475 7 ай бұрын
@@donnawentz2221 where he sleep then?? Still don’t want folks breeding their dogs for $$$ when there’s so many being killed in shelters for space!!👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽
@APERSON2POINT0
@APERSON2POINT0 7 ай бұрын
He probably doesn't sleep much at all. He talks really fast too.
@kenneth-502
@kenneth-502 4 ай бұрын
​@@APERSON2POINT0And sniffs alot.
@hhmhilliard
@hhmhilliard 6 ай бұрын
Very rewarding conversation. Thanks for sharing. Keep up the great work with your skillz.
@Goodfella7817
@Goodfella7817 7 ай бұрын
Hey Super! Love the videos bro. He seems like a nice dude that made bad life decisions. Hopefully god helps him and points him in the right direction. I'm in Maine but id snag up one of those pups quick!
@jetta.silence6356
@jetta.silence6356 4 ай бұрын
Someone must know where this is and live close enough to drive by and rescue all the puppies and dogs. There must be a rescue ( no kill) or people that are all about saving and caring for abused and neglected animals. I would get these dogs in a second if i didn't live in Canada.
@Enight233
@Enight233 7 ай бұрын
Wow hopefully he will get a better apartment situation soon for him and his dogs. 😢
@yolandamontgomery3138
@yolandamontgomery3138 7 ай бұрын
Hi Big Super much love to you and your family. Always enjoy your videos keep up the great work ✨💖✨💖
@OfficialBigSuper
@OfficialBigSuper 7 ай бұрын
Hey Yolanda! Thank you, I will!
@OksanaBeall
@OksanaBeall 7 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry if this sounds rude but holy crap, I had to pause a few times cause he’s talking SOfast, maybe on drugs, it was making my head spin 🤦‍♀️ 😳 😮
@rayshelld791
@rayshelld791 6 ай бұрын
850 is more then many seniors on social security is living on a month.
@ohpatricia1276
@ohpatricia1276 7 ай бұрын
Mental illness and drugs sure but what I notice most in people who aren’t thriving is the blame game. Never taking accountability for anything. “Parents wanted me to be a marine” Girlfriends in and out of prison, not the easiest person to live with” “I fell asleep for days and the landlord didn’t like me” “my house is a mess because the holidays” like shut the f up stop making bongs and holing out books, get off drugs and take accountability for your self.
@cjhoward409
@cjhoward409 6 ай бұрын
My adult son has mental illness and he blames everyone else for everything. His mind tells him that he had a horrible childhood (not true). He says I hate him and love his 2 brothers. It’s so painful to hear those things. But how do you convince an adult that they need help when they don’t think they need help. It’s a vicious cycle sadly
@jbone9900
@jbone9900 6 ай бұрын
Not all can deal with accountability.
@nataliaturner4845
@nataliaturner4845 5 ай бұрын
It goes back to the parents 100%. That's where accountability starts in Patrick Teahan's model, which I think is a great one for most people who need help with childhood trauma.
@cocktailslipper8247
@cocktailslipper8247 7 ай бұрын
I had to peace out when I saw the dog excrement on the bed. Fast forward to the garden, it was very nice!
@pattysdaughter5639
@pattysdaughter5639 7 ай бұрын
It would be better if he cleaned it.
@TripleNickelz
@TripleNickelz 5 ай бұрын
I'm a military vet and feel exactly the way this man does. I find myself sitting around all day lacking the motivation to do anything but eat, sleep and watch videos. Initially I thought I was just being lazy but as time passes I think it may be depression or related to my PTSD. Over time I'm finding I gain weight and now the sedentary lifestyle has literally broken my body down to the point I'm so out of shape that I can't even do something if I wanted. I feel like I'm just sitting around all day waiting for my body to eventually shut down and I'm to embarrassed to go to the VA or ask for help because my place is so trashed and I find I only shower a couple of times a month at most. It really is a sad life when you have no family to fall back on and miss the comradery that I used to have in the military.
@MarcShorty23
@MarcShorty23 5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear about your situation I’ve been dealing with chronic pain since the age 16 way back in 2005 The best thing I recommend is start by eating healthy such as taking some vitamins and sea moss. I recommend buying your self a mountain bike or playing basketball flying a drone or a good pair of headphones or video games. The main key is to always keeping your mind busy with something. The mind is very powerful. 😊👍👌
@lizg1976
@lizg1976 3 ай бұрын
Go to the V.A and get help. Your life can be so much better. You should not feel any shame with something you have no control over.
@azgypsy
@azgypsy 2 ай бұрын
I'm sure the VA has seen & heard it all. Go there & get the help you need. I bet you'll feel so much better.
@MOODMENDR
@MOODMENDR 7 ай бұрын
I was literally saying to my sister Im tired of living in shitty $800 apartments and will be moving into a place that's not even that spectacular but it does have in unit laundry, gated parking, and a pool for $1300.
@MOODMENDR
@MOODMENDR 7 ай бұрын
It's giving messy, drug addict. Sorry.
@lauraann7816
@lauraann7816 7 ай бұрын
The place is terrible in general. I don't see how it's legal to rent. But if that's what you can afford and you got in without a security deposit or first/last month's rent and you can keep your dogs okay fine. I am sure it beats living in a tent or sleeping on a park bench. Do something to make it a haven. It wouldn't even cost much to spruce it up and clean it. Just do it.
@back2the80s
@back2the80s 7 ай бұрын
Dog piss poop mattress. Unhealthy and landlord needs to fix up
@Scrunchie_777
@Scrunchie_777 6 ай бұрын
Apart from the clutter, this apartment based on size should realistically cost half of what they're being charged. Its a basic studio in AZ
@TheUnitedStatesofAmericaUSA
@TheUnitedStatesofAmericaUSA Ай бұрын
Great interview! There is so much knowledge to be extracted from this video. Depression is a very real thing. Not only is he scarred from his parents, but it’s possible a physical condition such as a thyroid disorder (hyperthyroidism) may be contributing to his current state (he is very thin). When the thyroid doesn’t work properly, depression is a very common symptom.
@VeesFunkyAZZshop
@VeesFunkyAZZshop 7 ай бұрын
All I can think of is those poor dogs.
@PineappaPres14
@PineappaPres14 5 ай бұрын
Yeah it makes sense because people don’t care about other people it seems, a person could be suicidal and depressed while having dogs and other people would be more worried about the dogs.
@isabellegarcia9205
@isabellegarcia9205 7 ай бұрын
He must have depression,I hope he gets someone to help him.🤧🙏🏼
@tiffanycurtis4794
@tiffanycurtis4794 7 ай бұрын
Why do people always think Somebody gotta help somebody else help yourself and it’s depressed people a lot of depressed people that don’t live like this. He looks able to do better for himself and work.
@ohreally404
@ohreally404 6 ай бұрын
Or just on drugs
@sunkissed4261
@sunkissed4261 6 ай бұрын
Cool vehicle, It would take me awhile to be able to trust the vehicle to drive itself. I didn't know Jaguars had that option.Also I feel that homeboy needed someone sober to hangout w/. Maybe getting out and talking did good for his mind that he went home and even cleaned up. Sometimes people just need to change up their day to day.
@pacdonitti
@pacdonitti 7 ай бұрын
Dam!!! Reminds me of the Coming to America movie. When the landlord said. You can have my place. It’s a real shit hole!!
@WorldwideReview-og3uo
@WorldwideReview-og3uo 6 ай бұрын
The way you ask the questions be having me holler!!!! You sleep in there? There are more puppies under the bed????
@sharonkaysnowton
@sharonkaysnowton 6 ай бұрын
I am a teacher. Teachers do not make a lot of money. But, it is not how much money you make. It is what you do with what you make. Manage your money wisely and stay in your budget.
@jbone9900
@jbone9900 6 ай бұрын
You mean stay poor
@sharonkaysnowton
@sharonkaysnowton 6 ай бұрын
@@jbone9900 It is ok to be poor. I am poor. I am a teacher. BUT, I AM BLESSED as I have helped sooooo many others. I feel the blessing. I manage my money and stay in my budget. I started not to answer your response. But, you say "stay poor" like it is a bad thing. Jesus was poor. I put Jesus first and me second. As a human I am given one more time to live my best life doing what I like to do- help others. As a teacher I make a difference, touch a heart, and inspire a soul. As a teacher I encourage a mind. As a teacher I ask my students to always do their best and be their best. The first 20 years of my adult career life I was a computer programmer- it was a stressful job, I had night mares and headaches all the time. I was always worried about money and paying a bill. As a teacher for 32 years- I no longer stress, I do not have nightmares for me, I worry and focus on my students and getting the best for them. I do not have headaches. I have always felt children were our blessings from God. I think we get wrapped up in the worldliness of money we sometimes forget that. As an older person now, who knows she has fewer days in front than in behind, my focus is on enjoying my life and realizing how blessed I am. There is nothing wrong with being poor. I have learned the more money you have, the more you want. You then make the money your GOD. I wanted and needed a different kind of GOD. So, helping others, helping children allows me to stay humble and remember scripture "Be still and know that I am GOD." I do not mind beiing poor. For me I get the better portion. Jbone9900 be blessed, and do not take your blessing for granted.
@cherylbailey4045
@cherylbailey4045 7 ай бұрын
These type of videos are definitely an eye opener keep grinding hard for your family big super❤
@FrancescaDarby-ul6fv
@FrancescaDarby-ul6fv 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for hanging out with the boy and talking to him and stuff, that was nice, and I think you are a cool person and a good interviewer!!!
@chicagolowe
@chicagolowe 7 ай бұрын
I hope he don't get kicked out. It better than being on the streets. But he needs help.
@joycefowler3029
@joycefowler3029 7 ай бұрын
Such a sad situation. I hope things get better for him soon and his poor little dogs😢
@becsterino
@becsterino 5 ай бұрын
Dude just had to stay sober from "illegal drugs" for a few years... Barely graduated boot camp and ruined his career. I remember in my boot leave I was stupid sick and debated how much did I really want to go back. But I'm glad I finished my time. Good to hear he's sober from alcohol. That's a major step. He just needs to clean up and maintain that and how that changes your perspective and mindset... I don't know the science but clean place = clean mindset Dude's smart too to recognize how dangerous alcohol is and the effects.
@AliciainTexas
@AliciainTexas 7 ай бұрын
❤ This !! Been missing your interviews! You are so good at getting people to open up to you . A true gift !❤🎉🎉🎉
@reneeneal5357
@reneeneal5357 7 ай бұрын
Shout out, Super! you are so courageous and relatable to the hurting souls! I hope he reconciles with his dad😊Great content as alwayz
@stonecrestquilt
@stonecrestquilt 5 ай бұрын
Such a kind heart. I would love to help this guy.
@cherylbailey4045
@cherylbailey4045 7 ай бұрын
That stare down you gave him you did not blink 😂😂😂
@cathyworth4409
@cathyworth4409 6 ай бұрын
Super KNOWS that he better keep his head on swivel….OR HE BETTER KNOW! Don’t mess around and get locked up hanging with these strangers. Cookie will be HEATED! Good looking out for getting him something to eat Super. You’ll be blessed. 🗣STAY SAFE!
@melodyaceves7705
@melodyaceves7705 6 ай бұрын
The look on your face at 3:32 is priceless!!! LOL Thanks for another great vid! God bless you!💛
@blutru1328
@blutru1328 7 ай бұрын
God Bless him, he needs a social worker ASAP to help him get his life in a better posiition . How does he pay his rent each month ? Does he have a job or is he on Disability ?
@julianhill22
@julianhill22 5 ай бұрын
i feel for this guy i hope he gets through it. I hope his support system gets better than what it is
@johnmoran1801
@johnmoran1801 5 ай бұрын
wonder where he got those 3 macs?
@trailblazerfarms
@trailblazerfarms 5 ай бұрын
Keep doing the good work . These people are lost souls . That took a detour in life . There no different then anyone just lost . I've been down this path and I'm almost 6 years clean it definitely is possible.
@the_real_saulgoodman
@the_real_saulgoodman 5 ай бұрын
He really said “withdrawals is the worse sickness you can go through, worse than cancer and aids”… what an insufferable person.
@YouFixit-rx8nk
@YouFixit-rx8nk 7 ай бұрын
Wow I 🙏 pray for him and the dogs!
@dmario.jackson
@dmario.jackson 7 ай бұрын
OMG. Just horrible living conditions.
@Chad-bp3hm
@Chad-bp3hm 5 ай бұрын
Corporations bought every low income apartment in Las Vegas and doubled our rent in 3 years. Now we have a ridiculous amount of vacant rooms that are all being broken into and they need to board up the windows and doors. This is what you call extreme greed.
@JUStMeKari
@JUStMeKari 6 ай бұрын
Poor puppy's. Breaks my heart
@NWforager
@NWforager 7 ай бұрын
$850 is not bad but i do see cheaper tbh . this make me start cleaning up my Crib Right Now . He's correct about alcohol being the most sneaky Demon . and its Legal . the Deadliest withdrawals too .
@lauraann7816
@lauraann7816 7 ай бұрын
I think the legal part is a huge factor in how bad it can get.
@sal1665
@sal1665 6 ай бұрын
I live in a dive for 895. I keep it spotiess. At least its a roof when so many seniors are on the streets. Nobody should live the way he does. He needs help and i hope someone will step up.
@handymannlocksmith
@handymannlocksmith 7 ай бұрын
I hope he get His act together before it's too late for him......05.30.2024
@MiddleFirstSecondTwin
@MiddleFirstSecondTwin 3 ай бұрын
Thank God you are able to tell him to clean! He needs to hear it! Were you able to do a follow up?
@SuperSade2012
@SuperSade2012 7 ай бұрын
Being poor doesn't mean you have to be nasty; you can see he has some head issue and is on drugs. You probably took him to get drugs and don.t even know it.
@cathyworth4409
@cathyworth4409 6 ай бұрын
🤣Probably!
@catherineblair1221
@catherineblair1221 6 ай бұрын
Being a neat freak doesn't mean you have to be nasty.
@Temmah_tjJc
@Temmah_tjJc 4 ай бұрын
I think big Super knew it-watch the edit😂
@cathyworth4409
@cathyworth4409 6 ай бұрын
🙋🏽‍♀️Hey Big Super! This is so sad to see how he’s living. I know that place is hot as hell. I don’t see ANY windows either. 🤦🏽‍♀️And he’s got dogs too? 🗣GOOD LORD! Smh.
@LifeWithTheSinghs
@LifeWithTheSinghs 7 ай бұрын
He is not all there! Seems like he has a drug issue going on . Hope he gets the helps he needs .
@cristinamason6593
@cristinamason6593 7 ай бұрын
OMG! Those poor dogs.
@therealdeal26
@therealdeal26 5 ай бұрын
**@**14:01** 😆 Is when the DriP HITS!! MR. Globby At it forSure** **the dude clearing his nose blatantly snorting without even knowing it**in this case it may be meth(sprite)Not coke!*haaha**
@candacegaskinwebb8679
@candacegaskinwebb8679 5 ай бұрын
He says in the interview "we were using heroin at the time". He is definitely still an active addict. My guess is meth/heroin mixed together which is a popular thing in world of addiction now.
@wowwow9998
@wowwow9998 7 ай бұрын
Clearly a meth issue here. He needs sleep.
@bnwo
@bnwo 6 ай бұрын
This would look a lot better if he kept it clean. I've seen videos of New Yorkers who live in similar dimensions who've done some amazing things with virtually no space, but the place was clean.
@chefboy6123
@chefboy6123 7 ай бұрын
Way more to this story ..........
@maynmom6975
@maynmom6975 6 ай бұрын
Big Super, thank you for being a kind human.
@ghettovet5624
@ghettovet5624 7 ай бұрын
Being without much money is not an excuse to have a dirty place like that! Sheeesh!!! I pray this guy gets back on track and starts living a life that don’t cut hiding spots in books!!!
@catherineblair1221
@catherineblair1221 6 ай бұрын
Where are people using poverty as an excuse to be dirty? I never heard anyone ever do that.
@126missday
@126missday 4 ай бұрын
I’ve got to be totally honest that’s no way for humans or animals to live it’s diplorable this man is very sane he’s just seemingly addicted to a substance that obviously comes before his or his dogs well being addiction is no joke hope anyone dealing with it can get help.
@raymondmiller2538
@raymondmiller2538 7 ай бұрын
This guy looks like Barnabas the Vampire from Dark Shadows
@danahudson2495
@danahudson2495 7 ай бұрын
That's was nice of U 2 share his story & living situation hopefully he will get it 2 gether by getting his life in order as well as his living situation. Super that was thoughtful of U 2 treat him 2 something 2 eat & that bread looked fresh. Hopefully he will get back on track w/ his family members. 🙏
@raymondmiller2538
@raymondmiller2538 7 ай бұрын
It must smell really good in that place
@fatalberti
@fatalberti 6 ай бұрын
good point: alcohol is probably the biggest problem over time in all aspects of culture. talk to LE, case workers, medical professionals, domestic victims, employers-anybody in the people business
@kara0300
@kara0300 7 ай бұрын
Ugh. So many of your videos just make me feel hopeless. I am stuck in a bad place and although I recently started a new job... I just don’t see any way out. Every place I look at is twice what I am currently paying. I’m in FL. I kinda want to just unsubscribe bc it’s so depressing but I won’t. That’s not going to help anything. Praying for our country and all of us struggling to keep a roof over our heads. Blessings to you for showing the truth of living in this time in our country.
@azgypsy
@azgypsy 2 ай бұрын
Florida is expensive. I'm from there & have thought about going back but I can't find an apartment there for what I pay now, even if it was on fire & in the middle of crack town. Arizona is nicer then South Florida too.
@edwardsanchez3708
@edwardsanchez3708 5 ай бұрын
I was in the Army and moved back to Houston In 2016, my apartment is $845 a month for a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom. I got lucky and found them through a friend. They don't look that great outside, but they are decent on the inside, and I don't have any problems from any of the neighbors. You can probably see bits and pieces in my random youtube videos I post.
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